China University Student Advisor: Recent Episodes
Chimsy
You'll be listening to realistic advice and genuine encouragement from a veteran college student. In this podcast, I will be sharing my thoughts and experiences during my college years as a foreigner in China. This podcast won't be about how to study in China, how to study mandarin or how to apply for a scholarship. But instead, it will be about the positive and negative aspects of studying in China. I hope my anecdotes and advice can help you get a better perspective of your current situation in regard to studying in China.
In this episode, Chimsy talks about feeling S.A.D. (Seasonal Affective Disorder) and loneliness during the winter holidays and how to prepare for it.
Let's talk about something we usually keep to ourselves—feeling envy as an Expat. In this episode, we explore expat life and those moments when we envy others and feel a bit jealous. By the way, do you know the difference between jealousy and envy? Listen to find out!
A few thoughts about spending the holidays away from home and how winter holidays during December and January hit different when you are away from home. I wish ya'll a happy new year!
Will extending your studies in China make you more employable? Will you get paid more? Are international students afraid to leave the ivory tower and join the rat race? I'll dive into these topics and more.
From unexpected dorm visits to the intricacies of attendance obsession, we unveil the dynamics between students and teachers in the Middle Kingdom. Join us for anecdotes of miscommunications, surprise exams, and the clash of teaching styles that define the education landscape in China. Whether you're a language enthusiast or just curious about teaching abroad, "Navigating the Teacher Terrain" offers humor, insights, and a closer look at the mentors shaping your academic adventure. Tune in to Chimsy's China University Podcast for a candid exploration of Classroom Chronicles.
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Get ready for a wild ride as we explore dorm life in China! From 💩 roommates to awful rooms. Discover the ups and downs of living on and off-campus, the diverse types of accommodations you might encounter, and the hilarious encounters with roommates from different corners of the globe.
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Join us as we explore the fascinating world of relationships in China with a special guest who will share a unique exercise to help you map and understand your connections in this vibrant country. From romantic relationships to friendships, we'll dive deep into the dynamics and challenges you may encounter. We'll also shed light on two personality disorders, NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder), discussing their impact on relationships.
But that's not all! We'll equip you with essential knowledge by revealing 10 manipulative tactics to watch out for when navigating relationships in China. Whether you're a student, an expat, or simply curious about Chinese culture, this episode has something for everyone.
So grab your headphones and tune in to China University Podcast as we uncover the secrets behind successful connections in this dynamic country. Get ready for an episode packed with valuable insights, practical advice, and captivating stories that will reshape your perspective on relationships. Don't miss out!
Guilt-tripping, triangulation, projection and love-bombing:
7 Manipulation Tactics to Know (psychcentral.com)
Sulking or stone-walling and gas-lighting:
Understanding Stonewalling and Gaslighting
About Narcissists and love bombing: Love-bombing 10 ways narcissists use it to control-you
About Borderline Personality Disorder, devaluation and idealization: Devaluation and Idealization in BPD
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In this episode, we dive into the often overlooked topic of academic failure and explore its impact on students' journeys. We begin by examining the distinct nature of failure for undergraduate, graduate, and postgraduate students, shedding light on the varying expectations and challenges at each level.
Coping Strategies of Failing International Medical Students in Two Chinese Universities: A Qualitative Study: https://doi.org/10.1080/10401334.2023.2204077 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100086169876796 Youtube：https://www.youtube.com/@chinauniversitypodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ChinaUniversityPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/chinaunipodcast Stream and download episodes from your browser: https://sites.libsyn.com/435969
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Join us in this captivating episode as we delve into the intriguing topic of developing a sense of belonging in China. Our host, Chimsy, shares personal experiences and some voice messages from foreigners who have lived or are currently living in China. Discover the unique journey of finding one's place in a foreign land, navigating cultural differences, and embracing the challenges and rewards of living in China.
“Comparative effects of belongingness on the academic success and cross-cultural interactions of domestic and international students”: https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ijintrel.2013.04.004
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In this episode, we explore the concept of "chabuduo-ism" - a Chinese term that roughly translates to "close enough" or "near enough." We discuss how this philosophy manifests in various aspects of Chinese culture, from customer service to daily life, and how it can both frustrate and fascinate foreigners. Additionally, we delve into the potential drawbacks and benefits of this approach, as well as the cultural values that underpin it. Join us as we take a deep dive into the fascinating and complex world of Chabuduo culture.
Why is customer service generally awful in China?
https://qr.ae/pyXRZ6
What is meant by a "high-trust" or "low-trust" society?
https://qr.ae/pyXzHW
What is information asymmetry?
https://www.economist.com/the-economist-explains/2016/09/04/what-is-information-asymmetry
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In this episode of 'Skipping Classes in China', we delve into the reasons why foreign students in China skip classes. From personal issues to lecture-related problems, we explore the factors that lead to this behavior. Join us as we share real-life stories from students who have skipped classes and examine the impact that it can have on academic performance. Tune in now to discover why this behavior may be more prevalent than you think.
Reasons for missing classes in college; the role of personality traits: https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sbspro.2015.09.046
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In this episode, I'll take you on a journey through the common reasons for getting lost in China, along with some incredible stories. And don't worry, I won't actually teach you how to get lost, but you might learn a thing or two about navigating the unfamiliar streets of China as a foreigner. Plus, stay tuned for a special guest sharing their unforgettable experience.
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In this episode, I explored the topic of distractions and how they can impact our productivity and daily lives as students in China. I discussed ADHD, self-sabotage, forgetting according to Freud, and time blindness.
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In this episode, I will briefly talk about the history of body-shaming in China and the world in general. I'll share a couple of stories related to body image and discrimination.
Poverty and obesity in the U.S.:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3198075/
“The undermining effect of facial attractiveness on brain responses to fairness”
https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fnins.2015.00077/full
“Portrayals of Overweight and Obese Individuals on Commercial Television”
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1447967/
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In this episode, we delve into the health problems faced by international students in China. Join us as we hear about one of my own personal experiences with sleep apnea and leptin and how I navigated the health care system in China, including the student insurance coverage, hospital visits, and self-care. Get insights and tips about health issues in China.
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In this episode, I talk about identity crisis, authenticity from a psychological point of view, the Buddhist concept of Anattā and the concept of "the shadow" by Carl Jung.
Scientific Article (Abstract): Prevent the blue, be true to you: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2017-15514-008
Anattā: https://tricycle.org/magazine/anatta-buddhism/
The Shadow:
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/what-is-shadow-work
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In this episode, I will talk about guanxi, WeChat clutter, connections and networking in college.
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In this episode, I will talk about idealization and how idealizing your life in China can sometimes lead you to devalue your entire experience in the country.
Idealizing:
https://fernandosambora.com/life/idealize-idealizing-limits-of-expectations-in-a-real-world/
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In this episode, I'll talk about one of the less obvious reasons why students might have inconsistent sleeping habits in China. I'll also talk about sensation seeking and boredom susceptibility.
Sensation-Seeking:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/sensation-seeking
Poor sleep is associated with sensation-seeking and risk behavior in college students:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8889956/
Sleep Apnea:
https://www.webmd.com/sleep-disorders/sleep-apnea/sleep-apnea
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In this episode, I'll talk about feeling stuck in China, and I'll also share some stories about being stuck outside of China.
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In this episode I will talk about asking for favors, asking for help, over-reliance and codependency.
Codependency:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/codependency
“Codependent No More” by Melody Beattie:
https://melodybeattie.com/books/codependent-no-stop-controlling-others-start-caring/
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In this episode, I will talk about lack of motivation in China. I'll also share a story about high-functioning depression and talk about revenge bedtime procrastination.
Revenge Bedtime procrastination:
https://www.sleepfoundation.org/sleep-hygiene/revenge-bedtime-procrastination
High-functioning depression:
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/high-functioning-depression/
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In this episode I'll talk about being judged, judging others, the reasons why it happens. I will also share my personal experience with judgement and "projection".
What is "projection" in psychology?
https://www.healthline.com/health/projection-psychology
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In this episode I will talk about impostor syndrome or the impostor phenomenon and how certain circumstances in China made me doubt about my own capabilities.
Impostor Syndrome:
https://www.apa.org/gradpsych/2013/11/fraud
Fear of success:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/anxiety-in-high-achievers/202105/the-fear-success-can-sabotage-your-life-goals
Self-sabotage:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/self-sabotage
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In this episode, I'll talk about what we expect from others and what others expect from us in China. I'll talk about some unrealistic expectations that you will run into and how to have healthier expectations.
Digital Availability:
https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220207-the-crippling-expectation-of-247-digital-availability
Presenteeism:
https://www.investopedia.com/terms/p/presenteeism.asp
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs:
https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html
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In this episode I will talk about: running out of money, the common reasons why we have financial struggles, overspending, borrowing and lending money in China.
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In this episode, I will talk about when and why we start feeling lost in life and in China. I'll talk a little bit about the benefits of planning and creating when it comes to finding purpose.
Locus of Control:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/locus-control
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I'll share my thoughts about loneliness while studying in China. I'll also mention some examples of healthy and unhealthy coping mechanisms that students use to deal with loneliness.
You'll be listening to realistic advice and genuine encouragement from a veteran college student. In this podcast, I will be sharing my thoughts and experiences during my college years as a foreigner in China. This podcast won't be about how to study in China, how to study mandarin or how to apply for a scholarship. But instead, it will be about the positive and negative aspects of studying in China. I hope my anecdotes and advice can help you get a better perspective of your current situation in regard to studying in China.