Every marriage/household has it's own culture. Here is a unique look at me and my wife's culture in our household. From conflict in communication, budgeting and finances, to raising children and how we've changed. Here are some things we wish we knew before getting married to help produce the right culture in our home.
Should you have to pivot and adapt in relationships?
How work and money affect changes in relationships.
Communication skills in marriage.
Discussing the pros and cons of marriage.
Do you really want to get married?
Weighing the value of marital relationship.
There will be DRAMA! No relationship is perfect. Don't just articulate the bad, articulate the good. #kngkulture #marriagejourney #createyourkulture
What does unconditional love mean? Do you feel at home? Real progress in a relationship.
Things we believe that make us prisoners. Making poverty a comfort level.
Fighting the scarcity mindset. Being in survival mode. Believing in abundance!
Being your raw self. Prejudging and blaming each other. Where does judging come from?
Does clashing mean the relationship won't work?
Do you know your personality type?
Do you know your spouse's personality type?
The ugly side of having a baby. What many mothers go through in silence. Take care of you so that you can take care of them.
Money arguments. Having financial goals. Spenders vs Savers
Should you hide money from your spouse?
Separate or joint accounts?
Who's better with money?
What are budgets for?
Having time to just talk to your spouse.
Self care and therapy.
Retiring early.
Are you pressured to be perfect?
Relationships are about more than just staying in one.
The top picks from this season of our podcast.
Have you been in a long term relationship?
Are they worth your time and effort?
Can someone grow into becoming your person?
It's not always about being right.
Sometimes meshing together gets messy.
Keeping the door of communication open.
Celebrating 20 Episodes!!!
Things we wish we knew before marriage.
What are some red flags?
Recognizing your spouse's feelings and acknowledging your own.
The "Kulture" we are cultivating and nurturing in our marriage.
Things we wish our parents told us about marriage and about life.
When is divorce appropriate.
Is it possible to support your spouse's dream 100% if you don't believe in it??
The traditional worker vs. the entrepreneur
Boosting your spouse's confidence.
Believing in the impossible. Willing to try any and everything. Normal is just what you know. The "Kulture" in our household.
Show your spouse appreciation for their growth. Give room for growth. Remember growth sometimes looks like change; just because change is not what you're use to doesn't mean it's bad.
Knowing your spouse's love language can enhance your relationship in ways you never paid attention to. See how it helped us address problem areas in our marriage.
Making the conscious effort to stay connected to your spouse.
Creating time for each other.
Being intentional.
Doing everything you can to make it together through the rough times. Living on a tight budget and relocating. Balancing marriage, med school and residency.
What happens when you move in together for the first time after getting married? What you thought VS what really happens. Memories of starting from scratch.
Just sharing the experience of purchasing our first home with you and some things you need to know.
The process of moving.
Real Estate interest.
Episode 10! You don’t want to miss this!
Men... women... who leads? Does society expect men to lead instead of women? Who is responsible for what happens in a crisis?
The first installment of our two part series. Head of household can be a touchy subject when dating or even in marriage. What are some essential factors??? Trust and support
There is nothing wrong with couples therapy!!!
What is one of the worst mistakes of people that have been married for a lifetime?
The question that singles always ask the married.
Why is marriage hard work?
Should we have to work for it?
What happens when you and your spouse are not on the same page?
The issues that cause you not to be in sync.
The issues that come out of not being in sync.
Does your boyfriend/girlfriend, husband or wife get the "best version of you" when dealing with issues? How do you balance your relationship with other areas of your life?
How to deal with your spouse pushing your buttons.
Knowing how to communicate when triggered.
Triggers can be caused by past hurts, fear, poor communication and more.
Questions about marriage... Gender roles! What qualities did we look for??? Is marriage what we thought it would be????
Every marriage/household has it's own culture. Here is a unique look at me and my wife's culture in our household. Just because your relationship has problems doesn't mean there is something "wrong" with you or your spouse. Hope this inspires others and gives hope to others with issues in relationships.