Passivity Part 2 Show Notes In this episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast, we are going to talk about passivity and the effects on people and their relationships. And I’m also going to be giving listeners a FREE HYPNOSIS GUIDE! Stay tuned! INTRODUCTION What is up people? The Motor City Hypnotist Podcast is here in the Podcast Detroit, Detroit Studios. Thank you for joining me on this episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast. I am David Wright and with me is my producer Matt Fox. FIND ME: My Website: https://motorcityhypnotist.com/podcast My social media links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/motorcityhypnotist/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCjjLNcNvSYzfeX0uHqe3gA Twitter: https://twitter.com/motorcityhypno Instagram: motorcityhypno If you would like to contribute financially to the show, you can find me FREE HYPNOSIS GUIDE https://detroithypnotist.convertri.com/podcast-free-hypnosis-guide Please also subscribe to the show and leave a review. (Stay with me as later in the podcast, I’ll be giving away a free gift to all listeners!) TODAYS EPISODE IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY EMPOWER YOUR MIND FOR SUCCESS, A HYPNOTIC GUIDE BOOK. Available soon through Amazon or your local bookstores. WINNER OF THE WEEK; ‘Hero Dog Survives Rattlesnake Bite After Saving His Owner from Snake: 'My Heart Just Dropped' https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/good-news/hero-dog-survives-rattlesnake-bite-after-saving-his-owner-from-snake-my-heart-just-dropped/ar-AAL4VRv Passivity Acceptance of what happens, without active response or resistance Client who came to counseling because her husband had withdrawn and isolated. He spent all of his free time playing video games and slept on the sofa because he didn’t want to “disturb” her. She handled all of the household duties (financial, scheduling, child care, cleaning, laundry). She never spoke up or expressed her dissatisfaction because she didn’t want to start a fight This went on for months until one day, he came to her and told her he is seeing someone else. The client became angry, lashing out with insults. However, she eventually started begging, pleading and trying to appease her husband. She said she would do “anything” to save the relationship. She even offered to have an “open relationship” if he would just stay. These behaviors only drove the husband further away. In another example, a couple came to therapy together. The wife had “checked out” because her husband was distant and not involved. Just like the previous example, he spent all of his free time playing video games and hanging out with his buddies. He didn’t acknowledge his wife emotionally and was not involved with any of the household duties. The wife met someone else and asked the husband for a divorce. He reacted by begging and pleading, stating he would change. This reaction is typical with clients I see. One spouse intends to exit the relationship and the other spouse begins a journey of pleading and begging. The message being sent is “I can’t make it without you.” This leads to constant pleading for the partner to come back. Phone calls and texts in a desperate attempt to reconnect. The compulsion to rectify the situation strips the victimized spouse of self-esteem and dignity, causing the victim to grovel and act like a subservient puppy. FACT NUMBER 1; You cannot force your partner to change their behaviors FACT NUMBER 2: You need to work on yourself above anything else. FACT NUMBER 3: Most couples take action too late. Being less passive and more assertive 1. Develop self-confidence We don’t want people not to like us. 2. Value The Other Person 3. Set Boundaries Benefits of being more assertive Your relationships will improve You will feel less stressed You will gain confidence You become less resentful NEXT EPISODE: XXXX Change your thinking, change your life! Laugh hard, run fast, be kind. David R. Wright MA, LPC, CHT The Motor City Hypnotist
Passivity Part 1 Show Notes In this episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast, we are going to talk about passivity and the effects on people and their relationships. And I’m also going to be giving listeners a FREE HYPNOSIS GUIDE! Stay tuned! INTRODUCTION What is up people? The Motor City Hypnotist Podcast is here in the Podcast Detroit, Detroit Studios. Thank you for joining me on this episode of the Motor City Hypnotist Podcast. I am David Wright and with me is my producer Matt Fox. FIND ME: My Website: https://motorcityhypnotist.com/podcast My social media links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/motorcityhypnotist/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCjjLNcNvSYzfeX0uHqe3gA Twitter: https://twitter.com/motorcityhypno Instagram: motorcityhypno If you would like to contribute financially to the show, you can find me FREE HYPNOSIS GUIDE https://detroithypnotist.convertri.com/podcast-free-hypnosis-guide Please also subscribe to the show and leave a review. (Stay with me as later in the podcast, I’ll be giving away a free gift to all listeners!) TODAYS EPISODE IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY EMPOWER YOUR MIND FOR SUCCESS, A HYPNOTIC GUIDE BOOK. Available soon through Amazon or your local bookstores. WINNER OF THE WEEK; ‘Diver Emerges Unscathed From the Mouth of Humpback Whale: ‘I was completely inside’ https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/diver-swallowed-by-humpback-whale-off-provincetown/ Passivity Acceptance of what happens, without active response or resistance Client who came to counseling because her husband had withdrawn and isolated. He spent all of his free time playing video games and slept on the sofa because he didn’t want to “disturb” her. She handled all of the household duties (financial, scheduling, child care, cleaning, laundry). She never spoke up or expressed her dissatisfaction because she didn’t want to start a fight This went on for months until one day, he came to her and told her he is seeing someone else. The client became angry, lashing out with insults. However, she eventually started begging, pleading and trying to appease her husband. She said she would do “anything” to save the relationship. She even offered to have an “open relationship” if he would just stay. These behaviors only drove the husband further away. In another example, a couple came to therapy together. The wife had “checked out” because her husband was distant and not involved. Just like the previous example, he spent all of his free time playing video games and hanging out with his buddies. He didn’t acknowledge his wife emotionally and was not involved with any of the household duties. The wife met someone else and asked the husband for a divorce. He reacted by begging and pleading, stating he would change. This reaction is typical with clients I see. One spouse intends to exit the relationship and the other spouse begins a journey of pleading and begging. The message being sent is “I can’t make it without you.” This leads to constant pleading for the partner to come back. Phone calls and texts in a desperate attempt to reconnect. The compulsion to rectify the situation strips the victimized spouse of self-esteem and dignity, causing the victim to grovel and act like a subservient puppy. FACT NUMBER 1; You cannot force your partner to change their behaviors FACT NUMBER 2: You need to work on yourself above anything else. FACT NUMBER 3: Most couples take action too late. Being less passive and more assertive 1. Develop self-confidence We don’t want people not to like us. 2. Value The Other Person 3. Set Boundaries Benefits of being more assertive Your relationships will improve You will feel less stressed You will gain confidence You become less resentful NEXT EPISODE: Passivity, Part 2 Change your thinking, change your life! Laugh hard, run fast, be kind. David R. Wright MA, LPC, CHT The Motor City Hypnotist
In this episode, Jani, Sabrina, and Tara discuss:
Key Takeaways:
"You get over it by doing it… it’s in the doing… Action neutralizes negative emotion." — Tara Romano
Your Life Unleashed is March 6-8, 2020 in Long Branch, NJ.
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In this episode, Jani, Sabrina, and Heather Dixon discuss:
Key Takeaways:
"It's acknowledging and accepting that you can't always be in control of things, but you can be in control of how you deal with it." — Heather Dixon
If you live in the UK and would like to find a Warrior Workout class near you, contact us at info@alignmentessentials.com for Heather’s current class schedule.
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In this episode, Jani, Sabrina, and Adele discuss:
Key Takeaways:
“Being involved with Alignment Essentials just reinforced what I always felt...For me, it’s the mindset. Being more relaxed in life in general. Just knowing that life is supposed to be good for you, and you can’t get it wrong. That statement alone changed my world, because anytime there’s something going amiss and you say to yourself “I can’t get it wrong,” you really can’t!”— Adele Dunn
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In this episode, Jani, Sabrina, and Arianne discuss:
Key Takeaways:
"Energy is motion, is fluidity, is currency." — Arianne Traverso
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In this episode, Jani and Sabrina discuss:
*Key Takeaways:*
"If you focus on how you feel when you're training, how you look will take care of itself." — Jani Roberts
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In this episode, Jani and Sabrina discuss:
Key Takeaways:
"Whatever you pay attention to and focus on is what you're going to get more of." — Sabrina
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In this episode, Jani and Sabrina discuss:
Key Takeaways:
"It's a little bit of a supply and demand concept - the desire is really a demand and the belief that you create is the supply." — Jani
Connect with Jani Roberts and Sabrina Ursaner:
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Welcome to the Alignment Essentials podcast where you will find vital tools needed for living in alignment. Each week, Jani and Sabrina (a.k.a. SLU and Red) will take you through the step by step process of bringing your life into alignment using key questions and specialized tools. Whether you feel like you are stuck or searching for more in your life, Jani and Sabrina are here to help. Listen in every week to find out how to get more joy in your life.
"This is a practice; you are never going to get it done. But we promise you, you will start to experience more of what you want in your life and less of what you don’t want in a very short period of time. You just have to get started and the time to start is NOW." — Sabrina Ursaner
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