Why Me? with Tarray Deaver: Recent Episodes
Tarray Deaver
Why Me? Why NOT you? Every decision you will make, every relationship you have, and everything you think you deserve is based on what you believe about yourself. Make sure to subscribe and download as we go on the journey of defining, defending, and developing the best version of YOU! Join me twice weekly!
People, situations, and expectations will test your determination. The real question is, "Have you settled the dispute in you?" If you haven't settled certain issues in you, then other people, places, and things are simply the excuse you use to make a different decision. Come on in, have a seat, and let's talk!
"It's TOO hard..." "It's TOO expensive..." "It takes TOO long..."
That little word, "TOO" is killing your effort before you start! Instead of being abient, confront the hardship because Hard IS POSSIBLE! Let's talk about it!
What happens when you are surrounded by people who are not as invested in your future as you? What do you do when you are aiming for what's next and others are comfortable with what is? Let's talk about it!
Accept all of you! The good and the bad. Accept the good to celebrate and accept the bad to develop. What do you deserve? Accept you to become you!
Warning! I may offend some of you in this episode, however, the intent is not to assassinate your character, but to provoke you to better. I pray that this podcast recharges you to be better.
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Your success is tied to your education. How quickly you get there is determined by your willingness to learn from everything. "Wasted life lessons will be repeated!"
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Through all the transitions of life and admonition to be disciplined, we must have an attitude of determination and persistence that motivates us to fight for what we want. This episode will discuss how we fight to overcome doubt, desires, distractions, and discouragement. It takes more than consistency - it requires persistence! Take a listen, share, and leave me a comment!
What is the purpose and impact of discipline on a life? Let me ask another question...can YOU count on YOU? It may not be an issue of your skill or desire, but discipline!
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Stop investing in something that is keeping you from what's next. You deserve to move forward. Let's talk about it!
Transitions can be painful, uncomfortable, but necessary! Join me as we get back at it!
A big part of our development is our relationship with pain. How do we respond and how long does it take us to recover? This is a deep topic that is vital to our growth. Take a deep breath and let's dig in!
How has your past and closest relationships impacted your current and future relationships? This interview goes deep into the issues we adopted at home that still plague us today...but there's hope. Take a listen and make sure to connect. You can reach Carlisa via her website: moffettbooks.net
This is a continuation of the last two episodes. Take a deep breath and listen. It's hard, but necessary! How many times should you forgive? What should you forgive? Who should you forgive? Take a listen and find out. Leave comments and connect with me on IG @tarraydeaver
Listen to this interview and be encouraged. What is your relationship...with YOU? Every relationship you have begins with the relationship you have with yourself. Leave your comments and make sure to share!
Forgiveness is always a tough subject, but I'm going to give you 3 new perspectives to adopt that will make forgiveness possible. It's not optional, but necessary for our growth and development! Take a listen...
Let's discuss WHY decisions can be difficult to make. We know that we all must make them and depending on the level of success and development we are reaching to attain will only increase the volume and depth of our decisions. Take a listen and let's discuss.
Don't allow what you go through to change you unless it needs to change you! Consistency builds trust. Let's talk
Congrats on your journey. The greatest part of your journey is not just understanding who you are but developing who you want to be. Leave comments and connect with me on IG for more content! Let's go!!
Look at your last selfie. How do you see yourself? What does that picture say about you? Let's talk about it!
I must recognize that I am in a battle! Acknowledgment leads to preparation. Preparation is all about discipline to be who I am meant to be! Take a listen and leave your feedback.
Do you define your identity by who you are or who you're with? Let's talk about it! Leave comments and connect with me on IG @tarraydeaver
Let's take the conversation out of our heads and really address it. Sometimes it's our own words that do the most and not the words of others. Leave comments and let me know what you think?
Let's continue the discussion on the inner conversations that we must-have for the definition, defense, and development of your identity. Take a listen and leave feedback.
Some of the most impactful conversations you will have concerning your identity and your destiny happens in your head! Let's deal with it!
I had the pleasure of being interviewed as a guest on the XY Spark podcast hosted by Rolando Hyman. He gave me permission to share the interview on my channel as well. Whether you are a man or a woman - you need to hear this!
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Your future deserves your attention! Don't allow the successes and failures of others to distract you from your goals and activities!
The language of the secure is spoken in the ability to celebrate others. We all need it, but don't allow yourself to be manipulated by it.
The only healthy competition that exists is between yesterday's and today's version of you!
Prov 4:23 - Guard your heart with all diligence, for from it flows the springs of life. Is your identity under attack? You must defend your identity at all costs. Drop me a comment to let me know what you thought about this episode and connect with me on IG @tarraydeaver
Perfection becomes an unachievable moving target that can frustrate you at best and cause you to miss opportunities at worst. Is that the right expectation? Who set it? Let's talk about it. Leave your comments below and follow me on IG @tarraydeaver
What is the value that you assign yourself? If you don't take the initiative to assign and announce your value, then others will assume your value. What do you think you're worth? You will pursue and possess exactly what you think you are worth. Take a moment and encourage yourself - "I'm WORTH IT!" Connect with me on IG @tarraydeaver. Give me a thumbs up in the comments if you think you're worth it.
Your identity is your responsibility and in safeguarding who you want to be, you must stay alert not to fall into the identity traps! There are four traps discussed in this episode: family, a moment, comparison, and expectations. Do you know of additional traps that seek to steal or redefine our identity? Leave me a comment below. Also, connect with me on IG @tarraydeaver
It is paramount that you don't allow your identity to be determined by your people, places, or phases. Clean the mirror that you can see you for yourself. At this point you have a decision to make: do I accept or deny who I see in the mirror?
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Relationships matter. We were born with an innate need for relationships. The idea is to make sure you have the right "who" in your life. This podcast will provide the criteria of people you should have in your life and those you can do without. Everyone is not fit to walk with you on your journey. I'd love to hear your feedback in the comments. You can also connect with me on IG @tarraydeaver
Your vision of who you are becoming must be more than a fantasy! In order to realize your dreams, then it must be supported by the work. The accomplishment of your years are the summation of the achievement of your days. Accept the challenge and let's grow!
Your past is foundational to your identity, but we must have the right relationship with our past. Do you see your past as something to relive or something to be rescued?
What is your opinion of yourself? We must learn to accept and love ourselves. Insecurity is an enemy to your identity. Make sure not to give others the illegal authority to validate who you are. At best, they can only confirm who you were or who you are at this moment. They have NO IDEA who you are becoming!
The foundational question of life is "Who Am I?" The answer to this question undergirds every decision you will make in your life. Have you defined your Purpose, Passion, Posture, and Pursuit? Let's start the journey together - of you!