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Do you have a problem? The Beat Breakfast crew is here to help, every morning with the Daily Dilemma! Niall & Sho tackle everyday problems with the help of Beat listeners.
I bring my girlfriend to work every morning and she always does her make up in my car.
She spilled some foundation all over my seats and refused to clean it up.
I’ve banned her doing makeup in the car and now she’s not talking to me, am I in the right as it’s my car?
My boyfriend talked in his sleep the other night.
He said, "will ya lay off the fake tan"!
I'm worried he's talking about me, should I stop wearing fake tan?
My girlfriend and I got a new blow up hot tub.
We haven't used it together yet, but she's invited lads from her work over.
Can I ban her from inviting lads over to get in a hot tub with her?
My pregnant girlfriend is hogging the bathroom!
She has morning sickness and locks herself in the only bathroom.
Can I tell her to puke in a basin so I can shower?
My future wife is non stop posting about our wedding online.
It is in less than 3 weeks and she's posting so much about it.
It is so cringe, how do I bring her down to Earth?
My boyfriend is meeting up with an old friend.
He failed to mention that she is an ex girlfriend.
I trust him, but should I stop him seeing an ex?
I went on a second date and the girl made a show of me!
She asked to put the last of her pasta in a doggy bag!
There was like barely any left, should I dump her?
A girl got in touch with Niall and Sho with a pretty shocking dilemma. Here's the gist of the email.
"I was over last night and I told him my period was coming and that I needed my hot water bottle. He said that he was glad I had brought that up cos he had something to say. He said that from now on it's best if I do not stay at his house when I have my period anymore. He went on to list his reasons - I toss and turn in the bed, I am moody and I take too long in the bathroom. He said he likes me but that this just has to be the rule."
I'm getting married to my fiancé next year.
She doesn't want to take my name which is fair.
But she has demanded that I take hers!
Surely a man can't take a women's name?
My girlfriend is acting weird when we watch TV
She won't let me watch anything if I fancy someone in a movie or show.
Is this normal in a relationship or is she crazy?
My girlfriend moved in with me and she showers in the morning.
It wakes me up, but she stays in the shower for the guts of 30 mins.
That is way to long for a shower, isn't it?
My fiancé is fighting me over wedding plans.
He wants Battered Sausages and Chips to be served as the main.
Is this not ridiculous, shouldn't he grow up?
I'm with my boyfriend 5 years now and I still have not meet his daughter.
His ex-wife won't allow it and it's causing some problems.
I should have met his child by now?
My boyfriend showed me his poo the other day.
He's mad into fitness and said that's how mine should look if I'm eating proper.
Surely this is not a normal thing to do?
My friend booked the hotel rooms for a group night away.
But we decided to do it another time as most people pulled out.
We told her to cancel the hotel room bookings TWICE!
She didn't and now it's too late for a refund and she's still looking for money off me
Do I pay?
My 7 year old niece had a cut on her leg!
She said she cut it shaving her legs and that her mam let her do it!
Surely 7 is way too early for this girl to be shaving?
My girlfriend is thinking of getting her first tattoo.
She's getting the FIAT logo as that was her first car.
How do I convince her this is not an ok thing to do.
My girlfriend of 2 months stays over in mine a good bit.
Lately, she's been rearranging stuff and putting her stamp on it.
She doesn't live here though, can I tell her to stop?
I'm seeing a girl two weeks and I think I'm falling!
No joke, I feel like I'm in love with her.
Is this way too soon to say those three words? Help!!
My new girlfriend got custom number plates for her car.
She's a classy girl and I think she is going down the boy racer route.
It doesn't suit her, most girls agree with me that they are tacky.
I'm back living at home and I pay rent to my Mam.
However, the other day she asked me to Revolut her a tenner for dinner.
Is she taking the piss? Do you think this is mean?
I have a vile dilemma about a girl I am dating.
She farted and lifted up the duvet and stuck my head under the covers. A classic Dutch oven.
What do I do now? She is not a lady in any way. Girls should not fart.
I'm with my girlfriend a while now.
She said she's not a "huggy person" but I think she's not into me.
Do I wait it out or just leave?
I’m dating a girl and it’s going so well.
But her Notes App in her phone is filled with baby names!
I just want to know is this a normal thing that girls do? I think this oozes crazy
My friend is getting married next month.
She said it would be best for everyone if I tamed my hair.
I have very curly natural hair and I love it.
What do you think I should do?
I was staying over at a guys house.
He uses a bed pan instead of going to the loo!
He's 27, not 80! Is this okay?
Missed the lads this week. Here's a flavour of what you missed!
- A brand new game called Snickers vs Knickers
- Cillian's beard was up for discussion
- Who drinks milk from a carton?
It was a pretty shocking Daily Dilemma this morning. A guy sent this mail to Niall and Sho.
" Seeing this girl about six weeks now and she's been banging on about her 21st party since we met. It's in two weeks time and she had invited me all along but the other night said that she thinks it'll be a good opportunity to introduce me to her parents.
I am just going to be straight up - I don't see this going anywhere long term. She's bigger than I would usually go for and all into this plus size empowerment stuff. Ya know she goes on like "Oh I'm big and beautiful". Whereas I am like "maybe just for a walk hun
Here's my dilemma - do I go to this 21st and have her show me off to all the family and friends? Seems like a lot of effort and pressure. What do you think?"
Catch up here!
Niall and Sho got such a tough dilemma this morning from a girl
"In June myself and my girls group went to Spain for a long weekend. It was mad as you would expect. One of my friends had a two night thing with this guy from Wales. She has a boyfriend of two years so we were all a bit like 'that's bad' but just said nothing. She said it was holiday fun and nothing else.
Fast forward to now and she is pregnant and confessed to me at the weekend that there's a strong possibility that the father is the guy from Wales and not her boyfriend. But she said he will never know cos he's across the water so it's all good and her boyfriend is so excited. "
What should she do? Huge reaction to this
I've been on a couple of dates with a guy I met online.
When he was food shopping he was opening snacks and munching on them as he put them in the trolley.
I find it a bit ick and I can't be dealing with that kind of embarrassment. What do you think?
A girl who was with her boyfriend came into the pub I work.
When she came up to pay she slipped me her number.
She's really hot so do I text her?
The guy I'm seeing walks around his house in his bare feet.
The soles of his feet are always black with dirt!
Isn't this rank? Do I have a leg to stand on?
I'm with a girl & when we met she was not wearing glasses.
She is very pretty but I guess for me the glasses don't do it.
Any tips on how I can encourage her to wear contacts in a nice way?
I moved in together with my boyfriend over a year ago.
Our mutual friend of ours stays over at our place for a few nights every week.
She comes Into our bedroom and lies in-between the two of us.
It's too much but I don't wanna hurt her feelings!
I am seeing a guy and we have been out three times to the cinema.
We still haven't kissed. He is so flirty in his messages but at the cinema, nothing!
How do I move this forward?
I caught the guy I'm seeing cutting his toenails.
He then proceeded to chew on them!
Is this an excuse to dump him?
A guy asked me to see Coldplay and never contacted me after he asked.
He assumed I'd be on the train when the date arrived.
Am I in the wrong for not going or should he of texted me?
My best friend got married and at the wedding I told her I was pregnant.
She was very frosty with me and on day two she blanked me!
Am I in the wrong for this or is she just being a b*tch?
I have never been happy with my boobs and how small they are.
My boyfriend got me a with a voucher to get them done.
He said "We'll both be happier". I feel kinda insulted.
Am I being really ungrateful?
My best friend's daughter started school yesterday.
She had hired a professional photographer to be at the house and had ordered a balloon arch as a back drop.
It was the most ridiculous thing I have ever seen. Tacky
How do I tell her that her Instagram is a laughing stock?
I am seeing a girl three months and we are quite serious about each other.
She went to see a fortune teller who said we are getting married in two years and that we will have one baby.
Are fortune tellers not a load of rubbish? Do people believe this stuff? Should I run?
I've moved in with my girlfriend and there's an issue!
She wants to sleep with the door open but I want it closed.
Is there a way to resolve this?
The guy I'm seeing likes to colour!
He goes through 2 colouring books a month.
This isn't very manly, should I run?
I am up for a promotion in work and my friend will damage this!
She's hooking up with a guy in the office and doing bits in the toilets.
She's been slacking off, do I tell my boss or is that being a bad friend?
I moved in with my friend and stranger at the start of the summer.
They don’t see mess or dirt and they are so lazy.
Does anyone have any tips for living with people like this?
I asked my girlfriend to iron my shirt for the pub.
She said no because she’s never used an iron. Ever.
Are there other people out there who have actually never used an iron?!
I am a first time mum and have just stopped breastfeeding.
My mother-in-law has said that it's disappointing & unfair on my baby.
My partner loves his mam so I haven't told him but I need your help as to what you think I should do.
Please help me talk sense into my boyfriend.
There’s a big family wedding and he wants to wear Dunks with his suit
Acceptable for a 3 star hotel but not for my wealthy family one!
He will embarrass me!
I’ve been seeing a girl for a couple of week and this weekend I asked her to come over and said I’d cook for her.
I cooked spaghetti bolognese but as soon as I put it down in front of her - her face dropped.
She said she likes it but “spag bol is a bit basic".
I’ve been thinking about it all weekend. Should I have tried to cook something else?
Lately there is a pong of sh*te coming from my new girlfriend!
One day I felt a puff of air when she was on my lap!
She's a silent farter I think?!
Do I say it to her? Would I sound like a freak?
I am just going out with a girl and it's going well.
She told me that she has her period and was looking for sympathy.
This is NOT something she should be discussing with me.
How do I tell her to stop with this kind of period chat with me?
I'm going on my first holiday with my boyfriend.
He wants me to make him a fry because that's what his Mammy does on holiday.
I really want to go half board at least and be served. It's my holiday too.
How do I make him see my side?
I love my girlfriend but there's one about her that drives me mad!
She is always late! I've said it to her and she said I will have to deal with it.
I find it disrespectful to me, are we just not compatible?
I kissed a girl at Longitude a few weeks back.
I decided not to tell my girlfriend but the girl I shifted found me this week on Insta and sent me a message.
She wants to meet up at All Together Now.
I'm really stressed now. Should I warn this one on Insta to stay away from me?
I am friends with my best friend over 26 years.
I was by her side when she got married 4 years ago and always got along with her hubby and was there for them both as much as I possibly could be.
Me and her are very close and do spend a lot of time together.
So the last year or so they have being goin through a rocky patch and ending up having to get marriage counselling.
Last week I got a text off her hubby basically calling me a third wheel in their marriage and if they are to make their marriage work I am to stop spending time with her.
I was absolutely devastated by this as I feel I am not to blame in this situation. I told her about the txt and she is really annoyed at him for sending me that. Now what should I do??
Should I step back from her?? I think I am totally finished with him as I don’t like the way he has been treating her lately. My friend thinks he has crossed the line. I’m so hurt by all this, please help xx
One girl was repulsed on the Daily Dilemma this morning.
My bf went to the toilet in a bush and then tried to kiss me but hadn't washed his hands
Is it disgusting?
Catch up here
I caught my bf looking at a girl when we went to the cinema.
He was looking three times at this same girl.
Am I over reacting?
Catch up on Daily Dilemma
The Daily Dilemma was from a girl who has found out about the seating plan at her friend's wedding and she is not happy.
She thinks she is being punished for her boyfriend not going to the wedding.
Catch up here!
Finding it a bit hard to get the head around something with my girlfriend.
We live together and I have been watching the football for the last few weeks, so she has been fairly decent with me having the sitting room.
So whilst I was there she was upstairs watching trash Tv like Love Island (absolute muck) and Christmas movies!
This week she is back in the sitting room and intends to watch Christmas movies. Is she well?
She says she thinks its ok to watch Christmas movies off season.
I told her she's mad. Who is in the right here? Me or her?
Went on a date with a guy yesterday morning.
But of course there was a red flag, he wore a backpack!
We weren't going for a hike or a picnic.
I want to tell him to get rid, but how do I do that?
I am seeing a girl a few weeks now and she is decent.
Started staying over at hers and have noticed she has a disgusting habit. It's putting me off her.
She leaves used tea bags lying on the sink and when she goes to make a fresh cup of tea she will just use one of the old bags. Sometimes she uses the same bag three times.
Totally all for someone being into the environment but is she alright?
Who uses a tea bag more than once in all honesty?
I moved in with my new fella two months ago.
I chucked on the heating the other day and he lost it!
He said to put on a jumper and to get over myself.
How do I get him to stop acting like his father?
I’m chief bridesmaid for my friend and she’d like me to get Botox.
She said it’d be best for her pics & that my forehead looks like a pavement with cracks.
I’m really disappointed and hurt & I do understand it’s her wedding. Do you think I should do it to make sure she is happy?
I'm seeing a girl & went on our second date at the weekend.
She was wearing F1 merch from head to toe!
She's not a fan, she only just watched Drive To Survive!
Is wearing F1 merch on a date a red flag?
I am getting married in a few months.
My mother started seeing this man about six months ago.
I told her he was not invited to MY WEDDING.
Now she's upset with me! Any tips?
My new boyfriend is very slow to come around to my way of thinking.
It’s peak Love Island right now and he has refused to watch it with me!
I’m close to calling it off as I need someone with the same interest.
I'm raging that my girlfriend is going on a solo trip!
She's off to Paris and says I whine too much when we go on holidays.
Why is she being such a loser?
I'm seeing a guy and it's going so well!
But I don't want to stay over at his because I drool in my sleep!
Will he get the ick or dump me if he thinks I'm disgusting?
I am going out with a girl three months now.
She is very into social media and it's starting to wreck my head.
She thinks she is some kind of Kylie Jenner influencer or something.
How do I approach this?
I am with my new boyfriend six months.
I am yet to make the grid on his Insta & I am not even his screensaver.
Should he not have me all over his phone for all to see?
I got my girlfriend Taylor Swift tickets assuming she would go with a friend.
But she told me that I am going with her but I don't want to go.
She bought me a t-shirt for the gig that says "It's me, Hi, I'm the boyfriend, it's me"
This is really embarrassing and I haven't got the heart to tell her that I can't do this. I do love her but the slagging is not gonna be worth it.
A girl got in touch to say that she does not know how to come clean to her new boyfriend
She let on that she was Dr. Dolittle when in reality she is not a fan of cows
How does she come clean?
Catch up here!
The dilemma that shocked the South East
How much should people spend on an end of year gift for a teacher?
One mum had a dilemma involving her school Whatsapp
Catch up here
A family has moved in with three children next door to me.
There has been excessive ball playing quite late at night and they are just very loud.
Talk about bringing down the overall look and vibe of the estate.
I’d like to know how I should approach these people?
My new girlfriend is planning on wearing the same dress to another wedding this year.
Is she that lazy that she can't buy a new one?
The one she has doesn't even flatter her, should I dump her?
My new fella went mad when I put a bag in the bin that contained his empty cans of Monster.
He said I had lost him €13.65 worth of bottles and cans for the re-turn scheme.
If he's stingy about this, what else will he be stingy about in the future?
I am married to my husband three years and I found out something awful.
One of the girls let slip that my husband cheated on me the night of his stag.
I felt like being sick but I confronted him and he admitted it straight away.
Has anyone ever been in this situation? What should I do now?
A new girl started in work and she said she'd love to go for a drink.
But there's no way she could date me cos I have the same name as her ex.
Is this a thing? Would you guys date someone with the same name as your ex?
I moved in with my girlfriend and she keeps wearing my clothes.
She came in the other day after being out for a walk and she was wearing one of my favourite t-shirts
Is it normal for girlfriends to keep taking our clothes?
I was going out with a guy until last Christmas.
He broke my heart but I'm seeing someone new.
As soon as photos went up on my social media of me with him, my ex has appeared back on the scene.
What should I do here?
I have been invited to a vegan barbecue this weekend.
I said I'd go if I could bring my own burgers and sausages to throw on the BBQ but my wife said that would be very rude.
Can I bring my own food do you think?
Heading on my first holiday abroad with my boyfriend.
We agreed that we would share a 20kg case and he wants to bring sausages, brown bread and tea bags!
This is the maddest thing I’ve ever heard. Nobody does this?
I’m dating a girl a few months and things are flying.
She bought tacky car stickers online that reads “hot girls hit curbs”.
How do I make her see that car stickers are only for auld ones who have a people carrier with stickers that read “Baby On Board”?
We have been invited to my friend’s daughters communion
In relation to gifts, the invite said can we please give "Cash presents only as our little princess is saving to go to Disneyland".
I have already bought a necklace for this little girl. What do I do here?
My boyfriend is leaving my car in a state.
Empty wrappers, chewing gum, the works!
I'm making him take the bus so he can think about what he has done.
Am I being too harsh?
Niall and Sho got a mail from girl who has just met a guy. During the third date he told her that his ex is expecting her baby.
What should she do? Walk away?
Catch up here!
I'm going out with a girl & she asked me & two other couples over for dinner.
She served up beans on toast with grated cheese on top.
I’d like to keep seeing this girl but how can I steer her in the direction of a more acceptable way of entertaining guests?
I got a bit freaked out by something dating this new girl!
Her whole bed was full of teddies and there is a shelf behind with more!
Grown up girls should not have teddies, is it a dumping waiting to happen?
I started a new job and the girl who is training me reeks of garlic!
I thought when I finished getting trained I wouldn't have to deal with it.
But no she sits beside me, any advice?
The girl I'm seeing doesn't know how to cook eggs!
It's simple and I even showed her but yet there's always egg shells in them!
She also hacks into the butter! should I dump her?
A girl I am friends with is getting married & I am invited to her hen.
I think that it's so weird. Why would she invite a guy to a hen party.
I can't be seen hanging out with a load of girls with straws and tacky girly music.
I have recently moved back in with my parents and now I fancy the milkman.
I can’t find him on Insta and I don’t see a wedding ring.
I’ve no confidence at all but I really like him. Should I make a move?
My girlfriend's slippers are tipping me over the edge completely.
They are granny slippers with a furry inside and a pattern on the outside.
They are horrific, I can't keep dating her as long as she keeps these yolks.
My fiancée and I have had a disagreement over wedding invites!
I want to send the invitations on WhatsApp and he has called me cheap and lazy!
I totally disagree, I thought e-vites were the new thing?
He ordered a chicken Caesar salad but it was absolutely huge when it arrived and he only ate half of it.
When the waitress arrived, he asked her to wrap the remains and give him a doggie bag. I got major instant cringe.
I want to demote my bridesmaid because she's pregnant.
She is getting bigger and will ruin the look of the wedding.
Should I text her or meet with her in person to break the news?
I've found out about a weird habit my fella does.
He only changes his boxers every 2 days, he says it's normal for lads!
Please tell me you think this is bizarre? Help me!!!
I'm dating a girl who washes her hair once a week.
That’s absolutely manky! I dropped her home fairly lively after that.
She’s after putting me right off her. Isn’t that disgusting?
I had a great date with the new missus which ended up in the bedroom.
However, she said she HAD to sleep on the right hand side of the bed
That is MY side of the bed. Should I just tell her to cop herself on?
I have fallen out with my sister over a communion dress.
She posted on Facebook and told the whole story about it and called me a snobby cow.
All I want is to uninvite her to the communion but my daughter wants her there. What do I do?
I asked to see my boyfriends phone to see what’s on it.
He said no way, now I’m totally suspicious and feel maybe he’s a cheat.
Otherwise why not show me. Would you let your partner look through your phone?
I've been seeing a guy who is married about a year now!
We both love each other, and he said he'd leave his wife after his kids 2nd birthday.
It's been a few months and nothing yet, should I DM his wife?
My girlfriend is obsessed with watching FRIENDS!
She doesn't watch anything else, it's not even that funny!
How do I make her grow up because it's really unattractive?
My boyfriend's mother really doesn't like me!
She only gave me a €2 Easter Egg and always looks down on me.
I see a future with this guy, but how can I change his mothers opinion?
Missed the Daily Dilemma today?
A girl seeing a guy for three months. He thinks she's around the same age. But she's not!
How does she come clean?
Catch up here!!
I went for afternoon tea with my friend.
I'm her bridesmaid and she said "should you really be eating that?" when we were out.
Should I raise this with her, there's no excuse for a rude comment?
I work in an office and my Fig Rolls are going missing!
I know who she is. She always goes to the canteen when there's cake for someone's birthday.
I want to complain. My boyfriend and my mum are warning me against going to management with this.
Help. I am seeing a girl and the other night she took off her socks and in the light I could see the hairy toes on her.
Can I ask her to de-fuzz?
Catch up on the Daily Dilemma here!
My boss got me corporate seats for a big gig!
It's on the same day as my daughters communion.
I'll make the church but I'll head after that!
My wife is going ape, am I in the wrong?
I'm getting married later this year and my fiancée got her dress.
It's a black wedding dress! I love that she's different but wearing a black is a bit tacky!
I'm happy with her alt side of her but maybe not at our wedding, we'll be the talk of the town!
I went on first date on Paddy's Day!
The guy took me to a bar and just watched the Man Untied game.
He barley spoke to me like wtf? Is this normal for soccer fans?
I've agreed to take part in the Paddy's Day Parade for my new woman!
She is part of a musical group and need men for their float.
I've just found I have to wear tights! The lads will rip me to shreds if they see me!
How do I get out of this?
I stupidly kissed a guy while on a night out!
I told my boyfriend and he's so mad at me.
He said that if he can go out this weekend and shift one of my friends we'll be ok!
I feel awful about the thought of it but I want to stay with this guy? What would you do?
I moved in with my girlfriend last weekend.
I don’t mean to be overly critical but I’m just surprised by something.
I came in from work to find her at 4.45 in the afternoon in her pyjamas on the couch.
My thing is pyjamas are for bedtime and not for putting on in the afternoon on a weekday.
No girls actually put their pjs on in the afternoon do they?
My new boyfriend has suggested to shower together in the mornings.
He doesn't mean it in sexual way, but just to save time.
Is this not weird? Do most couples do this?
My date took off her shoes in the cinema!!
She wasn't wearing socks, so I had to look at her toes for the entire film.
It has made me think differently about her which is a shame as she has a lot going for her.
Am I in the wrong?
I went away with the girl I'm currently seeing.
She ordered room service and ate a Vol Au Vent in the bath!
I called my mammy and she said to run, it's a bit odd isn't it?
Niall and Sho got a dilemma from a girl who is seeing a guy and he wants to keep her a secret.
She wants to know if this is normal or not
Catch up here!
My friend is getting married, and I would gift a set amount of money.
When I got married she gifted us was about half of what I would gift friends getting married.
Do I match the amount my friend gifted us for our wedding or do I gift the usual amount I would give?
One girl was seeing David before he flew to Australia.
She's now with Jake but David has re-appeared and wants to rekindle.
Who should she pick?
My group of friends are going on a holiday in the Summer!
One friend is single, and wants to pull all around her!
She even says we may have to give up our room if she gets lucky!
That's not my scene, should I say it's not ok?
My cousin is getting married and the save the date came with a letter to ask for donations to pay for their wedding.
My mum sees no problem with this but I know it’s cos she doesn’t want to upset things in the family.
What do you think? Can you ask people to pay for your wedding?
A guy got in touch with Niall and Sho to say that he has fallen for his work mate.
He thinks he prefers her company
What should he do?
Catch up here!
Niall and Sho got a mail from a guy who is seeing a girl from college.
She's hot but she watches shite like Love Island.
She's invited him to Niall Horan. He said no sane or normal person would be caught dead at this gig
Niall and Sho got a mail from a girl who has just had a baby.
Her mother in law has said she hates the name that they have chosen for the baby and says she will not visit unless they change the name.
Catch up here on the Daily Dilemma here
My date stayed over at the weekend
When I was asleep she had rearranged my furniture.
She said the "feng shui" was awful in the room.
What's going on here? Is this some kind of red flag controlling behaviour?
I noticed a fairly disgusting habit on a first date!
She chewed gum the entire date, blew a bubble and it popped on her face.
I called my mam and sister for their thoughts & they said run a mile.
Should I try a second date and ask her to lose the chewing gum?
A girl got in touch with Niall and Sho to say that after a first date she was given her feedback and she isn't sure how to feel
How would you feel if your boyfriend started going to the gym and working out with a hot girl.
What would you do? Is it a red flag?
Catch up on the Daily Dilemma here!
I got engaged two weeks ago to my boyfriend of three years.
He did a really lovely beach proposal but the ring he chose was dreadful.
He has barely spent a month's wages on this ring, what do I do?
I had a first date the other night but there was a little problem.
The guy used 15 sachets in his Chicken Curry!!
Can I really date a grown man that excessively uses ketchup this way.
Am I mad to think this is crazy? 15 sachets lads
I met a girl online and we have been getting on great.
We decided to meet up for a date but when I pulled up I had a feeling that I knew her from somewhere.
I finally copped that she was my best mates ex.
Does this mean that I shouldn’t date her?
I find my step-dad really good looking.
Do you you think I should flirt with him and see what happens.
I’m not really close with my Mam, she has really let herself go and that’s why he has started looking at me.
Should I just go for it and see what happens?
My fiancé has ordered a John Deere cake for our Wedding Day!
I'm snapping! It’s the one day when he needs to not be a farmer!
What do you think? What should I do to make him understand the implications of this?
I met a guy off Tinder who still has his Christmas Tree up!
He said he wasn’t willing to let Christmas go.
Is it normal? I’m just worried that he’s a total man-child or really lazy.
What do you think?
My girlfriend is 28 and is using stabilisers for her bike!
I'm so embarrassed, I go out at night with her to avoid people looking!
How do I tell her it's so embarrassing to be seen with her like this?
I went on a date with a guy on Sunday night.
He picked me up at 8pm and brought me to the petrol station and said the coffee was on him.
I am still trying to process it all to be honest.
I’m not sure a guy who thinks a date at a petrol station is boyfriend material. Do you guys agree?
I’m getting married next summer and we decided to do it in Portugal.
One of the girls said they’d be able to do my wedding and their annual family trip to the canaries.
They love their holiday with the kids, so regretfully, they couldn’t make the wedding.
I’m absolutely shocked. It just seems a bit selfish to me.
I hosted Christmas Day a few weeks back and my mother-in-law was some pain!
We had a row and she threw stuffing at me!
My husband wants me to buy her a gift but no way!
It's her needs to say sorry!
It all kicked off on the Daily Dilemma this morning.
A guy got in touch with Niall and Sho to say that his girlfriend is doing the dinner but she's not a natural cook.
She has found a place that will do a dinner that just needs to be re-heated.
He is not happy.
It's our first Christmas in our new home and I am doing dinner for everyone.
My family are big into the Christmas Day outfit as we were always immaculate as kids.
My bf said he is wearing his pj's. My family are going to be disgusted!
Catch up on the dilemma here.
A guy got in touch with us to say that he is planning to propose to his girlfriend on Christmas Day.
His mother in law is still obsessed with this girl's ex and he wants to show her he means business.
He is worried that his girlfriend is too shy and that a proposal in front of the family wouldn't be her thing.
What should he do?
My housemate expects me to pay €50 towards a gift for our landlord!
She went and bought it behind my back!
Lads, I'm broke, should I say I'm not paying or will that look bad?
My Ma moved into a smaller house recently and binned all my "tat".
I had medals, school awards and a table I made in TY!
She said they had to go, have I right to be fuming?
My new fella looks like Will Ferrell!
My friends are taking the mick out of me now for it!
Once I've seen it, I can't un-see it! Is there a way past it?
I had my work party over the weekend so me and a few of the lads said we would do rounds.
The bill came to more than I expected as I spent over €100 on MY round!!
Is it cheeky to send a message to ask everyone to Revolut me on their share of the bill?
I absolutely despise my boyfriend's slippers.
There's a hole at the top where his big toe sticks out and there is an awful smell out of them.
Am I within my rights to bin these while he's out of the house?
My sister-in-law has sent an invite with rules for Christmas Day at hers!
Red and Black dress code, BYOB and €50 a head!
My husband says go with the flow, but I think this is insanity?
I shifted a wealthy guy from work who's a 5 looks wise.
I do know he would buy me a few presents for Christmas.
Will I go out with him over the next month or two?
Surely people will agree with my logic?
I went over to my new boyfriends house at the weekend.
He was watching wrestling and cried when some wrestler returned!
Lads, WWE is fake and it's childish isn't it? Should I run?
I went to my girlfriend's house to watch the Toy Show.
Her mother opened the door with a set of Xmas PJs for me!
They say Christmas is a big deal in the house, I just don't get it?
My girlfriend works from home and only wears a fleece and leggings.
I have started an office job and noticed other girls make an effort.
How do I say it to her to make an effort in her style?
My neighbor has such tacky Xmas decorations in their front garden!
It does not represent our estate well, and if my friends see it they will be embarrassed for me!
How do I approach this?
I am seeing a guy recently and fancied him for ages.
Stayed at his the other night and he came down the stairs in P.J's, dressing gown and slippers.
He went from an 8 to a 4.
Do men actually wear pyjamas?
I am with my boyfriend two months now and he announced that he can't make my birthday night out cos he is...
going on a SPA weekend with his mate.
Hello!!! Is this not a bit mad? How could he?
Catch up here!
I took up a spinning class and the smell of BO off one girl is making me gag!
Last night I tried using a bike on the other side of the room, but she plonked down beside me again.
The problem is, we hadn’t even started spinning and she smelt like a dirty aul gear bag!
My boyfriend loves his car so much and it's gone too far!
He has given me gloves and put a plastic bag on my seat so I don't put makeup everywhere!
Is this not a bit too far?
My best friend is missing my birthday party because she wants to watch the Toy Show with her kid!
I'm fuming, she can record it can't she?
When I said that, she looked at me as if I have 10 heads!
What do I do now?
I'm seeing a girl who cannot parallel park!
It took 40 minutes to find a spot on our date.
It's cringe isn't it? Will I dump her?
I take a dollop of Yogurt for my granola in work.
I overheard a girl saying she's reporting it as she's sick of someone taking hers.
I mean, I take the bare minimum, am I a thief?
My sister is getting married and she wants a NO KID wedding!
I thought other peoples but she means mine too!
I'm baffled, should I try to change her mind?
I went out with my fella over the Bank Holiday.
I was Cat Woman, and he just sellotaped Lidl Bags to a tracksuit.
I was mortified and kinda got the ick, should I call it quits?
Niall and Sho got an email from a girl who is getting married in the New Year and is doing it on a budget.
Her best friend has offered to sing at her wedding and has learned a song off by heart. SHE CAN'T SING
How does she tell her?
Catch up here!
I brought a girl to a real fancy place for our first date.
She ordered her main and dessert from the kids menu!
Is this not a bit of a turn off?
I'm going on a date with a guy to the cinema.
He wants to see Trolls and went ahead and bought his own ticket.
He said I'd want to be quick and book my own, or he'll bring someone else!
Will I even bother going?
My boyfriend lives with other guys and one fella has cheated on his GF 3 times!
I know her, but not that well
My BF said I have no place to tell her, what do I do?
I went over to a girls house for a date.
She had the place covered in Halloween decorations.
She made me dress up and all, is this a bit childish for an adult?
I've went one three dates with a guy!
I went back to his to discover he has 2 pet rats!
I freaked, is it okay for me to tell him to lock them up when I'm over?
My girlfriend is mad to get married!
But I am broke af!
Should I ask her to go halves on the engagement ring?
My BF's friend has been texting me flat out
The other night he told me he loved me.
Will my boyfriend think I'm making this up?
I'm with my boyfriend two months.
He wants to go to a wedding with his ex!
He says he wants to prove they are just friends!
Am I missing something here?!
I'm seeing a girl who has mad curly hair!
She invited me over for pizza and the hair got to me.
How do I tell her to tame it?
I've went on 3 dates with a guy!
We like each other and I want to spend more time together.
He's choosing the Rugby World Cup over me though!
I'm seeing a girl whose perfume stinks
She says it's her "signature" scent and she'll never stop wearing it!
How do I get her to stop?
I like this girl I am seeing but I am a bit put off by something.
She shouted at me to help with an umbrella because of her frizzy hair!
Do you think this is normal behaviour? I do like her but the umbrella incident has me wondering
My neighbour got a rotten green front door!
It's so hideous and distracts me when looking out the window.
I'm thinking of sending an anonymous note to them!
I'm seeing a girl who invited me over for dinner
I thought nice one, a woman who can wine and dine me!
But I found her gel nails in the spag bol!
I'm seeing my GF 7 months and she's perfect.
But she's competitive when it comes to her best friend's relationship.
She's always trying to one up her and compares us to them.
I'm seeing a guy a month who's mad into the gym.
I've noticed he comments love heart and flame emojis on other girls gym pics
Should I be worried or is this normal?
I'm dating a hot rugby lad who's 6ft3.
The problem is he drives a girly car!
He barely fits in his Mini Cooper, should I run?
I'm seeing a guy 2 months and I think I'm in love.
He plays GAA and wears Snickers pants!
Is it too soon to drop the L bomb?
I'm getting married soon and my fiancé's mother HATES me!
To add insult to injury, she's wearing all white to the wedding!
Should I bite back or leave it?
My GF and I recently moved in and she's v bossy!
She won't let me hang a signed United jersey on the wall.
Yet she can do what she likes, any advice?
I'm seeing a girl who won't wear heels on a night out!
All she will wear is runners!
Is this a red flag?
I was asked to be a bridesmaid, but we have to pay for everything!
Our dresses, spray tan, hotel and loads more1
It's gonna cost more than €1K, can I pull out?
I've moved into student accommodation.
My expensive toilet roll has been nicked several times.
I'm thinking of buying a padlock to hide my loo roll!
I have a date with this girl who wants to bring me to the circus!
She loves them, says she'll be ring side with the clowns!
Is this not a bit weird?
My bridesmaid has gone overkill with bits to her face!
She's got her lips done and I know she'll ruin the aesthetic of my wedding pics!
Without them she's just plain, will I tell her?
I'm seeing a girl a month.
She invited me around for dinner, but served me a microwave dinner!!
It was a shambles and still in a plastic tray!
I'm with my boyfriend 4 years and I've never met his Mam!
He's met all my family, but hasn't once introduced me to his mother.
We have a dog together and his mother has seen that but not me?!
I'm dating a guy who pees in the sea!
Could he have not found a public toilet?
The worse thing is he never showered after, red flag am I right?
My new BF is wearing his Dad's briefs and I have the "ick"!
A girl got in touch to say that the guy she is seeing wears his Dad's briefs and he sees no issue with it.
She's got the "ick" big time and wants to know if this is normal or not!
Catch up here!
My girlfriend made all our flatpack furniture without me there.
DIY is not for girls, she left screws every and they are not put together right!
Will she cry if I tell her leave DIY to the man?
I'm seeing a guy from the start of Summer.
With the Premier League back, all he does it play Fantasy Football.
He didn't talk to me all weekend, is this normal for lads?
Niall and Sho got an email from a girl who said that someone in her workplace has been copying her. She feels she is copying her style and her music taste and she thinks it's just embarrassing. Should she report her to management?
I have a girlfriend and I spooned another girl!
We shared a tent at ATN, but when I woke and realised I ran!
Is this cheating? Should I tell my GF?
I'm seeing a girl who wants to go to Dublin on a date.
I thought dinner and a movie but she wants to go Christmas shopping!
Lads, is that not way too early?
I used to live 5 mins from work so I'd nip home to the toilet!
My new job is now 30 mins away so I can't go home anymore.
I hate using the bathroom in work, any advice?
I've matched with a great guy on a dating app.
He's lovely but a noddle got stuck in his beard and he ate it 2 hours later.
I think it's vile, is this normal with men and beards?
My boyfriend proposed to me while I was looking a state.
I'm actually furious as all my friends got fancy proposals!
Should I say it to him?
I'm living in Dublin but seeing a girl in Tipp.
She doesn't drive so I have to trek down all the time.
Do you think I can ask her for petrol money?
I'm a bridesmaid for my friends wedding.
The Maid of Honor has planned a flashy hen that's costing €650 each!
I'm a bridesmaid so I have to go, but I can't afford that!
I'm seeing a really hot girl.
I turned up at her house the other day and she was all sweaty wearing a GAA kit.
I didn't know she played GAA and now I feel like I've been cat fished
My friends are having their wedding on a Thursday.
I think this is so inconsiderate as I have already booked two days AL!
Just because they want their wedding on the cheap, it shouldn't impact me!
I'm seeing a guy who always turns on the radio to hear the death notices.
He says he wants to be notified incase he needs a white shirt for a wake.
Is this a bit strange?
A guy got in touch with Niall and Sho to say that he has finally gotten with this girl after fancying her for ages. Her family have invited him on holidays to Spain and he has lied and said he is fleunt.
A girl got in touch with Niall and Sho to say that her housemate is walking around the house in his threadbare boxers all the time.
Her mam nearly spat out her tea the other day when she was visiting.
Catch up here!
Niall and Sho got an urgent WhatsApp this morning.
A guy messaged the show to say he is pretty sure that his neighbour put an arm chair in his skip last night. His wife doesn't want to create a fuss. What should he do?
First daily dilemma of the week and a guy got in touch with Niall and Sho to say that he came back from college to discover his mam has done up his old room and he is disgusted!
How does he make her see how wrong it is?
I'm dating a guy who is a chef.
Things are great but he smells like different foods.
It puts me off and I think I have the ick.
I fancy this girl from Carlow but she's taller than me!
I don't know if she's into short guys like me.
We have chemistry, should I shoot my shot?
I'm thinking of breaking up with my wife.
We've tried everything but I still feel the same way.
The only things is we have kids, help me please.
I fancy my best friend's boyfriend!
He told me I looked nice in my friends dress and he's flirty.
Should I chance going there or no?
I’m dating a girl around 2 months who never puts her mug on a coaster.
I’m a bit of a clean freak and she has started calling me Monica from Friends.
It really annoys me, so how do I get her to put her cup on a bloody coaster?
My girlfriend and I got a dog but she very much claims him as “her dog”.
But, she refuses to feed him because of the smell of the dog food makes her gag.
So, I have to feed him every single time
Should I put my foot down over this and tell her to cop on?
The guy I'm seeing picked me up for dinner in his work van!
He's a plumber and the van had a cheesy slogan plastered on it!
I was mortified, how did I avoid this again?
I'm dating a guy who thinks he's class at massages!
He told me not to tell any one about his magic hands.
The thing is, he's shite at them and now I have the ick!
I'm seeing a girl who is a bit cracked in my eyes!
She journals everything and told me I need to manifest.
I can't be dealing lads, should I run?
I'm seeing a fella who is very soft.
We watch Tv and he'll cry at anything.
I need some masculinity from him, should I run?
We have a Mums WhatsApp group for our kids school.
We all chipped in and got their teacher a gift but one parent isn't paying up.
She's loaded and I've chased her for a tenner, should I leave her name off the card?
My friend is so gossipy and it is really putting me off being mates with her. What should I do?
Niall and Sho got an email from a guy who has recently started seeing a new girl AND got his own place. One problem - she has been sunbathing in a pink thong swimsuit and the neighbours are not happy about it.
The case of the stolen cat Maggie. A girl got in touch to say that her neighbour has been feeding Maggie the good stuff and now she doesn't want to come home.
A guy got in touch with Niall and Sho to say he really is not happy with this girl he is seeing drinking pints on a night out. He feels it's embarrassing.
Catch up on the shocking Daily Dilemma here!
My friend broke up with her ex of a year 6 months ago!
We were there for her at first, but months on she's still crying about it.
She ruins the vibes of our girl's nights, how do I tell her to get over it?
I'm working in a school as an SNA and the teachers look down on me.
I love my job, but they make me feel terrible everyday.
I said it to the principal and they brushed it off.
I'm thinking of changing careers because of it, help!
My boyfriend rocked up to Slane wearing flared jeans.
They were stuck to him and left nothing to the imagination.
He wants to buy more clothes like Harry Styles now and wear them to my nieces Christening!
The guy I'm dating took me on a walk with his dog.
His dog did their business, he stopped, looked at it and walked away!
Is this a red flag or am I missing something?
The Daily Dilemma was gross!
A girl got in touch with Niall and Sho about a major "ick"!
A girl got in touch with Niall and Sho to say that her boyfriend had been away with mates for a weekend.
The group which included girls went skinny dipping and he said it was just a bit of craic!
She is disgusted over it. Is she over-reacting?
I’m seeing a girl 6 months and one of my issues a while back was her Love Island obsession.
She's calling me a “melt” and telling me I had to do some “grafting” if I want to keep seeing her.
Should I dump her because that show is going on for the next while?
The fella I'm seeing doesn't have the tea bags I like.I'm hiding Barry's Tea in my bra when I call around.When we were getting cosy, he found the tea bag.Do I fess up or keep hiding them?
My chief bridesmaid booked a venue for my hen which is cheap, tacky and has no class.
She also plans to get a tattoo and I don’t want a tattoo on show in my pictures.
Can I demote her as I no longer think she is a fit for my wedding?
I brought a girl back home and used my Mam's bedroom.She copped what happened and is pinning it on my brother.I'm the Golden Child, so I don't want to lose that title.What should I do?
The girl I'm seeing is so good looking and she knows it!She's all about her Insta and lads are all over her DMs, and she's entertaining it.How do I tell her it's not okay without coming across too strong?
The girl I'm seeing loves Harry Styles and I lied and said I like him too!I can't stand him really and now she got us tickets for his gig.I can't go lads, it'd be torture, what will I do?
I've broken up with my girlfriend of 18 months.However, she has a wedding coming up and doesn't want to go alone.She's asked me to hold off on breaking up with her until after the wedding.
I'm gone vegetarian for girlfriend as she is doesn't eat meat. The other night, after a few drinks I was weak for burger. I devoured it and now I want to eat meat again, should I fess up?
He lives on his own but in the morning I heard a hoover. His Ma was in, making him a lasagna and said she'd be in to do the bed sheets!
The guy I'm seeing is a 7 but I can't post him on my Insta. He looks like the Disney character Goofy in photos and drops down to a 4.
My boyfriend got a job in a pub that his ex's Da owns. She also works there too and we don't get on!
I'm shifting my brother's girlfriend's sister! I really like her but I am known for being a player.
I told my Granny years back I won Hurler of the Year. She was at Bingo the other night and told everyone about my fake success.
I'm seeing a guy who's so tight with money! I'd love to go out for dinner but says it's a waste of money!
I'm seeing a bird who's so HOT! But her house is covered in crystals and it's not really my scene! She's always trying to cleanse something.
I matched with a friend's boyfriend and he asked to meet up. I thought it was a catfish so I went to the date and he turned up!
I am going away on a girls trip next weekend and one of the girls posts her every move on Insta. It's very cringe and I don't think she realises it.
She packed her suitcase to brim with stuff from our hotel room. And when I went to hers I noticed dressing gowns from four different hotels?
The girl I'm seeing has a horrible taste in trainers! Let's just say they are very loud and bold to be wearing around the town.
Lads I'm seeing a gorgeous girl but her hygiene is awful. She lets it rip in front of me and only showers once a week.
I'm all for it but she has taken it too far now tbh. She bought a dog buggie for it and wants me to walk around the town with her.
My friend showed me the dress she is going to wear to my wedding. She looks to good in it though and I don't want her to show me up.
I'm seeing this girl who's lovely and good looking. But she treats me like a toddler by holding my hand crossing the road.
He had it all covered with a scarf trying to hide it. When I questioned him, he said one of the lads gave to him as a joke.
My girlfriend looks like Margot Robbie but her feet are manky. She'll always take off her socks & expect me to give her foot rubs.
He said he could play, then showed up and made a show of me. Lads, I was so embarrassed and he flat out lied to me.
I thought I flushed it down the toilet but she snapped me a pic of it floating in the toilet! Now she's blaming her housemates, do I confess it was me?
I moved in with my boyfriend of 1 year. It's his first time living on his own and he expects me to do a lot.
He'll always skit me for Waterford being bad at Hurling. His digs get real personal too and he's brought our kids into this!
Lads, she's AWFUL! I wouldn't let her go near my dog let alone do my make up! Everyone's talking about how bad she is, should I tell her she's terrible?
A new girl in work will not leave me alone! I don't fancy her but I think she might fancy me! She's after buying a Man U jersey because I support them & she copies my lunches!
Lads, they are shifting the face off each other left, right & centre! I can't even make a cuppa without seeing or hearing them smack lips.
I'm seeing a girl about 3 months and she loves her dog. I'm not a dog person so the hairs and smell of them drive me crazy when I stay over.
There's a problem with the toilet roll in work, it keeps going missing. I know who is doing it and I don't know what to do.
There's a sticker on the back that reads "stop lookin' at my rear" too! Lads, I was fierce embarrassed having a girl drive me around in a van.
My partner spends more time on his Xbox than with our new born baby. He never does bottles or feeds and uses his Xbox as an excuse to "chill out".
We have a group chat of the wedding without the bride in it. A lot of her friends are giving out behind her back about this.
The guy I'm seeing has unlocked a new ick. He's 26 and still calls his mother "Mummy" It's not a major issue for me as I like him, how do I get him to stop?
I'm getting her flowers, cards and taking her out, but when I asked her what's she getting me she laughed and said nothing!
The guy I'm seeing keeps wearing my fluffy dressing gown when he stays over. It's a major ick for me and I think it's turning me off him.
One woman wants to leave her fiancé and father of her kids after 5 years. She says he pays no attention to her or his two kids and she can't imagine a life time of this.
It's not communal as I buy it myself and she leaves crumbs and bits of scrambled egg in it. One girl saw her lick her knife and put it back into the tub!
He's not a total farmer but this is a big passion of his. I'm a glam city gal, I cannot be seen doing that. Do you think he can bring me on a normal date?
My GF and I call around to her sisters once a week for dinner. Her sister's fella cooks, and he's filthy! Licks the spoon and puts it back into the pot!
He says he HATES curly hair and it give him the ick! The problem is the photos I used were all me with straight hair, but really I have mad curls!
I've grown a beard and I love it, but my fiancé wants me to shave it for our wedding. I don't want to and I'd never dream of telling her what way to do her hair!
I had a date with a class fella and I was so looking forward to it. To my horror, he rocked up to the restaurant on an E-Scooter!
I matched with a stunner on Tinder and she said height is a deal breaker! We have a date this weekend, should I rock up and say nothing or should I confess? HELP!!
She always referred back to hers and made fun of some of my other friends on the day. I am so hurt! Should I say something to her or just close that chapter of my life?
I was planning to propose to my girlfriend on New Year's Eve but her little sister got engaged on Christmas Day!! I panicked because I didn't want to steal her thunder, how long should I wait before I propose now?
He's living in Spain but is home for Christmas and I'm thinking about just going for it on Stephen's Night. However, he has a girlfriend of two months back in Spain, should that stop me?
My boyfriend has invited me over to his house for St. Stephen's Day. I don't mind this but his family take Christmas way too seriously.
Let's say my name is "Jason", it's always Jayo this and Jayo that! It really gets on my nerves, should I call them out on it?
He is SOOOOO hairy all over, it's matted onto him and honestly it's a turn off! Is it too cheeky to ask him to shave?
My fiancé and I are together four years and her mother is still making me sleep in their garage for Christmas! I'm an adult and I think this is totally unfair, should I not stay for Christmas?
The only problem is his last name is pure muck, I'd rather dance naked in Semple Stadium! Should I confess that I hate his last name?
It's all steaky and orange and makes him look like an Oompa Loompa. I told him to stop and he keeps using it! Help!
His big toe sticks out of them and there's an awful waft coming from them. Is it bad if I just chuck them out when he's not home?
I've moved out of home for college but my young Mam still wants to be involved in my life! She wants to go out with me and friends to nightclubs on college nights out!
I've moved in with my girlfriend after doing the whole long distance relationship thing. There's one problem, she's so messy and leaves the house looking like I kip!
He's training to be a chef and he wants to make his signature dish which is RANK!! I know they won't like it but he's insisting, should I tell him he's a terrible cook?
I'm living with my girlfriend a month and she is obsessed with Christmas! She wants to decorate the house and get matching PJs for the Toy Show. I am so against it, it's only November, what should I do?
My girlfriend of 4 months loves to cuddle in bed but it's a no no for me! I get way to warm and I need my sleep, is it bad if I tell her?
He has scrapped his plans to with the lads to watch it with me as part of a date night! Should I tell him I already watched it or say nothing?
All was fine until the boss sent an all at email on Saturday saying the cake was hers and is now accusing another co-worker.
This is the first girl I'm seeing in a while, so do I see where it goes or run? Listen back to this mornings Daily Dilemma on Beat Breakfast!
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