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Andrew Johnson

This podcast explores what it takes mentally and emotionally to become a man, tips and ideas on personal finance, and what to expect if you get married.

In this episode my guest Waymon Daniels and I talk about how the the role of Stepfathers has evolved over the years. Different Eras and Cultures, and how Black families are more accepting to step-parenting. The challenges faced by Stepfathers, establishing authority and bonding. The rewards of being a step-parent. The guest gives real life examples of being a step-parent. Lastly, how in modern times men are being labeled a Simp for being a Stepfather.

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Summary

In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson delves into the concept of the 'Unicorn Partner Myth,' exploring the unrealistic expectations many have in modern dating. He discusses statistics on relationships, the impact of social media on dating perceptions, and the importance of self-reflection and compromise in relationships. The conversation emphasizes that while the perfect partner may be a myth, a good partner is attainable and preferable to remaining single.

Takeaways

55% of people feel most loved when their partner acknowledges their emotions.
The demand for ideal partners often outweighs the supply.
Social media contributes to unrealistic dating expectations.
Self-reflection is crucial in understanding relationship expectations.
Compromise is essential for a healthy relationship.
Many people are not 'datable' due to life circumstances.
Expectations should be realistic to find a suitable partner.
The dating pool narrows as preferences increase with age.
People often compare new partners to exes, which is detrimental.
A good partner is better than no partner at all.

Titles

Realistic Expectations in Love
The Truth About Ideal Partners

Sound Bites

"We're never gonna find the perfect partner."
"Are you the perfect partner for the one that you want?"
"The demand is far outweighing the supply."

Chapters

00:00

Introduction to the Unicorn Partner Myth

02:04

Statistics on Relationships and Dating

05:01

Defining the Unicorn Partner

08:11

The Impact of Social Media on Dating

11:54

Self-Reflection and Realistic Expectations

21:10

The Importance of Compromise in Relationships

24:55

Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Summary

In this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses the concept of the African American consumption class, exploring the spending habits, historical context, and the impact of self-concept on financial behavior. He emphasizes the need for financial literacy and education, particularly for the younger generation, and highlights the importance of marriage in achieving financial stability. The conversation delves into the challenges posed by systemic racism and economic disparities, while also offering strategies for improving financial health and breaking the cycle of overconsumption.

Takeaways

African Americans spend significantly on luxury items despite lower average incomes.
Systemic racism influences consumption patterns and financial behavior.
Self-concept plays a crucial role in financial decision-making.
Overcompensation through material items can lead to financial instability.
Financial literacy is essential for breaking generational cycles of poverty.
Marriage is linked to higher income and better financial health.
Teaching children about money management is vital for future success.
Reading and continuous learning contribute to financial growth.
The average car payment is a significant burden on consumers.
Understanding the value of saving early can lead to greater wealth accumulation.
Breaking the Cycle of Overconsumption
Teaching the Next Generation about Money
"We are six times more likely to buy a Mercedes Benz."
"This is a situation where we just simply have our priorities misplaced."
"Racism is a system to keep one group down."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Consumption Class

03:04 Statistics on African American Spending

06:07 Historical Context of Consumption Patterns

08:55 Self-Concept and Financial Behavior

12:12 The Impact of Consumption on Relationships

15:12 Strategies for Financial Improvement

17:59 Generational Financial Education

21:00 The Importance of Marriage and Financial Stability

24:10 Conclusion and Future Directions

This is a replay episode, as I am recovering from vacation. The episode will talk about is there really a shortage of these types of men. Are women's expectations surrounding a man's income too high. What salary numbers give women the best chances of getting married. Lastly what can be done to achieve better marriage outcomes, based on salary expectations, with guest Desmond Douglas, financial advisor. Visit the website to leave a review and get on the email list.

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Summary

In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the topic of high standards in dating. He compares dating standards from 20 years ago to the present day, highlighting the dramatic changes in expectations. Johnson explains the difference between standards and preferences, emphasizing that standards are non-negotiable while preferences are flexible. He explores the advantages and disadvantages of having high standards, including how they can protect individuals and weed out incompatible partners, but also how they can limit the dating pool and lead to unrealistic expectations. Johnson advises listeners to find a balance between their standards and preferences, and to focus on internal qualities rather than external factors when seeking a long-term relationship.

keywords high standards, dating, preferences, relationships, expectations, dating pool, self-reflection, internal qualities

takeaways

Dating standards have dramatically changed in the past 20 years, with both men and women having higher expectations.
High standards can protect individuals and weed out incompatible partners, but they can also limit the dating pool and lead to unrealistic expectations.
Finding a balance between standards and preferences is important, as well as focusing on internal qualities rather than external factors.
Self-reflection and self-awareness are crucial in evaluating one's own standards and being open to change.
Understanding the difference between standards and preferences can help in navigating the dating scene.

titles

The Dramatic Changes in Dating Standards
The Difference Between Standards and Preferences

Sound Bites

"Men aren't even considering dating the women, meaning that they've just checked out for the most part because they don't feel that they meet the standards of the modern day woman who has standards now."
"Standards are non-negotiable. Preferences are negotiable."
"High standards are literally keeping people single."

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Clarification

02:11

The Dramatic Changes in Dating Standards

04:38

The Difference Between Standards and Preferences

06:31

The Advantages and Disadvantages of High Standards

09:42

Finding a Balance: Self-Reflection and Flexibility

18:42

Focusing on Internal Qualities for Long-Term Relationships

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Summary

In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Robert Prasch the host of the Creating Greatness Podcast, discuss the topic of marriage chemistry. They explore how to keep the chemistry alive in a marriage, handle adversity and conflict, and recognize if you have found your soul mate. They also discuss the role of God in their relationship and the importance of shared values and goals. The conversation touches on the belief in soulmates and the difference between making your spouse happy and adding value to their life. They also address the impact of finances on marriage and the dynamics of parenting.

takeaways

Marriage chemistry is about having a strong connection with your spouse and being able to understand and support each other.
Finding your soul mate can happen through online dating or other unconventional methods, and it's important to be open to different possibilities.
Having a shared belief in God and working together to grow spiritually can strengthen a marriage.
Happiness in a marriage comes from within, and both partners should focus on adding value to each other's lives.
Open communication and joint financial planning can help prevent financial issues from causing problems in a marriage.
Parenting should involve both parents working together, with one taking on a disciplinary role and the other providing support and understanding.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Definition of Marriage Chemistry

03:11

Meeting and Knowing Your Soul Mate

07:48

The Role of God in the Relationship

11:36

Belief in Soulmates

15:40

Making Your Spouse Happy vs. Adding Value

20:13

Handling Finances in Marriage

26:51

Family Dynamics and Parenting

32:19

Conclusion and Podcast Promotion

This weeks guest. Ellen Sudderth of ESP Presents, April Thomas, and Wendy Arsad.

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Summary

The podcast discusses the movie 'Divorce in the Black' and its portrayal of divorce in the African-American community. The first scene and the coffin scene are highlighted as particularly impactful. The conversation then moves on to the alignment of the movie's portrayal of divorce with the reality in the community, with a focus on economic factors. The decision to divorce and the role of financial difficulties are explored. The panelists also discuss why women may end up marrying someone like the character Dallas, with factors such as fixing and building a man, familiarity, and religious upbringing being mentioned. The conversation explores the themes of healing after divorce, generational views on divorce in the Black community, and the process of rebuilding after a divorce. The guests discuss the importance of addressing trauma and brokenness before entering into a new relationship. They also touch on the changing attitudes towards divorce in different generations and the impact of children on the decision to leave a marriage. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the movie.

Keywords

Divorce in the Black, African-American community, portrayal, movie, first scene, coffin scene, alignment, reality, economic factors, decision, financial difficulties, marrying someone like Dallas, fixing, building a man, familiarity, religious upbringing, healing, divorce, generational views, rebuilding, trauma, brokenness, Black community.

takeaways

The first scene and the coffin scene in 'Divorce in the Black' are impactful and thought-provoking.
The movie's portrayal of divorce aligns with the reality of divorce in the African-American community, but some aspects could have been explored further.
Economic factors play a role in the decision to divorce, and financial difficulties can strain a marriage.
Women may end up marrying someone like Dallas due to a desire to fix and build a man, familiarity, and religious upbringing.
Men who are broken may require the help of another man to be fixed, but women can provide valuable support once the man is on a better path. Healing after divorce is an individual process that requires acknowledging and addressing one's own brokenness and trauma.
Generational views on divorce have shifted, with younger generations being more likely to leave a marriage when it becomes uncomfortable.
Rebuilding after divorce involves changing one's perspective and rebuilding trust in oneself and others.
The movie 'A Fall from Grace' sparked mixed reactions within the Black community, with some appreciating its portrayal of trauma and others expecting a different type of story.

titles

Why Women May Marry Someone Like Dallas
Impactful Scenes in 'Divorce in the Black' Changing Generational Views on Divorce
The Process of Rebuilding After Divorce

Sound Bites

"That first scene was a doozy."
"I thought it was a bit far-fetched."
"Confess that you are broken. You're not well enough for a relationship right now."
"Nobody wants to settle for anybody and nobody wants average."
"Rebuilding is changing your perception, how you see things, and what is really important to you."

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Overview

01:06

Discussing the Movie 'Divorce in the Black'

02:24

Analyzing the First Scene

03:24

Opinions on the Coffin Scene

07:25

Portrayal of Divorce in the African-American Community

09:34

Economic Factors in Divorce Decisions

11:26

The Role of Faith and Family in Divorce

15:33

Why Women May Marry Someone Like Dallas

19:27

The Importance of Support in Fixing Broken Men

20:37

Healing and Addressing Brokenness After Divorce

24:56

Changing Generational Views on Divorce

30:34

The Process of Rebuilding After Divorce

36:16

The Impact of Children on the Decision to Leave a Marriage

38:56

Mixed Reactions to the Movie 'A Fall from Grace'

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Summary: In this episode, the host discusses workplace romances with his guests, LaKeisha and Natalie from the Life Cracks Us Up podcast. They share their personal experiences and talk about the challenges and benefits of dating someone at work. The statistics on workplace romances are also mentioned, including the high percentage of adults who have been involved in one. The main challenges discussed include favoritism, distractions, and decreased productivity. The benefits mentioned include shared interests and goals, improved morale, and job satisfaction.

keywords: workplace romances, challenges, benefits, statistics, favoritism, distractions, productivity, shared interests, goals, morale, job satisfaction

Takeaways

Workplace romances are common, with a high percentage of adults having been involved in one.
Challenges of workplace romances include favoritism, distractions, and decreased productivity.
Benefits of workplace romances can include shared interests and goals, improved morale, and job satisfaction.
Maintaining professionalism and keeping the relationship a secret can be important in workplace romances.
Disclosing the relationship to HR may be necessary depending on company policies and potential conflicts of interest.
Navigating the Challenges and Benefits of Workplace Romances
The Juicy Statistics and Real-Life Experiences of Workplace Romances
"75% of employees have had an office romance"
"Workplace romances can be a mess and a handful"
"Laugh to keep from crying"

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Statistics on Workplace Romances

02:04 Introducing the Guests and Their Podcast

03:20 Personal Experiences with Workplace Romances

07:38 Challenges of Workplace Romances

10:11 Maintaining Professionalism in Workplace Relationships

15:38 Disclosing Workplace Romances to HR

20:24 Signs of Problematic Workplace Romances

22:40Benefits of Finding Love at Work

27:29Wrap-up and Closing Remarks

In this episode we will talk about the ready made man. We will a definition of the term, the chances of women marrying a ready made Man. Why women tend to be attracted to men who have established careers. Why women, in their 30's place a higher value on a ready made Man? We will compare established vs growing and building. The importance of partner compatibility. Lastly, some of the risk to being with a ready made Man. Visit the website and leave a review.

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Summary

In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the 'soft guy era' and its impact on dating and relationships. He defines the soft guy era as a TikTok trend that encourages men to stop being the sole financial provider in relationships. Johnson explores the issues with this trend, including the changing dynamics and expectations in modern dating. He also discusses the influence of cultural factors and the imbalance in the dating pool, where women are looking for men who earn at least as much as they do. Johnson highlights the need for self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and communication to navigate these challenges.

Keywords Soft guy era, dating, relationships, TikTok trend, financial provider, modern dating, cultural influences, dating pool, imbalance, self-awareness, emotional intelligence, communication

Takeaways

The soft guy era is a TikTok trend that encourages men to stop being the sole financial provider in relationships.
Modern dating has been influenced by cultural factors and has led to changing dynamics and expectations.
There is an imbalance in the dating pool, with women looking for men who earn at least as much as they do.
Navigating the challenges of the soft guy era requires self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and effective communication.

Titles

The Imbalance in the Dating Pool
Navigating the Challenges of the Soft Guy Era

Sound Bites

"The soft guy era is a TikTok trend that encourages men to stop being the sole financial provider in relationships."
"Cultural influences have significantly changed and influenced modern dating, altering dynamics and expectations."
"Women tend to like to date men who are earning at least what they're earning."

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Background

02:12

Defining the Soft Guy Era

04:42

Cultural Influences on Modern Dating

11:32

Reactions and Expectations

16:23

Redefining Masculinity

19:09

Navigating the Challenges

23:17

Conclusion and Call to Action

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Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson and Greg discuss good systems of financial security. They cover topics such as budgeting, savings, managing debt, investments, insurance, and financial literacy. They emphasize the importance of living within your means, starting early with saving and investing, and forming good financial habits. They also discuss the role of financial education in achieving financial security and stress the need for individuals to take responsibility for their own financial well-being.

Keywords Financial security, budgeting, savings, debt management, investments, insurance, financial literacy, living within means, starting early, forming good habits, financial education

Takeaways

Living within your means is crucial for financial security.
Starting early with saving and investing can have a significant impact on your financial future.
Forming good financial habits, such as budgeting and conscious spending, is essential.
Financial education plays a vital role in achieving financial security and should be taught from an early age.

Titles

Forming Good Financial Habits
The Importance of Living Within Your Means

Sound Bites

"Living within our means is just normal. Energy in, energy out."
"If you start while you're in your 20s, at the end of this journey, it makes a tremendous difference."
"How do you feel about money? Does it make you feel yucky? Is it heavy?"

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Overview

02:08

Why People Struggle with Financial Security

05:57

The Importance of Starting Early

08:55

Assessing Your Financial Health

11:07

Strategies for a Tight Budget

13:56

Protecting Financial Assets

17:48

Preparing for Unexpected Events

21:23

The Role of Financial Education

24:00

Personal Stories and Examples

27:00

Conclusion and Closing Remarks

In this episode we are discussing blended families with my two guests Wesley and Tamara Davis. We will give a definition of a blended family, What some of the statistics are pertaining to blended families. How to handle the initial transition of combining two families together. The importance of a strong stable marriage, How to discipline children in a blended family. Lastly, what are some tips we can give to a new blended family just starting out. If you want to make a donation to the show send us a Cash App

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Summary In this episode of the 3 13 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses why it's hard for men to commit to a relationship. He explores the concept of the 'middle zone' or 'situation ship' where men feel comfortable because there's no commitment or requirements. Johnson delves into the psychological factors that contribute to men's commitment issues, such as fear of vulnerability, fear of rejection, and issues with attachment. He also examines how societal expectations and past relationship trauma influence men's willingness to commit. Johnson provides suggestions for men to address their commitment issues, including open communication, seeking therapy, and self-reflection.

Keywords commitment, relationship, middle zone, situation ship, psychological factors, vulnerability, fear of rejection, attachment, societal expectations, past relationship trauma, communication, therapy, self-reflection.

Takeaways

Men often prefer to stay in the 'middle zone' of dating and relationships because it provides a sense of safety and no commitment.
Psychological factors such as fear of vulnerability, fear of rejection, and issues with attachment contribute to men's commitment issues.
Societal expectations and past relationship trauma also influence men's willingness to commit.
Men can address their commitment issues by open communication, seeking therapy, and engaging in self-reflection.
The Middle Zone: Why Men Struggle to Commit
Societal Expectations and Past Relationship Trauma
"Why do men like to stay in the middle zone of dating and relationships?"
"Men have to be vulnerable in relationships. They have to be intimate in relationships."
"Society influences men's willingness to commit through expectations around masculinity."

TitlesSound Bites

Chapters

00:00The Middle Zone: Why Men Struggle to Commit

04:16Psychological Factors Behind Men's Commitment Issues

07:49Societal Expectations and Past Relationship Trauma

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Summary In this episode, host Andrew Johnson discusses the characteristics of faithful men. He shares information from articles he has read and highlights eight key traits of men who don't cheat: honesty, open communication, boundaries, responsibility, consistency, prioritizing the relationship, trustworthiness, and self-control. Johnson emphasizes the importance of these traits in building trust and maintaining a faithful relationship. He also encourages women to reflect on whether they truly want a man with these characteristics. Overall, the episode provides valuable insights for those seeking a faithful partner.

Keywords faithful men, characteristics, honesty, open communication, boundaries, responsibility, consistency, prioritizing the relationship, trustworthiness, self-control

Takeaways

Honesty is the foundation of a faithful relationship.
Open communication and assertiveness are important traits of faithful men.
Men who don't cheat have boundaries and respect their partner's boundaries.
Taking responsibility for one's actions is a sign of a faithful man.
Consistency builds trust and is a key characteristic of faithful men.
Faithful men prioritize their relationships and invest in their partners.
Trust is crucial in a faithful relationship.
Self-control and discipline are important traits of faithful men.

Titles

Prioritizing the Relationship
Taking Responsibility for Actions

Sound Bites

"Honesty is the foundation to any relationship."
"Open communication is paramount."
"Boundaries are in place to protect people."

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Purpose of the Episode

04:00

Characteristics 1-2: Honesty and Open Communication

06:23

Characteristics 3-4: Boundaries and Responsibility

08:54

Characteristic 5: Consistency

12:28

Characteristic 6: Prioritizing the Relationship

20:10

Characteristic 8: Self-Control

23:25

Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Summary- In this episode, the host Andrew Johnson discusses the two words that women hate when dating: average and Settle. He is joined by guest Judi Winbush LPC, to explore why these words elicit negative reactions and strong emotions. They discuss societal pressures, unrealistic expectations, and the importance of self-awareness in relationships. The conversation also touches on the cultural baggage associated with these words, and the need to redefine them in a more inclusive and positive way.

Keywords: Dating, average, Settle, women, negative reactions, strong emotions, societal pressures, unrealistic expectations, self-awareness, cultural baggage, redefine.

Takeaways

The words average and Settle elicit negative reactions and strong emotions in women when it comes to dating. Unrealistic expectations and societal pressures play a role in women's reactions to these words. Self-awareness is crucial in maintaining satisfying relationships. Cultural baggage and negative connotations associated with these words affect women's relationship choices. Redefining these terms in a more inclusive and positive way can help shift perspectives and improve dating experiences.

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In this episode we are discussing Fathers Day and the importance of a Fathers leadership. We will go over some statistics pertaining to Dad's role in their children's lives. What lessons did you learn from your father. How fatherhood changed you. What are the lasting impacts fathers have on their children. The importance of legacy for a man and how it affects his children. What are some of the challenges we face being a father in today's society. Lastly what are the rewards of being a father, with my guest Nate Patterson, Marcus Cotton, and Waymon Daniels.

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Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageSummaryIn this episode of the Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Greg discuss the topic of manipulation by addicts and how they manipulate family and friends. They explore various tactics used by addicts, such as guilt tripping, playing the victim, lying and deceiving, and using intimidation and anger. They also discuss the importance of recognizing these tactics, setting healthy boundaries, seeking support from others in similar situations, and maintaining compassion while maintaining boundaries. The episode concludes with a discussion on upcoming live events and the importance of supporting the podcast.Keywordsaddiction, manipulation, guilt tripping, playing the victim, lying, deceiving, intimidation, anger, boundaries, supportTakeaways Addicts often use manipulation tactics to obtain money, support, or enablement from family and friends to sustain their addiction. Common manipulation tactics include guilt tripping, playing the victim, lying and deceiving, and using intimidation and anger. It is important for family and friends to recognize these tactics and set healthy boundaries to protect themselves and the addict. Seeking support from others who have experienced similar situations can be helpful in navigating the challenges of dealing with an addict. Maintaining compassion while maintaining boundaries is crucial in supporting the addict while also prioritizing their own well-being. Setting Healthy Boundaries and Seeking Support Understanding the Manipulation Tactics of Addicts "Addicts often use manipulation tactics" "Guilt tripping is making loved ones feel responsible for their wellbeing or their relapse" "Addicts create elaborate stories and lies about why they need money"TitlesSound Bites Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 03:09 Understanding the Manipulation Tactics of Addicts07:45 Guilt Tripping and Playing the Victim: Common Manipulation Strategies12:04 The Role of Lying and Deceiving in Addict Manipulation25:01 Setting Healthy Boundaries and Seeking Support29:54 Maintaining Compassion While Maintaining Boundaries31:52 Conclusion and Upcoming Live Events--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/andrew-johnson03/message

Summary

In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the four pillars of a healthy relationship: communication, trust, respect, and support. He emphasizes the importance of open and honest communication, the slow process of building trust, the value of respect, and the need for emotional support in a relationship. He also shares personal experiences and provides practical advice for maintaining a strong and fulfilling relationship.Keywordshealthy relationship, communication, trust, respect, support, open communication, honesty, building trust, emotional support, relationship adviceTakeaways

Open and honest communication is essential for a healthy relationship.
Building trust is a slow process that requires consistency and reliability.
Respect involves placing value on another person and accepting their strengths and weaknesses.
Emotional support is critical in a relationship and can help navigate difficult times.
Displaying the four pillars in a relationship can make it strong, fulfilling, and long-lasting.
The Value of Respect: Accepting Strengths and Weaknesses
Building Trust: The Slow Process of Establishing Reliability
"Trust is a slow process and it takes time."
"Respect is the ability to place value on another person."
"Emotional support just simply lets your partner know that you have their back in difficut times

Chapters

00:00 The Importance of Communication in a Relationship

12:12 Building Trust: Consistency and Reliability

22:17 Emotional Support: Navigating Difficult Times

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In this episode, Andrew Johnson and guest Greg discuss irresponsible financial habits and their long-term consequences. They highlight the importance of having a financial plan and the cumulative effect of financial decisions. They also discuss the impact of credit card debt and poor credit scores on one's ability to invest and save for retirement. The conversation touches on the strain that poor financial habits can put on relationships and marriages. They also explore the legal consequences of financial mismanagement and how it can limit employment opportunities. The episode concludes with strategies for avoiding financial disasters, including budgeting, debt management, and early financial education.Keywordsirresponsible financial habits, consequences, financial plan, credit card debt, poor credit score, retirement savings, strain on relationships, legal consequences, employment opportunities, budgeting, debt management, early financial educationTakeaways

Irresponsible financial habits can have long-term consequences on one's future.
Credit card debt and poor credit scores can hinder one's ability to invest and save for retirement.
Poor financial habits can strain relationships and marriages.
Financial mismanagement can lead to legal consequences and limit employment opportunities.
Strategies for avoiding financial disasters include budgeting, debt management, and early financial education.
Strain on Relationships and Marriages
Strategies for Avoiding Financial Disasters
"One form of poverty is absence of a plan."
"Usury is now 34.99% on plastic."
"Broke is a state of mind."

TitlesSound BitesChapters00:00

Introduction and Switching to Money

02:41 The Consequences of Irresponsible Financial Habits 05:16 The Impact of Credit Card Debt and Poor Credit Scores

08:44 Strain on Relationships and Marriages

27:27

Strategies for Avoiding Financial Disasters

33:08 Conclusion

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The conversation revolves around the concept of 'son husbands,' where sons take on the role of their mother's husband without any sexual involvement. The guests discuss their thoughts on this topic, with one guest mentioning that it often stems from single mothers putting the burden of being a helper on their sons. They also explore whether single mothers contribute to this syndrome and the lack of balance in raising children without fathers. The conversation touches on the emotional aspect of this dynamic and how it can lead to unhealthy relationships and emotional immaturity in sons. The conversation explores the phenomenon of son-husband relationships, where sons take on the responsibilities of a partner in their relationship with their mothers. The hosts discuss the negative impact of these relationships on the development of boys and the challenges they face as they grow into adulthood. They highlight the importance of childhood development and the need for exposure to different experiences and perspectives. The conversation also touches on the role of fathers in a child's life and the damaging effects of oversharing and relying on children for emotional support. The hosts provide signs that indicate a son-husband relationship and emphasize the need for healthier dynamics within families.Keywordsson husbands, single mothers, emotional burden, lack of balance, unhealthy relationships, emotional immaturity, son-husband relationship, childhood development, exposure, perspectives, fathers, oversharing, emotional support, signs, healthier dynamics

Takeaways

The concept of 'son husbands' refers to sons taking on the role of their mother's husband without any sexual involvement.
Single mothers may unintentionally contribute to the son husband syndrome by placing emotional burdens on their sons.
Raising children without fathers can lead to a lack of balance and emotional immaturity in sons.
The emotional aspect of this dynamic can result in unhealthy relationships and difficulty in handling emotions.
Society's focus on one gender dominating the other can hinder the development of a child
Childhood development requires exposure to different experiences and perspectives.
Fathers play a crucial role in a child's life and should be involved in their upbringing.
Oversharing and relying on children for emotional support can be damaging to their well-being.
Signs of a son-husband relationship include financial responsibility, mediating conflict between parents, and canceling plans with friends to be with the mother.
Healthy family dynamics involve open communication, boundaries, and allowing children to grow and develop their own identities.
Exploring the Concept of 'Son Husbands'
The Emotional Aspect of the Son Husband Dynamic Creating Healthier Family Dynamics
Signs of a Son-Husband Relationship
"A son knowingly or unknowingly takes the role of a husband to their mother, excluding sex."
"Single mothers are contributing to the son husband syndrome, but it's not their fault. They just don't know any better."
"Single mothers may be raising their sons to be the man they always wanted, which sets them up for failure."
"These control conversations have nothing to do with childhood development."
"There's no programs to actually fix this. There's no place for having this conversation."
"Never underestimate the first five years of a child's life."

TitlesSound Bites

Chapters00:00 Introduction and Overview

02:25 Defining 'Son Husbands'

08:17The Role of Single Mothers

11:18 Raising Sons to Fill a Void

16:23 The Lack of Balance Without Fathers

21:38 The Impact of Son-Husband Relationships

23:33 The Importance of Childhood Development and Exposure

25:28 The Damaging Effects of Oversharing and Emotional Reliance

34:45 Signs of a Son-Husband Relationship

38:02 Creating Healthier Family Dynamics

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In this episode we are discussing the history of Mother's Day. The state the first Mother's Day was Celebrated in. What does it mean to be a mother. Remembering what your first mother's day was like. How did you celebrate Mother's Day as a child. Lastly, Sharing stories about mother's day, with my two guest, Ellen Sudderth and Dr. Diane Hassan. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this replay episode we compare, Beauty and compatibility. Which is better for a long term relationship or marriage. Do we focus too much on looks and attractiveness. How important is beauty and attractiveness when compared to compatibility. Lastly, what are some qualities we should look for when choosing a partner, with my guest Marcus Cotton. Visit the website and leave a review.

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This episode is a continuation from last week's episode about dark and light skin Men and Modern day dating. We focus on dark and light skin women as well in this episode and other races came into play. Ellen Sudderth was the guest again on this episode. Visit the website and you will find her information about her book chats and other organizations she is involved with. Leave a review on the website, voice or written, and sign up for the email list.

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In this episode we are discussing how the dating market has changed over the years within the African American community based on skin complexion. We will talk about historical changes, societal stereotypes, cultural differences in different parts of the country, gender comparing dark skin Men and dark skin Women dating options. Lastly, we will talk about how movies play a role in what we think about our skin complexion. Visit the website and leave a review.

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Summary

In this episode, host Andrew Johnson and guest Ellen Sudderth discuss the topic of why good guys with good jobs struggle to attract women. They explore the idea that women are often more interested in creative types or struggling artists, even if they have less attractive faces. They also discuss the concept of sunken cost fallacy, where women may stay in relationships with unemployed men because they have invested so much time and effort into them. The conversation concludes with advice for men with nine-to-five jobs on how to be more successful with women, including having a creative hobby.

Keywords

good guys, good jobs, struggling artists, unemployed men, creative types, sunken cost fallacy, nine-to-five jobs, creative hobbies

Takeaways

Women are often attracted to creative types or struggling artists, even if they have less attractive faces.
The concept of sunken cost fallacy can cause women to stay in relationships with unemployed men because they have invested a lot of time and effort.
Men with nine-to-five jobs can improve their success with women by having a creative hobby or passion.
Simplicity and charisma are attractive qualities that can make up for a lack of traditional attractiveness or financial success.

Titles

The Power of Simplicity and Charisma
Advice for Men with Nine-to-Five Jobs

Sound Bites

"The sax gets them every time."
"You don't have to look good."
"Play that saxophone."

Chapters

00:00

Introduction: Good Guys, Good Jobs, and No Girls

04:09

Why Good Guys Can't Get the Girl

11:07

Why Women Choose Unemployed or Artist Types

26:24

Advice for Men with Nine-to-Five Jobs

32:35

Conclusion: The Power of Simplicity and Charisma

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In this episode we will discuss why simps have a difficult time getting the woman they want. We will give a definition of a Simp. Why some men feel the need to go above and beyond to impress someone they are attracted to. How societal pressures make some men feel they have to over perform in the modern day dating market. Is Simping Bad? What are the biggest signs your a Simp? Lastly, If your a serial Simp, how do you stop Simping. Visit the website and leave a review.

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Summary

In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the concept of going 50-50 in a marriage, which has been a topic of discussion on social media. He explores the changing dynamics of relationships and the role of money in marriages. Johnson emphasizes the importance of managing finances together and having open and honest conversations about money management. He also highlights the perception of value and the unpaid labor that women often contribute to a marriage. Johnson suggests that the best arrangement for a couple may vary, but a common sweet spot is when the man pays 60-70% of the bills and the woman pays the remaining percentage.

Takeaways

Managing finances together is crucial in a marriage and requires open and honest communication.
Women often contribute unpaid labor in a marriage, and it is important to recognize and value their contributions.
The best arrangement for a couple may vary, but a common sweet spot is when the man pays 60-70% of the bills.
Lifestyle expectations and the perception of value can influence the dynamics of a 50-50 marriage.

Sound Bites

Chapters

00:00

Introduction

00:47

New intro music

03:00

Definition of 50-50 dynamic in marriage

04:25

Importance of managing finances together

05:23

Flexibility in financial boundaries

06:45

Different approaches to managing finances

07:40

Regular financial meetings

08:35

Perception of value and unpaid labor

11:58

Challenges and expectations in marriage

15:31

Lifestyle and financial expectations

19:06

Adjusting boundaries and realistic expectations

24:14

Conclusion and podcast updates

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In this conversation, Anthony J Spencer and I discusse his experience working in jail and prison ministry. He shares that addiction was a major issue for the inmates, with drugs being the main cause of their criminal behavior. He emphasizes the importance of helping them find faith and trust in God to overcome their challenges. Anthony also highlights the difficulties inmates face when transitioning back into society, particularly in maintaining healthy relationships. Waymon Daniels warned against relying too heavily on relationships and encourages individuals to focus on their own personal growth and relationship with God. The conversation focused on the challenges faced by new believers and individuals in recovery. It emphasized the importance of addressing their enthusiasm and providing support without squashing their excitement. It also highlighted the struggle of new believers in reconciling the behavior of others in the church with their own beliefs. The conversation emphasized the need for role models and friends who can walk alongside them and offer understanding and encouragement. Additionally, it discussed the difficulty of rebuilding relationships and the importance of relying on God's love and forgiveness.

Takeaways

Addiction, particularly to drugs, was a major issue for inmates in jail and prison.
Helping inmates find faith and trust in God was a crucial aspect of their recovery.
Maintaining healthy relationships was challenging for inmates transitioning back into society.
Relying too heavily on relationships can distract individuals from their personal growth and relationship with God. New believers and individuals in recovery should be supported and encouraged without squashing their enthusiasm.
The behavior of others in the church can be challenging for new believers to reconcile with their own beliefs.
Role models and friends who can walk alongside new believers are crucial for their growth and development.
Rebuilding relationships requires prayer, forgiveness, and making amends where possible.
Relying on God's love and forgiveness is essential, as it cannot be taken away by anyone.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction: Substance Use and Intimate Relationships

01:38

Guest Introductions

06:17

Chapter 2: Intimate Relationships and Addiction Recovery

09:08

Chapter 3: Intimate Relationships and Trust Issues

13:58

Chapter 4: Relationships and Dependency

16:05

Chapter 5: Substance Use and Emotional Abuse

21:51

Chapter 7: Rebuilding Trust in Intimate Relationships

22:23

The Challenges of Transitioning from Prison to Society

23:09

The Importance of Patience and Self-Reflection

23:37

The Role of Empathy in Supporting Former Inmates

24:09

The Struggle of Living Up to Church Expectations

25:12

Being Transparent and Sharing Personal Mistakes

26:19

Finding Support and Role Models in the Church

27:40

The Vulnerability of Post-Prison Planning

28:09

Empathy for Loved Ones Affected by Substance Use

29:18

Rebuilding Relationships and Seeking Forgiveness

30:02

The Healing Power of Self-Transformation

31:20

Reconciliation and Rebuilding Trust

32:15

The Role of God and Faith in Healing Relationships

34:30

Healing Damage in Relationships

37:01

Overcoming Judgment and Naysayers

40:00

The Time and Patience Required for Healing

41:26

Closing Remarks and Future Plans

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Summary
The lack of communication, especially among young people who have grown up with the internet, is a major obstacle in dating. Many struggle with face-to-face interactions and are afraid of making mistakes. There is a stigma around who one should be dating, often based on financial status, which has nothing to do with compatibility. Spending a lot of money on dates can create unrealistic expectations and hinder the development of a genuine connection. Asking for financial assistance or expecting sex in return for expensive dates is not a healthy approach to dating. In this conversation, John X discusses his perspective on dating and relationships. He emphasizes that dating should not be about materialistic experiences or expectations. He believes that asking for expensive gifts and experiences from a potential partner is a disqualification. John X also criticizes hookup culture, stating that it promotes disconnection and lacks intrinsic value. He argues that the system is set up to discourage family units and advocates for the importance of strong relationships and connections. He also shares his theory that dating apps enable wealthy individuals to engage in casual relationships before marrying into their desired social class.
Takeaways
The lack of communication skills, particularly in face-to-face interactions, is a significant challenge in dating.
There is a stigma around who one should be dating, often based on financial status, which is not a reliable indicator of compatibility.
Spending a lot of money on dates can create unrealistic expectations and hinder the development of a genuine connection.
Asking for financial assistance or expecting sex in return for expensive dates is not a healthy approach to dating. Dating should not be about materialistic experiences or expectations.
Asking for expensive gifts and experiences from a potential partner is a disqualification.
Hookup culture promotes disconnection and lacks intrinsic value.
The system is set up to discourage family units and strong relationships.
Dating apps may enable wealthy individuals to engage in casual relationships before marrying into their desired social class.
Chapters
00:00
Introduction to Modern Day Dating
01:08
Common Issues with Modern Day Dating
05:39
High Expectations in Dating
07:11
The Expectation of Expensive Dates
09:11
The Influence of Single-Parent Upbringing on Dating Expectations
12:18
Expectations of Single Mothers
21:36
Disconnect in Modern Dating
23:32
The Impact of Mobile Dating and Hookup Culture
24:31
Difficulties in Establishing Genuine Connections
27:02
The Disadvantages of Hookup Culture
29:35
The Erosion of Society and the Greater Good
38:01
FOMO: Fear of Missing Out
42:16
The Consequences of the Hookup Culture

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In this episode we are gonna talk about do you believe in Soulmates. Where did the term Soulmates originate, Who believes in Soulmates more men or women. Can you be Soulmates with friends. Lastly, what are some other terms used in today's society that describes a soulmate with our guest License Professional Counselor, Judi Winbush. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode, the hosts discuss whether a salary of $70,000 per year is enough to buy a home. They provide statistics on household income and explore different types of loans that can help make homeownership more affordable. The conversation covers the 28/36 rule, which determines the percentage of income that should be allocated to housing costs. The hosts also discuss the advantages and considerations of buying foreclosed homes. They emphasize the importance of credit repair and saving for a down payment. The episode concludes with advice for first-time homebuyers and an invitation to join the podcast's email list for additional resources.

Takeaways

Household income statistics show that the average household earns about $70,000 per year.
Location plays a significant role in determining whether a salary of $70,000 per year is enough to buy a home.
Different types of loans, such as FHA and USDA loans, can help make homeownership more affordable.
The 28/36 rule suggests that no more than 28% of income should be allocated to housing costs, and no more than 36% to total debt.
Buying foreclosed homes can offer opportunities for bargains, but it's important to thoroughly inspect the property and understand the risks involved.
Improving credit and saving for a larger down payment can help secure better loan terms and lower monthly payments.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction

02:01

Statistics on Household Income

03:31

Is 70K a Year Enough to Buy a Home?

04:28

Buying a House in Today's Housing Market

05:17

Affordability and Debt Ratios

06:31

Different Types of Loans

10:51

Determining Affordability

12:04

Interest Rates and Buying Decisions

22:11

Mortgage Payment vs. Price per Square Foot

23:26

Impact of Higher Interest Rates

28:43

Buying Foreclosed Properties

30:48

Advantages of Buying Foreclosed Homes

31:57

Advice for First-Time Homebuyers

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This episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast explores the topic of disciplined men versus undisciplined men, and who is winning. The host defines discipline and discusses the consequences of being an undisciplined man. The importance of self-discipline as an attribute for men is emphasized, along with its role in preparing for marriage. The 80-20 principle is introduced, highlighting the dynamics of relationships and dating. The episode concludes by discussing the habits of a disciplined man.

Takeaways

Self-discipline is an important attribute for men to develop.
Undisciplined men may appear to be winning in the short term, but they often face negative consequences in the long run.
The 80-20 principle applies to various aspects of life, including relationships and dating.
Habits of a disciplined man include self-control, goal-setting, and fulfilling promises.

Chapter

00:00

Disciplined Men vs Undisciplined Men

02:12

Undisciplined Men Winning in Society

03:44

Definition of Discipline

04:44

Consequences of Being an Undisciplined Man

05:08

Importance of Self-Discipline

09:26

Self-Discipline as Preparation for Marriage

10:43

The 80-20 Principle

15:30

Undisciplined Men in Their 20s

24:32

Habits of a Disciplined Man

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We will give a description of disrespect in relationships. Why respect is a major factor in relationships? Different ways Men and Women disrespect each other? What are some signs of disrespect? Lastly how do you handle disrespect in relationships? Visit the website and leave a voice or email review.

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In this episode we discussed how negative peer influences can effect our thoughts and persaude us to use illicit drugs. We gave a definition of peer pressure. Further gave some stats on negative peer influence, we discuss types of peer pressure. Next we talked about other risk factors for drug addiction. Lastly we gave some tips to resist negative peer influence, with our guest, Robert Prasch, Greg's Take, and Corey White. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we will talk about the reasons why some men can't provide. How important is it for a man to protect and provide in relationships and marriage. Does a man need to feel he can provide. If a man suffers a career ending disability should the woman leave or stay. Are we marrying for lifestyle or love. Is 50/50 in a marriage acceptable for today's woman. Lastly, is there a generation of men who don't want to protect and provide, with our returning guest Ellen Sudderth, author interviewer. Visit the website and leave a voice message and review.

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In this episode we are talking about Pre-Selection as a way to choose a partner. Why do Women use pre-selection when dating. What are the risk for Women who engage in pre-selection? What men do to qualify a woman for marriage. Lastly what are some traits men need in order to be pre-selected. John X and Ellen Sudderth called in and added to the conversation. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode, Andrew Johnson and guest Greg Stake discuss conscious spending and financial goals. They define conscious spending as deliberately and mindfully deciding where and how to spend money. They explore reasons why people may not consciously spend, such as habit and fear. They emphasize the importance of tracking spending and creating a financial system. They also discuss the breakdown of financial allocation and the importance of measurable and achievable financial goals. They touch on the concept of conscious borrowing and the commitment required to build wealth.

Takeaways

Conscious spending involves deliberately and mindfully deciding where and how to spend money.
Tracking spending is an important financial habit that helps individuals understand their financial situation.
Financial goals should be measurable and achievable to ensure progress and success.
Conscious borrowing involves making informed decisions about borrowing money and considering the impact on future finances.
Building wealth requires commitment, discipline, and a long-term perspective.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction: Conscious Spending and Financial Goals

02:14

Definition of Conscious Spending

03:53

Reasons for Not Consciously Spending

07:23

Impulse Spending and Window Dressing

08:09

The Importance of Tracking Spending

10:12

The Breakdown of Financial Allocation

11:31

Creating a Financial System

16:33

The Importance of Daily Disciplines

18:01

Financial Goals: Measurable and Achievable

21:10

Conscious Borrowing and Financial Planning

23:19

The Importance of Realistic Financial Goals

27:32

The Commitment to Building Wealth

28:00

Closing Remarks and Call to Action

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Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, the host and his guests discuss men and addiction. They cover topics such as the causes of the high, current statistics on drug overdoses, how drugs work in the body, personal experiences with addiction, reasons for using drugs, consequences of substance use, and the effects of substance use on relationships.

Takeaways

Drug addiction can have devastating consequences on individuals and their relationships.
Understanding the reasons why people choose to get high can help in prevention and treatment efforts.
Different drugs have different effects on the body, and some can lead to physical and psychological dependence.
Substance abuse can be a result of seeking pleasure, relief from pain, or a desire to fit in.
It is important to address substance use issues early and seek help to prevent further harm.

Chapters

00:00

The Men in Addiction Series, What Causes the High?

01:08

Introduction to the Men and Addiction Series

04:04

Current Statistics on Drug Overdoses

07:13

How Drugs Work in the Body

09:03

Personal Experiences with Addiction

12:22

Reasons for Using Drugs

16:31

Consequences of Substance Use

23:00

Difference Between Abuse and Dependence

27:35

Effects of Substance Use on Relationships

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In this episode we will discuss why some women aren't attracted to men who work a 9 to 5 job. How much of this is a lifestyle choice? Is there a creativity bonus component? Do some women believe that men who work 9 to 5 will never be wealthy. Lastly, we will go over some reasons why working a 9 to 5 will always be around and never go out of style. There is a poll question on Spotify asking would you date or marry someone with a 9 to 5. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this final episode of 2023 we do a year in review pertaining to what we did in 2023, beginning with attending Podfest Expo to Introducing video episodes. Further we discussed the growth of the podcast, and what's in store for 2024. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode I interviewed Dr. Diane Saliba Hassan. She is the author of the book "Angels Among Us... Even in Iraq. We discuss her journey from growing up in a small town in Alabama, ultimately getting married and moving to Iraq. Dr. Hassan and her husband survived two wars and several years of house arrest. Through the grace of God, Dr. Hassan her husband, and son were able to return to her home town in the United States. Let me know what you think about Diane's story by visiting the show website and leaving a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we are celebrating our 100th episode with previous guest coming on talking about their experience coming on the show and offering congratulations. In addition we did have a listener of the show come on and express his thoughts about the podcast. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode, the host discusses the process of finding a good wife. He emphasizes the importance of self-improvement and self-awareness in the mate selection process. The role of emotional intelligence in choosing a mate is also explored. The host addresses why men have made finding a wife less of a priority in the modern dating market. He provides insights on what to look for in a potential wife and suggests various places to find potential partners. The episode concludes with a reminder to focus on finding a good wife rather than a perfect one.

Takeaways

Self-improvement and self-awareness are crucial in the mate selection process.
Emotional intelligence plays a significant role in choosing a mate.
Men have made finding a wife less of a priority due to various factors, including societal influences.
When looking for a potential wife, consider factors such as attractiveness, education level, compatibility, and communication skills.
Potential partners can be found in daily encounters, online dating, friend circles, workplaces, community functions, and religious settings.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction: How to Find a Good Wife

02:30

The Importance of the Mate Selection Process

06:11

The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Choosing a Mate

10:26

Considering Past Experiences in Mate Selection

14:20

Why Men Have Made Finding a Wife Less of a Priority

18:32

What to Look for in a Potential Wife

23:21

Where to Find Potential Wives

27:24

Finding a Good Wife, Not a Perfect One

28:51

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In this episode we will talk about if self-awareness is considered sexy. We will give a definition of Self Awareness. Why is self-awareness an attractive trait? How self-awareness is the starting point for Self Improvement? Why self-awareness requires honesty, and accountability? Lastly, how do you know when someone lacks self-awareness. Visit the website and leave a voice or written review. In addition sign up for the email list to receive information in advance about the next show, and bonus content.

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In this episode we will talk about is marriage doomed in the west. We will discuss why the Millenial and Gen Z generation are putting off marriage? How has social media effected the marriage rate? Why should we be concerned about the current state of marriage? What can be done to increase the rate of marriage? Lastly, what are the advantages of a healthy marriage? Visit the website and leave a voice or written review.

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In this episode we will discuss what you can do if you haven't started saving and investing for your future. Why is it important to invest for the long term? What are some strategies to help you save for the long term? How the financial male prime years can help you invest more into your future? Lastly, what are the advantages to working longer, with my returning guest Greg's Take, Real Estate Investor.

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In this episode we will talk about marriage and if it's a good deal for men. Why marriage can be a good deal for men? Are there disadvantages to being married? Does marriage benefit your offspring, compared to having children out of wedlock. Are there health benefits to being married? Lastly, does marriage improve a man's overall financial status. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we will discuss sexual discipline men. We will give a definition of sexual discipline, we will also give a definition of promiscuity. Are sexually disciplined men attractive to women? Can sexual discipline improve your relationship or marriage? Do sexually disciplined men ultimately get what they want? and Lastly, is sexual discipline the foundation to Self-Confidence. Visit the website and leave a voice or email review.

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In this episode we will discuss betrayal in relationships. We will give a definition of betrayal. Is there a defense against betrayal? What are the two most common types of betrayals? how do you get past a betrayal? Lastly, Why do some people betray us? Visit the website and leave a voicemail or a written review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Check out the instagram page the313menmoneymarriage

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In this episode we will talk about the emasculation of American men. Is there a noticeable change in male masculinity in the current generation. Are single parent households a contributing factor? What can men do to prevent this from happening? When Women earn more money than Men does that automatically emasculate men? Lastly, what are some ways Women emasculate Men, with my returning guest Mr. Waymon Daniels. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss why so many people want to invest in real estate. How do you get started in real estate investing? How to avoid scams and frauds? What are the different types of loans you can use for real estate investing? Lastly what are some ways you can invest in real estate without owning physical properties, with our returning guest Greg's Take. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss the importance of building wealth over your lifetime. First we will talk about why so many people struggle with building wealth. Why building wealth is easier than you think? What are some techniques you can use to start building wealth? Lastly, we will list some resources you can use to learn about investing and finance. Visit the website and leave a review, or get on the email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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This episode is a continuation of last weeks episode focusing more on saving and positive money habits. Last weeks guest Greg's Take returns to share strategies on how to save your first 100K. We will discuss why it is important to your finances seriously in your twenties. The importance of maximizing your 401k plan. How to use compound interest to your advantage. Establishing good money habits. How to prevent consumer debt from ruining your financial future. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss how some people have a toxic relationship with their finances. We will talk about, what is your money personality type? What can you do to address your toxic relationship with money? What are some of the biggest money mistakes? Can having a budget help cure your toxic money management? Lastly what are some signs you have an unhealthy money mindset, with my special guest Greg's Take, retired banker, and real estate investor. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this bonus episode we are going to discuss health and awareness, organ donation. We will talk about the importance of organ donation. What is the process for waiting on an organ? Is there a shortage of organ donors? and Lastly what has changed in organ donation in the last twenty years, with our special guest Wallace Green. Visit the website and leave a voice or email review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss, should you stay friends with your Ex. when does being friends with an ex, makes sense? When being friends with an ex isn't in your best interest? Are there times when you have to be friends with an ex. Should you take a break before reestablishing a friendship with an ex? Lastly, what if you are in a new relationship or marriage?

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In this episode we will talk about are women choosing to be single. Is being single a choice. Does being married and having children a requirement for happiness? Are some women afraid to be vunerable, or are they simply approaching relationships with caution? Are past relationship traumas causing women to give up on marriage? Lastly Why are men choosing the women they ultimately end up marrying? Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this we will talk about high value men. First we will give a definition of a high value man. Why do high value men have purpose? Why do a majority of women chase after these men? What do high value men want in a woman. Lastly,of men where is the most financially fertile ground for women who want to get married, with my returning guest, author, interviewer Ellen Sudderth. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we will discuss importance of a father's role in the home. What are the effects of absent fathers in the home. Without Dad, who are the son's role models. What can single mother's do to improve their son's overall outcome. Is there a lack of supervision in the home when headed by a single mother? Lastly, we will go over 7 things a son needs from his father, with my returning guest Mr. Waymon Daniels. Visit the website and leave a voice or email review.

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In this episode we discussed, why we have to always work on our marriage. Is marriage always hard. What are the most important things in a marriage? What do you if your partner is withholding emotions? Lastly, How do you handle trauma in your marriage, with our returning guest Marcus Cotton. In addition Marcus will talk about his new podcast that he and his wife Jessica Cotton just started. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss the benefits and challenges of being a single dad. We will discuss how many single dads currently are raising children. What are the positive outcomes of children raised by single dads? What is the education and income level of single fathers? Lastly, why do we neglect or ignore the contributions of single dads compared to single moms, with our special guest, John X. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss whether blue collar men earn enough money for today's modern woman. We will discuss the average salary for men in the country. Are educated women looking past blue collar men. Do blue collar men tend to be good shepherds with their money, and Lastly, Is hyper-consumerism affecting our marriage choices, with my returning guest Mr. Robert Prasch. Visit the website and leave a voice or written review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss, what's your talent? We will discuss the importance of knowing what is your God given talent? What are the talents? The importance of a support system once you find out your God Given talent? How negative thoughts can attack your weak spots? and Lastly, How your talent create financial opportunities that can last a lifetime? Visit the website and leave review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode I will discuss if generation X is ready for retirement. I will first give a definition of who are the generation Xer's. Is there a lack of education and understanding? If generation Xers are lagging in retirement savings, Why is this the case? Will Social Security be enough to retire on for Gen Xers. How Gen Xers are the first generation heading into retirement without a defined benefit retirement plan. Can the labor shortage benefit Gen Xers in their preparation for retirement? Lastly, what strategies can be implemented to assist Gen Xers in their preparation for retirement? Visit the website and leave a voice review, and get on the email list for information pertaining to the show. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss the topic of when wives earn more than their husbands. First we will discuss should we embrace the trend? Why are more wives are becoming the breadwinner? When the woman makes more, does the power dynamic change in the household. Does it make the man feel insecure? Does the partner who earns more feel they should have more say in the decision making? Can this lead to resentment in the marriage, and lastly, What can we do to make the marriage work, with my special guest Nancy Abramson, success coach. Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss whether you have an addiction to debt. We will talk about why some of us are addicted to debt. Are our choices to spend money influenced by what we see our neighbors. What can we do to increase our return on our retirement accounts? Do we have a toxic relationship with money? Lastly, how does our Self Concept affect how we spend money? Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss monkey branching in your relationships. We will give a definition of monkey branching. What is the difference between rebounding and monkey branching? Why do people monkey branch? Do monkey branch relationship last, and what is the success rate? Is there such a thing as monkey branch karma. Joining me is my High School friend Mr. Charles Wisher. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will talk about the friend zone. How we may have made a mistake friend zoning someone who was a potential wife or husband. We will discuss why we friend zone people who are good for us. Why do we want what we can't have? If you could do things differently, would you. Do we think we can get better? Lastly, did the person you friend zoned get married to someone else. Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss what it is to be attractive, What are the differences between men and women pertaining to what they find attractive? Is attractiveness the key to finding love. Do relationships based on looks last a lifetime? How important is physical attraction in your partner, with our returning guest Marcus Cotton. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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Due to the popularity of last weeks episode, we are doing a part two but from a woman's perspective. We will discuss what is a definition of a good man. How the Four Pillars of Manhood play a role in becoming a good man. Are women emotionally ready for what they are wanting in a good man. Lastly what some signs a woman has a good man, with my returning guest Ellen Sudderth, author, interviewer. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode, we will discuss, is there a shortage of good men. We will give a definition of a good man. Is there really a shortage of good men. Are some women a good catch in today's dating market. Are some men dropping out of the dating market. and Lastly, are the men women want emotionally ready for marriage, with my returning guest Waymon Daniels. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we will give a definition of Toxic Masculinity. How does toxic masculinity contribute to your mental health? Why is Toxic Masculinity is physically unhealthy? Why are some women drawn to toxic men, and Lastly, What happens to men when they can't express their feelings? In the coming weeks we are going to have new first time guest appearing on the podcast. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss What are boundaries, in relationships, Why are boundaries important? We will give a definition of healthy and unhealthy boundaries. In addition we will talk about where unhealthy boundaries come from. Lastly we will go over some examples of healthy and unhealthy boundaries. Visit the website and leave a review. In addition you can get on the email list and know in advance what the next episode will be about.

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In this episode we will talk about what are the most common deal breakers for men and women. What are some non-dating related deal breakers? Have you ever ghosted someone once you found out they had an absolute deal breaker? Lastly, we will break down deal breakers between men and women in committed relationships, with our special guest Marvin Kinnel CEO of Klock Werk Entertainment. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we will discuss why is it important to communicate about finances in your relationship. How do you talk about finances with your partner? Why assertive communication is an effective way to communicate when discussing money in a relationship? What you and your partner can do to become more financially literate? Lastly, should you have a financial planner or advisor help mediate the conversation. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we are discussing how much you should spend on a wedding. How much are you willing to spend for the big day? How much does the average wedding cost? How do you create a wedding budget? How can you cut costs for your wedding? Lastly, what are some ways you can pay for your wedding? Visit the website are leave a voice message or a review.

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In this episode we will discuss why at times, situation ship breakups feel worse than the relationship breakups. Why do we invest so much emotionally in the situation ship? Why do we get into situation ships in the first place? Are situation ships contributing to the decline in the marriage rate? and Lastly, why do we stay in situation ships when we know it will eventually come to an end. We are experimenting with a new format, that's why the episode is longer than normal. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we will discuss, when should you jump back into the dating market. What has changed since you last went on a date? What should you expect when dating after a divorce? How high should you set your expectations? Do men and women approach dating after a divorce differently? and Lastly how should you handle dating when there are children involved, with our special guest Ellen Sudderth, author, interviewer.

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In this bonus episode we will discuss several different indicators for Economic success. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we will discuss the importance of your net worth. We will give a definition of net worth and how to calculate it. What is the Average and Median net worth of the American Family? What is the net worth of Americans based on age, race, and education? Lastly, If you have a low net worth, what can you do to improve the total amount? Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we will discuss do the boys who were called corny in High School, become classy men. The men and women who called you corny, where are they now? Why do we put down others for doing what is expected of them? Does being called corny make men want to date outside their race? Why do we call men corny for having dreams and ambitions. Lastly when men enter their physical prime, why do the women who called you corny want you now. Visit the website and leave a voicemail or review.

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In this episode we will discuss how car payments and credit cards can have a adverse affect on our household and long term wealth. We will go over the attraction of buying a new car over a used car. How to determine the amount of car you can afford? Does your credit score play a role in the purchases you make? Are your credit card balances preventing you form achieving your long term financial goals, Does owning a nice car and having access to credit give you a false sense of security, and lastly, what can you do to make sure you have a reasonable car payment and low or no credit card balances.

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In this episode we will discuss how to manage your household finances. What is the CFO's responsibility in the home? Why is it important to have a CFO in your household? How often should you have a conversation about finances with your spouse? Lastly, what are some things you can do to ensure financial stability in your household. Visit the website and leave a review

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In this episode we will discuss how to handle adversity in a marriage. First, we will give a definition of Adversity in relationships, Next what you should and should not do when adversity comes into your marriage. How do you handle adversity in a marriage? What to do when financial Adversity occurs? Lastly, what are some signs that your relationship will last, with our returning guest Jessica and Marcus Cotton. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we will discuss surviving prostate and lung cancer with our very special guest and cancer survivor Mark Freeman. The episode will talk about the emotions you experience with a cancer diagnosis, how important it is to get screened for certain cancers, and lastly the importance of a good support system. This bonus content was prepared to provide inspiration, and hope for anyone with a diagnosis of cancer. How family and friends can be a huge support for someone battling this disease. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we will discuss are average women attracted to average men, we will give a definition of hypergamy, and the role it plays in the modern day dating market. Are we afraid of being average? Why do women think so many men are unattractive? What do men rate themselves pertaining to their physical appearance? Lastly what are the qualities women look for in a man. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we talk about why women are having a hard time finding a good man. I will give a definition of a good man. Are women excluding the Blue Collar Man? We will use the Female Delusional Calculator to see if Women have a chance to get the man of their dreams. Do women know what a good man wants? Lastly, are women waiting too long to secure a good man. Visit the website leave a review and get on the email list

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In this episode we will talk about whether you should consider someone's education level when picking a potential spouse. Is education level a predictor of a lasting marriage? What is the salary range for someone who has a degree vs a High School Diploma? Does having a college degree increase your chances of being married? Does race ethnicity, and education factor in long term marriage success? Lastly should you Co-habituate prior to marriage. Visit the website and leave voicemail or written review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode I will discuss how a percentage of men are lonely and single. Are Women becoming more selective in choosing a husband. Is the unattractive man less appealing than in previous generations? Is there a social skills and communication gap between the genders. How can men make themselves more attractive to women? Lastly, do men have to become emotionally available in order to stay in a committed relationship. If you have a Spotify account, you can watch a video of the episode. Visit the website, and leave a review, voicemail, or get on the email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss, how we can use the Bible for practical modern financial application, with our returning guest Desmond Douglas Financial Advisor and author of "In God we Trust A Bible Study About Money. Visit the website and leave a review or voice message www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss, why are some people financially irresponsible? What is the goal of a financially irresponsible person. What are the signs of a person who is financially irresponsible. How do you deal with them? Lastly, what are the ramifications of marrying a financially irresponsible person. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we will discuss, what are women looking for in a man. Who is the prize the man or the woman? Are women looking in the wrong places? What are men looking for in a woman? Lastly what type of man can woman get to commit to her? Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we discuss how to effectively balance career, and family. What conversations should you have with your spouse about your career aspirations? How to spend quality time with your children? Lastly what are some strategies you can use to maintain and balance a marriage, with my special guest Judi Winbush, License Professional Counselor. Visit the website and leave a review, or voice message.

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In this episode we will discuss why its important to have a healthy marriage, and what are the keys to a successful marriage. How being self-aware before marriage is essential to being a good spouse? Effective Communication strategies, Why is it important to sacrifice in a marriage? and keeping your financial house in order, with our guest, Jessica and Marcus Cotton. Visit the website and leave a review.

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In this episode we will discuss how the 3 13 men, money, and marriage came into existence. What were my expectations? Why did I start the podcast? How the podcast is performed in 2022, and what to expect going into 2023. Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss, does having a girlfriend make men more attractive. We will talk about what is mate choice copying? Are there advantages to choosing someone who is already in a relationship? What are the disadvantages? Do Women think men in relationships have more positive qualities? Lastly are women influenced by other women's choices in men? Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will talk about what are the top priorities of the modern independent woman, are these choices affecting the marriage rate. Is society prioritizing women in the workforce over family? Does the law of least resistance play a role in some women's choices. Lastly in modern times do women even need a man. Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we are going to talk about debt in a marriage. Should you bring debt into your marriage, what kind of questions should you ask your partner about debt. How as a couple do you handle and make decisions about debt? Lastly, what are some ways you can tackle marriage debt, with my special guest Robert Prasch. Check out the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss why some men get in relationships with toxic women, why do some women love men with red flags. What are some of the red flags in men, women should be aware of? What are some relationship red flags women display? Lastly what are the long term consequences of dating someone with red flags. Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/andrew-johnson03/message

In this episode we are going to discuss, what are the similarities of a thriving business and a successful marriage. Do we pick the salesperson or the customer service representative. How can a business and marriage last for generations? Lastly what are some strategies for a long-term successful business and marriage. Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode I will discuss three adversaries for self improvement. I will talk about what they are, how they prevent self improvement, and what you can do to ensure these things don't interfere with your long term goals. Visit the website and leave a voice message www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss if our wants outweigh our needs, Do our expectations place an undue burden on our partner? Do we expect our partner to make a certain amount of money? Lastly are you coming into the relationship with unhealthy boundaries with my special guest Soulful Renee. Check out the website and leave a review and sign up to get on the email list www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode, I will discuss why your twenties are an important decade of your life, the importance of having a mentor during this period. What things you can do to increase your level of success, and lastly how establishing good savings habits can lead to a successful financial future. Check out the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-man-and-marriage

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In this episode we will give a definition of Dollar-Cost Averaging. How it can reduce price volatility. How to use dollar cost averaging to benefit your long-term investing strategy. The downside to dollar cost averaging, and lastly what investment vehicles can you use to dollar cost average. Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we discuss the biggest challenges of being a stepparent. How to handle adverse situations that can occur. What you should never do as a stepparent, and lastly the benefits of the parent child relationship, with our returning guest Waymon Daniels. Check out the website and leave a review, and a voice recording www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode, we will discuss why entrepreneurs are at risk for health related issues. Is the drive to succeed causing more health problems. The mental health challenges that entrepreneurs struggle with, and lastly what can entrepreneurs do to stay healthy, with our returning guest Steve Cunningham. Visit the website and leave a voice or written review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode, we discuss what role a father plays in his daughter's life, what a daughter needs from her father? What are the positive benefits and what are the challenges of raising daughters, and how does a father support her decisions with our special guest Waymon Daniels. Check out the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will talk about how men will know if she is the one for him. We will discuss how much does woman's beauty play into a man's decision to marrying a woman. What does it mean to be a good wife? What percentage on a man's wish list will he be satisfied with, and lastly what are the qualities of a good wife. Go visit the website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we talk about, the different types of nice guys. Are nice guy bad boyfriends? Why does it seem that the bad boys get all the girls? Is there a middle ground between the bad boy and the nice guy ,and do nice guys win over the long term. Visit the website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage and leave a review.

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In this episode we will discuss, Why is it important for women to find a man with an optimistic mindset. Why is Optimism a hallmark for success, Why Pessimists often underachieve, Why Optimistic men display self confidence, and are goal oriented, and Why women should be in a relationship with an Optimistic man. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss what is it like to be a stay at home Dad. Why are more men choosing to stay at home with the children? What are the challenges of being a stay at home Dad? What are the advantages and disadvantages of being a stay at home Dad, with our special guest David Dahlin. Visit the website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss how men have to take a leading or equal role in managing the finances of the household. We will discuss how to pay your bills Do you pay using electronic bill pay? How to utilize the 50/30/20 rule, and how this rule can prepare for retirement. Visit the website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we will discuss, are women emotionally attracted to the wrong person. We will talk about who is the wrong person, how do you know if the person is wrong for you, how do you prevent the cycle of dating the wrong person, and lastly, how do you know if he is invested in you. Visit the website and leave a review or leave a voice message www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we discuss the financial prime years of a man. Why is there a male financial prime? When does the financial prime begin and end? Is there a female financial prime? Lastly how a man's financial prime years has benefits for himself and his family. Visit the website and leave a voice message, and a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we talk about the dangers of committing financial infidelity. We will give a definition of financial infidelity, we will go over some signs of financial infidelity, the strain it places on the marriage and what can be done if someone is financially cheating on their spouse, with my guest Marcus Cotton. visit the website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we discuss if there is a shortage of economically attractive men. Are women's expectations too high? What is a realistic salary for a potential husband? These questions and more with my special guest, Desmond Douglas Certified Financial Advisor. Check out the website, and leave a voicemail, email, and a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode I will answer questions that the listeners submitted. In addition I will give a preview of what's coming up in season 2. Check out the website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode I talk with the creator and founder of The Art of Manhood mentoring program Mr. Godfrey White. We discuss the imporatnce of mentoring programs, the benefits the children receive being a part of the program, the benefits for the mentors, and lastly how more mentoring programs would be a benefit to all communities in the country. The website for The art of Manhood program www.theartofmanhood.org the facebook page @theartofmanhood Go check out the podcast website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode I will compare men, and women, spending habits. Which group spends more, what do they purchase. Which group carries more debt? Which group is better at saving and investing, and how men and women can compliment each other in a marriage to reach their long term financial goals. If you haven't done so, check out the website where you can leave a review, a voice recording and get on the email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we discuss the term soulmates and if men and women believe in soulmates. In addition we discuss the origins of the term soulmates, and, how does it apply to friendships as well as romantic relationships, with my returning guest Judi Winbush. Licenced Counselor. For more information go to the website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we discuss how debt can prevent you from reaching your short and long term goals. The importance of debt to income ratio, and staying away from the instant gratification cycle. Lastly how debt can prevent you from getting a high paying job, and hurt your chances of getting a home. All this is discussed with my guest Marcus Cotton. Check out the webpage

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In this episode I discuss why men and women choose the wrong partners for long term relationships or a marriage. I will cover the reasons why men and women choose the way they do, and what are some of the consequences of their poor choices. Check out the website

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In this episode we talk about the out of wedlock statistics in the country, and how they have changed over the years. The differences between a baby mama and a single mother. The advantages and disadvantages of marrying a woman with children. Next disciplining step children, and lastly what are some of men's fears about marrying a woman with children. Also check out the new website

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In this episode I will discuss the importance of having a good credit score, How your credit score is calculated, How a bad credit score can effect your relationship or marriage, and how your credit score can effect you getting a good job.

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In this episode I discuss with my two guest Marcus Cotton and Dr. Charles Lewis what it means to be a father. What was our reaction when we first found out that we were going to be a Dad, and how will we feel when the last child leaves the home. In addition Dr. Lewis has a book titled 28 Black History Makers. Also check out our new website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode I will discuss the decade of your forties. The decade that is often referred to by some as the time when life begins. Your health, homeownership, relationships, and your legacy will all be discussed. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode we discuss how making poor decisions about money can ruin a marriage. We offer suggestions that can prevent you from making a decision that can put unwanted stress on your marriage, with my returning guest Judi Winbush Licenced Professional Counselor.

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In this episode I discuss how our emotions can cause us to make poor financial decisions that can have an adverse effect on our lives. Further by planning and controlling our emotions we can improve our financial standing. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage

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In this episode I discuss how the 80/20 principle can assist you in personal development and improving relationship outcomes.

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In this episode I will discuss the decade of your thirties, what some people call the Self Awareness decade. How your decisions have an impact on your finances, and relationships.

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In this episode I discuss how our views on interracial marriage has changed over the years. In addition how common is interracial marriage now compared to 60 years ago. What do the numbers tell us.

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In this episode we discuss what men and women are looking for in a long term relationship or marriage with our special guest License Professional Counselor Judi Winbush.

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In this episode I will discuss the importance of having Dad in the home, and how his presence has an impact on his children's future.

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In this episode I will discuss the benefits of making wise investments as well as smart financial decisions with my guest Desmond Douglas.

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In this episode we will discuss how some people are blessed with kinesthetics, and how sports and competition can help us form long term relationships, with our special guests Steve Cunningham and his son Steven Cunningham.

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In this explore we explore why so many of us think we are above average, and nobody wants to be with an average man or woman.

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In this episode I discuss how the Female and Male prime years differ, and how those differences affect relationships and ultimately marriage.

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In this episode I discuss how money emotions and poor decisions can effect your relationships with guest Robert Barkley

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During this episode I will discuss the importance of your first decade as an adult, your twenties. Why is the time of your life important and how the decisions you make during this period will effect you for the rest of your life.

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In this very first episode the host will introduce himself to the audience, and talk about how the Four Pillars of Manhood can lay the foundation to becoming a man.

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The trailer will describe what the Men, money, and Marriage podcast is all about.

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