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In this St. Patrick’s Day–inspired episode of the Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine reframes the idea of “luck” and explores how sobriety helps you create your own opportunities rather than waiting for them to appear. Instead of relying on randomness—or alcohol-fueled confidence—Nadine shares how clarity, alignment, and presence open the door to the connections, ideas, and moments that can change your life.

Inspired by Les Alfred’s “She’s So Lucky” rebrand and the quote “luck is the residue of design,” Nadine reflects on how removing alcohol allowed her to recognize opportunities she once missed in the fog of drinking. She explains how sobriety helps you move from reactive patterns to intentional living—making you more available for growth, meaningful relationships, and aligned success.

Nadine breaks down practical ways to create your own “luck,” including building trustworthy character (and offering yourself grace), expanding your circle with supportive and growth-minded people, serving others without overextending yourself, and developing daily habits that align with your goals.

She closes the episode with empowering “lucky girl sobriety” affirmations and a reminder that celebrations—St. Patrick’s Day included—can be joyful, meaningful, and memorable without alcohol.

In This Episode, We Cover:

• Why sobriety increases your ability to recognize opportunities
• The difference between random luck and intentional living
• How alcohol clouds judgment and leads to missed connections
• The meaning behind “luck is the residue of design”
• Building trustworthiness and giving yourself grace in recovery
• Expanding your social circle with higher-quality, supportive connections
• Being of service without overgiving or burning out
• Daily habits and routines that help you create opportunities
• “Lucky girl sobriety” mindset and affirmations
• Celebrating holidays like St. Patrick’s Day alcohol-free

Key Takeaways

• Clarity creates opportunity—sobriety helps you see what’s already around you.
• Being reliable, kind, and aligned attracts the right people and experiences.
• Your environment and social circle play a huge role in the opportunities that appear in your life.
• Consistent daily habits compound into long-term “luck.”
• Celebrations can be just as meaningful—if not more so—without alcohol.

Affirmations for Lucky Girl Sobriety

• I am clear, present, and open to opportunities.
• My sobriety attracts aligned connections and experiences.
• I create my own luck through intention and integrity.
• The right opportunities find me because I am ready for them.

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The Books That Helped Me Get and Stay Sober | The Sober Butterfly Podcast

In this solo episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, Nadine shares the books that helped her question her relationship with alcohol, get through early sobriety, and begin the deeper healing work that came after quitting drinking.

From classic quit lit like Quit Like a Woman, Blackout, We Are the Luckiest, and This Naked Mind to recovery staples like The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous and A Woman’s Way Through the Twelve Steps, Nadine reflects on how books became a lifeline in the earliest and most fragile stages of her alcohol-free journey.

She also shares nontraditional sobriety reads that helped her rebuild her mindset and heal, including Atomic Habits, The Mountain Is You, The Body Keeps the Score, The Inner Work, and Dry Humping by past Sober Butterfly guest Tawny Lara.

Whether you’re sober curious, newly sober, years alcohol-free, or simply exploring your relationship with drinking, this episode offers a thoughtful reading list and honest reflections on how books can support recovery, healing, and growth.

Books mentioned in this episode:

• Quit Like a Woman by Holly Whitaker
• Blackout by Sarah Hepola
• We Are the Luckiest by Laura McKowen
• This Naked Mind by Annie Grace
• Alcoholics Anonymous (The Big Book)
• A Woman’s Way Through the Twelve Steps by Stephanie S. Covington
• Atomic Habits by James Clear
• Sober on a Drunk Planet by Sean Alexander
• The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest
• The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
• The Inner Work by Ashley Cottrell and Mathew Micheletti
• Dry Humping by Tawny Lara

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What does a night really cost?

In this solo episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, Nadine shares reflections from a recent trip to Dubai that sparked a powerful realization about sobriety. After being mistaken for a sex worker in an elevator the night before Ramadan — when a man asked her “how much for a night” — she began thinking deeply about the hidden cost of her nights when she used to drink compared to the nights she experiences now in sobriety.

Nadine contrasts her calm, grounded response in sobriety with a similar experience from 2020 in Medellín at The Click Clack Hotel, when she was drinking, spiraled emotionally, and was initially denied entry because staff assumed she was a sex worker. Through these parallel moments, she explores identity, self-trust, and how sobriety changes internal reactions to external events.

This episode breaks down:

• The financial and emotional cost of drinking
• Hangovers, anxiety, shame, and lost time
• The hidden price of numbing emotions
• What sobriety actually costs (vulnerability, discomfort, growth)
• What sobriety gives back (peace, confidence, clarity, mornings)
• Writing a breakup letter to alcohol
• How to reflect on your own relationship with drinking

Nadine also reads an excerpt from a breakup letter to alcohol and invites listeners to consider: How much do your nights cost?

If you are sober curious, alcohol-free, or questioning your relationship with drinking, this episode will resonate deeply.

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In this powerful episode of the Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina sits down with Kristen, creator of The Alcohol Free Alchemist and founder of Queen City Sober, to share her deeply relatable sobriety journey.

Kristen opens up about how her drinking evolved from social partying to daily coping — influenced by anxiety, grief, motherhood, and the normalization of “mommy wine culture.” After experiencing profound life stressors, including the sudden loss of her grandmother and her husband’s lymphoma diagnosis, alcohol became her way to numb and manage overwhelm.

But her sobriety didn’t begin with a dramatic rock bottom. It started with an awakening — a Father’s Day morning realization that changed everything.

Now nearly 600 days alcohol-free, Kristen shares how sobriety transformed her relationship with herself, her marriage, her children, and her identity. She also discusses navigating social situations without alcohol, sober intimacy, non-alcoholic alternatives, and building real-life sober community through Queen City Sober in Buffalo, New York.

If you’re sober curious, questioning your relationship with alcohol, navigating motherhood, or looking for inspiration to start again, this conversation will resonate deeply.

You don’t need to hit rock bottom to choose something better.

🎧 In This Episode We Discuss

• Mommy wine culture and the normalization of daily drinking
• Using alcohol to cope with anxiety, grief, and stress
• The “awakening” moment that led to sobriety
• Early sobriety exhaustion and emotional healing
• Marriage and intimacy without alcohol
• Socializing sober and building confidence
• Non-alcoholic drinks and alternatives
• Sober parenting and being more present with kids
• Creating sober community through Queen City Sober
• Kristen’s platform: The Alcohol Free Alchemist

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What if you don’t actually need a drink to feel confident, sexy, or safe in love?

With Valentine’s Day approaching, this episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast dives deep into the connection between alcohol, attachment styles, intimacy, and subconscious emotional patterns.

Host Nadine welcomes back world-renowned hypnotherapist Georgia Foster for a powerful Part 2 conversation about how drinking habits are often rooted in anxiety, the inner critic, and nervous system dysregulation — especially in dating and relationships.

If you’ve ever wondered:

• Why do I drink more when I’m dating?
• Why do I feel anxious without alcohol on a first date?
• Why do I attract the same type of partner?
• Can I drink less without quitting entirely?
• How do I build confidence without liquid courage?

This episode is for you.

Georgia shares how hypnotherapy works to reprogram the subconscious mind, calm anxiety triggers, and shift emotional habits around alcohol. Together, Nadine and Georgia explore:

• The psychology of drinking in relationships
• Anxious attachment and alcohol use
• The role of the inner critic in dating
• Sober intimacy and overcoming performance anxiety
• How to feel confident without alcohol
• Rewiring subconscious drinking patterns
• Choosing partners based on intuition instead of familiarity
• Nervous system regulation and manifestation
• Healing shame around past drinking behaviors

Georgia also leads listeners through a powerful guided visualization designed to calm the nervous system, strengthen intuition, and help you attract relationships that are aligned with your self-worth.

Whether you’re sober, sober-curious, moderating, dating, partnered, or opting out of Valentine’s Day entirely — this episode will help you examine your relationship with alcohol and how it impacts your romantic life.

About Georgia Foster

Georgia Foster is a clinical hypnotherapist with over 30 years of experience helping high-functioning adults transform their relationship with alcohol. She specializes in moderation, subconscious behavior change, and emotional habit rewiring. Her programs focus on reducing shame, quieting the inner critic, and creating intelligent, balanced change.

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In this powerful Black History Month episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, Nadine explores a truth that isn’t talked about enough in recovery spaces:

Most sobriety spaces don’t look like us.

Nadine weaves together moving throwback clips from past guests of the show to highlight what Black sobriety actually looks like in real life: community, identity, trauma healing, motherhood, grief, faith, entrepreneurship, and generational change.

You’ll hear voices from:

• Ashley Johnson — founder of Wine Not, on navigating social spaces and professional settings sober as a Black woman
• Yasmin — on nervous system healing, therapy, and boundaries
• Symone French— on identity, shame, and unmasking without alcohol
• Jasmine (Soulfully Sober) — on motherhood and stopping before rock bottom
• Jasmine Flowers — on trauma, abuse recovery, and rebuilding life through sobriety
• Faith Hill — on grief, honesty, and self-trust
• Tiana Heath — on refusing to numb grief with alcohol
• Tommie Runz — on purpose and generational healing

Together, these stories show that sobriety is not one narrative. It is many. And when Black people get sober, it doesn’t just change one life — it can change entire family trajectories.

This episode addresses:

• Cultural silence around addiction in Black families
• The connection between trauma, the nervous system, and alcohol use
• Why boundaries and therapy are often discovered after sobriety
• The lack of representation of Black women in the sober-curious and non-alcoholic space
• Why sobriety can be an act of resistance, awareness, and liberation

If you’ve ever felt alone in your alcohol-free journey, this episode is an invitation to see yourself in sobriety.

🎧 Full episodes from every guest featured are linked in the show notes.

Key Takeaway

Find someone who looks like you in sobriety. It changes everything.

Closing viral reflection from actor and podcaster Horace Gold, this episode examines why choosing sobriety as a Black person in America can feel not only personal — but revolutionary.

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What can Chrissy Teigen’s return to sobriety teach us about the moderation myth?

In this reflective episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina opens with a trending celebrity sobriety story and uses it to explore a truth many people discover privately: trying to “mindfully drink” after quitting often leads right back to why we stopped in the first place.

Nadine shares her perspective on relapse, moderation, and why sobriety ultimately feels better for mental clarity, emotional stability, and real joy.

Then, she takes listeners back to Season One (2022) for a special replay of an early Sober Butterfly episode with Keisha Scott from Done With Debauchery — one of the first sober creators Nadine connected with in real life and the woman who helped her host her very first sober girl meetup.

Together, Nadine and Keisha discuss well-known celebrities who have publicly shared their sobriety journeys, including:

• Samuel L. Jackson
• Jada Pinkett Smith
• Nicki Minaj
• Chrissy Teigen
• Naomi Campbell
• Bella Hadid

This episode is about more than celebrities — it’s about how seeing sober people can inspire you, but meeting sober people can change your life.

Whether you’re sober-curious, newly sober, or years into your alcohol-free journey, this conversation reminds you that sobriety is not about perfection — it’s about presence, honesty, and community.

🎧 In This Episode, You’ll Hear

• Why Chrissy Teigen’s relapse story is so relatable
• The truth about “mindful drinking” and moderation attempts
• How celebrity sobriety can inspire early recovery
• Nadine’s origin story of meeting her first sober internet friend
• The early days of The Sober Butterfly podcast
• Why sober community matters more than sober inspiration
• A replay of the 2022 “Sober Celebrities” episode with Keisha Scott

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If this episode resonated with you, send it to a friend who is questioning their relationship with alcohol. Your conversation might be the one that helps them start theirs.

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What do you replace drinking with?

For Tommie Runz, the answer was miles, discipline, honesty, and community.

In this powerful episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina sits down with Tommie Runz — a sober endurance athlete, father, podcast host, and community builder — to talk about what nine years of sobriety has taught him about living with intention and pushing toward your next level.

Tommie shares the pivotal moments that led him to Alcoholics Anonymous, why truth-telling was the real beginning of his recovery, and how long-distance running became a tool for healing, clarity, and purpose. Together, Nadine and Tommie explore the deep parallels between endurance running and long-term sobriety, the role of community in recovery, and how sharing your story can help others feel less alone.

This episode is especially meaningful for anyone in early sobriety wondering “what now?” — and for those years into recovery who are still discovering who they’re becoming.

You’ll hear about:

• Tommie’s turning point and early days in AA
• Why honesty is foundational in sobriety
• The mental and emotional parallels between running and recovery
• How fatherhood shaped the way he shows up in sobriety
• The importance of community, service, and visibility as a Black sober athlete
• Using storytelling and social media to support others on their journey
• How to find your “thing” after quitting alcohol

Whether you’re sober, sober-curious, or years into your recovery journey, this conversation will inspire you to build a life you don’t want to escape from.

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina sits down with writer and traveler Melissa Rodway, author of The People You Meet: Luxury, Leeches, Love, and Lao Lao with a Host of Interesting Characters in Southeast Asia, for a thoughtful, story-driven conversation about how travel shapes identity, purpose, and connection.

This episode goes far beyond bucket lists and destinations. Nadine and Melissa explore the deeper, often unspoken layers of travel—how movement through the world changes us emotionally and spiritually, the people who leave lasting imprints on our lives, and the difference between simply taking a vacation and truly traveling with intention.

Melissa opens up about the realities of travel burnout, travel ego, and knowing when it’s time to come home. She shares how her relationship with travel has evolved with age, why purpose matters more than pace, and how adventure doesn’t disappear as we grow—it simply changes form. The conversation also touches on routine versus freedom, rest versus movement, and how travel can act as both a mirror and a teacher.

Listeners will also hear about unforgettable people Melissa has met on the road, powerful moments from her global travels, and a memorable trip to Jordan that left a lasting impact. Throughout the episode, travel is framed not as an escape, but as a tool for self-discovery, discernment, and deeper connection.

This episode is perfect for anyone who has ever felt changed by a trip, struggled with the tension between adventure and stability, or wondered what they’re really searching for when they book the ticket.

✨ In This Episode, We Discuss:

• How travel reshapes identity over time
• The people we meet on the road who stay with us long after the trip ends
• Travel ego, comparison, and letting go of “travel hierarchy”
• Recognizing travel burnout and knowing when it’s time to come home
• The difference between vacations and meaningful travel
• How purpose and priorities shift as we age
• Why adventure still matters—even when life changes
• The inspiration behind The People You Meet

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🎧 About The Sober Butterfly Podcast

The Sober Butterfly Podcast explores identity, connection, and what it looks like to rebuild a meaningful life after big change. Through honest solo episodes and thoughtful conversations, Nadine Mulvina invites listeners into nuanced discussions about growth, relationships, purpose, and becoming aligned—without needing to burn everything down.

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In this honest and educational solo episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina explores why Dry January isn’t the same as sobriety—and why that distinction matters for anyone questioning their relationship with alcohol.

Drawing from personal experience and years of conversations within the sober and sober-curious community, Nadine breaks down the two biggest pitfalls of Dry January: the “fuck it” mindset when the challenge feels too hard, and the false reassurance that completing 30 days automatically means alcohol isn’t an issue. She explains how both can keep people stuck in the same drinking patterns long-term.

This episode reframes Dry January as a starting point—not a finish line—and offers practical, compassionate guidance for those attempting Dry January, as well as tools and reminders for people who are already sober and navigating January with clarity and intention.

Whether you’re sober, sober-curious, taking a break, or supporting someone who is, this episode invites you to prioritize honesty, self-trust, and sustainable change over perfection or willpower.

🦋 In This Episode, Nadine Discusses:

• Why Dry January is not the same as long-term sobriety
• The difference between a 30-day alcohol break and an identity shift
• How the “fuck it” mindset can sabotage Dry January attempts
• Why completing Dry January doesn’t automatically mean alcohol isn’t a problem
• White-knuckling Dry January vs. white-knuckling sobriety
• How sobriety removes distortion and builds clarity
• Practical tips for doing Dry January in a supportive, self-aware way
• Why willpower alone isn’t a plan
• How to create replacements instead of just restrictions
• The importance of having a post-January plan
• Guidance for sober listeners navigating January
• Why sobriety isn’t a trend—it’s a lifestyle

🧠 Key Takeaways:

• You don’t attract change by forcing it—you create it through honesty
• Dry January can reveal patterns, but reflection is what creates growth
• Sobriety is about alignment, not deprivation
• White-knuckling is a signal—not a failure
• Support, systems, and self-trust matter more than perfection

💛 Support & Resources

If this episode brings up questions or concerns about your relationship with alcohol, you are not alone, and support is available.

🇺🇸 United States

• SAMHSA National Helpline
  📞 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
  🌐 https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline

Free, confidential support available 24/7 for individuals and families

🌍 International

• Alcoholics Anonymous (AA)
  🌐 https://www.aa.org

Meetings available worldwide (in-person & online) * SMART Recovery (science-based, non-12-step)
🌐 https://www.smartrecovery.org

Tools and meetings for people seeking a balanced approach * Women for Sobriety
🌐 https://womenforsobriety.org

Supportive community specifically for women * Sober Curious / Moderation Support
🌐 https://www.alcoholchange.org.uk

Evidence-based resources around alcohol awareness and change

⚠️ Important note:
If you drink heavily or daily, stopping alcohol suddenly can cause withdrawal symptoms and may require medical guidance. Please consult a healthcare professional if you’re unsure.

✨ Reflection Questions for Listeners:

• What role does alcohol play in my life right now?
• What emotions or situations trigger my desire to drink?
• If alcohol wasn’t an option, how would I care for myself

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In this reflective, end-of-year solo episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina invites listeners into the quiet, liminal space between Christmas and New Year’s to explore quantum physics, manifestation, and intentional identity shifts for 2026.

Recorded the day after Christmas, this episode slows things down and reframes manifestation through a grounded, logical lens: connecting quantum physics, nervous system regulation, sobriety, visualization, and embodiment. Nadine explains why manifestation isn’t about asking or wishing, but about becoming the version of yourself who already lives the life you want.

Listeners will learn how sobriety sharpens your energetic signal, why most people are “manifesting wrong,” and how to align with the timeline where your dream life already exists. Nadine also shares a 6-step framework for creating a powerful 2026 vision board—one rooted in identity, habits, regulation, and daily embodiment rather than aesthetics or pressure.

This episode is perfect for anyone who is sober, sober-curious, or intentionally designing their next chapter with clarity, self-trust, and purpose.

🎧 Best enjoyed slowly—on a walk, while cleaning, or resting your nervous system.

🦋 In This Episode, Nadine Covers:

• Why the days between Christmas and New Year’s are a powerful quantum window
• How quantum physics explains manifestation and timeline shifts
• Why reality responds to what you embody, not what you want
• The role of the nervous system in shaping your lived experience
• How sobriety removes distortion and accelerates clarity
• Why “trying” to manifest creates resistance
• How visualization collapses timelines faster than intention
• Why identity shifts matter more than goals
• How to protect your quantum field and move in silence
• A step-by-step framework for creating a 2026 vision board that actually works
• How to design a “random Tuesday” in your dream 2026 life
• Why manifestation starts today, not January 1st

🧠 Key Takeaways:

• You don’t attract what you want—you attract who you are
• Manifestation is feedback, not magic
• Clarity collapses timelines faster than force
• Sobriety sharpens your energetic signal
• Identity + repetition = inevitability
• Small shifts, practiced daily, create quantum leaps

✨ Listener Reflection Prompt:

If your 2026 self were already here, how would she move today?

📅 Important Announcement:

New episodes of The Sober Butterfly Podcast will return on January 9th, 2026, after Nadine returns from a family cruise—rested, grounded, and ready to step into the next chapter with you.

💛 Gratitude:

Thank you for listening this year. Thank you for choosing clarity, self-trust, and an alcohol-free or alcohol-conscious life. This community is built together—one intentional step at a time.

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In this reflective and honest episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina—sober since July 5th, 2021—shares her 2025 Sober Wrapped, inspired by Spotify Wrapped but rooted in real life.

Rather than focusing on perfection or aesthetics, Nadine breaks down her year quarter by quarter, rating and reviewing her experiences across travel, dating, goals, and mental health. This episode is a candid look at how sobriety can hold you through both expansion and emotional contraction.

Nadine reflects on pivotal moments throughout the year, including speaking at Podfest in Orlando, performing her first stand-up set sober, taking a solo healing trip to Barbados, and experiencing her favorite trip of the year in Iceland during the summer solstice with her mom. She also shares the behind-the-scenes reality of burnout, overworking, and navigating major life transitions.

On the dating front, Nadine opens up about long-distance heartbreak, emotional lows, minimal dating, and the clarity that came from stepping back and practicing discernment. She explains why there wasn’t enough dating content for a full Sober Dating Wrapped episode—and what she learned instead about intuition, peace, and self-trust.

The episode also highlights career milestones and redirections, including Pilates teacher training, unexpected endings that became blessings, and lessons around time, boundaries, and alignment. Ultimately, Nadine reminds listeners that growth isn’t always glamorous—and that a “good year” doesn’t always feel good while you’re living it.

This episode is for anyone navigating sobriety, transitions, heartbreak, burnout, or a season of becoming—and learning to trust themselves through it all.

✨ In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

• Nadine’s 2025 Sober Wrapped breakdown by quarter
• How travel became a stabilizing force during emotional lows
• Lessons from solo travel, including Barbados and El Salvador
• Why this year didn’t warrant a full Sober Dating Wrapped episode
• The emotional impact of detachment and discernment in dating
• Career wins, burnout warning signs, and redirections
• Why mental health and alignment matter more than momentum
• How sobriety supports growth even when life feels messy

🎯 Key Takeaways:

• You can be sober, successful, and still grieving parts of your life
• Not every year is aesthetic—but every year can be meaningful
• Intuition is data
• Peace is a form of progress
• Growth often looks like slowing down and choosing yourself

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In this reflective and relatable episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina shares how sobriety has completely transformed the way she travels — both solo and with groups.

Celebrating over three years sober since 2021, Nadine opens up about discovering new layers of her personality through travel, including realizing she’s both introverted and extroverted depending on the environment. She breaks down two recent trips that couldn’t have been more different: a solo sober trip to El Salvador and a group trip to Art Basel in Miami.

Through honest storytelling, Nadine explores why solo travel can be deeply empowering and grounding in sobriety, offering freedom, clarity, and self-discovery. She also dives into the realities of sober group travel — from meaningful connection to unexpected tension — including a candid story about navigating conflict with a “birthday girl” during the Miami trip.

This episode is packed with practical tips for traveling sober, especially if you’re the only non-drinker in the group. Nadine shares strategies like separating checks, avoiding alcohol-related expenses, finding quiet moments to recharge, and setting realistic expectations to protect your peace while traveling.

Whether you’re sober-curious, newly sober, or years into your alcohol-free journey, this episode offers reassurance, humor, and actionable advice for navigating travel — and relationships — without alcohol.

✨ Plus, Nadine teases an upcoming fan-favorite episode: 2025 Sober Wrapped.

🔑 Topics Covered

• Life in sobriety since 2021
• Solo travel vs. group travel while sober
• Traveling sober in El Salvador
• Art Basel Miami trip reflections
• Navigating group dynamics without alcohol
• Managing conflict and expectations in sobriety
• Introvert vs. extrovert energy in sober life
• Tips for sober travelers
• Protecting your peace on group trips

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In this powerful episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine Mulvina sits down with Ash Meredith, an Australian mum, fitness creator, and wellness influencer whose life has radically transformed since quitting alcohol. Ash opens up about her struggles with body image, disordered eating, food noise, emotional drinking, and the constant pressure to “look healthy” while feeling anything but.

Ash shares how alcohol quietly affected her digestion, metabolism, mental health, sleep, self-talk, and relationship with food—and how removing it helped her finally feel connected to her body in a healthy, nourishing way. Her journey offers an honest look at what sustainable wellness really means, far beyond diets or trends.

Listeners will learn:
✨ How alcohol impacts food cravings, stress, bloating, and body composition
✨ What “food noise” actually is & how to quiet it
✨ Simple, science-backed health habits for more energy
✨ The morning routine that changed Ash’s life
✨ Why nourishing breakfasts matter for hormone balance
✨ Tips for better digestion, sleep, and mindful eating
✨ How sobriety can unlock true self-optimization
✨ Practical ideas for navigating social drinking pressure
✨ How to build wellness habits that last (even as a busy mum)

Whether you're sober-curious, working on your wellness, or trying to heal your relationship with food and body image, Ash’s story is empowering, relatable, and full of actionable nuggets you can start using today.

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In this powerful episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, Nadine sits down with Bryan Power to explore how attachment styles, childhood wounds, emotional triggers, and deep inner work can transform relationships from the inside out.

Bryan shares his remarkable journey—from a sudden breakup and restraining order to rebuilding a healthier, stronger marriage through self-awareness and integrated attachment theory. Together, they unpack the six pillars of emotional healing inspired by Thais Gibson’s work: core wounds, needs, emotions, boundaries, communication, and behaviors.

This episode offers actionable tools for anyone navigating relationship challenges, breaking toxic patterns, or healing from trauma. Whether you’re partnered, single, or somewhere in between, Bryan’s story is a reminder that change is possible—and love can be rebuilt when we learn to understand ourselves.

Resources Mentioned:
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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, Nadine sits down with Kristen Bear, founder of Creative Sobriety, for a powerful conversation about recovery, self-expression, and the creative rebirth that often follows getting sober.

Kristen opens up about her journey from the chaotic party scenes of LA and NYC to a spiritual awakening in February 2020 that marked the start of her alcohol-free life. She shares how the lockdown became a sacred period for healing—rediscovering hobbies, reconnecting with nature, and expressing herself through writing and creativity.

Together, Nadine and Kristen explore what it means to pursue a creative life in sobriety, moving beyond traditional recovery narratives, and empowering women to live authentically. Kristen also talks about her upcoming memoir, building her shipping-container tiny home, and the mission behind Creative Sobriety. A fun rapid-fire Q&A closes the episode with inspiration for anyone embracing a sober-curious or alcohol-free lifestyle.

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Resources Mentioned

Book: Women Who Run With Wolves

Medium Article: Heroes of The Addiction Crisis: How Kristen Bear of Creative Sobriety Is Helping To Battle One of Our Most Serious Epidemics

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In this intimate and unfiltered episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina opens up about her journey of celibacy in sobriety — from chaotic, alcohol-fueled hookups to a life anchored in self-respect, clarity, and peace.

Before getting sober, sex often felt like a search for connection that always ended in disconnection. Nadine reflects on how alcohol served as a social lubricant, helping her lower inhibitions while deepening her emotional void. She dives into her two distinct hoe phases — from college party culture to navigating machismo in Mexico City — and how those experiences shaped her understanding of intimacy, self-worth, and addiction to limerence.

Now, nearly a year into her second celibacy era, Nadine shares the unexpected benefits of celibacy in sobriety — including heightened clarity, confidence, creativity, and spiritual grounding. With humor and honesty, she explores what happens when you stop seeking validation through sex and start nurturing a genuine relationship with yourself.

This episode is for anyone who’s re-evaluating their relationship with love, lust, or loneliness — and wants to rediscover intimacy beyond the physical.

💫 Episode Highlights

00:00 — Introduction: The Sex List Revelation
00:33 — Celibacy in Sobriety: A New Journey
01:06 — Sex Before Sobriety: Chaos and Alcohol
04:33 — The Hoe Phase: Reclaiming Self
06:08 — Heartbreak and the Hoe Phase
06:49 — College and Party Life
09:45 — Mexico City: Machismo and Heartbreak
16:57 — Therapy and Realizations
18:45 — The First Year of Sobriety
21:36 — Second Celibacy Era
24:07 — Breaking Patterns and Embracing Sobriety
25:42 — Building a Sober Toolbox
26:17 — Contentment and Self-Discovery
27:21 — Navigating Relationships and Self-Worth
35:24 — The Benefits of Celibacy in Sobriety
46:37 — Final Thoughts and Reflections

🧠 Key Takeaways

• How alcohol shaped unhealthy sexual patterns and emotional dependency
• The cultural influence of machismo in Mexico City on dating and self-esteem
• Why celibacy can be an empowering choice for those in recovery
• How to recognize and break addictive relationship patterns (limerence)
• The surprising benefits of celibacy in sobriety: clarity, confidence, creativity, and peace
• Relearning intimacy through self-connection rather than external validation

🔗 Resources Mentioned

🎥 YouTube Video: Sober Sexpert Tawny Lara on Sex in Sobriety

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It’s fantasy football season (…allegedly), but here on The Sober Butterfly, we’re drafting something better: the ultimate Sober Girl Fantasy Team for November. 🍂✨

In this cozy, funny, and totally relatable solo episode, host Nadine Mulvina builds her dream lineup of sober-life MVPs: from the best mocktail brands and cozy self-care rituals, to celebrity inspirations and the sober trends that did not make the team.

November might be the “in-between” month — not quite fall, not yet holidays — but that doesn’t mean it can’t be your glow-up season. Nadine breaks down how to romanticize your sober life, reset your routines, and stay grounded when the seasonal blues start creeping in.

🏈 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• 🕯️ Fantasy Draft Pick #1: The Cozy Reset Hour — Why cleaning your apartment can actually be spiritual.
• 🍸 Top Sober Brands — Mocktail Club takes the crown (and why supporting a Black woman-owned NA brand matters).
• 🌟 Celebrity MVP: Naomi Campbell — elegant, disciplined, and thriving in her sober era.
• 🧣 Bonus Rounds: Cozy rituals, main character moments, and the real sober girl essentials of November.

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✨ Best sober snack
🍸 Favorite NA brand
🌟 Sober celebrity icon
😴 Most overrated sober trend

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In this spooky-fun Halloween episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine Mulvina takes listeners on a chilling (and hilarious) journey through her dating graveyard: revisiting The Vampire, The Magician, and The Mummy 👻. Each “monster” represents an ex from her drinking days who drained her energy, disappeared behind illusions, or stayed emotionally wrapped up in his past.

Now, four years sober, Nadine reflects on what each toxic relationship taught her about self-worth, healing, and the importance of boundaries in sobriety.

✨ What You’ll Hear:

• 🧛‍♀️ The Vampire – The ex who drained her confidence and energy.
• 🎩 The Magician – The smooth talker who made her boundaries disappear.
• 🧻 The Mummy – The emotionally unavailable one who couldn’t unwrap his feelings.
• 💞 Nadine’s new sober crush from Chicago (and how she’s dating differently now).
• 💫 How sobriety gives you the ultimate spellbook for protecting your peace and energy.

Resources Mentioned:

2024 Sober Dating Wrapped

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine Mulvina returns with full energy and fresh perspective after her “silent girl summer.” She opens up about how she’s ending 2025 with intention by taking on the 75 Hard Challenge — a mental toughness program designed to build discipline, confidence, and consistency.

Nadine shares how she’s not doing 75 Hard to lose weight but rather to reset her mind and body after struggling with burnout and sugar cravings. She dives into her relationship with sugar after sobriety, explaining how alcohol metabolizes into sugar and why many sober people turn to sweets after quitting drinking.

Throughout the episode, Nadine breaks down each of the 75 Hard rules, explains how she’s modifying the challenge to fit her sober lifestyle, and opens up about her personal “why” — preventing diabetes, improving her mental health, and proving to herself that she can do hard things.

Whether you’re sober, sober-curious, or simply craving a lifestyle reset, this episode will inspire you to finish the year strong with structure, purpose, and self-accountability.

🧠 What You’ll Learn

• What the 75 Hard Challenge is and how to make it work for you
• How sugar addiction often replaces alcohol cravings in sobriety
• The science behind alcohol and sugar metabolism
• How Nadine is following the challenge (no added sugar + gallon of water a day)
• Tips for building discipline, structure, and consistency
• Why ending 2025 with intention can shift your mindset going into the new year

🔗 Resources Mentioned

• 75 Hard Challenge Rules:
  1. Follow a structured diet (Nadine’s rule: no added sugar)
  2. Complete two 45-minute workouts per day (one outdoors)
  3. Drink one gallon of water daily
  4. Read 10 pages of a non-fiction/self-improvement book
  5. Take a daily progress photo
  6. No alcohol, no cheat meals
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• Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/es/podcast/slip-eating-disorder-recovery-sobriety-the-middle/id1633341419?i=1000716887674&l=en-GB
• Follow Nadine’s 75 Hard journey on Instagram → @the.soberbutterfly

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Return of the Sober Butterfly- Nadine's Life Updates, Summer Adventures, and Starting 75 Hard

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In this episode, Nadine returns after a two-month hiatus to provide life updates and catch listeners up on her summer experiences. She discusses her high-functioning depression, a challenging summer job, and a rigorous but ultimately unsuccessful attempt to become a Pilates instructor. Nadine also shares details about her adventurous trek in the Andes Mountains of Peru, the challenges she faced, and how it provided her with clarity. She concludes the episode by announcing her plan to finish the year strong by undertaking the 75 Hard challenge. Listeners are invited to join her journey and follow her updates on Instagram.

00:00 Introduction and Catching Up
00:38 Life Updates and Sobriety Journey
03:04 Dealing with Depression and Burnout
06:49 Summer Job and Overcommitment
09:11 Pilates Training Struggles
16:57 Vacation in Peru
20:02 Altitude Sickness and Rainbow Mountain
30:21 Struggles of the First Night
31:29 Meeting the Group and Guide
32:10 Facing Physical Challenges
33:56 Bathroom Woes and Remedies
35:49 Unexpected Companions
37:47 Reaching the Mountain Peak
42:44 The Journey Continues
49:18 Reflecting on the Trek
51:12 Post-Trek Adventures
54:45 Planning for the Future

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In this powerful and deeply personal episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine sits down with journalism professor and author Mallary Tenore Tarpley to discuss the nuanced realities of eating disorder recovery—and its often-overlooked intersection with sobriety.

Mallary’s forthcoming book, Slip: Life in the Middle of Eating Disorder Recovery, explores the idea of the “middle place”—that in-between space where you’re no longer in crisis, but not yet fully healed. Together, Nadine and Mallary unpack their personal struggles with body dysmorphia, disordered eating, drunkorexia, and the pressure to appear “recovered.”

🔔 Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of eating disorders, body image, and co-occurring substance use. Please listen with care.

🔍 In This Episode:

• What it means to live in the “middle place” of recovery
• The overlap between eating disorders and substance abuse (aka “drunkorexia”)
• Social media’s impact on body image and recovery
• The difference between disordered eating and a clinical eating disorder
• How to practice self-compassion in non-linear healing journeys
• Nadine’s personal reflections on sobriety, mental health, and her recent sobriety anniversary
• Why recovery is ongoing—and that “slipping” doesn’t mean failing

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Welcome to summer, Butterflies! ☀️ In this solo episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine kicks off the season with a fun and empowering guide to having your best summer yet—without alcohol. From movement routines to mocktail orders, Nadine shares her Hot Girl Sober Summer Essentials List—10 intentional, joy-filled tools to help you feel confident, grounded, and free all summer long.

You’ll hear:
✨ The 10 Essentials for a Hot Girl Sober Summer
🥂 How to craft your go-to non-alcoholic drink order
🎶 Why every sober girl needs a mood-boosting playlist
🧘🏾‍♀️ The power of routines, movement, and mindful spending
🧡 A reminder that you don’t need alcohol to have a beautiful summer
👯‍♀️ Details on the upcoming Hot Girl Sober Summer in Central Park event happening July 20th!

🎵 Hot Girl Sober Summer Playlist → Listen on Spotify

🗓️ Join us IRL!
Save your spot for the Hot Girl Sober Summer event in Central Park with Nadine, Kat (@soberfitgirl), and Rachel (@soberincentralpark) – tickets available here!

🔗 Resources & Links:

• 🎶 Playlist: Hot Girl Sober Summer – Spotify
• 🎟️ Event Tickets: Hot Girl Sober Summer in Central Park
• 💌 Connect: Follow Nadine on Instagram @the.soberbutterfly

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In this raw and powerful episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine sits down with Sarah from She Stays Sober for a deeply personal conversation about what sobriety really looks like behind the highlight reels.

Sarah shares her journey to sobriety—getting sober in March 2020 at the height of the pandemic, a time when many people’s drinking escalated. We explore what life looked like in her drinking days, what triggered her decision to stop, and how her recovery has evolved.

This episode also gets honest about mental health in sobriety. Both Nadine and Sarah open up about living with depression—even while sober—and the hard truth that recovery doesn't magically erase mental illness. They also dive into the stigma around taking prescribed medications or controlled substances for mental health, especially within the sober community.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I doing recovery wrong because I’m still struggling?”—this conversation is for you.

✨ In this episode, we discuss:

• Sarah’s unique journey to sobriety during the pandemic
• What life looked like before sobriety
• Living with depression in sobriety
• The stigma around taking medication for mental health
• The importance of nuance, compassion, and staying open
• Reframing what “being sober” really means
• Finding community and sharing the messy middle of healing

🎧 Tune in now on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the episode to help others discover the show.

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• Alan Carr's Easy Way To Quit Smoking

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Nadine drops three confessions that prove sobriety is not a linear path, it’s a lifelong journey of self-awareness, accountability, and grace.

📢 Trigger warning: This episode discusses mental health, relapse, and addiction in a raw, unfiltered way.

This episode is an invitation to get real about the messy, nonlinear truth of recovery. Sobriety doesn’t make you perfect, but it gives you the clarity and courage to own your sh*t, forgive yourself, and start again.

What You’ll Hear:

• How addictive thoughts can sneak in quietly...even in the most random places
• Why therapy plateaus can signal deeper shifts in your healing journey
• The complicated feelings around relapse, shame, and recommitting to change
• A reminder that progress, not perfection is the real goal

🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube!

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• Alan Carr's Easy Way To Quit Smoking

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In this solo episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine gets brutally honest about what happens after the drinking stops.

Titled “Sober, But Still Toxic? A Journey in Progress,” this episode unpacks the not-so-glamorous truth that sobriety alone doesn’t automatically make you emotionally healthy. Nadine reflects on how, even after years alcohol-free, she still caught herself being petty, judgmental, controlling, and stuck in people-pleasing patterns.

Nadine dives deep into:

• Why recovery is not a personality makeover
• How therapy and inner child work exposed the roots of her behavior
• The myth of perfection in sobriety
• Setting real boundaries (without needing a drink to enforce them)
• How “petty” can still show up—and how to lovingly call yourself out

Nadine shares personal stories, moments of growth, and reminders that healing isn’t linear.

Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or somewhere in between, this episode will speak to the part of you doing the work while still figuring it all out.

📚 Resources Mentioned:

• Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown
• Embracing All Parts of You ft. Kezia from The Sober Elephant Chronicle

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In this solo episode, Nadine explores the hidden cost of “free” drinks and how pretty privilege shaped her drinking experiences. From VIP invites to ER visits, she unpacks the illusion of power tied to beauty and booze, and what sobriety has taught her about self-worth.

Tune in for a raw, reflective, and empowering take on how we trade our peace for acceptance.

✨ If you’ve ever mistaken attention for value, this one’s for you.
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This week on The Sober Butterfly, Nadine interviews Ian Fee, author of Wild Ride to Sobriety. From his first sip of alcohol at just one year old to an intense 10-day rehab that involved ipecac (yep, you read that right), Ian shares the highs, lows, and hard truths of his path to sobriety. He opens up about fatherhood, addiction transference, the power of The Four Agreements, and how his life transformed once he got clear.

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In this honest solo episode, host Nadine Mulvina shares an exciting update—The Sober Butterfly is evolving. After nearly four years of documenting her alcohol-free journey, Nadine opens up about feeling pulled toward a new chapter, one that still honors her sobriety but expands into the full richness of her identity.

She reflects on the inspiration behind The Sober Butterfly (metamorphosis and transformation), what sobriety has given her, and why it's time to shed her old skin. From feeling constrained by the label 'sober' to expressing a desire to expand the scope of her content to include topics beyond just sobriety, such as travel, creativity, spirituality, personal growth, and dreaming about new creative directions (hello, Silent Summer 👀), Nadine invites listeners behind the scenes of her rebrand process.

This episode explores the tension between outgrowing an identity and honoring the journey that got you here. If you’ve ever felt the desire to evolve but were afraid to let go of who you once were, this one’s for you.

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In this compelling episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine sits down with Nick Jonsson—a TEDx speaker, bestselling author, Ironman athlete, and sobriety coach—to explore the journey from addiction and executive burnout to purpose-driven recovery.

Nick opens up about his experience with executive loneliness, the hidden struggles behind high-performing professionals, and how hitting rock bottom ultimately became the launchpad for a radically transformed life.

Together, Nadine and Nick dive into topics like the power of community support, gray area drinking, and the importance of holistic wellness in sobriety. Nick also shares how sobriety improved his athletic performance and led him to create a coaching practice to help others reclaim their lives.

🎙️ Highlights from this episode:

• 00:39 – Rapid Fire with Nick Jonsson
• 02:54 – Nick’s story: Success, silence, and addiction
• 06:27 – His breaking point and beginning the path to recovery
• 09:55 – Why making amends is a crucial part of healing
• 16:03 – What it means to live a life beyond your wildest dreams
• 21:45 – Wellness strategies that actually work in sobriety
• 27:42 – What data can teach us about alcohol’s impact
• 33:49 – Why coaching and community are recovery game-changers
• 38:23 – Sneak peek of Nick’s upcoming book

Whether you're sober-curious, in recovery, or supporting someone on their journey, Nick’s wisdom will leave you feeling inspired and empowered.

📘 Resources Mentioned:

• Nick’s LinkedIn
• Nick Jonsson’s Website
• Book: Executive Loneliness by Nick Jonsson

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Faith, Healing & Holistic Sobriety: Dr. Sarah Nasir on the Mind-Body-Spirit Connection in Recovery | Part 2

In Part 2 of this powerful convo, Nadine chats with Dr. Sarah Nasir about spirituality, Islam, and the mind-body-soul connection in addiction recovery. Learn how faith, holistic wellness, and her Transcendent U program help women heal.

Mentioned in the Episode:

• Dr. Sarah Nasir’s holistic coaching program: Transcendent U
• Resource on alcohol overdose by NIAAA: Understanding the Dangers of Alcohol Overdose
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Have you ever woken up with no memory of the night before? You’re not alone. In this powerful episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine Mulvina—once a regular blackout drinker—opens up about the frightening reality of blackouts and explores what’s really happening in the brain with Dr. Sarah Nasir, DO.

Dr. Nasir is a board-certified Addiction Medicine physician, life coach, and holistic recovery advocate. She breaks down the short- and long-term effects of binge drinking and blackouts on the brain, how alcohol impairs memory and cognition, and what recovery looks like from a medical and holistic lens.

This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation packed with valuable insight and empowering information—perfect for anyone questioning their relationship with alcohol or seeking deeper understanding of the science behind sobriety.

🎧 In This Episode, We Cover:

• What a blackout really is—and why it happens
• How binge drinking affects memory, decision-making, and brain function
• The physiological toll of alcohol on your nervous system
• Why some people blackout more than others
• The truth about alcohol overdose and life-threatening risk factors
• Why honesty with your doctor is a radical act of self-care
• How the brain can repair itself in sobriety with the right support

🌿 About Dr. Sarah Nasir:
Dr. Nasir empowers women to navigate sobriety with compassion and clarity. With a background in osteopathic medicine and life coaching, she offers a unique perspective on addiction recovery that blends medical expertise with holistic tools. Her mission is to support women in reclaiming their health, confidence, and purpose.

📚 Mentioned Resource:
🧾 Understanding the Dangers of Alcohol Overdose – NIAAA

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📌 Stay Tuned for Part 2:
Part 2: Healing Through Faith & Holistic Recovery drops Sunday, May 4th. Dr. Nasir returns to discuss how spiritual wellness, emotional intelligence, and lifestyle changes support sustainable sobriety.

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine is joined by Danielle, the founder of That Sober Glow and No Booze Crew, an inspiring virtual women's sober community. Danielle opens up about her journey with sobriety, beginning with her first drink at the age of 14 and the challenges that came with navigating New York City drinking culture.

Danielle shares how multiple “day ones” have shaped her path to recovery, showing that it's okay to restart, regroup, and refocus on your sobriety as many times as it takes. She talks about the importance of healing, mental health, and finding a community of support along the way. Together, Nadine and Danielle dive deep into how sobriety is not just about quitting alcohol, but about building a life of strength, joy, and connection—especially within the vibrant NYC scene.

✨ Highlights ✨

• Danielle’s journey from her first drink at 14 to navigating addiction in New York City.
• The impact of trauma and anxiety on drinking habits and how recovery begins with self-compassion.
• The challenges of city drinking culture and the importance of community support in sobriety.
• Founding the No Booze Crew, a virtual space for women to connect, share, and support each other.
• A fun rapid-fire segment on favorite sober drinks, NYC memories, and travel dreams.

If you’ve ever had a “day one” or are currently navigating your own sobriety journey, this episode is for you! Tune in for an honest and uplifting conversation that’ll remind you that every step counts.

Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Sober Butterfly Podcast—your feedback means the world!

Also, join the No Booze Crew community and follow Danielle on Instagram @ThatSoberGlow for more inspiring content. We’re all in this together!

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In this bonus solo episode, host Nadine Mulvina takes you on a sun-soaked, power-outage-filled journey to San Juan, Puerto Rico—traveling with her college best friend who still drinks. Through vibrant stories and heartfelt reflection, Nadine explores how choosing sobriety doesn’t mean missing out—it can actually inspire those around you.

From salsa dancing in La Placita, to hiking El Yunque rainforest hangover-free, to screaming with joy when the power came back on, Nadine shares how her sober presence shifted the energy of the trip. This episode is a love letter to travel, friendship, and the magic that comes when you choose presence over partying.

🎒 Highlights from the Episode:

• Positive peer pressure & how sobriety can shift group dynamics
• Rebuilding old friendships through new boundaries and honesty
• Celebrating others while staying true to yourself
• The joy of dancing, adventuring, and sunbathing—no alcohol required
• Navigating the “drinking friend” dynamic without judgment
• Lessons from travel that apply to everyday sober life

🌴 San Juan Itinerary Highlights:

• Solo salsa night at La Placita
• Power outages, piña coladas (yes—N/A!), and birthday surprises
• Sailboat + catamaran tours
• Natural waterslides & cliff-jumping in El Yunque
• Rooftop dinners and spontaneous connections

💡 Sober Travel Tips:

• Pack a portable charger (!!!)
• Make space to celebrate your friends—even if you’re skipping the booze
• Have a “morning plan” to stay grounded on vacation
• Always ask bartenders if they can make a custom mocktail—you might just get the best drink of your life

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina partners with Salt River Therapy to explore how therapy can help break the cycle of people-pleasing in sobriety. Licensed therapist Alexandria Atkinson shares her own healing journey and explains how trauma, attachment wounds, and fear of rejection fuel people-pleasing behaviors.

Together, they unpack how to set boundaries, sit with discomfort, and show yourself the grace you offer others.

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine Mulvina is joined by licensed therapist and mental health counselor Kendall Bierman for an open, honest, and empowering conversation about getting sober in your twenties.

Kendall shares her personal journey—from struggling with anxiety and alcohol use in college to becoming a therapist who now helps others navigate similar challenges. Together, Nadine and Kendall explore how anxiety often fuels substance use, why therapy is a powerful tool for healing, and how to build lasting recovery rooted in self-love and emotional resilience.

Topics discussed include:

• Kendall’s path to sobriety and how it shaped her career
• The connection between anxiety, alcohol, and avoidance
• Why learning to sit with discomfort is key to healing
• The role of AA and other supportive sober communities
• How self-compassion transforms the recovery journey

💬 The episode wraps with a game, “Therapy Hotline,” where Kendall gives rapid-fire advice for common sober scenarios—like how to deal with toxic exes, party invites, and handling a slip.

✨ Whether you're sober curious, early in recovery, or just need a reminder that you're not alone, this episode is full of relatable gems and grounded mental health insight.

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, Nadine Mulvina sits down with Sophia Graniela, an EFT practitioner, shadow work coach, and transformational guide, to explore the journey of healing from addiction, toxic relationships, and self-sabotage.

Sophia opens up about growing up in a chaotic environment shaped by alcoholism and mental health struggles, leading to her own battles with substance abuse and destructive patterns. She shares the pivotal moment at age 29 that led her to sobriety, self-discovery, and deep inner work, including her profound experiences with Ayahuasca and how it helped her break free from limiting beliefs.

We dive into:
✨ Why we cling to chaos, distractions, and unhealthy coping mechanisms
✨ The power of EFT tapping and shadow work in emotional healing
✨ How solo travel transformed Sophia’s sobriety and self-worth
✨ The importance of radical honesty and self-awareness in breaking toxic cycles
✨ Turning your mess into your message—how Sophia now helps women reconnect with their true selves

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In this special solo episode of The Sober Butterfly, I’m reflecting on 34 years of life, love, and lessons—the highs, the lows, and everything in between.

Birthdays can be complicated, and this year, I’ve been sitting with some deep feelings. I’m opening up about birthday blues, the pressures we place on ourselves, and how sobriety has shaped the way I celebrate milestones. But more than that, I’m sharing 34 of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned—on sobriety, mental health, relationships, self-worth, and personal growth.

✨ In this episode, we’ll dive into:

• The truth about birthday anxiety & expectations 🎈
• How gut health affects your mood (yes, your stomach is part of the convo)
• Why solo travel & journaling can change your life 🌍
• 34 real lessons that have shaped me into the person I am today

If you’ve ever felt weird about birthdays, struggled with self-doubt, or just love a good reflection session, this one’s for you.

🎧 Tune in now and let’s talk about life, growth, and the beauty of sober living.

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina interviews Kristen McAvoy, a sobriety influencer known for her transparent and inspirational posts on Instagram. Kristen candidly shares her tumultuous journey from binge drinking during her sorority days to struggling with a severe addiction to alcohol and Xanax. She recounts how her social anxiety fueled her substance abuse, leading to rock bottom and interventions which ultimately saved her. Kristen speaks about her path to almost four years of sobriety, emphasizing the critical roles of rehab, recovery houses, structured routines, connection, and ongoing tools like EMDR therapy and faith.

The conversation also gets into:

• the struggles of maintaining sobriety,
• managing anxiety without substances,
• and the stigmas around addiction recovery
• transparency while understanding that sobriety, although transformative, is a continuous and challenging process.

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina welcomes guest Melissa McGovern to share her transformative journey to sobriety. Melissa recounts how her heavy drinking, particularly during the pandemic, led to various health issues. Despite initial attempts and setbacks, a wake-up call from her doctor finally motivated her to commit to a sober life. Melissa delves into the benefits she's experienced, such as improved health, clarity, and a renewed sense of purpose. Now a certified alcohol-free coach, she helps others navigate their paths to sobriety. With poignant anecdotes and practical advice, Melissa illustrates the profound changes sobriety has brought to her life.

We also discuss:

• loss and grief
• overcoming limiting beliefs
• finding clarity in sobriety
• asking for help
• inner knowing

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In this episode of 'The Sober Butterfly,' host Nadine Mulvina interviews Jasmine Flowers, who shares her struggle with alcoholism, unresolved trauma, and an abusive relationship despite outward appearances of a perfect life.

The episode covers serious topics including domestic abuse, sexual trauma, and suicidal ideation. Jasmine’s journey to sobriety began with therapy and treatment, which helped her gain clarity on her toxic marriage and the need to reclaim her life.

We also discuss:

• reclaiming self-worth,
• building a supportive community
• new life roles,
• redefining relationships
• self-care,
• the transformative power of staying grounded in one’s sobriety.

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In this episode of 'The Sober Butterfly' podcast, Nadine shares the 10 Things Every Sober Girl Needs for Dating & Relationships, whether single, taken, or just flirting.

The 10 Things Every Sober Girl Needs for Dating & Relationships:

• a functional brain 🧠
• a voice that works (and speaks up) 🗣️
• an inner voice/intuition ✨
• a bailout plan 🏃🏾‍♀️‍➡️
• a dating profile exuding main character energy 💃🏾
• a sexy non-alcoholic drink order 🍸
• a supportive group chat 💬
• confidence 😎
• a boundaries blueprint 🚫
• hobbies that make life fulfilling 🤸🏾‍♀️

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In this FULL episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine Mulvina welcomes special guest Madeline Forrest, known as Maddie from Happiest Sober. Beginning with a fun icebreaker, Maddie shares her journey from a timid, anxious drinker to a brave, optimistic, and proud sober woman.

The discussion covers her initial struggles with alcohol, experiences dating while sober, and the development of her high standards and self-love in sobriety. Maddie reveals the emotional turning points that led to her commitment to sobriety, her coping strategies, and the profound impact of her sober lifestyle on her relationships and career.

Throughout the episode, Maddie provides valuable advice for those navigating sobriety, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion and the personal growth that comes from facing challenges head-on.

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine interviews Maddie from 'Happiest Sober'. Maddie shares her experiences and challenges before and after achieving sobriety, emphasizing how it transformed her life by making her more optimistic and brave. They delve into Maddie's reasons for drinking, how sobriety has affected her dating life and standards, and the importance of celebrating sobriety. Maddie offers advice for navigating dating apps and talks about overcoming her fear of flying. Additionally, they discuss the growth of Maddie's online sober community and upcoming projects. Maddie’s story is an inspiring testament to the positive changes sobriety can bring.

Part 2 of Maddie's Story will debut next Friday :)

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly podcast, Nadine welcomes Tawny Lara, known as the 'sober sexpert,' to discuss her book, 'Dry Humping: A Guide to Booze Free Dating, Sex and Relationships.' Tawny details her journe from being a party girl bartender in Texas to moving to New York City and reevaluating her relationship with alcohol in 2015 New York City. This convo covers Tawny's approach to dating, sex, and relationships without alcohol, highlighting the importance of self-love, self-discovery, and intrinsic courage.

We also get into:

• practical tips for dating yourself
• navigating relationships with different drinking habits
• the importance of effective communication
• building intrinsic courage
• sober sex
• aligning one's actions with personal growth and comfort
• Additional topics include dealing with mental health struggles, the significance of community support, and creating harm reduction strategies.

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine kicks off February with a solo discussion focusing on love, dating, sex, relationships, and self-love through the lens of sobriety. She recounts her personal experiences with breakups, both before and after getting sober, and offers strategies for handling heartbreak without turning to substances. Nadine emphasizes the importance of feeling emotions and shares professional insights on processing them.

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Ashley McGee shares her journey of overcoming the influence of various substances, including alcohol, cigarettes, vaping, and weed. Ashley talks openly about the impact these substances had on her life, why harm reduction was crucial for her, and the tools that aided her in achieving sobriety.

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly, Nadine welcomes Tiana Heath, a producer and host known for her shows 'Missing on Long Island' and 'Beyond the Bottle,' to discuss her inspiring sober journey. Tiana reflects on her mother’s passing and how it prompted her to choose sobriety as a healthier coping mechanism. The conversation covers self-care, the importance of thinking about one's future self, and the role of creativity in their work. Both hosts emphasize the power of living an alcohol-free life and achieving dreams.

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine Mulvina interviews clinical psychologist Sylvia Subriana to dispel myths about hypnotherapy and its application in overcoming alcohol dependency. Sylvia is a clinical psychologist and Head of Content Development at MyDry30, an innovative app designed to help users take control of their relationship of alcohol. Silvia shares her personal journey with quitting alcohol due to health issues and societal pressures. She emphasizes the significance of understanding and controlling one's habits and discusses how hypnotherapy can aid in rewiring the brain to form healthier habits. The episode also explains the differences between dopamine and serotonin and how alcohol impacts brain chemistry. Sylvia highlights the holistic approach of MyDry30, which includes hypnotherapy, journaling, and offers multiple paths for individuals seeking to moderate or completely quit alcohol. The discussion aims to provide accessible tools and knowledge for anyone looking to redefine their relationship with alcohol.

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Nadine chats with Kathryn Sauser, aka Kat from Sober Fit Girl, about fitness, sobriety, and personal transformation. Kathryn shares her sobriety journey, revealing how it has drastically improved her life, including mental health, relationships, and professional success. They also talk about the benefits of traveling, especially Kathryn’s retreats in Bali, and the supportive community at Sober Fit Girl, a program designed to help women explore sobriety in an approachable, non-judgmental way. The episode wraps with Kat answering audience questions about sober dating and socializing, and the future of the sobriety and wellness movement.

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In the latest episode of 'The Sober Butterfly Podcast,'Nadine discusses her projections around upcoming trends, habits, and shifts for 2025 in the sober community. Sober INS for 2025: the rise of sober events and gatherings, the increasing popularity of sober travel, and the growth of the non-alcoholic beverage industry. Sober OUTS for 2025: peer pressure to drink, toxic wellness trends, and the lack of representation in the sober movement.

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly podcast, host Nadine Mulvina recounts her 2024 dating experiences while living alcohol-free. She provides an amusing and detailed wrap-up akin to Spotify Wrapped but for her dating life. Nadine uses playful aliases for her dates and dives into the nuances of dating sober, including stories about ghosting, foreign dates, and Hinge mishaps. Each date offers unique insights and challenges, highlighting the complexities of dating without the influence of alcohol. Nadine closes with goals for 2025 focused on building stronger connections and prioritizing emotional well-being.

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina interviews Symone French, a talented singer from Mobile, Alabama. Symone shares her transformative journey of overcoming stage fright, addiction, and reclaiming her voice. Highlights include Symone’s initial fear of alcohol due to parental influence, her reliance on alcohol for confidence, the impact of the pandemic, and her rock bottom experience at a friend's wedding. The convo also discusses broader themes of societal pressures, the unique struggles of black women in addiction and recovery, and the empowerment found in sobriety. The epsiode ends by celebrating Symone’s career success post-sobriety and her inspiration to others through community and music.

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In this solo episode of the Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina explores the profound and diverse gifts that sobriety has brought to her life, particularly during the holiday season. Nadine discusses rediscovered time, the distinction between joy and pleasure, the rebuilding of self-trust, the importance of authenticity, and the significance of forming genuine connections. Interspersed with personal anecdotes, the episode also touches on practical mindfulness practices, healthy boundaries in relationships, and the overall transformation sobriety has allowed in her life.

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly podcast, Nadine discusses with guest Chris about his book and his journey through addiction to sobriety. Chris candidly talks about how his excessive drinking led to professional struggles, a strained marriage, and neglecting his relationship with his young son. He shares that his transformation began with his decision to get sober, leading him to attend rehab and participate in AA meetings, though he struggled with the concept of a higher power. Chris detailed his post-rehab challenges, including his wife's request for a separation and dealing with loneliness and suicidal thoughts. He emphasizes mindfulness and breathing exercises as crucial tools in maintaining sobriety. Their discussion covers his methods of sustaining a healthy lifestyle, such as decluttering his space, redefining his values, and visualizing the person he wants to become. Chris concludes by highlighting the importance of resilience, support from loved ones, and making personal amends. He is currently working on his book 'Live Unshakable: Getting Your Shit Together,' aiming for a March release.

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly podcast, host Nadine Mulvina chats with Gabby from Booze Free NYC. Gabby shares her journey to sobriety, including the pivotal moments that led to her decision to quit drinking. Gabby and Nadine discuss the evolving sober nightlife in New York City, favorite alcohol-free spots, and the importance of supportive sober communities. The episode also touches on the significance of inclusive non-alcoholic options at bars and restaurants, and Gabby offers insights on maintaining a fun and active social life while sober. Connect with Gabby 🍒Instagram @boozefree.nyc
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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly podcast, host Nadine Mulvina interviews Frankie, a successful hairdresser who has been sober for over ten years. The discussion delves into how their Aries zodiac traits, such as boldness and impulsivity, influenced both their addiction and recovery journeys. Frankie shares raw insights into her past struggles with addiction, violent behaviors, and the spiritual awakening that led her to sobriety. The episode also touches on the significance of spirituality, the importance of facing one's inner child, and the rewarding aspects of living a sober life, including genuine connections and newfound hobbies. The conversation is filled with wisdom, humor, and a powerful message of hope for anyone on the path to sobriety or curious about changing their relationship with alcohol.

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly podcast, host Nadine shares her experience exploring Rome sober and solo. Documenting her 3 days in Rome, she contrasts it with her previous, alcohol-fueled visit in 2019. Highlights include a Hinge date, savoring non-alcoholic drinks, indulging in Rome's culinary delights, taking a pasta-making class, and the empowerment of solo, sober travel. Listen in for travel tips, personal growth anecdotes, and a celebration of living life without alcohol.

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly podcast, Nadine welcomes the funny, witty, beautiful Gina Michelle from @sassnsarcasmic. Gina shares heartfelt truths about personal trauma, addiction, and mental health struggles. Gina discusses her childhood in a large dysfunctional family, the impact of her mother's alcoholism, and her own battles with mental health and substance abuse. With a focus on her healing process, Gina reflects on setting boundaries, embracing female friendships, and practicing radical honesty. She also shares her experiences with AA meetings, the importance of female support networks, and her pursuit of therapy and self-care to address deeper issues. This episode offers an inspiring look at overcoming adversity and the ongoing work required in the journey to sobriety and emotional well-being.

00:00 Intro + Trigger Warning

01:04 Gina's Early Life and Family Dynamics

01:37 Childhood Trauma and Dysfunction

05:50 Struggles with Mental Health

06:59 Teenage Years and Substance Abuse

08:31 Life in a Group Home and Family Abandonment

10:01 Identified Patient

13:04 Alcohol Dependency

21:16 COVID-19 and Escalation of Alcohol Use

25:29 Path to Sobriety and AA Meetings

35:58 First Date at AA

36:49 Mixed Feelings About AA

37:57 Healing Journey

41:49 ADHD Meds and Healthcare

48:05 Setting Boundaries with Family

57:59 Navigating Life and Sobriety

01:07:24 Final Thoughts

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In this episode of 'The Sober Butterfly,' host Nadine delves into seasonal self-care practices tailored for November. With the onset of shorter days and colder weather, she emphasizes the importance of adjusting self-care routines to stay grounded and committed to sobriety. Nadine shares personal anecdotes and tips, such as replacing alcohol with herbal teas and mocktails, journaling, creating a cozy sobriety space, and embracing slower, restful activities. She also highlights the significance of spending time in nature and taking up creative projects to boost mental health and foster inspiration. Nadine challenges listeners to commit to one new self-care tip for the month and encourages them to share their progress on social media.

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Nadine shares her personal journey and tips for enjoying Halloween sober 👻🎃 She contrasts her past drunken Halloween experiences with her cherished, sober celebrations, offering insights and advice for those aiming to celebrate without alcohol. She suggests practical strategies, like hosting your own party, being selective with your plans, and preparing non-alcoholic options. This episode encourages viewers to focus on meaningful fun and control over their decisions while highlighting sponsor messages from Moment and Audible.

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine delves into navigating social life and friendships while maintaining sobriety. Key topics include understanding and setting personal boundaries, communicating needs honestly, and dealing with peer pressure and FOMO. Nadine shares practical advice on staying connected with friends who drink, choosing alternative social activities, and handling social dynamics without alcohol. The episode highlights the importance of mental clarity, offers tips for engaging in social settings comfortably, and emphasizes the significance of preserving and nurturing valuable relationships in a sober lifestyle.

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly, host Nadine shares her personal journey with her recent ADHD diagnosis, coinciding with ADHD awareness month and Sober October. She discusses the relief and shock of being diagnosed as an adult and explores how undiagnosed ADHD affected her life, especially her relationship with alcohol. Nadine explains how ADHD symptoms like inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity led her to self-medicate with alcohol, contributing to an ongoing struggle with alcohol use disorder. She highlights the larger issue of undiagnosed ADHD in adulthood, the link between ADHD and higher risks of substance abuse, and shares insights into common symptoms of ADHD. Nadine also explains the negative effects of alcohol on ADHD symptoms and discusses coping mechanisms she has developed since going sober. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding one's mental health, embracing healthier habits, and finding support within sober and ADHD communities.

00:38 ADHD Diagnosis Journey

01:47 ADHD and Alcohol

04:23 Understanding ADHD

08:43 The Link Between ADHD and Alcohol Use

24:10 The Impact of Sobriety on ADHD

41:18 Building Healthier Habits

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In this episode of 'The Sober Butterfly', host Nadine delves into the controversial gray areas of sobriety, challenging usual narratives and questioning the necessity of permanent sobriety. She discusses her personal journey, sharing that sobriety does not need to be a lifelong commitment for everyone, the over-glorification of sobriety on social media, and the criticism sober individuals face. Nadine argues that being sober doesn't inherently make someone a better person and expresses that it's normal to grieve your old lifestyle. She also addresses the elitism in the wellness industry linked to sobriety and advocates for more accessible and compassionate approaches like harm reduction. By offering her unique perspectives, Nadine encourages listeners to reflect on their own sobriety journey, underlining the importance of personal choice and authenticity.

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In this episode of the Super Butterfly podcast, host Nadine shares a personal story of an accidental relapse into alcohol consumption after three years of sobriety. She details how it happened during a dinner with friends in Brooklyn and the emotions she experienced—initial shock, shame, and denial. Nadine reflects on important lessons from the incident, including the value of community, the importance of self-compassion, understanding triggers, and learning to forgive oneself. She offers insights on how to navigate setbacks in sobriety and emphasizes that such moments are opportunities for growth and reaffirmation of one's commitment to sobriety.

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01:32 The Accidental Relapse: Setting the Scene

03:22 The Relapse Story Begins

07:42 Realization and Reaction

18:33 Lessons Learned from Relapse

33:06 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly podcast, host Nadine shares comprehensive packing tips and essential items for sober travelers. Nadine details her vacation essentials aimed at maintaining a peaceful mind, physical wellness, and social ease while on trips. She emphasizes the importance of intentional packing, setting pre-trip reflections, and utilizing tools like travel journals, meditation apps, and exercise gear to stay grounded. Alongside practical advice, Nadine discusses maintaining sobriety through personal affirmations and support networks, and recommends engaging in creative activities. The episode also includes a promotion for the drink brand Moment, highlighting its benefits for sober travelers. Nadine concludes by sharing plans for a rejuvenating break and how listeners can stay connected with her on social media.

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In this episode Nadine delves into the remarkable resilience and candor of Julia Fox, a figure known for her storytelling and transparency about past relationships. Nadine reflects on how Julia's openness has inspired her to share her own truth without fear of repercussions. The episode emphasizes the importance of owning one's narrative, sharing personal experiences, and the consequences of wrongdoings.

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly podcast, Nadine dives into the concept of having a 'Brat Summer.' Inspired by Charlie XCX’s Brat album, Nadine explores how millennials and Gen Z can unite over this unapologetic, carefree trend—particularly in a sober context. She discusses the differences between past trends, like the 'clean girl' and 'Barbie core' aesthetics, and why 'Brat Summer' feels more authentic and liberating.

Nadine breaks down a fun quiz to determine if a Brat Summer is right for you and introduces an acronym (BRAT: Bold, No Regrets/Reality Check, Alcohol-Free, Thrive) as a guide to living your best brat life. The episode also covers Nadine's personal experiences, including dating in a bold way, managing finances, and thriving in a sober lifestyle. With tips on how to be bold, embrace your authentic self, and have fun without alcohol, this episode promises a dynamic start to a unique and memorable summer.

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly, host Nadine Mulvina is joined by Michelle Plant from Michelle Plant Travels. Together, they explore the importance of women traveling together, especially during their sobriety journeys. Michelle shares her personal history of travel, contrasting experiences when she was drinking versus her current sober adventures. They discuss the unique challenges and rewards of sober solo and group travel, the value of authentic connections, and practical tips for planning successful trips. The episode also covers the significance of setting boundaries and the profound self-discovery that comes with sober travel. Whether a seasoned traveler or contemplating your first sober journey, this episode offers insights and encouragement for a life-changing experience.

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly podcast, Nadine welcomes back Rachel Covert from Rachel Talks Money to discuss the financial aspects of sobriety and managing spending during the summer. They delve into topics such as the increased tendency to spend money during the summer, alternative budget-friendly activities, and the importance of setting financial priorities. Rachel shares valuable tips on mitigating unnecessary expenses, saving for future goals, and investing wisely to build long-term wealth. The conversation also explores various avenues for wealth creation, including online businesses, affiliate marketing, 401-plans and the benefits of investing early. Listeners are encouraged to examine their spending habits, make informed financial decisions, and plan ahead for a financially secure future

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly, Nadine reflects on her third soberversary and delves into the challenges of comparing sobriety journeys. She discusses the psychological basis of the comparison trap, shares researched insights, and offers practical tips to avoid harmful comparisons, such as focusing on personal achievements, practicing self-compassion, and curating a supportive social media feed. Nadine also emphasizes the importance of gratitude journaling, mindfulness, professional help, and personal growth in maintaining a healthy and individualized sobriety journey.

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In this week’s episode, Nadine reflects on why she got sober, offers tips for getting and maintaining sobriety, and why getting sober was the BEST decision of her life. After three years of being alcohol-free, Nadine shares wisdom she’s acquired along the way.

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly podcast, host Nadine Mulvina interviews Kathy, a dedicated member of several 12-step programs including Alcoholics Anonymous, Al-Anon, Debtors Anonymous, and Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous. Kathy opens up about her experiences with substance use and addiction, her tumultuous family background, and the journey to sobriety and recovery. Her story highlights the importance of anonymity, the impact of support systems, and the transformative power of these programs. The episode also touches on the concept of addiction transference and the holistic nature of recovery, offering listeners a profound and relatable perspective on tackling various forms of addiction.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:41 Kathy's Early Life and Family Struggles

03:53 Discovering Al-Anon and the Start of Recovery

06:23 Journey Through Multiple Anonymous Programs

11:00 Personal Struggles and Turning Points

19:47 First Year of Sobriety and Challenges

28:31 Personal Loss and Early Recovery Challenges

28:45 Learning to Follow the Steps

29:39 Self-Diagnosis and External Influences

31:05 Introduction to Debtors Anonymous

33:38 Tools and Practices in Debtors Anonymous

43:19 Exploring Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous

45:54 Overcoming Deep-Seated Trauma

51:31 Advice for Seeking Help

56:32 Conclusion and Contact Information

If you or someone you know is struggling with substance use or addiction, know that you are not alone and that help is available. Here are some resources for support:

• Alcoholics Anonymous (AA): aa.org
• Al-Anon Family Groups: al-anon.org
• Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACOA): adultchildren.org
• Debtors Anonymous (DA): debtorsanonymous.org
• Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA): slaafws.org

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly, Nadine discusses tips and tricks for achieving a summer glow up. Covering topics such as physical well-being through nutrition, and exercise, Nadine shares her personal goals and strategies. She also delves into skincare and emotional well-being, emphasizing the importance of journaling and surrounding oneself with positive influences.

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00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:10 The Summer Glow Up: It's Not Too Late!

01:35 Physical Well-being: The Foundation of a Glow Up

04:09 Nutrition: The Key to Sustainable Weight Loss

10:45 Exercise: Finding a Routine You Love

16:07 Skincare: Lessons from Personal Experience

19:04 Personalized Skincare Routine

20:18 Hydration Tips for Glowing Skin

21:08 The Importance of a Skincare Routine

21:42 The Benefits of Monthly Facials

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22:42 Emotional Well-being: Journaling

26:03 Self-Care Priorities

27:09 Building Positive Connections

29:30 Mental Well-being and Goal Setting

37:07 Sober Summer: Enhancing Your Glow Up

38:06 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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In this solo episode of the Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina shares her personal experiences and insights on navigating the dating scene as a sober girly in her thirties. Having taken a break from dating on her therapist's advice, Nadine discusses her return to dating, the importance of honesty about sobriety, and the challenges and nuances of dating without alcohol. She offers tips on disclosing sober status, choosing sober-friendly date activities, and maintaining confidence in one's sobriety. Additionally, Nadine emphasizes the significance of focusing on connection rather than alcohol-induced interactions.

00:00 Welcome to the Sober Butterfly Podcast
00:12 Navigating the Dating Scene as a Sober Individual
00:24 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Sobriety
01:45 The Journey Back to Dating Post-Breakup
05:16 Tips for Sober Dating: Honesty, Confidence, and Connection
07:38 Navigating First Dates and Disclosing Sobriety
15:10 Embracing Confidence in Sobriety During Dating
18:35 Focusing on Connection and Clarity in Sober Dating
23:18 Conclusion and Encouragement for Sober Dating

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly podcast, host Nadine welcomes guest Elaine Williams to discuss the significant role humor plays in the journey of recovery from alcohol addiction. Elaine shares her personal journey of overcoming addiction, including the challenges she faced growing up in a dysfunctional family, dealing with substance abuse, and ultimately finding sobriety. Elaine emphasizes the importance of humor as a tool for dealing with life's challenges and maintaining sobriety.

The conversation covers various topics, including the misconceptions about sobriety being boring, the transformative power of humor in recovery, and practical tips for incorporating comedy into the sober lifestyle. Elaine also shares her experiences of using her comedic talent to support and uplift others, encouraging listeners to embrace comedy as a means of empowerment and connection. The episode concludes with Elaine offering advice to those struggling with sobriety and highlighting the value of external support and professional help in addition to peer support groups like AA.

00:00 Welcome to the Sober Butterfly Podcast

00:13 The Power of Humor in Recovery

02:39 Elaine's Journey: From Early Struggles to Sobriety

14:10 Finding Healing and Purpose Through Comedy

19:39 The Transformative Power of Acting and Speaking Out

23:59 The Power of Moment: A Refreshing Partner

25:46 Unlocking Humor in Sobriety

25:46 Exploring the Connection Between Sobriety and Humor

27:10 Embracing the Comedic Mindset

28:41 The Transformative Journey of Sobriety

30:07 Becoming the CFO of Your Life in Sobriety

36:30 Navigating Sobriety Through Travel

40:22 Harnessing Humor as a Tool for Healing

40:55 Cultivating Comedy in Your Sober Journey

47:54 Finding Support and Embracing Change

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina talks with Daryl Dittmer, author of 'When I Stopped Fighting: The Unexpected Joy of Getting to Know You.' Daryl shares his inspiring journey of overcoming substance abuse and achieving 39 years of sobriety. Raised in a Midwest Protestant family with no initial association to alcohol, Daryl's first encounter with drinking at 13 led to years of substance misuse.

This conversation explores Daryl's transformation from struggling with substance dependency to his commitment to personal growth and resilience, ultimately leading a fulfilling sober life. Daryl's insights on reevaluating belief systems, life's purpose, the importance of gratitude, and finding one's own level of happiness and success provide valuable lessons for anyone facing similar challenges. Additionally, Daryl discusses the significance of his book and the message of hope and change he aims to impart. The episode also touches on the impact of sobriety on personal relationships and the journey towards finding contentment and purpose in life.

00:00 Welcome to the Sober Butterfly Podcast

00:22 Diving Deep with Daryl Dittmer: A Journey of Sobriety and Personal Growth

01:25 The Early Days: Daryl's Introduction to Alcohol and Its Impact

07:20 The Turning Point: Seeking Help and Embracing Sobriety

14:23 Navigating Life Post-Treatment: Successes, Failures, and Lessons Learned

25:15 The Philosophy of Sobriety: Redefining Success and Embracing Change

33:47 Defining Success and Taking Risks

34:32 The Essence of True Success

36:01 The Journey to Waking Up Happy

37:10 Exploring Beliefs and Sobriety

38:30 The Power of Self-Improvement and Gratitude

42:55 Redefining Faith and Higher Power

49:04 The Impact of Moment Drink on Wellness

50:50 The Importance of Meditation and Self-Reflection

52:41 Writing to Inspire and Guide Others

56:33 Attracting the Right Relationships

01:05:45 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude

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In this episode of the Sober Butterfly Podcast, host Nadine Mulvina sits down with Jasmine from Soulfully_Sober about her inspiring journey to sobriety. Jasmine shares her before and after, highlighting the transformation from a life characterized by excessive drinking to one focused on personal growth, resilience, and motherhood. She opens up about the challenges that led to her decision to become sober, including debilitating hangovers and the desire to be a better mother. Jasmine discusses the pivotal moments of self-awareness, the impact of attending AA meetings, and the positive changes sobriety has brought into her life, including improved relationships and a newfound sense of clarity and intention. The conversation emphasizes the value of trying sobriety, viewing it as a social experiment rather than a permanent restriction, and encourages listeners to consider the benefits of living alcohol-free.

00:00 Welcome to the Sober Butterfly Podcast

00:18 Meeting Jasmine: A Journey to Sobriety

01:13 Jasmine's Life Before Sobriety: Party Girl to Motherhood

02:38 The Turning Point: From Debilitating Hangovers to a Sober 2018

03:15 The Relapse and Realization: Embracing Sobriety for Good

04:26 Exploring the Depths of Sobriety and Personal Growth

07:09 The Impact of Sobriety on Relationships and Self-Perception

29:40 Navigating Triggers and Cravings in a Sober Life

31:32 Jasmine's Advice: Giving Sobriety a Chance

33:40 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude

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Join host Nadine Mulvina in this captivating episode of The Sober Butterfly podcast as she sits down with Steph, a NYC bottle waitress, to uncover her remarkable journey from pouring drinks to soaring in sobriety. Steph courageously shares her struggles with addiction, including her reliance on ketamine and alcohol, and the challenges she faced working in an environment where drinking with clients was the norm. Through raw honesty and vulnerability, Steph reveals how she found the strength to break free from toxic relationships and embrace a life of sobriety. Tune in to discover the inspiring story of Steph's transformation and her journey to self-love and empowerment.

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• Steph's experience as a bottle waitress in New York City
• The normalization of drinking in the service industry
• Steph's struggles with addiction to ketamine and alcohol
• Coping mechanisms and toxic relationships fueled by substance abuse
• Finding strength and support through sobriety programs like Alcoholics Anonymous
• Embracing self-love and empowerment on the path to recovery

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In this episode of The Sober Butterfly podcast, Nadine sits down with Danay Jones, the founder of Sober Girls Houston, for an insightful conversation on the journey to sobriety and the creation of a supportive community for sober women.

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1. Life Before Sobriety:
   • Danay opens up about her life before getting sober, sharing personal experiences and challenges she faced while navigating addiction.
2. When the Party is Over:
   • Delving into the realities of addiction, Danay and Nadine discuss the moment when the party lifestyle loses its allure and the journey towards sobriety begins.
3. Founding Sober Girls Houston:
   • Learn about the inspiration behind Sober Girls Houston and how Danay founded this empowering community for women seeking sobriety.
4. The Importance of Representation:
   • Danay and Nadine highlight the significance of Black representation in the sobriety community, discussing the unique challenges and perspectives faced by Black women on their journey to recovery.
5. Supportive Networks:
   • The conversation explores the role of supportive networks in the recovery process, emphasizing the importance of community and connection in maintaining sobriety.
6. Empowering Women:
   • Discover how Sober Girls Houston empowers women to embrace sobriety, fostering a safe and inclusive space for growth, healing, and self-discovery.
7. Looking Ahead:
   • Danay shares her vision for the future of Sober Girls Houston and her ongoing commitment to supporting women on their journey to sobriety.
8. Closing Thoughts:
   • As the conversation comes to a close, Danay and Nadine reflect on the power of vulnerability, resilience, and hope in overcoming addiction and building a brighter future.

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• Instagram: @sobergirlshtx @randomly_rude

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Michael Muldoon is a magician turned teacher who is passionate about using his skills to help educators build powerful connections with their students. Michael decided to quit drinking alcohol to become the best version of himself, utilizing his passion for magic and teaching.

Growing up in New York City, Michael faced numerous hardships. At a young age, tragedy struck when his family house burned down, leading to struggles in school and a period of truancy as he grappled with the aftermath of the fire.

Amidst the chaos, Michael discovered solace and purpose in magic. The art of illusion became his sanctuary, offering him an escape from the harsh realities of his surroundings. Through dedicated practice and unwavering determination, Michael honed his skills, finding a sense of empowerment and control in the world of magic which led to work with Magicians Without Borders, an organization focused on helping underprivileged youth get off the streets and pursue higher education. Through his work with Magicians Without Borders, Micheal decided to pursue a career in teaching. Drawing upon his own experiences, he became a beacon of hope and guidance for his students, instilling in them the importance of resilience, perseverance, and self-belief.

Join us as we explore Michael Six Muldoon's inspiring journey from the depths of drinking to the pinnacle of teaching excellence, proving that with determination and courage, anything is possible.

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Join us for an insightful conversation with Sam Bail, the visionary founder behind The Third Place Bar, a revolutionary non-alcoholic popup bar in the heart of NYC. In this episode, we delve into Sam's journey, her perspective on the toxic drinking culture in corporate America, and her fascinating insights on the contrasting drinking cultures between NYC and Germany.

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1. The Third Place Bar: Sam Bail introduces us to The Third Place Bar, a haven for those seeking a vibrant social experience without the need for alcohol. Discover the inspiration behind its creation and the vision driving its success in redefining social spaces.
2. Medium Fun vs. Toxic Drinking Culture: Delve into the concept of "medium fun" as Sam elaborates on the pressures of toxic drinking culture prevalent in corporate America. Gain valuable insights into the societal norms surrounding alcohol consumption and the alternative narratives offered by non-alcoholic spaces.
3. NYC vs. Germany Drinking Culture: Sam provides a fascinating comparison between the drinking cultures of NYC and Germany, shedding light on the differing attitudes towards alcohol and socializing. Explore the nuances of these cultural contrasts and their implications on individual lifestyles.
4. Realizations on Drinking: Through personal reflections, Sam shares her journey of self-discovery and realization that drinking never truly made life easier. Hear firsthand accounts of her decision to embrace sobriety and the transformative impact it has had on her life and perspective.

Conclusion:
As we conclude our conversation with Sam Bail, founder of The Third Place Bar, we are left with a profound understanding of the complexities surrounding alcohol consumption and the growing movement towards non-alcoholic alternatives. Join us in embracing a culture of inclusivity and mindfulness as we navigate the realms of socializing and self-discovery, one sober sip at a time.

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• Follow on Instagram: @thirdplacebarnyc
• Follow on TikTok: @thirdplacebarnyc
• Subscribe to Newsletter: https://www.thirdplacebar.nyc/

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In this episode of "The Sober Butterfly" podcast the millennial money coach Rachel @rachel_talksmoney and host Nadine discuss overspending on self-care in sobriety. Our guest, Rachel @rachel_talksmoney shares invaluable insights and practical tips to strike the right balance between self-care and financial responsibility.

Key Points:

• Introduction to the Importance of Mindful and Intentional Self-Care
• Understanding the Risks of Overspending
• Practical Strategies for Mindful Spending

Connect with Rachel:

• Follow on IG: @rachel_talksmoney
• Follow on TikTok: @rachel_talksmoney
• Rachel's Freebie:
  • https://www.electrifiwealth.com/optin1654273482604

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Tune in to gain valuable insights and learn how to navigate the delicate balance between self-care and financial wellness on your journey to sobriety.

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This episode of The Sober Butterfly podcast explores the profound journey of self-love within the context of sobriety. Join Nadine as she delves into the transformative power of embracing all parts of oneself: the good, the bad, and the ugly, while cultivating compassion, and discovering authentic love in this journey of sobriety.

We also get into:

• Embracing Vulnerability: Acknowledging the challenges and vulnerabilities on the path to sobriety is the first step towards self-love.
• Cultivating Compassion: Learning to treat oneself with kindness and understanding, especially during difficult moments, is essential for nurturing self-love.
• Uncovering Authenticity: Sobriety provides an opportunity to rediscover and embrace one's true self, free from the constraints of addiction.
• Seeking Support: Surrounding oneself with a supportive community and seeking professional help can aid in the cultivation of self-love and sobriety.

To connect with Nadine:

• Follow on IG: @the.soberbutterfly @soberbutterflypodcast
• Follow on TikTok @the.soberbutterfly
• Subscribe to YouTube channel
• Subscribe to our monthly newsletter, https://thesoberbutterfly.com/

Resources from the Episode:

• The Love Atiya Experience Podcast - Sober Sex & Healthy Dating Tips with Nadine
• No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
• Sober Toolboxes, But Make Them Sensory

FREEBIE Guide to Quitting Alcohol - 30 Day Transformation (course)

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This week's episode delves into the captivating journey of my mother's path to sobriety. From Lerene's early memories growing up in the pub culture of 1970s London to navigating the lively party scene of the 1980s, my mother shares her experiences of being a part of an era defined by its social indulgences. My mum reflects on her own journey, where the lines between social drinking and dependency became blurred, leading to moments of introspection and realization. However, it was a profound turning point in her life when her best friend was diagnosed with cancer, serving as a wake-up call that prompted her to reevaluate her relationship with alcohol.

We also get into:

• stressors that perpetuate the "mommy wine culture"
• if my mum knew I had a drinking problem
• why moderation isn't on the table
• subtle societal cues that normalize drinking

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"We have what you want" is a common expression heard in AA. But what exactly do we (sober people) have that you (others/non-sober people) want? In today's episode, Nadine delves into a nuanced topic – the experience of others being jealous of your sobriety, exploring the implications and ways to navigate this unspoken challenge.

We also get into:
-The three things people are most jealous of and why sober people have these things
-Jealousy versus envy, defining how to distinguish one of the other
-3 red flags to look for to determine if someone is jealous of your sobriety
-How to pivot and address jealousy in sobriety

Resources mentioned in the episode:Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience by Brené Brown (Amazon)

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• Follow on IG: @the.soberbutterfly @soberbutterflypodcast
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In this week's episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, we sit down with Ellie St. Alban, the proud founder and owner of Dry in the Desert, a virtual non-alcoholic bottle shop and events in Phoenix, Arizona. Ellie shares her journey toward sobriety and insights into the challenges and triumphs of running a business in non-alcoholic beverages.

We also discuss:
-The Challenge of Dry January and Its Limitations
-Transitioning from Dry Drunk to Emotional Sobriety
-The Ethics Behind Running a Non-Alcoholic Shop Business
-Why Alcohol-Free Drinks Mimicking the Taste of Alcohol May Be Triggering

To connect with Ellie:

• Website: https://www.dryinthedesert.com/
• Instagram: @dryinthedesert

To connect with Nadine:

• Follow on IG: @the.soberbutterfly @soberbutterflypodcast
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Angelica Roberts grew up an avid reader and passionate storyteller with a natural acumen for writing. As a military kid who moved around often, she never felt like she belonged. That is until she attended Florida A&M University (FAMU), a historically black college/university (HBCU) for undergrad. Here, Angelica finally felt she had found a home and a strong sense of community. Still, it was also here that Angelica first started drinking alcohol, which led to years of active addiction and ultimately led to sobriety.

Join us for a conversation that goes beyond the surface, weaving together narratives of resilience, redemption, and the unwavering belief that honesty and faith can pave the way to a fulfilling life after addiction.

We also get into:

• Exploring the complex relationship between artistic torment and alcohol as a means of expression and escape.
• Labeling and stigmas, specifically identifying as an alcoholic
• The importance and necessity of diverse stories in recovery
• The value of forging a connection with your higher power
• How honesty helps you get sober

To connect with Angelica:

Website: https://www.angelicarroberts.com/shop

The Root Cause, Book Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=POtByhnTsj4

Instagram: @Read.Write.Roberts

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Angelica-R-Roberts/author/B0C897G8J4?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true

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Prakruti Makan not only brings her personal story of recovery, with almost four years of sobriety from substances like cocaine, alcohol, tobacco, marijuana, and caffeine, but also gems from her professional experience as a sober coach for the Reframe App and former psychotherapist. Prakruti shares unique insights into the process of reframing one's relationship with substances and life experiences in this week's episode.

We also get into...

• Cognitive reframing how to respond to life's curveballs
• Why celebrating monthly milestones in sobriety is important
• The illusion of control
• How to reframe your relationship to substances
• Parenting/dating/relationships in sobriety

Connect with Prakruti

• Follow on IG: @brownwonderwoman2023
• Follow on TikTok: @brownwonderwoman2023

Stay connected with Nadine:

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After taking a much-needed break from podcasting, I’m excited to be back as we open a New Year. I’m sharing life updates since I paused the podcast, sharing my mindset for 2024 and how to set yourself up for a successful Dry January.

I will also share...

• Lessons learned in 2023 related to sobriety, burnout, traveling, and breakups
• Why you should hone in on mindset-focused goals and create systems to support this (instead of making New Year Resolutions)
• Why I never successfully completed a Dry January challenge (before getting sober)
• 3 Questions you should ask yourself if you want to crush this Dry Jan.

Stay connected with Nadine:

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21 episodes, 8 guests, and two seasons down. Host Nadine Mulvina says a quick farewell to this season of the show.
New episodes will resume September 5th, 2023!Thank you for listening. Check out The Sober Butterfly on Instagram and YouTube for more sober content.

See you in the Fall!

To connect with Nadine:
Instagram: @the.soberbutterfly
Website: https://thesoberbutterfly.com/

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This week's episode features educator, lifestyle coach, and sober consultant Jessica Dueñas. Jessica shares her story with us: what it was like growing up as a first- generation Cuban/Costa Rican overachiever, her early relationship with disordered eating and how this later shaped her relationship with alcohol, how she excelled professionally and even won the 2019 Kentucky State Teacher of the Year award while her drinking was out of control, finding love in rehab and the aftermath of loss, and finally obtaining long-term sobriety when her desire to get sober was met with the will to take action. All this and more.

To connect with Jessica:
Instagram: @jessicaduenas24
Website: www.bottomlesstosober.comArticle:https://www.courier-journal.com/story/opinion/2020/12/03/kentucky-teacher-year-shares-story-addiction-and-recovery/3789385001/

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Welcome to The Sober Butterfly podcast  the show that explores  sober stories, travel, and pursuit of personal growth. In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of aligning your thoughts, emotions, and actions to manifest positive change while maintaining a sober lifestyle. Join host Nadine Mulvina as we uncover the principles of the Law of Attraction and their profound impact on personal growth and recovery. 

Nadine also shares some big life updates that you do not want to miss!

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This solo episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast is a personal account of host Nadine Mulvina's second attempt at Vegas. If you're looking for sober inspo. for Las Vegas then this episode is for you.

Hotel
The Cosmopolitan

Shows
Usher: My Way - The Vegas Residency
Mad Apple Cirque du soleil

Restaurants
China Poblano by José Andrés
Wicked Spoon
Mon Ami Gabi

Activities
Comedy on Deck Tour to The Hoover Dam and Grand Canyon
SlotZilla Zipline Las Vegas

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In this week's episode of TSB,  sober coach Barbara Williams from Sheffield, England shares her story. 

Barbara has been sober since February 2021, with no rock-bottom although many pebble-bottoms, knowing that moderation was not working for her, it was time to seriously think about her relationship with alcohol, and focus on the more important relationships in her life.

To connect with Barbara, follow  on Instagram @sober_in_colour
To connect with Nadine, follow on Instagram @the.soberbutterfly

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Berlin is infamous for parties, clubs, bars, and nightlife. So how does one navigate the party scene sober? In this week’s episode, host Nadine Mulvina addresses this and shares her overall experience of being sober in Berlin, Germany. 

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Nadine has just gotten back from Berlin so this week's episode is a throwback to a fan favorite episode from season 1 of the podcast: "Strippers are Sober, Too" featuring Regan Riley. 

Reagan Reilly is a Las Vegas exotic dancer with over 10 years of sobriety. Reagan is refreshingly honest about her past addictions that almost killed her, life as a Las Vegas stripper, and how she maintains sobriety in the adult entertainment industry.

You’ll laugh, cry, and hopefully walk away with a greater understanding of what it’s like to have a physical and mental dependence. Reagan also sheds light on misconceptions the public has about stripping and why people should stop judging the industry harshly.

As always, thanks for listening! Please like, comment, and share this podcast!

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Reagan Reilly, guest – @reagan_reilly90

Watch the full length episode on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTzbbIYXPeQ&t=93s

If you have questions or want to get in contact, email Nadine at hello@thesoberbutterfly.com

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In this episode, we explore the power of hypnotherapy in addiction recovery. Our guest, Georgia Foster, is a world renowned hypnotherapist, top selling author, and creator of Life Changing Programs with years of experience in addiction treatment. Georgia shares insights and anecdotes about how hypnosis can be a highly effective tool for overcoming addiction.

One of the key topics we explore is the role of the inner critic in addiction. The inner critic is the voice inside our heads that tells us we're not good enough, smart enough, or strong enough to achieve our goals. For many people struggling with addiction, this inner critic can be a major obstacle to recovery. It can lead to feelings of shame, guilt, and self-doubt, which can in turn drive addictive behaviors.

Georgia explains how hypnotherapy can help people reprogram their inner critic, replacing negative self-talk with positive affirmations and beliefs. By working with the subconscious mind, hypnosis can help people access deeper levels of self-awareness and self-acceptance, which can be crucial for long-term recovery.

We also discuss the importance of finding the right hypnotherapist, someone who is not only highly skilled in hypnosis techniques but also has a deep understanding of addiction and recovery.

Overall, this episode offers valuable insights into the power of hypnotherapy in addiction recovery, as well as practical advice for anyone considering this approach as part of their recovery journey. Whether you're struggling with addiction yourself or supporting a loved one in their recovery, you'll find plenty of inspiration and guidance in this engaging conversation.

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Welcome to The Sober Butterfly Podcast! In today's episode, we will explore the four seasons of life.

Life is cyclical, not linear. As human beings, we go through different life phases, each with unique challenges and opportunities. These seasons are often compared to the four seasons of nature: spring, summer, fall, and winter.

• Season of winter –Preparation
• Season of spring –Opportunities.
• Season of summer – Growth and Protection
• Season of fall – Successes and Failures.

IThe four seasons of life represent a journey of growth, learning, and self-discovery. By understanding and embracing these seasons, we can navigate the challenges and opportunities that come our way and live a fulfilling life. Thank you for listening to The Sober Butterfly Podcast. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!

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Welcome to this week's episode of the podcast where we explore the crucial topic of representation in sobriety, labeling, and boundaries. In today's world, it's important to recognize the importance of diversity and inclusion in all aspects of our lives, and sobriety is no exception.

London sober babe and business owner Yasmin Spark and I discuss  the nuances of representation in sobriety, discussing the impact of seeing people from diverse backgrounds in recovery spaces, and the role that labeling and boundaries play in this process. We'll explore how the labels we use to identify ourselves can both empower and limit us, and how setting boundaries can be a powerful tool for maintaining sobriety while also respecting our own needs and limitations.

So, whether you're in recovery yourself, or simply interested in learning more about the importance of representation, labeling, and boundaries in sobriety, this episode is for you. Join us as we explore this vital topic and discover how we can all work towards creating more inclusive, supportive, and empowering recovery spaces.

Connect:
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Nadine's Instagram: @the.soberbutterfly

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What does supermodel/actress Cara Delevingne have in common with TSB podcast host Nadine Mulvina? Aside from striking beauty and limitless talent, both ladies had a lifechanging wakeup call around their 30th birthday. 

In this episode, Nadine Mulvina recalls her last drunk birthday and the shame she felt after a tribute video she planned to make commemorating her twenties went very wrong. Addiction and shame  keep people sick as many people don’t want to admit, especially publicly, of their struggle with substances. This is why it’s so important to de-stigmatize and de-shame addiction and recovery and Cara does that by using the term ‘healing’ instead of ‘recovery’.

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Welcome to this episode of The Sober Butterfly podcast where we'll be discussing the importance of the 3 D's: detox, declutter, and destress for the spring season. As the weather warms up and the days get longer, many of us feel the urge to clean up our homes, but spring cleaning can go beyond just tidying up your living space. In this episode, we'll explore the benefits of detoxing your body, decluttering your mind, and destressing your life this spring.

Segment 1: Detoxing
Spring is the perfect time to give your body a break from the heavy, warming foods of winter and detoxify your system. We'll discuss the benefits of a social media cleanse, cleanses to try and some tips for making the process easier and more enjoyable.

Segment 2: Decluttering
Just as we accumulate physical clutter in our homes, we can also accumulate mental and spiritual clutter that weighs us down. We'll talk about the importance of decluttering your mind and soul, some common sources of mental clutter, and techniques for clearing your mental space to improve focus and productivity.

Segment 3: Destressing
Stress can be a major factor in our overall health and wellbeing, and spring is the perfect time to address it. We'll discuss some simple lifestyle changes that can help reduce stress levels, such as exercise, mindfulness practices, and time management techniques.

Spring is a time of renewal and growth, and by focusing on detoxing, decluttering, and destressing, we can create a solid foundation for a healthy, happy year ahead.

Thank you for tuning in to our podcast, and we hope you'll join us again next time.

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This content contains sensitive and graphic material related to sex trafficking, which may be disturbing or triggering for some listeners. Please exercise caution while listening and seek support if needed. It is important to be aware of the reality of sex trafficking, but please take care of your mental health and well-being while consuming this content. Viewer discretion is advised!

In this podcast episode, we hear the heartbreaking story of a woman who was sex trafficked by her own husband. She shares the chilling details of how her ex-husband manipulated, coerced, and controlled her into the sex trade, and how she eventually managed to escape and reclaim her life.

Adriann talks in detail about the psychological and emotional abuse she endured at the hands of her ex and step-father, and how growing up in a strict Morman community led her to getting married at 16 years old.

Adriann also shares how her current husband's addiction impacted their relationship and how she has learned to support him through his recovery. She also offers practical advice for other spouses who may be supporting their partners through addiction, including the importance of compassion, patience, and support for those who are struggling with addiction.

Her story is a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the importance of speaking out against the horrific crime of sex trafficking. Adriann's podcast is called Crime Theories podcast where she highlights small cold cases of those often forgotten in society.

Adriann's contact:
Website http://www.crimetheoriespodcast.com
Instagram: @adriannbarrett

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If you or someone you suspect needs help for sex trafficking, please reach out to the National Human Trafficking Hotline at 1 (888) 373-7888
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In this episode, we will be discussing some essential tips and information you should know before traveling to Paris. Whether you're a first-time visitor or a seasoned traveler, this guide will help you make the most of your trip to the City of Light.

Key Points:

1. French Language: French is the official language of France, and while many Parisians speak English, it's still a good idea to learn some basic phrases before your trip, for example, always greet people with "Bonjour" (Good morning) or "Bonsoir" (Good evening). Learning some French is particularly helpful because a lot of menus at restaurants are in French so I'd hate you for to make a sober social faux par by ordering a cocktail instead of a mocktail.
2. Drinking Culture: There is a lot of drinking but caveat not so much seeing people drunk.
3. People Watching as Sport: Not so much a sober thing but a good to know before you go thing. The french love to people watch;
4. Cultural Etiquette: It's important to be aware of French cultural etiquette and proper dining etiquette. Most likely, you will be presented with a wine list at dinner. Some restaurants have non-alcoholic options but not really an extensive list.
5. Popular Attractions: Paris is home to many famous landmarks and museums, including the Eiffel Tower, the Louvre Museum, and Notre-Dame Cathedral. It's important to plan ahead and book tickets in advance to avoid long lines and crowds.

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Places mentioned:
Moulin Rouge
The Louvre Museum
Musee D’Orsay
The Rodin Museum
Musée Marmottan Monet
The Picasso Museum
Chateau Versailles
Le Paon Qui Boi
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Forbes Article on Non-Alcoholic Options/Places in ParisSocials:
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Collabs/Connect
Email: nadine@thesoberbutterfly.comWith these tips in mind, you'll be well-prepared for your trip to Paris. Remember to take the time to explore the city's hidden gems and immerse yourself in the local culture to truly make the most of your experience.

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Looking to explore the City of Love without the buzz of alcohol? In this podcast episode, we take a sober dive into the romantic streets of Paris, discovering hidden gems and exciting adventures that you can experience with a clear mind.

Say au revoir to the hangovers and bonjour to a new way of experiencing the Parisian culture. From early morning walks along the Seine River to indulging in the city's mouth-watering culinary scene, there's a whole new world to be discovered without the need for a drink in hand.

Join us as we uncover the city's vibrant art scene, explore its stunning architecture, and soak up the atmosphere of the charming neighborhoods, all without the haze of alcohol. You'll discover a new appreciation for the city's rich history and be amazed at how much more you can take in when you're fully present.

So why not join us on this sober adventure in Paris? Whether you're a local looking to experience the city in a new way or a traveler seeking to break away from the usual tourist path, we've got you covered. Tune in to our podcast episode and experience the magic of Paris without the need for a drink!

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Welcome to our special Valentine's Day episode, where we celebrate love, faith, and sobriety.

In this episode, we have a lighthearted conversation with a Christian couple where one partner has chosen to live their life without alcohol. While this may seem like a serious or restrictive decision, our guests prove that a life of sobriety can be fun, fulfilling, and full of laughter.

Our guests, Ahmad Rashad and Toya, share their personal stories of how Ahmad came to the decision to give up alcohol. They talk about the challenges they faced in a world where drinking is often seen as a social norm, and how their faith played a role in their decision.

Despite the challenges, Ahmad and Toya have found that living without alcohol has opened up a whole new world of possibilities. They have discovered new purpose, found deeper connections with friends and family, and learned to enjoy the simple pleasures of life.

We discuss the misconceptions and stereotypes associated with being sober, and Ahmad and Toya challenge these stereotypes by sharing their own experiences of joy and fulfillment without alcohol. They also provide tips and advice for others who may be considering a sober lifestyle.

Throughout the conversation, Ahmad and Toya's love and humor shine through. They share funny anecdotes and playful banter, proving that a life of sobriety can be just as fun and enjoyable as a life with alcohol.

In the end, our guests leave us with a message of hope and encouragement. They remind us that a life of sobriety is not about what you're giving up, but rather what you're gaining. It's about living life to the fullest, with joy, purpose, and a sense of fulfillment that can only come from God.

So join us for a fun and inspiring conversation with Ahmad and Toya and discover the beauty of living life to the fullest without alcohol.

As an added Valentine's day special, host Nadine Mulvina gets powerful advice from this expert married couple of over 19 years in regards to her own dating life and celibacy.

Contacts:
Toya and Ahmad on Instagram: @ toya_marriage advice
Nadine: @the.soberbutterfly

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Welcome to this week's episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, where we're all about encouraging you to continue your sobriety journey beyond Dry January.

So you've made it through the month, and that's something to be proud of! But the journey doesn't have to end there. In fact, this is just the beginning.

We've invited Octavia M. Green, host of Legally Unapologetic, who successfully completed Dry January, to share their experience and offer tips for those looking to continue their sobriety journey. They'll talk about the physical and mental benefits they've experienced, how they've improved their relationships, and the positive impact it's had on their work and personal life.

So, if you're feeling motivated to continue your sober lifestyle, this episode is for you. We'll be discussing how to set achievable goals, how to stay on track, and how to find support when you need it.

Remember, taking care of yourself and prioritizing your health should always be a top priority. So, let's get started and continue this journey together!

Connect:
Octavia M. Green on Instagram @legallyunapologetic and @omg_esq
Nadine Mulvina @the.soberbutterfly on Instagram or email nadine@thesoberbutterfly.com

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In this week's episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, Nadine Mulvina sits down with Ashley Johnson (@dj_alist),  the CEO/Founder of Wine Not, a Black-owned nonalcoholic sparkling wine that allows you to indulge in social and celebratory moments, without sacrificing taste. Wine Not explores unique flavors and ingredients to create an inclusive, yet euphoric, social experience for everyone.

Both ladies explore what it's like to navigate social situations in sobriety, how to forgive people who may not have supported your sobriety, growing up with an alcoholic parent, the differences between sobriety and recovery,  sober dating and being one of the few black in professional settings.

Be sure to follow @winenotlive to be the first to know when it launches. Wine Not will be available for purchase April 2023, 

For collaborations, contact Nadine @the.soberbutterfly on instagram or email nadine@thesoberbutterfly.com

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In this week's episode, host Nadine Mulvina gets candid about how sobriety led her to take 1+ year off of dating and sex. She also discusses how her therapist diagnosed her with limerence which helped her identify unhealthy patterns in past relationships (real and imagined). Finally she shares some ways to combat loneliness in sobriety as a single person.

Website:
https://thesoberbutterfly.com/

Socials:
Instagram: @the.soberbutterfly
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I’m beyond grateful for sobriety and wish to illuminate all the ways in which it has positively impacted my life, but I also don’t want to gloss over the hard parts. The reality is if sobriety were easy, more people would be sober. So   here are the things I wish I would have known before getting sober. This is not an exhaustive list but the biggest takeaways:

Chapters:
Intro: 00:00 - 01:26
Alcohol is Everywhere: 01:27 - 07:52
Your relationship with others will change: 07:53 - 13:42
Dating is different: 13:43 - 18:25
Your relationship with yourself will change: 18:26 - 24:17
Outro: 24:17 - 25:40

Additional Resources:
Website: thesoberbutterfly.com

Socials:
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=baHOJSpR99M
Instagram: @the.soberbutterfly
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Welcome to the season 2 premiere of The Sober Butterfly Podcast. TSB podcast is your favorite resource for sober inspo., travel, fun and wellness.

In honor of Dry January, host Nadine Mulvina has revamped the well-known sober toolbox to meet the five senses. If you are looking to create or elevate your sober toolkit, then this episode is for you.

For more info. head over to thesoberbutterfly.com or checkout Nadine's Sensual Sobriety Giveaway on The Sober Butterfly channel on YouTube.

Socials:
Instagram: @the.soberbutterfly
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That's a wrap, guys! Host  @nadinemulvina1596 reflects on lessons she has learned from sobriety this year and revisits her purpose for starting the podcast.

Subscribe to The Sober Butterfly podcast to stay up to date with all TSB news. Please also take a moment to like and share this video.

This episode is also available on Youtube as well as other streaming platforms. 

Season 2 of The Sober Butterfly Podcast will debut January 2nd, 2023. 

Contact TSB
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Email- nadine@thesoberbutterfly.com 

Thank you for watching and see you next year :)

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"Continue walking on the path in front of you and attract the people you're supposed to attract:" says Miami sober babe Faith Grant.

This week'a episode is a re-release of episode 101, the very first episode of TSB podcast with some added bonuses from host Nadine Mulvina's sober Thanksgiving in South Florida.

Stay tuned for more episodes each and every Tuesday at 6am. Please subscribe and leave a review to help the show grow! You can also watch the full length episode of this podcast on Youtube.

Socials: 
Faith Grant @faithlgrant on Instagram
Nadine Mulvina @the.soberbutterfly on Instagram 

If you want to collab, send Nadine an email: Nadine@thesoberbutterfly.com

Thank you for watching and see you next week! 

Muah!

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In the spirit of Thanksgiving, host Nadine Mulvina is counting her sober blessings. Gratitude is essential and should be prioritized to manifest more blessings in your life. Listen the episode to learn how sobriety can optimize your life!

For more sober content, follow Nadine on Instagram @the.soberbutterfly 

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Are you a travel enthusiast looking to take that next trip or vacay without booze? Then this episode is for you! Host  @Nadine Mulvina breaks down her top 3 tips for sober travel:

Tip 1: Plan your trip with an intention (02:33 - 11:47) 
Tip 2: Pick your travel companions wisely (11:48 - 22:16)
Tip 3: Maintain routine (22:17 - 25:58)

Thank you so much for watching! Quick reminder that new episodes drop every Tuesday. You can watch on Youtube (The Sober Butterfly Podcast) or listen on Spotify or Apple Podcast.

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Celebrities are just like us! Crazy parties, extreme highs, and embarrassing lows...the only difference is our mess may surface in the group chat versus being plastered all over age six.

There's something refreshing when celebs choose to celebrate their sobriety in the public eye and use their platform to shed some of the stigma associated with addiction.

Keisha @Done with Debauchery Podcast and Nadine Mulvina @The Sober Butterfly countdown our favorite sober celebs. We researched 3 different celebs we related to and focused the list on the following categories:
-Sober OGs
-Newly Sober, and
-Fav Sober Celeb

We are drinking Château del-ISH Non-Alcoholic Sparkling Rosé and Smoky Bay 0.0% Chardonnay.
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Host Nadine Mulvina does a deep dive into her social media account on Instagram @the.soberbutterfly to examine the ethical dilemma she faces as a sober influencer and what is her role in mainstream sobriety?

Inspired by an article written by Rebecca Rush and published on Workit Health,  Little Sobriety, Big Reach: The Dangers of Newly Sober Influencers' and in connection to a popular Spirit Halloween meme that has swept twitter this past week, episode  116 of The Sober Butterfly podcast looks into the depths of sober influencers' responsibilities to create content that represents the beauty AND hard truths of sobriety.

Resources mentioned:
Article Little Sobriety, Big Reach: The Dangers of Newly Sober Influencers by
Rebecca Rush:
https://www.workithealth.com/blog/little-sobriety-big-reach-the-dangers-of-newly-sober-influencers/ 

Nadine's contact:
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The Done With Debauchery podcast and The Sober Butterfly podcast join forces to bring you controversial topics in sobriety.

Hosts Keisha Scott and Nadine Mulvina highlight the three most taboo topics often debated in sobriety:

Topic #1: Non-alcoholic drinks, ie. kombucha, AF beers, mocktails, & more
Topic #2: Cali-sober,abstaining from alcohol but using marijuana & other psychedelics
Topic #3: Dry drunk v. emotional sobriety, a comparison,

Thank you for tuning in to this special double feature! We would love to hear your thoughts. What taboo topics in sobriety did you agree or disagree with? What other topics should we cover next?

Keisha's Instagram/ Youtube
@donewithdebauchery
 @Done with Debauchery Podcast 

Nadine's Instagram/ Youtube
@the.soberbutterfly
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCn10zHObzJiRA5PBilZeXDQ

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Episode 114 of The Sober Butterfly Podcast "Seasonal Depression & Me: How to Stay Sober with S.A.D." addresses how to combat the dreaded seasonal depression so many of us face as the weather turns colder, the days get shorter, and the social pressures of the holiday season creeps in. An added layer of complexity is factoring in sobriety.

Host Nadine Mulvina of The Sober Butterfly Podcast shares personal anecdotes and tips to staying sober if you experience seasonal depression, also known as Seasonal Affect Depression (SAD). Knowledge is power so identifying triggers and recognizing symptoms can be the key difference between staying sober or relapsing.

Wondering if you have SAD? Signs to look out for according to Mayo Clinic include:
-Feeling listless, sad or down most of the day, nearly every day
-Losing interest in activities you once enjoyed
-Having low energy and feeling sluggish
-Having problems with sleeping too much
-Experiencing carbohydrate cravings, overeating and weight gain
-Having difficulty concentrating
-Feeling hopeless, worthless or guilty
-Having thoughts of not wanting to live

Cited materials:
Stats -
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/seasonal-affective-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20364651

Products (affiliate link; will earn small commission):
SAD Lamp -
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B085DJTZD1?tag=onamznadinebe-20&linkCode=ssc&creativeASIN=B085DJTZD1&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.16HVSZSSMP6LQ&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ons_mixed_d_asin

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Warning: It's Illegal Everywhere to Drive Drunk. A DUI can set you back, on average, $10,000+, and there could be a crash — people could get hurt or killed. s

Episode 113 is a continuation of episode 112 where WhoCamille shares the final part of her story with drinking and the legal implications that come with driving while under the influence. You do not want to miss this! 

Follow us on Social:
WhoCamille - @whocamille
Nadine - @the.soberbutterfly

New episodes drop each and every Tuesday! Please leave a 5-star review so this show can be discovered by people who need to hear these shares!

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WhoCamille shares an intimate account of her personal history with alcohol. Part 1 of this interview chronologically follows Camille’s story from being sober throughout high school to partying it up in college to toxic party culture throughout her twenties that got her into some legal trouble.

This interview will make you laugh but all jokes aside, there's nothing funny about drinking under the influence or drinking while intoxicated.

We hope you enjoy hearing Camille and I discuss willingness in sobriety, party culture and drinking and driving. Use our truths as a cautionary tale and learn from our mistakes. Too many people are out here ruining their lives and the lives of others because of alchol.

Thank you for watching and be sure to tune in next Tuesday to hear the rest of Camille's story!

Our socials:
WhoCamille on social media: @WhoCamille
Nadine on Instagram: @the.soberbutterfly
TSB Podcast Email: nadine@thesoberbutterfly.com

Show Notes:
Podcast - The Huberman Lab
Song - "No WYD" by WhoCamille available on Apple Music, Spotify, and other music streaming platforms
Mental Health Awareness Week Stats-
https://nami.org/Get-Involved/Awareness-Events

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Hello, hello, HELLO and welcome The Sober Butterfly Podcast! Episode 111 takes a walk down memory lane with friends of the show answering this very important question: how do you protect sobriety?

Each guest offers their unique, yet universal, response that will help fortify your sobriety in trying times.

Let me know which responses resonated with you the most? What tools are you willing to try? What ways do you protect your sobriety that you didn't hear mentioned.

Resources mentioned in this episode include:
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1912023385?tag=onamznadinebe-20&linkCode=ssc&creativeASIN=1912023385&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.29EME3FSEVMFP

Women Who Run With The Wolves:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0345409876?tag=onamznadinebe-20&linkCode=ssc&creativeASIN=0345409876&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.29EME3FSEVMFP

Sober October Healthline Article:
https://www.healthline.com/health/alcohol/sober-october#:~:text=Sober%20October%20began%20in%202014,about%20your%20relationship%20with%20alcohol.

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Episode 110 of The Sober Butterfly Podcast is a solo episode with host, Nadine Mulvina. As the title suggests, you can expect to learn how removing alcohol from your life has a major impact on your body, mind, and social life.

The first 90 days of recovery are critical to the longevity of addiction recovery so it is important that you prioritize your mental health and have a realistic depiction of what changes you may face, wand before you ask, weight loss may not happen for you. Sorry, love!

This episode is broken into parts:
Introduction: 00:00 - 04:52
Part 1: Physiological Impacts 04:53 - 17:19
Part 2: Psychological Impacts 17:20 - 23:26
Part 3: Sociological Impacts 23:27 - 30:48
Closing Remarks: 30:49 - 31:56

Thank you for listening! Please leave a review for this podcast. It really helps the show grow so more people can discover the podcast. 

Nadine's contacts:
email - hello@thesoberbutterfly.com 
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Episode 109 of The Sober Butterfly Podcast sits down with the self-proclaimed "weird sober mom" aka Christina from sisters_n_sobriety, a community platform offering encouragement and support to sober and sober-curious women.

The episode opens with Christina sharing her story: a failed attempt to save a marriage by getting sober, how others mislabeled her drinking and questioned her overall character, seeking external validation to feel good and worthy of love, and inadvertently discovering parts of yourself you never knew existed.

Christina also shares her game plan for addressing sobriety with others that is definitely worth listening to!

To follow Christina on Instagram, visit @sister_n_sobriety 
To follow Nadine on Instagram, visit @the.soberbutterfly
To contact us directly email hello@thesoberbutterfly.com

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Episode 108 of The Sober Butterfly podcast with Kezia from The Sober Elephant Chronicle discusses everything from coping with undiagnosed ADHD, the link between alcohol-use disorder and disordered eating/over-exercising, implementing Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, addiction replacement, and implementing healthy systems to maintain sobriety.

A special thanks to my guest, Kezia, for sharing many helpful resources and supports to work through some of the issues we encounter in addiction and recovery. 

Resources mentioned in this episode include:
-No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
-HOME Podcast with Laura McKowen and Holly Whitaker 

Contact us:
Kezia's Instagram: @thesoberelephantchronicles
Nadine's Instagram: @the.soberbutterfly
Email: hello@thesoberbutterfly.com

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Allow me to reintroduce myself... In this week's episode host, Nadine Mulvina, shares her personal journey to sobriety-- the good, the bad, the ugly truth, in three parts:
Part I - Life Before Sobriety
Part II - Hitting 'Rock Bottom'
Part III - Getting Sober

Thank you for listening! You can also watch the full length video on Youtube 

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Most strip clubs in the United States require a two-drink minimum or hefty bar tab for VIP sessions. So how does one bad ass dancer maintain her sobriety and recovery in an industry revolving around alcohol? That's exactly what I wanted to know...

In this week's episode I sat down with Reagan Reilly, a Las Vegas exotic dancer with over 10 years of sobriety!  Reagan is refreshingly honest about her past addictions that almost killed her, life as a Las Vegas stripper, and how she maintains sobriety in the adult entertainment industry. 

You'll laugh, cry, and hopefully walk away with a greater understanding of what it's like to have a physical and mental dependence. Reagan also sheds light on misconceptions the public has about stripping and why people should stop judging the industry harshly. 

As always, thanks for listening! Please like, comment, and share this podcast!

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Nadine Mulvina, host -  @the.soberbutterfly
Reagan Reilly, guest - @reagan_reilly90

Watch the full length episode on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTzbbIYXPeQ&t=93s

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This week’s episode is all about breaking generational curses! I sat down with someone I deeply admire and met through instagram’s sober community. Nicole, over a The Sober BFF, and I talk about not wanting alcohol addiction be our fate, especially when predisposed genetic factors and environment play a role. We also discuss rediscovering your identity after getting sober, the power of routine and systems, finding purpose through service, and Al Anon.

Thank you for listening! Please leave a review of this podcast and follow on Instagram @the.soberbutterfly
Check out Nicole's IG page @thesoberbff

Watch the entire interview on Youtube on 08/18. If you have questions or want to get in contact, email Nadine at hello@thesoberbutterfly.com

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This week’s episode is all about harm reduction. There's a lot of stigma and misinformation surrounding harm reduction, in and outside of recovery spaces. In an effort to understand more about what harm reduction is, and is not, I sat down with an expert in harm reduction. Dr. Delores Blackwell is a multijurisdictional licensed clinical social worker, master addiction counselor, certified trauma professional and a certified compassion fatigue professional. She has held numerous administrative and clinical positions within both the addictions and mental health disciplines. She is currently the Director of OASAS Services at Housing Works. She is also an adjunct professor at both Touro College and at Hunter College Silberman School of Social Work where she teaches advanced clinical courses and the practice lab.

If you are suffering with addiction, you do not have to suffer in silence or alone.
Resources mentioned in the episode:
-Call or text 988 for Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish
-Visit https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/harm-reduction to learn more about programs and services offered with the Harm Reduction Approach
-https://healthcare.housingworks.org/services/behavioral-health-substance-use

Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you want to watch this interview please visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCn10zHObzJiRA5PBilZeXDQ this episode will be available for your viewing pleasure on 08/11/22.

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Moderate drinking seemed like a mythical place I referenced when lying to my physician about the average number of alcoholic beverages I consumed on a weekly basis. But alas, these unicorns apparently exist and take the form of two women I love and respect, my aunt and sister-cousin. 

This week's episode dives into the headspace of "normal" social drinkers, or 'normies' as I like to call them. What is it like to be able to drink relatively responsibly? Tune in to hear us recount cringe-worthy, painful, funny, drunken memories, evaluate our relationship with alcohol, and share lessons learned along the way. Enjoy!

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In addiction recovery, many people feel they have lost their identity and may not know how to navigate a social life without being the weird sober person in the corner.

In this  week's episode, host Nadine Mulvina breaks down how to have fun in sobriety, rediscover lost parts of yourself, and be sober and social.

July is  Minority Mental Health Awareness Month which acknowledges the disparity in access to healthcare resources that people of color and minority groups face. See additional materials below:

https://www.mhanational.org/BIPOC-mental-health-month
https://minorityhealth.hhs.gov/minority-mental-health/
https://www.nami.org/Get-Involved/Awareness-Events/Bebe-Moore-Campbell-National-Minority-Mental-Health-Awareness-Month

Thank you so much for listening to this week's episode. Please leave a review if you liked this episode.

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Faith and I have so much in common: we both attended the illustrious Florida A&M University, on the highest of Seven Hills; both only children that lost our fathers at a young age; hell, we even dated the same guy not at the same time; but perhaps the greatest bond that connects us today is our journey to sobriety. 

Join Faith and I as we reminisce on our time spent in college and discuss toxic drinking culture. We also talk sobriety, fitness, and forging your own path. 

Thank you for all the love and support. Tag me while you're listening @the.soberbutterfly 
I'd love to hear what you thought about this episode :)

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Follow Faith: @faithlgrant