Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart: Recent Episodes
Hannah Fordice
Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. Each episode invites survivors, faith leaders, and various professionals to participate in vital conversations about intimate partner violence in the context of faith. Hosted by Hannah & Nicky from House of Faith and Freedom.
Survivor Story. Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this episode we hear part II of Heidi's story.
Guest's Recommended Resources:
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A High View of Marriage Includes Divorcearticle by Rebecca VanDoodewaard
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Codependent No Moreby Melody Beattie
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Streams in the Desertby L.B. Cowman
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Good Boundaries and Goodbyesby Lysa TerKeurst
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SongTrust by Christine Mueller
Survivor Story. Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this episode we hear part I of Heidi's story.
Guest: Amanda Benckhuysen.
In this episode we speak with Reverand Amanda Benckhuysen, a team lead for Thrive: Safer Churches Ministry, about what a denomination wide response to abuse looks like and why its important to institute these kinds systemic approaches when dealing with power differentials in faith communities.
Guest Recommended Resources
Books:
- We Too by Mary Demuth.
- Redeeming Power by Diane Langberg.
- A Church Called Tov by Scot McKnight and Laura Barringer.
- Pivot by Scot McKnight and Laura Barringer.
- The Garden Within by Dr. Anita Phillips
Podcasts:
- Holy/Hurt with Hillary McBride
Survivor Story. Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this episode we hear Linda Sue's story.
Overcomer Story. Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this episode we hear Melody's story.
Guest: Anne Johnson.
In this episode we speak with repeat guest Anne Johnson, a social worker and counselor with years of experience in crisis intervention, advocacy, and abuse, grief, and trauma counseling. Tune in to Part II of our discussion on the complex subject of as of spiritual abuse both in the home and in the church.
Guest: Anne Johnson.
In this episode we speak with repeat guest Anne Johnson, a social worker and counselor with years of experience in crisis intervention, advocacy, and abuse, grief, and trauma counseling. Tune in to Part I of our discussion on the complex subject of as of spiritual abuse both in the home and in the church.
Guest: Philip Shorey
The Phantom of the Opera is a cultural sign post that contains critical themes of abuse still relevant to our relationships today. Tune in to this extended podcast interview with composer and conductor Philip Shorey as he speaks with us about how The Phantom of the Opera reflects the experiences of victims and survivors.
To get tickets to the showing of the Phantom of the Opera on February 9-10, 2024 go to: https://www.eventbrite.com/cc/valentines-day-weekend-2870449#search
For additional information on the Curse of the Vampire Orchestra and future shows, go to: https://curseofthevampire.com/en/home/
Survivor Story. Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this unique episode, we hear the story of the daughter of one of our past guests, Kristen. Tune in to hear Abby's story.
Survivor Story. Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this episode we hear Kristen's story.
Resources mentioned by today's guest:
Books:
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The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Vernick.
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When to Walk Away by Gary Thomas.
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Is It Abuse? by Darby Strickland.
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God's Healing for Life's Losses by Robert Kellemen.
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Seeing Beautiful Again by Lysa Terkeurst.
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What the New Testament Teaches About Divorce and Remarriage Article by Andy Naselli
Podcasts:
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Relationship Truth: Unfiltered Podcast.
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Therapy and Theology Podcast.
3 part Sermon Series on Divorce and Abuse, by Pastor Winston Bosch of Jubiliee Church, Ottowa Canada (Aug/Sept 2022):
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(1) What God Hates More Than Divorce (Malachi 2:16)
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(2) Jesus & Divorce (Westminster Confession)
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(3) Paul & Divorce (1 Cor 7:12-15)
Websites:
- Lifesavingdivorce.com
Songs:
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I Will Carry You by Ellie Holcomb.
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Firm Foundation by Maverick City Music.
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Goodness of God by Jenn Johnson.
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Rescue by Lauren Daigle.
Guest: Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS.
Organization: Rising Beyond Power and Control.
In this episode we speak with licensed professional counselor and approved clinical supervisor, Sybil Cummin. Sybil specializes in victims and survivors of domestic violence and narcissistic abuse, including the youngest witnesses. She has a small group therapy practice in Colorado and is the creator of Rising Beyond Power and Control, which is a membership community for women survivors of abusive relationships. Tune in as we discuss narcissistic abuse's impact on children, post-separation abuse, and the role the Church holds in walking alongside survivors.
Resources Mentioned by our Guest:
Rising Beyond Power and Control Community.
Rising Beyond Podcast.
Healing From Hidden Abuse by Shannon Thomas.
One Mom's Battle.
Guest: Steve Johnson.
Ministry: Five Stone Media + Life Support Resources.
Tune in as we speak with the Executive Director of Five Stone Media, Steve Johnson, about the new Life Support Resources program. Life Support Resources offers FREE webinars, group resources, and short video testimonials that encourage the Church start conversations, get education, and become a safe haven for those struggling with trauma, loss, and mental health disorders.
Addition Resources Mentioned:
Life Support Podcast.
Urban Ventures.
Guest: Tiffany Mensah.
Organization: DOVES Network.
In this epsiode we talk with survivor, author, advocate, speaker and Executive Director of DOVES Network, Tiffany Mensah. Tiffany shares her story of growing up in a Christian home where there was ongoing physical abuse between her parents and the spiritual and psychological impact it had on her as she went from child to adult. Tiffany also discusses the inspiration behind her organization, DOVES Network, which supports teens impacted by childhood domestic violence and how we can all be a part of healing the next generation.
Additional Resources Mentioned:
Forgotten by Tiffany Mensah.
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk.
What Happened to You by Bruce Perry & Oprah Winfrey.
Relational Intelligence by Dr. Dharius Daniels.
When Dad Hurts Mom by Lundy Bandcroft.
Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft.
Adverse Childhood Experiences TED Talk.
Guest: John Braland.
In this epsiode we talk speak with Pastor John Braland - a retired Air Force MP, the President of International Ministerial Fellowship, Lead Pastor of Freshwater Church in Waconia, MN, and Author of the book “Wounded to Wonderful.” John shares with us his own personal story of moving into a place of healing as well as how the Church can become a critical care center for those who are suffering from trauma, loss, and wounds of their own.
Additional Resources Mentioned:
Freshwater Church
International Ministerial Fellowship
Wounded to Wonderful by John Braland
Survivor Story. Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this episode we hear Jake's story.
Additional Resources Mentioned:
The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans
Boundaries by John Townsend and Henry Cloud
Guest: Sherawn Stewart.
Business: 4Fourteen Massage.
Organization: Mental Health Pulpit.
Tune in as we speak with Sherawn Stewart, a certified massage therapist, equine massage therapsit, and owner of 4Fourteen Massage in Duluth, MN. In addition, Sherawn and her husband, Nathan, have an organization called Mental Health Pulpit that raises awarness around mental health issues in the Church. In today's epsiode, Sherawn discusses with us the idea of theraputic touch as a modality to help overcome trauma response.
Guest: Jennifer Foxworthy.
Ministry: Unstoppable You Ministries.
Business: Inspirationally Speaking.
Survivor Story. In this week’s episode we sit down with speaker, author, advocate, and survivor Jennifer Foxworthy. Jennifer shares with us her personal story of overcoming intimate partner violence while serving as an air crewman in the United States Navy and how that experience inspired her to start a national ministry.
Additional Resources Mentioned:
Blind Eyes Open Documentary
Please Don't Take My Sunshine Away by Jennifer Foxworthy.
Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this episode we hear Mark's story.
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
Video on Consent
The National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey
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HouseofFaithandFreedom.org
Join us for this special episode, where Hannah and Nicky sit down for an informal conversation about domestic abuse and the gospel.
The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Vernick
Is It Abuse? by Darby Strickland
Ready Refuge by Hannah Fordice
Power and Control Wheel
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HouseofFaithandFreedom.org
Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this episode we hear Rachel's story.
Not Under Bondage by Barbara Roberts
Dangerous Personalities by Joe Navarro
Is it Abuse? by Darby Strickland
Any book by Lundy Bancroft
Power and Control Wheel
Post-Separation Abuse Power and Control Wheel
Song: Hiding Place by Steven Curtis Chapman.
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HouseofFaithandFreedom.org
In this episode we talk with retired Army Captain, Police Officer, and founder of Sheepdog Church Security, Kris Moloney. We can't talk about creating a safer church without talking about the physical safety OF the church. Tune in to hear our conversation on the importance of security ministries in preventing domestic violence spillover, as well as some super practical tips from Kris on how to make your church safer today.
Sheepdog Church Security: https://sheepdogchurchsecurity.net
News Story Referenced in Podcast: (2017)
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HouseofFaithandFreedom.org
Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this episode we hear Tanya's story.
-On hope: Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
-History of the Church/spirituality: Thirsty for God by Bradley Holt
-On shame: The Soul of Shame by Curt Thompson and anything from Brene Brown on this topic. It is ideal if you can attend a Brene Brown shame retreat offered by a certified instructor.
-Get to know yourself: The Enneagram and The Wisdom of the Enneagramby Don Riso and Russ Hudson
-On the impact of chronic stress/trauma: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
-On calling/vocation: Let Your Life Speak by Parker Palmer
-On holding onto what matters: Present Over Perfect by Shauna Niequist and The Human Condition by Thomas Keating
-The Holy Bible
-On finances: Dave Ramsey
-Poem: Patient Trust by Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
For more info visit:
HouseofFaithandFreedom.org
In this episode, we speak with retired Minneapolis police officer and founder of A.C.T. United, Jessica Bartholomew, about her work in child-trafficking prevention. Tune in to learn more about how you can engage in anti-trafficking and exploitation in your area and how your church can become a protective buffer for at-risk youth. If you have kids, work with kids, or know kids... you won't want to miss this one.
A.C.T. United: https://www.actunited.org
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HouseofFaithandFreedom.org
Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this episode we hear Alisha's story.
The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Vernick
When to Walk Away by Gary Thomas
Is it Me?by Natalie Hoffman
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HouseofFaithandFreedom.org
Tune in as we speak with Laura, an advocate, podcast host, and the Domestic Violence Restorative Circles Coordinator at Men as Peacemakers in Duluth, MN. In this episode we dive into the issue of restorative justice, accountability, and treatment for perpetrators of abuse, as well as the role of the Church in healing for both victims and offenders.
Men as Peacemakers: https://www.menaspeacemakers.org
What They Don't Tell You About Being a Survivor Podcast: https://menaspeacemakers.podbean.com
The Power and Control Wheel: https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheel-gallery/
For more info visit:
HouseofFaithandFreedom.org
House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this episode we hear Tory's story.
Psychopath Free by Jackson Mackenzie
Healing from Hidden Abuse by Shannon Thomas
The Emotionally Destructive Marriageby Leslie Vernick
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HouseofFaithandFreedom.org
In this episode we speak with Dean Paulson - a Campus Pastor for Rock Hill Church who, after 25 years in full-time ministry, was led to go work as a domestic violence advocate for a year. Tune in to our conversation on the calling of the Church, mistakes and missteps in ministry, and how we can do better.
Visit Rock Hill Church: rockhillcc.org
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In this episode we speak with Anne Johnson, a licensed social worker and counselor with years of experience in crisis intervention, advocacy, and abuse, grief, and trauma counseling. Tune in as we discuss Anne's own survivor story, her journey to where she is today, and the tension between head and heart knowledge for the survivor, the abuser, and the Church.
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HouseofFaithandFreedom.org
Survivor Story. Seeking Sanctuary: House to Heart is a podcast about abuse, trauma, and finding healing in the arms of Christ. In this episode we hear Sara's story.
For more info visit:
HouseofFaithandFreedom.org