Stories that shape us with Joanna Daniel: Recent Episodes
Joanna Daniel
In stories that shape us, I will share how some stories from our past and also everyday occurrences shape how we see, feel and interact with ourselves and others.
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"In this video, we explore how raising children in a home rooted in respect and healthy conflict resolution between parents can build a strong foundation for emotional and generational wealth. Learn how these values shape a new generation for success in life and relationships."How we can support you:Join the Parenting Corner and start building secure connections with your children - https://joannas-school-0526.thinkific.com/courses/TheparentingcornerFollow Wounds to ScarsFacebook: @WoundstoScars Instagram: @woundstoscars1Email: joanna@woundstoscars.comDisclaimer:The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the guidance of a qualified mental health professional with any questions you may have regarding your mental health or a medical condition. If you are in crisis or think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or emergency services immediately.
In this episode of the Stories that Shape Us with Joanna Daniel, I talk with Bev Thomas from Solace Bereavement Support based in Salford Manchester. Bev shares the inspiration behind starting grief support for her community and what keeps her going.Book a Counsellor: https://woundstoscars.com/book-now/Register now for trauma-informed devotionals. Free to your inbox. Sign up and share with a friend. Devotions written by Joanna Daniel https://woundstoscars.com/trauma-info...Follow Wounds to ScarsFacebook: @WoundstoScars Instagram: @woundstoscars1Email: joanna@woundstoscars.comDisclaimer:The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the guidance of a qualified mental health professional with any questions you may have regarding your mental health or a medical condition. If you are in crisis or think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or emergency services immediately.
Today, I am answering a question asked by many and touching on some of the underlying reasons that impact a person's decision to leave or not leave a marriage after infidelity.Last chance for 2024
I will offer our highly sought-after healing course one last time before the year ends. Your final opportunity in 2024 will be to embark on this transformative journey with us.
Book a Counsellor: https://woundstoscars.com/book-now/Register now for trauma-informed devotionals. Free to your inbox. Sign up and share with a friend. This month's focus is Psalms. 88. Devotions written by Joanna Daniel https://woundstoscars.com/trauma-info...Follow Wounds to ScarsFacebook: @WoundstoScars Instagram: @woundstoscars1Email: joanna@woundstoscars.comDisclaimer:The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the guidance of a qualified mental health professional with any questions you may have regarding your mental health or a medical condition. If you are in crisis or think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or emergency services immediately.
Discover how confronting unresolved issues with a parent and embracing vulnerability can transform anger into healing. Join us on this emotional journey of faith, growth, and the power of true connection.Book a Counsellor: https://woundstoscars.com/book-now/Register now for trauma-informed devotionals. Free to your inbox. Sign up and share with a friend. This month's focus is Psalms. 88. Devotions written by Joanna Daniel https://woundstoscars.com/trauma-info...Follow Wounds to ScarsFacebook: @WoundstoScars Instagram: @woundstoscars1Email: joanna@woundstoscars.comDisclaimer:The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the guidance of a qualified mental health professional with any questions you may have regarding your mental health or a medical condition. If you are in crisis or think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or emergency services immediately.
In this episode of the podcast I sat down with Natalya Harris as she shares candidly about the impact of the absent father.
Book a Counsellor: https://woundstoscars.com/book-now/Register now for trauma-informed devotionals. Free to your inbox. Sign up and share with a friend. This month's focus is Psalms. 88. Devotions written by Joanna Daniel https://woundstoscars.com/trauma-info...Follow Wounds to ScarsFacebook: @WoundstoScars Instagram: @woundstoscars1Email: joanna@woundstoscars.comDisclaimer:The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the guidance of a qualified mental health professional with any questions you may have regarding your mental health or a medical condition. If you are in crisis or think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or emergency services immediately.
We believe the stories of people who’ve survived and healed can be of benefit to others. Today’s special guest is sharing advice to her younger self we hope that this will inspire others as they assess their circumstances and make decisions.
October is domestic abuse awareness month and this is the first in a series of interviews with survivors of domestic abuse. Today’s conversation is with Simone, mother, Counsellor and soon to be author.
Today is day 366 of the stories that shape us podcast. I am grateful for your company and is honoured to serve you. I hope you will continue to join us as we change format.
In life we will experience different seasons, different places of growth. When we pay attention to those seasons we learn more and grow more
One of the ways we deny ourselves abundance is by not asking for what we need. In order for you to have abundance and fulfilling relationships, starts with having your needs met. But you first have to ask for what you need.
Today I am talking about some of the things that prevent Christian women from seeking therapeutic support.
Today I am sharing things that I’ve learnt over the last year that have helped me to grow
Today I am talking about some of the issues that might arise for a man who never had his father
Today, I am reflecting on my attachment journey with the twins on the eve of their 17th birthday.
Today I am talking about emotionally detached people and their inability to meet your needs
We can enjoy safe filling relationships by being available to others but the path to that is to first be available to ourselves.
Today I am talking about things you can do to before you consider speaking with your parent about the impact of emotional availability on you.
Abandonment from the father can create many issues for a daughter, today, I am talking about some of the ways this shows up in life.
Emotional abandonment is often hard to identify. In today's episode, I am talking about some ways it will manifest itself in people's lives.
We can break generational cycles and learn to give what we never got. We can connect and build secure connections with others. You can allow others to love you deeply and give yourself permission to fully fall into that love.
Are you in the stage where you are reading your parents? Whether through teaching emotional language or taking on caring responsibilities. Whatever the stage remember to take care of you
Today I am talking about an incident where I spoke to my son in anger and had to do some repair work
Relational patterns are repetitive and unconscious behaviours developed over time to keep us safe
We are stewards of grace. This is designed to help us help those around us who are hurting and in need of kindness and compassion.
Today I am talking about the importance of learning as opposed to pulling away. We gain much insight and understanding into of ourselves when we lean in
There’s transformative power in telling your story. Today I am sharing some of the ways that transformation will show. To learn more about and join the journey to freedom email joanna@woundstoscars.com
Today, I am talking about some of the challenges of healing as a Christian woman. Do’s and don’t that are explicitly and sometimes not so explicitly expressed. To join the journey to freedom program for survivors of sexual trauma email joanna@woundstoscars.com
Sometimes the path to forgiveness is through anger. To join the next season of the journey to freedom email: joanna@woundstoscars.com
Today's topic is Healing is Messy as I continue to share some of my journey of healing. To join the journey to freedom email joanna@woundstoscars.com
This week I will be sharing my journey of healing from SA, some of the things that helped and some that didn't. Today, I'm talking about my biggest support as I heal. To get more information and register for the Journey to Freedom group starting on 23rd August email joanna@woundstoscars.com
Today I am discussing some things you can do when it feels like your world is falling apart. To learn more and register for the journey to freedom email joanna@woundstoscars.com
Sometimes we try to copy other people's behaviour or work ethic not knowing that it's based on patterns they are trying to change.
I got asked this question recently and thought I would use the podcast to answer. Why are people reluctant to get help
Feelings are attached to needs. When we can find the feeling beneath the need it will help you understand and manage your emotions
Today I am talking about the importance of self care and the stories that shape how to care for self.
What does healing have to do with grace. Today, I am talking about the space where religion and psychology intersect. Could that be where grace resides for many people
Some people detach when they have a problem others choose to access support and use the help of the people that are in their lives.
Is God interested in our growth? Can He help us grow. In today’s episode I am talking about Jesus and growth. The tools we have in His word that helps us do the hard work of growth
Growth happens when we don’t give up. Today, I am sharing my growth from avoidant to secure attachment.
We are in the era where people are cutting people off dishonestly. Often conflict avoidant and communication difficulties means that needs are not expressed and needful conversations don’t happen before distance is created.
If you are sowing into your children and it feels like nothing is happening don't give up. In due season you will reap.
The hallmark of a good leader is management of self. Knowing when to respond or not. Leadership can be trained in but in settings like church some people are given positions but no leadership training often to the detriment of the people they are leading
This is the second instalment In effect self leadership. I am sharing the areas that I had to work on in gaining leadership of self.
In this episode of stories that shape us, I am talking about the path to effective self-leadership
Many are managers but not leaders. I believe to be a good leader one has to first learn to lead themselves.
Do you live in your heard to avoid feelings? Today, I am talking about what it’s like to live in your head and whether it’s a long term sustainable strategy to use to manage emotions.
Spaces that allows you to be open and honest are worth spending more time in with people that can show care and compassion.
When we are tempted to think about how other people see us, it's always important to look to examine our thoughts and view of ourselves first.
Sometimes we can experience periods of busy activity but not growth. In today’s episode I am sharing some key ingredients for growth.
Today I am sharing honestly about why there was no story yesterday and how I plan to move forward.
We practice certain behaviours because they are meeting a need. In order for that to change we have to identify the need it’s meeting and find new ways of getting the need met
Heal before your next relationship.
Inner child healing coaching groups starts again on July 10th. This is an intense 12 weeks program with only three women. One space available email joanna@woundstoscars.com for more details.
Growth is inevitable but we still try to avoid it. However, what if we lean into it instead. What could we learn about ourselves and the people we do life with.
Inner child healing coaching groups starts again on July 10th. This is an intense 12 weeks program with only three women. One space available email joanna@woundstoscars.com for more details.
When a woman isn’t free to say no to intimacy, that’s abuse.
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Abuse takes many forms the call from men for women to be feminine and submissive is also a platform for abuse to thrive.
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Healing will change you. The transformation isn’t negative but it will repel some people and resonate with others. Proceed with boldness.
Inner child healing coaching groups starts again on July 10th. This is an intense 12 weeks program with only three women. One space available email joanna@woundstoscars.com for more details.
Parenting after trauma can be challenging. We can be challenged or triggered by the needs of our children. Healing helps you understand those triggers and make decisions that sends messages of love and care.
Inner child healing coaching groups starts again on July 10th. This is an intense 12 weeks program with only three women. One space available email joanna@woundstoscars.com for more details.
Taking responsibility for how you feel helps you grow in emotional intelligence and awareness
In Today's episode, people don’t have to respect your boundaries but you get to decide what to do when they don’t. You are the only one who have to respect your boundaries.
Maybe no one told you but you don’t have to be nice. Nice is usually a symptom of people pleasing which is rooted in low self-esteem. In today’s episode I talked about how to overcome people pleasing m.
We often hesitate to change. The fear is sometimes rooted in stories of the past. Today I am challenging you to challenge those stories so that you can grow.
Some people have an in-ate fear of change. They will not make a decision until forced to do so. Today, I am inviting you to challenge you to question the fear until you get the answers that will set you free
In Today's episode, Natalya and I talked about the importance of a fathers love and some things to do when it wasn’t present.
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In Today's episode, three ways to heal the father wound.
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In Today's episode, you have the power to change the narrative and control the stories that are told through you.
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In Today's episode, today I am talking with Eddie Hypolite about the things that we can do to build connections with the stories about our fathers so that we can decide how the story is told.
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The word father means different things to different people today I am asking you to reflect on what the word means to you.
Today's episode is talking about those women whose fathers weren't around. The reason might vary but the impact is the same.
Once trust is broken it's not easy to repair. You may need to throw out that one and start again. In today's episode, I am sharing some things to consider if you are thinking of building trust with your father. Email Joanna@woundstoscsrs.com to join the fireside can't June 15th at 8 pm BST.
In Today's episode, we reap what we sow.
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In Today's episode, refers to the role patriarchy plays in the father-daughter connection.
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In Today's episode, three ways growing up without a father can affect a woman.
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In Today's episode, I am continuing the conversation around daddy issues and asking the question; “do you have a toxic relationship with your father?”
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In Today's episode, I am talking about how daddy issues affect a girl.
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In Today's episode, I am talking about the impact of unprocessed pain on mental health.
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In Today's episode, I am talking with Eddie Hypolite on the topic of black men and emotional intelligence.
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In Today's episode, I am talking with Kashina Smith about the importance of connecting with your children.
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In Today's episode, I asked a question, what makes a relationship healthy?Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972
In Today's episode, it’s not easy to leave an abusive relationship.Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972
In Today's episode, do you feel on behalf of yourself.Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972
In Today's episode, I am sharing a conversation I had with my son. about trauma responses and the nervous system.Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972
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In Today's episode, three ways fear will hijack your healing journey.Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972
In Today's episode, i am asking a question: do you struggle to open up?Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In Today's episode, you can have everything God has for you.Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In Today's episode, i am talking about two obstacles to connection.Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In Today's episode, how do we become emotionally available?Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In Today's episode, are you emotionally available?Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In Today's episode, I am talking about some things that cause breakdowns in relationships.Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In Today's episode, I am talking about the things we can learn from endings.Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In Today's episode, I am talking about how we can manage conflict well.Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In Today's episode, I am talking about how useful the work that you have done will be for each phase or stage of your life.Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In Today's episode, we talked about what the Bible says about submission. Resource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In Today's episode we talked about how we navigate growth in our marriage.Reaource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
Today's episode is about ways trauma hinders growth in marriageReaource:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
Today's episode is about tips that foster growth in marriage.Get:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
Today's episode is about the benefits of a spiritual connection in marriage.Get:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
This is the before you Say I Do, try informed edition where I will share some crucial things to consider before marriage. Today I am talking about the importance of healing abandonment before marriage.Get:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
This is the before you Say I Do, try informed edition where I will share some crucial things to consider before marriage. Today we are exploring questions to consider before you say I do.Get:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
This is the before you Say I Do, try informed edition where I will Share some crucial things to consider before marriage. Toda we are exploring the importance of having a spiritual connection before you say I do.Get:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
This is the before you Say I Do, try informed edition where I will Share some crucial things to consider before marriage. Today's topic is: Does your partner make you feel safe?Get:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
This is the before you Say I Do, try informed edition where I will Share some crucial things to consider before marriage. Today's topic is: three reasons to heal abandonment before marriage.Get:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
This is the before you Say I Do, try informed edition where I will share some crucial things to consider before marriage. Today's topic is know your attachment style.Get:Path to secure connectionJoanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/214972Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
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Starting over can be challenging. Fear, doubt and negative thoughts can hold us back. Today, I am talking with Chaute Thompson LMHC about how to undertake the brand new journey.Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.comWww.brandnewmejourney.com
Today's topic: stop blaming victims for the abuse that they experienced.Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In this episode, I am talking about some of the things we can do to break the culture of silence around sexual abuse.Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In this episode, I am talking to Psychotherapist and Author Alison Auwku about some of the ways sexual trauma impacts marriagesRegister for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In this episode I am talking about: shame die in safe spaces.Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In this episode I am talking about what to do when you are feeling overwhelmed.Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.com
In this episode I am talking about five things survivors of trauma need to do.Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.comJoin our community:https://www.patreon.com/StoriesthatshapeuswithJoannaDaniel
In this episode I am talking about three key areas affected by sexual abuse:Register for the trauma recovery conference June 16-18. Email joanna@woundstoscars.comJoin our community:https://www.patreon.com/StoriesthatshapeuswithJoannaDaniel
In this episode I am talking about the number one reason some relationships fail.Join our community:https://www.patreon.com/StoriesthatshapeuswithJoannaDaniel
In this episode I am a question that was sent in by a listener m: how can I stay in control of my emotions?In todays story I am sharing one crucial thing to remember that will help you stay in control of your emotions.
In this episode I am talking about stories that shape our view of parenting with Glenville Daniel.
In this episode I am answering a question: what should I do when family don’t support my decisions
In this episode I talk about why you are responsible for your healing and the path to arriving at the place where you can begin the work of acknowledging the story that created the wound.
In this episode I talk about three things you can do when others don’t trust your decisions
In this episode I talk about lifestyle choices to manage stress with Dr Amanda Chisholm.
In this episode I talk about the research that shows that loneliness is bad for your health.
In this episode I talk about the importance of having safe spaces to share how you feel.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In this episode I am speaking about how trauma can impact your relationships.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In this episode I am speaking with Andrew and Christy Bauman about sex and intimacy in Christian marriages.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-manCo-create workshops for couples:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/co-create-1-day-couples-online-workshop-tickets-524165431917
In this episode I am speaking with Tee Kapida about how we can exemplify healthy relationships to our children.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In stories that shape us today, I am talking with Lewis Harris about the model of a man.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In stories that shape us today, I am talking with Glenville Daniel around mentoring and healthy relationship Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In stories that shape us today, I am talking about whether Christians should cancel people.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In stories that shape us today, I am talking about the lasting impact of being parented by a narcissist.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In stories that shape us today, I am talking about what it's like to be raised by a narcissist.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In stories that shape us today, I am talking about the relationship that sometimes exists between your sibling and parent. From the outside, it looks healthy but taking a closer look might reveal surprising things.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In stories that shape us today, I am talking about toxic mother-daughter relationships.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In stories that shape us today, I am talking about the soul-healing from toxic shame.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In stories that shape us today, I am talking about the fact that church leaders should understand abuse.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In stories that shape us today, I am talking about the soul-destroying impact of domestic abuse.Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking about the importance hidden subject of abuse in dating relationships.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am discussing how sexual predators groom in churches.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am discussing tactics abusers use to groom adults in church.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am discussing the topic of ownership. Who owns the woman God or her husband.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking about some strategies to cope when you are triggered.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking about the connection between sexual abuse and depression.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking about some of the reasons mental health is minimise in churches.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am having a conversation with Joyce about managing depression, homelessness and her come see a man moment.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am having a conversation with Therapist Natasha Walker-Smith about the things people miss put on when they try to D.I.Y their healing.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am having a conversation with another author from the Come See a Man devotional about healing and self-care.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am having a conversation with another author from the Come See a Man devotional about the importance of developing a self-care routine.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am having a conversation with another author from the Come See a Man devotional about how we live silently while in pain.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am having a conversation with another author from the Come See a Man devotional about how we wear a mask to hide our pain.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am having a conversation with another author from the Come See a Man devotional about how she is managed depression.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking about strategies a groomer uses to get close to and harm.victimsUse the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking about the number one area predators target.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking about why we should stop blaming victims for the abuse they experienced.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am sharing some effective ways to deal with stress.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking about how to understand your stress response.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking about how to deal with stress without distress.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking with Sherena Harper about finding rest after grief.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking about Tamara V. Lawrence as she shared how God took her to the jungle to save her marriage.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking healing church hurt with Camelia Brown.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking sharing some things that you can do when you don't feel good enough.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
On stories that shape us today, I am talking sharing tips on how to overcome the past.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am asking a question. Do you know the stories that shape you?Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am talking about how even the stories that we don’t acknowledge shape us.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am talking about the number one thing stopping you from healing.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am talking about how to forgive people who aren’t sorry that they’ve hurt you.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am discussing three crucial points you need to consider when forgiving.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am talking about forgiveness. In particular, I am asking the question: should you forgive your abuser.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am talking about how to build resilience after abandonment.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am talking about how to face and deal with the wounds received through abandonment.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am talking about how to trust yourself after abandonment.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am talking about how to forgive after being abandoned.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am talking about three self-protecting behaviours people with mental health face.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am talking about the things that causes abandonment and some signs that will help you identify abandonment in your story.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am sharing some crucial things you can do to heal from spiritual abuse.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
There are distinct differences between toxic leaders and ones that are safe. In todays podcast I will share some of the signs your leader has toxic traits.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Today, I am sharing five signs that the things you experienced could be spiritual abuse
Leaders who are dismissive of your abuse story so that they can protect perpetrators are harmful. This kind of treatment can be harmful.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In this type of congregation you are vulnerable and unprotected. They prefer doctrine over people and will shame you into having a need such as help with mental health.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
A huge part of spiritual trauma is dealing with narcissistic pastors, leaders and people in authority. They can be self-absorbed, entitled and undermining.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Acknowledging and healing from religious trauma can be challenging. Today, I am sharing two things that you can do to start your healing.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Acknowledging and healing from religious trauma can be challenging. Today, I am sharing some things that you can do as you heal.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
People sometimes use scriptures to get people to do what they want. This is a dangerous misuse of the word.If you are in an abusive relationship and need assistance:Contact Women’s aid: helpline@womensaid.org. If you are in danger please call 999Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In listening to victims of abuse helpers have to be careful to not use scriptures to dismiss people's pain and reason away abuse.If you are in an abusive relationship and need assistance:Contact Women’s aid: helpline@womensaid.org. If you are in danger please call 999Use the link below to register for the come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Abuse destroys lives and sometimes ends lives. The church that ostracized the victim and shields the abuser is not doing God's workIf you are in an abusive relationship and need assistance:Contact Women’s aid: helpline@womensaid.org. If you are in danger please call 999Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
God’s not upset with you for for calling out abuse. No one knows how God feels, not can they speak in his behalf.If you are in an abusive relationship and need assistance:Contact Women’s aid: helpline@womensaid.org. If you are in danger please call 999Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Sharing your story didn’t cause the demise of your family, the abuser did.If you are in an abusive relationship and need assistance:Contact Women’s aid: helpline@womensaid.org. If you are in danger please call 999Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Forgiveness is often given to victims as the key to changing the abuser. However, victims are often experts in forgiveness. They know how to forgive daily hoping that things will change. They also know forgiveness won’t stop the abuse. If you are in an abusive relationship and need assistance:Contact Women’s aid: helpline@womensaid.org. If you are in danger please call 999Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Every church should consider these points as crucial in the selection and training of leadership. A trauma-informed church is a caring church.Use the link below to register for come see a man conference: April 8-9, Swansea, Wales https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
There are significant differences between a difficult and an abusive marriage. Sometimes women are sent home to do more so that the relationship can work. If you are supporting people it’s crucial that you know the difference. If you are in an abusive relationship:Women’s aid: helpline@womensaid.org. If you are in danger please call 999Register for our annual conference: come see a man conference: https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
In order to help victims of abuse you might have to challenge judgements and biases that you have.Women’s aid: helpline@womensaid.org. If you are in danger please call 999Register for come see a man conference: https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
While there are things you shouldn’t say to a victim of abuse there are some things that it would be helpful to them as they heal. Women’s aid: helpline@womensaid.org. If you are in danger please call 999Register for come see a man conference: https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Leaving is complex and can be dangerous. If you are supporting someone who experienced abuse listening is key.Women’s aid: helpline@womensaid.org. If you are in danger please call 999Register for come see a man conference: https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Knowing the difference between abuse and marriage difficulties require the listener to do two things well. Ask the right questions and be able to sit with the truth. Women’s aid: helpline@womensaid.org. If you are in danger please call 999
Sometimes leaders struggle to understand the differences between a difficult marriage and an abusive one. This is the first in a five part series of breaking down abuse so that those who struggles can have some clarity so that victims can be adequately supported. Register for our Annual Conference April 8-9 https://mailchi.mp/de3e7d7385f8/come-see-a-man
Are the strategies for managing rejection in our personal lives different to the ones we need at work? Join me today as I share three tips to help you face rejection at work.
What happens when rejection is no longer ambiguous? When they use words that let you know that they do not want you in a their lives. Listen to today's podcast to get help with how to manage if this should arise.
If you’ve ever experienced rejection you will know the accompanying feelings can be difficult to manage. In today's stories I am sharing there things you can do that will help you manage rejection.
We know that rejection hurt we sometimes don't know why. In today's episode, I am discussing some of the reasons rejection hurt.
We all have an automatic response. Our go-to way of dealing with things that are challenging. In today's episode, I am talking about one particular response we sometimes use when we feel rejected.
This week I will be talking about rejection. The way it feels, it’s impact and how to heal
When your safe place is also the place that I still fear it will be challenging to set boundaries. However, as an adult you can learn the elements of good boundaries and implement.
The Bible says let your yeah be yeah and your nay, May but sometimes people in the community also uses scriptures to guilt you into abandoning your boundaries.
Today, I am talking about some of the difficulties in setting boundaries when the core wound is abandonment.
Setting boundaries with parents when theirs insecure attachment can be challenging. In this episode I am sharing some things to consider when setting boundaries with parents when attachment isn’t secure. Boundaries and the Christian Woman - three part audio series: https://joanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/229075
Every healthy relationship has boundaries and the relationship with your parents is no different. Today I am sharing some things to consider as you set boundaries with your parents
Forming and practicing boundaries with parents might be challenging depending on your culture. However, the principles of of boundaries can apply across cultures. I am discussing how in today’s episode.
Healing exposes parts of you that you never knew or didn’t have access to. If you are setting goals this new year make knowing you one of them.
The ability to understand and manage your emotions will go along way in helping you to set and maintain boundaries.
Boundaries define our limits and communicates to the world who we would like to be treated. Learn more about how to set and maintain good boundaries with this three part audio - https://joanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/229075
It’s best to build good boundaries. Limits are used to protect us. In this episode I am talking about some of the things you can do when there’s a boundary violation. For more on setting and maintaining good boundaries visit https://joanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/229075
Our ability to set and maintain boundaries is often impacted by our view of self. When your confidence and self-esteem increased so will your ability to set and manage boundaries. https://joanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/229075
When you have good boundaries sometimes you don’t have to say it because people will experience your boundaries without you having to speak them. For more on boundaries and the Christian woman visit https://Joanna-store.dpdcart.com/product/229075
Fear stops many from setting and maintaining boundaries. However, living without limits doesn’t lead to a fulfilled life.
When we rescue we take responsibility for other people’s actions and neglect our needs and feelings. However, with good boundaries you can learn how to set and follow through with boundaries and not rescue. To learn more about how to set and maintain boundaries we have a three part audio series with work book email joanna@woundstoscars.com to get yours.
There’s something about boundaries that seem to send some women in the opposite direction. They feel unable to reinforce boundaries and make this clear to some individuals.
When scriptures are used to back up unhealthy behaviours it can be hard to spot and harder to challenge. If this is you reach out and get support from someone who is trained and can help you.
There are many people in leadership who will teach from a cultural perspective attached some Bible verse and try to make it gospel. These are some things that embolden abusers and trap women in oppression.
It’s crucial that we know how to get ourselves back to a place of peace when triggered. Today I am sharing some things you can do to help keep your body safe.
Sometimes pain can feel heavy. Carrying this heavy feeling can impact us both physically and mentally so do more of the things they gives you joy to life the heavy feelings and free you.
You can heal and break harmful patterns in your family. You can heal, you can grow and you can live a different experience from the one that was given to you by your family of origin.
Emotionally immature parents lack awareness and misunderstand their role as caregivers. Instead of guiding and providing safety for their children, they often require care. Children becomes caretakers ignoring their needs
Families that have favourites existed for generations. Today, I am sharing some things that you can do if you are not the family’s favourite.
Different things can trigger us and destabilise us. It’s important to know some strategies to use at these times to help get you back to a place of peace.
A parent's unresolved pain can impact you in many ways today I am talking about three ways your mother's pain can impact you.
Sometimes relationships break and don’t mend because we don’t have tools to repair. Here are three things that you can do to help repair broken relationships.
The message of not going to therapy with a narcissist is crucial because you might feel this will help to fix the problems in the relationship. However, abusers are skilled at diverting attention from themselves. You could leave any therapy session more wounded.
The goal is healthy relationships however, you might not be able to have it with everyone because some people might not allow themselves to do the work of change.
People will gaslight you in an effort to deny your experience and escape accountability for their actions.
When it comes to family we can excuse a lot of harm. Abuse of all kinds sometimes gets covered up to the detriment of others.
In todays podcast I am listing some characteristics of healthy relationships. This could serve as a guide for when to restore relations with people who hurt us.
It’s not always safe to approach someone about harmful behaviour. Today I am sharing some things to consider before going.
If the behaviour isn’t changed you do not have to accept the toxicity back in your life. We all make mistakes, we all have to give and receive grace and we all have to do the hard work to change.
The mother-daughter relationship can be fraught with challenges however, living intentionally can help to change the narrative and create positive stories that will shape your daughter’s future.
Guilt is a big factor influencing boundaries or lack of boundaries even in the mother-daughter relationship where you’re experiencing hurt.
Today I am talking about the impact of the dismissive mother on the development of your self esteem.
Living with a dismissive mother can hamper your ability to set boundaries. This may happen because she dismisses your attempts or forces you to collide with her sacrificing your values. This leaves you confuse and unsure of what you feel and the things that are important to you.
What can you do when you can’t pray away the pain of a dismissive mother? Be open to what else God would want you to do.
If you grew up with a mother that was dismissive or emotionally unavailable you might find these tips helpful on your healing journey.
Women with dismissive mothers often demonstrate this trait. It shows up in all their relationships and even impact their self-esteem.
Today I am sharing the ways disconnection from mothers impacts how you function in relationships.
Today I am talking about how to heal from the negative messages you received that helped to shape who you became.
You can't change your mother. Accept who she is while you heal to create change in your own life.
You might want to learn how to overlook the harmful behaviour of your mother however, it's also crucial that you be honest with the behaviour pattern and keep those in mind as you make your decision.
Society assumes that women are automatic nurturers however, many women's experiences with their mother tells a different story.
Some signs your mother is a narcissist even if she uses scriptures to support her actions.
Christian’s struggle to set boundaries especially when scriptures are used to defend, shame and discipline.
Sometimes we have to let go of the hope that your families will change and do the work to change the only person we are responsible for, ourselves.
It can be difficult to identify toxic pattern’s especially when people use scriptures to protect themselves.
Christian’s in Toxic families struggle to set boundaries to protect themselves. I am discussing some of the reasons why in this episode.
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The root of trauma is many and varied. Some individuals' trauma starts in their families. In homes without boundaries and plagued by lack of accountability and no one emotionally available for connection. https://linktr.ee/joannafromwoundstoscars
The patterns that we develop in. Childhood becomes a way of relating that e take with us into adult life.
How do we do the work of getting to know ourselves so that we can change old habits and create new healthier coping strategies?
There are crucial questions you need to ask yourself when you want to get to know yourself better.
We abandoned ourselves for many different reasons however if we are to experience deep connection with an others e first have to connect with ourselves.
Today's podcast is a reflection on the impact of childhood trauma on our sense of self. How trauma shame who we became and influences the self we offer to the world.
To love yourself you have to connect with all of yourself. Sometimes we are afraid to do that because we are trying to avoid dealing with the pain and trauma of the past. However, this is th path to really loving you.
Sometimes we talk to and about ourselves with the same harsh and critical tone that other uses when they speak to us. Can you speak to and about yourself in ways that are? affirming and respectful?
Yout’re special. Maybe you’ve never heard it before but it's an important thing to tell yourself. Do it as many times as you need to because you’re special.
Today I am sharing some things that you can do to help someone who has mental health diagnosis and is in a season of struggle.
Some things prevent us from being emotionally available. These things need to change/heal so that we can be available for connection.
Sometimes fear causes us to hang on to people and situations that no longer serves us but it's convenient and familiar.
Today, I am sharing some examples of secure attachments. These examples can be used in a variety of ways as you heal attachment injuries.
This relationship is not often considered as having any impact on the choices of women but the mother-daughter relationship does play a role in the choice of romantic partners.
Change can be challenging however, when you are committed to the process the results are life changing.
Can the constant push/pull dynamic of the Avoidant and anxious attachment becomes toxic patterns in relationships?
Are you struggling to find the one? Today, I am giving some ideas why this maybe happening.
Adults we are responsible for building secure attachment, children learn to trust us and respond and as they grow older that trust earned in the early years help with the kind of relationship you have later. When the work of building trust wasn’t done it’s never too late to try but remember trust takes time to build.
Many things can give a child a feeling of safety. The ability to share feeling’s without being reducible. The parent who keeps their promises consistently or apologises when they let you down.
Lack of connection in the early stages of life impacts our sense of self and how we connect with others throughout our lives.
How do you practice emotional safety in a relationship when your painful edges connect.
Fear could impede building safety in your relationships but your fear might not be without evidence. Perhaps you tried vulnerability and was hurt and decide to not take the risk in other relationships. However, the risk is worth the reward,
If you’ve never experienced secure connection it’s difficult to demonstrate it in your relationships. Today I am talking about some things you can do as you make the journey to secure connection.
When you are in a relationship with someone who is avoidant you might feel alone.. among many other things.
Fear of abandonment could make you stay in a situation with an emotionally unresponsive person.
You are not unlucky in love. Perhaps you are attracted to people with opposite attachment pattern to you and because of this yours relationship struggles.
Many relationship breaks down due to differences in attachment patterns and having an understanding of how to navigate those places. Today I am sharing some insights I hope will help you in your relationship.
Today I am talking about how having safe relationships and communities can have a positive impact on our wellbeing.
The person with secure attachment tends to be more empathetic. Because their needs were met it models for them how to meet the needs of others.
Today's episode is about secure attachment and our relationship with God. What role does it play in a healthy spiritual life?
Is attachment relevant for some people and not for others? In todays episode I am answering the question, why is attachment important.
It's likely that the attachment pattern that you experienced in relationship with your care givers will show in your interaction with others.
One of the crucial aspects of building safety in relationships is your partners ability to respond to your needs. However, when you grew up in an environment where love me signals were ignored you might struggle to meet the needs of others.
There are many things that impacts the quality of connection between the infant and their caregivers. However, the quality of that connection can affect relationships for the rest of their lives.
Many have been rejected from birth. Sometimes this rejection sends a message that they interpret to mean they are not worthy or good enough.
Most people have several stories that they tell themselves when friends leave suddenly. In this episode I am discussing two possible stories.
There are many things that can create anxiety in children. Join me as I start this series stories that shape our view of self. I am approaching this from an attachment perspective.
When we find safe spaces to process the old, painful experiences, it creates space for new stories
Today I am talking about silence in the face of oppression. Wha does our silence say to the person needing assistance.
Today I am talking about the impact of the silence of other women. What are the stories embedded in that silence?
Have you ever sat with yourself and listened so that you could hear the stories beneath the surface? The stories you are afraid to interact with them?
How do we challenge historical stories. The stories that have shaped societies view of women.
What are the stories that shape your view of strength? Today I am talking about what strength looks like and the things we thought is strength that isn’t.
Some of the stories that shape us are written in our genes. We inherit them. What can we do to change those stories?
What roles do you choose to define you? Today I am talking about our parts and responsibilities and the stories influencing our choices.
Carl Rogers talked about the ideal self, self-image and self-esteem there are many stories that helped to shape the three part self. Join us as we discuss.
There are so many things that shape our view of self. However, you aren't any of those things. This week we are unpacking those stories and give you a new template.
This week I talked about stories that shape our view of love. Today, I am doing a round up of those thoughts
Love is patient but also have boundaries. Today I am talking about how to interact with the two so that you can enjoy healthy relationships.
Today our twins turned 16, and I am reflecting on the stories that shaped my view of parenting.
Love is a decision but it’s not hard or without fun. Its not only a decision to love the next person but a choice to love you.
Have you ever thought about why you love the way you do? Have you ever examine the reasons why you reject love? Your experiences in life shape your view of love. Today, I am talking about how those early relationships could impact how you love.
Books I read before marriage built up an idea of who I should be as a woman and wife. However, these ideals didn’t fit my context and had to be released for me to find a different blueprint to live from.
We learn about love from the way we see people love around us and the way they loved us. Today I am sharing some of the stories that shape my view of love.
Some people learn how to not trust through rigid family rules given to protect. However, the message of not trust has far reaching effects and. An harm you as well as negatively impacts your relationships.
Why do some people pursue healing and others don’t? Today I am exploring some of the stories that stops some people from healing.
Stories from families of origin can make healing feel like betrayal. Today I am talking about ways to tackle healing despite damaging messages such as: what happens in this house, stays in this house.
Today I am sharing my blueprint for healing. It answers the questions I am often asked about healing.
The stories from sexual trauma can be many and varied I have learnt how to heal and rewrite those stories. I get to decide who I am. I will not allow sexual abuse to dictate my worth.
What are the stories that shaped forgiveness for you? Today I am talking about the stores around forgiveness that makes us overlook crucial areas of healing.
Today I am talking about the cultural context for shame. The way society view sexual abuse influences the way we interact with shame.
There are layers to shame. I worked through one layer and it as confronted by another that also had the potential to stop me from moving forward in the work I had promised to do.
I am calling the story today my catalyst moment the story that influences the work that I do. There are layers to shame I conquered one layer but there was more.
The stories from sexual abuse have a powerful effect on us, those stories are lethal and can shape how we are as individuals and how we show up in the world.
The stories that shape us are both positive and negative. We tend to try to ignore the negative stories, and those are the ones that have the potential to harm us. Today I am talking about how to find those stories and what to do next.
Every healthy relationship have boundaries. They are not always easy to implement but with support this can be done.
We all have relational needs. We sometimes need the confidence to be able to express those needs. Even then some people might struggle to meet your needs. Today I am talking about the things you can do to express and meet your needs.
Your anger is your responsibility. Although you are not responsible for what they did to hurt you, they are. You can decide how you manage your feelings.
Every problem has a solution. However, the solution that works for your friend might not work for you. Don’t give up when you apply solutions other people have and it doesn’t work. Find what works for you and use that.
Sometimes we feel stuck and, due to other influences, talk ourselves into not making the changes that will help us move forward. Today, I am talking about some of those changes that will help.
Our view of God is often not our own but given to us by others, parents or caregivers. It is important to reflect on those stories so that you can develop your own connection powered by your values and not theirs
We were created to connect. We need other humans to help us navigate life. Today I am talking about some of the stories that shape our view of relationships.
Sometimes we have expectations in relationships of things that impacts trust but we never communicate those to others. When the expectations are not met we are disappointed. Trust is a journey part of that is sharing what we desire with people.
People don’t tend to ask “who are you?” They ask “what do you do?” And so many confuse what they do with who they are. However, you are so much more than your job or any of the roles you have in life. Today, I am talking about some of the stories that helps to shape identity.
We don’t have to do it all my ourselves. We need each other. At least that’s what I tell people all the time until I needed support and I say no thank you. Deeper reflection on my no unearth something interesting.
Change is challenging; however, when we focus on the difficulties, we fail to learn the crucial lessons in every new opportunity.
Moving can be a stressful event. In this episode of stories that shape us, I am talking about one way that stress manifested itself and the things I did to manage my emotions.