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Are you sick of the lies that Satan constantly tries to feed you? The constant pressure of everything around us? Because same! I know what that's like to live in a world that expects so much of us. To live in a world that is anything but Jesus loving. The Bearing Fruit podcast is a weekly devotional for those who need the guidance to sustain a beautiful relationship with him. A fruitful one. This podcast is for those who want to understand the word, and to be a living example of Jesus' disciples. To live as not how the world tells us to live, but to live fiercely like the King's child.
Hi guys, welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast.
In this week's episode, we dive deep into the difference between seeking God's hand (His blessings, provision, and intervention) versus seeking His face (His presence, relationship, and intimate fellowship). Are we focused more on what God can give us, or are we truly pursuing a deeper connection with who He is?
Together, we’ll reflect on what it truly means to desire God’s presence over His provision, and how easy it is to slip into a faith built on asking rather than adoring. It’s a heart-check for every believer—a call to return to the simple, pure pursuit of knowing God for who He is, not just what He gives.
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Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this episode we discuss the first and one of the oldest tactics of the enemy and how he attacks. We’ve all heard that little whisper in our minds: “Did God really say that?” It’s the same question the serpent asked Eve in the garden, and it’s still one of the enemy’s favorite tricks today.
In this episode, we’re unpacking how doubt sneaks into our lives, how culture twists God’s Word, and why it’s so important to actually know what He’s said. We’ll talk about how Jesus responded when He was tempted, and how we can do the same when lies try to creep in.
If you’ve ever found yourself second-guessing what God has promised or wondering if His Word really applies to your situation, this one’s for you.
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Welcome Back and Happy Podcast Week! In this week's episode we dive into the powerful reality that our tears are never wasted. Too often, we view our pain and sorrow as signs of defeat—but what if they are the very tools God uses to shape us? Our tears, whether from heartbreak, frustration, or joy, are never overlooked by God. In fact, they become a part of His redemptive work in the world. We explore how God’s hands are actively at work in the midst of our vulnerability, crafting something beautiful and purposeful from what feels like loss.
Let's unpack how God meets us in our brokenness and how, even in our weakest moments, His hands are still working. It’s time to let our tears become part of the bigger picture He’s painting in our lives.
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Happy Podcast Week!! In this episode, we dive deep into the small, subtle sins that have slipped under the radar of our daily lives. From the seemingly harmless habits to the cultural norms we've become numb to, we explore how these "hidden" behaviors shape our society, relationships, and even our own self-awareness. Are we so used to these sins that they've lost their sting? Or is there more lurking in the background than we care to admit?
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode, we discuss how the enemy isn’t intimidated by your enthusiasm or momentary zeal, but by your unwavering commitment to follow God’s call. The devil trembles when we remain steadfast, even in the face of challenges. True faith isn’t just about starting strong—it’s about finishing well.
The passion alone isn't enough. It’s easy to get fired up, but the real power comes when you choose to remain faithful, day after day, even when the flames of fire go out. The devil trembles when he sees you choosing obedience over feelings, consistency over comfort, and faithfulness over fleeting emotion.
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Welcome back to The Bearing Fruit podcast.
I’m so glad to be back officially, and I truly can’t wait to see what the Lord has in store for the podcast this year. To start things off, I felt the Lord impress this specific topic on my heart to share with you.
In today’s episode, we’re diving into a tension many believers wrestle with—waiting on God vs. getting stuck in the wait. There is such a beauty in stillness before the Lord, but what happens when that waiting turns into fear, complacency, or spiritual paralysis?
The truth is, God never calls us to wait so we can stay stagnant. His pauses always have purpose—but they’re also meant to prepare us for movement. Sometimes we stay planted in soil we’ve long outgrown, mistaking inaction for obedience.
Let’s talk about what it really looks like to wait well, and to grow in the waiting,
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Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode we dive deeper into what it means to suffer as a Christian - more importantly why it is necessary to suffer. I think I can speak for everyone when I say that suffering can be extremely uncomfortable and painful. But in today's episode, we look at what the scripture says about suffering, why suffering is seen as a gift, and how we can steward our seasons of suffering well. There is no victory without a battle!
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode we talk about the dangers of placing our faith in fear and how easily fear can entangle our life when we are vulnerable to the enemy. I pray that this episode blesses you and encourages you to use the greatest weapon that the Lord has given us to combat fear - The Living Word of God.
Happy Podcast Day and Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. Join me in this week's episode as we meditate on one of the most incredible stories in The Bible where we witness God's command to Abraham, contradicting the promise that He gave. What happens when what God has asked you to do doesn't directly correlate in receiving the promise He spoke to you? Do you have enough faith in the Lord to trust His intentions? Do you trust His character? Are you familiar with the heart of God? Is His promise enough to obey His command?
Welcome back and Happy Podcast Day!! We are back and I couldn't be more excited to get back to uploading again. I thought before we get back to regular programming, I would share what the last few months have been like for me - specifically what God has been teaching me. I can't wait to see what God has in store for this podcast. I love you guys so much and I hope you enjoy me yapping for 25 mins.
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast; I'm so happy to be back. For this week's episode we have another highly requested red flags episode. I asked you guys over on the bearingfruitpod instagram and you guys sent in your red flags when dating as a Christian. If you enjoy episodes such as these, make sure you are following the podcast on this platform so that you don't miss out when the next episode goes live.
Hello beautiful people, and happy podcast day. You guys, I'm so incredibly excited about today's episode as we have a very special guest joining us. We have my bible baddie Ms Emma joining me on the podcast for the first time where she shares her incredible testimony of how she found God in the pits of hell. One thing about Emma is that she does not shy away from her experiences and what has led her now to her walk with God. We talk all things life before Christ, rejection faced by men, forgiveness, life after finding Jesus and more. If you enjoy episodes such as these, make sure you are following the podcast so that you don't miss out on any future content with future guests. But until then, get ready because the Holy Spirit cooked.
Welcome back Bearing Fruit family! Happy Monday and I hope you’re ready for this week’s episode. I didn’t upload an episode last week and so I share in this week’s episode on what’s been going on, the current season I’ve been placed in, and just have an honest and raw conversation with you. I know how challenging waiting on God can be, and so I hope that this conversation and vulnerability can help encourage someone during this season of waiting. If you need prayer during your waiting season, or if you yourself is struggling to trust God with something in particular, please feel free to send me a DM on the bearing fruit podcast instagram @bearingfruitpod. I love you guys and appreciate you all so very much.
Welcome back Bearing Fruit family! Happy Monday and I hope you’re ready for this week’s episode because it’s quite a convicting one! In this week’s episode, I share what we as Christ followers are called to do, and that’s to love our neighbour - not just our Christian neighbour, but more specifically, the neighbour who we may strongly dislike. Jesus emulates love and when he was on this earth, he emulated pure humility and compassion to his enemies. This week, I share why it is important to wash the feet of our enemies and how that can not only change their heart, but yours too.
Join me in this week’s episode, and let’s be set apart from this world that calls us to only love those who love us.
I’m back!! Welcome back to the Bearing Fruit podcast you guys! It’s been a minute and I’ve honestly missed you guys so much - I’m so happy to back!! To get back into the year, I thought this would be a really fitting episode to jump back in with! In this week’s episode, we get into how exactly we can fall in love with Jesus, especially in 2024. 2024 is the year of falling in love with him. And I can say that after trying out these ways of getting to know him on an intimate level, I definitely have become more obsessed with Jesus and so hungry for him. I also for the first time, share with you a challenge that I personally created, with some way personable ways to fall in love with Jesus. Basically, this is my version of the 75 Hard Challenge, and I guarantee you that by the end of the 75 days, you and Jesus are going to be on a whole new level of bestfriends! These ways are some of which that have truly strengthened my relationship, especially in the last couple of months and I can't recommend them enough.
This is a long episode so get cozy and let’s dive straight in❤️
Thank you Jesus for the most incredible year, and thank YOU for being an amazing supporter and listener of this podcast.
I'm so excited to see all that the Lord continues to do on here. But for now, I hope you have the best Christmas and I will see you in 2024💗
Welcome back and Happy Podcast Day!!! I'm so excited for this week's episode as I have finally got our very first guest and my younger brother Robin on the show. Robin shares his non-linear journey with his faith and his battle with depression. He shares his first experience encountering depressive thoughts and moods, and how he went from hating God and embodying evil, to then later finding God's indescribable peace. Although this episode is a long one, I hope Robin's testimony will at least touch one person's heart. I hope you know that you are never too far into your pain, sin or unbelief for God to pull you out of the rubble.
I do also want to share a disclaimer on this episode that we will be talking about mental health and suicide.
If you are struggling, please do not face your battles alone. Please reach out to someone to either pray for you, or for someone to seek help on your behalf.
Believer or not, I hope you know how much Jesus loves you❤️
Welcome back to another week of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode, we get deep into the topic of Spiritual Warfare. More specifically, I share my most recent experience with battling spiritual warfare; especially what that can often look like for some people, and how I overcome the attack of the enemy. I hope this episode will help at least one person in recognising the war that occurs in the spiritual realm, and to bring light to the armour you need to protect yourself with when stepping foot on the battlefield.
Happy Monday and Welcome back! We've got a brand new episode that is out now, where we get into some Green Flags people sent in when dating as a Christian. You guys loved the Red Flags episode which made me so happy, and I got a few requests to do a Green Flags episode, so here it is! Thank you to all those who sent in your Green Flags; I loved reading them, and I hope everyone that tunes in can add one of these Green Flags onto their list of non-negotiables when dating as a Christian. If you guys would like a part 2 on either the Red Flags, Green Flags, or both, please do let me know, and I would be happy to do one. Other than that, grab a drink, sit back and relax, and I hope you enjoy💘
Hi everyone, and welcome back, or welcome to, the Bearing Fruit podcast. On this week's episode, we talk about how often as human beings, our feelings can play a role in our thoughts, words and deeds. But more specifically, how many of these thoughts, words and deeds, lead us straight to sin. Feelings are a beautiful gift from God. We are created as human beings who get to feel the same emotions Jesus himself once felt, and should never hinder, suppress, or reject this gift. However, sin can slowly make it's way when we act on feelings that cloud our judgement, or make us feel good temporarily. Personally, being a part of the mental health profession, it pains me to see the negative connotation that expressing your feelings can have. However, it pains me even more to see people react without a second thought, using their feelings as the basis of their actions. Walking by faith in-spite of my feelings, is something that has immensely shifted not only my perspective, but created such resilience in me that will not waiver. It's not easy placing faith before feelings, especially as reactive and subjective human beings, but, practicing this throughout my walk with Christ, has allowed me to face any challenge I am faced with, without any doubt that God will come through. Because if it's not good, then he's not finished.
Hi and welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast!
This week I wanted to do a bit more of a light-hearted episode. So naturally, I asked you guys on Insta stories a few days ago on what your red flags are when dating as a Christian, and boy did you have some good responses - we get deep into it! Thank you for being so passionate about the Lord and not being afraid to speak up. I think when you get into a relationship, it’s so easy to neglect your relationship with THE LORD, so I love that these red flags run true for you, and you are able to discern what it is that you will, and will not stand for!
I truly enjoyed this episode, and I hope you do too. If so, please let me know if you would like to see a Part 2, or an episode on the Green Flags.
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast.
In this week’s episode we talk about the war within - the flesh vs. the spirit. A lot of people assume that when you start to give your life to Christ, life becomes “easier”; everything settles, and it’s all sunshine and roses. So when they don’t expect the war that begins when they give their life to Christ, they begin to blame God. You guys, let me make this as clear as it can possibly be. When you give your life to Christ, the enemy works overtime to ruin your life. The war within is a spiritual war that attacks your spirit, but feeds your flesh. When you live as the world lives, you feed your flesh, meaning your spirit already lies with the enemy, so your flesh no longer is in conflict with the spirit.
However, when you give your spirit to Jesus, the flesh begins to fight. It tries to win every battle. However, scripture says, if you walk by the spirit, you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. It doesn't say you will never experience the desires of the flesh - but "gratify" the desires of the flesh.
How about we get straight into this week's topic, as there is so much to unpack. Join me as I share more on this spiritual and never-ending war within.
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast! I missed you guys last week, and sorry for not uploading an episode.
In this week’s episode, prepare to get uncomfortable. I love talking about topics that make our flesh uncomfortable, because it means that we are on the right path to keeping our spirit pure. This week, we are going to be talking about taming the tongue. I didn’t realise how many verses and mentions there are in the Bible about the power of the tongue. Our tongue has the power to either speak life or death, and it’s so wild to see that this generation say whatever they want, whenever they want, and however they want without considering what they are actual speaking over themselves, or others. Don’t get me wrong, I still very much struggle with what I allow my mouth to speak over, however, I am nowhere near what I used to say and do. This topic is one I wish our Church placed an emphasis over, as Proverbs 12:18 says “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.” Join me in this week’s episode, as we learn about the power of our tongue, and the dangers of using it foolishly.
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week’s episode, I had asked the followers of the podcast instagram page, to provide me with any questions they wanted ask relating to any topic at hand. In this episode, I answer questions regarding re-incarnation, favourite worship/christian artists, the significance of heaven and hell, and more. I really enjoy doing Q&A’s as it allows me to share my insight into any topic or question that you may want an extra understanding/opinion on. Thank you guys for asking these questions, and if you’d like to ask any questions for any future Q&A’s, please do let me know. Aside from that, my DM’s are always open for a chat or a prayer request. I love you guys, and thank you for supporting this podcast!
Happy Monday and Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode, we are going to be talking about inviting Jesus into our mundane. We all have gaps in between our celebratory, busy, and exciting daily lives that are deemed as the mundane. And 9 times out of 10, we just power through the mundane - sometimes with deep misery or even discontentment, and completely forget to invite Jesus into those gaps. In this week’s episode I share how I have recently got into the habit of inviting Jesus into each mundane task of mine and my goodness has it just elevated all that I do (even washing dishes…I know). This is a great habit to start practicing, as it really strengthens your bond with him and most of all, he longs to be invited into every aspect of our lives. He’s our bestfriend and father, so obviously he’s going to want to be involved and immersed in all that we have to do, even if it seems mundane to us. I hope this episode can shift your perspective and I hope Jesus gets a front row seat in all that you do.
Happy Monday and welcome back to the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode, we are going to be breaking down some of the works of the devil, and what that actually entails. As much as this is not a common topic of conversation within the church, I believe it is so important to distinguish the works of the evil one and what is actually from the Lord. As the world spins, darkness becomes greater than ever before, which is why I believe when we are able to gain an understanding of these works, we are able to use discernment where necessary. I share the most common known works of the devil that the Bible highlights, what these look like in today's world, as well as how this world is now saved from these works, should we use to apply this form of salvation. This episode is not one that goes into specific detail of each and every work of the devil, however, I share my own take of how I see the works of the devil woven into today's world, and what the enemy's main motive is for humanity.
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. This week we are going to be talking about the joy of being single. Yes, that’s right, joy!! Society deems singleness to be this lonely, isolating, boring and unhappy season of life. When in actuality, it’s this beautiful, freeing, joyous and exciting season of life. A season you get to grow in your personal relationship with God, a season where you get to learn more about yourself and about what you want in a life partner, and a season that builds you into be an individual who’s not scared or uncomfortable in asking for what they want. Whether it be the pressures of friends, family, culture, or social media, just know that your singleness is a season of life God gets to create the most beautiful version of you. Don’t hurry that process up because often times you can miss out on this beautiful gift. Todays episode is a long one, so strap in, and I hope you can take comfort in knowing that if you are single, THIS IS YOUR TIME!
Happy Monday and welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode we talk about the importance of surrounding yourselves with good people - and not just good people, but kingdom-minded people. People who chase you towards the kingdom, people who pray over you, people who boost your faith, people who fast for you and encourage you with scripture, people who love the Lord with all their heart, people who are true representatives of Christ... As important as it is to be kind, loving and of service to everyone, just as Jesus was - no matter their beliefs, it is equally as important to recognise who you invest your time and energy into. The older I have gotten, the more intentional I have become in who I share my company with. Although Paul warns the people of Corinth with this specific verse; bad company does corrupt good morals to this day, due to the fact that we still live in a fallen world. Join me as we talk about this verse from Paul, how bad fruit can ruin the whole branch, and the importance of having friends who are on fire for the Lord.
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode, we talk about how as Christians, we tend to become so comfortable in waiting on God - not all of the time of course, but we can get too comfortable and say "oh it's a part of God's plan, just waiting on him...". All of that might be true, but what if you've become too comfortable on waiting on God to make his move, that you totally miss out on God waiting on you. Your relationship with God should be this beautiful friendship and partnership. He will most definitely have the best plan for you, but what if there are times in your life that he has supplied all these resources for you to make your move, and you totally miss this incredible window of opportunity. Join me as I share my own experience of what this has looked like for me personally, and more specifically how to discern what is from God, and what is our voice in our head making decisions based on our own emotions and feelings.
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode we are going to be talking about the treacherous storms we go through in life, and how often times we feel as though Jesus is absent through these storms. I know for myself personally, I have questioned why God has allowed these hardships in my life, I have questioned whether anything good will even come out of this painful experience, and I have even at times, questioned if God is even real. The truth is, in hindsight, we understand why we go through certain trials, but what happens when you're going through a storm in the moment and you are on the verge of giving up all hope. In this episode, I share a story of an incredible man named Job in the Bible, who went through his very own storm, and I share the importance of keeping your eyes fixed on the Lord during these storms, because if we do even for a moment remove our eyes from the Lord, we could get swept away.
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode, we are going to be discussing anxiety, specifically, the root of anxiety and who exactly runs with it, what anxiety if not treated biblically, can do, my own experience of anxiety, what the Bible says about anxiety, and how to best treat these anxious thoughts. I have always wanted to speak on this topic, but I knew the Lord had to work in me first before I share my own take on this. I feel so blessed to know that I am delivered from something that had me on a chokehold for nearly a decade and now bows down to the creator of the universe. I know personally the stronghold anxiety can have on someone, which is why I believe that it is so important to tackle this struggle from the root and not just superficially. This is going to be a long one, so I hope you enjoy this episode and you are able to take away some form of Biblical wisdom that can aid you in tackling anxiety. If you would like me to pray for you, or if you have any thoughts you would like to share, please do send me a DM on the podcast instagram page.
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode, I share the cruel toxicity of hustle culture - a culture that has become so normalised and encouraged in today's society. The enemy is quick to shame you and guilt trip you if you don't have 15 things on your plate. If you're not doing enough, then you're not enough. These lies have controlled us for so long, that often times we do feel guilty if we take the day to rest and rejuvienate. But in this week's episode, I share the severe dangers of this toxic hustle culture, and the need for us human beings to always feel like we have to be doing something in order to be fulfilled. Although this culture may be dangerous, this does not mean we sit around and do nothing with this God given life. Have goals, chase your dreams, create your aspirations, and be driven in all that you do, but also, do not neglect the rest that our very own God modelled for us on the 7th day of creation. Join me as we dig deeper into this hustle culture, and why our bodies, minds, and souls so desperately need the rest.
Hello and Welcome back to another week of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode we are going to be talking about manifestation and whether or not manifesting is a sin? To back up the conclusive findings of this episode, I seek wisdom from the Bible, as well as look deep into what it actually means to manifest something into existence. I share some concepts as to why manifestation goes heavily against Christianity and why this new aged belief goes against everything that the Lord calls us to do as Christians. It was not until a few years ago that I had come to realise the significance of this sin, and how easily it had creeped up in our current generation. Manifestation has now become not only popular, but normalised to the point where it blatantly disrespects our God. Join me in this week's episode, as I share why I strongly believe manifestation is a sin.
Happy Monday and Welcome to another week of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In light of Easter season, in this week's episode, we are going to be talking about the incredible price that Jesus paid for us on that cross. I know we all know the story of Jesus' death, so I'm not going to recount it for you, however, I am going to be talking about the significance of this death. This price, that was an overpayment, is the only reason you and I have a chance to enter the gates of heaven. This price, that no gold or silver could buy, is the reason why death was defeated. This price, that cost Jesus his life, is the reason why the devil is working overtime to steal souls. Do not let this free gift be thrown in the wind. He died for you, knowing all the sins you were and are going to commit, yet, he still chose to lay down his life for you. He chose to free you from the bondage of sin so that you may have the chance to spend life after death with him. Join me in this week's episode as we talk about this beautiful, irreplaceable, and incomparable price.
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast! Thank you so much for joining me for yet another week!
In this week’s episode, we are going to be talking about chronic complaining. Are you a chronic complainer? I’m not talking about the occasional complaining and grumbling, I’m talking about constant, daily complaining. In this episode I share the incredible dangers of complaining, including what it does to our spirit, our faith and our brain. As Christians we are called to represent Jesus in all that we do, and I don't think he complained even once, because he was perfect and lived a sinless life. We will never be perfect, but, we also don't want to be giving Satan the satisfaction of hearing us be miserable and bitter about our circumstances. Instead of complaining, let's practice gratitude. Instead of grumbling, let's practice living content.
Join me in this episode as I share how I turning my complaining into gratitude, and why chronic complaining can determine every choice you make in the future.
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit Podcast. This week’s episode is a super long Q&A whoops… I just love to talk. But I have been wanting to upload a Q&A to answer any questions you may have about me, the podcast, or anything really. I had asked you over on the Bearing Fruit pod instagram page and it was so much fun to answer these questions. Some of the questions I answer include, how I began this podcast, thoughts on Grammy’s, tips on how to get back on your journey with God, Asbury revival + more.
If you have any questions you would like me to answer, please let me know and I can answer them in a future Q&A episode. I love you guys, thank you for supporting this podcast, and for giving me the space to share my love of Jesus with you.
Happy Monday and Happy Podcast day! Welcome back to another week! In this week’s episode we are going to be talking about a Monday Morning Faith. What this essentially means is, we as believers are so notorious to be this Jesus loving Christian on a Sunday, but when it comes to a Wednesday, we are ready to let rage take over, pride take over, and we are ready to question God. On a Sunday, why are we so good to keep the faith?? Why don’t we allow this faith to carry on throughout our Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday? You guys, we need to be fully armoured all throughout the week…not just a Sunday. It’s not hard to attend church, be holy, be loving, kind, and selfless on a Sunday. What’s hard is maintaining this every single day. Are you a believer who represents Jesus every single day, or are you a believer who wears two masks throughout the week? Join me in this week’s episode as I share the importance of keeping the faith during the week and what can happen if we don’t. Remember you guys “Hell’s not scared of a Sunday faith, if it only leads to an empty praise.”
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In this week's episode we talk about the importance of aligning our desires with the Lord. It's easy to just read the Bible and think we know what the Lord wants for our life, but if you are not actively asking the Lord, or if you are not actively telling the Lord that you want your desire to align with his, that's when we can fall into the trap of the enemy. One of the enemy's biggest mind-games, is convincing us that this what the Lord wants for us. And there have been times in my life where I have fell for that lie, and the reason I have felt for it, is because I myself have never actually asked the Lord what HE wants for my life. It can be as simple as making an easy decision, or as simple as everyday tasks. But if we are not living in alignment with God's desires for our life, we can fall into the traps of the enemy. Join me in this week's episode as we talk about what it means to let your desire be one with his.
Welcome back and Happy 2023! Ahhhh it feels so good to be back! I hope everyone had a restful Christmas break! In this week's episode and the 1st episode of 2023, I give you guys a little update on my hiatus and what I envision for the Bearing Fruit podcast in 2023. Inclusive of that, we also discuss what it means to let go and let God. Specifically, the struggles of letting go, and why we don't want to let go, but how we want to let God do his thing in our lives. I share my very own experience of letting go and letting God, and share some reasons as to why you may be feeling hesitant to give the author of our lives, his pen back. I hope that this episode can help you understand that you need to allow God to take control of the wheel more often. I know it's easier said than done, but I want to encourage you that it is possible. And once you do, chains will be broken and the load becomes a lot lighter.
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast! Today's episode dives into how we as Christians should handle offensive comments. Because not everyone is going to like us in this world, not everyone will say something kind, and not everyone cares about our feelings...so how should we respond? How do we as Christians not strike back, but also not give the enemy the power to offend us. One thing I wish I told my younger self was that, hurt people hurt people, and most of the time, offensive comments that are made at you has more to do with the person who said it, than you. Join me in this week's episode as I share my experience of offence and what perspective has helped me, as a representative of Jesus.
Growing in our faith includes asking God the tough questions. Including the why's however, there is a fine line between asking the Lord questions, and insisting on answers. Most of the time, we are so eager to ask God "why is this happening" or "why did you remove these people out of my life" or "why did I have such a bad day" or "why is there so much injustice in this world"...I mean the list is never-ending. And it is okay to ask the Lord these questions, but, you have to be careful as to whether these questions will push you closer to God, or drive you away from him. Join me in this week's episode for a very raw and open conversation, as we discuss what questions we can substitute for the "why", and how that will change your mindset on life lessons completely.
Welcome back to a new episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast! In this week's episode, we are going to be talking all about self-confidence and how you can live a confident life whilst remaining as humble as Jesus. The beauty of living a confident life as a Christian, is knowing that you don't need to look a certain way, or hold a certain qualification, or talk a certain way to be confident.... you are already perfectly made to fulfil your purpose. You are the child of God, meaning, you already have everything you need to live a confident life. You are an heir to the King... you are royalty, so start acting like it! Join me in this week's episode as we discuss what it means to be a confident Christian, and how to fake it till you make it!
Welcome back to another episode of the Bearing Fruit podcast! This week, we are going to be talking about heartbreak and the excruciating pain that comes with that. You see, the sad part of heartbreak is that it is inevitable. We have or are going to experience it eventually, but how do you actually deal with it? I mean, is there a way to deal with a broken heart? Does time actually heal everything? I guess time gives you the space to recover but do you truly heal? Well, the most incredible aspect of heartbreak for us Christians is that, Jesus went through the very same pain. He experienced rejection, betrayal in its worst forms, neglect, sorrow, grief...I mean he wept when he lost his friend. And on the other side of this pain, the very same God has promised us comfort. He has promised us safety, reassurance, warmth, love and compassion. Join me in a very raw and fragile conversation about heartbreak, and see what the Lord says about it all.
Welcome back to another episode. This week we are going to be talking about what it means to live free. I'm not just talking about temporary and worldly free living. I'm talking about experiencing true and pure freedom. I always thought that Christians never experienced freedom due to the amount of do's and don't's that are prefaced in the Bible. But boy was I wrong. Since following Christ, I finally understood what the term "freedom" meant. I experience this euphoric feeling everyday knowing that Jesus has already paid it all. He set me free. Join me in today's episode as I share some beautiful ways in which I have been set free, and what it means to live freely. There's no better feeling than realising that Jesus has already gone through it all to set you free from whatever may be currently holding you bondage.
Welcome back to this week's episode! Today we are going to be talking about the emotional and physical exhaustion we feel when we have reached that point of weariness. Have you ever prayed for something that God is still yet to answer? Or asked God why this keeps happening to you? Or felt like you are just constantly tired of the world's demands? If so, who or what is your first point of contact when you do feel this way? What is that helps you to sooth your cries and exhaustion? You see, so often we let the Lord become our last resort. We end up struggling with this feeling of tiredness for months due to the fact that we lean on worldly desires for temporary fixes. But do you know that the Lord wants you to come to him when you are weak and weary, because he has promised to give you rest?! Tune in to this week's episode as I share the weight of these feelings of drainage and exhaustion, and what it is that helps me during these times.
Negative thoughts… oh geez! This is definitely something that I can attest to, and something that I am well aware everyone struggles with. Negative thinking patterns are so difficult to combat and overcome because of how second nature it is. We were raised and continue to live in a sinful and destructive world, so it’s no surprise that are minds come up with these disparaging thoughts, which we later believe. In this week’s episode, I share some common negative thought patterns that we struggle with, and what we ourselves can do to overcome it. To understand our negative thoughts, we need to identify it. Once identified, we need to trace back our steps and discover what it was that influenced or fed that negative thought. And once we recognise the harmful influences in our life, we take it captive with the word of God.
Welcome back to another week of the Bearing Fruit podcast. In today’s episode, I bounce of my last episode and share some daily habits, tips and tricks that I implement in my daily life for me to be able to maintain and strengthen my relationship with the Lord. It’s one thing to start a relationship with the Lord, but it’s another to really sustain and water that relationship in order for it to flourish and grow. It’s important with any other relationship in your life, to nurture your personal relationship with the Lord. You don’t need to be a perfect and whole person to have this beautiful relationship with the Lord. He just wants you to come as you are, and that has really helped me to put things into perspective and motivates me to better my connection with him. Join me in this week’s episode, as I share some useful daily habits that I have implemented in my daily life that has helped me immensely, to grow my relationship with God.
For so long I grew up with Christianity being the back bone of my life. However, I didn't actually begin my relationship with the Lord until I turned 21. I think it's very important for me as a podcaster, someone who every week shares experiences and talks about real life troubles, to also share why I believe what I believe. I don't want to come across as someone who is perfect or someone who has always followed the Lord. I want to have a raw and open conversation as to why I speak on the topics I speak on, and why I chose to follow Christ in the first place. I know at least for me, if there was someone sharing advice and providing guidance for tough seasons, I would want to know why they believe what they believe in the first place. So if you know me personally, or you just listen to my podcast, I want you to know my origin story. Because it wasn't all sunshine and rainbows. Although this is far from a testimony, which I may share one day, I just want to share with you why I believe in Christ.
Welcome back to this week’s episode! This week, we are going to be talking about pain…. Yuck! I know! But what if I told you that there was actually purpose behind your pain?… Yep, that’s right! There is in fact a purpose behind those painful experiences you have been through and you continue to go through. In this episode, we look to what James says about trying times and how those painful experiences heightens your senses, and how you eventually have a greater awareness of gratitude and hope. There is so much that pain teaches you, and we are going to be discussing a few key elements that can actually be used as a valuable asset. I personally am so grateful for ALL of my painful experiences and would never regret going through them. Every time it teaches me something new, most of the time the pain actually protects me, and best of all, I end up realising how strong I actually am!
Happy Bearing Fruit Day! In this week's episode, we talk about the beautiful and divine gift that is grace. I share the meaning of divine grace, what the Lord requires of you for you to be able to receive that grace, and how exactly you can receive that grace. Grace is a beautiful and unconditional love that has no limits, and one we are so undeserving of. Without grace, we wouldn't be where we are. Because of the Lord's mercy, we are given another chance. It's time for you and I to get back to grace my friends. Join me in a very chaotic but meaningful episode where we talk about this beautiful thing called grace.
Are you a people-pleaser who is constantly drained by trying to seek constant validation and approval from human beings? Well, I used to live that life and boy was it a very sad one! I was the ultimate people-pleaser who would do anything to gain praise and approval from others at the expense of my own happiness, beliefs, values and morals. I would do anything people asked me to because if it made them happy, then I guess I was too? Well, that couldn't be further from the truth. I gave up the people-pleaser life a year ago and oh my goodness did my world just turn upside down! A lot of people weren't used to me standing up for what I believed in. In-fact, they probably had never heard me say no ever, and boy did it ruffle some feathers. But the moment I stopped seeking validation and approval from human beings, who might I add are literal dust, and started to seek approval and was only interested in pleasing the Lord, I attained this new found level of freedom that I had never in my life experienced before. Sure, I might have lost some people along the way, lost some respect from strangers but I am not about to live the one life God gave me to pursue approval from the world. If you are on the same boat, I want you to know that it is so normal to feel this way, but also that it is totally possible to break free from the bondage of people-pleasing. Join me in this week's episode to hear a few of my experiences and what it did for me, as well as what the Bible has to say about the dangers of people-pleasing.
Welcome back to this week's episode where we discuss this crippling fear, also known as Imposter Syndrome? I'm sure every one of you at some point in your life, have felt this anxiety or have gone through this psychological thought process of unworthiness, or inadequacy despite our successful abilities. This crippling fear that feeds you lies of your incompetence, if you're not careful, can run your lives and dictate your future. Many of us due to Imposter Syndrome, fail to chase our dreams and follow our goals. In this week's episode, I share with you the Lord's antidote to this fear. We also reflect on a famous story in the Bible, where we witness one of Jesus' disciples also being struck with Imposter Syndrome. I also share with you some of my own personal experiences and what could have come of it, had I listened to the enemy's lies.
When someone does us wrong, our immediate innate and human response is to play tit for tat by either holding a grudge or treating them back just as they treated us. How then, do we follow the goodness of God if we can’t even bless our enemies? Blessing our enemies doesn't necessarily mean that we are asking the Lord to bless them with a new car, or a new job... but instead blessing our enemies can involve the hand of the Lord on them opening their eyes to the wrong they did us. Blessing our enemies therefore, allows a way for the Lord to work. If we were to right our wrongs ourselves, we will end up living miserable lives. After all, the Lord has said that vengeance is his and he will repay. So let's our do our part by blessing our enemies and showing them the love of Jesus through us. It's definitely not easy, but the Lord has instructed us his children, to overcome evil with good. So lets trust that he will give us the strength to bless and love our enemies.
He is not here, he is risen! What exciting news for us Christians! Jesus' resurrection is proof that death is not the end for us. There is life beyond death and the resurrection of Jesus had to occur to fulfil this prophecy. In this week's episode, we discuss the importance of this incredible event that took place following the crucifixion of Christ. Jesus' death washed us of our sins, but his death would have meant nothing if he remained dead. His death played an integral role in the resurrection and it is because of his resurrection we can live hopeful. God planned this perfectly. As we grieved the death of our saviour on Good Friday, the stone was being rolled away on Easter Sunday. Jesus is well and truly alive, and because he lives, we are free.
As we enter the week of Good Friday and Easter, we remember the most beautiful, most greatest sacrificial love, the death of Jesus. In this week's episode, we reflect on this amazing and life-saving event that occurred, just so that you and I could be saved. We reflect on this victory that occurred when Jesus the Son of Man defeated death. Although this was a powerful and life-saving death, we can't forget the pain and the suffering that Jesus took upon that cross for our sake. He bore the pain of the whole entire world just so that we can be free from sin and damnation. Join me on this week's second episode of the Easter series as we discuss this life-changing event that a sinless and perfect man took upon himself. He died so that we may live.
Temptation is one of the hardest struggles that mankind faces. Temptation when succumbed to, leads us to sin that corrupts our world, giving the enemy exactly what he wants. This week’s episode is our first Easter episode, and we discuss the story of Jesus who too was also tempted by the devil. We dissect what it means to be tempted and the nature of temptation. It’s so easy for the enemy to tempt us when we are at our weakest, which is why it is so important to have the Lord by your side during those weak moments. Join me as we chat about some personal experiences of temptation that I too have faced, as well as some easy and practical ways to overcome temptation. One thing to remember however, is when we fall into temptation and sin, the Lord is so quick to forgive. His mercies are new every morning!
The Bible can seem like an overwhelming book to start studying, and you may feel like there's certain rules and methods of how you should study the Bible. However, there is no such thing as studying the Bible in a correct way. Delving into the Lord's word and getting to communicate with him through the Bible, is a very personal and intimate form of communication, that is so moulded to your very own relationship with the Lord. In this week's episode, I share a few suggestions of how you could get started reading and studying the Word of God if you are a beginner, as well as how I study the Bible, and explain the importance of having this Holy Book, as your greatest weapon and guide to living a joyous life.
In this week's episode we talk all about peace and the importance of protecting your peace. Especially living in the world we live in right now, it's so incredibly important to not let the worldly matters disrupt the peace that the Prince of Peace himself, gave you. The enemy's number one goal is to try and sabotage us, through the immersion and continuous stress we take on from the daily news and the daily garbage that we consume. In this episode, we talk about the importance of setting up personal boundaries, and actions that you are required to take when you feel like your peace is under attack. Jesus came into the world so that we can have and enjoy life to the fullest. So, are you living a peaceful and joyous life, regardless of the circumstances?
WE ARE BACK! In today’s episode, I briefly share an update on why I took a mini break. We also talk about rejection! Yuck, I know! But I think we have all faced some sort of rejection in our lifetime, and as painful and hurtful that rejection may feel in the moment, I’m here to tell you that what if that hurt and pain was a blessing in disguise? What if that rejection, was actually God protecting you and from something you can’t see? Join me in this week’s episode to discuss what an incredible and beautiful thing can come out of something so ugly and painful. No way are we going to let rejection scar us. Let’s shift our perspective on why God could’ve brought that momentary pain, for something far greater he has planned for us.
In this week's episode we talk all about the 12 year old Jesus who got separated from his parents for 3 whole days. We talk about the anxiety that must've been induced for Mary and Joseph and we also talk about where Jesus was found. But more specifically we discuss the deep meaning of this story. Jesus even at the age of 12 had his priorities in check and knew exactly how to grow in knowledge and wisdom, and I think he sets a perfect example for his followers. Join me as we dive into our last Christmas episode as well as the very last episode for the year.
In this week's episode, we talk about the birth of Jesus, specifically the conception made through the Holy Spirit. We discuss the importance of why God needed to send his son as human. It's important to understand more than just the meaning of Jesus' birth, but that he was both divine and human. He was both man and God. We also discuss this very same event foreshadowed 700 years prior to the birth through the prophet Isaiah. Join me as we reflect on this beautiful event that forever changed the world.
In today's episode, we discuss Mother Mary's endeavours right before the birth of baby Jesus. We look at what her life was like before this and the judgements she would've had to endure as a young soon-to-be wife. We look at her godly characteristics and personality to be chosen to take on such a blessing, her bravery to own this role, her obedience to the Lord to carry this precious baby, and her perseverance and resilience through the society's judgements. Mary is a perfect example and role model of obeying the Lord and doing what is expected of her, regardless of the world's opinions. She was also Jesus' sweet companion, always following him and listening to his teachings. And she was never afraid to stand up for what she believed in, always encouraging those around her to follow Christ. However, she also endured the worst heartbreak a mother could go through, and that was to watch her precious baby die and be crucified in front of her very eyes. If there is anything I hope you learn from this episode, is that during this Christmas season, we remember and reflect on the values this Godly woman had. She is everything and more that I hope to be.
As we are nearing the month of December, specifically Christmas, I wanted to launch the next couple of Christmas episodes beginning with the whole reason for this season...Jesus Christ, a King like no other. I'm a huge Christmas fanatic and I think it's important to recognise why we celebrate this season. In this week's episode we are going to be talking a little about our King. This King however, was not one who wore royal garments and associated with higher class people. He was and is a King like no other, and a complete opposite to what today's society would portray as a King. Join me as we dive a little into the character of this King who also is our very own father, protector and provider.
Are you living like Jesus would? Do your values align with those of what God wants for you? Or are you just stuck... not knowing what is expected of you?Well can I tell you that t is no accident that God placed you on this earth. He knew about you when he commanded there to be light! You were created with a purpose. To know and love him, and to be loved by him. We were created in Christ Jesus to do good works and to be Christ like. We are put on this earth to make a contribution and represent Jesus in all that we do. Join me in diving into the word and finding out what it is that God wants from you. You were created with such a purpose, and a beautiful one at that.
Just like Moses having to face his ultimate obstacle, the Red Sea, I know there must be some obstacles standing in your way right now that you just want removed so that you can get to the other side. But God didn't remove Moses' Red Sea. He instead made a way when there seemed to be no way. But you can't cross that Red Sea if you are not willing to get up and stop complaining. God is all ready for you to cross, he's already created a path for you to go down where you can get to the other side without your obstacle prohibiting you from doing so. In today's episode, we are going to talk about how God is waiting for you to cross the Red Sea. He will take care of the journey, all you have to do is get up and follow his lead.
Do you know that the same power that rose Jesus from the dead lives within you? Yes, you! For God did not give you a spirit of fear but a spirit of fear, but of power and love, and of a sound mind. So with that same power that has been given to you, use it to silence the enemy. The one that prowls like a roaring lion, ready to steal, kill and destroy. The enemy loves to see us miserable and loves to extinguish our faith, but use that power that God gave you to silence him. Silence him before he silences you. Tell him no more! Resist the devil and he will flee from you. And in today's episode we're going to be talking about just that... using that power to silence the enemy, so that he may think twice before attacking you.
In today's episode we discuss the importance of letting go and letting God! I think many times our default reaction to any stressful or worrying issues in our lives, is to try and take control of the situation which ultimately heightens our anxiety even more. But I want to remind you that taking point in any areas of your life is not our role nor is it our responsibility. You see, there's a God who unlike us, IS actually in control of everything that occurs in our lives. All we need to do is completely trust him. Trust him that he knows better than you. Trust him that he goes before you. Trust him that he will never leave you nor forsake you. I think the more reliant we become on God, the easier it us for us to get some rest. So, let's do our part by letting go and giving it to God, and God will do his part by taking care of it.
As a Christian, it's so important to wear an armour of protection each day. The enemy goes around roaring like a lion ready to prowl when you least expect it. So in order for you to be ready and armed to attack back or defend yourself, you need to wear the greatest protection out there - The Armour of God. In this week's episode we talk about this mighty armour and the power each piece of protection holds. Don't give the enemy an easy battle to win. Fight back! Wear this armour everyday before you go about your day so that you may be equipped and ready for whatever trials the enemy brings.
If there's one thing that God insists we do not become, it is to live like a lukewarm Christian. The Lord says it is better to be either hot or cold, rather than lukewarm. To live a lukewarm faith simply means that you have neither rejected Jesus, but you aren't living for him either. In today's episode we discuss what it means to live a lukewarm Christian lifestyle, the dangers of being lukewarm, and some steps to help guide you to leave that lukewarm Christian faith. I too, used to live like a lukewarm Christian, but can I tell you how much more content, and happy I have become leaving that middle ground. Don't feel ashamed or guilty if you too identify yourself as a lukewarm Christian, because in today's episode, the Holy Spirit will speak to you as he sees fit.
To commemorate the 10th episode release of the Bearing Fruit podcast, it’s only fitting to discuss the meaning behind bearing fruit. In this week’s episode we discuss how important it is to remain in Christ and Christ in us for us to bear fruit. If you are not sustaining that relationship with God, your fruit becomes rotten and inedible. He is the vine, and we are the branches. No branch can bear fruit on its own or neither will they be able to do anything without the vine. Jesus sets the precedent through the Fruits of the Spirit, of how we Christians should be living. He gives us 9 fruits of the spirit that should be exemplified every day in our lives. So, friends, are you fruit-bearers?
I’m sure we have all struggled with injustice in this world. I know I sure have. But what is your response to this injustice? You see, as Christians we are instructed not to repay evil for evil. The Lord says, “vengeance is mine!” and he will repay. Our role is never to take revenge on anyone, in fact Jesus says we need to forgive those who do us wrong and pray for those who persecute you. The Lord’s justice is far greater than our justice. The Lord has already claimed vengeance on those who wrong his children. So, take heart that the Lord is our vindicator, and justice will be served!
The second commandment out of the ten commandments quite literally states “you shall have no other gods before me”. Now I’m not talking about a golden statue of a calf here, I’m talking about anything that you value more than the Lord. Anything that is in between you and him. The good things in this world are meant to be enjoyed with a thankful heart. But when that gift replaces the gift giver, we fall into idolatry. It is so important to evaluate yourselves every day to understand what is it that brings us the most happiness and joy. We need to be conscious of what is it that takes high value in our hearts.
Have you ever struggled with the constant battle of comparison? Whether that be with another’s career, family life, relationship, home, lifestyle etc. I know for a fact that comparison is something I constantly wrestle with. I know it’s wrong and it does nothing but dampen my mood, so then why do I do it? Why is it something so instinctive for us humans? Comparing myself to others does nothing but kill my soul and rob me off my joy. I think that in itself should give you an idea of who adds fuel to the fire. Are you ready to hear what God says about comparison? He says that YOU were beautifully and wonderfully made. So perfect in his eyes! Yes you! So, it’s time to believe it my friend. Let’s kill comparison before it kills us!
You don't need an extravagant or an enormous amount of faith for you to believe that anything is possible. Jesus says, all you need is faith as small as a mustard seed and you can tell a mountain to move and it will move. See, it is so easy to get caught up in the requirements of how much faith one should have. But the Bible literally tells us otherwise. Jesus encourages us to have child-like faith. Faith that consists you to believe that anything is possible. Faith that is as small as a mustard seed, a seed that once is sprouted, can grow up to be one of the largest of plants. Believe that anything is possible with God on your side.
We all make mistakes, it’s inevitable for us humans. We are all sinners. But when making those mistakes, do you feel guilt, shame and regret? Or do you feel corrected? Do you feel punished or disciplined? See these two feelings come from two very different sources. Let me introduce you to Condemnation and Conviction. In today’s episode we dive into where these two sources stem from. Because if you ever feel condemned rather than convicted, it comes from the evil, the only source that says that you will never be enough. But conviction comes from the Holy Spirit, always helping you to reach and be your best through love and compassion. That’s what Jesus is! Compassionate and loving, who doesn’t see us for our mistakes, but sees us for who we are.
What do you fill your cup with every day? Is it the worldly pleasures? Temporary happiness? Friends, family, partners, food, money etc. the list goes on… We all turn to the wrong things in life to fill our cups with, which is why our cups run out and end up empty. But can I tell you that nothing fills your cup up like the way Jesus does. His love, grace, mercy, comfort makes your cup overflow. Today we take a passage out of the Bible of Jesus and the Samaritan woman and read about what God says about the living water. Water that will never make you go thirsty again. Water that will overflow your cup. Are you ready for your cup to overflow?
How many times have we dug ourselves THE pit? The pit of despair and misery. A toxic spiral that doesn’t end. Self-pity, being one of the deadly sins, can ruin our hearts and minds if we don’t reach out our hand, for Jesus to hold onto. Otherwise, the only other person in this pity party is you and the devil. Let’s get out of that pit! No more! But the only way we can do that is with the help of our Saviour. Let’s start with our attitude. Less of the toddler tantrums, and more of a grateful heart.
Has there been a time in your life where things didn’t go quite as plan? What you desired didn’t meet your timeline? Are you in a standstill just waiting for a breakthrough, or waiting for things to actually turn out the way you anticipate? I want things to happen according to MY timeline! I am done waiting! Nothing is happening. Well can I tell you friends that OUR timeline isn’t always the perfect one. Because only God knows what’s perfect for us. He knows what we need. He knows what our heart desires. Get excited because your breakthrough is coming! Let’s blindly trust him and grow our faith while we’re in this waiting room. Waiting on him is the best thing you could ever do!
Are you caught up in life’s timeless schedule? Flesh worrying about daily agendas, but your heart wanting to sit with the Lord. Well, let me tell you about two of the many extraordinary women in the Bible. Mary and Martha. Mary pushing aside the busy callings of the world and sitting at the Lord’s feet. Whereas Martha, still with the intention to serve the Lord, gets caught up with the daily duties of the world. I think you and I can resonate more with Martha. How do we grow and strengthen our devotion for the Lord when there’s just so much to do? Well in today’s episode we look at what the Lord says about our priorities. How to have a heart that desires and longs for Jesus, all while living in a world that asks so much of us.
Hey guys and welcome to the Bearing Fruit podcast. My name is Roshal Mathew a 21yr old, who is navigating life and the tough seasons, all while walking with Jesus. And I wanted to start a podcast to create a community on here, to help one another grow together with Jesus, while going through those challenging seasons. I will be sharing personal experiences, tackle topics that are relevant in our daily lives, whilst using the word of God as our source of help and guidance. So join me in going through life all while being fruit bearers... the disciples of the Jesus. I will be uploading weekly and you are more than welcome to subscribe if you are interested in diving into the word of God. We also have an instagram page for this podcast @bearingfruitpod where I will be posting illustrations/bible verses/words of encouragement etc.
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