Soul Refiner Live: Recent Episodes
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Whether you're struggling with sexual addiction, fighting for your marriage, need healing from trauma or betrayal, or looking for answers in parenting, etc., Soul Refiner was created to deliver biblical and science based truths to help renew the mind and transform the heart.
Jeremy Wiles, the cofounder of KingdomWork Studios and Soul Refiner responds to Dennis Prager's shocking stance on pornography.
Leaders from all over the world come together to talk about how victim mentality can interfere with recovery for a member and for a group.
Men come together to unpack the answers to the tough questions that arise when they are in recovery from sexual sin and strongholds. How do I stop masturbating? Does my sin give my wife license to treat me horribly?
Women join together to unpack the answers to difficult recovery questions following betrayal. Is masturbation infidelity? I still haven't received disclosure, what should I do? Am I wrong to ask him not to privately communicate with other women?
Group leaders will come together on Good Friday to talk about the cost of sin. Could we be taking sin too lightly or being too intolerant or our group members' sins?
Women come together to discuss the tough questions they face following betrayal from sexual sin. What does recovery look like for her? Is there any place for masturbation in marriage? Will she always live in constant fear that he will act out again? Join Karissa and Kristina unpack the answers to these questions and more.
Is masturbation ok if I"m thinking of my wife? My wife is so angry....how do we move forward? Join us as we unpack the difficult questions men face in recovery from sexual sin and strongholds.
How can a couple experience any kind of intimacy following betrayal? It is possible and here is how....
Leaders come together to talk about the tough questions their group members have about polygraphs and much more.
Lamar and Kristina talk through how intimacy is indeed possible to share again following betrayal, and here's how....
Lamar and Kristina talk to the wives about how they can feel the "usness" again following betrayal. Intimacy is possible and here's how...
Leaders come together to discuss how they can be true disciples and create a ripple affect in this broken world. Leading groups is a fantastic way to pay it forward to others in need of healing.
In today's special holiday co-ed virtual event, couples come together to discuss how to rebuild intimacy following betrayal. How can we "love one another" as Christ commanded when there has been so much pain?
In this webinar, Lamar and Kristina discuss ways men can avoid relapse over the holidays AND how to help their wives. They walk through biblical guidelines men can take that will not only help their recovery, but their wives' recovery, too!
Have you been hurt and in desperate need of a miracle this holiday? In this webinar, Lamar and Kristina talk about chasing after your next miracle. They will talk about biblical guidelines and practical principles that can help save your holidays.
Leaders come together to discuss important strategies to help their group members prepare for the holidays to avoid triggers, relapse or additional pain and trauma.
Men come together to discuss how to seek forgiveness from their wives, how to forgive those in the past who hurt them, and how to forgive themselves for their sexual sin.
Women come together to discuss tangible steps that can be taken to work on their journey towards forgiveness following betrayal. They dive deep into Scripture and find a key element every woman is looking for from the one who betrays them. Women, this is a webinar you should definitely watch with your husband if you choose to stay.
Men and women leaders come together to discuss how to prevent codependency from sabotaging a group.
Leaders in recovery have a high chance of experiencing burnout and compassion fatigue. Leaders come together to discuss the signs and symptoms as well as strategies to prevent burn out with leading groups.
How do you ask your wife for forgiveness following betrayal? What if she doesn't accept your forgiveness or holds onto resentment?
September's Sanctuary: Forgiveness. Tune in and dive deeper into what forgiveness looks like following betrayal. This is a message you will never forget!
Women are not the only ones impacted by a man's infidelity. The children are also affected. What can moms do to help their children navigate post-betrayal problems?
Children feel betrayed, too, when their dad is unfaithful to their mom. What can dads do to help lessen the impact of their betrayal on their children? Men come together to discuss how to prevent legacy damage and pain.
What do you do if someone emotionally hijacks your meetings? What if conflict breaks out? What if someone shows up late or doesn't do the work or participate? We will address what leaders can do to preemptively prevent these problems and more.
Parents come together to talk through the tough questions moms and dads face following betrayal. How much should you share? Can you share too much? Should I wait until they are 18 to divorce? This and many more...
During this leadership webinar, Lamar and Kristina Douberly, Soul Refiner's Discipleship Duo, talk to men and women about the step most couples miss in their recovery journey.
Kristina and Lamar interview Troy Smith and Scott Radetski and ask them questions women wrote in that their husbands can't answer. "How do I know he isn't undressing every woman with his eyes?" "How do I know he won't run off with the first woman who gives him attention?" "How do I know he isn't thinking of her when we are having sex?" These questions and more answered here.
Kristina and Lamar meet with Cliff Wolkens to discuss how leaders can create the ripple effect and make other leaders from the beginning.
Tracie Hylton joins Kristina and Lamar as they teach men how to help their wives following betrayal. Women who have been betrayed experience betrayal trauma which leads to triggers. Men can make the triggers worse if they do not know what they are and how to help their wives.
Kristina and Lamar, Discipleship Duo, discuss with other Soul Refiner leaders what it looks like to raise up other leaders. God does not need perfect people!
Susan and Tiffani join Kristina in discussing tangible steps women can take to manage triggers that inevitably occur following betrayal
On today's podcast Joshua Broome shares his story of how he went from the pit to the pulpit.
This episode begins a series on betrayal trauma triggers and how to handle them. Our special guest on The Sanctuary is Susan Pitman with UnboundedLife,org. Susan shares her testimony and tools for overcoming triggers.
Joe Medlock, group leader, mentor, and Certified Biblical Counselor has walked beside over 100 men through Conquer Series and Warpath.
Lamar and Kristina Douberly teach skills needed to become the most effective leaders trained to be a part of God's rescue team through Soul Refiner. The Leadership Webinar is a monthly meeting open to all leaders providing an opportunity to ask questions regarding leading groups through Conquer Series, Warpath, Stronger Together, etc.
Lamar Douberly, Scott Redetski, and Ben Renner talk about little r and big R relapse and the steps necessary to prevent it.
Do you feel like you're sinking in a pit of depression and despair? You need today's message on The Sanctuary!
We're talking trauma with special guest, Jeanne Neilson. Talented Actress and activist for women rescued from sex trafficking, this South African native is a firecracker for the Kingdom.
Jeanne was cast as lead actress in our film, From The Ashes. She's walked through the fire of trauma and depression and is now a voice of hope for women.
Hear her incredible story and how God linked our paths to work together on this powerful new series on betrayal for women.
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Listen to Scott Radetski talk about how he beat a life-long sex addiction and his healing from abuse and trauma.
The Sanctuary, with Tiana, Kristina and Karissa talk with Michelle Poirtier and learn how she was healed from sexual abuse, domestic abuse, betrayal, PTSD, and a mental illness diagnosis. Now, Michelle is helping other women overcome and transform their lives.
Daniel's testimony will encourage and challenge you. His story details decades of trauma, tragedy, sexual abuse, gangs, sexual addiction, and pain. You need to hear how God healed him from all of it, including recently experiencing complete healing from a profound speech impediment of 45 years.
Struggling in a sexless marriage? Listen to today's webinar with Dr. Doug Weiss as he addresses "intimacy anorexia" (IA) and its devastating effects. Whether you struggle or have been set free from sexual addiction, have a wounded past, etc.....IA could be at the root of why you're still struggling in your marriage.