Christian Dad's Podcast: Recent Episodes
James Pellicane
James Pellicane is the happy husband of Arlene Pellicane and the proud father of three. James graduated from Regent University with a Masters of Divinity and a MBA and is also a licensed minister with the Assemblies of God. He currently works as a full time real estate agent in San Diego and enjoys speaking to groups of all ages.
In this heartfelt episode of the Christian Dad Podcast, James Pellicane sits down with their 16-year-old daughter Lucy to discuss the things her dad got right as a father. Lucy shares openly about how being pushed into physical challenges like martial arts, skiing, mountain biking, and early morning rowing built resilience and adaptability. She also reflects on the blessing of being raised in the church, the importance of faith-filled family leadership, and how her dad prepared them for adulthood through financial responsibility, investing, high expectations, and treating them as future adults rather than babies.
Itunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/jo/podcast/66-what-my-dad-did-right-a-daughters-honest-take-on/id295386637?i=1000776723242
Youtube: https://youtu.be/Bay9X1mR0rk
For more information about James Pelllicane https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching
Join James Pellicane on the Christian Dad Podcast as he sits down with longtime friend, client, and successful real estate agent Dan O'Dell from Kansas City. With over 25 years in coaching.
Dan shares powerful insights on why coaching is an investment—not an expense—in your faith, family, business, health, and personal growth. Dan opens up about the importance of humility, receiving truth from a godly coach, and how coaching has strengthened his marriage, health, and ability to serve others. Whether you're a dad considering coaching, a business leader, or simply want to grow as a husband and father, this episode is packed with practical wisdom, vulnerability, and inspiration.
For more information about James Pellicane https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching
YouTube https://youtu.be/PK3NEYSux7c
Spotify https://open.spotify.com/episode/2mKRYqXHFmJ5XpR0Le0ijq?si=Fj_1T6LPSh2T6_gZVn5USQ
Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/jo/podcast/65-the-power-of-coaching-25-years-of-wisdom-with-dan-odell/id295386637?i=1000774256476
From implementing parent-controlled feeding that had all their kids sleeping through the night by two months, to ending the “Fettuccine Alfredo era,” banning whining with “Cure-All” (liquid cod liver oil), building real competence through family activities, and drilling academics on Saturday mornings — this episode shows dads exactly how to lead their families with confidence.
Discover how to raise respectful kids who love God and launch capable, self-controlled adults — without regrets.
Filled with humor and honest stories — including the touching altar call moment with his three-year-old, the broken leg drama, and boldly bucking bad advice from doctors and teachers — James equips dads with powerful strategies to build strong family culture and instill lasting character in their children.
Timestamps:
- 0:07 - Parent-controlled feeding from Baby Wise (all kids sleeping through the night by 2 months)
- 8:43 - The famous “No More Fettuccine Alfredo” restaurant moment + food leadership
- 10:07 - Ending custom meals and bringing order to the home
- 16:34 - “Cure-All” (liquid cod liver oil) for whining + building gratitude
- 20:11 - Building competence through activities: rollerblading, skiing, biking to school
- 22:59 - Pushing through kid resistance (bike to school meltdown story)
- 34:00 - Creating “Ewing Academy” – Saturday flashcards & academics
- 37:04 - Final encouragement: Start with ONE area, be unified, and lead without regrets
https://youtu.be/1Hu_sWb7Qe0
https://podcasts.apple.com/jo/podcast/christian-dads-podcast/id295386637
Coaching information: https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching
In this heartfelt and practical conversation, James Pellicane sits down with her daughter Noelle (19) to talk about real fatherly leadership in the home. They dive deep into Proverbs 22:6 — “Train up a child in the way he should go” — and what that actually looked like in their family.Noelle shares honestly about:Being forced to do things she didn’t want to do (martial arts, intense driving training, etc.)The difference between welcomed and unwelcomed leadershipWhy strict parenting feels terrible in the moment but pays off laterHow to shift parenting styles as kids get olderMoney training: natural consequences, and giving independenceWhat parents of teens and adult children should focus on nowA must-watch for every parent who wants to raise capable, independent adults while keeping a strong relationship.
To see show on YouTube: https://youtu.be/v5MzptvZ9UY
Itune: https://podcasts.apple.com/jo/podcast/62-permissive-leadership-is-still-toxic-why-being-unclear/id295386637?i=1000764240514
For more information about James:https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching
What if the most toxic kind of leadership isn’t yelling or controlling… but staying silent?
In this powerful episode, we expose how the absence of clear leadership quietly destroys families. Using Scripture from Ephesians and Colossians, the tragic story of King David’s family, and real-talk practical steps, we show why being unclear is actually unkind.
You’ll walk away with five game-changing moves every dad can start today. If you want to stop reacting and start leading your family with love and clarity, this episode is for you.
https://youtu.be/v5MzptvZ9UY
https://www.happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching
Tired of constant complaining from your children (or maybe even yourself)? In this powerful episode, James Pellicane reveals the "secret sauce" to end whining in your family for good. Drawing from Scripture—especially 1 Corinthians 10 and Numbers 21—she shows why God takes complaining so seriously and how it blocks us from His best blessings. Discover three game-changing principles every parent needs:
- Model gratitude yourself (the apple doesn't fall far from the tree)
- Stop rewarding whining with attention (and start rewarding winning attitudes instead)
- Make complaining counterproductive with clear consequences
If you want a whining-free family and kids who thrive with positive attitudes, this episode will transform your parenting.
To watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianDadPodcast
Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching
Dad's old abandonment wounds are sabotaging Mom's push to get their 2-year-old out of the family bed—leading to 2 a.m. meltdowns, that hit Dad right in the gut. In this raw coaching session, host James calls it straight: You're not your absent dad, boundaries aren't abandonment, and your big-hearted "benefactor" nature is getting played by a toddler who knows exactly which button to push. With baby #2 arriving soon, the stakes are high. Game plan essentials: Apologize to your wife, lock arms on unity, return her to bed consistently (no rewards for chaos), lock the door if you have to, and commit—even when it hurts. Stop the midnight rescues. Step up, lead your home, and give your wife and kids the leadership now before the battles get bigger.
In this raw and heartfelt episode, new dad Josh D'Ambrosio sits down with host James to share his unexpected journey into fatherhood—one forged through personal hardship, renewed faith, and the wild reality of raising a spirited 2-year-old.
Josh presses James for hard-won wisdom on what actually works when the toddler years hit. James lays it out plainly: staying fully present even when work pulls hard, locking arms with your spouse on a unified front, and intentionally building self-control and respect from the earliest age.
With unflinching honesty, they dive into real discipline that gets results—including the when, why, and how of spanking as a calm, private, and dignified act of teaching rather than angry punishment. You'll hear practical strategies on staying consistent so kids aren't confused, staging everyday scenarios at home to prepare them for life, handling disrespect without losing your cool, and pairing clear consequences with generous rewards—all while protecting a warm, loving home and keeping parents from burning out.
If you're a dad in the trenches (or about to be), this is the no-nonsense, faith-grounded conversation you didn't know you needed.
Timeline
- 00:00 Introduction to Josh D'Ambrosio's Journey
- 04:33 Navigating Fatherhood as a New Dad
- 07:15 Discipline and Parenting Techniques
- 10:04 The Importance of Consistency in Parenting
- 12:53 Balancing Work and Family Life
- 15:40 The Role of a Father in Child Development
- 18:21 Challenges of Parenting a Two-Year-Old
- 30:12 Unified Parenting Strategies
- 32:12 Creating Scenarios for Learning
- 36:06 Rewards and Consequences in Parenting
- 38:54 Managing Disrespectful Behavior
- 41:57 The Importance of Timing in Discipline
- 49:02 Understanding Child Behavior and Needs
To Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/PsTzC_zvwrQ
https://podcasts.apple.com/jo/podcast/59-biblical-discipline-for-toddlers-a-new-dads/id295386637?i=1000741536482
https://open.spotify.com/episode/7x7QnQcoINiSFuwU7TVY0x?si=uEYZwI86RtuK9KSLtw_ceQ
Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching
In this powerful and practical conversation, Bill Farrel — pastor, author of 61 books, father of three sons, and grandfather of eight — shares the proven principles that helped him raise confident, capable young men who are now three of his closest friends.
Bill walks through the two core commitments that shaped his parenting: being fully present and becoming a student of each child. He discusses how parents can manage busy careers while staying relationally close, how to understand a child's motivation and stress points, and why every kid needs individualized leadership, not cookie-cutter parenting.
You'll also hear Bill's insights on launching young adults, guiding teens through puberty, shifting your role from coach to consultant to friend, and handling dating, decision-making, and conflict with wisdom instead of control.
If you want to raise children who grow into responsible, confident adults—and actually enjoy being around you—this rich, honest conversation will equip and encourage you.
To enjoy on Youtube: https://youtu.be/VXcKT8NJsrA
Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching
What happens when a husband feels unseen, unheard, and flat-out discounted in his own home? He stops leading. He stops speaking up. He quietly gives up on the role God gave him.
If you've ever felt dismissed in your marriage, or if you're the one doing the dismissing (even unintentionally), this episode is for you.
Christian dads, you're not alone. Hit play, lean in.
To enjoy on Youtube: https://youtu.be/bqf5Z3FeCmw
Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching
In this heartfelt episode, Noelle Pellicane shares her perspective on what her dad did right while raising her — offering an honest and insightful look into successful fathering techniques that truly make a difference. From love and consistency to guidance and faith, this conversation will encourage dads everywhere to reflect, grow, and lead with intention.
Whether you’re a new father, a seasoned parent, or someone who values family and faith, this episode delivers inspiration and practical wisdom for raising confident, grounded kids in today’s world.
James shares some personal reflections on the power of listening and his journey in learning to be quiet. He realizes that listening to others can lead to incredible outcomes. Even greater things happen when we listen to ourselves. But the most profound experiences occur when we listen to God.
James 1:19 gives us a tall order--Quick to listen, slow to respond and slow to anger. This can be easier said than done. James humorously shares specific ways that will make you a better listener.
You have heard of having a mission statement for a business, but have you ever thought about having one for your family.
When you can easily say whats most important in your home, its a lot easier to make decisions both large and small. On todays episode, James will help you develop core values and a mission statement for your family.
James shares a few thoughts about dealing with the death of his father and specific ways we can help those who just lost a loved one.
I am honored to share a tribute to my late father. My heart overflows with praise for the wonderful legacy he gave me and now I get to give to my children. Some things are caught and some things are taught. What I caught was worth sharing. Enjoy.
Are your kids driving you crazy with their complaining. James shares three effective ways to help create non-complaining kids.
Knowing where the trail is makes our daily decisions easier. James shares about a recent trip in Yosemite and potentially losing the trail. Having the end in mind gives us direction in your daily walk with our God, family, in our careers, in our finances and in our personal lives.
Confidence makes a big difference and many times determines if we win or loss. God want you to know that you got this dad thing. He has put your kids in your life for a reason...be encouraged...You Got this Dad thing.
Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it. We as Dads need to train up our kids so they will have a proper perspective of money. James shares three practical points that will help you and your kids win in managing their finances.
Are you taking advantage of the precious time you have with your kids in the car? James shares his story and the why it is important to create a listening atmosphere in the car for your kids.
Is tech helping or hindering your child development? Discover 4 ways tech can hamper our kids and what you can do about it.
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James addresses 4 areas where we need to be patience:
1. We need to be long-suffering with God
2. We need to be long-suffering with the Church
3. We need to be long-suffering with our Career
4. We need to be long-suffering Each other
James also addresses when we do not need to be patience.
Sometimes the truth is hard to swallow. In todays message from 1 Corinthians 13, you willl learn how to rejoice in the truth – even when the truth hurts. Discover the freedom that comes when we embrace the truth about ourselves and God.
If you spend too much time thinking of the mistakes you and others have made, it can poison your life. In this message from 1 Corinthians 13, you will learn what it means to keep no records of wrongs and how that truth can change your life.
Do you get made easily. The Bible states that Love is not easily angered. In this humorous message, James talks about the stages of anger and specific steps on how to manage anger.
James shares a humorious and practical message from 1 Corinthians 13 on love is not rude.
In this humorous message from1 Corthinians 13, you will identify the pitfalls of pride and also gain a fresh perspective on how to eliminate pride from your life. It begins with learning from others and a teachable spirit.
We can easily recognize boasting in others, but sometimes it can go undetected in our own lives. Today we will discover the different forms that boasting can take from bragging to sulking. Plus you will learn what the opposite of boasting looks like.
Uncover how envy begins, grows and develops. Once you know how envy works, you will not have to be poisoned by it anymore.
Grab a cup of coffee and listen in as James interviews Rich Guerra the Superintendent of the SoCal Network of the Assemblies of God. Rich addresses a host of topics as he advises young ministers, but seasoned ministers will certainly benefit from listening in. Learn how to work with a board and the importance of communicating your vision, plus Pastor Rich shares mistakes he's made in the past.
Missionary evangelist Jason Frenn talks about effective parenting and how a father can be the spiritual head over the home. Jason talks frankly about raising his kids and not conforming to the cultural Christianity.
God has a unique purpose for your life. But many times we get beat up by life we quit believing. We quit dreaming and hoping. This message will encourage you to believe again in your dream and start you with a game plan for achieving your God given purpose.
Mt 6:25 “Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing?
Bob LaFave shares practical ideas on ways to romance your wife to the mens group at San Diego First Assembly
Former pastor of San Diego First Assembly Richard Dresselhaus shares an important message for today's Christian husband. With humor, practicality, and candor, Dr. Dresselhaus will show you how to step up and be the leader your wife and children need.
In 1 Corinthians 13 the bible defines what true spirituality does and does not do. In this message to the youth group at San Diego First Assembly, James Pellicane concentrates on the ugliness of envy and what you can to do avoid envy's subtle traps.
Living for God can be dangerous. Find out why taking risks is the key to knowing God and making him known.
What are you putting off...whether it's a work project, losing weight, or calling a friend, James Pellicane will help you conquer procrastination for good. Don't let the window of time close before you accomplish your best for God.
Do you need more patience in your life? We could all use an extra dose of patience with our families, co-workers, friends and even God. In this message, you'll learn how to become more patient through an easy exercise that anyone can do.
James Pellicane talks about the Sabbath and several practical ways to maximize this day
James Pellicane shares to the youth group at San Diego First Assemblies on the second commandment.
Join James Pellicane as he shares with San Diego First Assemblies youth group--When God Does Not Make Sense
Pastor Frank Wooden of Sweet Water River Church in San Diego shares about his son who walked away from God and his response as a father
Pastor John Rose from Rancho Vista Chuch in Chula Vista, CA shares about practical devoltions and discipline that works
Pastor Joel Marple shares stories from his childood and practical advice for dads with teens
Pastor Shari Dresselhaus from San Diego First Assembly shares three practical tips every Dad should use
Pastor Dan Daugherty from The Fathers House in San Marcos, CA talks about the role of a father in shaping his home and children
Pastor Gary Jones shares in this interview how to establish open communication with your children and how to develop their character.
Dr. Richard Dresselhaus shares the importance of living the life you want your kids to become
Dr. Tim Dresselhaus shares about the importance of the local church and its pivotal role in helping us raise our kids
Doug Hedrick interviews James Pelllicane on specific strategies he uses to raise champions
James interviews father of 3 Doug Hedrick on lessons he has learn from his parents both positive and negative and how he has become a better husband and father because of them.
What is it that women really need? Come join us as we interview Arlene Pellicane share 3 essentials doable truths that will encourage any women.
Garry Bowman has specializing in family law for 33 year and has some sage advice for both the new and older husband