Genuine Human Connection: Recent Episodes
Lori Booth
In asking how I can create genuine human connection with others, I realized I needed to go a step back and investigate what this thing even is. What is genuine human connection? I don’t even know what this thing is that I claim I want! So, I turned to other humans to help me explore this question and in doing so I created the Genuine Human Connection podcast.
TOP SOURCES
Alain de Botton, “Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person,” The School of Life, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-EvvPZFdjyk
Joanne Davila, “Skills for Healthy Romantic Relationships,” TEDxSBU, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gh5VhaicC6g
John Gottman, “The Science of Love” TEDxVeniceBeach, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uazFBCDvVw
Dr. Andrea & Jonathan Taylor-Cummings, “4 Habits of ALL Successful Relationships,” TEDxSquareMile, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o4Y5Mr8rZ9A
Katie Hood, “The Difference Between Healthy and Unhealthy Love,” TEDtalk, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ON4iy8hq2hM
Also Sourced
Willie Earley, “Truth Telling in Relationships, Are We There Yet?” TEDxJerseyCity, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTxM5ilU4MU
Dr. Liat Yakir, “What is Love – Scientifically?” TEDxEilat, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0akiEFwtkyA
Sandy Gerber, “The Secret to Successful Romantic Relationships,” TEDxBearCreekPark, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7MrMr4k8-uk
Nathan Ware, “Why We're Unhappy -- The Expectation Gap,” TEDxKlagenfurt, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9KiUq8i9pbE
Maya Diamond, “The Surprising Key to Building a Healthy Relationship that Lasts,” TEDxOakland, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xvb-v83qJ8U
Femi Ogunjinmi, “How To Tell If Someone Truly Loves You,” TEDxXavierUniversity, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=44J3FGYKltI
Theodore Zeldin, “The Art of Being a Couple,” TEDxOxford, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FJ5gAN5TK8
MUSIC
Smokey Eye by Cheel
Land on the Golden Gate by Chris Zabriskie is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Source: http://chriszabriskie.com/stuntisland/
Artist: http://chriszabriskie.com/
SOURCES
Craig Howe, “Oceti Sakowin - The People of the Seven Council Fires,” produced by South Dakota Public Broadcasting, 2007, https://www.pbs.org/video/south-dakota-documentaries-oceti-sakowin-seven-council-fires/
Josie Green, "Our Tiospaye," Teach for America, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WtfeffHUuTA
Johnathan Santos Silva, "Our Tiospaye," Teach for America, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WtfeffHUuTA
Maria Helena Heim, “Is Blood Thicker Than Water?,” TEDx Dornbirn, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C6jdK_jNy0s
The Chiseled Adonis, “Family Vs Friends... Who's More Important,” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FoXynusLONY
Catalina Ritzinger "Friendship and Family," TEDx, ParkCityYouthtalk, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bug8fAZdh5s&t=333s
Warren McCall, “Family -vs- Friends,” Catered Conversation Podcast, Episode 4, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6atLNJZq1c
Mike Leftwich, “Family -vs- Friends,” Catered Conversation Podcast, Episode 4, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6atLNJZq1c
Fiona Douglas, “How Did Your Parents Mess You Up?,” TEDxPuxi, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_w5vfWPuMo
Christy Harden, “The Struggle with The Cult of Motherhood,” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GtH88gaG4rQ
Sheryl Ziegler, “Why Moms Are Miserable,” TEDxWilmingtonWomen,https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MwvctN3Uejg
Corinne Maier [author of No kids, 40 reasons not to have children], [m]otherhood,https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCpKk1iq7rc
MUSIC
Smokey Eye by Cheel
All other music, sounds, and vocals incidentally accompanied my sources during production
Sources
Susan Oh, Power of Not Belonging, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8YpK7bPeNM
Sadhguru, Troubled by Fear? Just Change Your Channel! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7hYf0yIK5w
Frank Shamrock, Fear is an Illusion, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Xh2tmvbT3Q
Trillion Small, Overcoming the Fear of Love, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39Zcwc4lr08
Courtney Ryman, I Have No Friends, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7SHwM1yeH0w
Karen Dolva, All the lonely people, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j-Gil9l8yIE
Marnix Pauwels, No more fear of life, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SMi3rHuK0c4
Music
Heart of Nowhere by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1400045
Artist: http://incompetech.com/
Impending Boom by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1400045
Artist: http://incompetech.com/
Eternal Garden by Dan Henig
Sources
Louis CK, “Solider on a Plane,” Live at the Beacon Theater, 2011
BBC Learning English YouTube channel, “It’s The Thought That Counts,” The English We Speak, 2019, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLyLyzzw2tc
Adam Grant, “Are You a Giver or a Taker,” TED talk, 2018, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YyXRYgjQXX0
Abigail Marsh, “Why Some People are More Altruistic than Others,” TED talk, 2016 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uq-6T6TAu74
Ramani Durvasula (Doctor Ramani), “What is ‘narcissistic supply’? (Glossary of Narcissistic Relationships), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUnmx3tgKZI
Craig Malkin, “Does Narcissism Appear In Neuro Imaging?” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kudJLEdc9vA
MusicMorning Mandolin by Chris Haugen
Heart of Nowhere by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1400045
Artist: http://incompetech.com/
Unrest by ELPHNT
MUSIC
Change
Performed by Jay Triiiple
Written by Alyssa Taylor and Mic Coats
Produced by Mic Coats
Rainbow
Performed by Jay Triiiple
Time Flies
Performed by Jay Triiiple
Written by Alyssa Taylor and Connor Ray
CREDITS
Mark Day, Generic Facebook Birthday Wishes, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MYZ3iaS5hyg
Mary Coussons-Read PhD, CBS Denver, Happy Birthday On Facebook: Too Easy?, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ySjw7akG8xs
Professor John Cacioppo - Connected Minds: Loneliness, Social Brains and the Need for Community, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iu6RM_Ib30A
Eskil Burck, Learning Psychology YouTube channel, psychology of shared birthday,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YH0reKn_MoA
Robert Cialdini and Steve Martin, Influence at Work YouTube channel, the Science of Persuasion, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cFdCzN7RYbw
Vanessa Van Edwards, Birthday Depression: Why Birthdays Are So Hard, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TasCmAjePbA
Johann Hari - This could be why you're depressed or anxious, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MB5IX-np5fE
Emile Warot - The power of little celebrations in our lives, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CzIbbJed-ic
Nouman Ali Khan, FreeQuranEducation YouTube Channel, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cSatpMSRhSM
MUSIC
Bach Cello Suite No. 1, G Major, Prelude by Cooper Cannell
Heart of Nowhere by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1400045
Artist: http://incompetech.com/
William Guy, The Relationship Between Human Fulfillment and Ethics, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxXiwV7mrD0
Simon Sinek, If You Don't Understand People, You Don't Understand Business, 99u, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=llKvV8_T95M
Adam Grant, Who Are the Takers, Givers, and Matchers in the Workplace, Google Zeitgeist, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxEzJFvO2oE
Candace Vogler, Ultimate Fulfillment & Human Perfection, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8DpB_X94d4&t=2289s
Art Bejarano, Super Human Longevity with Dr Steve Hruby, The Power of Human Connection; a Secret of Longevity, Fulfillment, & Happiness, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AN15F2bIlDw
Olivia Aguilar, Sustainability and Human Fulfillment, TEDxDenisonU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNFx2uI5v0g
Russell Brand, The Answer to Your Problem Is Not in Your Head, Commune, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E5Okl5V5NRM
Huston Smith, Human Fulfillment, Search for America, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y5kTW4lLA9U
MUSICDwarf Star by Freedom Trail Studio
Slappy Clov by Godmode
Eternal Garden by Dan Henig
MUSIC
Chris Zabriskie
ELPHNT
CREDITSJamil Zaki, Building Empathy in a Fractured World, Stanford Alumni, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FC3sWzIgfqw
Nadine Chevolleau, On Civil Society, Toronto Public Library, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JbWC5VXB4sU&t=1606s
Chris Frith, Empathy, Serious Science, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VIoA4VnbUgE
Sir Ken Robinson, Dalai Lama Center for Peace and Education, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yu2zcmb3yAQ
Béalleka Makau, Radical Empathy Disrupts Entitlement, TEDxGrinnellCollege, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kzQtK60yOxc
Chloé Valdary, Founder of Theory of Enchantment, https://theoryofenchantment.com/meet-the-founder
Simon Sinek, A Bit of Optimism podcast, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jckSBkw8_7k
Lee Wolak, The Power of Empathy, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGmeumDv494
Mark Levine, Identity and Emergency Intervention: How Social Group Membership and Inclusiveness of Group Boundaries Shape Helping Behavior, Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin 31(4):443-53, May 2005
SOURCES
Angela Garvin, This Morning, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1wuflBb4sfg
Susan Little, The Human-Animal Bond, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjxAewIBYJk
Crystal Dilworth, Do We Love Dogs As Much As Babies?, DNews, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3k5H76KTnQ8
Julian Huguet, Why We Love Dogs More Than Humans, DNews, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJZxsm6EwLc
Clive Wynne, ASU KEDtalk: Why are dogs special?, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HbKlFjvbb4Y
Chris Ulmer, Living with Williams Syndrome (A Condition that Makes You Friendly), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pxZ7aZMFHPE
Scientific Magazine, What Makes Dogs so Friendly? Study finds genetic link to super out-going people, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5CIBg3qDDM
Kim Brophey, The Problem with Treating a Dog Like a Pet, Kim Brophey, TEDxUNCAsheville, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46ND3suK1y8
Amrat Hiranya, Train the Owner, Not the Dog, Amrut Dog Guru Hiranya, TEDxDSCE, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bh4SzcWcRRY
Mark Twain Quote by Scott Leffler, scottleffler.com
MUSIC
Freedom Trail Studio, “Dwarf Star”
Aakash Gandhi, “Invisible Beauty”
Wagner, “Bridal Chorus from Lohengrin,” London Symphony Orchestra
Cat Stevens, “I Love My Dog”
On this episode of Genuine Human Connection, I speak with a former client of mine about his experiences discovering a cancerous tumor in his bladder.
Ed Tilschner and his wife first met with me 2019. As our social circles and mutual interests overlapped, we started to socialize more, and I discontinued my professional relationship with them. Even through the pandemic, we have stayed in touch. In February, I learned Ed had developed a cancerous tumor. He said he wanted to share his experience with my audience. So, days after emergency surgery to remove the tumor, we talked about cancer, fear, community, and human connection.
SOURCES
Human Harmonic - A symphony of sound from the human body, The University of Colorado Hospital (UCH), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7T8jNQPrLhc
Anthony Holland, "Shattering Cancer With Resonant Frequencies," TEDxSkidmoreCollege, Anthony Holland: Associate Professor, Director of Music Technology, Skidmore College. DMA, MM, MM, BM; President: Novobiotronics Inc. [a nonprofit 501(c)(3) charitable and educational company]. Discovered the ability of Oscillating Pulsed Electric Fields (OPEF) to destroy cancer cells and MRSA in laboratory experiments.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1w0_kazbb_U
James Rhodes, "Music and The Inner Self," TEDxMadrid, James Rhodes is one of the most important concert piano players of our times and a great innovator of classical music. He has been the subject of documentaries for BBC and Channel 4, he writes for The Guardian and performs in concerts all around the world. His Sunday Times and international bestselling memoir, Instrumental, published by Canongate, is a brutally honest, moving and compelling story that was almost banned until the Supreme Court unanimously overthrew an injunction in May 2015. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QUUFb-1hBtw
Julian Treasure, "The 4 Says Sound Affects Us," Julian Treasure is a sound and communication expert. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRepnhXq33s
David Meltzer, "Find Your Frequency," David Meltzer is CEO of Sports 1 Marketing, 2X best-selling author, and a top keynote speaker. He is also a Top 100 Business Coach, executive producer and host of Entrepreneur's #1 show “Elevator Pitch”, host of the Top 5 business podcast “The Playbook” and serves as an advisory board member to over 45 companies and charities. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qWkLtHxV63Y
Jaggi Vasudev, "Turning Up the Voltage," https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tHl9jLqFUQI
Dr Sangeeta Sahi is an Integrative Medical Doctor and Anti-aging Consultant, who graduated from the Christian Medical College in India, and Whipps Cross Hospital, London, UK. In addition, she received a Master of Business Administration (MBA) degree from ESSEC in Paris, France. https://drsangeetasahi.com/resources/
MUSIC
Sports Stadium Crowd Cheering Sound Effect, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KiittA46RH4, SoundEffectsFactory
Cooper Cannell, “Bach Cello Suite No. 1, G Major, Prelude”
Freedom Trail Studio, "Dwarf Star"
Sources
Victor Wooten, Music as a Language, TEDxGabriolaIsland, Victor Wooten is an innovator, composer, arranger, producer, vocalist, and multiinstrumentalist, and has been called the greatest bass player in the world. He is a skilled naturalist and teacher, a published author, a magician, husband and father of four, and a five-time Grammy award winner.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2zvjW9arAZ0
Rébecca Kleinberger, "Why you don’t like the sound of your own voice," Rebecca Kleinberger is a PhD candidate doing research at the MIT Media Lab. Her work mixes science, engineering, design and art to explore ways to craft experiences for self-reflection and human connection.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3vSYbT1Aco
Julian Treasure, "The 4 ways sound affects us," Playing sound effects both pleasant and awful, Julian Treasure, sound and communication expert, shows how sound affects us in four significant ways.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRepnhXq33s
Michio Kaku, "The Universe Is a Symphony of Vibrating Strings," Big Think Youtube channel, Dr. Michio Kaku is the co-founder of string field theory, and is one of the most widely recognized scientists in the world today.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fW6JFKgbAF4
American Institute of Physics, "The Secret Of A Tiger's Roar," Inside Science News Service, Researchers may have found the key to the intimidating and paralyzing affect that a tiger's roar has on animals, including humans. New research by bioacousticians shows that very low frequency sounds may be the key. December 29, 2000
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2000/12/001201152406.htm
Mark Pilkington, "The fear frequency," The Guardian, The key here is frequency: 19hz is in the range known as infrasound, below the range of human hearing, which begins at 20hz. Tandy learned that low frequencies in this region can affect humans and animals in several ways, causing discomfort, dizziness, blurred vision (by vibrating your eyeballs), hyperventilation and fear, possibly leading to panic attacks. October 15, 2003
https://www.theguardian.com/science/2003/oct/16/science.farout
Music
Dan Henig, "Eternal Garden"
ELPHNT, "Unrest"
Godmode, "Sloppy Clav"
Judith Quin’s Social Media Links
Free FB Group www.Facebook.com/groups/yourwholevoice
FB Page www.facebook.com/yourwholevoice
Insta. www.instagram.com/yourwholevoice
Website: www.yourwholevoice.com
Email connect@yourwholevoice.com
You tube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIkStSuSl2SA3cwW0BEZ6YQ
LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/judithquinvocalconfidence/
MusicAlmost in F - Tranquillity by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100394
Artist: http://incompetech.com/
SourcesJune Kaewsith (Jumakae), artivist (artist +activist) and community organizer turned transformational life coach (or "life doula") and wellness advocate, “How to Connect with Your Ancestors,” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c3LHfrdvtZg
“How Much Neanderthal DNA do Humans Have?” Discover Magazine, https://www.discovermagazine.com/planet-earth/how-much-neanderthal-dna-do-humans-have
Dr. Sada Mire, Leiden University course by faculty of archeology and the LDE Centre for Global Heritage and Development, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YhpKqaIF2Z0
Asha Frost, spiritual Healer, visionary, creative, “Dear White Woman Who Wants to be Like Me,” https://ashafrost.com/dearwhitewoman/
Robin DeAngelo, consultant, educator and facilitator for over 20 years on issues of racial and social justice, https://www.robindiangelo.com/about-me/
Dr. Baskaran Pillai, international teacher, spiritual leader, humanitarian and scholar-mystic from Southern India, “God Consciousness,” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88M3kwDle0M&t=315s
Dada Gunamuktananda, trained in meditation, yoga and natural health sciences in Australia, the Philippines and India, “Consciousness -- the final frontier,” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lo0X2ZdElQ4
Marcus Mosiah Garvey Jr., "Look For Me In A Whirlwind Or A Storm,"
https://www.buyblackmovement.com/MarcusGarvey/AudioRecordings/index.cfm
MusicDwarf Star by Freedom Trail Studio
Invisible Beauty by Aakash Gandhi
Eternal Garde by Dan Henig
Music byKevin MacLeod
Ambiment - The Ambient by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100630
Artist: http://incompetech.com/
Credit and SourcesLemn Sissay, When All You Need is a Hug: personal experiences of the UK care system, TEDxLiverpool, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B88dCHJ9Rvg
Miroslav Volf, Professor of Systematic Theology at Yale Divinity School
Charlie McDonald, Fun Science channel, YouTube
Janet Treviño, Touch Therapist, TEDxSanAntonio, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7m_qOn6QqM
Jane Anderson, Massage Therapist, TEDxUofM, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tafP2OgttCI&t=507s
Tiffany Field Ph.D., “Preschoolers in America are Touched Less and are More Aggressive Than Preschoolers in France,” Early Child Development and Care Volume 151, 1999 - Issue 1
Elizabeth Day, On the trail of the Free Hugs founder, The Guardian, https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2012/sep/02/free-hug-movement-founder
Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb, https://drrhoda.com
MusicKevin MacLeod
Sources
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Ebenezer Baptist Church, April 30, 1967
Dharma Speaks YouTube Channel, Bhagavad Gita made easy - Part 1/3
Rabbi Chaim Marder
Anthony Salciccioli, teacher of philosophy, Clarenceville High School Livonia, Michigan
Education and Curricular Perspectives in the Qur'an, Textbook by Sarah Risha
Music By
Freedom Trail Studio
Aakash Gandhi
Brotherhood of Man
John Lennon
Bob Marley
SourcesBailey Parnell TEDxRyerson Talk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Czg_9C7gw0o&t=707s
Philosophy Vibe
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClepFnDpTP3pLKxVsbLNhDA
Chibundu Onuzo
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/mar/09/facebook-social-media-intimacy-human-contact-craving
Dan Foxx TEDxChelmsford Talk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=23vBLxJQk-Y
Music byNate Blaze
United States Marine Band
ELPHNT
Godmode
Chibundu Onuzo
Music CreditsAlmost in F - Tranquillity by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100394
Artist: http://incompetech.com/
Sonatina No 2 in F Major by Joel Cummins
Land on the Golden Gate by Chris Zabriskie is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Source: http://chriszabriskie.com/stuntisland/
Artist: http://chriszabriskie.com/