Jesus cancelled my lifetime subscription to issues. If I can be free from me, I can be free from you; getting past any offense, enabling me to love you. Regardless of if you like me or not. I get to see you valued and worthy of love. Because you are.
I used to be a very negative person. I absolutely hated my job. I could find 1,000 things I disliked about it. It got so bad that my wife told me at one point that she no longer wanted to hear how my day went after I came home from work....