Parenting The Jews Next Dor: Recent Episodes
Rabbi Yair Menchel
The Jews Next Dor is the Jewish parenting podcast focused on helping parents to raise passionate and committed Jews. In general, parenting can be challenging, and children don’t come with an operating manual. This challenge is magnified when adding our Jewish values of raising children to be passionate and committed about being Jewish, about developing a relationship with Hashem. In order to tackle this challenge, we need to make sure we as parents are prepared to handle each level of our children’s hierarchy of needs to enable our children to become passionate and committed Jews. As such, we
Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! When you're parenting a child with ADHD, it takes more effort and attention and requires a different approach. So how do we do it?
In this episode, we are going to learn from an expert in the field and one of the co-authors of an amazing book, Kosher ADHD: Surviving and Thriving in the Torah-Observant World, Dr Sarah Markowitz, who is also the founding director of an Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) for Jewish women at Achieve Behavioral Health.
We are also talking to Rabbi Yaakov Brenman and his wife who are parenting a child with ADHD and wish to help other people with the same challenge.
Hear experts and parents discuss practical strategies for supporting children with ADHD at home and school through open communication, understanding needs, effective planning, and community collaboration. Tune in now!
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
2:50 Child's ADHD diagnosis and treatment.
8:04 Balancing structure and flexibility in special education.
12:13 Challenges of accommodating children with ADHD in Jewish education.
14:59 ADHD in Jewish community, personal experiences and challenges.
19:53 Supporting children with unique learning needs in the education system.
24:36 Managing children's temperaments and expectations in religious settings.
28:06 Parenting children with ADHD, praise, and recognition.
33:57 PCIT (Parent-Child Interaction Therapy) for children with ADHD.
38:08 Importance of quality time with children, praise over punishment.
41:40 Parenting and judging others.
45:14 Parenting strategies for managing children's emotions and behaviors.
49:31 Managing emotions in children and adults.
53:33 Parenting strategies for dealing with children's emotions.
58:40 Challenges of parenting children with special needs.
1:03:54 Challenges of parenting children with ADHD, including effort required and reframing expectations.
1:11:21 Parenting techniques and self-improvement for better relationships with children.
1:13:48 Managing children's behavior and expectations.
1:17:43 Parenting strategies for children with ADHD.
1:22:37 Parenting and ADHD, recognizing emotional needs.
1:27:46 Managing stress and organization in busy lives as a community.
1:32:14 Supporting children with executive function challenges in school.
1:37:06 Training teachers to support students with special needs.
1:40:27 Supporting children with ADHD in Jewish education.
1:45:19 ADHD, education, and parenting challenges.
1:50:05 Inclusivity in schools for children with ADHD.
1:54:13 Understanding and supporting children with ADHD in a school setting.
1:58:59 ADHD, personal growth, and leadership.
2:04:20 Parenting and Judaism, emphasizing love and compassion.
2:07:33 Parenting strategies for children with ADHD.
2:14:32 Final messages
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We have the great pleasure to hear from Professor Shoshana Schechter.
Professor Shoshana is a graduate of Stern College for Women, with a B.S. in both Judaic Studies and English Literature, and holds master’s degrees from Bernard Revel Graduate School of Jewish Studies and Columbia University School of Journalism.
Mrs Schechter is the Associate Dean of Torah Studies at Stern College for Women and the director of the Mechina program. The Mechina program, which she founded 17 years ago, accommodates students who did not receive a formal Jewish education prior to their enrollment at Stern College.
She has also taught Tanakh and English at various high schools in the New York area. She's a frequent lecturer on topics in Tanakh and has been involved in Jewish outreach programs on four continents. She lives in New Hampshire, New York, with her husband and five children.
Timestamps:
01:30 Teaching Torah in the USSR at 16
09:33 Taking ownership of your Torah
11:54 Parents as role models and Operation Moses
15:50 USSR programs after the fall of communism
20:04 Getting into formal education
27:28 Should Jewish people attend Jewish College?
30:04 Vision for the foundation of the Mechina program
34:47 Bridging academic with non-academic learning
37:14 Fostering relationships with children through learning
46:30 How to make spiritual teachings applicable?
49:44 Convicting high-school students to have relationship with HaShem
55:01 Preparing women for their parenting role
1:00:09 The flaws of the Jewish school system and how to improve it
1:05:02 Technology, information overload, and the problem of wealth
1:09:16 Balancing relationship with discipline
1:12:01 How to develop a relationship with children?
1:16:48 Developing a relationship with HaShem
1:19:33 Teaching Mechina program students
1:23:30 Wrapping up
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Welcome back to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Rav Chaim Marcus. It is an absolute pleasure to be sitting with Rabbi Chaim Marcus who currently serves as the Rabbi of Congregation Israel in Springfield, NJ, The Director of Yeshivat Reishit’s American Office, and Rebbe at Bruriah High School for girls and Camp Kaylie. Previously, Rabbi Marcus was the S’gan Mashgiach at Yeshiva University and a Rebbe at JEC and Camp Mesorah. He is well known for inspiring his audiences (adults, teens, and children alike) to be the very best Jews that they can be.
In this episode, we discuss various parenting topics and strategies for raising children with strong Jewish values and connections to Tefillah, Shabbat, and Hashem through open communication, modeling behaviors, and finding meaningful ways to engage at different ages.
Timestamps:00:00 Intro00:57 Rav Chaim Marcus’s background and family06:13 How does Rav Chaim parent his children?08:06 Helping kids connect to Hashem10:26 How to talk to children about Hashem15:02 Reasonable expectations from children18:39 Rav Chamim’s goal as a shul rabbi24:05 How to make shul exciting for kids?27:13 Most common parenting issues32:38 The advice to parents35:59 The importance of Tefillah
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Sometimes the best way to improve as a parent is by learning from our children. How do we do that? Our host, Rabbi Yair Menchel brings a lesson for this week's parenting in the Parsha to teach us this simple but fundamental answer. Good Shabbos!
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Welcome back to another episode of raising the Jews Next Dor! We have the incredible opportunity to speak with Rav Yaakov Klein on spirituality.
Yaakov Klein is an author, musician, and lecturer devoted to sharing the inner light of Torah through his books, music, and lectures. Over the last 10 years, R' Yaakov has shared his passion for the Chassidic wisdom and the inner light of Torah in a plethora of educational capacities including as a teacher for the Illinois Center for Jewish Studies and Yeshivat Mevaseret Tzion, as the founding director of the Lost Princess Initiative (LPI), and as a freelance content creator and educator for many organizations.
Along with his wife and their two children, Rav Yaakov has moved to the UK to join Jewish Futures as the founding director of Eilecha, a new organization focused on creating opportunities for spiritual growth and experiential education in the local community and beyond.
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
01:17 Moving to London and founding of Eilecha
04:49 Spirituality as a unifying essence
07:26 Allowing the soul to get revealed
12:46 The parents need to have a flame
15:00 Getting in touch with your inner flame
23:33 Stop pretending before your children
28:11 Spirituality in different stages of life
35:33 Spiritual growth in males and females
38:52 Using daily life to teach kids spirituality
43:18 Understanding God’s messages
45:02 Final message
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How do we fulfill חנוך לנער על פי דרכו in the fullest sense? How do we parent towards each child's individuality? Rabbi Yair Menchel shares an idea of Rabbi Jonathan Sacks on Parshat Bamidbar to answer these questions. Enjoy!
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor. We have the incredible pleasure of having a great conversation with Dr. Aviva Goldstein, a lecturer, family counselor, and educational consultant committed to utilizing the wisdom embedded within Judaism and positive psychology to nurture the inherent strengths of young children, adolescents, parents, families, and communities.
Parenting is never easy, but guiding children in their faith adds another layer of complexity. In this episode, Dr. Aviva Goldstein shares her best advice on having open conversations with kids about difficult topics like loss, tragedy, and unanswered questions.
Get tips for supporting children through hard times while fostering their spiritual growth. Whether you want to prevent doubts or help kids through a crisis of faith, Dr. Goldstein provides tools to strengthen a family's bond with God through any challenge.
Help your children build resilience, ask tough questions without fear, and develop stronger faith and connection to their Jewish identity and values. This episode offers ideas on nurturing spiritually confident kids who are well-equipped to face life's uncertainties.
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
01:08 Perfectionism and resilience in this generation of children
04:41 Age-appropriate sharing of personal struggles
08:05 Being honest or shielding children in tough times
11:26 Normalizing death in children’s education
16:03 Approaching death in terms of relationship with Hashem
23:04 How to talk about bad things happening in Hashem’s world
26:24 Theory of love languages and Hashem’s unconditional love
33:27 Challenges of teenagers in relationship with Hashem
35:50 The role of parents and educators in children’s spiritual growth
39:47 Parents who don’t know how to answer children’s questions
46:36 Authoritative parenting – love within the context of limits
49:39 Distinction between Judaism and Jews
54:08 The final message
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guest today is Rabbi Yakov Danishefsky, a licensed clinical social worker, specializing in trauma, sex addiction, couples therapy, and other life-adjustment challenges. He is also a speaker and educator for various Jewish organizations, blending spirituality, philosophy, and psychology.
Rabbi Yakov discusses how a child's earliest bonds shape their ability to relate to the divine.
He offers powerful insights that will help you gain a new understanding of how attachment styles and parenting approaches impact lifelong faith. Walk away with practical tips to strengthen your child's bond with the Infinite through everyday moments.
Tune in to uncover the keys to raising children with a deep, lasting love for Hashem and faith.
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
01:36 The attachment theory and the relationship with Hashem
15:04 Learning to pay attention to intuition, emotions, and senses
24:20 The effects of disengaged and controlling parenting
28:37 The importance of having questions
31:08 God as a powerful, not a punishing being
36:00 How to talk to teenagers
42:41 Talking about God with a child
46:46 The importance of Shabbos experience for kids
53:14 Challenges of sexual development
55:07 God is found in the heartbeat of personal everyday life
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The way our children view themselves is vital to influencing their everyday actions, and their self-esteem and confidence. How can we help our children view themselves in a more positive light? How can we help them realize and focus on the greatness within them?
Our host, Rabbi Yair Menchel, takes us through an insight from this weeks Parsha, to develop this more fundamental idea of how we, as parents, can play a vital role in this aspect of our children's development. Enjoy!
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This episode discusses how parents can talk to their children about Yom Haatzmut (Israeli Independence Day) and the complex emotions surrounding it. The conversation explores the dichotomy of feelings between the excitement of Yom Haatzmut and the ongoing war in Israel. The hosts emphasize the importance of providing children with the right experience and addressing their emotions. They discuss the challenges of talking to children of different ages and the need to balance protecting them from traumatic information while still providing guidance. The conversation also touches on the role of technology and the importance of teaching children to navigate complex emotions. The conversation explores the challenges of discussing the current situation in Israel with children and offers guidance for parents. The rabbis discuss the importance of having open conversations with children, acknowledging their feelings, and providing age-appropriate information. They emphasize the need to balance the pain and challenges with a sense of pride in Israel and the Jewish people. The conversation also touches on the role of technology and the importance of being proactive in addressing difficult topics. Overall, the rabbis encourage parents to model resilience, empathy, and hope for their children.TakeawaysYom Haatzmut brings a mix of emotions for both parents and children, and it's important to address these feelings and provide the right experience for children.Parents should consider the age of their children when discussing Yom Haatzmut and the ongoing war in Israel, providing age-appropriate information and guidance.It's important to strike a balance between protecting children from traumatic information and teaching them about the reality of the situation.Technology can be a source of misinformation and harmful content, so parents should set up safeguards and filters to protect their children.Parents should model and teach children how to navigate complex emotions, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and validating feelings while also anchoring them in truth and reality. Engage in open conversations with children about the current situation in Israel, acknowledging their feelings and providing age-appropriate information.Balance the pain and challenges with a sense of pride in Israel and the Jewish people.Be proactive in addressing difficult topics and setting boundaries with technology.Model resilience, empathy, and hope for children.Teach children to navigate complex emotions and hold dichotomous feelings.Chapters00:00 The Different Feelings of Yom Haatzmut03:25 Teaching Children the Unity of the Jewish People08:48 Age-Appropriate Communication and Guidance13:19 Protecting Children from Traumatic Information15:00 Balancing Protection and Independence24:14 Different Approaches for Younger and Older Kids25:24 Enhancing Pride in Eretz Yisrael29:30 Intense Transition from Yom HaZikaron to Yom Ha'atzmaut31:54 Stepping Back and Seeing the Bigger Picture36:01 Modeling Dichotomous Feelings for Children44:08 The Importance of Complicated Hashkafa
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What does it mean to be holy? and how do we give that over to our children?
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We have a great pleasure to talk to Slovie Jungreis Wolff, a noted teacher, author, relationships, and parenting lecturer. She is the leader of Hineni Couples and the daughter of Rebbetzen Esther Jungreis. Slovie is the author of the parenting handbook, Raising A Child With Soul. She gives weekly classes and has lectured throughout the U.S., Canada, Mexico, Panama, and South Africa. Her most recent book is called The Soul of Parenting.
As a parenting expert, Slovie provides powerful strategies for helping children achieve more than they ever thought possible. Learn how to identify each child's unique talents and strengths, no matter their age. Slovie will reveal how nurturing these gifts from a young age and teaching the value of giving back can lead children to accomplish amazing things and feel truly fulfilled in life.
You'll walk away with practical tips for getting your kids more involved in Shabbos, raising passionate Jews, and overcoming challenges like bullying. Most importantly, Slovie stresses the importance of leading by positive example and believing unconditionally in your children. Don't miss this chance to empower your parenting and unleash your children's potential!
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
02:13 The definition of potential
03:20 How to recognize a child’s potential?
05:20 Teaching children to be givers, not just takers
11:39 Parents should honestly take a look at themselves
15:36 Recognizing potential from the earliest age
20:04 How to teach children to be a blessing
25:29 Helping a child find their mission in the world
31:36 How to avoid helicopter parenting?
36:02 How can parents change their behavior?
38:51 Do it with a language if love!
42:32 The final message for parents
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What type of decision making do you model for your children? Are you thought out or impulsive? This topic is related to this week's Parsha, where we discuss the key part of the יום כיפור עבודה and the lesson we can learn towards our parenting. Enjoy!
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In this final episode of our Pre-Pesach series, we end off with the creator of That Jewish Moment - Sari Kopitnikoff. She is sharing some amazing and very creative ideas on how to prepare an incredible Seder for your children.
Sari is an experiential educator, digital artist, educational performer, and content creator. She is passionate about creating books, games, activities, shows, and virtual challenges that bring Judaism to life.
For the last decade, she’s taught elementary, middle, and high school, but her creativity and energy have reached beyond the classroom, bringing the sparks of Jewish life to all parts of the world.
In 2014, Sari began That Jewish Moment, a colorful, meaningful, and heartfelt collection of drawings and programs that showcase the spirit and beauty of Jewish life.
[00:00] Introduction to Sari Kopitnikoff
[02:38] What inspired Sari to go into education
[05:20] The beginning of Pesach workshops
[07:15] Keeping kids on their toes – practical examples
[09:14] Advice to parents on how to create an amazing Seder
[12:10] The goals and themes to be focused on
[18:20] The Seder in Sari’s home
[22:05] The use of visuals – it doesn’t have to be perfect
[23:47] How to make Haggadah text come alive
[26:33] How to differentiate first and second night
[28:38] Take off the pressure from the Seder
[30:30] Installing emunah in your kids during the Seder
[31:35] Keep expectations low
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How to prepare a joyous and educational Seder? What are some pro tips that can help parents? How to make sure all kids are involved and have a voice?
Welcome to another episode of our Pre-Pesach series! We are having an amazing conversation with Mrs. Sharon Richter, or as some know her, Morah Sarah.
Mrs. Richter has been the Lower School Associate Principal of Judaic Studies at Salanter Akiba Riverdale Academy (SAR) since 2005. She began her career at SAR in 1986 as a Judaic studies teacher after receiving a bachelor’s degree in Judaic studies from Stern College for Women at Yeshiva University. She is known for her Parashat haShavua series and her inspirational “Spiritual Sparks” workshops.
She is sharing some excellent tips on how to prepare for the Seder as a family, how to make the Seder educational, but also fun and joyous, and how to help your kids come out of the Seder with amazing memories and positive feelings.
[00:00] Going into Jewish education
[01:33] How to prepare for the Seder as a family
[05:44] Practical tips and using props to convey the message
[09:10] How to help parents become educators
[15:15] Practical preparation – setting the table, feeding kids, bulletin board
[18:07] Pro-tips for the Seder
[21:17] Know your children and make sure everyone has a voice
[27:54] The Sparks workshops
[31:20] Final message
[33:22] Recommendation for Haggadah
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How to prepare an exciting and educational Seder? What props and visuals to use to keep the kids involved? What does the Seder look like in Rabbi Weberman’s home?
Rabbi Yechiel Weberman is known as the King of Pesach because of the awesome content he shares on his website - AwesomePesach.com. In this episode, we will hear some great advice on preparing an amazing and fun, but also educational Seder that will convey the right message and keep the kids involved and happy.
[00:00] Background and coming into Jewish education
[04:57] The goal of the Seder is to transmit the message
[07:53] Telling stories about God’s love
[11:58] It is essential to prepare for all aspects of the Seder
[14:28] Using pictures and props to build up a story
[16:36] How to involve older kids – asking questions
[20:55] Tips for parents on how to lead the Seder
[24:55] The Seder in Rabbi Yechiel’s home
[30:10] Props and visuals to use to create an amazing experience
[35:07] Reading Haggadah and making it alive
[42:58] Having the Seder in a hotel
[45:35] Final message
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guest today is Rabbi Paysach Krohn, mohel, author, and lecturer on topics related to ethics and spiritual growth. He is the author of the bestselling "Maggid" series of books for ArtScroll, inspired by the stories of Rabbi Sholom Schwadron, who was known as the "Maggid of Jerusalem". He also authored a seminal work on Bris Milah also published by ArtScroll.
Rabbi Paysach Krohn shares powerful tales and practical tips to help you make your Passover Seder a truly meaningful experience. He narrates moving stories from his own life that will deepen your understanding of tradition and redemption. Learn how small acts of kindness can have a lasting impact through a heartwarming account of the Holocaust.
Get creative ideas for engaging children of all ages through interactive storytelling. Walk away with impactful lessons on gratitude, resilience, and passing Jewish heritage to the next generation. This episode is filled with wisdom and emotion - don't miss out on enriching your Seder with these memorable stories!
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
01:14 Preparing and finding a good story for Seder
03:44 Tips for parents to make stories more captivating
05:23 Charity and kindness during Pesah
15:05 The meaning of freedom for Jewish people
20:01 The story about a father and son in Auschwitz
23:52 Rabbi’s favorite part of the Seder
25:58 The story of a silver plate from a Nazi Germany
30:31 The importance of trusting HaShem
35:06 Turning suffering into positivity
39:29 The story of milk and wine
43:51 The importance of gratitude and servitude
46:03 A story about the spilled wine
47:50 Stories from Rabbi’s personal life
55:07 Letting children celebrate their own Seder
56:47 Parenting strategies: playing and talking
59:33 Jewish values and the story of $98,000
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How to maintain your family routine during Pesach? What to do with your kids during Pesach preparations? How to raise them to be independent and helpful? Welcome to another episode of our Pre-Pesach series! Our guest is Dr. Robin Akserlud, a Program Director at LIU-Brooklyn, Author of The My OT Journey Planner, and Developer of the My OT Journey Podcast.We are talking about a family routine and how to maintain it without stress during Pesach preparations. You will hear some great, insightful, and helpful tips on involving children in Pesach preparations, helping them to adjust to the change of their routine, and teaching them to be helpful and independent. Tune in to hear more! [00:00] Introduction to Dr. Robin Akserlud[02:30] The ideal family routine[05:16] The children strive on structure[07:45] How to maintain a routine during the Pesach period without stress?[11:25] How to prepare children for the Pesach and pre-Pesach activities?[19:05] Eating and sleep routine during Pesach[24:40] How to raise independent children?[29:17] Chores – be flexible and make it fun[34:50] How to enjoy activities with children without stress[37:40] Tips for pre-Pesach activities[40:45] Self-care and managing personal stress[42 15] Final words***This episode has been sponsored by jKaraoke, a great way to have good kosher family fun singing all of your favorite Jewish songs with karaoke.You can subscribe monthly from just $4.99 or yearly from $49.99, and in honour of their US launch, jKaraoke are now offering their best deal yet! Grab a yearly subscription plus a Karaoke Kit for just $99.99 plus use coupon JewsNextDor for an additional 10% off!!Check out jKaraoke.com today and let the fun begin!
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How should parents prepare for the Seder? What should be our goals when preparing the Seder? How to engage children of all ages?Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! In preparation for Pesach, we are talking to Yair Daar who has been a Jewish educator and administrator for the past 15 years and is currently working at Yeshivat He’Atid in New Jersey. He is also involved in the organization of Moshava Ba'ir summer camps and various workshops. Yair emphasizes the importance of creating a positive feeling around the Seder and presenting the story in a way that everybody can understand. He doesn’t have any specific rules but insists on good storytelling and supporting activities. It’s very important to release the pressure and have fun while spreading the message of the Seder at the same time. [00:00] Introduction to Yair and his background[01:22] The Seder workshops on Zoom[02:20] How should parents prepare for the Seder[07:20] Most important themes[09:00] Differentiating between younger and older kids’ experience[14:27] Use of storytelling to get the message across[18:30] Activities for younger and older children[20:00] Maslow's hierarchy of needs[21:18] Start the Seder with fun[23:03] Seder cards and asking questions[25:27] The first and the second Seder[26:55] Release the pressure and know your goal[31:50] Final message***This episode has been sponsored by jKaraoke, a great way to have good kosher family fun singing all of your favorite Jewish songs with karaoke.You can subscribe monthly from just $4.99 or yearly from $49.99, and in honour of their US launch, jKaraoke are now offering their best deal yet! Grab a yearly subscription plus a Karaoke Kit for just $99.99 plus use coupon JewsNextDor for an additional 10% off!!Check out jKaraoke.com today and let the fun begin!
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This week, in preparation to Pesach, we are happy to talk to Mrs. Elisheva Kaminetsky, the Principal of Judaic Studies at Stella K. Abraham High School for Girls.
She is a mentor and advisor to alumni, a kallah teacher, and an adult lecturer. As an expert on Jewish education, she gives great educational workshops on Pesach.
Mrs. Kaminetsky will share some excellent advice on how to create an awesome and fun learning environment at the Seder and make space for experiential learning and thoughtful and meaningful conversations.
We’ll hear some amazing ideas and a lot of practical advice.
[00:00] Mrs. Kaminetsky’s background and coming into Jewish education
[02:40] The Seder and good teaching methodologies
[07:28] Mrs. Kaminetsky’s organization of Seder
[12:15] Advice to parents who are not educators
[13:48] Helping teenagers engage in meaningful dialog at the Seder
[18:51] Preparations for Pesach – creating themes
[27:50] How to give everyone space and the use of visuals
[30:50] How to make text come alive
[35:58] How to transmit values to children
[40:55] How to differentiate the Seder from other meals
[42:26] Pesach workshops
[47:10] Engaging children to ask questions
[50:10] Final message
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We have the great pleasure of having as our guest today Rabbi Isaac Rice, Rabbi at Congregation Anshei Chesed in Long Island & Rebbe at SKA.
He has recently published an innovative Haggadah called "The Night of Teaching" which provides a clear guide for parents and leaders to effectively convey the messages of the Passover Seder. In this episode, he shares insights from his unique Haggadah and discusses practical strategies for engaging children in the Passover story.
00:00 Intro
00:26 Introduction to Rabbi Isaac Rice
02:49 Preparing the Haggadah with scripts
07:39 Midrashim and telling the story
10:33 Using games to bring atmosphere to Seder
13:38 How to bring Midrashim closer to children
17:06 Keeping your Seder simple and engaging
23:44 How should parents give emunah to children
25:52 Using Rabi Isaac’s Haggadah
27:34 The final message
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guest today is Rabbi Dov Brezak a very important figure in the world of Jewish education today. He has gained his experience over the last few decades as a parent, principal, author, lecturer and consultant. His ground-breaking bestseller book, Chinuch in Turbulent Times with Artscroll, has gained worldwide acclaim.
Rabbi Brezak addresses the specific challenges that parents and their children face in our turbulent times. His profound and gentle words of advice are vital for our day and age. Tune in to hear practical advice on parenting techniques for instilling strong values in children and effectively managing challenging behaviors through close relationships built on trust and unconditional love.
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
01:50 When children are not accepting your morals
06:16 Understanding their feelings and showing them respect
13:33 Decreasing assertiveness, increasing commutation
18:48 The definition and roots of chutzpah
26:27 Help children want the right things
37:36 Different types of chutzpah
41:38 Become aware of how to parent today
44:04 Adjusting to different ages and stages of childhood
47:01 Is there a difference between boys and girls?
48:51 When something is extreme, you need intervention
54:37 Specific tools and techniques to help parents
59:23 Rebelling children – show them unconditional love
1:04:53 The final message
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Welcome back to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guest today is Mrs. Dina Schoonmaker, a member of the Michlalah faculty for over 30 years. She lectures internationally and gives vaadim for women. She is a popular speaker, relationship counselor, teacher, and an important and inspiring person in our community.
We talk about understanding middos and discovering timeless parenting strategies for raising ethical, humble, and compassionate children. This insightful discussion shares practical tips on instilling values like honesty, respect, and patience through Jewish wisdom and spiritual modeling. Learn how to cultivate strong character in kids by focusing on their strengths and using encouragement over criticism. Walk away with concrete methods for developing morality in a positive yet impactful way.
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
01:03 Showing value through praise
02:11 Torah values vs. morals and ethics
03:05 How to teach kids honesty?
08:39 Respect and self-respect
12:00 Empathy and COVID story
14:31 Exercise for understanding others
16:06 Patience and the ability to constrain discomfort
20:50 Confidence and overconfidence
24:22 The right setting for teaching children
26:48 Positive reinforcement
29:28 The final message
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The conversation highlights the power of thoughts and how they can determine our happiness. It tells the story of Danny and Ron, where Danny's positive perspective brings him joy while Ron's negative thoughts make him unhappy. The story emphasizes the importance of how we perceive situations and the impact it has on our well-being. The message is applicable to both children and adults, encouraging them to clean their thought glasses and see the world in a positive light.
Takeaways
- Our thoughts have a significant influence on our happiness.
- The way we perceive situations can shape our emotions.
- Changing our perspective can lead to a more positive outlook.
- Teaching children the importance of positive thinking is valuable.
Chapters
00:00 The Power of Thoughts
00:57 Danny's Excitement
01:27 Ron's Workload
03:16 The Importance of Thought Glasses
04:15 Ron's Change of Perspective
05:15 The Message for Children
06:10 Purifying Our Thought Glasses
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Today, we have the pleasure of talking with Sara Blau is a teacher and extracurricular director at Beth Rivkah High School. Sarah is a wife, mother, and author of 24 children’s books.
We discuss strategies for raising children with strong Jewish morals and values, including creating an immersive Jewish home environment, using stories to impart lessons, focusing on one character trait at a time, and recognizing that parenting is a partnership between parents, educators, and God. Tune in now to learn how to raise moral children with strong character and values.
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
01:03 Torah as the source of morals and values
02:56 What moral values should we install in children
08:26 Preventive vs. reactionary giving morals
10:17 Role of parents and school in installing values
12:25 What should parents keep in mind?
18:07 Educating kids about what the Jewish soul is from a young age
20:36 Create a Yiddish environment before the child is born
25:45 What should parents focus on first?
29:19 The right way to approach the conversation about values
34:00 Using books and stories to install values
35:53 Choosing which morals to focus on in a book
39:46 Final message to parents
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How do we help our children understand the fundamental idea that there is no such thing as coincidence? This week's Parenting in the Parsha answers this question through a powerful lesson about dressing up and Parshas Zachor. Enjoy!
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! My guest today is Adina Soclof, a certified speech pathologist and parent educator, and the founder of ParentingSimply.com. We are talking about Purim and Adina will help us learn many practical solutions for parenting problems that can occur during this holiday. She will explain how to prepare children for Purim, deal with their meltdowns and tantrums, and help them feel that Purim is not just about candies but has a deeper meaning. Tune in to hear more!
00:00 Intro
01:40 Prepare children for Purim
04:14 Learning about managing food
06:27 Teaching kids to regulate emotions
09:06 Going through a meltdown
13:35 Roleplaying to prepare children
16:56 How to make Purim more meaningful for kids?
22:11 The final message for parents
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Why is there a break in the special מפטיר's this week, and what lesson can we learn from it? How do we help ourselves slow down, and then model and teach our children this important skill too. Enjoy this week's Parenting in the Parsha, which answers these questions and more. Good Shabbos!Summary:In this conversation, Rabbi Yair Menchel discusses the importance of taking time to reflect and think creatively. He emphasizes the need for breaks in our busy lives and draws parallels to the breaks in the Parashahs. Rabbi Menchel suggests that these breaks allow us to analyze and reflect on our experiences and the messages we want to take from them. He also applies this concept to parenting, highlighting the importance of slowing down and reflecting with our children. Additionally, he discusses the need for breaks in a fast-paced world and the importance of helping children be comfortable with themselves.TakeawaysTaking time to reflect and think creatively is important in our busy lives.Breaks in the Parashahs allow us to analyze and reflect on our experiences and the messages we want to take from them.Slowing down and reflecting with our children is crucial in parenting.In a fast-paced world, breaks are necessary to give our minds a rest.Helping children be comfortable with themselves is an important parenting skill.Chapters00:00 The Importance of Taking Time to Reflect01:25 The Purpose of Breaks in Parashahs04:25 Teaching Children to Reflect and Appreciate05:23 The Need for Breaks in a Fast-Paced World06:22 Helping Children Be Comfortable with Themselves
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Welcome back to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guest today is Dr. Cheryl Book, the Director of Clinical and Family Services for Chai Lifeline for the Greater New York region.
We are talking about the very sensitive topic of childhood cancer and the best ways for children, parents, and siblings to cope with it. Dr. Book is an expert in this field whose main goal is to empower families to deal with that specific situation and to provide helpful and comforting advice. Tune in to hear more!
[00:00] How did Dr. Brook get involved with Chai Lifeline?
[03:05] The role of the Director of Clinical Services
[04:30] The most common question from parents
[08:02] How to prepare a child for something so horrible as cancer?
[11:56] How to explain it to siblings?
[15:54] Balancing the needs of a diagnosed child with the rest of the family
[20:48] The coping mechanisms
[22:30] Answering questions you don’t know the answer to
[23:48] Special treatment of a diagnosed child
[30:10] How do parents strengthen themselves to deal with a needy child
[33:21] How is a child affected when a parent is diagnosed?
[35:40] The relationship between husband and wife
[37:40] The final message
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How do we create a Shabbos atmosphere in our homes? How do we help our children to realize how important it is? Enjoy the parable which help us to gain a deeper appreciation for Shabbos, along with specific tips to bring the Shabbos atmosphere to our homes.
Takeaways
- Shabbos is a recurring and important topic in the Torah.
- Shabbos is a medicine for the Jewish people, healing them from the distractions and worries of the weekday.
- Parents should model the importance of Shabbos and create a meaningful Shabbos experience for their children.
- Treating Shabbos as a special day and working towards making it meaningful will impact children's understanding and appreciation of Shabbos.
- Chapters00:00 The Importance of Shabbos01:13 Shabbos as Medicine03:35 Creating a Meaningful Shabbos Experience04:58 Showing the Importance of Shabbos05:27 Treating Shabbos as Medicine
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What is it like being a fly on the wall in hundreds of homes? Get the inside scoop on so many different types of homes and parenting and how it affects our children with the amazing Dov Katz, better known as “Digital Dov”, music and entertainment entrepreneur and music teacher.
With his experience in his client’s homes, he offers a fascinating look into diverse parenting styles. He discussed the challenges of modern parenting and impact of high pressures.
Digital Dov also shares insights into how technology use and different parenting approaches influence children's development. Listeners learned about the importance of identifying individual learning needs and adapting teaching methods. Additionally, Digital Dov's own story demonstrated how the right support can help one transform from overcoming shyness. Overall, the episode provided valuable perspectives on parenting, education, and personal growth.
00:00 Intro
01:25 What does Dov Katz do?
08:11 Homes with technology vs. homes without technology
11:01 Homework as a source of extra stress
13:50 Juggling of being a parent in today’s day
19:34 Attention deficit disorder in kids and medication
21:59 Helping kids with issues in school
24:08 Teaching methods and personal growth
31:44 An advice to parents and teachers
34:33 There is no bad child
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This Parenting in the Parsha explores the theme of forgiveness and reframing mistakes in parenting. It begins by discussing the colossal mistake made by the Jewish people in the Torah portion. Moshe's reaction and reframing of the mistake as an opportunity for learning is highlighted. The importance of teaching children to accept their mistakes and focus on improvement is emphasized. The conversation then delves into the significance of forgiveness, using the story of Judy and Rose as an example. The chapter concludes by emphasizing the importance of forgiving others and ourselves in raising self-reflective and growth-oriented children.
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Chapters
00:00 The Jewish People's Mistake
00:28 Moshe's Reaction and Reframing
02:50 The Importance of Forgiveness
03:17 The Story of Judy and Rose
06:29 Forgiving Others and Ourselves
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Are you struggling with power struggles around food with your kids? Tune into this episode to learn simple, effective strategies from an intuitive eating expert Gila Glassberg, a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist and Certified Intuitive Eating Counselor.
In this episode, Gila provides parents with intuitive eating strategies and explains the division of responsibility model to establish healthy relationships with food at home. She draws on her own experience overcoming disordered eating and shares practical tips parents can implement at mealtimes to reduce power struggles and encourage kids to develop balanced intuitive eating habits.
Discover tips to share feeding responsibilities, reduce stress at meals, and help your children build healthy relationships with food.
00:00 Intro
00:52 Eating disorder in teenage years
05:45 Becoming a nutritionist
11:18 Immersing into the world of intuitive eating
13:27 The division of responsibility
20:45 The presence of safe food and trying new food
26:00 The goal of division of responsibility
31:06 How to help kids make healthy food choices?
34:05 Desserts and candies
39:51 Strict mealtimes and avoiding grazing
44:03 Intuitive Eating and Judaism
48:26 Limiting candy consumption
52:29 The final message
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! This week, we have the great pleasure of talking to Bracha Goetz, a graduate of Harvard University and the Medical College of Virginia who has authored over 40 amazing children's books.
Combining her background in science and spirituality, Bracha explores deep subjects in a simple and joyful way approachable to children. Through sharing her personal journey of overcoming an eating disorder, Goetz provides insight into finding lasting pleasure and purpose in life beyond food addictions.
00:00 Intro
01:56 How did Bracha start writing children’s books?
03:58 Writing books that she never had
06:07 Healing from an eating disorder
10:54 How to pick up on the cues of an eating disorder?
13:57 Addictive junk food vs. food created by HaShem
18:30 Educating children about junk food
24:58 Bringing real pleasure into your life
31:42 A sense of gratitude brings a sense of abundance
33:07 A healthy body image in children
35:18 Toxic chemicals in treats
38:53 Creating new habits joyfully
40:03 The final message
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We are so excited to have as our guest today Jamie Geller, one of the most sought-after Jewish food and lifestyle experts known as “Jewish Racheal Ray” or the “Queen of Kosher”.
Jamie is the Chief Media and Marketing Officer at Aish. She is also a best-selling cookbook author, celebrity chef, television producer and businesswoman. She is an author of 8 cookbooks and the founder of Kosher Media Network.
Jamie is sharing her experience with moving to Israel with her kids, balancing her job as an influencer and her family life, raising teenagers, and, of course, preparing Kosher, healthy meals for her family. Tune in to hear more!
[00:00] Introduction
[01:27] Jamie’s relationship with her mom
[05:55] Growing up - from conservative to orthodox
[11:06] Moving to Israel and video documenting it
[18:31] Raising children as someone without a religious upbringing
[23:34] Challenges of raising teenagers
[26:02] Divorce and the importance of stability for kids
[28:49] Being an influencer and safeguarding your family
[33:55] Limiting phone time when with children
[35:52] How to maintain modesty as an influencer?
[37:34] Food and cooking in Jamie’s home
[41:06] How can parents help their children make good food choices?
[41:47] Love your kids unconditionally and give them confidence
[46:57] The final message
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Learn a story where the Viznitzer Rebbe showed deep compassion for others, and how that is connected to the Parsha, and our role as parents.
Good Shabbos!
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How do we help our children not to define themselves based on how others see them? How do we help children see their self-worth? How to help them build their self-esteem?
In this episode, we will talk about proven techniques to build up your child's self-esteem from the inside out. Discover how focusing on their interests and giving them space to shine can help them feel truly seen. Find out why the praise you give matters more than you think - and how to offer feedback that boosts instead of breaks them down.
Also, get insights on why embracing mistakes and failures is key to building grit and resilience. Uncover strategies to shift their mindset from fixed to growth. Walk away with powerful tools to help your kids unlock their potential and see just how amazing they truly are.
00:00 Intro
00:56 Give your children the opportunity to explore their interests
02:13 Responding to a child asking for help
05:31 The appropriate way to praise our children
08:04 When our child feels like a failure
12:22 The summary
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor. Today, we are honored to welcome Rav Mordechai Burg, Menahel of Mevaseret, Mashpia of NCSY Summer, Mashpia of Nitzotzos, author of Nitzotzos on Chumash, Senior Rebbe at Tomer Devorah and Bnot Torah Institute.
In this episode, Rav Mordechai offers strategies for raising resilient children who can embrace failure without letting it damage their self-esteem. Learn tips for modeling vulnerability, focusing on effort over results, and fostering an environment where kids feel secure in who they are regardless of what they do. Tune n for more!
00:00 Intro
02:12 Jewish guilt and not being good enough
05:13 Building self-esteem in children
08:53 The importance of parental love and support
11:54 Letting children peruse their own interests
16:33 How to help children accept their failures?
21:29 Focus on building relationships, not just performance
26:46 Being honest and authentic in front of our children
30:03 Make the home a place of process not perfectionism
34:26 The final message
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guest today is the amazing Rabbi Shmuel Reichman, International Speaker, Bestselling Author, Business Coach, and the CEO of Self-Mastery Academy. He is also the author of an exceptionally insightful book called Journey to Your Ultimate Self.
Rabbi Reichman reveals the key to nurturing self-confidence in children and explains how modeling your own growth journey can help kids embrace their uniqueness.
Discover simple hacks for helping children find their true selves. Learn why today's parenting may be crushing their spirit - and exactly how to fix it. Find out what all confident people have in common.
This fascinating discussion provides eye-opening insights to help guide your children towards achieving their fullest potential. Empower your kids to take risks, embrace failures, and shine as their authentic selves.
00:00 Introduction
02:26 What is self-confidence?
06:45 False confidence vs. Confidence to be vulnerable
11:00 Becoming your true self
15:06 The role of parents in building self-confidence
23:00 Pushing children to be who they are not
26:29 Enjoying the process of growing
33:44 Life is not designed to be easy but meaningful
38:31 The real purpose of education
42:04 Inspiring children to strive for greatness
46:28 Differences between male and female self-confidence
59:09 The final message on installing children with self-confidence
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Welcome to an episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our gest today is Rav Yaakov Neuburger. Rav Yaakov is Rosh Yeshiva at Yeshiva University and Rabbi at Congregation Beth Abraham. We are talking about how to vacation and still show compassion and solidarity in times of crisis.
Rav Yaakov provides advice on adjusting vacation plans to support Israelis facing hardship. We discuss simple ways to connect kids to the situation through simple creative projects. Offer your kids a refreshing change from typical vacations while sending an important message of solidarity.
Tune in to hear more!
00:00 Introduction
01:17 How do we approach our vacations this year?
05:18 Showing support to Jews in Israel
08:56 What should a vacation look like?
11:22 We are not being deprived, we are contributing
13:33 Posting on social media
14:22 Share with kids your thoughts and feelings
17:22 Focus on what you should not what you shouldn’t be doing
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guest today is Rabbi Dr. Ari Berman, the fifth president of Yeshiva University.
Dr. Berman has grounded Yeshiva University in its Core Torah Values and laid the foundation for its next great era. Under his leadership, the University has introduced over 20 new graduate degrees in emerging fields such as cybersecurity, health, and STEM and established several important academic centers.
Dr. Berman lectures worldwide and writes extensively on contemporary Jewish thought, modern philosophy, and trends in higher education. He is widely published in outlets such as Forbes, Newsweek, and the Wall Street Journal. In his recently published book “The Final Exam: Letters to Our Students”, he presents the core Torah values through the analyses of foundational Jewish texts, the perspectives of his own teachers, and stories of his journey through and to Yeshiva University.
00:00 Introduction
01:08 Rabbi Dr. Ari Berman and the Jewish Center
05:40 Rabbi Berman’s parents and his upbringing
08:06 The balance between being a rabbi and being a father
14:06 The expectations of going to Yeshiva University
16:29 How to transmit our worldview to our children – Rabbi Berman’s book
20:45 The biggest challenge our generation is facing right now
24:15 The importance of role modeling and love
28:42 The challenges of living in a consumer society
32:22 Giving over your love for Torah as a parent
34:45 The final message to parents
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guest today is Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, one of the great leaders in our generation in the parenting realm. She is a licensed clinical psychologist, a parenting educator, and the educational director of the Targeted Parenting Institute.
Targeted Parenting is a parenting system that uses empirically validated techniques to train parents and children to overcome various disorders of childhood in a preventative fashion, in order to minimize or avoid later expensive psychotherapy.
This episode provides powerful insights into how parents can overcome the effects of trauma and PTSD on their own parenting by understanding post-traumatic parenting styles, addressing their trauma responses, educating themselves on child development, and creating secure bonds with their children.
00:00 Intro
01:32 Dr. Robyn’s background
08:02 What is a healthy childhood?
11:23 The basis of normal attachment
14:58 Post-traumatic parenting
21:18 Practical advice for parents with PTSD
28:25 The impact of our change on children
32:36 The absent fathers with PTSD
36:06 Mothers are under a lot of pressure
38:15 The impact of PTSD parents on religious development
40:37 Being aware of your trauma
42:03 The final message
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We all know the names Shifra and Puah - the Jewish midwives that saved the Jewish boys, and many of us know the Rashi’s that explain that Shifra was named Shifra bec she was משפר - beautified the child, and puah went pu pu to soothe the child after they were born.
While these things are what they did, why does that explain why they werent referred to by their actual names, Yocheved and miriam? The answer to this question is an important lesson we must teach our children through our actions.
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Today's guest is Shira Fruchter, MSW, IFS Level 3, Certified Clinician and Supervisor.
Shira explains the basic concepts of Internal Family Systems Therapy and reveals how simple self-therapy can transform our parenting. This can change your entire paradigm and way of thinking about parenting.
You'll gain insight into how unresolved childhood experiences impact our ability to self-regulate and how accessing our "self-energy" can transform interactions with our kids. You’ll hear practical tips on how to soothe your "parts" and stay centered, allowing you to respond to your kids from a calm and secure place.
00:00 Intro
02:13 What is Internal Family Systems?
05:56 How can IFS help?
08:43 How to apply IFS in parenting
13:31 No child wants to be bad
14:29 Self-energy and perfectionism
19:36 A dialogue with our inner child
21:05 Tips for struggling parents
25:18 Going through the steps of IFS
34:05 Advice for parents
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Welcome back to another episode of the Jews Next Door, we have an amazing opportunity this week to hear from Miriam Campbell, the founder of Skills for Connection, which provides parents and professionals with training and materials to support social-emotional development.
This parenting expert shares her top techniques for teaching children important social-emotional skills from a young age. From handling big feelings to making new friends, learn simple strategies like deep breathing, active listening, and reframing anxiety that will give your kids the tools to succeed. Discover how to turn your own struggles into opportunities for growth and watch as your children blossom into healthy and emotionally intelligent people.
00:00 Intro
02:01 Be an example of a growing person
05:29 What does an emotionally healthy child look like?
07:54 Practical tools and techniques to help children
14:32 Give a child words to label emotions
17:35 Helping constructs and their application
19:58 How to help children self-regulate
25:01 How to help children develop social skills?
31:30 Offering words to label emotions
33:42 How to help an anxious child?
39:21 Helping a child with a low-confidence
42:14 Parents struggling with their emotional health
50:54 Help and support for struggling parents
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Welcome back to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We have the absolute pleasure of sitting with the famous David Pelcovitz, Gwendolyn, and Joseph Straus Chair in Psychology and Jewish Education, Azrieli Graduate School of Jewish Education and Administration at Yeshiva University.
Dr. Pelcovitz is the go-to person in the Jewish community for issues facing children and adolescents, like transmitting values, stress management, coping with trauma and loss, and domestic violence. He is also the author of an incredible book Balanced Parenting.
In this episode, we will learn the keys to laying a foundation of mental wellness for our children. Dr. Pelcovitz shares invaluable insights on modeling healthy behaviors, supporting kids through different developmental stages, and helping them build resilience to face life's challenges. Discover simple ways to be fully present, believe in your children unconditionally, and help them navigate issues like social media, trauma, and more.
00:00 Intro
02:22 How can parents take care of their own emotional health?
07:19 The importance of taking care of the emotional health of a child
11:44 How do parents get a child to have self-confidence?
14:20 How to deal will trying children?
18:54 Emotional health of a child affects their religious development
20:00 The changes in different developmental stages
23:05 Trauma and resilience
26:24 Regulating the use of social media
27:55 Supporting a struggling child
33:49 How can parents create a supportive environment?
34:52 Wrapping up
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Yaakov sent “a drop of balsam, a bit of honey.” Shouldn’t he have sent a more significant gift to the mighty ruler of Egypt? Learn the answer to this question, with a powerful story, and how it relates to parenting in this week's Parsha and Parenting. Good Shabbos!
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Welcome to The Jews Next Dor! In this episode, our guests discuss the best practices for establishing comprehensive child safety policies and procedures in schools, camps, and youth programs. Leaders from various organizations share their approaches to creating safe environments through staff training, clear protocols, and fostering an open culture of awareness, vigilance, and proactive communication around child protection.
In section 1, you will hear some valuable insights on child safety in schools from:
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Rabbi Moshe Hauer, Executive Vice President of the Orthodox Union (OU)
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Rabbi Yakov Horowitz, Innovative Educator, Author, and Child Safety Advocate
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Ahuvah Heyman
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Debbie Fox, Founder of Magen Yeladim Child Safety Institute
In section 2, you will hear about child safety in camps and youth organizations from:
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Rabbi Moshe Hauer, Executive Vice President of the Orthodox Union (OU)
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Keevy Fried
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Lauren Shaivitz, Esq, LMSW, CHANA's Executive Director
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Ditza Berger
Tune in for more!
Section 1
00:00 Intro
03:36 The goal of this episode
09:02 Debbie Fox's experience with the implementation of school safety measures
16:04 Rabbi Horowitz on implementing child safety measures
23:49 Mrs. Heyman on educating the whole community on child safety
30:18 Training stuff to have safe relationships with children (Debbie Fox)
35:55 Clear school policies that are communicated to everyone (Rabbi Horowitz)
38:35 School being able to flag suspicious situations (Mrs.Heyman)
42:52 How to communicate with children? (Rabbi Horowitz)
47:18 What have we done and where do we still need to go (Debbie Fox)
52:04 The importance of having structure and policies
54:06 The final message
Section 2
58:01 Child safety in more informal organizations – camps and youth groups
1:01:03 Creating child safety within youth organizations (Lauren Shaivitz)
1:04:31 How does camp Sternberg ensure safety for kids? (Ditza Berger)
1:06:58 A key for creating policies that work (Rabbi Keevy Fried)
1:11:02 We need to recognize abuse and believe kids (Lauren Shaiviz)
1:14:33 How to build a safe but warm and welcoming environment (Ditza Berger)
1:17:13 How does ensuring child safety in camps look like? (Rabbi Keevy Fried)
1:22:03 What to do when you notice something is wrong? (Lauren Shaiviz)
1:28:38 How does the Orthodox community deal with these issues? (Ditza Berger)
1:31:46 How to make people embrace and not resist safety measures? (Rabbi Keevy Fried)
1:39:59 We’ll never be perfect, but we need to be proactive (Rabbi Moshe Hauer)
1:45:46 The final words
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In this episode, Rabbi Yair Menchel shares tips on how parents can make Chanukah a meaningful and fun experience for their children. He emphasizes the importance of creating a festive environment, involving children in the decorations, and building a family menorah. Rabbi Menchel also highlights the significance of making the lighting of the menorah a sacred moment and continuing the excitement with songs and dancing. He suggests engaging children in meaningful discussions, using Hanukkah as a time to learn, and giving experiences instead of material gifts. Additionally, he discusses the impact of family time experiences, meaningful gift giving, and adding an educational component to parties.TakeawaysInvolve children in the Chanukah preparations and decorations to make them feel valued and boost their confidence.Make the lighting of the menorah a sacred moment by eliminating distractions and giving each child a turn to light the candles.Engage children in meaningful discussions about Chanukah, such as the meaning of miracles and the importance of faith.Give experiences and quality time with children instead of material gifts to strengthen the parent-child relationship and create lasting memories.Chapters00:00 Introduction00:50 Creating a Festive Environment01:46 Building a Family Menorah02:13 Making the Lighting a Sacred Moment03:11 Continuing the Excitement with Songs and Dancing03:34 Making the First Half Hour Special04:03 Engaging Children in Meaningful Discussions05:00 Using Hanukkah as a Time to Learn05:25 Giving Experiences Instead of Material Gifts06:22 Reacting to Unhappy Reactions to Gifts07:46 The Impact of Family Time Experiences08:14 Engaging Activities and Educational Experiences09:14 Meaningful Gift Giving10:13 Fun and Educational Scavenger Hunts11:11 Sibling Gift Giving and Donating12:07 Adding an Educational Component to Parties13:02 Conclusion
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor dedicated to child safety. In this segment, we'll engage in role-playing scenarios to explore various conversations we ought to have with our children about their bodily autonomy and safety.
We're joined by the experts in this area:
Mrs. Debbie Fox, Founder of Magen Yeladim Child Safety Institute
Dr. Shloimie Zimmerman, Psy.D., Licensed Clinical Psychologist, the Founder of Child and Adult Psychological Services PLLC, and the speaker and consultant in child development, education, abuse prevention, and trauma.
00:00 Intro
03:28 Creating a natural atmosphere for conversation
13:51 The importance of conversation about private parts
21:37 The examples of role-playing
26:05 How to react if kids are playing games including body parts?
33:15 Can kids bathe together?
37:56 Red flag and yellow flag areas
41:47 When and how to advance the conversation?
48:59 Following safety rules and exceptions
55:10 How to explain that touching is never a secret?
1:00:07 The consequences of not talking to children about this topic
1:03:22 Conversations about sleepovers and camps
1:06:49 Developmental stages and maintaining boundaries
1:14:00 Differences between talking to girls and boys
1:21:35 How to talk to parents when the topic is awkward?
1:28:30 The final message
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How can Yaakov Avinu, known for his incredible emunah, be so afraid of Esav? The answer is an important lesson for all parents. Enjoy and good Shabbos!
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Navigating the uncharted waters of Jewish parenting can be daunting, especially during times of crisis. Yet, in this heartwarming episode of The Jews Next Dor podcast, we delve into the world of parenting through the eyes of faith and community. Join host Rabbi Yair Menchel and special guest, Rabbi Phil Karesh, as they share invaluable insights into managing family dynamics amidst the Israel crisis. Rabbi Karesh, the director of GenAleph and a seasoned leader, offers a unique perspective on resilience, spiritual guidance, and the importance of maintaining positivity while raising the next generation of passionate community members. Rabbi Karesh talks about what conversations he has had with the various communities he has been working with, and what it has been like parenting his own children.
Tune in to discover how these leaders tackle tough questions with compassion, navigate difficult conversations with children, and find strength and support within their community. Gain insight into crisis management strategies that can apply to families everywhere.
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CHAPTERS:
0:00 - Introduction to Parenting Challenges
1:18 - Parental Struggles Overview
3:59 - Genesis of Gen Aleph in Hollywood
7:56 - Parenting During Crisis
9:47 - Children's Emotional Response to War
12:18 - Age-Appropriate Conversations with Kids
17:46 - War's Psychological Impact on Youth
20:37 - OU's Rally Promotion in DC
22:05 - Discussing Current Events with Children
26:26 - Professional Insight on Parenting Challenges
29:25 - Eight Key Parenting Questions
31:51 - Addressing Unanswerable Questions with Kids
33:23 - Non-Verbal Communication with Children
35:07 - Concluding Parenting Advice
38:30 - Closing Remarks and Contact Information
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Welcome to The Jews Next Dor and the second part of our Child Safety Month episode. In part 1, we discussed how parents can create a relationship where children will be willing to share and prevent child abuse. If you haven't listened to it yet, I strongly recommend checking it out - https://youtu.be/oLF_Lspbrk4 In the second part of the Child Safety Month episode, we are discussing what we can do to make our home a safe space for our children.In the first segment, we are talking to Dr. Michael Salomon, a Ph.D. and the author of The Abuse in the Jewish Community. He is famous for his work in raising awareness on the prevention of the treatment of child sexual abuse in the Orthodox Jewish community. In the second segment, we will hear an insightful and eye-opening story of a sexual abuse survivor - Kim Siegel, a mother, and a science and humanities teacher. And in third segment we’ll dive into the topic with Dr. Akiva Perlman, an international speaker and educator on topics of abuse, addiction, trauma and Tamar Perlman, a licensed clinical psychologist who lectures on many different topics, including parenting, marriage, emotion, regulation, and self-actualization. Tune in to hear more on this extremely important topic! 00:00 Intro03:36 Introduction to Dr. Michael Salomon04:44 Is abuse in the family prevalent?11:42 How do people react to child abuse information?14:17 What to tell children to prevent abuse in the family?18:19 Situational awareness and systems of supervision22:44 It’s parents’ responsibility to monitor, believe and react24:15 The final message 26:30 Introduction to Kim Siegel27:34 Kim’s sexual abuse experience31:30 Kim’s relationship with her parents and teachers34:02 The reaction of parents to her abuse39:48 The absence of normal boundaries42:53 What would she do differently?46:35 Relationships with her father and brother49:14 Setting up a healthy home 51:46 Introduction to Dr. Akiva and Dr. Tamar Perlman52:46 Working with abuse survivors57:30 Shame is an internalization of an abusive experience1:02:35 Something bad happened to me vs. I am bad as a person1:04:03 Abusers can sense vulnerability and lack of support1:06:45 Bringing light into this space1:09:49 Parenting and setting up a safe home1:14:18 Respect children’s experiences and validate their feelings1:16:22 Creating security, safety, and being present for your children1:20:03 Teaching children this is a complex word1:22:02 The feeling of shame and confusion1:26:54 How to react when a child speaks about the abuse1:29:53 Guidelines to set up a safe environment1:32:28 Why are men uncomfortable with this topic?1:37:46 Even in darkness, there is a healing Follow us!Gen Aleph Website - genaleph.orgTwitter - twitter.com/yairmenchelIG - instagram.com/parentingthejewsnextdorYT - https://www.youtube.com/@TheJewsNextDor/
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Want to learn how to build an unbreakable bond with your kids? How to gain their trust and help them feel comfortable to tell you anything? How to protect them from abuse by building a good relationship?
In this episode of The Jews Next Dor, we are talking about strategies to gain your children's trust and make sure they know they can come to you during both good and bad times.
Our amazing guests are:
Rachel Zimmerman - Trauma and Abuse Prevention Consultant for Upward Community Services, Trauma Clinician in Private Practice
Sara Horowitz Berkovich, LMSW, Psychotherapist in the Tikvah Center at Ohel in Brooklyn, NY
Rabbi Yakov Horowitz - Innovative Educator, Author, and Child Safety Advocate
Rav Avremi Zippel - Shliach, Director - Young Jewish Professionals Utah
Sophie Baum, Student from Rae Kushner Yeshiva High School (RKYHS)
Talya Nativ, Student from Rae Kushner Yeshiva High School (RKYHS)
Emily Tennenberg, Student from Rae Kushner Yeshiva High School (RKYHS)
Tune in to hear about the techniques for developing a relationship in which kids feel comfortable confiding in anything, from secrets to struggles.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction to Rachel Zimmerman
02:18 Do parents still need to be as concerned?
04:11 The most important steps to take to keep children safe
13:31 How to talk to a child about safety and not make them anxious?
18:10 What should more parents know about safety?
21:27 Believing a child but also having a good investigation system
23:09 Is Teshuvah enough for a person who offended a kid?
25:35 Introduction to Rabbi Avremi Zippel
28:20 Why do children stay silent about the abuse
33:36 What can parents do?
37:53 How to help a child overcome shame?
43:15 Opening about the abuse
46:58 Talking about uncomfortable things
50:10 Final message from Rabbi Avremi Zippel
51:17 Introduction to Yakov Horowitz & Sara Horowitz Berkovich
51:39 Being able to tell your parents anything
57:22 How to build a good relationship with your children?
1:01:16 If you don't want to make mistakes, don't get out of bed
1:05:28 Things hard to share
1:08:39 Be vulnerable and put children before your pride
1:10:31 Introduction to Sophie, Emily and Talia
1:10:55 Being honest with your parents
1:16:13 Can parents understand their children?
1:20:23 How can parents build trust with their children?
1:22:58 Would you tell anyone if someone acted inappropriately?
1:29:39 People need to share
1:31:49 Building a relationship with your child with Rachel Zimmerman
1:36:08 The cues that an abuse is going on
1:39:04 Why wouldn’t children want to tell parents about the abuse?
1:42:53 How to create a relationship where children can tell you anything?
1:48:02 Is it OK for children to have secrets?
1:51:17 Talking to older children about keeping secrets
1:53:41 The final message
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How could Yaakov buy the Bechora for a bowl of soup? Is that a fair transaction? Learn this and how this can be applied as a parenting lesson in this week's Parenting in the Parsha. Have a great Shabbos!
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Enjoy this brief idea for ways to engage our children in the Parsha where we learn from an underrated character - Eliezer. Enjoy and good shabbos!
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This episode features two Israeli soldiers who are currently serving in the military during the recent conflict between Israel and Hamas. One of the guests, Yair Hershorn, shares his experience finding out about the war while at Shabbat services with his children. He describes the emotional process of being called up to serve and having to leave his family. The other soldier, Zachary Freshwater, talks about what it was like to reunite with his kids after 10 days apart. Throughout the episode, the soldiers discuss parenting challenges like explaining the situation to young children and maintaining communication through FaceTime calls. Key topics include maintaining positivity, focusing on what can be done rather than what cannot, and drawing strength from faith during uncertain times. Listeners can gain insights on parenting during crises from the soldiers' perspectives, as well as tips for explaining difficult events to kids in an age-appropriate manner. Overall, the episode provides perspective and advice for parents dealing with turmoil abroad or having loved ones deployed overseas.
0:00 - Parenting and processing war with children.
4:35 - Recent security threats in a community near Gaza.
6:59 - Parenting during the war with a focus on practical actions.
13:36 - Parenting during the war with a focus on structure and morale.
16:40 - Parenting and positivity during military reserve service.
23:08 - Unity and bonding after a global crisis.
25:49 - The importance of unity and positivity during difficult times.
32:27 - Growing up in different countries and cultures.
34:59 - The start of a war and its impact on families.
38:07 - Personal experience during the Israel-Gaza conflict.
44:30 - Parenting, school closures, and military protection during COVID-19.
47:02 - Maintaining positivity during military deployment.
52:44 - Physical and mental challenges in a military unit.
56:48 - Parenting and supporting Israel during crisis.
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Enjoy this brief idea for ways to engage our children in the Parsha where we learn about the חסד of אברהם to increase the חסד, acts of kindness, in our homes.
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This episode features Dr. Norman Blumenthal, a licensed clinical psychologist who serves as the Zachter Family Director of Trauma and Crisis Intervention for OHEL and Adjunct Professor at the Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary and Ferkauf Graduate School of Psychology, both of Yeshiva University, who discusses coping with trauma from recent events in Israel and Gaza. Dr. Blumenthal shares his experiences working with communities impacted by crises and outlines developmentally appropriate ways to discuss topics like anti-Semitism, kidnapping fears, and trauma with children of all ages. He emphasizes the importance of self-care for adults and explains techniques like limiting media exposure. Viewers will learn about processing trauma on an individual and communal level through open communication, maintaining routines, and drawing on resilience from Jewish history and ancestry. The episode provides actionable advice and perspective from a leading expert that can help families and communities dealing with difficult issues.
0:00 - Trauma and crisis response with a focus on recent events.
3:18 - Trauma and its impact on individuals.
8:23 - Coping with anti-Semitism and trauma in young children.
13:22 - Coping with anti-Semitism and trauma.
18:54 - Different approaches to dealing with anti-Semitism in various communities.
21:22 - Jewish identity, history, and survival.
26:26 - Trauma and coping strategies for children.
31:12 - Managing emotions and empathy for teenagers in extreme circumstances.
36:21 - Compassion, empathy, and resilience in the face of adversity.
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We have the amazing pleasure to be talking with Rabbi Dr. Alex Mondrow.
Rabbi Dr. Mondrow served as the Rav of the Albert Einstein College of Medicine Synagogue. He currently maintains a private psychology practice in Yerushalayim and Teaneck and is a mental health advisor at Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary (RIETS) -Yeshiva University. He teaches widely on the topics related to Torah, psychology, and the intersection of the two.
We talk about the importance of empathic parenting and how developing emotional empathy skills can help parents strengthen their relationships with children of all ages. Dr. Mondrow provides practical strategies for cultivating empathy and developing deep connections with your child.
Tune in for more!
00:00 - Intro
01:22 - What is empathy?
12:25 - Cognitive vs. emotional empathy
19:27 - The role of discipline
21:16 - Different steps of empathic parenting
23:55 - How should a parent play with a child?
27:30 - What to do when your parenting is not empathic?
33:43 - Communication and empathy with older children
37:21 - The importance of being truly present
42:25 - The final message
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As sirens wail in the night and uncertainty looms over the homeland, these are challenging times to raise children in Israel. But even in the midst of fear and turmoil, the spiritual leaders and parents featured in this episode are demonstrating resilience, strength, and hope.
Despite their own worries for sons on the frontline or daughters living under threat, they open their homes and hearts to share hard-earned wisdom on parenting through crisis.
Tune in to hear how faith, service, and community are helping families navigate this difficult time, and gain insight into raising the next generation of Israeli leaders in both times of peace and war.
00:00 - Introduction
02:04 - Guests’ background and family structure
06:48 - How is war affecting guests’ children?
19:28 - The beginning of war and helping children to process it
29:54 - Maintaining a positive attitude and providing support
40:08 - Unique parenting challenges in wartime
44:13 - Dealing with theological questions from children
49:41 - How to take care of yourself in this sensitive time
1:01:20 - Building resilient muscles in children
1:09:53 - Final message for parents in Israel and America
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Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We have an incredible opportunity to talk to Rochelle Garfield, a speech-language pathologist, a dyslexia lecturer, and an author. She is also giving parenting courses and, in this episode, we will talk about her unusual and amazing parenting style.
Rochelle will provide some fascinating insights into the parenting style focused on positive communication, empathy, and respect, through techniques like “active listening” and "I-statements". These techniques help children feel heard and empower them to solve problems on their own.
Discover how reflecting emotions and finding mutual understanding can transform family dynamics and shape children for life.
00:00 - Intro
[00:30 - What influenced Rochelle’s parenting style?
[04:20 - The basics of Rochelle’s parenting approach
06:23 - Child-owned issues: Reflective listening
09:34 - Parent-owned issues: I-Statements
11:43 - Parent and child-owned issues: Working It Out
13:13 - What is active listening?
15:33 - A positive I-message: giving praise
17:52 - Successful examples of this approach
21:03 - Dealing with child’s anger and frustration
25:36 - Parent’s role is not to constantly correct a child
26:51 - The final message
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What are 4 main parenting styles? What is your parenting style? Are you helping or hurting your child?Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! This episode kicks off our series about parenting styles, the next topic of our parenting hierarchy, which we took a long break from due to the various Chagim and back to school. We are so glad to welcome Blimie Heller again and have another incredible and eye-opening episode on parenting, this time, on different parenting styles.Blimie Heller is famously known for creating amazing content on her Instagram page called Unconditional Parenting. She is a mom and a parenting coach passionate about helping parents build better relationships with their children based on respect and trust, and speaks about how she came to develop her parenting style.00:00 Intro00:52 What are the different parenting styles?06:14 Can parents be friends with their children?11:57 What influences our parenting styles?14:42 The influence of the attachment theory17:07 Pros and cons of different parenting styles21:26 Identifying your parenting style28:05 Should parents have the same parenting style?35:46 How to change your parenting style?44:28 What is a sign that something needs to be changed?46:55 Finding the best parenting style for your child49:50 Discovering the need of a child that isn’t met54:25 Does parenting styles shift at some point?56:56 The final message
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This episode features Rabbi Yair Menchel who provides guidance and advice to parents on parenting and communicating with children of all ages during the difficult time we are in with the war in Israel. He emphasizes the importance of validating children's emotions, compartmentalizing adult stress, and modeling healthy coping strategies. Through discussing an adapted story about the war in Israel, Rabbi Menchel offers tips for age-appropriate conversations with young kids. For tweens and teens, he recommends listening without judgment, being prepared to discuss tough questions, and finding ways for them to contribute positively. Overall, the episode aims to help parents support their children's mental well-being and process events in a developmentally suitable way during periods of crisis and uncertainty. Viewers can learn practical parenting techniques to foster open communication and ensure kids feel heard, secure, and empowered.
0:01 - Parenting during a crisis with tips for self-care and emotional well-being.
4:07 - Preparing children for the world
7:30 - Explaining the story 'There is a War in Israel' to young kids
8:26 - Israel's war and its impact on children.
15:22 - Navigating tough topics with kids
16:45 - Validating emotions and having difficult conversations with tweens
17:45 - Modeling healthy coping and supporting teens
19:36 - Supporting your teens during times of tension.
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In this captivating mini-episode of "The Jews Next Dor" podcast, listeners are invited into an intimate conversation between the host and their father, delving into the intricacies of parenting and family dynamics. With candor and reflection, the father shares a tapestry of insights from their parenting journey, weaving together threads of sibling closeness, treasured family time around the dinner table, and a shared commitment to their Jewish heritage and community. The narrative takes a turn towards growth, as the father openly discusses past missteps and the evolution of their parenting approach, placing emphasis on nurturing individuality and independence in their children. Through heartwarming anecdotes, the father reveals their artful transmission of the value of caring for others (chesed), underscoring how these discussions and actions fostered empathy and kindness in their family. The conversation also touches on the delicate balance of unity and autonomy in parenting, drawing inspiration from both successes and lessons learned in their own upbringing. Wrapping up with a thought-provoking bow, the episode concludes with a poignant reflection on the profound parent-child relationship and its enduring impact on shaping the children's future connections and endeavors.[0:11] The importance of family time and holidays.[2:09] Creating more bonding between parents and children.[6:09] How did your parents support your decisions?[8:20] How do you raise your kids?[12:04] Planting the seeds of a healthy relationship with children.
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This episode of the Jews Next Door podcast features Sari Kopitnikoff, a bestselling Jewish author and creator of educational games and programs, as the guest. Sari shares many creative ideas for bringing meaning, intention, and playfulness (MIP) to celebrating Sukkot with children of all ages. She discusses practical ways to build excitement for younger kids through storytelling and activities that make time in the sukkah feel cozy.
For older children, Sari suggests engaging them through discussion and games that connect the traditions and history of Sukkot to their experiences. Throughout the interview, she provides numerous suggestions for infusing davening, sukkah decorating, and other traditions with fun elements like escape room games, word puzzles, and more. Listeners will come away with a wealth of new ideas to create unforgettable Sukkot memories and traditions for their families through intentional yet playful approaches.
0:00 Parenting strategies for success with a focus on Cirrus.
2:56 Leaving materialism behind during Sukkot celebrations.
8:36 Sukkot celebration and meaningful experiences for children.
14:34 Sukkot holiday activities and games for children.
19:52 Judaism, inclusivity, and the High Holidays.
22:12 Spiritual growth and connection during Sukkot.
27:28 Using games and activities to engage children in Yom Kippur.
32:06 Parenting and creating memories with intention.
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How to prepare our home for Yamim Noraim? How to help children understand and relate to Yamim Noraim? How to get ready for Yom Tov? Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We are having an amazing conversation with Mrs. Sharon Richter, or as some know her, Morah Sarah. Mrs. Richter has been the Lower School Associate Principal of Judaic Studies at Salanter Akiba Riverdale Academy (SAR) since 2005. She began her career at SAR in 1986 as a Judaic studies teacher after receiving a bachelor’s degree in Judaic studies from Stern College for Women at Yeshiva University. She is known for her Parashat haShavua series and her inspirational “Spiritual Sparks” workshops. 0:00 - How to help children grow during High Holidays?02:59 - Setting the home tone for the Yamim Noraim06:46 - Using Yamim Noraim to maximize the best in ourselves and our children08:25 - How to make Yom Tov davening easier for children?11:40 - How to help parents get ready for Yom Tov?
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How to explain Teshuva to your children? How to prepare yourself and your family for Teshuva? What strategies to use to create Teshuva consciousness?
Welcome back to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We are glad to have the amazing Rabbi Judah Mischel as our guest today! Rabbi Judah Mischel is the Executive Director of Camp HASC, the Hebrew Academy for Special Children. He is the Mashpiah of OU-NCSY, founder of Tzama Nafshi, and the author of the newly published Baderech: Along the Path of Teshuva.
We are talking about parenting, preparing yourself and your children for Teshuva, using stories and interesting activities to engage children in Teshuva, and the importance of being authentic and real in everything you do. Tune in to hear more!
01:40 - Who is Rabbi Judah Mischel?
02:58 - Thoughts about parenting and giving advice to others
07:13 - Live what you preach to your children
11:24 - Preparing for Teshuva as an adult
21:47 - How does the Mischel family prepare for Teshuva?
27:02 - Everybody needs some polishing
33:27 - Thinking about the needs of others
36:20 - Using stories to engage children
40:44 - Scavenger hunt and kids creating their own Simanim
43:35 - What does it mean to be holy?
47:18 - How to create Teshuva consciousness?
52:37 - Leaving home and going to Uman for Rosh Hashanah
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How important is our own self-development for your children? How to help children find their true selves and grow? How to enable children to deeply connect to HaShem?
Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guest today is Rabbi Shmuel Reichman an international speaker, bestselling author, business coach, and the CEO of Self-Mastery Academy. He has lectured internationally on topics of Torah thought, psychology, leadership, and business, uniquely blending many areas of Torah and wisdom together.
We are talking about the importance of self-development and a growth mindset, how to empower children and help them connect to HaShem meaningfully, and how to inspire them to be the best versions of themselves through their relationship with HaShem.
Tune in to hear more!
[01:49] The fundamentals of good parenting [04:06] We need struggles and challenges to grow [08:48] Self-development is you against yourself [13:08] How to inspire a growth mindset in children [16:15] Helping kids become aware of themselves and of the bigger picture [19:36] Being empowered and connected to HaShem and Torah [24:03] Talking to your kids about Rosh HaShana [31:09] How to make Simanim meaningful to children [37:36] How to understand placing a crown on HaShem’s head [43:54] The story of the guy on the train
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In this episode of the Jews Next Door podcast, Rabbi Yair Menchel sits down with renowned child and adolescent psychology expert Dr. David Pelcovitz to address the pressing issue of teenagers' fears as they face the challenges of going back to school. Discover invaluable insights and practical tips for parents to support their teens during this transitional period. From academic pressures to social anxiety, this conversation covers it all, emphasizing the importance of parental presence, active listening, and validation. Prepare your teenager to thrive academically, emotionally, and socially in the dynamic school environment.[00:00:00] Teens Back to School Fears: A Discussion with Dr. David Pelcovitz[00:01:00] How Parents Can Support Teens in Their School Transition[00:08:47] Raising Children: A Balance Between Small Docheh B'Yemin and M'karev Bsmol[00:11:28] Dealing with Adolescent Anxiety and Changes in Friendships[00:20:24] Navigating Parenting Challenges with Teenagers[00:23:26] Supporting Teenagers and Parents in Difficult Situations[00:24:41] The Role of Social Media in Teenage Anxiety: A Discussion with Dr. David Pelcovitz[00:32:48] Discussion on Managing Teenager's Anxiety-related School Issues[00:33:59] Discussion about Teens, Adolescents, and Back-to-School Fears[00:37:25] Parenting Tips for a New School Year
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This podcast episode provided guidance for both parents and children in preparing for the new school year. The experts discussed common fears around returning to school and strategies parents can implement at home, such as celebrating past achievements, empowering children to handle social challenges, and roleplaying difficult scenarios. They emphasized the critical partnership between parents and schools, and how parents need to manage their own emotions to support their children. The impact of technology use and the COVID pandemic on children's anxiety and resilience was also addressed. Practical tips were offered around building self-esteem, dealing with tantrums, and utilizing school resources and interventions when needed. [0:00] Intro to this episode.[1:52] How did you prepare your kids for school?[4:32] Celebrate your child's achievements.[7:52] The difference between social support and perception of support.[12:48] Building self-confidence and setting goals.[16:15] The importance of having a plan for kids.[19:20] Running a clinic and understanding your strengths.[25:10] Have a plan for the bus.[28:28] The importance of having a plan to deal with bullying.[31:29] We've got your back.[34:14] Give a compliment to their social skills.[40:34] Getting the child in the school building.[44:36] The difference between animals and people.[47:47] How to love your child.[55:08] Social skills deficits.[58:14] Identify what's hard for your child.[1:01:44] The story of the Rash.
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Dive into this captivating podcast as Rabbi Gary Menchel and his son, our podcast host, Rabbi Yair Menchel, unravel the dynamic world of parental-school partnerships.With insights that go beyond the ordinary, Rabbi Menchel sheds light on how this partnership is the secret sauce for a child's triumph in academia and their deep-rooted connection to Judaism. Get ready for a journey through trust-building, respect-forging, and the art of transparent, open conversations between parents and schools. Discover invaluable advice on how parents can supercharge their children's learning journey, while schools learn to empower teachers with the art of effective parental collaboration. And that's not all – join them as they navigate the tricky waters of disagreements and challenges, all while championing the ultimate goal: a child's best interests leading the way. This podcast isn't just a discussion; it's a masterclass in nurturing success through the power of partnership.[0:00] Introduction[3:50] The Significance of Aligning Values and Expectations[10:41] Advocating for Your Child: Tips for Parents[15:30] Fostering a Positive Parent-Partnership Dynamic[22:46] Recognizing Signs of Disengagement in Your Child[28:13] Key Parental Considerations to Keep in Mind
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In this episode of the "Jews Next Dor" podcast, we welcomes special guest Aliza Ben Shalom, known as the Jewish matchmaker from the Netflix show Jewish Matchmaking.
Aliza shares her expertise and offers marriage advice, discussing the importance of conflict resolution skills in relationships. She emphasizes the significance of overcoming challenges and how it impacts the future of a couple's relationship.
The conversation also explores the impact of Aliza's role on her own marriage and how it affected her children. Tune in to gain valuable insights into building a strong and resilient marriage.
[00:00:00] Introduction [00:03:29] A conscious decision in parenting. [00:07:32] Ingredients for a successful marriage. [00:10:11] Timing in difficult conversations. [00:14:14] Building tools in the relationship. [00:17:23] The deeper goal of marital harmony. [00:21:24] What must be dealt with. [00:23:08] Putting Shalom Bayit first. [00:26:14] Conflict resolution in marriage. [00:30:29] Saving marriages before they break. [00:32:38] Unconditional love in relationships. [00:37:39] Disposable culture and relationships. [00:39:11] Couples group therapy and struggles. [00:43:39] Prioritizing children over marriage. [00:46:06] Building a successful family.
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In this podcast episode featuring Slovie Jungreis-Wolff, the importance of social bias, alignment in parent-child relationships, and the challenges of modern parenting are explored.
Slovie discusses her new book's themes of purposeful parenting, gratitude, and unity. She highlights the significance of trust, genuine connections, and technology's role in child development.
The episode touches on the missing aspects in today's parenting, the roles of fathers and mothers in Yiddishkeit, and techniques for nurturing leadership skills. The takeaway emphasizes creating compassionate, purpose-driven homes that nurture each child's potential and inspire the future generation through patient and dedicated parenting.
[0:00] Unmasking the Significance of Social Bias [1:32] Igniting Creativity: The Spark Behind This Book [7:28] Behind the Scenes: Tackling the Toughest Chapter [13:37] Unveiling the Vacation Paradox: Where's the Fun? [16:26] Bridging the Gap: What's Missing in Today's World [22:00] Unlocking Happy Homes: The Ultimate Keychain [28:28] Loyalty: The Unseen Glue Binding Relationships [31:06] Peek into the Future: Decoding Your Children's Actions [34:41] Parental Roles Deconstructed: Father vs. Mother [39:52] Forging Future Leaders: Nurturing Your Children's Leadership Skills
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In this episode of the "Jews Next Dor" podcast, we wrap up our month of "Shalom Bayis," the harmony within marriage. Rabbi Yair Menchel discuss how true love is exemplified in the Torah by exploring the story of Adam and Eve.
The concept of treating one's spouse as royalty, "חתן דומה למלך," is highlighted, emphasizing that marriage should be the top priority for both partners, even above the children. Effective communication and managing expectations are emphasized as essential components to prioritize the relationship.
The technique of open communication, even during disagreements, is encouraged, along with the importance of presenting a unified front to children and modeling healthy communication patterns. The episode concludes by stressing that a stable and harmonious home environment is the greatest gift parents can give their children for a healthy upbringing.
[0:01] - Episode Introduction: Diving into the Podcast [0:52] - Beyond Selfishness: Redefining the Essence of Marriage [2:38] - Reigniting Priority: Elevating Marriage to Pole Position [4:04] - Speak Without Restraint: Embracing Open Communication [5:37] - Beyond Victory: Unearthing the True Purpose in Conflict [7:15] - Express Your Needs: The Key to Partnered Understanding [9:08] - Navigating Discord: Handling Disagreements in Children's Gaze [11:10] - Blueprint for Upbringing: The Triad of a Wholesome Childhood
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What do we do when our marriage issues are effecting our parenting? What does a healthy marriage look like? How do marital problems affect our children? How to deal with marital problems and challenges?
Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guests today are Rabbi Jonathan Muskat and his wife Dr. Yael Muskat, who answer these questions and more in this intervention episode of our month of Shalom Bayis.
Rabbi Muskat is the Rabbi of the Young Israel of Oceanside, a Vice-President of the Rabbinical Council of America, a teacher, an administrator, and a Rebbe at Shulamith High School for Girls in Long Island. He is also a pastoral health care liaison at South Nassau Communities Hospital.
Dr. Yael Muskat is the Director of the Counseling Center at Yeshiva University and the Dean of Mental Health and Wellness. She has a Ph.D. in Psychology and has worked as a therapist and consultant in a variety of settings, including schools, hospitals, community mental health centers, and a Family Court, as well as being the Rebbetzin of the Young Israel of Oceanside, where she has been privileged to raise her family and to be part of a warm and vibrant community.
We continue our discussion on Shalom Bayis, with a focus on the intervention - what happens when it is not working, and the effects on children, and how to build good marital relationships.
[00:25] Handling important decisions as a couple [04:56] Supporting each other’s goals [08:12] Having an open relationship with children [12:31] Counseling for challenges in marriage [17:56] Healthy conflict vs. ad hominem attack [20:27] Silent treatment and a lack of communication [27:32] How does shalom bayis counseling look like? [35:36] Healthy habits in a relationship [39:32] The challenges of social media [42:37] Dealing with the effects of parents’ shalom bayis issues on children [47:35] Shalom bayis issues and child’s relationship with HaShem [50:50] Shalom bayis issues now and in the past [55:19] The impact of having children on marriage [59:45] The final message
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How can we take care of our own marriage so we can be the best parents we can be and nurture our children's nature? What practical steps can two partners do to improve their shalom bayis? How we respectfully disagree in front of children? Why is martial harmony so important for parenting?
In this informative podcast, a seasoned psychotherapist, Rabbi Dr. Dovid Lessin, delves into the significance of enhancing marital harmony, or Shalom Bayis, as a means to enhance parental effectiveness, and answers these questions and much more. This is the second episode in this series, the practical episode on Shalom Bayis. Rav Lessin emphasizes the importance of couples dedicating quality time to each other, even amidst challenges, and underscores the value of seeking positivity in one another, expressing gratitude, and maintaining a sense of connection even when physically apart. Additionally, Rav Lessin discusses the art of respectfully disagreeing in front of children, prioritizing understanding over winning, and modeling healthy conflict resolution.
Empowering parents to trust their instincts regarding their children is stressed, as they possess the deepest understanding of their kids. Rav Lessin also highlights the vital role of parental self-care, recognizing that nurturing oneself enables one to be the best parent possible.
Promoting bonding through playful interactions and meaningful eye contact is encouraged. Overall, this podcast offers invaluable insights from an experienced expert on how bolstering marital harmony, or Shalom Bayis, can enhance parental efficacy and create a nurturing environment for the entire family.
[0:00] Introduction [7:47] The Importance of Quality Time in a Relationship [12:31] Deliberate Non-Reactivity: A Key Relationship Approach [15:43] Understanding the Depth of 'Anything' [22:13] Practical Applications of Connection in Parenting [28:13] Recognizing the Need for Breaks in Disagreements [34:02] Balancing Togetherness and Separateness in Marriage [42:29] Guiding Parents through Challenging Topics with Kids [47:31] Defining Boundaries: What to Share with Our Children [52:54] Harnessing Your Child's Ability to Foster Group Comfort [55:57] Addressing Parental Bias and Its Impact on Children [1:02:09] Unexplored Areas of Bias: Essential Parental Knowledge [1:08:16] Consequences of Inattentiveness in Children
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What is Shalom Bayis? How important it is for the development of children? How to achieve unity and harmony with your spouse?
Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor. We are so glad to have Rabbi David Rosman as our guest today.
Rabbi Dovid Rosman is the Director of Yeshivat Aish HaTorah and a rebbe in the Advanced Beis Medrash Program. He lectures internationally on marriage and other relationships. He is also the author of the book Your Wife, Your Self: A Husband's Guide to Shalom Bayis.
We are talking about Shalom Bayis and its importance for family life and the healthy development of children. Our goal in marriage is not just to get along, but to build true unity and fill our home with harmony. Tune in to hear what does that mean, how to do it, and so much more!
[00:00] The beginnings of Rav David Rosman’s work [04:45] What is Shalom Bayis? [07:55] What does it mean for a husband and wife to be one? [09:56] The influence of parents’ relationship on children [18:26] Do children put stress on a marriage? [22:52] Disagreements and healthy conflict resolution [29:24] Religious growth of parents and children [33:41] The negative effects of the lack of Shalom Bayis [39:10] Fundamental things for building Shalom Bayis [41:40] Don’t pressure yourself and ask for help [46:30] Final message
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How can parents help children to appreciate and really tap into the 3 weeks, the 9 days, and ultimately, Tisha B’av? How can parents model mourning when it is difficult for themselves to tap into the mourning?How can parents engage in discussions with their children about loss and create meaningful moments of reflection? Rabbi Larry Rothwachs and Sally Shatzkes answer these questions and much more in this week's episode of the Jews Next Dor, in a special 9 days edition episode.
In this podcast, the focus is on guiding children in understanding and processing the loss and mourning of Tisha B'Av. Sally Shatzkes, a playwright and drama therapist at Yeshiva of Flatbush, and Performing Arts Department Head of Camp Morasha, shares her approach to crafting annual plays for Tisha B'Av at the camp. The plays serve as a means for campers to contemplate loss and their roots, moving beyond mere tears. Rabbi Rothwachs explains how these plays build connections between the present and the past, enabling campers to connect with the significance of the Temple's destruction.
The conversation delves into how parents can engage in discussions with their children about loss and Jewish history, fostering creative outlets for expression. Rather than having children mourn continuously for 24 hours, the focus is on creating meaningful moments of reflection. It is stressed that children are capable of handling conversations about loss, but parents must first delve into their own feelings of loss to effectively guide their children.
Overall, the podcast advocates for using the 9 Days as a time of introspection and spiritual growth, encouraging adults to seize the opportunity to support children in understanding and processing grief while connecting to their heritage.
A special thank you to Camp Morasha for sponsoring this episode, and their continuous support of Jewish Education, a central part of their mission.
Episode Time Stamps:
0:00 - Tisha B'Av should not be about sad things like the Holocaust or motorcycle accidents 3:08 - Captivating Content: Creating Relevance for Every Audience 9:52 - The Enchanting Evolution: A New Play Every Year! 12:30 - Mirror Magic: What Lies Beyond the Reflection? 18:28- Education Redefined: Sally's Secrets to Engaging Parental Benefits 21:36 - Time Travelers Unite: Embracing History without Losing Touch 28:13 - The Ultimate Answer Revealed! Unlocking Life's Hidden Secrets 31:11- Little Minds, Big Conversations: Navigating Loss with Kids 37:58 - Child's Play: How Kids Triumph over Loss 41:17 - Bereavement Reimagined: Three Weeks of Empowerment 46:05 - Portal to the Past: Bringing History Alive in the Present 49:11 - Beyond Ordinary: Where Past, Present, and Future Collide
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How do we inspiring our children to develop a relationship with Hashem? How do we fight apathy In children? How to help children connect In Tefillah
Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Today we have a great opportunity to talk to another amazing guest - Charlie Harary.
Charlie Harary is an inspiring and very influential speaker who speaks for schools, universities, and institutions on a variety of topics and to audiences of various sizes and affiliations. He has created dozens of videos that have received worldwide attention reaching hundreds of thousands of people in over 15 countries.
Mr. Harary is also the CEO of H3 Capital LLC, a private equity company based in New York. He is an Associate Professor of Management and Entrepreneurship at the Syms School of Business at Yeshiva University. He is also a Senior Lecturer for the Orthodox Union, Aish Hatorah and NCSY.
Additionally, he is an active community leader. He is the founder and president of Milvado Inc., an organization that develops innovative methods to teach spirituality in relevant and modern ways. He is a member of the Executive Board of the OU as well as the Founding Chairman of its Young Leadership Cabinet. He is also a member of the Conference of Young Jewish Presidents.
Time Stamps:
[00:00] How did Charlie got involved with Jewish education?
[04:49] The confidence comes from HaShem
[09:11] Being present as a father
[13:27] Taking care of your family first
[18:30] The absence from the house because of work
[22:16] How does having a father in the spotlight affect children?
[25:34] Children and their relationship with HaShem
[30:37] Parents’ expectations and the importance of self-awareness
[34:25] Everybody has their own path and timing
[37:36] If love is conditioned, it’s not real love
[39:38] Feeling lucky for getting a Jewish education
[45:05] Biggest parenting regrets
[47:35] How to fight apathy in kids?
[53:15] How to help children connect to Tefillah?
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How to stay calm and control your feelings as a parent? How to teach your children to control their feelings? What are the techniques to rewire children’s brains for desirable behavior?
Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We are so pleased to have Mrs. Sarah Chana Radcliffe as our guest today. She is a registered member of the College of Psychologists of Ontario, practicing marriage, parenting, and individual counseling for over 40 years.
Mrs. Radcliffe is the author of “No More Ticks”, “Raise Your Kids Without Raising Your Voice”, “Better Behavior Now”, “The Fear Fix”, “Harmony at Home”, and 6 other books on family life and emotional well-being.
She is also a weekly columnist and international lecturer, presenting keynotes and workshops on family life and personal stress management. She is the creator of “Daily Parenting Posts” email lists and offers parenting education on her Instagram and Facebook pages.
[00:00] How did Sarah got involved with parenting? [01:47] How to provide your kids with the best start in life? [03:41] Managing anger is key to preventing harm [07:26] How to teach kids to control their feelings? [11:13] Express what you want from a child in a calm, short, and specific way [15:20] Two times rule and presenting consequences [17:57] Techniques to wire the child’s brain to cooperation [21:10] Learning positive behavior with rapid wiring of the brain [26:04] How to get a child out of fight-or-flight mode? [27:57] Marriage is a parenting tool [30:33] What should parents do when they are angry? [33:20] Bach flower remedies [38:19] Low self-esteem in children and energy-based techniques [44:00] What to do when a child shuts down? [45:48] Anxiety in children
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What does one do if their child is going off the derech? Why is a good attachment with children so important? How to raise strong and resilient children in this day and age? What are the pillars of the core sense of self?
Our guest today is Rabbi Shimon Russell, a psychotherapist and a world authority on the challenges of “At-Risk” teens and young adults. His expertise is in the areas of marriage, parenting, education, adolescents, and treatment of unresolved early childhood trauma.
He is the author of an amazing book “Raising a Loving Family”, a practical down-to-earth guidance created to help parents navigate the challenges of raising children in today’s turbulent world, which won gold for this year's Benjamin Franklin Award in Psychology.
[00:00] What inspired Rabbi Russell to get into the parenting area
[06:45] Tough parenting of the post-holocaust era and its consequences
[13:24] Equalization of status between children and adults
[15:53] Technology made children independent too early
[18:28] Adults should create a reality where children feel safe and secure
[20:33] Seeing and recognizing the uniqueness of the child
[27:05] Soothing and focusing on good attachment
[34:42] The role of a parent is to provide resilience
[38:25] Setting limits – structure, rules, and discipline
[44:24] Two pillars of a core sense of self
[52:23] Parents and teachers must be good examples
[55:08] Why do kids sometimes go off?
[58:38] Parents must overcome their own egos and fight for their child
[1:05:25] We have to go back to grassroots
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How does a parent know when their child is ready for sleepaway camp? How can parent’s teach their children the importance of boundaries in a camp? What are the life lessons a child can learn at summer camp?
Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! This one of our special episodes where we have an opportunity to talk about pre camp, wherein parents can learn how to best prepare their children for a summer camp.
We sat down with the incredibly talented and creative Rabbi Natan Farber, the director of Camp Dina and the Director of Student Activities at DRS High School for Boys.
00:00- 03:15 How does a parent know when their child is ready for sleepaway camp? 3:15-07:28 The lessons that these kids learn in sleepaway camp. (10:58) The importance of boundaries in camp. (16:56) The importance of hiring people who are caring and loving in the appropriate way. (19:39) What do you recommend in terms of shabbos food? Do you allow packages? (22:22) Do you have phone calls and camp like friday phone calls? (28:45) How to deal with children who are homesick. 32:15) What are some of the most common reasons kids are unhappy? (35:05) The importance of focusing on the personality of the student. (38:34) The more confident you are in yourself, the easier it is to shut down bullies. (43:33) What are the life lessons learned at summer camp? (46:55) How does a parent prepare their child for taking medication? (50:29) The difference between helicoptering or bulldozing to remove an obstacle.
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What are our primary parenting goals? How to understand children better? How much do we influence children’s behavior?
Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We are so excited to talk to Rabbi Gavriel Friedman, an amazing teacher and motivational speaker who has spent the last decade studying and teaching in various Yeshivot throughout Jerusalem. He is currently teaching at Aish HaTorah Jerusalem, where his lectures highlight the entire gamut of Aish programs, including the Discovery Seminar, Jerusalem Fellowships, Executive Learning Center, etc. We are talking about teaching and parenting goals, having empathy and understanding children, and fixing your own problems before you fix others.
01:02 One thing to change in the Jewish education system 03:32 Four things to check when a child misbehaves 05:03 What is our goal as a parent or a teacher? 11:50 Fix yourself before you fix others 13:15 Put yourself in other people’s shoes 18:23 How to practically work on being a better teacher or a parent? 20:55 Preparation is everything 21:48 Relax and allow children to have struggles 23:14 Parents that want to live through their children
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What is the most important parenting goal? How to be a good parent and a good role model to your child? How to help your child develop a relationship with Hashem?
Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We have the real pleasure to talk to Rav Aharon Lopiansky about bringing our children to their full potential and the best parenting practices to achieve that goal.
Harav Ahron Lopiansky is Rosh Yeshiva of the Yeshiva Gedola of Greater Washington. In addition to giving daily shiurim at the Yeshiva, Rav Lopiansky is sought after as an international lecturer and an accomplished author.
His knowledge of the widest array of topics in both Limudei Kodesh and Limudei Chol makes his shiurim all the more inspiring and fascinating. Rav Lopiansky has written a number of seforim in both Hebrew and English as well as a Siddur mefurash.
00:00 Growing up and having a great parenting example 05:04 Letting children find their own way 08:06 The goal of a parent is to bring a child’s potential into reality 15:58 How to help a child willingly accept laws and restrictions 19:50 How to help a child develop a relationship with Hashem 21:35 How to help a child commit to Torah 28:00 Which battles are worth fighting? 32:16 Disciplining a child while maintaining a positive relationship 33:54 Teaching Torah to kids of different ages 36:48 What to consider when choosing a school for your child? 40:01 How to prevent raising spoiled and entitled children? 44:46 How to develop patience as a parent? 47:26 The most important parenting goal 48:52 How to combat apathy? 55:12 The final message
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"When a child is challenging, it's important to realize that he/she doesn't want to be that way. When a parent/teacher realizes that fact, they will better appreciate that they are working toward the same goal as the child is"
Rav Yaakov Neuburger is a Rosh Yeshiva at YU, as well as the Rav of of Congregation Beth Abraham in Bergenfield, N.J. offers incredible insights like these throughout this exceptional episode. Rav Neuburger is widely regarded as an authority on issues related to marital relationships and the purity of the Jewish home. He offers his services to help young men train for married life and prepare to build a proper Jewish home built on Jewish law and spirit.
This episode was my most listened to episode from my other podcast, JEDucation, because so many people value Rav Neuburgers incredible advice, and want to hear any words he has.
In this episode we discuss:
- Who Rav Neuburger's role models were
- Non-negotiable love
- When to encourage children to learn
- The importance of not pushing minyan
- How to raise children who are less entitled
- An important approach towards Shalom Bayis
- How to make Tefillah more accessible
And so much more.
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How to make sure your child is safe? What to do when your child is bullied or a bully? How to use technology safely and wisely?Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! This month we talked about child safety and covered a lot of important topics, like technology, bullying, domestic abuse, child abuse, and substance abuse.It is an undeniable fact that a child needs to feel safe before anything else. Once we have provided safety to our child, we may start working on other things, like developing social skills or growing a passion for Judaism. Tune in to hear more about this crucial topic and the most important things to do to ensure your child’s safety! 00:00 Child safety as an ultimate goal04:02 The importance of creating a strong relationship with your child09:09 Building healthy self-esteem and a feeling of self-worth12:14 What to do when your child is a bully?22:08 What to do when your child is bullied?24:49 A safe and intelligent use of technology27:25 Wrapping up***This episode has been sponsored by jKaraoke, a great way to have good kosher family fun singing all of your favorite Jewish songs with karaoke.You can subscribe monthly from just $4.99 or yearly from $49.99, and in honour of their US launch, jKaraoke are now offering their best deal yet! Grab a yearly subscription plus a Karaoke Kit for just $99.99 plus use coupon JewsNextDor for an additional 10% off!!Check out jKaraoke.com today and let the fun begin!
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Do you want to help your children become excited about Torah this Shavuos? Have their own Kabbolas HaTorah? If yes, this episode is for you. We will go through 5 simple, yet important, tips for parents to help their children gain an appreciate for the Torah.
1 - It Starts With Us
2 - How to Make Torah Exciting
3 - Sacred Time
4 - Celebrate
5 - The Real Definition of Chinuch
Listen to this episode to elaborate on these 5 fundamental tips. Enjoy!
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How can parents prevent their children from drug use and drug addiction? How can parents recognize the red flags of substance abuse? What steps to take when your child is an addict?Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Substance and alcohol abuse are unfortunately very relevant in our community. Yeshiva League students are above the national average in alcohol consumption and not very far off in drug usage.Therefore, we are talking to Stephen Hill, who himself fell into the trap of drug addiction but fortunately managed to escape it and successfully recover. Stephen Hill is the Founder of Speak Sobriety, a best-selling author, an amazing speaker, a recovery coach, and a fierce attorney advocating for treatment over incarceration.We will also hear his father Kevin talking about being a parent of an addict and the hardships his family had to go through because of his son’s drug addiction. [00:00] Who are Stephen and Kevin Hill?[04:48] The beginnings of Stephen’s addiction[14:30] Addiction treatment and recovery[21:06] COVID pandemic and law school graduation[25:05] Speaking about the addiction[27:03] Kevin’s experience with Stephen’s addiction[31:05] Why do people use substances?[33:25] Talking to kids about addiction[37:55] The cause of Stephen’s addiction[43:08] What would Stephen say to his younger self[45:46] Alcohol is equally dangerous but socially acceptable[52:19] The stress of having an addict in the family[57:07] Criminal justice system and addiction[1:01:08] Red flags for parents to pay attention to[1:04:49] How to protect children and prevent addiction?[1:12:16] The final message for parents[1:15:20] Wrapping up***This episode has been sponsored by jKaraoke, a great way to have good kosher family fun singing all of your favorite Jewish songs with karaoke.You can subscribe monthly from just $4.99 or yearly from $49.99, and in honour of their US launch, jKaraoke are now offering their best deal yet! Grab a yearly subscription plus a Karaoke Kit for just $99.99 plus use coupon JewsNextDor for an additional 10% off!!Check out jKaraoke.com today and let the fun begin!
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Domestic abuse. What is it? How does the pressures in our community play a role in domestic abuse? What effects does domestic abuse have on our children and their safety? How can we help our children to recover from domestic abuse? How can we build up our child’s support system, if we are ourselves need a support system?
Welcome back to another episode of the Jews Next Dor. In this episode, Yeshaya Kraus, the previous Director of Education of Shalom Task Force, takes us through each of these critical questions, and much more. This episode was recorded while Yeshaya was still the Director of Education, and since then, he has gone into private practice. Shalom Task Force’s mission is to combat and prevent domestic violence and foster healthy and safe relationships and families, and as director of education, Yeshaya Kraus is the perfect person to take us parents through his process, with his vast experience of leading the educational process for parents and children on this very sensitive topic.
If you have any questions or want to see Yeshaya, please reach out to him at yykraus@gmail.com
[00:00] Misconception about domestic abuse[03:14] The definition of domestic abuse and the alarming CDC statistics[06:50] Jewish hotline for domestic violence[09:00] What is domestic abuse and how obvious it is?[13:05] The content and goals of Yeshaya’s workshops[18:00] Pressure to get married and picture perfect[22:30] Vocabulary to talk about domestic abuse[24:44] Training for therapists and rabbanits[29:19] The effects of domestic violence on children[32:50] How can children recover from witnessing domestic abuse[36:54] What can an abused parent do for their children?[40:40] How to teach children to recognize abuse?[47:40] Support system and examples of healthy relationships[51:20] The impact of parents successfully going to therapy on children[56:11] The essential role of a parent[59:17] What are the red flags in relationships?[1:02:17] What to do when you suspect your child is being abused?[1:11:23] Final message for parents[1:15:00] Hotline for victims of domestic abuse ***This episode has been sponsored by jKaraoke, a great way to have good kosher family fun singing all of your favorite Jewish songs with karaoke.You can subscribe monthly from just $4.99 or yearly from $49.99, and in honour of their US launch, jKaraoke are now offering their best deal yet! Grab a yearly subscription plus a Karaoke Kit for just $99.99 plus use coupon JewsNextDor for an additional 10% off!!Check out jKaraoke.com today and let the fun begin!
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How to protect children in the age of digital technology? What is the appropriate and responsible behavior with technology? How to teach children to make good choices around technology? Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guest is Dr. Eli Shapiro, a Licensed Clinical and School Social Worker with a Doctorate in Education.Dr. Eli is an expert on the social-emotional literacy and functioning of children and his research is focused on the psychological, sociological, and behavioral impact of technology on children. He is the creator of The Digital Citizenship Project and is devoted to sharing his knowledge and expertise with parents and schools interested in teaching kids to be thoughtful and responsible users of digital technology. [00:00] Introduction to Dr. Eli and his work[05:58] Digital responsibility in the age of technology[07:49] Creating awareness about the challenges of technology[11:00] Creating customized content for school communities[16:35] The responsibility of parents and schools[21:28] Digital safety and teaching children responsible behavior[24:26] Tools to make good choices around technology[34:46] Talking to kids about technology[40:30] Behavioral differences in using phone, laptop, or PC[44:45] Different levels of screen time[50:37] Spend more time with your kids***This episode has been sponsored by jKaraoke, a great way to have good kosher family fun singing all of your favorite Jewish songs with karaoke.You can subscribe monthly from just $4.99 or yearly from $49.99, and in honour of their US launch, jKaraoke are now offering their best deal yet! Grab a yearly subscription plus a Karaoke Kit for just $99.99 plus use coupon JewsNextDor for an additional 10% off!!Check out jKaraoke.com today and let the fun begin!
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What are the benefits and challenges of raising children in Israel? What are the the differences between growing up in America and Israel? In this special Yom Ha'atzmaut episode, we are incredibly grateful for the opportunity to talk to Rav Jesse Horn, a very popular and sought-after Rebbe in Yeshivat Hakotel on the topic of raising children in Israel, and how Americans can help their children to develop a genuine love for Eretz Yisroel, and so much more.Rabbi Horn is a Senior Ram (Rosh Metivta) at Yeshivat Hakotel. He also teaches at MMY and has taught in other seminaries, such as Shaalvim for Women and Midreshet HaRova. He regularly lectures as a scholar-in-residence in communities all over the world.Rabbi Horn is the author of Double Take, a book about Biblical personalities, and numerous other articles for Beis Yitzhak, Arutz Sheva, World Mizrachi, and other scholarly publications. He also authors a weekly email in which he answers Halachic questions to an audience of almost 1,500 readers. [00:00] The background of Rabbi Jesse Horn[05:45] The development of the Zionistic approach[07:05] The benefits and challenges of raising children in Israel[12:50] Good role models and one-on-one time with kids[18:28] Differences between parenting in America and Israel[22:50] How children process terrorism[25:15] How to develop a love for Israel in children[30:25] Growing up in America vs. raising kids in Israel[36:30] Developing a love for Israel at Yeshivat Hakotel[40:38] Final message***This episode has been sponsored by jKaraoke, a great way to have good kosher family fun singing all of your favorite Jewish songs with karaoke.You can subscribe monthly from just $4.99 or yearly from $49.99, and in honour of their US launch, jKaraoke are now offering their best deal yet! Grab a yearly subscription plus a Karaoke Kit for just $99.99 plus use coupon JewsNextDor for an additional 10% off!!Check out jKaraoke.com today and let the fun begin!
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What is the child safety? How can parents keep their children safe from abuse and sextortion? What are cues that one's child may be being used? Rahel Bayar, Founder and CEO of the Bayar Group and Former Sex Crimes & Child Abuse Prosecutor, answers all of these questions, and much more in this second episode of the child safety month.
Rahel Bayar is a sought after keynote speaker, trainer, workshop facilitator and consultant. Rahel is trusted by companies, K-12 schools, camps and organizations across the country to deliver inspiring abuse and harassment prevention training, and inspire those she meets to work collaboratively to create safe spaces. She uses her expertise as a former sex crimes and child abuse prosecutor, and a former managing director of the sexual misconduct consulting and investigations division of a global investigative company to effectively help each organization work to create a safe space for all.We are talking about child safety and a very sensitive topic of child abuse. You will learn how to talk to your child about the potential abuse, how to react properly if the abuse happens, and how to teach a child to recognize “tricky behaviors” and talk to you without shame or fear. [00:00] Are our kids really safe in their safe places?[03:27] Rahel Bayar’s workshops on child abuse[06:40] How to create an atmosphere of trust for a child to talk[16:15] The main goal when talking to children about abuse[18:20] What is sextortion and how to prevent it?[22:45] How to react if your child is harassed or abused?[27:13] What are the red flags of abuse?[30:50] How to teach a child about tricky behaviors?[37:39] Differentiating secrets[39:28] Sexual abuse in the Jewish community[43:00] Holidays are times to be cautious[48:00] The conversation has to be ongoing ***This episode has been sponsored by jKaraoke, a great way to have good kosher family fun singing all of your favorite Jewish songs with karaoke.You can subscribe monthly from just $4.99 or yearly from $49.99, and in honour of their US launch, jKaraoke are now offering their best deal yet! Grab a yearly subscription plus a Karaoke Kit for just $99.99 plus use coupon JewsNextDor for an additional 10% off!!Check out jKaraoke.com today and let the fun begin!
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How to recognize that your child is being bullied? What is the best way to react to bullying? How to help your child stay safe and avoid bullying?
Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! We have the great pleasure to talk to Dr. Rona Novic, a Dean of the Azrieli Graduate School of Jewish Education. While she worked as a Clinical Professor of Child Psychology at the North Shore LIJ Medical Centre, she developed The Alliance for School Mental Health and authored the B.R.A.V.E. bulling program.
Dr. Rona Novic is an expert in behavior management, child behavior therapy, and bullying. We will hear some exceptionally valuable advice on how to recognize, handle, and prevent bullying, as well as how to teach your child to stay safe and react properly.
[00:00] The definition and types of bullying
[08:35] Clues that a child is being bullied
[11:00] How to react to bullying
[14:38] How to teach children social skills
[17:44] Pretending is a way to stay safe
[19:27] What can a parent do when a child is bullied
[27:41] How to handle an imbalance in your child’s friendship
[31:07] Temperamental traits as a factor in becoming a victim or a bully
[34:49] How to react as a parent when your child is a bully
[36:22] Peer pressure and building refusal skills
[37:50] Witnessing bullying and strategies to stop bullying
[43:55] Advice to parents
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In this final episode of our Pre-Pesach series, we end off with the creator of That Jewish Moment - Sari Kopitnikoff. She is sharing some amazing and very creative ideas on how to prepare an incredible Seder for your children.
Sari is an experiential educator, digital artist, educational performer, and content creator. She is passionate about creating books, games, activities, shows, and virtual challenges that bring Judaism to life.
For the last decade, she’s taught elementary, middle, and high school, but her creativity and energy have reached beyond the classroom, bringing the sparks of Jewish life to all parts of the world.
In 2014, Sari began That Jewish Moment, a colorful, meaningful, and heartfelt collection of drawings and programs that showcase the spirit and beauty of Jewish life.
[00:00] Introduction to Sari Kopitnikoff
[02:38] What inspired Sari to go into education
[05:20] The beginning of Pesach workshops
[07:15] Keeping kids on their toes – practical examples
[09:14] Advice to parents on how to create an amazing Seder
[12:10] The goals and themes to be focused on
[18:20] The Seder in Sari’s home
[22:05] The use of visuals – it doesn’t have to be perfect
[23:47] How to make Haggadah text come alive
[26:33] How to differentiate first and second night
[28:38] Take off the pressure from the Seder
[30:30] Installing emunah in your kids during the Seder
[31:35] Keep expectations low
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How to prepare an exciting and educational Seder? What props and visuals to use to keep the kids involved? What does the Seder look like in Rabbi Weberman’s home?
Rabbi Yechiel Weberman is known as the King of Pesach because of the awesome content he shares on his website - AwesomePesach.com. In this episode, we will hear some great advice on preparing an amazing and fun, but also educational Seder that will convey the right message and keep the kids involved and happy.
[00:00] Background and coming into Jewish education
[04:57] The goal of the Seder is to transmit the message
[07:53] Telling stories about God’s love
[11:58] It is essential to prepare for all aspects of the Seder
[14:28] Using pictures and props to build up a story
[16:36] How to involve older kids – asking questions
[20:55] Tips for parents on how to lead the Seder
[24:55] The Seder in Rabbi Yechiel’s home
[30:10] Props and visuals to use to create an amazing experience
[35:07] Reading Haggadah and making it alive
[42:58] Having the Seder in a hotel
[45:35] Final message
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How to prepare a joyous and educational Seder? What are some pro tips that can help parents? How to make sure all kids are involved and have a voice?
Welcome to another episode of our Pre-Pesach series! We are having an amazing conversation with Mrs. Sharon Richter, or as some know her, Morah Sarah.
Mrs. Richter has been the Lower School Associate Principal of Judaic Studies at Salanter Akiba Riverdale Academy (SAR) since 2005. She began her career at SAR in 1986 as a Judaic studies teacher after receiving a bachelor’s degree in Judaic studies from Stern College for Women at Yeshiva University. She is known for her Parashat haShavua series and her inspirational “Spiritual Sparks” workshops.
She is sharing some excellent tips on how to prepare for the Seder as a family, how to make the Seder educational, but also fun and joyous, and how to help your kids come out of the Seder with amazing memories and positive feelings.
[00:00] Going into Jewish education
[01:33] How to prepare for the Seder as a family
[05:44] Practical tips and using props to convey the message
[09:10] How to help parents become educators
[15:15] Practical preparation – setting the table, feeding kids, bulletin board
[18:07] Pro-tips for the Seder
[21:17] Know your children and make sure everyone has a voice
[27:54] The Sparks workshops
[31:20] Final message
[33:22] Recommendation for Haggadah
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How to maintain your family routine during Pesach? What to do with your kids during Pesach preparations? How to raise them to be independent and helpful? Welcome to another episode of our Pre-Pesach series! Our guest is Dr. Robin Akserlud, a Program Director at LIU-Brooklyn, Author of The My OT Journey Planner, and Developer of the My OT Journey Podcast.
We are talking about a family routine and how to maintain it without stress during Pesach preparations. You will hear some great, insightful, and helpful tips on involving children in Pesach preparations, helping them to adjust to the change of their routine, and teaching them to be helpful and independent. Tune in to hear more!
[00:00] Introduction to Dr. Robin Akserlud
[02:30] The ideal family routine
[05:16] The children strive on structure
[07:45] How to maintain a routine during the Pesach period without stress?
[11:25] How to prepare children for the Pesach and pre-Pesach activities?
[19:05] Eating and sleep routine during Pesach[24:40] How to raise independent children?
[29:17] Chores – be flexible and make it fun
[34:50] How to enjoy activities with children without stress
[37:40] Tips for pre-Pesach activities
[40:45] Self-care and managing personal stress
[42 15] Final words
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How should parents prepare for the Seder? What should be our goals when preparing the Seder? How to engage children of all ages?
Welcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! In preparation for Pesach, we are talking to Yair Daar who has been a Jewish educator and administrator for the past 15 years and is currently working at Yeshivat He’Atid in New Jersey. He is also involved in the organization of Moshava Ba'ir summer camps and various workshops. Yair emphasizes the importance of creating a positive feeling around the Seder and presenting the story in a way that everybody can understand. He doesn’t have any specific rules but insists on good storytelling and supporting activities. It’s very important to release the pressure and have fun while spreading the message of the Seder at the same time. [00:00] Introduction to Yair and his background[01:22] The Seder workshops on Zoom[02:20] How should parents prepare for the Seder[07:20] Most important themes[09:00] Differentiating between younger and older kids’ experience[14:27] Use of storytelling to get the message across[18:30] Activities for younger and older children[20:00] Maslow's hierarchy of needs[21:18] Start the Seder with fun[23:03] Seder cards and asking questions[25:27] The first and the second Seder[26:55] Release the pressure and know your goal[31:50] Final message***This episode has been sponsored by jKaraoke, a great way to have good kosher family fun singing all of your favorite Jewish songs with karaoke.You can subscribe monthly from just $4.99 or yearly from $49.99, and in honour of their US launch, jKaraoke are now offering their best deal yet! Grab a yearly subscription plus a Karaoke Kit for just $99.99 plus use coupon JewsNextDor for an additional 10% off!!Check out jKaraoke.com today and let the fun begin!”
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This week, in preparation to Pesach, we are happy to talk to Mrs. Elisheva Kaminetsky, the Principal of Judaic Studies at Stella K. Abraham High School for Girls.
She is a mentor and advisor to alumni, a kallah teacher, and an adult lecturer. As an expert on Jewish education, she gives great educational workshops on Pesach.
Mrs. Kaminetsky will share some excellent advice on how to create an awesome and fun learning environment at the Seder and make space for experiential learning and thoughtful and meaningful conversations.
We’ll hear some amazing ideas and a lot of practical advice.
[00:00] Mrs. Kaminetsky’s background and coming into Jewish education
[02:40] The Seder and good teaching methodologies
[07:28] Mrs. Kaminetsky’s organization of Seder
[12:15] Advice to parents who are not educators
[13:48] Helping teenagers engage in meaningful dialog at the Seder
[18:51] Preparations for Pesach – creating themes
[27:50] How to give everyone space and the use of visuals
[30:50] How to make text come alive
[35:58] How to transmit values to children
[40:55] How to differentiate the Seder from other meals
[42:26] Pesach workshops
[47:10] Engaging children to ask questions
[50:10] Final message
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What is unconditional parenting? Why are self-reflection and self-regulation so important? How to build a relationship with your child with respect and trust?
Welcome to our first special guest episode. Every once in a while, we will be featuring a special guest, in which we spoke about parenting in a more general way, in a way that is not explicitly part of our parent’s hierarchy of needs, and is more broad in nature, hitting on more topics.
For this first special guest episode, we have the opportunity to learn from one of my favorite parenting experts, Blimie Heller, famously known for creating amazing content on her Unconditional parenting Instagram page. Blimie is a mom and a parenting coach, passionate about helping parents build better relationships with their children based on respect and trust. Blimie's topic of expertise is perfectly aligned with our first topic of creating a relationship with one’s child. Blimie explains her parenting journey the psychology behind unconditional parenting, and why trust and respect is is the utmost importance to her, practical advice on understanding a child's behavior, and how we can change our reactions in the moment, and so much more.
[00:00] Introduction
[01:00] Blimie Heller and her goals as a parenting coach
[05:02] The importance of respect and trust
[07:30] Children communicate through their behavior
[10:12] Unconditional parenting and its practical implementation
[15:08] Self-reflection and self-regulation
[22:22] The influence of our own childhood experience
[28:32] Building your child’s self-confidence
[33:13] The impact of technology
[36:30] Building a relationship with God
[38:30] Practical tips for disciplining children
[50:03] Favorite post
[51:30] Book recommendation
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We learned so many foundational ideas, on a basic level, a practical level, and intervention when it's not working, to create a relationship with one's child. Sometimes we don't fully grasp the meaning or practicality of an extremely deep idea said in one line on a podcast. As such, in this episode, we will be wrapping up this topic by going over the fundamental ideas, diving a bit deeper, and offering practical scenarios and tips for each of them.
We all want to raise strong, confident, passionate and committed Jews. Thus, we are so thankful to our knowledgeable and experienced guests – Rav Eisenstein, Elana Mizrahi, and Devorah Weiss – and their valuable advice.
[00:25] The first 3 episodes – what we learned
[01:00] Our children owe us nothing – our job is to plant seeds
[03:48] Practical example of good parental behavior
[05:22] Adolescence is much longer than it used to be
[06:12] How to help a child become more mature
[08:30] The importance of self-awareness and self-care
[12:01] Safety requires boundaries
[16:30] Respect your child as a piece of God
[18:00] Children are not to be controlled but respected
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What is control? How does it effect our relationship with our children, and especially our teens? Today we have the great pleasure to talk to Mrs. Devorah Weiss, a social worker and a certified parent and teen coach, who mostly works with parents of challenging teens, and answers these questions and much more. She is a wealth of knowledge and useful information that can help parents on their parenting journey.
Parents are often unaware that their behaviors are controlling and have very bad impact on their children. All parents should ask themselves if their behaviors put them closer to their children or further away from them?
Is it better to be right or to be connected? What is the true role of a parent? What is respect and how do we show it? Mrs. Devorah Weiss is here to answer all these and many more questions and teach us how to establish meaningful, loving relationships with our kids.
[00:00] Introduction
[01:48] Having control and controlling behaviors
[06:40] What impact do controlling behaviors have on children
[10:44] The role of a parent in different stages of children’s lives
[14:40] Healthy, loving relationship produces good behavior in children
[19:37] Parents are hurting their kid without realizing it
[23:03] What do our kids need the most?
[26:08] What is respect and how to show respect?
[40:03] Listen to your children and understand them
[46:04] What to do to repair your relationship with children
[51:26] Religion – give example and love your kids no matter what
[54:33] Wrapping-up
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Welcome back to another episode! We are so excited to talk to Elana Mizrahi, who is, among other things, a great parenting coach.
We’ll hear her advice on how to practically build a good and healthy relationship with your child, from early age to teenage years, how to create the atmosphere of availability, and how to discipline without damaging the relationship.
We will learn specific rituals to create that relationship, and what real respect means. We will learn about the importance of self-awareness, constant interaction, respect and acceptance. Learn more about Elana at https://www.elanamizrahi.com/
2:03 What does a healthy relationship with one’s child look like?
4:41 The importance of spending time with your child.
7:30 How to build a relationship with your kids.
16:43 Rituals and rituals for building a strong parent-child relationship.
19:52 The importance of self-awareness in a relationship.
25:51 How to maintain a relationship with your child when you’re disciplining.
30:08 The best way to formulate a value.
33:37 What does respect mean to a child?
36:59 Being curious is also a sign of respect.
42:48 How do you maximize the time spent with your child?
46:11 How does one build a close relationship with your kids?
49:10 How my mother-in-law taught me how not to stop everything.
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What does it mean to be fair, firm and friendly when it comes to parenting? How do we deal with adolescents who are pulling away? Today we have a great pleasure to talk to Rav Eisenstein and hear his profound thoughts on these topics and much more as we focus on raising our Jews Next Dor. For this first topic of a parent's hierarchy of needs, we’ll address the foundation of parenting, the relationship with one's child, focusing on the basics of of how to build strong and meaningful relationships with our children.
Deep relationships need to be nurtured and developed with love and patience without expecting anything in return. Rav Eisenstein will share his experience and vast knowledge about building good relationships with children from the time they are very young, through their turbulent teen years, and when they are adults.
[01:48] Why is it important to have strong relationship with a child
[08:15] Two forms of parenting – planting and building
[10:45] Essential things for building a good relationship with a child
[18:55] Children need to know that parents are there for them
[20:55] Parents need to provide stability, standards and sense of direction
[23:40] Can discipline hurt our relationship with a child
[27:13] How to build a meaningful relationship with a younger child
[38:25] How to maintain a relationship with pre-teens and teens
[43:00] How not to overburden child with your personal beliefs
[47:50] How does a relationship evolve when a child is an adult
[50:28] A relationship with a child of the opposite gender
[56:00] Final words
Rav Chaim Eisenstein is a popular rebbe in the Grus Smicha program, a Rabbi in Ramat Beit Shemesh, and sought after speaker.
View his shiurim here - https://www.yutorah.org/rabbi-chaim-eisenstein/
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Welcome to the Jews Next Dor podcast, the Jewish parenting podcast focused on helping parents to raise passionate and committed Jews.
In general, parenting can be challenging, and children don’t come with an operating manual. This challenge is magnified when adding our Jewish values of raising children to be passionate and committed about being Jewish, about developing a relationship with Hashem. In order to tackle this challenge, we need to make sure we as parents are prepared to handle each level of our children’s hierarchy of needs to enable our children to become passionate and committed Jews. As such, we will begin at the most basic level of parenting, and build on that, month after month, with weekly episodes, learning from leading experts of our dor, our generation, about raising the Jews next dor, the Jews of the next generation. We will start each month with the basics of the topic, move on to practical application of the advice, and finish with intervention - what to do when the basics and practical advice is not working.
My name is Rabbi Yair Menchel. I am an educator, a parent of young children and a parenting coach who is trained in the Guiding Good Choices parenting method, which is a research based curriculum for parenting developed by the University of Washington with years of proven success, and I look forward to learning together with you how we can best parent our children, to take care of the whole child, and each child, and to help guide them in their journey of their relationship with Hashem.
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