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Courtship Code
Join Relationship coach, author and experienced matchmaker, Zara J., every week as she delivers courtship and dating advice for ambitious, high achieving, and successful women looking to break up with past relationship trauma and low self worth, and learn how to embody feminine energy, authenticity, and court compatible men for commitment. Using a combination of spirituality, psychology, and matchmaking techniques, Zara created the Captivating Courtship Code.
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The Sexual Love Loop relationship pattern has an anxious attachment style and is a pattern type that oftentimes uses sexual attraction and desirability as a way to leverage power and validation during the dating and courtship process. While this may seem common for some, the guilt, shame and abandonment cycle that someone with the Sexual Love Loop experiences post encounter is what makes this a painful self-sabotaging relationship pattern.In this episode you will learn the basics of the Sexual Love Loop relationship pattern. Take the FREE Love Loop assessment, DM, “QUIZ” to @captivatingcourtship on InstagramJoin The Loop membership communityhttps://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/the-loopFREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmaphttps://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmapFREE Courtship Loops downloadhttps://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/56abf83e10
Most adapters toggle between anxious and avoidant behaviors and think of relationships like reality shows, full of drama and better to watch and observe than to participate. They are students of relationships (romantic, friendships, social activities) more than actively engaging in them. If you’re an adapter, you may have a tendency to take on other people’s problems and find yourself adapting to negative mindsets and beliefs when it comes to relationships, inspite your actual relationship experiences or lack thereof.In this episode you will learn how to turn this around so you can attract love and marriage.Take the FREE Love Loop assessment, DM, “QUIZ” to @captivatingcourtship on InstagramJoin The Loop membership communityhttps://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/the-loopFREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmaphttps://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmapFREE Courtship Loops downloadhttps://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/56abf83e10
Those with the Too Good Love Loop relationship pattern tend to be very confident on the surface, while deep down inside secretly struggling with low self-worth particularly when it comes to getting emotional needs met. Vulnerability, empathy and communicating relationship needs are some of the core wounds and challenges a Too Good must face while navigating the dating and courtship process. In this episode you will learn all about the Too Good Love Loop relationship pattern. Take the FREE Love Loop assessment, DM, “QUIZ” to @captivatingcourtship on InstagramJoin The Loop membership communityhttps://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/the-loopFREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmaphttps://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmapFREE Courtship Loops downloadhttps://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/56abf83e10
In this episode we have a deep dive conversation with a CCC alum who shares her unique journey to love and marriage. She shares how the knowing who your person is doesn't mean you won't have to do the inner work to align with your journey to love and marriage. You will learn how this couple turned their breakup into a major breakthrough and learned to navigate healing and commitment for their love story.Take the FREE Love Loop assessment, DM, “QUIZ” to @captivatingcourtship on InstagramJoin The Loop membership communityhttps://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/the-loopFREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmaphttps://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmapFREE Courtship Loops downloadhttps://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/56abf83e10
If you have been feeling unmotivated with dating and courtship, been ghosted, or not getting past 4-6 weeks of the dating and courtship process you may be in the courtship Burnout loop.When you are in a dating and courtship burnout loop you will find yourself consistently having to start over from short-lived dating experiences, feeling not good enough for the partners you meet, or feeling lost and confused about where to meet the right partners for you.However, this relationship pattern is less about where to meet someone you're interested in and more so about what beliefs do you have about your self-worth, shadows, and triggers in relationships that need to be healed so you can feel fully worthy and deserving of the love you deserve.In this episode you will learn the basics of dating and courtship burnout and how to break this courtship pattern so you can progress in your love life and believe in love again. DM “QUIZ” on Instagram to take the Relationship Pattern AssessmentOther links:Book a 1:1 Love Loops guidance session12 week Private Coaching ConsultationThe Loop membership communityJoin the Captivating Courtship Code waitlist
One of the biggest relationship challenges you may face in life is learning how to process emotions and move on from a breakup or divorce. Breakups are painful, eye-opening and freeing. They effortlessly challenge who you think you are and who you have been in life and to another person. For some, the amount of vulnerability and grief that comes from a breakup may cause them to avoid love and connection to focus more on themselves and shut out the possibility of ever experiencing disappointment ever again. For others, a breakup becomes an opportunity to grow and become more resilient with relationships, even if they continue to create the same pattern of pain over and over again.Regardless of how you receive the experience, the goal is to find beauty in the breakup. Only when you find the beauty in the breakup will you be open to receive the lessons, forgiveness, and purpose the relationship served. By doing this, your heart remains open and available to love and commitment. In this episode we discuss what steps you need to take to find the beauty in a breakup and move into your next chapter.DM, "QUIZ" on Instagram to take the relationship pattern assessmentLove Loop Guidance Call - This 60 minute 1:1 video call will provide you with clarity on your current dating and relationship blindspots, what exactly is holding you back and what specific steps you need to take to stop repeating courtship experiences according to your Love Loop relationship pattern. You will have time to ask questions about your patterns and unique circumstances so that you walk away with guidance and a clear vision of the best actions to take right now.The Loop Membership - Our do-it-yourself transformational membership portal filled with transformational workshop pathways for your specific Love Loop relationship patterns. You will learn key steps to navigate dating and courtship for your specific Love Loop, breakups, burnout, and situationships using our proven processes.The Captivating Courtship Code - Our signature coaching community with step-by-step guidance to help you transform relationship patterns, navigate courtship and attract your vision of love using our practical and proven 6 step process.Relationship Pattern Accelerator - The 12 week private coaching accelerator that provides a customized approach to transforming your Love Loop relationship patterns. Dive deep into your subconscious blindspots and align with your vision of love with personalized attention and insight.
This question and answer episode provides insight into your courtship loops with specific instructions on how you can break your current courtship patterns with the key steps.
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Health and wellness coach, Meredith Seagan Sarason, joins the episode to discuss the impact of stress on the nervous system and how this can be triggered during dating, courtship and in relationships. Meredith provides tips to help manage emotions and triggers so that you can come back into your body and clear mental state with more ease.FREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmaphttps://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmapFREE Courtship Loops downloadhttps://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/56abf83e10Other links:Book a 1:1 Courtship Loop sessionhttps://captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=5027426212 week Private Coaching ConsultationThe Loop membership communityJoin the Captivating Courtship Code waitlist
If you have been attracting partners and navigating courtship and dating yet once you are invested in the relationship or find yourself attached to the possibility anxiety or avoidance creeps in and sabotages the relationship, this episode is for you.
We will explore how to regain trust, integrate your shadow, and stop letting past wounds ruin your relationships.
Dm, "LOOP" @captivatingcourtship on Instagram for a FREE Courtship Loop roadmap
FREE Courtship Loops download
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Book a 1:1 Courtship Loop session
12 week Private Coaching Consultation
The Loop membership community
Join the Captivating Courtship Code waitlist
Are you curious how your relationship patterns are formed and how you can use relationships as a spiritual journey to partnership and greater self discovery? At the core of all your relationship experiences is the foundation of trust, healing wounds, and having unshakeable self-worth. Rebuilding these three elements of your inner-self will have a direct impact on your ability to give and receive love. In order to step into your worth and align with the relationship awaiting, you must break your current relationship patterns and loops you're operating in. In this episode we explore the basics of relationship patterns and the Captivating Courtship Code process.
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In this episode we have a chat with CCC client Amirah about having the courage to dive into the challenges of the inner work in order to quickly transform her Adapter Love Loop pattern and attract her relationship.
We discuss healing from past relationships, trust, and fully opening your heart to receive love after trauma and disappointments. Amirah shares the impact CCC has made on her love life and how she attracted her person and engagement after years of being single and avoiding relationships.
Get the FREE Courtship Loops download
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Other links:
Book a 1:1 Courtship Loop session
The Loop membership community
Join the Captivating Courtship Code waitlist
Questions? Send a DM on Instagram @captivatingcourtship
If you are a high achieving woman that's anxiously attached you may find yourself overthinking interactions with men, having a hard time balancing your career and love life, or attracting emotionally unavailable men.
You may find yourself subconsciously trying to control the outcome of the relationship and rushing the courtship process whenever relationship anxiety creeps in. This keeps you on the hot-cold, situationship relationship wheel.
Being in this courtship loop may have you feeling frustrated, lonely, or even confused about how to break-free from sabotaging patterns so that you can attract the healthy, long-term commitment you truly want.
In today's episode you will learn the actual problems you're facing in your dating and courtship experiences and what shifts you need to take, along with a practical solution that makes courtship and dating effortless and predicatable.
Enrollment for The Captivating Courtship Code coaching program is NOW OPEN:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Links mentioned in this episode:
The Captivating Courtship Code - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to attract commitment and high level coaching every step of the way.
Love Loops Community Membership - Get a complimentary month to the Love Loops Community and break your relationship patterns. Step into your worthiness of unlimited love, and out of the burnout, breakup, and situationship loop.
Captivating Weekend - Join the 3-day immersive experience with like minded women who are serious about life and love. Learn tools and techniques to stop letting relationship anxiety block love, and create your 90 day attraction plan.
Have a question? DM us on Instagram @captivatingcourtship
What are your courtship blindspots? Are a lack of boundaries holding you back from the relationship you deserve? In this episode you will learn about how your courtship and dating blindspots are keeping you frustrated and from the relationship you want and how you can turn them around.
Links mentioned in this episode:
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
DM "QUIZ" on Instagram to access the NEW Love Loops Quiz
Join the Love Loops Membership waitlist
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Captivating Weekend waitlist
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If you have achieved success in her career but struggle with feelings of inadequacy in your personal life, you may be a Self-Worth Sarah.
When it comes to Self-Worth Sarahs, despite your accomplishments, you battle with low self-worth and often attract emotionally unavailable partners who reinforce your negative beliefs about yourself.
This may lead to codependency in relationships and feeling burnt out from unsuccessful dating experiences.
In this episode, you will learn how to break this relationship pattern and step into your worthiness to have the love and life you deserve.
Captivating Weekend
www.captivatingcourtship.com/captivatingweekend
Links mentioned in this episode:
The Captivating Courtship Code - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to attract commitment and high level coaching every step of the way.
Love Loops Community Membership - Get a complimentary month to the Love Loops Community and break your relationship patterns. Step into your worthiness of unlimited love, and out of the burnout, breakup, and situationship loop.
Captivating Weekend - Join the 3-day immersive experience with like minded women who are serious about life and love. Learn tools and techniques to stop letting relationship anxiety block love, and create your 90 day attraction plan.
Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @captivatingcourtship
Are you an Anxious Ava? If you are a woman who values your spiritual beliefs and is actively seeking a long-term committed relationship, however, your anxious attachment style leads you to overthink every interaction with potential partners, then you may be an Anxious Ava.
Your anxiety causes you to appear clingy or needy. Despite your desire to find love, you struggle with managing your emotions and often feels discouraged by the lack of commitment from the men you date.
In this episode we discuss the biggest pain points for the Anxious Ava type when experiencing relationship anxiety, and how to attract a partner you desire who is willing to commit to a serious relationship.
Captivating Weekend
https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/captivatingweekend
Links mentioned in this episode:
The Captivating Courtship Code - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to attract commitment and high level coaching every step of the way.
Love Loops Community Membership - Get a complimentary month to the Love Loops Community and break your relationship patterns. Step into your worthiness of unlimited love, and out of the burnout, breakup, and situationship loop.
Captivating Weekend - Join the 3-day immersive experience with like minded women who are serious about life and love. Learn tools and techniques to stop letting relationship anxiety block love, and create your 90 day attraction plan.
Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @captivatingcourtship
Are you an overwhelmed Olivia? If you are successful with a demanding career, balancing life and love can feel very overwhelming, and your romantic life may even take a backseat to your career.
Despite your professional achievements, you struggle with relationship anxiety and constantly finds yourself emotionally attached to men who are unavailable or unwilling to commit.
In this episode we discuss how to avoid feeling burnout from unsuccessful dating experiences, and how to deal with clinginess and neediness in relationships, along with experiencing low self-worth.
Captivating Weekend Register Now:
https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/captivatingweekend
Links mentioned in this episode:
The Captivating Courtship Code - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to attract commitment and high level coaching every step of the way.
Love Loops Community Membership - Get a complimentary month to the Love Loops Community and break your relationship patterns. Step into your worthiness of unlimited love, and out of the burnout, breakup, and situationship loop.
Captivating Weekend - Join the 3-day immersive experience with like minded women who are serious about life and love. Learn tools and techniques to stop letting relationship anxiety block love, and create your 90 day attraction plan.
Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @captivatingcourtship
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If you're a high-achieving woman who's tired of feeling overwhelmed and burnt out in your dating life, this workshop is for you.
Discover proven strategies to overcome self-sabotaging relationship patterns, cultivate confidence, and attract the love you deserve.
For 3 days we will work together in an intimate event to help you get crystal clear on how to break your relationship patterns, create an offline plan to meet compatible partners, and design a life you love.
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Are you stuck in a courtship loop? If you have been meeting men and it feels like you are attracting the same experiences over and over again or if you feel clueless about why you feel stuck in your love life, you may be in a courtship loop.
Courtship Loops are a connecting pattern in your relationship experiences that shows where you have been settling, shrinking, or not in your value. Once you are clear on your Courtship Loops, you can quickly identify where you need to grow and how to accelerate your healing so that you can attract a better quality man and attract the relationship or marriage you deserve.
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Over the years of working with clients and helping them o shift their patterns and find love, one thing that's for certain: No journey to love is the same.
Every client success story has come with their own path and ups and downs. By understanding that no journey to love is the same you will be able to better embrace your unique circumstance. You will gain a deeper appreciation for your own journey and look to the lessons and experiences as positive check points leading to the relationship you deserve.
ENROLLMENT TO CCC IS NOW OPEN:
Apply now: www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Links mentioned in this episode:
The Captivating Courtship Code - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to heal relationship patterns, create your captivating life and attract love.
Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com
If you often feel weighed down with anxious thoughts, fears and doubts when it comes to relationships this episode is for you.
Feeling insecure and anxious is one of the most common sabotaging behaviors that breaks promising relationships. Although it's totally normal to feel insecure at times during dating and courtship, when insecurities become a constant problem in your love life, you will want to learn to manage
your emotions, fears, and doubts so that they stop holding you back from love.
In this episode we discuss why you may feel insecure, how that impacts your love life, and what to do about it.
APPLY TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Links mentioned in this episode:
The Captivating Courtship Code - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to heal relationship patterns, create your captivating life and attract love.
Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com
When you start your journey to partnership you may think you should focus on where to meet men, how to create emotional connection, or how to allow a man to pursue you so that you go from single to committed. You may think your biggest challenge is avoiding men who are time wasters so that you don’t fall into the situationship trap or get emotionally attached too soon to a man who isn’t ready to commit.
While these things are partially true and should be a part of taking control of your love life, for women who are anxiously attached and have a hard time attracting a man who will commit, one major shift you will need to make in order to create a different outcome is to make courtship simple.
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Links mentioned in this episode:
FREE Love Loops mini course - Discover your relationship patterns and how to change them
The Captivating Courtship Code - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to heal relationship patterns, create your captivating life and attract love.
Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com
For many high achieving women, despite how confident you may be on the outside, you may feel very indecisive and uncertain when it comes to dating and relationships. This uncertainty creates major insecurity. Insecurity leads to feeling very hesitant to make decisions in your love life that actually creates the outcome you desire. Then, your go to solution will be to vent to your friends or family for advice.
Leaning on friends and family for relationship advice is a well intended action.
Yet, it's important to shift this behavior so that you avoid falling into negative mindsets, trauma bonding, or bad advice that will result in the opposite of what you want. In this episode we breakdown real life stories of well intended friends and family sabotaging relationships with bad advice, what are Marriage Mentors, and how you can use Marriage Mentors to improve your love life and create the relationship of your dreams.
DM "MORE" on Instagram to learn more about CCC and receive the Free 2024 service guide
Links mentioned in this episode:
FREE Love Loops mini course - Discover your relationship patterns and how to change them
Join The Captivating Courtship Code Coaching - Enjoy the luxury and intimacy of live coaching in our exclusive group coaching community for greater success and support to transform your love life for good.
Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com
In this episode we reflect on courtship lessons of 2023, what to expect from Captivating Courtship, and new services and programs in 2024.
To get the 2024 service guide, email or DM "MORE" @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram or book a consultation.
Book a 30 minute consultation: www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Links mentioned in this episode:
FREE Love Loops mini course - Discover your relationship patterns and how to change them
Join The Captivating Courtship Code Coaching - Enjoy the luxury and intimacy of live coaching in our exclusive group coaching community for greater success and support to transform your love life for good.
Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com
Oftentimes when I'm working with clients who find themselves repeating relationship patterns, anxiously attached, or fearful of getting hurt their main focus during dating & courtship is to change the man. Your love lens is so intensely focused on him that you may not realize your subconscious fears are causing you to show up as controlling, needy, or simply less attractive.
This is the opposite of what you actually want, right? Right. This behavior causes drama, pushes the man away, and prematurely ends promising relationships that could lead to deeper commitment. Instead, focus your love lens on you.
In this episode you will learn the importance of not changing a man and how it can improve the quality of your life and self-love.
Links mentioned in this episode:
FREE Love Loops mini course - Discover your relationship patterns and how to change them
The Captivating Courtship Code Lifetime Community - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to heal relationship patterns, create your captivating life and attract love.
Join The Captivating Courtship Code Coaching - Enjoy the luxury and intimacy of live coaching in our exclusive group coaching community for greater success and support to transform your love life for good.
Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com
One of the biggest triggers you may face on your path to partnership is the concept that you are the problem in your love life. When you embrace the idea that you may be PART of the problem, you open the door to change your current relationship status that no longer serves you. You will now have the opportunity to explore aspects of yourself that may feel uncomfortable to own. Which means you have the privilege to get to the root of your challenges, transform, and actually grow so that you can attract the quality of partner and love you deserve.
In this episode we discuss why you must embrace being the problem in your love life and how you can commit to the necessary shifts in order to stop allowing old patterns and problems control you and the love you desire.
Links mentioned in this episode:
FREE Love Loops mini course - Discover your relationship patterns and how to change them
The Captivating Courtship Code Lifetime Community - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to heal relationship patterns, create your captivating life and attract love.
Join The Captivating Courtship Code Coaching - Enjoy the luxury and intimacy of live coaching in our exclusive group coaching community for greater success and support to transform your love life for good.
Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com
One of the scarier aspects of dating & courtship is opening yourself up to making new connections, feeling excited about the relationship, then fearing disappointment. When you finally meet a new man that you share a connection with, you so badly want the relationship to work that you subconsciously begin looking for all the reasons why it won't. This cycle is exhausting and a pattern you will want to break if you are serious about attracting a healthy, committed partner and lasting relationship.
In order to do this you must learn to rebuild your trust muscle and learn to trust yourself, first. If you find yourself struggling to trust men you may be experiencing a lot of fear, anxiety, and conflict in your relationships. This episode will help you understand why you struggle to trust and how you can change this around and rebuild your trust muscle so that you can attract the love and relationship of your dreams.
Links mentioned in this episode:
FREE Love Loops mini course - Discover your relationship patterns and how to change them
The Captivating Courtship Code Lifetime Community - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to heal relationship patterns, create your captivating life and attract love.
Join The Captivating Courtship Code Coaching - Enjoy the luxury and intimacy of live coaching in our exclusive group coaching community for greater success and support to transform your love life for good.
Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com
Are you feeling burnout from hot-cold relationships, situationships, and feeling like you are always on the edge of commitment? If so, there's a secret you are missing in dating and courtship that took me years to discover.
In today's episode you will learn how anxiously attached women can get off the hot-cold relationship treadmill and finally attract commitment. Not only will you have a better understanding of how to navigate courtship with more ease, you will learn the missing piece that will allow you to attract the guy you want without pressure, chasing or pursuing when he goes warm or cold.
ENROLLMENT FOR CCC OPENS OCTOBER 30TH - NOVEMBER 8TH.
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Free Love Loops Roadmap
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Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
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Want to attract commitment yet find yourself feeling burnout, in situationships or breakups? If you find yourself anxiously overthinking
then your relationship patterns are sabotaging your relationship success.
In this episode we explore the biggest gap in your courtship and dating process, the commitment bridge. You will learn why you have a difficult time crossing the bridge to commitment, why women with an anxious attachment more often are in kinda-sorta relationships AKA situation ships and what to do about it, and what steps and tools you can use to keep you grounded during the courtship process so you no longer attach and instead move towards commitment with your guy, side by side.
To learn more about the New Love Loft VIP day experience email, "VIP" to captivatingcourtship@gmail.com or DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram
To get the New Free training and learn out to cross the commitment bridge and break cycles of burnout, breakups, and situationships email, "5 STEPS" to captivatingcourtship@gmail.com or DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram
Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com
Do you find it difficult to stop anxious overthinking during the courtship process? If you find yourself getting deeply emotionally attached whenever the need for security and validation surface and it's sabotaging your love life, this episode is for you.
Oftentimes, when you find yourself feeling fear and other emotions around a potential relationship going left, you may emotionally react and become needy, clingy, or combative and unintentionally push the man away or try to control the courtship process in order to speed things up and get the commitment you desire. This is a fast track to ruining the path to commitment. When you are on the bridge of trust as we teach in CCC you must stop repeating past relationship patterns, allow yourself to fully connect with a man's heart, and navigate the courtship process with intention so the bridge feels safe to cross for both parties. This will help you attract love.
On today's episode we're discussing how high achieving women can manage anxious attachment during the courtship process and let go of trying to control the process.
Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com
Do you have difficulty allowing yourself to be fully authentic, vulnerable, and feel safe connecting with a man's heart? When you are attempting to attract commitment from sabotaging relationship patterns, child trauma, or unhealed wounds you will have a hard time communicating from your heart without fear of rejection, disappointment, or being judged. This is way, learning how to communicate and connect from the heart is one of the most powerful ways you can transform your love life and deepen emotional connections that lead to a healthy relationship.
As a woman, your feminine essence is your superpower. It allows you to influence, create safety, and captivate a man's heart effortlessly. Knowing how to tap into your super in a way that is purely authentic, heart-centered, and connected to your core will ground you in your worth and make you even more attractive to the best relationship for you. When you are reacting out of fear of hurt, guarded, or treating relationships transactionally you won't create the healthy, loving connection you desire with a man. This is Wounded Princess Energy. Potential partners won't be able to deny this aspect of your authentic value when you can fearlessly communicate and connect from your heart as the Captivating Queen you are.
In this episode you will learn how to communicate and connect with a man's heart and how you can empower yourself through your feminine essence to transform your love life and all of your relationships.
ENROLLMENT FOR CCC OPENS SEPTEMBER 15-22. GET ON THE WAITLIST NOW.
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com
Have you been selling yourself on settling? In this episode we discuss what it actually means to sell yourself on settling, why you do it, and how to stop so that you can attract the healthy relationship you deserve.
Too often, women confuse settling with status, accolades, or even ego driven desires. However, actual settling is much deeper and has a greater mental, emotional, and spiritual impact. When you sell yourself on either settling to stay single or settling for less than you deserve in a relationship, you will never have the type of relationship you deserve, even if you attract commitment. When you decide to settle, you train yourself on a subconscious level to believe you are not worthy or deserving of what your heart and soul truly desires for your love life.
You can have the relationship your heart craves. You must simply decide it's inevitable and do the work required to make it happen now. In this episode you will learn the key steps to stop selling yourself on settling and get on the path to the relationship you deserve.
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Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Join The Worthy Woman coaching community:
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/worthywaitlist
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com
Have you been feeling burnt out with courtship and dating? The feeling of "burnout" is often linked to deeper emotions that's causing you to want to shutdown, avoid or simply do nothing with your love life. While it's understandable to feel frustrated or disappointed at times, being burnout is typically the result of managing your beliefs, emotions, and actions during the courtship process.
Wanting a relationship is normal. Every human wants to feel understood, connected and loved. Yet, if you have been single for some times or newly broken-up the stress of uncertainty and lack of control over the outcomes in your love life may cause you to react to situations in a way that's the total opposite of your true relationship desires. This is why getting to the root of burnout so that you don't avoid, shutdown, or make emotionally reactive decisions with potential partners can quickly transform this feeling and put you on the path to enjoying courtship, better dating experiences, and believing in love again.
In this episode we discuss why you are feeling burnt out, what to do about it, and steps to burnout around moving forward.
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Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Join The Worthy Woman coaching community:
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/worthywaitlist
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com
If you haven't felt sure about what steps to take to meet new men this episode is for you. Today, we're discussing Captivating Courtship's signature 5 step Love Links strategy and how you can use it to self-assess what actionable steps you can take to meet quality men and attract an authentically aligned partner.
The Love Links strategy is a simple road map shared with The Captivating Courtship Code's clients to navigate the relationship market and expand dating and courtship options, without overthinking. By using the map, you have a simple plan to prioritize where to meet men starting with a broad approach and narrowing in. We cover online dating, conferences, long distance relationships and more with this simple approach. This way you never have to second guess where to start or feel a drought in your love life, especially during cuffing season.
The Love Links strategy is at the perfect companion to your Love Loops, to make it easy to navigate the relationship market according to your relationship patterns. We provide you with the best tools and approach to meeting potential partners according to your specific Love Loops, to make dating and courtship work with you and decrease any resistance you may have to moving your love life forward. Take notes and listen now.
Enrollment for The Captivating Courtship Code opens September 15th. Get on the Waitlist Now
https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Join The Worthy Woman coaching community:
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/worthywaitlist
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com
The relationship pattern known as the LoveMe Love Loop is known for self-sacrificing during courtship, dating and relationships in order to people please and meet their potential partner's needs. The hopeless romantics of the 8 Love Loops, their willingness to prove their worth through people pleasing and shrinking their voice is their strongest form of self-sabotage that keeps them from having the relationship and connection they deeply desire.
In this episode, we dive into the LoveMe Love Loop and the pros and cons of their particular relationship pattern. We discuss the secret to LoveMes getting their emotional needs met, increasing vulnerability and communication, and stepping into their most powerful authentic selves. You will also learn 3 simply keys to no longer shrink during the courtship process so you can get your wants and needs met.
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Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Join The Worthy Woman coaching community:
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/worthywaitlist
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com
Do you have the Trophy Love Loop? One of the biggest challenges with the Trophy Love Loop is having difficult keeping boundaries due to a fear of missing out. This fear is rooted in survival emotions that not only causes low value behaviors in relationships and your personal life, but it also causes you to attract and work to keep relationships that are low value and less than you deserve.
All of this is rooted in thoughts, feelings and beliefs of not being worthy of the love and security you desire and deserve. When you don't believe you are enough and that you can actually have the relationship you deserve, you will settle and find yourself feeling anxious and insecure with the men you meet.
These behaviors also trickle into your personal and work relationships, resulting in experiences and relationships that don't allow you to feel safe and valued. You can turn this around. You deserve to break this loop and have the relationship of your dreams and deepest, and most authentic desires. If you have the Trophy relationship pattern this episode is dedicated to you. Listen now.
Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Join The Worthy Woman coaching community:
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/worthywaitlist
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com
If you have been single for years or find yourself experiencing the same types of relationships, men, or courtship and dating experiences you may be in a Love Loop. Love Loops are the signature 8 sabotaging relationship patterns that makes it difficult to build a happy, healthy relationship that leads to long-term commitment or marriage. Each of the 8 Love Loops has different experiences, beliefs, feelings, and actions that keeps them in the loop. Some are more difficult to break than others. Yet, they all can make courtship and dating hard, disappointing, and disempowering. By knowing your Love Loops and how to break them you can learn to navigate the dating and courtship process with confidence, clarity, and intention so that you can manifest the life and relationship you desire.
In this episode, we discuss the 8 Love Loops with a brief breakdown of each of the different relationship patterns. We also dive into how Love Loops are formed, why you need to break them, and the 6 key steps of the Captivating Courtship Code that will help you break them faster.
Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Love Loops Masterclass
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Worthy Monthly Membership
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/worthywaitlist
The Captivating Courtship Code coaching
https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/ccc-waitlist
In this episode we discuss how you can take the leap to captivating courtship this year. Zara opens up about challenges, pivots, and changes needed in order to create the most aligned vision and ways to assist women transform their relationship patterns so they can improve the quality of their love life and attract a healthy relationship. You will learn about new programs, services, and coaching options available to assist you with the most important aspects of the dating and courtship process so that you can quickly and easily take your love life to the next level.
Links discussed in this episode:
FREE Love Loops Roadmap:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Love Loops Reading:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/3nEoRN8Q
Worthy Women Community
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/worthywaitlist
The Captivating Courtship Code:
https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
The Love Loft private coaching:
https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Do you need to heal to attract a healthy relationship? This episode is a special live coaching episode that dives into questions about making the decision to heal and prepare for marriage instead of waiting until you are in the marriage and working with your spouse to heal from past trauma. We discuss the impact itself
-esteem and self-worth on your ability to attract a healthy relationship, along with thoughts around having to choose between being single and focusing on travel and career vs focusing on finding a spouse and getting married.
Links mentioned in this episode:
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Join The Worthy Woman Monthly Membership:
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/worthywaitlist
Book a 20 minute Attract Your Match call:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/contact
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Join the next open coaching call:
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com
This episode is from Captivating Courtship's monthly live training hosted by Zara J. Come join live and learn with us about the latest tools, tips, and information in the dating and relationship industry.
In this episode, we discuss practical steps to find a spouse, blocks that may be holding you back, and the main focus to increase potential options if you have not been courted by a man for at least 30 days, in the last 6 months.
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Join the next live training:
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www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Questions? Contact on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
In this episode, we dive deep into the world of courtship and dating, focusing on successful women aged 28-43 who have a burning desire to find love and get married within the next 12 months. Join us as we unmask the most common courtship and dating mistakes that may be hindering their path to marriage and provide a roadmap for success.
We begin by discussing the importance of setting clear relationship goals and defining the path to marriage. By understanding what you truly desire in a life partner and effectively communicating those expectations, you can attract a compatible match.
Fear often creeps in when embarking on new relationships, especially for accomplished women. We explore the significance of vulnerability and trust, offering practical techniques to overcome relationship fears and create space for emotional intimacy.
Navigating the dating pool can be overwhelming, but we emphasize the quality over quantity approach. Discover how to effectively filter potential partners and invest time in getting to know someone before committing. We share valuable insights on identifying compatible matches who align with your long-term goals.
Balancing a successful career and a love life is a common challenge for ambitious women. We provide time management strategies to help strike a healthy work-life balance and prioritize self-care, ensuring that both areas of life flourish.
Managing expectations and recognizing red flags are crucial aspects of successful dating. We guide you in setting realistic expectations, establishing healthy boundaries, and trusting your instincts when it comes to potential warning signs.
Effective communication and conflict resolution are paramount in building lasting connections. We delve into the importance of active listening, expressing yourself authentically, and resolving conflicts with compassion and understanding.
Self-care and personal growth are often overlooked in the dating process. We highlight the significance of nurturing yourself along the way, offering strategies for self-reflection, personal growth, and enhancing self-confidence.
Join us on this enlightening episode as we unmask the courtship and dating mistakes that may be holding you back from finding love and getting married. With our roadmap to success, you'll gain the insights and tools needed to navigate the dating world with confidence and purpose, ultimately leading you towards a meaningful and fulfilling partnership.
Tune in now to discover how to unmask courtship and dating mistakes and create the path to marriage you've been longing for.
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When you are in survival mode being in your authenticity and attracting a man who shares your authentic values in courtship is a challenge. This is because when you are anxious, fearful of getting hurt, or trying to control the outcome of the relationship you aren't focused on building meaningful connections. Instead, you will simply focus on securing the man or the relationship, even if he is the wrong partner for you. While it's a good thing to have resilience in courtship, applying pressure or ignoring incompatibility only causes you to waste time with a nowhere relationship or possibly commit to a man who's not authentically aligned.
This is a Monday Coffee Chat episode from 2019, where you go behind the scenes of The Captivating Courtship Code coaching program for live Q&A coaching. Zara J. shares expert relationship coaching advice to guide clients through their courtship and dating questions. In this episode you will learn about navigating dating in adversity, questions to ask before marriage, authenticity in romantic relationships, overcoming obstacles in love, and mindset transformation in dating.
0:00 Survival Mode and Courtship, Dating & Relationships
6:56 Questions to ask before marriage
9:30 Paying attention to what people value
Links mentioned in this episode:
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Join The Worthy Woman Monthly Membership:
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/worthywaitlist
Book a 20 minute Attract Your Match call:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/contact
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Join the next open coaching call:
https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZAuceuuqz4iGN25FmjmYSe2jR4nKQr8QPCu
How do you push past an ex and deal with interfaith relationships? In today's coaching episode, we'll have an insightful conversation about how to do just that.
In relationships and specifically interfaith relationships, it's important to understand why we feel the way we do and process our emotions. In this episode, she admits that she still misses her ex because he had certain qualities that she can't find in other men around her. But as she digs deeper, she realizes that she's not open to receiving those qualities from other men because she got hurt the last time she did. She also realizes that if men don't show up for her right from the beginning, she tends to lose interest and doesn't give them a chance to open up later on. This points her toward a much deeper issue: her own emotional unavailability.
If you want someone to give, you have to be open to receiving. This often proves to be difficult because we come from a place of fear, distrust, judgment, and guarded emotions. It’s crucial to focus your mind and energy on the type of relationship you envision for yourself.
In coaching with Zara, this woman reaches the conclusion that in interfaith dating, when you’re not operating in your authentic values and boundaries, things will often take unexpected turns. She realizes while processing that her key takeaway from this coaching class was just this. Determining her own authentic values because if your values are fluctuating depending on who you’re in front of, it is an indicator that you’re not operating to your full authentic worth.
Take a cup of coffee and dive into this episode to process your perspective on interfaith relationships and getting over exes as you listen to this coaching episode unfold.
Time Stamps for this episode:
00:00 - Introduction
00:29 - How to push past missing your ex
1:15 - What about her ex she still misses
2:50 - Not seeing the same in other men
3:30 - Believe in finding that in other men
4:12 - On not being open to receiving
5:45 - It is possible to become available even after breaking up
7:00 - Unravelling emotional unavailability
9:30 - If you want someone to give, you have to be open to receiving
11:55 - Honing down on the desired type of relationship
12:45 - Overcoming challenges in interfaith relationships
16:30 - What she felt was unfair
22:40 - Fear of putting herself in the same situation again
23:10 - Exercises in CCC, on guilt and shame
24:35 - Believing that you can make decisions more in alignment with yourself
25:05 - Committing to your vision of love
28:00 - Dealing with guilt: an example
32:10 - Her takeaway: determining her values
33:14 - Interfaith relationship advice
Links mentioned in this episode:
Register for the next open coaching session:
https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZAuceuuqz4iGN25FmjmYSe2jR4nKQr8QPCu
Attract Your Match Game Plan Call
www.captivatingcourtship.com/contact
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship/
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
You don’t need to go through pain and relationship issues for months or years on end to find a valuable man who is worthy of you. Today’s episode brings to you freshly brewed stories for the Captivating Courtship Code which are examples to tell you How and why to stop wasting time with a relationship that’s going nowhere.
Many high-achieving women rush into the dating and courtship process, focusing solely on the outcome. This will lead to being in cycles of non-committal relationships, investing in emotionally unavailable men or toxic, narcissistic men, and hot & cold relationships. In doing this, endless time is wasted hoping for a man to commit and come around.
The problem lies in how much we value our time and when we don’t value our time, how can we expect anyone else to value it? If you want love, trust, emotional connection, stability, and a partner who is authentically aligned to your personal and professional life, you have to be confident about their commitment level and you don’t have the time to waste it on convincing them to prove your worth to a man or relationship that makes you feel insecure and doubtful.
High-achieving women almost always face pressure to succeed in all areas of life - career, relationships, personal commitments, and simultaneous pressure to not be weak through all of this. The obvious result is stress and stress leads them to complicate relationships and over-extend themselves physically, emotionally, and even financially.
You must practice getting out of your mind and into your body, heart, and gut. Your gut is your feminine intuition and that is your superpower in the courtship and dating journey. Pay attention to whether he is using language that includes you in his future plans. Is he consistent in his investment in you? Is he respectful of the boundaries that you create or is he breaching them? It is also on you to not just create but also keep these boundaries irrespective of who comes and goes. When you spend more time reflecting on your relationship patterns and experiences, you will see long-term authentic shifts in the quality of your life and relationships.
Take a deep dive into this episode to gain valuable insight into the hows and whys of not wasting your time in nowhere relationships.
Time Stamps in this episode:
00:00 - Introduction
2:15 - Shifts you see once you start the inner work
4:13 - Storytime!
7:30 - Why CCC does not have scripts
12:40 - Commitment readiness
12:50 - Long-distance courtship
13:50 - Attention is not intention
14:04 - Story 2
15:55 - What often happens in Long Distance Relationships
17:52 - Learning to value your own time
20:13 - Story 3
22:17 - Are you prepared to move?
23:52 - You don’t have time to waste
25:00 - Investing time in a relationship that makes you doubtful
26:52 - 3 Shifts to Attract Commitment
27:12 - Getting out of your mind and into your body
28:18 - The process of attracting low-value relationships
31:12 - Solutions to turn this around!
31:30 - 1. Pay attention to his future plans
32:34 - 2. Is he consistent?
34:29 - 3. Making high-quality relationship decisions
35:32 - 4. Setting and keeping boundaries for the standard you deserve
37:13 - 5. Expressing your needs, desires, and expectations in courtship
38:37 - 6. Spend more time in reflection
40:36 - Surround yourself with a community of women
44:00 - Conclusion
Links mentioned in this episode:
3 Shifts To Avoid Wasting Your Time And Attract The Commitment You Desire S6E13
https://captivatingcourtship.com/3-shifts-to-stop-wasting-time-and-attract-commitment-s6e13/
Attract Your Match Game Plan Call
www.captivatingcourtship.com/contact
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship/
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Humility in your spirit is a beautiful virtue to have but it can make you shrink in your courtship process in a way that is unhealthy for both your partner and most importantly, you. Take a deep dive into this episode to know why humility does not serve successful women during dating and courtship.
Since time immemorial women have been taught to be less, speak less, and express less. It has never been safe for a woman, especially women of color to be seen and heard. We grow with generational trauma and triggers that severely impact our understanding and expression of our most authentic selves. It is not unexpected then, that we develop the idea that we have to shrink ourselves in order to be loved, valued, and respected. If we don’t, we fear that there will be rejection and abandonment.
Many women are what we would call, modern traditionalists. Women who have worked hard to create a completely modern life but the values they hold are traditional. In that case, a traditional or an anti-traditional man can again force us to shrink our boundaries, needs, and wants. If we don’t, there comes the fear of rejection again.
However, although this may come across as contradictory, the truth is you can have both - balancing modernity and traditional values. Navigating the complexities of courtship can be challenging but the real problem is not external. It is the self-doubt, the insecurity of being too successful and still not being enough, it is the disbelief in the ability to have a fulfilling relationship. This happens because we place our value in external things like our home-making skills or our sex appeal or mostly, our accomplishments.
The solution to this? Setting boundaries in courtship and embracing your most, authentic self, placing your value in your growth. The end goal here is overcoming self-doubt in dating, and owning your value in courtship because if you don’t, humility can keep you in a loop of compromise. Inner-work for successful women isn’t easy as you must challenge the beliefs that come up and question your worthiness, making you want to hold back and shrink but this reprogramming of how you show up in a relationship is the most important takeaway from today’s episode. Listen now!
Time stamps for this episode:
00:00 - Introduction
1:33 - On Lifestyle Shifting
11:18 - Storytime!
15:55 - Is it okay to not be heard?
17:08 - Generational impacts of trauma
19:03 - Wanting to be enough
19:22 - Modern traditionalist in relationships
21:55 - Trophy partners and the problem with looking at them as a prize
24:48 - The reason why humility does not serve successful women in dating and courtship
26:58 - Problem 1: Self-doubt and insecurity in your own worth and value
Problem 2: Fear of rejection and abandonment
30:35 - The solution to these two problems
32:00 - Embracing Your Authentic Self in Courtship
33:30 - Honoring and enforcing your boundaries
35:42 - Reclaiming Your Worth: Ending the Cycle of Settling for Less in Relationships
36:53 - The changes you will notice once you start the inner-work
37:47- 5 Tips for Cultivating Self-Worth: Building Confidence to Pursue a Fulfilling Courtship
37:53 - 1. Identify & challenge limiting beliefs
39:32 - 2. Create new routines
40:30 - 3. Work on building effective communication skills
41:45 - 4. Practicing sharing and communicating with a community of women
47:17 - 5. Prioritizing and Investing in personal development and growth
49:00 - Accelerating your courtship process
49:41 - Humility - the virtue that can become a vice
50:00 - Conclusion
Links Mentioned in This Episode:
Attract Your Match Game Plan Call
www.captivatingcourtship.com/contact
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship/
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
If you have been dedicating 10-15 years of your life to education, growth, and self-development, you deserve a partner who understands you and is authentically aligned with your values. Today’s episode brings you an in-depth dive into the 3rd and 4th mistakes of the Courtship Mistakes series of episodes in our podcast!
If you find yourself jumping into situations that don’t go too far, it is because there is somewhere in you a lack of confidence in your own ability to feel valued, loved, and respected. There is thus a high level of urgency and you don’t trust any man, no matter how valuable to take his time to make the decision to commit to you. The problem, to begin with, is ourselves. If we don’t truly believe in the value we bring to the table, how can we expect to be able to qualify a man?
This could look like a disaster, but these human mistakes need action. You need clarity to first know and then own your authentic value, you need to open up your social circles and tap those social resources for your courtship process too to meet these valuable men around you (believe us when we say there are plenty). You have to very necessarily take the effort to go through the courtship process in a way that is intentional and will lead to commitment. This is where knowing how to get courted, and stepping back into your feminine energy comes into the picture.
It’s not a rule but this is why at Captivating Courtship, we focus on getting to know how men think and their perspective in commitment psychology. It truly could be life-changing for your courtship process. The Love Loft is a tool that has the power to transform your framework, shake and reconstruct your belief system and most importantly get you commitment-ready so you can meet, qualify, and get courted by valuable men.
Take a plunge into this insightful episode and know what not to do when you’re trying to court for commitment!
Time Stamps For This Episode:
00:00 - Introduction
1:55 - Comparison is the thief of joy
2:50 - Why you deserve an authentically aligned partner
4:04 - Importance of understanding commitment ready levels
5:00 - Mistakes 3&4 introduction
5:13 - 2 processes to help attract quality men
7:00 - There actually are valuable commitment-ready men around
7:20 - Importance of understanding the way he thinks
9:44 - High-achieving women vs high-achieving men
13:08 - What a man truly wants
16:27 - The 4 big problems
21:00 - The Love Loft Introduction
21:54 - The signature 6-Step Process
22:03 - Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
23:13 - Attracting from a place of distrust
23:40 - Helping you embody the Queen energy
24:15 - Helping you to meet men
24:57 - Knowing how to move through a courtship that ends up in commitment
25:08 - Getting grounded in your favorite energy
25:38 - Make commitment decisions & conversations
26:36 - The Love Loft - A deeper look
30:00 - Conclusion
Links Mentioned in This Episode:
Attract Your Match Game Plan Appointment
www.captivatingcourtship.com/contact
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship/
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Being committed is defined as being devoted to seeing it through. It means when you know you’re in it to win it. Today’s episode works through understanding commitment readiness levels, in not just your potential partner but also yourself.
A relationship starts with you looking inward first. Before questioning if the man is commitment ready, it is essential to work on yourself and get to the point where you are able to receive that commitment healthily.
There are cold guys, warm ones, and hot guys. Cold guys are inconsistent, rejecting, and emotionally unavailable. You only attract the hot & ready ones when you yourself are self-secure and fully commitment ready. There can be endless debate on the third type of guy - the warm guy.
Warm guys who are valuable and ready to explore are tough to decipher. Not courted with intent and knowledge, warm guys can even turn cold. Then there are men who are valuable and warm but they’re not commitment-ready. Many women get stuck in these grey spaces with valuable and warm guys who they think are hot guys.
The underlying truth is you can’t expect every man you meet to be “The One”. We are actively working in the Captivating Courtship Code to break these stereotypes. The common thing about all three types of guys is: they come to teach you. You must be open to receiving and learning from each man you meet. The more experience you gain, the more value you show up with, in the ultimate relationship that later turns into a successful and valuable marriage.
Dive into this episode to learn about the three types of men, three things that could happen when you meet these men, and what you can do when you meet a warm, valuable guy.
Time Stamps for the episode:
00:00 - Introduction
1:40 - What is a commitment?
2:10 - Check-In with Yourself
4:00 - You have to be able to receive a commitment
4:33 - Three Types of Guys
10:20 - What to expect from guys in the relationship market?
14:02 - Every man you meet is not going to be your husband
15:18 - 3 things that could happen when you get out there and meet men
16:55 - More on the 3 types of men|
20:20 - How Warm Guys Are Different
22:28 - Conclusion
Links Mentioned In This Episode:
Attract Your Match Game Plan Appointment
www.captivatingcourtship.com/contact
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
In todays's episode of the series, 6 courtship mistakes successful women make and how to correct them, we dive into courtship mistake #1: Successful women not focusing on valuable and authentically aligned men. Many accomplished and successful women don’t know how to identify and attract valuable men.
Over my 8 years in the relationship industry, we’ve worked with a spectrum of professional women who desire to partner with men they deem as valuable.
It became clear they had no real idea how to identify a man of value and how to focus their energy on being courted by them. Even if they had attracted these types of men in the past, they didn’t actually know why they attracted them, or how to meet more men they actually desire to partner with.
The big problem for these women, and maybe even you, is that valuable men meet women with the same accolades often. Women who are successful, educated, and attractive. That’s not enough to feel emotionally moved to commit. You must understand the psychology of commitment. Why they want to commit to a woman and how the process of commitment works so the relationship naturally and authentically moves in that direction, or you will find yourself in hot-cold relationships and situationships.
Two important things women need to consider: Valuable men want women like you and there are lots of valuable men available, right now.
Today's podcast breaks it down and provides a clear understanding and perspective of the shifts necessary to focus your energy on valuable men so that you can attract the types of men you deserve.
Book a 20 minute Attract Your Match Game Plan call
www.captivatingcourtship.com/contact
Take Assessment to Discover Your Path to Love
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Apply to coaching
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Questions? DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
You come to bed tired from home, you switch between the dating apps, you get drained from introducing yourself to men who don’t match your energy, before you drool to sleep.
Now imagine finding men you can authentically connect to, men who are willing and eager to create a deep, heartfelt connection with you without being hesitant or having their walls up. Spend time with this image in your head, sit with it, embody it. Because you are about to actually find these “imaginary” men like many other women in this community did.
When you repeat the same actions and expect different results, you disappoint yourself and get stuck in the Loop of Distrust. However, changing your courtship actions and decisions can be a first step to having valuable relationships with a man worthy of your time and effort.
This episode gives us a quick and impressionable glance at 6 courtship mistakes made by successful women like you and how you can correct them. Tune right in and click on the link below for a 20 minute Attract Your Match Game Plan Call which will guide you with actionable steps on starting your courtship journey right.
Time Stamps For This Episode:
00:00 - Introduction
1:25 - Envisioning Valuable Men
4:02 - Spending more time living your vision
5:00 - Making different courtship decisions
7:40 - Shifting the focus of your energy
8:59 - First Mistake
9:52 - Quality men vs Valuable men
11:01 - Second Mistake
12:07 - Third Mistake
13:07 - Fourth Mistake
14:30 - 5 Steps for commitment
15:08 - Fifth Mistake
16:19 - Sixth Mistake
17:30 - Conclusion: Attract Your Match Game Plan Call
Links Mentioned In This Episode:
Attract Your Match Game Plan Appointment
www.captivatingcourtship.com/contact
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
DID YOU KNOW that YOUR BIRTH CONTROL could impact the kind of partners you’re picking or decisions you’re making in your courtship process?
This episode is eye-opening for millenial women who are trying to balance busy careers, love and wellness. Hormonal health directly affects how your relationships and potential body image issues, anxiety, fatigue, emotional management and how you feel about yourself! Your hormones also can affect how you emotionally react, communicate and navigate your relationships and your love life.
In this episode, Zara J. interviews Jasmine Filiatrault, who is an ER Nurse and a specialist on Hormonal Health and Relationships, who takes us on a journey of how her mother had Endometriosis, her struggles with her cycles as a young woman and how she discovered the path to feminine wellness.
We learn about hormonal health, PMS, uterus alchemy, period cramps, birth control methods, their pros and cons AND fertility which is a concern to many women listening to this podcast because you’re looking to start a family or you see commitment and marriage in your future plans!
Take away life changing knowledge and tips from this enlightening episode of Captivating Courtship Podcast. LISTEN NOW!
Time-Stamps for the Episode:
0:00 - Intro
2:58 - Jasmine’s background and life
4:12 - Jasmine’s painful period cramps, is that normal?
4:32 - What happened to her body on birth control pills
7:07 - Birth Control stopped, IUD started
14:26 - Why do doctors insist on other solutions outside hormonal balance and nutrition?
17:55 - Jasmine specializing in hormonal health
19:05 - Women pick better partners, make better decisions when not on birth control
19:35 - Certification in Australia
21:25 - Do we inherit period/hormonal issues from our mothers?
24:02 - Over-working out
25:55 - Why is hormonal health something that matters?
30:26 - What is one of the biggest misconceptions some women have about their hormones?
31:29 - Can you have COFFEE?
33:45 - How Jasmine assessed Zara and her hormones!
35:05 - 3 to 5 big things YOU’RE ignoring!
40:43 - Funny Story by Zara
43:15 - Cancer, Breast Cancer
46:36 - How your hormonal imbalances are directly impacting YOUR LOVE LIFE!
49:37 - Misconception you might have about hormonal health or fertility!
53:13 - Tips for someone NOT ON BIRTH CONTROL!
54:20 - Concluding notes and tips.
Links Mentioned In This Episode:
Attract Your Match Game Plan Appointment
https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
If you’ve been feeling like you’re running on a treadmill and not making any real progress, it is because you don’t yet know who you truly are in a relationship - what your relationship patterns are, what works for you & what doesn’t and what you want in the future of your love life.
If you’ve ever had the thought of marriage and a family in your future, know this: it is 100% available to you and the voice in your head that tells you it’s not, is lying to you. No matter how much action you take, if your mindset does not welcome new, healthy relationship patterns, you are not going to be able to bring about a substantial change in your love life. This is exactly what is called self-sabotage.
In this episode, we discuss that the key to changing this is being powerfully vulnerable & transparent with yourself about what you want in your relationship and taking full ownership of the choices you make in your courtship & dating journey. You have to decide that your old patterns are not serving you any longer and you want to make the decision to be committed to making your future happen.
Listen to this podcast to finally give yourself the permission to not shrink yourself when you decide to dream, think and live big. You are allowed to design a Captivating Life with a man who wants to grow with you.
Link in bio, listen now.
In the 3 day Virtual Relationship Reset this weekend, you will get tools and coaching on how to manage your thoughts, beliefs and feelings. Learn how to be on the driver's seat of your love life.
You can register in the link mentioned below and set the “reset” button on your love life!
Time Stamps For This Episode:
00:00 - Introduction
00:29 - Self Care Weekends
4:01 - Cycle of repeat experiences
6:20 - You should know this, if you really want a marriage & family life
7:57 - Owning the desire for a partner
10:06 - You have to get clear on your patterns
12:00 - You have help available to you
12:33 - 5 Tips to create new authentic, high value relationships
13:05 - 1st Tip
16:47 - 2nd Tip
19:24 - 3rd Tip
24:00 - 4th Tip (The Gap)
26:58 - Make the Decision (You are committed to make that happen)
30:00 - Note on Making Decisions
34:32 - There is no Plan B
35:58 - Conclusion
Links Mentioned In This Episode:
Register for 3 Day Relationship Reset
https://buy.stripe.com/8wM8xdbLxf6Z97qaEV
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Of the top three relationship pattern types (The Too Goods, The Love Mes and the Trophies), which one are you? Most people fit into one dominating pattern type and one or two other sub pattern types. In this episode, we deep dive into the three main relationship pattern types to understand what each type can do to break a toxic pattern and create new patterns that take their relationships to the next level.
To begin with, the Too Goods are people who project their own commitment issues, fear of failure and emotional unavailability on their partners and always push them away because they have a grandiose self image that makes them feel like they’re always “settling”.
The Love Mes are people who will assume an extreme version of a receiving position, their feminine energy dominating their masculine energy, they have a deep fear of abandonment and will often shrink themselves to fit the needs or desires of their partner
The Trophies are more emotionally available than the Too Goods but also more masculine than the Love Mes. When a man sees them as a trophy for their appearance, intelligence or ambitions and takes interest in them, they start developing anxious attachment and feeling needy. They will often push a man away by applying pressure when they start feeling their needs aren’t being met as they try to speed up the courtship process and take the next step before it is due.
Can you tell what is common in all three primary relationship pattern types?
Not knowing and owning their authentic value in a relationship. If you relate, it’s because your inner girl is still choosing your partners and making decisions in your relationships. Therefore, you end up either underestimating or overestimating your authentic value in a relationship.
Listen to this podcast episode to know how to reverse this and shift all control to the hands of your authentic adult self. This will help you create the high value love life you’ve always wanted to manifest.
In the 3 day Virtual Relationship Reset this weekend, you will get tools and coaching on how to manage your thoughts, beliefs and feelings. You too can make your way through the courtship process and qualify & attract a man who is aligned with the love life you’ve always wanted to manifest.
You can register in the link mentioned below and set the “reset” button on your love life!
Time Stamps For This Episode:
00:00 - Introduction
1:49 - 3 most popular pattern types
5:06 - The Too Goods
9:10 - The Love Mes
12:07 - The Trophies
Links Mentioned In This Episode:
Register for 3 Day Relationship Reset
https://buy.stripe.com/8wM8xdbLxf6Z97qaEV
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
The turning point for Zara was hitting her own rock bottom heartbreak. In this episode, she breaks down how and why discovering your relationship patterns could prove to be your turning point too - not just for your love life but your other relationships, your career, your finances, your health and your self image.
What takes you from being a Wounded Princess to a Captivating Queen is healing your inner child. Your inner child has felt insecure, abandoned, ignored, unheard and triggered. This is why, even now, your inner child is running the show. This is why, after all these years of relationships, you could feel like you “ruin” even good relationships even though that’s not your fault you went through all that at such a young age. This is why your inner child needs to heal.
Because you value your love, career, finances and time, learning how to communicate your value to the right types of men is essential so that you can attract the right kind of relationship.
In exciting news, Captivating Courtship is holding a 3 Day Relationship Reset! It will be a 3 day live virtual event and it will leave you with the tools and knowledge you need to reset your love life in the next 30 days. Time for you to get intentional and take action. Allow yourself the opportunity to hit the “RESET” button on your love life!
Time Stamps for This Episode
00:00 - Introduction
1:19 - What Transformed Zara’s Life
3:50 - Why Matchmaking Was A Challenge
5:05 - Turning Point For Zara
5:26 - Why You Probably Sabotaged That Perfect Relationship
8:24 - Zara’s Breaking Point
10:46 - You Are Gonna Have To Do The Work To Bring Change
12:23 - How Zara’s Heartbreak Made Her Feel
14:23 - This Time Zara Focused On Herself
17:14 - Zara & Hypnotherapy
19:50 - Zara’s Decision to Captivating Courtship
21:40 - Patterns
26:22 - Why It Might Not Be Working For You
28:28 - You Don’t Have To Live A Life Of Regret
31:00 - Why Your Inner Child Needs To Heal
33:17 - 3 Day Relationship Reset & Conclusion
Links Mentioned In This Episode
Register for 3 Day Relationship Reset
https://buy.stripe.com/8wM8xdbLxf6Z97qaEV
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
If you attract emotionally unavailable men there may be a chance you are also emotionally unavailable. Do you want to know how to build and turn a long distance courtship into marriage? Maryama says “Don’t wait until things get worse. The sooner you take action, the better your life will be!”
If you’re a successful millennial woman and you have been actively courting and dating and you don’t know where to start, this podcast is tailor-made for YOU!
When she joined coaching, Maryama felt like she had “nothing to lose” and she needed “external help to figure out” her love life. From the Captivating Courtship Community, she found the examples, healing and relationship skills she needed to attract the right match for her. Coaching helped her also establish healthy boundaries and improve her career and her relationships, she finally learnt to advocate for herself!
In this episode, Captivating Courtship Code student shares her journey of becoming an emotionally available woman, attracting love, getting married and moving abroad. We dive into tips for long distance relationships and what made her decide to commit to her husband and take the leap to get married.
Get to know how Maryama turned around her love life and the ONE thing that was holding her back! She also gives us a sneak peak into her life as a wife and how coaching has impacted that. Head over to the podcast and LISTEN NOW!
Time Stamps:
00:00 - Introduction
2:22 - Where Maryama was before she joined coaching
5:57 - The benefits she had after joining coaching
8:07 - Maryama’s No.1 thing to work on when she joined coaching
10:23 - How she turned around her No.1 thing to work on
13:27 - How Maryama met her husband during coaching
16:30 - Long distance before marriage
20:40 - What about her husband was a “YES!” for her?
23:00 - What impact did coaching have on how Maryama shows up now as a wife?
25:20 - What has life been like now?
27:00 - Her wedding!
28:16 - Moving abroad and some important advice!
Links Mentioned In This Episode:
Attract Your Match Game Plan Appointment
https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
YOUR BRAIN IS NOT WIRED TO FIND LOVE!
The good news is that you can rewire it.
Do you feel like every time you take one step forward with attracting a partner, you go three steps back in your love life? Do you at this point question your desirability or ability to find love?
We are all operating on negative thought loops and patterns we default to because they feel familiar and safe. The way out of this cycle is to learn how to process from the present and the future instead of your past. You have to get new experiences that validate new beliefs. You have to rebuild your trust muscle so your brain has proof that you can have the type of relationship and commitment you want from the types of men you want.
Listen to this podcast to make high quality relationship decisions so that you can attract the right partner faster and to get more information and action to develop the skills you will need in this courtship journey with us!
We have a Freebie for you today. It's called Total Package Confidence. It breaks down the pillars of stepping into the best version of yourself and that includes trust & intuition. To get the free download, message Zara on Instagram, “TPC”.
Time Stamps for the Episode:
00:00 - Intro
4:16 - Time is now to make your love life a priority!
6:17 - The Loop of Distrust and its effects
14:47 - Attracting the same type of men
16:54 - How To Break The Loop of Distrust
18:14 - First & Second Hand Proof
18:57 - Captivating Courtship Coaching Community - why YOU should be part too!
Links Mentioned In This Episode:
Get FREEBIE DM “TPC” on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Attract Your Match Game Plan Appointment
https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Want to win ANY negotiation as a high-achieving woman? Focus on your body language. Allan & Barbara Pease analyzed 1000s of recorded sales negotiations and found that body language accounted for the majority of impact made while negotiation. Communication is 55% non-verbal cues, about 38% vocal cues and 10% your actual WORDS!
Do you feel like no matter how close you get to commitment & marriage, you still are far away? Do you find it difficult to communicate your needs or are you often subject to hiccups, conflict and drama in commitment conversations? If yes, this podcast is made for YOU! It has that one secret that could be holding you back from commitment.
Book a 20-minute Attract Your Match Game Plan Call to get to the core of what is stopping you from attracting commitment!
Links Mentioned In This Episode:
20 Minute Attract Your Match Game Plan Call
https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515
Join the CCC Program to be in the driver’s seat of your love life!
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Did the man you were dating/courting take all your attention and not commit to you? What if you knew the exact reasons why, and what steps you can take to lead to different outcomes in your courtship process so you can actually attract commitment? You wouldn't waste time on a non committal or emotionally unavailable guy again, right?High-achieving women like you don’t need to hand over all control and power to attract commitment. A happy healthy woman will pour into other cups too. She will break generational curses and get and give real love. STOP wasting your time, get to know your blind spots and be on the driver’s seat of your love life. This podcast gives clarity on why you reached a dead end in the courtship process and what to do about it for your next relationship.Create relationships that will actually lead to commitment!https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515Links Mentioned In This Episode:20 Minute Relationship Assessment Callhttps://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515Join the CCC Program to be in the driver’s seat of your love life!Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Programwww.captivatingcourtship.com/coachingQueen of Courtship Assessmenthttps://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ceQuestions? Send Zara a DM on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Twenty-three percent of Americans aged 30-49 are single. With millions of Americans looking to attract a relationship and committed partner you may ask yourself, "Why am I still single?" This episode will bring clarity and help you take intentional action towards a high quality love life so that you can attract a compatible partner for marriage. We delve into the three beliefs of Desirability, Availability and Inevitability and the 8 reasons holding you back from taking actionable steps to improve your relationships.
We discuss the importance of self worth and how low self worth can negatively impact our efforts to seek partners. From attachment styles, childhood trauma, sense of self to emotionally unavailable men, we discuss everything that is keeping you looped and leashed. At the end of the episode we discuss the top three reasons why you might be feeling like love is not meant to be and what to do about it.
Book a 20-minute relationship assessment call to figure out what’s holding you back and take actionable steps!
https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515
Links Mentioned In This Episode:
20 Minute Relationship Assessment Call
https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515
Join the CCC Program to be in the driver’s seat of your love life!
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
If you’re someone who struggles with inconsistent communication with men, over-investing in someone who is not ready yet or find it difficult to maintain your boundaries, then this is an episode tailor-made for you.
This episode reflects on the importance of communication. There can be different types of communication like articulate and effective. Being good at one doesn’t ensure the other. What about what you should FEEL when you’re in the right commitment, how your struggles can affect your relationship, the importance of preparing for your future commitment and when to really have a commitment conversation?
Take high quality relationship insights away from this episode of the Captivating Courtship Podcasts.
DM ‘90’ to get Free video training on 5 Steps To Attract Commitment in 90 Days.
Join the CCC Program to be in the driver’s seat of your love life!
Links Mentioned In This Episode:
Get FREE video training DM “90” on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
20 Minute Relationship Assessment Call
https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship
This behind the scenes episode is a Monday Coffee chat from the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program. Every Monday Zara goes live for live Q&A and hot seat coaching. This episode discusses the importance of paying attention to your relationship patterns and understanding how and when they are leading your love life. DM "BRAINSTORM" to @Zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram to join the next live brainstorm training 15 Minute Courtship Assessment Callhttps://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515Queen of Courtship Assessmenthttps://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
This episode is a behind the scenes of live coaching in the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program. Every Monday students of the CCC program submit questions for live Q&A and hot seat coaching. This episode discusses the negative impact of reactive communication during the dating and courtship process, how to think about breakups and understanding the benefit of misalignment during courtship so that you couple with the right partner.Join the next live Brainstorm Training DM "BRAINSTORM" on Instagram @ZarajcaptivatingcourtshipBook a 15 minute Relationship Assessment Call:https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515Queen of Courtship Assessmenthttps://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
If you've been searching for answers and trying to figure out what you aren’t doing or what needs to shift in your love life to attract a compatible partner and an exclusive relationship that will lead to marriage, this episode is for you.You want to finally move into the next chapter of your lifeYet, you think you're only meeting men who aren’t serious or ready for commitment and you feel clueless about courtship. This may cause you to ask why your experiences won’t go past a certain point? And has left you feeling not good enough, less confident, and worried about experiencing disappointment againIn this episode we discuss 3 shifts to make to stop wasting time and attract commitment.Apply to CCC 2.0 and book your Captivating Session Consultation www.captivatingcourtship.com/coachingDM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram
If you're meeting men and the relationships only last for a few conversations, weeks or short months but not fully moving into a secure, committed relationship then this episode is for you. When you've been in a cycle of this type of dating and courtship experiences then you will feel uncertain about where the relationship is headed and if your time is being valued with the potential for a real future with a man.
This is an important cycle to break, especially for women over 30 because you do want marriage, family, and to create a life with a partner who wants the same things out of life as you. You don't have time to waste and you have given dating & courtship lots of tries up to this point in your life so it’s time to fill in the blanks with what you need to do differently.
In this episode you will learn how to attract an exclusive relationship that’s committed which will lead to an engagement and marriage.
DM "BRAINSTORM" to join our next live training
Apply to CCC 2.0 for February Enrollment
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Today I’m sharing 10 courtship secrets of confident successful women. These women often do a great job of masking what’s really going on in their love lives and how they actually feel. If you are like many confident successful women are hopeless romantics who are extremely resilient with relationships. You will try again and again the same way you go after any career goal in life. The thing is with career goals most follow a career success path and know the blueprint to achieve their goal. However, with relationships you tend to do the opposite. Due to shame and guilt you are uncomfortable with asking for help or letting others know how you actually feel inside when it comes to relationships. And that you don’t feel as confident internally as many assume. This shame leads to a lot of time and years wasted with a facade about how things are supposed to be and how you want others to perceive you while you're suffering with low quality relationships. In this episode I breakdown 10 secrets and how you can stop shrinking with men and start attracting the commitment you want.
DM "BRAINSTORM" to join a brainstorming call and get our commitment blueprint
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Over my years of running a matchmaking service I had the privilege of getting the inside scoop of what commitment ready men actually want and have concerns about when it comes to making the decision for commitment. These men were actively looking for wives and would share their personal thoughts and feelings with me to ensure they were introduced to the types of women they'd want to commit to. In this episode you'll learn three things matchmaking taught me about commitment ready men and what you may be doing during the first 90 days of courtship that's preventing a man from feeling safe to make the decision to move the relationship forward and commit.
DM "BRAINSTORM" to join a live call to learn how having a commitment blueprint can help you
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February Enrollment to the CCC 2.0 Accelerator Program is NOW OPEN 2/6/23-2/17/23
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Regardless of how confident a woman may appear on the outside, many high achieving women have a deep fear of never being lovable. This leads to seeking validation, chasing unavailable men, and never feeling worthy or good enough to have the type of commitment they want. Surprisingly, many successful women have low standards when it comes to love. Yes, they may be attracted to and even enter situationships or relationships with men who would be considered high status or a prize, but they settle for poor behavior and non-committal men time and time again.
On this episode we discuss how many successful women secretly fear of not being loved and how to turn this around.
15 Minute Courtship Assessment Call
https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
After 8 years of helping women attract partners so that they can get married I’ve learned that courtship is actually a simple process. It’s not easy. But it’s simple. Right now you may think it’s difficult and complicated because that’s what your past experiences have taught you. So because you’ve been winging it for so long you have patterns that cause you to repeat past mistakes. In this episode we discuss why it's time to stop overcomplicating courtship and how to make it simple.
DM "5 STEPS" to receive a Free Download on How to Make Courtship simple
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Queen of Courtship Assessment
https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce
15 Minute Courtship Assessment Call
https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515
Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
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Today's episode is a Monday Coffee Chat replay. Coffee Chats are living coaching calls in the CCC student community where students get to submit questions for live feedback and coaching. This call features insight on the first 30 days of courtship, the importance of being present during the first 30 days, and why it's more important to focus on intention vs attention in the early stages of dating & courtship with a new man.
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In today’s episode we speak with a CCC student as she shares her journey to leveling up her love life, business, and confidence as a divorced mom of three. We dive deep into healing and the necessary changes an ambitious woman must make in order to connect with your feminine energy, align your identity with the woman you want to be, and become your most authentic self.
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You’ve already tried therapy, reading books on attachment styles, and personal development so that you feel more confident, heal from your past, and invest in being a better you. Yet, you can’t figure out why all of the growth you’ve made isn’t working in your love life and helping you to attract better men? This is because feeling anxious and emotionally attaching to men too quickly, is due to you not being clear on knowing if a man will commit and how the courtship process actually works. In this episode we discuss how to stop emotionally attaching to the men you like so that you make quality relationship decisions and attract better men.
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If you anxiously attach as soon as you like a guy and put all your eggs and focus in his basket this episode is for you. When you are dating & courted for a few weeks or months, and then the relationship doesn’t turn into actual commitment, it may cause you take some time off out of frustration and disappointment. Then after some time you may work up the courage to do it all over again, and the new cycle begins. Feeling like you’re on a treadmill is exhausting.
And you can stay in this same spot for years. This pattern causes a lot of wounds, heartbreak, low self worth and relationship anxiety due to always waiting for the ball to drop and for the man to say he isn’t ready or just end things out the blue
If you want a man who is compatible, will commit, and you don’t want to get emotionally attached too quickly you have to get off of this treadmill that’s wasting your time and making your more distrusting and fearful of getting hurt. In today's episode you will learn how to break this cycle and start meeting men who will commit in the next 30 days.
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A secret many high achieving successful women have is that they struggle with confidence and self worth. And society has made the mistake of confusing a woman with goals with a woman who isn’t fragile, fears rejection and failure, and a woman who doesn’t actually have it all together.
So you’re often treated as strong, or expected to have all of the answers, or to figure it out on your own. And while this may have allowed you to accomplish things you’ve set out to make happen…it’s also left you feeding into the beliefs and expectations others have put on you.
You may really want love and a partner who will see you as their best friend. A man who loves and values you and respects you, but deep down inside you don’t really believe it’s possible or that it will happen. And you really fear failure. Not just failure of settling and being a man who doesn’t meet the expectations of the people you care about…but you also fear the possibility of failing at ever attracting and being loved for who you are.
In this episode we'll dive into the real deal about why successful women lack confidence with dating, courtship and relationships.
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Being a matchmaker taught me there’s a luxury in the convenience of having help with love. The successful men and women I worked with as a matchmaker understood the benefit of accelerating their path to love.
Yet they would overcomplicate finding a partner even with help. I realized there were key things happening:
- Overthinking, Anxiousness and Emotionally Attaching to Outcome
- Not Actually Being Clear on Right Partners and Courtship Process
- Confidence on the Outside While Not Feeling Good Enough on the Inside
It didn’t matter who I introduced them to if they didn’t change these things and had the belief that they didn’t need to…they prolonged the opportunity to attracting a partner, unnecessarily. And most importantly, they weren’t getting any younger and in the back of their mind was a time clock and family pressure only causing more stress. So they needed to work with their situation and avoid reality and work against it.
In this episode we discuss why letting love come naturally is outdated and the future of love and relationships for smart, successful women.
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If you reflect on the last 6 months and you have had some ups and downs with meeting men, yet you are feeling confident that there are men available then you may be thinking something is missing that’s blocking you from attracting the right relationship for you.
Maybe you feel challenged with getting to 3 months and exclusivity, or had a breakup within the last 6 months and you are ready to move on?
Are you confident you can get to 4-6 weeks with a man with ease, yet you aren’t clear why relationships don’t go to the next level of?
If you want to attract a great guy, a committed relationship, and you want to see progress in your love life and that means the next courtship milestone which is 90 days
& exclusivity, engagement or marriage.
In this episode we discuss what to focus on during dating & courtship after the first 30 days so that the relationship is actually moving forward to commitment.
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Are you trying to figure out why your relationships aren’t lasting longer than 30 days? Do you want to know why after months of building an emotional connection the relationship isn’t moving forward to actual commitment or engagement? Do you want to actually take the next steps towards getting married? If you want to actually enjoy dating & courtship and you want to see progress in a relationship that leads to actual commitment without wasting time or pressuring a man to try and get him to commit, this episode is for you. In this episode you will learn exactly why the first 30 days of dating and courtship matters, and how to do it differently.
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Are you feeling clueless about courtship? If you've taken some steps towards attracting a compatible man for marriage but the relationships aren’t lasting or the men you are meeting aren’t fully committing and you’re not quite sure why, this episode is for you. Here's the thing, right now you may be taking some old outdated ways to date/court the men you’re meeting and it’s not working for you, especially if you’re a woman who’s over 30 and you’re trying to be intentional about getting married. And if do you want to get married, start a family, and want a man who will lead the way with his words and actions then you must turn this around now. In this episode we discuss the power of knowing how to court for commitment so that you can confidently meet a great guy who you can commit to so that you can get married.
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If you're meeting men and getting some good experiences, yet, you feel as though something is missing or not connecting during the courtship process, and your relationships with men aren’t leading to commitment and you don’t know why then this episode is for you. Not meeting men who are serious about commitment or you may thinking there’s something wrong with you and you aren’t good enough for a man to commit, will only cause you to avoid relationships and moving your love life forward or it may result in making bad decisions for your love life. You are they type of woman a man will commit to. You just need to know a simple way to make courtship for commitment easy so that you can attract and compatible, commitment ready man and get married faster. We discuss how to make courtship and dating easier on this episode.
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One mistake you may be making that you need to avoid is treating the first or second conversation like a job interview. You may be doing this unintentionally, but pay attention to the flow of conversations whether online or offline and if you’re communicating with the intention to quickly eliminate a man as not a match. When you first meet a man and you are asking questions to quickly qualify him according to your current deal breakers or a list you’ve already put together to be intentional you block the opportunity to qualify a man authentically and you block the opportunity to create a pure connection that may lead to commitment. In this episode we breakdown this common communication mistake you will want to avoid if you want to meet compatible men for marriage.
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Juggling all the things in life and trying your best to balance career and finding a partner is doable, even if you’re not having much success right now. If you are having conversations and meeting men but the experiences aren’t lasting very long: hot-cold relationships, the men appear incompatible, and you put men on pedestals then this episode is for you. You already believe you can attract good men yet, it feels like there’s something missing in your courtship experiences and you can’t put your finger on what you’re doing wrong or what you’re not doing that other women are doing differently to secure the relationship. In this episode we explore the reason why high achieving women need relationship skills to attract better men and relationships with more ease and satisfaction.
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If you're a successful woman and you're actively meeting men, but the relationships don’t last very long and you find yourself always getting to the same relationship milestone and then the relationship falls off, then this episode is for you. Right now, it may feel like you attract hot-cold, start-stop relationships or men who just won’t commit and although you may not feel completely dissatisfied with the men you’re meeting, you just want your experiences to be better and to actually attract commitment. On today's episode we discuss 3 ways as a successful woman you can attract better matches that will lead to better connection and actual commitment.
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This behind the scenes episode of the courtship code podcast features a Monday live coffee chat about staying aligned during courtship, boundaries in relationships with men, and aligning with your feminine energy. Every Monday in CCC, The Captivating Courtship Code Accelerator program, Zara goes live to answer Q&A directly in the coaching community for real-time feedback. This episode shares a clip of a weekly livestream and provides direct answers to clients questions. Join the FREE live Relationship Goals Training DM "GOALS" to @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on InstagramOther Links:15 Minute Courtship Assessment Callhttps://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515Apply to the Captivating Courtship Codewww.captivatingcourtship.com/coachingWatch Free Breakup with Your Type Masterclasswww.captivatingcourtship.com/breakupApply to CCC 2.0 Acceleratorwww.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Do you want to attract more love and money in 2023? In this episode you'll learn the energetics of attracting more love and money, and why many successful, high achieving women struggle with attracting love and more financial abundance, even if you're already living a great life. If you want to attract a relationship and improve your dating & courtship experiences you'll want to open your feminine receiving energy to attract more abundance in these areas of life. Love and money operates with the same energetics. So first, we must uncover where the links to your love and money blocks are and what steps you can take to intentionally open your feminine receiving energy, step out of being a doer, and allow love to pour in.
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In this episode we explore the common question today's woman faces, "Should I relocate to attract love?" If this is a question you've asked yourself, the answer may be YES and NO. Yes, because we've coached lots of women in CCC to attract and court men in long distance relationships successfully, and for some this could help solve their marriage problem. Yet, for most there are many of other steps you can take first that will make attracting a partner in your local city much easier and probable. BOOK A 15 MINUTE RELATIONSHIP ASSESSMENT CALL https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515
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In this episode you'll learn about attracting a match for marriage as a successful woman and why you want to be intentional about attracting a match for commitment so that you aren't wasting time with men who are not ready for commitment. We talk about strategic matching and how to quickly identify and meet men who are compatible and a good fit for you.
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Behind the scenes two part episode of a Monday Coffee Chat about changing your relationship with rejection and learning to accept your journey as a single woman. Every Monday Zara goes live directly in the coaching community to answer questions and provide direct feedback in real-time. This episode dives into the necessary mindset shifts, actions, and beliefs around what it means for a relationship to end or to be rejected in order to have a healthy love life attract a better partner.
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Behind the scenes two part episode of a Monday Coffee Chat about changing your relationship with rejection and learning to accept your journey as a single woman. Every Monday Zara goes live directly in the coaching community to answer questions and provide direct feedback in real-time. This episode dives into the necessary mindset shifts, actions, and beliefs around what it means for a relationship to end or to be rejected in order to have a healthy love life attract a better partner.
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Let’s address a big elephant you may not even realize is in the room. The belief that relationship coaching is for rich white women. The thought that only the privileged pay for relationship services like coaching, matchmaking, or other high-end love investments, and that it’s not what, “We do.” And you’re absolutely correct. So on this episode we discuss this very limiting belief and how to shift away from it.
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Courtship should be a memorable experience, not a discouraging one. High achieving women, like you, work hard enough daily. You carry mental weight from work. Emotional weight from your family. And right now, your love life may feel equally heavy. This is why you SHOULDN’T have to work hard at attracting a partner, and carry all of the weight to make it happen, alone. On today's episode we discuss why courtship should be enjoyable and how to make it a more enjoyable experience.
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You are not crazy for not being married yet. You are still a great catch even if you haven’t met your match, YET. Unfortunately, it’s normal to feel ashamed of your love life when you’ve done well in other areas of your life, yet, you still struggle with relationships. It’s normal to want to experience the next chapter of your life and be done with single life. And it’s okay that it’s taken some time for you to get here. On today's episode we discuss how to think about still not being married and how to make smart relationship decisions now to prepare for your next best relationship.
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There are three skills high achieving women need for better courtship experiences.
Right now, you may be lacking one of these skills.
Or you could be lacking all three.
There’s also the possibility that you have all three of these relationship skills, YET, you’re not applying them in the right way when it comes to dating & courtship.
But if you want to meet more men quickly, and have better connections with the men you meet, you’ll want to embody all three of these relationship skills in the most authentic way possible.
Here are the three relationship skills:
- Creating connections
- Easy communication
- Saying YES
I’m going to break each one of these down for you and why they will drastically improve your love life.
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Do you have a hard time balancing your career and making time to attract a partner? If you want to attract a great guy, have an interesting social life, and lessen burnout from always having to put work life and responsibilities first then this episode is for you. Right now, you may want to feel confident about options available and actually meeting them. And you may want to finally let go of the guy that’s just lingering around and not serious about commitment. But in this moment, considering all of your responsibilities all of this seems really difficult to do.
In this episode you're going to learn the importance of balancing your love life and how to do it. You're going to learn 3 things to do today to help make it easier for you to take action. Listen now.
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On this episode Zara shares her journey with jumpstarting goals and coaching, the impact it's had on her life, and how to make the decision to jumpstart your love life with the same mindset and actions that's worked for her.
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On this bonus episode we discuss the importance of teaching men how to treat you and how to do it authentically to receive more love and commitment from men and the type of relationship you desire.
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Today is a behind the scenes episode of our weekly Monday Coffee Chat. This live coaching snippet focuses on anxious attachment to men during courtship and the beginning of a relationship and how to reset it. Every week in coaching we bring you live coaching directly in our private student community, in addition to our weekly live coaching calls. The goal is to help you get clear and focused on taking action and to minimize any mind drama or clutter that's keeping you from attracting your relationship goals.
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If meeting men has left you feeling exhausted, not getting past a few weeks or a few conversations, or you’re anxiously attaching to men as soon as you meet them then you may be meeting men the wrong way. Meeting more men doesn’t have to lead to painful disappointment and frustration. You may think the men you meet aren’t ready for commitment. But this thought only makes you lean in with anxious convincing energy and turn into the pursuer. What you actually need to think is that there are lots of men who want to pursue and commit to you. On today's episode we discuss the wrong ways to meet men and what steps you can take to meet men the right way.
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How you think about courtship will impact how you experience courtship. This means if you want courtship to feel good you must think good things about meeting new men, letting them know you’re single and looking, and accepting invitations to connect with them. When you tell your brain what to focus on, you will look for ways to make it happen. On today's episode we discuss how to train your brain to focus on creating thoughts and experiences that align with the type of courtship and men you desire to attract.
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A part of resetting your love life is releasing your childhood insecurities so you can stop letting your wounded inner girl attract men. You’re not broken. You’re not damaged. You simply have some healing to do, that’s normal and okay. Stepping out of your Wounded Princess Energy will require more than writing in a journal or talking about your wounds. That’s just a start. You need to dive deep into your childhood insecurities and relationship wounds. Release them. Then create emotional availability and security for yourself. On today's episode we dive deep into how your childhood insecurities impacts your love life and how to heal them.
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Anxiously attached women often find themselves putting all their eggs in one basket (the man) very early on in the dating and courtship process. When you first meet a new guy that you really like, focusing on him and pre-committing to the idea of the relationship may feel like the most natural thing to do. This often leads to cycles of hot-cold relationships, time wasted, and completely running past red-flags. But the truth is, attachment is false security. On today's episode we discuss why putting your focus on one man backfires for most women and how to shift this in new courtship experiences.
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If you think being an introvert gets in the way of attracting a partner, let me share a secret. Introverted women can experience courtship and meeting more quality men easier than you think. Your introversion will activate your authentic ability to embody feminine energy, communicate on a deeper level, and create authentic connections with quality men. This is a good thing. When a man feels safe with a woman it opens his heart and desire to commit to her faster. Enrollment for The Relationship Reset group coaching are now open. This episode shares how introverted women can win at increasing their options quality for courtship.
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Right now, you may think you’ve made a lot of mistakes and feel hopeless. Or that you only attract men who aren’t ready, non-committal or emotionally unavailable. But the truth is you have to know how to qualify men and make high quality relationship decisions. Making decisions for your love life that don’t align or feel consistent with what you want is not creating the type of love life you want. You want to make decisions that feel good and get you more of what you want with men. Enrollment for The Relationship Reset group coaching program are now open. This episode shares what you need to consider in order to make high quality relationship decisions
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In this episode you'll learn 10 mistakes women make with courtship and attracting a relationship and how to avoid them. We also breakdown what's inside of the Relationship Reset coaching program, who it's for, and the enrollment process. JOIN THE RELATIONSHIP RESET WAITLIST CLICK HERE https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/5625f6a1a1
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The gap between thinking and knowing is stopping you from attracting long-term commitment, today. Here's what you must understand, it’s not that men don’t see your real value or that men like the idea of you and not the real you. You simply aren’t communicating your value to the right men, in an authentic way, that makes your value UNDENIABLE. This is what closes the gap between thinking and knowing your worth. This is how high achieving women stop people pleasing. When you do this you will shift from desperate, convincing, low value energy to grounded, certain, high value attraction.
What you need is to effortlessly activate your Captivating Queen energy as a part of your Being. This transforms your relationships quickly because high quality attraction pulls high quality men closer and MOVES low-quality men away from you. You can learn go-to techniques to always embody your Captivating Queen energy and attract better men, authentically, like the ones I teach my clients.
Today's episode breaks it all down for you.
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If you want to feel secure, valued and pursued by a man who wants commitment, letting relationship anxiety drive the courtship process will always backfire. Instead, you need to communicate your value without attempting to prove you’re good enough to be chosen by overthinking, overdoing, and desperate clingy energy. When you do this you will no longer overthink every interaction. You will feel safe to enjoy courtship and let him lead the way. However, when you're anxiously attached to a man or relationship attracting long-term commitment or marriage may take longer than it has to or not at all.
On today's episode we discuss anxiously attaching to men during courtship and dating, along with one way to overcome this in the next 90 days.
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What if you could hit the reset button on your love life and start taking action, increase your confidence, and meet lots of new men…would you?
If so, then the first step to resetting is to break the pattern of not meeting men or meeting the wrong men. You can do this by getting clear on the current patterns that’s blocking love and reignite your intuition so you can trust yourself to make better relationship decisions.
In this episode we discuss making the decision to reset your love life and the first steps required to do it faster and with ease.
We also make a special announcement at the end of the episode you won't want to miss.
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Taking action, repeating experiences, not seeming to get past the same relationship point. You’re tired of hot-cold relationships and you've been in this cycle for years. What you really want a loving, committed relationship with a man who is emotionally available and ready for commitment without having to apply pressure or convince him. Here's the thing, you must actually believe that you can get off this treadmill and attract a partner. You have to decide that you will have a partner, or family, or whatever form of commitment that makes you feel absolutely free and happy.
On today's episode we kick off our summer series that focuses courtship. We'll be discussing in the upcoming weeks how to get started and how to navigate courtship so you can attract the commitment you desire in less time, and feel good doing it.
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Being a professional matchmaker taught me a ton of lessons that led me to creating the Captivating Courtship Code. Any of these lessons can get you one step closer to understanding what’s been making courtship difficult for you AND they will make all of your relationships better.
Because how you do one thing is how you do everything. So, by improving your romantic relationships and applying the lessons I'm going to share with you on this episode you can improve your personal and professional relationships. And, all of this is doable today.
So on this episode we discuss 5 lessons matchmaking taught me that can help you, too.
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In today's episode I share my own personal journey with commitment and how I've had to learn to think about my own personal struggles with staying committed, and what I've done to focus on my health goals instead of giving up. I also share how the same mindset will help you in your journey to finding a partner and your relationship goals. Doors to Coaching Close June 15th Apply now www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Doors to the Captivating Courtship Code 1.0 are closing for good June 15th. Want to know how to make courtship fun again and get back in control of your love life? This episode breaks it all down for you. In this episode you'll know all the details to know if CCC is the right fit for you before the opportunity to get coached to your happily ever after goes away.
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On this special episode a student of CCC shares how she went from experiencing deep relationship fear due to childhood wounds and her parents' marriage, to attracting her soon to be husband in less than 12 months. Learning to heal relationship fears and truly commit to attracting a healthy relationship wasn't easy, but with intentional effort, support, and commitment Farah was able to go from believing love will never happen to getting married within a year of joining CCC.
You'll hear Farah discuss everything from joining coaching to how she met her man that led to her now wedding planning. This episode is also a behind the scenes, as Farah shares her exciting news on a group coaching call with the other women of CCC.
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Whether you are ready to start your relationship journey or you hope to turn your current courtship into actual commitment…you deserve more than a situationship. Many women join CCC after a bad breakup, divorce, or when deep down they know their situationship isn’t going to grow into marriage…and they don’t have any more time to waste. It’s not easy to walk away when you’re attached to a man. But if you’re ready for a relationship where you feel loved, valued, and respected then it’s time to make some tough decisions. In this episode we break it down. APPLY TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE NOW www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
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It’s hard not to feel anxious, fearful of rejection or try to control the outcome with men when you don’t know how to court for commitment.
Relationships can feel scary. You don’t want to get hurt or repeat past mistakes.And when you’re trying to figure out what you don’t know about courting for commitment on your own it’s easy to run back to past patterns or avoid meeting new men. Courtship becomes easy and attracting the right ready man happens faster when you know how to court for commitment and trust the process.
But let me tell you what makes courting for commitment feel even better…taking courtship one milestone at a time. In this episode I share with you exactly how.
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If you’re meeting men and not happy with the experiences, you have a connection block or a communication block. You can turn this around, learn to court for commitment, and feel good doing it in the next 90 days with my simple 6 step process. But right now, it’s either your communication or your connection skills that’s blocking love.
It’s simple because the Captivating Courtship Code guides you step-by-step through every courtship milestone that leads to commitment in 6 simple steps. I can teach you how to court for commitment, and trust yourself with men so you can attract a commitment ready man.
It’s not easy because you’re going to want to run back to your old patterns that’s keeping you unhappy in your love life. That’s perfectly normal, and EXACTLY why I coach my clients daily to help work through this. On today's episode we discuss the difference and what to do your connection or communication love block.
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If you hate dating apps you don’t have to use them to meet men. You can delete every single app, come off social media, and never use a third party connector to introduce you to new men, ever again. Because the truth is HOW you’re meeting men isn’t WHY you’re not meeting men, or why you don’t enjoy courting for commitment. Listen, dating apps aren’t your enemy no more than being an introvert is stopping you from meeting men in person. You have more power in your love life than that. And that’s not what my now married clients ACTUALLY had to change to meet and marry their husbands. What’s really holding you back in your love life is how you THINK about apps, meeting men offline, asking for help from friends or investing in relationship help…these are just ways to help you connect with men…they don’t determine IF the connection is created. On today's episode we discuss what you really need to focus on if you want to enjoy courtship and attract commitment sooner.
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If you haven’t gotten to a space in your love life where you’re meeting new men, getting in person experiences, and working towards commitment with a man who is ready there are 3 simple things you can change to increase your pool of compatible options for a committed relationship. Yes, it’s just that simple. Any one of these 3 steps can increase your pool of options, get you lots of new real life experiences, and speed up the time to meet a man who is ready to commit. Can you imagine having a consistent flow of men looking to meet you and women assisting you with meeting new men? How amazing would it feel to know at any time you can implement these three steps and have new men to connect with, who potentially may be the right ready man for you? On Today's episode we discuss these 3 steps. DOORS TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN Apply Now www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Questions? Send DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram
If you’re feeling lost with where to start, how to actually court for commitment, courting a man who won’t commit, or can’t figure out why you’re always so close to being in the relationship you desire but conversations around commitment always go left, and you can’t figure out why… You’ll want to pay close attention to this episode. The path to courting for commitment can easily be broken down in 5 simple phases. Knowing what phase you’re in, how to know if the man is actually ready for commitment, and what to expect when relationship speed bumps get in your way changes your courtship experience completely. It’s a real game changer. In this episode we discuss the 5 phases of courting for commitment, why you need to know this, and how to master this to meet your match and seal the deal on your relationship goals faster and with more ease.
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Do you have a fear your relationship options are limited so you'll be single forever? If you've had those thoughts or want to run far away from similar thoughts, this is the episode for you. Thinking your options are limited is exactly what limits your relationship options and creates the feeling of hopelessness and pressure during the dating & courtship process. This is the opposite of what you want to feel and how courtship to commitment should feel. In today's episode we discuss how to think about your options so that you're increasing and expanding your pool of potential options instead of narrowing and limiting them.
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Do you believe you haven't met your partner because you just don't know where to meet a man? If so, this episode is for you. Many women think that they're limited to finding a partner because they just don't know where to meet a partner, but that's not true. The truth is, there are other things that's causing you to not meet your partner, and until you work that noise out of your love journey you won't meet the man you desire. In this episode you'll learn what's actually blocking you from meeting your partner and how to think about meeting the right man for you.
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There are 3 high value mindsets that make you more attractive to the types of men you desire. However, there are also 3 main low value mindsets that will sabotage your love life. And if you have any of these mindsets you'll find yourself having a lot of noise in your head when it comes to courtship and dating. This noise will make your question your value, waste time, and be highly attracted to men who won't move the relationship forward. In this episode, we discuss the types of mindsets that repels the types of relationships you desire and blocks the opportunity to properly connect with a man in an easier and more enjoyable way.
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So often as women, we mistake high value relationships with materials or high earning men. And this can cause a ton of confusion and low value dating & courtship experiences. You may also believe that courting high value as a woman is about playing games, making the man chase you, or making the man jump through hurdles to prove he’s “the one.”
On today's episode we discuss what high value courtship actually is and how to create it so you're no long attracting survival partners but thrive partners.
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On today's episode we're sharing with you a clip from a Monday Coffee chat about trust & intentions from the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program. Every Monday Zara goes live in the private coaching community for Q&A and in depth coaching on a particular topic. This episode is from a livestream on trust, pure relationship intentions, and feminine intuition for those needing to self-check what they really want for their love life and if they're taking the necessary actions to receive it. This episode is focused on the spiritual aspects of trust and courtship so you can embody this important factor for your love life on a deeper level.
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You’ve been making efforts to get your love life on the right track and that’s not easy, especially if you struggle with trusting the courtship process and feeling confident you can attract better relationships. So I want to share with you today key steps to increase trust that I share with the ladies of the Captivating Courtship Code program, so you can turn this around and open your heart fully to the opportunity of finding the right partner.
In today's episode we're discussing the Loop of Distrust and how it negatively effects your romantic relationships, and what to do to turn this around.
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Have you ever opened your heart to a courtship that eventually led to a disappointing breakup? We’ve all been there. In fact, it’s really hard to feel confident to trust again after disappointment and believing your guy was truly the right one for you… Want to know what I’ve learned? Oftentimes positive courtship experiences don’t fall off because a man wasn’t seriously interested in you. On today's episode we're discussing how to reset for a relationship after disappointment so you can confidently open your heart to trust again. Book Consultation www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Free Queen of Courtship Assessment Take Assessment Follow @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram Don't forget to leave a podcast review!
When you’ve been through heartbreak, disappointment or trauma, no matter how big or small, it’s hard to trust yourself…let alone trust others. In Captivating Courtship Code we give you the tools you need to rebuild your trust muscles and get out of a scarcity mindset. Getting out of love survival mode and stepping into love abundance is required for you to finally trust yourself and create the relationship you desire. It’s not easy, but with support, guidance, and practice it will come. In this podcast series, I’m going to be talking about Trust and the importance of healing this muscle.
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On today's episode we have a chat with one woman from the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program who turned her love life around, and went from overthinking and no real options for marriage to married within 6 months of starting coaching. You're going to learn exactly how she did it and why having a blueprint and real support in your love life can be life changing. We're going to discuss her journey from meeting her soon to be husband on a dating app to planning their wedding taking place in the upcoming weeks, and everything in between.
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Are you ready to stop questioning if you’ll ever find the one? What if you could do it in 6 simple steps and use a process that has been proven to help women just like you attract their partner and change their love life within months? And what if you could do it without all the guesswork and heartbreak? In today's episode I share with you the 6 steps you need to attract your partner along with a special message for women over 30 who worry they're no longer marriage material. BOOK YOUR CONSULTATION BEFORE MARCH 16TH www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Questions? Send me a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
If you’ve ever felt like your career, ambition, intellect or independence makes you the type of woman men look over, I want to offer you consider this: Everyday I coach women who are the total package, beauty and brains. And even if you don’t believe that you’re the smartest or the prettiest woman in the world…the man who connects with your heart and values who you authentically are, DOES. Here’s the thing, that’s just it. You don’t see how valuable you ACTUALLY are. In today's episode you'll learn what's actually holding you back from your relationship goals and how to shift it in the next couple of week.
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On today's episode we have an intimate conversation with a member of the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program about her journey from ex to next. She details her painful breakup and past toxic relationship, along with the inner and actionable changes she had to make to attract her husband within months of getting started with coaching. Are you ready to move on from your ex and step into your future marriage? DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN! www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Apply now and book your consultation Got Questions? DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram
Are you a busy woman who feels clueless about how to meet compatible men who actually want to commit to marriage? Maybe you’ve already tried online dating and haven’t had any luck? Two mistakes many women make is taking a lot of the same efforts to meet men that’s not working…and not knowing how to meet and qualify lots of commitment ready men WHILE being pursued. NO CHASING. No more treating courtship like a job interview. On this episode we discuss how to get better at attracting commitment ready men online and offline effortlessly, this week. DOORS TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN APPLY NOW www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Questions about coaching? Send a DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram
Have you ever experienced conflict during courtship that stirred up the fear of being ghosted and never hearing from your guy again?
Now you’re feeling super anxious, checking your phone hoping he’ll text back, and deep down inside you know your emotional reactions may have been a little too much? And then you think…every time you get close to men and they see your flaws they leave? Because men like the idea of you and not the real you, right? And then it happens. He ends it. And you’re left feeling heartbroken…again.
On this episode you're going to learn why you need to become a Captivating Queen at communication in a relationship, courtship, and while you're dating and meeting men so that you're creating a relationship that can withstand conflict and bring you and your man closer together. The great this is, you can use these skills with anyone as practice until you meet your match.
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This is a very vulnerable episode for me. There have been a lot of things occurring in the past 24 hours that inspired today's episode. Are you a spiritual woman who's had the burden of having to break generational patterns and make new and different changes for your family tree? If so, this episode is for you. In this episode I'm sharing some personal things I've experienced in the past 24 hours that have been signs for my personal journey along with things I've personally had to do to change my family tree, and how scared and misunderstood you can feel being the one who has to do so.
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Are you a career ambitious woman who worries your success will make you less attractive and desirable to the types of men you want to marry? Have you had men tell you your past or your love journey makes you unworthy of the partner you'd want? If so, this episode breaks down the truth and what you need to know about being an ambitious woman and finding your life partner or a committed relationship.
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March kicks off the first Captivating Month of the year, our group coaching enrollment period. During this month I'm going to share lots of information on how you can Captivate Courtship, Testimonial case studies, and lots if information on the Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program. Have Questions? Send a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship APPLY NOW TO BOOK YOUR CALL www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Have you recently gone through a breakup or divorce and have a hard time believing that you're going to be able to find love again? You're not alone. Many women share this experience and avoid taking a chance on love again out of fear of being hurt, or finding out they are no longer desirable. That's how one of my clients thought prior to working with me. She felt totally discouraged about getting married again, and after a toxic relationship that didn't last very long, she didn't think she'd every have a devoted partner she always dreamed of. Not to mention, many beliefs about being a high earning professional woman being a deterrent for quality men held her back from moving her love life forward. So what did she do to attract her now husband in less than a year of coaching? Listen to this case study breakdown and watch others on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship to get all the details. Links mentioned in today’s episode: Book a Captivating Session www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/breakup FREE Queen of Courtship Quiz Click Here Follow or DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Don’t forget to leave a podcast review!
Have you ever tried online dating or asking friends to introduce you to men and feeling like nothing is helping you meet compatible, quality men?
Now you’re feeling clueless about what to do or where to start meeting great guys, so you avoid the entire process?
Maybe you’re burnt out from trying to figure why didn’t the guy who seemed interested call? Or why are all the men you’re meeting never the right fit for you? On today's episode we discuss what to do about feeling clueless in your love life and the 4 parts of transformation you need to create real change in a short amount of time.
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When I owned a matchmaking service I used to believe where to find a partner was the biggest challenge singles faced.
But, I quickly realized there were key things women were overlooking and didn’t know how to identify that kept them single or wasting time way longer than they had to be.
Yes, you do need to know the best actionable places to meet men, but what’s more important is meeting men who are ready to commit to you. On today’s episode we discuss what things you need to shift in order to transform your love life in the next 3-6 months.
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Have your relationship patterns been keeping you in a loop of attracting the same men and courtship experiences?
What if I told you my clients are able to drastically improve the quality of their love life by breaking their relationship patterns, get engaged or even married within a year of working with me? There are some key things you can shift in the next 6 months that can truly change your love life and help you attract a compatible, commitment ready partner. On today's episode we discuss everything you need to know about using the Captivating Courtship Code to transform your love life quickly.
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If you’re used to being the strong friend and the one everyone leans on for advice, you may feel really isolated when it comes to your love life. You may turn to your friends for advice on where to meet someone, why your ex won’t commit, or what you may need to do differently but their answers are vague, negative, or just plain unhelpful. On today’s episode we’re chatting about why your friend's advice won’t actually help your love life move forward, and what to do about it instead. Links mentioned in today’s episode: Book a Captivating Session www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/breakup FREE Queen of Courtship Quiz Click Here Follow or DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Don’t forget to leave a podcast review!
Have you ever met a man and after one conversation you’re planning the wedding, baby names, and your life together in your head? And then you experience a major shift in the developing relationship. Suddenly, he’s no longer pursuing you and appears to have lost interest. You then become even more anxious and do anything you can to keep his attention or the connection, and before you know it the hot flame has burned out and he’s gone completely cold? If you can relate, this episode is for you. Today, we discuss why even though you may want marriage your fear of making a mistake, missing out, or being abandoned is holding you back and what to do about it. Links mentioned in today’s episode: Book a Captivating Session www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/breakup FREE Queen of Courtship Quiz Click Here Follow or DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Don’t forget to leave a podcast review!
When I first started matchmaking I was naive to the psychology of relationships and why people continued to create the same experiences over and over again. No matter the degree, income bracket, or desire for marriage I’d see the same behaviors that caused clients to sabotage their own happiness. After my 5th year of working in the industry, one day it just hit me what was really going on. I’m going to share with you exactly what I learned in this episode. Links mentioned in today’s episode: Book a Captivating Session www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/breakup FREE Queen of Courtship Quiz Click Here Follow or DM Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Don’t forget to leave a podcast review!
Want to know a secret most relationship coaches won’t tell you? Looking for Red Flags is the WRONG way to Attract Quality Men. You need to shift your focus away from Red Flags because it’s making you anxious, judgemental, and taking you out of your feminine energy. You’re so focused on trying to see if a man is Bad for you that you’re not paying attention to who’s ACTUALLY right for you. Then what happens is your relationship lens gets so hyper focused on negativity that you aren’t open and available to let love in, from quality, commitment ready men.
So in this episode you’ll learn a few things you can do instead…
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Believing being a feminine woman means shrinking yourself, people pleasing, or being inauthentic so you can be seen as wife worthy is the complete opposite of being feminine and causes low value attraction, relationship anxiety, and for some high achieving women, you’ll avoid meeting men altogether out of fear of rejection and not being “submissive enough” for the types of men you desire.
This is WRONG and here’s what you ACTUALLY need to do to embrace your femininity, attract quality men, and not feel small or powerless in your love life again.
On this episode we discuss 3 shifts you need to make to attract quality men WITHOUT losing your power.
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If you’re a high achieving woman who wants to attract a masculine man without shrinking or feeling unworthy, this is for you!
First, I want you to know and understand that masculine & feminine energy exists in both sexes, so being a feminine woman is already within you. Right now, you just feel disconnected from it.
So If you want to stop feeling disconnected and reignite your high value feminine energy, you must learn to trust and heal your feminine intuition so that you can feel safe letting a man lead, and make figuring out what to wear for your next date night your biggest concern.
On today’s episode we discuss the career women can’t attract masculine men myth.
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Missed us? Courtship Code Podcast is BACK! And we've got some super exciting news for the New Year. Here's everything you can look forward to and so much more.
We’ve been flooded with lots of questions about the Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program, especially wanting to know, what’s inside? So here’s all the program details. We want you to have as much information as you need to feel good about moving your love life forward and finally taking a step in a new direction.
Captivating Courtship Code walks you through EXACTLY how to break relationship patterns and relationship anxiety, create a custom match game plan, and attract compatible commitment ready men, in less time.
On today's episode you'll get every answer to your burning questions so you can make the decision to apply to coaching before the 12 month payment plan goes away.
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Do you run the other way or feel super anxious when it's time to take action in your love life? If you can relate, listen to Sumaya share her story of going from avoiding and anxious with relationships to getting engaged in less than a year. This quick episode comes from our Case Study Tuesdays every Tuesday on Instagram.
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You’ve been trying to do this love thing for quite some time, and all of the almost-kinda relationships just haven’t been as fulfilling as you may have hoped.
When you’ve been in a loop of hot/cold relationships, non-committed connections, or spending more time thinking about relationships than actually having relationships. The fear of wasting all of your primary love years feeling clueless and repeating the same experiences…can really make you want to give up or question the vision of love and marriage you’ve always had for yourself.
Yet, how many times in your life have you wanted something major to happen and you simply wandered aimlessly, or allowed patience that it would come “naturally,” to get the outcome you actually wanted, AND succeeded?
On this episode we chat about why having a proven blueprint is better than feeling clueless about courtship.
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On this special episode we share with you a testimonial from a Captivating Courtship Code alumni who shares her experience with coaching and why joining the program is so much more than learning how to get a man. We chat about rediscovering yourself, learning to Captivate Courtship after 40, healing work and the benefits of having community to help support you through tough relationship moments. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE GROUP COACHING ARE NOW OPEN!!! enrollment closes 12/23/21 www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching to apply OR send a DM "IM READY" to @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
If you could avoid this courtship pitfalls and attract a loving relationship sooner, would you? Everyday at Captivating Courtship we work with smart, successful, powerhouse women who are ready to meet the love of their life. They’re done with feeling relationship anxiety and uncertain about how to attract the right man, and even though they may have some relationship fears, they’re committed to being committed. However, there are also some common mistakes many successful women make with love and you may be making these mistakes too. On today’s episode we discuss a few of the common mistakes successful women make with courtship and what you can do to not repeat these patterns and cause more pain than love. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN Click here to Join www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Have you ever built a relationship with a man who appears to be exactly the kind of man who would be a perfect fit for you, and he just won’t commit? You two have a connection. Maybe even common education or ambitions...so the relationship SHOULD work, right? He seems really invested, values your intelligence and communication, yet, he just won’t move the relationship forward? Next thing you know he’s in a new relationship or married to a woman who appears to be “easier,” and now you’re wondering if you’re just too smart or too successful for the kinds of men you desire? On today's episode we're answering the question, "Is Being Smart & Ambitious REALLY Your Love Block?"
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What does it mean to manifest your relationship goals and does it really work? One special part of making your relationship goals come to life is spirituality and energetics of love and attraction.
Knowing how to trust your intuition and align with the right partner and relationship for you makes courtship more enjoyable and speeds up the process of getting your prayers answered and meeting your relationship goals. That’s what manifestation is all about.
When you tie spirituality, energetics, and the Captivating Courtship Code together you now have a system that not only helps you shift your mindset and energy to become more attractive to your relationship goals, but the tools and intention to be able to navigate the process with more ease. We’ll talk about this in today's episode.
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If you’re like many ambitious, high achieving women you probably struggle with your feminine energy and feeling fully emotionally connected. This can appear as being slightly emotionally unavailable, uncertain about how you truly feel when engaging with men, or a fear around being vulnerable, seen and heard.
While this disconnect may have helped you zero in on your analytical side and accomplish many great things, it’s hindered your love connections and personal relationships as well.
Today’s episode of the Relationship Goals series we’re exploring the benefits and possibilities of creating deeper connections so you can use connectivity as a tool to hit your relationship goals in the new year.
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When you’re a woman who’s been holding onto a non-committal or emotionally unavailable man, you can feel like you’re in a hopeless cycle of attracting the wrong kinds of men and relationships with no possibility of having the type of relationship you actually desire.
Especially when you feel addicted to the man and the pain of breaking away seems like too much to bear. And you don’t want any man, you want the one you’re in love with.
Yet, deep down inside you know ending this situationship is the key to meeting a man who sees your value and actually wants to commit. You just don’t know how to do it?
This episode of the Relationship Goals series we’re discussing situationships and why you need to make the decision to leave the one that’s holding you back from your dream relationship before the new year. I’ll even share some tips on how to make this happen. Tune in!
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When you’re a woman who’s never seen a happy healthy relationship, lack a circle of girlfriends who are happy with their love lives, or simply feel clueless about what steps to make or how to attract the right man for you dating & courtship can feel extremely stressful and cause you to overthink your way into feeling discouraged.
Clarity is what stops your relationship anxiety and repeat experiences, so you can have a clear way forward to attract the right men for you in less time.
So today, for the Relationship Goals series, we’re focusing on courtship clarity so you can stop feeling clueless and understand what needs to happen to make the new year your best year for your love life.
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If you’re a woman who’s ready to set the new year on fire and finally take steps to commit to being committed, this podcast series is for you. For the rest of the year we’re focusing on Relationship goals, what they are and how to make them come to life. So grab a pen and paper, and let’s get serious about your dream relationship. On today’s episode, we discuss 6 shifts you can make in the new year to create the love life you desire, and actually hit your relationship goals. After you’re done, head to our website and get the FREE Relationship Goal Getter planner and make time to get clarity on your love life now. Links mentioned in this episode: FREE Relationship Goal Getter Planner Breakup with Your Type Masterclass Captivating Courtship Code coaching program Crowned Mentorship (email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com for details) Courtship Concierge
When you’re communicating with a man do you lean more on intimacy or commands in order to get what you want? For some women, who aren’t avoiders, manipulation, demands, and over-explaining is their go-to tool to make a man hear their point of view. Only this way of communicating typically backfires and causes him to go cold, pull away, or place walls around his heart. Instead, what if you mastered the art of making him felt by embodying your feminine energy? This could drastically change your experiences with men during courtship & dating, and turn your relationships into the beautiful dream love you actually desire. Getting out of the habit of fixing your love life and learning the skills of creating the love life you desire, on demand, is what will take you from a reactive Wounded Princess to an enchanting Captivating Queen. In this episode we discuss the importance of valuing your feminine energy skills as a way to create the type of relationship you truly desire, gain more influence, and make a man’s heart melt for you. Take the FREE Queen of Courtship Quiz www.captivatingcourtship.com Follow @ Zarajcaptivatingcourtship Leave a Review on your favorite podcast platform!
Are you ready to meet more men in less time? In this special segment of the Courtship Code Podcast, we discuss a match game plan hack to help you increase your pool of options so you can get clear and intentional about meeting your Mr. Right, and attracting your dream relationship sooner. So often single women wait and avoid taking the best steps with dating and courtship, and only believe simply praying for the husband they desire will be enough. Faith is nothing without work. You must open your feminine receiving energy and be willing to align with the type of partner and relationship you desire. This means taking big and consistent action in your dating & courtship life. On this episode we’ll let you in on a key step women of the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program take that helps them to transform their love life within months. Take the FREE Be Your Own Matchmaker 2 Day Challenge www.captivatingcourtship.com/byom Follow @ Zarajcaptivatingcourtship Leave a Review on your favorite podcast platform!
If you’re ready to become a queen of courtship this is the episode for you. You opportunity to enroll in the Captivating Courtship Code coaching program during our Captivating Month, ends tonight. Have you been curious about what happens when you decide to captivate courtship and finally create your match game plan? What about the path to success and the promise we make to our coaching community on their actual transformation? If so, in this episode you’ll learn all the details you need to make a decision to join coaching.
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It’s time to have a real conversation about getting the relationship you actually want. Too often, women settle for relationships they don’t desire because deep down inside they don’t believe they can actually have it. They operate on love survival mode, and allow themselves to create stories that are rooted in a lack of trust, fear, disbelief, and clarity that keeps them safe and unhappy, despite desiring better. This only sets you up for failure and keeps you unhappy in your love life way longer than you have to be. Most importantly, it can push many women to give up on their legacy of love. On today’s episode we have a very candid conversation about this mindset block and what you need to do to create the type of relationships you actually want.
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Many women underestimate the power and value of their feminine energy, and exactly how special you are as womb carriers. You have the magic to move mountains, if you learn to work with your body and stop fighting against it. On today's episode, womb health specialist, coach and doula, Odessa Thornhill dives deep into the energy and power women hold to manifest major change, generational trauma, and happiness by learning to connect with and heal their bodies. Follow @cultivateyourownwellness on Instagram DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE COACHING PROGRAM ARE NOW OPEN. www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
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Are you feeling clueless about how to navigate courtship and attracting compatible men and wondering if your mother would've given you more insight on how to date & court for commitment you would be in a better place in your love life?
This is a common concern many women face when it comes to their love life, and feeling stuck and confused about why they're so unsupported when it comes to meeting their Mr. Right.
On today's episode we're chatting about 3 Painful Lessons Your Mother Didn't Teach You About Courtship & Dating that you need to rethink and shift in order to create the love life you desire and deserve.
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One common complaint many smart, successful, go-getting women have is that they’re attracting emotionally unavailable men. And if you can relate, there may be something you’re doing that’s causing you to commonly attract this kind of man, over and over again. Here’s the thing, you can change this if you make this one shift in how you engage with men. Want to know what that shift is? DOORS ARE OPEN TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE GROUP COACHING www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Follow Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Other ways to Captivate Courtship: Join signature Captivating Courtship Code coaching program www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/paplive Signup for the NEW Free Be Your Own Matchmaker 2 Day Challenge www.captivatingcourtship.com/beyourownmatchmaker Join VIP Match Queen waitlist www.captivatingcourtship.com/vip
Did you know cuffing season is a real thing? All humans desire connection and companionship and around this time of the year you may start feeling the itch to meet your Mr. Right. That’s a good thing! That means it’s time to get your head in the dating & courtship game and learn the mindsets of a Captivating Queen so you can get cuffed this fall and winter. Ready to learn more about how pre-kicking off cuffing season? DOORS ARE OPEN TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE GROUP COACHING www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Follow Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Other ways to Captivate Courtship: Join signature Captivating Courtship Code coaching program www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/paplive Signup for the NEW Free Be Your Own Matchmaker 2 Day Challenge www.captivatingcourtship.com/beyourownmatchmaker Join VIP Match Queen waitlist www.captivatingcourtship.com/vip
Do you find yourself making the same relationship mistakes and attracting the same kinds of men and feeling clueless about what to do about it? If you’ve been in a loop of painful experiences and a frustrating past with men, it’s time to make the commitment to do something different. But sometimes doing something different can feel heavy and you may feel clueless where to start. If you’re ready to break up with your type and start attracting better quality men, faster, then you need to tune into this episode. Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/paplive Follow Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Other ways to Captivate Courtship: Join signature Captivating Courtship Code coaching program www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/paplive Signup for the NEW Free Be Your Own Matchmaker 2 Day Challenge www.captivatingcourtship.com/beyourownmatchmaker Join VIP Match Queen waitlist www.captivatingcourtship.com/vip
No woman wants to feel unlovable or undesirable. If you’re currently feeling like love just doesn’t live in your home anymore, or maybe even never at all, you need to know you can absolutely have more love and less pain in your love life if you’re intentional and take the steps I’m going to share with you today. What if you could know exactly what to do to increase the amount of love in your life and decrease the pain and rejection you tend to feel? There are shortcuts to make this happen and it starts with shifting how you engage and attract all your relationships. Today you’re going to learn what to do to fix this. Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/paplive Follow Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Other ways to Captivate Courtship: Join signature Captivating Courtship Code coaching program www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/paplive Signup for the NEW Free Be Your Own Matchmaker 2 Day Challenge www.captivatingcourtship.com/beyourownmatchmaker Join VIP Match Queen waitlist www.captivatingcourtship.com/vip
Rejection and heartbreak is tough and can really leave major wounds on a woman’s heart and stop her from ever wanting to explore dating & courtship again, or cause her to feel so stuck on not repeating the past that she ends up continuously repeating the past. But what if you could truly heartbreak proof your love life so you don’t have to worry about unnecessary tears and frustration during courtship and can easily navigate courtship with confidence...without prematurely, anxiously attaching to the wrong men? Today’s episode we chat about why you need to attract your match without unnecessary heartbreak. Click here to listen now. Signup for the NEW Free Be Your Own Matchmaker 2 Day Challenge www.captivatingcourtship.com/beyourownmatchmaker Follow Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Other ways to Captivate Courtship: Join signature Captivating Courtship Code coaching program www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/paplive Signup for the NEW Free Be Your Own Matchmaker 2 Day Challenge www.captivatingcourtship.com/beyourownmatchmaker Join VIP Match Queen waitlist www.captivatingcourtship.com/vip
Ready to work on your match game plan? There are lots of benefits to having a clear match game plan to help you stop overthinking and feeling anxious and start making the right choices with men so you can stop wasting time and start attracting love. You need to grab you pen and paper so you can take notes on 3 must haves to begin creating your match game plan now. On today’s episode you’re going to learn 3 key areas to pay attention to for match clarity and action. Click here to listen now. Signup for the NEW Free Be Your Own Matchmaker 2 Day Challenge www.captivatingcourtship.com/beyourownmatchmaker Follow Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Other ways to Captivate Courtship: Join signature Captivating Courtship Code coaching program www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/paplive Signup for the NEW Free Be Your Own Matchmaker 2 Day Challenge www.captivatingcourtship.com/beyourownmatchmaker Join VIP Match Queen waitlist www.captivatingcourtship.com/vip
Ever been curious about what really goes on behind the scenes of Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program? Today we’re going to go deep behind the walls of Captivating Courtship Code group coaching and you’re going to learn all about what happens behind the walls. This is the FIRST episode of it’s kind and we’re excited to bring it to you! Click here to listen now. DOORS TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN! www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Follow Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Other ways to Captivate Courtship: Join signature Captivating Courtship Code coaching program www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/paplive Signup for the NEW Free Be Your Own Matchmaker 2 Day Challenge www.captivatingcourtship.com/beyourownmatchmaker Join VIP Match Queen waitlist www.captivatingcourtship.com/vip
One major mistake many smart women make with courtship and dating is investing too much time and energy into the wrong men. But, sometimes it’s REALLY hard to tell who the wrong men are? And it can feel super confusing when the wrong men say and are doing all the right things.
On todays’ episode I’m going to share with you what my clients do to player proof their love life and what you can do to stop wasting time with the wrong men and spot the right men faster.
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There are a few more months before the end of the year and if you feel your love life is exactly where it was at the beginning of the year, or even since last year, then this episode is for you. There’s still time to meet a great guy and get closer to your dream relationship goals. But you can’t get there if you’re taking the same exact steps or not taking any steps at all. There are 6 steps I take all of my clients through that I’m going to share with you today. DOORS TO CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN! www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Follow Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Other ways to Captivate Courtship: Join signature Captivating Courtship Code coaching program www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Breakup with Your Type Masterclass www.captivatingcourtship.com/paplive Signup for the NEW Free Be Your Own Matchmaker 2 Day Challenge www.captivatingcourtship.com/beyourownmatchmaker Join VIP Match Queen waitlist www.captivatingcourtship.com/vip
Being in a cycle of attracting the same men and experiences feels exhausting. You can truly begin to believe your love life will never change and that you will stay single and unhappy forever. The good thing is you can change this, and you can change it quickly. You just have to know how to stop attracting and entering relationships with the same kinds of men and going about courtship and dating in the same kinds of way. On today’s episode I share with exactly what you need to know to change this dreadful experience, now.
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A few things that happen when you overthink with men: You experience paralyzing thoughts, you communicate reactively (like reactive texts), and you make assumptions that causes conflict. Ultimately, you push men away. And if you’ve been experiencing this, courtship can feel extremely draining and like you’re not making progress or as though as soon as you get close to a man the relationship is over. No woman feels good going through cycles of this. So, you need to stop overthinking and pushing men away, and instead create habits that will pull a man close and inspire commitment. In this episode you’ll learn all about this sabotaging habit so you can stop pushing men away now.
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In my years of matchmaking one thing I noticed was a major disconnect between what women desire for their love life vs how they were showing up with men. And one thing they lacked, especially women over 30, was a greater understanding of how to move their love life forward, quickly. You don’t have to make these same mistakes. You can be your own matchmaker and no longer let love come naturally when you can be intentional and get to prioritizing your relationship goals. In today's episode I’m breaking down with you 3 key steps for you to work on being your own matchmaker and how to begin creating a game plan for meeting your match so you can stop wasting time, and confidently court compatible men for commitment.
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Do you struggle with consistently dating & courting men for at least 30 days? The first 90 days of courtship is important in order for a relationship to move to a more serious commitment. This is the time where connection and communication are key. But if you feel like this period is the hardest milestone for you to break, it's important for you to push past your barriers by creating a Match Game Plan. If you've been experiencing hot and cold courtships or feel as though you're just not enjoying the process and don't feel any closer to meeting your Mr. Right, this podcast breaks down why you may be struggling with the first 30 days of courtship. Signup for the NEW Free Be Your Own Matchmaker 2 Day Challenge www.captivatingcourtship.com/beyourownmatchmaker Follow Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
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Have you ever believed that your current financial or career status is having a negative effect on your love life? Confident women struggle with feeling their finances, career goals, or lack of career focus is the core reason why men aren’t interested or that they should put off courtship until life and money problems are perfect. There’s a certain way to shift this belief that can create a lot of confidence and motivate you to meet a great man who will value and love you exactly where you currently are, flaws and all. Listen to this episode to find out why this is holding you back.
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Do you feel uncertain, anxious, or fearful a man will pop into your life then suddenly leave? Or do you ever struggle with fearing committing to the right man? If so, this episode’s guest details how she went from feeling unclear and uncertain to shifting her relationship mindset to gain the confidence needed to improve her love life in just a few months.
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Want to easily meet more men who are ready to commit? Today I’m sharing 3 things you must pay attention to in order to improve your odds of meeting a man who is marriage and commitment ready, and stop wasting time with men who will never move the relationship forward. Grab a pen and paper to jot down these 3 questions you want to pay attention to with every man you meet and are considering for a serious relationship so you can avoid hoping men will commit and step into your power during courtship.
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Ready, set, ACTION! It’s time to take massive action with your match game plan. In just a few weeks you can increase the amount of quality relationship options you have and quickly turn your love life around. On this episode I’m going to share with you my favorite courtship strategy to give you major momentum in 90 days or less, and meet more men who are ready to commit without the stress of waiting to be chosen.
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Do you find yourself feeling like you’re not getting your relationship needs met with men? Do you tend to attract people who refuse to commit, don’t respect your boundaries, and aren’t pursuing you enough to make you feel loved and desirable? One this episode I’m sharing one major mistake you may be making that’s causing the men you’re meeting to show up low value and not meet your relationship needs, and what you can do about it.
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People pleasing doesn’t win love. Even if you attract a relationship, you’re more likely to be unhappy and dissatisfied with your love life and the types of men you attract because you’re working super hard to get and keep them. People pleasing is a sign of the Love Me pattern that keeps you very low value and overextending yourself with men in hopes they’ll see your value and want to commit. This is draining and not the type of love life you want to create. On this episode we explore more signs of people pleasing and the negative this relationship sabotage has on courtship.
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**Want to know a major excuse many confident women make when it comes to attracting a quality relationship? Meeting the right man and getting married can be a challenge. Courtship and dating can require an amount of effort many women will avoid in order to stay in their comfort zone. Yet, this excuse I’m sharing on today’s episode is one that can be completely avoided, and once you get over the hump of this excuse you can open up doors to love, commitment, and an enjoyable courtship experience.
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Women who consider themselves to be overthinkers often carry the burden of deep love blocks that prevents them from being able to move forward with their love life and do what’s required to commit to taking the right steps with relationships to attract a loving partnership. It’s not simply because they just can’t help overthinking. It’s because they need to have a system to take action that gets them results and builds their confidence with love. Want to learn that system? Listen to today’s episode REGISTER FOR PASSION ATTRACTION PROTOTYPES LIVE MASTERCLASS NOW https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/paplive Leave a podcast review and share how Courtship Code podcast has helped your love life Passion Attraction Prototype Workshop: www.captivatingcourtship/getpap Download the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Playbook www.captivatingcourtship.com/playbook Interested in coaching? JOIN the Waitlist for Captivating Courtship Code Early Enrollment www.captivatingcourtship.com/cccwaitlist Follow @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram
**If you feel unclear about your love blocks and what the next best steps for your love life should be this episode breaks down getting the support, clarity, and next best steps to move your love life forward. Wounded Princess energy will sabotage your love life, even if you attract your spouse, this wounded energy will cause conflict and emotional disconnects that will prevent the deep love and connection you desire with your partner beyond a sexual exchange. If you’ve struggled with emotional reactions, trust, communication, vulnerability, or feeling confident about what steps to take and how to attract compatible men gaining clarity on your love life will decrease your time being single and figuring it out on your own.
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Have you ever felt your career, intellect or accomplishments have made it difficult for you to open up with men and relax into your feminine energy? Do you question if you’ll be able to turn off your independence or powerful leadership skills with men in order to keep them interested and in their masculine energy, so they’re continuing to pursue you and treat you as the queen you know you are? It can be difficult for many ambitious women to feel confident leaning into their femininity and for many they have no clue how to tap into this energy effortless, beyond surface level femininity of looking like a feminine woman. Listen to this episode to learn what you need to do to embody the Captivating Queen you are.
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Has being guarded and having trust issues been sabotaging your love life and blocking your chances at a dream relationship? Have you completely lost trust with yourself and a disconnection from your intuition and have no idea when or if you’ll ever feel motivated to open your heart to a man again? Many women experience painful or traumatic relationship and dating/courtship experiences that makes them run away from love. This lack of trust and motivation is the exact reason you’ll continue to either block your future relationship or continue attracting the wrong relationships that proves you shouldn’t trust men or yourself when it comes to love. The good thing is, you can turn this around. This episode shares what you need to know about trust issues, feeling guarded, and blocking the love you desire.
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Do you feel like men stop investing in you and showing up in their masculine energy the moment you begin showing interest and build a real connection with them? What if you could learn how to keep him investing in the relationship and pursuing it without you having to tell him what to do, force, pressure, or plan every step of the way? If you’ve been experiencing a lot of hot-cold or push-pull relationships, especially in the first 30-90 days of courtship, you have to learn how to get a man to continue investing in the relationship. You want to feel like a Captivating Queen and for him to invest more into you and the relationship without feeling like you have to do it for him. In this episode we discuss how. Leave a podcast review and share how Courtship Code podcast has helped your love life Passion Attraction Prototype Workshop: www.captivatingcourtship/getpap Download the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Playbook www.captivatingcourtship.com/playbook Interested in coaching? JOIN the Waitlist for Captivating Courtship Code Early Enrollment www.captivatingcourtship.com/cccwaitlist Follow @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram
If you’ve been in a space of doing, fixing, suggesting, and proving you’re good enough with men then you’ve been operating in your wounded princess energy. This energy is total sabotage and can make you feel anxious, fearful of abandonment, and powerless with men. Part of the problem is you put men on a pedestal and aren’t showing up in your value. The other reason may be you’re too activated in your masculine energy and feeling the need to manage and control the relationship. This sounds harsh, but it’s a reality that has to change if you want a quality relationship with a man who is in his masculine energy so you can relax and be the captivating queen that you are. In this episode you’ll learn 4 tips to turn this wounded princess energy around.
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The relationship with your parents can have a major impact on how you attract men, lack boundaries, and the ways you may be sabotaging your love life. This can be a shocking reality for some, but even those from stable two parent households can mirror behaviors or patterns that contradicts the outcomes they want from men and relationships. If you want more from your relationships, yet, you seem to consistently attract partners who aren’t emotionally available, activate relationship anxiety, or you fear commitment and tend to avoid men and courtship then this is the episode for you.
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Many ambitious, intelligent women run into a courtship rut where they feel they’re in cycles of meeting men who only like the idea of them and not the real them. This is a common statement and can concern women who have the Trophy Passion Attraction Prototype. You want a man who is open and emotionally available, yet, men appear to be more concerned with how you’d represent them and the trophy you’d be for their life that you don’t feel they’re invested in truly getting to know and value you the true, authentic version of you. The secret is, this isn’t as much about the men you’re meeting as it is about how you’re showing up and attracting men. We dive deeply into this on today’s episode.
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Today’s episode shares how playing the waiting game with your love life is killing your chances at attracting a new relationship and delaying the experiences you must have in order to improve the quality of your courtships & relationships. You can make decisions that makes it easy for you to live and stay in your value that will always increase your love life, I’m going to tell you how. Doors to the captivating courtship code coaching program are closing soon. This is the perfect time to commit to your love transformation. Apply to coaching now. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE GROUP COACHING ARE NOW OPEN Book your FREE Captivating Session to enroll www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply
Today I’m sharing a 4 step framework women I’ve worked with in matchmaking & coaching have used to meet their husbands online. Listen, meeting a partner online is far more normal than you may think. It’s not easy, but it doesn’t have to be a major hardship when you have clarity and a plan that allows you to take action with intention. I’m breaking it down on today’s episode. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE GROUP COACHING ARE NOW OPEN Book your FREE Captivating Session to enroll www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Discover your sabotaging Passion Attraction Prototypes www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap Download the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Playbook www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Leave a 5 Star Review and tell us how much this podcast has helped you
Are you tired of being told you must be submissive to be feminine or to be the “ideal” woman? This is an outdated belief that many women have been pressured to take on in order to try to appeal to a man’s ego. What actually happens is you become a woman who lacks boundaries, self worth, and has no clue how to actually get what she wants out of her man so you just go along to get along. Today, I’m going to share with you what you really need to focus on in order to attract a man’s love & heart, and how to do it without being an inauthentic submissive woman who resents her love life. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE GROUP COACHING ARE NOW OPEN Book your FREE Captivating Session to enroll www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Discover your sabotaging Passion Attraction Prototypes www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap Download the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Playbook www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Leave a 5 Star Review and tell us how much this podcast has helped you
This case study episode shares how one elementary school teacher has used the Captivating Courtship Code curriculum and coaching to reduce relationship anxiety, gain clarity on love life and navigate courtship with confidence in just a few months.
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Have you ever feared that adding a relationship to your life will mean you'll have to sacrifice your career and accomplishments? You're not alone. Many women fear they'll have to choose between love and family or the career and education you've worked so hard for. There's an important message I want to share about this belief that's could be holding you back from stepping into the light of having it all. Checkout today's episode. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN Book your FREE Captivating Session to enroll www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Discover your sabotaging Passion Attraction Prototypes www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap Download the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Playbook www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Leave a 5 Star Review and tell us how much this podcast has helped you
You’ve been waiting for it, so here it is! On today’s episode you’ll learn exactly how one woman used the Captivating Courtship Code to transform her love to getting married within 12 months. Yes, you too can use this code no matter where you are in your love life or courtship process to improve the quality of your relationships, attract a committed partner, and learn relationship skills that will last throughout marriage. If you’re curious about the Captivating Courtship Code and how it can work for you, here is the episode you don’t want to miss. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN Book your FREE Captivating Session to enroll www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Discover your sabotaging Passion Attraction Prototypes www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap Download the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Playbook www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Leave a 5 Star Review and tell us how much this podcast has helped you
Can alpha women attract masculine alpha men, or are reserved for a certain type of woman? Despite what you may have been told, even ambitious, accomplished alpha women can use their feminine energy to attract an alpha man and create amazing experiences that aligns with his value and inspires him to keep coming back and commit. Let's discuss on today's episode!
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So you’ve had a few failed relationships and lovers that didn’t go as planned? No worries, you can turn this around with the right steps, just as some of our favorite girl bosses have. In this episode I share with you three case studies who have drastically improved the quality of their love life in a short amount of time :Ciara, Meagan Goode, and Serena Williams. All of these women didn’t let their success, failed relationships, or not so clean past get in the way of finding high quality men who shower them with love and commitment. And you can have that, too! On this episode I will show you how. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN Book your FREE Captivating Session to enroll www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Discover your sabotaging Passion Attraction Prototypes www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap Download the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Playbook www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Leave a 5 Star Review and tell us how much this podcast has helped you
Do toxic men desire high achieving women? If you desire a healthy relationship with a quality man but find yourself attracted to toxic, narcissistic, emotionally unavailable men you may be surprised to find out you’re exactly the kind of woman at the top of their list. Why? Because you’re a prize. However, your attraction to them and confusing charisma and chemistry with compatibility is what’s keeping you in this cycle of low value attraction. Let’s talk all about it on this episode.
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Confident women often struggle behind closed doors with feeling worthy of the love and relationship they desire. They take actions and have mindsets that totally sabotage attracting the men and relationships they truly want in their lives. So much misinformation on the internet about what it means to be a high value feminine woman is actually working against confident women and making them feel anxious, undeserving, and causing them to do the absolute most to prove their wife worthy. I talk all about it on this episode.
It’s a Captivating Month! This is the first Captivating Month of the year, where we open doors to the spring session and offer flexible enrollment options for women who truly desire to stop feeling anxious and uncertain about their love life and become Captivating Queens for compatible relationships.
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Curious to know how long does it take or when should you determine if a man is a good fit for you? On today's episode I breakdown the way you need to start thinking about courtship and how you can shift your experience and make it easier and take a carefree approach to courtship and relationships that will give you skills that will benefit you in your marriage and increase attraction over and over again. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE ARE NOW OPEN Book your FREE Captivating Session to enroll www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Discover your sabotaging Passion Attraction Prototypes www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap Download the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Playbook www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Leave a 5 Star Review and tell us how much this podcast has helped you Go ahead and listen now!
What happens when you wait until it’s too late to discover how to identify relationship incompatibility? The reality is some relationships aren’t meant to last forever and some things are simply out of your control. However, there are aspects of courtship & dating that are within your control. The moment you learn how to navigate those aspects the more magnetic, captivating, and empowered you will feel with men. The longer you take to master these aspects, the bigger the impact they will have on your health, wealth, and spirit.
Let’s talk about it on this episode.
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Even confident, go-getting, high achieving women can struggle with feeling not good enough or fearful that they may have to make some changes to become more attractive and ideal for the kinds of men and relationship they desire to attract. The truth is there are some changes that you may have to make, but not in the way you may currently believe. Today’s episode we discuss the truth behind making changes in order to attract compatible men and why or why not you should do it.
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Want to create more clarity, confidence, and compatibility so you become a magnet for the right men?Attracting the right partners can be a challenge, but it’s a greater challenge when you feel out of control of the process, anxious, and uncertain. You can have a loving, healthy, high quality relationship with the right shifts. In this episode we breakdown the importance of becoming a magnet for the right men for you, and how to create this in your love life.
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Are you a woman over age 30 (or close to age 30) struggling with staying hopeful about meeting a quality man and attracting a quality relationship? Many women struggle with staying positive and believing they can have a good partner as they're maturing in life. The thing you need to know is that men get better with age and you have a lot of positive experiences to look forward to after age 30. In this episode we dive into what to expect and the mindset shift you need to make to prepare for the best relationships you have yet to attract.
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Are quality men hard to find? It's about your mindset. There are quality men that exist and desire a good woman, but you have to be open to receive them and ready to be a magnet for them. In this episode we discuss shifting your mindset and belief around attracting quality men so you can be open to receiving the love and companionship you desire.
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If you've been wasting time with incompatible men and attracting partners who have been slowing down your love life and impacting the quality of your live and dreams, this is the episode for you. We will dive into the importance of avoiding low quality, incompatible relationships and the devastating impact they have on your mental, emotional, and physical health. We will also discuss what to pay attention to to know if you're in or attracting low quality relationships.
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Ready to meet quality men? There are lots of places you can start showing up, both online and offline, to meet, date, or court quality men. It's all about where you're showing up and allowing yourself to be approachable and open to meet men who value and embody the characteristics of men who are marriage ready and marriage quality. In this episode we discuss 3 strategic places for you to spend your time to start meeting and positioning yourself to meet quality men.
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Sometimes men pull away and lack consistency when it comes to communication and phone calls. That can leave you feeling very undesirable, frustrated, and confused. Especially when a man has been showing up and showing interest and then suddenly falls off the map. In this episode we discuss five reasons why he doesn't call consistently and some tips on what to do about it.
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Have you been in a pattern of attracting incompatible relationships? On this episode of the Courtship Code, we discuss common mistakes women make with attraction and why it often leads to relationships and courting incompatible men. You'll also gain understanding on why shifting this aspect of your dating and courtship life is important in order to feel more confident about men, relationships, and your love life.
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Time for a heart to heart about questioning the credibility of the men in your life and others because you’re scared to let go of control and trust yourself.
Trust is a tricky thing to give and experience when you’re disconnected from your intuition and not clear on how to make decisions or feeling confident about trusting yourself.
Not trusting yourself can be really uncomfortable to admit and requires you being deeply transparent with yourself.
Before you can trust anyone else you must be able to trust yourself to make a decision. Are you ready to make a decision to bet on yourself and trust you?
Let’s talk on this week’s episode.
The New Year has started and you’ve made the decision this year you’ll take courtship and marriage more seriously?
If not, why are you waiting for heartbreak?
You need to be proactive about your relationships instead of waiting for another disaster and fallout to happen before deciding to do something different. You can make the choice now, to learn how to captivate courtship, heal your attraction patterns, and court compatible partners in less time.
On this week’s episode I’m sharing why waiting for heartbreak makes finding a partner harder and relationships more unpleasant.
You hold so much value when you’re in your authenticity and femininity but if you’ve been attracting from neediness, clinginess, or other low value behaviors and communication you’re pushing the right men away, fast.
You don’t want to be needy AND you don’t want a man to NEED YOU.
You want to be valued, desired, and cared for...and all of this is available to you.
Here’s the inside scoop...checkout this week’s episode.
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If you’re struggling with vulnerability, self worth, and your feminine energy it’s pretty hard to maintain a deeper connection with man that allows them to feel connected to you and one that inspires connection and commitment.
Embodying these powerful energies as a high value woman transforms your love life and draws men to you in a way that leaves you feeling highly desired, pursued, and protected.
You deserve to be loved and valued for the woman you are.
You also have to step up into the emotional leader you are as a woman and create heartfelt connections and experiences in your love life.
You have the power...let’s talk about it.
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Therapy is really important and a valuable aspect of personal development and growth. However, it’s not the same as coaching.
While therapy is excellent for helping you talk about your problems or where they stem from...it’s not the go to tool to help you move the needle forward and create a different experience, that’s the benefit of coaching.
If you’ve been sitting on the fence about coaching and not sure if having a relationship coach or a therapist is your next step, this week’s episode will help give you some clarity on what to consider before you make a decision.
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Have you ever been called needy or combative? What about a ghoster, avoider, or that you withdraw?
If so, this is a form of sabotage and low value communication that’s triggering unpleasant experiences, keeping you frustrated, and repelling the high value men you want to commit.
The key is learning to inspire connection instead of sparking conflict.
Let’s break this down and why the power of your femininity is all you need to inspire men to pursue and show up as the protectors and providers they authentically are. BOOK A CAPTIVATING SESSION Www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply GET PASSION ATTRACTION PROTOTYPE WORKSHOP Www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap DOWNLOAD FREE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE PLAYBOOK Www.captivatingcourtship.com/playbook
Want tips on how to make your online profile pop? As a previous owner of a matchmaking service one thing I’ve spent years doing and mastering was building attractive profiles.
Your online profile is the #1 most impactful aspect to your online match experience. You MUST have an attractive profile and know other hacks that will help you get seen faster and by the right people.
If you’re looking to use online dating this year this week’s episode will give you 3 things you must do to improve your online dating experience, now.
Grab your pen and paper and let’s make your profile pop! PASSION ATTRACTION PROTOTYPE WORKSHOP Www.captivatingcourtship.com/getpap
It’s time to get past your past and give up the power that heartbreak and rejection has had over you.
Hard truth: Your past CAN define your future.
That sounds harsh, but it’s reality IF you allow your past to dictate and sabotage your present and future.
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I want to share a secret with you: there’s a direct connection between your love and money mindset.
Even if you’re an amazing woman with a successful career, there may still be money blocks that are showing up in your life that are a direct reflection of your love blocks. I’ve seen it time and time again. These blocks are sneaky and are running on autopilot in your life and have a direct impact on what you could be experiencing vs what you are experiencing.
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If you feel frustrated, yet, scared to seek help with your love life you’re not alone. When women come decide to join coaching a few things they often express is:
Not having a strong support system to guide them with relationships and love.
Desiring not to have the same relationships as the women around them.
If you can relate, what I’ve found is this drive and desire you have to break generational relationship wounds is exactly what you may need to commit to a new love life and receive the true benefits of coaching. You’re on a journey to change your family and friendship tree, and that can be scary...but you shouldn’t let that stop you.
Here’s what you need to know about the transformation you’re about to experience. Book Your Captivating Session Www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply Get the Passion Attraction Prototype Workshop https://captivatingcourtshipcode.teachable.com/p/passion-pattern-clarity-coaching
Wait, before you listen to this episode I want you to know you 100% ARE a high value woman...but, you may be displaying low value behaviors that has you attracting and showing up in your love life in a way that’s repelling the types of men and relationships you desire instead of the high value woman you truly are.
When I created the Captivating Courtship Code it was intended to help you learn how to heal what’s been causing you to show up low value and learn how to authentically attract and intuitively court potential partners in a high value way.
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Pull out your pen and journal as we embark into the New Year together. On this week’s episode we’re going to dive into 5 actionable tips that can move your love life along this year and begin to take action to create better experiences in your love life.
This year DOES NOT have to be the same as last year. There are real steps you can take and real results you can get, and you don’t have to struggle love your way through your love life. That’s all ego, sis. Let’s do it together.
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Do you want to know a major mistake you may be making that’s keeping you stuck for years and years? It’s taking on other people’s issues.
By living through other people’s relationship experiences you’re operating in a state of fear and panic where you’re overly consumed that you may go through some negative experiences like the people around you, or you’re so worried about making mistakes you’re not taking any action and doing what you need to do to shift your love life now.
This is a pattern that will keep you single for years with very little relationship experience. If you can relate, you need to listen to this week’s episode. PASSION ATTRACTION WORKSHOP http://captivatingcourtshipcode.teachable.com/p/passion-pattern-clarity-coaching Www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply
If you’ve spent most of your life trying to be “good” you probably have deep wounds around people pleasing and trying to prove you’re a good woman and that’s the reason why men should choose you.
Only being good is not a reason a man wants to commit to you. Do men want a good woman? Yes. Do they want a woman who is their emotional blanket and feels she needs to prove just how good of a woman she is? No.
So what’s the real tea on why you being a good woman will never be good enough? Listen to this week’s episode.
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There’s some major challenges a woman who’s emotionally unavailable may experience in relationships, especially when committed. Oddly enough, they may have an easy time attracting relationships in the beginning because they appear to be so easy going.
The downfall is when they enter a commitment they continue to struggle with expressing and showing emotions. This often leds to major disconnects in relationships that drives men away. Today we’re going to dive into the challenges of emotionally unavailable women and how their challenges with vulnerability is deeply sabotaging their love life.
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It may be a surprise for women who have figured out how to master their education, career, or business that those same skills don’t always mean they’ll figure out how to navigate courtship and relationships.
The truth is I’ve worked with lots of women who are high achievers who never learned how to attract partners with intention or are unaware they need to change how they’ve been engaging with men because their fear of failure makes them totally blind that THEY could actually need to shift...instead of blaming men.
The reality is you can be great at accomplishing career or educational goals and totally disconnect from how to be great at love. Because what you’re really struggling with is not what you may think. Let’s dive into it on this week’s episode.
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Tired of chasing men? I hear you, sis. Here’s the thing, there’s a deeper reason why you feel the need to chase and pursue men instead of being in your feminine energy and allowing a man to show up and commit.
This pattern is definitely sabotaging you from attracting the masculine man you desire and from feeling like the prize in relationships. You’re treating men like the prize, trophy, and the BAG.
It’s not your job to secure the BAG. You need to learn to court men without feeling the need to prove you’re wife worthy or like you must control how and when things take place. It feels yucky and it feels draining.
But before you can change anything you must need to understand why you keep doing it. We discuss this on this week’s episode.
Do you have commitment issues? Do you find yourself starting and stopping projects? Never fully showing up for yourself? Betraying your values and boundaries?
If you’ve been struggling with commitment in your personal life you’re likely attracting men who equally struggle with commitment. Just by shifting this aspect of your life will quickly elevate and transform the types of men you attract. This episode covers what you need to know about healing your commitment issues and why you must stop avoiding this issue.
You’ve been taught to pay attention to red flags and now you’re hyper focused and overthinking every time you meet a man on high alert for any sign he’s not the one. This is emotionally draining and backfires. When you’re in the mindset of looking for flaws you’re missing all the reasons for you to say yes to your future.
On this episode I’m sharing the importance of shifting this approach to courtship. JOIN THE FREE FACEBOOK GROUP Www.captivatingcourtship.com/Facebookgroup Follow @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Do you try to control the outcome?
One of the most common things women tell me when they decide to join coaching is that they have a hard time not trying to control the outcome of courtship or relationships.
This is a major block and is wrapped up with all kinds of anxiety, control, and trust issues that either repels the right men or attracts less masculine men who will leave you feeling like you did all the work to make the relationship happen which leads to resentment on the back end.
This isn’t easy to shift.
But that doesn’t have to be true for you. You can learn to relax and let the man lead you to love without the fear of wasting your time or being abandoned. Here’s how…BOOK YOUR CAPTIVATING SESSION Www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply JOIN THE WOMEN'S ONLY FACEBOOK GROUP Www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup
As we close out this Captivating Month I want to have a heart to heart conversation with you about the trust cost of courtship.
It’s really easy to believe you’re safe and secure with the sabotage, frustration, and rejection you’ve experienced because what’s predictable feels certain.
What’s scary is taking a calculated risk to decide you’re worth more than sitting on the sidelines feeling anxious, fearful, and in disbelief that you could actually enjoy courtship and find a partner that’s good for you.
What you may not understand is you’re paying big time right now by not having better courtship experiences. How? I’ll tell you exactly how on this week’s episode. JOIN NOW Www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply FOLLOW @Zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Want to know how my clients transform their love lives, quickly? On this episode we break everything down and share an intimate testimony from former client, Najwa, and her new marriage. Ready to enroll in Coaching? Book a FREE Captivating Session and we'll discuss exactly what steps you need to take and what coaching option works best for you. Www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply follow Zara @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Whether you’ve experienced divorce, a traumatic breakup, or years of consistent rejection it can truly start to break you down and make you question if there are any men available for you or if you’ll ever find love again?
Most will get stuck with this paralyzing question and find themselves courting and manifesting relationships from this mindset or fearful and untrusting due to being stuck in the past.
Moving on from past heartache can be difficult. It’s hard to see the other side of the unknown especially when dating and courtship feels so uncertain.
This is why learning how to maneuver courtship with a high level of certainty and clarity can not only speed up your relationship goals but also restore the love you once lost. JOIN CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE GROUP COACHING APPLY NOW Www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply or DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
It's a Captivating Month! Doors to the Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program opens. You can book a Captivating Session and learn more about coaching at Www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply . On this week's episode we speak with Brittiany who shares how coaching has quickly shifted her love life and had freed her from relationship anxiety. We also discuss the law of attracting emotionally unavailable partners and what you need to do to change this aspect of your love life to have a more fulfilling Courtship and relationship experiences.
Is settling a REAL thing?
When is it okay to settle and when are you simply being “realistic” about partners?
This is a question so many women struggle with and something we dive into with Captivating Courtship Code coaching.
So, I want to share with you all the deets on IF you should settle with relationships and how to think about your partner selection and courtship options. JOIN THE WAIT LIST www.captivatingcourtship.com/cccwaitlist
Many women believe all their problems will go away if they just meet their match BUT I can say as an experienced matchmaker why that's probably not true and why coaching may be the better option.
Join the Captivating Courtship Code Facebook group for additional content and a Free Captivating Courtship Code Playbook. Follow @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Want to Join the wait list? Www.captivatingcourtship.com/cccwaitlist
Security is a mindset that requires you to transform your beliefs and mindset around the things you feel insecure about in order to shift. Your actions are a result of the beliefs you have and what you are or aren’t doing. Your issues aren’t your ability to invest in your upgrade. Your issues aren’t that everyone else or courtship makes you feel insecure.
Your issue is you’re failing to provide security for yourself...so what are you doing to give yourself more security? On this week's episode we dive into what's the real issue behind your insecurities. Join the free Captivating Courtship Code Facebook group. Follow @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Courtship and dating can be a fun experience that gives you the opportunity to meet and enjoy new mem while embarking on a journey to meet your future husband OR It can be an anxious, stressful, heart wrenching and tiring road that leaves you feeling emotionally drained, undervalued, and completely over it. What if I told you YOU play a major role in which of these experiences you actually have? It's true. One of the main reasons your experience is more stressed than blessed is due to you being way too future focused.
Do you often feel like men aren't stepping up to pursue you and if you don't do the heavy lifting they won't ask questions, plan meetups, or move the relationship along? If so this episode breaks down the shifts you need to make to create a different experience for yourself and shift into the role of being led instead of leading. Join the free women's only Facebook Group at www.captivatingcourtship.com/Facebookgroup AND join the wait list for the next group coaching session at www.captivatingcourtship.com/cccwaitlist
Are you too busy with work and school to have time for your relationships or courting? Do you find yourself constantly putting family or your children's needs above your own? How would it feel to finally decide your love life is worth putting first? On this episode we discuss the real reasons you believe you don't have time for love. Join the FREE Facebook group www.captivatingcourtship.com/Facebookgroup ... Join the Captivating Courtship Code group coaching wait list at www.captivatingcourtship.com/cccwaitlist
Short and sweet PSA about giving Yourself Grace with Relationships and remembering the tools in your tool box to do better and get it right.
Are you convinced your career, intellect, education, or income is too intimidating for men these days and has pushed men away?
What If I told you being an independent woman has nothing to do with your challenges with finding a compatible partner who sees and aligns with your values?
What if...there were things you’re doing or NOT doing energetically that’s repelling the types of men you desire to attract, and attracting men who have qualities you want to avoid?
On this week’s episode we dive into the myth of the independent woman being intimidating and chat about what skills as a woman you can shift that will make your independence a bonus and cherry on the cake to your natural, authentic womanhood. Join the FREE Facebook group www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup
On this episode we discuss 3 things you're probably thinking right now that's sabotaging your love life and will continue keeping you stuck plus 20 things you need to gain to transform your love life and relationships right now. Doors to the 12 month group coaching program ends soon. To join, book a call at www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com OR send Zara a DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship for more program details
Are you to receive a good man? On this episode we explore this question and being deeply transparent with ourselves about our alignment with the good partners we desire and the work required to attract the good man of your dreams. Ready to join coaching? Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply or contact @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram to book a call.
Have you been asking yourself, where do I find a good partner or relationship? If so, this episode dives into why you've been asking the WRONG question and what you need to ask yourself instead. Doors are open to the 12 month Captivating Courtship Code coaching program and closes soon. Ready to join? Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com/apply to book a call. Follow Zara @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram and join the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Facebook group for more free content www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup
Have you ever examined the REAL cost of courtship? Meaning, the impact of not making significant, long term changes in your relationships has on your overall life? You may be surprised there are things you're totally ignoring and preventing yourself from achieving simply by not knowing the impact and importance of the the things we're discussing on this episode. I'm going to share with you three things wealthy people know about courtship and relationships that you're probably underestimating. Ready to start coaching? Apply to join the 12 month Captivating courtship Code coaching program and shift your love this in the next 12 months. Go to captivatingcourtship.com/coaching ...join the FREE Facebook Group: Captivating Courtship Code or visit www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup to keep the discussion going. Follow Zara @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram.
So your friends and family been telling you to let things come naturally, again? 🤔 While you sit and stress about your love life and possibly missing out on marriage connection, a family and deep intimacy...they're telling you to just wait and be patient? Or they'll pray for you...but no real action being put behind it?
That sounds really good, but let's talk about the numbers of love...I'll call this the #50centcourtship Because letting things come naturally gives you a 50% shot of success...and 50% chance at failure. Why? Because 50% of women aren't married by 40 (and if you're over 40 you already know something needs to shift NOW). 50% of couples meet "Naturally"...public places, work, friends and family...all combined consistent showing up...doesn't sound to bad, right? 50% chance? Sis, 50% is a failing grade. Plus how many were intentional and ACTUALLY compatible?
Not to mention...50% of people have an insecure attachment style. Meaning you're 50% more likely to sabotage your courtship/dating life with anxious or avoidant behaviors. Meaning 50% have too many red flags. Yup...HOW you're showing up and WHO you're attracted to is on autopilot and likely to end up in a toxic or emotionally unavailable...emotionally unstable relationship due to your patterns...but wait... IF you're in the 50% of women with relationship anxiety...AND you consistently allow yourself to be in the 50% who meet naturally...PLUS you don't allow your anxiety to place you in the 50% who will sabotage themselves...then your family and friends are right! Letting things comes naturally should work... But do you want to place yourself in those odds...or do you want to be intentional, break your attraction patterns, and br 100% intentional to shift your love life for good? Are you ready for this year to be the year you break your #50centcourtship cycle and commit to you.
Girl, keep it 100! 100% bet on you! This is your year to shift. Are you ready? DM me to learn how. @zarajcaptivatingcourtship visit www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup
Who are the negative influences on your love life and relationships? How are they impacting your dating and courtships? If you're unaware of the impact or in need of a new circle of influence this episode will breakdown why the impact of the people around you are keeping you stuck in a major way. Join the FREE Facebook Group www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup to keep the discussion going. Want to join the 12 month Captivating Courtship Code group coaching program? Go to www.captivatingcourtship.com and complete the application and book a call.
Are you waiting for the pandemic to end before you put yourself back into the courtship and dating world? Are you tired of online dating and feel you've done everything you can do and nothing is working? That's because you're focused on the wrong step. You're more focused on where to meet partners that you're completely ignoring how you're showing up and the thought process you currently have that's consistently attracting the same experiences. This week's episode dives deep into finding love when covid19 ends and what to do now about it. Join the FREE FACEBOOK Captivating Courtship Code www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup and keep the discussion going. Leave me a comment on this topic. Follow Zara J. On Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
Are you struggling with relationship anxiety during dating, courtship, and relationships? Are you aware of what relationship anxiety is? How will you manage it? If you're a woman who struggles with managing anxiety in relationships this episode is for you. We discuss how to identify if you're feeling relationship anxiety, why you have it, and what to do about it. Join the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Facebook group for women and keep the discussion going. Www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup. Follow Zara J. On Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship send a dm or book a call to join the NEW captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Have you ever felt like you're consistently attracting toxic, emotionally unavailable, narcissistic men? Do you feel you keep attracting the same kinds of partners and experiences, just with different faces? There are reasons why this is happening AND you can shift this and turn your love life around. We're discussing this challenge on this week's podcast so you can dive deeper into your accountability in this circumstance and why you need to this this now if you truly want a leveled up love life.
Intimacy, courtship, and love can be extremely scary. Especially for those with a deep fear of being seen, heard, or rejected. It doesn't have to be such a major marriage and relationship challenge, you just have to learn to communicate from a place of courage and less fear. Join the FREE Facebook group for women and post your relationship questions. Www.captivatingcourtship.com/facebookgroup BOOK YOUR CALL to join the proven 6 step coaching program www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching ......follow Zara on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship
This week we discuss the problem and challenges of being a hopeless romantic and how focus on romance over reality usually leads to major red flags in love, courtship, dating and marriage. Join the FREE Captivating Courtship Code Facebook group and apply for coaching at www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Today we discuss a few reasons high achieving women tend to show up low value and with low standards despite feeling confident in other areas of their life. We cover topics such as compatibility, narcissistic partners, respect, materialism and the sabotaging mindsets that keeps this pattern going. To learn more or book a coaching call visit www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Follow Zara J. On Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship and Join the FREE Facebook group for single women, Captivating Courtship Codeand keep the discussion going.
Have you been thinking about coaching? This episode is a quick overview about 1 on 1 and new group coaching Captivating courtship coaching programs.
Do you feel men don't commit? This episode discusses that myth and more. Join the FREE Facebook group for women only, Captivating Courtship Code and post a discussion comment to keep the conversation going. Learn more about coaching at www.captivatingcourtship.com
Continuing the conversation about wounded Passion Patterns, this bonus episode shares the 4th common wounded passion patterns. Passion Pattern Profiles are the signature 8 different patterns Zara J. Has uncovered over the years of matchmaking and relationship coaching that leads to single sabotage and staying in a single cycle for years and year. FREE MASTERCLASS How Successful Spiritual Women Break Their Single Cycle registration is open NOW link the the Facebook Group. Join the FREE Facebook Group, Captivating Courtship Code, to continue the discussion, ask questions, or seek peer support.
What are 3 of the most common passion patterns? Today we discuss the 3 most common wounded passion patterns that sabotage your love life and keep you stuck in a single cycle. Breaking patterns can be hard but with clarity, intention, and inner work you can reprogram the way you've been attracting partners and now have an amazing love life with a partner who sees your value and desires commitment. Download the FREE Playbook at www.captivatingcourtship.com/playbook or join the FREE women only Facebook group: Captivating Courtship Code and join other women like yourself and discuss love, courtship, and relationships for the successful, spiritual woman.
Been curious about Captivating Courtship coaching programs or Wounds to Worth coaching? This week we discuss 10 ways to identify if you have a wounded Passion Pattern. Grab a pen and paper and see how many times you say YES. Want to join the FREE training, How Successful Spiritual Women Break Their Single Cycle? Join the Facebook group, Captivating Courtship Code, to gain access to the FREE training. Download your Courtship Code Playbook at www.captivatingcourtship.com/playbook or apply to work with Zara for 1 on 1 coaching at www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Back for another episode on this episode Zara J. Shares 5 tips she's learned by age 34, tips include how to appreciate and gain perspective on blessings, if not you then who, the number one thing she likes to remember about love, and more. Continue the discussion or post your relationship questions in the private, women only Facebook group, Captivating Courtship Code, and download your FREE Captivating Courtship Code Playbook at www.captivatingcourtship.com/playbook. Master attracting better quality relationships with one of Zara's signature group or one on one coaching programs. Learn more at www.captivatingcourtship.com
Do you have children or open to marrying someone with children? This episode touches on a few tips you may want to consider when blending families or courting someone while being a parent. Visit captivatingcourtship.com for FREE resources
Part 2 to the Habeeb Akande interview about pleasure Givers and Takers. Follow @@habeeb_akande on Instagram and follow Zara @_zaraj_ subscribe to Courtship Code Podcast and visit www.captivatingcourtship.com
Author and Speaker of the books, A Taste of Honey and Kunyaza, Habeeb Akande, joins us for an amazing discussion on pleasure, sex, and insecurities both men and women face in the bedroom. Follow Habeeb on Instagram at @Habeeb_Akande to purchase his books or learn more about his work. You can follow Zara J. @_zaraj_ to connect. Don't forget to subscribe to Courtship Code and leave a Review!
The tragic death of Kobe Bryant has been a shock to the world. In his memory, we take time today to remember to value and utilize our time which is not promised.
This week we're ending our Courtship series with Courtship Beyond Your 40s. Relationships and marriage can be a challenge for any group but when you're over 40 the intention and plan shifts and is focused even more on the long game. Ready to start coaching? Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com or email captivatingcourtship@gmail.com . Follow Zara @_zaraj_ on Instagram Don't forget to leave a review and subscribe on your favorite podcast channel
In the Episode if the courtship code we continue the courtship bracket series and dive into courtship in your 30s. The 30s can be one of the most stressful yet most important brackets when it comes to finding the love, marriage, or partnership your desire. It takes a deeper level of patience and understanding to navigate this decade. Checkout the insight and tips from matchmaking and relationship coaching specifically for singles in their 30s. To learn more visit www.captivatingcourtship.com and follow Zara on Instagram @_zaraj_
Welcome to Season 3 and Happy New Year! In this week's episode we discuss Courtship in your twenties, mistakes many young Singles make when trying to get married, and tips you can use towards marriage and courtship before thirty. The keyword for this age bracket is proactive. Learning to be proactive about your love life is essential to make the most of your foundational years in your twenties. Ready to get coaching? Visit go.captivatingcourtship.com to learn more or book a discovery call at captivatingcourtship.com
On this week's podcast we discuss 5 lessons Zara has learned from her late father about marriage, relationships, and communication that has impacted her and set an example for real life achievable relationship goals. Follow @_zaraj_ or visit www.captivatingcourtship.com to book a call or watch a FREE video about the Captivating Courtship program
On this episode we discuss what ego and mindset shifts you need to make in the new year in order to change your love life. Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com to book a discovery call or for FREE downloads to help you attract quality matches. .
You are what you attract. Don't like how that makes you feel? Listen up, on this week's episode we discuss how your own emotional Unavailability is attracting emotionally unavailable partners. You'll learn 3 questions you can journal and ask yourself to gain a deeper clarity on your own relationship sabotage and then you'll receive 2 tips to turn your emotional availability around in relationships, courtship, dating or marriage. Ready to book a discovery call? Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com or send A dm to @_zaraj_ don't forget to subscribe and leave a review on your favorite podcast channel so you never miss an episode
I'm a huge fan of Real Housewives of Atlanta and couldn't hold back from discussing season 12 and Kenya Moore's narcissistic marriage. If you've checked out episode S2E20 Why Smart Successful Women Attract Toxic Men then this gives real life application to everything mentioned. From Kenya's unhealed emotional wounds to her deep need for validation, she is the perfect attraction for a narcissist. Want to learn more about how the Captivating Courtship Code can help you heal emotional wounds and learn to position yourself for a high value relationship.
Hey! On this week's episode of the Courtship Code we discuss fun facts about the psychology of Cuffing Season and why you're so drawn to coupling and relationships during this time of the year. It's more than just a feeling! Your desire to find a great partner and avoid loneliness is a natural combination of evolution and psychology. Ready to book a discovery call? Visit captivatingcourtship.com to book a call and learn more how you can benefit from coaching this Cuffing season.
This quick episode provides 3 Questions to ask yourself in order to get clear on your own trust issues and what you need to do to turn it around. Ready to book a discovery call? Visit captivatingcourtship.com to book a 20 minute discovery call. We will discuss your current dating/relationship struggle, a few tips to turn it around, and how the proven 6 week program can work for you. Follow Zara @_zaraj_ on Instagram.
Ready to Captivate Courtship? Sometimes it's just a small gap between the mindset and actions you have and where you need to be that's keeping you stuck, frustrated, and wasting years not meeting quality partners. If you want to learn how coaching can help fast track your love life listen to this episode for all the details. Then, visit the website or send an email and book a 20 minute discovery call. We will discuss where you currently are and what steps you need to take to move forward. Want a FREE gift? Book a call from 10/21-10/31, 2019, and you'll receive a free gift when we you enroll in coaching. Learn more at www.captivatingcourtship.com Follow Zara on Instagram @_zaraj_
On this week's episode of the Courtship Podcast Divorce Coach Tonya Carter discusses with the us the importance and impact of divorcing your story, finding your purpose, and using your setback as a catalyst for get back. Follow Tonya on Instagram @mstonyaspeaks for more information and content about how you can divorce your story and turn heartbreak into a breakthrough. BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL www.captivatingcourtship.com or follow Zara @_zaraj_
Why do smart, successful women attract toxic men? Why do good girls love bad guys? Despite what you may think it's not always as simple to break up with your childhood as you may desire. In actuality, toxic partners prefer high quality partners, and not the weakest link. Today, we discuss 5 reasons you may be attracting toxic relationships despite your career success. Follow Zara on Instagram @_zaraj_ Book your FREE discovery call at www.captivatingcourtship.com/woundstoworth or send an email to schedule your call. Want to watch the FREE Masterclass? Visit www.captivatingcourtship.com
New season means a new opportunity to get the stress and sweat of the summer off of you can turn a new leaf with your relationship habits.
Just like any other good or bad habit we’ve developed overtime, we also have relationship habits. So this week’s episode is about creating new, and healthy relationship habits that you can commit to before the year is out, even if you’re not currently seeing anyone.
Before we get into the 5 habits I’ll be sharing today let’s talk about how habits are formed. Visit captivatingcourtship.com to watch the FREE Masterclass or book a discovery call and get started with captivating courtship code coaching. Follow Zara on Instagram @_zaraj_
Could you use an extra $5k a year?Financial Coach, Tasha Kinnard, brings us the mindset and approach to start making money moves and teaches how it starts with mindset. Tasha exposes how unmarried women have the upper hand to start getting ahold of their finances and leverage their spending money to increase a minimum of $5k a year. We had a ton of fun talking money, relationships, and how your childhood impacts it all! Follow Tasha @yourfinancesis on Instagram and follow Zara @_zaraj_ visit captivatingcourtship@gmail.com for the FREE Masterclass or signup for the Captivate Courtship weekend
On this week's episode of the Courtship Code podcast we share with pastor, speaker, singer, and brand strategist Rachel Yvonne. Rachel is amazing at being fully authentic and shares some lessons with the importance of owning your story and embracing shame and guilt. Learning to embrace your shame and guilt in order to feel more authentic is extremely important in all areas of life, especially with relationships. Working towards becoming more authentic allows you to attract more compatible partners. Subscribe to Courtship Code and leave us a review! Follow Rachel on Instagram @rachelyvonne and follow Zara @_zaraj_
Hey everyone, I was led to share a very personal forgiveness story in this episode because I know so many listeners are burdened by a lack of forgiveness. I want you to listen to and share this episode with someone you know who needs to learn about forgiveness. This was SUPER intimate and personal for me, so I thank you for listening and allowing me to share my story in order to help your story. The captivating courtship program and FREE masterclass is about to launch and I would love for you to join me in this journey. Follow me on _zaraj_ to join the program or the masterclass by clicking the link in my bio
Do you want to attract better matches on online dating sites? We have created a FREE Popping profile cheat sheet for you to download as a go to checklist to enhance your profile. In this episode I share with you 3 ways to maximize your profile plus a reminder to get over the fear of being seen. These tips include: 1. Photo tips 2. High energy words 3. Non specific description you can get your FREEBIE Popping Profiles cheat sheet on our website www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/popping profiles. Follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety or @_zaraj_
Do you know how to play your position? In this week's episode we share 3 ways to get out of your own way and start playing your position. You can checkout the Free Attract Your Match webinar at www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/podcast/s2e14 www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/attractyourmatch Follow on Instagram @_zaraj_ @blackmuslimsinglessociety you can join the Match Society at www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Top 3 reasons people avoid playing their position: 1. Fear of being seen 2. Procrastination 3. Clarity
Listen, I understand how easily it is to get emotionally triggered because you're not in the relationship you desire, but as one of my favorite rap lyric goes..."I'm not the captain of the yacht but I'm on the boat." You're still In the game. You have to practice gratitude for your courtship journey and relationships on your road to marriage. Youre probably doing better than most in your love life if you really look around. Just know, and trust, good is on the way. If you haven't already, go through the Detox program workshop on our website www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com or download the Match Manual www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/matchmanual follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety and @_zaraj_
Have you ever felt like you're meeting the same types of people, experiencing the same relationships or courtships, and are going through deja vu experiences in your love life? That means that you're experiencing tests in your courtships that's telling you it's time to change up whatever behavior you're continuing to repeat and increase your self worth and make different choices that reflect that you deserve what you desire. Visit our website www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com to enroll in The Match Society, Detox Program, or the Match Manual follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety and @_zaraj_
We interviewed Nyla and Fatimah from Outstanding Personal Relationships, a family, marriage and polygyny coaching business that helps families learn how to improve communication skills, and gain support on how to have healthy polygyny.
The ladies broke down how they struggled with building a relationship and communication in the beginning of their poly family and how they finally came to a cross road that pushed them to finally breakdown walls and build marriages and sisterhood that they have today.
Now, these women along with their husband, are using their story to help other polygamous couples to become stronger. They place personal development at the top of the list and believe it's the key to marital growth and bliss.
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Nadirah Pierre is a social media Influencer with a huge spirit, who uses her platform to Inspire change in the Muslim community. Today we interviewed her to dive deeper into her views on courtship, marriage, and even her personal experience as an Influencer and Muslim woman in the public eye.
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In this episode of courtship code we kick it off with Q&A and discuss the importance of making effort. Making effort in the 3 areas discussed makes a difference in pushing the process forward. We also share information on the Riyadaah, get tickets at riyaadah.org and our new ambassador program. Don't forget to like and subscribe to our show for notifications for new episodes.
Thanks for joining us for another episode! This week we're breaking down 5 basic principles for masculinity and how to identify them in yourself and others. Follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety Are you a part of Black Muslim Singles Society? Visit our website www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com
Welcome to season 2 of the courtship code! This week we'll discuss if you as a man are leading her to marriage AND if you as a woman are allowing yourself to be led? How to identify this and when to allow it to happen.
Have you been ghosted? Are you the ghost? This week we share 7 tips on dealing with ghosting and how to overcome the hurt and not carry it into your next relationship experience. 2 IN '18 PROMO on our website and Instagram www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/enroll/2in18 www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety
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You will never be right for the wrong person, and here's how you change that. Listen to this week's episode and don't forget to favorite, SUBSCRIBE, share and comment. follow us on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety enroll your profile at blackmuslimsinglessociety.com
Have you ever secretly struggled with feeling unworthy of love? This week we discussed what feeling unworthy looks like in relationships and how to combat it. www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Follow us on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety
Need Major Keys to Long Distance Courtship? This week we broke down 5 major tips to help you gain success from a distance. www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Use Code: FALLINLOVE for Basic Profile Listing and save $10 Follow on Instagram: @BlackMuslimSinglesSociety
Let's dive into 5 ways to acknowledge if you're creating balance or excuses when it comes to courtship! Favorite us on Anchor for updates Follow on IG @blackmuslimsinglessociety www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com
5 tips to better negotiating during. courtship to create win win situations for both parties. This quick episode gets straight to the point on some life long skills for every relationship in your life. follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com
Episode 7 is all about wearing your age with honor! We're giving you 5 tips on how to wear your age with honor and confidence during courtship and single life. www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety
What qualities are the opposite sex seeking? Listen to this episode to learn the top 3 qualities both sexes are looking in a long term partner. www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Follow on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety
Do you have a courtship code? Today we'll be discussing how to develop your personal code and the 4 phases of courtship. Follow us on Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety @blackmuslimsinglessocials @_zaraj_ Enroll in matchmaking www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com
Episode 4! We're discussing the difference between courtship vs dating, especially for Muslims singles with marriage, and how to shift from a dating mindset to a courtship one. We also shared how to shift your actions for better results. SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel Favorite and Listen on the Anchor App **** Let us know you're single>> bit.ly/bmsssingleL Men click here>> www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/men Women click here>> www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com/women Instagram @blackmuslimsinglessociety @blackmuslimsinglessocials @_zaraj_ Facebook Black Muslim Singles Society
Special guest and one half of That Clay Couple marriage counseling duo, Hasan Clay, joins us to discuss the impact of a person's past relationship behaviors on your potential courtship or marriage.
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Favorite this podcast for New episode notifications! This week of Courtship Code we're discussing exactly why your haters won't get your process and just how real the Glow up will be. www.blackmuslimsinglessociety.com Follow us on Instagram: @blackmuslimsinglessociety @blackmuslimsinglessocials @_zaraj_