I Am Bad Ass: Recent Episodes
Lani Nalu
I Am Bad Ass is a space where you will learn how to overcome your trauma.
Our biggest struggle as women is inability to connect to our Feminine. We cannot heal or transmute pain while we are in mind, masculine energy.
I’ve worked with women all over the world as well as healing from trauma myself, and regardless of how you grew up, as a whole we carry shame in our Yoni and sexual energy field.
I’m am here to share that you absolutely can heal, you can breakthrough and you can get into your power!
You are Bad Ass! I see you.
"I didn't even know I was in masculine energy, I just thought I was hustling! " Samantha Mimi N'guyen is writer and her clients range from Tesla, Apple, & Google to high end fashion magazines like El. Sam was doing solid $30k months... Living the dream right. WRONG!!! SHE WAS SETTLING AF AND HAD LOW ASS SELF WORTH. Sam was in a shitty relationship which killed her confidence and negatively affected her energy, her business, and her entire life. Within 7 days she freaking 7x'd her Feminine Energy. Sam didn't even know she was in masculine energy. She thought it was normal to feel stressed, extreme self doubt, worried all the time, and like she had to fight to defend herself 24/7 in her male dominated industry. Sam has obviously ended that relationship. She has 10x'd her life and her soul, creativity, & confidence has 100x'd! Sam is a writer. Sam's hit $65,000 in 1 FREAKING MONTH! So y'all can't use the excuse anymore that creative women can't make bank. She's traveling. She's in her Feminine. And she's blowing her own damn mind every freaking day! Inspired??? Want to get in the room with women who are making $100K a month, and making beautiful love, traveling the World, and women who positively lift you up 100% of the time? You gotta come to my '7X YOUR FEMININE ENERGY LIVE' This is perfect for coaches, artists, writers, & real estate agents currently making $20-$50k per month. Normally my in person events are $5,000 but since this is online it's only $97. We sell out every event so get your ticket before it's too late. https://www.7xyourenergy.com/diamond
If you already feel tired from the thought of getting through the holiday season because you're overwhelmed this is for you. When you put everyone else before yourself and when you feel guilty saying no... You end being grumpy Scrooge instead of Bad Ass Elf. The best way to sabotage your holidays is by taking on way too much and never filling up your own tank. Do you want to break your immune system with stress and get Covid for Christmas? I didn't think so. Sister, you teach people how to treat you. I know you're thinking that's easy for you Lani. You love your job and your dude and you love your life. Guess why! Niot because my family is so positive, or because I'm lucky my clients are Bad Asses. It's because I was so done working with Debbie Downers and so over being around family who were big fat victims of their OWN decisions that I decided to change. Does a Queen hang around people who talk shit and complain? Does a leader enable others and say yes to things that she wants to say Hell No to? Does a Bad Ass who's living her dream life allow others to speak dirty rotten words of negativity over her? OF COURSE NOT. You gotta stop waiting for the world to change and start by looking at the crap you're letting in. When you plug up your own energy leaks the World becomes your oyster. Anything is possible and you are damn right you have the power to live your best life right now. To skyrocket your energy right now get yourself into my '7x Your Energy Live' event asap by clicking this link. I believe in you. Love Lani xx
Are you are loyal AF to the beliefs that are ruining your life. If you wake up and feel overwhelmed and stressed and you beat yourself for not being perfect I'm about to blow your mind. You are so dedicated to all the reasons why your life isn't working and why you're not happy. Answer me this... what are you showing up for everyday? Giving your energy to every day? What are you committed to every day? The answer is... How you feel and what you have is exactly what you are committed to. If you're anxious, you're committed to it. If you're miserable at work, you're committed to it. If you're exhausted, you're committed to it. What you have has nothing to do what you are worth. You were born worthy of everything you want sis. Want to change your life... Start committing to the shit you want. If you want to commit to learning the skill of 7x ing your energy than get your ticket to my 7X Your Energy Live Event here. You can solve your problems fast if you have the desire to. And don't let that survival brain tell you it's hard. Let's get real it's it's so much harder to be exhausted, insecure, and overwhelmed that it is to be excited, confident, and happy. I believe in you. Lani xx 🔥 7x Your Energy LIVE Get Your DIAMOND 💎
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Women who work with Lani Nalu and 7x their Energy do amazing things, like…
✔ Double their incomes
✔ Land their dream job
✔ Get pregnant (after being told they never could)
✔ Manifest their ideal life partner
✔ Lose weight
✔ Heal their bodies
✔ Learn to love them self
Sister, you are working harder than you need to! Are you an over achiever who kills yourself to be perfect? Do you feel like your growth is going so slow ants are lapping you? Do you want to accomplish your dreams faster? Hell yes this is for you. You're not failing because you're not worthy. You're failing because you're in survival mode. It's impossible for you to change fast when your energy is stuck in the past and when your fear of I'm not good enough is sucking you dry. Are you tired of watching women crush it and live their dreams while you're stuck eating the same dog shit sandwich day after day? Now... no one can do this for you. You must have inspiration and a burning desire to change first. When you have this deep desire you can literally transform anxiety and self doubt into bliss and ecstasy instantly. You can absolutely reach your goals fast sister. Your happiness loves speed. Say it with me "MY HAPPINESS LOVES SPEED!" Stop surviving and get quantum! https://www.7xyourenergy.com/vip
Sister you have no freaking idea how good you are meat to feel.
My anxiety and self doubt was so painful it felt like a blanket of darkness that was suffocating me. You know when you can’t see the light. You feel such gnarly energy and so out of control there’s no way you could possibly overcome it and make yourself feel better… You’re doing everything and it’s never enough. It’s exhausting right. I know for me I felt like I was all alone and I was 36 years old so I figured if I couldn’t do it by now, I couldn’t do it ever. You feel me? Right now your normal is fear & worry. We all feel this because we’re human but our normal state is not meant to be survival mode. So 80% - 99% of your day is spent in your head, in the past, firing worst case scenario thoughts and releasing fight or flight chemicals into your body. You can not be in your head worrying, and in the present moment creating mystical experiences at the same time. My intention for this episode is to expose you the hidden principle that every Bad Ass Woman uses. What if you could learn to use your will to release your doubt, fear & worry and free up your blocked energy to like a damn freight train. Literally moving energy from survival to creation so you can heal, and create abundance & mystical experiences IMMEDIATELY. Does that sound good? Now is your chance to come to my ‘7X YOUR ENERGY LIVE’ Thursday 10am EST My team has just thrown in another bonus valued at $3,000 and that’s just the start. Get your Diamond Package for just $47 here https://www.7xyourenergy.com/tickets
Our biggest kryptonite as women is caring way too much about what other people think.
I swear this is the master skill that has put me into the top 1% as a female entrepreneur in the life coaching niche.
We as women are wired with more EGO.
Here's why... we are more emotional. We care more about what others think of us and we try to be perfect.
So when we put up this perfect front and then we make a mistake it's like dooms freaking day. We get heat for it and we take it personally.
My first tip is the more real you are the less ego is involved and no one expects you to be perfect or never make mistakes because you never said that's who you are.
This second part is science which explains consciousness so it's not woo woo, it's quantum physics.
Our thoughts carry an energy so every thought has a frequency and our body holds the negative thoughts as emotion in the body.
Queue body pain.
The way our brain works is it creates an image and then we attach an emotion to it.
So that one shitty message you got weeks ago has been repeating in your mind up to as much as 60,000 per day.
Our body reacts to the emotion we connect to the image so it feels like you have been rejected millions of times more than you actually have.
No wonder you feel like a loser who's not good enough right??
That understanding of the science of my brain set me FREE!
Obviously you can't just do this once or twice. Just like any skill the more you practice the easier it gets.
When that image comes up of you being rejected and you attach a negative emotion to it and you realize that you are agitated because you feel it as if it's happening right now...
You have the power to stop those shity feelings because it's just an image and you've attached the emotion.
It's not real.
You must have enough passion and inspiration to move this energy. You must want to feel different.
If you have this intensity you can literally change over night.
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Women who work with Lani Nalu and 7x their Energy do amazing things, like…
✔ Double their incomes
✔ Land their dream job
✔ Get pregnant (after being told they never could) ✔ Manifest their ideal life partner
✔ Lose weight
✔ Heal their bodies
✔ Learn to love them self
If you tell yourself the truth you will crash and burn.
What I mean is as a perfectionist with the program in your subconscious that YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH...
If you don't have enough passion and desire to override these negative feelings then you're gonna get burned baby.
This is why you tell yourself lies.
What do we say as the overachieving good girls?
Shit like... "It's not that bad.
I'm the strong one so burning out is ok.
I'm not hurting anyone but myself.
I've tried everything.
I don't believe it's possible."
The way you are suffering right now feels like you can't control it, it feels like it's happening to you, and it sucks.
I felt that way too.
But when you're ready nothing can stop you because it's much easier and simpler to wake up happy with energy to do all the things you love...
If you change nothing, paint a picture of what your life will look like in 3 years?
If that's not ok with you and you're not willing to wait that long to find the solution then get your DIAMOND ticket to my next event right now.
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Can you believe it takes an intense, passionate commitment to your dreams to reach them? Your dreams don't just make themselves come true. Your dreams don't come knocking at your door begging for you to experience them. We're all super motivated at the beginning. We've got all the hope in the world. We're fresh eyed, bushy tailed and super excited for the adventure. And then 5 seconds later someone plants some doubt in your head and you freaking quit on your dreams! You quit on the one thing that would truly fulfill you and make you happy! After a tiny speed bump. Your why (( if you have enough energy to connect to it )) will have enough intensity and more power than your sabotaging programs. We all have programs that create negativity and anxiety and fear. We all get stuck while trying to change and grow. But there is no external force against you. You literally have all the power! With the will to change you can learn how to live your dreams, stop quitting on yourself, and finally be in control of your energy. Start by getting your "Diamond Package" to my live event asap. Spaces are limited and you will receive $1,000's of dollars in bonuses for just £37 https://www.7xyourenergy.com/vip
I know the ups and downs of reading something and thinking wow this is it.
Going to a workshop and feeling so high and then I get triggered by my partner and work and I feel that fight or flight survival mode takes over my body and everything I just learned and said I would do forever goes right out the window.
First I get angry then the depression and anxiety sets in.
No motivation to do anything, the only thoughts I'm getting are the worst case scenario.
And the negative energy and hopelessness feels so big that the idea of getting out of the darkness and into a positive mood literally feels impossible.
This is the reason 99% of women don't change.
Because it's so uncomfortable to bring your negative thoughts to a full stop, it seems like trying to stop the Titanic from going full speed ahead.
You hit the iceberg everytime.
The answer for you is so simple but it's the worst choice for your negative energy.
STOP IDENTIFYING WITH YOUR NEGATIVE FEELINGS.
STOP TALKING ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS AND WHAT YOU DON'T WANT.
You are greater than your thoughts and your feelings.
When you want to feel better you can think bigger than you feel every freaking time.
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Why in the World do we ask questions that betray our beliefs???
I guarantee...That means with 100% certainty your number one goal that you have not reached is being sabotaged by your questions. If you knew how powerful your questions were you would never ask one's that betray your beliefs ever again! Find me a woman who wants more than anything to be in a beautiful, loving, relationship, and she's struggling hard in the romance department... And I guarantee we will find questions to prove why she can't find her soul mate. This goes for your energy and health. This goes for your creativity and passion. And this goes for your finances sister. The women that have what you want know it's impossible to get a solution with the same thinking that got them the problem. And the best part is the solution is ALWAYS simpler and easier than not having a solution. If you are ready to 7x your energy and finally live your best life get your FREE ticket to my next live event here: https://www.7xyourenergy.com/tickets
If you’re waking up with low energy this is for you sister.
You have no idea how good you were born to feel. One of the most common things I hear is “I have super low energy.” The biggest misconception is that we have no control over our energy. I’m not saying that you don’t feel shitty and drained… I am saying that you don’t have to live this and wait until your energy is super bad to do something about it. Step one is claim your free ticket to my 7x Your Energy Live Workshop here. I will be pulling back the curtain and sharing my 4 Step Blueprint to 7x your Energy Levels and creating your dream life, fast! The worst feeling is not having enough energy to do the epic shit you were born to do. 90% of female entrepreneurs are on the struggle bus. They’re trying to do a million things on the outside with no energy on the inside. It’s like running out of gas and spending so much time and money fixing every other part of your car. Just fill up the tank sister! Is it ok with you if I teach you how to 7x your energy fast?! It’s so much simpler than you can ever imagine. I’m so excited to see you at my life changing event! Click here to confirm because spaces are limited. 🔥 7x Your Energy LIVE
Get Your Free Ticket here:
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Women who work with Lani Nalu and 7x their Energy do amazing things, like...
✔ Double their incomes
✔ Land their dream job
✔ Get pregnant (after being told they never could)
✔ Manifest their ideal life partner
✔ Lose weight
✔ Heal their bodies
✔ Learn to love themself
I can't believe I'm sharing this!!! In this video I'm sharing The 5 Minute MIND EXERCISE That Will CHANGE YOUR LIFE! Your Brain Will Not Be The Same.
The number 1 reason women reach out to me is because they want to be truly happy.
If you're struggling with lack of confidence and self doubt I made this for you.
This is so simple and so mind blowing it will change your life.
Being present in the moment and using your focus to elevate your energy and open your heart makes you feel freaking awesome.
And this isn't just my opinion. It's quantum physics. How cool is that?
If we think "I want to be happy" but we feel anxious and believe we aren't good enough then nothing will ever change.
You will never feel happy.
This mind exercise is the fastest way to change the way you feel and finally wake up feeling truly happy. I'm so excited for you to experience it.
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This is a trick question for your ego because in the ego’s World all the negative in your life is the cause of things you can’t control. Traits you were just born with.
I literally thought being a perfectionist was as concrete as my shoe size.
I thought feeling insecure was not personally my problem because my ego told me I was just reacting to how others treated me.
How crazy is it to think of every negative emotion you feel as a bad habit?
It’s not because you’re not good enough, it’s not because you’re an idiot and unworthy of happiness.
Your unhappiness and lack of inner peace are side effects of your bad habits.
If I told you I can’t stop biting my nails because of my childhood as a 40 year old woman you’d say..
Bull shit! That’s just an excuse.
I’m saying apply the SAME technique to your emotional bad habits and you will 100% break them.
This is the most empowering decision you can make for yourself!
Let’s be clear, you can break any habit regardless of how much trauma you’ve been through, or how old you are, or where you grew up…
As long as you DECIDE to.
It literally only takes the consistency on your end to follow through.
If you’re finally ready to break your bad habits and wake up happy and filled with inner peace, your next step is to come to my masterclass to learn how.
https://iam.laninalu.com/ln5
Today, we're going to talk about stop the negative self-talk. So last year alone, we had over 600 women and we taught them how to overcome this negative self-talk.
So the basis of every problem is really that fear that we're not good enough inside.
And maybe yours manifests in binge-eating, or feeling not good enough in your relationships, feeling insecure, auto-immune diseases, infertility, you name it, right?
Those are all just symptoms of a bigger issue and a bigger problem and I'm here to help you work through that today.
So I get it, that negative self-talk is probably one of literally... I don't like seeing notifications when I record. It's just for a call. Literally, our kryptonite is negative self-talk because that literally starts creating our vibe, our mood, what we focus on.
Then if we start thinking these really negative thoughts about ourselves, then we are in that mode.
So we start attracting more negativity from other people and it's just this really crazy snowball effect.
So I'll be real honest that every time that I up level or do something new, the first thing that comes in is this negative self-talk that says, "Oh really, you can't."
If you have all the fucked up symptoms of living in the past like: anxiety, body pain, headaches, self doubt, chronic negative thoughts…
Then you don’t fucking know how to let the past go.
I know when you’re in the darkness it seems so real and your body physically reacts and you feel pain.
That’s the trip.
This is why women can make crazy decisions.
You actually believe your negative thoughts. And then the worst part is you ACT on your crazy thoughts which leaves you feeling like life is against you.
But it’s not real.
One of the most negative side effects of living in the past is on your relationship.
Dude you’re bringing in so much unnecessary negative energy and blaming your partner for it.
What a dick.
You can let the past go without being perfect btw. How rad is that.
We waste so much damn time and energy feeding our body a negative script.
Your body will always react to what you are choosing to focus on.
And I know your ass can be all perky and positive if Brad Pitt looking like he did in Fight Club came walking in the room.
If you can do it once you can do it anytime you decide to dig deep because the payoff of letting negativity go is worth it to you.
Otherwise you have “selective” control over your mental health and that’s some bull shit.
If you’re ready to finally let the past go, book a call with my team and let’s freaking do this sister YEW.
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If you can relate to Simone Biles feeling pressure, overwhelmed, and afraid to disappoint others... This is for you.
The first rule I give my clients is…
PUT YOUR MENTAL HEALTH FIRST.
Life is freaking hard.
Am I right?
We have so much pressure, so many dreams to fulfill, obligations, and responsibility.
As over achievers and perfectionists it’s so uncomfortable to put our mental health first.
I think the intention starts off on the good side because we want to live up to our full potential.
But we usually cross the line from positive to burned out real freaking fast.
And from there it is SO HARD to undo the feelings of overwhelm, exhaustion, and despair.
We think shit like… “What if I disappoint them? What if my best is not good enough. What if I can’t do this because it's too hard.”
As high performers we are addicted to the outcome.
We obsess over getting validation from others.
We believe deep down we must be perfect or we’re failing.
We are always pushing because our motivation is I MUST PROVE I AM WORTHY.
It makes shit that we used to love not fun anymore. It causes us to feel completely powerless and leaves us with no options.
So we crack.
I have been there sister.
And unfortunately there is no final destination. Everytime you grow you will experience challenges, you will feel afraid of getting uncomfortable, it will be hard.
The victim will quit and say it's too much, and feel sorry for herself.
While the champion will feel afraid, will think about quitting, will fall, will cry…
And she will get back up stronger every time because quitting is not an option.
The pressure will always be too much when we don’t know how to process our emotions and negative experiences. We will always end up feeling suffocated.
Yet there is another option…
Get out of survival mode, surrender, and learn how to accept the challenge with an open heart.
This is the only place where we have infinite possibilities and where we feel held, loved, and supported by life.
Our focus becomes...
I am here to create, grow, flow, and evolve into a better woman.
When we live here we can do hard shit all damn day because we’re inspired and charged up by love.
It’s very simple, but it takes more energy and focus initially, which is why it feels so hard when you’re trying to do it all alone.
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I am sharing the 2 shifts you must make in order to wake up feeling fulfilled and happy.
If you are the strong one who thinks…
“My life is so hard. I have to do this all alone. I’m not going to let you get away with this. The world is against me.”
This is for you!!!
At your essence you are not this negative woman!
You were NOT put here to complain and feel sorry for yourself.
Let me put this into perspective…
If you had 5 minutes left to live would you be feeling sorry for yourself?
Would this annoy you?
Would you talk about the one thing that’s negative?
Absolutely not!
You’d be telling your family and friends how much you love them. You’d focus on the beauty and the love and what you’re grateful for.
There are 2 shifts that you must make in order to close the gap between where you are and where you want to be.
You have the super power of FREE WILL!
You are the author, the director, and the producer of your life.
I can teach you exactly HOW to trust and be vulnerable so you finally live the happy, incredible life you were meant to live.
Book in for a call with my team asap to get this party started.
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If you’ve had the same problems for 3 months listen
Are you in a victim consciousness?
Yes or No?
I thought the victim mentality was people who refused to get a job, refused to work hard, and people who just took energy from others.
I almost killed myself to make others happy and I always said yes to everything.
When you believe life is happening to you and you feel out of control…
When you have the same problems you had yesterday, last week, 3 months ago, last year…
When you chronically think about what went wrong from the past…
You are in a victim consciousness.
You can be smart, hard working, make 6 figures…
AND be in victim consciousness.
WHAT???
We’re always manifesting as a default.
We’re either expanding or shrinking our immune system.
Chronic thinking is manifesting as either a tonic or toxic chemical in the body.
The most incredible, mind blowing freedom I’ve ever experienced is…
The problems you have at your current vibe do NOT exist at a higher level of awareness.
An insecure woman thinks it’s her husband's fault, and her team's fault for taking advantage of her.
She’s obsessed with the symptoms.
A confident woman doesn't have these problems.
The answer: A woman who feels insecure must expand her awareness, raise her consciousness, become more confident and those problems are no longer there.
Because a confident woman does not look to others for self worth.
If you’re ready to have fun and enjoy your life while getting more successful in your career book in a call with my team.
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As a high performance coach I work with successful, high achieving women.
I’m talking about financially free, hard working, motivated, Bad Ass women who wake up super stressed and overwhelmed.
We have not been taught how to use our masculine as a tool.
Women have No clue how to be strong and vulnerable at the same time… Which creates so much stress and pressure.
I’m financially free and I’m burnt out is NOT goals.
Women are getting more and more masculine.
Which means they’re attracting feminine as fuck men. My high achievers come to me because they are manly at work and manly at home.
Since we are women we can NOT sustain masculine pushing. Our energy is drained super fast so we start giving things up in order to fulfill our work duties.
The first things we let go of are pleasure and fun.
No sex drive because you don’t have enough energy.
No motivation to play and have fun because you “Don’t have time for that.
What the actual fuck!!!
When you’re ready to have fun and enjoy your life while getting more successful in your career book in a call with my team.
https://iam.laninalu.com/breakthrough
The good old… “I’ll be happier when” syndrome.
It’s the death of your happiness sis.
Looking for salvation in the future when you don't get rejected is total bull shit because the truth is THE MORE SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE THE MORE PROBLEMS YOU HAVE.
As a high performer we will always be driving forward toward more success.
One of the greatest evils of the ego, is its power of persuading you that even though you’re not happy now, you will be happier when you’re more successful.
Let’s get real.
More success equals more pressure, more demands, more things to do, more people to oversee, and more fucking problems to solve homie.
How insane is the ego’s argument?
Even more insane is Whole Heartedly using your ego’s excuse to not get your shit together now… because you’ll be happier when you have more problems?
It’s so dumb!
And we all do it.
Why do you think Chris and I have coaches bro. Because it’s the ego’s default setting to look to the future for emotional salvation.
Everytime we uplevel the story of I’ll do the same thing I’m doing right now and get way more success, energy, and happiness comes up.
The truth is you gotta change some shit to get something new.
It’s so simple and you are very smart.
No more excuses. Let’s freaking GOOOO.
Join my Bad Ass community now to soak up my mind blowing energy and feel happier than you’ve ever felt right now https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup/
Sister I hope you are flying on this Monday because it is a beautiful time to be alive!!!
I wanted to share some real shit with you today so we can move forward toward your goals.
This is not about being right or wrong.
This is about shining a light on the area you want to grow.
It’s very common for women to say shit like …
“It’s not that bad”
“I’m fine”
“Everything’s ok
When in reality you really want more joy, peace, & fulfillment.
The way you react to help is the foundation of why you are exactly where you are.
Why you don’t feel confident and proud.
Nothing is more annoying than a women who says she has a problem, and then shuts down and makes excuses when she’s offered THE SOLUTION.
If you are a “but” chick…
“But I can’t because of time or money…”
Then you have a 0% of changing.
And we both know change is the ONLY way to get a differ outcome than you have now.
Click the link to join my Bad Ass free community to learn how to stop the “buts” and start making the changes that make you better!!!
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I'm getting real about the number 40.
By the time you listen to this I will be 40 and I want you to know that I subconsciously feel the stigmas around women aging… same as you.
We have these measurements for success that are dumb. They're not ours, they didn't come from us, yet we feel super shitty when we don't have certain things by a certain age.
I felt soooo shitty at my 36th Birthday because I was at an all time low in every area of my life. I beat myself up because I should have kids, I should have a white picket fence, I should be prettier, blah blah blah.
We have so many weird stories in our subconscious that we don't even know about until we get into a new situation and actually experience it.
It's called growing!
It's so inspiring.
It's what every Bad Ass woman living her best life does.
What's not awesome is staying in the same damn place, making the same damn mistakes, never shining a light on your subconscious bull shit.
Time is running out to get your ticket to my live event so if you're ready to let go of the illusions that are stopping you and lean the fuck into your best life LET'S FREAKING GOOOO.
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Sisterrrrrrr I’m so freaking excited for this episode!
Girl I believe in you so hard.
I 100% know with conviction that you CAN feel happy! You deserve to feel 100% confident. You get to wake up with ENERGY!!!
So…. first things first let’s get you supported and into my 2 Day Live Event like yesterday CLICK HERE NOW
You absolutely can take control of your Karma. You get to decide what kind of life you want to live.
EVERY FREAKING THING IN YOUR LIFE COMES DOWN TO 1 STARTING POINT.
Your mind!
At any given moment you can bring your vibe up and start radiating the energy of being supported, loved, safe, unstoppable.
Or in that same moment you can bring your vibe down by remembering the bad shit you’ve gone through and start radiating the energy of guilt, fear, negativity, and anger.
You don’t have to take the shitty opinions of others onboard. You don’t have to feel guilty for making mistakes.
I have figured out the simple way to be in control of my Karma, create my dream life that absolutely blows my mind every day... And the best part is I’m not perfect!
There is no perfection needed when it comes to learning how to manipulate energy. The foundation of the law of attraction is INTENTION.
You are so worthy in your soul. Learn how to follow through and streamline that worthiness you were BORN with by choosing your intention…
And you become limitless and unstoppable like me and all the beautiful women I’ve taught.
My live workshop is a no brainer for career women who are ready to stop the negative, guilty loops and finally live in flow, energy, and unleash your true Bad Ass ness to make this World better!
Let’s go sis YEWWWW.
Everyone wants to change their life but only a rare few want to change their thinking.
Do not ask me why changing our thinking is the ONLY way to solve our problems but it is so...
We accept it and use our energy to actually do it.
When your foundation is not FAITH and you are not connected to the unlimited power Source… you can only believe what is right in front of your face.
Just so we're clear we are not just humans limited to what other people think of us.
We are literally un fucking stoppable souls who have the gift of thinking anything we want into existence.
Your brain, your mind, your thinking is the problem.
The way you're doing it right now is broken, so if you try to use the same thinking that created the problem to fix the problem...
It's a freaking stupid idea.
Pretty clear right.
For some reason we can see it so easily in others but when it comes to ourselves we become blind & stupid and continue to do the same thing that created the problem in the 1st place.
And then complain about why we don't feel un fucking stoppable.
The most uncomfortable thing is changing the way we see the World.
However, you do have the choice to make it as enjoyable as possible by going all in, having a positive attitude, and surrounding yourself with women who have the new thinking you want.
If you're my kind of woman and you're ready to stop bull shitting and finally thrive in your personal relationships and your career you have to come to our Live Lani Nalu 2 Day Event.
The early bird bonuses alone are worth thousands.
Start doing something different right now sis. Give yourself a freaking chance to succeed.
Get your ticket here https://workshops.laninalu.com/virtual-live-event
Diana reached out for help because she was hiding and her confidence was low.
Diana had major reservations before because she'd tried so much before. She wondered what made Purpose different and asked herself, "Is this worth it? Is my happiness worth it... DAMN! We met in real life at a workshop I did in Perth before Covid and the energy of total confidence and Bad Assery blew her mind haha. Diana is a mum of 3, she's with the love of her life, and she was done settling for unfulfillment. Through the Purpose Program we taught Diana how to get out of her head and into her body so she could finally Unleash her full power! In Diana's words "I am literally living my dream. I get to do what I love." Diana has a deep love for herself and her body and looks in the mirror and feels so damn proud. Diana found like minded women in Purpose and finally got the support and accountability to take her confidence to the next level so she could make the positive, mind blowing impact on this World that she was put here to make.
I guarantee you will 100% burn out, get annoyed, feel exhausted, and want to quit if you allow yourself to be drained by others who just take from you... While at the same time using others to temporarily fill up your own soul. When it's not about you, but rather about the collective... And you have high ass standards because you don't need to be needed, you are driven by sharing... The more you serve, the more others share with you which is the recipe for continuous growth, love, wealth, strength, and impact. Most people are so in their own head, so possessed by worry and the fear of not being good enough that they're running around demanding everyone else serve them. Like a spoiled, annoying 5 year old shouting "Make me happy." It's definitely counter intuitive to the ego to have strong boundaries and put your mental health first. It feels uncomfortable but the more you do it the more incredible your life gets. Imagine being surrounded by people who always lift you up, always have your back, and who are always as eager to serve you as you are to serve them... Because you're both happy, energized, and live for sharing kindness. It's fucking bomb. If your career is solid and you make money but it's not your soul driven Purpose, and you're ready to finally unleash your full power then book a call with my team to take the first step toward living up to your full potential. https://iam.laninalu.com/breakthrough
When you gain awareness and learn to have control over your thoughts... you realize how damn negative you used to be.
But the trippiest part is when you're stuck in your head and run by ego you feel super powerless to your external circumstances and relationships and that is the most negative energy a person can send out. You can't trust your "instincts" when you're rooted in negativity because you have no awareness. It's so mind blowing that the most offensive thing to the ego is positivity. Ever been in a situation where your friend or partner was giving you advice to feel better and you got pissed haha. The problem is not that you don't have energy. You're successful. You're smart. You have energy. What you're not doing is streamlining your energy which can only happen when rooted in the body. And you're also not leading from your heart. Ego is negative, heart is truth. I inspire you to have an honest look at your interactions, messages, and conversations because when you are unfulfilled you are also sending out negative ass energy. If you're ready to take the leap of faith and let go of the old shitty stories to live out your full potential book in a call with my team. I believe in you sis.
Lauren got a promotion and as she climbed the corporate ladder she realized she kept getting more and more in her head. She punished her body and her personal relationships were suffering. Lauren was done controlling, done worrying, done with guilt... and she was ready to learn how to change so she could love and trust herself. Lauren came into Purpose because she was done stressing. She was done filling her plate and getting nowhere. Lauren was done feeling like "I have to do this" and she was ready to wake up feeling happy again. Today Lauren's energy and body are thriving! She feels so confident and excited and she's not fear driven anymore YEW! Lauren does shit from love now. Of course this has positively affected everything! Her marriage is thriving and they keep upleving together. Through Covid they've flipped a house, they're paying 2 mortgages, creating their dream home and creating a family together... and at the end of the day they have each other's backs. They love each other so much. We taught her how to trade perfectionism for the joy of the present moment and she feels sexier, stronger, more in love, and this Queen is powerfully leading her team.
Today I'm talking to my beautiful client Nikki so get ready for all the freaking goosebumps sister! Holy shit balls Nikki's energy is gonna light a rocket of inspiration and hope up your bum and call you up to your full potential so you can make a move toward the woman you were born to be! Nikki worked at one of the biggest banks in the UK. Made great money, has a beautiful home, and a gorgeous family... yet she was deeply unfulfilled. Nikki would miss her daughter all day while at work and then when she finally got home she was so stressed out and in her head she'd get grumpy with her. Women we tell ourselves that we can do it alone and everything is OK when in all honesty we know we're being negative and we know that feeling stressed and overwhelmed all the time is not OK. Priding yourself on being strong when you can't even tell yourself the truth iis hypocritical sis. There is a big emotional problem when you chronically feel annoyed, sad, overwhelmed and tired. It takes energy to make a change. It takes energy to take ownership of your shit yes. But the payoff is a million times more energy, more joy, and more freedom so at this point how can you afford to not choose the path of happiness? Whatever you're telling yourself about who's fault it is or how hard your life is STOP because it is not serving you. If you're ready for the truth and the framework that will produce the highest version of YOU... Book in a call with my team asap to see if we are a great fit https://iam.laninalu.com/breakthrough
Sister I’m going to blow your freaking mind today!
We’re taught to obsess over the side affects of your lack of decision making.
Also, your ego will fight like hell to stay in your comfort zone.
The gatherer syndrome and the number 1 characteristic of a woman is NOT living up to her full potential is...
She is not willing to make decisions to get her to where she says she wants to be.
Talking your problems and dreams to death is embarrassing.
The only person that’s responsible for choosing greatness for you is YOU.
When I was in your exact situation and I was finally done settling I made my own decision to be HREAT in my soul.
I knew I was changing. I knew I was all in. Final answer.
It has nothing to do with a price, time, or anything else.
The way you’re thinking is your problem. Take ownership of making the decision in your soul.
If you’re not ready you’re not ready but damn girl quit wasting other people’s time.
If you are ready and you’ve made the decision to finally make changes then book in a call with my team ASAP.
https://iam.laninalu.com/breakthrough
Perfectionism almost freaking killed me!!!
I have done some embarrassing shit. I have made some serious mistakes... Can you imagine if I let perfectionism stop me from doing what I was born to do? My gawd woman, it's time to change your thinking and Unleash your True Potential! You don't have to be perfect to help people. You don't have to be perfect to feel proud of yourself at the end of the day. We all get crazy ego urges, that's no excuse to stay on the burnout cycle. I inspire you to have an honest conversation with yourself. Will you ever live to your full potential if you keep doing what you're doing? Will you ever make an impact if you stay exhausted? I dare you to access a super power and actually do the shit you say you're going to do. We are not going to live forever, but you can make a change to access greatness right now. If you are vibing and you're an overachieving career woman and you're ready to source from that deeper well and feel confident and energized than you gotta book in a call with my team asap. Book here: http://iam.laninalu.com/breakthrough I believe in you!
First things first I feel like Stella got her groove back YEWWW!!!
I finally got a quiet night's sleep because we moved back to the Airbnb while our house is undergoing a transformation and I feel so rejuvenated and energized. My intention for today's podcast is to help you take your power back by asking yourself one simple question... "How can I be a better human?" The ego will never ask this question so you know it's a good one. When you go down that rabbit hole of But how? But why? It's so hard? Poor me? Your power drains instantly and now you're fucked because when we feel exhausted we take shit personally, we get sick, and everything is negatively affected. Asking yourself how you can be better zaps your ego's power and shifts into the right thinking which you need to reach your goals. Any woman can say "I want happiness. I want to unleash my power. I want to fire on all cylinders. I want some next level shit..." However if your priorities are so out of alignment of what you say you want... You will never reach your goals. Do you think that when it comes to finding the support and framework I need to reach my goals of retiring my dad, saving 1 child's life a month from sex slavery, supporting my beautiful brother, and helping women unleash their full potential... I shop around by price and look for the cheapest option? Or do you think I shop around for what I need? Obviously the second one because a Queen thinks like a Queen, talks like a Queen, and acts like a Queen. I don't make excuses about time or money because I am so rooted in my vision, and living in Purpose is the most important thing to me so I do what needs to be done. Even when it's inconvenient. If you are vibing and you're over the snail pace and ready for some next level shit then book in for a call with my team asap. I'm calling all Bad Asses who are ready to truly make an impact. I believe in you.
Ok... this thought has single handedly been and continues to be one of the most important pieces of my success. I am sharing the secret behind every successful woman. As humans we will always look for reasons why we CAN'T or DON'T have something. Staying in this way of thinking will 100% keep you in a loop of losing... because you will never learn or take on accountability for your patterns and therefore continue to do the same thing that does not work. If I had a dime for everytime I heard.... "Oh that's why you're so happy, because some external thing saved you." I'd be even richer than I am now haha. Successful women are successful because they show up every damn day. Not just the days they feel like it. First things first ... Stop dehumanizing women who have what you want. Stop acting like they don't have problems or fears. There is no woman that has not experienced hardships, loss, or been scared to death to move forward. It's part of life. Feel sorry for yourself and have regrets from the other side after you leave this Earth or... Accept you were built to handle and thrive through anything and make a positive impact on this World. Quit looking for the result without putting in the work. Join my Bad Ass Free community today to get my most powerful anchors when life throws me a curve ball. https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup
Girl I have some juicy nuggets for you! I know you're my kind of woman which means a perfectionist... and this really messes with your well being. I'm gonna get specific about relationships but these nuggets will help you in every area of your life sis. The perfectionist always self sabotages because she believes she has to be perfect to feel proud, to celebrate her wins, & to speak her truth... And then she judges others on that same nasty vibe and all that can come out of that is more judgment, resentment, lack of energy, and lack of excitement. I actually live by the belief that uncomfortable conversations equal love. I am so in love with my man. He turns me on, blows my mind, inspires me, and his scent just freaking rocks my World. It was not always like this. And to your surprise... it's not because we're perfect. Especially when we're growing we have super uncomfortable conversations without judgement because we believe in each other. We know what we're capable of. This is how love is experienced in our house. We don't have to be perfect. We get to show up and enjoy the ride. If you are my kind of woman and ready to stop sabotaging your happiness and projecting that crap onto your loved ones then you gotta join my FREE community today. Have an amazing week. I believe in you!
Sister get ready for the most simple mindset shift that has completely changed my life. When all our success is based on pushing, proving, controlling and trying to be perfect... Our brain tells us if we shift into ease, play, and have fun we will lose everything. I'm here to blow your mind and tell you that learning HOW to work, write, speak, eat and make love in my Feminine... is the reason I'm so successful. Business is slaying. My body is getting sexier. My clients are getting more amazing. Confidence is lit don't take on other's BS. My brain is a freaking genius. Thriving with my King. I was so scared to let go of control and change because I didn't want to be a weak woman. I hated victims (embarrassed emoji) WTF how is a woman who is so controlling and masculine that she energetically has her sword drawn and is ready to cut throats at any minute inviting to anyone??? No wonder people living in their power ran the other way. Why would a confident, compassionate Bad Ass want to hang out with a snarling green monster. Sis, you're a woman. Pushing in your masculine is the best way to burnout and sabotage everything you love. For my epic training to help you access your Feminine and make your relationships thrive click the link now. https://iam.laninalu.com/sacred-morning-formula
This is the 3rd and final part of my healing the collective Feminine series.
I'm so excited to talk about Wealth Consciousness today YEW!!! First things first, you are not successful if you have a great job and make great money AND you are burnout and overwhelmed. Making money and feeling shit means you have a huge, deadly problem. The reason this is the most common problem for women is because society's definition of a "successful woman" is... A woman who pushes in the masculine. BARF! We have not been offered the opportunity to receive pleasure, put ourselves first, feel ecstacy from being present in our body AND make money and be super successful in business. If you're not having fun, burnout is right around the corner sis. Do you wait until burnout to do something about it or will you be proactive? You absolutely can be in your Feminine, flow with ease, not take shit personal, have fun, and make shit tons of money. Step 1 is get in my Free community asap. Join here... https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup/
This is the second part of my 3 part series in healing the collective Feminine. I am sharing the medicine we need as a whole and individually... to release the sickness women have been carrying and passing on for generations. This sickness is a belief system full of shame, unworthiness, guilt, and fear. The number of women who have suffered through misscarriages, abortions, losing children and rape are insanely high. Yet no one talks about it and we just cover it up with more guilt and more shame. This shame is associated with our Feminine and sits right in our female sexual and reproductive organs. It is impossible to get unconditional love out of shame and guilt. Everyone knows that. Yet we continue to repeat the pattern. My intention for this episode is to offer you a new opportunity. Sis you deserve to heal. You deserve to receive pleasure. You deserve to be in your body while believing you are worthy AF. This epidemic is killing us and we must start by healing our Divine Feminie. When we are sick and weak it's much harder to resist absorbing nasty poisonous energy from others. When we are healthy and strong we can easily choose to not take shit personally, and say no without excuses, and only be available to absorb Divine Feminine loving energy. Please share this with women who need this peace and are ready to heal their Divine Feminine Sexual and Reproductive organs. Join my community today to begin absorbing positive feminine energy YEW https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup
I am so freaking excited for this episode! IT'S MY FAVOURITE ONE I'VE EVER RECORDED. My women are not the one's trolling and bringing other women down. My women are the ones who've been attacked for getting courageous and working on themselves... And because you do not have the self confidence to NOT take it personal... you hide away and play small for fear of being rejected again. It's so insane to me that we have ALL the tools available to us to learn self love at our fingertips and it's never been easier to break negative cycles... Yet insecure women who hate themselves are still trying to feed off one another by attacking their own kind. Their freaking sister's, their ohana. This epidemic of women feeding off each other by attacking one another has got to stop. I have made it my life's work to teach women HOW to trust themselves and how to trust infinite intelligence so they can truly be free of going outside themselves for power, love and validation. I am often asked... "How do you not take it personal when a woman trolls and calls you a whore." I explain my exact process that will inspire you so much to learn how to never take anything personal ever again. I am so confident and happy because I don't look to women who believe they are a whore for my self worth. Her words are a reflection of how much she hates herself... it has nothing to do with me. WOW! Complete freedom right. If you're inspired and ready to learn how to never take shit personal ever again join my free community now! https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup
Today I’m talking about how to be confident in real life!!!
Not the fake shit where we post a positive quote on Instagram when we feel insecure AF.
Not people pleasing so everyone likes us.
Not saying yes when we mean no because we’re deathly afraid of rejection.
I’m talking REAL LIFE CONFIDENCE.
I speak to so many women who are “successful” in the eyes of society and they are living life the way others think they should be living...
And their totally disconnected and angry inside.
Since when did this become the normal for women?
You have been given the same gift at birth that I was given.
The power to learn Confidence, Faith & Trust... and create the reality you want.
But first you gotta decide you’re done using your story to feel sorry for yourself and you must make the decision to be in the one place your Ego hates.
RIGHT HERE IN YOUR BODY IN THE PRESENT MOMENT.
No one can make that decision for you.
Anyone can make this decision so don’t gimme the “it’s too hard” crap.
Are you finally ready to use your gift as a tool?
Are you finally ready to use your free will to feel CONFIDENT?
If you answered yes to both come into my FREE Facebook group ASAP!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup
I have a master class happening that will blow your mind!
I am calling you out, because I am calling you up to your full potential.
What is your tribe telling you about your standards? Do the 5 people you hang out with the most have everything you want? What was the vibe of the last 5 messages you sent? I don't tell myself it's ok to be lazy, quit or give up and use the excuse... It's ok because I have so much time to get my shit together. I show up with a burning desire and unwavering faith every damn day because I already wasted 36 years turning my negative thoughts into their physical equivalent. If your dude, your friends, your job are negative and you're still there... it means you're getting something out of it. You're not ready to let go of the story that "This external negative thing is making me so unhappy." When you are truly ready to let go of that thought... staying in a negative environment is like drinking bleach. It's a HELL NO! Do you want to be the woman who says do what I say not what I do? Do you feel inspired by people who always complain and make excuses and then talk shit about other people making bad decisions? Of course not! Becoming the woman who has it all is so much easier than you think. Once you do it you'll see :) If you are ready to make a change and if you are serious about living up to your full potential join my free community now! I have life changing master classes for you to access in there TODAY!
Unwavering Faith is the only way to create and live the life of your dreams.
Of course it must be accompanied by taking action because laziness and fear do not move mountains. Whatever beliefs you are using right now will never get you to a new goal. If you keep driving from A to B and you say you want to get to Z... it ain't gonna happen by thinking and doing the same thing you're doing now. Faith is something anyone can learn. It's not easier for anyone else, it's not harder for you, it doesn't depend on how much money you have or how old you are. Learning Unwavering Faith comes from a deep burning desire to accomplish your goals. I literally changed my consciousness about money. For 37 years I practised poverty consciousness and then my desire to make an impact became so strong I finally learned wealth consciousness. This is the only reason I make so much money. I believe I deserve this abundance of money for the value I share. It is so freaking fun to live wealth consciously, obvi, but the desire can only come from you. If you're below baseline and need to heal before you start training and you're seriously ready to make a change in your life then join my free FB group now. If you know your Purpose and you're ready to take your wealth consciousness to 10k, 20k and 50k months then email me now lani@laninalu.com
Sister I have some really important questions that will help you immensely on your Bad Ass journey.
I do agree that everything seems confusing when we’re in our head, and. I know how it feels to want to do shit on your own…
It’s ok.
But girl lets just get honest with ourself shall we, because it’s ok to stay where you are and not be ready to let your past go…
But the insanity is when you complain about being overwhelmed and say you’re trying when the truth is YOU ARE NOT.
There is something beautiful about Divine Timing.
It’s either now, later, or never.
And the beautiful thing about consciousness is as we live more and more in our body we don’t sabotage and only get our shit together when our back is against the wall.
I uplevel because I have so much energy, so much love for my family, and because I’m so happy.
I don’t have to wait until my back is against a wall to show up, and I sure as shit don’t sabotage when everything is going EPIC.
If the time for you is now, and you are no longer willing to accept doing nothing about your problems then girl you gotta get in my free Facebook community NOW!
I hope you're ready to talk dirty about money today sis!
I'm gonna drop a bomb on you right now.... The amount of money you have in your bank account has nothing to do with how rich you FEEL. Money has nothing to do with scarcity. I'm also getting super vulnerable about sexual energy and how I overcame the shame and trauma I carried that really messed me up in all my relationships because... THEY ARE CONNECTED. I believe we were put here to make an impact. I believe we are worthy of having it all. I believe you have so much potential and you can do ANYTHING you put your mind to if you simply make the decision to focus on the woman you are becoming. So.... Do you want to be powered by the darkness or do you want to be powered by the light? If you choose the light, get into my FREE group yesterday YEW. Join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup/
Today I'm doing something different. We are starting off with a simple exercise to calm your mind and get into your body. In case you were wondering you can only make bad decisions when you are in your head and freaking out and worrying about a million things. I have always known that I was put here for greatness. I've always known that my life's Purpose was to help others. I knew I would be speaking to thousands of people, changing lives, on stage, travelling the World, and making an impact. Yet I was 36, hiding, playing small, and settling for NOT being a leader. I was wasting my most precious resource.... time. I was wasting my freaking life. You either know you were put here to fulfill your destiny and live your Purpose and you show up for the greater good. Or you sit back and fully accept that you are choosing to be OK with freaking settling. I know that every woman has insane powers and a destiny to fulfill. And I am only interested in hanging out with the ones that are freaking do it! If you are a Bad Ass and you're serious about learning how to embrace your super power of being a leader and making an impact then join my mind blowing community of Wonder Women today. It's free. It's epic. And it's bursting with women who are changing the World. https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup
Girl I am in Dubai and feeling so much joy, inspiration, and love! I swear on everything having it all is freaking simple. Are you worthy enough to not waste your time? It doesn't have to be hard and exhausting and miserable. When I was miserable I wasted so much time making things so much freaking harder for myself. I couldn't focus on what I was doing for more than a few minutes because I was too busy being a dick in my head and obsessing about what I couldn't do haha. Dude I made so many shitty choices when I was in my freaking head. You can keep using the same poor me excuses or you can take a cue from the Bad Ass women who do have it all... and decide that you actually are worthy of getting support and healing. You have the potential, you have the opportunity. Let's freaking do this! Yew! Join my FREE community and get mind blowing Lani Masterclasses that will rock your world today!
Because I always deliver... here is some serious inspo to start 2021 with ALL THE FEMININE ENERGY!!! Kirsty was on welfare and making $500 a month. Mumma of 2 she just left another failed relationship and felt hopeless and alone. Kirsty had done soooo much "spiritual" work it's crazy. Shamans, South America, meditations, reiki, energy work, drum circles. She wasn't miserable from lack of taking action. Kirsty was on meds for an autoimmune disease and she was disconnected from Spirit which is crazy because when you feel her RADICAL energy you'll have a hard time believing she was so negative and unwell. Kirsty got the foundation she's been searching for her whole life in our Purpose Program and upleveled to our Navy Seal Program 5 months ago. Kirsty is kicking so much ass you have to listen to this episode to hear it for yourself. She's just had her biggest month in December pulling in $7,659 US dolla dolla bills y'all. Women it is time to rise TF up and own what is rightfully yours! We are not small, weak, broke, hopeless beings. We are Queens put here to heal the World. Money is just energy and you are made of energy so learn how to change your limiting beliefs into abundant beliefs and you'll be flying high with the rest of us Bad Asses! The first step is to join my FREE community where I do mind blowing Master Classes once a week, along with the Lani Nalu Coaches sharing their favourite tools. I believe in you sis! YEWWW.
Sister this is our last episode of 2020 holy freaking moly! I am so honoured and blessed to share this energy with you.
I promised we'd go out of 2020 with a bang so get ready to feel love rocket fuel up the bum haha. The normal process is to pick a goal to declare for your New Year's resolution... and then never do anything about it. The typical woman is wired to gather, and split her focus in a million different directions. Accept when she is sabotaging! That bitch has laser focus when she is obsessed with a horrible plan to self sabotage. That one track mind hits hard. This is exactly how I found myself so deep in the miserable rabbit hole of getting myself into the worst situation of my life. We are witches and we have unlimited power! Everything is energy. I am going to blow your mind in this episode. The time is now! 2020 is over and the need for you to get into your body and learn self belief is greater than ever. Your first step is to join my FREE community right now. I believe in you sister. Happy freaking New Year's YEWWW!
In difficult times where we are challenged and stretched to the max we must meet the fear with COURAGE.
We are strong enough! And right now the World has enough women running around led by fear. Fight or flight does not serve us sister. We must be in our body, connected to our Feminine, rising with each other. I am so blessed. I appreciate this every freaking day. So here's what I'm doing about it. I have a FREE community with over 1,000 women and my standards are sky high. Which means, authenticity, love, Divine Feminine Energy, and I am going Santa Clause on your ass and giving away INCREDIBLE GIFTS for the next 5 days. You have a chance to start feeling happy about the holidays and 100% supported right now! You have access to me as I am doing this mind blowing Christmas Master Class LIVE! And you will 100% feel so much stronger, happier and energized after every sesh. Being a woman is a damn super power and there is no way I'm going to let you forget it! We were born for this! Courage is the only way for us to all heal and rise up together. I believe in you sister! Let's do this YEW!
Sister I know times are hard. I understand if you're feeling stressed and overwhelmed.
Life is challenging right now. I've been the Scrooge who hated Christmas and felt so out of control and anxious about the holidays. Christmas used to mean "emotional breakdown" to me. I recorded this episode to help you have the best Christmas and holiday season ever!!! I'm sharing how I went from anxious, lonely and miserable to LOVE crying because I feel so happy! The ego wants me to say that you can't be happy because you're single or broke or because your family is crazy. That's all bullshit. It's so simple! It's so mind blowing! And if you really want to you can have the best holiday season of your life. I can teach a 5 year old how to override their ego so I am 100% confident I can teach you too. There's enough negativity and complaining happening now. Choose different. Choose the light. It's sooooo bad ass! I believe in you. Love Lani xx
It’s December 2020 and I am going out with a BANG!
I would absolutely love to have you by my side.
Today I’m guiding you on a journey to go super deep, and finally start living the life of your dreams.
We tend to think if it’s not perfect it’s not right. If it stretches us it’s bad.
Yet we stay in toxic, unhealthy, unfulfilling relationships and jobs and we enable ourselves by acting like we’re not part of the Great creation of Mama Universe.
Even if I dropped the most amazing man in your lap right now, you’d still be unhappy. Because you don’t know how to receive unconditional love.
You’d sabotage it sister.
Same with money. Same with your body.
You can’t receive more than you believe you are worth.
2020 has been the best year of my life, even though it’s been the most challenging.
I feel like a lionessa made out of the Universe roaring with wild fire made of Pure Divine Love.
Not because I’m perfect. Because I TRUST in the Greater Good.
What are you waiting for sis?
If you feel your soul opening and you’re done waiting... then come to my free workshop today! https://workshops.laninalu.com/new-ws
Let’s get this ball rolling so you can leave 2020 with a bang along side me.
I believe in you! https://workshops.laninalu.com/new-ws
This is part 2 to last week's episode because it helped everyone so freaking much. Life without ego, what a freakin concept right. It's actually possible to not give in to every crappy ego thought that you have. It's possible to let painful things from the past go. It's possible to know you are enough right freaking now. It may be a completely foreign concept to you right now and that's OK. No one ever breaks the habit of self sabotage and self punishment by practicing awareness and self control once. HELLO! We don't do 1 sit up and get a six pack. We don't go for 1 run and then try out for the Olympics. The laws of the Universe apply to energy the same as they apply to everything else in the World. Making the choice to not give in to ego in this moment is a huge freaking win! It's the beginning of a life of love and peace. A life of knowing we are the Universe and the Universe is us. I should mention you can't fool the Universe. It doesn't matter how many times you journal or meditate... when you show up and manifest from a place of lack because you feel something is missing YOU WILL ALWAYS PUSH WHATEVER YOU WANT AWAY. If you're struggling right now it's because you're possessed by ego. It's not because you're not worthy of having it all. This is your last chance to get our once in a lifetime Black Friday offer! https://purpose.laninalu.com/black-friday Don't let this be another regret on your list.
title : Ego always feels a sense of loss
I felt amazing when I first moved to Bali. Then the feeling of not having as much money as I wanted dropped in deep. I felt a sense of loss. I became a more well known yoga teacher. My classes were full. I was booked at high end resorts like The Ritz, and I was raising my prices. Ya girl started making more money. I felt amazing. Then the feeling of not having a man dropped in deep. I felt a sense of loss. This characterized my life. Up then down. Fulfilled then empty. Amazing then loss. I thought I felt this way because I didn't have everything my ego asked for. So I'd always go back to the drawing board and make a plan that consisted of working brutally hard to get the "thing." But every time like clockwork I'd get the thing, feel amazing for a short while and then that deep, empty feeling of loss would drop in hard. Truth Bomb... The ego will always feel a sense of loss. Maybe not when I arrive in Bali, or when I'm making love. But it always rears it's ugly little head very soon after. My approach of getting outside things to fulfill my soul never worked. I actually hit rock bottom after leaving an abusive marriage. Which I entered into with my own free will thinking it would cure my sense of loss. To finally feel unconditional love and take action for the Greater Good, instead of to get the "thing" I had to shift my journey inward. I had to learn how to fully trust the Universe and how to believe deep in my soul I AM AND HAVE ALWAYS BEEN ENOUGH. Alan Watts explains it so beautifully... "As the ocean "waves" the universe "peoples." Every individual is an expression of the whole realm of nature, a unique action of the total universe." The fact is we're primed for worst case scenario, separation, loss, and disconnection. Yet we all have the opportunity to feel safe in our body, connect to the universe, manifest from the Divine Feminine, and release the ego's constant state of unhappiness and loss. If you're ready to learn exactly how I did this you gotta come to my free online workshop.
This is my first podcast ever with a mom and daughter! And they're my clients. Two Queen's literally making this World better and I am so freaking excited for you to listen!
When Tanisha came into Purpose she had just gotten herself out of an abusive relationship.
What Tanisha needed next was some help to make sure it never happened again. She called mama Tanya straight away and was like "you have to join The Purpose Program with me!" Together they have completely shifted from anxious, depressed and miserable AF to Empowered, Bad Ass Queens living their best life. Both of them suffered badly from depression and thought it was like a shoe size and they were stuck with it for life. Within the first few days both of them were able to sleep and wake up feeling peaceful. No more horrible suffocating anxiety. Before Purpose their relationship was codependent and fueled by "poor me" complaining. Mama Tanya was trying to save Tanisha. Tanisha wanted a way to take her power back. They were trapped in a negative loop... until they came into Purpose. Mama T is 59 years young and has never freaking felt better in her entire life! She has forgiven herself for things she's been carrying for 30 freaking years! She's motivated, energized and her and Tanya now lift each other up. Mama Tanya has broken the ancestral cycle. No more abuse!!! Tanisha is a freaking powerhouse going after her dreams! She's living her Purpose, taking action from Love and knows she can absolutely do anything. No more settling in a soul sucking job. Tanisha knows her damn worth and is already helping her clients do the same! WTF in 3 months these women have left their dog shit behind and taken life by the balls! Their connection and love is so beautiful and so inspiring! Every single one of us wants a loving, healthy, harmonious relationship with our mom. These two are goals all day long! We absolutely can change. We absolutely can feel freaking amazing! But we have to be willing to do shit that feels uncomfortable for the ego. Nothing great comes from the comfort zone.
This episode is so amazing I can't even. Avi Kabani is the only guest to be on the podcast twice, he was one of my first guests ever! Avi reached out with the intention of creating a conversation around sex, sex in the media, and sexual art. How can we help people? And are there specific rules we can give someone to follow in order to connect more deeply and more sacredly to their sexuality? There is so much juice in here I feel like you'll be able to come back to this episode over and over and get something new and epic out of it every time. Avi and I have both experienced sexual pain in the past. Our intention is to use it to bring harmony to the now. This is not a conversation of perfect humans on a pedestal who know it all. This is real talk where we explore what it looks like in day to day life, in sexual relationships, and in social media for the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine to rise. You can find Avi on instagram @avi\_kabani
Time to get real and actually own your shit. When I was suicidal, awake at 3am like a freaking crack head because I had so much anxiety, and so was miserable I wanted to go into the darkness... I believed that I was a victim of all my circumstances, I had no control over if men abused me, no control over being broke, no control over not sleeping for months. I was 100% POWERLESS! Literally I experienced Divine Intervention and some fucking light dropped in my soul. The awareness that no one actually held a gun to my head and made me do anything. I may have chosen from fear and dog shit but I did choose and the lit me up so hard, I was vibrating with light. I swallowed the pill that I had exactly what I deserved. And since I wanted things to be a whole lot different I put in the reps to change myself. Raise my vibe. Stop being a lazy fuck who didn't try that complained about being a loser. I am making an impact and it feels phenomenal. We're only about $1,000 away from saving our second child's life so if you haven't bought your ticket to Rosie's workshop this weekend let's go https://workshops.laninalu.com/forrosie When I was powerless and a victim of life I was offended by the truth that I had exactly what I deserved. Today, it makes me feel all warm and cozy and totally supported knowing that I have exactly what I deserve. It's always in my power to connect to Source, plug into ONENESS and feel harmony. I absolutely have certainty that I choose my vibe. The ego will freak the fuck out when you decide to be in the one place you can truly feel harmony. But that doesn't mean it has to be dramatic or miserable. If you're ready to learn how to be in control of your happiness you gotta come to my FREE online workshop! You don't have to do this alone sister. I believe in you.
I did a post about having some really exciting news and women were asking if I was pregnant. That's how excited I am about this haha. No, I'm not pregnant but damn girl I'm birthing something EPIC. I'm doing a mind blowing workshop that will change your life! I'm so freaking pumped to support you I can't even! I'm donating ALL proceeds to Operation Underground Railroad in Rosie's honour. We have already raised $4,600 from this workshop. We're so close to saving 2 childrens lives I can feel it through my whole soul! The ticket is only $97 and if you buy your ticket now you'll get to join a once in a lifetime call with the amazing Development Manager from O.U.R who will share with us the most powerful rescues they've been able to make with our donations! If you're waiting to get your shit together before you get my help think about how silly that is. I'm the best woman to help you so let's freaking go! I am gifting you the tools to save your freaking self AND live up to your full potential. No more settling. Queens live their Purpose with Passion AND kick ass. The meditations I'm gifting you alone are worth $300 and I'm offering you so much more! Click the link now to make sure you get in! https://workshops.laninalu.com/forrosie If you feel disconnected, misunderstood and you know your true essence is BAD ASS...
Then you have to come to my workshop, learn my strategies, feel my energy, and drink up the love and support of women just like you who have already done it! 46 tickets have already been sold do not procrastinate on this. There's no magic. You have to choose to be a Bad Ass. I believe in you!
I used to be obsessed with being skinny and pretty because I was certain my body determined my self worth. From my personal experience and the thousands and thousands of women I've spoken to, they believe the same thing. I recorded this podcast because when I stopped believing my body was ME, and I stopped obsessing with the freaking tip of the iceberg, everything changed! Literally think of your physical body and what you look like on the outside as the tip of the iceberg. 10% of the iceberg is above the water. No matter how much you obsess over the 10% it will never ever ever give you what you're saying you want. The most important part of the iceberg is below the water. The essence of the iceberg is unseen! the answer is the 90% under the freaking water. DAMN! Body positivity is NOT obsessing and constantly posting and talking about what you look like. Constantly obsessing over how much you "love your body" outwardly is NOT body positivity. Dude women don't come into my program and work with me because of my body. Obsessing is not love. Yes we have a body, duh, we sleep, eat and poop. And we put a number on a scale when we weigh ourselves. That is the shallow, surface, 10%. There is no way that the 10% can ever characterise your true essence and your depth. We can't see with our eyes the depth of us as humans. We can't see the 90%. The 90% is between us and God. The best way to check in if you're embodied is to be aware of how you feel. What's the essence of your post, and the women you follow. It's not inspiring, it's actually hurting, when you read posts from other women, and do posts yourself from a place of shallow, surface, tip of the iceberg energy. Soul love is deep under the water and so freaking powerful. The energy is grounded and it feels peaceful even when shit outwardly maybe going wild. It's not the words or the pictures that are outwardly spoken. It's the energy and essence underneath. It's unseen. Feel it baby.
If you feel overwhelmed and powerless when people around you are super negative then this episode is for you! It's 2017 and I'm living in Queensland, Australia. I get the news that my besties and fellow yoga teachers in Bali sold my part of the business and kept the money. I spiraled! It triggered a super painful memory I had with my family member and business partner a few years earlier when I lived in Orange County where the same thing happened. And I'm living in a fucking nightmare, scared for my damn life and hiding it from everyone. It feels like I'm getting hit with one upper cut from Mike Tyson after another. I go to my therapy session triggered AF. Feeling so sorry for myself. Jumping between being so mad I wanted to beat everyone's ass, and so depressed I was sleeping for 15 hours at a time and couldn't eat. I tell her this... "People go out of their way to hurt me." I believed that the World was out to get me and that dark feeling of being a target AND having no one to count on was killing me. I could not get out of my head. I could not stop thinking about everything that everyone had done to me to ruin my life. And I sure as shit could not focus on anything other than all the negativity. Holy shit balls my outlook on The Universe and people could not be more opposite today.
I'm so excited for you to listen. This is going to change the game for you sister.
Dude I almost quit coaching twice. It was really freaking hard. I felt like I was a failure. When I got rejected I would lose it. Tears, screams, threatening to quit and poor Chris took the wrath. My hero's journey has been insane and I've gone through so many challenges. Which is what makes it so great. Chris and I ended 2018 at $36,000 in revenue. And we spent over $20,000 on coaches. We were in debt. My unworthy beliefs got even stronger, and I was 2 seconds away from quitting and throwing in the towel as a coach once and for all. I was going to go back to teaching yoga and stay comfortable and unfulfilled. Less than 2 years later we are on track to end 2020 at $750k. I believe we'll finish 2020 even higher as we've just invested to take our business to the next level. I thought that messing up and not being perfect meant I wasn't cut out to be a coach. I wanted everything to happen instantly. And my mindset was all fucked up because I wanted to do 1 Facebook post and get a million clients. My appetite for drama was freaking huge and I made everything so difficult for myself. It took me hours to do shit I can do in minutes today. I'm spilling how I overcame self sabotage and stopped quitting on myself. How we went from breaking up every week and almost quitting the business to a completely fulfilled and growing like wildfire in every area of our lives.
Oh my gawd us chicks loooove a good drama sandwich. When there's nothing wrong we'll find something to fight about!
We'll think of something that hurt our feelings, we'll compare ourselves to a woman who's "better" than us so we can feel like shit.
We'll find a way to bring in the drama haha.
I get it and there ain't an ounce of judgement because I have an ego same as everyone else.
I recorded this episode because society has brainwashed us to think of happiness and consciousness as "If you're not perfect you're fucked."
Which is crazy because am I enlightened or perfect... Absolutely not.
And my life is so much more peaceful, my gratitude is off the chain, my relationship is mind blowing, and our business is freaking rocking.
Imagine if I started my conscious journey and gave up because I'm not Buddah. WTF!
I've experienced so much juice in my conscious journey and my soul is so full of peace and love.
And next year it will be flooded even more with the Divine. I'm not fulfilled because I'm enlightened or perfect.
I'm fulfilled because every day I feel more peace and spend more time right here right now!
Life is so beautiful, it's such a freaking blessing. A blessing that can only be felt when you stop thinking about shit you don't want.
I'm so stoked to share this with you sis. It absolutely changed my life!
I always get... "Lani how do I know if I'm being a judgemental bitch and picking on my partner or if I'm settling for a crappy relationship?" It sounds so crazy that grown ass women don't know how to answer this for themselves, but I was there too. I used to cry in the shower and ask God to just tell me what to do. My prayers also included... "If I'm meant to be with him forever and be miserable then I'll stay." I don't know how much clearer it could have been to me Jesus! I'm miserable. Should I stay? What the actual fuck. When did our collective consciousness as women drop so low that we need someone else to tell us to leave an unfulfilling relationship? Women truly think that if someone just told them the answer their life would be great. Which is total BS because the problem is not your man sis, the problem is your low level of consciousness. Your romantic relationship or lack thereof, is a direct reflection of your consciousness. You have exactly what you're attracted to. If you didn't get something out of it, you wouldn't be in it. Women love to tell me "But Lani he's a good man." And they freaking complain about him.
I speak so highly of Chris behind his back. I don't question if he's the one. I don't make excuses for him. I don't put him down and I definitely don't complain about him holding me back. Instead of asking... Why are all these things wrong with him? Focus on why you're attracted to someone you complain about and judge. Focus on your level of consciousness because this is the root sis. I believe in you!
The simplest way to measure happiness and self love is your body.
Dude you'll spin your wheels forever trying to fix side effects and you'll never ever solve the root problem. It's like having termites and obsessing over cleaning up those little balls they make, but never doing anything about the damn termites. Eventually your house comes down. The body only has 1 master and that's the mind. Nothing is random. Not acne, not insomnia, not disease, nothing. Your body is telling you that your feelings of worthlessness are what's making you sick. The actual sickness is just a side effect. Like the termite ball thingys. Of course we always want the easy way out, we always want the path of least resistance, we always want to blame something else for our physical manifestations. It's such a blow to the ego to admit "I have dog shit standards, no boundaries, and no self worth." You're not alone, we all hate admitting that haha. But you do have a choice. You can choose to accept your body's alarm and learn HOW to freaking love yourself. Self love equals a healthy strong body that feels really freaking amazing. Alarms only go off when self hatred is trespassing.
Dude this is my favorite episode so far!
Which is epic because it confirms I am always growing and I have so much more love and energy to share every week. And I'm talking about something so close to my heart. Get ready to be inspired AF! I know everyone's ego thinks it's easier for me because I'm with my soul mate King Chris, we're rich, and our business is thriving and growing every month. It's definitely not easier for me sis. I can literally chalk up my success to the fact that I MAKE A FUCKING MOVE. I don't talk about doing shit and never do it. I don't do something until I get bored and then quit. I'm not secretly waiting for someone to save me. Last week I launched a fundraiser in honour of my soul sis Rosie who passed away in a car accident at 37 years young. My original goal was to raise $12,000 to save a child's life from sex slavery through Operation Underground Railroad. We raised $9,000 in 2 days so my new goal is to save as many children as possible. Here's the link to donate https://my.ourrescue.org/fundraisers/lani-nalu-fundraiser-in-rosies-memory Have you ever donated a substantial amount that actually makes a difference? Have you ever saved a child's life from being brutally raped 10 times a day? Most are sold by their parents btw, so even if they do get rescued they have no parents to keep them safe. The problem is... everyone is waiting for someone else to donate. Waiting for someone else to volunteer, waiting for someone else to help these children. I got news for you sis. If you are not helping these kids you are hurting them. Chris and I are so rich and successful because we share so much kindness, we donate so much money, and we gift so much of our time. If you refuse to donate $5 right now, there's no way if you do happen to get rich you'll donate $3,000 with ease, or use your energy to help save kids' lives. The moment to make a move is right now. The brilliant part is you are in charge of that. To me this is the definition of EMPOWERING. If you are ready to make a move your first step is to come to my FREE online workshop so I can teach you HOW. Click the link and sign up now! http://purpose.laninalu.com/workshop-purpose
I believe in you.
I was the queen of excuses, which means I was the queen of enabling.. and that is freaking evil. I have been investing in self development for almost a decade girl... SOOOO WTF! Why did I walk into a deadly marriage. Why was I insecure AF, jealous, sick, exhausted, burnt out, and BROKE? Literally I would have rather died than be rejected by anyone. Especially people I didn't even like. It is so mind blowing the way our freaking ego spins these bull shit excuses into reasons why it's not our fault. That's an excuse by the way. If anything other than "Fuuuuuck me, I'm responsible for where I am and what I have" comes out of our mouth it's an excuse. This leads straight into making excuses for others. Especially the ones we say we love the most. It's really freaking mean to enable because it's not for their own good. It's for your own good. When it gets too hard, too uncomfortable & when we're just too exhausted and don't have the energy or self worth to speak truth with love and respect... We drop our standards and make excuses. We reinforce to the person we say we love so dearly, that they can't do it anyway so settle. Settle for an unfulfilling relationship. Settle for being a victim. Settle for being broke. Settle for being exhausted. Settle for being sick. Settle for living a life and never sharing what you were put here to truly gift the Earth. Excuses are fucking deadly. I know that Chris and I have become, and continue to become, so successful in every area of our life because we take responsibility and call ourselves out with love. And then take action to make the necessary changes to grow... Every freaking day. Join my Free Workshop Today: https://purpose.laninalu.com/free-workshop
Girl we are taking it back to the basics! The mind and body are 1, yet they are treated like 2 different things that have nothing to do with each other. WTF.
Sleep and nutrition have an insane impact on our mental health. Putting your intention on healing the basics can help anxiety, and depression so much because those are just side effects of a deeper problem.
Our body turns on the alarm and tells us when shit is not working. Feeling unwell is the body acting out of love and saying "Make some damn changes."
But we act like it's super complicated, and tell ourselves "How can I possibly figure out how to eat and sleep in a loving way."
It's so simple it's scary first of all, and when you truly care about feeling amazing you put the work in.
I've been on both sides. I've done crazy, harmful stuff to "heal" which is so weird that we believe we have to self harm to be happy.
Most recently, when I left the abusive marriage my body was banging and I looked smoking hot in a bikini, yet I was so full of anxiety, depression, insomnia, and so insecure it was like a broken down car that doesn't work but it has a fresh coat of paint on the outside.
I don't care what you weigh or what size you are, I want to know how you feel.
What your daily experience of life feels like.
There's only one way to truly heal and continue growing to feel more love and fulfilment every day, and that is healing your mindset because this is the only place your body takes orders from.
I am dropping my secret weapon for success in this episode.
Dude we love to over complicate shit and psych ourselves out by using broken systems to measure our success.
I used to start my day already believing I was stupid, worthless, and an idiot.
I'd compare myself to Tony Robbins, Eckhart Tolle & fucking Buddha. Of course I would never measure up.
Success is something we all crave. The ego was built to compare, judge and feel less than.
To truly live up to your full potential is not be perfect or have everyone else tell you you're successful.
Success is an inside job. Your fulfilment is between you and God. I guarantee when you're taking your last breath... a bag of diamonds isn't going to give you satisfaction.
Love, connection and the people you care about the most is what will matter.
Rosie is teaching us to feel heaven on Earth right now. I recorded this episode for Rosie and Jonathan, our beautiful guardian angels. I was praying for their infinite path of light journey and I asked the Universe and Rosie, if she and Jonathan are flying together. The wind started flying wild, the trees were dancing, the wind was so strong and I knew it was them soaring through the heavens together, shining their love on us. Rosie is an infinite energy of love and she's showering us with it. Rosie is sharing her inspiration and compassion with us and I believe this is just the beginning. Rosie has come through to let the hundreds of women just in my program, know she's ok. She's giving us signs all day and we feel her energy so strong. My beautiful client and soul sister Ciara 's beautiful angel baby Indie was born sleeping. As you can imagine this broke Ciara's heart. Ciara has seen Rosie holding Indie twice in her meditations. How amazing is that. Miracle is the only word I can use. Rosie's brother Andres sent me photos of the magnificent rainbows she filled the sky with just before her celebration of life ceremony. A florescent pink sky and rainbow right over her parents house! Rosie is still bringing us love and peace and she's just getting started. I believe if you're listening now Rosie is inspiring you to start living and having the time of your life. To start doing the things that are important to you. To start giving your energy to the things that are important to you. Life is a sacred gift. Live like Rosie did cherishing it and growing every day. She was doing everything she wanted to do.
What if this was your last day alive?
Would you feel gratitude and love or fear and regret? I ask women "Where will you be in 10 years if you don't change? Where will you be in 20 years if you don't change? How will you feel on your deathbed if you don't change?" What if you didn't have 10 years, 20 years, or 50 years? What if today was your last day to live. My beautiful soul sister Rosie was 37 years old. She passed away on Friday. As humans we only want to take part in the "good" emotions. Which is impossible. Every living being has a life cycle which includes birth and death. My beautiful Rosie chose love. She had past pain the same as everyone else. She could have blamed her ex or her parents for her unhappiness same as everyone else, yet she chose to have faith in God. On Rosie's last day she shared love. She shared compassion and kindness. She made the World better. Rosie inspires us to treat life as the sacred gift that it is. If this was your last day alive what would you be sharing?
The shit I have done in 1 single year will blow anyone's mind! I seriously know anything is possible because I am doing it.
Change happens so fast when we commit and take responsibility for where we are and what we have. A year ago I put these goals I've reached in my meditations and on my visions board. I invested some serious money and time in coaches who'd already done it and told me it was possible... and my mind is still blown that I have created the most beautiful life with my King, making bank, changing lives, feeling healthy and strong, and traveling the World. I was suicidal and broken just a few years ago! I'm not special. I'm not perfect. I am committed to showing up, giving it my all and I take feedback like a freaking boss. My coach says jump, I jump 3 times! No one is holding you back sister. You get to do, and live, and be anyone you freaking want! Free workshop: https://purpose.laninalu.com/free-workshop
Sister the only freaking roadblocks in your life are yours. You have literally put them there. It's true that you're usually not aware of your own "I cant's" because they are your subconscious blueprints so you don't see them with your conscious eyeballs. My blueprint is literally I CAN FUCKING DO ANYTHING! When there is a brick wall I don't say... Oh there's a wall. I can't. BARF! I say "Gimme a fuckin tractor so I can knock this bitch down, I have shit to do!" I don't question the Universe and I don't act like I'm reinventing the wheel dude. I will find someone who knows how, and do it even faster than they did. There are no rules. The only limits you have are the ones you put on yourself. Where are you limiting yourself? And if you had no limits and no rules what's that look like? Who would you reach out to for help? Who would call to learn from? What can you do right now if you believe anything is possible? You won't ever get today back sis. The time to start the race is NOW!
I was not born with more enery than you. I'm powered by Mother Earth b*tches!
Everything in my life is so beautiful! Chris and I have done $154k cash sales in the last 2 months. We've gotten more mind blowing life changing results in our programs than ever before. We're buying our first home. We're getting ready to travel as restrictions from Covid lift. We feel healthier, stronger & more confident than ever. I feel more connected to my higher power and Source Energy. My heart is flooded with unconditional love & support from Source and my beautiful guardian angels. Special shout out to my grams It's not complicated. It's not too big. The reason I have so much success is because of 1 simple foundation. I know how to access all my energy. I've created an energy process that is so simple & so profound, the only way it doesn't work is if you don't do it. Energy is a skill that must be learnt, it's not a given like your shoe size. And like any skill the more you practice it the better you get! Receive a bonus of $250 and join the 1,000's of women who are waking up excited to live their life because it's full of magic and Purpose. Join Today - https://energy.laninalu.com/info
Oh my gosh I am sharing the inside scoop with you! This is exactly how my clients have skyrocketed this week and are fully living in their magic. I think of the areas that are important to me as living breathing entities that need my attention, time, love, energy and care continuously... to truly thrive. Say that the areas of your life that are important are all gardens. A few of my areas are spirituality, relationships, and my body. The old Lani's gardens were all desolate and dead and I would beg for one little flower petal here and there. I would get a garden started, meaning I'd start working on one area of my life like relationships. And then I'd totally abandon it to the point where it would get so bad the entire thing would be deader than dead. And I'd have to totally start over. Which is exhausting and miserable. What a freaking waste of time! When you look at my gardens they are ALL thriving. So your ego says "Lani's lucky it's easier for her." That's Bull shit. I have put in the ground work and decided I would no longer settle for a garden that only had cock roaches in it. BARF! Yes it takes time, focus and energy to change but the payoff is so freaking big that we could never regret doing the work. I'm here to open your mind to infinite possibilities so you challenge your ego and stop settling for a dead ass garden! You can do it sister. I believe in you! If you're ready to grow your magical garden you must come to my free online workshop. Click the link to sign up today. Let's go sis, now is the time YEWWW!
Oh my gosh I am sharing the inside scoop with you! This is exactly how my clients have skyrocketed this week and are fully living in their magic. I think of the areas that are important to me as living breathing entities that need my attention, time, love, energy and care continuously... to truly thrive. Say that the areas of your life that are important are all gardens. A few of my areas are spirituality, relationships, and my body. The old Lani's gardens were all desolate and dead and I would beg for one little flower petal here and there. I would get a garden started, meaning I'd start working on one area of my life like relationships. And then I'd totally abandon it to the point where it would get so bad the entire thing would be deader than dead. And I'd have to totally start over. Which is exhausting and miserable. What a freaking waste of time! When you look at my gardens they are ALL thriving. So your ego says "Lani's lucky it's easier for her." That's Bull shit. I have put in the ground work and decided I would no longer settle for a garden that only had cock roaches in it. BARF! Yes it takes time, focus and energy to change but the payoff is so freaking big that we could never regret doing the work. I'm here to open your mind to infinite possibilities so you challenge your ego and stop settling for a dead ass garden! You can do it sister. I believe in you! If you're ready to grow your magical garden you must come to my free online workshop. Click the link to sign up today. Let's go sis, now is the time YEWWW!
Sister you are the only one in charge of your energy! This is the hidden secret society doesn't want us to know. A woman who is empowered, and deeply knows she's worthy, and therefore has access to all of her energy... can not be controlled! And if we can't be controlled we're dangerous AF. I know you're attracted to me because of my ENERGY which means you know what's possible when you are dropped into heart center and connected to Mother Earth. Women we are freaking unstoppable! We are powerful beyond what we've been told to believe we can't do. I am living proof! We did $81k in revenue for the month of May, had the highest amount of money and time donated throughout all our programs, and had the most miraculous client wins. All just 2 years after people laughed to my face when I told them my dreams. After all my spiritual coaches in Bali told me we don't make money because we're spiritual, don't cuss because it's low vibe, don't dance sexy you're showing off, don't put photos of you in your bikini on your website because you'll make women feel bad. Everyone told me being me was "too much" and "bad." And because I didn't have enough energy I didn't do anything about it. I freaking walked myself into the slaughterhouse of life like a sheep. I'm not special. I just decided to learn how to create my own energy and fuck shit up!
If you don't have enough energy, you can't even do the shit you like. Accessing your energy is the first step.
Sister you are the only one in charge of your energy! This is the hidden secret society doesn't want us to know. A woman who is empowered, and deeply knows she's worthy, and therefore has access to all of her energy... can not be controlled! And if we can't be controlled we're dangerous AF. I know you're attracted to me because of my ENERGY which means you know what's possible when you are dropped into heart center and connected to Mother Earth. Women we are freaking unstoppable! We are powerful beyond what we've been told to believe we can't do. I am living proof! We did $81k in revenue for the month of May, had the highest amount of money and time donated throughout all our programs, and had the most miraculous client wins. All just 2 years after people laughed to my face when I told them my dreams. After all my spiritual coaches in Bali told me we don't make money because we're spiritual, don't cuss because it's low vibe, don't dance sexy you're showing off, don't put photos of you in your bikini on your website because you'll make women feel bad. Everyone told me being me was "too much" and "bad." And because I didn't have enough energy I didn't do anything about it. I freaking walked myself into the slaughterhouse of life like a sheep. I'm not special. I just decided to learn how to create my own energy and fuck shit up!
If you don't have enough energy, you can't even do the shit you like. Accessing your energy is the first step.
Ok sister I'm gonna hit you with the most important question of all...
Who would you be if you knew you were good enough?
In this episode I go deep into the path of believing we're unworthy, stupid, disgusting, broken and exhausted... so we settle.
We settle for less than we were meant to be & share.
Versus the road of light.
Where we're never expected to be perfect, as that's non existent, we get to choose to live in our heart where life is sacred and so much freaking fun.
We become part of the rhythm of The Universe.
Growing, stretching, getting stronger, sharing love, and blowing our own damn mind.
A woman who believes she's not enough takes neutral texts and questions and makes them into an enemy that's personally attacking her.
She makes problems where there are none.
And most devastating of all.... She's so afraid to be rejected & fail she never even tries to be the courageous Bad Ass Woman she was born to be.
This is deadly for everyone.
Racism and COVID-19 are external triggers that you can't avoid anymore.
This is our opportunity to stop accepting what we've been told we can't do.
And start healing ourselves so we can be the positive change the World so desperately needs right now.
Are you part of the problem, or are you part of the solution? I decided to record an episode sharing all the tools that I've been sharing with my clients this week. The most common things that came up were guilt for not doing enough, fear of doing and saying the wrong thing, and feeling like the problem is too big and making a change will take too much energy. On the most basic level a disempowered woman can help no one. If you are not in control of your thoughts, or your energy. And if your own temple is a freaking disaster and you can't even take care of yourself... and you don't have enough energy to get your shit together then it is impossible to be part of the solution. If you have enough energy you can take action that creates positive change, you can take feedback, and you can take rejection. Are you coming from your head or are you coming from your heart? When you learn how to feel empowered you connect to the Universe and you bet your ass you know how to share energy, how to treat people the way you want to be treated, and how to freaking be kind. The system is broken. Fact. We can make the change. Fact. The first step is empowering yourself.
I recorded this episode because I'm part of the change. George Floyd's death was horrifying, we can no longer tolerate racism. We must do better. We can do something about this now. We can be the change. An empowered doesn't hurt other's. It's no longer ok to say "not my problem" or my "unhappiness is not affecting anyone else." Just like Chris said to me 2 years ago... "If you are not helping them you are hurting them." Yes it takes energy to make these changes. If you are broke, exhausted, overwhelmed, insecure, and negative you are part of the problem. Empowered women raise empowered men. Empowered women change the World. The creation of life is our super power. As leaders we must not take the path of least resistance, we must not avoid the uncomfortable actions, and we must not be afraid of rejection. Love is truth and helping those that are unsafe. This is our gift from the Universe. We are in control of our energy. With enough energy we can do anything. We are freaking Wonder Women. It's not enough to sit on the couch and point your finger. Be the change sis. Get empowered. Make the change with your love, your truth, your money, your integrity, and your confidence. The first step is to get in your power by doing my meditation. The second step is to come to my free workshop. I believe in you. Free Workshop: https://purpose.laninalu.com/workshop-purpose
Free Meditation: https://youtu.be/1BVn39Pv6FY
The moment I stopped bullshitting myself, everything changed.
Chris mate was so shocked by how fast we went from broke and fighting all the time to so happy, so in love, and rich AF. Literally the moment I acknowledged I had no self worth I also decided to change. I knew that I would never be successful while I was telling women to raise their standards and have self love while my shit was broke as. I don't feel this pressure to have everyone love me or to save anyone. I know that by simply being truth the Universe provides. This was the single handed thing that took our relationship from rocky to thriving. I know that telling ourself the truth is always the answer. It always blows my mind that Mother Earth rewards me for being so human. Step 1. Be honest with yourself.
To learn how I trusted the Universe and received it all, listen to this episode now. Girl if you would have asked me how I was going to manifest my King and how we were going to grow together for the rest of our lives... Or how I was going to be a Feminine Icon for women all over the world... Or how we were going to grow our business to hit over $100,000 USD cash in 2 months... I would have told a story that was all wrong. I had an idea of what my life should look like and that was based on everything being right, being perfect, and on being like the experiences I had in the past. Which were fucking horrible. I am not the creator of life and nature and by trying to control everything and questioning Mother Earth with my lack of trust I freaking strangled all of her magic. I sucked the fun out and I pushed away what I said I wanted by energetically kicking it in the face. The game changer for me was to stop asking how, stop questioning the Universe, stop controlling, and to finally show up with 100% conviction that it was going to happen because my birthright is having it all. The first step is listening to this episode. The second step is coming to my free workshop to learn how change your beliefs to "I AM WORTHY OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE" I believe in you sister. Love Lani xx
title : How to feel beautiful in your skin
Today I have my incredible, magnetic, powerful client and sister Amy on. Oh my gosh our energy is going to blow your mind. It's just incredible to feel how high my women in the Love program rise to. This is the perfect episode to listen to if you're dragging ass and you need some motivation. On a basic level when Amy came to me a year ago she had such bad anxiety she literally would feel like she was going to die during anxiety attacks. Amy had gnarly ups and downs, punished herself with food and exercise, hated her body, felt unworthy, and was constantly giving away energy in order to get approval from other's. Amy felt embarrassed that nothing had worked for her in the past and she felt totally inadequate and jealous when another woman had what she wanted. And just look at her now baby. 29 years young, killing it at life, having fun, and knowing deeply that she is the beautiful and powered by the Universe. Amy's deadly anxiety attacks are gone, and for the first time in her life she feels safe in her body. She loves her beautiful body. And because everything is energy she's made more money this month than ever before. It's absolutely mind blowing how simple the steps you must take are to love yourself. I'm not going to say it's over night fame. You must show up daily. While we are breathing there is work to be done. As Amy said the work is so much more beautiful and rewarding than the horrifying ups and down, the self hatred and misery she lived in before. If you're ready to make a change you must come to my free online workshop.
Today I have my incredible client Kirstie on. She's 51 years young from South Africa, a beautiful mom, and an inspiring Bad Ass who's been sober for 11 years. Kirstie's been in my Purpose Program for 5 weeks and she said the moment she heard me speak, the truth dropped in, "I might be clean but I ain't sober." Damn girl drop the mic. Up until 5 weeks ago Kirstie was addicted to negative thoughts. Kirstie never felt like she was allowed to speak her truth. She felt like she didn't have a voice. Kirstie used to take on everyone's problems and her default setting up until 5 weeks ago was anger. On the first session Kirstie found her voice. I taught her how to connect to unconditional love and how to connect power, love and inspiration to finding her voice. Kirstie was furloughed from work due to Covid and has used it as an opportunity to kick ass in her spiritual growth like a proper Bad Ass. Kirstie is dancing, laughing, she's freaking unstoppable. Literally Kirstie is doing shit she's never done in the past 51 years. For the first time in her life she's not afraid of rejection. She's unstoppable. In her words "50 is the new 20 and she's 21." Kirstie bounces out of bed and has more energy than she had 30 years ago! WTF this shit works. If you're ready to experience the love drop ins Kirstie talked about come to my free online workshop. https://purpose.laninalu.com/workshop-purpose
Today I'm talking about truth, love & success.
I believe that I am rewarded because I speak my truth. I am rewarded because I share love. I base my success on how embodied and truthful I am, and how much love I feel & share. I know that what I have right now is a direct reflection of the effort I put in. I don't half ass, make excuses, or tell clients to do shit that I'm not doing. I am never confused why a woman doesn't have what she is complaining about not having. Half ass efforts, half ass results, and ALL the excuses why she can't go all in and share love. We have been primed by society to lie. It's acceptable to be asked a question and instead of saying the "ugly truth" we circle around and around, make excuses, lie, and put all blame onto the external. Success happens much faster when you're honest, when you have integrity, when you speak your truth, and when you connect to love. Nobody is fooled by a woman trying to cheat the process. What you have is a direct reflection of the work you've done. You're not afraid of success. You're afraid of failure. You can't bull shit the Universe. Your ass is on the law of attraction like every other human on this planet. I promise I'm not mailing out magic pills. If you're ready to show up for reals, sign up for me free online workshop now. https://purpose.laninalu.com/workshop-purpose
This title is everything! Women who love themselves don't hurt themselves. Today I have my beautiful client and energy sister Morgan on. This is so awesome because 1 year ago Morgan found my podcast and would day dream about becoming a client, healing herself, and coming on the podcast to share her story. Fast forward 1 year, just 5 weeks into my program. She's healed her eating disorder, she went from zero self love to all the self love. She wakes up excited and hopeful for the future, and she has found her Purpose. Something AWESOME I learnt today was Morgan heard my podcast about my client Megan who got off anti depressants... and that inspired Morgan to get off anti depressants. Just from the freaking podcast episode. She wan't even in my program yet. So amazing. The true essence of what I teach is every time there is a problem... Bring it back to self. It's not foods fault you're miserable. It's not your partners fault you're miserable. It's not religions fault, or the economy's fault you're miserable. Your feelings are your problem. I asked Morgan why my program worked for her when nothing else did. Why she healed her eating disorder in a few weeks after 30 years of suffering. And why this worked for her, when she'd already done 3 other programs that didn't work. Morgan said it was love. Learning how to love herself was the answer because women who love themselves don't hurt themselves. Ain't that the truth. You can have an excuse to not to do the work and be miserable. Or you can do the inner work and live a life of freedom. No one is coming to save you. No one is going to do this for you. Having the choice to change is the most empowering energy in the world!
Oh my gawd sister your birthright is to be yourself! What a freaking relief. It's ok for you to be you! You don't have to hide, play small, or feel guilty about being confident, happy, and free. Side note, the real you is not the lazy, bitchy, insecure woman. The real you is love. I recorded this episode because every day I hear the same problem over and over. I'm afraid to be myself because I don't want to be rejected. So they are a shell of a woman. They are exhausted. And they're boring AF. There's nothing inspiring about a woman who's negative and has resentment for being taken advantage of. I wouldn't buy shit from a woman in that Debbie Downer, Eeyore energy. My philosophy is everything is energy and it's either a tool or a weapon depending on your intention. I could take the road of least resistance and not cuss so women stop writing negative messages on my free workshops. I could stop dancing and twerking so women stop sending negative messages. We all have the choice to sell our soul to the Devil, hide like cowards, and be a fraud to try and get approval. That is not an option for me. Hell no am I going to stop being me so women who hate themselves don't send shitty messages. If I stop cussing it would not help the insecure women. And it would hurt the women who are ready to learn how to access the courage to finally be themselves. The women who don't cuss in my workshops and complain about it are the most negative people in the room. Not cussing doesn't make you a nice person. I know plenty of non cussers who are also giant assholes. That's like saying everyone that eats salad is spiritually enlightened. Not sure. It doesn't matter what you say, it's your energy and intention while you say it. Your job isn't to be liked. Your purpose is to share love your way. I am here to show you that this shit works! I have more love, more clients, more energy, more happiness, and more money than ever before! Not because everyone likes me. Because I am connected to the unconditional love of Mother Earth. Have the courage to be you. It's the only path to true freedom and joy.
Oh my gawd this episode is gonna fire you up so hard, and gawd knows it's needed right now.
I recorded this episode with my beautiful soul sister/client before the lockdown when I was still in Perth. Since we've recorded Chantelle is even more powerful, motivated, healthy & abundant than ever before. Chantelle suffered from an eating disorder for 20 years. She accepted it as a part of her identity and thought there was no way to heal it. She came into the program to just get out of her negative loop, that she calls living in a Hell Hole. I fully agree because there is nothing more miserable than feeling disempowered. Chantelle actually healed her eating disorder in a few weeks by using my embody strategies and learning how to feel unconditional love at the push of a button. Chantelle has raised her standards to extraordinary. She has more confidence than ever before. Chantelle started painting again which is epic because it's one of her super powers and right now she's got a waiting list to buy her art. Chantelle saved herself. She showed up. She does the work, and the payoff is a life full of unconditional love and freedom. The excuse "It's harder for me" doesn't cut it anymore. It's no secret that any woman can reprogram her subconscious. The real question is after knowing you are the only one with the power to change... Will you choose to learn how to love yourself?
Today's episode was recorded before lockdown, before quarantine, while I was still in Perth.
And what do you know.. my strategies apply just the same because the answer is always YOU. My freaking Bad Ass client and soul sister for life Elaine is so amazing, we had so much fun. We laughed so hard. Elaine's thriving even more right now while the majority have dropped their vibe and feel really stressed and hopeless. The first win is that Elaine has always been terrified of public speaking. To me her English is perfect, and it's also her second language. She had major fear and insecurity around public speaking and she's speaking her truth on my podcast for all the World to hear. Elaine came into my program summer of 2019 and because my program, me, and my strategies are for life... I have watched her grow and continue to grow every day. I'm in no way downplaying what's happening right now. I have so much compassion for people that are affected by the virus. God knows if this happened 3 years ago before I got my shit together I would have had to borrow money from my dad and probably move back home. I was waiting for someone to save me, feeling super sorry for myself, living off one yoga class at a time. My inspiration is that we learn from this and get strong enough so we aren't forced into survival mode. We are prepared and embodied. Elaine suffered for 40 years with insane body pain, anxiety, PMS, misery, loneliness and feeling sorry for herself. Elaine did therapy since 2003, did every type of healing you can imagine, spent tons of money, and got no results. She was totally scared to invest again. But never having the freedom she felt in me was way to expensive to pass up so this bitch pulled the trigger. My intention is always to share hope. The killer of your journey is the fear that you're alone and it's harder for you. When you hear real women who had real problems like Elaine it squashes your ego into pieces because deep down you know if she can do it, you can do it. It is possible to stay embodied during stressful situations. It's possible to not feel sorry for yourself. And life is freaking amazing and so fun when you know how to shift your energy and control your emotions. I believe in you!
I am living in the same World as you, with the same virus as you and I'm waking up in bliss with love tears because I feel so safe, happy and fulfilled.
If you're waking up with anything less than that... you're settling.
The virus is the straw that broke the camels back, it's not the cause of all your misery.
If you were miserable before, you'll be miserable after.
I'm not downplaying that we are in un chartered territory, however the unknown is always scary for the ego no matter how it appears in your life.
My women are happier than they've ever been in their lives. Right now. While the rest of the World is losing their shit.
Doesn't that blow your mind!
You're living in fear because of the trauma and programming you experienced as a child. The first step is to download my Life Changing Morning Healing Meditation right now and commit to doing it.
Living in fear is the only way we can be controlled. Women we were put here to HEAL. This is our Super Power.
The World won't change. No one is coming to save you.
Your power is learning HOW to embody, How to connect to the innate intelligence that connects everything, and How to rise up with Mother Earth.
Empower Women, Change The World.
If you're pain is so intolerable that you're finally ready to make a change and live in harmony, you must come into my program.
I believe in you.
Free Meditation: https://iam.laninalu.com/morning-mediation-yt
This episode with my beautiful client and sister whom I love so damn much, could not have come at a more important time. With all the fear about the coronavirus, we are in desperate need as a society to stay embodied. We get sick because we get stressed. We have negative thoughts, we focus on worse case scenario, and we misfire our fight or flight response. The first thing that happens is our immune system shuts off because surviving is the first priority. We get sick because our immune system is off. Fact. When there is something to be triggered within, we get sick. Before my program Joely was always ill, she had a gnarly phobia of death. Joely planned her funeral in her 20's because she was certain she would die. The year before my program Joely was ill and went to the doctors 50 times! Since joining my program 1 year ago she's had 1 mild cold. THIS HIT WORKS! Joely healed her body through healing her mind. Our thoughts create our reality and this does not change because people around you are afraid of getting sick. When I was stressed out and believed I was not good enough I was always freaking sick. Today I'm healthier and stronger than I've ever been. If Joely and I can choose to embody, feel love, and be HEALTHY, you can too. Don't subscribe to the bull shit program that you are powerless. Sis you're a woman! This is your freaking super power YEW! If you need help learning how to stay healthy and embodied reach out right now. I am so excited to teach you how to stay healthy and thrive.
I'm sharing the truth today so get ready to feel really grateful for your vagina, and inspired to receive all the pleasure you can can because your true essence is a Beautiful Healing Pleasure Machine. If you have been sexually abused, which is unfortunately a hell of a lot more common than not being sexually abused, you have some shame to release. If you haven't been sexually abused you also have shame to release because we are primed to feel shame about our sexuality, these shameful beliefs are being passed on from generation to generation and it stops here. A woman who is confident, has self worth, feels no shame because she feeds off love is a threat. This woman can not be controlled by fear, and that's scary AF. The first step is acknowledging there is nothing wrong with you, you're not alone, you can heal your sexual energy because nothing that's happened to you thus far has touched the purity of your soul. Your birthright is the freedom to love and receive love freely. This includes sexually. If you're ready to take your life to the next level, heal your sexual shame, and wake up full of confidence and self love than you're a perfect fit for my program - https://iam.laninalu.com/purposeoffer I am honoured to teach you how. I believe in you sis. Love Lani
Natasha touched my soul like it has never been touched before.
Our first chat Tash was so real, so vulnerable and so ready to learn how to create her own life of happiness. It's scary how common it is today to have suicidal thoughts. Most women I speak to have had them, including myself. When you're in the depths of the black pit and it seems so big you don't know where to start... the one way back into the light is to ask for help. Natasha reached out to me because she was on anti depressants, she was depressed, and when I asked her what would happen if she didn't get help and change she said... I will kill myself. Natasha is so brave and powerful beyond fucking belief. She looked her deepest darkest fears in their scary eye balls and declared she would use the strategies that helped me go from suicidal to total Bad Ass. Natasha broke all of her self harming habits in less than 6 weeks. Natasha is off anti depressants, she healed the vein blockage in her left eye that was causing blindness, and she had her first orgasm (and MANY more) since she's been in my program. Sis, there is hope. Natasha had done 10 years of therapy and was suicidal, on anti depressants, and blind in 1 eye just 6 weeks ago! If Natasha can do it you can do it. If you're ready to change your life right now, reach out to me and let's freaking heal together sis. I believe in you.
Everyone wants to know how I manifested my King, my banging sexy body, and my dream job.
I literally get paid to travel the World with my lover, help women unconditionally love themselves, and restore balance in this World. The mind blowing part is... we only take credit for manifesting the things we like, but we sure as shit blame other's for the stuff we don't like. The most beautiful truth I can share with you is that YOU ARE WORTHY. I understand that we aren't taught how to NOT take things personal that happen directly to us. When we get real about the reasons why we feel like we're not enough, it always comes from a parent energy in our lives who we feel did not love us unconditionally. It's not about being wrong or right because everything is energy. There ain't no one above the Law Of Attraction sis. We don't manifest shit because we're not good enough. We manifest shit because we believe we're not good enough.
Denise is my oldest client at 54 and she is freaking smoking hot! I have been so damn excited to have her on my podcast because she is literally killing it. No excuses dude if Denise can do it anyone can. I also have my beautiful client Christy on today. They are both so different and they have both completely thrived and are changed women in a matter of weeks. They went from feeling trapped and playing small to living up to their full potential. Denise said she felt her world was getting smaller and smaller as she got older. Denise was exhausted from faking happy to everyone, yet being drained and exhausted on the inside. Christy's anxiety and negative feedback loop was suffocating her and she knew that this fear based unhappy woman was not the real Christy. It doesn't take a lifetime to change. It takes 1 freaking decision to stop settling and learn the new skill of self worth. These women are mothers who have been through pain and trauma. They were both scared AF to come into my program. And they did it any way! Courage baby. They are both courageous AF.
As a child did you ever learn how to be connected to your Divine Feminine Energy from a woman who was a living embodied of love?
Of course you have no idea how? Sister this is a skill to be learnt, it's not a given like your shoe size. The clues are simple. If you're negative, angry, anxious, judgmental, overwhelmed and any other shitty out of control feeling, than you are disconnected from your Divine Feminine. It's not about winning the fight. There doesn't need to be a fight. The Universe has no reason to not give you everything you want. You are the one with the problem and the creator of drama. The game changer for me was training myself how to take feedback like a boss. No excuses, no arguing, no but's... Feedback means learning and learning means love. There is no finish line. We always have the ability to receive and share more love. Learning how to connect to your Divine Feminine is the first step.
Being a woman isn't your weakness. Being a woman makes you a freaking Bad Ass!
The reason I have the uncomfortable conversations that society deems "rude" is because talking about our sexual energy, our vulva's, vaginas and pleasure... is the only way to heal and the release the Female guilt and shame and finally stop passing it on to our daughters.
Feeling gross, dirty, embarrassed, guilty and shameful is a Universal problem. It's not your problem. The only way to own that we are total Wonder Women rock stars is to stop acting like it's personal and to stop believing we are alone. Changing your beliefs is so much damn simpler than you can ever fathom, but no one, not even Jesus fucking Christ, can do this for you. It's called free will bitch. It's your choice to grow and evolve or to feel sorry for yourself and die. I'm speaking this truth right into your soul because I know how strong you really are, I know you're a Bad Ass, and I believe in you. If you are truly ready to stop making excuse and finally start living your best Queen life then reach out to me now. Until you get to the point where you're so sick of your own bull shit I will never be able to help you. I'm not your saviour. You are. Time to start cherishing this gift like the precious treasure it really is.
Jette's story will blow you mind and inspire you to tears! She is so freaking amazing and is living proof that you can positively change every area of your life fast. This is one of my most powerful episodes ever! Jette reached out to me because she was suffering "burnout" in her business. She had a lot of fear, she's was a busy mom, and was constantly fighting with her partner. Jette is a coach and was so unhappy, unmotivated, and miserable she thought maybe she wasn't cut out to be an entrepreneur. We laughed so much especially when Jette said after she paid she was so nervous/excited/scared that her brain went to crazy town. "Maybe Lani will steal my money. Maybe she's a fraud. I'm broke why am I investing in myself?" It's been just 6 weeks in my program and Jette is a new freaking woman. A Wonder Woman! She's thriving in her business, thriving as mom, and the biggest change for Jette has been in her relationship. The old Jette felt so uncomfortable receiving she wouldn't even hug her partner. Jette created drama for no reason and her minds default setting was worst case scenario and negativity. Jette only focused on all the times she felt hurt and unhappy. Of course she was exhausted and overwhelmed. I quickly cut through that ego bull shit because she was ready... and now she is flooded with unconditional love. She truly shares and receives love from everyone! Her business is thriving, she got a damn client while we were recording this episode haha. Jette's biggest take away is that life is fun and being happy is a choice. We're all human, we all have fear and ego. However, it's not harder for you than it was for Jette. The ego is Universal and Love is Universal. Which one will you choose to focus on?
The craziest thing is that we're so desperate for love, it's all we want, we think if we had it all our problems would be solved....
Yet we don't believe we're worthy of it so we literally push it away! What the actual fuck. Today my beautiful sis and of course client Mary (because there is no separation for me) shares about how changing her beliefs from not enough to worthiness changed everything. I have goosebumps just writing this because it's the most powerful thing I will ever teach you. Mary was raised a Jehovah witness and she had some major guilt about disappointing her family. Mary's biggest win in my program was that she finally believed she was worthy of love and started drinking it up from me and her Bad Ass sisters in the tribe, like a boss. Mary said coming into the program she felt UNCOMFORTABLE when I said... "I love you." Yet her biggest problem was she didn't feel loved. Do you see the inner conflict here?? The problem is not that you aren't loved. The problem is that you don't believe you're worthy of receiving love. Change your beliefs and change your life. I believe in you sister!