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Pregnantish’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pregnantish?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Infertility gets labeled “medical” and quietly filed away, but it rarely stays contained. It shows up in your relationship, your finances, your body image, your faith, your friendships, and the way you picture the future. We sit down with relationships author Andrea Surtash, the founder of Pregnantish, to talk about what happens when the old script “first comes love, then baby” stops working and you still want a family more than anything.

Andrea shares how she pitched infertility stories to major TV producers and kept hearing the same response: it’s too niche. So she built her own platform, anchored in fact-checked fertility education and premium storytelling, and a single vulnerable Facebook post about IVF shots, bruises, and heartbreak sparked the kind of viral response that proved the audience was always there. We unpack why telling the truth out loud helps people find care, build community, and stop feeling like they’re in a secret society.

We also connect the dots to gestational surrogacy and the stigma that intended parents and surrogates fight every day, including the harmful “transactional” narrative that ignores what surrogacy really looks like in healthy, ethical arrangements. Then Andrea introduces the World Fertility Project, a global movement inviting people to take a free pledge to break the taboo of infertility, plus Fertility Curious, live events designed for anyone who wants fertility testing and reproductive health info before they’re in crisis.

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Heart to Hands’ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hearttohandssurrogacy?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

She signed a surrogacy contract the night before embryo transfer even after a brand-new attorney told her not to and the story only gets more real from there. We’re joined by Adrienne Black, a retired surrogate with decades in family building, founder and CEO of Heart to Hands Surrogacy, and acting president of SEEDS (Society for Ethics in Egg Donation and Surrogacy). Adrienne takes us back to the early days when resources were scarce, agencies were hit-or-miss, and “you don’t know what you don’t know” could put a surrogate and her family at risk.

We talk through the big shifts in IVF and embryology, including how genetic testing and single embryo transfer have changed outcomes and expectations. Adrienne also shares what she’s learned about intended parents’ vulnerability, the power imbalance that can show up in surrogacy, and why the best journeys happen when the surrogate and intended parents are supported as one unit. If you’re researching a surrogacy agency, becoming a surrogate, or starting as an intended parent, this conversation gives you concrete questions to ask about contracts, screening timelines, education, and who is really protecting your interests.

Then we zoom out to the industry-level view: private equity, changing legislation, and why surrogacy can’t “fly under the radar” anymore. Adrienne explains what SEEDS does, how ethical standards are evolving across agencies and escrow, and why professionalism matters for every child’s origin story. Links we mention include Heart to Hands Surrogacy, Adrienne’s YouTube channel Surrogacy Queen, and our sponsor US Surrogacy LLC at us-surrogacy.com.

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• Heart to Hands Surrogacy: https://hearttohandssurrogacy.com/
• SEEDS: https://seedsethics.org/

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Sophia’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sophiaawohl?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

A surrogacy journey can look perfect on paper and still fall apart in real life if nobody talks about boundaries. We’re Kenedi and Ellen, and we’re joined by repeat guests Sophia (experienced surrogate and agency owner) and Sara (currently on her second journey) to get brutally practical about what boundaries actually mean when you’re living it: match calls with strangers, vulnerable medical appointments, emotional setbacks like failed transfers, and the high-stakes intensity of delivery day.

We compare how “old school” surrogacy often treated carriers like a vessel with little control, then move into what healthy boundaries look like now, especially in the hospital. Sara shares what it means to be the patient first, how labor and delivery teams protect the birthing space, and why simple consent practices like introductions and limiting observers matter. We also talk about ongoing communication, how to leave room for expectations to change, and how mutual respect makes boundaries easier because you aren’t constantly policing basic decency.

Then we get into the modern headache nobody can ignore: social media. Do you follow each other, post bump updates, share ultrasounds, or keep everything offline? We cover oversharing risks, accidental privacy leaks (names, DOB, clinic info), and how to ask for consent without making it awkward. Finally, we address agency boundaries, HIPAA and medical record access, and the questions every surrogate should ask before signing anything, including how much an agency is involved and who they’re really representing.

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Meghan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meghan.bestlife?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Quick clarification/correction: During this episode, I mistakenly mixed up my wording regarding mitochondrial donation. The donated genetic material discussed is mitochondrial DNA, not nuclear DNA. My apologies for the confusion, and thank you for the grace as we continue learning and having these important conversations around IVF and reproductive medicine. 💛

Someone can carry a baby and feel zero “that’s mine” energy. Another person can donate eggs and feel totally at peace never knowing what happened next. That contrast is exactly what we dig into with our guests Sara and Meghan, and it’s the kind of honesty we wish more people heard before they form opinions about IVF, surrogacy, or egg donation.

Sara is on her second gestational carrier journey, and she shares what it looks like to move through transfer prep, meds, and the day-to-day reality of being pregnant for intended parents. Meghan brings a rare perspective as an egg donor who stepped into the fertility world through clinical training, then later became a mom to triplets after IUI. We talk about the practical side of the process, but we also go straight for the big questions: Do you feel attached? Should donor identity be open? What does “genetic connection” mean to the kids created this way, especially now that consumer DNA testing can connect families whether anyone plans for it or not?

Then Meghan drops a story that stops us in our tracks: she also donated a kidney to save a coworker’s teenage son. That launches a deeper conversation about altruism, risk, health screening, recovery, and the kind of boundaries you have to set when you’re a lifelong giver. We also touch on emerging reproductive tech like mitochondrial donation and why the ethics can get complicated fast.

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Rachel's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackgirlsoven?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

“Why don’t they just adopt?” gets thrown at intended parents and surrogates like it’s a simple fix. We slow that down and tell the truth: adoption and surrogacy can both lead to a child, but the process, the power dynamics, the legal risk, and the lifelong identity questions are not the same thing.

We’re joined by two guests who bring real lived experience to the table. Amanda is a mom, stepmom to adoptees, and a surrogate mom, with a front-row seat to how foster care adoption can be loving and still incredibly complicated. Rachel is a surrogate and an adoptee who found out she was adopted at 17, and she does not sugarcoat what it feels like when strangers try to assign you “trauma” or tell you who your “real” family is. Together, we talk open adoption vs closed adoption, the reality that “open” is often not legally binding, and how reunion can be healing and messy at the same time.

We also get practical about the stuff nobody warns you about: missing medical history, sealed records and amended birth certificates, and why surrogacy often has more structure around expectations, consent, and support. We push back on the “selling babies” myth, unpack how celebrity narratives distort surrogacy, and explain why adoption is not some free, easy alternative.

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Tayler’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taytate6?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

She was 17 when a doctor told her she might never carry a child and the fear followed her for years. Then Tayler finds herself on the other side of the table: a first-time gestational surrogate, one month postpartum, telling the kind of surrogacy story that feels almost scripted because everything lines up.

We sit down with Tayler to trace the full surrogacy process from the beginning, starting with her endometriosis diagnosis, the second opinion that changed everything, and how two easy pregnancies still didn’t erase the anxiety. When she and her husband decide their family is complete, she admits a surprising truth: she doesn’t want another baby, but she wants pregnancy again and she needs closure. That honesty leads her into research, an advocacy community, and eventually choosing a surrogacy agency that supports her through matching, clinic travel, and the long list of IVF medications.

Tayler also shares what made her match so special: two intended dads in Los Angeles who wanted a real relationship, not a transactional arrangement. We talk embryo timelines, ERA testing, progesterone in oil shots, and the reality of coordinating care across time zones, including a coworker helping with injections at school. From the 12-week ultrasound to the baby shower and a redo 3D scan after a disappointing OB visit, Tayler shows how trust and communication can carry a journey. Then comes an induced labor, a delivery room playlist with perfect timing, and a fast birth that ends with everyone getting exactly what they hoped for: a healthy baby girl and a bond that feels like family.

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US Surrogacy LLC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/us_surrogacy/

Match calls can feel like a first date, a job interview, and a medical consult all rolled into one and that mix is exactly why people dread them. We wanted to take the mystery out of the surrogacy match meeting, so we brought on Kimberly Hennessy, program director at US Surrogacy LLC, to walk us through how thoughtful agencies actually build a match that can last from first call to delivery day.

We get specific about what’s inside a surrogate profile (pregnancy history, recovery, medications, prior complications) and what intended parents share on their side, including the letter to the surrogate, clinic details, embryo creation, genetic testing, and what kind of relationship they hope to have. Kimberly explains why some agencies match one surrogate at a time, how records review and psychology screening reduce surprises, and why state by state surrogacy laws can affect whether a match is truly safe and doable.

Then we break down the match call itself: the icebreakers that calm nerves, the questions that actually matter, and the topics people are often afraid to say out loud. We talk diet and lifestyle requests, how often updates should happen, when parents should travel for appointments like the anatomy scan, and how to discuss delivery room boundaries honestly without making promises you cannot guarantee. We also cover the big hard conversations, like embryo splitting risk, termination decision making, and what to do when a surprise request pops up mid call.

If you’re a surrogate, an intended parent, or just trying to understand the surrogacy matching process, this one is a practical roadmap with real world language. Subscribe, share this with someone preparing for a match meeting, and leave us a review with the one question you think every match call should include.

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Screening Solutions’ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/surrogate.screening.solutions?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Surrogacy can feel like an all-or-nothing choice: pay full agency fees or try an independent match and hope nothing goes wrong. We wanted to explore the missing middle and what it looks like when intended parents and surrogates get real professional support without the full-service price tag.

We’re joined by Molly, founder and executive director of Surrogate Screening Solutions, who’s spent a decade in the surrogacy space on both the clinic and agency sides and has completed four and a half surrogate journeys herself. She walks us through what “surrogate screening” really means in practice: HIPAA releases, medical record collection, clinic approval, psychological evaluations, background checks, and insurance review. We also talk about case management for independent surrogacy, including help with attorneys, escrow, and the many details that have to be right before transfer can even happen. If you’re searching for independent surrogacy guidance, affordable surrogacy support, or how to screen a surrogate you found through a friend or Facebook group, this conversation lays out the steps clearly.

A big thread running through our chat is mental health in surrogacy. Molly shares why social work check-ins and support groups can change the tone of a journey, especially when timelines run long, transfers fail, or emotions get sharp on both sides. We also tackle myths that still scare people off, including the fear that a surrogate will want to keep the baby, and we explain how screening and communication reduce that anxiety.

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Jessica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vibrantcoastpt?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Surrogate Wellness Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/surrogatewellness?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Leaking when you laugh. Back pain you’re told to “accept.” A recovery window that feels like a mystery. We wanted better answers, so we brought on Jessica, a Doctor of Physical Therapy who specializes in pelvic floor health and works with surrogates across the US through virtual coaching. She breaks down what pelvic floor physical therapy really looks like today, how it connects to your core and glutes, and why “common” pregnancy symptoms are not automatically “normal.”

We dig into the practical stuff surrogates and intended parents care about: when to start pelvic floor support during a surrogacy journey, how virtual assessment works, and what changes actually reduce prolapse risk. Jessica also shares how postpartum recovery can begin with breath work and gentle mobility well before the classic six-week clearance, plus what to consider after a vaginal birth versus a C-section, including scar support and abdominal rehab.

Then we zoom out to the data behind prenatal exercise and pelvic health. We talk research-linked outcomes like lower risk of gestational diabetes, preeclampsia, prenatal depression, and C-section, along with benefits that support baby outcomes and placental health. If you’re a surrogate building your support team, an agency updating benefits, or an intended parent who wants the healthiest possible journey, this conversation is full of actionable, evidence-based takeaways.

Sponsored by U.S. Surrogacy LLC. If you found this helpful, subscribe, share it with a surrogate or intended parent, and leave us a review so more families can find these resources.

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The website: vibrantcoastpt.com

The App: vibrantcoastpt.com/vibrantstrength

The Surrogate Wellness Program: vibrantcoastpt.com/surrogate-wellness-program

Surrogate Wellness: https://surrogatewellness.com/meet-jessica/

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My Surrogacy Journey Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialmysurrogacyjourney?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Mexico City surrogacy gets talked about like it’s a gamble, but the details tell a very different story. We sat down with Michael Johnson Ellis, a dad of three through surrogacy and the co-founder of My Surrogacy Journey, to unpack what’s actually happening on the ground and why so many intended parents are rethinking where and how they build their families.

We walk through how My Surrogacy Journey was created after a bumpy early experience in the UK, and why their mission is to make the journey feel equal for everyone involved. Michael explains their “membership” approach and what full support looks like in practice: clinical coordination, legal guidance, counseling, and real continuity of care so you’re not bounced between clinics, lawyers, and third parties. We also get into the problem he calls financial infertility, where the cost of surrogacy forces people to delay parenthood or give up completely, and why accessibility matters just as much as ethics.

Then we go deep on Mexico City. Michael breaks down the legal framework, including procreational will and a pre-birth order pathway, along with the safeguards they use to prevent exploitation. We also cover what strong surrogate screening looks like, how matching timelines can be shortened when clearance happens upfront, and why their milestone-based payment structure is designed to reduce risk and increase transparency. If you’re researching ethical surrogacy, the cost of surrogacy, LGBTQ family building, or international surrogacy options, this conversation gives you better questions to ask and clearer signals to look for.

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A surrogacy journey can look “simple” from the outside, right up until it doesn’t. Brittany joins us to share what it’s like to be a gestational carrier who knows the fertility world firsthand, from years of trying to conceive to building her own family and then stepping back in to help someone else grow theirs. Her story is honest, detailed, and packed with the kind of real-life context you wish you could get before starting the surrogacy process.

We talk through how she decided on surrogacy over egg donation, what mental health and family history can mean for eligibility, and how she weighed an agency path against an independent journey. Then things get wild: a literal website glitch leads her to the intended parents she ends up carrying for, and the match moves fast into medical clearance, psych screening, legal, and transfer prep. Brittany also explains transfer meds, travel logistics, working with a large IVF clinic, and why they were comfortable transferring untested embryos based on values and medical history.

The biggest curveball comes after the first transfer, when her betas rise but no pregnancy can be located, leading to a diagnosis of pregnancy of unknown origin and methotrexate treatment. After the required waiting period, a second transfer sticks and results in a healthy baby, but not without heightened monitoring shaped by the parents’ prior late-term losses. We also get into weekly BPPs, a breech baby who keeps flipping, and a planned induction that turns into a C-section where Brittany’s self-advocacy (and knowing who makes decisions in the OR) changes everything.

If you’re considering becoming a surrogate, navigating IVF and embryo transfer, or just want a true surrogacy podcast story that doesn’t skip the hard parts, this conversation will stay with you. Subscribe, share this with someone researching surrogacy, and leave a review so more families and surrogates can find these stories.

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What if one small change could tilt a surrogacy journey toward better energy, steadier blood sugar, and a smoother delivery? We sit down with Ginger Cochran—registered dietitian, board‑certified diabetes care and education specialist, and exercise physiologist—to unpack a realistic blueprint from pre‑transfer to postpartum. Ginger shares how targeted nutrition can reduce inflammation, support implantation, and shape fetal taste exposure after 14 weeks, while also boosting a surrogate’s confidence through evidence‑based, budget‑friendly choices.

We get candid about gestational diabetes. Ginger explains why GD can affect anyone, how risk changes with age and prior pregnancies, and which strategies—like Mediterranean‑style eating, pairing carbs with protein, and short walks after meals—make the biggest difference. She tackles myths head‑on, including the belief that GD becomes lifelong diabetes, and breaks down newborn hypoglycemia risk without fear or jargon. Her approach is hands‑on: fast scheduling, weekly follow‑ups until numbers are controlled, and steady education that calms intended parents as much as it equips surrogates.

Sleep and stress take center stage too. Less than seven hours of sleep can spike cravings and nudge blood sugar up, so Ginger offers simple sleep hygiene tactics that actually stick—dimming lights, keeping phones out of the bedroom, and using consistent routines to encourage melatonin. We round out the plan with sustainable movement, from prenatal‑aware yoga to ten‑minute post‑meal walks that open muscle cells to glucose and ease daily stress.

You’ll walk away with practical swaps—frozen veggies that rival fresh, BPA‑free canned options, choline‑rich eggs for brain development, and high‑fiber grains that steady energy—plus a grounded mindset: start with one change, build to two, and lean on an 80–20 approach for real life. Ready to design a safer, saner surrogacy journey with tools that last well past delivery? Follow, share with a friend who needs this, and leave a review to help more families find evidence‑based support.

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Amber’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ambereshleman?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

People love to ask surrogates one dramatic question: “How could you give up the baby?” We get why it sounds shocking from the outside, but it also skips the most important part of gestational surrogacy: we’re carrying a baby for the intended parents, with a clear purpose and a clear plan for birth, legal parentage, and what comes after.

We sit down with Amber and Amanda to talk honestly about attachment in surrogacy, including the part nobody prepares you for. Amanda shares how pumping breast milk, bringing milk to the NICU, and even nannying the newborn for a full month changed the emotional texture of postpartum. Amber explains the mindset many gestational carriers hold from day one, plus what it’s like when closure doesn’t happen the way you expected and how support can show up later in surprising ways.

We also dig into the real-world moments that shape a surrogacy journey: judgment from strangers, explaining the science and the “not biologically related to me” reality, and how kids process “mom has a baby in her belly, but it’s not ours.” We talk boundaries, too, including why being labeled “mom” can feel wrong even when it’s meant as praise, and how intended parents and surrogates can set expectations early to protect the relationship.

If you care about surrogacy education, intended parent support, and the mental health side of the postpartum experience, this conversation will give you language you can actually use. Subscribe, share with someone who still thinks surrogacy means “giving up a baby,” and leave a review telling us what question you want answered next.

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A single decision—stick to your non-negotiables—can reshape an entire surrogacy journey. We sit down with an experienced surrogate from North Carolina who takes us from the first late-night Google search to two very different matches, one declined for an NDA and one embraced for connection and trust. Along the way, she reveals the real timeline of IVF: long stretches of waiting, injections that sting, a failed transfer that tests your resolve, and the quiet shift from self-blame to science-informed acceptance.

You’ll hear how clarity changes everything. She wanted a relationship, not a transaction—and that boundary led to a delivery room filled with joy, grandparents peeking from behind a curtain, and intended parents who went from “we might not watch” to cutting the cord and hearing their son’s first cry. She shares how kids understand surrogacy with disarming honesty (“They’re the bakers; I’m the oven”), and how family members learned what genetic links, consent, and privacy actually mean. The postpartum chapter is refreshingly grounded: handing over care, pumping briefly, donating milk, prioritizing sleep and home, and using agency-backed mental health check-ins to stay balanced.

We also cover the nuts and bolts that rarely make it to social posts: mock cycles and why clinics request them, mini-legal for mocks and ensuring compensation, life insurance with correct beneficiaries and timelines, and a crucial clause granting her husband medical decision-making if international parents are mid-flight. It’s practical, tender, and fiercely honest about what protects everyone—the surrogate, the baby, and the intended parents—when plans shift.

If you’re a first-time surrogate, an intended parent, or simply curious about how love, medicine, and meticulous planning create families, this story delivers hard-won wisdom and hope. Subscribe, share this episode with someone who needs it, and leave a review telling us your biggest takeaway—what boundary would you never compromise?

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Shelbie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/surroshelbie?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Most people ask the same question first: “Don’t you get attached to the baby?” We take that head on with two experienced gestational carriers who explain, with compassion and clarity, how surrogates prepare, set healthy boundaries, and celebrate the handoff without trying to keep what was never theirs. The story here isn’t about loss—it’s about stewardship, respect, and the euphoria of seeing parents meet their child.

We talk candidly about where real attachment lands: with the intended parents and the shared mission. You’ll hear how early transparency, a thoughtful match, and clear agreements create trust from transfer to delivery. Our guests share why emotions run high at birth (and why those tears aren’t about “giving up” a baby), how they navigated faith and family pushback, and the surprising reason many surrogates choose to do it again. We also explore the underrated power of closure—brief private time after delivery that helps a surrogate’s kids say goodbye and marks the end of a profound chapter.

If you’re a first‑time surrogate, an intended parent, or simply curious, this conversation offers practical guidance: what to include in your agreement, how to set communication expectations, and ways to talk to your children in clear, age‑appropriate language. We highlight the role of supportive agencies, the strength of modern surrogate communities, and the difference between love, care, and parental attachment. By the end, you’ll understand why surrogacy is less about possession and more about precise, generous care.

Listen now, share with someone who still confuses love with attachment, and help us spread informed, human‑centered surrogacy education. If this resonated, subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what part of the journey do you want us to unpack next?

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The story starts with curiosity in a small town and unfolds into a hard-won lesson about what truly makes a surrogacy journey work: fit, trust, and closure. Amber joins us to share how she went from a first match that felt distant and clinical to a second match that clicked immediately—and why a simpler, well-explained protocol helped her achieve a healthy pregnancy after months of waiting. She opens her notebook to compare two clinics’ approaches, spotlighting the difference between piling on meds and choosing minimal, evidence-aligned treatment that respects the surrogate’s body and sanity.

We walk through the emotional terrain of pregnancy after a failed transfer: a gestational diabetes diagnosis, the discipline of diet and nightly exercise to stay off insulin, and how medical anxiety can strain communication with intended parents. Amber shows how she rebuilt trust by inviting direct conversations with her doctors, turning fear into clarity. Then labor tested everything—days of stalled dilation, a face-up baby, heart rate decelerations, shoulder dystocia, and an episiotomy. The baby was healthy, but the moments after birth brought a different kind of pain: silence, missed gratitude, and no space for the private, grounding “first hour” she’d hoped for with her family. We unpack why that brief, unobserved time matters for many surrogates—not to claim the baby, but to complete the story their body has lived.

Amber didn’t stop at survival—she changed direction. Now a surrogacy coordinator at a small, hands-on agency, she offers crisp, practical advice for first-time surrogates: research deeply, expect a slower timeline, ask clinics to explain every medication, and be explicit about boundaries for communication and postpartum plans. She’s already matched with new intended parents whose values align, ready for what she calls a redemption journey built on respect and transparency.

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A midwife from Adelaide joins us to unpack what Australian surrogacy really looks like when there are no agencies, no compensation, and a culture grounded in trust. Kayla walks us through how “teams” form through communities and friendships, why counseling and non-enforceable contracts still matter, and how parentage transfers after birth. We compare systems with the U.S., from single-embryo policies and no sex selection to the three-month embryo quarantine that surprised her—and the fully unmedicated transfer that worked on the first try.

The heart of this story beats in the details: choosing private care within a universal system to pursue a VBAC after two C-sections; a brief parvovirus scare that prompted careful monitoring; and the day labor went from calm to critical with a half-hour dash to the hospital. Kayla delivered standing by the bed, welcomed the intended parents moments before birth, and chose immediate skin-to-skin for closure and physiology. She offered early breastfeeding, then pumped until it began crowding family life. Postpartum, the dads stayed nearby for weeks, helping “wean” contact thoughtfully so her body and heart could settle while real friendships deepened.

We also get honest about money, ethics, and reform. Kayla once feared compensation would undercut connection. Now she notices who gets paid—clinics, lawyers, counselors—while the surrogate does the heavy lifting. She supports a fair, modest compensation model that respects the work without pricing out families, and she’s watching Australia’s push toward federal harmonization with hope. If you’re curious about how autonomy, informed consent, and genuine relationships can shape a modern surrogacy journey, this conversation offers rare clarity and warmth.

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What if one case manager guided both the surrogate and the intended parents—from the first profile exchange to baby photos years later? We sit down with Nina Simmons, case manager and clinical support manager at Northwest Surrogacy Center, to explore how a unified model reduces miscommunication, deepens trust, and creates a steadier surrogacy journey. Nina pulls back the curtain on the real work behind the scenes: coordinating clinics and legal timelines, keeping everyone informed, and offering trauma-informed support when emotions run high.

We talk about the head-and-heart balance that keeps a match on track: the administrative structure that provides safety and the relational care that builds confidence. Nina shares practical ways to set expectations early, from communication preferences to boundary setting, and explains how transparent group conversations help resolve friction before it grows. She also addresses common challenges—loss of control for intended parents, boundary fatigue for surrogates—and shows how predictability and clear options restore a sense of agency. IVF is powerful but not absolute; offering choice, clarity, and steady presence helps everyone breathe through the unknowns.

You’ll also hear how the pandemic reshaped matching and support—Zoom meetings, online groups, and a renewed desire for in-person connection—and why ethical guardrails matter when choosing an agency. Nina’s guidance on vetting compensation packages, reading the fine print on lost wages and insurance, and understanding state-by-state legal pathways is essential listening for anyone considering surrogacy. If you’re searching for a model that honors both people and process, this conversation delivers practical insights and real hope.

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A daughter remembers the rodeo comment. Amanda was nine when classmates, teachers, and even other parents struggled to understand why her mom was carrying a baby for someone else. That early clash with stigma sent her searching for answers—how embryos work, why genetics matter, and what safety really looks like—while her family navigated emergency deliveries, NICU visits, and a community learning on the fly.

Years later, the roles flipped. After a lifetime of “easy” pregnancies around her, Amanda faced irregular cycles and a PCOS diagnosis. She takes us inside the real cadence of IUI: dawn ultrasounds, letrozole and menopur, trigger timing, and the quiet choice to keep it private. You’ll feel the weight of a Black Friday clinic visit before hosting Thanksgiving, a Christmas Day beta drawn into the wrong vial, and the constant tug between hope and self-protection. Her second pregnancy arrived spontaneously eleven months postpartum—proof that fertility doesn’t follow neat rules—and it came with ER scares, a toddler at home, and the kind of fatigue most people don’t see.

We compare surrogacy then and now, from four-embryo transfers to today’s standards, and talk about how intended parents can transform the experience by acknowledging the surrogate’s kids. We also dig into what real support looks like when a sibling becomes a surrogate: legal caution, money anxiety, and the emotional work of staying steady in a tough delivery room. Amanda shares grounded advice for families, intended parents, and anyone facing infertility: seek facts, set boundaries, and let your plan fit your life, not the internet’s timeline.

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What if the calm, practical path to a healthy surrogate pregnancy is simpler than you’ve been told? We sit down with maternal health nutritionist and current surrogate Brie Towne, who pairs evidence with empathy to demystify prenatal nutrition, implantation support, and postpartum recovery. No scare tactics, no perfectionism—just strategies that actually fit a full life.

Brie explains why early nutrient stores matter for implantation and first-trimester development, then walks through realistic weight gain targets, how to handle nausea with balanced meals, and a hydration approach that uses thirst and urine color instead of arbitrary quotas. We dig into the most overlooked prenatal nutrient—choline—and how to get it from eggs, fish, and thoughtful supplementation. We also talk through folate, iron, omega-3s, vitamin D, iodine, and antioxidants, clarifying when supplements help and when they’re unnecessary or even counterproductive.

One of the biggest surprises: organic isn’t automatically better. Brie unpacks the small nutritional differences, cost trade-offs, and what pesticide regulation really looks like, freeing you to buy what you’ll actually eat and afford. You’ll leave with simple routines—default breakfasts, snack prep, frozen and canned standbys, and a “40 plants a week” diversity goal—that make eating well easier than chasing trends. For postpartum and pumping, we cover calorie needs, gentle foods for early digestion, and how to protect milk supply without turning meals into math.

Whether you’re an intended parent seeking peace of mind, a first-time surrogate navigating expectations, or a returning carrier looking to fine-tune what works, this conversation equips you with grounded, judgment-free tools.

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The quiet after a delivery can be louder than labor. We sit with two retired, two-time surrogates who open up about the complicated relief of being “done,” the grief of being told no by doctors, and the surprising ways identity shifts when the calendar no longer revolves around monitoring, meds, and milk shipments. Their stories span identical twins born across the country from their dads during COVID, an emergency C-section at 30 weeks after placenta previa, and the tender joy of seeing intended parents finally hold their babies.

We move beyond the highlight reel to unpack what most guides gloss over: how to handle control when a mosaic transfer, failed cycle, or NICU stay rewrites your plan; why 90 percent of the work happens before the six-week heartbeat; and how patience becomes the most valuable skill a surrogate can learn. You’ll hear how kids, partners, and even nanny families became part of the village, why one surrogate wrote a children’s book to normalize the journey at home, and how LGBTQ family building shaped a daughter’s worldview around chosen family and acceptance.

We also map the industry’s evolution. Pre- and post-COVID journeys look different—contracts, screening, and insurance have changed—and newer models like a la carte journey management are widening access for intended parents while honoring surrogate autonomy. The takeaway is clear: do your homework, don’t chase the first offer, and remember it’s your journey too. Retired surrogates are not done; they’re essential—leading support groups, mentoring, and keeping the heart in a small, growing field.

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Birth can be beautiful, messy, and intensely logistical—especially when you’re carrying for someone else. We sit down with Kristen, a multi-time surrogate and former agency intake coordinator, to trace her path from a pandemic C-section for placenta previa to a confident VBAC with international intended parents racing into the room as the baby crowned. Along the way, she shares what most guides skip: the fourth trimester after surrogacy, the emotional whiplash of shifting contact after delivery, and how hospital routines often ignore surrogacy preferences unless someone speaks up.

Kristen also lifts the curtain on agency intake: why education beats pressure every time, how simple check-ins and care packages change the tone of a journey, and what she learned turning leads into engaged, informed applicants. After a tough year trying to rejoin the industry as staff, she created the Surrogacy Doula program—a virtual service built for surrogates and intended parents that blends monthly support, perinatal nutrition guidance, and real-time messaging with thoughtful mediation when tensions rise. She helps craft surrogacy-savvy birth plans, clarifies roles in the delivery room, and gives IPs practical ways to bond before birth, from shared playlists to mindful rituals that bridge the distance when they didn’t carry the baby themselves.

If you’re weighing VBAC after C-section, navigating domestic vs international IP dynamics, or searching for a surrogacy doula who understands both the paperwork and the heart-work, this conversation is a blueprint. We talk closure language for contracts, setting hospital expectations for immediate skin-to-skin, and how to keep everyone informed without turning the surrogate into the project manager. Listen for grounded, human-tested strategies that make surrogacy safer, kinder, and more connected.

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Want a clear, unvarnished guide to IVF that blends science, empathy, and practical advice? Lisa, an embryologist and lab director in Melbourne with over 15 years in the field, joins us to break down what truly shapes outcomes—from age and egg quality to lab standards, embryo grading, and the rise of AI in fertility care. No mystique, no scare tactics, just what works, what’s changing, and what still can’t be predicted.

We start with a step‑by‑step tour: stimulation, retrieval, fertilization via IVF or ICSI, blastocyst growth, and the decision points around fresh transfers, freezing, and PGT. Lisa explains how PGT prioritizes embryos by chromosome balance, why it can reduce miscarriage risk, and where it still falls short when mosaics appear. If you’ve ever wondered why a 4AA isn’t a guarantee or how a “CC” can still lead to a healthy birth, this conversation reframes grading as probability, not destiny.

Then we zoom out to the system that holds it all together: the lab. Not all IVF labs are equal. Culture media, incubators, quality control, and the experience of embryologists influence embryo viability more than most patients realize. Lisa shares how time‑lapse incubators and AI now analyze thousands of images to support consistent selection, and how robotics is beginning to automate ultra‑delicate procedures like ICSI—promising fewer variables and faster decisions. We also cover lifestyle levers that matter—smoking, alcohol, BMI, sleep, and stress—and why none of them outweigh the impact of age on egg quality.

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What happens when the transfers are done, the last delivery is behind you, and the identity you wore with pride suddenly shifts? We sit down with a seasoned pair of voices—Grace, a two‑time carrier, and Kiely, a four‑time carrier—to talk candidly about “retirement” from surrogacy, the choice to step back versus being told no by clinics, and the surprising ways purpose expands after the final journey.

The conversation moves from age cutoffs and ACOG guidance on C‑sections to the emotional calculus of ending on your own terms. Grace shares how preparing for her last pregnancy shaped a peaceful exit, while Kiely explains why she wanted the decision to be hers, then channeled that energy into writing, mentoring, and creating Send a Friend, a grassroots program that brings an experienced surrogate to support first‑time postpartum surrogates. Along the way, we reflect on what surrogacy teaches our families: that love builds families in many forms; that children can learn to answer strangers with clarity and pride; and that empathy deepens when you stand next to someone who longs for a child money can’t buy.

We also get practical. Expect frank talk about changing insurance rules, clinic discretion, compensation norms, and how to research without falling into bias. You’ll hear why Facebook groups can be both a lifeline and a minefield, and how to gather perspective that sets realistic expectations for matching, protocols, and postpartum recovery. Most of all, we reframe the label “retired.” You’re not done—you’re a surrogate emerita, carrying wisdom forward through advocacy, education, and community.

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Ever wonder how it really feels to carry someone else’s baby—and make tough medical calls when hopes and bodies collide? We sit down with Jana, a Portland-based psychologist and surrogate, to unpack the real emotional load of surrogacy: induction pressure without clear medical cause, a lightning-fast birth in triage, and the quiet, complicated moments after delivery when your body wants to feed a baby who isn’t coming home with you.

We dive into perinatal mood and anxiety disorders—how anxiety, irritability, sleep changes, and intrusive thoughts can surface even in people with no prior history—and why a specialized clinician makes a difference. Jana explains how vague contract language like “follow doctor’s guidance” can become a fault line when preferences diverge, and she offers grounded strategies for advocacy that keep trust intact. She also breaks down the difference between “medical necessity” and “support necessity,” showing where confidential, nonjudgmental care helps surrogates process guilt, set boundaries, and stay steady through IVF meds, monitoring, and all the waiting.

There’s practical guidance throughout: what symptoms to watch for, how OB screenings work, and how to use agency wellness benefits without fear of stigma. We talk about family dynamics, partner support, and what to ask agencies beyond glossy benefits—like “tell me about a journey that didn’t go well.” Jana's dual lens as psychologist and surrogate gives this conversation rare clarity and compassion, translating hard moments into usable tools you can apply right away.

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What happens when military life meets surrogacy? We welcome back Whitney, a two-time gestational surrogate and Coast Guard spouse, for a candid, practical, and heart-forward conversation about building families while navigating orders, insurance, and constant change. Whitney opens up about the moment a medical retirement notice landed the night before transfer, how she planned around potential moves, and why a supportive command and tight-knit base community made all the difference.

We get real about TriCare and the secondary insurance most surrogates need. Whitney explains the Prime vs. Select trade-offs, how maternity claims can wrongly hit TriCare, and what to do when providers bill the wrong plan. She shares a cautionary tale about DEERS auto-enrollment, escrow closing too early, and a postpartum complication that surfaced months later—plus the fixes a good agency should own. If you’ve ever searched for surrogacy insurance, TriCare and surrogacy, or escrow timeline for surrogacy, this is the clarity you’ve been missing.

Beyond logistics, this is a story about chosen family. Whitney’s neighbors and friends stepped in with meals, childcare, and quiet companionship in hospital waiting rooms, showing how military communities become a lifeline far from home. Her kids formed deep bonds with intended parents, learning that families are built in many ways—and that love, not just DNA, holds them together. We also talk about the HBO docuseries that chronicles her journey alongside global family stories, offering a needed counterweight to loud headlines and tired myths.

If you’re a military spouse weighing surrogacy—or an intended parent trying to understand the terrain—you’ll leave with practical steps: confirm station stability, secure surrogacy-friendly insurance, extend escrow through postpartum, and build a local support web before transfer. Subscribe, share with someone who needs real-world guidance, and leave a review with your biggest question so we can cover it next.

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A calm first journey, a terrifying second, and a life-changing pivot into nursing—Lauren’s story reveals what surrogacy really asks of the body, the mind, and the heart. We welcome Lauren back to share how she chose agencies, navigated a Canada-to-U.S. match during COVID, and moved through a natural-cycle transfer that led to a smooth full-term birth. Then everything changed: a double embryo transfer, surging symptoms, a gut feeling something was wrong, and a hospital visit that exposed early dilation and bulging membranes. When monitors missed contractions, her voice did not. The emergency C-section that followed was chaotic and partially anesthetized, the twins headed straight to the NICU, and the aftermath raised hard questions about support, recognition, and care.

We talk candidly about the parts people don’t see: reduced compensation after a preterm birth, the emotional shock of limited updates from intended parents, and the mental health gap that too many contracts overlook. Lauren’s experience also spotlights bias in healthcare—how Black women are often dismissed, and why listening can be the difference between safety and harm. Out of that crucible, she found purpose. She’s starting nursing school with her eyes set on labor and delivery, determined to make sure no patient under her watch has to perform to be believed.

You’ll learn practical takeaways for surrogates and intended parents: how natural-cycle transfers work, what to include in contracts (postpartum therapy, communication expectations, emergency planning), and why clear, compassionate agency support matters long after delivery. It’s a story of grit, grace, and the power of advocacy—proof that intuition is data and that gratitude should never arrive late.

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What happens when kids grow up watching their parent carry a baby for someone else? We open the door to our homes and hearts to explore how surrogacy shapes children’s understanding of empathy, science, and the many ways families are made. With Sarah—a labor and delivery nurse, twin mom, and second-time surrogate—we trade honest stories about timing the conversation, answering tough questions, and turning complex ideas into clear, age-appropriate truths.

We share how we explained IVF and embryos with simple analogies and real facts, why meeting intended parents early makes the mission feel human, and how transparency helps kids process big feelings during the ups and downs of a journey. From nausea and pump parts to the quiet heroism of persistence, our kids learned that sacrifice can be ordinary and love can be deliberate. We also talk about failed transfers, showing sadness without shame, and the surprising moments that taught our children to comfort, advocate, and step up.

Beyond birth, we highlight the power of continuing relationships—photos, short videos, and first birthdays that replace goodbye with connection. The conversation widens to inclusivity: same-sex parents, single parents by choice, and heterosexual couples, all seeking a path through infertility. Our kids traced the ripple effects—parents becoming grandparents, cousins finding cousins—and saw how surrogacy can expand a family tree in every direction. If you’re wondering when to tell your kids, what to say, or how to keep it grounded, you’ll leave with practical scripts, tools, and the reassurance that children can hold both facts and feeling with grace.

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A DM match, a parking‑lot handshake, and a transfer day “gift” in cash—then silence. Hallie joins us to share how a seemingly straightforward surrogacy journey morphed into a tangle of red flags: minimal medical clearance, a contract fight over termination language, a hard push to keep escrow with the intended parents’ attorney, and months with the agency acting as the only conduit to the family. When a July email warned that the matching entity was tied to an ongoing investigation and that a pre‑birth order might not arrive before delivery, everything shifted. We talk through the panic, the legal limbo, and the practical fallout when escrow funds stop and medical bills don’t.

We walk step‑by‑step through the choices that helped Hallie hold the line—why third‑party escrow mattered, how to frame non‑negotiables, and what to look for in termination clauses and monitoring protocols. She also shares the human side: taking her grandmother to transfer, the shock of contradictory family details revealed minutes before the procedure, and the eerie quiet that followed. This isn’t fear‑mongering; it’s a candid look at how trust, transparency, and process protect everyone in surrogacy—surrogates, intended parents, and the child.

If you’re considering becoming a surrogate or building your family through surrogacy, you’ll find practical safeguards you can use today: identity‑verified matching (not DMs), evidence‑based medical screening at the transfer clinic, specialized attorneys on both sides, independent and adequately funded escrow, and a written communication plan. We end by pausing at 36 weeks, with part two on the way—covering the pre‑birth order scramble, hospital planning, and what to do when professionals say “we don’t know.”

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Dive into the raw, unfiltered journey of Liz, a three-time surrogate who brings a unique perspective as both a surrogate mother and a fertility clinic medical assistant. Her story takes us through the highs of creating families for others and the lows of failed transfers and loss, all while maintaining remarkable positivity and resilience. Liz's path to surrogacy began unexpectedly while working in fertility medicine, where she gained invaluable knowledge about the process before embarking on her own surrogate journey. She shares candid insights about agency selection, describing how finding the right support system made all the difference after a disappointing first experience. What makes this conversation particularly powerful is Liz's willingness to discuss the aspects of surrogacy rarely talked about in public forums. From the dramatic moments during delivery when her surrogate baby wasn't immediately breathing, to the emotional devastation of a miscarriage while on vacation, to the hurt when an intended parent failed to check in after a loss. These honest revelations provide a window into the complex emotional landscape surrogates navigate. Despite experiencing seven medical cycles in three years and multiple setbacks, Liz's enthusiasm for surrogacy remains undiminished. Her advice to those considering becoming surrogates is beautifully simple yet profound: "Just do it." This episode captures the essence of surrogacy as not just a medical process but a deeply human connection requiring communication, empathy, and resilience from all involved. Whether you're considering surrogacy, are an intended parent, or simply curious about alternative family-building paths, this conversation offers authentic insights into what the journey truly entails beyond the medical procedures and legal agreements. Connect with us on Instagram @stop.sit.surrogate or email stop.sit.surrogate@gmail.com to share your own stories or questions.

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The harrowing journey of surrogates caught in the Mark surrogacy scandal continues to unfold with stunning new revelations. One surrogate, now 38 weeks pregnant and days away from delivery, finds herself navigating treacherous legal waters without proper representation after her attorney abruptly switched sides to represent the intended parents instead.

What started as a beautiful journey of helping create families has transformed into a nightmare of legal manipulation, with the surrogate now facing pressure to sign 16 pages containing 59 amendments to her contract just before giving birth. The intended parents, currently under investigation with their existing children removed from their care, are making dubious claims about regaining custody while attempting to secure rights to this new baby.

Most shocking is the revelation that approximately 20 surrogates are connected to these same intended parents, with babies that may all be biological siblings. These women have formed their own remarkable support network, sharing information, resources, and even baby supplies as they prepare for the possibility of bringing these children home themselves rather than surrendering them to a questionable situation.

The emotional toll is palpable as our surrogate reveals she and her husband have named the baby Sophia Ray, torn between preparing a nursery and protecting herself from heartbreak. Meanwhile, attorneys seem compromised or inaccessible, leaving these women without adequate representation during their most vulnerable moment. One surrogate in another state has already been granted temporary custody of her baby pending further investigation, offering a glimmer of hope.

This episode serves as a powerful reminder of the critical importance of proper legal protection in surrogacy arrangements and the extraordinary resilience of women supporting each other through unprecedented circumstances. Whether you're considering surrogacy or simply care about reproductive rights and child welfare, this conversation offers crucial insights into what happens when the system fails those it should protect.

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In this gripping continuation of Ashleigh's surrogate story, we witness a journey that defied medical odds and revealed the profound resilience of human connection. After two successful surrogate pregnancies, Ashleigh' embarks on a third journey with the same intended parents, carrying their final embryo and last hope for completing their family.

What begins as a routine pregnancy quickly spirals into a medical nightmare when genetic testing yields a false positive for trisomy 13, followed by ruptured membranes at just 16 weeks gestation. Doctors deliver the devastating news: prepare for imminent loss. Yet somehow, against all medical expectations, the pregnancy continues.

Ashleigh's candid account takes us through six weeks of home bedrest, three weeks hospitalized an hour from her family, and the heart-wrenching reality of being unable to care for her own children while fighting to save someone else's baby. The story beautifully highlights the village that forms around her – a devoted mother-in-law stepping in as full-time caregiver, an intended mother providing unwavering support, and medical professionals navigating uncharted waters alongside them.

The dramatic birth story itself – complete with a failed induction, a baby who flips breech during labor, and an unplanned unmedicated delivery – serves as the climactic final challenge before the miracle arrives: a healthy 7-pound baby boy born at 36 weeks.

Perhaps most touching is the deep bond formed through shared adversity, culminating in the intended parents naming their son after Ashleigh– Asher, meaning "blessed" or "lucky one" in Hebrew. This powerful testament to human connection reminds us that surrogacy isn't simply a clinical arrangement but a profound journey of trust, vulnerability, and love.

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Ashleigh’s path began with an unexpected source of inspiration – the TV show "Friends" – and quickly evolved into a calling that would change multiple lives forever. With remarkable candor, she shares how her first surrogate pregnancy unfolded during the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, requiring creativity and flexibility from everyone involved. Despite the challenges, this experience only strengthened her resolve to help more families.

The most powerful moments come when Ashleigh describes her second and third journeys for a family with a devastating backstory. After the intended mother suffered life-threatening complications and lost her baby during the pandemic, she found Ashleigh through social media in what can only be described as a destined connection. Their relationship transcended the typical surrogate arrangement, culminating in a breathtaking birth where the intended mother herself delivered her baby from Ashleigh’s body – a moment of profound healing and redemption.

Throughout her story, Ashleigh offers invaluable insights about the medical, emotional, and practical aspects of surrogacy. From navigating clinic requirements to advocating for appropriate care during pregnancy complications, her experiences highlight both the challenges and the tremendous rewards of this path. Now working as a perinatal mental health therapist, Ashleigh brings professional expertise alongside her personal journey to this conversation.

Whether you're considering surrogacy, supporting someone through this process, or simply curious about this path to parenthood, Ashleigh’s story will move you with its raw honesty and beautiful moments of human connection. Listen as she demonstrates how strangers can become family through one of life's most profound gifts.

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Beth Moskowicz journey through surrogacy began over a decade ago when she and her husband faced fertility challenges. After failed IVF transfers and a heartbreaking miscarriage, they turned to surrogacy—a path that would not only build their family but eventually shape Beth's career and life purpose.

What started as her personal quest for parenthood evolved into a profound mission to help others. Beth candidly shares the dramatic birth of her daughter, where a rare umbilical cord complication led to moments of terror before joy. Three years later, after unsuccessful transfer attempts with their first surrogate, they matched with another surrogate who carried their son to term. These experiences gave Beth unique insight into both the emotional rollercoaster and practical realities of surrogacy journeys.

The technological advancements Beth witnessed between her children's births—just three years apart—highlight how rapidly the field evolves. Genetic testing of embryos, unavailable during her daughter's journey, became standard practice by the time her son was conceived, fundamentally changing success rates and risk factors.

Today, as founder of Paying it Forward Surrogacy, Beth deliberately maintains a boutique approach, personally managing no more than seven cases at once. This allows her to provide the kind of attentive support she valued during her own surrogacy experiences. Her background as both a newspaper reporter and law school graduate equips her with exceptional communication skills and legal understanding—though she's quick to clarify she doesn't write contracts herself.

Beth offers valuable perspective on the changing landscape of surrogacy compensation and state legislation, particularly regarding pregnancy termination rights. Her balanced approach acknowledges both surrogate worth and the financial realities faced by intended parents. Above all, she emphasizes the critical importance of thorough research, clear communication, and addressing concerns promptly rather than letting them fester.

Connect with Beth at payingitforwardsurrogacy.com to learn how her uniquely personal approach might support your surrogacy journey.

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What happens when the dream of helping create a family through surrogacy turns into a nightmare? In this powerful and deeply troubling episode, we speak with a brave surrogate who finds herself caught in what's become one of the most shocking surrogacy scandals in recent memory.

At 34 weeks pregnant, our anonymous guest reveals how she carefully researched surrogacy for a year before matching with what seemed like a legitimate couple. What began as a journey to help create a family has transformed into something unimaginable—the intended parents have been arrested after authorities removed 21 children from their home, with at least 10 more surrogates still pregnant.

The story unfolds like a thriller, with subtle red flags that only became clear in hindsight: communication funneled through "assistants" with suspicious email addresses, strange payment arrangements, and odd requests. The devastating truth emerged when our guest discovered through social media that her intended parents had allegedly created fake agencies to recruit multiple surrogates simultaneously.

Now facing the birth of a baby with no legal precedent for what happens next, our guest shares her emotional struggle, the financial uncertainty, and the extraordinary stress of this situation. Healthcare providers, legal experts, and child protective services are all grappling with an unprecedented case.

Despite everything, our guest demonstrates remarkable resilience and concern for the innocent life she carries. Her story serves as both a cautionary tale and a testament to the strength of the human spirit when faced with extraordinary circumstances.

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US Surrogacy’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/us_surrogacy?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

What happens when personal struggle transforms into professional purpose? Dawn Baker, founder and CEO of US Surrogacy LLC, takes us behind the scenes of her remarkable journey from experiencing secondary infertility in her twenties to building an ethical surrogacy agency that has helped create nearly 400 families from 21 different countries.

Dawn's perspective is uniquely powerful - she understands the heartache of fertility challenges firsthand while bringing 11+ years of agency leadership to the conversation. She shares candidly about the delicate art of matching surrogates with intended parents, revealing a thoughtful approach that prioritizes compatibility over convenience. Rather than simply matching based on waiting time, Dawn's team carefully considers communication styles, expectations, and even who should see whose profile first to protect everyone's emotional wellbeing.

The conversation tackles the false dichotomy between compensated and altruistic surrogacy, with Dawn eloquently explaining how both motivations coexist in successful journeys. "You deserve the moon. You don't ever get paid what you're worth," she tells surrogates, while acknowledging financial realities for most intended parents. Her approach to benefits packages demonstrates remarkable transparency, encouraging surrogates to review and request changes before finalizing matches.

Most fascinating is Dawn's insight into international surrogacy dynamics and how current U.S. regulatory challenges are reshaping global family-building options. She discusses the careful development of ethical programs in other countries while emphasizing the importance of maintaining stringent standards wherever surrogacy takes place.

Whether you're considering surrogacy, are a current surrogate, or simply curious about how families are built across borders, this episode offers a masterclass in ethical third-party reproduction. Connect with Dawn's wealth of knowledge at US-Surrogacy.com to learn more about creating families with both heart and integrity.

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Rachel’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelgoldbergtherapy?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Step into the emotional landscape of surrogacy with licensed therapist Rachel Goldberg as she pulls back the curtain on the psychological aspects of gestational carrier journeys. What many surrogates fear as judgment—psychological evaluations—are actually thoughtful assessments designed to ensure everyone's wellbeing throughout this profound experience.

Rachel reveals why joint counseling sessions between surrogates and intended parents should be standard practice before contracts are ever signed. These facilitated conversations create safe spaces to discuss difficult topics like selective reduction, communication boundaries, and post-birth relationships. As she shares, "We're building the foundation so that when cracks happen, they remember there's a foundation first."

The most compelling insight? Nearly everyone initially resistant to these sessions later expresses profound gratitude for the experience. Through real examples from her practice, Rachel illustrates how these sessions prevent misunderstandings and establish authentic connections between parties who might otherwise struggle to navigate their different communication styles and expectations.

We explore what really happens in psychological screenings (hint: they're looking for human, not perfect), how agencies are increasingly including mental health benefits in surrogacy contracts, and why even experienced surrogates benefit from professional facilitation of difficult conversations.

Whether you're considering becoming a surrogate, seeking to build your family through surrogacy, or simply curious about this unique journey, this conversation offers invaluable perspective on the human elements that make surrogacy journeys successful beyond the medical procedures.

Subscribe to hear more conversations that bring transparency and education to the world of surrogacy. Have questions or stories to share? Reach out to us on Instagram @stop.sit.surrogate or email stop.sit.surrogate@gmail.com.

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Sara’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/surrornsara?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

This week we spoke with Sara, a first time surrogate!

Sara is also a registered labor and delivery nurse who first found out about surrogacy when she was 10 years old watching Phoebe Buffay become a surrogate for her brother on the famous 90's show "Friends".

She details her beautiful first journey and the long road to to getting it started. Also, how her labor and delivery team were like a second family, making the experience even more special for everyone involved.

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Baby Bumps Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hello_babybumps?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we have a lovely returning guest, Victoria, an intended mother on her journey and founder of Baby Bumps.

Victoria is giving us an update on where Bump Bumps, originally an app for matching, has now landed. Also, how you can find your perfect match and compensation that you are looking for.

Baby Bumps is a unique and new way to meet your perfect match! Victoria helps surrogates with the entire beginning process, from medical records to creating your profile to matching. Once matched then you and your couple are referred to an agency, but everything is already set, including compensation.

Meet your match on your terms and really get to know the other person before committing to the one of the most intimate journeys in your life.

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Sara’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/surrornsara?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Brittany’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pavinourway?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

The 4th trimester, also known as postpartum, is a very untalked about thing??? Why!?!?

It seems almost taboo to talk about postpartum, or at least it use to. This week we are speaking with 2 surrogates who had very different postpartum journeys. One is an L&D nurse and one who is a doula, and they both give us some great advice and tips!

There is so much about postpartum that isn’t talked about and it really should be. As a community of women we can help each other by starting the awkward and uncomfortable conversations and 100% of the time at least one other woman will be able to relate and feel seen/heard.

Postpartum is very much a rollercoaster ride, but hopefully by starting this conversation more will come and nothing will be “weird” because birth and postpartum is all “normal”.

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Pelvic Floor Momma’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pelvicfloormomma?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

This week we had the lovely honor of speaking with Becca Boeving, a Pelvic Floor Coach.

Being a mama herself and having had some hiccups in her own journey, she realized she wasn’t alone and that pelvic floor therapy IS NOT talked about!

She quickly started the conversation and built a beautiful community of ladies. Helping them get rid of pregnancy pains that we have been told are “normal”. Also, helping mamas in their postpartum era recovery more smoothly.

If you are pre-pregnancy, in the middle of pregnancy, or post pregnancy, there is help for everyone. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain including strength and bladder control!

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Sophia’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sophiaawohl?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Sophia’s Surrogacy Journey Continued:

Part 1 of Sophia’s story was about her journey of being pregnant with Surro babe.

Part 2 of Sophia’s story is about breast milk and pumping after Surro babe is born and intended parents no longer need the supply.

Pumping has no light switch to turn it off the next day. It’s a whole process to stop producing, and Sophia wasn’t ready to wean. So she looked to social media to see if she could help others who were looking for milk supply.

Sophia eventually created a community which is listed below and helped over a dozen babies.

If you are curious about pumping after Surro babe, DEFINITELY give this podcast a listen!

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Sophia’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sophiaawohl?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

This week we spoke with Sophia, a first time surrogate!

She details her amazing journey and how that actually led her to help people even after her journey ended with her IPs.

This podcast is an our first two part podcast and that is because there is a lot of good and informative information that we couldn’t Jam Pack it all into an hour.

This part 1 is about Sophia’s journey and experience with surrogacy.

Stay tuned for part 2 next week where she explains how she formed a community and was able to help over a dozen families after her journey “ended”.

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Grace’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/graces_surro_journey?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Kari’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karihernandez82?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Leslie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leslie_kay_w?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

What does it mean to pump after you delivery a surrogacy baby?

We cover that and how to help donate or pump for another family, ways to help stop your milk supply, and the benefits pumping has, not just for the baby but for your body and healing.

If you have never breastfed or pumped then you’re like my mom and I and this podcast is insanely eye opening!

If you have breastfed or pumped then you might me able to relate to some these lovely girls stories and have tips and tricks you could share with the rest of us. 💕

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Family Match Consulting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familymatchconsulting?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

This week we had the lovely honor of talking with Stephanie Levich, founder of Family Match Consulting, where she is also an intended parent matching consultant.

Stephanie shares about her journey in the surrogacy world and how that lead her to creating her own business and helping over 3,000 intended parents match with a lovely surrogate, that in turn helped grow their family.

She also touches on how surrogacy and the IVF community has always had a special place in her heart as she was adopted. Writing a children's book titled "From the Start" which talks about the many different ways a family can grow. (Link below)

Stephanie and her team at Family Match Consulting services are not only a fraction of the cost compared to agencies, they also strongly believe that a match should not just be made because of common interests, but rather a match should be based off of a true connection and a solid base to form a relationship.

"From the Start" : https://www.amazon.com/Start-Book-About-Making-Families/dp/1632995336

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Lesa Slaughter’s email: Lesa@slaughterlawgroup.com

Website: http://www.slaughterlawgroup.com/

Are you confused, worried, or just want to get a better understanding of what’s going on with these new executive orders?

Well our good friend Lesa is back with us to help us break down everything and understand what this means for surrogacy and international parents.

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Rachel Westbury’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelwestburynappyendings?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Rachel is a 3x surrogate and 2x agency owner! She has helped 3 families grow and helped bring 4 babies earth side. Now she runs 2 agencies!

Nappy Endings and Nesa were founded by her and her friend a few years back. Nappy Endings is their UK agency and Nesa can be found in the US!

This conversation is fascinating as we compare and contrast the differences in UK and US surrogacy journeys. Both links are listed below for your convenience.

Thank you Rachel for sharing your journeys and your journey to your wonderful agencies.

US Website: http://www.nesa.com/

UK Website: http://www.nappyendings.com/

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Tsong Law Group Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tsonglawgroup?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Ralph Tsong is a well known and experienced lawyer in the surrogacy world. In this episode he helps break down the executive orders that have been recently placed and what they possible mean for this community.

He talks about the Affordable Care Act, Insurance Liens, and what it possibly could mean for surro babes born in America to international intended parents.

This is an absolute MUST LISTEN for those who are thinking of becoming a surrogate, are currently surrogates, intended parents, and really anyone involved in surrogacy.

Thank you so much Ralph for helping break down what all this means for the community and hopefully putting some fears to rest, for the moment.

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Mommy Made Encapsulation's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mommymadeencapsulation?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

In 1970 consuming our own placentas started to become "popular" among women in the US, however, its been popular all over the world much longer than that!

I'm sure you have seen how you can blend it in smoothies, but maybe you're worried about the flavor or the texture? Juliane Corona thought the same thing, yet still really wanted to experience the benefits the placenta provides to a women's postpartum recovery.

Nine years ago Juliane founded Mommy Made Encapsulation and has helped over forty five thousand women encapsulate their placentas to help their postpartum recovery. From Cardi B, to Kourtney Kardashian Baker, to the mom across the nation, to the mom down the street, including some of you.

Tune in to find out how and why Juliane founded her company and some of the benefits consuming your own placenta provides.

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Grace's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/graces_surro_journey?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Welcome to 2025! Last year we ended the podcast season with our dear friend Grace who was near the end of her second surrogacy journey. This year we are starting our new podcast season with Grace sharing about her beautiful Rainbow Surro Babe who was born shortly after we last spoke.

If you don't know about Grace's second journey we encourage you to listen to a podcast we did with her called "Friday Facts: Pregnancy Loss in Surrogacy" as we do not ask her to speak on it again in this podcast. But in short, it's been a long and emotional journey that ended in a beautiful and healthy baby boy.

Congratulations Grace, her family, her IPs and their family. Thank you for always being so truthful, graceful, and opening up with us and everyone on the emotional roller coaster that surrogacy can be, but also how absolutely AMAZING, LOVING, and BEAUTIFUL it is, even with all the emotions.

(P.S. You will always be welcomed here and we hope to continue to have conversations with you in the future, no matter if you are "retired" Once a surrogate, always a surrogate!)

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Tune in as we tell all about our amazing experience and opportunity on the Jennifer Hudson Show. 💜

We are so beyond grateful for this opportunity, however, we are forever thankful and grateful to this beautiful community. While we may host the podcast, YOU are the stories. ♥️

Without all of you helping shine a positive light on surrogacy none of this would have been possible 💗

This is our lasr podcast for 2024. If you would like to share your story or collaborate please contact us as we are still recording in 2024, but nothing will air until 2025.

Happy Holidays ❤️💚🤍💙

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Grace’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/graces_surro_journey?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Let's talk about relationships and intimacy during a surrogacy journey. There is a time in a journey when abstinence is usually required and it could last longer if you are carrying multiples or put on bed rest.

While we surrogates may be the ones going through the process and taking a lot on with being pregnant and still trying to do all the super mom things of cleaning, laundry, etc. There may come a time when we need to ask for help. OH MY WORD WHAT!? I know that is something the majority of us have a hard time acknowledging and accepting, but it's okay to ask.

We all hope never to have to ask, but a journey is a mystery and we never know what will happen. We dive into talking about how it feels to release some of our duties to our partners and how our partners feel watching us go through the highs, the lows, and the in-between on these journeys.

This is definitely a great podcast for partners to listen in on to get some information, especially if this is their first journey.

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Rachel's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackgirlsoven?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Terra’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/the.earthleigh.one?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week is a bit different. My two close friends and I have been on a 2 year journey, which isn’t the norm for surrogates.

We were all talking and thought maybe we should address what it’s really like to be on such a long, emotionally tiring journey. Each of us has a different reason/path as to why it is taking so long and we talk about how the emotional rollercoaster has been.

We all address some stigmas that we can say with 100% certainty are not true!

Please know if you’re a first time surrogate this is not the norm, but it is possible to take this long. 2 years of all our lives have been put on hold and yet we still are pushing forward wanting so much to help someone have a baby. 💕

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Alease’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alease_the_embryologist?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

WOW! This week we spoke with an amazing embryologist who answers ALL of our questions. From how grading works to how they freeze embryos.

If you are starting or looking into your IVF journey as a parent or surrogate this is A MUST LISTEN!

Also, if you have any questions you’d like to ask Alease we will be doing a part 2 soon, so please message us or put them in the comments.

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Ashley’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rage_against_infertility?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talk with Ashley, an intended mother who in March welcomed her beautiful baby boy. 💙

Ashley shares about her long journey starting in 2020! Along with how she chose her agency and how her and her husband met their amazing surrogate.

Ashley started her journey with IVF which then lead her to surrogacy. Her story may have been a long rod but its beautiful and worth the wait! 💙

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Baby Bumps Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hello_babybumps?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with Victoria, an intended mother on her journey and founder of Baby Bumps a dating app for surrogacy.

Victoria shares about her recent diagnosis that has brought her journey to surrogacy and what ultimately lead her to create Baby Bumps.

Baby Bumps is a unique and new way to meet your perfect match! No extreme agency fee, because this is not an agency.

Meet your match on your terms and really get to know the other person before committing to the one of the most intimate journeys in your life.

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Junie Surrogacy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/junie.surrogacy?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we met with Alyssa, and intendened mother, doctor, fellow podcaster and founder of Junie Surrogacy.

Alyssa shares about her long and heartbreaking road to surrogacy and why she created Junie Surrogacy to help surrogates and intendened parents in their journeys.

There is talk of loss, so please be aware if you are not in a good headspace to hear about that today. However, there is also talk about joy and love on how surrogacy made Alyssa a mom. 🤍

•Surrogacy Starter Kit for Intended Parents https://gojunie.com/surrogacy-starter-kit/

•Surrogate ID Quiz https://gojunie.com/surrogate-quiz/

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Kari’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karihernandez82?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Courtney’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cwatts719?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

We have another special podcast this week!

Meet Kari and Courtney, surrogate and intended mother from the same recent journey. They share all the ups, downs, and obstacles that they faced in this long but well worth it journey. 💕

And you can see and hear just how much each of them truly respects and cares for the other.

It’s an absolute must listen to! These types of
journeys are the ones so many of us wish to have. This story is truly beautiful, but all brings light to some serious things that are out of our control sometimes.

Thank you ladies so much for speaking with us! Your story brought us to tears and reminds us why we do what we do. 🤍

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Embrace Your Fertility’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/embraceyourfertility?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week meet Lauren Haring, a fertility coach. You may be wondering , “What is a fertility coach?” Well luckily Lauren explains in depth what it is she does and how she helps those in the process of IVF.

As patients in the IVF community we have so many questions and often times are too afraid to rock any boats to ask them. That’s where a fertility coach like Lauren comes in! She helps explain each step of the process, each medication and what it’s used for, the possible outcomes of tests, she helps by giving her client’s knowledge. Knowledge is power!

This is a definite MUST LISTEN! After speaking with Lauren we both truly wish that a fertility coach becomes standard in the surrogacy process for both intended parents and surrogates. 🤍

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Alex’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alex_bowers15?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Meet Alex a 2x surrogate. She shares her journeys and how much she loved her first journey, that she wanted to start her second journey almost immediately! However, she didn’t expect her second journey to be so wildly different than her first.

Alex also explains how she handled the ups and downs and ultimately came to accept that journey #2 was her final journey.

If you are feeling alone or struggling to cope with things you have encountered in your journey, first please know that you are not alone! So many of us surrogates go through things in the dark and we shouldn’t have to. Please feel free to reach out to us or any surrogate you know, I guarantee you that one of us knows someone going through something similar that can help. Secondly, don’t be afraid to reach out to your agency or the psychologist you interviewed with for this journey. These people are in place to help you. 💕

Remember, every story is important and every story matters.

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Lety’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/surro.lb?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Meet Lety and Brie, surrogate and intended mother from the same recent journey.

This week is so special! We get to hear both sides of surrogacy from the same journey and how their relationship turned into a beautiful friendship.

This is a must listen to as so many have been asking to hear more IP stories and this story is so beautiful and highlights so much of the positive in surrogacy and around single intended mothers.

Thank you ladies so much for speaking with us! We hope after hearing your story more intended parents reach out either in this fashion with their GC or by themselves. Every story is important and every story matters.

(The visual is only Kenedi, Ellen, and the GC Lety, but Brie is here, just not on video.)

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Eggceptional Fertility Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eggceptionalfertility?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Meet Jennifer, founder of Eggceptiona Fertility and egg donor. Also, meet Samantha, surrogacy coordinator and experienced surrogate.

This week we get an insight to egg donation and what those journeys look like and how Jennifer’s experience in donating her eggs lead to creating this wonderful agency to help all types of families grow.

Also, Samantha explains why a surrogacy coordinators job is so vital and helpful, especially for those on their first journey.

Tune in to hear how Eggceptional Fertility can help you in your egg donation or surrogacy journey.

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Anna Marie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annamariagrace?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

WHAT IS GOING ON!?!?

Here’s what we know:

SEAM is a surrogacy escrow company and the owner is nowhere to be found, possibly along with all the money IPs have invested.

Anna Marie is just one of hundreds of people affected by this tragic event. The whereabouts of Intended Parent’s money is the biggest question of all! Surrogate’s compensations have come to a screeching halt.

Agencies are not at fault, and lawyers are doing all they can to help.

To find out what we all can do please tune in and share this podcast.

It’s unfortunate that surrogacy only gets a huge buzz when it’s something devastating or negative. 😒 However, right now the best way those who are not directly affected can help, is by sharing the message of whats happening.

Our hearts go out to everyone, Intended Parents and Surrogates. 🤍 And we pray that the woman who is at fault be held accountable and that justice will be served!

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Rachel’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackgirlsoven?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Kaitlin’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mermaidsdontcryx?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Today we are talking about how surrogacy has chnged us, mentally, physically, and emotionally as a surrogate.

Feel free to share in comments how surrogacy has changed you. 💕

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Rachel’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackgirlsoven?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Lyle’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_lylejack?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Today we are talking about the similarities and differences when it comes to traditional surrogacy and gestational surrogacy.

You might be surprised to learn that they have WAY more in common than youd think! The main difference is DNA.

Tune in to learn more! And to hear how beautiful each journey is, no matter if it’s traditional or gestational. The end goal is still the same 💕

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Sherry Fox's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fox_family_formation?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Are you an interested in embarking on an independent journey? If so, definitely tune in to hear what that will entail from the legal side of things.

This week we had the wonderful opportunity to speak with Sherry Fox regarding the legal side of independent journeys and compare the differences and benefits of going independently compared to agency.

We also touch on what's happening in the south with fertility laws and what this might mean for the future.

Sherry is extremely thorough and an open book. If you are interested in being a part of an independent journey don't hesitate to reach out to her!

Thank you so much Sherry for explaining and destigmatizing independent journeys. They don't seem that scary anymore.

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Megan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meganrosewatsonwing?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we had the wonderful opportunity to speak with Megan, a child-free UK gestational surrogate!

Megan explains how and why she chose to do surrogacy, even though she doesn’t have any children of her own. She also explains the impact the delivery has had on her, mentally and physically.

Her story is truly amazing to hear and beautiful as well. To be able to help families grow without having grown your own is truly fascinating, whereas in America that’s not possible.

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Whitney’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aborrowedbelly?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with the very sweet and lovely surrogate, Whitney. She shares her beautiful journey and how everything kind of took a turn near the end that no one was expecting.

Whitney and baby are perfectly fine, but definitely tune in to hear her beautiful story and how sometimes a pregnancy can go so smoothly for 8 months and take a turn at the very end.

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Are you an intended parent? If so, when should you obtain a lawyer?

This week we had the amazing honor of speaking with Lesa Slaughter an intended parents and surrogacy lawyer for intended parents. She shares her story to motherhood and her experience in the field.

She also shares when intended parents should start looking for their lawyer along with a bunch of other information that we have yet to discuss in our previous conversations with lawyers.

Lesa is not only informative and transparent, she’s extremely kind and we appreciate you sharing your story and wealth of knowledge.

Lesa Slaughter’s email: Lesa@slaughterlawgroup.com

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This week we spoke experienced Traditional Surrogate, Lyle. Lyle has been a traditional surrogate 3 times and while his journeys had some scared, they all turned out beautifully.

We also spoke about his transition. Lyle was kind enough to help educate and share his story about his transition. And we are so grateful and thankful for everything he shared. From his journeys to birth to becoming a nurse on his way to a Midwife to his transition!

This is a must listen as its full of education from all angles.

Tune in to listen and learn about all things traditional surrogacy and the transgender community.

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Sherry’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fox_family_formation?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Ryan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryancferrante?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Joanna’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familybuildinglawyer?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Amira’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amirahasenbush?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Rachel’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelloftspring?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

🤫SURROGACY SECRETS UNLEASHED🎉

This is a special type of podcast episode. This is one of our webinars that we held in February 2024 with 5 amazing lawyers in the surrogacy community.

Tune in to hear why legal documents are necessary, how to choose your lawyer, your rights in a surrogacy journey, and so much more!

We also discussed the Alabama ruling and how this might affect our community. As well as, what we as society can do to help keep our IVF rights.

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Beth’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bethcurvydesigns?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we spoke Intended Father Chris who is married to Beth and expecting a baby boy this spring through traditional surrogacy.

We spoke with Beth about a month ago where she dove in to all things traditional surrogacy. If you listened to that poscast, and you definitely should, you can hear how excited she is, but you can hear how OVER THE MOON she is for Chris! 💕

Chris explains how he learned about surrogacy, about traditional surrogacy, and his experience and feelings about it thus far.

Tune in to listen and learn about all things traditional surrogacy from the intended fathers point of view.

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Kim’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetravellingsurrogate?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we had the wonderful opportunity to speak with a UK second generation traditional surrogate! Kim was introduced to surrogacy at the age of 5 when her mother decided to be a traditional surrogate.

Kim and her two intended fathers Tom and Chris join us in a conversation about traditional surrogacy, surrogacy in the UK, and being a second generation surrogate. Oh and did I mention she is also a “child-free surrogate”!?

We couldn’t think of a better podcast to air in celebration of our 100th episode. Tune in to hear and learn so much from these three wonderful people.

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🤫SURROGACY SECRETS UNLEASHED🎉

This is a special type of podcast episode. This is one of our webinars that we held back in October 2023 with a mental health professional now known as @thallohealth

Tune in to hear Andrea Bryman, founder of @thallohealth give her expertise advice and share her thoughts on how social media plays a part in surrogacy, as well as, the psych clearance process.

This is an audio only version. 🎙️

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Alex’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourbeautifulsurprise?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

It’s March which means its Surrogacy Awarness month!

This week we are speaking with Intended Mother and founder of Embrace Your Motherhod, Alex. Tune in to hear her path to surrogacy and how each of her boys are a unique and beautiful surprise. 💕

Alex talks about why she founded Embrace Your Motherhood, as surrogacy is a beautiful journey however, there are a lot of emotions that arent talked about.

Tune in to hear how Embrace Your Motherhood can help you in your IP journey. And click the lick below to get your free guide.

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This is a special type of podcast episode. This is one of our webinars that we held back in September 2023 with a surrogacy advocate group called Surrogacy Is.

Tune in to hear advice on advocating for yourself in a journey, and how Surrogacy Is helps advocate for and with you.

This is an audio only version.

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Surrogacy Compass Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/surrogacycompass?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

It’s March which means its Surrogacy Awarness month!

This week we are speaking with an expecting Intended Parent and founder of Surrogacy Compass, Samantha. Tune in to hear her path to surrogacy and how she is preparing to bring home her twins 💕.

Samantha talks about how she wishes there was more information and explanation when it comes to certain things in her IP journey. Thus, Surrogacy Compass was born!

Tune in to hear how Surrogacy Compass can help you in your IP journey.

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Rachel’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackgirlsoven?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Grace’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/graces_surro_journey?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Today we touch on relationships in a surrogacy journey. While 95% of journeys are beautiful and are able to develop healthy relationships. There is the small percent that doesn’t. We dive into all of this and more.

We also talk about the differences between international relationships and domestic ones. As well as giving advice on ways, to possibly help our relationship bloom from before contracts to after the Journey has officially ended.

Tune in, and let us know your advice on how you grew your relationship and your journey. 💕

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Rachel's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackgirlsoven?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Loren's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorendaniellex?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Damaris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dama_the_africansurrogate?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

In honor of Black History month and honestly, these amazing women, this Friday Facts is about what it's like being a black surrogate.

This conversation at times is hard to hear, but these are the conversations we NEED to be having! When tuning into this episode take a second to pause and think about the examples these women give us, the divide that is so prominent but doesn't make sense. And it might behoove you to grab abox of tissues because this gets deep, personal, and real.

We can not thank these 3 amazing women enough for being vulnerable and sharing their heart and struggles as a black women in surrogacy and in the world.

This podcast episode is dedicated to all the minorities who do not feel seen nor heard. WE SEE YOU AND WE HEAR YOU, ALWAYS!

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Sammi’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sammimichiko?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with the very sweet and retired surrogate Sammi. She shares her beautiful journeys and how that even lead her to career change to continue helping families grow.

Tune in to hear her beautiful story and how she continues to help families in surrogacy.

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Kaitlin’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mermaidsdontcryx?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Cat’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/journey_of_a_surrogate?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Jennifer’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nifer_waters?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Friday Facts is back!!! We are starting off 2024 friday Facts with Myths in Surrogacy.

Tune in to hear a lot of the false assumptions made in, about, and around surrogacy. We know we couldn’t possibly cover them all, but this is a great start especially for those looking to truly learn about surrogacy.

We spoke with 3 amazing women who gave their insights and opinions on these false statements and how they have responded and dealt with them as surrogates.

Did we miss a myth that you wish was addressed!? Please leave a comment below and we will address it on social media.

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Beth’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bethcurvydesigns?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we spoke Intended Mother Beth who will welcome her baby boy via traditional surrogacy in just a few months. Beth's story may be the less traditional approach to surrogacy these days, but this is one of the most beautiful and heart warming stories we've heard on the podcast. 💕

Beth gets real, honest, and extremely transparent about traditional surrogacy and answers every question in the book! We honestly can't thank her enough and are so beyond excited for her, her husband, her family, her surrogate, and her already very loved baby boy! 💙

Tune in to listen and learn about all things traditional surrogacy.

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Brandon’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandondallas13?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Jake’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jakea214?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Meet the incredible and kind intended fathers, Brandon and Jake! They are located in Texas and are looking to do an agency journey to help grow their family and give their newly adopted baby girl a sibling. 💕

They are very open to any Surrogate as long as she is open to having a close relationship. State of residence does not matter, however, Texas is preferable. Also, it does not matter if she is experienced or a first time, Surrogate.

To learn more about Brandon and Jake tune in to this introduction podcast as well as checking out their video link below.

Brandon and Jake’s Story
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If you are interested to learn more about Brandon and Jake or to speak with them please reach out to them directly at @brandondallas13 or @jakea214.

We wish you both best of luck on your journey 🤞 💕 and are excited to see your family bloom 🌸

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Carrying Hope Surrogacy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carryinghopesurrogacy?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with experienced surrogates and co-founders of Carrying Hope: A Surrogacy Agency Charlene and Nicole. They share their road to surrogacy, how they met through surrogacy, and how that lead to creating their own agency.

And as of January 24, 2024 they have helped bring 112 babies Earth side. Congratulations to you all!

Tune in to hear how a friendship from a social media group for surrogates turned into a successful business partnership helping families all across the world.

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Ashley McKenna’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ajmmckenna?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with Ashley, an experienced surrogate and who is now embarking on her second journey. She shares her beautiful story with us and how her seconds set of IPs got her first IPs blessing.

Tune in to hear her beautiful story and the heartwarming connection between both her IPs.

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Fairfax Surrogacy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fairfaxsurrogacy?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with Joyce, an experienced surrogate and case manager at Fairfax Surrogacy. She shares her beautiful journeys with us and why she got involved with surrogacy to begin with.

She also shares some insight to how she hepls surrogates and her role at Fairfax Surrogacy.

Tune in to hear her beautiful and heartwarming story. And to learn about Fairfax Surrogacy.

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Surrogacy Simplified Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/surrogacysimplified?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

WELCOME 2024! 🎊

This week we are speaking with 2x Intended Parent and founder of Surrogacy Simplified, Jessie Jaskulsky. Tune in to hear her path to surrogacy and her 2 beautiful journeys that brought her daighters earth side. 💕

Jessie talks about how she wishes there was more guidance and information when it came to certain things in her IP journey. Thus, Surrogacy Simplified was born!

Tune in to hear how Surrogacy Simplified can help you in an independent or agency journey.

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Surro Connections’ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/surroconnection?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==

This week we talked with Megan, 4 time surrogate and founder of Surro Connections. She shares her journeys with us and why she decided to create her own agency.

While 3 of her journeys, you would consider normal or common, her last journey is the most unexpected story we have EVER heard. But Megan’s heart and her family’s support and love is truly something to admire.

Tune in to hear this beautiful and extremely rare story. And please be kind and open minded as this journey is as rare as it gets and by no means was this planned. The unthinkable occurred and Megan and her family were dealt unimaginable cards which they handled beautifully. 💕

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Toinette’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/wombs_of_angels?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==

This week we spoke with Dr. Toinette Watson, gestational surrogate and founder of Wombs of Angels. She shares her beautiful journeys and how that lead her to create her journal. This journal is truly wonderful as well as tangible, detailed, helpful, and educational. It has everything you can think of to help documented and guide you along your journey.

Tune in to hear a feel good story and more about Wombs of Angels and how this journal can help your journey. 💜

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Baden and Zane’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/notmytummy?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==

This week we spoke with Intended Parents, Baden and Zane. They recently welcomed a beautiful baby girl through surrogacy in Candan. But not only are the parents through surrogacy but huge advocates in the community.

Tune in to hear their beautiful story of how they are helping bring positive change to surrogacy in Canada. 💕

Congratulations on your beautiful growing family 💕

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Jennifer’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/nifer_waters?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==

This week we spoke with Jennifer, a 4 time Canadian Surrogate! We talk about all the ups and downs of going through 4 journeys. Some with a “natural cycle” and how it wasn’t as “natural” as you would think. Jennifer is also currently pregnant on her 4th journey and glowing! 😊

Tune in to hear 3 “completed” journeys that are anything but similar and how Jennifer’s 4th journey is going. 💕

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Mary’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/not_the_baby_mama?igshid=ZnJ0Y2V5ejRtaXE=

This week we spoke with Mary, a first time surrogate. Mary’s journey is such a wonderful feel good and happy story. As always there were some bumps, but nothing too crazy or out of the blue. And since Mary is also a doula she does somethings during birth that some may not think to do, but her knowledge and her spirit taught us a lot. 💕 Definitely tune in today to get all the warm and feel goods from this truly beautiful story.

“You will always be his Mary.” 💙 🕊️

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ISC Instagram: https://instagram.com/isc_surrogacy?igshid=MTAxN2Q0bDFnajF1eg==

This week we talked with Maria from International Surrogacy Center. We ask all the questions all of us have been wondering about an agency’s role in a journey. And Maria was kind enough to shed some light on that and much more of the behind scenes of an agency.

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Jessica’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/my_sweet_surro_journey?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA==

This week we spoke with Jessica, a two time surrogate. Jessica’s first journey went just as anyone would hope for, good and healthy. But Jessica’s second journey went for a wild ride! And that is no understatement, Jessica’s pregnacy with twins went from a little concern to emergency surgery to save both her life and the lives of those babies. She shares in detail how those moments went and how she handled everything. 💕

Tune in to hear this intense and wild birth story and how Jessica is feeling and recovering along with the health of the babies.

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Samantha’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/justasurromama?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we spoke with Samantha, a first time surrogate. Her journey overall was good and happy, but there were some very unique things that occurred. From an embryo gone missing to injuring herself in childbirth. She shares all the craziness and how she is feeling and recovering today. 💕

Tune in to hear this heartwarming birth story and the unique occurrences, including how you can fracture your sternum during childbirth!

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Grace’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/graces_surro_journey?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Alycia’a Instagram: https://instagram.com/notthebabymamaa?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Terra’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/the.earthleigh.one?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

⚠️⚠️⚠️Please be aware that this conversation at times might be a bit graphic. If you are not in the right state to hear this conversation please do what is best and needed for you. 💕

This week was a hard conversation. We are speaking about pregnacy loss in surrogacy. The ladies in this Friday Facts are kind, brave, and incredibly strong to speak publicly with us and all of you regarding their experience with loss in surrogacy.

Recently we have all been seeing more pregnacy loss in surrogacy than before. Is it happening more often or are ladies speaking up more about it? This is never something any of us think about, even when we read contracts and are explained the possibilities, we tuck it to the side because “that wont happen to me!”

But this conversation isn’t to scare people it’s to help inform others and let them know they are not alone. The ladies in this video talk about the rollercoaster of emotions they each experienced, including isolation. And they all want you to know you are not alone and there is a whole community of women to help and support you in an experience like this.

When tuning in today, please do so with caution as we do speak in a lot of detail. And please know none of us are psychologists or therapists but all of our DMs are open for anyone who needs a friend to speak with.

Our hearts go out to all the Surrogates, their families, and the Intended Parents who have experienced loss. 🤍

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Casandra’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/cas_aleman?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with Casandra, a first time surrogate, who has a very unique story. When Casandra was about half way through her pregnancy when she noticed something was different. But she never imagined she would soon be fighting for her life. Casandra was having a normal and healthy pregnancy until some tests were done that indicated she needed to be induced a few weeks early in order to save her life. Casandra was diagnosed with stage 4 Non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma. But she sits here today with amazing news that she is in remission and clear of any signs. Her story is truly remarkable and inspirational. Casandra you are a true warrior! 💚

Tune in to hear her amazing story!

P.S. Casandra we are in true awe of you and we can’t thank you evenough for sharing your story. You are forever in our hearts and thoughts. You are a warrior and we know you’ll continue fighting! 💚

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Mary’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/not_the_baby_mama?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Kari’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/karihernandez82?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Chantale’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/a_borrowed_nest?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This Friday we are talking about delivery. How does the process of delivering a baby in surrogacy differ from a birth with our keepers? How do surrogates feel having the IPs in the room? And how do we feel when the baby is handed to their parent(s)?

We also touch a little on after delivery recovery and pumping for our surro babe. Between the 5 of us we have about 9 vastly different deliveries!

If you’ve ever wondered how “a surrogate cane give up a baby” this is the podcast to listen to!

Tune in to hear their thoughts and emotions when it comes time to deliver their surro babes. 🤍

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Surrogate Sister Design Instagram: https://instagram.com/surrogatesisterdesign?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with Kristal, former surrogate and founder of Surrogate Sister Design. Kristal shares with us her reasoning for creating Surrogate Sister Design and how it has evolved over the years. If you don’t know about her shop, YOU SHOULD! If you’re involved with surrogacy her shop is the place to go! From clothes, to medication mats, to stickers, to journals, to a surrogacy box and so many other items that are all dedicated and created with surrogacy and IVF in mind. Kristal also shares her new collaboration that she and a fellow surrogate named Rachel have teamed up to create for some surrogates. Tune in to find out what it is and all about Surrogate Sister Design. 💕

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Mary’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/not_the_baby_mama?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This Friday we are discussing transfers that don’t take, because we did not fail, the embryo did not fail, it simply did not take. And that’s okay. It can be heartbreaking and we as surrogates are allowed to feel the emotional rollercoaster too, but remember YOU DID NOT FAIL.

Often times surrogates place blame on themselves and sometimes others place blame on the surrogate. But in order to create life, SO MANY things have to align perfectly, not just semi-perfect, but 100% perfectly. And sometimes there is no rhyme or reason, it just doesn’t work.

Unfortunately sickness was spreading like wildfire and some girls were unable to make this conversion, but fortunately Mary was able to speak with us and Ellen has experienced this as well.

Tune in to hear their thoughts and emotions when as a surrogate a transfer doesn’t take.

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Chantale’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/a_borrowed_nest?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with Chantale, Canadian surrogate. She is a repeat surrogate, but her second journey didn’t go as she had hoped. If you don’t know, Canadian surrogates don’t get compensated like US surrogates, therefore their matching process is a little different than ours. Meaning surrogates and IPs tend to have a deeper or more friendly bond, and in Chantale’s case this friendly bond goes all the way back to high-school. Tune in to hear the up and the unfortunate downs that Chantale has experienced in her journeys and where she is now. 💕

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Alycia’a Instagram: https://instagram.com/notthebabymamaa?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with Alycia, a Canadian Surrogate. She has experienced many ups and downs in her first journey, including a missed miscarriage.

Alycia shares her experience with us and you in hopes that her words and journey might help others who have experienced the same thing or are going through something similar.

Alycia, thank you so very much for sharing your story and grief. We understand how hard it is to talk about these type of situations, but we also understand how important it is. So thank you for opening up with us and the community 💕 We wish this type of thing never happened to anyone, but the sad truth is that it does and we don’t want anyone to feel alone.

Again, our hearts go out to all the Surrogates, their families, and the Intended Parents who have experienced loss. 🤍

Please be aware that this conversation at times might be a bit graphic. If you are not in the right state to hear this conversation please do what is best and needed for you. 💕

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Grace’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/graces_surro_journey?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Terra’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/the.earthleigh.one?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

We’re back with another Friday Facts!!! This week we talk about C-Sections! And between the 4 of us women there have been 10 C-Sections. So if you have never experienced one or are curious to learn more about them, or even if you have experienced one this is such a great conversation to listen to. And if you have any tips or tricks or questions please drop them in the comments below. 💕

And as an outsider (someone who has not experienced this) I just want to say to all those c-section mamas out there, you are badass! A warrior! I thought I knew what it meant to have a c-section and the recovery of one, but it wasn’t until speaking in depth with these 3 ladies that I truly understood just what that entails for you and your support team. 💕

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Shelbie’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/oliviaandlilliansmama?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with Shelbie who is on her 2nd surrogacy journey. She shares how her first journey was everything she had hoped for and her sweet relationship with her IF. Also, how not every journey is the same as her 2nd journey is taking a bit longer than expected. Tune in to hear what the hold up is and how Shelbie is handling the obstacles in thrown at her in this journey.

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Grace’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/graces_surro_journey?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with Grace who is a 2 time surrogate. Grace’s first journey was so beautiful that she is now on her second journey with the same couple for a sibling journey. 💕 But unfortunately is hasn’t been as smooth and simple as the first one.

Grace and her IPs sadly experienced a second trimester loss. Grace opened up with us and you in hopes that her words and journey might help others who have experienced the same thing. 

Please be aware that this conversation at times might be a bit graphic. If you are not in the right state to hear this conversation please do what is best and needed for you. 💕 

But as for Grace, thank you so incredibly much for sharing your story and your grief. We wish this type of thing never happened to anyone, but the sad truth is that it does and we don’t want anyone to feel alone.

Our hearts go out to all the Surrogates, their families, and the Intended Parents who have experienced loss. 🤍 

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This week we talked with Ariel a Canadian surrogate who has been on 5 surrogacy journeys. We talk about what it’s like being a surrogate in Canada and she helps clear up some misconceptions on Canadian surrogacy. Ariel also touches on her last and final surrogacy journey, but that’s not the end of her journey in the surrogacy world. Tune in to hear how Ariel is continuing to help the surrogacy and IVF community. 

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Alycia’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/notthebabymamaa?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Rachel’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/blackgirlsoven?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talk about all the IVF meds! What types there are and how they can make you feel. Nowadays there are so many ways to prep for a transfer, it becomes confusing and sometimes overwhelming. We even sometimes compare and that leads us to overthink and get in our heads when things are different for us than the “norm” that we see on social media. Tune in to hear a few different ways a surrogate can prepare her body with IVF meds.

And please feel free to leave a comment on what protocol you were given for IVF meds and how they made you feel. 💕 

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Casandra’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/cas_aleman?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Samantha’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/justasurromama?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talk about the screening process for surrogates. From agency screening to psychological screening and the biggest one of them all, Medical Screening. Tune in to get an idea what this process is like and how long it can typically take to get through it all before the real fun and journey begins. 💕 🤰🏻

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Grace’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/graces_surro_journey?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

International Surrogacy Center’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/isc_surrogacy?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Shelbie’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/oliviaandlilliansmama?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talk about the requirements and qualifications to become a surrogate. If you’re looking into surrogacy for the first time this is a great one to listen to as we have 4 experienced surrogates and an agency founder giving insight on all the requirements we each have been through and how agencies will require different things. 

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Surrogacy.Is Instagram: https://instagram.com/surrogacy.is?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with Sunshine and Casey from Surrogacy.Is! Sunshine explained how and why she created Surrogacy.Is and the purpose of this Advocacy Group. The love and passion these ladies have for surrogacy shines through in this entire conversation and we for one can’t wait to see Surrogacy.Is bloom! 🌸 

Tune in to hear how Surrogacy.Is helps surrogates both new and experienced become more educated and feel more confident in advocating for themselves.

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Whitney’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/whitneycask?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

International Surrogacy Center’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/isc_surrogacy?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talk about all the absurd things that surrogates have been asked, things that have been said to surrogates, and other absurd things that have been said and asked regarding surrogates/surrogacy. And there are a lot of common ones, but also some very absurd ones.

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NWSC Instagram: https://instagram.com/nw_surrogacy_center?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This week we talked with Veronica from North West Surrogacy Center. She talks about both her journeys at NWSC and how surrogacy journeys at NWSC work. She was even filmed in her first journey for a French documentary. (Link provided below) Tune in to hear her amazing stories and how to get a journey started with NWSC.

Documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fgIdhcD8UA8&t=1s

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This week we talked with surrogates who went the independent route to get a better understanding of what it all entails. And while they are both independent they have very different stories. Tune in to hear how to get an independent journey started and what you can expect to encounter during one.

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This week we spoke with Lisa Stark Hughes from the education committee of SEEDS Ethics. She explains how and why this nonprofit organization was born and how it has developed over the years. We also touch on what it means to be a member and what it entails to be a volunteer, as SEEDS Ethics is made up of volunteers! Lisa informs us what people can expect to hear at the upcoming conference in November and lists off some of the committee. But to find out more information tune in and also go to their website, listed below, to find out all the committees and their jobs along with the list of standards that is available to even non-members to download and review.

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Amanda’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/amandas.progression?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Sandra’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/_sandraviramontes_?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Let’s talk about Matching! What questions to ask during and even before you are match. What you can expect to happen in a match meeting. And some advice and tips from fellow surrogates who have been through this overwhelming yet exciting process. 💕 

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This week we spoke with Lauren about her first journey. While this wasn’t her dream journey, she was still able to complete it knowing she put her heart and soul into it and in the end was able to help a family grow. And let me just say, the amount of effort, love, and patience she showed truly portrays the wonderful heart that she has. ♥️ 

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Today we are shining a light on the positive things Chrissy Teigen has said about surrogacy. From her showing her appreciation and gratitude for her surrogate to her acknowledging how much surrogates are willing to put their bodies through in order to help a family grow. Congratulations to Chrissy, John, and their family and surrogate! 💕  

And thank you for shining a light of positivity on this community. We sincerely appreciate it. ♥️ 

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This week we heard one of the best outcomes you can have in surrogacy. The mutual love  and respect shines in this journey! And where this journey has lead both parties, is just phenomenal. This is a feel good story and this is what surrogacy is all about! Love, family and respect! 💕 Tune in to get a dose of happiness 😊 

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This week we talk some more about red flags. Your red flags actually! Together as a community we can help one another, protect one another, and warn one another. Together we can change the conversation of surrogacy. If you have more red flags please drop a comment below so we can help and look out for one another. 💕 

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This week we had the pleasure of speaking with Sarah Paige from Art Risk Solutions. We dive into all things insurance! We can’t thank Sarah enough for taking the time to explain how insurance works in the surrogacy world. This conversation has truly been eye opening and incredibly informative. Tune in to hear everything you should and need to know about health insurance when being a surrogate.

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CONTRACTS!! What’s in them? What should be in them!? What’s legal jargon? What too look out for?  Contracts are scary and there is not a lot of talk about them. We hope this helps start the conversation and that we can all help and learn from one another.  Remember, you always have the right to ask for changes. It’s no guarantee, but you’ll never know until you ask!

What did you change in your contract?

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This week we had the pleasure of speaking with Joe Williams, cofounder of New York Surrogacy Center. New York Surrogacy Center was the first licensed surrogate agency in New York! We dive into the surrogacy statutes and the Gestational Surrogate Bill of Rights that New York has put in place. And after learning about all this, we truly hope more states will follow New York in allowing and protecting  surrogacy and all it has to offer. 💕 

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Surrogates in the United States, more often than not, are compensated. But for some bizarre reason, this is such a taboo subject to talk about. So we’ve decided to start the conversation in hopes to continue it and bring awareness and comfort in the compensation process of surrogacy. 

We are providing a service. It’s within our right to be compensated for that service if we choose to be. AND IT’S OKAY 💕 

We also sprinkle in some other friendly surrogate insight and advice. 🙃

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SURROGACY IS BEAUTIFUL AND AMAZING! However, not every journey is. The title is no lie, but just because this journey was hell doesn’t mean surrogacy isn’t beautiful and amazing! I still was able to help a family grow. But the way I was treated by everyone involved in this journey was and is disgusting! We all had to sign an NDA so this is strictly based off my side of the story. (Which is my truth!) But I refuse to let this journey define me and define surrogacy. Not all journeys have to be business or as the world is calling it “transactional”. Mutual respect can take a journey in the right direction.

I share this story in hopes that a surrogate never has to go through something similar. 💕 

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The Kardashians sparked a controversial conversation concerning “transactional surrogacy”. Which has been extremely exaggerated by many people. But whose comments struck the community most was Candice Owen. We talk with other surrogates about those remarks, and how many of us feel and portray surrogacy.

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This week we had the pleasure of speaking with Aria, the second half of the duo from Modernly Ever After. She shares her surrogacy journey story and how she became a cofounder of MEA. And even touches on her second surrogacy journey that has just begun and a little bit about being a woman of color in this industry.

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This week Ellen says goodbye to her surrogacy journey. She explains how the entire experience of surrogacy was for her and what it meant and the things it brought to her and her family. While it’s always bittersweet to say goodbye to something you love, the end of surrogacy was able to start a new beginning in her life.

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This week we are revisiting my second journey! How it was mainly peaceful and how my journey with this agency started. However, I got a lot of push back about asking for a revision in the contract. But not from the IPs.

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This week we had the amazing honor of speaking with Joanna Beck Wilkinson as we dive in on all things law and surrogacy. She was so informative, transparent, and kindly shared as much information as we could cram into 2 hours! She even answers some questions that we asked, you the listeners, to send in. She is truly amazing and I hope there are more Family Building Lawyers like her out there.

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This week we had the pleasure of speaking with Abby Helmuth from SeedTrust. Learning the ins and outs of escrow in surrogacy, the safety and security of funds and why it’s so important for both the intended parents and the surrogate. 

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This week we had the wonderful honor of speaking with Ron Poole-Dayan, the founder of Men Having Babies. He explained how and why MHB was created and has grown in the past 10 years. And also how the organization and himself are advocating for surrogacy and LGBTQ fertility rights all around the world!

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This week we had the honor of speaking with Brianna from Nodal. Nodal is changing the game for matching in a surrogacy journey. And is being referred to as “The Bumble of surrogacy” by giving surrogates the chance to swipe right first. Tune in to hear how this amazing platform is placing the power of a surrogate’s match directly in the palm of their hands.

Also, Brianna was kind enough to share her experience of surrogacy and being a surrogate. And how her journey lead her to where she is today.

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Triplet alert!!! 👶🏼👧🏼👶🏼

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Surrogacy Sunday. Today’s episode is a refresh on Ellen’s second surrogacy journey experience. And this one is three times the “fun”. Tune in to hear her take on a triplet pregnancy 😳 

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This week we got to interview someone who is near and dear to both of our hearts. Ellen’s husband and my father. He gives us his perspective on how he was introduced to surrogacy, his journeys with Ellen through surrogacy, his opinion on his daughter then participating in surrogacy 20 years later, and how he sees surrogacy today. A huge thank you to Michael and all of the surrogate support partners/persons for your love and support. Surrogates would not be able to do this without you. 💕 

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This week we had the honor of speaking with Ciara who is a former 3 time surrogate and has founded an agency with her best friend. Modernly Ever After is based in Los Angeles California, but helps IPs as far as the international waters will take them. Ciara shares how MEA started and her journey leading towards it. 

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This week we caught up with Mary who we interviewed last October while she was near the end of her first surrogate journey. She gave birth in January to her surrogate baby and is back to tell us how it went and how she is recovering.

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This week we had the wonderful honor and pleasure of speaking with Kayde. Her story is as beautiful as her, inside and out. From being a Doula, to donating her eggs, to becoming a surrogate, and now Directory of Surrogacy, Kayde is a wealth of knowledge with such a huge heart to help others grow their families.

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We had the wonderful honor of speaking with Ana Maria from Mexico Surrogacy Law to learn about all things surrogacy in Mexico. And WOW!!! Legalities, compensations, cost, communication, and so many other things are vastly different compared to the states. We learned so much and can not thank this beautiful woman enough for sharing her knowledge and the way surrogacy is done in Mexico. 

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Tune in to hear Samantha Mathews’ surrogacy journey and the ups and downs that came with it. But even with the downs, Sam has been able to turn those right side up and is now using her experience to help the surrogate community. We thank you for all that you are doing for this surrogate community and the bright light you are shining on it. 

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Tune in to hear about the psychological part of surrogacy for both IPs and Surrogates. Andrea Bryman from the Bryman Counseling Associates helps demystify the psychological screening and the role psychology plays in surrogacy.

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Tune in to hear the answers to all your questions! We had the amazing privilege to speak with Dr. Julian Escobar about all things IVF and surrogacy. We were blown away from all the information he shared with us! We definitely learned a lot and so will you! Thank you Dr. Escobar for your time and all that you do to help families grow 💕 

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We are talking about the big questions to ask an agency BEFORE you apply. Call and talk to someone before you possibly waste your time filing out an application. These are the biggest questions that we narrowed it down to.

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We had the wonderful honor of speaking with Mary Jane about her IM journey. You may know a little bit about her from @thebiggestask, but in this episode we dive in to it all. Tune in to hear an IM’s experience with surrogacy and the amazing things she is doing to help the surrogacy community. 

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We are starting 2023 off with bang! Autumn has such a huge heart and it definitely comes across when she tells us her story. Autumn’s first journey started when she was just 20 years old! Tune in to hear this sweet and the youngest surrogate we’ve ever met. 

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Tune in to hear about Ashley’s first surrogacy journey and how she was able to take that experience and not only help her IPs, but now is helping hundreds of others. She is 1 half of The Biggest Ask on social media and she kindly explained what that entails and means for everyone involved. 

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Tune in to hear how surrogacy works in Canada. We cleared up the misconceptions of Canadian surrogacy and dove deep into the way not only healthcare works for surrogates, but also compensation and the law. Thank you so much Leia for going into depth on all things surrogacy in Canada. It was insanely insightful and helpful and a wonderful conversation.

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Tune in to hear about the community and sisterhood International Surrogacy Center has created. We had the honor of speaking with the agency director, Arianna, and surrogate advocate, Lauren to hear how ISC has formed a sisterhood community to support and empower surrogates.

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Tune in to hear an agency’s point of view about surrogacy. And the way Circle Surrogacy takes care of both the surrogate and the IPs. We talked to the President of Circle Surrogacy, Sam Hyde, and it was truly informative and an amazing experience. 

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Tune in to hear how Mary’s current journey is going. This is her first surrogacy and she is due in January. We wish you a healthy and safe delivery Mary!

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Tune in to hear Ellen surprise the triplets for their 20th birthday! And we want to say thank you for all your love and support for this podcast. This episode marks the 1 year anniversary for us. We hope this podcast is helping or making a positive difference for surrogacy and the stigma surrounding it.

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Tune in to hear not only 1 or even 2, but 3 journeys Crystal has been a part of. Each are vastly different. From the good to the ugly, Crystal’s heart and light still shines as bright as ever! Her stories taught even us so much. 

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Tune in to hear how Jason (one of the dad’s of the triplets) journey went. His thoughts, his fears, the good times, the shocking times, and the ultimate joy of “winning the jackpot”. His three beautiful children. Today is the triplets 20th birthday and what better way to celebrate than to hear their journey from the last member of their family for us to interview, to share with us videos, pictures, and the best moment of all their lives.

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Lety is insanely kind and caring and my heart truly goes out to her and her journey. Tune in to hear her first time surrogate journey and the incredible way she handled it and came out of it so positive.

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Tune in to hear surrogate baby B, from Ellen’s triplet surrogacy. And how Maddie feels about being the only girl. Growing up with two brothers, two dads, and being brought into this world through surrogacy. 

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Terra’s journeys were wild, to say the least. But her huge heart and genuine love for helping a couple grow a family shine through the somewhat darkened journey. Tune in to hear her wild wild stories involving a sibling journey. 

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Terry’s one of the fathers of the triplets from my mother’s (Ellen’s) second journey. Hearing his side of the journey was extremely informative for us. Tune in to hear how his journey began and how having triplets changed their entire lives. Not only are his children sweet, genuine and kind, but he is as well. Makes perfect sense! And a special Happy Fathers Day to all the fathers, grandfathers, stepfathers, and intended fathers. We appreciate you!

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Amanda’s stories are jam packed with information and advice and scenarios we have yet to hear about. Tune in to hear how journey one turns into a sibling journey during covid, and catching covid while pregnant. 

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Kari’s story hits a little too close to home for me. But she handles life with such elegance and grace. Her journey wasn’t all butterflies and rainbows but tune in to hear how she handled all the ups and downs. 

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Ben is formally known as Baby A in my mother’s triplet pregnancy. Tune in to hear how he perceives surrogacy and how he dealt with all the questions growing up.

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Not only was she a surrogate but she’s probably also the woman you purchase all your surrogate goodies from! Tune in to hear Crystals story and how she started her surrogate merchandise business. 

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This episode is the perspective of a surrogate baby. But not only is he a surrogate baby, he is one of the three triplets Ellen helped bring into this world in her second journey. Tune in to hear his perspective about growing up with two dads and surrogacy. 

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Chelsea’s story taught my mother and myself things we did not know or even hear of. And the way Chelsea speaks you can not only hear her calmness but feel it. Tune in to hear to hear her amazing first story and the beginning of her second. My mother and I feel so very honored to have had her share her story on our podcast. Thank you Chelsea. And we are sending you sticky thoughts 🍍 

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This is an anonymous story from a fellow surrogate. We keep her identity private but she shares the good, the bad, and a surrogates worst nightmare. 

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We speak to a fellow surrogate friend who’s journey is completely different from ours. She genuinely sweet, caring, kind, and overall humble. She also appears to be a beacon of light that is calming in what can be a challenging journey.

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The bad, the ugly, the worst. Kenedi’s 3rd and final surrogacy journey is a very unique and uncommon situation, however, it is possible. Listen to hear all the crazy absurd things that can happen 🤪

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We talk about Ellen’s last surrogacy journey and she gives her best advice to those looking to join this beautiful community. 

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Round 2!! But this time helping the land down under. 🐨 

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The mother of this mother daughter duo podcast about all things surrogacy shares her second surrogate journey. 

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My first surrogate journey! One of the best outcomes you can have from surrogacy, a lifelong friendship.

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This episode is about Ellen’s first surrogate journey. The good, the bad, and the near death experience. 

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This episode is about surrogacy contracts. What should you request in them? What is already in them? How much do surrogates make? Can you negotiate? We have some information for you.

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Is an agency or going privately the best choice for you? We explain the experiences we have had with agencies and the story of someone who went privately in hopes to start a conversation and help figure out which is a better fit.

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The mother of this duo, Ellen, is sharing her start on her surrogacy journey and her “why”.

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Welcome to our mother daughter podcast. We hope to help educate and provide any and all information we have on surrogacy. The good and the ugly. This episode is Kenedi’s introduction to surrogacy.