How I See It: Recent Episodes
Mark Pratt & Justin Sternberg
A podcast that works to counter cultural polarization through thoughtful conversations.
https://howiseeit.click/latest
This episode is a re-post of our Facebook LIVE 2-year celebration. Mark, Justin, and the How I See It community celebrate two years of the show. We get to engage with YOU, our audience through comments, discuss naming Justin's new truck with suggestions like Duke, Bergford, and Honey Do, and share dad jokes. We reflect on favorite topics, and the impact of our conversations. The episode is informal, filled with laughter, and appreciates the community that's been built. Plans for a season break and future episodes are mentioned, along with gratitude for our listeners' support and engagement.
See original Facebook LIVE post, with comments: https://fb.me/e/1RYaja7w3
Diving headfirst into one of today's most nuanced dilemmas, Mark and Justin engage in an illuminating discussion on the intricacies of marijuana - unpacking its escalating legality, speculated medicinal virtues, perils of recreational abuse, and the measured wisdom required by Christians to tread these murky waters.
ANNOUNCEMENT! We'll be doing a Facebook/Instagram LIVE on February 28th (that's tomorrow!) at 7pm and we'd love to have you join us! Bring a good dad joke to share!https://fb.me/e/4n31tpCVk
Learn how meditation can strengthen your brain like exercise strengthens muscles. Discover the science behind how it reduces anxiety, blood pressure, and depression. We discuss the difference between meditation and mindfulness and why they're valuable tools for controlling thoughts and emotions.
Today we explore the challenging journey through "the dark night of the soul," where personal struggles of doubt, despair, discouragement, depression, and other "D" words test our faith and resilience. Mark and Justin reflect on their own experiences, sharing insights on overcoming these dark times and distance from God, offering hope and a path to spiritual growth. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on finding light in the darkness and transforming adversity into an opportunity for profound personal discovery.
In this episode, we chat about being offended - a natural human reaction that we can learn to manage. đ§ââď¸ They discuss how offenses are often tied to unmet needs, and share tools like pausing before reacting, examining sensations, finding common ground with others, and learning from self-reflection resources. đĄ Tune in for wisdom on navigating a tendency we all face, while keeping the perspective that discomfort isn't always bad. Remember - you have a choice in how you respond!
Join Justin and Mark for a celebration of diversity on the 100th episode of How I See It! They discuss humanity's ironic desire to stand out while fitting in, compare people to the endless variations of music, and emphasize living in harmony with your unique purpose. Tune in to reflect on how we are each wonderfully made, despite our surface differences.
Mark and Justin discuss the "7 Primal Questions" framework in this latest podcast episode. Hear which of the 7 questions they identify with most. They share how assessments can increase self-awareness and relate the questions to other frameworks like the Enneagram. Take the quiz yourself before listening to gain the most insights!
Find links to the quiz and other resources on this episode show page: https://howiseeit.click/episodes/7-primal-questions/
On today's episode, we dig into cancel culture - the good, bad, and ugly. How should believers respond when past mistakes are exposed? Can there be redemption after being "canceled"? We talk honestly about skeletons in closets, social media mobs, and pendulum swings in culture. Join us for a thoughtful discussion on judgment, grace, and trusting God with the truth.
Should you pursue college or trades? Hosts Mark and Justin discuss the pros and cons of each path. They explore factors like cost, job prospects, character development and finding fulfillment. An intriguing conversation about the pressures today's youth face when mapping out their future career journey.
Happy New Year from How I See It!!
Join Mark and Justin for wisdom and advice as they reflect on 2023 and look ahead to goals and vision for 2024. Hear about their insightful experiences in ministry, music, and public speaking, as well as the importance of family time. Discover how they aim to grow in self-awareness, balance work, and family, and seek God's guidance in the new year - and invite you to do the same!
In today's discussion, Mark and Justin debate whether technology makes us more intelligent or just more distracted. They explore how pride and information overload impact wisdom across generations, wanting to build a firm foundation for their kids beyond just technology.
Tune in as Mark and Justin discuss the value of premarital counseling for setting realistic expectations in marriage. They explore pitfalls like unhealthy over-prioritization while dating, handling conflict constructively, and learning to understand each other's perspectives. Though not always easy, keeping God first and your spouse next allows marriage to enrich your life immensely.
Traditions shift as life changesâhow do we handle this gracefully while cherishing meaningful rituals? Mark and Justin are back discussing the holiday seasonâadapting holiday plans over time, resolving family conflicts, and parenting with the long view to maintain warm connection.
As we age, what matters most? In this poignant episode, the hosts wrestle with fears of burdening others, but also share inspiring stories of elders who stayed engaged and brought joy till the end. Contemplating the purpose and promise faith brings, they resolve to live and age well.
What's the difference between self-confidence and self-esteem? Justin and Mark explore. We discuss how self-esteem involves self-acceptance and intrinsic self-worth, while self-confidence relates to belief in abilities. Self-esteem provides a steady foundation for self-confidence. How to build both? Focus first on self-esteem through serving others, taking eyes off yourself to gain perspective. Developing confidence? Start with esteem.
On the latest How I See It episode, Mark and Justin have an insightful discussion about the process of forgiveness. They share why pride is the enemy of forgiveness, how being humble and recognizing our own need for grace helps us forgive others. They also talk about how practicing forgiveness is key for a strong marriage, and reflect on Jesus' example of forgiving even though he was perfect.
Family, change, and holiday traditions. Join Mark and Justin in a discussion recorded following the 2022 holiday season, appropriate as we enter the 2023 holidays, as they discuss the opportunities and challenges of spending time with family over the holidays. Navigating old roles versus who you are today, resetting boundaries, and embracing new traditions with compassion.
What's the appeal of conspiracy theories? Are they harmless entertainment or dangerous rabbit holes? Join Justin and Mark as they dive into the topic of conspiracies, discussing famous ones like JFK and 9/11, talk about finding truth between polarized viewpoints, and warn how easy it is to get sucked down rabbit holes.
Today, we discuss the confusing and potentially polarizing world of hypnosis, including the differences between stage and clinical hypnosis used for therapy. Clinical hypnosis can help people process trauma safely by altering mental states. We talk about hypnotism as a "gateway" similar to meditation and controlled breathing for shifting brain patterns. As with most "gateways", the key is using these tools responsibly to help people gain positive shifts in their mental state and self-control.
Join the conversation as we unpack the meaning behind the iconic Serenity Prayer. Reflecting on themes like wisdom, acceptance, hardship, and trust, we discuss living one day at a time, and how to find inner peace and perspective in the ups and downs of life. If you've never heard of the Serenity Prayer, we encourage you to listen to this episode and embrace this prayer as a powerful tool for spiritual growth.
This podcast episode takes a how-I-see-it look at the prosperity gospel movement and high-profile pastor scandals. Tune in for a lively discussion on church leadership, accountability, and the makings of a healthy church.
This thought-provoking episode explores capitalism versus socialism. We discuss the pros/cons associated with both, some related hot-button topics like healthcare and education, and we highlight the difficulty of change, especially for those who benefit from the status quo. Join us as we discuss this often-polarized topic.
Join us today as Mark shares a little about a shared vision for Sparrow's Rest - a homestead retreat center focused on strengthening marriages. Hear how he and his wife Chris are turning this dream into a reality by renovating a farmhouse, adding acreage, and prayerfully evolving the vision over time. Discover how their partnership and God's provision are making this unique ministry progress toward reality.
Do you tend to take yourself too seriously? Join us as we discuss the benefits of being able to laugh at ourselves. We explore how personality, pride, and life experience shape our perspectives. You'll hear stories about the intensity that comes out while driving and trying new things. We share thoughts on self-awareness, patience, and adjusting expectations. Tune in as we challenge each other and you to consider taking ourselves a little less seriously.
In this week's episode, Justin and Mark explore cognitive biases - the shortcuts our brains take that shape our thinking. While covering a handful of types and categories of biases listed on Wikipedia, they note that they are not necessarily good or bad â but it's important to recognize the role they play so we can improve our decisions and have more balanced perspectives. We encourage you to explore cognitive biases further as it can provide insight into how you think.
Thanks for hanging in there with us last week and listening to our "Encore" presentation of the "White Blank Page" episode.
This week, we're back in the studio, and we got a brand-new episode for you. On this latest episode of How I See It, we wrestle with the ideal of "excellence" and how to pursue it in a healthy, sustainable way. We discuss how the relentless chase after excellence can become draining and debilitating. Mark argues true excellence is less about perfection and more about living wisely and maturely day by day. Tune in to hear our full conversation on reframing excellence.
Thanks for hanging in there with us last week and listening to our "Encore" presentation of the "White Blank Page" episode.
This week, we're back in the studio, and we got a brand-new episode for you. On this latest episode of How I See It, we wrestle with the ideal of "excellence" and how to pursue it in a healthy, sustainable way. We discuss how the relentless chase after excellence can become draining and debilitating. Mark argues true excellence is less about perfection and more about living wisely and maturely day by day. Tune in to hear our full conversation on reframing excellence.
Mark and Justin are taking a break from recording new episodes this week, so we're bringing you an encore presentation of one of our most meaningful conversations from the archives - "White Blank Page."
In this episode, Mark and Justin dive into overcoming perfectionism and approval addiction. They talk honestly about surrendering unhelpful thoughts, learning from failures, and realigning priorities based on identity in Christ rather than external validation.
Tune in to re-listen to the insightful discussion between Mark and Justin in this classic episode as we highlight the archives while the hosts take a brief recording hiatus. We look forward to bringing you new episodes again soon!
Mark and Justin discuss how beards and tattoos have become meaningful parts of their identities. They share stories behind Justin's 11 tattoos and Mark's 5-year beard journey. Though cautioning against over-identifying with external appearances, they reflect on how tattoos and beards can represent faith, relationships, interests, and uniqueness.
Share your beard, tattoo, or other appearance story with us at us@howiseeit.click, or on our contact page: https://howiseeit.click/contact/
"Sticks and Stones might break my bones, but words will never hurt me."
Don't you wish this was true?! In today's dialogue, we unpack stories of words that impacted our lives, exploring the power to build up or tear down. We share some thoughts on critiquing carefully (or not at all), embracing the gift of encouragement, and walking with humility. From inner insecurities to regrettable outbursts, we're learning the importance of mindful expression. Enjoy this thoughtful conversation on language's profound role in human relationships. We hope it helps you further grasp how words shape, uplift, or undermine, and how to wield them wisely.
Big decisions got you tossing and turning all night? In this episode, we (Justin and Mark) have an earnest discussion about how to approach important life decisions, specifically as people of faith.
Responding to Markâs probing, Justin explains some of his big-decision-making process. And we talk about the value of coming to agreement with a spouse before making big decisions to prevent future resentment.
The conversation covers many practical practices youâll have to listen in to discover!
In todayâs episode, we decided to pull an episode out of a hat⌠An AI ChatGPT hat. We used ChatGPT to generate some random topics using our previous episode titles as the source/inspiration, then put those topics in a randomizer. The topic for today⌠"Should athletes be allowed to kneel during the national anthem?"
Proceeding with this topic, we discuss how this is a polarizing issue, with Mark's first reaction being about "freedom" while Justin's is about "racism.â We unpack the complexities around concepts like patriotism, the right to protest, the meaning of team unity, and more. We touch on how people tend to want simple "heroes" and when those public figures use their platform to be more complex, it can create dissonance. Finally, we find common ground in agreeing athletes should have the right, while still encouraging thoughtful motivations.
We hope you enjoy this episode, and stay tuned for future AI-generated episode topics!
Join Mark and Justin today as the duo explores the value of quietness. Mark begins by describing a serene encounter with a fox on an early morning run, which prompts reflections on introversion, extroversion, and the evolving relationship with solitude. They delve into the peaceful and contemplative aspects of being quiet while acknowledging its challenges, especially for those facing mental health issues. Justin candidly shares his journey from needing approval to finding solace in solitude. Listeners are invited to embrace moments of quietness and introspection, making this episode a thoughtful exploration of the beauty and impact of "quiet" in our lives.
In this episode, we discuss the topic of quitting. We explore the stigma associated with quitting, and how and why it is sometimes necessary. We share personal experiences with quitting, and how we have learned to recognize when it is time to move on. We discuss the importance of knowing when a season is over, and how to gracefully transition into a new season.
Today, we discuss the concept of spiritual balance and the duality of good and evil. Mark reflects on a recent sermon about the authority of Jesus and the limitations of seeking balance from a cosmic perspective. They emphasize the importance of faith and trust in our higher power, even when answers are not fully comprehensible. We explore some theological concepts and challenges of understanding good and evil and highlight the significance of seeking the kingdom of heaven vs trying to create heaven on earth.
In this podcast episode, Mark and Justin discuss the five apology languages, which are similar to the five love languages. They talk about how important it is to understand your own apology language and the apology language of the people you care about. They also discuss how pride and guilt can sometimes get in the way of apologizing effectively, and offer some tips for overcoming these obstacles. We hope this episode provides helpful information about our natural apology styles and how to use new tools to improve your communication with others.
You can check out the Gary Chapman Apology Language quiz here: https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/apology-language
Today is the continuation of the conversation we started last week about abortion, with our guest Sarah Hall. We appreciate her coming on How I See It to share her personal experience with abortion, and bravely offering encouragement to others who may be in a similar situation. We talk about the importance of offering love and grace to those who have had abortions, rather than judgment, and we discuss the need to have both political and personal conversations about abortion, and the importance of promoting change from within.
Sarah shares her personal experience with abortion and how her views on the issue have evolved over time. She discusses the challenges of being pro-choice and pro-life and argues that a middle ground needs to be explored. She also talks about the importance of faith in her journey and how it has helped her to change her mind about abortion. Listen to this thought-provoking discussion on this extremely polarizing subject, and check back next week for Part 2.
Today we explore the concept of pride; the positive and negative facets, and examine its implications in various contexts such as personal achievements, national pride, and parenting. We compare the differences between humility and false humility, highlighting the delicate balance between accepting compliments graciously and avoiding excessive self-focus. This episode also emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's limitations and staying grounded while striving for personal growth. Tune in for an insightful exploration of pride, humility, and the complexities of navigating self-worth.
Today is the continuation of the conversation we started last week about brains, with our guest and Markâs daughter â Lizzie Pratt. Together, we explore brain science, focusing on the advancements by Elon Muskâs Neuralink in connecting the brain to computers. We recruited Lizzie, a biopsychology student, as our âexpertâ on the subject, and she shared insights into the interplay between biology and psychology and the significance of the brain in understanding behavior. We touch on neuroplasticity, brain injuries, and the potential implications of brain-machine interfaces, especially considering the theological and ethical concerns.
If you haven't yet, be sure to first listen to Part 1 of this episode, and check out the podcast page for the show notes where weâve provide links to the resources mentioned in this episode.
âIf the human brain were so simple that we could understand it, we would be so simple that we couldnât.â â physicist Emerson M. Pugh
Today, we introduce Markâs daughter, and our guest, Lizzie Pratt. Together, we explore brain science, focusing on the advancements by Elon Muskâs Neuralink in connecting the brain to computers. We recruited Lizzie, a biopsychology student, as our âexpertâ on the subject, and she shared insights into the interplay between biology and psychology and the significance of the brain in understanding behavior. We touch on neuroplasticity, brain injuries, and the potential implications of brain-machine interfaces, especially considering the theological and ethical concerns. We hope you enjoy this part 1 of our conversation and will tune in next week for part 2! Be sure to check out the podcast page for the show notes where weâll provide links to the resources mentioned in this episode.
Today on How I See It, we explore the impact of social media on children's developing minds. We discuss how it affects their self-esteem, body image, relationships, and mental health. Through research, we uncover the risks of excessive screen time including things like cyberbullying. We provide a few how-I-see-it strategies for parents to foster healthy digital habits and open communication. Tune in for insights on navigating the digital landscape for the well-being of our children.
In today's episode, we explore the role of boundaries in codependency. We discuss the challenges of setting boundaries in codependent relationships, the reasons behind boundary violations, and practical strategies for establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries. Join us as we discuss the difficult but important work of establishing boundaries in order to foster healthier relationships.
Today, we continue our discussion of truth with guest Jeff Lindholm (be sure to check out part 1!). We continue with our exploration and questions such as: What is truth? How do we determine what is true? And how do we reconcile differing viewpoints on truth? Together, we delve into the importance of seeking truth, both personally and in our communities, and how it can lead to greater understanding and empathy for one another. Join us for this thought-provoking conversation. We know you'll enjoy listening to our special guest as much as we enjoyed chatting with him.
On this episode of "How I See It," co-hosts discuss the often misunderstood and complex topic of truth, joined by guest Jeff Lindholm. They explore questions such as: What is truth? How do we determine what is true? And how do we reconcile differing viewpoints on truth? Together, they delve into the importance of seeking truth, both personally and in our communities, and how it can lead to greater understanding and empathy for one another. Join us for this thought-provoking conversation. We know you'll enjoy listening to our special guest as much as we enjoyed chatting with him.
Welcome to "How I See It"! In this episode, we're getting real about codependency as we kick off a multi-episode chat regarding codependency and boundaries. Join us today as we dive into the world of enabling and addiction, and explore the struggles of codependent relationships. But don't worry, we're not all doom and gloom - we'll be tackling this heavy topic with some of our signature shenanigans. So grab a cup of coffee (or "Quiet Time Kombucha", patent pending...), sit back, and let's chat about codependency.
Last week, we discussed marriage counseling, and this week we discussed what often happens when a marriage goes sour â Divorce. In this episode, we share how we see divorce, our own experiences with those on the brink of divorce (or tipped over), and discuss what we believe Jesus and the Bible have to say about it. Tune in to find out where we land on this tricky subject. If you've experienced the pain of divorce, we'd love to hear your thoughts. You can contact us at howiseeit.click/contact.
Links referenced in this episode:
- https://thealsbrookfamily.com/what-if-i-got-it-all-wrong/
- https://www.jimcollins.com/concepts/Stockdale-Concept.html
Today, we dive into the polarizing topic of marriage counseling. Some people swear by it, some simply view it as a waste of time and money, while others see it as a shameful admission of failure. Mark shares a bit of background into how and why he (and his wife Chris) became so passionate about the topic of marriage, marriage counseling, and marriage ministry, and Mark and Justin each share their perspectives on how it's such a valuable tool for couples. They also discuss the stigmas and stereotypes associated with seeking therapy for relationship issues. Tune in to hear our co-hosts attempt to destigmatize this often contentious issue.
Purpose is the focus of todayâs episode on How I See It, as we chat about the ways we seek out and discover our purpose, as well as the importance of finding our purpose through the mundane and routine experiences of life. We hope this episode brings encouragement to begin or continue the hunt for your divine purpose.
"Faith is the substance of things hoped for" - but what does that mean? In this episode of "How I See It," we explore the topic of faith. From personal experiences to Biblical beliefs, we dive into how faith shapes our lives and perspectives. Join us as we discuss the role of faith in our lives, how it shapes our views of the world around us, and more importantly our view of God.
In this episode, co-hosts Mark and Justin explore the idea that our strengths and weaknesses are often intertwined. They delve into the concept of "The Stick" - the notion that the weakness that accompanies our strengths is like a stick, meant to keep us humble and grounded. In typical âHow I See Itâ style, we examine how our strengths can bring perspective to our weaknesses and how we can learn to embrace both in order to grow and succeed, ultimately learning to keep the stick balanced. Tune in to this thought-provoking episode to gain a new perspective on your own strengths and weaknesses.
As society continues to embrace and promote gender self-identification, we are beginning to see a new era of gender confusion and second-order consequences. In this episode, we discuss what acceptance can look like, the struggles we have with accepting those not like us and advocate for the ability to empathize with both sides of the conversation.
Through this episode, our co-hosts aim to promote compassion and empathy, regardless of an individual's gender identity, and as always, to encourage healthy and respectful conversations.
Today we'll be diving into our brains, and discussing relatively recent scientific findings. Neural pathways are the connections between different neurons in our brains, and they're responsible for everything from our thoughts and emotions to our behaviors and habits. Neural plasticity refers to the brain's ability to change and adapt these neural pathways in response to new experiences and learning. This means that we have the ability to shape our own brains and change the way we think and behave. Where does God fit into all this? Join us and find out how we see it.
In this episode, we're inspired by the ongoing spiritual awakening happening through events across the country, all triggered by a 2-week long chapel service at Asbury University. We talk about what makes this current move special, and some of its defining characteristics. And finally, we discuss the meaning of revival, and how it can be a deeply intimate, personal, and private occurrence, just as much as it can be a shared public experience.
Welcome to How I See It's âYear in Reviewâ! In this special episode, we reflect on our first year of podcasting, celebrating the amazing guests weâve had the honor of interviewing, and take turns sharing some of our âfavoriteâ episodes, including the insights weâve gained from these conversations.
We hope youâll join us in this celebration of our journey!
Inspired by this BrenĂŠ Brown, The Power of Vulnerability video, Mark and Justin discuss the many facets and unintuitively powerful nature of vulnerability. This word is often associated with weakness and abuse and therefore avoided at all costs. We would rather live in private shame than openly admit our struggles, but often this vulnerability is the key to unlocking incredible strength and change. Join us as we try to tip the balance in favor of this important virtue.
We're so thankful for our listeners and the great feedback you've given us over this first year of our podcast. Next week, we're going to be recording a "Year in Review", and we'd love to include some listener feedback! Please send us your thoughts/comments/feedback via the various social media platforms, or emailing us at us@howiseeit.click, or on our contact page: https://howiseeit.click/contact
We can't wait to hear from you!
Join co-hosts Mark and Justin as we learn the ropes of our new recording setup (not without our usual mishaps), and discuss the value of winning the morning, and as a result, the day.
Dive in with us as we explore the benefits of rising early and establishing a daily routine. Discover how setting aside time for meditation, productivity, and priority-setting can positively impact your life and help you define and achieve success. We outline some practical tips and tricks for maximizing your mornings and kickstarting your day on the right foot. We hope this episode of "How I See It" inspires you to start winning the morning.
Merriam-Webster Dictionary chose the term "Gaslighting" as its 2022 word of the year as it was searched on their website 1,740% more in 2022 than in the previous year.
"In this age of misinformationâof 'fake news,' conspiracy theories, Twitter trolls, and deepfakesâgaslighting has emerged as a word for our time."
Today on How I See It, we discuss this termâhow it's come to be used and abused in our culture, how we can recognize its effects in our own lives, and work to eliminate its telltale signs from our conversations.
Join us for part 2 of this episode of 'How I See It,' where Justin & Mark go toe-to-toe, delving into the controversial topic of gun control. From the Second Amendment to background checks, the hosts explore the different perspectives on this polarizing issue. From pro-gun advocates to those calling for stricter regulations, the co-hosts will examine the arguments from both sides, and share their own views on the matter. Tune in for these thought-provoking and nuanced discussions on the topic of gun control. If you haven't yet, be sure to listen to part 1 first!
In this 2-part episode of 'How I See It,' Justin & Mark go toe-to-toe, delving into the controversial topic of gun control. From the Second Amendment to background checks, the hosts explore the different perspectives on this polarizing issue. From pro-gun advocates to those calling for stricter regulations, the co-hosts will examine the arguments from both sides, and share their own views on the matter. Tune in for these thought-provoking and nuanced discussions on the topic of gun control.
Listen in to part 2 of our interview with our good friend and Pastor, Troy Knight. Troy is the lead pastor at Generations Church in Southport NC and the owner/co-founder of the local barbecue restaurants, Southport Smokehouse and Leland Smokehouse. In these episodes, we cover a lot of ground. Topics covered include what it takes to balance his two passions, advice to 20-something young men, what it's like to have a daughter pursuing ministry leadership, and even a little football. If you haven't yet, be sure to listen to part 1 first!
Happy New Year from How I See It! To kick off 2023, we're bringing you a 2-part interview with our good friend and Pastor, Troy Knight. Troy is the lead pastor and cofounder of Generations Church in Southport NC and the owner/co-founder of the local barbecue restaurants, Southport Smokehouse and Leland Smokehouse. In these episodes, we cover a lot of ground. Topics covered include what it takes to balance his two passions, advice to 20-something young men, what it's like to have a daughter pursuing ministry leadership, and even a little football. Join us this week and next for this light-hearted conversation.
On this episode of "How I See It," we tackle the polarizing subject of money. We'll be discussing the role money plays in our lives, how we think about it, and how it can affect our relationships, decision-making, spiritual health, etc. Mark and Justin will share some of their own personal experiences with money and offer insights they've earned and learned. Whether you're struggling to make ends meet or trying to save for the future, this episode will give you something to think about.
Get ready for a heartwarming and festive conversation on this special Christmas episode of 'How I See It'. We take a break from our regular schedule to share some of our favorite holiday memories and traditions and look into the joyful yet sometimes conflicting messages of the season.Â
At the center of the celebrations are 2 distinct figures: Santa Claus and Jesus Christ. In this episode, we will explore the tension between the cultural icon of Santa and the significance of Jesus' birth as a source of hope and joy for all believers. Can we find a way to strike a balance in our celebrations, or does the emphasis on Santa cause difficulties?
Thanks for listening, and from both of us at "How I See It", we wish you a Merry Christmas!
In this episode of "How I See It," co-hosts Mark and Justin discuss the concept of the Kingdom of God and how it differs from the personal kingdoms we create for ourselves. They explore the idea that God's Kingdom is a realm of God-centered service and purpose, and contrast it with the often selfish and self-centered pursuits that drive our personal kingdoms. They also discuss the implications of aligning our lives with the Kingdom of God and the benefits of doing so. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation about the nature of God's Kingdom and how it relates to our daily lives.
Everyone loves being told how to raise their kids, right?! Of course not. In this episode, we explore the polarizing nature of parenting, discussing various beliefs, values, and approaches, and why they can sometimes lead to disagreement and debate. We also delve into the emotional and physical demands of parenting and how they can vary from person to person. Join us as we take a closer look at why parenting is such a polarizing subject.
Today we discuss the current state of AI (Artificial Intelligence), the science, theories, and philosophies around its future, and the potential dangers/concerns with the impending next "phase" of AI. Is it possible we can create a "computer" that is as smart or smarter than us in every way (e.g. human-level intelligence)? Many scientists, technologists, and philosophers say "yes", and "soon". How do YOU see it?
For links to the waitbutwhy blog post referenced in this episode, and other resources, check out the episode show notes: https://howiseeit.click/episodes/artificial-intelligence/
Today, the show gets a little more personal as Mark and Justin discuss the subject of Depression. Mark and Justin are no strangers to this subject. Justin's familiarity is tied to his intermittent battle with it, while Mark encounters its effects near-daily through his therapy practice.
Those who fight their mental health issues also have to fight the stigma associated with them. The most important thing we can do culturally to fight this stigma is to talk openly about the subject. To help others know, "you are not alone!"
We hope you find this episode helpful, ironically encouraging, and stubbornly hopeful. We would love it if you share it with those in your life who may be fighting this same battle.
Mark brings a surprise topic to the How I See It studio this morning: Politics!
This topic can elicit deep feelings of anxiety, anger, fear, fight/flight, and it's certainly at the top of the charts when it comes to polarization. We have an opportunity (some would say responsibility) to engage this important topic and to encourage honest enlightened conversations that go beyond the surface-level talking points. We take a broad look at a few of these points and highlight many obstacles which make these conversations so difficult. Some questions we discuss:
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How can you find "truth" amid the polarized viewpoints across news outlets and talking heads?
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Is there value in voting straight party line? Is voting independent a waste of a vote?
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Where does the kingdom of God fit in? Does Jesus provide a model for us to follow?
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How can we engage with those who have opposite and equally passionate views on these political subjects?
Listen in as we share how we see it.
Enjoy part 2 of our interview with MaryEllen. She continues to describe the benefits of a natural plant-based diet, her enjoyment of cooking and teaching others to cook in this style, and her general appreciation for the plant-based community that's been such a big help in her journey towards recovered health. If you haven't yet, check out part 1 from last week. We enjoyed our time with MaryEllen and learned so much from her, and we think you will too.
Enjoy this interview with MaryEllen: She describes her journey dealing with Lyme disease and other tick-borne diseases, despite the medications given, and the odds-defying healing she has found through a natural/Vegan lifestyle. Our standard disclaimer: we are not doctors! But if you're struggling with chronic health issues, this episode (and next week's) has some helpful nuggets and encouraging ideas you can talk to your doctor about.
Enjoy this interview with MaryEllen: She describes her journey dealing with Lyme disease and other tick-borne diseases, despite the medications given, and the odds-defying healing she has found through a natural/Vegan lifestyle. Our standard disclaimer: we are not doctors! But if you're struggling with chronic health issues, this episode (and next week's) has some helpful nuggets and encouraging ideas you can talk to your doctor about.
"Gratitude is an attitude my friend" â with so much attention given to the negative in our reality, it pays considerable dividends to redirect our focus to the positive, specifically through the practice of gratitude. Today we talk about various ways we can practice gratitude, how this can influence our outlook, relationships, and opportunities, and discuss the realities of the media platforms trying to gain and keep our eyeballs to reap ad revenue.
"Gratitude is an attitude my friend" â with so much attention given to the negative in our reality, it pays considerable dividends to redirect our focus to the positive, specifically through the practice of gratitude. Today we talk about various ways we can practice gratitude, how this can influence our outlook, relationships, and opportunities, and discuss the realities of the media platforms trying to gain and keep our eyeballs to reap ad revenue.
Social Media: Is it truly social? Or an addictive wasteland? How "real" are these online relationships? In today's episode, Justin and Mark highlight their disparate experiences with social media and outline the merits and struggles of a world increasingly online, where relationships born through social media are becoming a societal norm.Â
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Social Media: Is it truly social? Or an addictive wasteland? How "real" are these online relationships? In today's episode, Justin and Mark highlight their disparate experiences with social media and outline the merits and struggles of a world increasingly online, where relationships born through social media are becoming a societal norm.Â
Related, this podcast grows through you sharing it in your world, online and off. Please consider sharing the podcast or an episode with a friend today!
Today we spend some time reflecting on our memories of that fateful day, September 11, 2001. We also discuss the 9/11 mantra, "Never Forget!"âboth the merits as well as the potential issues, and further expound on the challenges of trauma, whether it's from the proximity of an intense event like 9/11, or interpersonal/relational trauma.
Today's discussion is on the art of listeningâways to improve on this invaluable skill, as well as being able to suss out clues when we're not being listened to. We agreed that we all can be a better version of ourselves as we continue to learn and improve our listening skills. And unironically, we thank you, the listener, for... listening! We appreciate you spending your valuable time with us!
Today's discussion is on the art of listeningâways to improve on this invaluable skill, as well as being able to suss out clues when we're not being listened to. We agreed that we all can be a better version of ourselves as we continue to learn and improve our listening skills. And unironically, we thank you, the listener, for... listening! We appreciate you spending your valuable time with us!
Part 2 of our interview with Elias Dummer (a Canadian musician, songwriter, and writer well-known for co-founding the contemporary Christian band the City Harmonic) about all things worship, his new album (The Work, Vol 2), favorite memories and songs from The City Harmonic days, (Manifesto anyone?!?!), and many other things.
Note: There is a significant echo on Elias' voice during parts of this episode. We apologize, we are still learning the ins/outs and this was our first interview over Zoom! We love what Elias had to share, so we decided to release it with this disclaimer.
Check out Part 1.
We hope you enjoy these episodes, and we also highly recommend you check out his new album, The Work, Vol 2.
See the full interview on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39yBWjPzOKQ&ab_channel=HowISeeItPodcast
https://eliasdummer.com/
We get a unique opportunity to interview Elias Dummer (a Canadian musician, songwriter, and writer well-known for co-founding the contemporary Christian band the City Harmonic) about all things worship, his new album (The Work, Vol 2), favorite memories and songs from The City Harmonic days, (Manifesto anyone?!?!), and many other things.
We got to enjoy listening as Elias dove into theological depths and nerded out on some awesome scientific findings regarding congregational singing.
We hope you enjoy the episode, and we also highly recommend you check out his new album, The Work, Vol 2.
https://eliasdummer.com/
Stay tuned for part 2 next week.
Continuing the discussion on conflict, we highlight âbaby stepsâ for learning to approach conflict in a healthy way, for those on the codependent end of the spectrum as well as the domineering end. We hope this episode can offer some helpful ideas for anyone on that spectrum.
"Some misguided Christian leaders feel that they must preserve harmony at any cost, so they do everything possible to reduce friction. They should remember that there is no friction in a machine that has been shut down for the night. Turn off the power, and you will have no problem with moving parts. Also remember that there is a human society where there are no problemsâthe cemetery. The dead have no differences of opinion. They generate no heat, because they have no energy and no motion. But their penalty is sterility and complete lack of achievement."
Today we discuss this quote by A.W. Tozer and how conflict is an often-avoided, but mandatory component of every (living!) person's life.
Welcome back for Part 2! Last week, we got started in our conversation with Chris Pratt, Mark's wife and Kellie Perry. In this two-part episode, we're discussing a topic these women are so passionate about, Early Education. We chat about the value of reading in the home, what aspects of education can be polarizing, and with all the educational offerings and opportunities, how do you choose the best option for your kids and your family, and In this 2nd part, we share how each of our educations shaped us.
This episode was another treat for us as we got to have Chris Pratt, Mark's wife back on the show, along with Kellie Perry, Justin's sister-in-law who has, in her words, become podcast famous for cameo mentions in previous episodes (the Wives episode). In this two-part episode, we'll discuss a topic these women are so passionate about, Early Education. We chat about the value of reading in the home, what aspects of education can be polarizing, and with all the educational offerings and opportunities, how do you choose the best option for your kids and your family?
Make sure to catch next week's episode (part 2) as well, and we'll share a valuable resource on next week's show page.
Creation vs Evolution: this ongoing debate, now spanning 3 centuries, is certainly a heavyweight contender for "Most Polarizing Topic". Mark and Justin explore this topic of our origin, acknowledging even the polarized beliefs among those considering themselves "Creationists", and discussing the immense possibilities for a God who can create a universe.
Today, Mark and Justin talk (some may say nerd out) about the value of planting and growing things. They discuss the valuable lessons emphasized through the natural processes that occur in the life-cycle of a plant â things like seasons, dormancy, blooms, and fruit. The metaphors for life seem to never stop, and in the end, we encourage you, the listener, to consider planting something of your own so you can enjoy the same lessons, therapeutic benefits, and even fruit that comes from cultivating a living plant.
What is worship? Is the dictionary definition adequate. Is it an experience? Is it an action? Is it a state of mind? Is it dependent on a deity? So many question, too little time, but In today's episode, we discuss how we see worship, and we would love to hear how you see it. Drop us a note or a comment on facebook, twitter, instagram, or on our site at https://howiseeit.click/contact #howiseeworship
How often do we confuse thoughts for emotions and vice-versa? Certainly, our vocabulary doesn't help when we say "I feel like" to describe what we're thinking and "I think" when explaining how we feel. Today, we discuss that conundrum, the distinction between these two parts of our psyche, and some practical strategies for communicating our thoughts and feelings.
What's more polarizing than a good 'ole Calvinism/Arminianism standoff?! Today, Mark and Justin take on this vast subject that pits the seemingly opposing views of God's sovereignty versus man's free will. Is there room for both? Can we have our cake and eat it too? Maybe we don't answer all the questions, but we certainly share a bit more about how we see it.
Happy Day-after-the-4th! We hope you had your fill of fireworks and funnel cake as we celebrated the anniversary of our nation's declaration of freedom!
Last week we shared the first part of our chat with Senior Resident Superior Court Judge Jason Disbrow. We've heard a lot of great feedback on the episode, as Judge Disbrow shared some thought-provoking insight into the workings of the court, and we discussed the inherent polarized views of "the law." Part 2 is no exception, as the continued conversation veers in a more personal direction.
Listen in as Mark and Justin cross-examine our newest guest, Senior Resident Superior Court Judge Jason Disbrow. Join us as we get a fascinating "How I See It" look behind the Judge's bench, hearing some of the nuances of making judgments, how the system works, and how "The Law" can be polarizing, depending on which side of it you may find yourself on.
And stay tuned as we continue next week in part 2, where we'll get a special glimpse into the heart of this particular Judge.
In this 2nd part of our conversation with Mary Beth, we continue the topic of integrative health and ways we can optimize our bodyâs natural systems. We also work at convincing her to start a blog AND a podcast, and finally, Mary Beth asks us how we got started with âHow I See Itâ.
As this is a continuation of last week, forgive us again for the audio not being up to our usual standards.
For access to the resources mentioned in this episode, check out the show notes: https://howiseeit.click/episodes/mary-beth-fuchs-part-2
In this special guest episode, we chat with our good friend Mary Beth Fuchs, who has been in the healthcare industry for many years, and experienced many facets, both good and bad, within the industry. Join us as we learn a ton from Mary Beth about our bodies' natural systems for promoting our health, the healthcare industry, and many other tidbits, as we get a glimpse into how she sees it.
Leadership is a topic man has been mulling over for centuries. So forgive us as we indulge, discussing the difference between what is typically known as leadership vs what we call "true leadership." Is leadership an innate quality or something that can be developed? If there were dogs to demonstrate leadership, are you more of a border collie or a golden retriever?
Rest and productivity are seemingly at odds to one another. Yet itâs impossible to remain truly productive without factoring rest in to the equation (or can we simply live on a steady diet of caffeine??). Is there value in rest without productivity being the goal? Join us and find out (how we see it). Better yet, drop us a comment on social media and let us know how YOU see it!
howiseeit.click/social
What makes someone âuser-friendlyâ? What does that have to do with software? Weâre not sure either, but we tie them together anyway. Listen in as we discuss how attachment styles and love languages affect how we see it.
"The best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry." What do you do when you start to sense your week getting away from you? In this episode, we discuss a tool Mark uses to reset and recenter when the week becomes overwhelming or we fail to meet our expectations set out. He calls it the blank page exercise.
Who's Chesterton and why are we talking about his fence? In this episode, we discuss the benefits of "Second Order Thinking", a concept outlined in an article we came across recently. Listen in and find out what those benefits are, and what they possibly have to do with a fence.
What is a mission statement and its purpose? Do you have one? Does the company you work for? Is it just corporate-sounding jargon, and completely disregarded in daily dealings and interactions?
Is a mission statement a resource worth developing, or belongs in the "special filing cabinet" (the wastebasket đ)? Find out how we see it in today's episode all about mission statements. đ¤
In this SECOND part of our FIRST guest episode, we continue the conversation with our better halves! We chat about life, secret crushes, marriage, woodchucks and damp towels. Maybe as you see how THEY see it, you'll gain some insights to why WE see it the way we do. We had a blast sharing memories together, and we hope you enjoy this special episode of "How I See It"!
In this first guest episode (split into 2 parts), we introduce you to our better halves! We chat about life, secret crushes, marriage, woodchucks and damp towels. Maybe as you see how THEY see it, you'll gain some insights to why WE see it the way we do. We had a blast sharing memories together, and we hope you enjoy this special episode of "How I See It"!
In a discussion on gender, and related issues (toxic masculinity, feminism, alternative lifestyles), do we manage to offend everyone? Hopefully not. As 2 men with wives and daughters, we discuss how weâve been increasingly learning the value of gender, that gender is not equal to role, and many other lessons.
What does âa little more be alrightâ look like to the âHow I See Itâ podcast? We chat about the idea of ads/endorsements, our growing audience (â53 more than we had!!â), how we should handle editing ourselves and poorly stated things, and most importantly, whether the blue tape holding the mic on the stand is the real MVP.
Today, we discuss being powerful/powerless. Starting with contemplation on the nuanced definitions words can take on (such as âHumorâ), we move into consideration of the word âPowerââthe powerlessness over our environment, and the power we may have over our response to it.
Listen to Mark sarcastically explain the value of sarcasm in humor. No, he would NEEEEver do that. No really, he wouldnât. Seriously, heâs not a sarcastic guy. But we do chat about humor & levity. When does it go too far? When could we benefit from a little more humor? Where do we get our dad/bad jokes? Find out in todayâs episode!
Today, Mark asks Justin, âWhatâs your take on the Holy Spirit?â â This is a genuine âHow I See Itâ conversation about a very personal topic for both of usâour beliefs on the Holy Spiritâs role in our lives.
In this episode, Justin and Mark discuss the value of changing our minds. Should we be open-minded? Will our brains fall out? Who should change their mindsâboomers or millennials? Today weâll work on solving all these mysteries in âHow I See Itâ style.
Mark and Justin on âMarkisms'' and todayâs topic: Integrity. They share their perspectives on it, its value in their lives, the process to learn that value, and tips for developing it (hint, you can't purchase it by the 5 gallon bucket at the General Store...).
A (sometimes awkward!) introduction to this podcast, and to Mark and Justin, your hosts. We meander through a few of the potential themes, and future guests. We explain our desire is to mine the nuggets of truth that exist on both sides (and often in the middle) of difficult polarizing topics, all while gaining new perspective. We look forward to the journey and the process with you! This is âHow We See Itâ!