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Are you tired of trying to manage everyone and everything in your life? In this episode of the podcast, I’ll give you a strategy for getting clear on what is yours to carry and what is yours to release in this season.
You’ll want to get your paper and pen out for this one. It’s time to let go of stress and overwhelm and operate in abundance and overflow. But first, we have to write it all down.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Paying attention to your emotions * Allowing surrender and action to coexist * Letting God handle the outcome
Related Resources* Check out this podcast episode to learn more about what this season is asking of you. * Listen to this podcast episode, which serves as a reminder that you can’t carry it all. * Read this special blog post on the Art of Saying No. * Join the Inner Circle
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Have you ever looked up and realized you’re living differently than you meant to? Not because of one big decision or because you intentionally walked away from what mattered, but because life happened?
Life has a way of loosening our grip on routines. The pace shifts, our focus drifts, and before we know it, the habits that once kept us grounded have quietly slipped away. It’s not that we meant to let them go. It just happened while we were saying yes to spontaneous moments, chasing what felt good in the moment, or leaning into a lighter rhythm.
The interesting thing about drift is that it rarely announces itself. It happens quietly, one small decision at a time, until suddenly you’re farther from where you wanted to be than you realized. But here’s what I want you to know: you’re never too far gone to begin again.
The Drift Doesn’t Define YouOne of the enemy’s favorite lies is convincing us that because we’ve fallen out of rhythm, we’ve failed. But a season of drift doesn’t erase a life of faithfulness. It simply signals that it’s time to pause and pay attention. The beautiful thing about intentional living is that you don’t have to wait for January, Monday morning, or the first day of next month to reset. You can begin today.
This is the perfect moment to reset. Here’s how I do it—and how you can, too.
Before You Reset, Get QuietI’ve learned that if I don’t stop to steer, life will gladly steer for me. That’s why I intentionally set aside regular time—just me, God, my favorite pen, and my planner—to quiet the noise and get honest about where I am and where I’m headed.
I ask myself questions like:
- What’s working? What’s not?
- What major priorities do I need to prepare for?
- What needs to shift so I can move forward with clarity?
- What’s most important to protect?
From there, I jot down my top three non-negotiables for the week and month ahead. These aren’t necessarily daily to-dos, but the priorities that keep me steady when everything else feels uncertain. When life speeds up, I already know what matters most—and can steer my days accordingly.
Reconnect with the People Who Help You Stay SteadyOne of the quickest ways to stay on track is to stop trying to do it alone. God designed us for community. Maybe it’s a close friend, your small group, or even someone you’ve admired for years who consistently lives with wisdom and intentionality. Invite one or two trusted people to check in with you regularly about something specific:
- Your quiet time
- Your exercise routine
- Meal planning
- Rest
- A writing project
- A financial goal
You’ll be surprised how much consistency grows when someone else is walking beside you.
Even more than accountability from people, I need daily connection with God. He’s the One who recenters me when life feels scattered. He’s the One who reminds me that my identity isn’t found in productivity, but in His presence. If mornings aren’t realistic right now, don’t let that become an excuse for not meeting with Him at all.
Maybe your quiet time happens during lunch.
Maybe it’s while sitting in your car before picking up the kids.
Maybe it’s the last fifteen minutes before bed.
The goal is just connection. Those small moments have a way of changing entire days.
Adjust the Rhythms That No Longer FitLife has a rhythm, and what worked before might not work now. When a routine feels forced or draining, step back and realign. Ask: Is this still serving me and those I’m called to serve, or am I holding on out of habit? You might reorder your day to match your energy, scale a daily habit to weekly, or lighten your load to make space for rest and focus.
Adjusting your rhythm isn’t quitting—it’s creating room for what works.
Keep the mission. Change the method.
Your Reset Starts NowDon’t let drift set the course. Make space to plan, seek the right support, and adjust when something isn’t working. Even small shifts can turn burnout into breakthrough—helping you plant seeds that matter and watch them grow. For more on finding your way back when life feels off-track, listen to my podcast episode #522 – Finding Your Way Back.
LISTEN HEREWATCH HEREFriend, you can start now. You can start small. And you can start knowing you’re not alone. One intentional shift today can establish a rhythm that carries you well into the months ahead.
Let’s leave the drift behind!
If you need a tool to help you manage your time, be sure to check out my 90-Day Planner. Not only can you plan your days, but you can also have me as your coach in your ear with audios designed to keep you on track.
Reflection Questions: 1. What is one rhythm or habit that once helped you feel grounded, and what would it look like to begin practicing it again this week? 2. Who is one person you could invite to encourage, challenge, or walk alongside you as you pursue greater intentionality?
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Chrystal is the Founder and CEO of The Sister Circle, an organization that exists to provide practical encouragement and equip women of faith to live with intention and purpose. Chrystal is also a best-selling author and speaker who reaches a wide audience, speaking at conferences, hosting her podcast, and leading the women’s ministry at her home church.
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Are you living paycheck to paycheck, struggling with budgeting, or wondering why financial freedom feels out of reach? In this episode, I’m sitting down with financial coach Theresa Bartelle to discuss biblical money management, budgeting, financial mindset, and practical steps to break free from financial stress.
Theresa shares her powerful story of going from financial overwhelm as a young military wife to helping women build wealth, eliminate financial dysfunction, and steward money God’s way. In this episode, we unpack common budgeting mistakes, scarcity thinking, emergency funds, retirement planning, and why obedience – not income – is often the key to lasting financial peace.
Whether you’re trying to get out of debt, save money, create a budget, or simply become a better steward of what God has entrusted to you, this conversation will encourage you to face your finances with courage, wisdom, and hope.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Facing your financial reality * Breaking dysfunctional habits * Choosing daily obedience
Related Resources Connect with Theresa Bartelle on Instagram or listen to her podcast. * Book your free consultation.*
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Is your life set up to handle all the things you’re responsible for? What if I told you that it’s possible to build a life that not only supports the season you’re in now, but everything you’ve been asking God for?
In this episode of the podcast, I’ll help you set up systems and rhythms that support your life and the woman you’re growing into. This episode will motivate and equip you to do what it takes to live your life well.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Identifying this season * Engaging with God * Protecting what He’s building
Related Resources* Before you can grow, you have to know where you are. Listen to this podcast episode to learn what this season is asking of you. * Check out this podcast episode to identify the leaks in your life. * Grab the 21 Day Journey on Boundaries.
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How do you respond when seasons shift in your life? Do you continue on as if nothing’s changed, or do you do what’s necessary to meet the present moment?
In this episode, I discuss how to get honest about your capacity and move with intention. What worked for you yesterday may not work for you today, and I’m here to help you steward this season well.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Stop living in denial * Release old expectations * Make necessary changes
Related Resources* Listen to this podcast episode and learn how to expand your capacity for what God has next. * Struggling with knowing the season you’re in? This podcast episode will help you find your way. * Need a little more encouragement? This podcast episode breaks down what to do when seasons change. * Check out my mom’s book and bible study: Seasons of a Woman’s Life and Seasons of a Woman’s Life Bible Study!
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On Saturday, July 4th, we paused to remember that freedom is something worth protecting and celebrating. Today, I’m celebrating another birthday, and birthdays have a way of making me think about a different kind of freedom.
The freedom that comes from growing older.
The freedom that comes from experiencing a few things.
The freedom that comes from letting go of what doesn’t matter and holding tightly to what does.
Every birthday makes me pause a little longer than the last one. As you may or may not know, the past year has been hard. Over the last couple of months especially, my life has been full of the kind of things that immediately reorder your priorities and make calendars, plans, and carefully organized to-do lists suddenly feel a lot less important.
Real emergencies have a way of exposing what was actually urgent and what only felt urgent. And when you get a second to take a step back, they also reveal just how much God has grown you over the years.
The Bible tells us that God comforts us so we can comfort others. So even though my birthday is coming up, I thought I’d give you a gift.
If I could sit down with every younger version of myself over coffee, here’s what I’d say.
To my 20-year-old self…Stop rushing.
You don’t have to accomplish everything by a certain age just to prove yourself capable. Comparison will convince you that you’re behind when God is simply setting a different pace for your life.
Set goals. Dream big. Make plans, but hold them with open hands because God has a way of ordering and reordering your steps differently than you imagined. When He recalculates the route, don’t freak out. Sometimes unplanned occurrences are just detours and not dead ends.
Keep trying new things. Stay curious. Remain teachable. Don’t become so settled in what you’ve always known that you miss what God is inviting you into next.
To my 30-year-old self…Learn your limits before life teaches them to you.
Boundaries are not a bad thing. Implement them. Boundaries with your time. Your energy. Your emotions. Your capacity. Just because you can do something doesn’t mean you’re supposed to.
Some of the greatest gifts you’ll ever give yourself are the things you decide not to carry.
Prune what isn’t yours so you have room for what is.
Remember, discipline isn’t punishment. Keep showing up for the life God is shaping in you, even when you can’t control the timing.
To my 40-year-old self…Don’t spend so much time wondering if you’re behind that you miss what God is building. Life probably won’t look the way you planned, and that’s okay.
Some of the delays that frustrate you today are actually preparing you for an authority you couldn’t have had any other way. There are lessons you can only learn along the way.
Keep trusting the process. Keep bringing the whole picture to God. Your dreams. Your disappointments. Your finances. Your relationships. Your plans. Don’t hand Him one piece of your life while trying to manage the rest on your own. He cares about all of it.
What I’m reminding myself in my 50’s…Wisdom isn’t about having all the answers.
It’s knowing what’s worth my energy. It’s naming what’s good even while life is still hard. It’s understanding that becoming never really ends. God is still shaping me, stretching me, and teaching me.
I’m also reminding myself that what I’ve lived through isn’t wasted. The hard seasons strengthened my faith. The interruptions expanded my capacity. The disappointments deepened my compassion.
Most importantly, the things I never would have chosen for my life have given me the authority to encourage you.
So here’s what I hope you remember today, whether you’re just getting started or you’ve lived long enough to have a few stories to tell:
You are not behind.
You are not forgotten.
You are not too late.
Just keep showing up. Keep listening. Keep trusting. Keep becoming.
God is still writing your story.
So…happy birthday to me…and here’s to whatever beautiful thing God is still writing in both of our lives.
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Chrystal is the Founder and CEO of The Sister Circle, an organization that exists to provide practical encouragement and equip women of faith to live with intention and purpose. Chrystal is also a best-selling author and speaker who reaches a wide audience, speaking at conferences, hosting her podcast, and leading the women’s ministry at her home church.
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Have you ever asked God to help you grow in a specific area, only to doubt that He could come through for you? I know how easy it is for fear to creep in when you’re asking for more, but if you’re ready to see abundance and overflow at work in your life, you’ll have to first believe that it’s possible.
In this episode of the podcast, I share my strategy for partnering with God in the process of expanding my capacity. Prepare to position yourself for all that God has for you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Believing God for more * Being in the right rooms * Embracing boundaries
Related Resources* Ready to receive all that God has for you? Listen to this podcast episode and learn how to make room for overflow. * Need even more encouragement? This podcast episode with Cassandra Speer is your reminder that abundance is here. * Grab my Daily Tracker to begin setting limits and maximizing your time.
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One of the biggest challenges with setting goals isn’t getting started. It’s staying consistent after the excitement wears off.
We’ve all experienced it. We begin with good intentions, full of motivation and hope, only to find ourselves pulled in a dozen different directions by the demands of everyday life. Before long, the days feel like they’re flying by, our to-do lists keep growing, and the things that mattered most to us slowly slip to the bottom of the list.
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “There just isn’t enough time in the day,” you’re not alone. We’ve all been there. But here’s the encouraging news: while we can’t create more hours in the day, we can learn to become better stewards of the time we’ve been given. With a little intentionality, it’s possible to protect your priorities, create margin for what matters most, and make the most of every day.
If you want to feel satisfied with how you use your time, consider these four steps toward maximizing your time:
1. Acknowledge what time will actually allow.We’ve all been there—thinking we can squeeze more into a day than the hours will allow. Maybe you find yourself tidying up just a bit before you head out, only to arrive late (that’s usually me :). Or perhaps you feel compelled to finish a conversation, even though it’s making you late for something else (also me!). Or maybe it’s that “quick stop” that turns into an unexpectedly long detour.
Start being realistic about your time. Before you dive into a task, pause and ask yourself, “What can I truly accomplish in the time I have?” Setting boundaries around these small distractions can prevent the domino effect of running behind.
2. Become aware of what’s stealing your time.Even with the best intentions, stress can creep in if we aren’t mindful of what drains our time. If you’re constantly feeling overwhelmed, it’s important to take a closer look at your habits and routines. Are you losing precious minutes scrolling on your phone? Taking too long to get ready? Or maybe continuing the conversation that you should really end?
Do a “time audit”—write down how you spend your day for a week and identify the time stealers. Once you spot them, be intentional about cutting them out. Whether it’s reducing screen time (try “One Sec” or “The Opal App”)!, preparing for your day the night before, or setting limits on conversations, make the conscious choice to reclaim your time.
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3. Stay focused on what needs your attention right now.Being a good steward of your time means prioritizing what matters most. In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in tasks and distractions. But true time management isn’t just about checking things off—it’s about being present and connected with what’s in front of you.
Pay attention to YOUR life. This is one of the main reasons that I created The Full Circle planner. I understand what it is to run through your days and not actually be sure about how YOU are doing. When you are caring for yourself, you can also better give solid attention to others.
Focus on each moment. When speaking to someone, look them in the eye and really listen. When you’re with family, engage fully in their stories, even if they’re long (breathe deep and listen!). Being present in these moments shows you value what truly matters, and it helps you avoid feeling like time is slipping away.
4. Ask God how He wants you to use your time.Many of us question whether we’re using our time in alignment with God’s purpose. We wonder if it’s too late to fulfill His calling in our lives. But the key to maximizing your time isn’t just about managing it well—it’s about surrendering it to God.
Begin each day with a prayer, asking God to guide your time. Surrender your plans and ask Him to order your day according to His purpose. This simple act of surrender makes a world of difference in how you approach time—and ensures that your priorities align with His will for you today.
These steps aren’t about rigid time management—they’re about making intentional decisions, reclaiming your time, and being present in each moment. By focusing on what truly matters, cutting out time stealers, and aligning your day with God’s purpose, you’ll not only maximize your time—you’ll find peace in how you spend it.
So, do any of these four strategies to maximize your time resonate with you? I hope they do, because I want you to stop feeling like your precious time is slipping away. Take charge of your hours, and make this the year you finally feel in control.
If you’re ready to dive deeper, I’ve shared more of my thoughts on maximizing your time in the podcast episode below.
LISTEN HEREWATCH HEREThis can be the year when you stay on track with your goals and dreams. You don’t have to feel overwhelmed by time anymore—you can start thinking of yourself as the guardian of your time, living each day with purpose and peace.
Let’s make this year different—together.
If you need a tool to help you manage your time, be sure to check out my 90-Day Planner. Not only can you plan your days, but you can also have me as your coach in your ear with audios designed to keep you on track.
Reflection Questions: 1. What has been stealing the most time from your life lately, and what is one small change you can make this week to reclaim it? 2. As you think about the week ahead, how can you invite God to guide your time so your schedule reflects what matters most to Him?
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Chrystal is the Founder and CEO of The Sister Circle, an organization that exists to provide practical encouragement and equip women of faith to live with intention and purpose. Chrystal is also a best-selling author and speaker who reaches a wide audience, speaking at conferences, hosting her podcast, and leading the women’s ministry at her home church.
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I remember hating school shopping as a teenager. I always struggled to find clothes that fit my body well. I had curves before many of the girls around me did, and finding modest, age-appropriate clothes that actually fit felt frustrating almost every single time we went to the mall. I can still remember trying on outfit after outfit and leaving discouraged because nothing felt quite right.
Many women can trace their body struggles back to moments just like that. A comment someone made, a comparison, a frustrating dressing room experience, or a season where we became painfully aware of the ways our bodies did not seem to fit the standard around us.
Over time, we begin to look at ourselves through the lens of criticism instead of gratitude, and the world around us only reinforces that habit. Social media, beauty standards, and endless comparisons constantly tell women what their bodies should look like and what needs fixing. But Scripture tells us something different. God created our bodies and called them good. That does not mean we ignore our health or pretend insecurities do not exist. It means we learn to stop treating our bodies like enemies and start seeing them as gifts to steward well.
Your Body Is a Gift, Not a Problem to SolvePsalm 139 reminds us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made, and 1 Corinthians 6:19 tells us that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit. Those truths matter because many women spend years speaking about their bodies as if they are burdens instead of blessings. There is a difference between caring for your body and despising it, and there is also a difference between wanting to improve your health and believing your worth rises and falls based on what you see in the mirror.
One of the healthiest mindset shifts we can make is learning to see our bodies as tools instead of trophies. Your body carries you through life. It allows you to love people, serve your family, worship, work, laugh, travel, and experience the goodness of God in the world around you. When we begin to see our bodies through that lens, the conversation changes. Instead of constantly asking how we look, we begin asking whether we are caring well for what God has given us. That may mean building healthier habits, prioritizing rest, moving your body more consistently, or finally paying attention to your health instead of only focusing on appearance. The goal isn’t to punish your body into becoming something else. The goal is to honor the body you have today with gratitude and care.
Speak to Yourself with More GraceAs women, we often say things about ourselves that we would never say to someone else. We criticize our stomachs, our arms, our skin, our weight, and the ways our bodies change over time. After a while, those thoughts become so familiar that we stop questioning them altogether. But what if we started speaking differently? What if instead of focusing only on what frustrates us, we also paused long enough to appreciate what our bodies have carried us through?
Maybe your body has carried children. Maybe it has survived illness, grief, stress, or exhaustion. Maybe it continues showing up for you every single day, even after seasons that should have broken you. And yet, here you are. Still breathing. Still moving. Still able to embrace the people you love and pursue the things God has called you to do. That’s not something to overlook.
Philippians 4:8 tells us to think on what is true, honorable, lovely, and praiseworthy, and that applies to the way we think about ourselves, too. This may mean creating a new internal script and paying closer attention to the way you speak about yourself. Instead of constantly criticizing your reflection, begin practicing gratitude for what your body allows you to do. Celebrate progress instead of obsessing over perfection. Learn to challenge the negative thoughts that have become too familiar, because your body is listening to the way you speak about it.
Care for Your Body While Fully Living Your LifeOne of the most practical things we can do is stop waiting for a future version of ourselves to deserve joy and confidence. Wear clothes that let you enjoy your life now. Find things that fit the body you have right now instead of punishing yourself with clothes that only make you feel ashamed or uncomfortable. Ask for help if you need it, try new things, and learn what works for your body shape instead of fighting against it.
At the same time, take good care of your body. Drink the water, go for a walk, get a check-up, build healthier habits, and rest when you need rest. Caring for your body and enjoying your life are not opposing ideas. There comes a point where you decide that your body will no longer determine whether you fully participate in your own life, and that kind of freedom changes the way you move through the world.
I can tell you firsthand that this looks different in every season. At fifty-something, I’m still learning my body. I’m learning what it needs now versus what it needed in my twenties. I’m learning how to care for it well and how to work with it instead of against. Some things I can improve with consistency and healthy choices. Other things are simply a reflection of a life that has been lived. The reality is that our bodies change over time, and our care for them should change too.
The older I get, the more grateful I become for this body, not because it’s perfect, but because it has carried me through life. It has allowed me to love people, raise children, serve others, worship God, and experience. It has been with me through every season, every victory, every disappointment, and every new beginning.
So, take care of your body. Sharpen the tool. Steward your health well. But while you are doing all of that, remember this too: your body is not your enemy. Your body is the place where your life is happening, and there is something beautiful about learning to be at home there.
Ready to put this into practice?
We are currently doing our 21-Day Move & Groove Challenge, where we’re focusing on simple, consistent movement. Whether that looks like walking around the neighborhood, dancing in your kitchen, or taking a fitness class you’ve been wanting to try, it all counts. The goal is simply to move.
As you participate, we’d love to cheer you on. Share your walks, workouts, and wins on social media and be sure to tag @thesistercircleonline so we can celebrate with you. Let’s spend the next 21 days moving our bodies with gratitude, purpose, and joy.
Reflection Questions: 1. Have you been waiting for your body to change before allowing yourself to fully enjoy your life? What would it look like to let go of that expectation today? 2. How might God be inviting you to care for your body in this season with both gratitude and wisdom?
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Last week, I caught myself rewriting something I’d previously decided was “already done.”
It was clear. It was strong. It was thoughtful. It said exactly what it needed to say. And still…I kept adjusting it. Adding one more explanation. Softening one sentence. Including another example, just in case.
I was trying to make sure it couldn’t be misunderstood. Trying to anticipate every possible question. Trying to ensure it felt solid enough to stand on its own.
Not because it needed to be shored up…
But because I did.
Because somewhere in me, I didn’t fully trust that what I had already written would stand on its own and be good enough.
Insecurity. Hesitation. Lack of confidence. Isn’t this how those deep-seated feelings show up sometimes? Not in obvious insecurity, but in refinement that goes a little too far. In preparation that turns into overdone pressure. In excellence that quietly crosses over into overworking.
And if I’m honest, it’s rarely about the work.
It’s about wanting to feel certain in how it will be received. When I start operating from the need to prove myself, I subtly communicate that I don’t fully trust the value of what I bring to the table. And that lack of trust doesn’t just affect my writing. It also affects how I lead, how I make decisions, and how I show up in rooms.
Maybe you’ve felt that too.
The Core InsightOne of the most common tensions I see among thoughtful, capable women like you is this: the gap between experience and confidence.
You’ve accumulated insight through years of real work.
You’ve navigated pressure.
You’ve learned what works and what doesn’t.
You’ve developed discernment that only comes from lived experience.
But when it’s time to step forward — to speak into a situation, guide a team, make a strategic decision, or share a perspective — doubt can get loud. It whispers that you need more credentials, more preparation, more proof before your contribution is legitimate.
Here’s what I’m continuing to learn: your value was not formed the moment you deliver your knowledge, expertise, or skill. It has been shaped slowly over time. Through repetition. Through mistakes. Through responsibility.
When you don’t trust your foundation, you compensate. You overexplain. You overcommit. You overwork. You carry a pressure that makes everything heavier than it needs to be.
But when you do trust it, your presence changes. You don’t rush. You don’t inflate. You don’t shrink. You speak and decide from steadiness. And steadiness builds trust in others.
Confidence rooted in experience doesn’t need to shout. You will feel it, and the people around you will sense it too.
Strategy You Can UseIf these thoughts resonate with you, here are three practical ways to strengthen trust in the value you already bring.
Audit your overworking patterns.Over the next few days, watch your patterns. Notice when you’ve already completed something — an email, a proposal, a meeting you led, or a message you crafted — and you feel the pull to go back in and add more.
Ask yourself why you feel the need to layer on more explanation or detail. Ponder if you are feeling unsure or if there is something you are trying to protect. Be specific. Are you trying to avoid being misunderstood? Judged? Questioned? Was the original idea already strong? Often, clarity is present before insecurity edits it.
Now, if you had already done your best and given your all, here’s what to do with that answer – nothing. Do not add anything else. Send it. Say it. Move forward. This is how you start separating actual improvement from emotional buffering.
Document your proven value (and use it).Set a timer for 10 minutes. Write down three things you consistently deliver in your work, ministry, or the marketplace. Not your aspirations or what you hope to offer — but evidence of what you reliably deliver.
Perhaps you help bring order to chaos. Maybe you ask the question no one else is asking. Or perhaps you create momentum when things stall. When you can name your patterns, you’re less likely to underestimate them.
Then take it one step further; for each one, write where you will intentionally rely on it this week. Here’s an example: “If I bring clarity to complex situations → I will speak earlier in the next team discussion instead of waiting to refine my thoughts.” Turn self-awareness into behavior. You don’t want to be able to name your value – you want to deploy it. Just naming your value — you’re deploying it.
Change how you enter the room.Before your next meeting, conversation, or decision point, pause for 10 seconds. Decide your posture: “Today, I’m here to contribute by ______.” Fill in the blank based on your strengths. Then act accordingly!
Say the thing that needs to be said once, clearly. Don’t over-explain unless asked. Let your contribution land without managing everyone’s reaction.
Choose the posture with which you will enter the room, and know the difference between trying to prove worth or add value (those postures are not the same). One creates pressure. The other results in contributions.
You don’t need to add more to justify your presence. Practicing restraint will position you in your authority. Operate from what has already been built in you and share it with the confidence you have earned.
What’s NextThis month, the work isn’t about expanding your platform or increasing your output. It’s about strengthening the foundation underneath both removing what was never required in the first place. If this resonated, don’t let it stay theoretical — reinforce it by engaging with one, two, or three of the strategies I shared above.
If you’ve been carrying the pressure to prove — in how you communicate, how you lead, how you show up — that pressure is costing you clarity.
In Podcast #568, “Make Room for Overflow,” I walk through how to release unnecessary pressure so you can operate from alignment rather than striving. It’s a strategic conversation about capacity — what to carry, what to release, and how to make room for what actually matters.
If you’ve been overworking to prove instead of leading or communicating from steadiness, this episode will help you recalibrate.
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Listen to Episode #568 this week and use it as a reset: refine what you carry, release what you don’t, and move forward grounded in what’s already been built in you.
The value you bring is not accidental. It has been formed through time, responsibility, and growth.
Trust it. Steward it. And move forward from that place.
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Reflection Questions: 1. What experience, wisdom, or strength have you already earned that you tend to overlook, minimize, or discount when it’s time to contribute? 2. In your next meeting, conversation, or opportunity to lead, what would it look like to show up focused on adding value rather than proving your worth?
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What does it really mean to say yes to God?
In this episode, I’m sitting down with Brenda Palmer to talk about radical obedience, trusting God’s leading, and walking by faith when you don’t have all the answers. Brenda shares lessons from her book The Journey of Yes and opens up about the challenges, disappointments, and unexpected blessings that can come when we follow God’s voice.
Together, we discuss why obedience often requires trust before clarity, what happens when our obedience is misunderstood by others, and how God often uses unexpected seasons to prepare us for what’s next.
If you’ve ever wrestled with a difficult decision, wondered whether you can trust God’s direction, or found yourself standing between what feels comfortable and what God is asking you to do, I believe this conversation will encourage you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Choosing obedience over certainty * Surrendering what feels safe * Releasing the need for approval
Related Resources Connect with Brenda Palmer on Instagram, YouTube, or Facebook. * Grab a copy of Brenda’s book: The Journey of Yes * Obedience often requires grit. Listen to this podcast episode to learn more.*
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Time management, intentional living, and stewardship are at the heart of this week’s episode. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, distracted, exhausted, or frustrated by how quickly life is moving, this conversation is for you.
In this episode, I’m talking about the ways our lives can slowly drift when we stop living intentionally. From overcommitment and people-pleasing to endless scrolling, burnout, and inconsistent habits, this episode will challenge you to stop reacting to life and start stewarding your time, energy, and priorities with wisdom. Real transformation rarely happens through giant moments. More often, it’s built through small daily choices repeated consistently over time.
If you’ve been wanting healthier rhythms, more peace, stronger boundaries, or simply a life that feels more aligned with your priorities, I hope this episode encourages and challenges you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Stewarding your time * Scheduling your priorities * Protecting what matters
Related Resources* Struggle with truly resting or feel guilty taking time away? Check out this blog post. * This podcast episode with Crystal Paine dives even deeper on time management and juggling all things well. * If you’ve been discouraged by slow progress or wondering if your small efforts matter, check out this episode on how God can multiply what we have in our hands.
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My friend Debra Fileta sat down with me to share her perspective on people skills, and it totally shifted how I show up in my relationships.
Not only is Debra a wife, mother, and professional counselor, but she’s also the author of nine books, including her latest book, People Skills: Your Relationships Are Only as Strong as Your Skills. You’ll love hearing her expert advice for navigating relationships with intentionality and vulnerability.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Receiving the right feedback * Tracking patterns of tension * Easing into vulnerability
Related Resources* Connect with Debra Fileta on Instagram or Facebook. * Grab a copy of Debra’s latest book, People Skills: Your Relationships Are Only as Strong as Your Skills. * Visit Debra’s website to learn about her books, podcasts, and counseling offerings. * Check out this previous episode with Debra, reminding us that It’s Time to Heal.
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I used to think Mother’s Day would feel different by now.
I imagined a season where the seeds I planted for years would begin to bloom in obvious ways. I thought there would come a point where the sacrifices would feel easier to measure. A season where I could look around and clearly see the fruit of all the prayers, the long nights, the intentional conversations, the hard decisions, and the years spent pouring myself into my children.
I thought this stage of motherhood would feel more settled, but if I’m honest, some parts of this motherhood journey still feel a bit tender.
As I stand at the edge of empty nesting (my last of five will be a senior next year), I find myself holding both gratitude and grief. I love my children deeply, and I am proud of so many things about who they are becoming. At the same time, there are still tensions, unanswered prayers, and moments when our relationships feel more complicated than I expected. There are dreams I’ve carried for them that have not unfolded the way I imagined. There are lessons I’d hoped would stick sooner. There are waves in this season where mothering my children feels less like an exuberant celebration and more like intentional surrender.
I think more of us feel this way than we talk about.
When You’ve Built Your Life Around Raising Your Children I built my life around being present for my children. As a homeschool mom, much of my life was shaped around creating an environment where they could grow, learn, and flourish. I rearranged priorities. I made sacrifices that affected my time, energy, opportunities, and finances because I believed being intentional with my children mattered.
Now, don’t get me wrong…
I’ve lived my life too. While prioritizing my kids, I’ve made sure to live, grow, and expand. But that doesn’t mean that my choices for how I did that weren’t greatly affected by my desire to be involved in the way my husband and I chose to be.
I do not regret choosing presence. I do not regret the years spent investing in my family. I still believe that mom’s investment and presence matter.
But I would also be dishonest if I said there have not been moments when I quietly wondered whether I did enough (or did too much). Did I handle certain seasons well? Should I have made different decisions? Many mothers carry questions like these, especially when the outcome feels unclear.
One of the hardest parts of motherhood is that there are no report cards at the end of the day. There is no neat formula that guarantees a particular result. You can love deeply, pray faithfully, teach consistently, and still watch your children make choices you would not have chosen for them. That reality can make motherhood feel hopeless if we are not careful about reframing our mindset.
Release the Weight of Being Responsible for EverythingOne of the lessons I am learning in this season is that faithfulness and control are absolutely not the same thing. In fact, they are diabolically opposed at times.
As mothers, we carry so much responsibility for so long that it becomes easy to believe everything depends on us. We learn to anticipate needs, solve problems, manage schedules, teach lessons, and hold everything together. Over time, it can become difficult to separate what belongs to us from what belongs to God. I am slowly but surely coming to understand that I was never called to be my children’s savior.
I can create the environment. I can teach. I can model values. I can apologize when I get things wrong. I can pray. I can love them consistently and with intention. But I cannot control every outcome. That responsibility was never mine to carry.
There is freedom in remembering that God loves our children even more than we do and that He has loved them longer than we have because He knew them before we knew they existed. He sees what we cannot see. He knows the parts of their story that are still unfolding. He is able to work in places where our words, wisdom, and efforts cannot reach.
For the mother carrying guilt, despondency, or disappointment today, I want you to lean in right here. It is so important to ask yourself whether you are holding responsibility for things that only God has the authority and insight to control.
Trust God With the Parts You Cannot Yet SeeWe often hear the phrase, “You reap what you sow,” but what we don’t talk about enough is timing. Some seeds grow quickly. Others take much longer to break through the surface. Some growth happens internally before anything changes outwardly. Sometimes the fruit God is producing looks different than the picture we carried in our minds.
Motherhood requires a tremendous amount of faith because so much of the work happens underground. You spend years repeating the same lessons, praying the same prayers, and loving your children through different stages without always seeing immediate evidence that it’s making a difference. That can feel discouraging, especially when you compare your story to other families who appear to have everything figured out.
But visible fruit is not the only evidence that God is working. Sometimes God is using difficult seasons to shape both you and your children at the same time. Faithful sowing still matters, even when the harvest feels delayed.
Redefining Success in MotherhoodThis season has taught me that success in motherhood cannot simply be defined by appearances.
It is not having perfect children.
It’s not having every relationship feel easy.
It’s not getting immediate confirmation that every sacrifice paid off.
Success actually looks like continuing to love well in complicated seasons.
Praying even when you are exhausted.
Showing up when things feel uncomfortable.
Remaining openhearted instead of bitter.
Trusting God enough to release what you cannot force.
This Mother’s Day, my life and the lives of my children may not look exactly the way I once imagined they would in this season, but I still believe God is present in this story. I still believe that nothing done in love and obedience is ever lost, even when the results are not immediately apparent.
So, if this day feels complicated for you, too, I hope you give yourself permission to hold both gratitude and grief honestly before God.
I hope you remember that He sees every seed you planted, every sacrifice you made, and every prayer you prayed, long after everyone else has forgotten.
Nothing surrendered to Him is wasted.
So, regardless of what you see, I’m blessing you with a “Happy Mother’s Day”.
Simply because you are a mom and you have done and/or are doing the best you can do today.
And that’s perfectly enough to be celebrated.
Reflection Questions: 1. What expectations have you been carrying in motherhood that you are realizing may need to be surrendered or redefined in this season? 2. In what areas are you carrying responsibility for outcomes that ultimately belong to God? 3. Where have you seen evidence of faithfulness in your motherhood, even if the “fruit” does not look the way you expected? 4. What would it look like for you to extend yourself more grace as a mother right now instead of only focusing on what feels unfinished or unresolved?
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Intentional living, boundary setting, and finding your life’s purpose are at the core of today’s conversation. In this episode, I’m walking you through three decisions that will shape the direction of your life.
If you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward, this will help you gain clarity. I talk about what it really looks like to build a life on purpose, why boundaries are necessary for your growth, and how thinking about legacy changes the way you live today.
If you’re ready to stop drifting and start being intentional, this conversation is for you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Building a life with intention * Living with the end in mind * Setting boundaries that protect
Related Resources* Do you find it hard to make difficult decisions? Take a listen to this podcast episode. * Check out the episode on setting rhythms that stick and how to make the most of your mornings. * If you’re feeling discouraged, this podcast episode will remind you that a delayed dream is not a denial.
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I recently caught up with my friend Coach Gessie, a women’s health advocate who has overcome a battle with fibroids and infertility. Her story is proof that with God, a miracle can become a mission that not only transforms your life for the better, but also inspires a community of women to do the same.
Our conversation will encourage you to find balance in your well-being so that you can finally breathe.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Advocating for your well-being * Embracing preventative strategies * Addressing trauma and stress
Related Resources* Connect with Coach Gessie on Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook. * Learn more about Coach Gessie’s products and consultations on her website. * Check out this podcast episode about The Hub of Your Health.
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In this conversation, I sit down with Jade Warshaw to talk about the emotional side of money. After paying off $460,000 in debt, Jade shares what most financial advice leaves out — the guilt, the fear, the shame, and the daily commitment it takes to get unstuck.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by bills, hesitant to open your bank account, or unsure how to move forward financially, this episode will encourage you. We discuss practical steps, mindset shifts, investment basics, and why the time is going to pass anyway.
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Highlights from Today’s Episode* Facing financial fear instead of avoiding it * Separating guilt from identity * Choosing daily commitment over instant gratification
Related Resources* Connect with Jade Warshaw on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and X or online at jadewarshaw.com * Grab a copy of What No One Tells You About Money * Check out Dave Ramsey’s The Total Money Makeover * Download her “What’s For Dinner” Guide
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Are you tired of feeling like what you have to pour out isn’t enough? Or worse, that somehow you aren’t enough? When you long for more to meet the demands of your life, everything can change when you see that God has given you enough for today.
In this episode, I share my principles for pressing on, even when you feel like you’ve reached your limit. The truth is, at the end of what you can do is the beginning of what God can do. This message will help you to surrender what you have to God and release the rest.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Start with serving people well * Shift from scarcity to abundance * Surrender what you have to give
Related Resources* If you’re ready to adopt an attitude of abundance, listen to this podcast episode to Make Room for Overflow. * Learn How to Stop the Comparison Trap and focus on what you already have in your hands. * Discover what can happen When God Multiplies the Little Things.
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My sister Priscilla Shirer joined me at The Sister Circle Live to talk about faith, purpose, and making a mark that actually lasts. In this episode, we talk honestly about what it means to trust God when life doesn’t go as planned, how to find contentment in the season you’re in, and why the small, faithful, unseen moments are exactly where God is building something that will last on the inside of you.
Priscilla also shares personal testimony about loss, health challenges, and what it looks like to show up for God when showing up is hard. Additionally, she closes out our time with a prayer you don’t want to miss.
If you’re ready to stop shriving and start living with purpose right where you are, this episode is for you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Finding contentment in the ordinary * Making your mark in the mundane * Choosing to trust God always
Related Resources Connect with Priscilla Shirer on Instagram or YouTube. * Find more of Priscilla’s teaching at Going Beyond Ministries. * Check out this episode on How to Make the Most of Your Days for practical wisdom on stewarding your time well.*
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Are you ready to receive all that God has for you, but afraid to release what you’ve held onto for so long? No need to fear. In this episode, I’ll break down the process of letting go and leaning into the new thing God is ready to do in your life.
If you’re so overwhelmed that overflow feels out of reach, I’m here to remind you of the power you hold to release the weight that is holding you back and receive abundance in this season of your life. It’s time to make room for all of the blessings God has in store for you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Getting out of your own way * Giving yourself grace * Growing beyond guilt and shame
Related Resources* Ready to take the pressure off and live within your limits? Listen to this podcast episode on having Grace for the Pace. * Listen to this podcast episode for encouragement When the Year Didn’t Go As Planned. * Lean into the possibilities for this year with the free Dream Builders Workshop.
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What does healing look like when life doesn’t turn out the way you planned? In this episode, I sit down with my friend Michelle Smith to talk about forgiveness, abandonment, boundaries, and trusting God after deep disappointment. Michelle shares her journey through adoption, divorce, single parenting, and learning how to forgive — not once, but over a lifetime.
This conversation is honest, tender, and filled with hope for anyone walking through unresolved pain. If you’ve ever wondered how to keep trusting God when other people’s choices changed your life, this episode will meet you right where you are.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Choosing forgiveness as an ongoing decision * Learning to trust God after abandonment and betrayal * Setting boundaries without closing your heart
Related Resources Connect with Michelle Smith on her website*.
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What do you do when God moves in ways you didn’t expect? In this episode, I sit down with singer and Sunday Best winner Crystal Aikin to talk about calling, healing, and learning to trust God when the assignment keeps changing. Crystal shares her journey from nursing to music, from public success to private healing, and from striving to stillness. We talk honestly about singleness, unmet expectations, buried pain, and the kind of faith that’s built when God takes you off the path you thought you’d be on. This conversation is for anyone learning how to wait well and trust God deeply.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Allowing God to heal what you’ve learned to push past * Trusting God when expectations go unmet * Learning to wait without striving or forcing outcomes
Related Resources Connect with Crystal on Instagram or YouTube*
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Often during our darkest moments, it’s difficult to see God’s hands on our lives. But when we can look back and see how He carried us through other tough times, it becomes clear that there can be purpose even in our pain.
In this episode, I sit down with Anne Beiler, the founder of Auntie Anne’s Pretzels. Even after selling her company in 2025, she continues to inspire people with her story of redemption and resilience. My conversation with Anne is a reminder that even when life is hard, because life can be so hard, God is still good.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Hearing from the Holy Spirit * Moving mountains in marriage * Choosing to live again
Related Resources* Connect with Anne Beiler on Instagram or Facebook. * Keep up with Anne on her website. * Grab a copy of Anne’s latest books, including “Come to the Table Cookbook,” “Overcome and Lead,” and more from her online shop. * Check out Anne’s Stories x 8 small group experience * Listen to the Overcome with Auntie Anne podcast.
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What does it really mean to walk in spiritual authority? In this episode, I sit down with my Aunt Ruth — pastor, counselor, and teacher — to talk about identity, intimacy with God, and living with confidence rooted in Christ. We explore why authority isn’t about performance or perfect prayers, but about knowing who you are as a daughter of God. This conversation touches on unanswered prayers, singleness, disappointment, and learning to trust God even when life doesn’t unfold the way you expected. If you’re longing to walk boldly in your faith without striving, this episode will encourage and ground you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Defining spiritual authority * Navigating disappointment * Choosing contentment
Related Resources Connect with Ruthann Cannings on her website*. * For more encouragement, listen to episode #324-How to Leave a Legacy. * Grab my devotional, 100 Days to Discovering the Gift of You.
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What does it look like to slow down and walk with a God who isn’t worried — even when life feels overwhelming?
In this episode, I sit down with author and speaker Megan Fate Marshman for an honest conversation about grief, drive, faith, and learning to let go of self-reliance. Megan shares how loss reshaped her understanding of trust, why autonomy can quietly replace intimacy with God, and how slowing down isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom.
This episode is for anyone who feels tired of trying harder and is ready to learn what it means to walk with God instead.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Learning to slow down * Growing in spiritual health * Practicing honesty with God * Choosing community over fear
Related Resources Grab a copy of Megan Fate Marshman’s book: Relaxed: Walking with the One Who Is Not Worried About a Thing * Connect with Megan Fate Marshman on Instagram, X, Facebook, or her website*.
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I’m entering this next season with a simple focus: alignment over overload.
In this episode, I share why I’m choosing a slower, steadier pace and how making room for overflow starts with living in step with God—not doing more. I also talk about what’s ahead for the podcast, the Inner Circle, and upcoming opportunities, along with a free tool to help you reset your rhythm anytime you need it.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Choosing alignment over overload * Redefining overflow as a fruit of obedience * Embracing a slower, steadier pace with God * Creating margin for rest, clarity, and trust * Shifting from hustle to sustainable formation
Related Resources Join the Inner Circle: thesistercircle.com/innercircle * Learn more about The Communicator’s Cohort: thesistercircle.com/cohort * Free 5-Day Rhythm Reset: thesistercircle.com/rhythm * Get your copy of The Full Circle Planner: thesistercircle.com/shop*
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Has this year left you feeling defeated? If you’re ready to give up after giving it all you had, this episode will give you the push needed to get up and fight another day.
In this teaching, I share my practical advice for starting over, even when it feels like things never work out. The truth is, you have no idea how close you are to winning the fight while you’re in it. Sometimes you just need a reminder that you have what it takes to try again.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Looking for the silver lining * Learning how to fail forward * Leaning into the beauty of this season
Related Resources* Need more encouragement for starting again? Watch this podcast episode to learn How to Regain Motivation. * Tired of drifting away from your goals? Check out this podcast episode on Finding Your Way Back. * Reset for the year ahead with the Write It Down guide and the free Dream Builders Workshop.
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Are you making the most of your life? Maybe you have good goals, but the pressure to achieve has caused you to sacrifice your peace and fold under the pressure.
In this episode, I share important principles for partnering with God and releasing the pressure attached to productivity. There’s more waiting for you on the other side of surrender. If you’re tired of trying to make things happen on your own, this one’s for you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Building healthy habits * Aligning with God * Planning with purpose
Related Resources* Ready to live beyond the limits of your to-do list? Listen to my chat with Kendra Adachi on A New Approach to Productivity. * Check out this conversation with Jennifer Dukes Lee on The Balancing Act: God and Goals. * Prepare your heart and mind for the year ahead with the Write It Down guide and the free Dream Builders Workshop.
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In this episode, I sit down with Pastor Jerry Flowers Jr. to talk about the life-changing connection between therapy, theology, and healing. Jerry shares the story behind Therapy Thursday, why trauma often blocks us from hearing biblical truth, and how renewing your mind requires both Scripture and practical strategy. We discuss emotional awareness, grief, community, relational autopsies, and how Jesus modeled healthy boundaries long before we had the language for them.
If you’ve ever wondered why you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unable to move forward—this conversation will help you understand what’s happening in your heart and how to begin healing.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Learning to renew your mind * Identifying relational patterns * Reframing community and boundaries
Related Resources Connect with Jerry Flowers Jr. on Instagram, YouTube, TikTok, or his Website.* * Grab a copy of Jerry’s book: Heart Rehab
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Do you feel like what you have to offer isn’t enough? If you wish you had more to do more in your life, then this episode will encourage you to shift your perspective and focus on stewarding the small things well.
In this episode, I discuss the power of using what you have to cultivate seeds right where you are. This message will encourage you to embrace small beginnings and make room for God to multiply every seed you faithfully sow.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Participating in God’s plan * Building capacity through consistency * Implementing rhythms and routines
Related Resources* Check out this podcast episode to hear more about The Importance of Small Great Things. * Listen to this podcast episode to learn How to Build Habits That Last. * Read more about “doing what you can with what you have” in chapter 14 of my book She’s Still There.
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Today I’m talking with Ashley Menzies Babatunde—lawyer, DEI leader, storyteller, and host of No Straight Path. Ashley shares how striving, achievement, and perfection shaped her early years…and how failure, burnout, and grief invited her to slow down and rediscover who she really is.
We talk about knowing when you’re striving, how to reconnect with your purpose, the healing power of journaling, and navigating big feelings while becoming a new mother without your own mom here. Ashley also introduces the concept of “time affluence” and how to create space in your life for the things that actually bring joy.
It’s honest, warm, insightful, and full of permission to breathe.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Simple signs you’re striving instead of living intentionally * How journaling helps uncover your passions * The power of mentorship and sharing your network
Related Resources Connect with Ashley on Instagram or her website. * Listen to Ashley’s podcast “No Straight Path” here. * Check out Happier Hour by Cassie Holmes, PhD*
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In this episode, I sit down with investor and educator Ange Matthews, founder of The Happy Investor Method, to talk honestly about money, mindset, and what’s possible when you believe God cares about your financial life.
Ange shares her journey from making $40K a year with six-figure debt… to becoming a multimillionaire investor before age 40. We talk about investing while paying off debt, shifting from survival mode to possibility, and why Christians shouldn’t feel guilty about stewarding wealth.
If you’ve ever felt behind or overwhelmed by money, this conversation will give you clarity, confidence, and practical steps to take right now.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Breaking old money mindsets * Building wealth from scratch * Seeing money as stewardship
Related Resources Connect with Ange on Instagram or her website. * Get Your 150 Investment Ideas Download * Check out more podcast episodes on money here!*
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The joy of the holidays can often overshadow any moments of grief and sadness we experience.
In this episode of the podcast, I share my practical guidance for allowing grief, loss, and sadness to flow, specifically during the most wonderful time of the year. My own journey of loss has taught me that even in sorrow, there is still room for joy, but we must first give ourselves permission to exhale.
Here’s your invitation to make room for healing this holiday season.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Remembering what was * Recognizing your emotional capacity * Releasing the pressure to pretend
Related Resources* Listen to this encouraging episode about The Gift of Grief. * Feeling uneasy about holiday obligations? Listen to this episode for Tips for Coping with Holiday Stress. * Connect with a Bible study through Bible Study Fellowship * Prepare your heart and mind for the year ahead with the Write It Down guide and the free Dream Builders Workshop.
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In this episode, I get to the root of that oh-so-uncomfortable word: codependency.
If you’ve ever felt like you were losing yourself in a relationship, this chat will encourage you to value God’s approval above anyone else’s, and to lean into His plan for your life. You’ll leave feeling motivated to require mutual respect and a sense of independence in your relationships.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Pursuing personal peace * Pleasing God instead of people * Putting relationships in proper perspective
Related Resources* Ready to prioritize your peace? Listen to this podcast episode on Building Better Boundaries. * Need help putting yourself first? Listen to this podcast episode and practice The Art of Saying No. * Check out my conversation with Nona Jones on Overcoming Rejection.
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What does it mean to “rebrand the church”? In this conversation with Dr. Eric Mason, founder of Epiphany Fellowship and author of Rebranding the Church, we talk about how believers can restore the church’s witness in a world that has lost trust in Christianity.
We cover church hurt, discipleship, generational shifts, and why authentic community still matters. If you’re wondering how to heal from disappointment and help the church be healthy again, this episode will encourage you to press in.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Returning the church to Gospel roots. * Healing hurt without leaving community. * Moving from consuming to contributing.
Related Resources Connect with Dr. Mason on Instagram @pastoremase. * Grab a copy of Guest’s book: Rebranding the Church: Restoring the Image of God’s People in the World * Listen to The Sanctuary podcast with Dr. Mason. * Enjoy this episode from Nona Jones on* Navigating Change, Church, and Culture
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Do you make time to appreciate the very things you once prayed for? Sometimes, chasing the next thing can cause you to miss out on the moments that were once out of reach.
In this episode, I uncover the gift in letting go of busyness and embracing stillness. Burnout may be your norm now, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. I can’t wait for you to take back your time by slowing down.
And even if it takes longer to reach your destination, you’ll enjoy the journey along the way.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Engaging with your life * Leaning into solitude * Clearing your calendar
Related Resources* Ready to cultivate a rhythm of slowing down? Listen to this podcast episode for motivation When It’s Hard to Rest. * Need more encouragement? Check out this conversation with Asheritah Ciuciu on Rest for the Weary. * Grab the 2026 Full Circle Planner and schedule time to be still.
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The holidays don’t have to be picture-perfect to be meaningful. In this episode, I’m inviting you to trade the pressure of “doing it all” for the peace of simply being there. Together, we’ll talk about what it really means to practice hospitality that reflects God’s heart—choosing presence over perfection, connection over performance, and joy over exhaustion. Because at the end of the day, the best memories aren’t made in flawless spaces—they’re made wherever love and grace have room to gather.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Releasing perfection * Making memories * Creating connection
Related Resources* Ready to prepare for the season ahead? Listen to this podcast episode to learn how to plan for the holiday season. * Check out this podcast episode for my tips for coping with holiday stress. * Listen to my conversation with Sarah Harmeyer on hospitality and the heart of the home. * Intentionally plan for the holidays with the 2026 Full Circle Planner, which is currently 15% off!
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Are you tired of being consumed by everything happening around you? The constant distraction of social media posts, online shopping carts, and nonstop phone notifications is difficult for even the most disciplined person to ignore.
In this episode, I share my steps for guarding your heart against consumption and embracing contentment and gratitude. You only have so much time, energy, and money. Why not spend it on what matters most?
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Paying attention to patterns * Redirecting limited resources * Focusing on what matters most
Related Resources* Ready to implement gratitude into your daily rhythm? Listen to this podcast episode on taking care of your soul. * Check out this oldie-but-goodie episode on using your time well. * Not sure how you’re spending your time? Monitor your moments with the 2026 Full Circle Planner and the Daily Tracker.
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What if rest isn’t a break from real life—but the key to living it well?
In this episode, I sit down with Ruth Chou Simons, artist and bestselling author, to talk about rest, dependence, and freedom in God’s timing. Together, we explore how to stop striving, embrace your limits, and live with a heart at peace even when life feels busy.
If you’ve ever struggled to slow down or felt guilty for resting, this conversation will remind you that rest is worship—and that your worth isn’t tied to your productivity.
Highlights from Today’s Episode Reframing rest as worship, not weakness * Learning to trust God’s timing instead of forcing outcomes * Discovering freedom in living unhurried and fully dependent*
Related Resources* Grab a copy of Ruth’s book: The Way of the Wildflower * Connect with Ruth on Instagram and her website. * For more encouragement, check out this podcast episode on When it’s Hard to Rest * Download your Wildflower Declarations
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How do you remain hopeful while waiting on God? When life feels insufferable, there’s no better time to release disappointment and choose joy.
In this episode of the podcast, I share a few ways that I’ve held on to joy at difficult moments in my life. If you’re losing hope in your waiting, the sound advice and Biblical wisdom that I share will encourage you to keep going.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Pouring into passions * Holding on to hope * Doing away with distractions
Related Resources Check out this episode on Delayed Dreams. * Listen to this episode on Redeeming Your Dreams. * Ready to shift your mindset? Hear my advice for Growing in Gratitude.*
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Brands shape our lives. Top brands like Nike and Apple have one thing in common: they use their analytics to level up their product. What would happen if you used your personal analytics to improve your personal brand?
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I discuss how to gather personal data, embrace your unique design, and live a life of intention. When you commit to representing yourself and God well, you will begin to live a life that is on-brand with the woman you were created to be.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Showing up with integrity * Embracing your unique personality * Using your influence well
Related Resources* Grab my devotional, 100 Days to Discovering the Gift of You. * Find inspiration for looking at your story with my Write It Down video. * For more encouragement, listen to episode #324-How to Leave a Legacy.
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I sat down with Hannah Keeley, America’s #1 Mom Coach, to talk about how to thrive in motherhood—even when life feels overwhelming. Hannah is a mom of seven and the founder of Mom Mastery University, and she knows the struggle is real.
We dive into “Mom Brain” (and why it’s a superpower, not a flaw), the three biggest traps moms face, and how small routines can lead to big breakthroughs.
If you’ve ever felt stressed, disconnected, or stuck in survival mode, this episode will encourage you to stress less and love more.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Naming the three biggest traps moms face * Building routines that actually work for moms * Seeing Mom Brain as a superpower
Related Resources Connect with Hannah Keeley on Instagram, YouTube, and at hannahkeeley.com * Download Hannah’s free Mom Brain Survival Guide at chrystalevanshurst.com/mombrain * Learn about Mom Mastery University, Hannah’s year-long coaching program for moms*
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When was the last time you focused on your dreams? As a woman, you may find yourself helping everyone around you to fulfill their dreams, until one day you look up and wonder what happened to your dreams.
In this episode, I’ll share my honest perspective on persevering through the pain, as well as encouragement for revisiting your dreams with a renewed mind and hopeful heart.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Trusting the developmental process * Setting up supportive systems * Consulting with God first
Related Resources* Listen to my previous podcast episode on dreaming again. * Find even more encouragement in this podcast episode on delayed dreams. * Check out my book, She’s Still There, and rediscover the desires of your heart.
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How do you keep the faith when it seems God is silent? If you’ve been searching for His voice in the chaos of life, then my friend, you might be closer to Him than you think.
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I share practical steps for holding on to God when it feels like He’s let go of you. I know this one is going to encourage you to hang in there and pursue God in the midst of your waiting.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Surrendering unanswered prayers * Avoiding the comparison game * Overcoming seasons of spiritual dryness * Prospering in the midst of suffering
Related Resources* Learn how to tap into the power of silence (Podcast episode #427. * Listen to my four ways to find rest (Podcast episode #380) * Check out my podcast episode #084 on trusting God when life is tough
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I’m joined by my friend Valorie Burton, best-selling author and coach, to talk about her new book Rules of Resilience. We unpack what resilience really means—beyond pushing through—and how to bounce back with strength and faith.
Valorie shares her 3 pillars of resilience, how to know when to grit or quit, and why authenticity and community matter for thriving in tough seasons.
If you’ve faced setbacks or stress, this episode will give you practical tools to grow through what you go through.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Releasing what you can’t control * Building strength through authenticity * Knowing when to let go
Related Resources Connect with Valorie Burton on her website, Instagram, or YouTube. * Grab Valorie’s book: Rules of Resilience: 10 Ways Successful People Get Better, Wiser, and Stronger * Learn more about the Coaching and Positive Psychology Institute (CaPP Institute)*
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What would it look like for you to prioritize peace over productivity in your life? With so many demands fighting for your attention, the ability to find rest in a busy world can feel nearly impossible. But my friend, I’m here to remind you that rest can be your portion, even in the busy seasons of your life.
In this episode, I tap into the importance of finding rest and placing your confidence in God. You don’t have to wait for life to settle down before you get still. You can make room for this eye-opening conversation.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Replacing busyness with being still * Finding identity outside of accomplishments * Placing confidence in God
Related Resources* Check out my chat with Asheritah Ciuciu on rest for the weary. * Listen to my previous talk on four ways to find rest. * Pre-order The Full Circle Planner so that you can schedule time for rest.
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In this episode, I sit down with Rachel Awtrey—author, speaker, and host of Real Talk with Rachel Awtrey. Together, we dive into what it means to love your life even when it feels messy or mundane.
This conversation is full of wisdom and practical encouragement for anyone longing to create rhythms that bring joy, rediscover the gift of play, and cultivate authentic community. If you’ve ever wrestled with feeling unseen, overwhelmed, or stuck in the ordinary, Rachel’s insights will inspire you to wake up to God’s goodness and embrace joy right where you are.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Navigating motherhood, rhythms, and Sabbath rest in a busy season * Redefining play, creativity, and home as pathways to joy * Building community by going first and choosing love over impression
Related Resources Connect with Rachel on Instagram, her Podcast, or Pinterest * Grab a copy of Rachel’s book:* Love Your Life (Even When You Don’t Like It All the Time): A Realistic Guide to Unlocking Joy in Life’s Messy, Mundane, and Magnificent Moments
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Are you struggling with parenting your adult children? If their need for independence creates tension in your home, then I’ve got some advice and encouragement for you.
In this episode, I share my journey from parenting little ones to coaching adult children. The lessons I’ve learned along the way are too good not to share with you. Whether you’re a new mom or a veteran parent, there is something for everyone in this insightful conversation.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Parenting with presence * Coaching with compassion * Letting the Holy Spirit lead
Related Resources* Listen to my conversation with Mary DeMuth on parenting adult children. * Hear from Alli Worthington on embracing imperfect motherhood. * Grab my book She’s Still There to remember the girl in you, even as you raise your children.
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Feeling rejected? You’re not alone. In this episode, I’m diving into the truth about rejection – how it impacts our identity, relationships, and faith in God. If you’ve ever been left out, overlooked, or told “no” by someone you cared about, this conversation is for you.
Rejection is painful, but it doesn’t have to define you. I’m sharing my personal journey with rejection, how I’ve learned to reframe it as redirection, and why God’s “yes” is always louder than man’s “no.” Whether it’s a closed door, a failed relationship, or a missed opportunity, remember: there is purpose in the pain.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Facing rejection with courage * Reframing rejection as redirection * Allowing rejection to refine
Related Resources Learn how to practice the presence of God in this episode. * Listen to Nona Jones talk about overcoming rejection. * Need to get back into community after experiencing rejection? Listen to this episode.*
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Do you find yourself needing more than 24 hours to get everything done each day? If you’re tired of playing catch-up from one day to the next, then this one is for you.
In this episode of The Sister Circle podcast, I’ll share my insight for creating your own rhythms and routines. But what I really hope you take away from this episode is that it’s who you become in the process – the leader, the present parent, the peaceful person – that makes it all worth it.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Starting your day with God * Living with consistent rhythms * Ending your day with intention
Related Resources* Pre-order the 2026 Full Circle Planner and daily trackers to help you create order in your life. * Listen to my previous podcast episode on building habits that last. * Need more help with your morning routine? Listen to this podcast episode on starting your day well. * Check out Managers of Their Homes by Steven and Teri Maxwell
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How do you become the woman you’ve always wanted to be? The answer can be found in the things you do every day.
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I share my tips for implementing new habits into your life. You can evolve and grow at your own pace by doing one small thing each day.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Understanding the science of habits * Automating daily rhythms and routines * Being in the right environment * Letting go of perfectionism
Related Resources* Keep track of your habits with my Daily Tracker. * Ready to ease into your habit-building journey? This podcast episode will encourage you to give yourself grace for the pace. * Need more inspiration to build new habits? Listen to this podcast episode on breaking bad habits. * Listen to this podcast episode about finding power in the little things.
Check out these books on building habits:
- The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg
- Deep Work by Cal Newport
- Atomic Habits by James Clear
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Who do you call when you need help? When life really starts life-ing, who do you lean on to get through hard times? Unfortunately, it’s easy to notice who’s not there when things get tough, but how much better would life be if you developed friendships when everything is going well?
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I chat with my good sister-friend Toni Collier about her new book, Don’t Try This Alone, and the blessing that is true friendship and community. Get ready to laugh and lean into a good conversation between two women who have experienced the blessing of real community.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Finding friendship through authenticity * Thriving in safe environments * Slowing down in hectic seasons
Related Resources Connect with Toni Collier on Instagram, Facebook, or her website*. * Order a copy of Toni’s book: Don’t Try This Alone: How to Build Deep Community When You Want to Hide From Your Pain * Watch episodes of Toni’s Still Coloring Podcast. * Listen to my previous conversation with Toni on the path to healing.
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Do you long to feel the presence of God in your life? If you desire a deeper connection with the Father, I want you to know that He’s simply waiting on you.
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I get real about the distractions and demands that threaten to pull us away from intimacy with Him. I’m also sharing my tips for inviting God into every moment of your life. So grab your favorite drink, a notepad, and a pen, and get ready to practice the presence of God.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Finding time to spend with God * Meeting God in the mundane * Knowing God through worship and the Word
Related Resources* Listen to this podcast episode on Inviting Jesus into Your Everyday * Grab a copy of my book, The 28-Day Prayer Journey * Need help building your worship playlist? Listen to this playlist I put together for my mom, Lady Lois’ Worship
Check out a few of my favorite books for embracing God’s presence:
- The Practice of God’s Presence, Experiencing the Holy Spirit, and With Christ in the School of Prayer by Andrew Murray
- Secrets of the Secret Place by Bob Sorge
- The Valley of Vision by Arthur Bennett
- Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero
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Is your home a place of rest, or does it bring you stress? If you feel overwhelmed every time you enter your home, then it’s time to shift from chaos to calm.
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I’m excited to share practical ways to implement rhythms, routines, and systems into your space. Get ready to steward your home well.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Inviting joy into your space * Stewarding your time well * Implementing rhythms and systems
Related Resources Ready to bring order into your space? Check out this episode on managing your home. * Grab my Meal Planning Workshop to unlock tips for stocking your pantry and making meal time less stressful. * Establish new rhythms and routines with the The Full Circle Planner.* * Download the Plan to Eat app for help with meal planning.
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Do you feel like summer’s gotten away from you? You’re not alone. In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I’m sharing how to make the most of the time you still have. From reflecting on what worked, to resetting your space and recommitting to your purpose, this conversation will help you finish summer with intention — and walk into fall with focus. Don’t wait for a fresh start — you can begin again right now.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Look back so you can launch forward * Clear space to hear and obey * Plan with purpose and not panic
Related Resources* Feeling like time is slipping by? This episode on making peace with God’s timing might be just what you need. * Check out the episode on setting rhythms that stick and how to make the most of your mornings. * Want to plan ahead with purpose? Grab your Full Circle Planner today.
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Are you tired of acting like you have it all together? What would happen if you took off the mask and got honest about everything weighing you down?
In this episode, I’m opening up about the struggle to be honest with God, yourself, and the safe people in your life. Acting like everything is fine can only work for so long. Eventually, you’re going to need to lean on someone else. Get ready for a heart-to-heart conversation about authenticity and vulnerability.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Developing safe spaces * Having compassion for others * Choosing an honest response
Related Resources* Listen to this podcast episode about the power of listening to your body. * Feel like the weight of the world is resting on your shoulders? This podcast episode is your reminder that you can’t carry it all. * Need encouragement for processing your feelings? My Write It Down video is a great place to start. * Pick up my book, She’s Still There, and rediscover who you are behind the mask.
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There is this myth that every confident woman is naturally fearless all the time, but that’s simply not true. In fact, being confident often requires an intentional choice to stand in the face of fear and do the thing anyway.
In this episode, I combat common misconceptions about confidence with the truth of God’s Word. Here’s to planting seeds of courage as you grow in confidence.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Praying to God for direction * Pushing past discomfort * Practicing small acts of courage
Related Resources* Ready to walk in your authority? Listen to this podcast episode. * Stay motivated with The Full Circle Planner and the Welcome Home Journal. * Pre-Order Toni Collier’s new book: Don’t Try This Alone: How to Build Deep Community When You Want to Hide from Your Pain
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How do your finances make you feel? If you’re overwhelmed by debt and delinquent bills, then it’s time to partner with God on your path to financial freedom.
In this episode, I share my guiding principles for finding peace in the midst of financial pressure. Even if it feels like the end of your money story, I know this teaching will encourage you to trust in God’s plan for your finances.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Understanding your money story * Planning with a purpose * Keeping your heart in check
Related Resources* Watch my recent conversation with Tiffany “The Budgetnista” Aliche on financial wholeness. * Listen to my practical advice for how to save money. * Write down your money goals in the Welcome Home Journal. * Stay on track with your finances in The Full Circle Planner.
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How would you walk into a room if you had more confidence? If you find yourself walking into spaces with your head down, there’s no better time than now to step into the fullness of who you are.
There’s so much goodness shared in this episode. I get real about the confidence it’s taken for me to do hard things (like starting this podcast) and share practical advice for cultivating confidence. Before you press play, grab a pen and a notepad because this one’s packed with Scriptures to keep you encouraged.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Thinking the right thoughts * Walking boldly in your assignment * Living with legacy in mind
Related Resources* Listen to this episode with Amanda Pittman on Unlocking the Door to Confidence. * Watch this episode with Tabitha Brown on Showing Up As Yourself. * Ready to get your mind right? Download my guide for taking your thoughts captive. * Grab The Full Circle Planner to intentionally pay attention to your life.
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Do you wish you were further along in life? While this is a common experience, it’s still easy to feel behind when everyone else appears to have it all together.
In this episode of the podcast, I share my advice for holding on even when it seems that others are miles ahead of you. If you’re tired of the pressure that comes with forcing your timeline, then this one’s for you. It’s time to allow God to take the lead.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Partnering with God in your plans * Building your faith while you wait * Embracing your unique path
Related Resources* Tired of comparing yourself to others? Listen to this podcast episode on how to stop the comparison trap. * If you’re feeling discouraged, this podcast episode will remind you that a delayed dream is not a denial. * Keep track of your plans with The Full Circle Planner.
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What do you do when your dreams get derailed? When things don’t pan out the way you planned, disappointment can take root in your heart.
I know that these moments can be some of the most difficult to navigate. In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I share a few ways to forge ahead, even when it feels like your dreams are drifting away.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Trusting God’s timing * Speaking life over your situation * Establishing boundaries
Related Resources* Ready to dream again? Listen to this podcast episode. * If you’re having a hard time finding the good in your season, this podcast episode will help you with Taking Care of Your Soul. * Need inspiration for processing your thoughts? Watch my Write It Down video. * Sign up to get my Write It Down guide and join my email list * Revisit your dreams with The Full Circle Planner.
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In this episode, I sit down with author and speaker Brenda Palmer to talk about her new book, The Journey of Yes: The Everyday Adventure of Radical Obedience. Brenda shares what it’s like to really say “yes” to God, especially when the outcome is uncertain. We talk about her unexpected journey into ministry, how she wrestles with insecurity, and why she’s learning to trust God even when life feels unstable. Brenda gets real about the cost of obedience, the pressure of the platform, and the beauty of simply following God’s lead.
If you’ve ever found yourself in a season of transition, wondering what’s next, or struggling to believe you’re enough for what God’s calling you to do, this conversation is for you. I pray it encourages you to lean in, trust God, and keep walking in faith.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Navigating an unexpected calling * Battling insecurity with obedience * Trusting God without clarity
Related Resources Connect with Brenda Palmer on Instagram, YouTube, or her website * Grab a copy of Brenda’s book: The Journey of Yes: The Everyday Adventure of Radical Obedience * How to Hear God’s Voice: How To Hear God’s Voice*
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What does total surrender look like? The idea of letting go often sounds good until things get real. But what happens when your yes to God costs you something?
In this episode, I sit down with longtime beauty and lifestyle influencer Jade Godbolt. She shares her journey of rebuilding her brand, giving birth to babies at home, and homeschooling her children. The peace that radiates from her during our conversation is a reminder of what happens when you discover who you are and whose you are. And my friend, that same peace is available to you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Eliminating distractions in order to focus * Slowing down to be present * Having a clear vision for your life
Related Resources* Grab my book, She’s Still There, and check out chapter 5 for more of my thoughts on drift. * Learn more about mindfulness and gratitude. Listen to Podcast #510 – Taking Care of Your Soul * Ready to take note of your thoughts? Pick up The Full Circle Planner * Download the “Lies vs. Truth” Printable HERE!
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What does total surrender look like? The idea of letting go often sounds good until things get real. But what happens when your yes to God costs you something?
In this episode, I sit down with longtime beauty and lifestyle influencer Jade Godbolt. She shares her journey of rebuilding her brand, giving birth to babies at home, and homeschooling her children. The peace that radiates from her during our conversation is a reminder of what happens when you discover who you are and whose you are. And my friend, that same peace is available to you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Releasing the pressure of performance * Parenting from a place of grace * Navigating home births and homeschool * Cultivating a Christ-centered marriage
Related Resources Connect with Jade Godbolt on Instagram and YouTube*. * Learn more about Jade on her website. * Begin your roller set journey with Jade and subscribe to her Under the Dryer substack. * Follow Jade’s homeschool and faith journey. * Watch Jade’s home birth videos, including this video of her unexpected home birth and this one of her most recent home births. * Check out The Godbolt Life Podcast, Jade’s podcast with her husband Mark.
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What does it really mean to live on brand as a woman of faith? In this episode, I’m sharing what I’ve learned about aligning your life with your God-given calling, embracing who you really are, and serving others in a way that leaves a lasting mark. This isn’t about performance, it’s about purpose.
If you’ve ever wondered how to live with intention, how to be more authentic, or how to walk confidently in your calling, this conversation is for you. I break down the three “house rules” for living on brand: alignment, authenticity, and impact. I also talk about why community and discipleship matter so much, especially when your light feels dim and you need to borrow someone else’s.
Your personal brand is not about perfection. It’s about showing up with intentionality, being who God created you to be, and letting that authenticity influence the world around you. Let God use you, exactly where you are, exactly how He made you. And trust, your life will make a mark that matters.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Align with God’s calling * Embrace authenticity for influence * Make a lasting mark
Related Resources* Building a personal brand starts with knowing who God says you are. * Rejection doesn’t have to stop you from living an on-brand life. Here’s how to overcome rejection. * Have you found yourself drifting from the brand that you’ve established for yourself? It’s time to reengage with your life.
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Do you feel like you’re drifting away from your goals? If you’ve found yourself veering off track and getting further away from where you want to be, you’re not alone.
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I offer some tools for dusting yourself off and reengaging with your life. Consider this your invitation for a true intervention. Let’s do this, one good decision at a time.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Resetting your goals * Maintaining a healthy mindset * Holding an intervention for yourself
Related Resources* Grab The Full Circle Planner to reengage with your life. * Pick up my book, She’s Still There, to find encouragement for getting back on track. * Check out this podcast episode to learn how to listen to your life.
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Are you staying awake for your life? If you’ve found yourself simply coasting along, you could look up one day full of regret for the moments you missed.
In this episode of the podcast, I invite you to a change of scenery. Instead of coming to you live from my yellow chair, I’m taking you along with me to Costa Rica. My good friend invited me to celebrate her birthday, and at this moment, I’m choosing to show up fully awake.
And I want that for you, too. It’s time to open your eyes.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Stepping out of your comfort zone * Listening in new spaces * Getting involved in your community
Related Resources* Listen to this podcast episode to learn how to listen to your life. * Are you paying attention to your life? Take the Staying Awake quiz to find out. * How are you doing with mental clutter? You can take this quiz here!
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Mental clutter can make you feel like you’re chained to every worry that crosses your mind. But my friend, rest is waiting for you. All you have to do is hand it all over to God.
In this episode of the podcast, I share the warning signs of mental clutter and how to shift from anxiety to peace. Here’s to moving forward with a clean heart and a clear mind.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Resting mind, body, and spirit * Aligning thoughts with God’s truth * Prioritizing peace amid problems
Related Resources* Sign up to get my Write It Down guide and join my email list. * Grab the Welcome Home Journal and write down your thoughts. * Begin the Journey to Taking Your Thoughts Captive. * Check out my past conversation with Asheritah Ciuciu on Rest for the Weary * Listen to this podcast episode to learn How to Listen to Your Life.
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How do you recover after you’ve let yourself down? When the motivation begins to wane and the guilt begins to set in, you can find yourself in a low place. But my friend, you can’t stay there.
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, you’ll find practical tips and inspiration for getting back on track with your goals. Here’s your opportunity to redefine your story.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Staying on track with your goals * Using Scripture to combat lies * Implementing systems that work * Finding the courage to start again
Related Resources* Need help staying on track with your goals? Grab The Full Circle Planner. * Listen to my previous episode on giving yourself Grace for the Pace. * Find support in the Inner Circle Community as we dive into making our mark this year! Learn about joining my Inner Circle!
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Forgiveness isn’t forgetting. And it definitely isn’t approval. But it is freedom—and in this talk, we walk through how to forgive what still hurts, especially when the memory won’t let go.
In this video, we explore:
- Why forgiveness isn’t about excusing what happened
- How to process pain with God instead of pretending it away
- What it means to forgive again and again—even when the feelings don’t follow
Through Scripture, honest stories, and practical wisdom, you’ll discover how to finally lay down the burden of bitterness and experience the peace God wants for you. If you’ve ever wrestled with resentment or asked, “How do I forgive when I can’t forget?”—this is for you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Finding freedom in forgiveness * Processing your pain to make way for healing * Growing your “muscles” of forgiveness
Related Resources* Looking for more on forgiveness? Check out Episode #181, A She’s Still There Story. * Do you need to dive deeper into the mother/daughter dynamic? Listen to this episode on Mending Your Mother-Daughter Relationship. * In this powerful episode, Kia Stephens and I sat down to discuss Overcoming Father Wounds. Listen here.
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In this episode, I’m sitting down with Tiffany Aliche, The Budgetnista, America’s favorite financial educator, to discuss how to overcome financial shame and build lasting financial wholeness. TIffany shares her personal journey from financial struggle to success, including the lessons she learned after being scammed and finding herself in $300k+ of debt.
Tiffany breaks down the 10 key components of financial wholeness, starting with budgeting, savings, and debt management. She also shares resources that are available to help you on your financial journey and explains how seeking professional support can help you avoid falling into deeper debt traps.
Whether you’re struggling with debt, unsure where to start, or just looking for practical tips on managing your finances, this episode provides valuable insights to help you regain control.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Confronting financial shame * Exploring solutions to bankruptcy. * Building lasting financial wholeness.
Related Resources Connect with Tiffany Aliche on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Grab a copy of Tiffany’s book: Get Good With Money * Struggling with saving money? Check out this podcast episode. * A part of becoming an adult is learning how to manage money well. Listen to episode #421 of the podcast, where I talk all things adulting.*
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Many women are caught off guard by menopause, experiencing symptoms like sleep issues, mood swings, and stress without realizing the cause. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jill Waggoner to talk about menopause, women’s health, and how to care for your body through life’s transitions. Dr. Jill shares practical advice on recognizing the signs of menopause, balancing busy seasons, and becoming your own health advocate. We also discuss why concierge medicine is becoming a preferred choice and the importance of finding the right doctor
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Understanding menopause * Exploring integrative medicine * Becoming your own health advocate
Related Resources Connect with Dr. Jill Waggoner on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook*. * Join Dr. Jill for her six-week program, Trim & Thrive. * Changing your health starts with choosing to be kind to your body. Check out this podcast episode on body positivity. * There’s power in listening to your body. Watch Episode 451 for more details.
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We’re back! In this episode, I’m sharing what it really looks like to start again after a long break – and why it’s often harder than we think. Whether it’s picking up a creative project, getting back into your Bible reading routine, or returning to something you’ve put off for too long, starting again can feel overwhelming. But here’s the truth: you don’t need perfect conditions to begin. You just need to take that first small step.
Let’s have a chat about overcoming guilt, pushing past perfectionism, and breaking the cycle of procrastination. I’ll also give you practical ways to get moving again and remind you that you’re not alone in the struggle.
If you’ve been stuck or waiting for the “right time,” this episode is for you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Embrace imperfect starts * Release guilt and pressure * Take small, consistent steps
Related Resources* Are you struggling to start due to needing to make a difficult decision? Take a listen to this podcast episode. * You have the freedom to pivot, even if it means starting over. Check out this conversation with Melody Alisa. * You have everything you need to start. You just need to build on what you already know. * Listen to Bianca Olthoff share how obedience to God has given her the power of grit.
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What does the start of a new year mean to you? For some, it may signal an opportunity to level up in life, while for others, a new year brings unnecessary pressure to take off at full speed straight out of the gate.
In this episode of the podcast, I share my tips for moving into the new year with ease and intention. When you allow the Father to order your steps, you can trust that you’ll end up right where you are meant to be.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Delaying the start of the year * Doing small things well * Resisting the urge to get it right
Related Resources* Ready to build a life you love? Watch the Dream Builders Workshop * Keep track of every step you make this year. Grab The Full Circle Planner * Need inspiration for processing your thoughts? View my Write It Down video * Listen to this oldie-but-goodie episode about doing the next right thing
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Feeling tired, overwhelmed, or just running on empty? In this episode, we’re talking about self-care – what it really means and how it connects to honoring God and living well. Self-care isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity. It starts with learning to slow down, recognize burnout, and make space for rest.
Let’s unpack what it looks like to care for your body, mind, and soul in ways that honor God and help you thrive. From simple habits like stretching your body to spiritual disciplines like prayer and digging into Scripture, I’m sharing practical steps to help you refresh and refill.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Recognizing signs of burnout * Receiving renewal from God * Practicing rest as worship
Related Resources Want to dive deeper into taking care of your soul? Listen to this podcast episode. * If you find yourself struggling with self-care because you’re carrying too much, this podcast episode will help you let go of worry and cast your cares. * Check out my brand new reading plan on YouVersion, The Magnificent Grace of God*.
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It’s time for my annual Christmas Collection! This year, instead of sharing gift ideas, Kariss and I reminisced over our favorite Christmas memories (and our not-so-favorite gifts). And let me tell you, a good time was had. I love that we get together to intentionally connect in this way. I also love that we get to invite you into our conversation.
I love that we get together to spend time together in this way. There’s no better time to reflect on what made the holidays special and to discover ways to bring that joy with you now.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Reliving Christmas at Nonny’s * Navigating hard during the holidays * Doing more of what brings you joy * Establishing new Christmas traditions
Related Resources* Check out last year’s edition of Chrystal’s Christmas Collection * Try your hand at Nonny’s Famous Pumpkin Bread * Keep track of all of your holiday plans in the Full Circle Planner * Shop for yourself and your loved ones in my online store
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How do you navigate the holidays when grief is a close companion? If you’ve experienced a significant loss, then you know what it’s like for the holiday season to feel more like a sorrowful time of year than a wonderful one.
This episode of The Sister Circle Podcast is a special one. I share my grief journey and how I’ve navigated the holiday season without my mother, my very own Mrs. Claus.
My friend, if you’re coping with a loss this holiday season, know that you will smile again. Just hold on.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* How to deal with grief * Honoring the forms of grief and loss * Taking care of yourself as you cope
Related ResourcesCheck out this special podcast I did with my mom a few years back, Podcast #198 – Thriving During the Holidays
Listen to my collection of podcast episodes on grief and loss:
- Podcast #089 – Coping with Grief
- Podcast #180 – Staying Awake When Life Hurts
- Podcast #284 – Rebuilding After Loss
- Podcast #308 – Coming Up for Air
- Podcast #403 – Building Resilience with Michele Cushatt
- Podcast #409 – You Can Grieve Well with Tiffany Coleman
- Find the Joy
- How to Deal with Grief and Loneliness
- Make Room for Joy
- Ten Ways to Self-Soothe
- Thoughts on Loss, Grief, and Hope CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Do you remember when you first fell in love with God? What if you returned to the place where your heart was on fire, and you did everything you could to draw close to Him?
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I discuss the importance of staying connected to the Father through mindfulness and gratitude.
Here’s to cultivating the spiritual discipline necessary to abide in God.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Slowing down this holiday season * Paying attention to your life * Learning to abide in God * Starting a gratitude journal
Related Resources* Learn more about thankfulness. Listen to Podcast #389 – Growing in Gratitude * Get inspired to release your thoughts with my Write It Down video CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Connecting with God through Scripture is how intimacy is formed. Much like learning about a loved one through intentional time and attention, you learn more about the character of God through time spent in His word. The thing is, even in knowing this, studying Scripture can still feel like an impossible task.
Tara-Leigh Cobble joins me on this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast. She is a speaker and teacher who has helped millions access and understand the Bible through The Bible Recap Podcast.
I know this conversation will encourage you to engage with Scripture, even when life dares to get in the way.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Reading the Bible to build intimacy with God * Finding reading resources that work for you * Connecting with other believers through community * Seeing the gift in singleness
Related Resources* Connect with Tara-Leigh Cobble on Instagram or Facebook. * Grab a copy of Tara-Leigh’s book, The Bible Recap * Check out Tara-Leigh’s latest books: Knowing Jesus as Savior and The Bible Recap for Kids * Learn more about Tara-Leigh and her ministry on her website * Listen to The Bible Recap Podcast CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Have you ever felt like you were spinning out of control? Sometimes, anxiety can make you feel as though you can’t slow down no matter how hard you try. In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I’ll share some of the ways I’ve learned to get to the root of my anxious thoughts and begin to trust in God again.
Anxiety can rob you of your life, but I want more for you. More importantly, God has more in store for you. And my friend, you deserve to live and live well.
Highlights from Today’s Episode Gleaning wisdom from Inside Out 2* * Allowing anxiety to provide information * Giving everything to God in prayer * Making the constant decision to trust God
Related Resources* Grab my book, 28 Days of Prayer * Pick up I Surrender All by Priscilla Shirer * Listen to Podcast #460 – Asheritah Ciuciu – Rest for the Weary * Find strategies for fear and anxiety in Podcast #502 – Let Go of Worry CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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If you’re someone who finds it difficult to say “no,” you’re not alone. Whether it’s from a desire to help others, a fear of disappointing people, or simply wanting to avoid conflict, many of us struggle with setting healthy boundaries. But learning how to say “no” is an essential life skill that helps ensure you’re giving your time and energy to the things that truly matter.
In this post, I want to explore the art of saying “no” with confidence, positivity, and grace. After all, saying “no” is not about rejecting others—it’s about making room for the things you value most.
Why Saying No MattersIt’s so important to say “no” when the situation calls for it. Your “no” is a powerful tool because giving a “no” when needed makes room for the “yes” you really want and need to give to something or someone else. Being confident and clear about saying “no” becomes easier when you are clear about the gifts that “no” gives you:
- Space for Growth – Saying “no” gives you the bandwidth you need to focus on what matters. Just like a plant needs space to grow and stretch its roots, your life needs space to develop, reflect, and grow into the person you’re meant to be.
- Peace and Focus – When you keep saying “yes” to everything, you spread yourself too thin. Saying “no” frees you from overcommitting and allows you to focus on the tasks and relationships that align with your purpose.
- Better Yeses – If you never say “no,” you’ll eventually find yourself saying “yes” to things that drain you, leaving no energy for what truly fills you. Your “yeses” become more meaningful when you say “no” to the things that don’t serve you or align with your goals.
Saying No in the Spirit of a YesNow that we’ve covered why saying “no” is so important let’s talk about how to do it. If you are like me, you might find yourself feeling bad about giving a no to other people. Think about saying “no” and setting boundaries simply as a communication tool. You are letting someone know if they have a green light or a red light. It doesn’t mean that you are mean, unwilling, or uncooperative. You simply are letting someone know what you can or can’t, will or will not, should or should not do. Remember this adage: “Clarity is kindness.” Communication and clarity is a good thing!
I believe in the principle of saying “no” with a spirit of a “yes.” You don’t have to be harsh or rude when setting boundaries or declining an offer, invitation, or opportunity. Instead, you can say “no” in a way that still leaves people feeling positive and valued. Here are three principles for saying “no” with a spirit of a “yes:”
- Be Positive – Think of the customer service at Chick-fil-A. No matter what, they maintain a positive attitude. Even if they have to say “no” (like when they close on Sundays or don’t have your order ready and make you pull over to wait on a fresh order of fries, they always offer a gracious response and let you know they’re looking forward to seeing you again. When you say “no,” try to do it with a smile or in a tone that conveys that while you can’t help this time, you still care.
- Be Pro-People – Saying “no” doesn’t mean you’re rejecting the person asking; you’re just not available or able to help in the way they’re asking. You can still show support by expressing understanding and offering alternatives. For example, “I can’t help with this right now, but I’m cheering you on!”
- Find Peace in Your No – If you’re a people-pleaser, saying “no” might feel uncomfortable at first, but once you realize that you can say it kindly and that you’re actually serving both yourself and others, it becomes easier. You can still be empathetic and kind while maintaining your boundaries. It’s okay to acknowledge the other person’s need while gently setting limits.
Practical Ways to Say NoSometimes, saying “no” is easier when you have a script to follow. I know I do. So, I wanted to provide several examples you can use or adapt to your own situation. Whether you want to leave room for a future yes or are giving a firm no, hopefully, these scripts will give you a little extra confidence for saying “no” when needed.
The “ Not Right Now No”
- Explained – This type of “no” is perfect when you actually want to help but just can’t at this moment. It lets another person know you’re not saying no permanently but that you have to decline in this moment.
- Examples:
- “I’m not available today, but maybe another time?”
- “As much as I’d love to help, I’m already committed that day. Could we try another date?”
- “I’m sorry, my schedule is fully booked for that day. If anything changes, I’ll let you know.”
The “Nice No” Explained – These are gentle, polite no’s when you don’t want to participate at all but still want to be supportive. This type of no keeps things warm and positive but sets a clear boundary. * Examples*: + “Unfortunately, I’m not available to help, but have you considered asking [insert another person’s name]?” + “That sounds amazing, but I can’t participate right now. However, I’ll be praying for you!” + “I’m so honored you thought of me, but I’m going to have to respectfully decline.”
The “Firm No” Explained – Sometimes, you just need to say a straightforward “no.” No explanations, no room for negotiation—just a clear and firm answer. This is the most direct form of a no, and it’s important to stand firm in it, especially if you’re dealing with a situation where you’ve already said yes too many times. * Examples*: + “I’m so sorry, but can’t commit to that at this time.” + “That’s not going to work for me.” + “No, I’m not available.”
There is Power of Saying NoSaying “no” is a crucial skill in maintaining your personal and professional well-being. By mastering the art of setting boundaries, you create space for what matters most—whether that’s time with your family, pursuing your goals, or simply taking care of yourself.
So, what’s your next step? Think about the areas in your life where you need to say “no.” Who do you need to set boundaries with? What do you need to say no to so that you can say yes to something more meaningful?
Remember, your “no” isn’t a rejection—it’s a way of saying “yes” to your own growth, peace, and priorities. You’ve got this!
If this post resonated with you, leave a comment below sharing which of the “no” techniques you found most helpful. And if you think someone else would benefit from learning about the art of saying “no,” feel free to share this post with them!
Highlights:* How to say no with grace without guilt * How to set boundaries with people * How to create space and protect your energy
Reflection Questions: 1. Why do you think many people struggle with saying “no”? What fears or beliefs might be driving this difficulty? 2. What areas of your life could benefit from more space and less busyness? What are some specific “yeses” you’re giving right now that might be crowding out the things that matter most to you? 3. Think about the different types of “no’s” (Not Right Now No, Nice No, and Firm No), which one do you find most difficult to use? Why? 4. What is one thing in your life you need to say “no” to in order to create more space for what truly matters?
Related Resources:* Want to hear more about boundaries? Listen to Podcast #431 – Building Better Boundaries * Listen to Podcast #498 – Becoming a Woman of Wisdom * Be sure to also check out my book She’s Still There.
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Chrystal is the Founder and CEO of The Sister Circle, an organization that exists to provide practical encouragement and equip women of faith to live with intention and purpose. Chrystal is also a best-selling author and speaker who reaches a wide audience, speaking at conferences, hosting her podcast, and leading the women’s ministry at her home church.
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Are you tired of putting on your superwoman cape for everyone and everything? As a woman, I can certainly identify with feeling overrun and overworked. And specifically, as a Black woman, the pressure to constantly be strong can feel downright debilitating.
My friend Dr. Sarita Lyons recently joined me for a real sister-to-sister conversation about her new book, Church Girl: A Gospel Vision to Encourage and Challenge Black Christian Women, and the intersection of race and faith.
Whether you’re a Black woman searching for her identity in Christian spaces or someone far removed from the Black experience, this conversation will encourage you to not only show up better but to serve and love your sisters in faith better too
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Overcoming rejection and discouragement * Knowing when to press and when to pivot * Shining a light on Black women and the superwoman complex * Giving God glory in the midst of grief
Related Resources* Connect with Dr. Sarita on Instagram, Facebook, or YouTube * Grab a copy of Dr. Sarita’s book: Church Girl: A Gospel Vision to Encourage and Challenge Black Christian Women * Learn more about Dr. Sarita through her website * Watch my previous conversation with Dr. Sarita on The Fundamentals of Faith (Podcast #319) * To hear more on the intersection of race and faith, listen to Podcast #395: Faitth Brooks – The Journey to You * Listen to Podcast #369: Dorena Williamson – Embracing God’s Design CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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What is keeping you from walking in your full authority? No matter what may be holding you back, with God and with time, you can find your stride again.
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I share a few ways that I’ve learned to keep my identity intact, even as seasons change.
When you’re intentional about tethering yourself to God through every season, you will remain on solid ground. Always know that no matter what, you are the daughter of a King.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Build your identity on solid foundation * Believe that you are royalty * Behave like a queen
Related Resources* To learn how to leave a royal legacy, listen to Podcast #374 – Royal and Real * For more insight on authority, listen to Podcast #402 – Standing in Authenticity and Authority CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Let’s be real. Life can be rough. Along the way, many of us balance our daily responsibilities along with our battles with insecurity, doubt, and the weight of the world’s expectations. Sometimes the challenges we face combined with our perceived shortcomings can make us feel less than worthy. That’s exactly when we need a spiritual joy bomb like Oneka McClellan to remind us that, regardless of our circumstances, we are daughters of THE King.
We are chosen, we are loved, and we are appointed for greatness!
Oneka McClellan is a writer, author, speaker, wife, and mother who also pastors Shoreline City Church alongside her husband, Earl.
In this episode, Oneka joins me on the couch to share insights from her book, Born Royal: Overcoming Insecurity to Become the Woman God Says You Are. Oneka’s message is timeless, and her energy is infectious. She brings a clear word for the women of God: It’s time to walk boldly in the identity God has given you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Cultivating an atmosphere of expectancy and joy * Experiencing joy in the midst of struggles * Practicing gratitude in every season * Increasing your level of expectation * Stewarding what God has given you
Related Resources Connect with Oneka McClellan on Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, or on her website. * Grab a copy of Oneka’s book: “Born Royal: Overcoming Insecurity to Become the Woman God Says You Are.”* * Check out Oneka’s podcast, “The Girls Podcast.” CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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When was the last time you had a dream for your life? Sometimes, it takes the wisdom of someone who has gone before you to remind you to dream again.
If you’ve found yourself longing for the chance to dream again, this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast is the one for you. Allow me to share a few things that will help you determine what you want for your life.
I’m so excited about the possibilities that await you on the other side of your dreams.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* The importance of dreaming again * The secret for activating your dreams * The power of dreaming with God
Related Resources* Listen to my previous conversation with Aunt Jo, Podcast #172 – The Single Woman & Spiritual Motherhood * Grab my book, She’s Still There, and use the questions at the end as a guide for uncovering your dreams. * Watch my Write It Down video for more inspiration to take notice of your life. * Plan out your goals and dreams with The Full Circle Planner CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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In a world where we’re bombarded with endless productivity hacks and the pressure to achieve greatness, finding balance can feel like an uphill battle. We’re told that success is about checking off endless to-do lists and constantly hustling toward our goals. But this relentless pursuit of “doing more” can leave us feeling drained, anxious, and disconnected from what truly matters.
What if we could redefine productivity to align with our season of life? In this episode, I reconnected with Kendra Adachi, the brilliant mind behind the Lazy Genius approach. Kendra and I dive into her new book, The PLAN: Manage Your Time Like a Lazy Genius.
Kendra invites us to rethink our relationship with planning and productivity. She teaches us that true productivity is not merely about the tools we use or the systems we implement; it’s about cultivating a mindset that aligns with our values and dreams.
If you’re ready to break free from the hustle and find peace in the present moment, then you definitely want to tune into this episode!
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Living in your season * Making better to-do lists * Being kind to yourself * Redefining your dreams * Developing a solid plan
Related Resources Connect with Kendra Adachi on Instagram, Facebook or her website. * Grab a copy of Kendra’s new book: The PLAN: Manage Your Time Like a Lazy Genius. * Check out her other books, The Lazy Genius Way or The Lazy Genius Kitchen. * Check out The Lazy Genius Podcast. * Get the Voxer App * Order the book – Getting Things Done by David Allen * Check out the Bullet Journal * Moleskine Journals* CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Sometimes, I look at the women in my life, and I can see it all in their eyes. The anxiety, the fear, and the worry are evident without them saying a word. We girls often carry the weight of the world on our shoulders and the worry that comes with it.
Through my own uncertainties and unknowns, I’ve learned how to cast my cares on the Lord. My friend, allow me to help you do the same. If you listen until the end, you’ll find a special prayer just for you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Engage with your feelings * Release rather than ruminate * Speak life over yourself and your situation
Related Resources* Learn how to cast your cares through prayer with 28 Days of Prayer * Find strategies for dealing with worry in Podcast #468 – How to Manage Stress * Listen to Podcast #460 – Asheritah Ciuciu – Rest for the Weary CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Have the wounds of rejection caused you to believe that you’re not enough? Maybe rejection has left you feeling that you will never be enough.
My friend Nona Jones returns to the podcast to discuss her latest book, “The Gift of Rejection.” She shares how she has overcome the pain of rejection and stepped into her purpose.
And I want that for you too. When you are willing to get to the root of painful experiences, you can let go of bitterness to become a better you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Identifying the root of pain * Reframing our core beliefs * Having difficult conversations
Related Resources* Connect with Nona Jones on Instagram, Facebook, or YouTube * Learn more about Nona on her website * Preorder a copy of Nona’s latest book: “The Gift of Rejection: Harness Your Pain to Propel Your Purpose” * Grab Nona’s other book “Killing Comparison” * Listen to my previous chat with Nona, Podcast #323 – Navigating Change, Church, and Culture CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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On this special episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I sat in the hot seat while Priscilla interviewed me. She’s my personal cheerleader, and even though the achiever in me wanted to move on to prepping for the next episode, our conversation encouraged me to slow down and reflect on my journey to 500 episodes.
You all have witnessed my journey as an author, speaker, and podcaster and championed my efforts to show up as a real woman of faith. I’m excited to say that this is only the beginning.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Gleaning wisdom from my guests * Learning to stop and smell the roses * Moving forward with gratitude
Related Resources* Read the Show Notes from the very first episode * Listen to Podcast #480 – Celebrating 10 Years of Podcasting * Watch my Journey to Owning a New Bronco
Check out my conversations with a few of my most memorable podcast guests!
- Podcast #145 – A She’s Still There Story with Kim Fredrickson
- Podcast #371 – Sally Clarkson – Own Your Story
- Podcast #413 – Naomi Raine – Getting Comfortable in Your Calling
- Dr. Curt Thompson on Podcast #399 – Let’s Talk About Shame and #474 – How to Stop Silencing Your Suffering
- Podcast #313 – Priscilla Shirer – Lessons on Living Well CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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New experiences, whether planned or unexpected, almost always come with a great deal of change. A lack of direction and support during a new season can leave you feeling uneasy as if you’re walking on shaky ground.
Maya Washington (known on YouTube as Shameless Maya) joins me for this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast to discuss her new book My Shameless Struggle into Motherhood, and life as a wife and mom of a young daughter living in a foreign land.
Your personal faith walk will take many forms throughout life. When you begin to feel unsteady, it’s just the right time to examine the foundation of your faith.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Navigating life as a content creator * Managing postpartum struggles * Prioritizing internal gains over external success * Learning to submit in marriage
Related Resources Connect with Maya Washington on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook*. * Grab a copy of Maya’s book, My Shameless Struggle into Motherhood * Check out Maya’s YouTube channel, Shameless Maya * Learn more about Maya on her website * Listen to Podcast # 394 – Do a New Thing and Podcast #470 – How to Cultivate Friendships CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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I have experienced the importance of sharing and borrowing wisdom in multiple areas of my life. And you know what? I’m sure that you will go farther faster when you choose to truly seek wisdom, walk in wisdom, and share the wisdom you gain along the way.
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I share what I’ve learned about walking in wisdom.
There is always someone walking behind you that needs your mentorship. And there is always someone further down the road that you can glean from.
Be willing to soak up all the wisdom you can so that you can prepare for tomorrow, today.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Seek wisdom intentionally * Commit to growth over time * Give your wisdom to others freely
Related Resources* Keep track of the wisdom you acquire each day in The Full Circle Planner * To learn how to seek out Godly counsel, listen to Podcast #342 – How to Find a Mentor * Read this blog on How to Prioritize Mentorship CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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When choosing whether to walk into a new space or out of your current one, feelings of uncertainty can convince you that you’re better off not making a decision at all. But you don’t have it all figured out to move forward in your life. You can choose to do the next right thing instead.
I chatted with my friend Emily P. Freeman to discuss her New York Times bestseller, “How to Walk Into a Room.” Her fresh perspective on decision-making left me feeling at peace about my present and hopeful for my future. I am certain that this conversation will be a comfort to you as well.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* having the courage to walk away * trusting God with the next right thing * giving yourself the closure you need
Related Resources Connect with Emily P. Freeman on Instagram or Facebook*. * Grab a physical copy of Emily’s book, How to Walk Into a Room, and access a free audio collection (code in the back of the book) * Learn more about Emily and explore her other books on her website * Download Emily’s How to Make a Decision guide * Listen to my previous chat with Emily, Podcast #213 – Doing the Next Right Thing CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Is it time for you to set boundaries in your friendships?
Friends are such a special kind of relationship because they are in essence the family you choose. It’s worth honoring that choice with clear communication about what your limits are so that you can exist in a dynamic that is beneficial for both you and your friends.
Setting boundaries with your friends is an act of self-acceptance and self-love. It is how you show your friends that you understand and value yourself.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Being honest with yourself * Recognizing unhealthy dynamics * Communicating with clarity
Related Resources* Learn more about yourself with questions and prompts in The Full Circle Planner * Interested in learning more about boundaries? Listen to Podcast #431 – Building Better Boundaries * Need help identifying the types of friends in your life? Check out Podcast #488 – The Five Types of Friends You Need CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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For many moms, the idea of homeschooling sounds nice, but it can feel too far out of reach. Sometimes, you just need to hear from someone who’s a little further along to know that you can do it, too.
I sat down with fellow homeschool mom Amber O’Neal Johnston on the latest episode of The Sister Circle Podcast. Amber has pushed past a lack of representation in the available homeschool curriculum and intentionally cultivated a village for her family.
No matter where your children learn, you can achieve the goal of fostering a sense of belonging and a love of learning in your home.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* cultivating a homeschool community * creating a diverse curriculum * finding value in being outside * “world schooling” as a family
Related Resources Connect with Amber O’Neal Johnston on Instagram or Facebook*. * Grab a copy of Amber’s book, A Place to Belong, and preorder her forthcoming book, Soul School * Find lesson guides, helpful blog posts, and more on the Heritage Mom website * Hear more about fostering a love of learning for your kids on Podcast #438 – Reading for the Win * Listen to this throwback episode, Podcast #050 – How to Help Your Children Succeed, and check out this old post on my homeschooling journey, Why Are We Homeschooling for High School? CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Is it hard for you to show kindness to certain people in your life? Better yet, is there anyone that you love out of obligation rather than out of the love of Christ?
There are keys to loving others well that can go a long way in improving your interactions with others. Allow me to share a little wisdom with you.
You get so little time to spend with those you care about. Remember that you may be the only person to show them the love that God first showed you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Relationships require intentional tending * Relationships require the best version of you * Relationships require adjustments along the way
Related Resources* Pick up The Full Circle Planner and schedule intentional time with your people * Learn how to have kind conversations. Check out Podcast #255-Igniting Radical Kindness * Need help setting expectations in your relationships? Listen to Podcast #431-Building Better Boundaries CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Are you paying attention to your life? If you find yourself coasting through life without intention, then, my friend, it’s time for a change.
When my birthday came around this year, I seized the opportunity to take inventory of my life and assess how I was really doing. In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I share some of my processes with you so that you can begin to show up for the party that is your life.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Getting curious about your life * Embracing your full self * Healing what you reveal
Related Resources* Grab The Full Circle Planner to help you think about your life. * Check out Podcast #476 – How to Create Intimacy with God. * Pick up my book She’s Still There to find encouragement for getting back on track. CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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What do you do when the Lord is calling you to pivot?
When things look differently than you hoped, it may be a chance for you to step out of your comfort zone and step into faith.
Melody Alisa joined me for this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast. When she followed the Lord’s lead and shared her testimony with her YouTube audience, the trajectory of her channel changed forever.
Even when you can’t see how all the pieces of your life fit together, God has a plan for it all.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Finding freedom from perfectionism * Being present in parenthood * Prioritizing time with God * Evolving as a content creator
Related Resources* Connect with Melody on Instagram or YouTube * Learn more about Melody on her website * Download Melody’s free Walking in Purpose Workbook * Watch Melody’s video on 5 Signs God is Trying to Get Your Attention * Check out Podcast #314 – Living in Freedom * Hear more about the importance of pivoting, Podcast #329 – Emmanuel Acho – Pivot into Purpose * Listen to my journey as a content creator, Podcast #481 – Embracing the Evolution of You CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Have you ever experienced a friendship breakup?
The loss of a friendship can be tough to navigate, especially if you didn’t see it coming. But honestly, even the friendships that slowly fizzle out can leave you wondering how to move on in a healthy way.
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I share helpful ways to end friendships without burning bridges. You just never know how things come back around.
Pour into the friendships that are worth going the distance. Take your time with the friendships that are in development. And when you must let go of a friendship, do so with grace.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Being honest with yourself and others * Focusing on the good * Doubling down on friendships that work
Related Resources* Ready to strengthen your friend circle? Start with Podcast #470 – How to Cultivate Friendships * Also, check out Podcast #488 – The Five Types of Friends You Need * Be sure to also check out my books She’s Still There, Show Up For Your Life, The 28-Day Prayer Journey, and Kingdom Woman! CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Do you have a gift that you feel compelled to share with the world? What do you do when the doors aren’t opening up the way you hoped they would?
I sat down with worship leader and artist Niya Cotton for the latest episode of The Sister Circle Podcast. She shares how she shows up in her gifting wherever God places her.
If you’re in a similar season, use this time to draw closer to God and serve others. Rest in knowing that He will give you the strength to endure until you get to where you want to be.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Giving from a place of overflow * Living for God’s approval * Navigating multiethnic spaces * Feeling at home with God
Related Resources* Connect with Niya Cotton on Instagram or Facebook. * Learn more about Niya and her music on her website * Check out this related chat, Podcast #219 – Discovering Your Gifts * Listen to Podcast #472 – Kariss Farris – Inviting Jesus Into Your Everyday * Register for the DFJ Live Simulcast and enjoy more from Niya and other amazing speakers like Jackie Hill Perry. It’s not too late to register! CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Have you taken the time to prepare for what you’ve prayed for?When we submit our desires to God, we can become so focused on getting to our destination that we fail to live our lives well in the meantime. But there is so much life to be lived in the in-between season. Travis Greene joins me on The Sister Circle Podcast to discuss his debut book, Are You Praying for the Wrong Thing?, and the transformation that takes place when we steward our current season well.If you find yourself always aiming for more, I believe this conversation will shift your focus back in the right direction. Highlights from Today’s Episode* Do small things well * Find fulfillment in the present * Make peace our focus * Let revelation lead to preparation
Related Resources Connect with Travis Greene on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, or YouTube* * Learn more about Travis on his website * Grab a copy of Travis’s book: Are You Praying for the Wrong Thing? * Check out my conversation with Dr. Jackie Greene, Podcast #452 - Living Fully Free * For more encouragement, listen to Podcast #486 - Power in the Little Things CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTESThe post #489 – Travis Greene – When Prayer Meets Preparation first appeared on Chrystal Evans Hurst.
How much intentionality do you put into your friendships? The work of developing and maintaining your circle of friends can be challenging at times, but I’m here to tell you that it’s totally worth it.On the latest episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I dig deep into the key friendships to look for and what it takes to stay connected to the women in your life.I’ve been blessed with lifelong friends who have rallied around me in both good times and bad times. I believe so much in pursuing friendship because you deserve to be seen and loved for who you really are.Highlights from Today’s Episode* Managing expectations in friendships * Developing different types of friendships * Persevering when disappointment happens
Related Resources* Ready to take the next step in friendship? Listen to Podcast #470 - How to Cultivate Friendships * Is it hard for you to find time for friends in this season? Check out Podcast #455 - Making Room for Friends * Be sure to also check out my books She’s Still There, Show Up For Your Life, The 28-Day Prayer Journey, and Kingdom Woman CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTESThe post #488 – The Five Types of Friends You Need first appeared on Chrystal Evans Hurst.
What a friend we have in Jesus. If I close my eyes, I can hear the melody of this hymn in my head. And while the lyrics ring true, there are times that I have to remind myself that Jesus is indeed my friend.
I was reminded of this when I sat down with Faith Eury Cho, an international speaker, pastor, author, and mom of four. Her new book, “Experiencing Friendship with God,” is a necessary resource for establishing intimacy with God.
Something transformational will happen when you let down your guard and let go of coming to God as a perfect person. Through a deeper connection with God, you will end up where He wants you to be.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Finding friendship in God * Acknowledging God in all your ways * Living in the overflow of anointing
Related Resources Connect with Faith Eury Cho on Instagram or her website* * Grab a copy of Faith’s book: Experiencing Friendship with God: How the Wilderness Draws Us to His Presence * Check out Faith’s free guide for Practicing the Presence of God in Times of Stress * Watch powerful conversations from women in the faith on Better Together’s YouTube channel * Listen to a related chat with my daughter Kariss Farris on Podcast #472 – Inviting Jesus into Your Everyday CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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When I reflect on my life, do you know what stands out? All of the small things I’ve done that led me to the big things God had in store for me.
I can trace this back to many experiences in my life.
These seemingly small efforts over time have led to a lasting legacy for my family. I’ve seen the decisions of my grandparents have an impact over generations. But the only way things continue for generations to come is if each individual in our family continues to make the next right small decision that leads to legacy.
The same can be true for you. When you commit to doing the small things well and consistently, you’ll pick up the momentum you need to transform your current situation. But more importantly, you will become the person you were meant to be.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Focusing on what you can change * Building on what works for you * Spending your time wisely * Changing the trajectory of your story
Related Resources* Need more inspiration for finding your way back to Jesus? Read my book She’s Still There * Check out my 90-day planner to get intentional with your time * To hear more about showing up for the small things, listen to Podcast #312 – The Importance of Small Great Things * Ready to make room for what matters? Listen to Podcast #485 – White Rice Matters CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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What makes your home a home?Is it the strategically placed picture frames full of family memories? The carefully curated decor following a theme you planned out yourself? Or is it the perfectly polished floors and countertops that lack any sign of life?Oftentimes, we associate cluttered tables, stacked sinks, and noisy kitchens with chaos. But what if that didn’t have to be the case? What if the messy sights, belly-deep laughter, and scents wafting from room to room are signs of life being lived and memories being made?Highlights from Today’s Episode* Create memories that matter * Embrace the messiness of your everyday * Find joy in simple things
Related Resources* Listen to Podcast #472 – Kariss Farris – Inviting Jesus into Your Everyday * Want to hear more interviews with Michelle? Check out this podcast episode where Michelle joins me as a co-host. LISTEN HERE! * Do you love a good soup? Get my Garden Vegetable Soup HERE! CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTESThe post #485 – White Rice Matters first appeared on Chrystal Evans Hurst.
What is keeping you from taking the leap in your life? If the thought of going after your dreams scares you, then it may just be time for a shift in your perspective.My conversation with Bible teacher, speaker, and author Rachel G. Scott will encourage you to think of taking the leap in a way that puts your soul at ease. Her new book, “Taking the 5 Leaps,” is a guide for understanding the types of leaps you may find yourself taking and the power of partnering with God in the process.As you build toward your goal, you must seek God for the patience, perseverance, and peace that only He can provide.Highlights from Today’s Episode* Seeing yourself the way God sees you * Being obedient to the last thing God told you to do * Adjusting your own expectations and outcomes * Understanding your vision and your calling
Related Resources Connect with Rachel G. Scott on Instagram, YouTube, or Facebook*. * Grab a copy of Rachel’s book: “Taking the 5 Leaps: Experiencing God's Faithfulness as You Respond to His Call” * Take Rachel’s 5 Leaps quiz to discover your unique leap style * Check out my last conversation with Rachel on Building a Blended Family CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTESThe post #484 – Rachel G. Scott – Faith to Take the Leap first appeared on Chrystal Evans Hurst.
What words do you use to talk about your body? Are you more negative than positive when it comes to acknowledging what you see in the mirror?
All of us have at least one thing about our bodies we want to change. Try to focus less on what you want to change about yourself and instead highlight the good that you see.
It is my hope that you can learn to be kind to your body because it has been kind to you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Accepting the skin you’re in * Being a good steward of your body * Passing along the positivity
Related Resources* Listen to my chat with Jennifer Taylor Wagner about body positivity, Episode #377: Your Good Body * Encourage the young women in your life with a copy of my book, Show Up for Your Life CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Have you ever looked at the limitations in your life as gifts from God? I know how difficult it can be to stay positive when you feel stretched thin by life’s demands.
In the latest episode of the Sister Circle Podcast, I sat down with my friend Sara Hagerty to talk about her insightful new book, “The Gift of Limitations,” and the importance of honoring your boundaries.
I understand all too well that the limits in your life can feel unfair. But when you are honest about your boundaries with yourself and others, you can begin to let go and surrender your plans to God.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Naming your limitations * Surrendering your dreams * Honoring your boundaries
Related Resources Connect with Sara Hagerty on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook*. * Grab a copy of Sara’s book: “The Gift of Limitations: Finding Beauty in Your Boundaries” * Keep up with Sara through her website * Listen to my previous conversation with Sara, Episode #254: Growing in God * Check out Episode #378: Live with No Limits and Episode #451: The Power of Listening to Your Body CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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When I first started my podcast ten years ago, I had no idea where this journey would take me. Armed with a borrowed microphone and basic recording software like GarageBand and QuickTime Player on my Macbook, I embarked on a path to share my thoughts in four categories – faith, family and friends, food and fitness, and fun. Little did I know that this endeavor would not only change my life but also teach me invaluable lessons about personal growth and the evolution of oneself.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Embracing change * Running your own race * Remaining faithful * Celebrating your wins
Related Resources* Have you experienced the power of writing things down? Check out this candid video! * To hear more about my story, read my book She’s Still There. * Enjoy Episode #462, Build on What You Know. * Read the Show Notes from the very first episode HERE.
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Have you ever looked up and all of a sudden you don’t know where the time has gone? Well that is how I am feeling about this episode because here I am celebrating 10 years of podcasting!
That is correct – 10 years I’ve been at this podcasting business.
I’m excited about listening back to Episode One with you and enjoying the higher voice, the initial thoughts, and the core of the messaging from where this all began. I’m also looking forward to continuing.
Here’s to celebrating your 10. Here’s to remembering where we started, and to why we keep doing what we do.
If you’ve been waiting to press start, now is the time. This is me asking you, what are you waiting on? If you just get started, maybe 10 years from now, you’ll be glad you did.
Highlights from Today’s EpisodeThe Four “Fs”
- Faith
- Family
- Food & Fitness
- Fun
Related Resources* Have you experienced the power of writing things down? Check out this candid video! * To hear more about my story, read my book She’s Still There. * Enjoy Episode #462, Build on What You Know. * Read the Show Notes from the very first episode HERE.
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When was the last time you went on a date with your spouse? One thing I’ve learned over time is that consistently connecting with those who matter most is key to living life well.
In this episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I share some ways I’m intentional about enjoying life with my husband and close friends.
I know that life can become mundane and, in some seasons, overwhelming and exhausting. But don’t take for granted the gift of relationships in your life. Take a moment to let go of your cares and concerns and live in the moment with the people you love.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Spending date nights in * Finding creative ways to have fun * Making experiences memorable
Related Resources* Plan out date nights to remember in the 90-day planner * Download my list of 50 Summer activities for fun things to do with your loved ones * Having a hard time communicating with your significant other? Listen to Episode #416: Connecting with Your Spouse CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Life will naturally create the hard. As you walk through the decades of life make sure you are marking them with something good for you to look back on.
As moms, wives, women in leadership, business owners, and sisters, we notice when the things around us need our care. We see when others aren’t having fun. But we forget to see ourselves. We forget to transition our needs as our seasons of life change. We forget to live a little.
But it’s time to remember. It’s time to choose balance. It’s time to connect with the girl in you who laughs and plays just because.
Doing too much of anything or holding something too closely, even a good thing, can create an unbalanced life. Watch this episode to gain practical tips on how to find the balance your soul desires.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Look for what your soul needs * Be intentional about balance * Initiate what you desire in life * Be present in the spaces you choose
Related Resources Check out my book, She’s Still There,* as you remember the girl in you! CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Is there a business dream you want to bring to life but can’t figure out where to start?
I know that pursuing a side hustle or a full-fledged business can feel daunting, to say the least. When money gets funny and support is hard to find, the temptation to quit on your dreams becomes all too real.
In the latest episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I caught up with Lavida Samuel, founder and owner of Elle Vie Body Products. We had an honest conversation about the highs and lows of business ownership and the importance of perseverance.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Learning as you grow in business. * Trusting in your process. * Checking in with yourself.
Related Resources Support Lavida Samuel’s Elle Vie Body Products on Instagram or Facebook.* * Use our special discount code**, “sistercircle”, to get 20% off your order and shop for Elle Vie Body Products, like her moisturizing body butters, oils, and scrubs * Learn more about How to Plan Time Away as a leader * Listen to Episode 302-Divine Disruption for help with persevering through tough times * Better yet, pick up a copy of Divine Disruption for even more encouragement CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Do you remember when God’s voice was the loudest voice in your life?
The privilege to connect with God on an intimate level can be easy to overlook in busy seasons of life. Slow seasons offer the margin needed to discern the voice of God, but when the noise and distraction increase, it doesn’t take long for time with God to decrease.
It’s important to take the steps to get still and quiet the noise in your life. Be sure you’re ready to listen when God speaks.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Get quiet and get still * Pay attention when God speaks * Share your thoughts with God
Related Resources* Need more advice for hearing God’s voice? Watch my video about How to Hear God’s Voice * Want to find more ways to quiet the noise in your life? Check out Episode #441: It’s Time to Get Quiet * Explore more practical ways for discerning the voice of God in Episode #443: The Power of Drawing Close * Unlock the next level of your prayer life with my book, The 28 Day Prayer Journey CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Have you become comfortable with doing just enough to get by? What would it look like for you to go beyond what’s expected of you?
We have the power to leave our homes, our jobs, and public spaces better than we found them when we do more than what’s required of us. Renowned author and speaker Devi Titus called this the “Also Principle,” and she modeled it in how she lived her life.
As you focus on the Lord and build a habit of applying the “Also Principle” to your life, it will become a part of your character. You will shift the atmosphere just by asking “what more can I do?”
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Understanding God’s call for more * Applying the “Also Principle” in life * Leaving a legacy of love
Related Resources Follow Devi Titus’ legacy on Instagram, Twitter, or YouTube. * Keep up with Devi’s ministry on The Home Experience website* * Read The Home Experience by Devi Titus (book where she talks about the “Also Principle”) * Enjoy this The Sister Circle Show conversation on mother/daughter relationships with Devi Titus and Lois Evans * Watch The Also Principle from The Home Experience by Devi Titus and Trina Titus Lozano CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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What’s keeping you from pursuing what God has placed in your heart? Sometimes, not having all of the information or resources can make you feel ill-equipped for the task at hand.
But it’s okay to take the pressure off! So much of what I know about adulting, business, and life in general, I learned in real-time.
It’s called building the airplane as you fly it.
There are certainly some best practices and guiding principles you can learn before jumping into something new and taking off into new territory. I learned a great deal during my time in school. I have an accounting background and passed the CPA exam. I also spent ten years in corporate America and took a deep dive into consumer financial planning and then institutional money management.
Let’s just say I have paid my dues.
And while all of that education and experience has helped me grow, I’m currently a content creator who writes books, speaks, creates videos and podcasts, develops courses, and offers coaching.
Not directly related to my accounting degree.
Here’s what really matters as you live, grow, and learn to lead.
It’s the application of what I’ve learned and the life experiences I’ve had that have grown me as a leader. So here’s the deal. If you didn’t follow the traditional route of going to college, or if you transitioned into a different field, you still can learn something new and learn to lead others in fields of your choosing. Here are a few ways I’ve leveled up my learning as a leader.
Embrace every experienceAs I’ve journeyed through my life, I have learned many lessons. My experiences have been my greatest teacher. I understand myself better and communicate who I am to others with clarity. I’m also able to lean in and support others because of what I’ve been through in my life. As the great Maya Angelou once said, “Do the best you can until you know better. Then, when you know better, do better.” Allow the teachable moments to shape you into the leader you are called to be. Every experience matters. If it doesn’t teach you where to lead others, it will teach you about people and who you need to be to lead them well.
Seek out the right resourcesThe beauty of being an adult is that you can take ownership of your scholarship. There are millions of courses and classes online for just about anything under the sun. My suggestion? Think about the kind of leader you aim to be and the types of skills you need to become that person. Carve out time in your schedule to soak in the information you need.
Pro tip: Start with any information gaps you have now and seek out more as you need it. Look for the books on Amazon in the area of your needed growth. Find the ones with the highest reviews and order them or read them electronically. If you need a place to start, read anything by John Maxwell. Another place to grow your skills? Take a look at LinkedIn Learning. There are tons of courses there. Coursera is an amazing place for taking university level classes for a reduced cost. I’ve recently been made aware of ExecOnline.com, which is specifically aimed at developing leadership.
The bottom line? You have the power to become a great leader. Whatever you don’t have, you can find and engage in the resources to help you grow.
Surround yourself with women leadersNo matter what field you’re in, there are women who have gone before you from whom you can glean wisdom. Join groups that support women in the fields you’re interested in. Have you tried to find a group and can’t? Start one.
Through intentionality and time, you’ll find safe spaces where you can share your struggles and ask hard questions. As you develop relationships with other women, be open to being told hard things. The goal is for you to discover the places where you need to be built up. In this way, you can find accountability and encouragement while connecting with a community of like-minded women.
Don’t forget, you can learn something from every experience in your life. Even if you fail, you can fail forward. Take note of every lesson you experience along the way. You never know how something you’ve learned in the past will be useful in the future.
And don’t count out the power of God to guide you. The Word tells us this about God’s instruction and direction. I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.”-Psalm 32:8 (ESV)
Whether in the classroom or the school of life, you never really have to stop learning. Lean into the lessons you’ve learned and glean from the wisdom God offers.
The sky’s the limit. Keep growing, my friend!
Reflection Questions:1. What specific life experiences have shaped the person you are today? 2. Where can you find the resources you need to thrive as a leader? 3. Are there any groups or networks in your field that you can engage with?
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Chrystal is the Founder and CEO of The Sister Circle, an organization that exists to provide practical encouragement and equip women of faith to live with intention and purpose. Chrystal is also a best-selling author and speaker who reaches a wide audience, speaking at conferences, hosting her podcast, and leading the women’s ministry at her home church.
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How do you hold on to hope in moments of suffering?
Dr. Curt Thompson joined me to dive deeper into the believer’s relationship with suffering and hope. In his latest book, “The Deepest Place: Suffering and the Formation of Hope,” Dr. Thompson pairs his clinical knowledge as a psychiatrist with his own life experience, allowing him to engage with his patients and readers of his books with empathy.
What would happen if you, too, leaned into moments of suffering and supported your fellow brothers and sisters in Christ? When you use tough moments as opportunities to lean on others in the faith, you can experience the glory and the goodness of God.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Stop suffering in silence * Connect with community * Deal with disappointment and shame * Have the courage to hope again
Related Resources Connect with Dr. Curt Thompson on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Grab Dr. Thompson’s latest book, The Deepest Place: Suffering and the Formation of Hope * Listen to Dr. Curt Thompson on the Being Known Podcast with Curt Thompson, MD * Visit his website here: Dr. Curt Thompson* * Check out my previous conversation with Dr. Curt Thompson, Episode #399, “Let’s Talk About Shame.” * Join the Inner Circle and prioritize community in your life CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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If you’ve ever struggled with poor vision, then you understand the value of being able to see clearly. Until I was 29 years old, I woke up every day unable to see the alarm clock on the nightstand beside my bed. So when decided in my late twenties to get Lasik eye surgery, it was as if someone finally turned on the lights for me. All of a sudden, I could see!
Sometimes, this same thing happens when we gain a higher level of visibility of our past and our future. Something powerful happens when you can look back with understanding and move forward with precision. The better your vision for your life becomes, the more clear you will be on your vision. And as you lead, those following you will receive clear direction to help you and themselves.
There will be some people under your leadership who require less direction than others. It could be that they naturally catch the vision. Maybe God has given them special eyes to see what He has put in your heart. Maybe they are closer to you or more naturally understanding of things others don’t get as easily. Sometimes, you will lead people who need you to break down even the smallest details regarding the vision. Either way, both groups of people – those easy to lead and those more challenging to lead – will need you to be in tune with your long-term goals and be able to communicate what role they play in the process.
How do you get clear on your vision and communicate it to your people? Here are some ways that I lead with clarity.
Begin with the end in mindWhat kind of person do you want to be? How do the small decisions you make line up with that person? Before you can figure out your vision, begin with the end in mind. Are you supposed to be committed to your family right now? Is your calling outside of the home and focused on ministry? Are you on track to become a CEO of a Fortune 500 company? Do you need to prioritize a certain level of education or certification in order to be taken seriously? When you are sure about your focus, you can zoom in on the steps to get there and cut out distractions.
Clear Your PathWhen I realized there was an antidote for my blurred vision, I researched and acted on the necessary steps to fix my situation. I made phone calls. I visited the doctors, I talked to other people who had had the procedure done. I did my homework because I wanted to make sure I had a clear path for moving forward. Is there anything blocking your view?
Is there information you don’t have or details you need to sort out? What do you need to do to declutter your time or your long list of tasks so that you can get clear on what needs to come next for you to move the needle forward? Sometimes, it’s hard for me to get clear on things when my mind is cluttered with everything I have to do. So, I have to clear my path by listing each step one by one to get from where I am to where I want to be.
What can you do to clear your path? It may just be a matter of saying no to certain obligations or letting go of commitments so you can give a greater yes to your future.
I often feel overwhelmed when my physical space is cluttered and I can’t access the information I need. How does your physical space lend itself to you doing the most important things? Sometimes, a cluttered path is ideological. It gets in the way of my creative ideas, problem-solving, and visionary thinking. Sometimes it’s mental or emotional. But many times, it’s physical. Consider that you might be able to lead more effectively when you’re less stressed and more organized. It’s only stuff! Get rid of what no longer serves you. The people who are working with you or being led by you will be grateful that you can lead with clarity.
Make Your Vision PlainConsistent and clear communication with your people is critical to the success of your vision. You should write out your expectations for those supporting you. Go over them with your team. Then go over them again! Let those you lead know what your systems, processes, and expectations are. Then, check in with them regularly to ensure everyone is “rowing in the same direction.”
Your commitment to treating your people well, with respect, grace, and expectancy, will help you overcome challenging moments that inevitably occur when working with others. Say thank you and show gratitude often. It may be difficult for someone to get on board with your vision if they weren’t along for the beginning of the journey or don’t feel appreciated as you move the vision forward.
And the Lord answered me: “Write the vision; make it plain on tablets, so he may run who reads it.”-Habakkuk 2:2 (ESV)
Leading others well requires you to have clarity in focus and communication. When you’re sure of your vision, your people will be able to be confident in following you as you follow Jesus.
My desire is that you move forward with 20/20 vision in both your personal and your professional life. Answer the reflection questions below. Then make the time to write a one-sentence vision statement for your business that captures the direction you want to grow in. You might even choose to write a vision statement for your life in general and create more of a personal mission statement. For example, a clear vision statement sounds like, “My vision is to inspire women of all walks of life to grow in relationship with Jesus.” Share your vision statement with me in the comments! I’d love to celebrate you as you commit to writing down the vision that God has given you!
Reflection Questions:1. Have you ever followed someone who wasn’t clear on their vision? How did that make you feel? 2. Is there anything causing you to have blurred vision? Too many commitments? Too much clutter? 3. What can you do to more effectively communicate with your people?
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If you’re anything like me, you live a full life. I speak, write, support my church, homeschool my youngest son, and manage my home. I also put effort into being a good wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend to the special people in my life.
However, with all of my responsibilities clamoring for my attention, there comes a point when I need time alone so I can think! If I want to continue to show up for my life and the lives of others, I have to get quiet and tend to my thoughts.
To operate as an effective leader, I need to be able to hear. I need the gift of space and margin to hear the voice of God and also to hear my own thoughts. It is only when I operate with clarity that I can lead others well.
But again, if you’re life is anything like mine, you have a lot going on! How in the world do we find the time to make the space we need to lead and live well?
Schedule time offEven with a busy full life, we all schedule appointments. We go to the doctor, we go to the dentist, and we go on dates. We make space to celebrate birthdays, take classes, and attend Bible study. We make space for the things we value.
Just as you prioritize the scheduling of appointments and meetings that matter to you, block off time to get your thoughts together because this commitment to your mental well-being is essential to your success. It’s not enough to SAY you need time alone. You have to PLAN for your time of reflection. Pull out your planner or the calendar app on your phone and block off as much time as you need to process your thoughts.
You may say, “Chrystal, I’m far too busy to take time away.” I’m here to tell you that if you continue to run on empty instead of taking time to get quiet, you will inevitably burn yourself out, and then your body and your brain will require rest at an inconvenient time.
Make the most of your timeTime away for me can look different depending on the season I’m in. Yes, there are times when I go on a local staycation or get on a plane and go somewhere with a beach. However, most of the time, my getaways are not that glamorous.
A local coffee shop is one of my favorite places to process my thoughts. I’ll usually aim for the early morning when it’s less likely to be crowded. Starting early, I bring my books to read, computers to work, and journals to write in. I wear my favorite sweater, get comfy, order my favorite drink and settle in! Yes, sometimes, it works best for me to get away on a solo vacation or a retreat because it is necessary if I’m going to really disconnect from my day-to-day responsibilities.
However, whether I’m in a hotel room or at that back table at Starbucks next to the outlet, breaking away is something I work hard to do. Because I’m sure to bring my laptop, notebook, and Bible, when I return from my time away, I bring clarity with me and review my notes so I can chart out my next steps.
By the way, this idea of making the most of your time is not about you figuring things all out yourself. Offer your to-do lists up to God. Pray for the clarity to know what to focus on at this time.
Cultivate a rhythm of getting awayOne thing is for sure: your time away can’t be limited to a one-off situation. Make it a habit to make time to process your thoughts. Constantly availing yourself to others means you have to be vigilant about consistently availing yourself to you too! Be intentional about getting still and asking God for direction in your leadership journey. The effort you make to take time away should be regular, planned, consistent, and rhythmic.
I do realize that the idea of scheduling time off, making the most of your time, or cultivating the rhythm of getting away may seem seismic to you right now. Well, guess what? Bring your concerns and your questions to God.
Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you. – Matthew 7:7 (KJV)
You may not know all of the answers right away, but I know someone who holds the answers we seek. When you don’t know what to do or how to do the next right thing, do the last thing God told you to do and do it well.
Look at what you have in your hands right now and focus on that.
Here’s to leading with a clear mind and an open heart!
I don’t want you to leave this blog post without processing what you will do with this information! Take a look at the reflection questions below and wrestle with your thoughts on the topic. Then drop into the comments and let me know what thoughts or questions you have after reading this post!
Reflection Questions:1. What do you need to move around in your schedule to plan time away? 2. Where can you go to get some alone time? 3. How often would you be able to get away?
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Have you ever had someone go above and beyond for you? From as small as an extra smile during an exchange with a stranger to someone showing up in a big way when they didn’t have to, when people go the extra mile, it leaves an impression.
I like to call this the “also principle.” The “also principle” is the concept of going over and above as a way to live. It’s asking the right questions at the right time. It’s noticing what people need and volunteering to give it even when they don’t ask.
The “Also Principle” seeks to do more when more is within reach. It’s as if you are willing to say, “I’ve done my duty, but ALSO, what else can I do to go above and beyond what’s required?”
You only get this one life, and the only thing that will be here after you’re done is the impression you left.
So, if you are going to leave an impression, sprinkle a little “also” on it so that it’s a good one.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Allowing the Lord to establish your steps * Going above and beyond * Recalling Jesus example * Acknowledging that your “also” isn’t about you. * Remembering only what is done for Christ will last.
Related Resources Read The Home Experience by Devi Titus (book where she talks about the “Also Principle”) * Watch The Also Principle from The Home Experience* by Devi Titus and Trina Titus Lozano * Read the poem “Only One Life” by C.T. Studd CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Chrystal, can you mentor me?
I can’t even begin to tell you how many times someone has asked me this question. And truth be told… I want to! Mentoring, coaching, and discipline are my favorite things. I want to take every woman to coffee who asks me that question and sit and talk until we are done.
This is actually the reason the Inner Circle exists. It’s my way of providing virtual mentorship (and coffee) to many women at once, whether near or far.
When I think about my journey in leadership, there have been countless mentors in my life who have walked me through hard things. I’ve received wisdom from women ahead of me in marriage, in raising children, in ministry, and in running a business. If you find that you have never been before where you are not, you probably have questions! I know I did. When you have never done some of the things you’re doing now, you need support. It’s an amazing thing to be able to glean from someone who is further down the road. And the same is true of leadership.
Proverbs 11:14 says, “Without wise leadership, a nation falls; there is safety in having many advisers.” (NLT)
Developing as a leader will require you to connect with others who have arrived at the destination you aspire to reach. If you need mentoring for your lanes of leadership, here are some thoughts about how to best approach getting the wisdom you need.
Know your whyBefore you go about looking for someone to mentor you, think about what you need to learn in this season. Try to get as specific as you can about the information you need to know. Are there any gaps in your knowledge? What are you working to achieve? What next steps are you unsure of that will raise your level of leadership? Start with what you need or don’t know. It’s important to get clear about what you want a mentor to give you so you don’t waste their time or yours.
Reach out with intentionThink about the kind of leader you aspire to be. What would that person be doing now? Where are they serving? You might be surprised at the amount of wisdom already surrounding you. You can learn from a former boss, a leader in a ministry at your church, and even women in your family who have led their families well.
When you reach out to a potential mentor, make it easy for them to help you. Ask them if they are available to meet you for coffee to chat about how they got started in business. Better yet, figure out how you can come alongside them and put into practice what they’re doing. Help them set up for a conference. Volunteer to help them prepare dinner for their family. Be willing to serve them as you desire them to be of service to you. There are things you will pick up just by virtue of serving with someone and being in their scope of influence.
Respect the relationshipCare about what your mentor has going on as much as you want them to care about your success. Be appreciative of whatever time and advice they are able to offer. And after you receive the information you need, pay it forward. Pass along the knowledge you’ve acquired with someone in your sphere of influence. Truly, the best way to honor a mentor is to become one yourself.
You may find it necessary to have several mentors for different aspects of your life. One mentor can show you the ropes of managing a team, while another can teach you how to grow your business, and yet another could show you how to lead your family well.
Any easy way to get solid mentoring is to r-e-a-d. Mentorship can easily be found in the books you pick up and bring the wisdom close and center from people that you may never actually meet in person. You aren’t limited to books either, the blogs you read, or the podcasts you listen to, or even the YouTube videos you watch can all bring actionable wisdom and knowledge closer.
Here’s what I know for sure: you want to live well while leading well.
Glean from leaders around you that are taking care of themselves while managing their affairs.
If you lead a ministry, business, or organization well and don’t exercise self-leadership, you will be on a path of self-defeat.
Pursue mentoring.
Pursue a balanced healthy life.
Pursue the wisdom that God offers from His Word.
And know that whatever information, knowledge, or wisdom you need is always within your reach if you are willing to prioritize your growth and development as a leader.
Reflection Questions:1. What piece of wisdom are you missing in this season of your life? 2. Is there someone in your life who has the information you need to succeed? If not, is there someone you admire from afar that you can reach out to? 3. What steps will you take to connect with your potential mentor? If you’re not ready to reach out to someone, is there a book, podcast, or other medium you can glean wisdom from?
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The busyness of life can often blind you to the very things God is trying to reveal to you.
My daughter, Kariss Farris, sat down with me to talk about her new devotional, “Jesus Everywhere: 60 Days of Encountering God in Unexpected Places,” and what happens when we pay attention to the hand of God in our lives.
I pray that you experience Jesus in a way that causes you to love your life, even the parts that seem ordinary at first glance.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Looking for Jesus in everyday moments * Following where He leads you * Trusting Him to exceed your expectations
Related Resources* Connect with Kariss Farris on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Grab a copy of Kariss’ book: Jesus Everywhere: 60 Days of Encountering God in Unexpected Places * Check out Kariss’ website * Watch the “Write It Down” YouTube video CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Are your feelings trying to tell you something? As someone who feels deeply, I can assure you that the feelings you express (intentionally or unintentionally) are often an outworking of what is going on in your heart. (Luke 6:45)
When you keep your feelings inside, you might also be setting yourself up for them to come out in harmful ways or cause damage underneath the surface. Whether your emotions cause you to implode or explode, ignoring your feelings can be detrimental to you and your loved ones.
Honor your feelings by acknowledging your feelings, naming your emotions, and doing the work to repair the soil of your heart.
My prayer is that you live a thriving life, and that if you are not experiencing that life currently, that God will break up the dry soil in your life so that you can thrive again.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Acknowledging your feelings * Naming your emotions * Doing the work to repair the soil of your heart
Related Resources* Write down your feelings in The Full Circle Planner – 90-Day planner designed to help you thrive as you get things done. * Grab “The Garden Within” by Dr. Anita Phillips * Discover the power of morning pages in The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron * Join me at the Leader’s Retreat! CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned as a leader (and am still learning) is how important it is to ask the right questions and then to hold space for listening well.
What it is and why it matters…
Listening well involves paying attention to the spoken response and being aware of nonverbal responses for what’s not verbally articulated. According to various studies, nonverbal communication comprises anywhere from 55% to 93% of communication. Listening well requires that I’m not thinking about my next response but being present for the response being offered.
One of the greatest gifts of listening well is that sometimes people give me information I wasn’t seeking and insight that I didn’t even know to ask for. When I listen well, I allow others to display their intelligence on a matter, whether spiritual, interpersonal, intrapersonal, emotional, physical, or logical.
The importance of listening to myself…
All my life, I’ve heard that in order to lead and honor the people I work with and work for, I should learn how to listen. But I haven’t always been quick to apply this same skill to listen to myself as the leader.
Just like I hold space for others, I should hold space for myself to process, think, and sometimes even wrestle with the concepts in my head. Leading myself well involves asking myself questions, giving myself space to answer, and waiting for my own intelligence to show up.
In a recent session with the women in my leadership coaching cohort, I presented the following questions as a tool to help each woman hold space for the conversation she needed to have with herself.
- What is your big dream?
- What do you need professionally?
- What do you need personally?
- What do you know? What do you know deeply about your life, your business, your ministry, your family, your health, your heart, your mind?
- What do you need to know that you don’t know right now?
The gift you give yourself…
Sometimes, the greatest gift we can give ourselves is the gift of self-leadership. As the leader in a corporate, ministry, or entrepreneurial space, casting a clear vision for others means you have to know the vision yourself first. It can be so easy to get busy doing, directing, and delegating that we get detached from the most important reason we are in the position we are in, to begin with.
It’s important to intentionally create space to ask yourself introspective questions. Giving yourself time to listen to yourself and process your answers is a gift you give yourself.
Just like you would hold space for conversation with someone who works with you or for you, you can do the same for yourself. In the same way, you would know not to “do all the talking” or “fill all the spaces” with your voice alone, it’s important you leave the same kind of space for your inner leader to speak and be heard.
So, I encourage you to go over the questions I shared. Find a quiet space, and do whatever it takes for you to be most comfortable (for me that involves wearing my favorite soft sweater and fuzzy socks). Get out a pen and a notebook and write until you run out of things to say.
If you can do that once, amazing!
And then…
Do it a second time
Then, make time to process and mull over your responses.
Maybe you’ll think and process while in the shower, or maybe you’ll do it while on a drive. Maybe you’ll do it while you’re cooking in the kitchen, doing dishes, or going through your bedtime routine.
But listening to yourself as a leader is one of the best ways for you to get the information from the intelligence you have so that you can then transpose those thoughts into your business and/or into your team.
In order for you to have vision and operate in light of that vision with the decisions you make every day, you have to believe in the vision God gave you.
If you haven’t already figured it out, God is an amazing “vision giver”.
Romans 10:17 says, “So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.”
If you are walking with the Lord, spending time in His Word, and listening to Him in prayer, I believe you will hear what God is saying (or has already said) to the leader in you.
As you continue to seek the Lord for what He is saying to and through you, remember Psalm 85:8 when the psalmist says, “Let me hear what God the Lord will speak, for he will speak peace to his people, to his saints.”
And when you hear clearly, you’ll be able to communicate clearly to those who are waiting to hear from you.
I hope this has encouraged you in your quest to be a leader who listens.
I’ve learned that listening is a powerful tool for great leadership, and I wanted to pass the gift of listening alone to you.
Here’s to listening well,
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Why are adult friendships so complicated? If you’ve ever wondered why making and maintaining friends is difficult the older you get, trust me, you’re not alone.
In my own life, my friendships have shifted in different seasons. What I know for sure is that it was worth the fight. On the other side of hard conversations is support, love, and true connection.
Proverbs 27:17 puts it this way, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”
You were made for connection. When you take the time to cultivate your circle of friends, you will surely reap the benefits. But you have to be intentional and prayerful in the process.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Making friends * Maintaining friendships * Moving on from friendships
Related Resources* Ready to take your friendships to the next level? Watch Episode #455 – How to Make Room for Friends in Busy Seasons * Join the Inner Circle to connect with women of similar interests. * Use the questions at the end of each podcast blog to facilitate conversations with your friends. CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Are you a good steward of your relationships? Do you make time for your spouse? Do you encourage your children?
If you struggle to answer any of these questions, know that you will have a tough time pouring into others if you don’t first pour into yourself.
In this episode, Michael Todd and I chat about his latest book, “A Cup of Love: Relationship Goals for Kids,” and the importance of pouring into our loved ones.
When your cup runs over with God’s love, you are able to love your people well.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Taking care of yourself * Making time for your spouse * Cultivating the gifts in your children
Related Resources Connect with Michael Todd on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Grab a copy of Michael Todd’s book: A Cup of Love: Relationship Goals for Kids * Check out Michael’s other books: Damaged but Not Destroyed: From Trauma to Triumph * Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex * Visit Michael’s website: iammiketodd.com* CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Life can throw so much at you that before long, you can find yourself completely stressed out and overwhelmed.It can be hard to rest in the promises of God when anxiety is weighing you down, but don’t give up. Things will begin to move in the right direction when you let go and let God.You’ll want to watch this video until the end. I pray it encourages you to let go of the stress and find rest in God.Highlights from Today’s Episode* Noticing the signs of stress * Getting to the root of stress * Responding with rest
Related Resources* Watch the “Write It Down” YouTube video * Take note of all of your priorities in the 90-day planner * Grab “The Garden Within” by Dr. Anita Phillips
CLICK HERE FOR FULL SHOW NOTES
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Are you showing up authentically?
My longtime friend Jada Edwards joined me during this year’s Sister Circle Live event to chat about how she embraces her authenticity. She encouraged the ladies (and myself) to get clear about what is true about our design and to walk freely in it.
Trust me, I know that living authentically is a process. There might be parts of your story that require you to seek outside support for healing. But the work is worth it.
Learning how to show up authentically in your life looks different for everyone. Spend some time learning what works for you and lean into who you truly are.
Highlights from today’s episode
- Discerning when to be vulnerable
- Answering the call to discipleship
- Uprooting old beliefs
Related Resources
- Connect with Jada Edwards on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, or YouTube
- Grab a copy of Jada’s Bible study, “Galatians: Accepted & Free”
- Check out Jada’s website
- Listen to Jada on The Jada Edwards Podcast
- Check out her church, One Community Church, on YouTube
CLICK HERE for full Show Notes!
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When was the last time you felt FOMO (the fear of missing out)? What if that fear is causing you to miss out on the joy of the season you’re in right now?
There is joy to be found in the things you don’t have to worry about. You can experience joy in your life by finding joy where you are, adopting an abundance mindset, and focusing on the good.
Life is so precious. Count it all joy.
Highlights from today’s episode
- Find joy where you are
- Adopt an abundance mindset
- Focus on the good
Related Resources
- Connect with women who can help you find joy again. Join the Inner Circle
- Listen to Episode #457: How to Stop the Comparison Trap
- Keep track of the good happening in your life. Pre-order the 90-day planner
CLICK HERE for full Show Notes!
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Are you pacing yourself as you set goals for 2024? You may have a list of goals to accomplish. You may have even selected your word for the year, but what will determine your success at the end of this year is your pace.
I want you to be able to look back from the finish line of your life and know that you ran your race well. If you’ve gotten off track, you can start the race again. Tap into what your soul needs, run your race at the right pace, and put one foot in front of the other.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Identify your rhythms * Understand your race * Seek out what your soul needs
Related Resources* Connect with women who are running alongside you and those who have gone before you. Join the Inner Circle * Set the pace for your year. Pre-order the 90-day planner * Take a closer look at your life with my book, She’s Still There
CLICK HERE for full Show Notes!
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If you want to thrive, you must be planted well.
What does it mean for you to thrive?
Well, the dictionary defines thriving as growth or development that happens well. Thriving means “to prosper” and “to flourish”.
It does not mean that there aren’t challenges, problems, or hardships to overcome, but thriving does mean that you will overcome them as you increase your capacity to be all that God has called you to be.
Thriving is moving from glory to glory.
And I know you might be wondering, what does it take to thrive?
Well, that’s exactly what I want to tell you about today…
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During the month of December, one of the other ways I practice stillness is to go quiet on the podcast. We record and release the Christmas Collection and usually that’s it until January!
This year, however, we have so many new things coming in January that I dropped one more podcast for you all that is FULL of all the upcoming things.
I don’t want you to miss out, so take a moment to listen to this podcast to stay in the know!
Related Resources* PRE-ORDER the planner * Register for The Sister Circle Live Event * Apply for the Coaching Cohort * Join the Inner Circle * Get the newsletter * Subscribe for more videos * Apply for my internship
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What do you already know you should be doing? If you are seeking clarity and you feel overwhelmed, take a moment to consider what you know is true. What did God tell you to do, but you’ve been putting it off? In this episode, we talk about how it’s time to activate your knowledge to see the growth you’ve been longing to see in your life. Pray and seek wise counsel also. But you don’t need to fill your mind with more information. Trust what you have heard God say in His Word and in your quiet moments with Him, and act now. Take that first step. You already know what to do!
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Have a spiritual checkup * Reflect on what you know * Do what you already know
Related Resources Change may not always be easy, but it can be good. Learn more in the Power of the Pivot. * Amazing things happen when you “Write it down.” Take time to notice what God has done, is doing, and will do. * Struggling to get things to the finish line? Be encouraged in this video: Focus on the Finish*.
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We are making our way towards 2024, and with Christmas quickly approaching, that means it’s time to sit back and enjoy Chrystal’s Christmas Collection! Kariss and I continue our mother-daughter tradition of hosting the Christmas Collection and we had tons of fun, as always!
Highlights from Today’s Episode:* Favorite holiday memories * Experiences to gift yourself and others * Time-saving gifts * Gifts to give to others
Resources from today’s show* Grab the entire list of great gift ideas by going to: chrystalevanshurst.com/myfavs * Need a little extra help with the holidays? Listen to my chat with my mom, Lois Evans aka Mrs. Claus * View all of my merchandise in my online store The post #461 – Chrystal’s 2023 Christmas Collection first appeared on Chrystal Evans Hurst.
As I’ve told y’all before, my mother was an excellent cook and made sure to teach me her ways.
As the holidays approach, I’m getting excited about all the things that I’ll share on my family table because of what my mom prepared for us over the years. Our holiday table has always overflowed with a mix of West Indian Culture and American Cuisine. Chow mein is presented next to fried chicken. The green beans, sit next to the pepper-pot (oxtails). The homemade yeast rolls keep the pumpkin bread company. And the greens will be lip-smacking good because they are delish, yes, but also because my mother may have added a little West Indian pepper that sets your mouth on fire.
One of my all-time favs to share during the holidays? Nonny’s famous pumpkin bread!
I have wonderful memories of my mother’s cooking wafting into my room in the wee hours of the morning on a regular basis. This was especially true during the Christmas season (my mother IS Mrs. Claus). She’d be up very late and again very early, making sure that holiday memories were made.
This particular recipe is an Evans family favorite, and I love getting to make this tasty bread and recreate the beautiful aroma and memory in my home for my family.
This pumpkin bread has made two appearances at our house. It can show up as loaves or as muffins. Loaves are the traditional way to make the bread. I experimented with muffins once, and because they cook faster, we have found these to be fun as well. I love the sound of my littles asking for “Punkin Bed”
Recipe* 2 cups Pumpkin (1 15oz can will do) * 1 cup oil (I have been using vegetable) * 3 cups of sugar (gotta find a substitute) * 4 eggs * 3 1/4 c flour (I have substituted freshly ground wheat for white and it works wonderfully) * 1 tsp baking powder * 1 tsp baking soda * 1 tsp clove powder * 1 tsp nutmeg * 2 tsp salt * 1 tsp cinnamon
Stir dry ingredients together. Then, mix pumpkin, oil, sugar, and beaten eggs in another bowl. Add wet to dry and stir. This will make about 2 dozen muffins or 2 loaves.
Bake at 350 for 20 minutes for muffins and 45 minutes for loaves. I think that it really takes more time than this but this is what I set my timer for before I start sticking the bread with a toothpick checking for doneness. One of these days I’ll figure out exactly how long this takes in my oven
I would love to know in the comments, what are some of your own favorite family recipes and holiday memories?
Quotes* “Create space to celebrate the people in your life.” – Lois Evans
Other Stuff to Check Out* Download the Recipe PDF Here! * Need help planning for the holidays? Check out my tips on how to plan! * Struggling to connect with those you love because you don’t have time? Listen to Episode #455 on how to make room for friends during busy seasons. * How are you making room for God in the midst of all your responsibilities? Tune into my chat with Jackie Hill Perry on how to stay connected to God in the midst of all that life brings. * Interested in participating in a 3 Day Prayer Walk Journey? Sign-up Here!
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When was the last time you got rest for your soul?
My friend Asheritah CiuCiu joined me for a chat about finding true rest in Jesus. I know that sometimes it can feel intimidating to get in the presence of God. During our conversation, Asheritah shared a memorable acronym for rest that will help us invite God into our daily lives with ease.
I was so encouraged by Asheritah’s commitment to getting alone with God despite her responsibilities. I pray that you will find rest for your soul through time in His presence.
Highlights from the Episode:* Reflecting on the goodness of God * Casting your cares on Him * Seeking His stillness * Placing your trust in God
Related Resources: * Connect with Asheritah CiuCiu on Instagram, Facebook, or YouTube * Grab a copy of Asheritah’s book: Prayers of Rest * Check out Asheritah’s website asheritah.com * Listen to Asheritah’s Prayers of REST podcast * Learn more about One Thing Alone Ministries * Join my 3 Day Prayer Journey!
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Do you typically wait until the last possible minute to plan for the holiday season? The holidays come around the same time every year, and yet many of us fail to learn from last year’s mistakes.
It doesn’t have to be this way. You can choose to move differently this holiday season. Better yet, you can use this season as a test run for planning ahead for the next year.
I’ve got a few reminders for you that will help you to plan ahead for the holiday season and beyond.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Making room to look back. * Planning for your future. * Inviting people in for support.
Related Resources * Feeling stressed about the holidays? Listen to Episode #458 – Tips for Coping with Holiday Stress. * Plan out your year with The Full Circle Planner (2024 version coming soon!) * Need recipes for your Thanksgiving meal? Check out one of my favorite resources, allrecipes.com, for ideas.
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The holidays are coming, and I want to know, how are your stress levels?
This time of year can feel like one big event after another. There are parties to attend, spaces to decorate, gifts to buy, and outfits to choose from – all of which equal planning and money.
Overall, this is just MORE.
More on the calendar, more to pay attention to, and…
MORE TO EAT!
The good news? You don’t have to let the holidays get the best of you! You can make simple plans now to prepare and ensure this season is full of things to do and moments to remember.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Define your expectations * Decide what matters most * Keep it simple * Schedule time for margin
Related Resources * The practice of gratitude is a powerful tool, especially to combat holiday stress. Watch my video on Growing in Gratitude. * The holidays can take us down a comparison spiral, but don’t get stuck in the Comparison Trap! Enjoy my latest video on how you can stop comparison.
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Struggling with comparison? What feelings stir up in your heart when you scroll through social media? Do you feel compelled to compare yourself to other people when you see them post about their beautiful homes, perfect relationships, and successful careers?
Let me free you for a second. It is normal to feel this way. If you dig a little deeper, comparison can be an indicator of something worth addressing in your life. I want to share with you how to work through comparison and all of the feelings that come along with it.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Acknowledge the desires of your heart. * Address your limiting beliefs. * Adjust your level of gratitude.
Related Resources Grab a copy of Nona Jones’ book Killing Comparison * Listen to my conversation with Episode #162: Lies We Believe About Comparison with Nicki Koziarz*
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Do you know what it is to fully live your life? One of my goals in creating the content I share is to make sure that YOU are living a life that you love. Recently, I sat down for an in-person discussion with a dear friend who has had an experience of, what some may call, a lifetime.
What if the dreams that are you in your heart CAN come true? What if your desire can come to pass with some solid planning and also connected to God’s perfect timing?
Highlights from the Episode:* Going after your dreams * Making a plan to reach your goals * Evaluating how you are living your life
Related Resources: * Connect with Nicole Staples on Instagram or her website. * Check out TripAdvisor to find activities to do, including free walking tours. Airbnb has a lot of activities available too. * Use Rome2Rio to see the different transportation options wherever you are trying to go! * Here are some Walking Tour YouTube pages to explore: HP Walking Tours and *ProWalks * Explore the Schengen Zone.***
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Are you struggling to make time for the friendships in your life? Listen, I get it. The undercurrent of many of our lives is busyness. Considering how to work another thing into an already full schedule is often not what any of us would prefer to do. But making room for deep and lasting connection is possible. Want to know how? Listen to this episode!
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Going the distance * Giving your friendships the time they need * Gauging your connection between friends
Related Resources Discover how to find your people by listening to the podcast, Establishing Deep Community with my special guest and friend, Jeannie Allen. * Build Healthy Friendships* by tuning into my conversation with Tammy Franklin and her closest friends. * Learn how to Find Real Life Friendships in this episode with Jess Johnston and Amy Weatherly
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Jackie Hill Perry is all too familiar with the challenge of making time for God when the days feel short. Abiding in the Lord has allowed her to show up for her home in the same way that she shows up in ministry.
As women, we have so many responsibilities to tend to at any given time. Keeping up with home, ministry, and everything in between can feel like an impossible feat.
Join us for a life-giving conversation about her new devotional, Upon Waking. Jackie encourages us to cultivate a discipline of starting the day with God before we become distracted with life.
Highlights from the Episode:* Give God your first fruits * Consider your commitments * Surrender your self-sufficiency
Related Resources: * Connect with Jackie Hill Perry on Instagram, Facebook, or YouTube * Grab a copy of Jackie’s devotional: Upon Waking: 60 Daily Reflections to Discover Ourselves and the God We Were Made For * Learn more about Jackie by visiting her website * Check out Jackie and Preston Perry’s podcast: With The Perrys * Listen to my previous chat with Jackie, Episode #196
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When we slow down and let the Holy Spirit guide us, we can be intentional about the information we take in and the God ideas we put out into the world.
How can we do this? I’ve learned a thing or two about developing an innovative mindset over the years. In this episode, I break down my process for innovating and implementing ideas. I hope these steps help you thrive in achieving your God-given goals.
Your fresh ideas are just what the world needs. Breathe a little easier knowing that with God, a little creativity, and a little planning, your ideas can come to life.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Generating new ideas * Deciding what to put out into the world * Creating structure to support ideas * Consistently working on goals
Related Resources Get my favorite notebook: Moleskine Weekly Planning Calendar * Stay organized with The Full Circle 90-day Planner * Listen to Episode #104-The Girlfriend’s Guide to Getting Things Done*
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Are you comfortable with who and how God made you to be? Do you feel less than and uncomfortable in your own skin? That’s not how God desires for us to live and flourish. He created us to live an abundant life. He desires for us to walk in freedom. And his purpose for our life is dependent on us learning to accept the fullness of who we are and how he made us.
This is the journey Dr. Jackie Greene took and shares about in her latest book, Permission to Live Free. Dr. Jackie, as she is often called, is a co-pastor with her husband, a Bible teacher, a women’s ministry leader, and an author. She also is passionate about helping women build community with each other while living authentically and fully free.
Highlights from the Episode:* Giving yourself permission to be authentic * Recognizing you are enough * Finding comfort in how God made you * Owning the path God wants you to take
Related Resources: * Connect with Jackie Greene on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Grab a copy of Jackie’s latest book: Permission to Live Free * Check out Dr. Jackie’s Permission App
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What is your body telling you? For many of us, listening to our bodies doesn’t come naturally. Despite our many attempts at self-care, tuning into our deepest needs tends to come second best. But what would happen if you took time to be with you? To feel the shifts in your body? To release the tension you carry? What would you discover? If you listen close enough, you might be surprised at what you hear.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Take notice of your needs * Tune into how you feel * Tend to what your body is telling you
Related Resources Want to learn more about becoming emotionally whole? Don’t miss this episode with Dr. Anita Phillips! * Looking for how you can learn to hear God’s voice? Enjoy Episode #443 – The Power of Drawing Close. * Do you need a little more quiet in your life? Tune in to watch Episode #441 – It’s Time to Get Quiet. * Discover more on connecting with your body by checking out the podcast, Four Ways to Find Rest: What to Do When You’re Always Tired. * Wondering how to hear from your life? Listen as Lisa Harper and I discuss what it means to Listen to Your Life*.
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Comedian and author Yvonne Orji joins me to discuss her book, Bamboozled by Jesus: How God Tricked Me Into the Life of My Dreams. As she puts it, God “supersized” her dreams to the extent that she now has to dream even bigger dreams.
Not surprisingly, my conversation with Yvonne was full of laughter and insightful moments. Her lighthearted approach to life allows her to reflect on the difficult times from her past with a clear perspective.
We talk about the importance of pleasing God rather than people. Yvonne’s story shows what can happen when we take the limits off and fully trust in God with our dreams.
Highlights from the Episode:* Let go of people pleasing * Trust God’s voice * Take the limits off of your life
Related Resources: * Connect with Yvonne Orji on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Grab a copy of Yvonne’s book: Bamboozled by Jesus: How God Tricked Me Into the Life of My Dreams. * Learn more about Yvonne by visiting her website. * Ready to dream big but not sure where to begin? Listen to Podcast #398 – Dream Big: How to Achieve the Dreams You Can’t Afford
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Have you ever considered that staying young may have nothing at all to do with age? Life has a funny way of reminding us that we are getting older (cue the knee’s cracking), but that doesn’t mean we have to stop living with a youthful state of mind.
Yes, with age comes wisdom, but living with a youthful state of mind keeps you enjoying and engaging with life in an exciting and fresh way. And I want to share with you just how to do it.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* The keys to staying young * The importance of inviting new input * The blessing and benefit of new people
Related Resources* Want more encouragement on stepping out to do a new thing? Watch Episode #394, “Do A New Thing”. * Looking for ways to cultivate community? Check out this podcast episode! * Are you curious about how to hear God’s voice? Watch this Episode, The Power of Drawing Close”.
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Are there parts of your life that you try to keep hidden away? I’m sure most of us can think of something from our past that we would rather not revisit. Those painful moments can feel overwhelming and all-consuming at times.
I spent some time talking with Taylor Madu about what can happen when we allow all things to work together for our good. If you are struggling to make sense of how the pieces of your life fit together, then this episode is for you.
Highlights from the Episode:* Take action against your fears * Invite Jesus into every aspect of your life * Maintain boundaries while serving others
Related Resources: * Connect with Taylor on Instagram, Facebook, or YouTube. * Learn more about Taylor and Robert’s church, Social Dallas * Follow Taylor’s community, Social Girls
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Do you ever feel like you just need a plan for your life? Are you constantly mulling over what the future holds for you? Here’s what you need to know, developing a personal vision for your life may be easier than you think. With a little intentionality and the audacity to dream, you might just be on the cusp of living freely and fully the life you’ve always hoped for.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* How to develop a personal vision * How to live with awareness * How to pursue God’s dream for you.
Related Resources* Looking for other videos to help you live a life you love? Check out: + How to Create a Vision for Your Life + Focusing on the Finish + Write it Down * Need a tool to help you keep track of your days? Get my Daily Tracker HERE!
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We all have seasons of brokenness. It’s a natural part of life. And it is healthy to acknowledge and own how we feel. Yet, the key is remembering we do not have to sit in those seasons. We can allow ourselves to heal and grow from the hard experiences we face.
We can live in true authenticity when we invite our broken spaces into the story of who we are and how we live. God does not call us to hide the parts of our lives that do not look pretty. That would be a shame. Instead, He desires for us to bring them to the light and expose them so He can move in and make us whole.
Join Toni Collier and I on The Sister Circle Podcast as she shares how we can be brave enough to own our brokenness and humble enough to let God show us the way to healing.
Highlights from the Episode:* Let God carry the weight of your doubts * Take a posture of humility daily * Use your words to rewire your thoughts * Invite the unhealthy parts of you into your story
Related Resources: * Connect with Toni Collier on Instagram, YouTube, or Facebook. * Grab a copy of Toni’s new book: Brave Enough to be Broken * Learn more about Toni by visiting her website: Toni Collier * Check out Toni’s podcast: Still Coloring
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Are you a finisher? No questions asked, starting is half the battle. Despite becoming distracted, lacking motivation, or feeling like there just isn’t enough time, you ARE capable of finishing what you start. The key is keeping the finish line in front of you.
Becoming a finisher means deciding that what you are in pursuit of is worth the necessary effort to complete. Taking actionable steps towards your goals increases the odds of finishing what you start. Know that you have what it takes and move forward with the end in mind. Listen in as I share helpful tools to help you finish what you start.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* The keys to finishing what you start * The importance of settings goals * The support needed to find success * The way to plan for distractions and delays
Related Resources Need help taking actionable steps toward reaching your goals? Grab Chrystal’s 90-Day Planner.* * Looking for community and accountability? Consider joining the Inner Circle. * Wondering how to exercise discipline? Check out the Pomodoro Technique.
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Not only is Dr. Anita Phillips a sister in Christ and a dear friend, but she’s also a trauma therapist, a life coach, and a minister with a profound understanding of what it takes to be an emotionally whole believer. In her new book, “The Garden Within”, Dr. Anita contends God created us in the pattern of plants and compares the garden of our heart to an actual garden.
We all know the importance of taking care of our physical and spiritual health, but oftentimes, our emotional well-being gets overlooked. It’s easy to brush off our feelings, especially when our cultural or familial norms encourage us to suppress them. Instead of honoring the presence of a particular emotion and exploring its origins, many of us tend to hide our true feelings.
Our emotions provide us with valuable insights about the health of our hearts. If our thoughts and actions are unhealthy, we need to check the soil of our emotions. Just as plants in a garden need water to grow and thrive, our internal gardens, such as our mental and emotional well-being, also require care and nourishment. It’s crucial that we begin to take time to cultivate the garden of our hearts in order to experience the abundant life that God has for us.
Highlights from the Episode:* Taking time with yourself * Embracing your tears * Learning to be still * Checking on your body * Shifting emotional experiences
Related Resources: * Connect with Dr. Anita Phillips on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, or on her website. * Grab a copy of Dr. Anita’s book: The Garden Within. * Check out Dr. Anita’s podcast, In the Light.
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Do you ever wonder, when you have thoughts, feelings, or some kind of knowing in your heart if that “voice” is your own or God’s? Here’s what I can tell you about listening to God. It’s like music playing in the distance. There is a melody that strikes a chord within your spirit when you hear it.
Maybe you hear that still small voice but still question, “Is that you God?”
So what’s the key to knowing His voice?
The answer is relationship. You build relationship with God by drawing close to Him. And you don’t build relationship with someone without ever being with them or engaging in conversation. Developing your relationship with God is no different. You build relationship with Him by being in His Word, committing to community, connecting with Him in prayer, and following through in obedience.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* How to know God’s voice * How to draw close to God. * How to grow in relationship with God.
Related Resources Looking for ways to grow in hearing God? Watch this video on How to Hear God’s Voice * There is a gift inside of you – it’s The Power of Intuition * Love to read and want to grow in prayer? Check out The 28 Day Prayer Journey* * Curious about who God is? Check out this page on my site: Tell Me More * Check out the resources from Dr. Tony Evans * Connect with Priscilla Shirer and dive into her resources HERE.
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Have you ever been tempted to quit? Do you feel like you must have misheard what God wants you to do because it is just too hard? Don’t give up! Jesus is calling us to do some pretty impossible things, and the only way we can do them is if we stay the [...]
It doesn’t have to be complicated. Quiet time is simply a dedicated time of connection with God. How then, does it work? What should it look like for you? You don’t have to be a Biblical Scholar to have a successful quiet time. Given the right tools, all you have to do is simply show up in anticipation for what God may want to do when you create space to be with Him.
Tune in as I walk you through what quiet time looks like for me and share some resources that may be helpful to you!
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Different Levels of Quiet * Digging Deep in God’s Word * Discovering the Right Tools
Related Resources Check out The Inductive Study Bible by Precept International/Kay Arthur. * Need additional resources to help you dig into God’s Word? Consider using Blue Letter Bible and Bible Gateway. * Grab a copy of Dr. Tony Evans Study Bible and The Tony Evans Bible Commentary*.
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CeCe Winans joins me on The Sister Circle Podcast as we discuss what it looks like to prioritize the word of God and seek His wisdom in every area of your life.
CeCe is not only a GRAMMY award-winning artist who has influenced a generation of gospel vocalists over her 40-year span of recording and performing, but she is passionate about making sure the next generation has the mentorship and guidance they need. She lives her life as a sacrifice of praise. And in her latest book, Believe For It, CeCe discusses the importance of passing down faith and wisdom to the next generation.
This conversation was so rich because CeCe (in only the way that CeCe can) graciously shares insights from her own life. We talk about what mentoring has looked like – what she has received and what she currently gives. CeCe also transparently shares how she has learned to live and find balance with the demands on her life, her tips for parenting well, and why she knew it was God’s plan for her to write a book in this season of her life.
Highlights from the Episode:* God’s word works for every generation * Every woman has something to give * Wisdom helps you live life to the fullest
Related Resources: * Connect with CeCe on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Grab a copy of CeCe’s book: Believe For It. * Listeners can find info on tour dates at cecewinans.com/events * Do you want to learnHow to Hear God’s Voice? Watch this video. * Did you know that you have a gift inside you? Watch “The Power of Intuition” to learn more!
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Do you struggle with overpacking when traveling? Do you often find yourself overburdened with heavy luggage full of things you never actually use? Whether on a trip for pleasure or in the journey of life, we are all holding onto many things “just in case.” But God designed us to live lightly! We [...]
Homeschool expert, Carole Joy Seid, has so much wisdom to share when it comes to giving your kids an excellent educational environment in your own home. She joins me in this episode to talk about reading as the key to growing godly, intelligent kids. It is possible to become a good reader and help your kids love reading as well. We hope you will join us for this conversation!
Highlights from the Episode:* Surround your children with great books * Read out loud with your children * Unplug your children
Related Resources: * Connect with Carole Joy Seid on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Carole Joy Seid’s podcast: Homeschooling Made Simple * Carole Joy Seid’s website: https://www.carolejoyseid.com/ * Download your free book list here! https://www.carolejoyseid.com/freebooklist
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Ever wonder why Circadian rhythms matter or why routines have a significant impact on us? Simple, God is a God of order. Living a life of pattern and rhythm is our way of coming into agreement with Him and His creation. Over several decades, I have learned a lack of routine can result [...]
Have you been introduced to the church, but are still waiting to meet God? Many of us were introduced to church at a very young age. We went on Sundays, participated in programs and maybe even attended Sunday school. But that’s it. We did not develop deep relationships with others at the church. [...]
Sometimes life is simply chaotic. It's inevitable. The moment you begin to think you have a good handle on life, you realize… you don't! Or maybe you've known all along. One thing leads to another, and suddenly it becomes crystal clear that your whole situation has somehow gotten out of control; a trickle [...]
Motherhood is one of the most fulfilling yet challenging journeys a woman can embark on. It’s a twenty-four seven job that is full of constant changes, ups and downs, and endless to-do lists, yet, it comes with no handbook. While our motherly instincts sometimes kick in, many times we are out here just [...]
If there is anyone who cringes at the thought of change, it would be me. Of course, I realize life requires change therefore, we shouldn’t be surprised when change comes; however, doubling down and deciding to do what needs to be done doesn’t always fit within the confines of my plans. Put simply, [...]
Have you ever felt like you are not enough? Your story, background, culture and race, or even your name - have you been told these things might get in the way of being effective for Jesus? It’s time to be free from those lies! You do not have to water down who you [...]
Everyone has boundaries, and in an ever more connected world, it’s virtually impossible to go a day without hearing about them. As the center of the global self-care conversation, boundaries have been described as the means of keeping the things – and people you don’t want – out of your life. It’s a [...]
In this episode, I have the fantastic opportunity to speak with The Minimal Mom, Dawn Madsen! Dawn, an expert in minimalist living and decluttering, has successfully maintained her home AND her peace by getting rid of over 80% of her belongings. (Whew!) No matter what all of those Tupperware and Spacebag commercials tell [...]
For many of us, home management is a casual game of cat and mouse: keeping up with laundry, the kitchen, the finances, the kids…our responsibilities end up culminating in a long string of latent and precarious decisions. We put so much effort and care into our careers and family – what’s a little [...]
Faith is sufficient. Sure, it doesn’t come with an instruction guide, nor a clear answer to every question, but faith is sufficient. Despite what it may seem, even the most experienced elders in the church struggle with this truth. Faith is a practice in duality, and when we step into it, our lives [...]
How often are you truly quiet? We live in a noisy world, don’t we? Whether it be in our relationships or on our jobs, we are inundated with the need to fill space. We feel obligated to constantly speak or otherwise contribute to the conversation. We often feel pressed to have all of [...]
Do you have someone in your corner? You know, that person who can both cheer you on yet also call you out on your business? That role shouldn’t be for many people in your life, but when you find that trustworthy someone, they are to be treasured for sure. My guest for this [...]
You think you know yourself until things get tough. When pushed against a wall, you may find yourself – for better or worse – becoming a whole different person. You get quiet. You say everything on your mind. You shut down. You burst at the seams! There’s no way this can be you…right? [...]
Midlife for many women either brings joy or fear into their hearts. It’s a season of change: kids are finally out of the house, the marriage is mature, and the career is established. All that’s left is you and defining who you are. For many women, this is a daunting task. Up to [...]
Do you struggle with being on time? Do you often feel like time is wasting away? Maybe you find yourself thinking, there simply isn’t enough time in a day. You, my friend, are not alone! The truth is, many of us wrestle with feeling behind or as if we are running out of [...]
Are you stunting your own growth? Oftentimes, when we are embarking on our passions or opening ourselves to the world around us, a constant obstacle we face inhibiting living out our dreams in our fullest selves is…us. When we stand at the crossroads of staying in the comfort of convention versus risking safety [...]
To adult, or not to adult? That is the question that so many young adults struggle with. Understanding the complexities of adulthood is not a one-track solution, but rather requires a good and applicable foundation of wisdom, skill, and faith. Many ill-equipped young adults find themselves drowning in the struggles of identity and [...]
Do you ever wonder what God can do with the random seasons of your life? Sometimes life goes exactly where we plan for it go and pans out how we envisioned things would happen. Most times? The opposite happens. Our plans fail. The unexpected comes. Surprises, good or bad, interrupt our intentions for [...]
What makes an adult? The beautiful (or maybe scary) thing about that question is that there are several different answers. For those who’ve lived long enough to know, from the moment you become an adult, this new season of life has a way of throwing anything and everything at you! Many young adults [...]
Are you trying to live life in neutral to avoid facing the pain of your past? Oftentimes people who love God may feel as if their emotions are bad and represent the opposite of having faith. So we suppress our feelings rather than seeing them as signals that alert us of issues that [...]
Have you ever felt like you were in too deep? Like maybe certain situations in your life were causing you to go to greater lengths than you ever thought possible, to spend more time than you realized you had, and to cost you more than you could ever afford? Situations that cause us [...]
How would you describe your current relationship with your spouse? Are you able to confidently say that you are happily married? My guest for this episode of the podcast makes it a point to say she is “happily married” to remind people that healthy marriages do still exist! Now that doesn’t mean her [...]
Do you ever feel like you are simply out of balance? Does your life ever feel like a runaway train? Are you hoping to operate from a place of internal and external peace, but your daily experiences don't align with that desire? If you ever feel out of whack, you are not alone! [...]
Are you grappling with feelings of fatherlessness? Do you long to discover the path toward becoming healed and whole? There is nothing like the love of a father but what happens when this relationship leaves you wounded and in distress? How do you muster the courage to admit you're not okay while finding [...]
Do you know what’s it like to find your people in life? You know, those people who just get you and are in your corner no matter what? They don’t have an agenda in mind, and they are ready to laugh (or cry) with you in those late night moments of delirium. They can be hard to find, but when the right friend crosses your path you hold on tight because good friends are what make your life.
Sitting down with my guest for this episode was like finding my people. We are definitely cut from the same cloth and I’m so glad we were able to connect in person and record this podcast.
Naomi Raine and I chatted about a variety of things from our love for dressing in black comfy clothing to the best airport restaurants, but underlying the fun was the theme of relationships and how they are the true currency of life.
Highlights from Episode:* Embrace your calling * Open the door for friendships * Speak honestly about your past
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Naomi Raine on Instagram, YouTube, or Facebook. * Checkout Naomi Raine’s Website * Order Cover the Earth, the newest album from Naomi Raine * Read Woman Evolve by Sarah Jakes Roberts * Check out Walking in My Joy: In These Streets by Jenifer Lewis * The Southern Steak and Oyster Nashville Restaurant * 1897 Market in the Charlotte Airport
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There is a spiritual realm that exists whether we acknowledge it or not. We are either operating in a way that helps build God’s spiritual kingdom or the enemy’s. And we can become a victim of satan’s agenda without even knowing it. Our thoughts, what we watch and what we listen to all influence our connection with God. Yet, if we tap into the deep things of God, the Holy Spirit will equip us to be all that God has called us to be.
Stephanie is no stranger to leaning into the power of the Holy Spirit and speaking about the spiritual realm. Stephanie teaches we cannot always see and interpret what is happening in the spiritual realm, but God can. And if you recognize every moment as holy then you can always encounter God and create an opportunity for Him to give you instruction, leave you wisdom and provide clarity for your path.
Join Stephanie and I on The Sister Circle Podcast as we discuss what it looks like to embrace the encounter God wants to bring you into.
Highlights from Episode:* Create space to encounter God * Be careful about what you absorb * Understand how to build the kingdom
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Stephanie Ike on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook * Learn more about Stephanie Ike * Listen to Stephanie’s podcast, The Same Room * Hear more about this topic over on Stephanie’s YouTube Channel
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When we have children, we are agreeing to devote the next 18 years of our lives to raising them. We teach them everything we can from learning how to walk to learning how to manage finances. We pour into them all the knowledge and wisdom we have accumulated throughout our years in hopes that it will help them prepare to become life-giving functional adults. The truth is, our job as parents is to work ourselves out of a job as our children get older.
In her latest book, Love, Pray, Listen: Parenting Your Wayward Adult Kids Mary shares how you can learn to be in healthy relationship with your adult children even if you disagree with their choices. Listen in as Mary DeMuth and I dig into creating long lasting friendships with your adult children that don’t require them to act a certain way.
Highlights from Episode:* Give yourself permission to lament * Keep the lines of communication open * Let the joy of the Lord be your strength
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Mary DeMuth on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook * Check out Mary’s latest book: Love, Pray, Listen * Get to know Mary DeMuth * Listen to Mary’s podcast: The Pray Every Day Podcast
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You are going to be called into situations you don’t know how to handle. Individuals on the team will come and go. Too often we see limitations in people and circumstances as a reason to jump ship and try something new. The answer we seek is not always clear. The process may be frustrating. And you struggle to see a solution anywhere. However, as the leader you set the tone for your entire team.
In this episode, DawnChere Wilkerson and I discuss how God has shown her how to lead others well by:
- Respecting where God is calling people
- Having uplifting, challenging conversations
- Believing in how much people can grow
Just as our words can tear someone down, they can also build them up. Take the time to shape, love and nurture the ones you lead. And when their time comes to move to something new, release them, knowing God will provide exactly what you need.
Highlights from Episode:* Respecting where God is calling people * Having uplifting, challenging conversations * Believing in how much people can grow
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with DawnChere on Instagram * Connect with Vous Church on Instagram * Learn more about DawnChere’s ministry at Vous Church * Listen to Vous Worship’s latest album, I Met Jesus in Miami
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Tiffany Coleman and I discuss what it looks like to navigate a season of grief well. Tiffany unexpectedly lost her husband due to a pulmonary embolism in April 2022. And just as she was trying to navigate the emotions of being a single mother and widow, she lost her own mother five months later in September 2022.
Grief can compound unnecessarily when it is ignored. But the good news is this, you do not have to allow it to consume you. You can be intentional about grieving well. You get to choose. Join us as we discuss what it looks like to leave space for your grief and space for joy as she encourages us through the lens of her own journey.
Highlights from Episode:* Give space for your grief * Hold space for joy * Choose to rebuild and move forward * Invite God along for the journey
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Tiffany Coleman on Instagram or Facebook. * Griefshare * Chop Wood Carry Water by Joshua Medcalf * Experiencing Grief by H. Norman Wright
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Are you feeling overwhelmed by the hustle and bustle of life? Believe it or not, this comes as no surprise to God. It’s why he has created ways for us to connect with Him and tap into the power of His love that lives within us.
Spiritual disciplines are the key to living a grounded life. And spiritual disciplines will help us learn how to have better relationships with ourselves, with each other, and with God. If you are struggling in your relationships, feeling anxious, or just can’t seem to connect with your inner being, then join me on The Sister Circle Podcast as I discuss how spiritual disciplines can help you live a more grounded life.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Love your authentic self * Get to know God intimately * Show love to others
Resources Mentioned: Learn more about Chrystal’s Inner Circle * Join Chrystal October 19th – 22nd at The Sister Circle Retreat * Visit Chrystal’s website, Chrystal Evans Hurst*
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Shanterra McBride and I discuss what it looks like to engage in relationships and conversations the way Jesus calls us to. We all need community. We all need the freedom to own our story. And, it’s when we accept ourselves, own our identity and find peace in the place where we are in life, that we will find the community we need and the courage to share our story in uncomfortable spaces.
The good news is, it is the work of our lives to operate in the skin we are in and be as healthy as possible in the environments we inhabit. We do not have to hide from community or communication. Join us, as Shanterra McBride and I discuss her latest diagnosis and the release of her latest book, Courageous Discomfort.
Highlights from Episode:* Ask and answer the hard questions * Refuse to shame and condemn others * Love the way Jesus loves us * Accept where God has planted you
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Shanterra McBride on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Check out Shanterra’s latest book, Courageous Discomfort * Visit Marvelous University to learn about Shanterra’s passion for the next generation * Listen to the first podcast I did with Shanterra McBride, Made to be Marvelous
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Kendra Adachi and I dig into how you can find peace and contentment by focusing on the things that matter most to you and giving yourself permission to let everything else go.
How you spend your time defines how you live your life. You don’t have to have big ambitions or big dreams. There is no difference in the kingdom of God with the person who chooses to spend their life on purpose for one versus living on purpose for a million. The key is doing what matters most to you.
In her book, The Lazy Genius, Kendra discusses how a life lived in the expanse of doing everything and doing nothing is where peace resides. She encourages women to live in the truth of really caring about some things, being really good at some things, and seeking after some things, while also choosing to let other things go and not care about them at all or as much.
Highlights from Episode:* Embrace the help you have * Put everything in its place * Learn how to pivot from the plan
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Kendra Adachi on Instagram or Facebook. * Learn more about Kendra at The Lazy Genius Collective * Check out Kendra’s Podcast The Lazy Genius Podcast * Get Kendra’s latest book, The Lazy Genius Kitchen
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Sopha Rush and I dig into how to slow down and begin to live life from the overflow of your relationship with God.
Many of us spend our time doing the Christian things that matter. We serve in local congregations, we share our stories in hopes of helping others, we pour into other women and our families. And we say yes when asked to give even more because we desire to love others well. Then we give God all the glory and honor for everything we’ve been able to accomplish without ever realizing he never asked us to do it.
In her latest book, Living Deeply Rooted, Sopha discusses how to get back to the feet and heart of Jesus by slowing down and living life at the pace that makes you feel content and full. Join us as we discuss it in depth.
Highlights from Episode:* Putting God first * Resisting the overwhelm * Learning healthy boundaries
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Sopha Rush on Instagram or Twitter * Learn more by visiting her website, Sopha Rush * Don’t forget to check out Sopha’s latest devotional, Living Deeply Rooted
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Elizabeth Moore, Audrey Elledge, and I got together to discuss the importance of liturgical prayers in a time where liturgies and rituals seem outdated and irrelevant.
Liturgical prayers can provide us with the words to express our emotions when we can’t find them on our own. They are prefabricated words we can resonate with on a deeper level. So much so they become our own prayers as we read and recite them. They unlock the door of our deep longing for God. They nourish our souls. And repeating them helps form us into persons whose affections are on Jesus.
Their latest book, Liturgies of Hope, is meant to bring us into an encounter with God. Join us as we discuss it.
Highlights from Episode:* Pray earnestly about your emotions * Embrace the mystery of faith * Develop a deeper relationship with God
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Audrey Elledge on LinkedIn, Twitter, or Facebook. * Connect with Elizabeth Moore on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter * Check out Elizabeth and Audrey’s new book, Liturgies of Hope * You can visit Elizabeth’s website here: Elizabeth Moore
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It is okay to acknowledge when our life is hard. It is okay to accept that it may not immediately change. The goal is to focus on how we can grow in the midst of it all. Our false faith tells us if God is kind, he will save us from the hurt. Truth tells us it’s in his kindness that he allows us to endure pain. And resiliency is the muscle he grows in us to help us endure.
Michele and I sat down to discuss how easy it is to expect God to rescue us from our hard circumstances rather than embracing them as an opportunity to learn. Yet, we can move from seeing struggles as losses to seeing them as opportunities to learn when we:
- Radically change how we view pain
- Develop the skill of resilience
- Shift our perspective of God’s role
Join us as Michele shares how the unexpected hard circumstances in her life have helped her grow her faith and built her skill of resiliency.
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Michele Cushatt on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Pre-order Michele’s new book A Faith that will not Fail * Learn more about Michele Cushatt
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If God doesn’t show you the full picture of your life, if all He gives you are breadcrumbs along the way, will that be enough? Yeah, you may have to experience difficult seasons before purpose begins to take shape. Yeah, you may have to, in full faith, do the thing that ultimately doesn’t make sense. Yeah, you may have to wait a while. But when it comes to living an authentic faith, you must decide that regardless…
He will always be worth it.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Changing the narrative of your life * Living an authentic faith * Building into your story * Calling yourself up
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Havilah on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Grab a copy of Havilah’s book I Do Boundaries: A Bible Study to Discover Your Power, Protect what Matters, and Stop Feeling Bad about It. * Download this FREE resource from Havilah: Radical Growth – A guidebook to growing a vibrant life * Looking to be equipped with practical tools to grow your relationship with God? Check out Havilah’s ministry Truth to Table.
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Have you found yourself wondering how in the world you are supposed to juggle all of the things on your plate well? Maybe you’ve spent time writing out your to-do list, but inevitably it just gets longer, and the days seem to get shorter.
Today, I’m talking with Crystal Paine about how to juggle all of the things we have to get done and overall time management from one season to another. She shares some practical tips on how she is able to accomplish what’s on her to-do list, do things she enjoys, and recognize when it’s time to set aside something in one season to save time in a new season.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Being intentional with your time * Setting aside things in a new season * Saving time and making room for things you enjoy
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Crystal Paine on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Learn more about ways to maximize your time over at timesavingmom.com * Check out her latest book: The Time-Saving Mom: How to Juggle a Lot, Enjoy Your Life, and Accomplish What Matters Most
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Have you ever found yourself second guessing yourself? Well, you are not alone my friend. We all have moments like this, and some of us more than others. Regardless of where you fall on the spectrum of doubt, I have something to tell you…
It is impossible to live your life well if you are constantly asking yourself “what if?”.
In this episode I give 4 steps to getting out of this harmful cycle. These simple steps will give you the key to overcoming self doubt and opening the door to true freedom.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Stop second guessing yourself * Overcoming self doubt * Combatting fear
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We all have a shame narrative. Our shame story comes before we even realize what it is – when we are toddlers just learning how to navigate life. As we grow it becomes embedded in us because of the stories we hear and the stories we tell. And as adults, the degree to which we struggle to flourish is related to the degree in which we are not explicitly addressing those parts of our story where shame still exists.
I reached out to Dr. Curt Thompson to discuss what it looks like to find freedom from the shame narrative we may or may not even realize we’ve been telling ourselves. Dr. Thompson is a board certified psychologist and founder of The Center for Being Known. He has made it his business to understand how interpersonal neurobiology and Christian spiritual formation work together, especially as it relates to shame.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Contextualize our shame stories * Understand the orchestra of our mind * Transform our shame narrative
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Dr. Curt Thompson on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook * Visit his website here: Dr. Curt Thompson * Listen to Dr. Curt Thompson on the Being Known Podcast with Curt Thompson, MD * Pickup Dr. Curt Thompson’s book on shame, The Soul of Shame
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In this episode I discuss the importance of writing your dreams down, making small deposits into that dream, and in the meantime, doing what you can with what you already have. Documenting your desires helps you remember, focus, and stay grateful. You must invest in those desires, and this requires discipline. Don’t be overwhelmed, though. You just have to start somewhere. The opportunity is right in front of you: Do what you can with what you have. Join me as I discuss how to prepare for and invest in what is to come.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Write down your dreams. * Do what you can with what you have. * Prepare for your dreams.
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Everyone has a story worth telling; however, it’s not always easy to share your personal story, especially when it is painful and filled with suffering and guilt.
But no matter how difficult the story is, sometimes it is just THE TIME to share your story.
In this episode, I’m chatting with Beth Moore about her new book, “All My Knotted Up Life: A Memoir” which is now available. In this book, Beth courageously opens up about the good, the bad, and the ugly details of her life. Her memoir is an authentic and honest description of how, by the grace of God, she was able to come to the point where her decisions are no longer dictated by her pain.
Telling your story requires you to be exposed and vulnerable, but it also has the power to encourage others by reminding them they are not alone, and assuring them that victory is possible. Beth can now see how God weaved the heart-wrenching pain of her past into the beautiful ministry she has today. As the Word assures, “…God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.”
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Understanding why your story matters * Knowing when it’s time to share your story * Being authentic and transparent without oversharing * Accepting your unique story
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Beth Moore on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, or on her website. * Pick up your copy of Beth Moore’s new book, “All My Knotted Up Life: A Memoir”. * Check out, “A Burning in My Bones: The Authorized Biography of Eugene H. Peterson” by Winn Collier. * Check out some of Beth’s other books or her Bible studies.
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In this season, I have found myself hitting up a wall and having to face some tough questions. Am I supposed to keep going? Is what I’m doing what I’m actually called to do? Do I burn it all down?
Thankfully, I have wise friends around me and one of them, while graciously holding space for my questions, asked if burning it all down would be fulfilling God’s calling on my life. She invited me to explore my need to let go of some old ways of doing things to make room for the new levels God wants to take me to.
And so far, this year has been all about making room and letting things go. I feel the tugging in my own soul and that God is taking me to a new level. I’m ready to let God do the work, will you join me in letting go as well?
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Finding what is “shimmering” in your life * Releasing old systems and structures * Making room for new levels of growth
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What would happen in your life if your love for people moved you towards listening? What if listening led you toward positive changes in yourself, in your existing relationships, or in our culture? What if listening helped you connect God’s love for people with your ability to love others well?
There are many voices out there, and we need all of them, but as you will soon discover, Faitth Brook’s voice is necessary. What she says, how she says it, and her commitment to listening to others adds so much to the conversation on faith and race.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Understanding and engaging purpose * Finding release from “the right way” * Rediscovering Identity * Moving things toward change
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Faitth Brooks on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, or her website. * Pick up a copy of Faitth’s new book Remember Me Now: A Journey Back to Myself and a Love Letter to Black Women. * Discover more about faith, race, and culture at the Melanated Faith Podcast.
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There is a real challenge with doing new things. Why? Because new things require work. It takes time to adopt new habits, to invest in new relationships, and to pursue new dreams. However, to make the best of each season we are in, we have to choose to do a new thing. Rarely do we consider the impact that perception and posture have on our ability to engage in new experiences or create new experiences altogether.
What new thing is your life calling you to? When approached in fresh ways, even your daily rhythms can create anticipation for what God may want to do next.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Doing the “new” thing * Overcoming blocks and barriers * Trusting God in the unknown
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Marshawn Evans Daniels and I sit down for a conversation about what it looks like to give yourself the grace you need in order to allow God’s grace to fill the space you cannot fill.
We all can get caught in the little things of our life. Striving to achieve perfection. And waiting on God to do something new. But, when we abide in God’s shadow we are always connected to the new thing he desires to do. Today we are talking about what it looks like to build out of the vision of what God says he will do.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Giving ourselves grace * Abiding in God’s shadow * Walking in Harmony versus Balance
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Marshawn Evans Daniels on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Marshawn Evans Daniels * Marshawn’s paid membership program is The Destiny Collective
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Stress is real. If both striving and stretching require effort and energy, how do you know the difference between the good kind of exertion in life and the not-so-good exertion? Both are hard work. Both create similar stress. Both require doing something new.
How do you know if you are pushing yourself too hard or if you just need to be stretched to move the needle in your life?
In today’s podcast, I walk you through how you can know if you are in a season of striving or stretching. I do believe you can know the difference! I also believe you need to be intentional about setting yourself up to pay attention and know what season you’re in. On today’s episode, I dig into what it means to:
- Hear from God by walking in obedience, talking to God in prayer, and learning to listen to His voice. We tackle the concept of spiritual disciplines and how they can make hearing from God easier.
- Trust your “knower” through your knowledge of the Spirit’s voice, knowledge of yourself, and knowing your history.
- Seek opportunities to serve through an understanding of stewardship and how you manage your life and the opportunities in it.
Whatever you are experiencing right now in your life, I want to help you learn how to assess the season of life you are in. You can resist the urge to strive, while also embracing opportunities to stretch and strengthen.
Today’s episode will help you know the difference.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Hear from God * Trust your “Knower” * Seek to Serve
Resources Mentioned: * Discerning the Voice of God: How to Recognize When God Speaks by Priscilla Shirer * Secrets of the Secret Place by Bob Sorge * Spiritual Disciplines of the Christian Life by Donald Whitney * www.thesistercircle.com/innercircle * www.thesistercircle.com/planner * The Sister Circle Retreat! * The Power of Intuition video
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Anthony Evans Jr, Stacy Kaiser and I sit down for a conversation about what it looks like when a person of faith decides to own their emotional reality by seeking tools to navigate life through therapy.
Therapy has earned a taboo reputation that many Christians shy away from. Yet, therapy and faith can coexist. God desires for us to care for ourselves just as we care for others. And therapy simply teaches us what we can do and then encourages us to allow God to do what we can’t. Join us as we dive into a discussion about their book, When Faith Meets Therapy.
Highlights from Today’s Episode* Own your emotional reality * Seek help in finding tools * Attend therapy and Love God
Resources Mentioned: * Connect with Anthony Evans Jr on YouTube, Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. * Connect with Stacy Kaiser on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook * Check out Anthony and Stacy’s new book, When Faith Meets Therapy * You can visit Anthony’s website here: Anthony Evans Jr. * You can visit Stacy’s website here: Stacy Kaiser
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Sometimes I need the Lord Jesus to help me close my mouth.
Or at least use my words wisely and carefully.
Proverbs 18:21 puts it this way: “The tongue has the power of life and death.”
Can I just be honest though? Sometimes it takes me great efforts to actively and intentionally pay attention to the words that are coming out of my mouth.
Expressing the spoken word brings relief. I literally feel better when I say what’s on my mind positive or negative. It’s almost like I just want to get the words out of my body and into the world. It’s as if the words spoken allow my soul to exhale joy, happiness, pain, or frustration.
This email may or may not be longer than the one for Lesson #2, and I do realize that some of you will prefer to listen instead of read. So…. here you go. You can listen here. You’re welcome.
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I’ve lived long enough to know that words are not neutral. In the words of Maya Angelou, “Words are living things”.
When you put words into the world, they don’t enter the atmosphere without being heard – first by you. Your ears pick up whatever you say. This also means that those words enter your ears and your head. You are enforcing, reinforcing, introducing or reintroducing to your mind what your thoughts or feelings seek to express at any given moment.
It’s almost like having words you choose to bold, underline, italicize, or upsize in the font. The words spoken become truth or lies emboldened.
This lesson for me in life has come in many shapes and forms, but today I want to tell you about the lesson my Aunt Beverly taught me.
My father is the oldest child of four siblings. My grandparents raised three boys and one girl. Yup! Aunt Beverly was the only girl, and she was truly “The Princess”.
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But for a long time, Aunt Beverly was a single princess.
Later in life, Aunt Beverly met and married, Uncle James, a man she loved dearly for more than two decades.
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But when, during my childhood, our family visited Baltimore each year during the summer, my memory is that Aunt Beverly lived the life of a single woman.
Regardless of whatever job Aunt Beverly had, she was always involved in somebody’s church. And she wasn’t just involved; she was usually serving at a high level. Directing the choir, serving as an assistant to the pastor, running a committee, and making sure things went right! Aunt Beverly was a Church Girl to the Bone. And because she had the time as a single woman to commit to service to the local church and her savior, she did — church hats and all.
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But there was always this mystery about Aunt Beverly because at various times I overheard talk in our family about a particular man who had been a part of Aunt Bev’s life. It’s a man I never knew or have a memory of meeting, but it was clearly someone that before I knew her as “single Aunt Beverly”, she had been in a deep relationship with.
And something had gone wrong.
So when I was a teenager, I got bold enough to ask Aunt Beverly to tell me about this quote “mystery man” that everyone else seemed to know about but me.
I’ll never forget that conversation.
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The conversation went a little something like this…
“Aunt Beverly, can you tell me about the man you used to love? I hear people talking about him sometimes but I don’t anything about him or why y’all aren’t still together.”
Wasn’t I bold?
“Why do you want to know?”, Aunt Beverly asked.
“I don’t know. I’m just curious.” I replied.
Aunt Beverly paused for a moment, leaned her head to the side, closed her eyes, and breathed in a deep slow breath. And then she said…
“You know, Chryssy…”
She straightened her head back up and opened her eyes, fixating them deeply and directly in mine. Her stare was deep, piercing, and loving.
“I don’t mind sharing anything with you that I think will be helpful to you as you continue to grow and live your life. But I don’t see any reason to share words with you that either don’t help you directly right now or that build someone else up. If I ever think that my history with this person will be helpful to you, I promise, you’ll be the first to know.”
What I witnessed then, and knew to respect even in that young season of my life, was Aunt Beverly’s decision to choose her words carefully.
And I didn’t just witness that one time.
Aunt Beverly was one of the most gentle, encouraging yet direct and truth-telling people I’ve ever known.
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Because she chose to operate in such excellence and with such high standards for her own life, she clearly communicated her expectation of the same from others.
She clearly communicated her expectation of the same from me.
When I came along, Aunt Beverly was still fairly young.
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Sometimes on our visits to Baltimore, while she combed and styled my hair, almost putting me to sleep with her tender touch, she would simultaneously tell me not to easily believe the words of boys who might tell me I was pretty. She told me that any boy interested in talking to me should be willing to talk to my father.
Aunt Beverly called often to encourage me in my studies. She reminded me of the privilege I had of going to college and sharpening the ax of my mind. Aunt Bev encouraged me to stay focused and not get distracted too much by the parties and the fun. “Remember who you are”, she would tell me.
And if she happened to catch me saying anything to my parents or grandparents that was laced with even the slightest hint of “sass”, she would tap me gently on the shoulder, give me a stern look, and tell me “say that again with some respect.”
Aunt Beverly spoke highly of others, and I can’t remember her ever saying a derogatory word about anyone.
She taught me about the importance of words. Choosing to speak words that are clothed in kindness, loveliness, and excellence.
Aunt Bev taught me that I get to choose what power I put into the world.
But here’s the thing.
Having good words to put into the world starts with having good thoughts and a good heart. Luke 6:45 says, “for his mouth speaks from that which fills his heart.”
Or her heart.
And guess what? What’s in your heart matters. Proverbs 4:23 says, “out of the heart flows the issues of life.”
So how do you make sure your heart is good? You give it good nutrition. You till the soil of your heart and ensure it has what it needs to be healthy, full, and overflowing with good things.
A heart overflowing with good things produces good words, a good mindset, and can lead to a good life.
Of course, I believe that you start with the Word of God. The Bible is the handbook for life. Why would we try to live a good life without reading the instruction manual from the creator of the life we have to enjoy?
But I also believe we need community; often we find that in our local church and in a community of some kind. Often that’s a small group, a Bible study, a book club, a dinner club, or a neighborhood connection.
But I realize that some of us don’t have that.
Or, even if we do, we need more.
This is why The Sister Circle exists. I believe in encouraging others with faith-based truths through the content I create and release into the world via videos, podcasts, blog posts, books, etc.
Why?
It’s simple; we are better together.
And when we witness other people using their words to empower, encourage, equip, educate, and embolden us to live well, we can receive the power of their words and put those words to work in our own lives.
I also believe in creating special spaces for this to happen, so I host events every now and again that will bring women together for the express purpose of getting the words we need to live with the power the Spirit of God gives us.
This is also why The Inner Circle exists.
I understand that some women simply need more. Maybe it’s because they don’t have a community that they can access or maybe it’s because they want to connect with a community for the specific purpose of practical guidance in the current season of their lives.
Maybe it’s because they need more words.
More connection. More encouragement. More direction.
More power.
I have had the gift of more power in my life. So far, I’ve told you about my Aunt Louise, my maternal grandmother, and now my Aunt Beverly. I’m so grateful for the wisdom received from each of them throughout my life.
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When we share our wisdom with each other, we empower each other too.
So this is me, telling you to watch your words. They are living things. They are powerful. They can heal or destroy.
And never forget that you hear your words first.
Let me also tell you to fill your heart. Be in hot pursuit of the wisdom, love, community, joy, and truth you need to operate in overflow.
Let me also tell you that I’m glad you’re here, allowing me to share my words with you.
The last time I saw Aunt Beverly, she teared up as I prepared to leave. It’s almost as if, she knew that would be the last time we saw each other. While she didn’t speak words of sorrow, she did speak words full of love and truth.
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“It’s always so special when I get to see you. I love you and am so proud of you Chryssy. Keep the Lord first and do whatever he’s telling you to do.”
I don’t know what I said in reply that time exactly, but based on my past experience with her, I know if said “Thank you, but things are so hard…” or “Love you too Aunt Bev. I hope I can figure out what I’m supposed to be doing.” or “I’m working on it.”…
She would have lovingly looked me in the eyes with that deep and loving stare and give me more powerful words.
“Things might be hard, but they will get better.”
“You will figure out what you should be doing, with the Lord’s help.”
“You keep working on it and praying about it. God will guide you.”
So this is me telling you that your words matter.
Fill up with good words.
Use good words.
The power of your life is embedded in each word you say.
Here’s hoping that my words have encouraged you today.
Here’s hoping you choose to exercise your power,
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Other Stuff to Check Out…JOIN ME IN PERSON! – On January 6th and 7th, I’ll be sharing more about how to Make Room in your life for what matters. I’m so excited about The Sister Circle Live Event and would love to invite you to come in-person or attend virtually. Space is limited so whether you will be joining me in the Dallas/Fort Worth area, or joining me via livestream, don’t delay! Grab your seat today! CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE!
You’re Invited – Interested in being a part of the Inner Circle? Now is a great time to join us as we are gearing up 2023 and preparing to launch the year well together!
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I may or may not have a clean kitchen for days.
It is what it is.
Pausing to say this post is a little 🙂 While I do think you will enjoy reading the words and viewing the photos, I know that sometimes we are short on time. I recorded this audio for those who get the secret message that this post exists 🙂
You can listen by clicking on the link below.
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The boys are home, and they are hungry non-stop. When I add to their voracious appetites all of the special holiday food I’ve been in the kitchen whipping up, the kitchen has been and still is a disaster.
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Of course, I plan to clean it up, but I’m also giving myself lots of grace over here to clean things up gradually.
We typically have a three-day Christmas. On the eve of the eve, we spend time with my husband’s family. On Christmas Eve, we go full out for our nuclear family’s celebration. On Christmas Day, we head over to my sister’s house and join our extended family for more family fun and, of course, more food.
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On Christmas Eve, after our children and grandchildren opened their gifts and were wonderfully distracted by their new things, I decided to lie down and rest. I’d made waffles, cheese eggs, candied bacon, fruit salad, sparkling orange juice punch, coffee, and hot chocolate with whipped cream. The kitchen looked like a bomb had gone off.
Yes. I know that you are supposed to clean as you cook.
I did.
It’s just that I didn’t start with a clean kitchen and no matter how hard I worked to clean as I cooked, I just couldn’t catch up.
Yes. I know my children can help clean the kitchen.
They did.
It’s just that it was also Christmas Eve so they were very distracted and I only had so much energy to keep yelling at them to come back to the kitchen.
Yes. I yelled a little on Christmas Eve.
But it was done with total joy and holiday spirit.
So ya’ll, when I grant myself permission to lay down and rest because the kitchen was clean or things were “done”. I granted permission to myself because…
- Energy is required to clean the kitchen
- Sometimes a solid reset requires a marathon, not a sprint.
- I deserved rest on Christmas day too
In full disclosure, after I hit send on this email, I’ll be headed back into the kitchen. There is still work to be done. However, can I just be honest here?
Sometimes, I think, “girl… your grandmother would have NEVER had a kitchen as out of control as yours has been this year.”
Truth? Keeping a clean kitchen is only the start. There are a lot of things I don’t do as well as my grandmother.
My maternal grandmother lived life to the full.
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She was also a meticulous homemaker. Her home was always clean and neat, and there was always something good to eat. If it wasn’t already warm, she’d ensure it was warm and served in just a few minutes.
Grandma was always R-E-A-D-Y.
I know Proverbs 6:10 so well because Grandma quoted it so often… “A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest — your poverty will come in like a drifter, and your need like an armed man.”
She believed in hard work and staying busy. She offered her best at home as an act of obedience to the Lord and as a gift to her family. Even when she worked outside the home, she always had overflow for her household.
But if I only told you about Grandma’s clean kitchen, I’d only be telling you a part of the story.
My grandmother did two other things that helped her to operate out of overflow.
She prepared, and she rested.
Grandma would regularly set the table the night before for breakfast the next day. She laid out her clothes and set items to carry with her by the door. She shopped way in advance of special occasions. She believed in arriving on time and made sure to ready herself early enough so she wouldn’t have to rush.
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My grandmother believed in preparing in advance for what she knew was sure to come.
My mother was one of eight children. This means my grandmother was busy and often had her hands full. My grandfather traveled a lot for work, so Grandma was virtually single-parenting many days. So when Grandpa came home and planned to be home for an extended period of time, when the opportunity presented itself, my grandmother would go on sabbatical.
That’s a nice way of saying… SHE LEFT! She made time to catch up with herself, get some rest, hear herself think, and care for her soul. She loved tea and made time to sit down and drink it.
Now she wasn’t gone every weekend nor did she take extravagant vacations. However, she did make time to stop the hustle and bustle of the every day and see about herself.
She made room for preparation and rest.
I’m so glad I have my mother’s mother as an example to follow. Many of the things I know of her came from first-hand experience. Some of them come from my own mother telling me details of Grandma’s story over the years.
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No matter how I’ve been blessed to know her personally or through the eyes of others, I’m glad to know the whole story – she did many things well, partly because she prepared and rested.
As 2023 approaches, I’m very mindful of these two things. I want to give myself the gift of being as ready as I can and also the gift of having the energy I need to do whatever needs to be done in the next season of my life.
This year, we have this nice full weekend-to-weekend stretch between Christmas and New Year’s Day. I truly want to make the most of whatever downtime I have. Whatever I can’t stop doing, I hope to slow down the pace at which I do it.
Why? Because I believe my life is a marathon, not a sprint. So I want to develop the habit of preparing in advance for what I know is sure to come.
There are so many things I learned from my grandmother – too many to count in fact. I still have a handwritten letter from her sitting next to me on my nightstand. Her words of wisdom still warm my heart, nourish my soul, bring me comfort, and teach me lessons I need to be reminded of again and again.
A few days ago, I shared a lesson my Aunt Louise taught me; I talked about the importance of making room for joy – even tickling the keys on the piano every now and again if that’s your thing.
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Now, as we hang between the balance of 2022 and the start of 2023, this is the next lesson that stands out. And this is the lesson I want to share with you.
Make room to prepare and to rest.
If there is one thing I know for sure, the world won’t adjust automatically to the speed you need for success. You have to advocate for yourself, identify what you need then make space for it in the world.
And right now there is nothing more that I want for you than for you to make room to prepare for 2023. I personally want to take time to look at the things I’ve written down and the pictures I’ve taken on my phone to remember where I’ve been and to prepare for where I want to go in the new year.
I also want to rest and live at a sustainable pace.
Today, that means I clean my kitchen gradually.
Tomorrow that means, I do my laundry and in between the changing of the loads, grab a fiction book I’d like to finish this week.
In the coming days, even as I work and care for my people, I plan to listen to my body, slow down, or sit down when needed. I’m not normally a “napper”, but I’m hoping to catch a few of those too between now and New Year’s Day.
Whether we are ready or not, the new year is coming. The good news is that it’s not too late for you to decide who you want to be! It’s not too late for you to identify what you need in order to make adjustments in your world.
I’m excited about the things stirring in my brain that I plan to share with you this week, but today I’m thinking of Grandma and her life well-lived. I’m thankful for the lessons she taught me. And I’m grateful that I can share these lessons with you.
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Make room to prepare. Think ahead. Dream a bit. Give yourself a longer runway.
Make room to rest. Slow down. Go to bed earlier. Grab a cup of tea then sit down to drink it.
Make room to B-R-E-A-T-H-E
Before you fill your week with everything that needs to be done, take a moment to ponder where you are going and how you can be rested and ready when you arrive.
Happy in-between week 🙂
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Other Stuff to Check Out…JOIN ME IN PERSON! – On January 6th and 7th, I’ll be sharing more about how to Make Room in your life for what matters. I’m so excited about The Sister Circle Live Event and would love to invite you to come in-person or attend virtually. Space is limited so whether you will be joining me in the Dallas/Fort Worth area, or joining me via livestream, don’t delay! Grab your seat today! CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE!
OWN YOUR LIFE – One of the best ways to prepare for 2023, is to “Own Your Life” by writing down the dreams, plans, and desires you have in your heart. If you haven’t already purchased The Full Circle Planner, they are selling out fast! GRAB YOUR PLANNER TODAY!
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If I’m honest, I’m not really in the Christmas spirit this year. Maybe it’s because it’s been a stressful year. It might be because grief comes in many shapes and forms and doesn’t announce itself. Or maybe life looks different with my children getting older and traditions morphing and changing.
I’ve given myself permission to do less, to do things differently, and to be a little quieter so that I can be good in my own skin. However, there is one thing I’m determined to make room for.
Joy.
Let me tell you why.
Pausing to say this post is a little 🙂 While I do think you will enjoy reading the words and viewing the photos, I know that sometimes we are short on time. I recorded this audio for those who get the secret message that this post exists 🙂
You can listen by clicking on the link below.
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Meet Aunt Louise. At 90 years of age, she decided to move to Texas with one of her daughters. She had spent her whole life in Baltimore and at NINETY years of age decided to move.
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Her presence in Dallas was a gift to her whole family because we got to see her and spend time with her upon her arrival – much more than we would have had she continued to live in Maryland.
Our kids met her and loved her. We heard the same stories but with more detail. We received her encouragement and applause for how we are living our lives and were told how proud she was of us.
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In 90 years, Aunt Louise had never been to my father’s church. When she came for the first time to Sunday morning worship, she sat – eyes wide open – taking in the music, the energy, and the Word. As she watched my father preach the sermon, we could hear her behind us saying, “Oh my goodness. Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Preach Tony!” Aunt Louise was my grandmother’s sister but she had never seen her nephew preach on a Sunday morning in the church that he founded and pastored.
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At 90 years old, Aunt Louise decided to try something new. Some things in life you do because you have to, but there are many more things in life to do that we should do because we simply want to.
But there is something else Aunt Louise wanted to do that she actually didn’t do.
On one of my visits, we talked about the baby grand piano that she moved to Texas. I remember seeing the piano in her Maryland home, and I remember my grandfather playing it, but I had no memory of her sitting at the keys. So I asked her why she had a piano she didn’t play.
Aunt Louise told me that she did play but she had stopped taking lessons as a teenager. She had bought the piano because she had the intention to play again as an adult. The problem was, she never seemed to have the time.
She lived a very full life! Aunt Louise believed in excellence in all things. She was an educator. A principal for many years with a Ph.D. in education, Louise was a very well-educated woman who loved God, loved her family, and loved her work. She was very involved with her community and her church too. Aunt Louise was always considered “the smart one” in her family and believe me, she was one sharp lady with a sharp mind even when she moved to Texas in 2021.
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But Aunt Louise owned a piano she didn’t really play the way she wanted. She had never made time to learn to play. She said, “I wish my parents had never made let me stop taking lessons. Later in life, I really wanted to play but it hard to make room for it. That’s one of the regrets of my life”.
When I asked her why she had wanted to play the piano again her response was simple.
“Playing the piano brought me joy”.
Out of the many things I’ve learned by watching Aunt Louise and talking to her throughout the years, I think there is one lesson that stands out the most.
Make room for joy.
If there is one thing I know for sure, I know that even in the middle of the most wonderful of lives, we won’t be able to do it all. There is too much we have to do and there is even more we want to do.
This means we’re gonna have to decide what we are going to leave on the table. We are going to decide what we will make room for because time is finite and we are limited.
In order to live lives we love, we will have to make room for what we have to do and need to do. But we also get to make room for what we want to do – even if that means we make room for what we want to simply try.
So this Christmas, I’ve making room for joy. I’ve made room to sit at my piano and play it. I played Christmas carols just because. I sang along as I played here and there too. The beautiful thing is that joy met me there and compounded.
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Not only did I get joy from playing, I also felt joy as the memories of my childhood came rushing back. My mother played the piano. Often, during the holidays and especially when we were younger, we would gather around the piano and sing along with her as she played. My grandfather played the piano and when we visited Baltimore, we would do the same.
My decision to honor a little joy resulted in a bigger joy.
I realize that many people, women especially, struggle to make room in life in general and truly struggle during the holidays and honestly throughout the year. This is why it’s so important for me to help you remember the girl in you and make room for her to live well.
So I wanted to tell you about Aunt Louise, her wonderful life, and the wonderful lesson she taught me.
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There are a few more lessons I plan to share from women in my life in the coming days.
But today…
I wanted to remind you to make room for joy – whatever makes you laugh, smile, or feel joy rising in your heart.
I also wanted to tell you that another family member left us this year.
Aunt Louise was the last living relative of her generation on my dad’s side of the family. She passed away a little over a week ago, but not before she gifted her baby grand piano to my oldest daughter. My granddaughter is taking piano lessons now. That beautiful baby grand will continue to make music because Aunt Louise passed along the gift of joy to her great great great niece.
The joy we have can be shared with others.
We are knocking on the door of Christmas Day 2022 but it’s not too late for you to celebrate your life just because you can. Jesus came and brought joy to the world. So why shouldn’t you make sure you are intentional about making joy a part of your world as often as you can?
And I’m sending a little joy your way and reminding you to make room for joy too.
Merry Christmas my friend.
Make room for merry. Make room for joy.
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Other Stuff to Check Out…JOIN ME IN PERSON! – Every year for the last five years, I’ve made room to end the year well and start the next on purpose through an event called Coffee with Chrystal. It started as an in-person event and then, because of the pandemic, we took it online.
This year, I’m going to be hosting this event in-person and online and I’d love for you to for The Sister Circle Live! I’ll be there with coffee (or tea), and I’ll also bringing friends!
On January 6th and 7th, I’ll be sharing more about how to Make Room in your life for what matters. I’m so excited about The Sister Circle Live Event and would love to invite you to come in-person or attend virtually. Space is limited so whether you will be joining me in the Dallas/Fort Worth area, or joining me via livestream, don’t delay! Grab your seat today! CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE!
JOIN ME IN THE INNER CIRCLE – If you aren’t yet a part of my Inner Circle, now is a great time! We are gearing up for 2023 and would love to have you join us! Ready to be an active participant in building the life you love while making room for joy? I’d love to help. CLICK HERE for more info!
LAUGH A LITTLE – Need a little more joy in your life today. Watch this year’s Christmas Collection on YouTube! Me and my oldest girl had a great time getting ready for Christmas.
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Have you ever felt like your life was going up in flames? Sometimes I feel like the very thing I took great pains to plan for takes the most unexpected turns or results in insurmountable obstacles that throws my whole life off course. As women who work hard and serve others as daughters, [...]
Have you ever been frustrated by a situation you determined was unfair or unjust? I mean something that not only bothered you, but compelled you to search for a solution. Listen y’all, sometimes the thing that agitates you the most is where you will find your purpose and where God wants you to [...]
Y’all, what are we going to do about Imposter Syndrome? It’s a real phenomenon that can keep you from living out your purpose and experiencing God’s best for your life. Because imposter syndrome is such an important issue that is impacting so many people I know, I’m talking about this topic two weeks [...]
What happens when you find yourself in the midst of the battle? What mindset do you have when you find yourself in a fight in life? How have you prepared for what you are facing? Throughout my life, I have heard my father, Dr. Tony Evans, say, “You’re either in a storm, on [...]
Have you ever struggled with feeling that you aren’t good enough? Have you ever felt like someone is going to find out you are a fake or that you don’t really belong? The struggle with Imposter Syndrome is real, but it is NOT the truth about you! According to the American Psychological Association, [...]
Have you ever wondered what God’s plan and purpose is for your life? My guess is, of course you have! You are wired for purpose, and sometimes it can be hard to spot in your own life, but that doesn’t mean your purpose doesn’t exist. Where have you seen a spark or flame [...]
Have you ever felt like things are moving too fast?? In this day and age, so many distractions can pull our attention and demand our time, but what does it look like for us to slow down and be intentional? What does it mean to notice our days? I recently had the privilege [...]
Many of us are all too familiar with the age-old saying, “mind over matter." The truth is that our minds are incredibly powerful, but every now and then, our minds like to play tricks on us and in turn, we end up living out a narrative that's contrary to who God says we [...]
How do you know when it’s time for you to change seasons? If there is anything that is constant in life, it’s change. The good news is, when life seasons do change, you can sense them coming and move through into them gracefully. Whenever seasons change, there are shifts in the atmosphere. The [...]
Are you overwhelmed by the amount of time it takes to complete housework? Or perhaps you’ve grown frustrated by failed attempts to keep your home organized and clutter- free? Maybe you’ve even read several books on home organization or watched what feels like hundreds of YouTube videos and yet, you still feel unsuccessful? [...]
How many times have you vowed not to do something anymore, only to end up in the same pattern again and you find yourself asking “why”? Most of us have heard the saying, “Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results”. None of us want to look insane, and although [...]
Current culture continues to amaze me. Information is at our fingertips, TikTok is the largest search engine, and many young people are deconstructing and leaving the faith altogether. What can we do to influence others, particularly those in their twenties and thirties to live well? How can we make an impact on the [...]
Have you ever tried to break a bad habit? In doing so, what were the challenges that you faced? How did you overcome them? Or, did you overcome them? When it comes to bad habits, all of us have them. And many of us have A LOT. So the idea of breaking bad [...]
We live in a world where if what you have is not “aesthetically pleasing” then you are not worthy. That is a lie from the enemy that we are tricked into believing when navigating all the social media platforms. It can be tempting to live in a space of constantly trying to attain [...]
Today, I want to talk about what it means to be free - like really free. To me, personal freedom is having the ability and privilege to live in integrity with myself. What does that mean in short form? That I am free to be me - to be the me that the [...]
What do you do when God doesn’t “fix” the devastating situations in your life? Maybe as you await His response you struggle to keep the faith and even wonder where He is and how He’ll use your challenges for His glory. Often, we erroneously expect that when our testimonies start out rough, they [...]
If you are from Texas, or even if you’ve just heard about Texas summers, then you know it can get pretty hot here. In fact, some days it is so hot you simply refuse to go outside. No one wants to operate in that kind of heat. Yet, there are times when the [...]
What would it look like for you to take one day away from everything? We often prioritize our schedules based on the demands of those around us. We pour our hearts and souls into everything and everyone except ourselves. And then, we reach a point where the pouring seems overwhelming and we don’t [...]
When was the last time you allowed yourself to dream? We all need regular check-ins with ourselves where we think, plan, and envision the life we want to live. We often get so caught up in our day to day life that we forget to take the time to dream. Well I’ve decided [...]
Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith is not only a medical doctor, an author, and a speaker, but she is also ridiculously smart, ridiculously resourceful, and she will give you some of the best counsel and wisdom you didn’t even know you needed. She is no stranger to The Sister Circle Podcast. She previously joined us [...]
Have you ever looked at your life and felt completely lost? Many of us have had those moments when we ask ourselves “where am I?”. While the question can feel daunting, we don’t have to get stuck just because we don’t have a readily available answer. You get to choose to continue moving [...]
Are you a multi-passionate person? Do you have lots of interests or a desire to develop your skills, abilities, or expertise? I totally get that, and so does my friend, Karen Harmon. Karen homeschools her kids, runs a business, serves in her local church, and desires to honor and glorify God. She is [...]
We’ve all faced a difficult situation at some point in time.Those pounds are hard to lose! You have tried so hard but they just won’t come off even though you’ve tried every diet under the moon. Your boss at work is rude and disrespectful when addressing you. They also fail to value your [...]
What do you do when you are fed up with your current circumstances, but can’t figure out how to change them? Oftentimes, motivational speakers speak to those who have money or connections or some worldly influence. They show them how to use what they currently have to help them get to where they [...]
Summer is upon us! Do you know what you are doing with your kids this summer? In this episode I share FIVE different ideas to implement with your family to help you have a great summer experience. Listen y’all, I have three teenage sons at home and they do not know what is [...]
Have you ever wondered if there’s more to life than what you are experiencing? Do you feel as if you are somehow behind, because the life you are living is not the one you envisioned? Do you sense that you were created for something greater? These days, everyone wants to know what their [...]
Do you ever find yourself completely overwhelmed when it comes to making a decision? It could be as simple as standing in the soup aisle and feeling paralyzed - low sodium, homestyle, alphabet letters, extra noodles - it is too much! Can I encourage you right now? You are not alone and decision [...]
Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you and me! Does anyone remember that song? I know that's a bit facetious of me, but the entire point of today's podcast is to rid ourselves of the ill-placed shame associated with sex. For decades the Christian church has made talking about sex nearly [...]
Do you want to be healed? Do you trust that God will meet you in the place where you need healing or where you have dreams left unreached? When a part of us is broken, or we find ourselves battling disappointment, it can be hard to hold onto hope, but the good news [...]
Have you ever found yourself feeling uncomfortable when the topic of race comes up? Do conversations around skin color and prejudice fill you with anxiety? Well, in this episode I had an opportunity to talk with someone who has made it his mission to heal the racial divide. In a time where the [...]
Are you struggling to find a mentor? Are you uncertain if you have what it takes to mentor someone else? Mentoring is something we all need no matter our stage of life. Even the strongest, most independent woman can benefit from having someone pour into her. There’s an experience, an opportunity, something… there [...]
We’ve all heard the saying “Money can’t buy happiness”, but let’s face it, if used properly, it sure can be a powerful tool. But, what does the Word of God have to say about the handling and possession of financial wealth? Can Christians be extraordinarily rich? Are believers required to use their wealth [...]
Do you have a hard time taking pictures of yourself? In this day and age of social media, there is so much pressure to have that “insta-worthy” photo, but I want to challenge you today to ask yourself - what does it look like to get in the picture of your life? This [...]
I had the opportunity to sit down with an awesome human whom I thoroughly enjoyed speaking with. My brother Anthony suggested I have Nikki Leonti on the podcast and I'm so glad I did. Nikki is a phenomenal human and you are in for a treat. She is also a singer/songwriter who has [...]
Have you ever thought about the difference between responding and reacting? Whichever one you choose can make a big difference in the outcome of the circumstance and the health of your relationships. While most of us do not love change, the one thing you can count on in life is that change will [...]
If you’ve been listening to me for any amount of time, you’ve probably heard me mention personality assessments like Myers Briggs, StrengthsFinder, Spiritual Gifts, DISC and Enneagram. Listen y'all, I’ve taken my fair share of personality tests, and I have to tell you, the Enneagram is the one that made me feel most [...]
Do you ever feel like time is escaping you? So often we ask ourselves, “How did I even get here??.” Days turn to months and before you know it another year has passed. Well, in this episode, I’ve organized 5 practical ways to help you pay attention and number your days well. See [...]
I call her the “freedom girl”! My guest today, Christine Caine, wants people to live free through the power of Christ. She is the author of How Did I Get Here? and co-founder of The A21 Campaign and Propel Women. Christine has an insatiable desire to learn and to grow. Having recently earned [...]
Are you stuck in a 2nd Quarter lull? During our 20s and 30s it’s easy to think of life as a present journey only. Everything we focus on is based on where we are at that moment. The trend is not to worry about the future because the future will take care of [...]
As you walk through life, you will meet people who will leave a long-lasting impact on you. There will be people who can say something that will prick your heart and change your life. Today’s guest is one of the people who has marked my life, and I am so grateful to glean [...]
When was the last time you made space to wind down from your life? As women we often prioritize the health and well-being of those around us before we prioritize ourselves. We ignore the signs from our mind, body, and soul that the pressures of life are building up and we need a [...]
Are your insecurities holding you back? As women we can often seek validation from those around us. And when we don’t receive it, our confidence can suffer. We may begin to doubt our value and our worth. Yet, God desires for us to walk confidently through life without seeking the approval of others. [...]
Do these gas prices have you reeling a bit as you look at your budget? The weight of what you are experiencing is real, and today I want to share some practical tips with you so you can manage the items you CAN control in your life. Focusing on our spending habits can [...]
Have you ever wondered if there’s more to life than what you are experiencing? Do you feel as if you are somehow behind, because the life you are living is not the one you envisioned? Do you sense that you were created for something greater? These days, everyone wants to know what their [...]
Do you ever find yourself completely overwhelmed when it comes to making a decision? It could be as simple as standing in the soup aisle and feeling paralyzed - low sodium, homestyle, alphabet letters, extra noodles - it is too much! Can I encourage you right now? You are not alone and decision [...]
Do you struggle with finding strong, healthy friendships? We often desire loyal sisters, but we shy away from the work required for us to truly know and share ourselves with others. You are wired for connection! Until we truly understand how God wired us, we cannot have deep and intimate relationships. Without real [...]
Do you give much thought to the words you speak over others and over yourself? Your words hold a lot of power. In fact, they hold the power of life and death, and today I want to challenge you and myself to think about your words before you share them. Thinking about your [...]
Do you really understand the importance of the written word? Writing has saved my life over and over again and I’m devoting this podcast to helping you understand how it can save yours too. If you stopped right now and considered how often you write in a day, what would come [...]
Have you ever wondered what exactly it means to leave a legacy or thought about what you may leave behind for those you love? As hard as it may be to face, we are not designed to stay here forever, but we can make sure to leave a lasting legacy by living with [...]
What do you do when life as you know it has changed and there seems to be no going back? How do you navigate the ever-changing landscape of the world that surrounds you? This space has been an ever-present reality for many of us as we find ourselves stuck wondering what we should [...]
REFERENCE ORIGINAL POST - https://chrystalevanshurst.com/024-tips-for-conquering-your-comfort-zone/ Do you ever feel a little stuck in your comfort zone? Or maybe in the slowing down of the pandemic, you have found it hard to activate your life again and live with intentionality. It is a gift to have those places of comfort, but I want to [...]
When was the last time you addressed the elephant in the room? The topic that no one wants to talk about and even warms your cheeks with sheer embarrassment to discuss in the confines of your spiritual community. One conversation that is sure to make many people uncomfortable and is likely to disturb [...]
We all know that it is important to have good friends around us, but have you ever thought about how you need to be a good friend to yourself too? Taking the time to get to know ourselves is truly an act of self care. It’s getting beyond what we think is self [...]
Could you say with assurance that you can adequately defend your Christian faith? As believers, it is our responsibility to develop our belief so that we are able to give an answer for the hope that lies within us for ourselves and all of humanity. However, when given the opportunity to stand up [...]
Have you ever found yourself in a situation that was completely unexpected? One thing we know is that the unexpected will come our way. Life will throw us curve balls and try to “hack” our plans, but that doesn’t mean we have to be unprepared for those moments. You see, the things on [...]
Is there such a thing as a perfect community? How do you find and surround yourself with the right people? How do you navigate the reality of humanity as you seek to do life with others? Here’s the truth – We weren’t meant to journey through life alone. Community is essential. This means [...]
Did you know that having a victim mentality can sabotage your efforts to live your life well? But what is a victim mentality and how do you know if you have one? A victim mentality is a mindset that affects how you live because we believe someone else has more power than you [...]
Have you ever come to a tipping point because you’ve become who everyone else wants you to be, yet you’re still not who you want to be either? Have you people-pleased your way right into acceptance only to realize you’re living a double life that you don’t love? Do you ever feel like [...]
God loves you and wants you to live about your mistakes, your experiences, your shame, and anything or anyone in your past that threatens to keep you from maximizing the best in you. If you need a little reminder to motivate you to move past the chains that keep you spiritually, soulfully, [...]
Did I tell you that I'm relaunching my podcast?!?!? After almost eight years, the Chrystal's Chronicles podcast is getting a makeover! I still plan to encourage, motivate, and inspire you with great content, but I'll be on the microphone and broadcasting that content from The Sister Circle Podcast, starting in 2022. I couldn't [...]
Hey ya'll! Guess what?!?!?! The Chrystal's Chronicles Podcast is under construction! Like I mentioned in my last podcast, I've been podcasting since 2014. First, I was a solo podcaster. Then I started hosting guests on the show. In 2020, I started going live on YouTube (almost against my better judgment) effectively getting back [...]
I’ve been podcasting for almost eight years and am gearing up to relaunch the podcast next week with some new features. In this episode, I’m showing up by myself to say hi, share some of the updates in store, and to encourage you, as always, to live well. If there is anything that [...]
Are you an overthinker? If I had to guess, I’d say you are, but you don’t want to admit it because it seems taboo. The reality is, everyone is challenged with overthinking, even myself. if there are categories of overthinkers, I am for sure ranking in the highest level of overthinkers. 2020 has [...]
How do you adjust to a lifestyle of healing and wholeness after you’ve experienced traumatizing hurt and abuse? How can you have a renewed faith in God despite your challenging experiences? The truth is – God has power over the most difficult circumstances. Even when there is hurt and dismay, He can still [...]
I have found, especially in this last year, that grief can be defined with all types of feelings, emotions, and words. Sometimes grief leaves you feeling like you are drowning, and the circumstances of life only add to the weight of emotions you experience, which leaves you fighting for air. Grief is a [...]
Let’s talk about your gut! It gets a bad rap and it’s certainly not glamorous, but the gut is the engine for the whole body. Your microbiome lives in your gut and is a collection of trillions of organisms that play a vital role in your body’s health and how you feel every [...]
In a society where many are hyper focused on honoring themselves, how do you raise kids to love, honor, and fear the Lord? In what ways can parents instill faith while also creating room for kids to grow and build their own relationships with God? Let’s be honest, parenting, in general, is hard. [...]
Are you in a position where you feel the need to achieve, but your season in life doesn’t allow for that right now? Maybe you’re the CEO of your home, nobly tasked with raising and discipling your kids, but you are getting a little stir-crazy from reading children’s books and playing on the [...]
This has been a year like no other, and with Christmas quickly approaching, that means it’s time to sit back and enjoy Chrystal’s Christmas Collection! Kariss and I continue our mother-daughter tradition of hosting the Christmas Collection and we had tons of fun, as always! Each year Kariss and I throw on super [...]
Have you ever gotten that itch… you know, the desire to do more? The unsettled feeling that maybe, just maybe, what you are doing or where you are in life is not all there is to your story. Today, I am talking with author, entrepreneur, wife, and mother of three, Emily Ley, about [...]
Have you ever wondered why God allows you to endure certain trials in life? When the pain and pressure of your current circumstances threaten to overwhelm you, how can you remain faithful to Him and believe His word? How can you and I choose to trust God when we perceive His absence, or [...]
Did you miss me? I’m soooooo glad to be back at it. I have a wonderful plan for new podcasts to share with you for the rest of 2021, but since I’ve been gone, I figured I’d personally kick things off. In this episode, I’m gonna share some encouragement with you (laced with [...]
Y'all!! Can you believe that my 49th birthday is here? I can't believe it either! I'm in my LAST year of 40's....I WILL BE FIFTY NEXT YEAR. So I'm celebrating. Not only am I celebrating another year of life, today also marks the release of my 300th podcast episode! Enjoy this fun birthday [...]
What do you see yourself doing five years from now? Did the pandemic alter your perspective regarding the things you wanted to accomplish? 2020 was a very hectic year that changed the trajectory of how we do life and business. There were so many significant impacts that forced people to figure out something [...]
Do you ever look at other people’s lives and feel like you are falling behind? Maybe you don’t feel like you are as successful as you should be or you aren’t living in the house you want to live in. In this hurried world, you may wake up with an overwhelming feeling of [...]
Do you feel like you’re constantly going and never finishing your jam-packed to-do list? Are you pushing to be the most successful business-woman, the most involved parent, or the most hospitable host, and resting for an hour -- let alone a full day -- is an unrealistic goal that lives in a far-away [...]
How do you cope when life seems to be unbearable? At some point in time, we either have or will experience suffering. Seasons of suffering can cause even the strongest of us to feel hopeless and as if God has abandoned us. What do you do in those moments? How do you hold [...]
At some point and time, we have all been challenged by the reality of where we are compared with where we desire to be. And then there are all the things -- the various shifts in life, changing seasons, insecurities, fears - the list goes on and on. Before we know it we’re stuck. Then [...]
Does your life feel like a giant plate of spaghetti, where your work, home, kids, and hobbies have all been mixed into one plate together? Are you trying to savor both the responsibilities and joys of life but feel overwhelmed by what’s expected of you? Are you putting pressure on yourself to carry [...]
From friendships to marriage, all relationships require intentional work, clear communication, and a whole lot of grace. But let’s face it: mother-daughter relationships are notoriously difficult. Why do mother-daughter relationships have a bad reputation, and what can we do to ease the tension, get along, and love each other in a life-giving way? [...]
Do you need more of God's presence? Most of us can identify a time in our lives when God has felt far away. Be it busyness or the mundane, the expected or unexpected, life enjoyment or life responsibilities, we have all found ourselves lost in the very things we feel we cannot escape. [...]
Morgan Harper Nichols is simply a force to be reckoned with. Like a quiet storm, she consistently creates content out of the overflow of her artistic gifting and her soul’s desire to serve others well. She is an original for sure and I believe there is a lot that we all can learn [...]
Do you find it hard to be happy? Do you struggle to consistently feel joy? In your journey towards happiness, waves of grief and feelings may arise and cause you to fall into a deep, dark place. However, if you can cling to the truth of God’s Word before the hurricanes of life [...]
How do you acclimate to a lifestyle of being loved after you’ve been deeply hurt? How can you feel the hope and presence of God during the darkest experiences in your life? Is it possible for you, as a survivor, to overcome fear, guilt, and shame as you navigate life? I believe that [...]
What is the story you are telling with the life you are living? Is it a story you feel good about telling? Sam Collier, my guest on this episode, tells his story of abandonment, sacrifice, gratitude, and rescue. Sam is Pastor, podcast host, and author of A Greater Story. He and his twin [...]
Have you ever felt like you’re staggering helplessly as you try to navigate through all the turns and curves that life has thrown your way? Or maybe, you’ve found yourself alone and secluded in dim seasons when you’re seeking growth and wisdom to press forward? How can you learn to be the woman [...]
Part of knowing you is knowing when the God who created you is speaking to you. Is God telling you it’s time to leave that job? Has He put a friend on your mind that you haven’t made time to call? Have you done all you’re supposed to do where you are, and [...]
Do you feel like you’re wearing a mask? Are you hiding who you really are from everyone around you? Have you been living in a pit of shame because of choices you have made? Are you aching to experience freedom but don’t know where to begin? It’s so easy to feel like we [...]
Where do you place your value and worth? Is it rooted in your career, life-long goals, stellar accomplishments, personal appearance, or community status? In so many ways, the world offers opportunities to find personal success in things that hold no lasting value. I mean, after you’ve attained some of your aspirations and occupational [...]
If you’ve lived long enough, you know that life can change in an instant - without warning and with no consideration for the plans you’ve made. Kayla Stoecklein’s life changed forever when her husband, Andrew, died by suicide in August of 2018 following a difficult struggle with depression, panic attacks, and mental illness. [...]
What does it mean to be a truly genuine person who is comfortable in your own skin? What does it take to be confident in being exactly who God designed you to be? It can be tempting to hide behind a smile, work, responsibilities, or even social media. You might feel society’s pressure [...]
Have you ever found yourself journeying down the path of life, when suddenly you’re unexpectedly halted as a roadblock appears out of nowhere? Most of us can relate and are familiar with encountering obstacles, but often, those unexpected issues tend to stop us in our tracks, when God has called us to move [...]
Are you ever overwhelmed by your growing list of commitments and the general busyness of life? Many of us lead lives that are bustling and incredibly full, yet in the Scriptures, God has clearly modeled the act of resting. God wants us to be reminded that rest is equally important. How do we [...]
When you feel alone at Christmas… Maybe it’s because you miss your mother. Maybe it’s because your soul is aware that the way things are is different than the way things were before and that things will never be the same again. Maybe it’s because you are in a room full of people, but no [...]
We're back at it again! I can't believe another year is in the books. It seems like it was just yesterday that Kariss and I were sitting on this same couch recording my second Christmas Collection episode. It's been fun making this an annual thing. I'm always up for a new tradition. This [...]
Do you ever wonder how you got to that place you feel stuck in? We’ve all felt trapped at some point in our lives, and are left wondering why? While many of us are tempted to pull away from our relationship with Christ in these moments, this is actually an opportunity for us to lean in, hit our knees, and ask God for answers to the tough questions.
Today, I’m talking with my new friend, Rebecca, as she has done and continues to do the hard work of telling her story and leaning into places where she has felt shame to share. Rebecca shares her powerful story of healing, redemption, and restoration. As a survivor of human trafficking, Rebecca talks about the misrepresentation of trafficking and reveals how God is still in the business of delivering people and radically changing lives.
Rebecca not only shares her story for people who are experiencing their own trafficking reality, but she is also calling for parents to take action. We often think we know what we know, until we know that we don’t. This is a great story to teach you what you don’t know, and open up your eyes to how you can operate in this world by showing love, being understanding of other people, and sharing the love of God.
Rebecca‘s testimony is one with great truths for those healing from abuse, abandonment, fear, and other traumas. If you find yourself feeling stuck in an unhealthy situation, you’re trying to get your life together, or you’ve been impacted negatively by other people, you will enjoy hearing Rebecca’s story, and will be moved to action. You will be encouraged to admit where you’ve been and what you’ve been through in order to come out from under the layers of shame so that it does not become the director of your story. God meets us in our hardest places and shows us the reasons behind all of the things he wants to use for our destiny and His glory.
Highlights from Today’s Episode: * Finding yourself in situations you can’t leave. * Addiction and sin are nothing new to God. * Overcoming hurdles and healing from trauma. * Becoming fully empowered to create something new with Christ. * Radical deliverance and restoration.
Resources from today’s show * Connect with Rebecca on Instagram, Facebook, or on her website * Purchase a copy of, In Pursuit of Love: One Woman’s Journey From Trafficked to Triumphant * Download Rebecca’s free ebook to learn more facts about sex trafficking or grab her free Find Your Lane course and identify your place in the anti trafficking movement.
Click to Tweet * Learn to live above shame, while leaning in to the very places you feel it. ~ Chrystal Hurst * A part of healing from trauma is reckoning with shame, the role that it plays, and your willingness to be who you are and admit who you were. ~ Chrystal Hurst * Growth happens when we can really be self-aware. ~ Rebecca Bender * When you become friends with God, you talk to God like He’s your friend. ~ Rebecca Bender * You don’t live through what I have and not believe. ~ Rebecca Bender
Other Stuff to Check Out Did you catch my last episode with Shundria Riddick? Listen here.
Check out my new book! The 28-Day Prayer Journey
Need to encourage your soul? Try listening to the playlist I put together for my mom, Lady Lois’ Worship
Interested in supporting the content I create and enjoying bonus content? Learn about joining my Inner Circle!
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How does stress show up in your life? We’ve all learned various ways to cope with the many changes of 2020, current events, and the uncertain future. But coping doesn’t always take away the ill-effects of the stress you carry. Our body is designed to respond to the journey you take mentally.
Election week was heavy for many of us. And whether you witnessed your preferred outcome or not, your days may still be heavy. You can’t ignore the weight.
If you are feeling discontent, in the next week, I want you to find time to put away your phone, turn off the television and just be. Reduce the stimulus going to your brain. Pay attention to your heart, mind, and soul. Not sure how to do that? Listen to my chat with Shundria.
Shundria will help you identify if you are taxed and how to move towards change. If you’ve found yourself easily frustrated, frequently distracted, or you’ve struggled with concentration, stress may be the culprit. You probably need some emotional R&R. With this year, we all do. Take away the election; it’s still been a heavy year.
So give yourself grace.
Inhale and exhale. Drop your shoulders. Relax your jaw. Unpress your tongue from the roof of your mouth. Just relax.
You’ve done well to make it this far. Give yourself the space you need to make it even further. Enjoy this episode.
Highlights from Today’s Episode: * Releasing irrational expectations * Helping those battling stress * Working your way to an answer * Giving yourself grace
Resources from today’s show * Watch our conversation on YouTube * Connect with Shundria on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram or on her website * Purchase Shundria’s session: Identifying Emotional and Behavior Cycles * Listen to my previous conversations with Shundria
Click to Tweet * Your body responds to what is on your mind. – Shundria Riddick * Plan to have some self-care in your day. – Shundria Riddick * You can responsible to someone and not responsible for them. – Shundria Riddick * Know and accept when you have gone as far as you can go. – Chrystal Hurst
Other Stuff to Check Out Did you catch my last episode with Sophie Hudson? Listen here.
Check out my new book! The 28-Day Prayer Journey
Need to encourage your soul? Try listening to the playlist I put together for my mom, Lady Lois’ Worship
Interested in supporting the content I create and enjoying bonus content? Learn about joining my Inner Circle!
My book, Be sure and also check out my other books She’s Still There, Show Up For Your Life, Kingdom Woman!
Let’s Talk! 1. How does stress show up in your life? What have you found helpful in managing your stress? 2. How often do you unplug? In what ways are you watching what you put in? 3. How do you handle the stress and chaos of others?
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How to Listen to The Podcast If you’re new to podcasts, think of them like little radio shows that you can listen to at your convenience. They are perfect to listen to and learn from as you workout, fold laundry, wash dishes or conquer the world.
1. Listen right here on the blog. Click the little play button at the beginning of this post.
2. Listen on iTunes or Stitcher or Google Play! – Be sure and subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! Also, if you would be so kind as to leave a rating on iTunes and/or write a 2-3 sentence review there or on Stitcher? Your commentary or rating helps make the podcast more “findable” by others who might not know it exists!
3. Share today’s show – Email the link to a friend or share on social media. Just click on the sharing buttons at the bottom of this post!
You have been so great to join me on the journey here on the blog, I hope you jump right in and do the same on the podcast!
The post #278 – Some Emotional R&R first appeared on Chrystal Evans Hurst.
Are you wrestling with grief and anger? Have the consequences of how those emotions have influenced your actions? Have feelings of unworthiness prevented you from going after what you’ve been called to do? Do you find yourself struggling to live out your calling and follow your passions?
Whether or not you’re dealing with feelings of grief, anger, or unworthiness, odds are these are all too familiar emotions we all feel at some point in life. In this podcast, Sophie Hudson and I discuss pushing through anger and grief, addressing feelings of unworthiness head-on, and naming the thing you’re called to do so that you can go after it.
Sophie points out how anger and all of its inconveniences are often cover-ups for sadness and grief. Taking time to examine our hearts and minds and not allowing anger or sadness to simmer are keys to pushing through those emotions. She reminds us that we have to lean into what we’re feeling because ignoring rage and grief will lead to them having their way with us. Remember, we have to go through our anger and grief, not around it.
Y’all know I love to talk community – how to find it, build it, and keep it. In this conversation, Sophie talks about how she discovered community after moving to a new city where she knew no one. And in that community that she fostered, she also found tremendous encouragement in helping her walk through the process of dealing with sadness, grief, and anger. As much as Sophie’s community has supported her, community is not a one-way street. She also highlights that to find the community we are designed to have, we have to be open, broaden our perspectives to the potential communities around us, and support those around us.
Even Sophie took the time to name the thing she was gifted to do. For her, it’s writing. However, she didn’t consider herself a writer for years until she expanded her writing style from the traditional style of fictitious stories with made up characters to her style of writing with personal narratives that tell real stories about everyday life. Sophie is a writer. And you, my friend, are also exactly who God called you to be, doing what God gifted you to do, even in the days or maybe years when you don’t see it for yourself.
In Sophie’s latest book, Stand All the Way Up: Stories of Staying In It When You Want to Burn It All Down, she writes about figuring out how the Lord teaches us to stand in our moments of change, transition, and even divisiveness. Girls, it’s time for us to stand – all the way up! That’s true for us in facing our grief and anger, becoming part of communities, and naming and living out our gifts. Remember, you are worthy.
Highlights from Today’s Episode: * Leaning into anger and grief * Doing your part in community * Overcoming feelings of unworthiness * Operating in your gifts
Resources from today’s show * Connect with Sophie on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, and her website. * Purchase Sophie’s latest book, Stand All the Way Up: Stories of Staying In It When You Want to Burn It All Down.
Click to Tweet * Acknowledging what it is, admitting that we’re fearful, and doing the thing anyway, that’s where we gain power. – Chrystal Evans Hurst * Community – multiple levels, multi age, multi-generational – is the way to go. – Chrystal Evans Hurst * God made us with great intention and He loves us with an everlasting love. – Sophie Hudson * We feel disqualified but it’s the Lord’s work in the broken places that absolutely qualifies us. – Sophie Hudson * To operate in the fullness of your gifts is a beautiful, wonderful site to behold. – Sophie Hudson * Remember your worth that you have in and through Jesus, and go get it. – Sophie Hudson
Other Stuff to Check Out Did you catch my last episode with Deborah Smith Pegues? Listen here.
Check out my new book! The 28-Day Prayer Journey
Need to encourage your soul? Try listening to the playlist I put together for my mom, Lady Lois’ Worship
Interested in supporting the content I create and enjoying bonus content? Learn about joining my Inner Circle!
My book, Be sure and also check out my other books She’s Still There, Show Up For Your Life, Kingdom Woman!
Let’s Talk! 1. What strategies do you use to keep your grief and anger from hurting others? 2. How do you support others in your communities who are dealing with situations in areas outside of your lane and comfort zone? 3. Do you struggle with feelings of unworthiness? How are you strategizing to overcome those feelings?
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How to Listen to The Podcast If you’re new to podcasts, think of them like little radio shows that you can listen to at your convenience. They are perfect to listen to and learn from as you workout, fold laundry, wash dishes or conquer the world.
1. Listen right here on the blog. Click the little play button at the beginning of this post.
2. Listen on iTunes or Stitcher or Google Play! – Be sure and subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! Also, if you would be so kind as to leave a rating on iTunes and/or write a 2-3 sentence review there or on Stitcher? Your commentary or rating helps make the podcast more “findable” by others who might not know it exists!
3. Share today’s show – Email the link to a friend or share on social media. Just click on the sharing buttons at the bottom of this post!
You have been so great to join me on the journey here on the blog, I hope you jump right in and do the same on the podcast!
The post #277 – Dealing with the Hard Stuff first appeared on Chrystal Evans Hurst.
Having a woman’s influence or female leadership in a company proves to have many benefits. The company does well bottomline, employees are more engaged, and the market value is higher. In spite of these trends, studies show that it will be 200 years before women achieve gender parity. As women, we are going to have to get in there and learn to lead better.
Second Samuel 20:16-22 tells the story of a woman known as the wise woman of the city. In this story, Joab traveled from city to city searching for a trouble maker, Sheba, son of Bikri. When Joab arrived in Israel, he caused such an uproar looking for Sheba. No one stepped in to investigate the commotion until the wise woman called for Joab to come to her. When he came to her, she asked him why he was trying to destroy her city. Joab responded, telling her what his plan was. He agreed that if they were to hand Sheba over to him, he would withdraw his hand. She advised that she would do him one better and have him cut off and thrown to them over the wall. And she did just what she said.
It wasn’t until this wise woman stepped up and confronted Joab that her city was saved from his hand of destruction. If one woman could step up and save her city, what do you have the power to do?
In this podcast, I talk to Deborah Smith Pegues, a woman full of knowledge. In her latest book, Lead Like A Woman, her desire is to give women an opportunity to lead. Mrs. Deborah also wants women to know that they already have the things they need to excel and that they may be doing some things to sabotage their potential.
She offers practical advice on shifting your mindset to get to the next. It starts with your belief system because all behaviors come out of belief. As a Christian, the Word of God shapes your beliefs. You have to believe. Life is like a stool; there’s a base and four legs that are physical, relational, emotional, and financial and the base is our belief. When you pursue God’s priority, you get God’s results.
Sometimes your expectations are external; however, there are times when they are internal. We teach people how to expect from us and treat us by what we tolerate and what we allow. Set boundaries. You have to know what you can do and what you can’t do. You have to communicate. You cannot fail but only learn.
I strongly encourage you to listen to this episode, Deborah Smith Pegues, shares many more gems throughout the entire podcast. Grab a pen and notebook and get ready to dive right in.
Highlights from Today’s Episode: * Leading without permission * Auditing your beliefs * Setting boundaries * Pursuing God’s priorities * Investing in your development
Resources from today’s show * Connect with Deborah on her website: https://deborahpegues.com Instagram: @Deborahsmithpegues, Facebook: @DeborahSimthPegues, Youtube: Deborah Smith Pegues * Lead Like A Woman by Deborah Smith Pegues
Click to Tweet * All behavior comes out of beliefs. – Deborah Smith Pegues * The faith realm says I’m going to believe what God says. – Deborah Smith Pegues * If you’re not investing in growing, then don’t be frustrated when you don’t see growth or change. – Chrystal Evans Hurst * When you pursue God’s priorities, you get God’s results. – Deborah Smith Pegues * A lot of the women that are struggling are waiting for someone to say that it is okay for them to lead, but instead, be okay with bringing all of you to the table. – Chrystal Evans Hurst
Other Stuff to Check Out Did you catch my last episode with Trudy Cathy White? Listen here.
Check out my new book! The 28-Day Prayer Journey
Need to encourage your soul? Try listening to the playlist I put together for my mom, Lady Lois’ Worship
Interested in supporting the content I create and enjoying bonus content? Learn about joining my Inner Circle!
My book, Be sure and also check out my other books She’s Still There, Show Up For Your Life, Kingdom Woman!
Let’s Talk! 1. How do you define femininity? 2. Are you successful at balancing your time? Why or why not? 3. How do you ensure you are pursuing God’s priority for your life?
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How to Listen to The Podcast If you’re new to podcasts, think of them like little radio shows that you can listen to at your convenience. They are perfect to listen to and learn from as you workout, fold laundry, wash dishes or conquer the world.
1. Listen right here on the blog. Click the little play button at the beginning of this post.
2. Listen on iTunes or Stitcher or Google Play! – Be sure and subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! Also, if you would be so kind as to leave a rating on iTunes and/or write a 2-3 sentence review there or on Stitcher? Your commentary or rating helps make the podcast more “findable” by others who might not know it exists!
3. Share today’s show – Email the link to a friend or share on social media. Just click on the sharing buttons at the bottom of this post!
You have been so great to join me on the journey here on the blog, I hope you jump right in and do the same on the podcast!
The post #276 – Leading Like a Woman first appeared on Chrystal Evans Hurst.
Let’s be honest. Anxiety has had its way with many of us in 2020. There are circumstances we can’t control, uncertainty about happen tomorrow, and everyday stressors that keep some of us are struggling to hold on to hope. There has been financial loss and relational challenges, unexpected change, and much more to juggle. With so much up in the air, we can get good at “covering up” or “putting-on-a-show” while we are desperate for help deep down inside.
Understandably, all of this, can lead to anxiety, overwhelm, and worry. Jamie Grace joined me to share her insight on this topic. Jamie has battled anxiety most of her life, and over time, she has learned to fight well by embracing God’s truth about herself, her life, and her future.
Our conversation centers around 2020, of course, and all of the the curveballs this year has thrown all of us. We also discuss what is means to embrace the quiet, managing anxiety, and press into the places you sometimes want to avoid.
Listen my friend, I want you to go into 2021 talking and feeling differently about yourself. Sometimes you have to be the one to remind yourself of the truth – you are loved, you are okay. It may be challenging, but you will get through this. I hope Jamie’s conversation is not only a reminder of the blessing of finding quiet but also the gift of loving yourself.
Click to Tweet * Remind yourself that you are loved or you may get really good at telling yourself that your are not. – Jamie Grace * You don’t have to act like you aren’t bothered by all that is going on with you in the world. – Jamie Grace
Highlights from Today’s Episode: * Finding quiet * Battling anxiety * Embracing truth * Living free
Resources from today’s show * Connect with Jamie Grace on Instagram, Twitter, YouTube on or her website. * Follow Jamie’s beautiful daughter, Isabella on Instagram * Jamie’s book, Finding Quiet, released on 10/13. Click here to grab your copy. * Watch to watch the video version of our conversation? Head over to YouTube * I had a conversation with Jamie in 2018, you can watch it here.
Other Stuff to Check Out Did you catch my last episode with Addison Bevere? Listen here.
Check out my new book! The 28-Day Prayer Journey
Need to encourage your soul? Try listening to the playlist I put together for my mom, Lady Lois’ Worship
Interested in supporting the content I create and enjoying bonus content? Learn about joining my Inner Circle!
My book, Be sure and also check out my other books She’s Still There, Show Up For Your Life, Kingdom Woman!
Let’s Talk! 1. In 2020, in what ways are you finding quiet? 2. Do you struggle with anxiety? What are some ways you’ve found helpful in managing it? 3. Where do you need to press in and feel the grief and pain? What hurts have you been avoiding?
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How to Listen to The Podcast If you’re new to podcasts, think of them like little radio shows that you can listen to at your convenience. They are perfect to listen to and learn from as you workout, fold laundry, wash dishes or conquer the world.
1. Listen right here on the blog. Click the little play button at the beginning of this post.
2. Listen on iTunes or Stitcher or Google Play! – Be sure and subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! Also, if you would be so kind as to leave a rating on iTunes and/or write a 2-3 sentence review there or on Stitcher? Your commentary or rating helps make the podcast more “findable” by others who might not know it exists!
3. Share today’s show – Email the link to a friend or share on social media. Just click on the sharing buttons at the bottom of this post!
You have been so great to join me on the journey here on the blog, I hope you jump right in and do the same on the podcast!
The post #274 – Finding Quiet first appeared on Chrystal Evans Hurst.
Have you ever been disillusioned with the Church, Christians, and perhaps even your faith? Have you ever found yourself wanting to put a little distance between yourself and the label “Christian”? We live in an increasingly secular, polarized society, and Christians are not generally looked upon as favorably as they once were. Many of us have experienced contempt, being misjudged, or wrongfully treated outside our faith family and sometimes even by those within it.
Today I’m talking with Addison Bevere, author of Saints: Becoming More Than “Christians.” Addison is a wonderful communicator who grew up in a household of exceptional gospel communicators. He’s the eldest son of evangelists John and Lisa Bevere. His background has given him a unique approach to this topic, enabling him to bring fresh language and perspective to describe our identity in Christ.
The New Testament repeatedly refers to the body of Christ as “saints,” a term many of us are less familiar with, or at least aren’t in the habit of using. What image comes to mind when you hear the word “saint”? Is it the sweet little old church mother who faithfully served God for years–even decades–in your parents’ church? Or do you think of the pastor who isn’t famous or well known, yet who studies to show himself approved and contend for the faith? Perhaps you think of a time gone by, of antiquated religious rules and regulations or extreme forms of self-denial.
How might your perspective on yourself and your life change if I told you you are already a saint today, right this very moment? We tend to push such lofty titles into our future reward in heaven with Jesus and the angels, but God assigns those titles (child of God, heir, saint) to us the moment we come to believe in Christ, and He has a purpose and a calling for our lives right now. God doesn’t reserve his best work for our future state in heaven. He’s calling you and me to participate in His good plan right here, right where we are.
You may be thinking, “there is no way the bigness of the word saint could be my responsibility,” but friend, remember this: We are all becoming. We are all in the process. And it’s all about the process of becoming who we were made to be. As Addison shares, we were made for glory, and God is weaving every detail of our lives together for His Kingdom plan.
Highlights from Today’s Episode: * Understanding God’s design for legacy * Bringing the Kingdom agenda to earth * How generations can serve alongside each other
Resources from today’s show * Connect with Addison on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter or on his website. * Dive deeper into what it means to be a saint in Addison’s book, Saints: Becoming More Than “Christians.”
Click to Tweet * “There’s a temptation to validate what will be by dishonoring what has been. That’s the complete opposite of God’s design for legacy.” – Addison Bevere * “Only God’s glory can fill our souls. We were made for glory.” – Addison Bevere * “The kingdom of God advances at the intersection of relationship.” – Addison Bevere * “Unity is not sameness. God loves diversity.” – Addison Bevere * “The good life isn’t something you find; it’s someone you become.” – Addison Bevere
Other Stuff to Check Out Did you catch my last episode with Jamie Ivey? Listen here.
Check out my new book! The 28-Day Prayer Journey
Need to encourage your soul? Try listening to the playlist I put together for my mom, Lady Lois’ Worship
Interested in supporting the content I create and enjoying bonus content? Learn about joining my Inner Circle!
My book, Be sure and also check out my other books She’s Still There, Show Up For Your Life, Kingdom Woman!
Let’s Talk! 1. How would you describe a saint? 2. In what ways has God called you to be a divine disruptor for His Kingdom? 3. How can you partner with someone of a different generation to serve someone else, together?
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How to Listen to The Podcast If you’re new to podcasts, think of them like little radio shows that you can listen to at your convenience. They are perfect to listen to and learn from as you workout, fold laundry, wash dishes or conquer the world.
1. Listen right here on the blog. Click the little play button at the beginning of this post.
2. Listen on iTunes or Stitcher or Google Play! – Be sure and subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! Also, if you would be so kind as to leave a rating on iTunes and/or write a 2-3 sentence review there or on Stitcher? Your commentary or rating helps make the podcast more “findable” by others who might not know it exists!
3. Share today’s show – Email the link to a friend or share on social media. Just click on the sharing buttons at the bottom of this post!
You have been so great to join me on the journey here on the blog, I hope you jump right in and do the same on the podcast!
The post #273 – Capturing A New Identity first appeared on Chrystal Evans Hurst.
Mothers have a unique role in our lives. They shape us, train us, and love us through thick and thin, but have you ever stopped to consider the life of your mom? Have you considered the parts of her story that shaped her into the woman you know and love?
Trudy Cathy White joins me for a heart to heart where she talks about her mother, the stories that shaped her, and the lessons she continues to live out as a result. Trudy is the only daughter of the famed Cathy family–the founders of God’s favorite chicken–Chick-fil-A. She is a wife, a grandmother, a philanthropist and a leader who intentionally invests in the next generation.
This conversation with Trudy underscores what many of us know to be true — there is great power in an intentional, serving, and generous mother.
I know this well too.
Whether or not you have children, we can all model hospitality, strength, and faithfulness to others in honor of God. As women, we carry many responsibilities throughout the seasons of our lives, and, if we aren’t careful, we can get lost in pursuing purpose and legacy. It’s so important to remember that the days are long, but the years are short. The time you spend pouring into the lives of others matters.
As you listen to this episode, you’ll be reminded that your life has value, and that God can do far more than you can ask, think or imagine if you just stay the course and honor Him.
Highlights from Today’s Episode: * Serving your family well * Maximizing your life’s impact * Navigating seasons within your family * Investing in adult children
Resources from today’s show * A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches. – Proverbs 22:1 * Click here to purchase Trudy’s latest book, A Quiet Strength: The Life and Legacy of Jeannette M. Cathy * Listen to my podcast series on legacy: Episode #241, #242, and #243
Click to Tweet * Faith is an active trust in God, no matter what’s going on. – Trudy Cathy White * Identity is completely found in our relationship with Christ. It has nothing to do with what we have, what we accomplish, or even with who we are related to. – Trudy Cathy White * Remember: days are long but life is short. – Trudy Cathy White
Other Stuff to Check Out Did you catch my last episode with Jamie Grace? Listen here.
Check out my new book! The 28-Day Prayer Journey
Need to encourage your soul? Try listening to the playlist I put together for my mom, Lady Lois’ Worship
Interested in supporting the content I create and enjoying bonus content? Learn about joining my Inner Circle!
My book, Be sure and also check out my other books She’s Still There, Show Up For Your Life, Kingdom Woman!
Let’s Talk! 1. What do you want your legacy to be? 2. How do you serve and help others “get what they want in life”? 3. What conversation do you need to have today with your family? 4. What is one way you can connect with your children or family to live a legacy?
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How to Listen to The Podcast If you’re new to podcasts, think of them like little radio shows that you can listen to at your convenience. They are perfect to listen to and learn from as you workout, fold laundry, wash dishes or conquer the world.
1. Listen right here on the blog. Click the little play button at the beginning of this post.
2. Listen on iTunes or Stitcher or Google Play! – Be sure and subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! Also, if you would be so kind as to leave a rating on iTunes and/or write a 2-3 sentence review there or on Stitcher? Your commentary or rating helps make the podcast more “findable” by others who might not know it exists!
3. Share today’s show – Email the link to a friend or share on social media. Just click on the sharing buttons at the bottom of this post!
You have been so great to join me on the journey here on the blog, I hope you jump right in and do the same on the podcast!
The post #275 – An Enduring Legacy first appeared on Chrystal Evans Hurst.
Do you struggle with friendship? Even before staying inside all day was the thing to do, many faced challenges with friendships, especially as adults. Whether it’s throwing in the towel on friendships too easily, expecting deep connections to come too quickly, or believing the false narrative that we don’t “need” friends, truth is a lot of us have room to grow in this area.
What a friend we have in Jesus,
All our sins and griefs to bear!
Those words are from the classic hymn What a Friend We Have in Jesus. Friendship with Jesus is one of the many blessings we get as believers. But, have you ever stopped to think about how you should be applying friendship to others the way God displays friendship in the Bible?
In my interview with Bible teacher, author, and podcast and radio host, Kim Wier, we do just that and explore the concept of friendship as an art and as a biblical doctrine. Kim encourages us to shift our thinking when it comes to building and maintaining friendships by modeling one of the most overlooked doctrines in the Bible, the doctrine of God’s friendship
Making and keeping friends is hard, but it’s what we are called to do. Kim, a married mom of four adult children and grandmother of four, talks about periods of loneliness throughout her adult life. When we find ourselves feeling lonely, it’s our body’s way of signaling a longing for relationships to meet the deep soul need that we are created for. Don’t run from friendship and keep loneliness around because of fear instilled by past hurts and hang-ups with others. Run to friendship because it is what you need to fill the void. We are meant to have friendship in all relationships, not just with our BFFs, but also with our spouses, parents, and children.
Kim grew up as the new kid moving around often. That led to a childhood pattern of feeling like she didn’t fit in. It’s patterns like those that we often overlook from childhood until we find there is no way of escaping them in our adult life without facing them head-on. Even though there was no shortage in her knowing people, Kim still experienced seasons of loneliness as an adult. God took Kim on a journey where she learned that it’s not about knowing people; it’s about fulfilling purpose and having deep connections with people. From that journey, Kim’s latest book, The Art of Friendship.
This conversation is for all of us. We are always better together and designed to do life in community. Kim’s lessons on handling loneliness, pursuing friendships again after painful past experiences, the doctrine of friendship, and showing agape love remind us that we’re all imperfect people, made in the image of the perfect friend, created with a purpose to have deep connections with others.
Highlights from Today’s Episode: * Showing agape love * Starting over in friendship * Understanding the doctrine of friendship * Following God’s friendship guide
Resources from today’s show * Connect with Kim on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or on her website. * Purchase Kim’s book, The Art of Friendship * Sign up to receive the 365 Days of Hope Daily Devotional. * Listen to the Art of Friendship with Kim Wier podcast. * Catch Kim’s live-streamed radio show Sunday Night Live! with Kim Wier on Sundays from 7-9 pm CT. * Listen to over 900 archived guest interviews from Kim’s radio show.
Click to Tweet * You were created to be in community in relationships and friendships. It’s in your spiritual DNA. -Kim Wier * Having friends isn’t about not being lonely. It’s about fulfilling a purpose. -Kim Wier * We will be in relationships with imperfect people, but it also helps to remember they’re in relationships with this imperfect person. -Kim Wier * Understand that friendship for a believer is not an optional activity. It is actually a biblical calling. -Kim Wier * One of the most overlooked doctrines in the entire Bible is the friendship of God. -Kim Wier * Intimate friendship takes time. -Kim Wier
Other Stuff to Check Out Did you catch my last episode on resilience with Alli Worthington? Listen here.
Check out my new book! The 28-Day Prayer Journey
Need to encourage your soul? Try listening to the playlist I put together for my mom, Lady Lois’ Worship
Interested in supporting the content I create and enjoying bonus content? Learn about joining my Inner Circle!
My book, Be sure and also check out my other books She’s Still There, Show Up For Your Life, Kingdom Woman!
Let’s Talk! 1. Are you facing a season of loneliness? How are you seeking out connections with others? 2. How are you building and maintaining friendships in 2020 as COVID-19 is limiting in-person interactions? 3. How have you intentionally pursued friendships with your spouse? Parents? Children? Weir
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How to Listen to The Podcast If you’re new to podcasts, think of them like little radio shows that you can listen to at your convenience. They are perfect to listen to and learn from as you workout, fold laundry, wash dishes or conquer the world.
1. Listen right here on the blog. Click the little play button at the beginning of this post.
2. Listen on iTunes or Stitcher or Google Play! – Be sure and subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! Also, if you would be so kind as to leave a rating on iTunes and/or write a 2-3 sentence review there or on Stitcher? Your commentary or rating helps make the podcast more “findable” by others who might not know it exists!
3. Share today’s show – Email the link to a friend or share on social media. Just click on the sharing buttons at the bottom of this post!
You have been so great to join me on the journey here on the blog, I hope you jump right in and do the same on the podcast!
The post #271 – The Art of Friendship first appeared on Chrystal Evans Hurst.
Are you living your most authentic life? Have you found yourself struggling to see growth and lessons learned in your current season? Do you feel that the negative sides of social media may be holding you back from being your best self?
If any of that speaks to you, you’re going to want to grab a seat and listen to this conversation with my friend, Jamie Ivey. Jamie and I always seem to pick up right where we left off as if no time has passed since our last conversation. This chat is no different.
I think it’s safe to say that none of us imagined that we’d be entering the final quarter of 2020 with masks on and standing six feet away from others. However, it is our reality and we can’t let the lessons of these moments, or any other seasons in our life, slip away from us.
In Jamie’s latest book, You Be You, from cover to cover, Jamie invites you in to a conversation on satisfaction and success from right where you are. The book emphasizes us women taking the time to bloom where we are planted. This year in particular has provided the perfect landscape to do just that.
Jamie points out that It’s often in our toughest seasons, expected or unexpected, that we grow the most and develop into the version of ourselves that God has called us to be. We have to take hold of what’s around us and plant ourselves into our situations and surroundings.
I know many of you may feel uprooted or unsettled instead of planted. Well, Jamie and I discuss that too. Truth is, it’s usually easier to reflect and see our growth than to see it while it’s happening. Even if you’re feeling unsettled or uprooted, trust that God is preparing you for great things to come and equipping you to handle what you’re facing. Jamie reminds us that being stubborn is not the answer for blooming where you’re planted. Instead, your blooming comes from what God is birthing and refining inside of you and you don’t want to miss that.
Throughout whatever may be going on in your life, remember that you are designed for community. Social media can offer just that, however, it can also offer a breeding ground for comparison, envy, and jealousy. In this episode, Jamie also talks strategies and the responsibility we have for guarding our hearts, and teaching our children to do the same, when we are on social media. Comparison is not the goal. Community is.
As you push through the remainder of this year, I hope this conversation shifts your perspective allowing you to see the opportunities that are around you in your hard seasons. I hope this conversation encourages you to use each of your days well finding joy in even the smallest of moments. I hope this conversation pushes each of you to just be you.
Highlights from Today’s Episode: * Blooming where you are planted * Overcoming comparison * Building community * Guarding your heart within social media
Resources from today’s show * Connect with Jamie on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter or on her website. * Grab your copy of Jamie’s new book You Be You: Why Satisfaction and Success Are Closer Than You Think. * Text FRIEND to 33777 to learn more about the book and receive a free printable from Jamie.
Click to Tweet * The times I saw the most growth, whether that be professionally, personally, emotionally, or spiritually, have usually come out of hard seasons. -Jamie Ivey * There can be beauty out of ashes and there can be growth out of tending to our own personal garden. -Jamie Ivey * Choose to cheer instead of compare. – Jamie Ivey * You be you. The only person you can be in this world is you. Trying to be somebody else is a waste of your time and energy and then you are robbing the world of who you actually are. -Chrystal Hurst
Other Stuff to Check Out Did you catch my last episode on friendship with Kim Wier? Listen here.
Check out my new book! The 28-Day Prayer Journey
Need to encourage your soul? Try listening to the playlist I put together for my mom, Lady Lois’ Worship
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