This world is full of lies. The Not On My Watch Podcast tells the truth and talks about the real issues in the family and in the church. Through study of Scripture, research, and humor, Jeff and Rochelle boldly declare an exit to mediocrity and share how to live authentic lives that challenge and inspire listeners. Topics you will hear on this podcast include how to build a God-honoring and enjoyable marriage, raising Christian kids in a morally corrupt world, discerning humanism from the truth of the Bible, the challenges facing church leaders in a divided world, how God is using both men and women to make an impact in the world today, and much more!
The body always catches up! Despite our best efforts to grind it out or to suppress traumatic events, our physical bodies eventually reveal the hidden impact of stress. In a deeply personal episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss in practical terms what it means for the body to keep the score. Prompted by a previous article written by Rochelle on the topic, this episode dives into more detail about an issue that few people discuss but many are wrestling with. Take a listen!
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Alarmingly, there is a growing trend among people, groups, and even organizations to silence others who may disagree with them. In some cases, this behavior is used in an attempt to cover up abuse or misconduct. Oftentimes, these tactics are employed in such subtle ways that those who experience their effects are rendered powerless in the moment. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss some of the methods in which people are silenced, why they are silenced, and what to do about it. Listen in, as talking about these issues is one of the ways healing can occur. Silence is NEVER the preferable option, even though others will pressure you to think it is.
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With the arrival of each new year there is an almost unhesitating acceptance of the reality that our world will continue to grow more complicated. New technologies, discoveries, and much more content than you and I could ever consume leave us feeling overwhelmed with the growing complexity of our world. In too many cases, the Church has surrendered to this unfortunate tendency. But what if Jesus is calling His Bride to something different in 2025? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss what it looks like for God’s people to pursue a life of simplicity. Jesus didn’t promise to build His MACHINE. He promised to build His Church. And THIS Church is far less complicated than we have often made it. Take a listen!
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We’ve all heard it! Especially during this time of year. “People need to stop being so political!” What if we as parents need to start being MORE political? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle make the biblical case for why every parent needs to talk to their kids about politics. As pleasant as it sounds, you will not find the case for an apolitical stance in Scripture. If we want to equip our kids to think deeply about important issues impacting their life, we will help them to cultivate a biblical worldview toward politics. Take a listen!
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It’s time for parents to start talking! In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the implications of the staggering statistic that 43% of parents NEVER talk to their kids about their faith. But all is not lost, because parents can reverse this trend by taking some things seriously. Jeff and Rochelle identify key components that must be present between parent and child if the faith of one generation is to be passed on to the next. This cannot be ignored. Silence is not the answer!
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Some lessons become strikingly clear when you are placed in a position for which you have no other option other than to experience them in tangible ways. These lessons certainly fall into that category! In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss what they have learned from experiencing homelessness. While they still have a roof over their head, Jeff and Rochelle discuss their experience without one church to call their home. Listen in, as every person who cares about the local church needs to look through the lens of a visitor.
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The harm that cell phones inflict on this next generation is well documented, causing many parents to wish they had waited. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle give a glimpse of what life is like with another cell phone user in the house. Listen in, as they discuss their “no regrets” decision to delay cell phone usage and the results that this one choice can have on the home and the health of your child.
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The world we live in is harshest to those most vulnerable among us, our kids. So how do we shepherd the hearts of our children when they are increasingly surrounded by wolves? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle continue their “No Regrets” series as they discuss the monumental task of shepherding our children as they navigate an increasingly dangerous situation. Tune in, as they discuss courageous actions every parent must be willing to take if they are to cultivate a spiritual environment where their children can thrive.
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Standing for the truth is never easy and often comes with a price. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle continue their discussion of what will often happen to a person who decides to stand for godly convictions. Since one episode is not sufficient to cover this topic and since many people are experiencing this reality in greater measure, Jeff and Rochelle discuss three surprising responses someone of conviction will often experience. Listen in to this key episode, so that you can navigate the increasing hostility of our age.
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In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle share some very exciting news as they give an update about the ministry and their family. Listen in as they share details that have been in the works and how you can be involved. As doors open into a new season of increased effectiveness, the Not On My Watch message will continue to impact families, homes, churches, schools, politics, and everywhere God continues to open the door. Exciting days are ahead!
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Being a person of conviction requires the willingness to continue to stand even when others don’t. In part two of their “No Regrets” series, Jeff and Rochelle discuss how standing for their convictions even when they’ve paid the price is NEVER a decision they will regret. Standing for what right is never popular nor easy but it is ALWAYS the path that followers of Christ must take. In our world of rising abuse and increased dehumanization of people, the Church must awaken to the fact that they can no longer remain seated. It’s time to stand, even if that attracts unfair treatment from those you considered friends.
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In our quick-fix culture we are constantly on the lookout for the silver bullet that will give us the immediate results we’re looking for. Whether it’s our health, parenting, marriage, or finances, we are in a desperate search for instant outcomes. The reality is that our lives reflect COUNTLESS decisions that have had a cumulative impact. In this new series called, “No Regrets” Jeff and Rochelle discuss key decisions that have profoundly impacted their lives forever. Listen in as they discuss how you can make the same kind of “no regrets” decisions, forever shaping the course of your life.
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For the past 15 years, researchers and ministry leaders have been warning of the reality of a 4% Biblical worldview facing the next generation if nothing is done to reverse course. Well, that time has come, and this is the current reality facing American Christianity. What is the cause? Is this emerging generation simply less interested in spiritual matters? The answer may surprise you! In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss this troubling reality but assert that there is hope and even a solution that could reverse these numbers. All is not lost!
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The war on parents is real! From strategic efforts to remove traditional family language from common use, the outsourcing of parental responsibility to the “professionals”, to the crumbling of parental consent in a variety of arenas, moms and dads find themselves in the crosshairs of a significant spiritual battle. However, we are not helpless. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the specifics of this war and what parents must do to ensure the safety and spiritual health of their children. We must be willing to fight! Inaction is not an option.
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During a recent ministry trip, Jeff was surprised to be able to connect with his high school football coach from twenty-five years ago! In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the impact of that encounter and what every next generation influencer can learn from this legendary coach. Great leaders and mentors understand that influence has no expiration date! The same can be true with you.
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The words we speak are never neutral, benign, or harmless rendering the rhyme we learned in kindergarten false. “Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me!” Not only can words hurt us, but what comes from our mouth has the potential to kill or to give life. Scripture goes so far as to identify our words as either poison or fruit. The good news is that we get to choose which we will use in our everyday interactions with others. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle offer insight and personal experience with both types of words and how we can be people who consistently choose to give life.
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Taylor Swift has once again captured the headlines with her extremely popular new album called, “The Tortured Poets Department.” More than just an entertainer or musician, Swift has become a cultural icon, gaining a cult following. How are parents, grandparents, and next generation influencers supposed to respond to her recent release? Is there merit to these concerns or do they just reflect judgmental conservative Christians’ attitude toward this popular entertainer? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle avoid engaging in a “ranty” discussion and address legitimate concerns that every person who cares about the next generation should consider.
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We often discuss the research of cell phone usage among our kids. However, for this episode, we wanted to hear what a teenager had to say about this important topic. Join us, as we interview our 14-year-old daughter to talk about the positives, the negatives, and even what age SHE thinks kids should get a cell phone. Oh, and she may or may not be excited about actually getting a cell phone. Tune in as we welcome our first ever in-studio guest to the Not On My Watch Podcast to discuss her thoughts on cell phones!
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When it comes to the prayer life of our children, there is nobody more qualified to teach them than you. But how do we teach them? Where do we start? When can we find the time to do this? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle answer these very questions as they discuss how we have the incredible privilege and an urgent mandate to teach our kids how to pray. This is truly one of the greatest lifechanging gifts we can give to our children. Tune in as Jeff and Rochelle offer some very practical “how-to’s” on this topic.
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Everybody needs this one thing because the world we walk into every day is often not safe or friendly. When a person lacks a safe haven, they’ll be nomads looking everywhere to fill that void. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the need for a safe place and what this type of environment even looks like. If this is a place that we NEED to return to each day, then how do we go about creating the environment for it? Find out on this episode of the Not On My Watch podcast.
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Is there really a secret to a happy marriage? Yes! And in this episode Jeff and Rochelle discuss just what that secret is. If every married couple were to genuinely pursue THIS one thing, their marriage would never be the same. No, it is not matching bracelets or tattoos…although both are discussed in this episode. Tune in to find out what this secret is because it doesn’t have to remain out of reach for you!
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You have undoubtedly heard the sentiment that marriage is hard. In fact, this thought is one of the reasons why many people are less inclined to get married. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle take some time to debunk this myth and offer an encouraging perspective that breathes fresh hope into the marriage relationship. No! Marriage does not mean that you will be caught in a never-ending cycle of hardship or difficulty. It is fun…and we want the world to know!
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As a parent, how do you respond when others ask awkward questions about the gender of your children? Is there such a thing as gender disappointment? If so, what do we do about it? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle address what has been considered a touchy subject. However, using humor and Scripture they shed light on a topic that brings honor and value to both genders while equipping parents to navigate this potentially difficult terrain.
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As parents who desire to pass down a vibrant faith to our children, we are not content for them to simply be good moral citizens. How can we raise children who possess a resilient and passionate faith? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss what every parent must do and be if they are to raise worshippers who refuse to settle for the status quo of religion.
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Unfortunately, our kids are not exempt from the possibility of experiencing church hurt in some way. As much as we would like to shelter them from this harsh reality, we cannot always protect our kids from the very real pain that can occur inside the Church. How can we as parents navigate these troubling and disturbing waters so that our kids love for the Church and Jesus remains strong even in the midst of some of the most disorienting realities? Jeff and Rochelle offer three actions every parent can take to guide their children through the painful experience of church hurt so that it doesn’t define their future.
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A recent trip to the pediatrician brought to light the complications of having minor children, as young as 12, that are in charge of making their own medical decisions apart from their parent’s knowledge and consent. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss how to handle this with your children and medical professionals. All parents need to be informed. Check out this episode!
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In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the crucial question, "Is My Kid Going to Heaven?" At some point, parents and influencers of the next generation will encounter students who are committed, compliant, or combative to the Gospel. How do we respond when those we are responsible for are in one of those categories? The spiritual formation of those under our care is far too important for us to respond haphazardly. Join us as we consider the complexities of engaging the next generation, as we aim to disciple ambassadors of faith in our homes and in our churches.
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When it comes to technology and the family, questions abound! In this final episode of Tech Sense 101, Jeff and Rochelle answer some of the most common questions parents ask, seeking to provide clarity to an already overwhelming issue. Whether it’s screen time limits, the age a child should receive a cell phone, or when children should engage with social media, these FAQ’s are addressed honestly and directly.
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What are parents to do when it comes to the gravitational pull of the internet and internet-based video games such as Minecraft, Roblox, Discord, or Fortnite? Are these harmless realities that present no tangible danger? Should parents avoid this technology altogether? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the need for parents to be engaged in the online activities of their kids and the dangers to be aware of. We do not have to operate in fear, but we must be actively aware of what our children may encounter in the online world.
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Inspired by a recent birthday trip to a college basketball game, Jeff and Rochelle share an encouraging word to all Not On My Watchers of what to do when you are backed up against insurmountable odds. When your life seems unpredictable, uncertain, and even impossible, remember that there is still time left on the clock. Now is not the time to give up! It’s not yet triple zero!
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According to research, the viewing of inappropriate material is the most addictive behavior, and the accessibility is magnified with current technology. What can parents do when confronted with such brutal and ugly facts? In this episode, Jeff, and Rochelle, speak clearly and plainly about the role every parent and influencer of the next generation must assume should they desire to navigate the dark world of dangerous content as it is distributed by various technological means. It’s time to drop the assumptions and platitudes when it comes to this topic and courageously confront a reality that is devastating a generation!
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Jeff and Rochelle take some time discuss a big life update for their family and their ministry! Tune in as they share what’s next, how you can stay updated, and how you can be a vital part of this new ministry as they launch out in an expanded capacity.
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In this second episode of Tech Sense 101, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the impact of social media and cell phone usage on teenagers, sharing eye-opening statistics and highlighting the importance of prayerful decisions when it comes to introducing these specific modes of technology to our children. Tune in for practical guidance on navigating the complexities of technology in today's world. While we do not need to demonize these types of technology, we must remain aware of their dangers and equip our children with wisdom so that they can use cell phones and social media wisely and in a way that honors Jesus.
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Parents overwhelmingly indicate that technology has made raising children exponentially more difficult. Recognizing this pressing need to equip parents in today's digital age, Jeff and Rochelle begin part one of “Tech Sense: How To Equip Your Family With Wisdom.” In this series they aim to provide resources and tools to help families thrive amidst the complexities of technology. Join Jeff and Rochelle in part one of this podcast series as they discuss their overall philosophy on technology, setting the stage to address specific issues such as cell phones, social media, pornography, cyberbullying, internet use, and video games. This series promises to be a valuable guide for parents, educators, and anyone influencing the next generation. Join them on this journey as they share insights, research, and real-life experiences to empower families in fostering a healthy relationship with technology.
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84% of parents say that they are worried about their child’s online safety
-Study conducted by the cypersecurity firm Kaspersky
Kid’s between the ages of 5-8 spend over 3 hours per day on a screen
-Common Sense media
90% of children 8-16 have seen online pornography
-CyberPsychology
65% of 8-14 year olds have been involved in som kind of cyberbullying incident
-GuardChild
In the 100th episode of the Not On My Watch podcast, Jeff and Rochelle call for the watchman to arise! This is the year where the truth-tellers emerge from hiding and speak awakening to those wandering from the Body of Christ. We cannot continue to tolerate sin or dabble with the world and expect life to go well for us. In this milestone episode, listeners are challenged to find their voice and be the watchman God has called them to be in those places where they are strategically positioned by God.
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Gen Z is bringing their parents to job interviews, wearing pajamas to work, unable to keep eye contact, and 25% of U.S. 40-year-olds are not married. Join us on this eye-opening episode of “Ten Minutes in the News” where we discuss how some of the latest trends are impacting the workplace, contributing toward crisis, and creating societal instability.
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In the first episode of 2024, Jeff and Rochelle gear up for an impactful year ahead, diving deep into what it means to trust God. They invite you to embrace reckless, unmeasured faith, so that you can step out of comfort zones, and embrace uncertainty where you can witness God's miracles. This episode is a rallying cry to trust God beyond what you see in the natural.
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In the final episode of 2023, Jeff and Rochelle discuss how to break dysfunctional patterns in order to step into a transformed 2024. As the New Year approaches, Jeff, and Rochelle share insights on leaving behind debilitating behaviors and relationships that hinder progress. By addressing relational dysfunctions that impede personal growth and God's vision, they encourage listeners to take courageous steps toward change. Emphasizing the need to control personal responses rather than controlling others, they urge listeners to step into 2024 free from detrimental patterns that hinder progress and block fulfillment. Prepare for a transformed year ahead free from old patterns!
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Much of Gen Z experiences menu anxiety when ordering at restaurants and conservative parents are more likely to raise mentally healthy teens. In this episode of, “Ten Minutes in the News” Jeff and Rochelle quickly address the hot topics of anxiety in the next generation and how politics may actually have in impact on parenting.
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Join us as we explore the concept of "No Plan B." The world often advises us to diversify and have a backup plan, cautioning against getting our hopes up. However, in this episode, we challenge this training, discussing how society often leads us to expect less from God. Rochelle shares about a time she was told to prepare for a life without marriage. We discuss the idea that a life of faith leaves no room for a backup plan. Jeff and Rochelle encourage a shift away from preparing for disappointment towards embracing faith and confidence in the unseen.
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Parents speak out after their daughter is assigned to share a bed with a male student on a school trip and many kids say they want to be social media influencers when they grow up. In this lively episode of “Ten Minutes in the News,” Jeff and Rochelle discuss parental involvement and why kids would rather make a living in front of a camera, chasing likes.
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Far from being a phenomenon relegated to the school playground or school lunchroom, bullying continues long into adulthood as evidenced in the workplace and even the church. In the midst of this unfortunate reality what are we to do about it? In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss the research on workplace bullying, its shocking prevalence, and what to do about it when we see it in action.
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In this first segment of “Ten Minutes in the News” Jeff and Rochelle discuss a basketball player’s need for the “right tights” and boomer grandparents who are MIA. Resilience and intergenerational influence are more important than ever! Also, Rochelle’s killer Butler jean jacket makes an impressive cameo!
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Culture will continue to shift underneath our feet, providing families with uneven ground. In the midst of this uncertainty, there are three elements in every child’s life that must remain fixed and in alignment. These three factors can provide the necessary foundation for spiritual vitality and maturity. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle identify these factors and explain how influential they are in the spiritual development of every child. Too much hangs in the balance to leave these to chance!
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In this short bonus episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss seven tips that will help you keep your sanity this Christmas. From how you choose to spend money to gift-giving, these tips are designed to help you celebrate the holiday and make memories with your family rather than sprinting through this season, feeling depleted when it’s over.
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As we turn our attention toward Christmas, the activity and expectations of the season can threaten to derail our focus to the point that we become frazzled and disheartened. However, there are common traps that we can avoid if we hope to infuse meaning and purpose back into the Christmas season. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle share practical ways to keep your sanity and focus this Christmas so you don’t have to end the season depleted. Christmas can be a highlight for the entire family!
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The personal stories of many and even national statistics would seem to indicate that experiencing angst while celebrating holidays with your family is inescapable. In fact, many report that December is the most stress-filled month of the year. But do holiday celebrations have to be this way? Is “celebrating” with family synonymous with feeling depleted by the year’s end? In this episode, we discuss how this does not have to be the case and we identify how to create a healthy environment that doesn’t leave you frustrated and exhausted.
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In this final installment of our launch series, we discuss what fuels our passion and focus for marriage, the family, and leadership. As Not On My Watch begins, we want to give you a glimpse behind the heart of the movement. Join us in this episode as we discuss our mission and core values, which offers insight into the urgency of our message.
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Not On My Watch Mission Statement:
“To empower, resource, and equip leaders, parents, grandparents, young people and all those who care about the next generation to reject mediocrity and to herald the role of the watchman who understands the times, speaks the truth, and lives an authentic life worth emulating.”
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So what’s the story behind the name? In this episode, we discuss where the phrase, “Not on my watch” originated and why we chose it as the rallying cry for this new ministry. The time in which we are living calls for an urgency to characterize followers of Christ like never before. For the health of our family, marriages, and churches we must embody an uncommon courage and declare, “Not on my watch!”
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The wait is finally over! In this episode, we discuss an exciting announcement that we have been waiting to unveil for a while now. Not only is the name of our podcast changing but we discuss the launching of a ministry that calls followers of Christ out of silence, and instead, to embody the life of a truth teller. In this first installment, we challenge you to reject the suffering in silence mentality. It's time to declare what God has whispered in the dark.
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What do you do when you are committed to seeing your children live for Jesus but do not feel supported by those around you? In fact, what if those who should be among your greatest advocates in parenting mock you for seeking to honor Christ as you raise your children? In this episode, we discuss what every influencer of the next generation must keep in mind when they find themselves in the crosshairs of the world's derision simply for seeking to transmit an authentic faith in Christ.
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Check out our website: www.thedeeprooted.com Email us: info@thedeeprooted.com Vern L. Bengtson, Families and Faith: How Religion is Passed Down Across Generations (New York: Oxford University Press, 2013), 19; see also chapter 5, "The Unexpected Importance of Grandparents (and Great-Grandparents)."
There is a growing chasm between biblical Christianity and modern Christian culture that faithful followers of Christ must understand if we desire to remain effective in the world. Whereas biblical Christianity calls us to follow Jesus, Christian culture teaches us to follow humanistic inclinations. In this episode, we discuss how the emerging culture of Christianity teaches us to pursue deception rather than cultivate the necessary discipline of truth telling in a world that is desperate to hear it. Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://m.youtube.com/@thedeeprootedpodcast Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-deep-rooted-podcast/id1550127745 Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thedeeprooted?mibextid=LQQJ4d Check out our website: www.thedeeprooted.com Email us: info@thedeeprooted.com
Being a Swiftie is all the rage but we're not jumping on the bandwagon....and we think you might want to take a second look at what you are endorsing to your kids, grandkids and the young people you are influencing! Taylor Swift, much more than an influential cultural icon, perpetuates a worldview not consistent with that of the Bible. In this episode, we challenge listeners to think critically about this cultural, and in fact, spiritual phenomenon.
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October is here, which means that it is Pastor's Appreciation month! But what is the perfect gift to give your pastor? In this episode, we discuss what every pastor REALLY wants for Pastor's Appreciation but may not tell you. It may surprise you to know that the most impactful gift to your pastor is often the least expensive and overlooked.
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Research on the marriage and family life of ministry leaders uncovers disturbing trends. Among these are the challenges experienced by ministry spouses who feel that they cannot be honest about some of the unique stressors they face. In this episode, we discuss some of the pressures that pastor's wives experience and how everyone in the congregation can do something to minister to this hurting and oftentimes unseen demographic.
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There is a group of heroes in the church that often go unnoticed. However, these warriors endure adversity that few imagine and see the unfortunate underbelly of church ministry. These are also those that experience the incredible blessing when a family walks in their God-given calling to pastor a church. In this second episode of our church series, we talk about why pastors' kids are heroes and the opportunity we have to encourage them in their unique place in the church family. Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://m.youtube.com/@thedeeprootedpodcast Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-deep-rooted-podcast/id1550127745 Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thedeeprooted?mibextid=LQQJ4d Check out our website: www.thedeeprooted.com Email us: info@thedeeprooted.com
Isn't complaining in church wrong? What if I have a legitimate concern? I don't want to be labeled a trouble maker? Confusion and uncertainty abound regarding the appropriateness of offering a complaint. In this episode, Jeff and Rochelle discuss how to effectively share a criticism in church. If you want to be a great leader, great follower, and a champion of church health, cultivating the necessary skill of sharing criticism effectively is vital. In fact, unity may be impossible if we do not develop this necessary competency. Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://m.youtube.com/@thedeeprootedpodcast Subscribe on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-deep-rooted-podcast/id1550127745 Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thedeeprooted?mibextid=LQQJ4d Check out our website: www.thedeeprooted.com Email us: info@thedeeprooted.com
So, what's the deal with less and less people getting married? Not even just not getting married, they don't even have a desire to get married someday! Join us on this podcast, where we discuss the trends of a generation avoiding marriage and what we can actually do to impact others to buck the trends and actually see marriage as the God given gift it is!
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In this second installment, we turn our attention exclusively to identifying four types of people that seek to block your marriage from health and vitality. We discuss practical ways of how we can address each blocker, realizing that we do not have to be affected by their influence. Dealing with marriage blockers can bring such freedom to your marriage!
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Believe it or not there are people and things that seek to destroy your marriage. However, in this world of the quick fix, much marriage literature does not pay sufficient attention to how to go about building a marriage that survives these forces. What do we need to do to build a marriage that survives such antagonism? What are some practical ways that we can address each blocker as we experience them? In this two part series, we discuss four marriage builders that will provide you with the strength you need to face four marriage blockers that many often encounter but are hesitant to talk about.
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From an increase in airline violence among adults to children who refuse to engage in regular everyday activities, it is clear that we currently live in a society that is in regression. Parents, spouses, and leaders can reverse this disturbing trend by modeling an uncommon characteristic that has the potential to change the environment. In this episode, we discuss the power and priceless commodity of maturity.
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I am a parent and I love my child! But can I be friends with them? How do I balance friendship and the task of parenting? Should this even be my goal?
We answer these questions and many others as we discuss a topic that SO MANY parents are thinking about. One thing is for sure. This question demands a thoughtful response if healthy lifelong relationships between parent and child are to be forged.
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In this episode, we discuss the question that parents with kids from all age groups are asking. Moving beyond simplistic solutions, we provide a framework for thinking about this issue in light of preparing our children for healthy marriages.
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It is already upon us! It’s hard to believe school supply shopping is finishing up and we are getting ready to return to school. In this very practical episode, we discuss some important principles that every family can engage in to prepare themselves for the school year that lies ahead. It all begins at home!
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The debate continues to rage about whether or not Christians have the freedom to drink alcohol. In this episode, we seek to raise the level of conversation about this topic above the predictable, “I am free to indulge as long as I am doing it in moderation.” We expose this lie and many others in an episode that is designed to help us think deeply about alcohol consumption in a world of addiction.
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The Church should be the last place that any person should encounter meanness. However, what are we to do when we see it in action or are the recipients of it? In this episode, we discuss what every person can do to make sure that hostility inside the church is not welcome.
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Is it true that you can love Jesus and cuss a little? Far from being an innocent t-shirt people may wear, a country song, or a meme you have seen on social media, this phrase represents a belief system that is contrary to a biblical worldview. In this episode, we discuss the truth behind this statement…without dropping bombs.
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Transgenderism is an issue that confronts every family and every parent. However, the question remains, "How do I talk to my kids about this confusing topic?" In this episode, we discuss ways to talk to your children about transgenderism at each stage of their development. Whether they are a toddler, school age, tween, or a teen, it is important that we understand that we must talk to our children about this matter in a way that offers them clarity and equips them to think and live biblically.
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Is it true that we only have 18 summers with our children to make a lasting connection with them? In this episode, we expose this myth and offer another way of approaching relationship with our children.
We do not have to adopt a fear and guilt based approach to parenting.
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What does the #1 show on Amazon Prime, Bill Gothard, and purity culture have in common? In this episode, we discuss the current rage against purity culture resulting from a documentary that has captured the nation’s attention and why we as followers of Christ must remain vocal about this issue.
Statistics tell us that the family dinner is nearly extinct all the while spiritual, mental, physical, and emotional health is plummeting at alarming rates. In this episode, we discuss the tremendous power inherent in this very practical habit and how a return to the family dinner can help change the trajectory of a family in crisis.
The family dinner is not a silver bullet but an important ingredient in the health of a family.
Show Notes:
https://www.parents.com/recipes/tips/unexpected-benefits-of-eating-together-as-a-family-according-to-science/#:~:text=Eating%20Together%20Can%20Help%20Prevent%20Mental%20Health%20Disorders&text=And
https://sfyl.ifas.ufl.edu/archive/hot_topics/families_and_consumers/family_dinners.shtml#:~:text=Frequent%20family%20dinners%20have%20a,expectations%20set%20by%20their%20parents
https://newsroom.heart.org/news/new-survey-91-of-parents-say-their-family-is-less-stressed-when-they-eat-together
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4325878/
Are there markers of maturity along the way of parenting? How do I know if we’re heading in the right direction? What’s the goal in parenting?
There are markers of maturity for toddlers, kids, tweens, and teens. It’s time for instructing, training, guiding and then launching our kids into adulthood - ready for all that God has for them! Check out this episode to find out about the various markers of maturity!
“Mom, but every other kid has a cell phone!” Just because everyone else is doing it, doesn’t mean that you should - dare to be different!
Parents, check out today’s podcast about some of things to consider before purchasing your child a cell phone.
Following Christ involves doing hard things. In this episode, we talk about the “why”, “how”, and “what” of a hard thing we engaged in over the past six years and how Jesus offers each of us the opportunity to do something difficult. Spiritual growth happens through adversity not in the absence of it.
Truth tellers are often privately congratulated for their strength and courage but publicly met with silence. Why is it that in a world desperate for the truth there are so few willing to take a stand that might cost them something? In this episode, we discuss this strange phenomenon and the dangers of truth telling.
Many continue to live in captivity, feeling as if they will forever struggle with sin that they simply have to manage. However, Scripture communicates a different reality. Despite some of the current popular teaching on salvation, genuine repentance frees us from the dominance of sin in our lives and introduces us to a life we never thought possible.
Gen Z is in trouble! Parents — it’s up to you to grow up and help this generation. Join us in this podcast where we discuss the urgency of the hour and what parents can do in this most important moment in history.
Given the urgency of the hour and the emerging statistics about the spiritual state of Gen Z, we must rise to the occasion. In too many instances, those who comprise this young generation are not receiving the vital guidance they need in this chaotic cultural climate. In this episode, we discuss what Gen Z needs and should receive from their church leaders.
Birthed out of preparation for a recent speaking engagement, we discuss what we feel God is speaking to the Church in this hour. We have not been called to win a culture war but we have been called to set sail into uncharted territory, throw off everything that hinders, and allow God to direct our path.
Increasingly, many are experiencing what has come to be described as spiritual abuse within what should be the safe confines of the church. What exactly is spiritual abuse and what can we even do about it? In this episode, we discuss these questions and offer a crucial response to every follower of Christ.
In this episode, we discuss how the newly released movie “The Jesus Revolution” depicts the Jesus movement of the 1970’s and what revival really requires from those who are courageous enough to follow Jesus into uncharted and unpopular territory.
Whether it is showing up at a Middle School mixer wearing crazy outfits and competing at the limbo or showing up everyday with the gift of presence to your marriage, the principle remains the same. Your family and your spouse will always remember who simply showed up.
In this first episode or our marriage series, we discuss the importance of gender roles within the marriage relationship and how they have often been distorted through misguided teaching. Since marriage was the first institution God set up, it is important we reflect God’s original design for this sacred relationship.
“He Gets Us” is a national $100 million campaign designed to “…reintroduce people to the Jesus of the Bible and his confounding love and forgiveness.” However, as we look deeper into the content of this campaign, the Jesus it presents falls below this stated goal. In this episode, we discuss the dangers of “He Gets Us” and why followers of Christ must think deeply about its message. Show Notes: https://natashacrain.com/?s=He+Gets+Us https://americanhumanist.org/what-is-humanism/definition-of-humanism/ The "He Gets Us" Campaign: https://hegetsus.com The Good Faith Podcast: https://thedispatch.com/podcast/goodfaith/does-jesus-need-an-ad-campaign-with-jason-vanderground/ The Carey Nieuwhof Podcast: https://careynieuwhof.com/episode549/
In this episode we discuss the growing phenomenon inside the Church of categorizing something or someone as Christian without evidence that accompanies salvation. We discuss why this is important, what we should do about it, and its impact on the next generation.
The Church exists in a unique time in history where the shallowness of cultural Christianity has been exposed as insufficient to address the world’s most pressing needs. What is needed is a second reformation in the Body of Christ where believers are empowered to overcome the pressures facing them. Railing against culture will not work but transformational living will. In this episode we outline three fundamental principles of this second reformation.
In this first episode of the new year we discuss the importance of establishing priorities and how list making often provides a faulty foundation for living God’s mission for your life. A segmented life is destined to collapse but one centered on Jesus maintains purpose and meaning.
In a world that is hostile to passion, how can you stay passionate and not let the world steal your joy? Apathy isn't in a believer's vocabulary....so let's regain our passion!
In the wake of the Supreme Court’s historic and landmark decision to overturn Roe v. Wade, the Church is responding differently. In this episode, we discuss some of the common objections some Christians have to celebrating the decision and the necessary responses to those objections.
The only person who can hinder God’s plan for your life is you. In this second installment of our series on self-sabotage, we discuss how compromise derails followers of Christ from experiencing God’s plan and how they can avoid this catastrophic reality. Fighting compromise is a daily battle for every believer that can and must be won.
Nobody or No thing can take you out — but it is possible to sabotage yourself. Join us this week as we talk about week one of how to avoid self-sabotage. Don’t quit!
Marriage is about representing Christ as a husband and wife. God brought man and woman together so that they could image Him as a dynamic team, communicating Jesus to the world. Join us in this episode as we discuss how living out your faith as a married couple is essential for a healthy marriage.
Life has seasons and so does marriage. Tune into this week’s podcast as Jeff and Rochelle talk about some of the seasons of their marriage and what they have learned.
Join us today in Marriage Month as we talk about outside influences and how to manage those and your marriage. Jeff and Rochelle discuss work, kids and in-laws and how they interact with the husband and wife relationship.
There are intentional patterns that we have created that bring about incredible freedom. Join us in this discussion of various patterns that have helped shape our marriage and that can be beneficial to you!
This week’s episode launches marriage month where we will talk about what we’ve learned in 17 years of marriage! This week will make you laugh, give you some good stories and highlight all the topics that will be discussed in Marriage Month. Take a listen!
As evil increases in our world, God continues to raise up a remnant of subversives whom He has equipped for such a time as this. Today we discuss the inevitability of evil in the world but how we can also take our sole focus off of it and remain both hopeful and joy-filled. Our mission is simple. Our mission is powerful.
How can a person know if they are growing in spiritual maturity? In this episode, we discuss three markers of spiritual maturity in an individual’s life. Spiritual maturity is within everyone’s grasp and something we must pursue if we are to remain strong in our culture and cultivate a vibrant spirituality.
Whether it is the beginning of a year, after a traumatic event, or simply at the culmination of a stressful season, a reset is in order. How can you perform a reset in your life so that the difficulty, stress, or woundedness of the last season does not carry over into the next? In this first episode of 2022 we discover the power of a reset in your life so that you can realize all that God has for you in this next season!
Scripture tells us that it will be difficult to be a Christian in the last days. Why is this and what can we do about it? In this episode, we discuss the Apostle Paul’s encouragement to Timothy and how we as believers can live effectively in a world thrown into turmoil.
Our children are gifts from God but God did not intend for them to replace Him as the center and foundation of the home. This week we walk through a chilling passage in Scripture that emphasizes how important it is to ensure that God always maintains priority in the home. Future generations depend upon us as parents getting this right.
We are back! The last few weeks have been a transition of sorts and prompted the thought in today’s episode. Discover how transition and our spiritual life are related.
In part one of this three week series we discuss the urgency of the hour in which we live. It is time for the Body of Christ to awaken and sound the alarm. We live in a day where biblical prophecy is unfolding before our eyes. What will we do while the world is on fire all around us?
We know God’s timing is perfect. However, believing this in the context of daily life is challenging. Especially when you are in a season of prolonged waiting. What do we do with dreams God has given us and it seems that they are not being fulfilled? This week we discover the answer to that question.
It is tempting to understand parenting as an endeavor to get our children to do what we want them to do. However, in this episode we discuss the more important task of training ourselves as parents. Rather than control, the objective in parenting is discipleship. This crucial task begins with the parent.
An epidemic exists in the Church. That of individuals whose platform exceeds the breadth and depth of their character. Whether the platform is parent, spouse, church leader, etc. the problem is the same. We often focus on the fruit to the neglect of the root. In this episode, we discuss the hard work that goes into a life of health that prepares an individual for a life of effectiveness and future harvest.
There is a shaking happening across our nation. While some are announcing the time of death for the Church, God is breathing new life into her through revival. In this episode, we discuss what God is doing and how we can be a part of the Church’s unprecedented effectiveness in a troubled land.
In an age where individuals seem to be deconstructing everything from their gender to their faith, there is another phenomena occurring. There is a move to deconstruct what some are referring to as “purity culture.” As followers of Christ how are we to respond to such deconstruction?
We discuss such a transformational principle, that if embraced, will change the way you approach every circumstance. In fact, you cannot be an effective leader until you embrace this principle modeled for us in the life of Moses. Prepare to be encouraged, challenged, and catapulted into a new level of leadership in every area of your life!
The season that we are living through is intended to wear you out and to wear you down. Do not allow the enemy to thwart what God desires to do in you and through you by surrendering your mission. In this episode we discuss the importance of refusing to quit.
Our current environment demands that followers of Christ maintain Godly grit. In this episode we discuss the reason for a lack of grit in our culture and how we can cultivate it. Whatever you do, grit don’t quit!
There has been much conversation recently in regards to a celebrity church culture where one’s private life is shown to be lacking. In this episode, we address the question that needs to be asked and answered if we are to have a public life that yields fruit.
The new world we live in requires the Body of Christ to throw off its “nice” culture and prepare themselves for battle. In this episode we discuss how believers can fight against the tactics of the enemy in this hour.
In a world struggling to navigate gender issues, followers of Christ must bring clarity to the chaos. As always, we use Scripture as our guide to bring light to a topic that has appeared unnecessarily confusing.
We live in a world that we did not grow up in. How can we equip the next generation for godliness in a dangerous culture? This episode is so vital as we discuss key actions we can take to begin preparing the next generation for spiritual survival in a land that seeks to destroy them.
Many are unfamiliar when interacting with the harmful philosophies propagated by the Critical Social Theories such as CRT. However, there is a larger understanding of what it means to be “woke.” Today we discuss three ways to know that you are encountering “woke” ideology and why it is so dangerous.
We discuss a phrase that continues to grow in popularity and we compare it to the truth of Scripture. While going where you are celebrated feels good, is it it God’s best for us? This is important because God’s best always leads to lasting fruit.
In this episode we define Critical Race Theory, discuss why it matters, identify where we are seeing it and what we should do about it. Seeking biblical justice and cultivating a love for our brothers, sisters, and enemies requires believers to understand CRT and its deceptive appeal. This is an important podcast for you and the next generation!
This week we discuss just how powerful 24 hours can be when we decide to use it intentionally. This is an incredible gift God offers us in the midst of the grind, so that the grind does not literally wear us down!
There seems to be a resurgence in the discussion of women and their ministry in the church. What does Jesus, God’s Word, and personal experience teach us about this?
How are we to live as followers of Christ in the midst of a cancel culture? We discuss how we can live effectively even when there are landmines all around us. Cancellation does not have to be our destination!
In this next installment of our “Freedom Blockers” series we discuss an incredible gateway to freedom, sexual purity. Be encouraged to pursue God’s design for you and for the next generation. It is never too late and it is never hopeless!
We continue to discuss obstacles that hinder many from walking in the freedom that Jesus intends for every follower of Christ as we discuss alcohol. We identify three important factors we should consider as it pertains to this topic.
God’s desire for every person is that they walk in complete freedom. However, there are blockers that seek to keep us from experiencing God’s complete freedom. In this episode we discuss the blocker of entertainment.
Spiritual abuse. It happens but many are unwilling to talk about it for various reasons. In this episode we shine the light on an activity that keeps many from living the freedom that Christ intends for every individual.
The result of a date night conversation, this episode highlights God’s sustaining power in marriage and His desire for it to be a testimony of His love.
We currently live in a toxic environment which seeks to steal our life. Discover how you can navigate this toxicity without succumbing to its disastrous effects.
You can identify the many people who add value to your life and encourage you to be all that God has called you to be. But can you identify those who are toxic and who purposefully try to distract you from your call? We discuss how you can identify toxic people and what to do about them.
Transforming the Life Plan from paper to an everyday lived experience requires these vital components. When you are on mission you are dangerous to the enemy and fully alive!
How do we orient our entire life around Jesus rather than try to fit Him into our life? We continue to unpack the power of the Life Plan as it pertains to key areas of our life where we want to see God bring transformation. The law of priority is key.
Discover how you can live the mission God has given you and escape the rut that everyday life naturally draws you into. Jeff and Rochelle discuss the discipline of the life plan.
We continue our discussion of how believers must be stronger in order to survive and thrive in the season that is coming to the Body of Christ
In this first part of a two part series we discuss the need for the Body of Christ to be stronger as we move ahead into 2021.
In this very first episode we talk about the need for deep living in a culture that fosters superficiality.
Join us for the introduction to the Deep Rooted Podcast! We are excited to begin this podcast journey!