Okay I Said Too Much: Recent Episodes
Deadra Ussery
Welcome to Okay I Said Too Much Podcast, where it’s okay to trauma dump and rant about your feelings. Let’s break down everything from our love lives, trending topics, life heading into your 30s, & much more!
In this episode of the 'Okay, I Said Too Much' podcast, theI open up about a tough week, sharing experiences tied to work stress and workplace PTSD. I go on to share anecdotes with my listeners, shedding light on her relationship with an ex-colleague. The episode takes a more sensational turn with the host wading into the ongoing Nicki Minaj and Megan Thee Stallion feud, deciphering events, and sharing her thoughts. The episode wraps up with a fun segment featuring 'Am I the Asshole?' scenarios, wherein the host gives candid responses and her views.
00:00 Introduction and Weekly Update
00:25 Dealing with Work Stress and Bad Days
07:03 The Importance of Support in the Workplace
10:58 Trending Topic: Nicki Minaj and Megan Thee StallionBeef
24:03 Reddit's 'Am I the Asshole?' Segment
40:48 Song of the Week and Closing Remarks
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In this episode of 'I Said Too Much Podcast', I share details about my personal life, health-eating journey, and the struggle to find a workout routine that suits my lifestyle. I also talk about my advancements in creating content and the new lighting equipment she has purchased. We discuss the dilemma around the 'are we dating the same guy' Facebook groups and shares her views on it. I touch upon influencers returning to 9-to5 jobs and the moral dilemma around supporting shows like 'Love is Blind'. I wrap up the episode by recommending a suspenseful TV show and sharing her song of the week.
00:00 Introduction and Weekly Update
04:32 TV Show Recommendation
05:55 Trending Topic: 'Are We Dating the Same Guy' Facebook Pages
15:08 The Story of 'Random Man in Atlanta'
19:11 The Intriguing Life of Tripod Target Guy
23:54 The Controversy Surrounding Avery Woods' Brand Trip
26:30 The Trend of Influencers Returning to 9-to-5 Jobs
29:25 The Ethical Dilemma of Watching 'Love is Blind'
34:21 Song of the Week and Closing Thoughts
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Welcome back to another engaging episode of our podcast where we tackle the most confounding TikTok dating advice. The episode starts with a discussion of personal experiences and transitions into various topics including interracial dating, dating older men for money, and societal expectations in relationships. We also dive into interesting stories such as the mishaps at Atlanta Airport and a horrific unmarked grave discovery in Mississippi. In our song of the week section, wefeature 'Should Have Worn a Bonnet' by 21 Savage and Brent Fias. Listen for an honest take on the current dating landscape, colored with personal anecdotes, trending topics, and some humor.
00:00 Introduction and Weekly Update
01:06 Travel Story: The Atlanta AirportExperience
07:58 Trending Topic: Unmarked Gravesin Mississippi
17:10 Discussion on Dating Advice fromSocial Media
17:56 The 50/50 Debate in Relationships
19:31 The Cheesecake Factory Incidentand Expectations in Dating
20:10 Texting First: A TraditionalDating Norm
21:45 Interracial Dating: A SocialMedia Perspective
23:04 The 'Hard Wig, Soft Life' Trendand Passport Bros
32:54 Sheera7's Dating Advice: A Review
36:32 Conclusion and Song of the Week
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We are celebrating the ONE YEAR anniversary of the ISTM Podcast! I am incredibly grateful for the love and support that has accompanied me on this journey of doing what I love most. In our latest episode, we will be discussing the recent internet sensation and breaking down its craziness. Moreover, I will be sharing my insights about the year 2024 and what I have decided not to allow now that I have turned 30.
00:53 Reflecting on the Journey and Future Goals
01:57 Appreciation for the Podcast Community
02:29 Exciting Announcement for the New Episode
03:25 Diving into the World of True Crime
03:40 The Intriguing Case of Gypsy Rose Blanchard
04:28 The Dark Reality of Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy
07:47 The Controversial Aftermath and Public Opinion
08:56 The Social Media Frenzy Around Gypsy's Release
12:21 The Moral Dilemma Surrounding Gypsy's Case
15:23 Ins and Outs for 2024
28:56 Wrapping Up and Song of the Week
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In this episode, I’m sharing my personal insights on turning 30 and the changes it has brought to my life. Topics include becoming more comfortable with setting personal boundaries, letting go of societal pressures to conform, embracing authenticity, and refusing to baby others' feelings. It also covers discovering personal taste in fashion and makeup, reducing wasteful consumption, and aiming for regular content creation without worrying about judgment.
00:00 Introduction and Casual Chat
01:17 Weekly Updates and Personal Life
02:38 Content Creation Journey
05:22 Trending Topic: TikTok Controversies
21:20 Things I'm No Longer Doing
35:26 Song of the Week
37:26 Conclusion and Contact Information
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Happy birthday to me!
This week, I will be sharing my experience during my birthday trip to Charlotte, NC. Also, I will be discussing the infamous kiss that was heard all around Calabasas'. Furthermore, I will be providing tips on how we can achieve our goals by 2024. From Diddy to the Kardashians, everyone is talking about the trending topic this week, and I'm eager to hear your views on it. As I celebrate another year of my life, I have crafted five tips that have helped me prepare for turning 30.
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Today's episode covers trending pop culture topics, including celebrity relationships and off-court activities of basketball players. Get ready for some juicy gossip!
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Before we delve into other topics, it's important to recognize the ongoing struggles for freedom in countries like Palestine, Congo, and elsewhere. In this episode, we'll be discussing a scam that has infiltrated one of the most beloved "breakfast" shows. Additionally, I'll be sharing my personal recommendations for favorite TV shows, movies, and books.
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We're getting into the Halloween spirit on the latest episode of Okay, I Said Too Much Podcast. First, we'll be recapping a wedding and discussing a TikTok scandal involving Youthforia's owner. Then, we'll be telling some spooky stories. If you're a fan of all things scary, you won't want to miss this week's episode.
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Just a heads up, we won't be discussing this show again for another year until a new season comes out. However, since the Love is Blind season 5 reunion has aired, we'll be talking about it today. I'll also be sharing my tips on how I'm combatting the "winter uglies", an update on my dating life (which is quite uneventful), and a few of my current favorite things. So, get ready for an exciting episode.
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Welcome back! This week's episode features one of my favorite types of content - Reddit stories and advice. I have some interesting updates on a TikTok couple and a con artist. Additionally, I will be sharing my thoughts on Drake's new album "For All The Dogs" for our song of the week. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider leaving a like, review, rating, and downloading it. Thank you!
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As the air gets crisper and the leaves begin to turn, it's time to start thinking about our fall bucket lists. Whether it's visiting a pumpkin patch, going on a hayride, or indulging in some delicious apple cider, there are so many fun activities to enjoy this season. But speaking of indulgence, let's talk about Love is Blind season 5. We can't get enough of this addictive reality show that proves love truly is blind. Who will make a connection this season? Will any of the couples say "I do"? We can't wait to find out. So, what's on your fall bucket list? And who's your favorite Love is Blind couple? Let us know in the comments below. Happy fall, everyone!
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We are back (and not leaving this time...I promise lol). This week we are discussing the Scottsdale bachelorette trip and why I have been MIA. I'm giving all my opinions on NYFW, Drake, Nicki Minaj, and the couple that is breaking the internet right now. Tune in to another episode of ISTM podcast!
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It's September, but we are not giving up this warm weather just yet. We are discussing all the ways you can enjoy the last few warm days, how to get a head start on dealing with seasonal depressing, and my favorite lazy girl travel tips. Plus, we have to discuss Sexxy Red.
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The planets are aligned and it is driving us crazy. We are back this week to chat about all the things that have been going on, lots of planets are retrograde, and Deadra can't stop watching reality dating tv shows. If you have been feeling off let's find out why.
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The best part of getting older is being able to look back on all the stupid things you did and be able to reflect on them. That is what this episode is all about. Deadra is giving you all the best and worst advice we have learned these past ten years of our twenties. The closer thirty gets, the more reflective we become. If you want to hear all the best and worst parts of your twenties, then stay tuned.
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In this week's episode we are talking all about the craziness that Deadra sees on the internet. From religious cults, Lizzo, Kylie Jenner, and more scandalous Love Island updates. We are covering it all. If you hate spoiler alerts then skip the end so you don't find out the Love Island UK winner.
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Deadra is catching you up on her life and love life. She is telling you about how the government told us aliens are real (duh), expressing her troubles with dating, and when to look out for your manifestations. We call this episode "the case of the rambles".
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This week we are breaking down all of Deadra's hot takes or unpopular opinions. She is breaking down the Kardashian sister feud, out of touch NYC influencers, and the tea on the Drake concert. Another juicy trending topic this week as well. Also, did we peep the new intro and outro?! Make sure to follow Deadra on all her social media platforms listed below so you can keep up with all the updates!
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This week Deadra is over it. She is discussing struggling with her mental health and talking about how she recognizes the pattern of falling into a slump. Deadra is breaking down everything you need to know about the Rudy Farias case in Texas in her trending topic. Insecure men, situationships, and being painfully single is on the chopping block today. If you enjoy a good ranting, this is the episode for you.
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On this week's episode we are discussing how to keep pushing through and fueling your passions, Love Island UK tea, and we are going over Reddit "Am I The Asshole" stories.
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If you predicted this week's trending topic, you are correct. We are jumping right into the OceanGate, Titanic madness. Deadra gives you her opinion on all things submersible, even if no one asked for it. Last week was the first day of summer so let's create our summer bucket list together. Deadra spills all her amazing product recommendations and tells you how to keep your spirits high. Instagram: istm.podcast Deadra's Instagram: deadraaaa ISTM Podcast Apple Music playlist: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/istm-podcast/pl.u-76oNNdMuWjbgza Products Mentioned: Reoria Crop Top EOS 24-Hour Moisture Body Lotion in vanilla cashmere Fenty Perfume Loving Tan Luminous Cream Sun Bum Tanning Lotion Trucker Hats Rice Water Facial Cleanser Elf Halo Glow Liquid Filter
Deadra is discussing it all today. Recent conversations with her ex, black women on reality dating TV shows, and the crazy cheating scandal that has taken over your social media feed. It's our favorite chit chatty trending topic episodes and it is a good one.
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This week Deadra is telling us how she is surviving a rough work week and how she is using that energy to help take her life to the next episode. From breaking down the lost generation to Reddit dating stories, we are talking about everything this episode.
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We are back with the word vomiting of emotions. Deadra’s long-awaited return is here, and she is letting you know what she has been up to. She explains how she spent her time off and gives tips and tricks for when she’s in a rut. Life has been crazy, and you know Deadra will talk about it.
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On our last episode of the season, we are going through three trending topics that did not make the cut and talking about all the things Deadra has learned this season. We are learning that we can have discipline with the things we love, we need to take a moment to smell the roses, and much more. After this episode we are taking a small break, but Deadra will be posting on her social media pages which are listed below. Deadra put all of the song of the weeks into one playlist on BOTH Apple Music and Spotify. You can find the links for the playlist and social media pages below.
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Today we are getting real about Deadra's healing journey. How she got there, what she went through, and how she got through it. Trying to get back to yourself after experiencing any kind of abusive relationship is not easy but Deadra wants you to know her tips and tricks. Celibacy, mediation, and being happy to be you. We hope you take everything you need from this episode.
In today’s episode we are breaking down what it means to be lonely and what it truly means to be alone. We are tackling these hard emotions and recognizing that they are very complexed. Whether it’s from being single, motherhood, or other life changes - it’s okay to admit you are lonely.
On this week's episode we are taking things much slower than we usually do. Deadra will be discussing some funny and interesting topics that have been trending lately. From lot's of Love is Blind drama, UFO's, and Reddit discourse. We are covering it all. Don't forget to follow Okay, I Said Too Much podcast on Instagram at istm.podcast and follow Deadra's TikTok at @deadraaaa
Happy Valentine's Day! Today we are talking about all things love but make it all about you. We are breaking down the big three things you should be working on to get where you want to be in your healing journey. Self love to help you be better to yourself, self worth so you know you deserve better, and self awareness for so you can know when you are not being the best.
If you are spending Valentine's Day alone, spend it with Deadra. If you are not spending Valentine's Day alone, spend it with Deadra anyway.
Today, Deadra is breaking down all the ups and downs of adult friendships. Navigating new life paths with your close friends, platonic friendships of the opposite sex, and the age-old question of can you be friends with your ex. If you want to hear Deadra spill the TEA this week, stay tuned because this is a good one.
We are going through all the things Deadra loves the most. Let's take a break from all of our deep emotional episodes and do a little retail therapy. From technology to her favorite body oil. Deadra will also be teaching you all of her tips and tricks that she has learned along the way when it comes to everything skincare. If you go shopping after this episode, she warned you first.
Today Deadra is discussing all things "no contact". Have you cut off someone in your life recently? She's going to give you the tips and tricks on how to successfully go no contact with ZERO regrets. Things might get petty at first, but we live, and we learn. If you have someone toxic in your life, listen to this episode and cut them out.Since App link for IOS devices: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/since-day-counter-tracker/id1291763003www.instagram.com/istm.podcast
1993 babies get ready, we are heading right towards 30. On today's episode of Okay I Said Too Much, Deadra is covering all things leading up to 30. Society talks so much about turning 30, but no one discusses 27-29 and the limbo that age leads you into. Relationships, losing weight, and FOMO. Deadra is breaking it all down and telling you some tips and tricks on how to handle it. Deadra (with the help of astrology) is here to tell you why you may be in your late twenties and freaking out.
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Who else is sick of every other TikTok being an outrageous dating rule? I know I am. On this episode of ISTM Podcast, Deadra is covering all the things that annoys her about dating and social media dating tips. She goes into detail about how these rules drive her crazy and what she does to combat that. Stick around for her very useful (and only) piece of dating advice and other great tips.
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Do you ever feel like you need to dump all the information and feelings in your brain somewhere? Well, this is the podcast for you. Okay I Said Too Much is the place where nothing has to go left unsaid. Tell me all your feelings because I am definitely going to tell you all of mine. This season we will cover all the things we start to over analyze as we get closer to the big 3-0. No one said it would be easy, but we can talk about that too.