Dying Alone, Together: Recent Episodes

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Every week, NYC LGBTQIA+ creatives and odd couple Jack Tracy (old, jaded, chooses violence) and JJ Bozeman (young, love and light, chooses crystals) discuss love, sex, relationships, dating and even swipe the apps together, joined by special guests for games, laughs and thoughtful conversations.

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Jack says goodbye.

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Jack’s dressing like a straight boy now.

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Listener asks how to find a "verile, fit, well dressed alpha top" for relationship. Jack responds.

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Listener says he no longer wishes to be married, but feels financially dependant and "trapped." Jack responds.

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Jack talks about his father.

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Jack talks about reclaiming his relationship with the holiday

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Jack talks about why your grey sweatpant season memes are gross.

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Jack talks about his show Alchemy and how those he supported during the year returned the favor...

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Jack struggles to understand why anyone would shoot for a short term relationship.

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Jack struggles to understand why anyone would shoot for a short term relationship.

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Jack hates performing for gay people, specifically cis white gay men.

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Jack met the next generation and he has concerns.

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Jack’s advice on the litmus test for entering a serious relationship.

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Jack hops on for a quick note about the changes to Dying Alone, Together. See you next week with a full episode.

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We're taking a little break to revamp the show, but we didn't want to leave you empty handed. So this week enjoy a mini episode where JJ talks about Pride Month.

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We're taking a little break to revamp the show, but we didn't want to leave you empty handed. So this week enjoy a mini episode where Jack talks about Pride Month.

Don’t forget to get tickets to Jack & Brita’s abortion rights fundraiser at The Stonewall Inn in NYC on June 30th.  Tickets at abortthecourt.eventbrite.com

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It's our anniversary, so the boys have the pod's very first guest Sherry Vine (https://www.instagram.com/misssherryvine) return to chat about best/worst hookups. Before that, the boys talk about Jack's struggle to find artistic community and queer support as well as his journey with suicidal ideation. Finally JJ picks a fight with overuse of neurodivergency on social media and Jack leaves love and light to all of the pod's prior guests.

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JJ is missing—check all windowless vans—so Jack is joined by special guest co-host Jizzelle (www.instagram.com/theonlyjizzelle) to talk about Jack’s last matchmaker date, Jizzelle’s Provincetown gig and what it means to be a “side”. Today’s guest is iconic NYC drag performer, activist and RuPaul’s Drag Race contestant Brita Filter (www.instagram.com/thebritafilter) who talks about her recent projects, online harassment and her love life. Finally, Jack picks a fight with the dearth of male backup dancers and Jizzelle leaves love and light to all Ru-girls.

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JJ starts off the pod this week with a discussion of anticipation, both positive and negative, for the Fire Island movie. On Scruff, the boys’ swiping quickly turns into a discussion about muting, unfollowing and blocking on instagram, with Jack surprising no one by saying he’s strongly anti-mute—unfollows only. Today’s guest is drag performer Nicole Anadyme (www.instagram.com/dymequeennyc) who leads a discussion of best/worst group sex experiences. Finally JJ picks a fight with rude subway passengers and Jack leaves love and light to his new podcast—Star Trek Zhuzherations!

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Pop those poppers, because this week the boys start off discussing VHS head cleaner and the more general concept of having to give up vices. In the swiping segment, JJ picks Tinder and Jack realizes he may have already swiped all of NYC as the only matches lately appear to be from Brazil (which he’s not necessarily mad at). Then LGBTQ+ rapper EarthTone (www.instagram.com/earthtonemuziq) joins to discuss his dealbreakers. Finally, Jack picks a fight with a week of unreasonable Crossfit workouts and JJ leaves love and light to Jack’s recent film project.

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It's a wild one folks. The boys start off talking about jealousy and it somehow meanders into Jack remembering he used to lay in bed at night as a child and pray he'd die before 40. That revelation sucks up the second segment, so no swiping today. Then fellow gay sex podcaster Steve Rodriguez of TAGS Live (www.instagram.com/tagspodcast) joins to detail his best and worst relationships. Finally, JJ picks a fight with his clumsiness and Jack leaves love and light to his friends who gas him up.

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It's a very special occasion, one that only comes about once a year--or twice a month if you're JJ. It's JJ's boo-iversary. After a highly caffeinated and meandering conversation about ? the boys jump into the Feeld app for the first time to look at poly couples on the hunt. This week's guest IKP (https://www.instagram.com/ikp4president/) joins for some red flags and finally Jack picks a fight with Schitt's Creek while JJ leaves love and light to his couch surfers.

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Jack and JJ are manifesting a discussion about manifesting on this week’s open. After they jump to Scruff to find your standard collection of couples and bottoms, and one man who is leather daddy from the neck down, and superintendent from the neck up. Jack then talks to NYC nightlife mainstay DJ Gingy (https://www.instagram.com/djgingynyc/) about his dealbreakers, before JJ picks a fight with surprise jalapeños on his pizza, and Jack leaves love and light to finally being good at Crossfit.

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Today’s pod starts with JJ gushing about his new boo Chris as Jack seethes. Attempting to find romance for Jack, the boys then head to Tinder for a land of blank profiles, which leads to a discussion of Jack’s “automatic swipe left” profile inclusions. Then we have our very first Ru-girl, the iconic Honey Davenport (https://www.instagram.com/honeydavenportofficial/) who takes a break from her myriad projects to join Jack to “look back at it.” Finally, JJ picks a fight with rose-flavored vaseline and Jack leaves love and light to his post-pandemic evolution.

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Jack's got a beef with self-care--or more specifically when it's weaponized to justify unreliability. JJ takes Jack into the wasteland that is Grindr to find some masc-onlys, gimps and all around slim pickings. After, Jack is joined by colleague Deshawn Aaron Jenkins (https://www.instagram.com/deshawndreams/) to "look back at" some old behaviors they've retired, and Deshawn dishes on his current poly relationship. Finally, JJ picks a fight with snap judgments, while Jack leaves love and light to a phenomenal new Michelle Yeoh sci-fi movie.

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JJ’s hole is a mood ring, we discover, as the boys discuss some STI journeys. After the break, they move onto Hinge swiping to find a cute musician with coded Star Wars references and someone who bravely admits that they like…the gym. Jack flies solo again this week and plays a game of dealbreakers with the winner of the 6th cycle of NYC’s Lady Liberty drag competition, Freeda Kulo (https://www.instagram.com/freedakulo/)! Finally, JJ picks a fight with young straights invading his gay spaces, while Jack leaves love and light to his new linens.

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The boys start discussing the eyes of Tammy Gay—gay eyes, which Jack only recently recognized as what he thought were hateful glares for the last 28 years. JJ talks about accidentally employing the tactic and Jack’s receipt of them in Crossfit from a cavalcade of bottoms. Next, Jack breaks down his latest date through his matchmaking service and bemoans "travel gays." Finally, powerhouse entertainer Kenny Supreme (www.instagram.com/kennysupremee) joins to pitch his ideal, virtual reality-based, first date. Finally Jack picks a fight with a barfly while JJ leaves love and light to straight people.

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"TURN THE MICS ON!" JJ screamed on their break between recordings for Jack to retell his induction into top daddy-hood. After the break, Jack reveals the desolate wasteland that is Astoria Grindr. In the third act, LGBTQ+ recording artist, nightlife mainstay and all around hustler Marcel The Artist (www.instagram.com/marcel_theartist) joins to talk best/worst movies. Finally, JJ picks a fight with recent attacks on LGBTQ+ rights and Jack leaves love and light to post-pandemic opportunities.

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JJ is in control this week, suggesting the topic of what to do when someone likes you more than you like them. Next, instead of swiping, JJ notes the changes in Jack since he began his mood stabilizers. In the third act, the filthiest gay rapper in NYC Bryce Quartz (https://www.instagram.com/realbrycequartz/) joins to exchange red flags. Finally, Jack picks a fight with delusional artists while JJ leaves love and light to Nick Pearlman.

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Active interest is the first subject this week with Jack telling JJ he’s all about quitting things he doesn’t want to do and only engaging with people who have active interest in him. Next the boys swipe Hinge and JJ explains why dogs are the cologne of pictures…yup, that’s a thing. Recording artist Danielle Cardona (www.instagram.com/danielle_cardona_/) then joins to play a brand new game—Look Back At It—where we look back at behaviors or opinions we no longer carry. Finally, Jack picks a fight with hot manipulators, while JJ leaves love and light to positive reinforcement.

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JJ is fired from the podcast because he HAS A BOYFRIEND. JJ tells Jack the story of how they got together and how he introduced him to his squad. Buckle up. Jack tries to find love of his own on OKCupid which sparks a discussion of some “masc 4 masc” profiles. Then Bear World Magazine founder Richard Jones (www.instagram.com/bearworldmag) joins to talk through some dealbreakers. Finally, JJ picks a fight with weed paranoia and Jack leaves love and light to his new recording studio.

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Jack has been dumped 4 times recently, and completely blindsided by each. He takes JJ through the carnage before diving into Scruff to refill his dance card. In segment three, comedian Brittany Brave (https://www.instagram.com/brittanybrave) joins to play a game of Virtue Signal and somehow they get into Rugrats-themed roleplay ideas...cringe. Finally, Jack picks a fight with dates who ask for a second drink on a first date who aren't actually interested in a second date, and JJ leaves love and light to the LGBTQ center in NYC and it's nude drawing events.

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It’s the Quarantine Special we’ve alluded to, as Jack just found JJ’s audio from our January recording (a bit out of sequence, sorry). Join us as Jack decides to shit where he eats and details his latest match with Voldemort’s doppelgänger. After we are joined by alternative music artist Jake Benjamin (www.instagram.com/jakebenjmusic) to sort through some dealbreakers. To close us out, JJ goes controversial and picks a fight with COVID-19, while Jack leaves love and light to our new Black Widow.

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Jack's brain is broken and now requires medication, which he tells JJ all about in the first segment. After, the boys take their first trip into The Pattern app to see if the stars can find Jack a match. Drag queen Jizzelle Amore (www.instagram.com/jizzelleamore) joins to play a round of dealbreakers before JJ picks a fight with Euphoria and Jack leaves love and light to movie theaters.

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JJ comes full circle with his hookup buddies as we discuss the problematic nature of the term "eskimo twinning" before Jack goes through his OKCupid. After, the boys are joined by professional Trekkie and writer/creator extraordinaire Sean Ferrick (www.instagram.com/seanferrick) to talk Star Trek roleplays and best/worst dates. Finally Jack picks a fight with rich white gays that won't pay a $15 cover for musicians and JJ leaves love and light to knowing himself.

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Omicron got us gals. JJ and Jack start off by recapping their recent quarantines before heading to Tinder to decide how many cats is a dealbreaker. The guest this week is LGBTQ+ musician Vegas Valentine (www.instagram.com/vegasvalentinemusic) who plays Good Giving and Game. Finally JJ picks a fight with his commute while Jack gives love and light to his audience.

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Your children are sending disappearing photos to Jack on Instagram that he will NEVER open for fear of having to introduce himself to his neighbors for the rest of his life, while JJ has a reverse-teachable moment with an 18-year-old on Scruff. Instead of swiping, in segment two Jack presents his current roster of suitors to JJ for inspection, and afterwards Marcus "Zebra" Smith (www.instagram.com/tizzebra) joins to share best/worst Valentine's days. We close with Jack and JJ leaving love and light to candles and a new nerdy TV show.

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Jack's got two stories of communication fails this week and reveals that he'd spend more time on revenge if he only had the bandwidth. The boys swipe couples, travelers and robots on Grindr and are then joined by LGBTQ+ musician Dan Kiernan (www.instagram.com/dankiernanmusic) to figure out his dealbreakers. Jack picks a fight with people who won't stay out of his business and JJ leaves love and light to the 92nd street Y panels on YouTube.Talk to us:

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JJ wants to talk about the joys of premature ejaculation, and Jack gets interrupted by some Sunday morning sexts. The app of the day is Tinder and a discussion of body image arises. Today’s guest is stand-up and writer Brittany Carney (www.instagram.com/james_earlbones) who plays a game of best/worst with the boys. Finally, JJ leaves love and light to nerd-dom and Jack picks a fight with his former apartment.

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Jack’s matchmaking endeavors take a hard right into the center lane with a man who wanted to make sure he wasn’t a “crazy liberal.” Yikes. After the catchup, JJ pulls the boys into a successful round of OKCupid swiping where Jack reveals he has a thing for men wearing glasses during oral sex. Today’s guest is a fan favorite from Jack’s successful web series History—Will Cohen (www.instagram.com/oscar_cohen)! After discussing some dealbreakers with Will, JJ picks a fight with munchies and Jack leaves love and light to the FAM.

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It's a new year and JJ blew a tire...his special tire (love tire?). Join us for a discussion of sex injuries, an exploration of the apps and dealbreakers with the legendary DJ Chauncey Dandridge (www.instagram.com/djchaunceyd). Jack closes by leaving love and light to his dancers, and JJ shouts out his new apartment.

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Nothing but the hits babyyyyyy....we're off for 2 weeks so here's a collection of our favorite segments. Minivans, games and our favorite soundbites. See you next year!

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Nothing but the hits babyyyyyy....we're off for 2 weeks so here's a collection of our favorite segments. Minivans, games and our favorite soundbites. See you next year!

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Clean holes, full hearts, can't lose! This week the podcast starts with a discussion of "freshness" and answer the important question "who is Brian?" After the break, the boys take a mustache journey on Grindr. Fellow creative Kodi Maurice Doggette joins to talk about dating Jack, and his decision to stop dating Jack--which Jack gets to hear for the first time! Eeeeeeeeek! Finally, JJ picks a fight with comment sections and Jack leaves love and light to guideposts along his way.

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Jack has stories from his matchmaking endeavors, and JJ is eager to hear them in segment one. After the break, the boys explore Scruff's new Thirst Trap feature, before Matthew Blum joins to play Good, GIving and Game. JJ then leaves love and light to Butt Magazine, and Jack praises his matchmaker.

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Jack and JJ’s VCRs are dusty AF so they start this week’s episode with their individual poppers journeys. In segment two, the boys swipe Hinge and disqualify potential matches based on poor tattoo, hair and instagram choices.

They are then joined by lawyer/rocker Joshua Freda to hear about his career change and how he handled a mental health crisis during the pandemic. Finally, JJ leaves love and light to new music while Jack picks a fight with “the Dave Chappelle’s” of the world.

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Daddy (Jack) made a new song...and it's called Daddy Made It! The boys give you a preview and Jack talks about what it's like to go on dates while making music, podcasts and shows. After the break, the boys swipe Scruff and talk about the new Thirst Trap feature (though fail to access it). Today's guest is Jordan Burns, Illinois-based choreographer and dancer, who has the boys pimp him out for casual encounters. In closing, JJ leaves love and light to Ted Lasso and Jack gushes over his new apartment.

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JJ is late for recording yet again and yet again it's because he can't find his wallet. Jack gives him a handy new trick to try to keep ahold of it. In segment two the boys swipe Jack's Tinder to find a string of empty profiles and someone Jack thinks will eventually murder him. Next, Jack's choreographer Julz Romell swings by to swap stories on best/worst performances. Finally, JJ leaves love and light to Asbury Park, while Jack picks a fight with a local DJ.

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Jack and JJ are getting back to business—cum and erections. In the first segment the boys discuss having sex without the inevitable conclusion. In segment two, they swipe Jack’s OKCupid to find yet another collection of perfect matches for Jack—one from Turkey and one yet another bottom. This week’s guest is Albany’s own Ebro, joining to play Virtue Signal. Finally, Jack leaves love and light to Frank’s Red Hot and JJ picks a fight with HIS CURRENT ROOMMATES—YO! CLEAN THE BATHROOM.

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Jack just filmed a new music video for his song “Daddy Made It” and in our first segment Jack talks about the shoot where EVERYTHING WENT WRONG. Next, Jack and JJ share their best and worst Fire Island stories, before being joined by comedian Jaye McBride to play Virtue Signal. Don’t miss Jaye’s headlining show during this year’s New York City Comedy Festival on November 9th! Tickets here: https://newyorkcomedyclub.com/events/new-york-comedy-festival-presents-the-daddy-issues-show-with-jaye-mcbride

Finally JJ leaves love and light to reading for pleasure, and Jack leaves love and light to moving.

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OUR VERY FIRST LIVE SHOW! Recorded back in August 2021 at the Dixon Place Theater in NYC, Jack and JJ start by discussing the then-recent news item about Matt Damon's use of the f-slur. In segment two, the boys adapted their app-swipe game for a live audience and then were joined by award winning musical theater writer and LGBTQ+ musician Brandon James Gwinn to play a brand new game called "Jack, What Have You Done?" where two lucky audience members went home with Satisfyer goodies!

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Today is all about breakups. In the first segment, Jack and JJ talk about best practices and recent experiences, while in segment two they play a game of Best/Worst with respect to how they've been broke up with in the past. Then, Freddie Cosmo--not a ghost--joins to share red flags. Finally, Jack picks a fight with the word, and concept, of "cuddle" while JJ fights with birds--all of them.

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The boys have some big changes in their lives! Jack has hired a professional matchmaker, and walks JJ through his decision to do so in the first segment, then after the break JJ reveals that he has finally gotten a Scruff profile. LGBTQ+ musician and variety show host Billy Mick trade their worst performance stories. To close out, JJ gives love and light to "me time" and Jack picks a fight with Dixon Place.

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At the top of today's show, Jack and JJ discuss their relationship with social nudity. After the break, it's back to swiping, this time on Jack's free edition of Grindr. Moral of story--pay for filters. Our guests this week are NY drag duo Ducky Sheaboi and Miss Patsy InDecline who talk about their podcast, Team Japan and being unconventional drag wives.

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This week the boys start out with a discussion about the concept of being "out of someone's league." What does that mean, how do we handle it?

After the break, we find our way back to swiping, this time on Hinge. We come across some strange choices.

Our guest today is LGBTQ recording artist and all around content creator Mel Lennon who has a story about walking an Atlanta highway at 3am to hookup, only to be confronted with a standoff over condom usage. He also has a PHENOMENAL new EP - Overthinking Out Loud - out everywhere! Cop that ish!

Jack picks a fight with his apartment complex, JJ gives love and light to the 2007 film LIttle Children.

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Our libidos are out of control, and we aren’t ashamed to talk about it. At the top of this week’s episode, Jack and JJ describe their recently supercharged libidos and how it complicates looking for a serious long-term relationship.

In segment two, we borrow a game from a much more famous podcast and play Best/Worst in which Jack and JJ each reveal their best and worst hookup.

After the break, Jack and JJ are joined by LGBTQ+ celebrity interviewer Denny Patterson to play a game of Self Cancellation.

The episode concludes with JJ leaving love and light to the french fries at Cannabis Bar in Nashville, and you get to hear a SECOND take of Jack picking a fight with a local tattoo artist because the first take got too spicy.

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Jack and JJ own the awkwardness of being attracted to someone you're dating's friend. They also consider the reverse, what happens when someone you like likes one of your friends.

In segment two the boys have a philosophical debate about the expectation of privacy when sharing nude pictures on the hookup apps.

Today’s special guest is NYC-based recording artist Benji Bradshaw, who joins the boys to discuss red flags.

Finally, Jack leaves love and light to DIxon Place, and JJ picks a fight with lube...AGAIN!

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Jack is back from Provincetown Bear Week, and he is feeling himself. He talks with JJ about his time there and his use of statement tanks to make friends.

In segment two the boys take a break from swiping and discuss their "bottom journeys."

Today’s special guest is LA-based writer and comedian Oscar Montoya who joins the boys for a WILD game of Good Giving and Game!

Finally, Jack leaves love and light to the bear community, and JJ leaves love and light to tequila.

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Brazil loves Jack, and the feeling is mutual. At the top of today’s show Jack relays a conversation with a recent Brazilian lover explaining why his romances with men of that particular ethnicity tend to go sour. The boys then dive into a discussion on racial fetishes more broadly.

In segment two the boys take another week off of swiping to discuss their love language. No gifts please.

Today’s special guest is JJ’s childhood friend and former(?) paste eater Alec James who makes the boys play a new game—Where Is This Going?—where we must guess the next chapter of a wild dating story.

Finally, JJ picks a fight with drunk dancing, sort of, while Jack lays into other dog owners.

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Condom use, PREP and STIs oh my! In segment one, the boys talk about their safer sex strategies and perceptions around STIs.

In segment two the boys go back to swiping Tinder and discuss Jack swiping and chatting with a former lover of JJ's. We also find a thirst trap filled profile adamantly decrying people seeking hookups.

After the break, the boys are joined by friend of the pod and host of Best Bars in Brooklyn Dina Massery to play a new game—Virtue Signal. In the game, Dina must decide whether her hypothetical date’s virtues are dealbreakers.

Finally, Jack leaves love and light to the people at Leather Man NYC and JJ picks a fight with smart cars.

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The boys discuss the post-pandemic resurfacing of old flames, attempts to rekindle and desire for closure. It turns into a conversation of how each deals with lovesickness and heartbreak.

In segment two, the boys skip swiping in order to review the “Art of Seduction” types and figure out which one they match with.

After the break, Jack and JJ pimp out Necessary Outlet fan Brennen Savon—a sexy artist and teacher in Philly—who is looking for a man of all seasons.

The episode concludes with a double love and light—JJ to kissing strangers and Jack to Maxi.

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JJ is stalking you on the internet, and we talk about it at the top of the episode. How much of a deep dive you do on a new romantic interest? Jack discusses what it's like to have a LOT of content on the internet when dating and tells stories where he was forced into nonconsensual content on a date.

After the break, Jack and JJ swipe Grindr and quickly find someone Jack has already had sex with. The conversations turns into one about roleplay, kink and a childhood trauma of Jack's and how it might all relate.

Then the boys are joined by body positive queer musician J.R. Price to talk about red flags and the homophobia in Nashville, and then you get a listen of Jack and JR's new single, "Don't Compare" (Remix), which is now streaming everywhere. Don't forget to also grab JR's new song "Golden Hour", out now.

After our music break, Jack and JJ both pick fights with skateboards but in very different ways.

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JJ’s got an aura about him and he’s not afraid to show it! Jack clocks his positive vibe in segment one before the boys talk about best breakup practices.

After the break (new Satisfyer ads you guys, we know you like the ads), the boys swipe OKCupid and talk about the appropriate amount of filtering on photos, how early to discuss whether you want kids in the future, and whether you must send a message along with a like on an app.

Then the boys are joined by filmmaker Joseph Patrick Conroy for an extremely moving conversation about his eight year battle for sole custody of his daughter. Get your tissues.

Jack and JJ give love and light to and comedian Jessica St. Clair and tattoo artist Christian Lord, respectfully.

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Jack and JJ are feeling polyamorous at the start of this week's episode. They discuss their interactions with the nontraditional relationship model in segment one, and after the break swipe OKCupid to consider the best approach for contacting someone who matched Jack who Jack very much wants to meet, but doesn't have romantic interest in.

Later, they are joined by Thotyssey.com's and NYC nightlife staple Jim Silvestri to play Flag4Flag—a game about red flags in others and about ourselves. Passive aggressiveness, boys with crazy exes, indecisiveness, and guys who've never had a boyfriend all come up, among others. Then stay tuned for a VERY SPECIAL love and light/pick a fight.

NOTE this episode was recorded in April 2021 and the discussion of lockdown/quarantine/vaccination is of that time period.*

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Jack and JJ start off this week’s episode by shitting where they eat—discussing workplace romances. JJ has a story about young love at a part time job and Jack talks about the difficulty of employees slipping into his DMs.

In segment two, the boys check Jack’s Grindr Home Screen to find someone too young, someone who is likely stepping out on a girlfriend and someone who lives in Jack’s building.

Later, they are joined by Brandon Salerno to play Flag4Flag—a game about red flags in others and about ourselves. Brandon’s red flag is actors, which he also considers to be his own flag. JJ doesn’t like people who are uncomfortable with silence and his flag is his need for control and closure. Jack stays away from people with complicated relationships with sex and discloses that he’s the guy who’s had nothing but terrible breakups (buckle up, we get into them). Finally, Jack and JJ both pick fights—with lube and Bowen Yang.

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It's an all out assault on astrology at the top of the show this week, with Jack being the most Capricorn he's ever been. JJ partially defends the zodiac and Jack explains why he couldn't date a sexy otter obsessed with tarot (spoiler: Jack does NOT "believe in energy").

In segment two, the boys swipe Hinge and take a detour to evaluate Jack's own picture selection. Jack also has a hot take on French people ("they're all assholes") which is immediately validated by a Hinge swipe, and oh boy is everyone wearing a hat today in their photos!

Today’s guest is dancer, actor, singer and all around instagram pretty boy Corry J. Ethridge, who has agreed to get PIMPED OUT by the co-hosts. YOU SHOULD DATE CORRY OR AT LEAST SEND HIM NUDES. Jack and JJ review his dating app presence and give a few pointers. Finally, JJ leaves love and light to YouTube skincare tutorials and Jack picks a fight with gay Republicans/conservatives.

REMINDER - There is a lot of discussion of the pandemic and reopening as this episode was recorded in April 2021.

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This week, Jack and JJ discuss video sex and associated production values. Jack also tells JJ the two times he was blackmailed with his own nudes and the time he was videoed without his consent! Yay! They also have a thoughtful discussion about the societal shift over who gets the stigma when a sex video gets leaked.

After the break, JJ discloses why he isn’t on the apps before swiping through Jack’s Scruff account to find someone Jack’s already talked to on another app. They also find one half of an open couple Jack is interested in and discuss the politics of how they navigate being only interested in half of a couple that only plays together.

Today’s guest is Denver’s own tall glass of sweet tea (with added sweetener)—Dixie Krystals—who plays the dangerous game of Self Cancellation. Dixie, Jack and JJ all offer themselves up for cancellation based on a past bad behavior. Finally, JJ leaves love and light to NYC strangers and Jack picks a fight with astrology.

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Buckle up because JJ’s got a story about an anonymous hookup in a mini van with a presumedly closeted Orthodox Jewish man that is a MUST LISTEN. After, the boys swipe the apps to find a metallic spiked speedo and Jack pleads with bald men to embrace it because he LOVES it. In segment 3, the boys are joined by LA-based comedian and podcaster Mano Agapion to find out how “Good, Giving and Game” he is to hook up with some celebrity crushes with fascinating fetishes. Finally, Jack picks a fight with people who cancel plans and don’t take it upon themselves to reschedule, and JJ has more to say on mini van adventures.

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It's our first episode! Jack and JJ introduce you to the podcast by setting some ground rules and then write dating app bios for each other. In segment 2, the boys take their first swing swiping on the dating apps. Up at bat are (1) a ghost from Jack's past, (2) a classic hot person with a bland profile and (3) a seemingly sweet man with possible hangups about his racial identity. In segment 3, the boys are joined by legendary drag icon Sherry Vine who steps in to judge a dating fail from friend of the pod Ben Tracy (no relation...unless you're paying) and talks about her BRAND NEW VARIETY SHOW now streaming on OutTv. Jack also gives a deep cut Toni Braxton reference which does not land. It's a hoot. Finally, JJ leaves love and light to his friend Gabby and Jack picks a fight with sex toys that look like Barbie's Dream Dick.

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In this short preview, co-hosts Jack Tracy & JJ Bozeman announce what is to come from their new weekly podcast. Deep conversations on love, sex and dating in the LGBTQIA+ world, laughs and games with special guests (first up, the LEGENDARY Sherry Vine) and swiping the apps together. Will JJ be able to virtually hug EVERY listener? Will Jack burn this place to the ground? Find out each week by subscribing right now!

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