Hush Podcast: Recent Episodes

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At Hush, hosts Radio DJs Germaine Tan, Hazelle Teo and Azura Goh, discuss relationships, health and wellness topics that may be taboo or just plain paisehto talk about.

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We've been told to find great careers, but don't work too much! Or you'll have no time for love. If you’re married, they likely told you too that you look like you're neglecting your husband and your kids too if you have any. Why does it feel like women are always expected to excel in what society demands, only to be told not to because of some other reason? It feels like we have to do it all, but are told it's too much or never enough.

In this episode of Hush Podcast, we're diving deeper into the crazy expectations women face. From being top-notch workers and loving moms to perfect daughters and ideal partners, it seems women are expected to do it all but are still told it’s not enough. We’ll chat about where these pressures come from, share personal stories, and look at how chasing perfection affects us all. This episode is all about highlighting the contradictions women deal with and pushing for a more balanced and supportive view of women's roles today.

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/jTW02V3CRYg

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Ready to become a financially savvy queen? In this episode of Hush Podcast we dive into the essential money habits every woman in her 20s should master. From your first paycheck to planning for a fabulous retirement, we’ll share tips on saving, protecting, investing, and securing your future. Whether you're planning for a baby, facing unexpected emergencies, or dreaming of a luxury retirement, this episode breaks down how to make smart money moves without the financial phobia. Tune in and learn how to make your money work for you!

Save, Protect, Grow, and Retire are actually 4 money habits that POSB has put together to take you from your first paycheck to retirement. Read the article here to start a money habit or learn how you can improve your financial wellbeing!

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/U7qKgmUHx9E

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We currently live in an era marked by a higher cost of living, hypercompetitiveness, and greater uncertainties in the world. These are some factors that have made the idea of having children less appealing to some. Despite these challenges, many still strongly desire parenthood … and we’re asking, why? In this episode of Hush, join the hosts and their guest as they share personal stories, explore the motivations behind wanting children, and discuss the joys and challenges of parenthood.

This episode is brought to you by The Ministry of Digital Development and Information (MDDI). To find out more about the various support measures for marriage and parenthood, check out: https://www.madeforfamilies.gov.sg

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So the story goes: Boy and girl meet. Boy and girl date. Boy and girl become official. Boy and girl marry. Boy and girl move into a home together, and everyone lives happily ever after right? This would’ve been the case 100 years ago, but in the 21st century that timeline no longer exists. As of lately, more and more couples are deciding to tackle the roommate test before saying their I dos. And while moving boxes and making a copy of one’s key has become a normalised milestone in one’s relationship, it still has people questioning — does living together before marriage ruin relationships?

In this episode, the HUSH girls will discuss all things cohabiting — everything you need to know going into it and whether or not, living with your partner is the right thing to do for you.

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/0-BuowBuOLY

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We've all heard the saying, "age is just a number," but is that really the case? In this episode of Hush, we delve into the world of age-gap relationships. Tune in as the Hush girls share their experiences with dating both younger and older partners, exploring whether age truly matters. They'll discuss societal perceptions, the dynamics of different life phases, and the challenges and rewards of these relationships.

Join us as we question traditional norms and offer insights on dating across age differences. Is age just a number, or does it play a crucial role in love and compatibility? Tune in to find out!

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The societal expectations for a woman are hard to achieve. It’s like attempting to reach an equilibrium that ceases to exist. Remember! You can be angry, but you not too angry. You can be funny, but not overly so. You can be intelligent, but not a smartmouth (it’s not ladylike!) And most importantly, you can be emotional, but never too sensitive. As women, we are constantly policed to believe that being too little or too much of something is the be-all end-all of our identities. When that shouldn’t be the case. In this episode, the HUSH girls break down these harmful stereotypes and challenge the status quo, while embracing the quirks on what it truly is like to be a woman in this day and age —female rage and all.

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/a-8ZCImYf3Q

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Have you ever heard the phrase ‘women are hard to read?’ This leaves us to wonder…really meh? Because as members of the superior gender, there could be nothing simpler. A woman who responds with ‘I’m fine’ after being asked what’s wrong —really isn’t fine. And when she tells you ‘nothing’ for the second time, you can bet that this silent treatment she’s giving you isn’t over nothing. Finally when she tells you to ‘just leave it’ —please don’t. Now if you’re a man reading this, we don’t expect you to have it all down from the get-go. Your struggle to decode us, our texts, our conversations, our behaviour, our social cues will not be in vain. But take it from us when we say, you’ll need a pen and notepad for this one, because you’re in for a full session of women speak 101.

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Many of us dream of our love life beginning like a romance novel, meeting the love of our life in a park, on a trip, or at a cafe. The club might be the last place one would hope for, but what if, on a night out, you meet someone special there and he or she tells you that they want to build a long-term relationship with you? Is there anything wrong with this, or is this a red flag scenario?

In this episode of Hush Podcast, we explore whether you can find your soulmate inside a nightclub, navigating the ups and downs of such relationships, and tackling topics like asserting your needs, balancing career and romance, and transitioning from casual dating to serious commitment.

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In this special National Day episode, we're diving into the cosmic realm of astrology to discover how compatible you are with Singapore! What if Singapore were a Leo man? (Spoiler: it is!) Join us and our guest, Juhi Nars, as we explore our astrological signs and uncover fascinating astrology facts about the Lion City. We even find out which Singapore landmark represents each horoscope! Tune in for an episode filled with laughs, insights and celestial connections ✨✨

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“Kids, don’t talk to strangers!” In today’s episode of Hush Podcast, we reminisce and delve into some of the wildest conversations we’ve had with friends, families and even strangers. From jaw-dropping revelations to moments that make you go "hol’ up - DAYUUMM,'' we'll explore the funny, surprising, and sometimes shocking tales that highlight the unpredictability of human interaction. Despite the age-old advice of "don’t talk to strangers," we'll uncover the positives and reveal the comfort and beauty of connecting with unfamiliar faces. So, buckle up, as we journey through this wild ride together!

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/-fFa_umEuA4

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Large friend groups can be a double-edged sword, offering both joy and challenges, especially for girls navigating the intricate dynamics of friendship. In this episode of Hush, the girls and their guest, @wafflenessa delve into the complexities of maintaining harmony within a big social circle while highlighting the potential pitfalls of toxic friendships. Join us as we discuss the impact it can have on your lives, and practical ways to address it!

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In this episode of Hush Podcast, we navigate the roads of female drivers and delve into the world of driving anxiety- from breaking stereotypes to understanding the unique challenges faced by women behind the wheel. Tune in as we share stories, insights, and tips on overcoming driving anxiety and empowering female drivers everywhere. Whether you're a seasoned driver or someone grappling with the fear of getting behind the wheel, this episode offers a supportive space to explore, learn, and grow!

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Transitioning from an all Girls’ school to the wider world can be an exciting yet daunting experience. Boys? Sex? Partying? How do girlies from single-sex schools navigate new experiences like interacting with boys, dating, and social events?

In this episode, the Hush girls and their guest, @clara.slays play Aunt Agony, addressing some most-asked questions from girl schools and offering advice on taking those first steps that their co-ed counterparts may already be familiar with. Join us as we explore the unique challenges and triumphs of stepping out of the all-girls' school bubble.

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Have you ever found yourself thinking, "That person's pretty cute," only to be hit with the internal debate: Is it okay to feel attracted to others while committed to someone else? Inevitably, the nagging doubt surfaces: Does this attraction signify a lack of devotion to my partner? These moments can make you question your commitment and stir up some uncomfortable feelings.

Understanding the realities of human desires and learning to navigate them with conscious choices and a balanced perspective is crucial for enduring relationships. In this episode of Hush, we delve into the uncomfortable side of human desire, exploring how to navigate it constructively within the confines of a relationship.

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Don’t we all dream of a fairytale ending with our partner? For some of you, that reality may very well be true. Perhaps things are going really well with your S.O, there have been no fights, no arguments, just smooth sailing through…almost like it’s too good to be true. But sooner or later, you get hit with something along the way. Maybe you find out something unexpected about them… a shocking truth? A bad habit? A scandalous history? The rose-tinted glasses come off, and all of a sudden they don’t look so perfect anymore, dare I say they almost look —HUMAN? Now the question in mind is, should I stay or should I gtfo?!?

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Beauty has evolved significantly from its traditional definition; it's now something we can redesign in this modern era. The desire to embody what we perceive as 'attractive' and exude 'confidence' has propelled the aesthetic medicine industry into a multibillion-dollar scene.

In this episode, the Hush girls and their guest, Dr. Jessica, will explore the world of aesthetic medicine, offering insights into caring for beauty but also tackling a discussion of this ultimate question: Is altering beauty enhancing insecurities or boosting confidence?

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“I’m so young but I’m so old. I should do everything but I should rest. I can do what I want but I need to be careful. I am an adult but I need help from an adult. I am so smart but I feel so stupid. I am leaving but I feel left behind. I want to be a kid again but I can’t wait to be old. I’ve done a lot but I’ve done nothing. I want to be alone but I feel so lonely.” A popular sound on TikTok about what being in your 20s feels like, and it truly is the epitome of the experience.

In today’s episode of Hush, as the girls near the end of their 20s, they reflect and reminisce on the years gone by. They hope that their experiences resonate with you, reassuring you that navigating life in your twenties is a shared journey, and that everything will turn out alright.

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Long distance relationships. It's a connection many of us have pondered: Can you truly connect with someone who's miles and miles away from you and find genuine love? Sure, we've all heard the success stories of LDRs, but they say it's not for the faint of heart. How does it actually work?

In this episode, the Hush girls and their guest, Saffron Sharpe, who recently met her boyfriend while on holiday, will dive into the possibilities and realities of forming meaningful connections across the world as Saffron shares her love story!

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_3_r8tTrPwE

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Are YOU blushing? Or are WE blushing? Some days, we are just girls who want to hear a good story that makes us scream and squeal. In this episode, let’s take things up at notch and share some risqué stories that would make our hearts flutter and faces flush. Get ready to tune in for some serious hushing and blushing this episode!

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What are some of the weirdest, wackiest, and downright hilarious things we women have heard from strangers? In this episode of Hush Podcast, we delve into the unsettling yet all-too-common experiences of women facing unsolicited advice, bizarre compliments, and catcalling from strangers. Join us and our guests, the girls from DOLLA, as we share personal stories that range from laugh-out-loud funny to cringe-worthy moments that make us all say, 'Did they really just say that?' From backhanded compliments to navigating the quirky side of being a woman in a world full of strange remarks, tune in for a lighthearted yet eye-opening exploration of the comments we should probably keep to ourselves.😛

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Ever loved someone that didn’t love you back? In this episode of the Hush podcast, we explore the notion behind unrequited love, the pain and heartache it brings, why individuals may find themselves in such situations and the surprising resilience it nurtures within us.

Psychologist Nur Adam aka @thegoodlife_therapy on Instagram, joins us to share insights and strategies for dealing with unreciprocated feelings. Tune in for personal anecdotes, empowering advice, and a deeper understanding of navigating the bittersweet complexities of unrequited love.

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/BLfER5eghEk

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We often forget that mothers can be vulnerable too. That at times, they can feel broken and not always resilient, that they do have flaws and imperfections. But there is beauty in all of that and more. Today we celebrate mother figures everywhere, because they deserve the world, just as much as we do.

In this episode, the Hush girls express their appreciation through heartfelt letters, they have written to their mothers. Reminiscent of nostalgic memories and funny anecdotes, the girls explore the true essence of motherhood and the depths of a mother’s love. They also share letters others have penned online too!

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Moving on from a relationship is never easy, whether it takes someone 2 weeks or a year, there is no fixed timeline to the grieving process. But is there such a thing as moving on too quickly? With dating being so fluid in this day & age, and made even more so because of dating apps, we often find ourselves simply hopping from one relationship to the next. But where do we draw the line?

The time it takes for someone to step into the dating world again hinges on so many factors —was their previous relationship endgame or was it just a situationship? Had they mentally checked out months before or did the breakup come as a surprise? Are they currently seeking what we call a ‘rebound’ relationship and if so, does this actually mean they have moved on? Tune in to this episode of the Hush podcast, as the girls share insights on what it means to move on too ‘quickly’, why this happens, the impact it has, and how we can navigate this healthily.

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KJQY9jILdbE

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Being an emotional wreck, experiencing irritable moods, cravings, breakouts, bloating, and more is basically the rollercoaster women experience every month. We tend to ride the hormonal roller coaster during naturally occurring points like menstruation, pregnancy, or menopause. But it doesn't stop there – our day-to-day choices and health can throw those hormones into a spin too!

In this episode, the Hush girls and their guest, Maya Kale, one of the founders of Moom Health, will empower us women on how to take control of our beauty and mood from the inside out, starting with our health. This journey is essential for reaching our full potential in happiness and beauty.

This podcast is also available on YouTube, watch it at https://www.youtube.com/@itsclarityco

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Many are aware of menopause, but have you heard of perimenopause? In this episode of Hush, we delve into the often lesser-known stage of perimenopause, which can start as early as your 20s?! From understanding what perimenopause entails to navigating its symptoms, the girls and their guests, Dr Charu from International Medical Clinic Katong and Nicia, one of the girls behind Instagram community that aims to spark conversations among Peri-Menopausal Women, @beyondthepause_sg, are going to equip you with essential insights every 20-something woman (and the people around them!) should know.

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/2ES_kat512E

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Forgiveness between men and women can unfold in interesting ways due to our different life experiences - how we approach it, show up for it, and ultimately decide on it. Although approaches are different, it remains a fundamental aspect of human connection and nature. Yes, forgiveness is something you sometimes do for the people you love, BUT ultimately, forgiveness arises from the innate need for inner peace.

Tune in to this episode of Hush, as the girls and their guest, Nicholas Yeam (of The Hop Pod!), share their perspectives on how each gender shows up differently for this beautiful but complicated word: Forgiveness.

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/vdS5HeXJx6o

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In a world that champions living without regrets, it's sometimes okay to admit: We have them at times. Our regrets shape us, sometimes uncomfortably so. What if we could find solace and wisdom in sharing our confessions of love, loss, and lessons learned?

Welcome to the Hush Podcast, where anonymity is sacred and confessions are buried in the Hush girls' burn book. Join us as we explore the raw and real stories that make us human.

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Have you ever purchased something only to feel absolutely guilty about it? Never mind that it’s only $10; you just feel that it could have been put to better use. Sometimes, after making a purchase, we experience buyer's remorse—feelings of regret or doubt about the decision. How can we navigate these emotions and make more informed choices?

In this episode, the girls and their guest, Tan Siew Lee, the Head of Group Wealth Management at OCBC, delve into the complexities of financial decision-making. They explore strategies to understand and improve our financial habits, addressing challenges like buyer's remorse, and seeking ways to wield our money more wisely. Additionally, in this episode, the girls and their guest investigates the subtle influences of advertising, peer pressure, and the pursuit of self-worth (and self-care?), which play a role in shaping our spending behaviours.

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/sK4D3H5Aqgo

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In this episode, we’re revisiting a conversation we once had on Hush: bras and breast sizes. We’re exploring societal standards and the ever-evolving perspectives on big boobs, small boobs, and the 'itty bitty titty' committee. So much has changed since our last discussion, and now, we're diving deeper into the world of bras and other basics – a topic often ignored but crucial for every woman's comfort and confidence.

We're not just talking about bras; we're uncovering the history and where bras are today - specifically the rise of wireless bras, and how it can be a game-changer for your self-esteem.Tune in as we debunk myths, share personal stories, and arm you with the knowledge to slay in your basics. It's time to boost that confidence from the inside out because, girlies, when it comes to bras, it's not just about support – it's a celebration of the beauty in every body and finding that confidence within.

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With age comes experience. Elders have lived through various phases of life, encountered diverse situations, and navigated through numerous challenges. Their experiences provide a rich source of stories that often carry valuable lessons, and we know this because as of late, our dear Germi has been out interviewing the elderly on life, love and relationships and they just have the cutest answers to everything!

In this episode, the Hush girls will explore heartwarming encounters as they delve into the perspectives of the elderly on life, love, and relationships. Joining them are two young volunteers who are in the thick of it all, sharing their vibrant stories and insights gained from working closely with the elderly.

If you are passionate, committed, a good listener and communicator, and love talking to the elderly, consider volunteering as Silver Generation Ambassador (SGA) to make a difference in seniors’ lives! Find out more at aic.sg/sga

Watch this podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/2qHaEpJ-8ug

(Correction: The module that Shi Xuan mentioned at 1:40 has now been renamed as a service-learning 'course' in NUS.)

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In this episode of Hush Extra, PD Min catches up with makeup artist and TikTok creator Vivien Toh (aka @vivsbeautynotes) to find out more about her thoughts on beauty trends.

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In this episode of Hush, makeup artist and TikTok creator Vivien Toh (aka @vivsbeautynotes) joins us to discuss the transformative power of makeup. They explore how makeup serves as a catalyst for positive change in women's lives: From boosting confidence and fostering professional growth to embracing individuality, makeup emerges as a tool for empowerment. Tune in as we celebrate women's autonomy and self-discovery this International Women's Day. 💗

Check out more IWD content on TikTok: https://bit.ly/2024womenoftiktok

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Is it common to fear growing old? Why do people get a bit jittery about hitting the big three? In this episode of Hush, the girls and our guest, Rhonda Wong, CEO and co-founder of OhMyHome, explore the universal fear of ageing and discover why turning 30 can make you feel a certain way.

Listen to Rhonda’s journey and experiences living through her 20s and 30s—her cherished moments, lessons learned, and regrets in this episode of Hush that is here to also remind you that regardless of age, life presents opportunities for growth and improvement. Who says we’ll stop improving and evolving? We’ll never.

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/d5DC7nbranQ

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PD Min shared with us more about the things she regretted doing and did not do in this episode of Hush Extra!

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Everyone has some sort of regrets in life, right? (minus Azura but we will find out in this episode). Being in our twenties, we are shaped to think that it will be the best year of our life. But would you dare say that your twenties are the best years of your life? Or are there regrets and if given the choice, you would re-do your twenties in a heartbeat?

In this episode of Hush, we discuss some of the biggest regrets that people have about their twenties - not pursuing a dream job or wasting time too much time a past relationships. What makes being in our twenties the best years of our lives, and is it possible to LIVE without any regrets?

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/rUJ-QmlF6I0

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Love has a unique way of making us do the most unexpected and sometimes... downright foolish things. In this episode of Hush Extra, PD Mari chats with PD Min about her first love, sharing with us some crazy antics she pulled to win his heart. What lessons did she learn? Tune in to find out!

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“You never forget your first love." Is this famous cliche really true? Do you still reminisce about yours? And did it… end devastatingly? If you have been struggling with healing from your first love recently, then this episode is for you.

As Valentine’s Day draws near, the girls chat it up about memories of their own first loves, and uncover why exactly your first love might have hit you the hardest. But all hope is not lost when it comes to love, because they also talk about myths and legends that just might rekindle your faith in love.

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Is it too early or too late for me to find love? When exactly is the right time to date? In this episode of Hush, the girls share their journey of love – the transition from casual dating to seeking committed relationships. They also discuss the significance of proactive dating, highlighting how there are valuable lessons to be learned at any stage of life or age when it comes to the quest for love. Moreover, they explore why actively seeking 'the one' often leads to the most fulfilling connections.

Seeking dating tips? Check out Hello Love Singapore: https://www.instagram.com/HelloLoveSingapore

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Not long ago, we celebrated Deepavali and Christmas, and now, Chinese New Year and Hari Raya are on the horizon. While these festivities are typically joyous occasions, some individuals express hesitation about reuniting with family and relatives due to internal conflicts.

In situations where negativity implies the need to sever ties, family relationships challenge this notion. With Chinese New Year coinciding with the start of the new year, does it offer an opportunity to foster peace amid familial conflicts? Or do people persist in gathering despite underlying problems? In this episode, the Hush girls delve into navigating family reunions amidst ongoing conflicts. They share personal experiences dealing with such situations and explore strategies for a drama-free new year.

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Ever felt the struggle of embracing sexiness while battling the fear of being perceives as “too much”? How many times have you hesitated, second-guessed your outfit’s appropriateness despite feeling confident?

Singapore Cosplayer and Creative, Rurusama9, join the Hush girls to discuss dressing not-so-conservatively, its impact and everything in between. They also explores the delicate balance between professional identity and personal expression, and unravels empowering aspects of self-confidence while addressing stigmas and taboos around sexiness.

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The relationship we have with our siblings is one of the most important and influential in a person’s life. Sibling relationships outlast marriages, survive the death of parents, and resurface after quarrels that would sink any friendship. Having said that, sibling relationships can get complicated with rivalries that started off in childhood. Should we pin the blame on our parents?

In this episode, on screen siblings, Estelle and Regina, from Viddsee’s Wedding Pig, join the Hush girls to share their on screen and real life sibling experiences on competitiveness, jealousy, and sibling love.

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/8thvhR1vI1k

Catch Estelle & Regina on the 'Wedding Bird' at the links below!

meLISTEN: https://www.melisten.sg/podcast/playlist/Wedding-Bird-2276061
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wedding-bird/id1722014831
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3aSQeuhpSb5FRfa5OPNhpq

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In our last episode, we delved into the intricate world of weddings. There was so much to talk about but there was just not enough time! One area we wished to delve deeper into is the intricate web of family dynamics entwined within weddings.

In this first-ever audio-exclusive Hush Extra, we get to sit down with a special guest to chat about this exact topic and find out his thoughts on wedding traditions and conflicts. Joining us is Regent Neo, a filmmaker and director of the series "Wedding Pig", who will not only provide us with a male perspective on the topic but also share his firsthand experience as a married man who's gone through a traditional and culturally rich wedding.

Catch Wedding Bird at the links below and tune in to Hush Podcast next week for more perspective on the topic!

meLISTEN: https://www.melisten.sg/podcast/playlist/Wedding-Bird-2276061
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wedding-bird/id1722014831
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3aSQeuhpSb5FRfa5OPNhpq

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Planning a wedding is always an exciting and scary thing; it’s not one or the other—these two emotions have to coincide. Because inevitably, challenges will arise due to numerous considerations. With the peak wedding period in Singapore having just ended, it's the perfect time to delve into this topic, especially as we step into the new year. In this episode, the Hush girls and their guest—a wedding planner—explore the intricate realities of weddings in Singapore. And, to add to the excitement, someone in the room is getting married?!

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/bwDML64dXO0

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Happy 100th episode! Three incredible years have flown by since the start of Hush Podcast, and here we are, marking our monumental 100th episode. What an incredible journey it has been for all of us, and to commemorate this milestone, we're kicking off the new year with a special episode—a heartfelt throwback coupled with an intimate, introspective session. In this episode, we delve into how Hush Podcast has transformed us and uncover our most memorable takeaways. 💗

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/bBMSkZIsrF8

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As you get older, do you give lesser f*cks about what people think of you? Most of us would have gone through this phase in life where we hated the way we love, feeling like we are not pretty enough, not skinny enough, not like the other girls we see around us.

In this episode, we are thrilled to have Maggy Wang (host of Head over Heels podcast) with us to discuss the unrealistic and irrevocable beauty standards that have affected us well into our 20s & 30s. How do you come to terms with your own body? How do you stop comparing yourself to the pretty girl you just saw on TikTok? Tune in as the girls and Maggy share their experiences on building their body confidence.

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Get ready to laugh, cry, and reflect on the multifaceted nature of the holidays in this episode of Hush! From heartwarming and hilarious tales of memorable gatherings to the struggles of feeling lonely in the midst of family, Hazelle, Germaine and Azura explore it all. In this episode, they also embark on a journey to uncover the true spirit of giving and emphasise the importance of self-celebration as we approach the year's end. ❤️

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In this episode, we discuss the evolving roles of women in both relationships and at work. We examine the complex dynamics that arise when women make the first move in romantic relationships or assert themselves with a career-driven focus.

Are there still societal judgments placed on women who challenge traditional norms and take the lead? What about those who prefer a more understated role in both spheres? Join us as we navigate these questions and provide insights on how we can foster support and empowerment for women across the spectrum of their endeavours.

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Have you ever experienced a moment when you and another woman shared an unspoken understanding without saying a word? For some reason, women share this energy amongst each other where it helps us either find out about something or use it as a decision-making energy. The girls that get it, get it. In this episode of Hush, the girls decipher the unspoken moments and what they mean in the subtle art of women's intuition.

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"Be a lady," they said. But what exactly defines womanhood in today's world? The journey from girlhood to womanhood has transformed over the years, and traditional notions of what it means to be a lady are no longer applicable to our modern age.

In this episode, Class 95 DJ and host Jean Danker joins the Hush girls to discuss the evolution of women empowerment in today's technological age and how it has changed the way women perceive themselves and their place in the world. They also reflect on the role of past generations, the diverse experiences of women, and the intersection of different aspects of identity in the journey of empowerment.

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Is your mom controlling, judgmental, or treating you like a trophy? If so, you might have a toxic mom. In this episode, the Hush girls dive into (toxic) mother-daughter relationships, drawing from their own experiences.

They explore the unique dynamics, societal expectations, and signs of toxicity, uncovering how these bonds affect a daughter's life and self-esteem. But it’s not all doom and gloom, the girls will also share stories of growth, resilience, and hope, because not all mother-daughter relationships are toxic… right?

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Manifestation is a practice that comes in many forms. It's becoming increasingly popular among Gen-Z individuals as they harness its potential to attain their desires, whether it's manifesting a simple text message or envisioning their ideal life. However, the widespread usage of this term has led to diverse interpretations and perceptions among different individuals.

In this episode of Hush, Germaine, Hazelle and Azura explore the rising popularity of manifestation among the youth and discuss its pros and cons. They revisit the concept of "main character energy," which we've touched on before, and how it relates to the law of attraction within manifestation.

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While on a date, you bump into your partner's friend for the first time and instead of introducing you as their partner, they suddenly pretend like you didn't exist. "Am I a secret?" you ask yourself, not realising that you're being pocketed in this relationship.

In this episode of Hush, we discuss "pocketing" and the choices we make when it comes to the pace of our relationships. Whether you're just dipping your toes into the dating pool or have been in a committed partnership for a while, we can’t agree more that understanding pocketing and how it affects both individuals and couples is essential.

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How far would you go for love and for your partner? In this episode of Hush, the girls discuss the complex world of love and relationships. They explore the extraordinary lengths people are willing to go to for the sake of love, and the sacrifices made in the name of commitment. From heartwarming stories to cautionary tales of obsession, let's navigate the intricate landscape of love's boundless boundaries together.

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Have you ever had a moment in your life where it felt like you were living in a movie scene? You know, those times that give off ✨main character vibes✨? While it might appear that people are embracing confidence, some might take this literally and start living life as if it were a movie, which can sometimes lead to delusions. Now, it's beginning to resemble main character syndrome.

In this episode, the Hush girls discuss the meaning of this term, talk about how living a movie-like life may actually have negative impacts on various aspects of life, and share how one can recognise and learn from this negative trait.

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Can we become a truly happy person? According to some research, humans are not designed to be consistently happy. Instead, we are designed to survive and reproduce. Our emotions are usually mixed with both the positive and negative and these competing emotions are what we deal with on the daily.

So, what does happiness truly mean? And is the perpetual pursuit of happiness a realistic goal? In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls discuss the concept of happiness, what motivates them, and talk about why happiness should not be regarded as an ultimate destination but rather as an essential part of the journey of life.

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Breast cancer survivors experience significant emotional and physical changes. It can lead to the loss of aspects often associated with femininity: breasts, hair, and the confidence that allows women to navigate the world without health worries. All of these changes can give rise to internal struggles related to feeling beautiful and managing relationships with partners and those around them.

In this episode of the Hush podcast, two breast cancer survivors share their quest on how they find love within themselves and among the people around them, proving that love can bloom even in the face of adversity.

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Unlike the structured environments of our childhood and youth, where friendships seemed to form effortlessly, we become aware of the contrast between the natural development of friendships during those early stages and the challenges that arise when establishing new connections as adults. This prompts the question: are genuine friendships exclusive to our younger years, or can they be equally attainable in adulthood? And upon deeper reflection, we may ask ourselves: Is it truly necessary to go to great lengths to cultivate new friendships as adults?

In this episode of Hush Podcast, the hosts delve into the topic of forging connections in adulthood and share personal insights on the significance of meaningful friendships beyond our youth.

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When it comes to housing, most of us Singaporeans naturally consider HDB flats as one of our top choices for a future home. Perhaps it’s the enticing policies and government grants that draw us in, or maybe it’s the common notion of settling down with a BTO that suggests them as the ideal choice. But as of late, there have been rising concerns over the affordability of HDBs, and in turn, some are worried that buying a house is going to be a bigger challenge than they expect.

In this episode of the Hush Podcast, the hosts discuss housing in Singapore, including the evolving needs and aspirations of Singaporeans, the complexities surrounding homeownership and housing policies, and their own personal journeys.

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In today's world, mothers take on multiple roles beyond parenting, striving to balance careers, passions, and family life. Aqilah Andin and Charmaine Soh, both Netball Singapore players and devoted mothers, join the Hush girls to share their experiences of balancing day jobs, their passion for netball, and the joys of motherhood in this episode of Hush. Find out how they defied stereotypes, found their support system, and mastered the art of time management while pursuing their dreams.

This episode is a partnership with Ministry of Culture, Community and Youth, proudly supporting our Team Singapore athletes.

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In the fast-paced digital era, love takes on a new dimension. Just as we've mastered productivity at work by working smart, modern relationships can also benefit from “loving smart” - but what does loving smart even mean?

In this episode of Hush Podcast we delve into the intricacies of modern dating, and learn how being emotionally intelligent can help you navigate social media influences and avoid unnecessary drama in your relationships.

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"You do your part, and I'll do my part" is a notion that reflects the idea that both partners have their respective responsibilities, contributions, and roles within the relationship, and these should be shared equally for a balanced partnership—a 50-50 marriage. But does this really constitute fairness or will this lead to disappointment?

Married couple Vernon and Jayne join us in this episode to share their thoughts on the matter and help us answer the question: Is marriage truly a 50-50 endeavour?

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Is Gen Z the most challenging generation to work with? They are often described as refusing to let their jobs dictate their personal views, sparking debates about entitlement. However, is Gen Z truly entitled, or are they simply advocating for a balance that recognises their essential needs?

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Red flags, green flags, and now… beige flags. We analyse every word, action, and gesture, seeking hidden meanings or potential signs of compatibility or incompatibility. However, should we immediately hop on the trend and go, "Then it must be true!", or should we take the time and allow ourselves to experience the natural flow of a connection?

Let's decode red, green and beige flags in this episode of Hush :)

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Generally, the dual-parent family is viewed as the desirable family form. Whereas the single-parent family is sometimes seen as deviating from the societal norm. However, can various family dynamics affect a child's development? Or does the quality of the parent-child relationship ultimately exert the most influential impact?

In this episode of the Hush Podcast, Azura, Hazelle, and Germaine will dive into understanding the influence and impact of parenthood, as well as how the child navigates their way through various family dynamics.

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We all encounter challenging moments in life, but how do we cope? What strategies do we employ to overcome these obstacles and find resilience? In the face of life's darkest days, finding ways to cope and build resilience is essential.

In this episode, Hazelle, Germaine, and Azura explore the topic of dealing with challenging moments in life. The girls draw from their personal experiences and discuss how they navigate their lowest and darkest days, sharing the strategies and self-care techniques that have helped them find strength and overcome obstacles.

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Reconciling with your ex: A common unaddressed dilemma in society. Should the past be in the past because things ended for a reason, or should we have faith in the power of redemption and correct what went wrong? The girls and their guest, Gold 905 radio DJ, Catherine Robert, discuss if love and relationships should be given a second chance in this episode of Hush.

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Let’s talk bromance. While ‘bromance’ is not something new, it certainly is a refreshing idea as it dismantles the idea of toxic masculinity simply by allowing men to be more emotionally expressive (with other men).

In this episode of Hush, join the girls and our guest, TikToker and lead actor of BL drama ‘The Day I Loved You’, Raynold Tan, as they unravel the concept of bromance, boy love, and the wonders of having emotionally enriched relationships.

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Have you ever found yourself questioning whether a particular colleague is a friend - or just a colleague? It can be challenging sometimes to decipher the nature of the relationship when working closely with someone. After all, the lines between friendship and professionalism can sometimes blur after spending too much time together.

In this episode, the girls discuss workplace friendship: How do we know if we’re more than just colleagues; explore various aspects of colleague relationships and the potential impact they can have in the workplace.

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Even though it’s not mandatory for Singaporean women to enlist into the SAF, many of us have decided to join the Army or contribute to defence in our own way. More than just “female empowerment”, it’s a calling. To protect this place we call home. In this episode, servicewoman, Captain Tee Jin Hui, shares with us her story on what motivated her to join the Army; her journey from BMT to Signal Officer, and the challenges she faces as a female regular.

Visit Army Women’s Career Fair on 24 June at Singapore Sports Hub, OCBC Lounge, from 11am to 7pm and discover how you can pursue your interests in Our Singapore Army.

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When you’ve reached an age where everyone else seems to be getting married or having babies, being the only single friend can be rather unsettling. You may have friends and pesky (but well-meaning) relatives who will try to coax you to settle down or set you up on blind dates, but what if you are okay with being single?

In this episode of Hush Podcast, Hazelle & Germaine will discuss the highs and lows of being single and if (romantic) relationships are for everyone.

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As juicy as it might be, the drama surrounding Hailey Bieber and Selena Gomez has shed some new light on the phenomenon of “Mean Girls” and the toxic herd mentality that follows. In this episode, the Hush girls discuss the Mean Girls in their lives and the how-tos on dealing with the negativity and toxicity of it all.

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We’ve spoken multiple times about sex & physical intimacy, but this time, let’s get even more serious about it. The journey to becoming pregnant can be highly stressful for many couples, especially if they’re hoping to get pregnant quickly or have been through multiple failed pregnancies. Fertility issues - which are at the top of couples' minds - often times add more stress to their ‘Trying To Conceive’ journey. How do we make this journey less stressful? And how can we ‘successfully’ make love (and get pregnant)?

Dr Janice Tung, a Consultant Obstetrician & Gynaecologist, and IVF Specialist at Thomson Fertility Centre join the girls in this episode of Hush Podcast to discuss sex, fertility and making babies.

I Love Children Know Your Fertility Wellness campaign partners with both Thomson Fertility Centre and Thomson Chinese Medicine to offer couples fertility consultations. Find out more here: https://ilovechildren.sg/know-your-fertility-wellness

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We would like to think that in this day and age, no one would bat an eyelid over the idea of sleeping with someone on their first date. Alas, it’s still very much a taboo topic and straight girls especially would often get slut-shamed for having sex on the first date. Is it better to go with your instinct or wait out after a few weeks (or dates)? Let’s unpack this can of worms with Germaine, Hazelle and Azura on this episode of Hush podcast.

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With Singapore nightlife back in full force, there has been a massive spike in molestation cases and fights in and around clubbing spots in 2022. Are we getting careless with our drinking habits? Or, is clubbing not safe anymore? In this episode, the Hush girls discuss the rising nightclub outrage of modesty cases, their nightclub stories and share how we could stay safe and party hard at the same time.

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Can guys and girls be friends? We’ve seen multiple movies that prove they can’t be without having some feelings involved. Don’t believe us? Just ask Rosie and Alex from “Love, Rosie”. From navigating the friendship to drawing boundaries and having the talk, how exactly can we better manage our cross-sex friendships?

This is part 2 of 2 of this episode. Listen to part 1 here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/77HHycgr5UZG621ZbwZkUT?si=c705ba2dd9d54b35

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Can guys and girls just be friends? We’ve seen multiple movies that prove they can’t be without having some feelings involved. Don’t believe us? Just ask Rosie and Alex from “Love, Rosie”. From navigating the friendship, to drawing boundaries and having the talk, how exactly can we better manage our cross-sex friendships?

This is part 1 of 2 of this episode. Watch out for part 2 next week!

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Ahhhh…Valentine’s Day. A day of romance…or is this just another day that capitalises on the idea of gift-giving and grand gestures of love? Love or loathe it, Valentine’s Day celebration is inevitable when you are in a relationship. Or is it?

The girls discuss the expectations and pressure for the ‘perfect’ Valentine’s day celebration in this episode of Hush Podcast, and weigh in their thoughts on the celebration - is the day even worth celebrating?

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For many of us, Chinese New Year it’s a great and fun time to catch up with our relatives and friends, but it can be stressful too. In this special episode of Hush, Hazelle shares with us tips for surviving Chinese New Year.

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As consumers, we are becoming more conscious of the choices we make every day and how they will affect the world that we live in. From plant-based diets to boycotting fast fashion, embracing the sustainable lifestyle is slowly (but surely) gaining more traction with Millennials & Gen-Zs. But is this lifestyle sustainable for the long run, or is this just a passing fad?

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This Christmas, the Hush girls answers 🔥saucy🔥 questions sent in by our listeners that were packed into an advent calendar! What kind of questions are you expecting and is there more to the calendar than just questions?

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The Singapore society is changing. With an ageing population and low birth rate, we need to ensure that we are able to tackle the challenges ahead. The Forward SG is an exercise for all of us to come together, examine our values and aspirations, build consensus and refresh our social compact. In this episode, Hazelle, Germaine and Azura explore the topic of Singapore’s ageing population and the traditional notion of filial piety.

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"What was she wearing?" "Why was she out alone at night?" "How much did she drink?" How many times do we have to hear these repeated for us to realise that victims are not to be blamed for the tragedy that befell them? What do we have to do for society to practise more empathy and realise the crux of the issue starts from the perpetrators themselves?

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Being a listening ear for your friends when they need you makes you one hell of a good friend, doesn’t it? Knowing they can trust you with their deepest, darkest secrets, and even helping them feel better than before. But what are the dangers of dishing out unprofessional advice, and where to draw the line? After all, people pay for a therapist! Let’s unpack with Germaine, Hazelle and Azura on this episode of Hush podcast.

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“I’ll tell you what I want, what I really really want”. Spice Girls would have made you believe that right off the bat, you should already know what you want in life. But what if you don’t? In this episode of Hush, the girls and our guest, Singapore rapper/producer, Alyph will attempt to solve the never-ending existential crisis of figuring out what we really want in life.

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Are we slowly becoming more desensitised to cheating? It seems as though every few months, there will be reports on cheating cases. In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls discuss the issues and reasons for infidelity and beyond. Why do people cheat even when they are presumably in happy & fulfilling relationships? Is nothing sacred anymore? Or is monogamy simply dead?

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Since the dawn of time, girls have battled with body image. Surrounded by images of picture-perfect bodies, we are fed with the idea that we need to look a certain way. Naturally, fad diets and “health detox” supplements come into play just so we can achieve, what at times, seem like unrealistic beauty standards. But at what cost?

Tyen Rasif joins the Hush girls to discuss diet culture and body image in this episode of Hush Podcast.

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Parenting is a tough endeavour. The rising costs of raising a kid, the arrival of social media and internet predators have made us rethink the kind of world we want our children to grow up in. In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls and our special guest, Naomi Neo discuss more on modern parenting styles, struggles of raising a kid in the social media age, and not forgetting, mum-shaming.

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Hush Podcast has been running for close to 2 years and we thought, hey let's do an AMA! We answer your questions about the show & topics related to the episodes in this episode of Hush Podcast!

Round 2? Saucy questions are welcome - https://ngl.link/itsclarity.co

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Time to get down and personal. Some people like sex, some do not, and some of us just need a little more time to get used to intimate situations. All of these are completely ok.

“Am I truly ready for this?” Let’s unpack this can of worms with Germaine, Hazelle and Azura on this episode of Hush podcast.

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Friends and family are supposed to be your cheerleaders in life – supporting and celebrating the person you are, and the person you want to be. But, what do you do if a friend does the complete opposite?

In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls navigate through identifying certain patterns and possibly toxic behaviours in our social circle and most importantly, how we can deal with all of these friendship dramas.

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The news that Singapore is set to repeal section 377A and movements that advocate for the LGBTQ community, such as Pink Dot and #Ready4Repeal, mark a hopeful sign that Singaporeans are slowly moving towards a more open and tolerant society. But is being tolerant good enough?

In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls and our guest, Jean Seizure, discuss the changing norms, and how we can shift from being a tolerant society to one that is more accepting and understanding.

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As girls, we grew up thinking that we have to look a certain way & uphold a certain beauty standard - like the figures represented on media platforms. With more body positivity movements in the world today, are we more accepting of our confidence as we age? In this episode of Hush Podcast, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine share how they have found their confidence, style, and manage their anxieties in this phase of their lives.

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We’ve heard stories about how some friendships break apart after a group vacation. No doubt, travelling with friends can truly test your friendship, but that does not mean that it has to end in a fallout. In this episode of Hush Podcast Hazelle, Azura and Germaine share with us the perks and pitfalls of travelling with friends and discuss if it’s really better to travel with friends or go on a trip alone.

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While death is not something that many Singaporeans fear, we definitely do seem to fear talking about it. The stigma which surrounds death deters us from having casual conversations about the doom and gloom. In today’s episode, we discuss death in all its glory and highlight the importance of having die-logues with the people around us when we are still fit and healthy.

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So you’ve hit it off with someone and things are going pretty smooth. But how do you ensure that you’re both on the same page? Do you put labels on your relationship, and if so, what and why? In this episode of Hush, we’re laying out the base for all the complicated romance situations you’ve ended up in.

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Have you ever considered emigrating out of Singapore? According to research done in 2016, 42% of young Singaporeans want to emigrate. Personally, we have seen friends who are looking to work overseas or move away for a few years. In this episode of Hush, we get the girls to discuss if they would stay in Singapore forever.

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Do we believe that people deserve second chances? What if you had done something wrong in the past but the incident resurface and showed that you were not a very nice person? In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Azura, and Germaine discuss the possibility of people changing over the years.

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On 24 Jun 2022, the US Supreme Court voted to overturn Roe v Wade, a constitutional law that recognises a women’s right to abortion in the states. The news is shocking and upsetting since women’s rights have come a long way today. In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Azura, and Germaine share their thoughts and discuss more on the stigmas of abortions and women’s rights.

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Elective egg freezing will soon be allowed in Singapore for women aged 21 to 35 years old, starting in 2023. As we celebrate this new milestone, there have also been critics of the new policy. While it is impossible to determine the success rate of the policy, we want to highlight one important message: Taking care of our own bodies. In this episode of Hush podcast, Hazelle, Azura, and Germaine meet with Minister of State, Ms. Sun Xue Ling to speak about her experiences and thoughts on fertility health and pregnancy in her thirties.

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Falling out of friendships can be awkward and heartbreaking for some. But according to experts, it’s only natural for acquaintances and even close friends to fall by the wayside as time goes on. In this episode, Azura, Hazelle and Germaine share with us why it is ok to drop out of friendships or let it fade out. They share how their ‘past’ friends shaped them and why cutting them off was their best decisions at that time and it’s nothing to feel guilty about.

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Dating apps have made it so convenient for those looking for love, but it is also the perfect place for romance scammers to prey on innocent people. In this episode of Hush podcast, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine caught up with the latest love scam news and share with us how we could spot red flags and what we can do if we fall in love with a con artist.

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After two years, nightlife activities are back in Singapore! Yay or nay? How are the girls feeling about it? Have they been heading out to party? Or would they rather stay home and wind down? In this episode of Hush podcast, we get the girls to discuss more about the party and clubbing phase they have gone through in the past and how their lifestyle has changed since the restrictions came in place.

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Many of us in our 20s and 30s are often bounded by our parents’ traditional and cultural ways of upbringing and expectations. Over the years, things they said or done may have caused disagreements, fights, sometimes even emotional trauma.

In this episode of Hush podcast, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine, together with our guest Carrie, share more about their relationships with their parents, childhood trauma, the healing process and ways to improve the relationships with their parents.

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Breaking up with someone you love hurts, unfortunately, some things are just not meant to be. Relationships with our romantic partners are hard work but the most important relationship you need in life is the one you have with yourself. In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Azura, and Germaine, together with our special guest Kelly Mi Li (most of you would know her from the Netflix series ‘Bling Empire’) discuss coming out of a bad relationship and the healing process after.

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Moving out in your 20s and 30s is becoming more common in Singapore due to lockdowns and WFH arrangements. More young millennials are citing personal growth and independence as their biggest takeaways from this experience. Hush listeners and viewers are familiar that Azura has gotten married but is currently staying with her parents, Hazelle rented an apartment of her own, and Germaine is still staying with her parents. In today’s episode, we are talking about adulting, moving out and living alone where the Hush girls share their thoughts and tackle the big question: Does moving out really provide more personal growth and independence?

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There is so much happening around the world today: wars, pandemics, stock market crash and “The Great Resignation”. It’s not common to see social media updates of people hopping onto a new job and doing something completely different in this pandemic. It seems like everyone is taking the leap of faith and embracing change. In this episode, the Hush girls will discuss their views on risk-taking, embracing new changes and stagnation.

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Male birth control pills are set for human trials! What exactly does this mean for men and women? In Singapore, birth control is still a taboo topic as it involves discussions of a person’s sexual lifestyle. However in this episode, the Hush girls - Hazelle, Azura and Germaine explore the bigger question: Should men and women have equal responsibilities when it comes to birth control?

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Last year sucks, but 2022 will be better In this last episode of season 3 of Hush Podcast, we look back at all the great and not so great things that have happened to us personally - from break ups to road accidents, award nominations to work troubles. We also look at some of the things that went well and not so well for Singaporean women as reported by the media and discuss what can be done for 2022 to be better.

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What is your reaction to when you hear stories about marriage proposals? Do you react with “How romantic!” or do you immediately think that it’s unnecessary? To some, marriage proposals are a timeless and essential gesture as well as a necessary step on the road to marriage. However, others have called it outdated, superfluous and overly performative. In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Germaine and Azura discuss marriage proposals, look into when it all started and read some of your thoughts and opinions on the topic to find out if it still has a place in society today.

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More young women are choosing career, freedom and independence over starting a family, and when or if they choose to get married, many are choosing to remain childless or have children at a later age. Yet a portion among them still feel guilty about their decision and at some point feel the need to conform to social norms, especially in Singapore, where women are still often highly judged by how they perform as a mother or wife despite their career success.

In this episode, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine and our invited guest, Rachel, discuss the dilemma: Family or career, and is it possible to have both?

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The problem with the term "work-life" balance suggests that we can have careers, a romantic relationship, even babies, and a clean house if we just prioritise and work harder at "balancing" our lives. And, if we are good at this, we might even get some "me-time" to spend on ourselves. But we all know that this is further from the truth. 3

In this episode, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine and our invited guest, Sangeeta, get real about juggling the success of their craft and personal life. They’ll discuss the realities of hustling, what they had to give up in order to pursue their dreams, and if it is really worth it.

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It’s no wonder why some say a breakup can be worse than bereavement. When someone leaves you because of death, they are gone forever, whereas, with an ex, they’re still alive when they leave. This makes it harder for those who have seen the end of their relationship grieve the loss as they are able to see and watch in pain as their exes move on without them.

But for some, a break-up isn’t necessarily the end of a relationship. Those who choose to remain as friends still spend time and grow old together. Time heals all wounds, they’ll probably say. Which do you relate to?

In this episode Hazelle, Germaine, Azura and our guest, singer-songwriter Marcus Lee, discuss reasons why you can or cannot stay friends with your ex; share their experience healing from breakups and answer why trust between partners is the most important aspect of a relationship.

Listen to Marcus's IDWBTW:

(Eng) Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/track/62nSMJi40NybEgeRjuGwps?si=613b09a126be426a

(Eng) YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VhUJWew5DQ

(Official MV) YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oobwYHPK7oQ

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Stigma and embarrassment often see many of us suffer in silence for common and treatable conditions. There are probably more people than you think who suffer from those ‘embarrassing’ health issues that you might have like overly frequent urination, vaginal discharge, and bladder, bowel or period problems. We’re just too paiseh to talk about it.

In this episode, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine and our invited guest Fiza O, discuss common awkward and potentially embarrassing health issues that we kept secret way too long.

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A woman is born with a finite number of eggs that continuously depletes over her lifetime. Women tend to be most fertile in their twenties or early thirties, after which the quality of their eggs decreases. This also means that the possibility of having children - if we want them - becomes harder - but maybe it doesn’t have to be.

In this episode of Hush Podcast, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine talk about fertility, social egg freezing and how all of these affect family, life and career.

Useful links:

https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/in-focus-social-egg-freezing-women-2137286

https://cnalifestyle.channelnewsasia.com/women/peoples-action-party-women-youth-paper-egg-freezing-273222

https://www.channelnewsasia.com/watch/budget-2021-debate-cheng-li-hui-allowing-voluntary-egg-freezing-1926846

https://www.straitstimes.com/opinion/dilemma-of-social-egg-freezing-for-women-in-singapore-0

https://www.msf.gov.sg/media-room/Pages/Social-egg-freezing.aspx

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When it comes to what we wear - women just can’t seem to win. Our clothing choices are constantly held under the microscope. We have been told to cover up, but also to “not be a prude”. But how much skin is too much skin? How much of a woman's leg is acceptable to see in public? It’s time to recognise that our clothing is not the problem.

In this episode, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine and guest Jasmine Sokko discuss the unnecessary policing of women’s clothes, and fashion as an identity. They share with us personal stories from when they were judged for what they wear and their opinions on the topic.

Listen to Jasmine's new EP - https://open.spotify.com/track/2jG2FfL0zHPCCM5fwNcAGO?si=7a725ba7ba5445ef

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Our emotional state usually determines the way we behave, and men and women relate to their emotions in different ways. When upset, women are more likely to directly express their feelings and seek support from friends and family, while men may hide their emotions or withdraw, often feeling that they need to be self-reliant. It doesn’t help that these behaviours are reinforced in the stereotypes and are often portrayed in popular culture.

In this episode, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine and our invited guest, Yung Raja, discuss if women are really more emotionally expressive than men; and debunk myths about men and their emotions.

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Relationships can be complicated when in-laws enter the picture, and somehow, it seems that women struggle a lot more than men in this aspect. No doubt, there’s a whole lot of anxiety and walking on eggshells to make things work, especially at the early stages of your relationship with your future in-laws.

In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine discuss why some of us are afraid but mostly awkward, when facing our in-laws - particularly mothers-in-law; read and discuss some of the stories that you have sent in; and share some advice on how to deal with them.

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Do soulmates really exist? We can debate all day on which camp you’re in, but whether you belong with the people who believe in finding their destined half (their one, true soulmate) or the people who believe in slow progress in relationships, we can all agree that love is complicated.

In this episode, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine discuss love, devotion and all of its complications. They’ll discuss modern romance, interracial relationships, and much more with our invited guest, local singer-songwriter and Universal Music Singapore's latest signee, Yao (https://www.instagram.com/yaogotwav)

Link to QUIZ here! https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20190211-the-dark-side-of-believing-in-true-love

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Britney’s documentary has prompted a re-evaluation of media coverage of celebrities, especially young women, who were hounded and scrutinised within the bubble of 00s celebrity culture. In this episode, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine take a deeper look into how women were portrayed in the public eye back then - in Hollywood, as well as in Singapore, and reflect upon it.

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The pandemic has taken a significant toll on our mental health. More people in Singapore across different age groups are reportedly seeking help for mental health issues. While some of us are happy with the work from home arrangement, others are faced with deteriorating emotional health due to the loss of access to out-of-home activities, and being stuck at home in unconducive environments like poor family relationships and/or abusive parents.

In this final part of Hush Podcast’s #WFH special, Azura, Hazelle and Germaine discuss how working from home has impacted our mental health both negatively and positively, and they also share with the listeners some of the things they can do to reduce stress and keep their mental health in check.

P.s. We have a Zalora-HUSH Secret promo code* in this ep!

*Terms and conditions apply, please check via Zalora.sg or the Zalora app for more information.

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The pandemic has made e-commerce and online shopping the new normal - we buy everything online: from groceries to clothes, to even products that we would otherwise feel embarrassed to buy in stores. While it makes sense for us to shop online as we are discouraged to leave our homes, somehow we find ourselves feeling embarrassed whenever a new parcel comes at the door, and hide our purchases from our parents, siblings or spouses. Why do we do that and why do we feel that way?

In this second part of our #WFH special, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine discuss shopping habits since the pandemic and talk about all the silly things that we do to conceal this new normal.

P.s We hid a Zalora-HUSH Secret promo code in this ep! Terms and conditions apply, please check via Zalora.sg or the Zalora app for more information.

Correction: Please note that the example mentioned at 36:20 is inaccurate. T&Cs for the promo code applies.

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In mid-May of 2021, Singapore’s government announced its return to Phase 2 Heightened Alert (P2HA), and introduced new COVID19 Safe Management Measures (SMM), forcing many of us to go back to working from home to reduce community transmission. Our Hush Podcast hosts Azura, Germaine and Hazelle, who are also colleagues at work, were additionally told to minimise contact among each other making it impossible for them to meet and putting a hold on our plans for a season 3. But work from home or not, we’re still bringing the girls back - via online this time - in this 3 part #WFH special to catch up and talk about things they do and think about during this P2HA.

In this first part of our #WFH special, the Hush girls confess to some of the out of the ordinary things they do while stuck at home, and talk about the things they do to relieve stress: from exercising, journaling, to spending way more time than they usually do online shopping.

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Have you ever asked yourself: when did women start shaving or when did it become a beauty standard? In this episode, Azura, Hazelle and Germaine share their thoughts on women's relationship with body hair. They’ll share a bit of history of when it all started, and discuss pros and cons on shaving, waxing, laser and going au natural.

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How many times have you blamed your parents for “sabotaging” your relationships even when the actions were of your own? Whether it’s a form of mirroring the love you’ve gotten from your parents or filling a love gap that you’ve never received, you’re not completely wrong. Apparently, how you give and receive love in a relationship is greatly influenced and shaped by your parents. Some researchers suggest that our first experience with love and emotions is with our parents, and those early years set the bar for what we want out of love or relationships later in our lives.

In this episode, Azura, Germaine, Hazelle and our invited guest, Narelle Kheng, discuss these complicated relationships we have with our parents, peers and romantic partners. They’ll share some funny love stories, including the good, the bad and the ugly and how they think their upbringing plays a part in it.

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In recent years, men have stepped up to contribute more to the care of children and the household, but women, unfortunately, continue to hold most of the responsibility for making sure things get done. In this episode, Azura and Hazelle discuss women’s invisible labour: The mental load. They share with us who does the household chores in their homes, and who plans when things should get done.

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Is it normal to be afraid of pregnancy? From pregnancy phobias to the cost of children and building careers - Azura, Hazelle and Germaine discuss their fears of pregnancy with our invited guest, 987 Radio DJ, Natasha Faisal.

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Toxic relationships don't just apply to romantic partnerships. Friendships, familial and professional relationships can all turn out to be abusive or damaging as well. In this episode, Azura, Germaine and Hazelle discuss indicators of a toxic relationship and share what you can do if you experience them.

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Navigating Parents’ Expectations of Your Career Choices

“Be a doctor or a lawyer,” they said. Growing up in Singapore, a tightly-regulated, structured city, many have been conditioned to make certain career choices based on our parents' rigid expectations of success. Oftentimes, those choices were carried out at the expense of one’s happiness. The pursuit of passion takes courage. So how can one break free from external factors that stop one from living vicariously?

In this episode Germaine, Azura, Hazelle and our invited guest - model turned singer-songwriter, Iman Fandi, tell us more about their career choices, their parents’ expectations and how they get to where they are today.

This is part 2 of this episode, listen to part 1 here: https://spoti.fi/3vBlneS

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Navigating Parents’ Expectations of Your Career Choices

“Be a doctor or a lawyer,” they said. Growing up in Singapore, a tightly-regulated, structured city, many have been conditioned to make certain career choices based on our parents' rigid expectations of success. Oftentimes, those choices were carried out at the expense of one’s happiness. The pursuit of passion takes courage. So how can one break free from external factors that stop one from living vicariously?

In this episode Germaine, Azura, Hazelle and our invited guest - model turned singer-songwriter, Iman Fandi, tell us more about their career choices, their parents’ expectations and how they get to where they are today.

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Many women experience abnormal vaginal bleeding or spotting between periods sometime in their lives. In this episode, Azura, Germaine and Hazelle discuss abnormal menstruation, uterine bleeding, and spotting that are common yet less talked about.

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Women in many industries in Singapore have suffered some form of sex-based harassment in the workplace. This includes sexual harassment, sexist remarks, and other forms of behaviour that demean or humiliate them on the basis of their sex. In this episode, Azura, Hazelle and Germaine discuss this issue and share some of their experiences with workplace sexual harassment.

Content warning: This episode contains recounts of sexual harassment.

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Some of us chase after monetary success; some see prizes of recognition as success; and others see success as a journey. But what does success really mean? Germaine, Hazelle and Azura discuss what it means to them.

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Understandably, there is a lot of curiosity and the lack of knowledge behind what happens on the wedding night - for experienced and inexperienced couples alike. As seen on Netflix's Bridgerton, understanding of cultural expectations in marriages is an important aspect of a relationship. In this episode, Azura, Germaine, Hazelle and our invited guest share their thoughts on chastity, the mechanics behind baby-making and the media portrayal of its affairs.

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“Traditional” masculine traits which can sometimes link to aggression and misogyny is no stranger to us women. But did you know that anybody could be perpetrators of this harmful trait? In this episode, Germaine, Hazelle and Azura discuss this issue and reflect on this cultural phenomenon that not only affects women, but men themselves and society as a whole.

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Can women be breadwinners? There is an assumption that women who earn more than their partners will not have one job but three: doing their actual work, taking the bigger load of the household chores and caregiving, as well as managing their partner’s easily damaged ego. In this episode Hazelle, Germaine and Azura discuss how they feel about earning more than their boyfriends and husband, and share their thoughts on women being the main breadwinners in relationships.

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Germaine, Azura and Hazelle wrap up 2020 in this final episode of Hush podcast. In this episode, they shared their honest reflections on the podcast and some of their own personal progress: in relationships, career and self.

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In this episode of Hush, hosts Germaine, and Hazelle discuss boob sizes, their representation in societal standards, and its pros and cons. They also share some tips on how to correctly measure your boob size and where to get the right bras.

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A recent survey by a local matchmaking agency showed that Singaporean women were the least likely to date a guy who is shorter than them and earn less. Azura, Hazelle and Germaine discuss these survey findings, explore other relationship deal breakers and share their personal relationship experiences - past and present.

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What have you learnt about sex in school and were they any useful? On this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Germaine and Azura reminisce the sex education they received in school and reflect on the things they wish they knew.

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What do you do when you’re on your period? Azura, Hazelle and Germaine shares some tips and tricks to take care of your vagina and to get through that time of the month.

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What was the weirdest thing you’ve heard about being on your period? In this episode, Germaine, Hazelle and Azura share their personal experience and struggles during the time of the month and debunk some of the biggest myths about periods.

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Have you ever looked in the mirror and wished you were prettier? In this episode, Germaine, Hazelle and Azura discuss their own insecurities about their bodies, dangers of extreme beauty measures, and what it really means to them be body positive.

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Have you ever got in a situation where you wanted to post a photo or video of yourself on social media but stopped yourself because of what you’re wearing?

On this episode of Hush, our hosts Germaine, Hazelle and Azura discuss multiple reasons why we women self-censor ourselves on social media. They discuss body image and self-esteem, judgy eyes of conservative friends, followers and relatives, and online sexual harassment.

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