Join Pastor Mark Butcher, Lead Pastor of the New Hope Church Network, as he helps you take your next steps in your relationship with Jesus.
Discussion Questions:
Share a time when you saw God work through you in an extraordinary way.
How can we overcome our fears and trust God with our challenges?
In connection with Sunday's message, how can we ensure that we remain humble and grounded after experiencing God's blessings?
Application Questions:
Recount some of the successes of the past, both in your life & the
life of the church. What part of those successes are
wineskins rather than wine?
How do you know when it’s time for new wineskins (new methods
of ministry)?
How do changes cause us to be more dependent on God?
Casting Out legion | Mark 5:1-20
Application Questions:
Why might Jesus have used a process & discussion with the
demons rather than just banishing them?
How often does God use a process in your life rather than a
quick fix? Why?
Share your story of how Jesus saved you.
Who does the church usually want to see saved?
Who do we “seek out”?
How is that different than who Jesus sought out?
Who were some of the other people that Jesus sought
out?
SEED-SOWING FOOLS
Matthew 13:1-9, 18-23
Application Questions:
Review some of your evangelism attempts that seemed
unproductive.
Review some of your evangelism experiences that were
productive.
Have the responses to your evangelism attempts been
predictable?
Any surprises?
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
GETTING ALONG WITH THE FAMILY
Mark 3:20-21, 31-35
How has your family expanded & how did that affect your love for those already in the family?
Without using names, who in your family do you choose to love, even though it’s a challenge to love them?
If you come from a family where you don’t feel love & accepted, what does it mean for you to be loved & accepted into the family of God?
Pastor Mark shared several stories from his family. What are some of the meaningful stories from you family?
Are you making your family a priority? If so, how? How do they know you are prioritizing them?
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO FOR A FRIEND?
Mark 2:1-12
Think of the people you consider good friends.
What would you be willing to do for them?
What are you actually doing for them?
Are you doing what you can to bring them to Jesus?
Do you find yourself disappointed if you aren’t’ recognized when you help someone else? If so, what does that say about your real motivation?
Recount things that God has done for you that were above what you expected.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
JESUS MADE THE LEPER WHOLE
Mark 1:40-45
Why would Jesus choose individuals over crowds? Wouldn’t dealing with crowds make a greater impact?
What risks did Jesus take by touching the leper?
What was the leper’s greatest need?
Do you think there’s any significance in the fact that the leper’s name is not recorded?
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
GIFTS OF THE HOLY SPIRIT
1 Corinthians 12:4-27
Why has the Holy Spirit gifted believers with spiritual gifts? What is their purpose?
What are my inherent talents? How does God use those as spiritual gifts?
How & where am I using my spiritual gifts to edify the church?
Am I weakening the body of Christ if I’m not using my gifts?
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT
Galatians 5:22-23
John 15:1-17
If so, how do they know?
What is the evidence?
Does your character reflect the Fruit of the Spirit?
What have you done within the last week in order to “remain” in
relationship with God?
Which one(s) are you exemplifying?
Which one(s) do you need to ask the Father to bear through you?
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
HOLY SPIRIT FILLING BELIEVERS
Acts 2:1-8
What is the difference between the Holy Spirit anointing someone for a task & the Holy Spirit filling them?
Was the work of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost just for the disciples or is it for believers today?
The Holy Spirit brought Power, Purity & Proclamation.
Can you think of examples in your life when each of these were your experience?
Which one do you do best at?
Which one is the greatest challenge for you?
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
THE HOLY SPIRIT
John 16:7-15
Which of the works of the Holy Spirit have you recognized in your life at various times?
What’s the difference between the Holy Spirit indwelling the believer and the Holy Spirit anointing the believer?
What aspect of the Holy Spirit’s working in your life is most meaningful for you?
If the Holy Spirit dwells in you, how should that affect your actions & attitudes?
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
THE HOLY SPIRIT BEFORE PENTECOST
What difference does it make in everyday life to know anything about the Holy Spirit?
In what ways was the Holy Spirit involved in the lives of people in the Old Testament?
How was the Holy Spirit involved in Jesus’ life & ministry?
What gifts or abilities has He given you.
Can you think of ways the Holy Spirit has anointed you to use those abilities for any special task?
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
NEW LIFE
1 Corinthians 15:3-8, 12-17, 22
What difference does it make whether or not we believe that Jesus rose from the grave?
Would there be a point to being a Christian if Jesus had not been resurrected?
What are the proofs in your life that verify that Jesus was resurrected?
I WAS THERE!
Galatians 2:20
How do the “crosses” that I bear compare to the cross that Jesus had to
bear?
How does Jesus’ death on the cross affect me if I don’t accept Him as
Savior of my life?
Was there another way that God could have provided salvation for
mankind, other than the cross?
Why is it important for me to recognize my responsibility for Jesus’
death?
Have I definitely accepted Jesus as my Savior?
GUIDANCE: GETTING SIDETRACKED
1 Corinthians 1:10-13
Do you find yourself guilty of any of the pitfalls? Pride, Domination, Fanaticism, Divisiveness
Are you giving God the glory for your obedience to God’s guidance, or
are you taking glory for yourself?
Think about a recent time when you followed God’s Guidance. How
did it make your stronger spiritually?
Are you guilty of forcing your guidance on others? (friends, spouse,
kids?)
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
IS THAT REALLY YOU, GOD?
1 John 4:1-3
When God clearly led you in some direction, how did you know it was God’s will?
When God didn’t clearly lead you some direction, how did you determine if it was the right direction?
Who would be the people in your life that would have wise counsel? Are you utilizing them?
When a decision is made, are you still willing to say, “Not my will, but God’s will?”
Of the different “tests” (scripture, conscience, circumstances, counsel, reason) which have you utilized most in your decision-making?
Father's Day Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NxOjvDuhZRM
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
Before deciding what the Spirit of God wants you to do, ask these 2 questions:
Am I willing to accept God’s will even if I don’t like it?
Is it consistent with the Word of God?
Review experiences in your life when you by…
A positive impression
Sense of restraint
Rational deduction
What experiences have you had that required “Faith 2”? (Stretched beyond your ability)
How has a time of bewilderment (after a decision) helped you to grow spiritually?
Self-Examination:
When was the last time I read the Bible on my own? (Not in church)
When was the last time I tried to memorize a Bible verse?
When was the last time I actually studied specific verses in the Bible?
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
How does caring for your own spiritual health balance with serving others. Don’t you have to take care of yourself first?
Is there a balance between evangelism & the growth of the church? Are they mutually exclusive?
What does a spiritually mature person look like?
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
What is the relationship between leadership and service?
Is it easier to serve when you have a designated responsibility?
Example: Greeter position at church
Make a list of who you’ve served in the last day(s), week.
Intentionally walk through your day asking yourself how you can serve someone other than yourself.
Where do personality types play into busyness? Are Type A people less spiritual?
Is there a time and place to be extra busy?
Are busyness and peace mutually exclusive?
Can right motives lead to wrong actions?
Questions:
way into his favor? What can you do to remind yourself that you don’t have to work for
what God has already freely given to you?
How can we keep ourselves from becoming hardened to the Gospel?
Do you ever wonder about God’s ability or willingness to keep the promises he’s made?
Why do you think we question that God will keep his promises?
Next step: Romans 11:11-24 (3 sessions again)
Questions:
In what ways have you carried forward the message of Jesus now that you’ve received the gospel?
How do you respond when people reject the message you share with them? What do you do to maintain your motivation to continue sharing the good news?
What can you do this week to get the message of the gospel to those who’ve yet to receive it? (Then set a reminder for yourself to ask yourself this question every week)
Next step: Romans 11:11-10
Questions:
Whose salvation are you praying for right now? In what ways are you actively seeking to minister the gospel to them?
In what ways should a growing knowledge of God lead to a growing zeal for God? What habits and practices can we develop to grow in our knowledge and love for God?
How would you describe what it means to “call on the name of the Lord”?
Next step: Romans 10:14-21
Questions:
What might your life be like now if God hadn’t adopted you into his family?
In what ways have you been humbled by God’s mercy on you?
Who in your life needs to hear the good news of God’s mercy today?
Next step: Romans 10:1-13
Questions:
Why do many people assume that God’s mercy is something they’re owed? If we have received God’s mercy, how ought we respond?
In what ways does God’s mercy encourage you to share Jesus with others? What are you currently doing to share God’s mercy with those around you?
Have you ever considered that it was God’s mercy to soften your heart and not further harden it, as he did with Pharaoh? How does this realization change how you view yourself in light of God’s goodness?
Next step: Romans 9:30-33
Questions:
Because of his love for his fellow Israelites, Paul was willing to be “cut off from Christ” for their benefit. Are there any unbelievers in your life whom you feel similarly toward? To what lengths are you going to share the good news with them?
What can we do to cultivate compassion in us for the people in our lives who still don’t believe in Jesus?
Verses 6-13 seem to indicate that God failed to keep his word. Have you ever asked a similar question? What answers did you arrive at? How did you get to that conclusion?
Next step: Romans 9:14-29
Questions:
What in your life has proven God’s love is dependable? What could it look like to remind yourself of God’s unchanging love when you face doubts?
How can we use what our enemy means for evil—like suffering and affliction—to serve the purposes of God in our lives?
No man is an island, so do you know people who has the kind of confidence in God’s love that Paul has? How could you spend more time with them and learn from them? What can you do to become absolutely convinced of the love God has for you?
Next step: Romans 9:1-13
Questions:
In what ways could your longing serve as prompts that lead you back to the gospel?
Is there anyone outside the church you love so deeply that it pains you? In what ways are your praying or suffering for their sake?
How could you cultivate the kind of concern for them that Paul describes in this passage?
Next step: Romans 8:31-39
Questions to wrestle with:
What one thing can you do differently today that will help you set your mind on the things of the Spirit?
Who in your life could you recruit to help you grow in your ability to fight in the Spirit?
In what areas of your life do you need to surrender to the Spirit? What could it look like to surrender to God through difficulty?
Next step: Romans 8:18-30
Questions:
How can you be intentional about giving thanks to God for all he’s done for you?
What practical measures can you take to keep yourself from temptation?
In what ways can you practice the remembrance of God’s love as a spiritual discipline? What could it look like practically in your everyday life?
Next step: Romans 8:1-17
Questions to wrestle with:
Are your acts of service to God fueled by love or obligation?
Have you ever thought of sin as actively taking advantage of you? How can Paul’s description of sin help you plan to resist sin?
Whom could you enlist to help keep you from giving into sin and temptation?
Next step: Romans 7:13-25
Questions to wrestle with:
What difference does it make in your day-to-day choices knowing that sin = death?
Having been set free from sin, what could it look like for you to apply Jesus’ victory to the still-sinful parts of your life?
What steps of obedience can you begin taking today as an act of worship to God?
Next Step: Read Romans 7:1-12
Questions to wrestle with:
What does it look like to place Jesus at the center of your life so that sin cannot control you?
What sins do you need to put to death?
In what ways are you not experiencing the life Jesus offers? What might be keeping you from experiencing it?4. How might your Christian community help encourage you in your new life in Jesus?
Next step: Read Romans 6:15-23
Questions for us to wrestle with:
What changes have you noticed in your attitudes and behaviors since becoming a Christian?
How should the knowledge that you’ve been given eternal life shape your day-to-day life now?
How can you enjoy the eternal life God has given you through Christ today?
Next Step: Read Romans 6:1-14
Things to wrestle with this week:
Reflect on a time when God used the trouble/s you were facing to produce endurance, character, and hope in you.
How could you use what we learned about God today to remind yourself to rejoice in the troubles you are facing when they come?
What might change in your life if you truly understood the fact that you are no longer weak and helpless as a child of God?
How can you more fully depend on the Holy Spirit, your helper?
Next step: Romans 5:12-21
Things we need to wrestle with this week:
It’s so very easy to say, but let’s examine and ask ourselves if we really have surrendered to and have started to fully trust God.
Are we really living as people of faith—people who trust God and the promises he’s made – the way Abraham did?
Have we completely surrendered ourselves to God? As in all of our decisions and circumstances?
If not, what can you do to build up your faith so it can be like Abraham’s?
Next step: Romans 5:1-11
Questions:
Are you willing to make the same leaps of faith and entrust yourself fully to God?
Do you believe in the promises God makes to us in his Word? Do we know or are we aware of what those promises are?
Can you think of one area in your life right now you need to take this leap of faith?
Homework: Read Romans 4:13-25
Next Step:
The Five Habits
Habit #1 - Celebrate that I'm forgiven.
Habit #2 - Rehearse what matters most.
Habit #3 - Spend time with Jesus.
Habit #4 - Review where I need to grow.
Habit #5 - Let go of what ca't be changed and focus on what God has next.
Homework: Map Out Your Bases
Home - Connect
1st Base - Character
2nd Base - Community
3rd Base - Career
Homework: Read the final chapter in "The Story".
Introduce the person you are thinking of to Jesus.
GOD’S POWER is evident and we pray for it
DEVOTED TO GOD’S WORD
LOST PEOPLE ARE A PRIORITY
USE EVERYBODY’S LANGUAGE
LOVE EACH OTHER DEEPLY
WORSHIP WITH JOY
BE WILLING TO SACRIFICE
EVERYONE HAS A PART – WE ALL HAVE A PURPOSE & A GIFT
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Homework: Read the next chapter!
-Great resource: The Bible Project Videos (youtube)
-Timeline.Biblehistory.com–a great, fast visual... you can click on where you are and zoom in on key people and see where they all fit together.
-Blueletterbible.org–can look up any verse and click on a word and get the original meaning.
-Get a good study Bible: life application Bible or Zondervan Study Bible–will give you the background and authorship of each book of the Bible.
-find a group: newhopehere.com/groups
Eight questions to ask to make good and Godly decisions:
Is there sin in my life?(Isaiah 59:2)
Is it in agreement with Scripture?(John 14:23; (2 Timothy 3:16-17)
Is there a sense of peace?(Psalm 85:8)
.What do 2-3 authorities on the subject say?
What do 2-3 mature Christians say?(Proverbs 15:22; 19:20)
Is there a pattern of preparation?(1 Samuel 17:34-37)
Is there provision?(Philippians 4:19)
(If married) Does my spouse agree?
Other ideas for Traditions to make this Christmas more meaningful:
The nativity–don’t just set it up, read the story. Maybe move it around the house.
Find movies that are fun, sentimental, but they also remind you of the why.
a. A Christmas Carol
b. Even Elf or Christmas Vacation
Shut off all the entertainment and play games
Give Jesus the first gift
Fast a meal!
Use decorations that remind you of the life of Christ (more than family, connect toJesus)
Share stories about God’s Work
Homework: Read Chapter 12!
Our best growth happens on the battlefield
Just because no one has done it does not mean it can't be done. Think outside the box.
Take responsibility for my own sin and mistakes.
Take the High Road - don't let how others treated you diminish your future.
Godly loyalty is a great thing.
Be a Worshipper.
Lessons from David:
You will be criticized… His brothers criticized him…you’ve got to learn how to deal with it.
Boundaries are ok.
Give honor without excusing sin.
Don’t give in to pressure for revenge.
You need a community.
Process with God.
The Ideal Test: Is this in harmony with God's Word?
The Integrity Test: Would I want everyone to know about this decision I'm making?
The Improvement Test: Will this make me a better person?
The Independence Test: Could this begin to control and dominate my life?
The Influence Test: Will this harm other people?
The Investment Test: Is this the best use of my time?
10 Second rule: Just do the next thing you're reasonably certain Jesus wants you to do. (And do it immediately before you change your mind!)
8 Questions For Godly Decisions:
Is there sin in my life?
is it in agreement with scripture?
Is there a sense of peace?
What do 2-3 authorities on the subject say?
What do 2-3 mature Christians say?
Is there a pattern of preperation?
Is there provision?
(If Marrie) Does my spouse agree?
Homework: Figure out where you are on this list and focus in on it this week.
Join us for a special episode featuring Pastor Tom Lundeen, Senior Pastor at Riverside Church in Big Lake, MN.
Tim Keller Podcast: https://podcast.gospelinlife.com/
Books: The Life You Always Wanted - https://www.christianbook.com/the-life-youve-always-wanted/john-ortberg/9780310342076/pd/342076
The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: https://www.christianbook.com/ruthless-elimination-emotionally-healthy-spiritually-modern/john-comer/9780525653097/pd/653090?utm_source=google&kw=book%20the%20ruthless%20elimination%20of%20hurry&mt=b&dv=c&event=PPCSRC&p=1018818&cb_src=google&cb_typ=search&cb_cmp=17240290312&cb_adg=133967433022&cb_kyw=book%20the%20ruthless%20elimination%20of%20hurry&gclid=Cj0KCQjwwfiaBhC7ARIsAGvcPe6n_bfohfa2RdhXN5zkWp5sd8rKIbvBBVJ_EuP0nuv_37DXyybWcXMaAvK4EALw_wcB
Answer the four questions from Sunday's message. 1. How's my attitude? Notice what you notice. 2. How's my Fear? Rehearse who God is when you experience fear. 3. Do I react or respond? Ask God to help you respond instead of react. 4. Am I paying attention to where I am spinning? Ask for help.
When you're struggling with foundational truth/life messages, ask these questions: 1. What are the cracks in my character? 2. Where am I strong and where can I get stronger? 3. What fuels my faith? 4. What matters to me?
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HOMEWORK: Read the story looking for these threads!
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HOMEWORK: Read from the Story
Homework: Think about the men and women of history… we tend to put ourselves in a different category… but think of what they did and it might connect to a next step for you.
Homework: When it comes to diligence, effort, experience and submission, take some time to reflect and decide on which of these four areas you need to work on.
Homework: Are you serving? Are you using your gift?
Where the Bible lists Spiritual Gifts: Romans 12, 1 Corinthians 12, Ephesians 4, 1 Peter 4, Exodus 31:3, 1 Timothy 2:1-2, Psalm 150:3-5
Homework: Make a list of your friends and family who don't have a relationship with God and imagine them spending eternity away from God.
HOMEWORK Write down what’s broken that you can’t wait for Jesus to restore… and talk to Him about it.
Hattie joins the show to throw an episode 50 party and Pastor Mike answers questions from listeners.
HOW TO BEGIN TO DISCOVER OR REDISCOVER YOUR PURPOSE 1. Ask God a. James 1:5 – If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously… b. Make it a daily prayer c. Plan some times of solitude and listening
Do a Bible study on Following God’s purpose a. Read the biographies of people who discovered their purpose b. Psalm 119: Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path”
Some things we talked about last week a. Make lists i. Strengths ii. Weaknesses iii. Experiences iv. Passions
Invite Others who follow Jesus to help a. Small groups matter! b. Following Jesus is a team sport!
DAY 1 – Sunday | Palm Sunday SCRIPTURE: Matthew 21:1-11, Mark 11:1-11, Luke 19:28-44, and John 12:12-19.
DAY 2 – MONDAY | JESUS CLEARS THE TEMPLE Scripture: Matthew 21:12–22, Mark 11:15–19, Luke 19:45-48, and John 12:13-17.
DAY 3 – TUESDAY | Traps and Prophecies SCRIPTURE: Matthew 21:23–24:51, Mark 11:20–13:37, Luke 20:1–21:36, and John 12:20–38.
DAY 4 – Wednesday | Day of rest SCRIPTURE: SILENT
DAY 5 – MAUNDY THURSDAY | A new evidence SCRIPTURE: Matthew 26:17–75, Mark 14:12-72, Luke 22:7-62, and John 13:1-38.
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Pastor Mike teaches us how to nurture a prayer life that is effective and discusses why we sometimes struggle so much with prayer.
Pastor Mike teaches us not only that God is good, why that matters and how we can discover the depths of God's goodness.
Conflict is inevitable, but how should we as followers of Christ handle it in a way that looks different from the rest of the world? In this episode, Pastor Mike teaches us about handling conflict Biblically.
Pastor Mike teaches us how much of a lack of boldness in living out our faith comes from the fear of failure, and how we can overcome that fear.
Pastor Mike teaches us what it really means to "hear" God's voice, why it can be so hard to do and how we can learn to listen.
Discipleship Director Hattie Carrier joins Pastor Mike and Daved as they discuss the importance of relational community.
Pastor mike teaches us what it really means to live our best life now, with a focus on eternity and why vision matters.
Pastor Mike teaches on rest, the difference between resting in God and simply resting, and how we can begin to think differently about how we live.
Pastor Mike teaches us about the fruit of the Holy Spirit. What they are, how they're different from Spiritual Gifts, and how they help us grow.
Books: Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster The Making of an Ordinary Saint: My Journey from frustration to joy with the Spiritual Disciplines by Nathan Foster Get My Life Back by John Eldridge
Pastor Mike teaches on Spiritual Gifts. What they are, what their purpose is, and why Daved can't speak in tongues.
Resources Spiritual Assessment Quiz: https://www.lifeway.com/en/articles/women-leadership-spiritual-gifts-growth-service
Pastor Mike teaches on the Holy Spirit, sanctification and what it really means to be "filled up".
Resources Spiritual Assessment Quiz: https://www.lifeway.com/en/articles/women-leadership-spiritual-gifts-growth-service
Books: Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster The Making of an Ordinary Saint: My Journey from frustration to joy with the Spiritual Disciplines by Nathan Foster Get My Life Back by John Eldridge
Pastor Mike is joined by Pastor Tom Lundeen (Riverside Church, MN) as they teach us more about what the Holy Spirit does, and why it is so vital that we understand who He is.
Pastor Mike talks about how essential forgiveness is for the Christ follower, while helping us understand what true forgiveness is, and some things that aren't a part of true forgiveness as well.
FOR FURTHER READING: The Bait of Satan by John Bevere The Cry of the Soul by Dan Allender and Tremper Longman III Forgiving what you Can’t Forget by Lysa Terkeurst
Pastor Mike dives deeper into the good news of eternity, and answers questions about what Heaven is, and what it is not.
Suggested books to Read more about the Good news of Eternity: - All Things New by John Eldredge - Heaven by Randy Alcorn - Heaven and the Afterlife by James Garlow and Keith Wall - Eternity is Now by John Ortberg
Pastor Mike talks about what the Kingdom of God is, where it is, and why it is such good news.
Pastor Mike talks to us about how we were designed to party, how we've lost sight of that truth, and how we can learn to party again, the way God intended.
Pastor Mike talks to us about how God is not in the business of giving us relief. Instead, He is in the business of giving us restoration.