SaKarra, Why?: Recent Episodes
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Join me as I explore WHY certain things are happening, primarily why they happen to me. Help me navigate through the endless sticky situations I haphazardly put myself into.
Happy New Year (standby for 10seconds of singing) then we get into what 2024 feels like to me. What this year means to me and what I’ve learned from last year. Let’s get back to connecting in real life, let’s hug someone and love on eachother again. Happy New Year y’all - I love y’all so much for listening cheers to 3 years (I think it’s 3 😂) of the SaKarra, Why podcast with many more to come.
This one is a word! You every feel like you’re being used? Under appreciated? Manipulated…whatever?!?! Then you definitely need to listen to this episode. Cause this is going to change your entire experience. Love you for listening 🥰😘
Seriously tho…the amount of men who are married or in serious relationships that have the AUDACITY to slide into my inbox, is out of control lately. Why me? Don’t bring that drama over here. And where is your wife? Are you sitting next to her while you DM me “how was your day gorgeous” or did she step out to start dinner and tend to your bad ass kids. Lawd! It’s a mess out here, let’s talk about it cause I know some of y’all relate. Love you for listening 😘
Howdy Folks! On this “I’m on leave from work” check in, I talk about VALUE! How do you prioritize what is the most important and impactful thing you can do in a day. I reference a practice I learned in the bestselling book “Eat That Frog” and reflect on how my measure of value has shifted now that I have more free time during the day. Love you for listening. 🥰 Enjoy.
Hanif, our resident elder discusses his ability to find satisfaction and intimacy without sex, now that he is 40. We talk about how sex drive evolves differently for men and women. We talk kink, fetish,libido, foreplay and of course RAISINS 😅 Enjoy! Love you for listening.
My therapist is a black woman who looks like me, oddly enough. But when I was seeking therapy I wanted a white man. Hanif (a black man) also goes to therapy - his therapist is a woman and he says he is not interested in having a male therapist, EVER! We talk about past therapy experiences, does the race and gender of your therapist matter, can you be friends with your therapist and of course we trail off into side conversations about the holidays, money, and me becoming a nail tech. HA! Enjoy and I love you for listening.
I was nervous about this one but I’m going to share. People sometimes ask me about parenting, being a single mom, and my relationship with my son’s father. So here it is, all out in the open. I summarized my experiences over the last decade into 8 minutes. Tell me what you think! Love you for listening.
Life comes at you fast! And as you want more out of life and are responsible for more - it comes even faster. On this episode I detail why I’ve decided (starting Dec 1 2023) to put everything on pause and how I was able to do that by negotiating my terms. I told my job Im not quitting but I’m also not coming in for a few months. (yes, another sabbatical haha). I told the man I thought I’ve loved for nearly a decade, I can’t yo-yo with my emotions and him another day. I even told my landlord I’m not signing another year lease but I don’t intend to move. They all said “no” but I stood firm and guess what - they all agreed. Now I’m on a journey of selfish discovery. What do I like? What do I want? Who am I without interruptions? Idk. Let’s see! Love you for listening.
SaKarra, Why? Season 15 Episode 1…They say no one rises to low expectations, but as life continues to “life” and prove you “wrong” - how do you keep expectations high? Cohost and friend to the show Hanif weighs in and shares his personal experience on how his outlook on marriage shifted after a broken engagement. We discuss - how your expectation of marriage changes when it does not happen when you thought it would - how our past choices have changed the trajectory of our lives -what makes a man want to propose and so much more on this deep conversation. This episode is definitely one not to miss or skip a minute.
Heller!!! On this incredible episode of SaKarra, Why (recorded in 2021) we discuss the age limit for pursuing your passion without any capital gain…or if that limit exists. DJ Dana J and I also chat about what new opportunities are available instead of a traditional 9-5 . -the formula for making popular music and how it has been manipulated -why violence and sex are still popular themes in black music -is artistry still appreciated? And do you have to become a big name doing “regular” music before you can promote a more responsible message. At the time of this recording Dana had just released his album Commercials. It’s awesome, timeless, and I encourage you to check it out. LOVE YOU FOR LISTENING
This episode is a wonderful discussion of the black educational experience and what unique needs children of color have. At the time of the recording (2021) Dr. Deja L. Jones was “Ms. Jones” and in hopes of opening her own Montessori school and our host, SaKarra was homeschooling her son a year following virtual learning due to the pandemic. Since then Honeypot Montessori is open and operational in Newark, NJ. During the episode we discuss -what is Montessori? - the hidden truth about charter schools…- what happened to black nationalist institutions? -our thoughts on children wearing uniforms? - the state of education in predominantly black communities! And much more! LOVE YOU FOR LISTENING!!!
On the season finale of the body season I am joined by guest, Hannah. We discuss an excerpt from best selling book, “The Body Keeps the Score” and learn how to realize emotional pains and symptoms just like we would heal and treat physical ailments. We also talk about what attracts us to different people and how we keep our own personal standards of attractiveness. Hannah shared weight-loss tips and her personal health philosophy & how she manages to stay snatched even with Hypothyroidism. There are a lot of laughs and great conversation on this one!!! Love you for listening ((PLEASE SUBSCRIBE - it’s only 4.99))
Oh hey y’all! This SaKarra,Why episode is a new segment I’m adding to the podcast SaKarra, Why Share? - where I will share a piece of writing (poem, blog, skit, short story, journal entry, etc) that I have written. I have hundreds of filled notebooks and notes on my phone and I’m finally ready to slowly show and share with the world. 🚨 this one has explicit language and concepts🚨 please listen and enjoy. LOVE YOU FOR LISTENING 😘
On this quick episode of SaKarra, Why we continue our conversation of THE BODY but time it’s about Body Part Associations. Is it possible to tell if a man has a “small dick situation” before seeing him naked just based on his personality? What’s the deal with tiny titties and fat ass? Let’s talk all about it on this ridiculous episode of SaKarra, Why? LOVE YOU FOR LISTENING!!! Please subscribe.
On this episode I definitely open up a lot more than I like to. I’ll have a better description for you later. Listen & enjoy.
Hey! On this first episode of the BODY season I kick things off with my “well shit just let me touch it, damn” list. A list of my body parts that people seem to be the most intrigued by and interested in. Overtime this list has really either made me feel super insecure are very confident, depending on the experience - but ultimately I’ve learned to lean into the compliments and embrace the parts of myself I like most and others like too. Love you for listening 🥰🥰🥰
This conversations is gooooooood!!! Inspired by the book and now series “Kindred” Hanif questions if slavery is the reason black Americans struggle to form healthier relationships. He and I share our experiences and observations and try to figure out WTF is the problem really because relationships are suffering. In true SaKarra, Why fashion there is a great deal of nonsense and foolery along the way and I’m happy you’re joining us. Love you for listening and please remember to subscribe.
This episode REALLY hit home for me! My guest, a child of adoption, discusses her inability to fall in love with a partner. When she finally does open up and embrace the feelings - you have to listen to the episode to find out what happens but it’s NOT what you expect!I talk often on the podcast about my relationship with my father. As I’ve gotten older I realize how that relationship has impacted my romantic relationships and my friendships. I build a wall! I call it “my turtle shell”. To be hurt after coming from behind that wall really makes me question if being open is worth it.We talk all about these feelings and find time to also talk about poly, Tupac, Pokémon, and threesomes! All in one incredible episode 🥰🥰🥰REMEMBER TO SUBSCRIBE TO THE PODCAST!!! For exclusive episodes and interviews.
The relationship season has officially begun! Sometimes relationships aint shit and other times they are remarkable and magical - the journey to and through both is one hell of a ride. For the first episode of what is bound to be a thrilling season, I kick things off with a new segment "Things I heard and Saw Online". How messy has it been on social media and with regular folk and celebrities? What lessons can be learned from these mistakes and what are my hot takes on each? What do you think about what I think? Well only one way to find out and that's by PRESSING PLAY! DID YOU KNOW??? there are episodes of my podcast you cant hear because you didn't subscribe. SMH subscribe today only $4.99/month its very easy and worth it. Visit sakarrawhy.com for more info on everything. Love you for listening.
This episode is hot from start to finish. We jump off the conversation talking about mutual masturbation then transition into threesomes, kinks, fantasies and everything else. How do you tell your partner you want to try something new? & when to say when! Come explore our trials and tribulations exploring our wilder sexual sides in this best of SaKarra, Why recap. Is a happy life defined by sexual prowess? Love you for listening. Remember to subscribe ($4.99/mo) and Visit sakarrawhy.com--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Welcome to Season 12! Let’s revisit some of our favorite SaKarra, Why episodes. I LOVE this episode. Rob and I talk about Men, Women, & MONEY! Would you date a man who took you to the park on a first date? Is it a turn on when a woman says “I got it”? Is the key to a happy life inside your wallet? I love you for listening!!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
I love this episode!!! We work for MONEY so it’s important that we are paid the wages we deserve. But why is talking about money in the workplace so uncomfortable? Do you ask your coworkers how much they are making? Do you honestly share your salary with others? Are you being compensated fairly based on how much you impact your workplace? Are you willing to learn new skills to make you a more attractive candidate? Let’s talk about ALL OF IT. Another key to a happy life…more money! Love you for listening. Please visit sakarrafite.com for exclusive content. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
On this SaKarra, Why episode we are joined by my friend Keziah who has worked at many family run and operated multi million dollar companies where it seems like everyone is related, except for her. We discuss how nepotism maintains wealth in a family but can cause tension and frustrations for those who are hired outside of the family. Is working with our relatives the key to a happier life? Listen to find out! Love you for listening. Visit sakarrafite.com for more content
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“Dream job? I do not dream of labor” if this quote lives in your head rent free then this episode is made specifically for you. Something about working hard to make someone else a millionaire has never sat well within my spirit, BUT it’s most our realities. Welcome to season 11 where we dive deep into job culture (including)- office romance, code switching, salary transparency, work husbands, work friends and everything else!!! Love you for listening. PLEASE select a paid subscription to the podcast & a free subscription to sakarrafite.com! Your support keeps the lights on 🥰
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It’s another season finale! That’s a wrap for season 10 & I saved the best and most difficult uncomfortable conversation for last. FORGIVENESS! BOUNDARIES! Saying sorry and swallowing your pride. All things that will literally choke me up but we ALL must do it, it’s part of maturing as an adult. Learning to tell ppl when, where, & how you can and can’t be f**ked with. Love y’all for listening. Please remember to subscribe to sakarrafite.com
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Mid week shortie! Before we get to our season 10 finale. This was on my mind & I wanted to share my thoughts on how cancel culture is more than just defaming someone or holding them accountable! The “canceling” of a person because of their public transgressions is giving…burning at stake! and sets a precedent for mob mentality, bandwagoning, & bullying. There has to be a better, more effective way to actually encourage change of thought and perspective - instead of forced apologies. Do you agree? Or you don’t have time to actually heal others, you just want them to pay? Love you for listening! Check out sakarrafite.com for exclusive content.
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The best of SaKarra, Why! On this weeks episode we rewind to our interview with Mo who has Lupus & must have the “uncomfortable” conversation with all her sexual partners about being tested and wearing a condom because it is really life or death. Remember to visit sakarrafite.com for more exclusive content! Love you for listening.
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Trigger Warning or something idk! The topic of this uncomfortable conversation is the GENDER and Grammar! I talk about my battle with traditional vs new age relationships and family structures and how some things I’m cool with and other things just don’t sit right with me. This is a very HONEST episode and I know it was a risk to challenge this topic but hey 🤷🏽♀️ that’s what we are here for…right? I want to hear from you too…join the conversation (and make sure to visit sakarrafite.com )
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On todays episode we explore the uncomfortable but necessary ways to tell friends, family, and people in your comments to MIND THEIR BUSINESS, respectfully! We discuss how important it is to confidently try new things and make mistakes without having to constantly explain to people why you have made your life choices. Love you for listening.
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October is domestic violence awareness month and I wanted to take the time to acknowledge the physical and emotional manipulation and abuse we often endure in our romantic and other relationships. Also to acknowledge how hard it is to talk to a person who is being abused but we have to try and be there when we can. No video today because this topic makes me too emotional! I told y’all this season was going to be an uphill battle for me. (Sorry) Love you for listening. MORE SaKarra, Why at sakarrafite.com
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Hey season 10! The key to this season is communication. There are so many things that are hard to say, hard to hear, and hard to admit - but if we run from these truths we stunt our growth. In this season we dive deep into a bucket full of awkward and discomfort to find the courage and style to make our best attempt at coping with and facing tough conversations head on. Love you for listening.
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Can you guess what sign is the true freak of the zodiac? Or what is the astrological sign of most billionaires? Which signs are most likely to be serial killers and other statistics and antics for our zodiac sign finale!!! 🚨🚨🚨CORRECTION!!! In this episode I mistakenly say Janet Jackson is a Leo, she is a Taurus. I meant to say MADONNA but read the paper incorrectly!!! Love you for listening 🥰
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On this episode we ask ourselves the important questions like… why is it called Aries (Air) if it’s a fire sign? And why is it called Aquarius (Aqua)if it’s an air sign? But more importantly why couldn’t I keep dating that guy after I found out our life path numbers weren’t compatible. Then we end the episode with NAME THAT SIGN! I give a list of attributes and my guest Dexter “Champ So Smooth” tries to figure out the zodiac sign associated with it!!! Love you for listening.
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On this episode we dive deep into the 5 personality types and how they are affected by the 12 astrological signs. Who are the extroverts and what signs are more neurotic? What does it mean when trying to start a new job or relationship? The more you know about yourself the better you can navigate the world and find success. Love you for listening!!!
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Welcome to season 9! This episode is super fun. We start off questioning if a person’s zodiac sign determines who and how they are? Then we play a game of WHAT ZODIAC SIGN WILL GET YOU HOME IF YOU’RE STRANDED ON AN ISLAND??? Hope you enjoy. Love you for listening.
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Is this the right podcast for you? Before we transition into season 9 here is a quick checklist to see if you will enjoy listening to this content.
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SEASON FINALE! I’ve loved this dream season and I hope that each of you have found something that has inspired you to go after your dreams. On this episode we talk about the power of staying consistent and how detrimental inconsistency can be to having your dreams realized. Love you for listening - See y’all in season 9 !!!
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Hey y’all!!! Today we talk about the top 6 people to have in your entourage that can help all of your dreams come true and we talk about those who are NON FACTORS and why we need to stop giving them our precious energy . Love you for listening 🥰
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Another mid week shortie! On this episode we GOAL MAP together. A step by step guide to creating a plan and strategy so you can have your wildest dreams. Also a good ole pep talk for you to keep dreaming bigger - want and have more in your life.
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Today we are joined by comedian (and my boo) Georges to talk about how and if it is possible to truly conquer self doubt. How do you get pass other peoples opinions and your own inner voice and follow your dreams? Love you for listening!
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Hey y’all! Welcome to the DREAM SEASON we kick things off with a candid conversation about why it’s not so easy to follow your dreams. What if you don’t have a dream? What if you have one but you don’t know how to get started? Maybe you started, and it didn’t go the way you wanted it to… let’s talk about it! Love you for listening 🥰😘
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How many times have you been called crazy because of how you reacted to some CRAZY S#!+ 👀 Sometimes when you know, you just know and other times (maybe it’s a bit of our insecurities playing tricks on us). Let’s talk about it!
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This episode I detail my experiences with cheating. I question if it Is it ever ok to cheat…and why I chose to stay after it happened to me. I also talk about the time I “cheated” or was unfaithful and how I felt afterwards. Love you for listening 😘
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Are you trying to move on but still haunted by thoughts and maybe even texts from you ex? We can not run from our pasts! On this episode I talk about my ex boyfriends and how they impact my current relationship.
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I feel I’m just scratching the surtax’s on this conversation cause this is loaded. Should you post your spouse? How often? Is it a deal breaker if one person wants to put everything online and the other person doesn’t? How soon into it can y’all start tagging each other? If relationships weren’t already enough of a hassle to navigate 😂 love you for listening!
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This is a short episode… A PSA!!! A reminder to preheat the oven, warm up the car, let the oil start to pop before you put the chicken in the grease, DAMN! A “shortie” episode and at the end I tell you what the TRUE best part of intercourse is…and it’s not sex.
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What button did y’all press when the ball dropped this year - Cause gahhhhh damn! Just when we thought the worst of it had passed all the things left undone and unsaid are now spilling over in everything we do…I’m going tf back inside - I’m self quarantining and will see y’all next year. LOVE YOU FOR LISTENING!
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Whew chile! Y’all ready for this return? You better be cause we jumping right into some $#!+ … do opposites attract like magnets? Should you go date someone your own size? What’s tea? Idk but let’s find out together. Love you for listening.
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If you or someone you know is battling addiction please encourage them to seek help, just not my help!
WE ARE BACK!!! But really back this time.
Welcome to the ADDICTION SEASON and what better way to kick things off than to talk about the "D", not D-rugs, the other "D". Highly addictive and dangerous and must be taken OFF THE STREETS. I dive deep into my own dickmatization and my road to recovery. I try my best to offer tips on how you too can "Ween from the Peen".
For the fellas...I know about being P***y whipped but is there really an equivalent to being completely hypnotized by a sexual encounter for men?
Love you for listening. Please SHARE and REVIEW!!!
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In my most vulnerable episode yet, I’m back yall!!! Welcome to the new era of SaKarra, Why. ((((Full disclosure I had secret tears running down my face the entirety of this recording (cringe)))) LOVE YOU FOR LISTENING!!!
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On the season finale of the Friendship Season…it’s a solo episode! I talk all things friendship, a quick recap of this season, and some teasers into changes coming to the SaKarra, Why podcast. Love you for listening 😍
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On this episode of SaKarra, Why we are joined by my sister-friend-cousin Nicole. For those of you who know me in real life -- you definitely know her. She is not only the friend I was born with but also the family I chose (if that makes sense). On the episode we talk abut what makes us so close, why we stunt on you hoes with our friendship, and of course the elephant in the room, the beef we had that lasted YEARS and led us to not speak for a crazy long time. This is such a fun listen and really a beautiful episode, Enjoy! Love you for listening.
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Quick recap of yesterday’s episode Followed by the real reasons so many grown ass people struggle to make and keep good friends! Love you for listening 🥰
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My ex bf (who I dated for 4 years) comes on this episode to talk about why friends with benefits isn’t possible, how we have become friends after healing, and how his friends should have CUT ME OFF!!! This episode is goooood yall. (Take a shot every time he says “weird”). Haha love y’all for listening.
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Isn’t that what friends are for? Telling you how to live your life, calling you out on your BS, using their personal opinion to dictate what’s appropriate for you to do, say, and feel? Jackie joins us again to understand communicating with friends, accepting your friends, and creating boundaries. Love you for listening!
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Let’s talk about it!!! You wanna go from the friend zone to the end zone??? Well first of all HOW DID YOU END UP THERE? Secondly, if I let you out you better act right, cause if this goes bad it can go REALLY BAD!!!
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Whew child! On this episode I sit down with fellow podcaster and my friend Kadi C. We discuss our opposite perspectives on friendship. Kadi says : the more she has grown it has caused her to lose friendships because she is determined to live on her own terms. I say : living on my own terms has allowed me to accept more people into my life, but with clear boundaries. Join us as we explore both methods and figure out why friendship only gets harder to define as we get older.
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Saturday Solo Episode!!! Do you let your friends borrow money? Do you expect it back? What about going into business? Has money matters ruined any of your friendships? Let’s talk about it, don’t be shy lol Love you for listening.
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Season 5!!! OMG kicking off the first month and season of the SaKarra, Why podcast in this solo episode. Reflecting on all the intricate, delicate, beautiful and ugly parts of friendship 🥰 this season is going to be so fun and I’m so excited for it!!! Love you for listening.
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This one touches my heart DEEP!!! Shareef was kind enough to come on and share his story. What started as a love story has ended in a deceased spouse, prison, court and two girls stuck in the center of it all. This is the season finale of the parenting season. I love you all for listening.
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This episode is silly but insightful, I would say. I give RESPECT!!! To the powerful grandparents; those living and those who have passed on. I also talk about the 40yr old grandmas named KeKe 😂 Then we transition into wise words for first time parents, from my personal experience! Love you for listening.
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On this episode I am joined by my friend, Julie, who details her experience growing up in a Muslim household with a mom and grandparents from Bangladesh. We explore the struggles communicating with grandparents who speak Bengali and grandchildren who were never taught. And the importance of OUR generation (the now 30 somethings) to leave toxic traditions in the past, but also stay true to our heritage!!! Love you for listening!!!
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Here is a quick BONUS solo episode exploring the struggles of trying to be successful parents after a failed relationship.
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Full circle experience as I am randomly joined by my own child on this episode of SaKarra, Why!!! We talk about yelling, shouting, cursing, and hitting our children. Is it a way to teach them respect or is it conditioning them to accept abuse in relationships they will have in the future? Let’s find out! Love you for listening!!!
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Such a lovely conversation with my dear friend. Jackie! An educator and doula who has no kids and is sick of ppl asking. HA! We talk about her relationship with her mom, birth work, and if she will ever start a family of her own. LOVE YOU FOR LISTENING 🥰
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On this solo episode I relieve my (sounds like something from an episode of Greys Anatomy) birth story and how my son and I almost died! We also talk about this idea of “babysitting” your kid. Enjoy! And Love you for listening!!!
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On this episode I have a very special guest - MY MOMMY!!! and we talk about all types of stuff pregnancy, co parenting, and even figuring out who (out of the 5 of us) is her favorite kid?
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Kicking off the season with a solo chat of course. There is so much to discuss on the topic of how we parent and our parents. So much so that it was hard for me to stay one topic this episode 😂😅 Make sure you tune in all month to see this conversation unfold. Love you for listening!!!
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This was an awesome season finale because it covers EVERYTHING. Savings, life, death, vacation, financial curriculum in urban schools, splitting the bill with your date, spending your money with black owned businesses E-VER-Y THANG!!! Thank you so much to my guest for ending this hectic season with a perfect conversation, and helping us all get ourselves together.
Love y'all for listening!!!
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Creatives and entrepreneurs listen TF up!!! Comedian Gordon Baker Bone has managed to make money off of his dreams and he is giving us a bunch of important tips on how WE CAN TOO on this episode of SaKarra, Why!
And we find out he weighs a buck 85 (I know, shocking).
Love you so much for listening!!!
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Well alright? How do I begin to describe this episode... uhhh this is one of those “you just have to listen to understand!”
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Tonight we are joined by Papa Rob! And we discuss how to have conversations about finances with your spouse. Joint bank accounts and the secret to a successful free date!
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I’m GOING OFF!!! I’m not going half with a grown ass man, and neither should you!!! This episode we explore financial gender roles. Who should be paying for what? Should we go Dutch??? Listen to hear my opinion. Love you!
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Tonight we experienced more then a few technical difficulties and then the recording cut off. Audio for part 1 of this recording will be published later this week, and part 2 next weekend. Thank you all for your patience and of course for coming back to listen another week. LOVE YOU!
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The money season has officially begun!!! Do you think you deserve to be wealthy? Are you bold enough to ask the people in your life to assign value to your talents and your time? Let’s talk about it! Cause I’ve been manifesting abundance, and it’s FUCKING AMAZING!!!
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This episode the SEXY SEASON FINALE my guest and I try to change the further by raising sons who understand and respect the word NO! We talk pain used for pleasure, cat calling and so much more. Love you!
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This the the last SOLO episode of the sexy season. We take a moment from our regular raunchy rapport to create a space to talk about how triggering the conversation if sex can be and how we heal from those things and liberate ourselves. thank you so much for listening 🥰 love you!
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Join us as we continue our sexy season journey into the “Mouff”. Tonight’s episode we learn how what we put into our bodies impacts what comes out of our bodies. Grab your notebook because gems were dropped! Love you for listening 🥰
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Journey with me to how I became SaKarra by day and Sak Nasty by night! On this solo episode I discuss my perspective on oral sex and what’s allowed in my mouth.
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Wow. This one is EPIC! 3 girls, one podcast. We talk about poly, about prostitution, about pretty much everything under the sexual sun!!! Y’all gone love this one. LOVE YOU FOR LISTENING!!!
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Tonight we explore why the rapper Da Baby isn’t the best sex partner and Why silent sexy ain’t that bad. Also a reminder to give yourself a hand because it is masturbation month! LOVE YOU FOR LISTENING!!!
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Everybody wants it raw without consequence! This episode is about satisfaction and sexual boundaries. Join me and my special guest as we try to figure some things out. Love you for listening!!!
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A quick Happy Mother’s Day message before we dive back into our sexy conversations!
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Do you have a big d or just big d* energy 👀? Join me today in a brief description of my preferences for penis size and let’s ask ourselves if that is what actually matters.
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My first guest!!! My brother Joe! joins me in trying to understand cheating and the tricky dynamics between male and female sexual and platonic relationships.
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Aint nothing like sitting peacefully at home and some man's wife or girlfriend is calling you ENRAGED. Jesus be a fence! On tonight's episode we talk about infidelity. Who is to blame? and the many men who find themselves in my DM; despite he happy families they have at home.
Buckle Up. Season 2 is already a wild ride =D
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Season 1 is DONE! thank you all for tuning in and supporting me on this new and exciting journey. I am so excited for season 2. Please send me your questions, your answers, your feedback -- let's build community. While you await the next season of SaKarra, Why? make sure you check out these awesome podcasts hosted by my friends.
Thank you so much for listening =D
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Enough is Enough! The cabin fever from this quarantine is upsetting me and my homegirls. So I am masking up and taking my Quaran-twenty pounds OUTSIDE!!! Life is only short when you decide not to live it. Join me in ceasing THIS DAY cause wasnt nobody born to sit inside and binge watch series' on Netflix.
My New Normal is half naked on a beach!!!
Thank you for listening and enjoy.
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Our first late night recording. Breaking down the reasons why your family and friends will quickly support a celebrity but hesitate before showing you or your new venture any love. You may not like my answer, buts it the real. Trust me I've experienced this first hand and it has been a learning process... FOR REAL!!!
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Yerrrrrrrp! On todays episode Lieutenant Looking for Love hangs up her hat and retires after 29 years on the search from something she already had. I talk about why I am no longer on the search party for love I should be giving myself and the importance of appreciating the beauty of all of my experiences in life and relationships, even if they do not go as planned or expected.
I hope you enjoy!
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So many of us struggle to figure out who we are and what "version" of ourselves we want to portray. In this episode I encourage you to be true to yourself at all times, and abandon the fear of scrutiny. Taking a page from Earl Simmons aka DMX and his continued authenticity. He was who he was at all times -- and we should try to do the same.
Don't get caught trying to be someone else!
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First things first, rest in peace Earl Simmons aka DMX. In honor of what you represented FOR ME a truly beautiful, talented, and authentic legend this episode will be all about why "good girls" like me gravitate towards "bad boys". We also talk about what makes a bad boy bad, and how "good guys" need to stop whining and start winning.
ENJOY!
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Its a Sunday so I ended this episode in prayer.
I will be ho-ing this summer and I invite all of you to join me. Listen to find out how to ho and why this time in anyone's life is so important. We can all ho. No matter how old you are, no matter your marital status - let me teach you the ways of the Jedi!
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In this first episode of my experimental podcast I ask myself why men expect me to be in their DMs shooting my shot, and why its not happening!
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