Pooch Parenting: Recent Episodes
Michelle Stern
The Pooch Parenting Podcast is a podcast for parents with dogs. Living with kids and dogs at the same time can feel like a circus - I know because I'm a mom and have lived it too. Join us as we interview a variety of parenting and dog experts, along with parents to discuss topics that will make parenting with dogs easier, safer and less chaotic. If you enjoy these episodes or feel like they have helped your family, feel free to buy me a coffee as a way of saying "Thanks!" https://www.buymeacoffee.com/PoochParenting
Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. Don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
When is the right time to get a puppy?
- Make an honest assessment of your schedule and life. Here are some questions you should consider.
- It's often difficult to raise a puppy alongside a baby or toddler. This is not an ideal time to get a puppy for some families, especially if you are uncomfortable with extra chaos and unpredictability.
- If you are considering adding a puppy to your family, I'd encourage you to wait until your children are at least 5 or 6 years old. They are able to follow your guidance at this age and can have safe, positive interactions with a dog with your support and with lots of management.
Should you get a puppy or an adult dog?
- Are you tolerant of sleep interruptions? If not, consider an adult dog who has the physical maturity to hold their bladder overnight and the emotional maturity to sleep through the night after they get used to their new home.
- Have you had a traumatic incident with a former dog that has left you feeling nervous about what your new dog will be like? If so, it might be helpful to foster-to-adopt a young adult dog (age 2 or older) so you can see what that dog is like.
- At social maturity, you will have a better idea of who the dog IS and who they WILL BE. After this developmental benchmark (potential traumatic events aside), you may be more likely to know if your dog is social with other dogs, if they like kids, if they are friendly when visitors come to the house, or if they are shy and nervous around normal household activities.
- If you really want a puppy...
- Is it possible to meet the parents so that you can see what the pups' temperament and size might be like?
- Have you met the breeder in person and seen their other dogs? Do you like them? Do they like your kids? Has the breeder done health testing to ensure that your dog is less likely to have skeletal, heart, breathing or eye issues?
- If your potential pup is from a rescue, do they have any background information on the parents? Are they willing to take the dog back if it's unsafe around your kids in the future?
- Are you willing to use management equipment in your home (even if it doesn't go with your home decor) and invest in training to prevent problems between your kids and puppies?
For more information and the rest of the show notes, please visit https://poochparenting.net/episode-15-when-is-the-right-time-to-get-a-puppy/
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Overview - How to Choose a Dog
- Focus on the individual dog more than a specific breed
- Pick a friendly, confident dog who approaches your kids happily.
- Listen to my Pooch Parenting Podcast episode about how to pick a shelter dog for families with kids.
- See if you can foster-to-adopt or do a trial adoption. This option allows you to live with a dog for a few weeks to see if you are a good fit.
- Be aware that some shelters and rescue organizations do not adopt to families with children of any age. Some adopt to families with kids within a certain age range.
How to Choose a Dog that's a Good Fit For Your Family
- Know what you can afford. Here are some of the costs associated with having a dog:
- the adoption or purchase price
- veterinary care
- quality food, treats, chews and toys
- grooming costs (some breeds need to be groomed every 4-6 weeks)
- Be honest about your lifestyle. Are you active, preferring to go hiking or backpacking? Or are you more of a game night family, preferring to stay home and play board games? Your companion dog should match the lifestyle you currently live (not the lifestyle you wish you had!)
- Is your family calm or bustling, with a constant flow of houseguests or visitors? Are you the home that hosts the PTA parties and scout troop meetings? Your dog's personality should be compatible with the level of activity in your home.
- Shy or nervous dogs prefer to live in a quieter and more stable home. It would be their worst nightmare to have to attend your kids' weekly soccer games or other sports matches.
Dog Breeds well suited to family life
- I know I said earlier that you should focus more on the individual dog than the breed, in particular, that was only partially true.
- Breeds tend to have behavioral traits that can be fairly predictable due to their long history of being bred for specific characteristics.
- But it's crucial to note that there is individual variation within every breed, just as there are personality differences between siblings in any family. Some may be more "introverted" while others want to enthusiastically greet every creature they meet.
- If you want to pick a pure bred dog, choose one who was bred to be sociable with people.
- The "gun dog" group is a good example of dogs who were bred to work alongside people. This group includes retrievers, labradors, spaniels, setters and more.
- Gun dogs tend to be enthusiastic team players, but they can be hard to live with because of their long youth before maturation and their high levels of energy. Many people love their friendly nature but are unprepared for their high energy levels.
- Other breeds that tend to be good with families include the cavalier King Charles spaniel, beagle, basset, havanese, boxer and Bernese mountain dog.
- Note: do not buy a puppy from a website without vetting them. Ideally, you will visit the breeder and meet the p
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Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
What does dog jealousy look like?
- Every dog is unique and communicates differently.
- Jealousy is how a dog likely feels.
- Dogs can demonstrate jealousy by demonstrating a variety of behaviors, such as pawing, barking, licking, hovering, getting into your space, inserting their bodies between you and another person or dog, destructive behaviors (such as chewing inappropriate items).
What to do to prevent dog jealousy around kids
- Try to identify if your dog's needs are being met.
- Provide your dog with lots of enrichment, such as opportunities to chew, sniff, dig and exercise.
- If you can, give your dog some focused attention, such as when your kids are at school or asleep.
- Ask your dog for an alternate behavior. For example, if they are jumping on you, ask them to lay on a mat instead. Or if they are pawing you, ask them to spin so that they have something less harmful to do with their feet.
- Use management equipment such as gates or pens to limit where your dog can go if you are doing something sensitive with your child, such as changing a diaper on the floor or doing arts and crafts with the kids.
- Set up predictable routines for your dog so they know what to expect and can worry less
- If your dog displays his jealousy by demonstrating "naughty" behaviors, it's especially important that you never leave the dog and child alone.
- Even if you are in the same room with your dog and child while you are cooking, folding laundry, checking email or scrolling social media, you aren't fully paying attention. Being "there" isn't enough to keep your dog or child safe.
- If your dog is frustrated or acting out, you can't let your guard down (or even leave "for just a second" to go pee). If you aren't there, you aren't able to keep anyone safe.
- If it's impossible for you to give your dog some focused attention, get help! Can you hire a dog walker or have a neighbor take your dog on outings.
Thank you for listening!
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- Worried about Growling? Get my free guide: ABC's of Growling: https://poochparenting.net/abcs-of-growling/
- Looking for QUICK answers to your dog and child questions? Just ask and my custom tool will give you the answer: www.poochparenting.net/askpoochparenting
Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
Enrichment Builds Relationships
- Not all playtime with kids and dogs has to involve them touching each other
- Kids can be involved in the care of their dog and this builds relationships too
- Kids can stuff food toys like Kongs and Toppl's, spreading ingredients on lickimats, making enrichment toys out of the items in the recycling bin
- Making enrichment food toys for dogs can improve kids fine and gross motor skills
- Spreading ingredients can be excellent sensory input for children because it involves the scents and textures of different ingredients
Safe Games and Playtime for Kids and Dogs
- Kids can throw balls or pieces of food from the other side of a barrier
- Toddlers and younger kids can roll balls on the floor or over the top of the coffee table while the dog chases it on the other side
- Games like Freeze Dance or Red Light Green Light are fun to play as a family with the dog and rely on rewarding the dog for sitting or laying down when family members go still
- Blowing meat-flavored bubbles for dogs
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- Looking for QUICK answers to your dog and child questions? Just ask and my custom tool will give you the answer: www.poochparenting.net/askpoochparenting
Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I’m your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I’m not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I’m a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you’ll feel like I’m chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you’ll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don’t forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
- Changes in routine can be difficult for dogs
- Dogs like predictability – it helps them know what to expect and to relax, knowing that YOU have things under control
- Practice ahead of time – especially before big life changes
Helping Dogs to Adjust to Start of School Year Routines
- Try to plan ahead as much as possible to make your routine as predictable as possible.
- The more frantic you feel, the less well you will be able to attend to your dog or children’s needs
- For school, try packing lunches and prepping breakfast ingredients in batches ahead of time and laying out clothing the night before
- Give your dog a frozen toppl or kong while you are busy; keep them behind a barrier so they don’t get in your way as you try to accomplish morning tasks
- Use a programmable coffee maker so that you can wake up to hot coffee already made
Helping Dogs to Adjust their Routines Before Baby
- Adjust your mindset and admit that your baby will likely take priority some of the time (you still love your dog and will be amazing as a dog parent, but if there is a diaper disaster, you will attend to that first before feeding the dog)
- Practice feeding and walking at slightly different times of the day
- Set up safety equipment in advance – will the dog be in a new zone some times of the day that they aren’t in now?
- Identify where you want your dog to sleep and practice any changes early so that your dog does not make any associations to the change with the arrival of baby
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- Looking for QUICK answers to your dog and child questions? Just ask and my custom tool will give you the answer: www.poochparenting.net/askpoochparenting
Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
Keeping Dogs Physically Stimulated
- Physical stimulation for dogs can include walks, hikes, running, swimming, playing with other dogs, playing active games with us, and more...
- It can be difficult for parents, especially with infants or young children, to leave the house to get their dogs exercise
- You can hire a dog walker to get your dogs out
- You can hire a babysitter so YOU can take your dogs out for physical exercise and bonding with your dog
Keeping Dogs Mentally Stimulated
- Mental stimulation is just as important as physical exercise
- Mental stimulation can include: food puzzles, games, training sessions, nose or scent work, playing hide and seek, learning tricks, doing therapy work, finding food scattered in the house or yard
- It's often easier for overwhelmed parents to offer their dogs mental stimulation than it is to provide physical exercise - it can be easier to do at home and if you are recovering from childbirth
- Taking slow walks with your dog in new places or even in your neighborhood, and letting them sniff as much as they want
Aim for "Good Enough" Parenting
- perfect parenting is a myth
- do the best you can and say goodbye to mom guilt because you are making an effort
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Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
What is Resource Guarding?
- Resource guarding happens when a dog is worried that we are going to take away something they care about.
- Resource guarding can happen over a food, toy, treat, chew, spaces (like a dog bed, your bed or the sofa) or with people
- Imagine eating at a restaurant and having your server try to take your unfinished meal over and over again. You'd get upset, right? This is likely how your dog feels - and they can begin to dread the approach of the person who often tries to take their belongings.
- Imagine instead your server keeps bringing you goodies or unexpected treats. Now, you will look forward to their approach.
- You want your dog to feel this way about you and your kids, if possible - you are the bearer of good things instead of the taker of good things.
Is Resource Guarding in Dogs Normal?
- Yes, resource guarding in dogs IS normal.
- It's scary and can be dangerous, especially if the dog leaves their treasure to chase away or bite a child to prevent them from getting closer.
Is Resource Guarding a Deal Breaker in Families with Kids?
- Resource guarding is often treatable and is quite manageable with reliable management
- Unfortunately, kids often forget to shut gates, doors or pens, so we can't rely on our kids to use management 100% effectively
- If your dog guards ONE item, such as food, it's easier to treat.
- If your dog guards spaces or items that become unpredictable, it's more difficult and you should reach out to a positive reinforcement dog professional.
- If your dog leaves their item to chase or bite people, the stakes are much higher in families with kids. I'd recommend a consultation with me or another professional you trust to make a deeper assessment of the circumstances.
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Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
Ignore Social Media Trends
- I blame social media for putting too much pressure on these first types of interactions with new baby - that they should be "photo or social media worthy"
- instead, consider this just one moment - they have a lifetime to build relationships
- prioritize safety. Put down the camera and be fully present
- be sure the dog is behind a barrier and or leashed when the baby is carried into the house
- if the dog is calm at a distance, you can bring them closer on a leash
- Reward calm behavior and move away if dog is too excited
You won't know how your dog will respond to your new baby
- If you have had a traumatic birth, you need to be careful how your dog greets you when you come home.
- Please limit dog kisses to the baby - why risk it?
- Not all licks are kisses - sometimes licking is a sign your dog is stressed
- Some dogs are predatory and respond differently than you hoped for
- Sign up for my newly recorded Paws to Pacifiers premium program to get a crash course on how to prepare your dog and life for baby and get a year of support inside The Pooch Parenting Society.
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Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
Why Your Child Might Accidentally Hurt or Provoke your Dog
- It's important for parents to understand normal behaviors in kids that accompany different developmental stages.
- Kids are curious and want to explore "what happens if"
- We need to react calmly and move our child away.
- Next, we need to explain why we do or don't do certain things, and then use management to prevent dangerous or unkind interactions in the future
- Natural consequences could include having less access to the dog
- It's also important to identify if your child is afraid of your dog or uncomfortable around them and is asking for more safe space (by kicking at or swatting at the dog)
How can I teach my children to respect and interact safely with our dog?
- Model the behavior you want your kids to demonstrate
- Most dogs don't like to be hugged - so don't hug your dog in front of your children. Even if YOUR dog likes to be hugged, your children will treat all dogs the way they treat yours.
- Eye contact is threatening to most dogs, so don't kiss your dog on the nose in front of your kids - this is how a lot of bites to kids happen. Again - even if your dog is okay with this, it puts your child's vulnerable face too close to the teeth of other dogs.
- Set some ground rules such as never bothering a dog when they are eating, chewing a bone or sleeping
- Use safe zones for both your kids and dogs, where they know that they will not be approached
- Invite dogs to you for petting instead of approaching them
- Notice dog body language and talk about it often - point out if your dog is showing signs of stress so your kids can learn to recognize them
Thank you for listening!
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- Worried about Growling? Get my free guide: ABC's of Growling: https://poochparenting.net/abcs-of-growling/
- Looking for QUICK answers to your dog and child questions? Just ask and my custom tool will give you the answer: www.poochparenting.net/askpoochparenting
Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
I believe in Gentle Parenting - will this parenting strategy work for both kids and dogs?
- 100% yes. Gentle Parenting relies on understanding and respect. It avoids punishment and instead uses strategies that involve setting healthy boundaries and building strong trusting relationships to set up individuals to be successful.
- scientific studies have established that in both children and dogs, we see behaviors that are rewarded more often - it feels like coaching
- this type of parenting can include natural consequences, such as losing access to the dog if the child is too rough. or if the puppy is biting too much, they may need to hang out in a safer space to calm down where they can't bite anymore.
- we learn to avoid triggers by setting up our kids and dogs for success. If they appear hesitant to do something, we dig in and try to identify why. Are they afraid? too tired? too overwhelmed or confused?
- By being curious, it can help us to change the environment to make them more successful
- Gentle parenting should not be confused with being "too soft." We definitely still use limits and set boundaries such as "I can't let you bother the puppy when he is asleep." or "I can't let you kick the dog when you are frustrated." In these circumstances, we would remove the child from the situation to prevent them from doing something harmful.
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Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
Best Practices for Supervising Kids and Dogs
- Understand what Supervision means
- What supervision is not:
- simply being in the same room as your kids and dogs
- napping on the sofa while your kids and dogs play (together or separately) in the room
- sleeping at night with your dog on your bed and your infant in the same room
- scrolling social media, talking on the phone, or playing Candy Crush while your kids and dogs are in the same space
- making dinner, folding laundry or taking a shower while your kids and dogs are in the same room
- driving while your dog is loose in the back seat with your child or even restrained within arm's reach of your child
- What supervision IS:
- giving 100% of your attention to your kids and dogs together
- sitting between your dog and child as they play calmly on the floor
- sitting between your dog and child as you watch a tv show or movie
- sitting between your dog and child as you read together
- playing games with your child and dog with your dog on a leash
- helping your child toss balls, toys or treats to the dog over a baby gate
- making dinner, folding laundry or taking a shower while your dog is on one side of a barrier and your child is in the room with you (or vice versa)
- having safe zones or "yes spaces" where nervous children or dogs can relax and decompress without any pressure to interact with each other
- Tools that can help you to create
- Pens
- Baby Gates - traditional or retractable depending on your space
- Leashes
- Crates
- Doors
- Tethers (ONLY if your child can not approach your tethered dog)
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Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
Growling - What it means and how to prevent it
- Growling is scary. But the good news is that it's communication
- Growling can be compared to the yellow light of a traffic signal - it's a warning that something major is about to happen. Imagine how many accidents there would be if lights went straight from green to red.
- Don't punish the growl - thank your dog for telling you they are uncomfortable
- Look for the trigger - Get Curious
- Why is your dog growling? Look around and see if you can spot what's troubling him.
- Look for patterns and intervene before the growl
- Remove the trigger, not your dog
- By responding to your dog's body language and offering relief, your dog will trust that you will meet his needs
- If your dog's behavior has changed suddenly, it's time to book an appointment with your veterinarian to rule out pain, a common cause of growling.
- Management is your best friend - use gates, pens and other barriers to give your dog space to avoid triggers that cause discomfort and growling
Thank you for listening!
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Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
In Episode 3, I talk about some common signs that your dog is stressed or anxious around children?
- Most parents are not fluent in dog body language - why would you be?
- Some common body language in dogs may not look like communication - so it's easy to miss
- Common behaviors that dogs use to communicate include: yawn, paw lift, look away, lip lick. All of these indicate stress or discomfort
- Other signs of tension include ears that are back towards the head, a tight, closed mouth, a low tail and a stiff body
- A common misconception is that dogs often lay down and show us their belly because they want to be petted. Unfortunately, this posture often means the opposite. The dog is hoping that if they are still that we will just go away. How do you know then when your dog really wants a belly rub? She will approach you with a soft, wiggly body and offer herself for affection.
- Some dogs walk away or hide when they are uncomfortable around kids
- Other dogs approach us, as if asking for support. They may hide behind our legs or sit behind our body.
- We need to teach children to respect dogs - one easy way to do this is to have the kids invite the dog over for attention instead of approaching the dog directly. This gives the dog the opportunity to give consent for the interaction or opt out
- Parenting kids and dogs is actually very similar!
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Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
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In Episode 2, I talk about parenting overwhelm when raising kids and dogs at the same time.
Common concerns parents with dogs have include:
- I can't get anything done. How am I supposed to do daily tasks like cooking, laundry and playing with my kids, while I keep an eye on my kids and dogs.
- it's hard enough to just parent kids or dogs alone, let alone together - this is a normal experience that nobody talks about
- management, such as baby gates, pens and doors are the best strategy to provide safe spaces for both your kids and your dogs and to allow you to take a break.
- Like we talked about in Episode 1 of the series, being in the same room isn't enough to keep everyone safe - bites can happen right in front of you if you don't know what to look for
- parents also wonder if they made a mistake by raising kids and dogs together or if they should not have added another dog to the mix
- social media often makes us doubt our parenting skills or our dog training skills because everyone's lives look so much easier and safer than ours.
- parents with new babies often feel guilty because their dog is getting the short end of the stick or they wonder if the dog would be better off living elsewhere
If you could use some emotional support in your baby's first year (alongside your dog), don't miss The Pooch Parenting Society, the only program designed to provide ongoing support for families raising kids and dogs together. From one mom to another, it's a game changer. safekidsanddogs.com
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Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
In Episode 1, I talk about 5 mistakes most parents with dogs make.
- wearing rose colored glasses and assuming things will be fine
- not using management to create safe spaces for kids and dogs
- assuming that being in the same room is the same as "supervising" kids and dogs
- not noticing or understanding dog body language
- not preparing dogs before baby
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In the coming weeks, I'll be releasing a special limited series called Parenting Kids and Dogs 101. Each of the 15 episodes covers one of the top questions parents (or prospective parents) of kids and dogs have asked me over the years.
I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
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If you’re pregnant and have a velcro dog who follows you everywhere, panics when you leave the room, or constantly needs to be touching you, you’re not alone. Many dogs form deep attachments to their pregnant owner, but this can become a challenge once the baby arrives. After all, you’ll need to sleep, feed, and care for your newborn without a dog glued to your side.
In today’s episode, we’ll talk about why some dogs become hyper-attached during pregnancy, the potential risks this can create once the baby arrives, and—most importantly—how you can start preparing your velcro dog now so that they feel safe, secure, and comfortable being separated from you when needed. Whether your dog struggles with anxiety, follows you from room to room, or whines when you close a door, I’ll walk you through practical steps to help them adjust before baby arrives.
The Top 3 Immediate Steps to Prepare Your Dog
I. Why Dogs Become Hyper-Attached During Pregnancy
- Changes in scent, hormones, and mama's body shape
- Increased resting periods or physical changes that invite closeness
- Emotional changes in the pregnant parent and how dogs pick up on them
- Pregnancy shifts household routines
- Does your dog actually have Separation Anxiety, a panic disorder?
II. Why This Becomes a Problem Once Baby Arrives
- If your dog has Separation Anxiety, a true panic disorder, training sessions (aka. "missions") are difficult with a newborn, baby or toddler
- Safety concerns: preventing tripping hazards and interference during feedings
- Sleep safety risks for the baby if the dog can’t be separated
- Increased stress for the parents and possibly the dog
III. Early Steps to Encourage Healthy Independence
- Teaching the dog to settle away from the parent
- Introducing positive alone time gradually with short, structured separations
- Reinforcing calm behavior when the dog is not attached to the parent - using a remote treat dispenser, such as the Treat and Train
IV. Practical Training Exercises
- Creating positive associations with a crate, playpen, or separate space, using remote treat dispensers, chews, frozen food toys such as the Toppl
- Using baby gates or barriers in a stress-free way
- Training a reliable cue for independent relaxation
- Building confidence through enrichment and independent activities
- Work with a CSAT (Certified Separation Anxiety Specialist) if your dog has separation anxiety
V. Preparing for Real-Life Transitions
- Practicing bedtime routines where the dog sleeps separately
- Practice parents leaving the dog to respond to baby sounds in another room
- Brief separations while a parent makes meals, showers, or does laundry, for example
- Planning for postpartum changes (who will take the dog out, how to maintain routine)
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Adopting an infant is a life-changing event, and when it happens suddenly, there’s little time to prepare—especially for your dog. If you’re a parent bringing home a baby through adoption, you might be wondering: How will my dog react? What can I do right away to make this transition easier? Today, I’m sharing the top three things you should do immediately to help your dog adjust to your growing family. Whether you’ve had months or just days to get ready, these steps will set the stage for a safe and smooth transition.
Your Dog Needs Gifts Too!
If you are lucky enough to have time for a baby shower before you get "the call"...or even if you don't (and you find yourself rushing to pick up your infant), you can tell your friends that a few targeted gifts would really help your dog with this big transition. Feel free to grab my free download, Dog Essentials for Your Baby Registry and share it with your loved ones.
Adoption will Lead to Big Changes for Your Dog
- How dogs react to sudden changes in their environment
- The importance of structure, predictability, and gradual introductions
- Common concerns: stress, excitement, or anxiety
The Top 3 Immediate Steps to Prepare Your Dog
- Establish a Safe Space & New Boundaries
- Why your dog needs a designated “safe zone”.
- Pen / crate training or using baby gates to create separation when needed. Order equipment asap so it's there when you get home. Below are my top suggestions for items you should have on hand for safety.
- Teaching your dog to settle independently before the baby arrives if you have the luxury of time before you go pick up your infant
- Does your dog need a new sleeping location for bedtime?
- Introduce New Sounds and Routines
- Playing recorded baby sounds at a low volume to desensitize your dog
- Practicing adjusted walking schedules, feeding and play times
- Supervised Introductions & Management Strategies
- The first meeting: keeping it calm and controlled.
- Dog should be leashed and / or behind a barrier at first.
- Recognizing early signs of stress in your dog
Related Product Suggestions for Parents of Toddlers and Dogs
- My top Safety and Management Equipment suggestions
- My top Meal Enrichment items to give your dogs mental stimulation at mealtimes or when separated
- My top Treats and Chews suggestions to give dogs something to do when parents can't pay attention to them
- My top suggestions for managing noise if you are worried your dog might wake your baby (aside from training to modify the situation in the first place)
- If you are worried about dog hair or other messes, here are my top suggestions for Cleaning Up
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If you’re raising kids and dogs under the same roof, you know there’s never a dull moment—especially when your little one discovers the dog’s water bowl. While this might seem like harmless toddler curiosity, there are some safety concerns you’ll want to keep in mind, both for your child and your dog. In today’s episode, I'll discuss why kids are drawn to dog water bowls, the potential risks involved, and how to redirect that curiosity into safe, fun water play opportunities. So, grab a cup of coffee—or water!—and let’s get into it.
Why Are Kids Drawn to Dog Water Bowls?
- Exploration and sensory play
- The appeal of "forbidden" objects.
- They want to "help" you to water the plants or wash the floor.
- If the dog can move their bowl, so can the toddler.
Safety Concerns with Dog Water Bowls
- Drowning - possible in as little as an inch or two of water
- Slipping hazards around spilled water
- Risk of a dog resource guarding the bowl and then chasing, lunging or snapping at or biting the child
How to Respond When Your Toddler Plays in the Dog’s Water Bowl
- Gentle redirection strategies:
- How to approach the situation without scolding.
- Tips for staying calm and modeling appropriate interactions.
- Using baby gates or barriers to limit access to the dog’s feeding area.
- Creating a designated space for your dog’s water and food that’s out of reach of small children.
Encouraging "Legal and Approved" Water Play for Kids
- Easy and fun water play alternatives:
- Sensory bins with water and toys.
- Water tables for outdoor or indoor use.
- Bath time activities that mimic the experience of splashing in a bowl.
- Teaching boundaries: Helping kids learn the difference between their toys and the dog’s resources.
Related Product Suggestions for Parents of Toddlers and Dogs
- No splash dog water bowl.
- Hanging water bowls for crates or kennels
- Water table for toddlers 1.5 years old and up.
- Bath toys for curious toddlers
- Watering can for children
- Washable, non-slip reusable potty pads, ideal for putting under a water table to absorb spills and splashes
Supportive resources for parents with dogs
I have a handout for parents about how to manage toddlers playing in the dog water bowl. Members of The Pooch Parenting Society get a handout every month - and this one is on the calendar to be delivered soon. If you found this podcast helpful, I offer ongoing, affordable support. Join the Club! The Pooch Parenting Society is the only membership of it's kind - offering compassionate EXPERT and relatable advice FOR parents with dogs from a certified professional dog trainer, family dog mediator, mom and credentialed teacher. You don't have to go through this parenti
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In this episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast, I'm tackling one of the most difficult and heart-wrenching topics for dog-loving families: when to consider behavioral euthanasia for a dog with a significant bite history. This is a decision no parent ever wants to face, and it’s one filled with complex emotions, from love and guilt to grief and responsibility.
As a dog behavior consultant who specializes in helping parents raising kids and dogs together, I understand how deeply we bond with our dogs and how agonizing it can be to weigh our love for the family dog, quality of life and the well-being and safety of our families. Today, I’ll explore how to assess your situation, when it might be time to say goodbye, and how to support your children through this challenging time. Most importantly, I’ll do it with empathy, compassion, and an understanding that love is at the heart of every decision you make.
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In this episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast, we’re diving into a topic that many parents face: what to do when your toddler or young child is too rough with the family dog.
Maybe you’ve caught your little one pulling the dog’s tail, giving overly enthusiastic hugs, or even climbing on them like they’re a jungle gym. You love both your child and your dog, but you’re worried about how these interactions might affect their safety and their bond.
The good news is, rough behavior is a common phase in childhood, and with the right strategies, you can help your child learn to interact with your dog in a gentle, safe, and positive way. In this episode, we’ll explore why this happens, how to set your child and dog up for success, and what to do when things get a little too rough.
So, whether you’re feeling overwhelmed or just looking for tips to make life smoother for your family, you’re in the right place.
Why Rough Behavior Happens
- Curiosity and lack of impulse control are normal developmental behaviors in toddlers and young children
- Kids and parents can misunderstand dog body language and can think this type of behavior is acceptable.
- Examples of typical rough behaviors: pulling tails, climbing on the dog, hugging too tightly, etc.
Why Rough Handling of Dogs Is a Problem
- Potential risks: stress for the dog, fear, growling, or even biting.
- Rough handling can damage the child-dog bond over time.
- Many parents (and kids, of course) miss common dog stress signals (ie, lip licking, yawning, avoiding the child).
Setting Toddlers and Young Kids Up for Success Around Dogs
- Supervision: Always be paying attention when dogs and kids are in the same space and when they are interacting with each other.
- Separation: Use barriers like baby gates or playpens when supervision isn’t possible.
- Safe Spaces: Teach children that the dog’s bed or crate is off-limits. If the dog is on the sofa or resting anywhere, they should be left alone, as if surrounded by hot lava.
Teaching Toddlers and Young Kids to be Gentle with Dogs
- Age-appropriate ways to teach children how to interact with dogs gently.
- Modeling soft petting.
- Using stuffed animals to practice gentle touch.
- Role-playing with the child.
- Read some of my favorite books with your toddlers, including: Tails are Not for Pulling, Hands are Not for Hitting and Love Me Gently.
- Clear and consistent rules (e.g., no hugging or climbing on the dog).
Managing Expectations for Parents
- Setting realistic boundaries for what the dog can tolerate based on its temperament and age.
- Avoid placing the dog in situations where rough handling might happen.
Strengthening the Child-Dog Bond
- Activities where kids can positively engage with the dog under supervision (e.g., training tricks, feeding, or tossing a toy).
- Reinforcing good be
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Picture this: A parent is hosting a lively party. The house is full of guests, kids are running around, and the family dog is right in the middle of it all. It seems like a perfect celebration—until something goes terribly wrong. Amid the chaos, the dog, overwhelmed and unsupervised, bites a guest. What started as a joyful gathering has now turned into a stressful and regrettable situation.
In this episode, we’ll unpack this story, which happened to a client of mine living in San Francisco, to understand what went wrong and, more importantly, how you can prevent something like this from happening at your own events. We’ll explore:
- How dogs react to busy social environments, especially if they aren't used to them.
- The impact of parental overwhelm on managing kids and pets during parties.
- Practical strategies to keep everyone—dogs, kids, and guests—safe and happy at social events.
Whether you’re planning a holiday get-together, a birthday party, or just a casual hangout with friends, this episode will equip you with the tools to navigate these situations with confidence.
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I'm excited to share my holiday gift pick of the year for families with kids and dogs - Hide and Scent - The Ultimate Game of Hide and Seek for Dogs, Kids Edition. It's a fun and simple nose work game for dogs and children to play together. It offers dogs and kids a safe way to interact that doesn't require physical contact - a huge win for dogs who may be shy, fearful or even those who are overly excited.
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A lot of my clients seem to be very uncomfortable with the idea of separating their dog and child for safety reasons. But I recently had an epiphany - they all assumed that separation was the same as isolation. And it's not.
Using management strategies, such as using a pen to cordon off an area for a child to play, provide separation between the dog and child. But neither the dog or child is isolated. Everyone can still see each other. The parent can still interact with everyone. And with time and patience, everyone can be very comfortable and safe with such an arrangement.
So now, I am always reminding clients that "Separation is not the same as isolation." It's simply a way for parents to function and do the impossibly difficult job of raising kids and dogs together.
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I recently heard from a family whose rescue dog bit their young child. They told me that they have a "one bite policy" with pet dogs and that now the dog needs to go. While I completely understand their rule and their decision, I like to encourage families to consider the WHOLE situation, both from the human perspective and from the dog's perspective. Dog bites are awful, but they are also often quite complicated with several mitigating factors.
One Bite Policy From the Family's Perspective
- Download this free guide to understand why your dog might growl: ABC's of Growling: https://poochparenting.net/abcs-of-growling/
- It's terrifying when a dog bites a child and the trauma can be hard to recover from
- A child deserves to feel physically and emotionally safe at home
- Parents already have a lot on their plate and sometimes it's easier to limit complications to make life easier and safer
- Dog behavior can be confusing and it's easy to miss subtle signs of stress in dogs
- It can be confusing if a dog bites a child "who was just trying to pet her." From the parent's perspective the child's behavior is no big deal - but dogs don't bite for no reason. It's important to consider "the why" - was the dog in pain, afraid, startled awake from a deep sleep or disturbed while chewing a bone?
- Parents might not know the learning or genetic history of a rescue dog, inadvertently bringing a fearful, nervous or anxious dog into their home.
- Kids are hard. Their behavior changes constantly as they grow and develop, and it can be hard to stay on top of polite and respectful behavior around animals.
- Having a "one bite policy" gives parents a clear guideline to follow, so they don't get confused by their conflicting emotions.
- When parents are afraid of their child or visitors getting hurt again in the future, they may not be willing to consider that bites can be prevented with adequate management, working with a dog and child specialist or learning to read dog body language
- Rehoming a dog does NOT mean you don't love them. Sometimes loving an animal means setting them up for success elsewhere.
One Bite Policy From the Dog's Perspective
- Kids can be scary and unpredictable.
- A rescue dog may have arrived with past trauma related to inappropriate behavior by children.
- A dog who doesn't feel safe expresses themself by demonstrating a variety of body language - some subtle and some quite overt.
- By biting a child, dogs can often stop the child from being disrespectful.
- It should not be the dog's responsibility to stop a child from being a perceived threat. That's the role of the adults.
- Dogs don't usually bite for no reason. It's important for people to get curious about what the possible causes could have been.
- A single bite may not be adequate at determining if the dog should remain in the home. Some dogs bite for good reason and some types bites can be prevented in the future by using effective management and learning to read dog body language
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If you are a birth worker, such as a doula, midwife, lactation consultant or night nurse, who sees clients in their own homes, there is a very good chance that you will interact with family pets. Because families are hiring you to help them ease their transition into new parenthood, their pets (dogs, in particular) will play a large part into the new family dynamic. And let's be honest - they are hiring you because you are a baby expert...not because you are a dog expert. And why should you be? But the truth of the matter is that you may notice some unsafe behavior in the family dog that worries you about the future safety of the new baby...and the sanity of the new parents. In this podcast episode, I discuss what red flags to look for in dogs before baby comes home, and what to do if you are concerned about dog and baby safety.
Dog Red Flags for In-Home Birth Workers
- Download this free guide outlining which red flags in dogs dogs might ultimately impact dog and baby safety: https://poochparenting.net/baby-professionals/
- If your client says:
- "my dog doesn't like kids."
- "my dog is reactive and I am worried about his response to baby"
- "our dog has a bite history."
- "I wish I understood my dog better."
- "I'm worried our dog will be jealous / overprotective of the new baby."
- If YOU feel unsafe around the dog at any point working with this family, entering their home, or even when you get up to leave
- If the dog currently sleeps in your client's bed or in the room where the baby will be sleeping
What to do if parents need extra support
- Refer out to a dog and child specialist, such as me at Pooch Parenting.
- Sometimes, dogs need medical support in order to make more progress with issues like anxiety and fear. Working in combination with me and a veterinary behaviorist can often offer the relief families and their dogs need to provide a safe environment for baby to thrive.
- The Animal Behavior Clinic in Portland, Oregon is an excellent option for veterinary behavior support. Even if you don't live in Oregon, they may be able to share their expertise and collaborate with your own local vet.
I also discuss some simple tips for bringing baby home to meet the dog, why bringing home a baby blanket from the hospital is not a good idea, and where dogs should sleep.
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Moms are often very busy, so it's understandable that they might try to do family outings that meet the needs of their kids and dogs at the same time. But unfortunately, dog parks are not a safe place to bring children. So, if the question ever enters your mind, "should I bring the kids with me to the dog park?", please opt out and consider what else might be an appropriate outing.
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The single most prevalent piece of dog and newborn advice that I see on social media is for people to bring home the hospital baby blanket for your dog to sniff before baby comes home. I wanted to bust this myth and to share how at the very best, this misguided advice could be neutral...and at the worst, it could even be dangerous.
Why people advise to bring home the hospital baby blanket for your dog to smell
- They think that simply smelling something will build a positive association
- It's doable, which must be better than nothing, right?
- In dog training, we often expose dogs to certain stimuli to make positive associations. So the same concept should apply here, right? (hint - NO)
Risks of bringing home the baby blanket for the dog to sniff
- This step is rushed and no effort is made to pair the blanket with good things from the dog's perspective
- If a parent leaves the blanket unattended with the dog, it could be used as a dog bed, could be torn up or used to play tug - all of which could be dangerous when baby comes home and wears a blanket later
- The blanket smells like the hospital, nursing staff, and many other pungent odors - what is the dog really smelling?
- It can get the dog too excited about the arrival of the baby later.
Other supportive resources for parents with dogs
Looking for some confidence about navigating life with your dog and newborn? Get on the waitlist for Paws to Pacifiers, my live 6-week small group program for expecting or adopting parents with dogs. This program is only offered three times a year, so by signing up for the waitlist, you will be the first to hear when registration opens again.
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If your toddler is a little Jack-in-the-box and gets out of bed several times a night, you are not alone. But if you have a dog, we need to consider how to prevent interactions between your toddler and pup in the middle of the night when you aren't supervising.
Why do toddlers get out of bed at night?
- They are going through a developmental shift which interrupts their sleep.
- They need to be comforted and are looking for their parents.
- They are experimenting with climbing and with boundaries
- They need to potty or get a drink of water
- They don't feel well
Dog Safety with toddlers who don't stay in bed at night
- If you are asleep or are in another room, you can't supervise interactions between your dog and toddler
- By using a baby gate on your toddler's door, they can't leave or interact with the dog
- If your toddler sleeps in your room, you can close your room or put a baby gate on your door to prevent them from wandering the house or interacting with the dog
- If the dog sleeps elsewhere, you can put a baby gate in a hallway to prevent your toddler from entering the space where the dog sleeps
- You can put a pen around the dog's crate to prevent the toddler from letting the dog out of the crate or from poking their fingers into the crate
Other supportive resources for parents with dogs
Listen to my limited series podcast, Parenting Kids and Dogs 101 here, on my website, or on your favorite podcast player.
It's only natural for questions about our kids and dogs to arise from time to time, especially as our babies grow up and our dogs mature. And if I'm being honest, it's not really worth asking for free advice from friends or online because you can't rely on the accuracy of the feedback you are getting. If you'd like to learn more about The Pooch Parenting Society, where I offer practical life and science-based tips and strategies, ongoing support and a safe place to share, head on over to www.safekidsanddogs.com. From one parent to another, I see you and I promise, you're not alone.
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If you have ever wondered if your dog should be licking your baby in the face or what to do about it, this is the episode for you. I discuss what dog licks might mean, why it might not be such a good idea, and why bringing in a dog expert might help you to get more clarity.
Why do dogs lick babies?
- Babies taste good to dogs. They might taste like milk or even spit up. Yum!
- Dogs are curious and like to explore with their sense of taste.
- Your dog may be uncomfortable and might be using a form of appeasement.
- Your dog could be predatory.
- Your dog might be trying to assertively push the baby away.
Risks of allowing dogs lick newborn babies
- Your newborn doesn't yet have a strong immune system...and dogs lick their butts along with other gross items, such as dead animals or poop.
- The "sharp end" of the dog can be unsafe around the vital regions of your baby's body (head and neck)
- If your dog is stressed and is pushing baby away, this pressure might push your infant off your lap or sofa and onto the floor
- If you are unclear if your dog is acting predatory, it's not a risk worth taking
Other supportive resources for parents with dogs
Listen to my limited series podcast, Parenting Kids and Dogs 101 here, on my website, or on your favorite podcast player.
It's only natural for questions about our kids and dogs to arise from time to time, especially as our babies grow up and our dogs mature. And if I'm being honest, it's not really worth asking for free advice from friends or online because you can't rely on the accuracy of the feedback you are getting. If you'd like to learn more about The Pooch Parenting Society, where I offer practical life and science-based tips and strategies, ongoing support and a safe place to share, head on over to www.safekidsanddogs.com. From one parent to another, I see you and I promise, you're not alone.
Thank you for listening!
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- Worried about Growling? Get my free guide: ABC's of Growling: https://poochparenting.net/abcs-of-growling/
- Looking for QUICK answers to your dog and child questions? Just ask and my custom tool will give you the answer: www.poochparenting.net/askpoochparenting
Worrying about how your dog will respond to your new baby might keep you up at night. Lots of people who are pregnant, adopting or using a surrogate experience the same thing. Fortunately for you, there are specialists, like me, who can help you to prepare your dog for new baby ahead of time.
In my new free guide, 5 Essential Steps to Prepare Your Dog for New Baby, I share simple "recipes" to help you ensure a safe and happy transition for your growing family. Download the guide here**.
5 Essential steps to prepare your dog for new baby**
- Use positive reinforcement training
- Set up a safe Haven for your dog
- Get your dog familiar with baby sounds and equipment
- Shift your dog's routines to help them be more flexible
- Come up with various supervision and management strategies
Other supportive resources for parents with dogs
Listen to my limited series podcast, Parenting Kids and Dogs 101 here, on my website, or on your favorite podcast player.
It's only natural for questions about our kids and dogs to arise from time to time, especially as our babies grow up and our dogs mature. And if I'm being honest, it's not really worth asking for free advice from friends or online because you can't rely on the accuracy of the feedback you are getting. If you'd like to learn more about The Pooch Parenting Society, where I offer practical life and science-based tips and strategies, ongoing support and a safe place to share, head on over to www.safekidsanddogs.com. From one parent to another, I see you and I promise, you're not alone.
Thank you for listening!
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- Worried about Growling? Get my free guide: ABC's of Growling: https://poochparenting.net/abcs-of-growling/
- Looking for QUICK answers to your dog and child questions? Just ask and my custom tool will give you the answer: www.poochparenting.net/askpoochparenting
What if my dog doesn’t like my baby? What if my dog accidentally hurts my kids? What if my kids accidentally hurt our dog? When should we add a puppy to our family? Am I a horrible person if I feel like it’s too hard to parent kids and dogs at the same time?
If you’re a dog mom who’s having a baby soon, who’s worrying about how your dog responds to your newly mobile toddler, who’s considering adding another dog or child to your family, or who’s wondering how to tame the chaos that comes from living with kids and dogs at the same time, this is the podcast for you.
Parenting Kids and Dogs 101 is a limited series podcast packed with actionable tips on how to make living with kids and dogs safer, less stressful, and more enjoyable. Whether you are an experienced dog mom who is new to parenting or you are an experienced parent who is new to dogs, this podcast will offer you tried and true strategies that will help all of your family members (dogs included, of course) to have the relationship you always dreamed of. Hosted by certified professional dog trainer, mom and former teacher Michelle Stern, each episode will answer questions that keep worried parents up at night.
For some of my best resources and to start the process of making your life with kids and dogs less stressful, download the free workbook that accompanies this podcast series.
Ongoing support for parents with dogs
It's only natural for questions about our kids and dogs to arise from time to time, especially as our babies grow up and our dogs mature. And if I'm being honest, it's not really worth asking for free advice from friends or online because you can't rely on the accuracy of the feedback you are getting. If you'd like to learn more about The Pooch Parenting Society, where I offer practical life and science-based tips and strategies, ongoing support and a safe place to share, head on over to www.safekidsanddogs.com. From one parent to another, I see you and I promise, you're not alone.
Thank you for listening!
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- If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review on Apple Podcasts.
- Worried about Growling? Get my free guide: ABC's of Growling: https://poochparenting.net/abcs-of-growling/
- Looking for QUICK answers to your dog and child questions? Just ask and my custom tool will give you the answer: www.poochparenting.net/askpoochparenting
In this episode, I want to normalize the BIG worries that expecting parents with dogs often have about integrating their fur babies with their newborns. Having a growing family leads to HUGE feelings...for all family members, dogs included. It's a mistake to assume that dogs will "get used to it" without adequate preparation ahead of time. Unless parents get empathetic, supportive advice about how to help their dogs with this giant transition, expecting families face unnecessary stress, fear, and anxiety.
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In today's episode I'm talking with Mary Peterson Cook about RV travel and RV life on the road with kids and dogs. As summer winds down, you might be hitting the road for one last adventure before school begins. RV travel is a fantastic option for families with kids and dogs, but there are some safety issues that you should know about ahead of time. So whether you need to hear this now or before a summer adventure next year, don't miss this engaging discussion.
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In today's episode I'm going out on a limb here to make a grand statement about THE Biggest mistake dog moms make before adding a baby to their family. Listen to the episode to find out what it is...
The episode includes these topics:
- we can't predict how our dog will feel once baby arrives if they live in a child free home now
- you have not seen how your dog behaves when living full time with a baby, toddler or child in the house
- you may not know how your dog will respond to receiving a LOT less attention than they do now
- the dog might be frustrated at an ever changing schedule
- the dog might become destructive out of boredom from lack of physical or mental stimulation while you focus on the new baby
- My upcoming FREE Bootcamp: Preventing Dog Jealousy - Pre-Baby Bootcamp in June
If you are expecting or adopting a baby and your dog was your "first baby," then this episode is for you. I'm thrilled to announce that I'm offering a free bootcamp on Preventing Dog Jealousy: Pre-baby Bootcamp.
In this bootcamp, we will talk about jealousy in dogs, what it looks like, and more importantly, how to prevent it. I know that bringing a new baby into the family can be stressful, especially when you have a furry friend who's used to being the center of attention. That's why I want to help you prepare your dog for the arrival of your new baby.
The bootcamp is completely free and will cover a variety of topics you need to know to prevent dog jealousy. We'll discuss how to introduce your dog to your baby, how to create a safe and comfortable environment for your dog, and how to manage jealousy if it arises. You'll also get a chance to ask any questions you may have about your specific situation.
The bootcamp is perfect for anyone who wants to ensure a smooth transition for their dog when the baby arrives. Whether you're a first-time parent or you're adding another baby to your family, this bootcamp is for you. You'll learn practical tips and strategies that you can start implementing right away.
Sign Up for the FREE Bootcamp by visiting: https://poochparenting.net/jealousy/.
It's that easy.
And if you're listening to this episode after the bootcamp has ended, don't worry. You can still visit the poochparenting.net website to access a variety of other resources.
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In episode 72 of the Pooch Parenting Podcast, I share brief stories of 4 recent clients so you can see examples of the types of people who choose to work with a dog and child specialist.
Lots of dog trainers are generalists who have skills that can help you a little bit with a lot of challenging situations.
But if you have a specific challenge, such as living with kids and dogs at the same time, a generalist might not be the answer.
Instead, seeing a dog and child specialist is the way to go.
You are familiar with using specialists. If you had a baby, you had an OB. If you needed support with breastfeeding, you worked with a lactation consultant. If your child had a tongue tie, you saw a specialized doctor to release it.
So why wouldn't you want to work with a specialist if you wanted to prepare your dog for new baby or if your dog growled at your toddler. Or maybe you want to add the "right fit dog" to your family with kids.
Can you relate? If so, I'm here for you.
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In this episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast, I'm discuss a wonderful shift that's taking place in the dog training and behavior industry. It's called Family Dog Mediation and I learned about it from Kim Brophey, an applied ethologist and one of my colleagues. Her revolutionary LEGS model introduces us to the basic foundational system of elements that direct the behavior of every single animal on earth (including us, of course) and explains what it means for our family dogs. This episode dives into this approach of working with families living with kids and dogs at the same time, and offers some perspective on the contributing factors to the behavior and feelings of each member of the household, dog included.
Topics in this episode include:
- factors that impact behavior of parents, kids, and dogs
- how normal it is for parents to be overwhelmed raising kids and dogs together
- whether or not training is the best way to address dog behavior challenges
- the LEGS model for behavior: learning, environment, genetics and self
- Family Dog Mediation and how it helps us to manage our expectations of our dogs
- If you are a dog professional and want to take Kim's amazing Family Dog Mediation Professional Course, you can find it here.
- If you are a family with a dog and want to learn more about dogs and dog behavior, Kim has a special course for you too called The Dog's Truth.
Realistic Expectations for Parents with Kids and Dogs
You love your dog. Of course you do. But if you’re being honest, sometimes they can be difficult to live with. Perhaps they bark too much, are too clingy, growl at your toddler or hate being separated from all of their family members, even for a few minutes. And let’s face it – the stakes are high when you are raising kids and dogs together. You can’t wait until something dangerous happens before you seek help – you need support as soon as you see even a single red flag.
It’s easy to hope for a quick fix and to “train” the annoying behavior away. But I’ll be totally honest with you (you can expect that from me), and say that sometimes training isn’t all that it’s cut out to be. Yes, I’m a dog trainer and I’m telling you that training isn’t always the answer. Ok – so what is?
Before you can resolve any of the challenging issues you might be facing with your dog, you need to understand all of the contributing factors to their behavior. But it actually goes deeper than that. We need to consider the contributing factors to YOUR behavior too! That's right - since your dog doesn't live in a bubble, it's crucial that we evaluate the whole picture, especially how you and your family members interact with the dog. And that’s where my specialized role as a Licensed Family Dog Mediator comes in.
Want some support to help you navigate your family and dog dynamics? I've got you.
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In today's episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast, we hear a question from a concerned mom whose dog snapped at her toddler and knocked him down. She says, "I'm scared" and I don't know what to do. She is worried that she would be crushed to rehome him, but that she also doesn't want to live in fear of her child getting hurt.
Topics on this episode include:
- why dogs growl and snap
- getting curious about the circumstances surrounding dog behavior we don't like
- using management when living with toddlers and dogs
- how to prevent the dog from feeling uncomfortable
- my favorite pen for dogs (or kids!): Toddleroo Play Yard
- training that does not rely on force, fear or pain
- working with anxious dogs and training strategies that work for all dogs
- reach out if you have your own question that you'd like me to consider for a future episode
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In this episode of The Pooch Parenting Podcast, we tackle the common dilemma of where to place your puppy's crate for optimal crate training. While many sources recommend placing the crate in the family room or the busiest area of the house, this may not always be the best choice for every family and every puppy. We explore the pros and cons of different crate placement options for families with kids and provide practical tips to help you find the perfect spot for your furry friend. If you're dealing with a curious puppy and a busy toddler , we've got you covered. Listen to this episode to learn how to balance your puppy's comfort and training needs!
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In today's episode of The Pooch Parenting Podcast, I am partnering with my friend Corinne of The Doodle Pro™. She shares a question with me from one of the members from The Doodle Pro's Honor Society about a maltipoo who is growling at their 7 year old daughter. Join us as we dive into doodle dog behavior, how to read body language, and what to do about growling.
Topics on this episode include:
- what is a doodle
- dog body language
- why dog's growl
- how to prevent dog growling
- consent in dogs
- when dogs growl at kids
- how to prevent dogs from feeling unsafe around kids
- The ABC's of Growling - How to Understand and Respond to Your Dog
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In today's episode of The Pooch Parenting Podcast, I'm responding to a concern faced by one of my students. She signed up for my Parenting Toddlers and Dogs online class after her dog growled at her toddler. Most baby books don't prepare parents for incidents like these, and it's often quite shocking when your "first baby" (your dog!) growls at your child! Luckily, you've got me - I am here to tell you what's not in most baby books, especially if your dog came first.
Included in the episode
- what parenting and baby books don't tell you
- dog growling at toddler
- toddler development
- how to prevent dogs from feeling unsafe around toddlers
- The ABC's of Growling - How to Understand and Respond to Your Dog
- Dogs and Toddlers - online class or a consultation with me
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In today's episode of The Pooch Parenting Podcast, I'm responding to two listener questions. One is from a parent and the other is from a dog training professional. Both inquire about 3-year old children who were bitten by their family dogs in the face. I discuss what could have contributed to this behavior and how to prevent it in the future. I also talk about some mindset shifts families need to consider when trying to have their kids and dogs live safely and happily together.
Topics on this episode include:
- toddlers hitting dogs
- puppy growling at toddler
- puppy biting toddler
- management strategies to prevent inappropriate interaction
- newly adopted dog - how it feels
- potential causes of dog or puppy growling
- support for parents with dogs
- The ABC's of Growling - How to Understand and Respond to Your Dog
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p.s. If you are a dog pro who wishes you had a little more confidence with clients who are adopting or expecting kids or who have children already, get on the waitlist for The Pooch Parenting Coach Collective. It's a supportive membership for dog professionals that offers live zooms, made-for-you handouts to give to clients with kids, and an interactive Facebook group.
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I have a series of posts on my Pooch Parenting Facebook page that all discuss different "Unpopular Opinions" related to dogs and children. My most recent post in the series generated some really interesting conversations about where people actually get their dogs and who should influence which dog a family selects.
New dog topics on this episode include:
- different ways that people get new dogs
- can the average pet parent tell if a dog likes their kids
- stress signals dogs can demonstrate that can be confusing
- who is qualified to give your family information about any particular dog
- traits families may want in a family dog
Do you have a question you'd like me to answer on the Pooch Parenting Podcast?
I love to answer listener questions on the podcast. If you'd like your question answered, please record it (like a voicemail!) here. I'll do my best to include it in a future episode.
p.s. If you are a dog pro who wishes you had a little more confidence with clients who are adopting or expecting kids or who have children already, get on the waitlist for The Pooch Parenting Coach Collective. It's a supportive membership for dog professionals that offers live zooms, made-for-you handouts to give to clients with kids, and an interactive Facebook group.
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This week's podcast episode is an excerpt from a live conversation that I had with a panel of Licensed Family Dog Mediators and Family Dog Specialists. This lively discussion includes Justine, founder of The Family Dog, Jennifer, founder of Family Paws, and Debby, founder of KAD, Kids Around Dogs. We talk about different strategies about how to make Halloween less spooky for your family dog.
Halloween topics we discuss include:
- preventing the dog from escaping through the front door
- how to read our dog's body language to identify stress
- should we dress dogs up in Halloween costumes
- if dogs should go trick or treating with the family
- dangerous ingredients for dogs
- how to manage excited and overly friendly dogs
- family appropriate activities for dogs during Halloween
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In today's interview, I speak with Norma Roth, co-author of the Lovable Lucy book series for early readers. She and her daughter wrote this series together about life with their beloved dog, Lucy. Together, they share stories about dogs that are relatable to all children.
The Lovable Lucy series promotes:
- problem solving
- confidence building
- inclusivity
- a sense of belonging and kindness
- language acquisition
- literacy skills
Don't miss your chance to win a copy of one of the Lovable Lucy books on www.poochparenting.net/episode63. Deadline to enter is October 31, 2022.
In today's interview, I read an email from a listener. She asked, "Is my dog racist?"
Topics we cover include:
- what is racism
- can a dog be racist
- factors that contribute to dog behavior
- cultural differences that might impact how dogs feel
- should you leave your dog home sometimes
- how to expose your dog to new stimuli
In today's interview, I speak with Corinne Gearhart, The Doodle Pro™. We discuss Doodles - the "breed" people love to hate.
Corinne is the host of the highly rated and popular The Doodle Pro™ Podcast that has most recently ranked #3 on the genre's US. Apple chart. She has personally worked with hundreds of doodle mixes over thousands of visits in Colorado, where she founded and runs the doodle exclusive Shed Free Stay™ boarding program. As the owner of The Doodle Pro™, she has grown to be a national expert on doodles via her membership program educational courses and materials. Her Fear Free and positive reinforcement education on dog training shines through in her approach to doodle parents as well- treating all pet parents with same respect and compassion she shows their dogs. She is driven to "Bridge the Doodle Divide™" that exists in the Pet Care Industry.
Topics we cover include:
- what is a Doodle
- what people love about them
- what challenges they can present to families (with kids of different ages and developmental stages)
- how to choose the best type of Doodle for your family and lifestyle.
In today's interview, I speak with Dr. Kris Freeark, child psychologist, family therapist and adoption educator. We chat about setting up appropriate expectations for dog families who are adopting a child.
Helping adoptive parents have realistic expectations around welcoming a new child (of whatever age) into the family, is critical to the family's success. Recognizing the adjustments involved for all family members -- human and canine -- can make all the difference between unnecessary strain and worry and an experience of trust-building and confidence. Kris helps adoptive parents build good communication with their children starting with the earliest conversations.
Kris loves to show people that openness in adoption is sometimes serious, but most of the time creative and fun. There is no "one size fits all" when it comes to building trust and connection. The unique parent-child (and -pet) combination guides what will work best for them.
Specialized Support Mentioned in this Podcast:
- Contact Kris
- Sanity Savers Online Summit for Parents with Dogs - a free online summit featuring 40(ish) speakers in just 40(ish) minutes. I know you are busy!
- The Pooch Parenting Society - a supportive membership for parents with dogs where I share training games, training tips and live Q/A's
- The Pooch Parenting Coach Collective - a membership for dog professionals who want to build their confidence so they can take on more clients who have children
Do you have a question you'd like me to answer on the Pooch Parenting Podcast?
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In today's episode, I talk about parent expectations for relatives when it comes to dog and child interactions. My friend shared a dramatic incident with me that she saw online between a set of parents and grandparents. The woman asked, "Am I in the wrong if I ask my in-laws to keep their dog away from our toddler?"
Family dynamics can be difficult, but it's important that we set everyone up with appropriate expectations for dog and child dynamics. Before families spend time with their relatives, it's best to discuss dog and child safety and management strategies ahead of time so that there is less tension during their holiday together.
Dog and Child Safety and Specialized Support
- Online Classes for parents and dog professionals
- Free online summit: Tips from Dog and Parenting Experts - 40 tips in 40 minutes
- The Pooch Parenting Society - a supportive membership for parents with dogs where I share training games, training tips and live Q/A's
- The Pooch Parenting Coach Collective - a membership for dog professionals who want to build their confidence so they can take on more clients who have children
In today's interview, I speak with Lisa Lyle Waggoner, author of The Original Rocket Recall. We chat about building strong relationships and recall with your dog.
Having a dog who can be off leash and have a reliable recall is the holy grail of dog training. While it's something that many of us aspire to, it's not always safe. Sometimes a dog being off leash is dangerous because of the risk of cars, predators, or bodies of water. Sometimes it's unsafe because a dog who is following their instinctual hunting behavior means that they take off...and dogs repeat what they practice.
I was in conflict. Should I let my dog be off leash in nature or should I make sure he is safe? I discuss these issues, along with fun games that can build strong relationships with you and your dog.
Resources and Mentions:
12 Rules of Rocket Recall - a free resource from Lisa
The Original Rocket Recall book, by Lisa Lyle Waggoner
Cold Nose College
Trailblazing Tails - the BEST leashes and longlines
Sarah Stremming - The Cog Dog Podcast
Grisha Stewart - Adjust Your Leash Length
The Pooch Parenting Society - a supportive membership for parents with dogs where I share training games, training tips and live Q/A's
The Pooch Parenting Coach Collective - a membership for dog professionals who want to build their confidence so they can take on more clients who have children
In this episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast, I talk about the importance of working with a specialist who will save time and money as you try to solve your dog related challenges. I'm currently raising a pair of orphaned dobermans and have been so grateful for the support I am getting from Puppy Culture. Similarly, when I needed to learn about aggressive behavior, I felt fortunate to be able to take a focused class from Michael Shikashio.
I'd love to be that kind of support for you - a dog and child specialist. Stop wasting time trying to get specialized help from a general practitioner - get the help you need from someone who can help you to make progress with your dogs and kids fast.
Resources mentioned in the episode
Dogwood Animal Rescue Project
Puppy Culture
Michael Shikashio
The Pooch Parenting Society - a supportive membership for parents with dogs
The Pooch Parenting Coach Collective - a membership for dog professionals who want to build their confidence so they can take on more clients who have children
To see a video of my puppies playing and an irresistible photo, please visit the show notes page: www.poochparenting.net/episode57
In this episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast, I talk with parenting coach, Mel Peirce. We talk about how to "parent from neutral." Our conversation covers topics that will set up parents and their dogs for success. We discuss parenting expectations, self-talk, and being proactive - all of which will help parents with their kids AND their dogs!
Topics we discuss include...
- Patterns in parenting, planning ahead, be proactive
- Parenting from Neutral
- Avoid situations where you "command and demand"
- Positive self talk: "I can handle this", "today's going to be a good day"
- The danger of having expectations in parenting
- Being curious as a strategy to increase parenting satisfaction
- Instead of spiraling, pause to consider what went well.
After trying barn hunt, a dog sport, for the first time with Pippin today, I got to thinking about comparisons between sports for dogs and sports for kids. Sometimes adults try to promote their own agenda when it comes to choosing family activities. But if I learned anything today, it was clear that the passion of the participant is one of the biggest factors we should consider when choosing a sport.
The Pooch Parenting Coach Collective - a membership for dog professionals who want to build their confidence so they can take on more clients who have children
The Pooch Parenting Society - a supportive membership for parents with dogs
The Barn Hunt Association
Barn Hunt - American Kennel Club
This podcast episode was inspired by a Facebook post written by a mother who was in distress because her dog had bitten two of her children, resulting in visits to the emergency room. I discuss what happens when dogs bite kids, including:
- who to ask for advice
- parenting challenges when living with kids and dogs
- factors about dogs to consider
- factors about kids to consider
Dog Advice
Who should you ask for advice about your dogs and children? Consider these factors:
- Your Budget - you will need to pay for professional help. This might include getting the help of a veterinary behaviorist, dog trainer and/or behavior consultant...and maybe a combination of all of these. If you can not afford to get adequate support, you may not be able to safely keep this dog as a member of your family and there is NO shame there.
- Expertise - don't ask for advice from people who are not qualified to give it. Other parents or dog owners have likely not spent years of their lives studying dog behavior. Just as FB is not a place to ask for medical advice, it's not the place to ask how to prevent dog bites to your children. It's 100% worth the investment to get help from a positive reinforcement professional. Your child and dog's lives are at stake. Dogs who bite kids don't usually have a very long lifespan, so don't mess around hoping for the best. This won't resolve itself.
- Asking for help on social media will likely lead to painful, shaming comments that will make you feel worse about yourself than you already do. Find someone compassionate to get support from instead.
Parenting Kids and Dogs
As a mom and teacher with 16 years of experience, I tend to truly understand what many families are going through, and love to offer them solutions that will make their lives easier. People who have not lived with young children don't understand how chaotic and stressful it can be.
It's important to be honest with yourself about your bandwidth and what you can actually implement with your dog. Perhaps all you can do right now is to use a baby gate to give your dog or children a safe space. If that is adequate to solve your problem, great. If not, you may need to make some hard decisions about your family's future with this dog. To make REAL change, you may need to commit to spending time, money and other resources on improving the dynamics at home between your dog and children.
Children
Kids can be hard to live with. And that's not an insult. It's just how it is. They are like puppies - curious about exploring the world and testing boundaries. This is all normal. But it can be a difficult combination with your dog. Not all dogs love living with kids, so it's important that you choose one who does. If your dog came first, you will have to put in some extra effort to help them adjust to life with kids. And for some dogs, that may not be possible.
The most common advice parents hear and trainers give parents is to "never leave your kids and dogs unsupervised." This is oversimplified and discounts how thinly parents are spread. You can use gates, pens, crates, and doors to separate kids and dogs when you can't pay complete attention to their interactions. Frankly, your sanity depends on this. It's impossible to watch attentively all the time when you need to cook, work, decompress, do laundry, and play with your kids.
While the expression "kids will be kids" can be a cop out for teaching kids manners, it also rings true. Kids are unpredictable, loud, and chaotic. That's not a bad thing. It can actually be really fun. But it can make life hard for some dogs. If you want to keep everyone safe, you need to set firm boundaries, teach respect, and prevent interactions unless the dog and child both give consent.
The Pooch Parenting Society
It’s National Dog Bite Prevention Week - and I believe that when we know better, we do better.
That’s why I’m so excited to be sharing the Sanity Savers for Parents with Dogs Online Summit with you!
In just 40(ish) minutes, you'll get actionable ideas you can use to make living with kids and dogs safer, easier and less stressful
You’ll hear tips from Parenting and Dog Experts on...
- Helping your dog to enjoy being around your kids (and vice versa!)
- Preventing jumping, chasing and nibbling
- Easing your own temper - and that of your kids
- …and so much more
The best part?
It’s entirely FREE.
I can almost guarantee you’ll come away with at least one idea! And who knows where that one idea might lead! At the very least, it should give you some pointers that will make living with kids and dogs easier, safer and less chaotic.
Register, and get instant access to the Sanity Savers for Parents with dogs online summit.
Dog Rescue Organizations
Please reach out to get a super duper discount code for my Kid and Dog Relationships online workshop. It's the perfect resource for all of your adopters who have children. We want to help your adoptions be successful - and this workshop will help to set parents, kids and dogs up to succeed.
Dog Pros
If kids aren't your jam, please consider referring these clients out - to me or another dog and child specialist. As a mom and teacher with 16 years of experience, I tend to truly understand what many families are going through, and love to offer them solutions that will make their lives easier. I can help them prepare dog for new baby, cope with the chaos that comes with toddlerhood, and can help kids do lots of activities that strengthen their relationship with the family dog.
ps. If you want to discuss some of your cases and be sure you are on the right track, I also offer 30-minute coaching sessions to other trainers and behavior consultants.
Additional resources:
- On-demand workshop: Kid and Dog Relationships
- The Pooch Parenting Society - a supportive membership for parents with dogs
The other day, a member of the Pooch Parenting Society sent me a Facebook post from a dog rescue organization about neurodivergent families and asked for my opinion. She has two special needs kids and had some pretty big feelings about it...and wanted to see if I felt the same. I do.
The Facebook post that was shared with me was written by the founder of a dog rescue organization and explained the reason behind her policy not to adopt dogs to families who have autistic children. Yes. you heard me right. She has labeled a group of people as a red flag and considers neurodivergent families inappropriate to live with dogs. (I can only imagine what Temple Grandin would have to say about this...)
Dog Rescue Organizations
Before anyone gets too heated, I want to remind everyone that the majority of people who go into the animal welfare field LOVE animals and want what's best for them. I worked at our local animal shelter as a volunteer for many years and was even on staff in the behavior department for awhile. I see the heart that goes into the work at shelters. But loving dogs is not an excuse for bigotry. This podcast episode (and article) are intended to offer support and ideas so that neurodivergent families can be successful with dogs.
Family Frustrations in Dog Adoption
As a dog and child specialist, I work with lots of families who have tried and failed to adopt dogs because of their rules not to adopt to families with children under the age of 10. While I may not agree with that policy, it's a clear policy. It's a result of a lack of resources to vet parenting and management skills. In my line of work, I see dogs who are uncomfortable living with children WAY more often than children who mistreat dogs. Children are unpredictable and can cause dogs lots of stress, which if not prevented can lead to inappropriate interactions.
High Stakes Between Kids and Dogs
Children are vulnerable and can be harmed easily by an excited dog, even just in play. And even the tiniest of bites could cause tremendous damage to a youngster. In previous episodes of this podcast, I have shared stories of babies who were killed by the family dog. And in the Master Course in Aggression course that I took from Michael Shikashio, he shared a story of a dog who nipped a child who ultimately died because the dog happened to nick an artery with its tooth. This was a horrible tragedy, but was an accident.
The average pet family does not have a lot of experience truly understanding dog behavior and how they use their bodies to communicate. As a result, it can be difficult to keep everyone safe. The stakes with kids and dogs are high, which is why it's a field I chose to focus on. Parents need specialized support and resources, which can easily be included in the adoption process with any rescue, shelter or even breeder.
Continue reading on www.poochparenting.net/episode52
In today's episode of The Pooch Parenting Podcast, I review the Netflix movie, Rescued By Ruby. It's a true story about a man who dreams of joining the K9 Search and Rescue team with the state police. "Typical" search and rescue dogs are too expensive, so he tries a more creative strategy to join the team. He adopts a difficult dog named Ruby from a local shelter and uses positive reinforcement training strategies to give her clarity and structure. Ultimately, his hard work and positive approach to working with Ruby helps them both to become successful
This episode includes:
- Why some shelter dogs are returned or are unsuccessful in their adopted homes
- The effectiveness of positive reinforcement training
- The importance of persistence with dogs and the need to work with the behavioral traits that the dog has
- How to set dogs up for success by making sure that they know what you want
In today's episode of The Pooch Parenting Podcast, I talk about the risks of getting free advice when it comes to your family dog. Despite the best intentions, free advice can be misleading or even dangerous. In Facebook advice groups, for example, the blind is often leading the blind. Even though people can get some good advice from generous professionals who volunteer in these groups, those can often be outnumbered by people simply sharing their own experiences - most of which are not backed by research or science.
If you want the BEST advice, along with coaching and accountability, you would be well served by hiring a qualified professional, such as myself, to guide you. You usually get what you pay for.
This episode includes:
- Why people should be proactive with putting together a trusted team before getting a dog - the same way that people are proactive when they are pregnant or adopting a child
- Examples of how free advice isn't necessarily helpful and how it can be harmful
- Crowd sourcing advice can lead to dangerous behavior and ignoring dog body language
In today's episode of The Pooch Parenting Podcast, I answer a question that I hear quite often: should kids be allowed to walk the dog alone? And if so, how old should kids be before they can walk the dog by themselves?
We consider:
- Safety concerns for the child and dog
- Outcomes of the walk
- Developmental stage of child and dog
In today's episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast, I talk with Marie Silverberg about Windsprites and why they make good family dogs. I was unfamiliar with this breed, a blend of whippet, sheltie and borzoi, as recently as 2 years ago, but now they are on my radar, and are a breed I recommend for families with kids. In this episode, Marie and I talk about the origin of the breed, what their behavior and physical characteristics look like, and why they are good with kids.
Today's episode is dedicated to the members of The Pooch Parenting Society. Every week, they get the opportunity to ask me questions about parenting kids and dogs, or raising dogs in general. This question was so important that I thought I'd answer it by turning it into a podcast episode. She wanted to know what I would do differently when raising my next puppy.
As a dog trainer, how to raise puppies is a topic I think about a LOT. I have recently been fostering puppies for Dogwood Animal Rescue, and so this is freshly relevant. While many people think that house training puppies would be the most important thing, I have other priorities.
While working with families who have kids and dogs, I have noticed that couples commonly experience strain, stress, and pressure on their relationship or marriage. Partners often disagree on the best strategy to raise their kids and their dogs, which can lead to resentment and lots of arguments.
But by bringing in a compassionate dog trainer who is not on "anyone's side", couples can often work through challenges that are deeply straining their marriage. In some cases, a marriage can be saved when couples implement advice given by a non biased dog training professional.
Need some support? I'd be honored to help. www.poochparenting.net
People often ask me how they should respond when people send them photos of their "cute" dogs and babies having unsafe interactions together. Or maybe they see a dangerous interaction on social media and aren't sure if they should say something. Many people resent unsolicited advice and become defensive (or block you for trying to help them).
In this episode, we discuss the pros and cons of offering unsolicited advice. I also share some tips for how to give advice that people are actually willing to hear.
In today's episode, I talk with Connor Kingfisher and Marie Silverberg, founders of the Superpup Academy, an online puppy training program. We discuss loads of topics that relate to raising puppies, choosing the right puppy, and keeping parenting real so that families are successful together. Not only do we talk about dog and child safety, but we also discuss how a dog's "tolerance" of children is way too low of a standard. We should be helping families to select dogs who love children - and we discuss how you can tell if a potential family dog candidate would be a good fit.
In today's episode with Loyla Louvis, we talk about how parents can experience small wins so that they don't lose hope when things are hard. There are SO many aspects of parenting kids and dogs that are the same. Both benefit from predictability, which reduced stress for the whole family.
Clients call me to help them feel more confident as they parent their kids and dogs. Parenting is the hardest thing most of us have done, and when you throw a puppy into the mix, it can feel even more chaotic than you could have imagined. When safety is a concern, parents feel an urgent need to get support. And sometimes, I get called to solve a family debate. In today's episode, I share how I helped a couple to understand that their child should not go into the dog crate.
Dog crates need to represent a safe space. If a child violates that trust, it can not only be dangerous in the moment, but it can damage the trust between that dog and child moving forward.
I absolutely loved this interview with Sarah Sproule. She is an expert in helping parents to talk about sensitive topics, such as bodies, puberty and sex. Of course, this is not an episode about sex. But we DO talk about how dogs can be an excellent model to discuss consent with our kids. You will love it if you have ever struggled with discussing delicate topics with your kids.
Find Sarah on Instagram: www.Instagram.com/iamsarahsproule
Sarah also has a podcast about how to address sensitive parenting topics called Sitting In a Car
Toddlers have big feelings and act in BIG ways. Sometimes they get frustrated and yell at our dogs, which can be difficult for many dogs to handle, and difficult for us to process as parents. By using a combination of modeling appropriate behavior, redirecting and playing developmentally appropriate games with our kids, we can often change their behavior.
If you have a question that you'd like to ask Michelle of Pooch Parenting, please record it here.
It can be overwhelming to parent kids and dogs at the same time. There are so many decisions to make that it can be easy to feel paralyzed and not take any action at all. Unfortunately, when kids and dogs live together, you can't afford not to step in and try to help your dog to behave better. The good news is that if you take baby steps, you will see more improvement than if you just wait and hope things will improve on their own.
Between the hundreds of dog training videos you can find on YouTube, blog articles and dog trainers online, it can feel overwhelming when you don't know who you can trust. Fortunately, as a parent, family dog mediator, and certified professional dog trainer, you can trust me. I get it. I raised two kids alongside dogs and I know what it's like to live in your shoes.
In this episode, we discuss 3 examples of how I used baby steps to help different dogs to make progress. Sometimes it feels messy, but remember - imperfect action can still help you and your dog to make progress.
If you'd like ongoing support as your kids and dogs grow up together, or even for just a few months to help you to get through a rough patch, please get on the waitlist for The Pooch Parenting Society (safekidsanddogs.com). You'll enjoy the practical advice and fun family activities that will help your dog family live together in harmony.
There is nothing like the fear that comes when a dog growls at your newborn. But the good news is that with a little preparation and practice, there are some easy strategies that can help your dog to relax on the other side of a barrier.
Sometimes, as a parent, you just need to breathe a little easier. Management, training, and even outside support can make all of the difference in the world about how you feel about raising dogs and kids together.
In this episode with Beth Berkobien, of Rehab your Rescue, we discuss 2 case studies in which these management strategies gave parents (and their dogs) the relief they needed.
In this episode, I talk with Matt Beisner, the host of the television show Dog: Impossible on NatGeo Wild. Matt has two toddlers and lives with several dogs who displayed aggression in their younger days. We discuss whether or not kids can safely live in homes with dogs who have displayed aggressive behaviors in the past.
In this episode, I talk with Meaghan Jackson, The Gentle Parenting Coach, about how to help children manage their feelings and learn about empathy. As parents with dogs, this is particularly helpful, because we all need strategies so we don't lose our cool (or our tempers). We can learn to explore the "why" of our feelings - in both our kids and our dogs, before we react and try to "solve" what we may perceive to be problems.
In this episode, I talk with Dr. Alisa Baer, The Car Seat Lady. She is a board certified pediatrician and car safety specialist. We discuss not only how to keep families and dogs safe in a car accident, but how to keep children and dogs safe when riding in the car together - answering the very common question of where kids and dogs should sit when in the same vehicle.
In this episode, I talk with Eileen Koval about different resource guarding scenarios in family dogs - and what to do about them. We discuss what resource guarding is, some of the underlying causes, and both training and management strategies to deal with it.
In this episode, I talk with Stevie Moss, a mom of two kids under the age of 3 and a professional dog trainer in the UK. We discuss how Stevie prepared her anxious dog for the arrival of each of her children and how she helped to ease her dog's transition when her first baby became mobile and turned into an unpredictable toddler.
In this episode, I talk with Nick Benger, a professional dog trainer from the UK. We discuss how to help dogs to become more engaged with their owners and how to improve door manners when visitors arrive. We both share client stories and embarrassing incidents so that you know you are not alone - sometimes dogs are challenging. But with consistency and fun rewards, we can all see improvements in our dogs' behavior.
In this episode, I talk with Cori Tufano, a dog trainer who specializes in puppies. She believes that starting off a puppy with loving, consistent training and management, they will be set up for a happier and more well adjusted life. I couldn't agree more! We talk about how to manage puppies in a household with kids, how to tell when puppies are tired and need a break, and how to prevent them from biting and chasing the kiddos.
This week, I talk with Ava, the 13-year old founder of Ava's Pet Palace, an organic treat company for dogs and cats. Ava's vision for her business started when she was only 6 years old...but at age 8, her parents knew she was serious and helped her to launch her dream. Ava encourages everyone to follow their dream, no matter what their age, and says that passion is the key to pushing through bumps in the road along the way. Ava is a true inspiration no matter how old you are - Enjoy.
In this episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast with Justine Schuurmans, we talk about her program, The Family Dog. She provides training materials both to dog owners and to dog trainers (me included!) to help families to have more fun with their dogs. We discuss the importance in understanding dog body language so that we can help our kids and dogs to make good choices and keep everyone safe and comfortable.
This week, I talk with my friend, Kelsey Weber, about "lazy trainer" games that are perfect for busy families. I don't know about you, but it's difficult to feel safe a dog who jumps on you every time you sit on the floor to tie your shoes or bowls over visitors. Fortunately for us, Kelsey has easy training games that don't take long to implement, even if your home is active and busy. Don't miss the video demos of these games! The link is on the show notes page on the Pooch Parenting Website (www.poochparenting.net/episode28).
This week, I talk with dog trainer and shelter dog expert, Trish McMillan about what families with kids should look for when adopting a dog from a shelter. Some of what we discuss can be controversial, but we both agree that the stakes are too high to take a risk with the wrong dog when kids are in the picture. We tackle popular concepts such as "adopt don't shop" and "forever home" and address how both of those can set families up to fail - or feel like failures. Fortunately, there are lots of ways families can find the right dog, and we chat about options that can leave families feeling guilt free.
In this episode, I interview Lauren Haley, a new mom with a Pitbull named MJ. We discuss how she prepared MJ for the arrival of her daughter, along with what worked and what didn't. Lauren is an applied behavior analyst with children, and uses her professional experience to help MJ to learn what behavior she wants repeated in the future.
In this episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast with Miranda Wimbush Bourque, we talk about rescue dogs who are reactive and how to make this a safer experience for families. We talk about how to set up everyone for success - from playdates to walks. Some of what we say might surprise you.
In this episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast with Israeli psychologist Eran Katz, we discuss parenting and the role we play in scaffolding the emotional lives of our kids and dogs.
In this episode, I talk with Debby Lucken, the founder of KAD - Kids Around Dogs, based in the UK. Debby has developed a special protocol for helping children who are afraid of dogs. We talk about various reasons kids become fearful of dogs and share tips for how parents can support their children when they are frightened.
This week, I talk with Ashley Graber and Maria Evans, psychotherapists from Los Angeles about mindfulness and work-life balance for parents. We discuss how parents are the nerve center for the family and how our behavior can impact those around us. They are also both dog moms and understand how dogs with a range of personalities can impact the parenting experience and can influence children.
In this episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast, I talk with Kim Brophey, the author of the book Meet Your Dog. We discuss how to choose the right family dog and all of the contributing factors that make a dog who they are. By understanding how a dog's experiences, environment, training and physical needs all interact, families can understand dog behavior better. It's not all about "how you raise them."
In today's episode I talk with art educator, Rachelle Doorley of Tinkerlab, about creative projects kids make for and about dogs. These open ended ideas inspire creativity in children and also strengthen their bond with the family dog.
In this episode, I talk with Laura Gendron, the founder of Miss Behavior Dog Training . She is a mom and positive reinforcement dog trainer, and is one of the most creative teachers I know. We discuss safe and fun games kids can play with dogs so that they can improve their bond. Plus, everyone wants better behaved kids and dogs - and these training games help with both!
In today's episode, I talk about how to help children process grief and sadness over the death of a pet with Irene McKenna. Pet loss can be traumatic for all family members - we talk about how we, as parents, can navigate our own grief while holding space for our kids to feel sad.
In this episode, I talk with certified dog behavior consultant and trainer Michael Baugh, CDBC, CPDT-KSA, about aggression in family dogs. We discuss how families can improve safety, help the dog to feel better, and how to assess if it's too much for the family to handle. The safety of family members, especially children, is a priority and we discuss options to help parents set up everyone for success.
In today's episode with sleep consultant, Bonnie Dimmick, we talk about how to help our babies, toddlers and kids to sleep better, even if the dog is barking. This episode answers many common questions about sleep habits and how to help our children to become more resilient, even with noise in the background.
In this episode with Caroline Wilkinson, we talk about how to prevent our family dogs from barking. We also discuss the function of barking, why dogs do it, and alternate behaviors we can ask for instead. This is a particularly difficult behavior for families with kids, especially those who are sleep deprived. It's common to worry that barking will wake up a napping child or sleeping baby - but you will get some relief with these simple solutions.
I hope you will forgive me for another sad episode. But if I can save one child or prevent one tragic accident, it will be worth it. In today's show, I talk about a recent tragedy where an infant was smothered by the family dog, and what could have been done to prevent it. While this is a horrible event, accidents like this are not uncommon - and I talk about why I think this is so. Tune in and then tell the others. We have to work together to prevent accidents like this from happening.
In today's episode I speak with parenting coach Rose Clark about simple strategies parents can use to alleviate any guilt they may be feeling about parenting kids and dogs at the same time. It's easy to feel overwhelmed or that you are not doing a great job parenting your kids OR your dog. But there are some strategies that are surprisingly simple to implement to help you to feel better and make the changes you need to make your life easier.
In today's episode with Ruby Leslie, we discuss the challenges parents face when living with dogs who chase kids and cats. This can make life at home chaotic, unsafe and stressful. We talk about simple management strategies to keep everyone safe and to prevent your dog from making avoidable mistakes. If you have a dog who chases your kids or cats, don't miss this episode. Your family will thank you!
In this episode, we talk about the basics of clicker training for family dogs with Mary Stompe, a Karen Pryor Academy graduate. Mary talks about why clicker training is so effective and how the whole family can learn to use clickers, use the right timing, and help the dog to become a well behaved companion. You can learn more about Mary at MarysAngelsDogTraining.com.
This week, I talk to Michelle Klump from Out West Bassets. We discuss what an ethical breeder looks like and how to choose the right breed for your family. Michelle talks about why Basset Hounds make good family pets and red flags to look for when trying to decide where to get your next dog.
In this episode, we hear two questions from listeners about walking dogs on leash. In the first question, Karen asks for tips to share with her two children who are helping to walk a small dog belonging to their elderly neighbor. In the second question, Ryan asks for loose leash walking tips for his adolescent dog who is nearing 100 pounds. If you have a question about dogs and kids that you would like me to address in a future episode, please visit: www.speakpipe.com/poochparenting and leave me a voice recording of your question.
In this brief episode, I share my thoughts about a recent news story where a 3 yo girl was bitten by a fake service dog in a Texas restaurant. While this a very unpleasant topic, it's worth discussing a simple strategy for how incidents like this can be avoided in the future.
In this episode, we talk to Paul Grossart (CPDT-KA) about service dogs for families with children. We also discuss what characteristics make a good service dog and if the family can train their existing pet dog to become a service dog. We keep it real, while acknowledging the additional challenges that parents with children and dogs face.
In this episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast with Tricia Case, we discuss tips for parents to teach their children to be respectful of dogs and puppies. Tricia is the founder of www.TrilblazingTails.com, a leash and educational content business - all focused on helping parents to communicate better with their kids and dogs. We discuss several incredible resources, such as the book, Doggie Language, by Lili Chin and the Dog Decoder phone app, which help families learn to understand dog body language.
Mom, Jessie Leigh, discusses her strategies for parenting an anxious dog and toddler at the same time. Much of what she learned came from the book, Don't Bite the Baby (and Please Don't Chase the Dog) by Lisa J. Edwards. Along her parenting journey, Jessie had to improvise, go with the flow...and even to sacrifice her living space to make room for a pen (for whom? Listen and find out...) At first, she felt alone and inadequate, as many new moms with challenging dogs feel. Fortunately, she now understands that parents often struggle in silence, but help IS available - and parents don't have to improvise alone.
When a 2-month old infant was recently killed by the family dog during the night, I felt it was important that we talk candidly about how this could have happened - and more importantly, how it could be avoided. Michelle talks about safe sleep for families with dogs and babies with true compassion, as only a mother can do. While this was avoidable, people don't know what they don't know, and it's up to us to help families learn how to do better so that their babies and dogs are safer and set up to succeed.
In this episode, I interview Michael Shikashio, one of the leading experts on the topic of aggression and resource guarding in dogs. We discuss red flags that families should notice, along with tips for how families can stay safe with dogs who have aggressive or resource guarding tendencies.
Getting good photographs of the kids is challenging enough without adding the family dog into the mix. Professional pet photographer, Allison Shamrell, offers her top tips for taking excellent photos of kids and dogs, along with suggestions to choose the right photographer for you.
In today's episode, we listen to questions from Allison and Holly (from www.speakpipe.com/poochparenting). Allison wants to know if she should be worried about her dog licking her baby and what it might mean. Holly says her dog seeks out hugs from her kids, but then occasionally retreats and grumbles. She wants to know why the dog is giving mixed signals and what to do about it.