In Our Own Time: Recent Episodes

In Our Own Time

A long distance cross cultural catchup conversation between two girl friends in Kenya and America. They talk about their daily life and different aspects of their chaotic thirties millennial experience.

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In this episode we catch up on all things Abbachella, and then somehow from there meander to yapping about our ongoing tummy woes.

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Is modern tech your friend or foe? Abba's ready for a robot assistant while Kaitlyn's struggling to use a phone calendar. In this episode we talk about AI and our thoughts on the direction technology is moving. Enjoy!

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We're back after a long break talking about our chaotic lives whilst we've been away!

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Meet JJ! In this episode, we talk with Kaitlyn's former boss and forever friend JJ about his super wild life and journey to becoming an attorney.

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We go on a tangent on all our tattoos, talk about what we did on our big break, and 2024 vibes now that we're here!

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The full podcast squad is here for our final episode of the year and our favorite Gen Z and editor George joins us! We discuss how we met him, what inspires his audio-visual work, why he fears millennial women (Ha!), close friends, the madness of being the tech lead for two women in (not) STEM, and year-close vibes.

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It's bring your boyfriend to work day and Abba (finally!) get's to meet Kaitlyn's beux. We talk about Kaitlyn's catfish tinder account that reeled him in and Gage's love for 100 hours of intensity excersise amongst other things that do not make sense to us.

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We skirted through October with the skins of our teeth. We talk about activism for different personality types, how to care about everything and not get burnt out and sincerely staying informed when the world is burning.

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We are leaning into the end-of-year comfort and nesting vibes. We talk about how we like to create a home aesthetic and what are our must-haves. Plant mom life and the color 'theories' (lol we have none) we live by!

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In this episode we talk to Kiran about all things community, leaning into radical vulnerability, and living aligned with your purpose. And, we got to hear about some of the amazing work Kiran is doing through coaching and group programs for women on personal power, feminine embodiment, and ancestral healing. Kiran has such a calming energy and we loved hanging out with her and know you will too!

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We talked to Nelly about redefining life partnership, fertility, reparenting ourselves, self-care, work-life imbalance, and being a general boss!

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Why do we struggle to make friends in our adulthood? Do you date your friends and pursue as you do romantic partners? What has worked and failed for us? Share your experiences too!

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A tender conversation on our favorite topic - love! We talk about love, marriage, motherhood, divorce & all the things in between!

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We took a teeny tiny mid-year break and are back ready to lean into travel, themed parties, and playtime! Seek out people who wanna be silly! <3

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This week we are giddy talking about that good feeling of having a crush on someone, our thoughts on love at first sight, meeting lovers in other lifetimes, and deep soul connection!

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Couch surfin', map reading, travel bestie making and the side of ourselves we meet when we travel, especially alone.

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Unprompted whispered hi! :) The eclipse has us in shambles, the vibes are off and everything is heavy! We discuss therapy in its different forms as self-care to navigate this and all seasons.

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Pepper has inputs this week and Kaitlyn's body is moving backward as she walks. Inspired by Aminatou Sow & Anne Freidman's CYG, a podcast for long-distance besties everywhere, we talk about big friendships, platonic soul mates, what kind of friends we are, friendship breakups, and therapy with our besties.

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In this episode we introduce the topic of grief in all its forms - grieving the loss of life, grieving past versions of ourselves and the social expectations that limit how we can process grief. We talk about our own grief and those grieving around us. We're keen to explore this topic and will do a follow up episode soon!

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Cardi summarized this week's sentiments for us when she said, 'But nothing in this world that I like more than checks (money) All I really wanna see is the (money)!' We talk about our relationship with money, debt, investments and the stress of managing our finances. What does long term stability look and feel like? Will finances always be a point of anxiety?

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In this episode, we play The ASK Game to get into some thought provoking conversation topics. ASK is a Kenyan created  awesome card question game that spurs interesting perspectives between folks, and digs deep into topics to get to know people better!

If you enjoy this episode and want to learn more about ASK, check out their Instagram page @uliza.tu

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We share our wellness tips for the week and talk about our relationship with books! Our attempts at book clubs, favorite books, our top narration styles and genres. Kaitlyn takes us down a wolf pack rabbit hole and we share book recos!

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We share some grounding tips on our wellness check and talk about our relationship with love and other drugs (mainly alcohol :)

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Happy New Year! We're talking holiday vibes, manipulating lucid dreams, and our mothers of mothers, Whitney Houston! Also, Kaitlyn thinks the Beatles suck - run and let 'em know!

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Our 2022 vibe check is all over the place. Abba accidentally changes her stance on supplements, we talk about the time bending period as the year closes and Kaitlyn's commitment issues around resolutions. Congratulates to us on launching our podcast this year!

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Our relationship with social media, Elon Musk breaks our Twitter hearts and Kaitlyn stays obsessed with Nvirii The Storyteller 

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Abba has a ghost in her house, Kaitlyn has a tethered version of herself and intrusive thoughts try and shove you off a hot air balloon. 

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We talk about blueprint-less dating in our twenties, friendships with exes and open relationships. 

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We're late this week, whoops. But we get to have a little chat with Kaitlyn's dope mom so everything is well in the world! We talk parent/child relationships and how they change through different life stages plus other random topics. 

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Do you experience euphoric brain vibrations when someone meticulously explains to you where you can get your fantasy books in the library? Let's talk about ASMR goodness!

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We have winged eyeliner on, but our souls are exhausted. 

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We introduce everyone to Pepper, talk about the Queen's death & finally get into the main topic: kids! So much to say and truly we could go on forever. Hope you enjoy our rambles!

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Mic check one two - What does it take for two geriatric millennials to start a podcast? In Our Own Time podcast is a conversation between two girl friends from across the (pond?) way. Hi ya'll, we'll try and not giggle non stop next time! :D