Happy To Be Here: Recent Episodes
Kate
My name's Kate and I'm happy to be here, and welcome to the podcast, "Happy To Be Here"! I'm in my early 20s, I'm in therapy, I'm gay, and I'm a Libra. Even though I have a podcast, I don't have all the answers—I'm still trying to figure out life. Every episode, my guests and I discuss topics on every 20-something's mind. From therapy & mental health to astrology & tarot. We'll talk about social justice work and the fluidity of sexuality and gender identity. And occasionally... we talk about squishmallows. New episodes on Thursday's.
On this season finale, I am joined by a wonderful new guest. She's a college student, an athlete, a Taurus, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Brie! Brie shares her experience as a woman in STEM, and we discuss how women are treated differently in sports, STEM, and in life. We also discuss tattoos, moving back in with your parents, and more. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I am joined on the pod by a wonderful new guest. He’s a life coach, host of the podcast, Be You Do You, and a soon to be clinical counselor. Welcome to the show, Sam! Sam shares his journey of transitioning, the inner work he's done, how he invested in himself, and more. We also discuss community building through podcasting, importance of vulnerability, and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I have a lovely new guest joining me on the show! We went to graduate school together, and she is a lovely children's librarian. She's also a cancer sun sign, a baddie, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Claire!
We discuss transitioning from grad school to full time work, the lack of 3rd spaces, what we love about being children's librarians, shortcomings of capitalism, and more. Tune in!
For this week's episode, I am joined by a lovely new guest. She’s a queer author, a romance-genre book connoisseur, an advocate of happy-ever-afters, and she’s happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Dana! Dana shares how her path lead her to becoming an author and shares her first experience reading queer literature.
This week we're talking about the importance of positive queer representation in media, romance topes, our fav queer authors, and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I am joined by a lovely new guest. She's an international burlesque sensation, a business owner, a Cancer sun sign, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Perle Noire!
Perle shares her journey to burlesque and one of her favorite performances. We discuss healing your inner child, self-seduction, claiming your legacy, and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I have a lovely new guest. She's an artist, a comic, a Taurus, the owner & instructor of BrushCapades, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Anjl!
Anjl shares her journey starting her company, BrushCapades, and now she teaches classes virtually across the globe! We discuss the importance of creativity, why comedy is so vital, how everyone can be an artist, connecting through vulnerability, and more.
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On this week's episode, I am joined by the one and only, Davita Jo. She's an icon, host of the podcast The Quarter Life Happy Hour, a red-haired beauty, the Virgo to my Libra, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Dav! This week we're talking about Valentine's Day: social media posting, straight & queer couples celebrating the holiday, the importance of female friendships, and more. We also discuss Taylor's upcoming album, getting proposed to on holidays (yay or nay), Instagram accounts for babies, and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I have a wonderful new guest on the show with me. She's an archivist, an avid book reader, a Gemini, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Hanna!
This week we're talking about our top 3 books of 2023, 4 books we're excited for in 2024, romance tropes in novels, and more. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I have a wonderful returning guest on the show with me. They're a Gemini sun, host of the podcast, Queers These Days, a fellow lesbian, and they're happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Piper!
This week we're wearing pink and talking all about Mean Girls (2024): Regina George being a lesbian, intense homoerotic-competitive friendships in cinema, changes in the new movie, and more. We also guess Regina's astrological chart and other main character's charts in the film. Tune in!
On this week, I have a wonderful new guest on the show with me! She's a Virgo sun, a model, an icon, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Jules! This week we're talking all about astrology: how the different element signs interact, which signs have the best & worst pr, underrated signs, getting your palms read, and more. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I have a lovely new guest on the show. They’re a sexologist, they're a fellow Libra, the host of the podcast, Blood Slut, and they’re happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Gem! This week we're talking all about taboo topics: periods, labias, shame, patriarchy, and more. Gem also shares how they got into sexology, their journey, and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I have a lovely returning guest on the show. She's a Virgo, an Insta baddie, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Mackenzie! Mackenzie shares her experience navigating labels and her experience with the label asexuality.
We also discuss changing/growing identities in your 20s, growth, people asking probing questions about your sexuality, fumbling through your 20s, navigating adult life, and more. Tune in!
On this episode, I have a lovely returning guest on the show with me. She’s a a Taurus, a soon-to-be college grad, a hottie, and she’s happy to be here. Welcome back to the show Allie! This week we’re talking NYE: being in a couple vs. being single, where does it rank among other holidays, is NYE a romantic holiday, and more!
It's time for a 2023 pop culture wrap up! We're talking about celebrity couples this year, Beyoncé, Taylor Swift, Gwyneth Paltrow getting sued, and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I am joined by the one and only: Cairo Ali!!! They are a season one OG guest, they're a drag queen, a Virgo, and they're happy to be here. This week we're talking about queer icons: writers, musicians, drag queens, actors, and more! We also discuss adulthood, Jennifer Lopez's Virgo slander, George Santos, and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I am joined by a wonderful returning guest. She’s a cancer sun, an imminent college graduate, a fashion sustainability queen, and she’s happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Lexy! This week we're talking about Lexy's petition to end the Fashion Institute of Design & Merchandising's partnership with SHEIN & the environmental harms of fast fashion.
Lexy also shares her experience at fashion week in London and Paris! Tune in for an episode about fashion and caring for our planet with what we wear.
Sign Lexy's petition Sororities Unite: Ditch SHEIN, Protect Our Health, Environment, and Ethics!
To learn more => Check out this article from Sixth Tone about SHEIN's shady labor practices
On this week's episode, I am joined by the one and only Davita Jo! She's a Virgo, host of the podcast The Quarter Life Happy Hour/podcast baddie, one of my best friends, and she's happy to be here. This week we're talking about Matt Rife, punching down comedy, the impact of jokes about yourself vs. jokes about someone else, identity & comedy, and more. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I am joined by a wonderful new guest. He's a Cancer sun, an artist, a creator, a college student, and he's happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Syd! This week we're discussing zines, art, getting messy with art, queer creation, creating art with friends, and more. Tune in!
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For this week's episode, I have a wonderful new guest on the show. She's a full-time book publicist, a part-time writer, a Scorpio, and she's happy to be here! Welcome to the show, Amelia! We're discussing Amelia's new book, Lesbian Love Story, what it means to be a lesbian, lesbian visibility, Boy Genius, and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I have a lovely new guest joining me on the show. She's a college student, an Aries, a college student, a baddie, and she's happy to be here. This week we're talking about situationships: the stages, lack of communication, lack of boundaries, and more. We're also talking breakups, working out, and changing friendships in your 20s. Cely and I give you our top ten break-up songs from angsty to sad to healing. Tune in!
Check out our breakup playlist here.
It's the 100th episode!!!!!!! Who else would I have on for the 100th episode other than Davita Jo. She's the host of the podcast, The Quarter Life Happy Hour, she's one of my best friends, and she's happy to be here. As we reflect on 100 episodes, Davita and I discuss our growth as podcasters and as people. We also discuss our different TS eras and what TS era we're in right now.
Big HUGE thank you to everyone who's listened or supported me & my show through the years. I appreciate it more than you know <3
On this week's episode, I have a returning guest on the show. She's a libra, a baddie, one of my best friends, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Mackenzie! This week we're talking relationships, dating, & love bombing: the different signs, financial vs. emotional love bombing, and our experiences with it. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I have a lovely new guest on the show with me. He's an artist, an actor, the host of the podcast The Gustavo David Show, and she's happy to be here! Welcome to the show, David. This week we're talking about gender, liberation, labels: who are they for?, homophobia in the U.S. & Panama, and more. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I have a wonderful guest returning from S4: They're a lesbian, a Gemini, the host of the podcast Queers These Days, and they're happy to be here! Welcome back to the show, Piper. We're talking all things lesbian: what it means to be a lesbian, early encounters with lesbianism, lesbian visibility, and our picks on our ultimate lesbian playlist. Tune in!
It's season 5!!!! My name's Kate and I'm truly happy to be back recording for you. For this season premiere, I have a lovely returning guest on the show with me. She's queer, a Virgo, always speaking her mind, and she's happy to be here. Welcome back to the show Kayla! We're here to talk about incels, patriarchy, de-centering men and marriage, women who hate other women, and more. Tune in!
We’re finally here at the finale episode!!!!! Truly can’t believe we’ve reached the end of season four. For this episode, I’m joined by one of THE original guests of the show. She’s a baddie, a drag queen, and she’s happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Jayme! Jayme catches us up with what’s new and how her drag journey is going. Of course, we are keeping up with our tradition and reviewing Target’s 2023 pride collection: slay or nay? We review different products ranging from t-shirts to home decor. Tune in!
Note: This episode was recorded in early May before Target started receiving major backlash for their pride collection. Some of the items we reviewed have been recalled. This is extremely disappointing, and I hope corporations like Target can do better.
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This week's episode is another segment of Kate's Korner. On these solo episodes, I talk about topics I don't always get to cover with my guests and I talk about what's on my mind right now. It's pride month, and I wanted to talk about everything happening right now in the LGBTQIA+ community. While I love glitter, rainbows, and gay bars, pride month is also about recognizing queer pain and the struggles we're going through as a community and individually. I discuss the rise of anti-trans and homophobic legislation in the United States and countries like Uganda. I also discuss the importance of queer friendships and being in queer spaces that accept and support you. During pride month, I also find myself reflecting on my past, so I share parts of my coming out journey. Tune in!
Something new is happening this week on HTBH!!! My podcast confidant and the host of the Quarter Life Happy Hour, Davita Jo, collaborated for a special two-part episode recapping Netflix's newest messiest reality dating series, "The Ultimatum: Queer Love." Check out the first episode on Davita's show for a recap of episodes 1-4. On this episode, we'll be discussing the new couples, all the drama that's ensued, who we think will end up with who, guessing each contestant's zodiac sign, and more! We'll also be discussing topics like sapphic dating, gender identity, avoidant personalities, and more.
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On this week's episode, I have a wonderful new guest on the show with me. They're a nonbinary lesbian, a Gemini, the host of the podcast, Queers These Days, and they're happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Piper! Piper shares their journey coming out twice, discovering their identities, and more. We also discuss our experiences as nonbinary lesbians, gender presentation, families and coming out, and more. Tune in for an authentic conversation about identity and being your authentic self.
On this week's episode, I am joined by a lovely new guest. They are a self-relationship coach, queer, the host of their own podcast Bitches, Witches and Queers, and they’re happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Christina Carlson! Christina shares about their podcast, self-relationships, and more. They also talk about their personal self-relationship journey and how queerness is their spirituality. We also discuss what being nonbinary means to us, freeing ourselves from labels and boxes, intersectionality, going against people-pleasing tendencies, and the human desire to be seen. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I have a new guest on the pod with me! He's a rapper, performer, infamous astrologist, and he's happy to be here. Welcome to the show Chrysocolla Sifi!!! We discuss his podcast Nug and Nay Night which he hosts with his friend, Sister Leonne. Sifi also shares his creative journey as a performer & rapper, and he shares the story behind his stage name. Of course, we discuss astrology: our fav signs, signs we're not a fan of, and more! Tune in.
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On this week's episode, I have a lovely new guest on the show with me. She’s the host of the podcast, Date in Peace, she’s queer, and she’s happy to be here. Welcome to the show Lauren! Lauren shares her journey about dating with an anxious attachment style. She also shares how she started her podcast and created the Mindful Dating Journal. We also discuss getting out of toxic dating cycles, discovering your sexuality, attraction, recognizing red flags, and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I have a wonderful new guest on the show with me. She's a musical artist, queer, living in NYC, and she's happy to be here. Welcome to the show Roylene! We talk about how we met at Stonewall and Roylene shares her experience moving from LA to NYC. We also discuss Roylene's music, songwriting, exploring her sound, and not being defined by labels or genres. Roylene also shares how her identity as Vietnamese American intersects with her queerness and her music. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I have a lovely returning guest on here with me today. She has a cancer sun sign, she’s a lesbian, and she’s happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Amber! Amber is also in graduate school and discusses switching careers from teaching to nursing. We also discuss burnout in grad school and juggling work/school. Amber and I also identify as lesbians and we talk about microaggressions, our favorite things about dating women, the fetishization of lesbians online and in-person, and more. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I have a wonderful returning guest coming back on the show. They are an independent musical artist, a Sagittarius, a queer baddie, and they're happy to be here. Welcome back to the show Mila La Morena!!! Mila is back to discuss the creation behind their music videos, the coolest venue they've performed at, embarrassing moments performing live, collaboration influencing their art, and more. They also share some exciting new creative projects they have in the works. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I have a returning guest on the show. She’s a Virgo, a college student, a fashion icon, and she’s happy to be here. Welcome back to the show, Tori! This week we're discussing trends for 2023, spring 2023 runway collections, sustainability, fashion houses, harms of fast fashion, and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I am joined by a wonderful returning guest. She's your favorite Scorpio and she's happy to be here. Everyone welcome back Tia to the show!!! For this episode, Tia and I are discussing transitions and changes in your 20s: friendships, relationships, family dynamics ,and more. We also discuss coping with change, acknowledging progress, mental health, being single, and more. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I am joined by a lovely new guest. She is a burlesque performer, show producer, educator, and advocate of all things striptease. Welcome to the show Anna Brooke! Anna shares her beginnings as a burlesque performer, Rev. Legs Malone. She also shares how burlesque allowed her to explore another side of herself and be creative. We discuss releasing yourself from judgment, owning your joy, finding peace, and more. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I am introducing a new segment of my show: Kate's Korner. These episodes will feature me, myself, and I. I'll cover a variety of topics that I don't cover in every episode of HTBH, like gender identity. For this episode, I'm discussing vulnerability, the ebbs and flows of mental health, uncertainty while I'm approaching graduation, and more. On these episodes, I'll also share what I'm currently reading! I've missed my one-on-one time with my listeners and I'm excited to explore & create this new part of my show. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I am joined by a wonderful new guest. Welcome to the show, Julia! She recently finished her PhD in History at King’s College London. Her general research interests are gender history, history of medicine, and feminism. Julia is also an Activism Outreach Supporter with The Vavengers, a member of the Charity Committee of the FGM Education Project, and a member of the Editorial Collective Feminist Perspectives. We discuss topics like Women’s and Gender Studies, third-wave feminism, history connecting communities, practicing optimism in the face of patriarchy, gender history, and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I am joined by a lovely new guest. They're a public librarian, a lesbian, Jewish, a Gemini, and they're happy to be here. Welcome to the show, Tori! Tori shares their journey into librarianship, what working in a public library with teens is like, and more! We talk about queer YA books, queer representation in books (then vs. now), our favorite books, and more. Tune in!
Find Tori on Instagram: @torithelibrarian
On this episode, I am joined by a new guest. Everyone welcome Laura Hartley to the show!! She is an activist, coach, and founder of Public LovED, and she's happy to be here. This week we're talking about burnout culture, capitalism & internalized capitalism, the patriarchy, and more. Laura shares how we can combat burnout culture, be critical of the patriarchy, and practice optimism. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I am joined by a new guest! Everyone welcome Marie Mosley to the show! She is an inspiring author, speaker, and coach. Marie is also a wife, mother, and grandmother. On this episode, Marie shares her journey about being in a toxic relationship for years, going through a divorce, and finding herself. We discuss how to find yourself after a toxic relationship, falling in love with yourself, finding new love with someone else, how to set boundaries in relationships, and more. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I am joined by a new guest. She has a Cancer sun sign, she's a fashion influencer, she's a social media exec for Red Carpet Green Dress, and she's happy to be here! This week we're talking about fashion sustainability: how sustainable fashion can break trend cycles, the harms of fast fashion, thrifting tips, and more! Lexy also shares some simple steps—with big impact—that you can take towards fashion sustainability. Of course, I guess Lexy's astrological chart, as per tradition. Tune in!
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For this week's episode for favorite podcasting duo is back! Davita Jo has returned for another episode of HTBH. She's an icon, a Virgo, she's the host of the podcast, The Quarter Life Happy Hour, and she's happy to be here. This week we're talking about dating: getting back out there in the dating scene, go-to first date questions, meeting people irl vs. online, identifying red flags on first dates, the green flags we hope to see on first dates, and more. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I am joined by a lovely new guest, Kayla!! She's a Virgo, a barista, and she's happy to be here. This week we're talking about breakups: first heartbreaks, breakup songs, friendship breakups, finding an ex's Tinder profile, and more. We also talk about the healing process after a breakup: forgiving ourselves, starting therapy, and more. Tune in!
On this episode, I am joined by a wonderful new guest, Ariel! She is a writer, reader, literary critic, and she's happy to be here. Ariel obtained her bachelor’s degree in English literature and criticism and in Chinese language and literature. She's also here to discuss her book, Narcissus, a collection of poems. We also discuss making poetry accessible and finding your voice. Other topics include self-love, opening dialogues surrounding mental health, intersectionality in writing, and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I am joined by a new guest, Nikki La Croce!! She's the host of the Who The F*ck podcast, she's a Scorpio, and she's happy to be here. Nikki shares how she and her wife met through the dating app, HER. We also discuss how dating apps can make it easier for queer people to find each other. Nikki also shares dating advice for younger queer people—and she shares advice she would have given her younger queer self. We cover topics like self-worth, the pressure to find someone/get married, how to find queer community, therapy and more. Tune in!
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On this week's episode, I am joined by my fellow barista/best friend, Allie!! She's a Taurus, a junior in college, and she's happy to be here! It's Allie's second time coming on the show, and she's back for some coffee chit-chat. So grab a coffee and sit down with us! We share our go-to coffee order and our least favorite drinks. We also rank Starbucks' Holiday Drinks, and we guess celebrity coffee drink orders, and more. Tune in!
Welcome to the SEASON 4 PREMIERE (can you believe)!!! New intro, new cover art, and of course a wonderful new guest. Everyone welcome StevenWakabayashi to the show! Steven is the Founder of QTBIPOC Design and Mindful Sights and, the host of the Yellow Glitter Podcast, an Aries, and he's happy to be here. We discuss how to create space for underrepresented communities, recruiting more diverse creative hires, equity in the workplace, and more! We also talk about mindfulness in the workplace and how mindfulness can be utilized in social justice work. Tune in!
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On this finale episode, I am joined by the lovely and amazing Iwona!!! She's a libra, a director of recruitment, a past contestant on UpDating, and she's happy to be here. Iwona catches us up with what's new and we talk about our recent 25th birthdays. This past August, Iwona was on the live blind dating show UpDating. She shares her experience: how she got on the show, how she prepared, post-show tea, and more. We also discuss how dating changes in your mid-20s: how you approach dating, questions asked on first dates, and more. Tune in for a wonderful, Libra-filled season finale!
Check out UpDating: @updatingshow on Instagram
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On this week's episode, I am joined by a lovely new guest: Itzel!! She's an Aries, an anesthesiology coordinator, ballet dancer, and she's happy to be here! Itzel and I went to high school together, and she used to live in Chicago. Itzel shares her experience moving from one big city to another, and making new friends in New York City. We also discuss the differences in dating in Chicago vs. NYC. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I am joined by one of my beloved returning guests. They have been on the show since season one and they're stunning: Cairo Ali!!!! They're a Virgo, law school graduate, drag queen, and they're happy to be here. Cairo catches us up with what's new and why they stepped down from their job as a probation officer. We talk about Cairo's aspirations to do drag full-time, their journey with drag, and how drag has helped Cairo discover so much about their gender identity & coming out as Non-binary. Tune in!
This week, I have a new guest on the show! Everyone welcome Mady: she's a Capricorn, an actor, a singer, and she's happy to be here!! Mady is a recent college graduate, and we talk about the transition from college to post-grad life. We also discuss the pull between being excited to pursue a career after college vs. the fear of being out in the world. Mady also shares her experience playing a minor role on a new Disney show. We also discuss art from a consumer perspective vs. a performer perspective. Of course, I guess Mady's full zodiac chart as per tradition. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I am joined by a new guest: Wrené Nova!!!! She's an electronic music producer, a lyricist & vocalist, and she's happy to be here. Wrené shares her beginnings in music and how that journey has been going. We also discuss how Wrené got into producing music, her musical influences, collaboration, and more! We also talk about the intersections between our queerness and our creative pursuits. Of course, I guess Wrené's chart as is tradition. Tune in!
On this week's episode, I have a new guest on the show. Everyone welcome Lizzy to the pod!!! She has a cancer sun sign, she's a teacher, a nature lover, and she's happy to be here! Lizzy and I went to undergrad together, but now she lives in Salt Lake City. Lizzy shares her experience of moving to a new place: how to make friends, helpful advice, how to cope with loneliness, and more! Of course, I guess Lizzy's rising and moon sign as per tradition. Tune in!
For this week's episode, I am joined by a new guest the talented, Lady Frankie!!! She's the oldest of 7, a Taurus, a performer & dancer, and she's happy to be here! Lady Frankie shares her experience transitioning between careers and what helped her make the change from the 9-5 life. She also discusses the creative differences between working in the club as a pole dancer to performing at a show. We also talk about male pleasure vs. male validation and the power of women's rage. Of course, I guess Lady Frankie's zodiac chart too. Tune in!
This week, I am joined by a new guest. The wonderful Skylar!!! She's a Scorpio, a style icon, a recreational nihilist, and she's happy to be here. Skylar recently went on a month-long solo, and she shares her experience: how she packed for the trip, her spontaneous pit stops along the way (like visiting the Idaho Potato Museum), seeing friends, and more. We also discuss personal style and how style allows us to evolve and change. Skylar also talks about the friends she made while living in Chicago and how friends can influence your style as well—and vice versa! Tune in!
On this week's episode, I am joined by a new guest. Everyone welcome Kat to the show!!! She's a Sagittarius, in an open relationship, a bisexual baddie, and she's happy to be here. Kat catches us up with what's new, and we talk about how we met in undergrad. Kat also shares her experiences about being in an open relationship: the importance of communication, setting boundaries, exploring your queerness with your partner and others, and more. We also discuss how Tinder can be a positive outlet for dating, especially in the LGBTQIA+ community. Of course, I guess Kat's zodiac chart. Tune in!
For this week's episode, we are kicking off Virgo season with the one and only Davita Jo!!!! She's the host of the podcast, The Quarter Life Happy Hour, she's a virgo, she's one of my best friends, and she's happy to be here. This week we talk about how to pull yourself out of a mental health slump and attachment styles in relationships. We also share the strange excuses and out-of-pocket lines straight men have told us in the past. Of course, we also discuss straight cis man enemy #1: Andrew Tate. On a lighter note, we talk about private snap stories vs. close friends on Insta and gen z posting vs. millennial posting. Tune in!
For this week's episode, I am joined by a new guest: the wonderful Jaimee!! She's an Aries, a junior in college, a barista, and she's happy to be here. Jaimee is a transfer student, and she shares her experience transferring schools. We also discuss the differences between colleges located in the city vs. colleges in the middle of cornfields. Since we're both lil lesbians, we also talk about wlw dating, dating apps, and more! Tune in for some sapphic energy, as per usual.
In this episode, I am joined by the wonderful and lovely Calla!!!! She's a Gemini, a photographer, a baddie, and she's happy to be here. Calla catches us up with what's new and shares her experience working at Audiotree. She also tells us the ups and downs of finding Green Day tickets, crowd surfing 5~ times, and getting featured on Green Day's Instagram. We also discuss anxiety when it comes to romantic partners and friendships: how our brains are trying to protect us, how past experiences affect anxiety, and how to recognize irrational thought patterns. Tune in for some air sign energy, as per usual.
This week I have a returning guest from season one, everyone welcome back Jazzmine!! She's my ride or die, the ultimate baddie, a Taurus, and she's happy to be here. Jazzmine catches us up with what's new and discusses her new career path. We talk about the weird transitional period that is your 20s and all the feelings that go with it: envy, social pressure, and more. And for the first time, I guess Jazzmine's whole astrological chart. Tune in to hear from your favorite Libra-Taurus duo.
For this week's episode, I have a new guest here with me, and she's not afraid to say what's on her mind. Everyone welcome Sabrina!!! She's a libra, a goth baddie, and she's happy to be here. Sabrina fills us in with what's new and shares her most recent weird serving experience (kinky/swinger bingo??? Yes, that's a thing). We discuss how the Supreme Court overturning Roe V. Wade impacts us personally and the United States as a whole. Sabrina also shares her experience at a pro-choice protest. Of course, I had to talk about my most recent internet "discussion" with a man AND I guess Sabrina's zodiac chart. Tune in for some chaotic libra-libra energy.
On this episode, I am joined by a HTBH favorite, Tia!!! She's a Scorpio, a recent college graduate, a baddie, and she's happy to be here. Tia catches us up with what's new and how she's moving to Chicago soon. We talk about finding apartments/houses, roommate horror stories, how to decide where to move in your 20s, and more. We also talk about the out-of-pocket behavior and men, the queer scene in Chicago, and more. Tune in!
On this episode, I am joined by my right-hand woman and fellow podcaster, Davita Jo. She's a Virgo, the host of "The Quarter Life Happy Hour," and she's happy to be here. This episode has a more serious tone. We discuss the horrible effects of gun violence and our previous religious backgrounds. Davita and I both used to be very religious. We share what brought us into Christianity and why we moved away from it. On a lighter note, Davita shares how she was "chosen" as a disciple by one of her old church peers and shares her old highlighted bible verses. I also share how I almost became a pastor. We also talk about how bad church wine tastes and the best communion bread. Tune in for some deep conversation with some lighter moments.
tw: gun violence, religious trauma
For this episode, I am joined by a new guest. Everyone welcome the lovely Amber to the show! She's a cancer sun, a lesbian, and she's happy to be here. Back in 2019, we used to date. When I say "date" I mean we were each other's first date with a woman--like ever. So we have a lot to catch up on! We discuss lesbianism, cheating, shitty exes, our go-to date activities, advice we'd give our baby-gay-selves, and more. Of course, I guess Amber's zodiac chart per tradition. Tune in for some wholesome lesbian content.
This week, I'm joined by a new guest, Mallory!!!! She's an English major, a cancer, a teacher, and she's happy to be here. Mallory and I both went to the same undergraduate college and were in the same program. We used to talk back in 2020 (pre-covid), and so in this episode that's what we're here to talk about! We share advice we'd give our baby-gay-selves, the awkward/clunky beginnings of dating women for the first time, flirting with women vs. flirting with men, internalized homophobia, and more. Since I wasn't into astrology back then (shocking, I know) I guess Mallory's astrological chart, as per tradition. Tune in!
On this episode, I am joined on again by the adorable and wonderful Jamye. She's a cosplayer, a Leo, a drag performer, and she's happy to be here. They catch us up with what's new and discuss their new beginnings in drag performance. Jamye shares who her biggest influences in drag are, how wonderfully chaotic their first performance went, what she's learned from performing, what looks they're excited to do in the future, and more! We also discuss Target's new pride collection and give a pure, honest review. Tune in for some Leo/Libra energy!
Where to follow them~
@bvby.ghoul
@veenusdemylo
On this week's episode, I am joined by a lovely new guest, Tori. She's a Virgo, a college student, a writer, a fashion icon, and she's happy to be here. Tori shares with us her style inspiration, favorite brands and fashion subcultures, her fashion blog, and more. We discuss anime, fast fashion, thrifting, and how dressing the way you want gives you confidence, and Vivienne Westwood. Of course, I guess Tori's astrological chart (as per tradition). Tune in!
For this week's episode, we are celebrating here at Happy To Be Here because it's the 50th episode!!!!! Obviously, I had to throw a party, so that's what this episode is! Come join Davita and me as we eat cake (literally), play truth or dare, and ask each other would you rather questions. Tune in to hear the tea! It's never a dull moment recording with Davita.
I also wanted to give a special thank you to all my listeners and supporters. Would not be here without you all (literally)!! <3
On this week's episode, I am joined by the beautiful and wonderful Libra: Mackenzie. We've been roommates for three years, and this fall, we'll have known each other for seven years. This June, Mackenzie is moving to Nashville!!!! While I am so proud of her, I will miss her dearly. So of course, we had to record one more episode before her big move. We talk about what we've learned from living with each other, how to maintain long-distance friendships, and share our favorite stories from over the years we've lived together. Tune in for your usual dose of libra-libra energy. It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later :-)
Hi guys hello! It's been so long but season 3 is back and I'm better than ever. To start off the season strong, my old friend from kindergarten (can you believe) is joining me on the show! She's a Leo, a recent graduate, and she's happy to be here. Everyone welcome Kailani! Of course, Kailani and I reminisce about old times like how we attempted to create a web show. Kailani shares with us her journey getting her master's in clinical psychology. We discuss mental health, how impactful therapy can be, and more. As per tradition with every new guest, I guess the rest of Kailani's astrological chart. Tune in!
On this season's finale, I cover a lot of ground. I discuss some of the things I've learned throughout this season: who you spend your time with matters, what truly loving yourself looks like, and more. I also talk about the consequences since starting this podcast: the positive and the negative. People who have responded positively, whether it's a guest or a listener, vs. people in my past responding negatively. I draw some comparisons to the Euphoria finale with Lexi's play (no spoilers I promise!!) and my podcast. Of course, I talk about ~gay~ dating: wlw ghosting & wlw romanticization and its harms. I've put a lot into this show. I try to put myself out there for myself and my listeners. So thank you for listening.
See you all again for season 3 :-)
Special shout out to all my wonderful, beautiful guests this season. I appreciate you all.
On this episode, I have a new guest on the pod with me! Let's give a big ~gay~ welcome to the wonderful Mila La Morena!!! They are gender fluid, a singer, a Sagittarius, a style icon, and they're happy to be here. Since we both went to high school together, we reminisce on being locker buddies and discuss our gay awakenings. Mila shares how leaving the suburbs allowed her to grow as an artist. Specifically, how much of an impact living in Chicago has had on their sound and their life. Mila talks Pilsen Fest with us, how queerness has influenced her art, their favorite local and popular artists who inspire them, and more. Of course, I guess their rising and moon sign as per tradition. Tune in for some wholesome gay energy!
Where to find them~
Insta: @milalamorena
"Sagitario" CAIRNS X Mila La Morena: carinsmusic.com
For this week's episode, I'm joined by a new guest, the cutie herself, Mikayla!!! She’s a junior in college, a barista, a writer, and she’s happy to be here. Mikayla crochets and has started a small business on campus. She shares with us how she got into crocheting and what pieces she's interested in making. We’re also both lil book nerds, so we're happy to be here with our book recommendations. We also discuss what age we got into reading, our favorite books right now, and more! As per tradition, I guess Mikayla’s astrological chart. Tune in for some "off the hook" content!! (Ok, I admit that was a bad crochet pun).
Mikayla's Yarn Instagram: @yarnofheavenly
For this week, I am joined back by a familiar face (or familiar voice I should say): Skye!!! They're a tarot coach, a libra, a witch, and she's happy to be here. Skye shares some insight into how Tarot can help us during tumultuous times, like during mercury in retrograde period. Since it's almost Valentine's Day and ~love is in the air~ Skye discusses love readings with us and how to make a self-love spell for the impending holiday. We also discuss what our Chiron placement means in our astrological charts and how we can heal. Tune in for some libra energy, as per usual!
Where to find Skye~
Insta: skye.marinda.tarot
TikTok: skye.marinda.tarot
Book a reading: www.skyemarinda.com
This week, I am joined by a new guest: Princess!!! She's a Taurus, a senior in college, a barista, and she's happy to be here. Princess and I work together at Starbucks and we're here to chit chat! Princess is a first generation-college student, and she shares her experience with us. We also discuss how college can be an opportunity for growth. Of course, we talk about Euphoria and our favorite characters this season. As with every new guest, I guess Princess' rising and moon sign.
For this week's episode, I am joined by a new guest: Mackenzie B!!!! She's a Virgo, a college student, an insta baddie, and she's happy to be here. Mackenzie is asexual and she's come on the show to share her experiences: coming out, embracing asexuality, being vocal on social media, and more. We also discuss the importance of setting boundaries and how to remove yourself from unproductive/hateful discourse. Since Mackenzie is new to the pod, of course I have to guess her rising and moon sign!
For this week's episode, I have a new guest on the show: Megan! She's a baddie, a plant mom, a Gemini, and she's happy to be here. Megan and I reflect on the beginning of our friendship when we worked at the same coffee place together in undergrad. We both share things we've learned about ourselves this past year and the little things that have helped us on our mental health journeys. Megan also shares Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and how it can apply to self-care. Since I already know Megan's sun sign, I guess her rising and moon sign (because obvi we have to talk about astrology). Tune in for some new content with a new perspective!
It's 2022 so of course, I'm ringing in the new year with the one and only, Davita Jo. She's the host of the podcast, "The Quarter Life Happy Hour," she's one of my best friends, she's a Virgo, and she's happy to be here. Davita shares all the new happenings in her life and how she's thriving at her new job. Davita and I run through our year and rate how each month of 2021 went for us. We spill some tea, share what we've learned from this year, and we're ready for 2022.
On this episode, I am joined by a new guest. She's a rugby player, a teacher, a lifter, and she's happy to be here. Everyone welcome Sam K to the pod! We went to middle school and high school together. Sam is passionate about rugby, and she talks about her wonderful experience playing the sport. We also discuss the inclusivity of rugby, and how sports can offer a supportive environment for marginalized people. We also discuss the harmful implications of body image for women, and how playing rugby can challenge stereotypes of how a woman's body "should look." Of course, I also guess Sam's zodiac sun, rising, and moon sign. Tune in for some women-empowering-women energy!
On this episode, I am welcomed by a new guest. She's a Taurus, an avid Marvel fan, a thrifter, an incredibly creative person, and she's happy to be here. Everyone welcome Sam B to the pod! We were roommates freshman year of college, and we've been friends ever since. She has always been authentically herself when it comes to her personality and style. Sam has been thrifting for years, so she shares the benefits of thrifting along with some tips. We also discuss the joy of finding friends online through Twitter, Instagram, or TikTok. Sam is also a big-time marvel fan, so we discuss the differences between comics and online media when experiencing the Marvel universe.
On this episode, I am joined by a wonderful new guest: Allie!!! She's a sophomore in college, a Taurus, and she's happy to be here. We both work at Starbucks together, so we thought we'd share our expertise: most underrated drink, most overrated drink our personal favorites, and more! We also guess your go-to Starbucks drink based on your zodiac sign. Tune in for some chaotic coffee chit-chat!
On this episode, I have three new guests joining me. Please welcome to the pod, the wonderful trio of Justin, Grace, and Cameron! The three of them are roommates, and we know each other through Mackenzie (my lovely roommate). We discuss how LGBTQIA+ people can create a sense of community and how gaydar can factor into this as well. We talk about bisexuality and the harmful assumptions people make about it. Also, we discuss the stigma surrounding marijuana usage. Additionally, we talk about how it can treat panic disorder, chronic pain, etc. Tune in for some chaotic gay energy (as per usual)!
On this episode, I am joined again by the wonderful, bubbly Jamye! They are a cosplayer, a performer, a Leo, and they're happy to be here. Jamye shares with us all the new & exciting things going on in their life and their growing success with their TikTok platform. We also talk about how being queer can influence other aspects of one's life, and Jamye discusses how cosplaying can go hand in hand with their gender fluidity. Jamye also talks about her makeup skills and how cosplaying plays into her daily makeup routine. They share their makeup go-to's with us! Tune in for some wholesome internet bestie energy!
For this week's episode, I discuss internalized homophobia: what it is, how it manifests, and how it affects LGBTQIA+ people. Internalized homophobia isn't always visible in the LGBTQIA+ community, so I wanted to make it visible in this episode. I share a recent experience that made me want to talk about this topic, and how I've combated internalized homophobia in myself over the years. In addition, I discuss the importance of calling people into the community and creating a safe space for people with internalized homophobia. Overall, the moral of this episode is to love yourself and accept all aspects of what makes you *you*—even if society doesn't accept you.
On this episode, I am joined by the lovely, charismatic Iwona! She's a libra, she's a full-time working woman, she's outgoing, and she's happy to be here. We've known each other since middle school (can you believe) but we didn't start becoming good friends until this year! We discuss the wonderful nature of reconnecting with people later in life, and how so many people have blossomed post-high school. Iwona also shares her experience of being in a toxic relationship, and I share my experience as well. We discuss what we've learned from those types of relationships and how they teach you to look for red flags in the future. Since we're both single, we debate what makes a great date: great conversation or great experiences? The libra energy is strong in this episode so tune in!
On this episode, I am joined by a fellow she/they baddie, Madeleine! They're a LGBTQIA+ artist, a boxer, a barista, and she's happy to be here! We met on TikTok and have been internet friends ever since. Madeleine shares their experience with internet hate but also their great experiences on TikTok, like internet friends and other forms of support. We also discuss gender identity and how sexuality and gender—while separate entities—can influence each other. Since they're engaged, Madeleine also shares her favorite things about being in a queer relationship. And of course, I guess Madeleine's sun, moon, and rising sign. Tune in for your weekly dose of fun, gay content—as per usual!
Follow them on TikTok - @juicyrumpus
Follow my podcast on Instagram - @happy2beher3
For this week's episode, Mackenzie has returned to the show! She's my roommate, she's a libra, and she's ready to chit-chat. We discuss how the last mercury in retrograde went for us and how retrogrades aren't inherently bad or negative. We also talk about the power of forgiveness and how it can release you from your past. Since we're both nearing our mid-20s, we talk about how our idea of partying/going out has changed and what we want to get out of going to a bar. Tune in for some content from your favorite libra-libra duo!
On this Mini Episode with Me, I talk about my new understanding of self-love and how I'm currently working on my own self-love and self-worth. I also talk about how it's okay to have a nonlinear growth journey (Really! It is! Stop being so hard on yourself xx). Since I've been living in a new area with fewer queer people, I talk about what that's been like and how it affects dating, dating apps, and meeting people. I also talk about gender presentation and how differently people treat me depending on if I'm presenting masc/femme/or androgynous. Tune in for another one-on-one gay and ~vulnerable~ episode!
For this episode, I have a new guest joining me. She's lovely, she's talented, and she's a Gemini: It's Calla! We knew each other back in high school and we talk about our prospective glow-ups. Since we're both in therapy and working on ourselves, we talk about what growth looks like for us and knowing who's good for your journey. Of course, we talk about astrology and I ~attempt~ to guess her rising and moon sign. Other topics include the quiet joys of being single, dating apps, tarot, and more!
For this episode, I welcome my first anonymous guest to the show! Anon is poly and they want to discuss their sexuality freely while maintaining their privacy. We first discuss the stigma around polyamory and how society is centered around monogamy. Anon gives us some basic terminology in the poly community and also explains what being poly means to them. We also discuss social justice work and how people with privileged identities can do better. Anon also gives resources for people seeking to learn more about polyamory and books to read on social justice work.
For this week's episode, your favorite Scorpio baddie is back to record on the pod: Tia! She catches us up with what's new and the new beginnings happening in her life. We also talk about how to adjust to change and how we personally deal with it—sudden change vs. gradual change. Since we're both ~single~ ladies, we talk about first date questions, dating apps, and more. Tia also gives us a tattoo tour along with her new scorpion tattoo. Tune in for some wholesome content.
For this week's episode, I'm joined again by the multi-talented and beautiful Davita! She's the host of the podcast The Quarter Life Happy Hour and one of my best friends. Davita catches us up with what's new with her and how she's been getting her bag ($$$). We discuss dating your opposite vs dating your similar: which is better? We also talk about how to end situationship and the weirdness of breaking up when you never actually dated. Tune in for some chaotic Dav and Kate energy.
On this episode, I welcome back the lovely, multi-talented Cairo Ali. For all of you who need the tea: She's a drag queen living in Oxford, a law school graduate, a makeup-lover, and a Virgo. Cairo shares how their life is going post-grad while working three jobs (spoiler alert: he's thriving). We discuss juggling responsibilities and time-management in school. We also talk about how Cairo developed her makeup look for drag and we chat about our favorite makeup products to use. Lastly, we talk about how the beauty community has changed over the years and how beauty influencers aren't as prevalent.
To kick off season two with a fresh start, I have a new guest joining me for this episode: Mackenzie!!!! She's my roommate, one of my best friends, a Libra, a crystal lover, and one of the best people I know. We discuss growing in your 20s and the biggest lessons we've learned this year. Mackenzie also has a full-time job, so we discuss the difference between work and life (i.e. work not does not equal life). We also talk about crystals, tarot, and other fun topics. Tune in for some Libra/Libra high energy~
For this episode, I say goodbye to season one of Happy To Be Here. To talk about our favorite episodes of the season, I have brought on Davita Jo (the host of The Quarter Life Happy Hour (also one of my besties)). Recently, I've learned some big lessons in therapy, so obviously, I had to share them with you guys. I also discuss my Tinder do's and don'ts, and how to have a conversation that will lead to a connection.
A message to my listeners: Thank you for streaming and listening. This podcast has given me a voice and a platform. It has allowed me to share that voice with others allowing them to be heard as well. This show means a lot to me, and you guys mean a lot to me. I hope you'll keep listening and stay tuned for season 2!!!! Digital forehead kiss
Instagram: @happy2beher3
For this episode, I am joined by the amazing Luke: he's a plant-lover and he's politically active. Recently, he has spread awareness about an exclusionary flag ordinance that was just passed in our hometown. This ordinance bans the Pride flag and the Juneteenth flag from being flown outside of village hall. He was also a speaker at the local protest about this ordinance. We discuss the issues with this flag ordinance, the complacency of local governments, and how to get involved in local politics. Of course, I also guess Luke's astrological sign and we talk about our fav/least fav signs of the zodiac.
For this episode, Asad has joined me back on the pod, and your favorite Libra and Leo duo is back at it again. We discuss what Asad's been up to and how his birth week went. For his birthday, Asad and I went to Boystown with our friend Lia, so obviously we give you guys the tea about how the night went (including how we almost got stranded in Boystown). I share how my last day at Starbucks went, and Asad and I share our "fond" memories of working together. Tune in for some messy chaos—as always.
This week, the show has taken a more spiritual direction, so please welcome the wonderful Skye to the show! Skye practices Tarot and has come on to share some of their knowledge with us. Skye explains how to start a simple tarot practice, what is a good starter deck to use, and more. They also talk about the craziest reading she's ever had! I also attempt to guess their sun sign, and Davita even comes on to help me out.
Follow Skye on TikTok and Instagram: @skye.marinda.tarot
For this episode, I finally got another lesbian on the show (and she's amazing). It's Emily! Fun fact: Emily and I matched on Tinder a year ago and we share all the tea with you. This year, we reconnected and now we're "friends" (just go with it). Emily shares their experience as a Lesbian from coming to terms with their sexuality to coming out. We also share our experiences with compulsory heterosexuality (comp het) and the embarrassing stories about our comp het crushes.
On this episode, I'm joined by THE Cairo Ali. She's a drag queen living in Oxford, England who is also studying to become a lawyer (we love a multi-talented beauty). Cairo shares how they got into drag and we discuss the importance of inclusivity in drag culture. Obviously, we chat about our fav queens too. They also share their journey of becoming a lawyer as well as the similarities between drag and practicing law. Tune in to hear me guess their zodiac sign, us gossip about the Kardashians, and more!
Follow Cairo on Instagram: @thecairoali
This week, your favorite Gemini, bassist is back: Austin! We share how our summer is going so far and all the passion projects we've been working on. For this episode, Austin and I discuss how mental health is portrayed on social media. Specifically, how TikTok can lead to rampant self-diagnosing, glamorizing mental illness, and more. We also discuss the difficulties of finding reliable information on mental/physical health online or from professionals. Additionally, we talk about how sexism can play a role during a doctor's visit.
On this episode, I am joined by my spunky friend ~and fellow barista~ Katie. She's a Taurus, an anime enthusiast, an artist, and also a new guest on the show! Katie shares her experience as a pansexual Latina woman and her journey to becoming comfortable with herself. We also discuss anime (of course), the wonderful absurdity of art, and more!
On this week's episode, I talk about my favorite thing: being a lesbian. I discuss how I realized I'm a lesbian and what held me back from being my true self. I'm still a baby gay but I share my advice to women who are beginning to date women. In addition, I talk about the struggles of being perceived as a lesbian in the public sphere (going on dates with women, etc.). Of course, I give y'all some resources: Lesbian TikTokers to follow, wlw book recs, and more! Tune in for some honest, unfiltered, and ~gay~ content during Pride Month!
On this week's episode I am joined by ur favorite former-lovers-now-current-gay/straight-besties Lucas and Davita. Lucas and Davita have known each other for 11 years and used to date in high school (can you believe). We chat about their old relationship including their cringy (but also funny) teen drama. Lucas and I both share our coming out stories—the good and the bad. We also discuss why we hate rainbow capitalism and the superficial/surface level support from companies during Pride month.
On this episode, Jazzmine has returned to do another episode (YAY!!!!). You know her as my favorite Taurus, best friend, and fellow baddie. This week we discuss living at home and the importance of having me-time. We also talk about the concept of "soulmates" and the comfort in being single. In addition, we debate Snapchatting vs. texting when it comes to dating/talking to someone.
On this Mini Episode with Me, I just HAD to start it off with Olivia Rodrigo's new album and how iconic her brand is (like a collab with Sour Patch Kids... how cute). I also discuss my ongoing mental health journey. In addition, I talk about supporting your support system and the importance of chosen family. Get ready for another one-on-one, vulnerable, gay episode.
TW: depression, anxiety
On this week's episode I'm joined by the amazing Tia. We're both baristas, part of the LGBTQ+ community, love oat milk, and oh yeah... we both share an ex. Don't get it twisted—this episode is about positivity and supporting women. Men have enough attention already. We discuss bisexuality, Tia being raised Mormon, being baristas, my fear of chickens, enjoying the little things and more. Tune in for some wholesome, wlw content.
On this episode, I am joined by my two lovely ladies Davita (host of The Quarter Life Happy Hour) and Katie (a wonderful English teacher). We've been a trio since 2016 and we're always ready to talk about anything and everything. We discuss getting blocked vs. blocking, the chaos of Twitter drafts, the best and worst dating activities, and dating apps vs. meeting someone naturally.
On this episode, I am joined by the lovely Jamye. She's a cosplayer, a tiktoker, a fellow queer, and a bubbly introvert. We discuss how she got into cosplaying and where she finds her inspiration. Of course, we HAD to talk about anime and our favorite gay characters in cartoons. Jamye also shares her wonderful experience at Atlanta Pride—from Kesha performing to a human-sized blow up hamster ball. Tune in for some gay-nerdy-happy-go-lucky content!
On this episode, I am joined by Maddie. She's a plant mom, Sagittarius, true-crime lover, and an avid squishmallow collector. We discuss job interview anxiety, men's behavior at bars, the difficult transition from graduating college to living at home, and of course... squishmallows!!!!!!
On this episode, I am joined by Austin who is not only a fellow English Major from ISU but also a high school English teacher. We discuss being an English Major, if our college education prepared us to be allies, intersectionality, queer invisibility, and how social media can be a tool to find community and resources. I also guess Austin's astrological sign and we talk about our experiences with other zodiac signs!
This week, I am joined by your favorite local barista baddie, Asad. He is back on the pod once again along with his radiant Leo energy. We discuss the college experience: state schools vs. city schools, getting ~vaccinated~, Instagram, the Khloe Kardashian Facetuning situation, our personal styles, and where we draw fashion inspiration from. Listen up because your fav Libra and Leo duo do not hold back for this episode...
On the first mini episode with just me, I get to have one-on-one time with my listeners. To kick it off, I discuss dating apps and how to navigate them as a lesbian. Also, I HAD to talk about the greatness and ~gayness~ of Lil Nas X's new music video and the importance of LGBTQ+ representation in the media. As a future librarian, I give my fellow wlw listeners a wlw book recommendation. Lastly, I talk about the importance of self care and what my self care routine looks like.
On this episode, I am joined by my producer, close friend, and fellow baddie Davita Jo. She hosts her own podcast, "The Quarter Life Happy Hour," and loves to overshare on the internet just like me. Unfortunately, Davita is ~going through it right now~ and she shares her most recent heartbreak with us. We discuss right person vs. the person "right now": how sometimes we date people because they're right in front of us rather than they meet all of the standards of a partner. AND OF COURSE we talk about hot girl summer. We also discuss mental health, detaching from the ~drama~, self love, and anxiety. It's chaotic episode but would you expect anything else from two girls with podcasts?
TW: Sexual Assault, Gendered violence, and Homophobic Violence - 11 min to 14 min
On this episode, I am joined by the ultimate baddie and my best friend, Jazzmine. We talk about our long history as friends from playing Animal Crossing on our Nintendo DS to Jazzmine's first time visiting me at college. Long ago, I dubbed Jazzmine an honoree Redbird and she's been visiting me at college ever since. And oh boy, do we have some stories for you. Hear us discuss the grossness of frat basements, dartying vs. hangovers, tiny college dorm rooms, and the highs and lows of thrifting.
On this week's episode, I am joined by my work bestie Asad who is here and queer. Both of us are ~newly single~ so we ask the ultimate question: is it better to be the dumper or the dumpee? In true Libra and Leo fashion, we also discuss astrology like our favorite signs to date. Other fun topics include gay fast driving, bisexuality, and more.
In my first episode, yes my first episode (EEK), I introduce myself to my listeners. I talk about my astrology sign, my sexuality, and my ~lovely~ mental health issues. I discuss going to a new therapist for the first time and the nerves associated with going to therapy. I also talk about the new book I just finished, "I Hate Men" by Pauline Harmange, and how hating men shouldn't be a controversial statement. As always, I also share some goofy tinder messages and the struggle of being a lesbian in plain-white-wonder-bread-suburbia.