So You Want To Be An Ally?: Recent Episodes
Unified Allies 4 Change
With the climate of the world we hear the word ALLY a lot. Everyone says become an Ally but no one tells you how. Join us on our Journey to Ally-Ship, That includes self and others .
In this episode of So you want to be an ALLY? we have our first solo episode with Izzy. (It’s a fluff episode guys lol)
Episode description : We have an Unscripted and raw episode of Izzy, just talking about life. Some of the things he is doing and working on.
The passing of Chadwick Boseman (AKA BLACK PANTHER)
Balancing school and health.
A few inspirational quotes or thoughts that’s been crossing his mind.
The 75 HARD CHALLENGE - will Izzy see it through? Will you be joining in as well?
REFERENCES:
The anatomy of peace
Eckhart Tolle “Operating our of ego”
Social Media Links:
IG:
https://instagram.com/unifiedallies4change
Twitter:
https://www.twitter.com/unifiedallies
FB:
https://www.facebook.com/UnifiedAllied4Change/
Ally HOMEWORK:
Start your root chakra journal( questions will be posted to Instagram)
In this episode of So you want to be an ALLY? we have our very first guest!!!!
Shelby, she is a UVU graduate. Director of the Arts, all around art enthusiast, an AMAZING friend & JUST A GREAT PERSON. (Also she knows sign language)
Follow her below:
https://www.instagram.com/sshelbyy95/
The lovely Shelby and our own host Sebastian answer question about being biracial.
How to interact with biracial people on a regular basis
Invalidation of self & ethnicity from others
Privilege, Colorism and so much more
(This episode only contained biracial people with similar ancestry, future episodes will consist of the same)
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/user/posts
Monthly donation service as low as $3 monthly
Amazon wishlist: Update on next episode description
REFERENCES:
https://mixedracefamily.com/most-common-problems-mixed-race-people-can-relate-to/
https://insight.kellogg.northwestern.edu/article/how-are-black-white-biracial-people-are-perceived-in-terms-of-race
The link below is to the episode of Oprah that is mentioned:
https://youtu.be/ebPoSMULI5U
Social Media Links:
IG:
https://instagram.com/unifiedallies4change
Twitter:
https://www.twitter.com/unifiedallies
FB:
https://www.facebook.com/UnifiedAllied4Change/
Ally HOMEWORK:
Watch the Oprah link in the description
SELF CARE FOLKS were all going back to school
In this episode of So You Want To Be aAn ALLY? We touch on topics such as:
Building Relationships (Healthy & Strong)
Making Amends
Acknowledgement of differences
Gas lighting “I don’t see color” “We are all the same” & the danger of continuing this narrative.
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/user/posts
Monthly donation service as low as $3 monthly
One Time donation: coming soon
Amazon wishlist: Update on next episode description
REFERENCES:
https://www.astepintherightdirection.org/learn-the-difference-between-making-amends-and-apologizing/
https://www.commisceo-global.com/blog/why-is-cultural-awareness-important
https://www.buzzfeed.com/lizmrichardson/racial-gaslighting-instagram-explainer
https://trainingmag.com/content/8-tips-developing-positive-relationships/
Social Media Links:
IG:
https://instagram.com/unifiedallies4change
Twitter:
https://www.twitter.com/unifiedallies
FB:
https://www.facebook.com/UnifiedAllied4Change/
Ally HOMEWORK:
Terms to look up:
Gaslighting
Micro assaults
Micro aggressions
Micro insults
Micro invalidations
Reflect on times you have perpetuated any of these examples , learn , forgive yourself and make amends.
In this episode we make our introductions, and embark on our own journey to ally-ship. Questioning forgiveness, types of ally-ship. When to disconnect from people who are not striving for growth or helping you grow.
Disclaimer: we are not the end all be all. This journey to Ally-Ship takes work for YOU as an individual first. We may not always get it right when having these intimate conversations.... Remember we are on this journey together.