It's easier just to accept rather than confront or question. But things are not always what they appear to be. Once you learn your own truth and feel comfortable in your own skin, addressing issues and finding solutions can lead you to greater success. "It Is What It Is... Or Is It?" Host Kay Francis, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, will focus on topics in the areas of psychology and business, on topics common in everyday life for everyday people. Please join me, and learn more about who you are and who you can be.
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Today we are going to talk about Love and how important it is. Especially today, unconditional love is one of the hardest things to attain. But it doesn't have to be hard. It all starts with you!
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Today we are going to be revisiting Anger - what it does for us, why it shows up, and what we can do about it before it takes over.
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She's funny, she's lovely, Tracey Jones! She's back with some more funny stories and hijinks, to make us all laugh! Sit back, relax, and join us!
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Today, we're going to be taking it easy with a Fireside Chat, a few updates, and more! But first, we all know, moving forward from something can be difficult, but sometimes in life, we must! Join us!
And as well, we have a few updates for "It Is What It Is...Or Is It".Unfortunately, due to medical reasons, Kay will be taking a short hiatus from the podcast, although she will be back after she has recovered! Thoughts and Prayers, and We hope for a smooth and speedy procedure! We will be sure to keep everyone updated on how everything is going, as soon as we can!
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Put your thinking cap on and don't be distracted as we discuss unconditional love and how it can open your eyes to greater insight and understanding that can impact you immensely. Is unconditional love complex? Absolutely, but well worth fifteen minutes to relax, not judge, simply listen.
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Our topic, "What's Done is Done", focuses on themes that few people take seriously, or understand its consequences. Join us as we discuss a thought-provoking subject.
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There are millions of people who want success in their lives, yet fall short of achieving their goals. Is that you? Success doesn't just happen; today's podcast reveals essential steps that make a significant difference in your life—no time wasted listening to this podcast, so join us as we discuss the missing pieces.
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We all want what's best for our children, but can we provide too much? Is it possible to safeguard them from the world too much? Today we talk about some of the downsides of wanting too much for our children, and the consequences of providing excessive protection from the troubles life brings us all!
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Everyone carries some baggage, which is accumulated internally starting in childhood and can drag this garbage with you for an entire lifetime. Some people have enough to fill a trunk, while others carry an oversized backpack. Wiser people, however, have worked to eliminate their baggage to a fanny pack. Today's podcast focuses on how to rid yourself of this garbage and get on with your life. We will discuss the importance of confronting what you've hidden and how to mitigate its emotional and mental harm to your personal and professional success, self-confidence, and overall happiness. So, join us and free yourself!
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Feeding your soul is a little different than just eating comfort food—today's topic, "Food For The Soul," is a fun way to learn how to feed your soul, and it's calorie-free. What could be better? So, listeners, take a few minutes and indulge yourself.
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Our topic, "It's All About Love," explores different levels of love and a perspective of love that could bring you contentment, inner peace, and joy. Today we talk about a profound love that you just can't live without! So, join us and learn what love is all about.
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Our topic today is essential for everyone. Learn the importance of "Fair-Fighting". What do you know about this subject? Tune in to discover if you are a Fair-Fighter, it can be a life changer.
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Today's podcast, Divorce and Children, is a must-read considering 67% of first marriages end in divorce. Children of divorce are deeply impacted in ways that they may not be able to express or even identify. So if you, a friend, or a family member is considering divorce or has already divorced, listen to this twenty-minute podcast. It allows you to minimize costly issues, which can impact your children for a lifetime, and can be avoided.
Join us today, and after listening to this podcast, please feel free to contact me with questions or comments. Remember, this is an emotionally charged time in your family's life.
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Denial can be helpful if you're not ready to handle what you have hidden from yourself. But denial is your enemy. We all have some negative baggage, but some is so traumatizing or hurtful that we often unconsciously block it out. Our podcast today addresses why we go into a state of denial in the first place. So, I hope you join us today as I discuss the denial process and encourage you to become more insightful into your reality. This fifteen-minute podcast could make a difference to you.
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Weall have experienced moments in our lives that were embarrassing, felt awkward, or were humbling. Depending on the issue, we may never discuss it. However, these are the moments when we learn about our level of resilience. Ask yourself, 'Am I still holding on to the memories?' Did I seek help? Is there any lasting impact that still affects my attitude and self-perception? Has this incident or issue altered my life in any way?" We encourage you to listen to today's podcast and apply its insights to yourself. We look forward to seeing you there!
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Today's podcast may be one of the most important podcasts you will listen to. Why? It's all about you. This excerpt is from our podcast "The Gem in You... Your Six Internal Needs," which will focus on only two of your six internal needs that are inherent in everyone and should not be ignored. We will explore what is missing within you that keeps you stuck, insecure, unhappy, inadequate, or other damaging self-perceptions. So, here is your chance to learn a critical part of your inner self that needs your attention. Tune in to a fascinating look at what most people pay little attention to. After you have listened to this podcast, it would benefit you to listen to the original podcast that talks about all of the six internal needs that need to be satisfied and can only be done by you. No other person can fulfill these needs for you.
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This podcast is especially appropriate following Tracy Jones. Our podcast today "Humor is Healing" takes us in a more serious direction. We will discuss why humor is healing and how humor impacts your attitude and relationships. Humor is a great icebreaker and can diffuse negative or uncomfortable situations. New listeners, you won't want to miss this insightful podcast. For the listener that has been with us from the beginning, this is a refresher for you; an opportunity to hear something you may have missed the first podcast on this subject. So tune in, everyone, and hear all that humor can do for you.
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She's back! Our fabulous, humorous Tracy Jones. You loved her last time, and you will love her again. So, get ready to have a good laugh as Tracy finds humor in different real-life situations. Today, she brings us her unique humor as she talks about the workplace. So get ready for some humor and enjoy!
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Today we focus on women living alone in the US.
It's informative, interesting, and surprising and men you may want to stay tuned in and learn more about women.
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A podcast you don't want to miss. We will discuss the mental and emotional damage caused by one or both partners. Involvement in a toxic relationship can lead cab to long-term effects for the victim. Tune in today and, learn how to identify the red flags before you become the victim of a toxic relationship.
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This week we talk about how we can handle the unknown. What are we scared of? How do we handle fear? How can we better handle things that are outside of our control? Let's sit and talk together as we discuss how we can prepare and react for the unknown.
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2025 is somewhat mysterious because we only think we know what lies ahead. This podcast encourages you to think about what you focused on: your past, present, and your future. It also offers thoughts about what you might do to make this New Year better than 2024. Listeners, I hope you join us so It Is What It Is ... Or Is It? keeps growing, and we continue providing topics of interest.
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The holiday season affects people in different ways. How does It affect you? This informative podcast discusses some of the more common effects of the holiday season, which are often triggers for your experience. You won't want to miss this podcast, so take a little time and join us.
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What therapy can and can't offer you is a frequent question when considering treatment, as well as the question of how therapy works. Today's podcast, What You Need To Know About Psychotherapy/Counseling, is an opportunity to listen and learn as Kay answers questions that can alleviate doubts or fears. Those who have experienced therapy will still derive new information. So join us today as she offers you greater insight into what therapy is all about.
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Our topic for today's podcast examines life challenges through a different lens and teaches you to experience them as exciting and adventurous with a new perception and outlook.
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When this topic was suggested, I jumped on it. More people than you can imagine suffer from chronic lateness or tardiness. Being chronically late isn't beneficial to you in any way. Others around are impacted by this behavior, which can lead to damaging relationships of all types. Our discussion is going to make you think about this issue in new ways; whether you are a Chronically Late person or you have a friend, co-worker, or family member who is always late, you don't want to miss this podcast.
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"Taking a Chance on Love" is chancy. You won't want to miss today's podcast because we discuss a universal and deeply personal topic: You'll be surprised what you can learn when you understand the different phases of love and gain insight into what love is and what love isn't. So tune in for this interesting topic and check out your perceptions of love.
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Our podcast today will discuss how to get worry and depression under control so you can design the life you want to have.
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So many of us overlook our feelings of self-worth and how it dictates much of how we think about ourselves. Self-worth can make the difference between being mostly happy versus being mostly unhappy, feeling like a success versus feeling unsuccessful. So, if you experience more unhappiness and dissatisfaction rather than joy and success, this is the podcast for you! For those of you that are certain your life couldn't be any better, tune in today and gain greater insight into yourself.
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Over 40 million Americans care for an adult family member or friend, yet few identify as caregivers. Today, we will discuss the pros and cons of caregiving, both as a professional caregiver and for the 40 million who are acting as caregivers to a family member or friend. This podcast is informative and a must for everyone, regardless of your age, because we will all be faced with this aspect of life.
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Millions are dog owners, including all of our podcast team. We will be interviewing an exceptional professional dog trainer who is interesting and will share helpful information. If you ever owned a dog, own a dog, or are thinking about getting a dog, you won’t want to miss this podcast. You are in for a real treat.
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This podcast is the surprise podcast I promised. Because it's a surprise I will only tell you that the subject is something that many of you have probably never thought about and if you did you may find yourself enlightened. So, I am looking forward to you joining me on Wednesday, May 1st for a casual, informative conversation. Let's have a little fun.
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All of us have suffered from guilt in our lifetime, and that's okay; it's our conscience speaking to us. This type of guilt is normal and easy to remedy. But this podcast focuses on the different types of guilts and the indicators that you may be suffering from agonies of guilt. So, join us and learn what you can do to rid yourself of this problem and get on with a much happier and more peaceful life.
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The Father-Son relationship can be complicated but oh-so-rewarding and exciting. So, tune in fathers, as we focus on how much your presence and influence impact your son's personality, behavior, and success in his adult life. Learn more about what sons need. The best outcome and most rewarding is that one day, you will have the greatest friend you have ever had.
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The mother-son relationship, although less complex and less delicate than the mother-daughter or father- daughter relationships, requires awareness and self-exploration to appropriately meet your son's needs. In some ways, this is a more relaxed relationship especially if you understand the mother-son dance. Mom, don't miss this podcast, it will provide you with more awareness about your role and what is critical for both of you to have a healthy, on-going relationship for years to come. You will enjoy this podcast, you may even want your son to listen.
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The mother-daughter relationship is more complex, but a father's relationship with his daughter is not only complicated but extremely delicate. So, dads, take time, tune in, and turn up the volume because you never knew how critical your relationship with your daughter is until you listen to this podcast.
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All relationships are complex, but this week's podcast will focus on what is considered to be the most complex of all: the mother-daughter relationship. Regardless of your life stage with your daughter, child, or adult, you won't want to miss this intriguing podcast. Together, we will explore why this relationship is so complex and why it's so hard to understand.
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The title for this podcast doesn't need much of a description. Most everyone knows that they carry a little baggage with them. But do they know how to look at it properly to lessen their load? Join me as I open the door for you to safely consider your hidden baggage.
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Did you ever question how you anticipate situations or the unknowns running through your brain? There is no better time than the New Year to take a deeper look within yourself to discover how anticipation plays out in your life. Join us in this new year and learn more about how anticipation plays a part in your life and how to successfully work with it. So join us in another new journey into your reality.
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We will discuss discernment, a word not given much thought, yet it is a powerful and an essential personality trait. Discernment can provide you with greater protection, sounder judgement and many more benefits that I will be discussing. So, listen in, learn and determine how discerning you are or may not be.
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When did you last laugh out loud and wildly at yourself?
At that moment, your body and mind were relaxed, and you could do nothing but laugh. Unlike my podcast on "Humor is Healing," "Laughing Out Loud" is a step up in that you can do nothing but laugh. Join me while I tell you some true stories that have been shared with me. We can chuckle together.
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NO is a short word, but it's powerful. Interestingly enough, people find it hard to say. NO is a complete sentence when used appropriately and for the right reason. So why do so many people find this teeny word tricky? Well, this week's podcast will explain the reason why. It's a necessary word, so please feel free to tune in to learn more about its value.
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There is one thing you can count on in life: Change.
Today, we will explore this exciting topic and discover what it means to you.
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We all face adversity, some more than others, but none of us escape it. Today's podcast discusses the challenges and strengths of adversity and how we can emerge victors. Learn more about yourself and positive ways to handle adversity.
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Alcoholism is a disease that can cause death, abuse, and other serious problems for both the alcoholics and everyone around them. Kevin James is a product of growing up in such a home. He will be with us to share his story, hoping to reach out to anyone who suffers from this disease or is impacted by alcoholism. So I hope you tune in because even if this isn't an issue in your life, you probably know someone with this disease.
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Most people say, "I'll believe it when I see it." Our discussion today will present what it can be like to have blind faith as indicated in our title. I will be using some appropriate Bible references as examples but don't let that stop you because you will be listening to information you may have never thought about, and it never hurts to think outside of the box.
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Being alone is very different from being lonely. This podcast will talk about how one can get the best out of being alone and how one can get out of the dark place of being lonely. Join in to hear a topic that isn't talked about enough.
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Friendships are essential in everyone's life, whether you are conscious of this fact or haven't even thought about it's value. Friendships affect both your health and emotions and offer support and joy. It can be difficult to make friends and challenging to maintain friendships, but we all need a few friends. This podcast will help you gain insight into yourself and others and learn what is required to make and maintain friendships.
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You won't want to miss this podcast: you will learn more about the creative self within you and why you don't want to ignore or waste what's yours. This topic will inform you, pique your interest and give you a lot of room for thought.
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Patience is a powerful force offering unlimited positive outcomes, while impatience offers nothing. Most people have thought or fantasized about something they would like to do or achieve. Patience is a characteristic that can help make it your reality. You will be surprised to learn about another powerful force that partners with patience. So, tune in and be surprised.
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This podcast is about the different types of dysfunction that live within us from extreme to mild. How we interpret the dysfunction and how it plays out in our life is thought-provoking and worthy of acknowledging and letting go. Don't miss this podcast as no one escapes the patterns of dysfunction.
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The title of this podcast says it all, and those that clutter rarely, if ever, speak about the problem. Stop beating yourself up or feeling guilt or shame because this problem is more common than you think, it's just hidden.
Kay will present some interesting facts on why people are afraid to declutter along with a few suggestions on how to declutter. Everyone can benefit from listening to this topic. It may even give you a chuckle.
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Have you ever laughed until tears were running down your face? Or were you ever feeling sad and someone made you laugh in that moment, and suddenly you had some relief from your sadness? Today's podcast takes an important look at the healing powers of humor.
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This week's podcast is a live interview with Beth Miller, a courageous young woman whose strength and faith were tested when she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She shares what many women never talk about and offers great important suggestions and information. Women and men who have faced the diagnosis of breast cancer, you will want to tune in for this important and thoughtful conversation.
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We live by time, without questioning it or realizing its full value. Kay will be discussing how we think about it, enjoy it, and use it. It's a podcast worth 20 minutes of your time, and you won't be disappointed.
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Don't let age get in your way. Confront your perception of yourself. Get out of your comfort zone. Learn what you may enjoy if you open up to new interests and kick up your heels!
Hey, if you are in your 20's and 30's, don't let the name of this topic turn you off. Dating at any age is challenging, to say the least. You may be shocked as we explore choices, red flags and approaches to dating.
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Strong leaders never stop improving their leadership skills. Today's podcast, "Identifying Your Management Style," is your opportunity to objectively examine and identify your style of management and determine how to lead more effectively.
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Our podcast this week is entitled The Effective Manager. Managers, up-and-coming managers, college students, or anyone on a leadership path should not miss Wednesday's podcast. "The Effective Manager" focuses on the new requirements for all levels of management necessary to combat the drastic changes that have impacted your workforce and work environment.
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Parenting practices are very subjective, considering the personalities of the parents and the children. This podcast discusses the dynamics of parenting and will provide you with surprising and interesting insights. A must-listen for all parents!
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Divorce is life-changing. Some people have little to no choice but to divorce, while most have a choice. This topic explores the critical reasons to divorce or not divorce. At best, divorce creates major challenges and changes that impact everyone involved which requires objective thinking. Learning how to make a well-thought-out and constructive decision is the key to avoiding negative outcomes and moving forward in a happier and more successful way.
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This podcast will give you insight into one of the meanings behind the title of my podcast "It Is What It Is...or Is It?" Listen closely as we discuss how to combat what we can't control and come out the winner.
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Partnerships are formed for different reasons and in different ways. Today's podcast discusses why some partnerships grow deeper in love over time and others fall out of love, and sometimes quickly. Tune in and take this opportunity to focus on your partnership.
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A large amount of today's children live in a blended family and the number of blended families keeps growing. A blended family consists of a biological parent, a stepparent, and at least one step-sibling.
Blended families, not unlike all family relationships are complex. However, the blended family has more unique challenges because it is not a traditional family, thus requiring greater awareness, understanding, and acceptance. It's a huge learning process for everyone involved.
Today's podcast discusses some of the most critical areas that adults need to explore and consider before making a decision to blend their families. Remember this is one of the most important decisions you will ever make for yourself and your children.
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I will practice what I preach in this podcast by inviting you into my personal world. We will focus on one of the stages of intimacy, communication. So, join me as I reach out to you and share a part of me.
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Even if you are not a Mother-In-Law, you don't want to miss this podcast. By understanding the complexities of relationships other than your own, you learn more about yourself, your perceptions, and your attitudes.
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Equality and Influence/Manipulation remain the most overlooked of GEM's six internal needs. Finding out what you may be overlooking will help you determine how your level of awareness and sensitivity affects how you operate in your larger world, the world that represents your personal and professional success.
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You can benefit greatly when you understand the value of what these two needs mean to your life. Unfortunately, Intimacy and Solitude are the more difficult six internal needs to explore. So, here's your opportunity to learn more about yourself.
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Today's podcast focuses on the most critical pair of GEM's six internal needs; Self-Love and Self-Power. Understanding and effectively satisfying these pairs of needs increases your levels of confidence, worthiness, self-respect-effectiveness, and the capability to grow as a person. You are in for some exciting information about Self-Love and Self-Power and how they can make a huge difference in you and your overall personality.
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A podcast topic that is all about you. Informative, and thought-provoking for anyone who wants to take a close look inward to discover who you are and who you are not.
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Your thoughts are powerful! Did you know that most of your thoughts are unconscious? The Power of How You Think can either lead you to success or sabotage his podcast provides interesting information and much to ponder.
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Happiness is different for everyone. This podcast will help you determine what happiness means to you and what actions you take to be happy. We all want happiness in some form, but are we fully aware of what we do to achieve it? Now is a great time to put aside distractions and listen. At the very least, you will gain more knowledge about yourself.
Setting boundaries may be difficult but essential for communicating effectively. Boundaries are an action that allows others to understand better and to respect your limits and wishes. So, here is your opportunity to learn how and why setting boundaries in your life is a must. You won’t regret it.
It’s exciting to explore relationships and to understand what makes them work. This topic is worth listening to because relationships are complex and can be challenging. So, listen closely to gain greater insight into your relationships and discover what may or may not be working for you.
A thought-provoking and informative topic. Sabotaging oneself is a common issue and often done unconsciously. So, check out this podcast and learn if you may be sabotaging yourself in any area of your life.