The Pleaser Life Podcast: Recent Episodes
The Pleaser Life
Welcome to the Pleaser Life Podcast, where we bask in creating a life that pleases YOU, not everyone else. Time to step into your truth and feel the freedom of sovereignty, in society, your relationships, and your business. Here, we discuss the elements of people pleasing; the good, the not-so-fun, and the liberating... Get ready to step fully into who you are without the weight that comes with bending over backwards for everyone else; for you, by you, with you.
Have you ever been told you're "too nice"?
How did, or does, it make you feel to been seen this way? Understood? Agreeable? Triggered?
I've been there, countless times, especially in my decade-long career in male-dominated industries.
In this episode, we're diving into what it looks like to be "too nice" and how you can navigate this way of life.
Think you're "bad" or "wrong"?
What if I told you that's all a lie? That, spiritually, there is no "bad," "good," "right," or "wrong," in your own life? That every decision is a choice (whether deemed "bad" or "good" by society) you've made to reveal something within yourself that you didn't grant access to before?
Your journey is for you to choose; No one else.
The energy around "bad" and "good" and what that looks like for others is not for you to own.
Be a "good person."
Don't be "bad."
It's all relative; a creation of structure around feelings and experiences designed to be abstract.
In this episode, we go deeper into embracing "bad," and what that really means on a higher level.
Oh, hey freedom... Fancy seeing you here...
In a world of entrapment, fake standards, created beliefs, and a whole bunch of BS.
This episode is here for you to access your freedom through following intuition, even in those times you go back on it.
Break through the Old World belief system, and step unapologetically into the freedom that is you.
This lifetime is yours for the taking. Only you have the answers to your questions.
What do you expect?
Our expectations of the people and experiences around us in this lifetime can be the very thing that prevent us from living a fully sovereign, free life.
Expectations of how people will treat us, how they may or may not react, what a restaurant will be like before we even sit down at the table is all a form of protection in the name of anxiety.
Let's work on living HERE... In the moment. In the NOW. Stay in your power.
You don't need these made up stories anymore as a shield. You are safe when you are free of expectation.
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Ever been curious about all the talk on spiritual healing and channeling psychic intuition?
FYI: Spiritual healing isn't even close to a new phenomenon. Some of our ancestors ate this for breakfast way back in the day.
Maybe you're a skeptic of it all? My ears are ringing as this is written. 😉
As an Intuitive Life Coach, part of my gift is helping you identify, feel, and heal your own spiritual energy (which we all have) to elevate all spaces of your being and achieve the ultimate freedom in your relationships, at work, and beyond.
One of the most-asked questions I get is "How can I connect with my Spirit Guides?"
I entertain spiritual curiosity, always! So, in this episode, we are diving deep into psychic connection and intuition and working on SOUL.
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Give a damn? Nah.
Just kidding... It's in our DNA to care about others and what they think (to a degree). But, if you lived decades on decades of pleasing and bowing at the feet of others, then you might still be giving one too many damns.
Personally, my damns are almost out of stock!
In this episode of The Pleaser Life Podcast, I'm helping you better understand the tools and mentality required to throw a lot of your unnecessary, "protective" damns out the window so you can float light as a feather through the air.
In this episode of The Pleaser Life Podcast, we're going back to grade school to dissect the anatomy of a people pleaser.
Where does the need to people please come from? Why do people pleasers continue to please? How can a people pleaser lessen the load of pleasing? CAN a people pleaser change his/her tune?
If you're a people pleaser (former, current, or recovering), you might find yourself able to deeply relate to this episode.
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What if I were to tell you that all the discomfort you're feeling (in your relationships, in your career, etc.) is actually disguised as comfort?
Discomfort disguised as comfort is what I like to call "faux comfort," and faux comfort is a total bitch.
It's what we people pleasers have been conditioned to believe... That settling in the ideals, values, and morals of another human being is keeping us "safe."
In this episode of The Pleaser Life, I'm throwing you a life vest so you can float your way back to YOU... in true, authentic comfort that might feel tough at first...
But, I challenge you to lean into the resistance you're feeling... the authentic discomfort that leads to the sweetest freedom.
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Your life purpose isn't something finite. Your life purpose also isn't something you have to have figured out by age 18.
On this episode of The Pleaser Life Podcast, I'm sharing with you how the need to know your life purpose is a surfacing of your inner people pleaser.
We are multidimensional souls, with so many life purposes to tap into in this lifetime. How dare they force us into a place where we choose just one?! Girl, bye.
I'm giving you permission to figure things out as you go... enjoy the journey of discovering what really fuels your desires and lights you up. Right now, in this moment, what kind of life purpose would get you out of bed every morning? French toast is a completely acceptable answer by the way... as long as it's brioche.
Cheers to the life purpose adventure so many won't dare to travel... But, one that you bought a first class ticket to because you're awesome and "dangerous" like that.
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Welcome to The Pleaser Life Podcast, where you'll learn how to ditch the dependence and live this life for YOU and no one else!
In the episode, I'm taking you on a walk down Memory Lane, which was anything but a pleasant stroll.
***Please Note/Trigger Warning: This episode contains sensitive content regarding narcissistic abuse and mental health. Please contact 800-273-8255 if you are in need of support, or contact a mental health professional in your area. Your life matters, you are so loved, and you are a gift. I love you.
My battle with incessant people pleasing stems from a history of control and self doubt that lead to an emotionally abusive relationship with a covert narcissist later on in my life. But, eventually, I walked away from the control for good, and I started on the path of self sovereignty... all because of an old (unexpected) hobby that, ultimately, saved my life.
In this episode, I'm talking all about how you, too, can find love for yourself by revisiting something that sparks joy and assurance. There is hope, and the rough terrain of narcissistic abuse is a small stretch of land on the grand journey to freedom.
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