So Good Sisterhood : Recent Episodes
Julie Mullins
The So Good Sisterhood podcast is all about investing in every girl from every generation. It's an opportunity to have relevant conversations every month around living intentionally, leading confidently, and loving generously—leaving you saying "That's so good!"
Tune into this special next-gen season finale episode about God's calling, limiting beliefs, hearing God’s voice, and even some fun slang terms.
So Good Moments:
- Colossians 3:17 says that whatsoever you do, do it for God’s glory. While it’s easy to spend a lot of energy on that one little thing, we need to think more about the “whatsoever” part.
- God may assign you to certain things for a season. You might not like all the assignments you’ve been given, but if you’re faithful in those little things, God won’t let you miss out on your calling.
- While your calling is personal, it’s also a collective call. You’re not intended to live out your calling as an individual, but as a collective.
- God uses His Word, His people, and His Spirit to speak into your life.
- Know the difference between success and fruitfulness.
- We have a speaking God who wants to direct your path.
Discussion Questions:
- What jumped out to you about today’s podcast with Pastor Julie and the three next-gen leaders?
- Pastor Julie talked about the difference between your calling and your assignment. What assignment has God given you in this season?
- What is something that you wish was spoken over you when you were younger?
- What is your collective calling? Who has God called you to live out your calling with?
- Have you had a burning bush moment in your everyday, ordinary life?
- What is one new next-gen word you learned from today’s episode?
Resources:
Shownotes PlusYouth Lingo
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Are you trying to grow spiritually but still feel stuck? In this episode, Pastors Jimmy and Irene Rollins share how to love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength.
So Good Moments:
- Pastor Jimmy and Irene had their darkest time eight years ago when she was struggling with a secret alcohol addiction. She’s now nearly eight years sober.
- It’s easy to focus on doing the right things but to forget the practical side of God’s Word—and the light He wants to shine in our lives.
- Pastor Jimmy ballooned to 420 pounds due to emotional weight he hadn’t dealt with. Once he got emotionally and Spiritually healthy, he started to exercise and stopped using food as medication.
- Pastor Irene used alcohol to medicate and calm her nervous system. Once she detoxed from the alcohol in rehab, she started hearing God’s voice loud and clear. God’s Word became so loud to her in that season.
- Build your hobbies around things that keep you holy. Don’t just look for entertainment—develop a hobby that lets you recreate yourself.
Discussion Questions:
- In what ways could you relate to Jimmy or Irene’s story of finding freedom?
- Has there been a time when you focused on Spiritual things to do but forgot the practical side of taking care of your physical, mental, or emotional health? How did that affect you?
- What are some practical habits and disciplines that help you stay healthy in your heart, soul, mind, and strength?
- Jimmy and Irene talked about the different ways they connect with God and practice stillness. What is your favorite way to enjoy God’s presence?
- Why do you think authenticity is important as believers, and how can you put it into practice?
Resources:
Two Equals One
Previous episode featuring the Rollins
Rushing Woman’s Syndrome
How to Have a Quiet Time
Sacred Pathways
The Practice of the Presence of God
Shownotes Plus
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Do you ever get trapped in a negative headspace? In this episode, some of our campus pastors share ways to embrace God’s promises and a faith-filled mindset.
So Good Moments:
- When we try too hard to be accepted, loved, heard, and seen, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comparison. We might be tempted to project a fake version of ourselves, but this is dangerous because even if others accept that version of us, they don’t know the real us and, therefore can’t love our true selves.
- Our identity in Christ is contrary to what culture wants women to have. Embrace being a servant of God who pours your life out to Him. Strive to serve God in your home, job, and with the people in your life.
- To have a faith-filled mindset, Pastor Erin does two things intentionally and proactively: 1) She declares Scripture over her life, situation, and family. 2) Having daily declarations helps her renew her mind so that she thinks like Christ. There’s power in our words, which is why choosing daily declarations to speak life gives you a more faith-filled mindset.
- To have a faith-filled mindset, Pastor Amy puts Spiritual disciplines into practice—reading the Bible, praying, listening to worship music, going to church, and being in community with other believers. We must intentionally do this every day so that our days are focused on God instead of our to-do list.
- Trust what you know instead of what you feel. Trust that God has put you where you are for a purpose. Do the Word of God every single day, and He will bless you.
Discussion Questions:
- What stands out most from this podcast’s panel discussion?
- You might be an approval addict if:
- You’re afraid to be honest
- You hate disappointing others
- You put too much weight on criticism or even praise
Which one are you, if any?
3. What symptoms of people pleasing do you have, if any? If you’re not a people pleaser, do you struggle with caring about people more?4.What’s something that gives you a faith-filled mindset?
5. Are you more of a to-do list girl or do you prefer to let things happen more naturally?
Resources:
Shownotes Plus
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Are you showing up as the real you—or are you caught in the trap of approval addiction? In this episode, Lance Witt is sharing how you can shine authentically and live for an audience of One.
Discussion Questions:
- What was your favorite part of the conversation between Pastor Julie and Lance Witt?
- Lance shared the signs and symptoms of approval addiction:
- You are constantly gauging people’s responses to you.
- You are afraid to be honest.
- You hate disappointing others.
- You put too much weight on criticism or praise.
Has there ever been a time when you’ve seen one or more of these revealed in your life? What was one thing Lance said that was the biggest reminder of truth for you?
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How does being our true self lead to intimacy?
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Lance talked about identifying internal scripts from our past. Can you think of any internal scripts you’ve needed to replace with God’s truth?
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What is one quirky, fun, or unique thing that makes you—you?
Resources:
Lance Witt’s Books
Shownotes Plus
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Have you ever had someone say, “There’s something different about you?” In this episode, you will hear how to shine brightly for Jesus in a world where kindness isn’t common.
Discussion Questions:
- What stood out to you most in today’s episode?
- What does God’s calling look like in your life? What’s your mission field?
- How can you show up in your community?
- What’s one small way you can point people to Jesus, who is the North Star?
- Becky and Dianne talked about verses that encourage them. Do you have a life verse or one that’s provided clarity or comfort for you?
- Pastor Karissa joked about needing a nap. What’s a self-care must in your life?
Resources:
Children’s Impact Network
Amazon Wishlist: Care Portal
Amazon Wishlist: Honduras
Sisterhood Projects
Sisterhood Fund
Shownotes Plus
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Have you ever wondered how to trust God through seasons of pain and grief? In this episode, Elizabeth Mitchell shares how she trusted God through her son’s battle with a congenital heart disease.
Discussion Questions:
- What stood out to you about this podcast episode?
- While at a Miami hospital, Elizabeth realized she needed a shift in perspective and began to list 10 things she could easily take for granted. How has gratitude helped you in difficult times?
- Worship was a big part of Elizabeth’s healing and comfort. How does worship play a part in your life?
- Elizabeth and Pastor Julie talked about “doing the next thing,” which can be something small. In this season of your life, what is your next right thing?
- It took a lot of courage for Elizabeth to write a book about her story. If you were to write a book about your life, what would it be about and who could it help?
Resources:
Elizabeth’s Book
WorldLead
Awana International
Shownotes Plus
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How do you know if something is a good thing or a God thing in your life? In this episode, you will hear how the Bible can bring clarity, encouragement, and revelation when you need it most.
Discussion Questions:
- What’s your biggest takeaway from today’s podcast?
- Has there been a time when you weren’t sure if something was a good thing or a God thing? How did you determine what the God thing was?
- Joy Bray spoke about several times that God used Scripture to speak to her and assure her. Has God used Scripture to speak to you?
- Joy Bray said she underlines verses and writes in the margins of her Bible to make it personal to her. What’s something you do to make your Godtime personal?
- Is there one verse that’s lit your path for a season or even for a lifetime?
- Do you have any godly women in your life who you admire and could seek advice or mentorship from?
Resources:
Foundations of Faith Classes
Lisa Harper Devotional about Job
Shownotes Plus
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Have you ever lost sight of your purpose in a dark season? In this episode, Pastor Emma Mullings is here to encourage you that you are never too far from God’s reach.
Discussion Questions:
- What was the main thing that stood out to you from Emma Mullings’ story?
- How have you learned to trust God even when your prayers for healing or breakthrough didn’t turn out like you hoped?
- Emma spoke about the process of discovering her worth and value in Christ. How has your God-confidence grown over the years?
- After recommitting her life to Christ, Emma made some dramatic changes in her life—starting with the first step of attending Bible college. What is your next right step toward what God has for you?
- If you’ve ever felt like the lights went out on your dreams, future, or purpose, how did you learn to find purpose and strength in God?
- Emma is a gifted worship singer, and so was her mom. What’s your favorite worship song?
Resources:
Emma Mullings’ music
History Makers Church
Shownotes Plus
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Leading with Extreme Confidence and Extreme Humility
Season 4 | Episode 5
Will you lead with extreme confidence or extreme humility? The answer is yes! In this episode, Pastor Julie unpacks how to become a both/and kind of leader. You will learn what true humility really is, how to identify your blind spots, and practices that will increase your capacity.
So Good Moments:
- Why Deborah from the Bible is an example of a woman who led spiritually and vocationally.
- Why you can’t be insecure and humble at the same time and how to move forward in true confidence.
- Pastor Julie’s morning routine and how she developed a system to compensate for her weaknesses.
- Who you should ask to help you identify your blind spots and the one question that changed Pastor Julie’s life.
- Key attributes that will increase your influence.
- The value of hidden service.
Resources:
The 8 Paradoxes of Great Leadership
Lead Like it Matters
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Discussion Questions:
- What inspires you about the life of Deborah?
- What are some misconceptions about true confidence?
- What are some misconceptions about true humility?
- What are some indicators that the enemy is trying to tear down your confidence?
- Pastor Julie shared how she was able to invite the right people into her life to speak into her blind spots. Who do you trust to speak into yours?
Leading Through a Storm
Season 4 | Episode 4
How do you position yourself to offer hope during storms or crises? When Hurricane Ian ravaged her community of Fort Myers, Pastor Sarah Keller learned how to lead with faith amid grief. In this episode, you will learn about the power of partnerships and how to speak God’s Word when all you see is rubble.
So Good Moments:
- How Pastor Sarah went from not seeing herself as a leader to stepping into God’s calling and plan.
- How to bring hope through vital partnerships.
- Why Pastor Sarah believes times of rebuilding can be times of revival.
- How God can use storms and crises to open hearts to the gospel.
- Why it’s important to give yourself permission to grieve and have faith.
- What you can learn through Pastor Sarah’s biggest leadership fail—and more!
Resources:
Next Level Church Crisis Fund
Convoy of Hope
Christ in Action
Mercy Chefs
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Second Mile, Second Nature with Dan Cathy
Season 4 | Episode 3
What does it look like to go the second mile as a leader? In this episode, Chick-fil-A Chairman Dan T. Cathy shares the Chick-fil-A origin story and why he calls it a leadership development organization disguised as a restaurant.
So Good Moments:
- Why it’s important to marry the mission but date the methods.
- How Dan T. Cathy begins with the end in mind and defines the culture at Chick-fil-A.
- What the Bible says about going the second mile and why leaders should go beyond what’s expected.
- Why it’s important to remember that every life has a story and how it changes the way we treat people.
- The importance of relationships and relevance when it comes to what’s next for the Church.
- How to become a learner and leader that elevates the whole organization.
Resources:
Every Life Has a Story Video
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Discussion Guide Questions:
- Why is it important to “marry the mission but date the methods” as a leader?
- How have you witnessed someone going the extra mile in your life? How did it make you feel?
- How does remembering that every life has a story change the way you treat others?
- Why do you think relationships are so important in order to have an impact?
- What are some ways you can become more of a learner?
Women Leading in the Bible and Leading Today Part Two
Season 4 | Episode 2
What does God’s Word say about your leadership potential? In this episode, Pastor and author Donna Pisani shares what God’s Word says about women in leadership and how you can confidently rise to your calling.
So Good Moments:
- How Jesus treated women as examples, not exceptions.
- The difference between being entrusted as a leader rather than entitled.
- Why working on your insecurities will help you avoid toxic leadership.
- What the Bible really says about topics like submission and using your voice.
- The three categories of context for Scriptures about women in the Bible.
- Pastor Donna and Pastor Julie’s moments of failing forward in leadership.
Resources:
Better Together TV
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Discussion Guide Questions:
- What is something new you learned about women in the Bible?
- What stood out to you about how Jesus treated women?
- Have you experienced insecurity in leadership? How did you process it?
- How can you tell when you are being pulled out of your gift zone vs. your comfort zone?
- Pastors Donna and Julie shared their stories of “failing forward” in leadership. Now it’s your turn to share. What did you learn from your failure?
Women Leading in the Bible and Leading Today
Season 4 | Episode 1
What does God’s Word say about your leadership potential? In this episode, Pastor and author Donna Pisani shares what God’s Word says about women in leadership and how you can confidently rise to your calling.
So Good Moments:
- How Jesus treated women as examples, not exceptions.
- The difference between being entrusted as a leader rather than entitled.
- Why working on your insecurities will help you avoid toxic leadership.
- What the Bible really says about topics like submission and using your voice.
- The three categories of context for Scriptures about women in the Bible.
- Pastor Donna and Pastor Julie’s moments of failing forward in leadership.
Resources:
Better Together TV
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Discussion Guide Questions:
- What is something new you learned about women in the Bible?
- What stood out to you about how Jesus treated women?
- Have you experienced insecurity in leadership? How did you process it?
- How can you tell when you are being pulled out of your gift zone vs. your comfort zone?
- Pastors Donna and Julie shared their stories of “failing forward” in leadership. Now it’s your turn to share. What did you learn from your failure?
Reframe Your Shame
Season 3 | Episode 6
Have you ever felt like God’s grace applies to everyone else but you? Pastor Irene Rollins knows firsthand what it’s like to spiral into toxic shame. In this episode, Irene shares the difference between guilt and shame, how to face your emotions head-on, and why reframing your shame will reframe your identity.
So Good Moments:
- Irene’s journey of recovery and how she learned that alcoholism was a symptom, but shame was the sickness
- How to spot the narrative of shame in your life—and when it becomes toxic.
- The ways fear and shame are connected.
- How to embrace being “flawesome”—someone who is flawed but knows they are awesome anyway.
- How to begin to value, care for, and draw boundaries for yourself (when you’ve typically ignored your body and needs).
- Irene’s favorite summer snack and more!
Summer Guide:
Digital
Printable
Resources:
IreneRollins.com
Reframe Your Shame Book
Follow on social media for a chance to win Irene’s book.
Celebrate Recovery
A Guide to Shame-Free Parenting
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Making God the Gardener of Your Life and Heart
Season 3 | Episode 5
How do you respond when God cuts something out of your life? In this episode, Amanda Gonzalez and Karissa Robinson unpack Pastor Julie’s message, “The Key to a Fruitful Life.” You’ll learn how to trust God through the pruning process and stay connected to Jesus through every season.
So Good Moments:
- What “cut off” really means, according to the original Greek translation.
- Practical resources to study Scripture.
- What it looks like to stay connected to the vine and bear lasting fruit.
- Why can't we produce unless we get pruned?
- Why pruning is not punishment and the importance of giving people permission to speak into your life.
- Amanda’s favorite summer snack and more!
Summer Guide:
Digital
Printable
Resources:
Pastor Julie’s Message
Bible Project
Blue Letter Bible
Watermelon Salad Recipe
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Sticking Together Through Our Differences
Season 3 | Episode 4
How well do you love people different from you? Pastor Oneka McClellan knows firsthand that a diverse church is beautiful and biblical—but it doesn’t come without its challenges. Through Oneka’s experience leading a ‘church that looks like heaven,’ she shares the importance of unity amid diversity and treating every season as sacred.
So Good Moments:
- How Oneka resolved to point people to Jesus during polarizing times.
- The importance of reminding one another of our value.
- An encouragement if you feel unseen, unheard, or on the bench.
- How to treat every season as sacred.
- Why our confidence suffers when we have unmet expectations.
- Oneka’s favorite summer snack and hack!
Summer Guide:
Digital
Printable
Resources:
Better Together TV
Shoreline City Church
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Season 3 | Episode 3
What does it look like to say yes to God? In this episode, Maritza and Natalie Hernandez share how their small steps of obedience turned into big stories for God’s glory. Tune in to hear their story of how helping one child at a time grew into rescuing children internationally.
So Good Moments:
- How a sidewalk Sunday school ministry turned into orphanages in multiple countries.
- How God multiplies our small steps of obedience.
- The power of replacing lies with God’s truth.
- How God births beautiful work out of our seasons of pain.
- Why our calling doesn’t have to be complicated.
- Encouragement for those who think they are disqualified because of their past.
- How to position yourself to watch God rewrite stories.
Discussion Guides:
Printable
Digital
Resources:
Child Sponsorship
Help Complete the Second Building in Honduras
Support Greatest Needs at Children’s Impact Network
Sisterhood Mission Trip
Winning the War in Your Mind book
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Learning to Champion Others in a Culture of Competition
Season 3 | Episode 2
Is comparison robbing you of joy? In this episode, Pastors Julie Mullins and Lisa Duvall share why comparison isn’t the real enemy, but the way we process comparison can be. You’ll discover ways to leverage comparison for your growth and hear how to champion others amid a competitive culture.
So Good Moments:
- Why being competitive isn’t always bad, and how to compete in a way where everyone wins.
- Two indicators of unhealthy competition and comparison in your life.
- The right way to process comparison and leverage it toward a greater vision.
- The best strategies when you’re tempted to compare or compete.
- How to respond when someone else gets what you want.
- One question to ask yourself when you feel like you’re losing in life.
Discussion Guides:
Printable
Digital
Resources:
The Art of Spousing
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So Good Moments:
- How God gets our attention through correction, conviction, or escalating situations.
- The three primary ways God still speaks today (and how we can position ourselves to hear Him).
- Pastor Julie’s insider info on how she studies the Bible.
- A question you can ask yourself to determine if you’re heading in the wrong direction.
- How to say yes to God even when the call seems hard.
- Two things you should do immediately after hearing God speak.
- Why your feelings and failures don’t have the final say for your future.
- Three fun summer hacks!
Discussion Guides:
Printable
Digital
Resources:
4-Day Devotional on the Book of Jonah
Winning the War in Your Mind book
Logos Bible Study Software
My Identity Declaration
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So Good Moments:
- How God gets our attention through correction, conviction, or escalating situations.
- The three primary ways God still speaks today (and how we can position ourselves to hear Him).
- Pastor Julie’s insider info on how she studies the Bible.
- A question you can ask yourself to determine if you’re heading in the wrong direction.
- How to say yes to God even when the call seems hard.
- Two things you should do immediately after hearing God speak.
- Why your feelings and failures don’t have the final say for your future.
- Three fun summer hacks!
Discussion Guides:
Printable
Digital
Resources:
4-Day Devotional on the Book of Jonah
Winning the War in Your Mind book
Logos Bible Study Software
My Identity Declaration
Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood
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Boundaries in Relationships
Season 2 | Bonus Episode
How do you know when to establish a boundary in a relationship? And how do you communicate that boundary graciously? Pastors Irene & Jimmy Rollins join Pastors Todd & Julie for a rich conversation about how we can protect what’s most important by establishing guardrails in our lives and relationships.
So Good Moments:
- How the “three I’s” (intentionality, investment, and inspection) can change the dynamic of any relationship.
- The importance of defining your non-negotiables and communicating your needs with vulnerability.
- Why boundaries get confusing for Christians—and what the Bible says about them.
- What it looks like to communicate boundaries in a way that reflects the protection of your values rather than the rejection of the person.
- How being boundaryless led Irene to rock bottom and how rehab helped her take ownership of her life.
- How our emotions serve as an indicator that something in our life needs a guardrail.
Questions for Reflection:
- How did your perspective on boundaries change after hearing this episode?
- What emotions in your life might be indicators to protect what’s most important?
- Pastor Jimmy said, “I can’t give until I first guard.” What is it that you need to guard before you can give?
Resources:
Book: Boundaries
Jimmy & Irene’s Ministry: Two Equals One
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Boundaries in Relationships
Season 2 | Episode 8
How do you know when to establish a boundary in a relationship? And how do you communicate that boundary graciously? Pastors Irene & Jimmy Rollins join Pastors Todd & Julie for a rich conversation about how we can protect what’s most important by establishing guardrails in our lives and relationships.
So Good Moments:
- How the “three I’s” (intentionality, investment, and inspection) can change the dynamic of any relationship.
- The importance of defining your non-negotiables and communicating your needs with vulnerability.
- Why boundaries get confusing for Christians—and what the Bible says about them.
- What it looks like to communicate boundaries in a way that reflects the protection of your values rather than the rejection of the person.
- How being boundaryless led Irene to rock bottom and how rehab helped her take ownership of her life.
- How our emotions serve as an indicator that something in our life needs a guardrail.
Questions for Reflection:
- How did your perspective on boundaries change after hearing this episode?
- What emotions in your life might be indicators to protect what’s most important?
- Pastor Jimmy said, “I can’t give until I first guard.” What is it that you need to guard before you can give?
Resources:
Book: Boundaries
Jimmy & Irene’s Ministry: Two Equals One
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Relationship Q & A - Part 1
Season 2 | Episode 7
You asked, they answered! Pastors Julie Mullins and Lisa Duvall dive into your relationship questions—from friendship tensions to motherhood mishaps. In this episode, you’ll learn how to get out of a negative cycle, extend grace, and walk in humility.
So Good Moments:
- How to push pause and redefine a relationship when it's been stuck in a negative cycle.
- Practical advice for navigating difficult relationships and ensuring the gap of tension doesn’t grow wider.
- How to choose presence over perfection in motherhood and why it’s important to “keep the door open” as a mom.
- Words of wisdom from a former single mom.
- How to stay confident as a teenage girl.
- The art of balancing confidence and humility (and how competence helps).
Questions for Reflection:
- Are there any relationships in your life that need redefining?
- What would it look like for you to put on the “grace filter” in your relationships?
- Pastor Julie said “Decide what matters most and focus your attention there”—what matters most in this season?
Resources:
Friendship: It’s Complicated
Necessary Endings
Boundaries
Forgiving What You Can’t Forget
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How to Discover Your Purpose and Own Your Life
Season 2 | Episode 6
Do you feel like you’re going through the motions in life? Author and leadership coach, Lance Witt, wants you to live with intention and purpose. In this episode, Lance shares questions to help you define your purpose, practical tips for simplifying your life, and how to make God’s glory your personal North Star.
So Good Moments:
- The two Greek definitions for “time” (and why one of them matters most).
- The question Lance asks himself every morning to keep God’s glory at the forefront of his mind.
- How to get started with crafting a life purpose statement.
- Lance’s best advice for how to lead yourself.
- Lance’s 3-part formula for a simple life.
- What the Apostle Paul says about ambition.
Questions for Reflection:
- What does Scripture say about why you’re here?
- What are your desires and passions?
- What do you care about and feel convicted about?
- What do other people say you’re good at?
Lance’s purpose statement: “To steward my one and only life, I need to love God deeply, lead myself tenaciously, shepherd my family intentionally, and coach and serve others unselfishly.”
Resources:
Lance’s Book “Your One Life.”
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Regaining Vision After You’ve Been Blindsided
Season 2 | Episode 5
Whether you’ve experienced the hurt of a betrayal or the shock of being blindsided, Pastor Charlotte Gambill wants to show you how to recover your vision and regain your strength. In this episode, Charlotte shares how to uncover your blind spots, take a step towards healing and begin to see clearly again.
So Good Moments:
- What happens when our spiritual vision gets injured.
- Jesus’ response in Mark 8 to the man who was blinded by unbelief.
- How to move to a mature place of “self-editing” when it comes to your blind spots.
- What accountability really is (and why it gets a bad rap).
- How Charlotte leans into the promptings and nudges from God.
- Why the Church needs more vessels for God—and less ornaments.
Question: What is your now word?
Resources:
Dare to Be
Charlotte’s Mentorship Program
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Becoming The Friend You Wish You Had
Season 2 | Episode 4
Whether you are in middle school or middle-aged, relationships can get complicated. Pastor Julie and her dear friends Irene Rollins and Sarah Keller discuss what they learned from friendship failures, the gift of forgiveness, and how to become the friend you want.
So Good Moments:
- The common denominator in every relationship.
- How to ensure relational mistakes don’t become relational regrets.
- The root cause of offense and hurt—and how to choose another option!
- What forgiveness really looks like.
- The crucial difference between forgiveness and reconciliation.
- What boundaries are and how to set them.
Question: What does forgiveness mean to you?
Resources:
Find Irene: Two Equals One
Find Sarah: Next Level Church
Pastor Julie’s Daily Declarations
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Recommended Books:
Friendship: It’s Complicated
The Bait of Satan
Necessary Endings
Boundaries
Forgiving What You Can’t Forget
Woman Up! Rising to the Call of Leadership
Season 2 | Episode 3
Do you ever feel like you don’t have what it takes to be in ministry or leadership? Pastor Lori Champion can relate. In this episode, Pastor Lori shares how she went from running away from ministry to stepping into her calling as a pastor.
So Good Moments:
- The story of how Lori surrendered her dreams and gifts to God.
- Lori’s vision behind her book Woman Up!
- How an altar moment brought healing after a tragedy and numb season.
- How to fight for unity when you’re hurt in church.
- What being a ‘helper’ really means Biblically.
- The benefits of women in leadership.
Question: What’s your now word?
Resources:
Pastor Lori’s Book
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Valentine’s Day Special: What Matters Most in Relationships
Season 2 | Episode 2
What is the secret sauce for building solid and lasting relationships? In this episode, Pastors Todd and Julie share their own relationship trial and errors, as well as practical tips on communication, conflict, and commitment.
So Good Moments:
- You asked, they answered! Pastors Todd and Julie respond to your questions, which leads to their worst Valentine’s story and advice for singles.
- Why authenticity is critical no matter what stage of life you’re in.
- How to gain a vision for your relationship or marriage.
- The key difference between being a peace-faker and a peace-maker.
- The ABCs of conflict resolution (including the right and wrong way to apologize).
- The long-term fruit of being committed to what matters most.
Question: What relationships do you need God to give you a vision for?
Resources:
Pastor Julie’s 2022 Reading List
Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood
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The Key to Miraculous Breakthrough In Every Relationship
Season 2 | Episode 1
Season two is here—and it’s all about relationships! Relationships can be our greatest source of joy but also our greatest source of pain. To kick off the new season, Pastor Julie shares the key to seeing miraculous breakthrough in every relationship.
So Good Moments:
- You asked, she answered! Pastor Julie spills the tea on everything from her reading list for 2022, to her most embarrassing moment on stage.
- Why it’s a good thing that you don’t have all the answers, and what’s more important.
- What Jesus visiting His hometown can teach us about our relationships today.
- The epidemic of dishonor in our culture and what God wants to release instead.
- The best way to be competitive in your own home (hint, it’s not optional).
- How dishonor can become a huge disruption to supernatural work.
Question: What will you do to cultivate an atmosphere of honor to release the supernatural in your relationships this week?
Resources:
Pastor Julie’s 2022 Reading List
Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood
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Episode 6: A Fresh Start: Trauma Is Real, but Resilience Is So Good
In the last podcast episode of the season, Pastor Irene Rollins shares about celebrating six years of sobriety and how facing her past allowed her to embrace her new beginning. Pastor Irene is a certified emotional health coach, co-founder of Two Equals One marriage ministry, and is a part of the teaching team at Christ Fellowship. This episode will inspire you to enter the new year with healing for your past and expectancy for your future.
So Good Moments:
- How Irene developed a dependency on alcohol, almost lost her family, and started her journey of recovery in rehab.
- Why our past doesn’t stay in our past and how to recognize the reality of both trauma and resilience.
- The top two things Irene learned in rehab that work for everyone.
- The healing power of connection, sharing emotions, and making amends.
- Why New Year’s resolutions don’t work and what to focus on instead.
Question for Reflection: What’s your now word?
Resources:
Article: Top Reads for the New Year
Find Support: Celebrate Recovery
Join a Group: Reengage or Married Group
Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood
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Episode 5: A Season Full of Hope and a Christmas So Good
In this special holiday episode of the So Good Sisterhood podcast, Pastor Julie invites a group of ladies from different walks of life to join her in discussing traditions, hope, and how to have the best Christmas ever.
So Good Moments:
- Ideas for Christmas traditions from different walks of life.
- How to define and deliver hope during the holiday season.
- Practical ways to slow down, resist the hustle and bustle, and offer the gift of being fully present.
- The difference between hope and wishful thinking or optimism.
- What goals, willpower, and way power have to do with experiencing your best Christmas ever.
- Proper expectations and helpful tips for a frustration-free Christmas with family.
Question for Reflection: What’s your now word?
Resources:
Gifts that Give Back
25 Days of Hope
Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood
In this new episode of So Good Sisterhood, Pastor Lisa Duvall joins Pastor Julie for a candid conversation about friendship. Tune in to their discussion on cultivating long-term friendships, eliminating comparisons, and becoming the friend we wish we had.
So Good Moments:
- How Pastor Julie and Pastor Lisa have cultivated a long-term friendship and pushed through awkward moments along the way.
- Advice for becoming inspired by your friends rather than intimidated.
- Why the greatest friendships are built in trenches, not benches.
- Practical ways to stay anchored in the truest thing about you when you’re lacking confidence.
- The extra work that is required to go the distance in your friendships.
Question for Reflection: What’s your now word?
Resources:
VIDEO:Relationships Are Essential for Mental Health
ARTICLE: Relationships
Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood
Episode 3: So Good Perseverance
In episode 3 of the So Good Sisterhood podcast, the one and only Christine Caine joins Pastor Julie to discuss the temptation to quit during challenging seasons. Christine shares candidly about the series of events that made her want to tap out and how she found the strength to persevere in her calling.
So Good Moments:
- The season when Christine Caine felt tempted to drift in her calling and faith.
- The most important thing you can do to stay firmly planted when you want to quit.
- What Christine Caine does to renew her mind daily.
- How believers are rediscovering lamenting and why that’s a good thing.
- The internal narratives about God that can lead to shame, depression, and condemnation.
Question for Reflection: What’s your now word?
Resources:
Christine Caine - “How Did I Get Here?”
Looking For A Christian Counselor?
Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood
Episode Two: So Good Leadership
Pastor Todd joins Pastor Julie for the So Good Sisterhood podcast! Tune in to their discussion on women in leadership, challenges they’ve faced while leading together, and the importance of recognizing the Holy Spirit in our lives. Pastors Todd and Julie don’t shy away from sharing the real-life leadership lessons they’ve learned—sometimes the hard way.
“So Good” Moments:
- How Pastors Todd and Julie met, fell in love, and jumped into ministry together.
- Practical advice for couples who work together and want to maintain balance in their personal and professional lives.
- How Pastor Todd studied the theology of women in ministry and arrived at a solid conclusion.
- The most challenging season of leading Christ Fellowship to date and what they learned from it.
- The importance of leading with convictions, not opinions.
- What it means to host the Holy Spirit inside of us.
Question for Reflection: What’s your now word?
Resources:
The Extreme Life Series
Being Filled With The Holy Spirit
Book Recommendations on The Holy Spirit
Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood
Episode One: What’s So Good?
In the first episode of the So Good Sisterhood podcast, Pastor Julie shares practical ways girls from every generation can live intentionally, lead confidently, and love generously. Psalms 34:8 says, “Taste and see that the Lord is good.” Pastor Julie reminds us to call out God’s goodness so that we can experience His greatness.
So Good Moments:
- The history of Sisterhood and why it’s more of a movement than a ministry.
- Why Pastor Julie named the podcast “So Good!”
- How one young trafficking victim became a valedictorian graduate from The Hope House.
- Pastor Julie’s two ways of determining your destiny.
- God’s intention for meditation and three ways to put it into practice.
- Pastor Julie’s daily declarations.
- Question for Reflection: What’s your now word?
Resources:
Pastor Julie Mullins Declarations | https://rock.gocf.org/Content/website/Sisterhood/Declarations.pdf
Work for the Whisper - Mind Games Series | https://youtu.be/NTzAQwKV6hk
How to Identify and Overcome Unhealthy Thoughts | https://youtu.be/sWMVLDsJDJE
Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood
The So Good Sisterhood podcast is all about investing in every girl from every generation. It's an opportunity to have relevant conversations every month around living intentionally, leading confidently, and loving generously—leaving you saying "That's so good!"