The Confident Single Woman: Recent Episodes
Starr Burroughs: Author, Coach, Speaker, Christian
If you're a single woman who loves her single life, yet desperately wants to get married, then tune in! Join Starr Burroughs, author of "The Ineligible Bachelorette" and Love Coach to single women, as she uncovers the truth behind why so many women are single AND what they can do about it. Married now for 9 years, she brings insight into our current dating culture (especially Christian culture) and empowers the single woman to live life confidently and boldly.
Today marks my 200th episode of The Confident Single Woman podcast.
Today will be my final day.
This transition away from my business and the podcast is extremely bittersweet. I know that God led me in this direction of coaching and podcasting, and I do believe he is leading me out of it at this time.
I did not make this decision lightly, but I do feel confident it’s the right decision for me right now. I don’t know if I’ll come back to coaching or podcast, or if I’ll come back to working with single women or not. I don’t know the future, but I do feel that I’m making the right decision for right now.
Please listen in to hear more about my story, what’s next, and why I’m walking away.
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
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Today, I have a fun episode for you!
I compare all the themes from the stories of the women who were on the podcast these last few weeks. As I listened to their stories and the specific things they pulled out to share, I came across 7 different topics that I kept hearing over and over again!
I have quite a bit to say about these different themes:
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Strayed from their TYPE
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Dated Online
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Dealt with Long Distance
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Went through their specific healing journey
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Knew who they were and what they wanted
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Accepted themselves and found someone who also accepted them
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Stopped waiting for love to happen to them and became an active participant in their own love life.
Tune in and share!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
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Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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Today, Melanie covers a lot from singleness, to long distance dating to being married for 2.5 years. She shares how she learned to be vulnerable, how to date long distance, how to have a quick dating and engagement season, and how she overcame her big roadblock just existing and waiting for a man to sweep her off her feet.
She also talks about how marriage has met her expectations, or exceeded them in some areas, as well as the challenges of marriage.
Melanie offers so much insight. You’ll want to take notes and listen twice!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
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Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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Join me today as Erica and I discuss her struggles, breakthroughs, and what real married life is like!
When Erica was single, she was used to dealing with loneliness by being in a relationship, even if that meant the relationship was unhealthy. She shares that her journey to healing came about through coaching, therapy, godly mentorship, and finally, through a renewed relationship with Jesus Christ.
As she rededicated her life to Christ, she began to change from the inside out. As a result, her relationships changed as well.
Tune in today to hear her story from healing to redemption and learn how her hard work and God’s divine intervention brought her her much needed breakthrough.
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
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Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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Katie shares about the lessons she’s learned, the transformation that has taken place, and the miracles she’s received.
Today, Katie share about why she feels it’s a miracle that she is getting married. What seemed so far out of reach for her, and truly unachievable, is now happening. She explains that it’s not just that she overcame her barriers slowing her down toward married, but why it’s a genuine miracle that she is getting married.
She went through a lot of healing, a lot of dating, a lot of heartbreak, and she happily shares her story today with what helped her overcome her roadblocks.
You’ll be inspired and learn from the challenges and victories Katie has experienced!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
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Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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I love Marissa’s transparency on today’s episode. She’s raw, real, and helpful to the single women listening!
In her 40’s she found love and overcame big barriers keeping her from marriage. Her analytical side helped her in her singleness, however, it also hindered her in her journey toward love. Through self-awareness and healing, she was able to open her heart to love and married the quality man that was pursuing her.
Tune in today to learn more about the specifics of Marissas barriers and breakthroughs. I know it will be inspiring and helpful!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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Today, Elise shares her story of how she was “hyper focused” on looks and the outward appearance in her previous relationships. When she decided to surrender the process of finding a husband to God and submit to His leading, she began to prioritize substance in a man.
During this time, she began working with me. She had already done a lot of inner work, and within just a few short months she met her husband, Nick! She was in the right mental and spiritual state to recognize him as the perfect match for her. She prioritized substance, a relationship with God, and a healthy relationship.
Tune in today to learn more about her story, what she had to overcome, and HOW she overcame!!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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In this episode, I talk with Mary, a 35-yr old who recently got engaged.
She shares about how she had to deal with the feelings that God had forgotten all about her. She also dealt with a lack of confidence and shares what she had to do to overcome that.
Looking back, she can see how God’s hand was on her life and now clearly sees the divine timing of God. It was in that season, she had to take a lot of steps in order to become to person she is today - confident, feminine, comfortable in her own skin, and now engaged.
Listen in to learn more about her story, how she met her fiancé on Hinge, her engagement story, and all the obstacles she had to overcome!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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Join me and I talk with Leah Climer about the breakthroughs required in order for her to be ready for her husband, Lance.
Leah worked with me a few years ago, but was still dealing with self-worth issues. It took some time and therapy before she began to see victory in the inner healing process. But when she did, her husband came into her life.
That’s when she began working with me again!
It was in that journey that she worked through challenges, enjoyed the mutual love and commitment that she desired, and eventually married her forever-man.
Tune in today to hear more about her journey and how she overcame her struggles!
The book she referenced in this episode is Keep Your Love On by Danny Silk.
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
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Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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In my conversation with AdriAnna, we talk about her life as a single woman, dating woman, and now, newly married woman.
You know how people say, “Hindsight is 20/20?”
Well, AdriAnna shares incredible insight into her own life as a single-and-searching woman. She knew that she wanted to get married, but at the time she was more concerned with not singled out due to her singleness, especially since practically all the other girls were dating/engaged/married.
She grew more and more self-aware during her singleness and from there was able to overcome areas in her life that were holding her back from finding the person she wanted to spend the rest of her life with.
As she went online, over and over again, she eventually met her husband.
So tune in today to hear more about her stories, what she’s overcome, the advice she wishes she could’ve given to her single self, and the advice she has for you.
Starr’s Resources: The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored): https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
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Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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If you’re in the dating game, you’ve probably dealt with a lack of confidence at some point! Even if you’re a great dater, it still can be nerve-wracking showing up to a date and trying to be your best self.
On today’s episode, I go over 4 different suggestions on how to strengthen your confidence while dating.
First, you want to know your standards. You can find my Guide on how to do that here: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards.
Second, you need to know what areas to compromise in and what flaws you’re willing to partner with.
Third, make sure you vet the guy before going on a date with him. Discuss those hot topics first!
Lastly, stop caring if he likes you or not!
As you start implementing these practices you’ll notice that your confidence will actually grow over time.
Oh, and don’t forget to email me your questions that you’d like me to ask my recently engaged or married clients!
starr@StarrBurroughs.com
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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Today, I have a fun, EXTRA episode for you!
I’m sharing one of Kait Warman’s episodes, “Types and Attractions with Kait and JJ,” from The Heart of Dating podcast!
They share their story about how JJ wasn’t Kait’s “type” at first, even though she thought he was good looking.
They also answer the questions: “How should we treat having a “type?” and “How important is attraction?” Kait and JJ will cover the 5 types of attraction as well!
You’ll definitely want to tune in!
Please grab Kait’s FREE Guide on “How To Show Interest”: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest
Check out Kait's podcast: https://www.heartofdating.com/podcast
Starr’s Resources: The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
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Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One - https://www.amazon.com/Ineligible-Bachelorette-Taking-Havent-Found/dp/0998522007
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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In my years of listening to and coaching single Christian women, I’ve learned there are 4 prominent areas that some women fall into that make it very difficult, if not impossible, to get married.
These 4 areas are extremely challenging to overcome. It takes deep self-awareness and a gritty determination to break through these roadblocks to love; each area can carry many layers of pain.
The top 4 reasons that some women will always remain single are:
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Severe introvertedness and/or social anxiety.
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Confusion about who she is and she isn’t living out the characteristics that she’s looking for in a man.
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She has very strict barriers on what she is looking for and won’t compromise.
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She thinks of herself more highly than she ought. Romans 12:3
Please tune in and share!
Starr’s Resources: The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored): https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
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Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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“I’m just not attracted to Christian men!”
Ouch.
I’ve heard this from many Christian women who want to get married to a CHRISTIAN MAN!
This is a dangerous place to live because it’s massive self-sabotage. In today’s episode I cover quite a few thoughts about why you may fee this way. I also ask many questions for you to ask yourself so that you can find out exactly what it is that you’re not attracted to.
If you want to get married and you’re struggling with being attracted to the right types of men, please listen to today’s episode. I think it’ll be very helpful in guiding you to discover exactly why you’re not attracted to Christian men and what to do about it.
Starr’s Resources: The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored): https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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Have you ever told yourself, “Well, not everyone gets married!”?
People will say that to remind themselves that they aren’t alone in their singleness. They say it to make themselves feel better and to remain logical, rather than emotional in their desire for marriage. I’m sure there’s many other reasons, but these are the top ones that come to mind.
However, when people say this is triggers an unbelief and doubt that rears it’s ugly head. It would be considered human reasoning. Unbelief, doubt, and reasoning don’t partner well with the power of God.
If we need the power of God in our lives to provide breakthrough, we need to operate in a belief that God is all-powerful and able to perform miracles. But how we we believe that when our mind is filled with human reasoning?
In fact, 2 Corinthians 10:4 in the NLT says this:
We use God’s mighty weapons, not worldly weapons, to knock down the strongholds of human reasoning and to destroy false arguments. We destroy every proud obstacle that keeps people from knowing God. We capture their rebellious thoughts and teach them to obey Christ.
What this is say is that our human reasoning and false arguments actually create a stronghold and are considered a proud obstacle that keep us from knowing God. It also says that those thoughts are considered rebellious and we need to teach them to obey Christ.
Wow! I’ll break this down even more in today’s episode and discuss how to pull down strongholds and see breakthrough in your life!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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The Truth About Marriage … and 6 Myths About Marriage You’re Probably Believing
Today I’m talking all about the realities of marriage. I want to break down 6 different myths that you may be believing about marriage and share the truths.
Myth #1: We do everything together
Myth #2: He Will Never Change
Myth #3: Marriage will Fix you, Heal you, be Magical, keep you from being lonely
Myth #4: Marriage will meet all your expectations
Myth #5: Strong, Healthy Marriages should come naturally
Myth #6: Your Husband Can’t Be Your Everything all the time (your God, your Fixer, your Leader, your Priest, your EVERYTHING)
Definitely tune in to learn about the realities of marriage and truths behind these myths!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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The journey of the Perfectionist to the altar can be a long one.
Today, I’m talking about the standards a perfectionist has for how she should be treated.
There are a few mindsets that are hindering women when they date, meet men, and even after they’re already in a relationship. These mindsets start out as innocent, but if we aren’t careful they become very self-centered.
If you’re a perfectionist and are wondering if some of your thought patterns or beliefs are actually hindering you, please tune in to today’s episode!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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The journey of the Perfectionist to the altar can be a long one.
Today, I’m talking about the standards a perfectionist has for a man and how it can slow down her progress toward marriage. I truly believe perfectionism is a blind spot many Christians have.
Single Christians always want to pursue godly qualities in their search for an amazing Christian man, but what if you’re actually being a perfectionist with perfectionistic expectations in your search for the “perfect” husband?
Tune in and share especially if you think your standards and attractions are erring on the side of perfectionism.
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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Have you ever run into the same type of guy over and over?
And then over and over again?
And again?
When this happens, you begin to believe that “all men” are ________ (fill in the blank). But that’s simply not true because you haven’t met “all men,” have you? ;-)
As this pattern continues, even Christian women begin thinking … “All guys want is sex!” “How do I stop attracting the wrong men?” “What am I doing wrong?”
If you’re a successful woman, you may find it difficult to find someone who matches your level of success, or maybe even someone who actually has goals and ambitions. That doesn’t seem like too much to ask for when you’re 35 years old!
On today’s episode, I tackle this frustrating topic of what to do when all the guys you’re attracting only want sex and/or don’t even have the goals or success that you’re desiring.
I’ll go over the difference between attracting these types of men and entertaining them. I’ll also explain how to discern if you’re being status-driven in your search for the successful, ambitious man or if you’re genuinely searching for someone who simply matches your values and work ethic (hint: there’s a big difference between searching for status and searching for a man who’s respectable and matches your work ethic).
Thanks for listening!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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Are you the one hindering your progress toward marriage or is it other factors that are slowing you down?
Do you find yourself wondering, “Is it my fault I’m single?” or “Why am I not married yet?”
As women, we tend to blame ourselves and constantly think about what to fix. However, it’s important to accurately diagnose what’s hindering your progress toward marriage.
Sometimes it is you. Sometimes it’s not.
But how do you know if it is or isn’t?
Today, I’m asking questions to help you figure out if you’re the common denominator in your singleness or it’s it’s truly other factors. Or maybe it’s a mix of both!
I’ll give advice on who you can ask to help you determine if you’re the one slowing yourself down, how to look at your surroundings and figure out if they’re hindering you (and what to do about it!), and how to look inward to see if you have mindset shifts that need to happen.
If you want to have a clear understanding of what, or whom, is slowing you down on your journey toward marriage, please tune in!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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We all understand how important timing is, but do we understand how important being in the right place is?
What I’ve learned to do as a love coach to single christians is to learn more about their surroundings.
Is their church a dry and dead atmosphere for potential christ-centered, romantic relationships?
Is it never going to happen in their workplace regarding love and marriage?
Do they have anyone setting them up or believing for marriage for them?
Do they fit into their surroundings?
Does anyone ever pursue them or ask them out? Is anyone ever getting asked out?
Is their schedule the same day-in and day-out and they’re constantly surrounded by dead ends?
It’s so important to know if you’re in the right environment in order for a relationship to begin.
On today’s episode, I’ll go over how to know if you’re in the right or wrong place and how to get in the right place! And yes, we’ll even cover how to know if you’re the common denominator, or if your environment is what’s hindering you. We’ll even discuss the importance of discerning a wilderness season where nothing visible is happening, but it’s the place God has for you for right now.
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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The 4 things I want single Christian women to know:
1) Sometimes it’s you, sometimes it’s not. Know which side of the track you’re on.
2) How to culture of dissatisfaction is affecting singles!
3)Discover if you’re in the right place.
4) Stop blaming God for your singleness.
If you’ve ever asked, “Why am I still single?” or “What am I doing wrong?” then you’ll want to tune in! Sometimes there are things we can change, sometimes there are not.
This episode digs deeper into the complexities of singleness, why some women remain single, how our culture impacts our singleness, how sin impacts our singleness, how to know if we need to change or if there’s nothing for us to change.
As I delve into these 4 areas, I hope you’ll have insight into your own life.
Starr’s Resources: The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
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Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
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Let’s talk about emotionally unavailable men … What does that mean? How can you tell if a man is emotionally unavailable? What should you do if you realize the guy you’re talking to is emotionally unavailable? In this episode, I answer all these questions! You’ll find out that you’ve been on dates with, or dated, emotionally unavailable men. It’s not as hard as you think to detect them, it’s more difficult to cut them off and move on. If you’re a woman who is ready for marriage and looking for that marriage-minded man, then don’t waste your time with someone who can’t be in a relationship. If you feel like you can’t get to know that man you’re talking to, or you’re confused by him, it’s possible he’s emotionally unavailable. Tune in to learn how to identity emotionally unavailable men and what to do about them! Starr’s Resources: The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored): https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift Follow me: Facebook Instagram Email: starr@StarrBurroughs.com
Have you ever wondered where the line is between being too passive or too aggressive as a single woman?
It can be hard to know what “waiting” looks like, what “putting yourself out there” looks like,” what “dropping the hanky” looks like, and what pursuing a man looks like. Not to mention what the right approach is for your specific situation.
It doesn’t have to be this confusing!
In this episode, I discuss why you should look for a man (husband), HOW to do this, and what it looks like when you’re looking for a husband!
Tune in and share!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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If you’re the type of woman who needs more than just butterflies and love to get married, then this episode is for you!
Some women make the decision to commit when there is mutual love and magnetic attraction, other women are more hesitant to commit and take a longer time making the decision. Those women need more than just love.
In this episode, I discuss 3 important things to look for in addition to love. I also cover 3 things NOT to prioritize when you’re looking for more than just love. Lastly, I talk about important to be aware of (or BEWARE of) that could prolong your journey toward marriage.
Tune in and share!!
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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Check out today’s episode with my former client, Arlyn, who’s been married for over a year now!
Arlyn was the type of woman who genuinely loved her single life (a little too much!), but became a converted skeptic and is now loving married life with her husband.
I have so many great questions for her about her single-to-married season:
… what her biggest roadblocks were,
… how she met her husband,
… how she knew he was the right person for her,
… and what changes she had to make in order to move toward marriage.
I also asked her to share all of the big and small miracles that took place in her life prior to her even meeting her husband. The miracles didn’t stop there though, they continued into their dating relationship!
You’ll have to tune in to learn more!
Arlyn’s prayer list from January 2019:
This year I vow to DO what I CAN do:
- pray & fast
- spend time wisely and intentionally
- be social and friendly
- trust God
- obey the promptings of the Holy Spirit
- operate in faith not fear and believe that God will SUPERNATURALLY do what I cannot do:
- heal my broken heart
- provide divine encounters with the right people
- multiply time and opportunities
- orchestrate the events of my life
The acronym Arlyn referenced was created by Megan Starbuck in her book, Surprised By Marriage: A Cynics Guide To Believing In Love. I interviewed Megan in 2019; you can listen to the episode here: #80: From the Cynical Single to the Optimistic Wife (Part 1) with Megan Starbuck
Lysa Terkeurst quote from her book, It’s Not Supposed To Be This Way, page 82:
“Wine left on its dregs, not poured from one jar to another, means it’s been sitting in comfort for so long that it has absorbed the aroma of complacency. Winemakers at the time of Jeremiah would pour wine from jar to jar for two reasons. First, so the wine wouldn’t absorb the flavor of the vessel, and second, to rid the wine of the dregs or the sediment that would settle into the bottom and prevent the wine from being pure.”
Daniel 2:20-21:
“Blessed be the name of God forever and ever, to whom belong wisdom and might. He changes times and seasons; he removes kings and sets up kings; he gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to those who have understanding.”
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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Check out today’s episode with my former client, Arlyn, who’s been married for over a year now!
Arlyn was the type of woman who genuinely loved her single life (a little too much!), but became a converted skeptic and is now loving married life with her husband.
I have so many great questions for her about her single-to-married season:
… what her biggest roadblocks were,
… how she met her husband,
… how she knew he was the right person for her,
… and what changes she had to make in order to move toward marriage.
I also asked her to share all of the big and small miracles that took place in her life prior to her even meeting her husband. The miracles didn’t stop there though, they continued into their dating relationship!
You’ll have to tune in to learn more!
Arlyn’s prayer list from January 2019:
This year I vow to DO what I CAN do:
- pray & fast
- spend time wisely and intentionally
- be social and friendly
- trust God
- obey the promptings of the Holy Spirit
- operate in faith not fear and believe that God will SUPERNATURALLY do what I cannot do:
- heal my broken heart
- provide divine encounters with the right people
- multiply time and opportunities
- orchestrate the events of my life
The acronym Arlyn referenced was created by Megan Starbuck in her book, Surprised By Marriage: A Cynics Guide To Believing In Love. I interviewed Megan in 2019; you can listen to the episode here: #80: From the Cynical Single to the Optimistic Wife (Part 1) with Megan Starbuck
Lysa Terkeurst quote from her book, It’s Not Supposed To Be This Way, page 82:
“Wine left on its dregs, not poured from one jar to another, means it’s been sitting in comfort for so long that it has absorbed the aroma of complacency. Winemakers at the time of Jeremiah would pour wine from jar to jar for two reasons. First, so the wine wouldn’t absorb the flavor of the vessel, and second, to rid the wine of the dregs or the sediment that would settle into the bottom and prevent the wine from being pure.”
Daniel 2:20-21:
“Blessed be the name of God forever and ever, to whom belong wisdom and might. He changes times and seasons; he removes kings and sets up kings; he gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to those who have understanding.”
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
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Join me in Part 2 of my conversation with Michelle Donnelly as we discuss moving on from divorce as a single Christian woman.
Michelle is the founder of Agape Moms and the host of The Christian Single Mom’s Podcast.
We cover quite a few topics, such as:
Her former marriage and what led to it ending;
the first thing she did to begin her healing journey;
when to start dating after divorce and whether one should wait for complete healing or not;
comparing your Ex with men you’re currently dating; and
what to do when you can’t let your Ex go or he can’t let you go, and so much more!!
Please tune in and learn from Michelle who cares deeply about women going through divorce or who have already been divorced.
Learn more about Michelle:
www.AgapeMoms.com
Michelle’s Book: Seen: Hope and Healing for Single Mom’s
Podcast: The Christian Single Mom’s Podcast
Quiz: What Is Your Loneliness Type?
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
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7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift
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Join me in my conversation with Michelle Donnelly as we discuss moving on from divorce as a single Christian woman.
Michelle is the founder of Agape Moms and the host of The Christian Single Mom’s Podcast.
We cover quite a few topics, such as:
Her former marriage and what led to it ending;
the first thing she did to begin her healing journey;
when to start dating after divorce and whether one should wait for complete healing or not;
comparing your Ex with men you’re currently dating; and
what to do when you can’t let your Ex go or he can’t let you go, and so much more!!
Please tune in and learn from Michelle who cares deeply about women going through divorce or who have already been divorced.
Learn more about Michelle:
www.AgapeMoms.com
Michelle’s Book: Seen: Hope and Healing for Single Mom’s
Podcast: The Christian Single Mom’s Podcast
Quiz: What Is Your Loneliness Type?
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One - https://amzn.to/2xmE49u
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift
Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/starrburroughsbooks
Email: starr@StarrBurroughs.com
I love my conversation with Yahnathan of The Right To Real Love Radio Podcast. Today, we discuss why Christian men avoid a woman of compromise.
He has such great insight into this topic! We talk all what compromise looks like and how men are able to recognize a woman of compromise. We even talk about the types of men who are OK with compromise and those who are not.
I ask Yahnathan (Jay) about the process of healing and what that journey looks like, especially as a woman is entering into a relationship.
This is an eye-opening conversation that gives us women insight into the different ways a man might think about a woman who is knowingly compromising, trying to end the compromising tendencies as she goes through healing, and the woman who has chosen not to compromise.
Join our conversation and share!
Learn more about Yahnathan:
Podcast: The Right To Real Love Radio Podcast
Jay’s book: Manifest Him: Powerful Prayers For Your Future Husband
Luke 6:45: A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.
Jay’s Recommended Resource:
Myles Munroe: Waiting and Dating: A Sensible Guide to a Fulfilling Love Relationship
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community:
The Confident Single Woman
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7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift
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Email: starr@StarrBurroughs.com
I love my conversation with Yahnathan of The Right To Real Love Radio Podcast. Today, we discuss why Christian men avoid a woman of compromise. He has such great insight into this topic!
We talk all what compromise looks like and how men are able to recognize a woman of compromise. We even talk about the types of men who are OK with compromise and those who are not. I ask Yahnathan (Jay) about the process of healing and what that journey looks like, especially as a woman is entering into a relationship.
This is an eye-opening conversation that gives us women insight into the different ways a man might think about a woman who is knowingly compromising, trying to end the compromising tendencies as she goes through healing, and the woman who has chosen not to compromise.
Join our conversation and share!
Learn more about Yahnathan:
Podcast: The Right To Real Love Radio Podcast
Jay’s book: Manifest Him: Powerful Prayers For Your Future Husband
Luke 6:45: A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.
Jay’s Recommended Resource:
Myles Munroe: Waiting and Dating: A Sensible Guide to a Fulfilling Love Relationship
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored): https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One - https://amzn.to/2xmE49u
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift
Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/starrburroughsbooks
Email: starr@StarrBurroughs.com
Kristen Clark of Girl Defined Ministries breaks down what femininity looks like in modern culture.
Join us as we talk about what femininity IS and IS NOT what the cultural and biblical differences are. I also ask Kristen about the girls who don’t consider themselves feminine according for societal standards and what role femininity plays in relationships.
We do a deep dive on this topic while keeping a biblical perspective, which should always trump the cultural perspective on femininity.
Learn more bout Kristen:
Girl Defined: GirlDefined.com
Kristen and Bethany’s Books: https://www.girldefined.com/the-books
Podcast: The Girl Defined Show
YouTube: Girl Defined
Email: contact@GirlDefined.com
Kristen’s Resources:
Revive Our Hearts Ministry - Nancy DeMoss and Mary Kassian
True Woman 101 - Bible Study on Womanhood - Nancy DeMoss and Mary Kassian
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community:
The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]
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Kristen Clark of Girl Defined Ministries breaks down what femininity looks like in modern culture.
Join us as we talk about what femininity IS and IS NOT what the cultural and biblical differences are. I also ask Kristen about the girls who don’t consider themselves feminine according for societal standards and what role femininity plays in relationships.
We do a deep dive on this topic while keeping a biblical perspective, which should always trump the cultural perspective on femininity.
Learn more bout Kristen:
Girl Defined: GirlDefined.com
Kristen and Bethany’s Books: https://www.girldefined.com/the-books
Podcast: The Girl Defined Show
YouTube: Girl Defined
Email: contact@GirlDefined.com
Kristen’s Resources:
Revive Our Hearts Ministry - Nancy DeMoss and Mary Kassian
True Woman 101 - Bible Study on Womanhood - Nancy DeMoss and Mary Kassian
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community:
The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]
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I’m so excited to introduce my guest for today’s episode, Damona Hoffman, Dating Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show and NPR, a dating coach and TV personality, a contributor to CNN Headline News, BET.com, The Washington Post, LA Times, and match.com.
Today, we talk about Virtual Dating and how to use tech to make a deeper romantic connection!
Damona has some amazing tips on how to date and connect online. She discusses her strategy on how to get to know men online and develop that romantic connection sooner. She also covers how to be patient online and when not to be!
Tune in and share!
Learn more about Damona:
Podcast: www.DatesandMates.com
Website: www.DamonaHoffman.com
Instagram: @damonahoffan
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community:
The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]
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If you’re looking for dating advice, or advice for singles, then Jonathan Pokluda, former leader of The Porch, is the go-to guy. JP led The Porch for over a decade and grew the ministry to become the largest weekly young adult gathering of it’s kind.
In this 2-part series I have some incredible questions for him about singleness, dating, and pre-marriage. I wanted to know all about the biggest lies singles believe, how important physical attraction is, what the most common complaints are among single men and women, how promiscuous behavior effects someone’s marriage, what red flags to look out for, and so much more!
He answers these questions in this 2-part series, but also coves these topics in his new book, Outdated: Find Love That Lasts When Dating Has Changed. We even talk about his passion behind this book and his hopes that it will be a leading influence in changing the current dating culture for today’s singles.
Join me in my conversation with Jonathan (JP) Pokluda and share this episode with a friend!
Learn more about JP: https://jonathanpokluda.com/
JP’s Book:
Outdated: Find Love That Lasts When Dating Has Changed (released March 2nd)
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Get your pre-order bonuses here: https://jonathanpokluda.com/
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Buy on Amazon
Instagram: @jpokluda
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community:
The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]
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If you’re looking for dating advice, or advice for singles, then Jonathan Pokluda, former leader of The Porch, is the go-to guy. JP led The Porch for over a decade and grew the ministry to become the largest weekly young adult gathering of it’s kind.
In this 2-part series I have some incredible questions for him about singleness, dating, and pre-marriage. I wanted to know all about the biggest lies singles believe, how important physical attraction is, what the most common complaints are among single men and women, how promiscuous behavior effects someone’s marriage, what red flags to look out for, and so much more!
He answers these questions in this 2-part series, but also coves these topics in his new book, Outdated: Find Love That Lasts When Dating Has Changed. We even talk about his passion behind this book and his hopes that it will be a leading influence in changing the current dating culture for today’s singles.
Join me in my conversation with Jonathan (JP) Pokluda and share this episode with a friend!
Learn more about JP: https://jonathanpokluda.com/
JP’s Book:
Outdated: Find Love That Lasts When Dating Has Changed (released March 2nd)
-
Get your pre-order bonuses here: https://jonathanpokluda.com/
-
Buy on Amazon
Instagram: @jpokluda
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community:
The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]
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Email: starr@StarrBurroughs.com
Today, I talk with Heart of Dating’s Kait Warman all about Singleness, Self-Rejection and Finding Wholeness!
I loved my conversation with Kait because it touches on such deep emotions that both men and women experience in the dating world. She has great insight into how to handle rejection and what self-rejection and self-hate is AND how they go hand-in-hand.
We also talk all about healing and the journey to compassion toward oneself.
You’ll want to tune in and share because this conversation is so relevant to the modern woman (and man!), whether you’re currently dating or not!
Get your free bonuses when you order Kait's new book, Thank You for Rejecting Me, before it's released on Feb. 16th!
Go to:
TYFRM.com.
Learn more about Kait:
www.heartofdating.com
Kait’s Book: Thank You for Rejecting Me: Transform Pain Into Purpose and Learn To Fight For Yourself
Instagram: @kaitness; @heartofdating
Podcast: Heart of Dating
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community:
The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]
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Today, I talk with Heart of Dating’s Kait Warman all about Singleness, Self-Rejection and Finding Wholeness!
I loved my conversation with Kait because it touches on such deep emotions that both men and women experience in the dating world. She has great insight into how to handle rejection and what self-rejection and self-hate is AND how they go hand-in-hand.
We also talk all about healing and the journey to compassion toward oneself.
You’ll want to tune in and share because this conversation is so relevant to the modern woman (and man!), whether you’re currently dating or not!
Get your free bonuses when you order Kait's new book, Thank You for Rejecting Me, before it's released on Feb. 16th!
Go to:
TYFRM.com.
Learn more about Kait:
www.heartofdating.com
Kait’s Book: Thank You for Rejecting Me: Transform Pain Into Purpose and Learn To Fight For Yourself
Instagram: @kaitness; @heartofdating
Podcast: Heart of Dating
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community:
The Confident Single Woman
Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]
Follow me:
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Email: starr@StarrBurroughs.com
Join my conversation with Crista Beck, Dating Coach and Matchmaker, as we discuss how Hollywood and Disney are ruining your love life.
You won’t want to miss part 1 and part 2 of my conversation with her.
We talk about how to get our of fantasy land and into real life;
what dating habits need to change in order to see the reality of your dreams come true;
how successful women could be unintentionally sabotaging their love lives;
how to deal with being called intimidating, and so much more!
Crista has incredible insight as she’s been in the industry for 12+ years and cares so much about single women who want to see the reality of a beautiful marriage come to pass in their lives!
Learn more about Crista:
www.CristaBeck.com
Book: Break the Glass Slipper: Free Yourself of Fairy Tale Fantasies and Find True Love in Real Life (Audible)
Podcast: Break the Glass Slipper
Dating IQ Quiz
Starr’s Resources:
The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
Join our free Facebook Community:
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Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift
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Join my conversation with Crista Beck, Dating Coach and Matchmaker, as we discuss how Hollywood and Disney are ruining your love life.
You won’t want to miss part 1 and part 2 of my conversation with her.
We talk about how to get our of fantasy land and into real life;
what dating habits need to change in order to see the reality of your dreams come true;
how successful women could be unintentionally sabotaging their love lives;
how to deal with being called intimidating, and so much more!
Crista has incredible insight as she’s been in the industry for 12+ years and cares so much about single women who want to see the reality of a beautiful marriage come to pass in their lives!
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New Year, New Miracles!
Listen in as I talk through my journey of receiving God’s confirmations and miracles that eventually led to our move out of California.
In looking back, I cover so many details of God’s intricate design … all the things that set us up for the future, which is where we’re at now. It’s amazing how God works, how He aligns things to work out perfectly, and how He truly does have the perfect timing (though it’s rarely our timing).
I learned in this process of receiving from God, that there is an intense amount of trust, faith, and obedience that is put to the test prior to the manifestation of His miracles.
So, join me as I journey through my recent past and process out loud the guidance I received from God during a difficult season of life!
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New Year, New Miracles!
My Journey from Singleness to Marriage with My Husband!
This was a really fun episode to record as I got to interview and talk with my husband, Sean Burroughs.
We share our individual stories of how God showed up in our lives when we were single. I had to overcome my obstacles of fear, worry, and doubts and learn to trust God and allow Him to open up my heart.
Sean had to learn to endure, seek God, and listen in order to get direction from Him.
We both had to examine our hearts and were able to this through godly mentorship, fasting, and lots of prayer.
Tune in to listen to listen to our stories of how God intervened in our single lives!
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Binding and Loosing verse:
Matthew 16:19; 18:18 (NIV):
“Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be f loosed in heaven.
Ephesians 3:20 (Message):
Now to Him who is able to [carry out His purpose and] do superabundantly more than all that we dare ask or think [infinitely beyond our greatest prayers, hopes, or dreams], according to His power that is at work within us …
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New Year, New Miracles!
I’m excited for this new, short series all about the personal miracles I’ve experienced in the recent years!!
I was inspired to do this series in the hopes that I could encourage women to believe for a miracle when it comes to getting married. When you hear about other people’s miracles it helps you believe for your own, increasing your expectation for the supernatural power of God in your life.
In this particular episode, I share the small and big miracles that happened in my life that led to me starting my business as a Christian Love Coach.
I also cover what was required of me in order to see those miracles come to pass. It wasn’t just about receiving the miracles from God, it was about praying, listening, surrendering, obeying and enduring that led to the manifestation of those miracles.
If you’re needing a miracle, and encouragement in the process, please tune in!
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Is Your Identity, Destiny, and Vision Wrapped Up In Your Future Husband?
I’m a huge advocate of women walking into their purpose and seeing God fulfill a long-term dream of theirs of becoming that wife that they’ve prayed so long for!
However, what I’ve seen in conjunction with that ambition is an idolization or an obsession with the gift that God has for them, rather than God Himself. So how do you not idolize a future husband, making decisions with him in mind, and making everything you do or don’t do about this future role of “wife?”
I’m glad you asked!
In this episode, I’ll talk about how to know if you’re becoming too consumed with the idea of a future husband and future marriage. I’ll explain what it means to keep God as GOD in your life and not allow a future husband to become your God. I’ll also discuss the importance of anchoring your life and hope to God himself, and not the gift or the dream fulfilled.
As you go into the new year, you’ll have clarity on how to discover your identity, destiny, and vision as a daughter of God, not as a future wife.
Tune in today and share!
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Women these days seem pretty good at recognizing red flags. Whether they decided to deal with them or not, is up to them. But, overall, single women who are serious about marriage are serious about paying attention to red flags!
If you’re wanting to get married and are careful about who you’re choosing to spend your time with, then you’ll want to check out today’s episode.
I’ve been pondering why women don’t seem to notice, or maybe care, about this big red flag that is so, so easily overlooked. It’s almost as if people have blinders on and don’t even notice it … so much so, that they repeat the same mistake in the next relationship.
I want to shed light on this red flag that women are allowing into their dating lives without even realizing it. I’ll go over what this big, overlooked red flag is, how to recognize it, what to do about it, and how to NOT deal with it again!
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Women these days seem pretty good at recognizing red flags. Whether they decided to deal with them or not, is up to them. But, overall, single women who are serious about marriage are serious about paying attention to red flags!
If you’re wanting to get married and are careful about who you’re choosing to spend your time with, then you’ll want to check out today’s episode.
I’ve been pondering why women don’t seem to notice, or maybe care, about this big red flag that is so, so easily overlooked. It’s almost as if people have blinders on and don’t even notice it … so much so, that they repeat the same mistake in the next relationship.
I want to shed light on this red flag that women are allowing into their dating lives without even realizing it. I’ll go over what this big, overlooked red flag is, how to recognize it, what to do about it, and how to NOT deal with it again!
Tune in to today and share with a friend!
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Have you ever wondered how to get a guy to approach you?
How to get a guy to ask you out?
How to get a guy to pursue you?
Well, those are the questions I’ll be answering on today’s episode! There are so many different reasons why some men aren’t asking women out. Oftentimes, it can be due to the church culture you’re in, the current environment you’re in, or because you simply don’t have opportunity to be in social settings right now.
However, there are also some more hidden reasons as to why you may not be approached by men. Those reasons have much more to do with our attitude, how we’re perceived, and our behavior.
So, today I want to talk about 5 different things you can do to get approached and even encourage pursuit.
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On today’s episode I talk about 5 different ways you can enjoy your singleness while on your way to marriage.
I didn’t want to take the generic approach and talk about travel, pampering yourself, being selfish, etc. I wanted to talk about legitimate things any woman can implement in order to enjoy their lives more.
So, if you’re ready to take action and do things differently in order to find more enjoyment in your day-to-day life, please tune in!
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Can you tell me about a time when you had difficulty knowing WHEN or IF you should call it off with that guy you just started talking to?
Or if you should say no to the next date (or maybe even cancel it)?
I bet you can!
This area of knowing when to walk away can be more difficult than it seems. It’s not always black and white. There are a lot of little nuances in a new relationship that can make discernment a bit challenging.
In today’s episode, I cover 5 practical tips on how to know when you should call it off. I’ll also cover those gray areas so you know how to discern for yourself what the right thing to do is and when!
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Is marriage hard? Like, really hard? Why is marriage hard?
Well, that’s the question I’m going to tackle today.
Many married people have said marriage is hard, and I’m sure I have as well. When a single person hears this, she either dismisses the person saying it because she doesn’t respect that person, or maybe thinks that person has something unique in their marriage that makes it hard (that the single person won’t have to go through).
Or, conversely, the single person hears this and wonders if marriage will even be worth it. Does she want marriage more than being single? Could her single life be better than the unknowns of a married life?
Both strings of thought can be hindrances in the process toward marriage.
What I want to share is that marriage can be hard, and it likely will be hard at time, but I do not believe it should always be hard! Like, permanently … during the entire marriage!
Today, I’ll share some of my personal stories from being married for 10 years! I also talk about what makes a marriage hard and how some of those challenges can be alleviated.
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Have you ever had the thought when the right person comes along, then …
Or told yourself that you’ll lose weight when …
If you have, like countless others, then you likely know the feeling of waiting for something or someone to motivate you to do what you want to do anyways!
The problem is that we often need to ACT FIRST in order to receive what we really want. We may need to slow down the upward trajectory in our career because it’s taking up all of our mental space; so much so that we don’t have a time for a relationship.
Or we may need to finally begin our counseling journey in order to receive the healthy man that we know we deserve.
You see, we need to act first in order to get what we really want. The challenge is that we won’t always KNOW if we’re going to get that thing, or person, we want. So it can feel defeating if we’re doing all the acting and not yet doing any of the receiving.
We can easily remain stuck for years with the backwards mentality of, “When I have this, then I’ll change that.” Ultimately, the principle holds true that we act first, then receive.
Tune in today to learn how to act first so that you can receive what you want!
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As a single woman, how do you prepare for marriage?
Do you have to be the Proverbs 31 woman?
Do you have to be healed of all your baggage?
Do you have to love yourself to the moon at back?
Though some of the above would be great to have and be, it doesn’t have to be that intense!
In this episode, I go over 4 different strategies that can be implemented immediately, with or without a man by your side.
These 4 strategies will help you better prepare for marriage, become the woman you want to be, and attract the man you want. Nothing and no one has to be perfect for marriage, but there’s no harm in preparing for it!
Tune in and learn how to better prepare for marriage as a single woman.
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Today, I’ll be discussing one main question I asked my husband shifted the direction of his life (his words!).
This question is the same question I’d ask you on your journey toward marriage.
It’s a question that will force you to think about where you stand with your convictions, your standards, and your vision.
I’ll be discussing what it looks like to surrender your search to God and submit to His vision. This is such an important piece that can easily become neglected when we’re on our way to fulfilling God’s plan for our lives.
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Have you ever fallen into the trap of believing that men aren’t interested in successful women? As if successful women are too intimidating and men are too insecure …
Though there may be some truth to that, it’s not the whole truth.
There are plenty of very successful married women. It’s simply a fact that a successful woman in her field with lots of money CAN get married to a wonderful man. It’s a fact because it’s been done many times before. I’m not saying there aren’t unique challenges that you’ll face, but it is possible to be very successful and find a wonderful man.
However, what many women seem to forget is that with success people can become very prideful. And pride is ugly. It taints your soul, in my opinion :-)
In this episode, I discuss the differences between a successful, NON-prideful woman versus a successful, prideful woman. This way, you know what to look out for within yourself and you can even apply this awareness to the men you’re dating (it goes both way).
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There are so many wonderful qualities that we’re all looking for in a husband. Some women prefer a height requirement, educational degrees, ambition, shared morals, humor, a good conversationalist, generosity, etc. The list could literally go on forever.
But there are 3 absolutes that I believe every woman (and man) should be looking for in a life-long partner.
These 3 things, in my opinion, are non-negotiables. The catch is that they’re usually hard to spot right away.
You know the saying, “Don’t judge a book by it’s cover?” Well, this should be your mantra as you begin searching for men who meet these 3 requirements.
Tune in today to learn what 3 things women should look for in a husband!
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How many of you have family members who love asking about your love life? Or love giving you advice about your love life?
It’s the best when they’ve been married forever and don’t know anyone else who’s single at your age, and they still want to help you understand what you’re doing wrong. Haha!
As much as you love your family (I hope!), I wanted to discuss how to deal with the family members who insert themselves into your love life, or lack thereof, when you get together for the holidays, or any time really.
I cover how to respond to the dreaded question, “Why are you still single?,” how to communicate with those who genuinely care about you, and what to do when you have family members who just love getting under your skin.
Tune in to learn more about what to do! And…share this with a friend you know it can help … And … subscribe and refer back to this before the holidays!
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Join me as I talk with Jennifer Uwanaka of Beautiful Believers about dealing with loneliness during quarantine!
Jennifer has some amazing questions for me about how to deal with loneliness.
She asks about:
… the difference between being alone and feeling loneliness;
… if loneliness can be overcome,
… how to deal with loneliness in a marriage,
…. why/how it exists within a marriage,
…. do you have to get married in order to overcome loneliness,
… how to overcome loneliness as a single woman, especially for the social ones during Quarantine!
… and so much more.
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Join me as I talk with Jennifer Uwanaka of Beautiful Believers about dealing with loneliness during quarantine!
Jennifer has some amazing questions for me about how to deal with loneliness.
She asks about:
… the difference between being alone and feeling loneliness;
… if loneliness can be overcome,
… how to deal with loneliness in a marriage,
…. why/how it exists within a marriage,
…. do you have to get married in order to overcome loneliness,
… how to overcome loneliness as a single woman, especially for the social ones during Quarantine!
… and so much more.
Be sure to tune in for Part 1 and subscribe to be notified for Part 2!
Enjoy!!
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If you’re curious about how to reject well, what to say, and how to do it graciously, then listen to this episode!
There are 5 different things that you need to consider in order to reject clearly AND graciously. Once you know these things, and truly care about them, it’ll make it a lot easier to reject.
From there, it takes time to develop the “skill” of rejection where you can be kind to the person showing interest in you, but simultaneously turn him down.
I cover how to do this with the men who look great on paper, the “Good Guy, but not Your Guy,” and I also talk about how to reject the man who doesn’t share your faith, values, or beliefs.
Tune in and share!
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How man Christian women are attracted to men based off of society’s standards first, and then and only THEN do they consider if God’s standards are being met?
I want to challenge every Christian woman to reprioritize their standards and attractions to be led by God’s standards first. Then and only THEN will they consider if him if he meets society’s standards.
Essentially, I’m asking you to choose backwards.
Now, this doesn’t mean I’m saying you should give NO consideration to looks (because we all know that’s the first filter), but what I am saying is that it’s possible that too much value is being given to making sure the guy meets ALL your physical qualifications first.
Give this episode a chance :-) Tune in and share!
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As a single woman, I’m sure you’ve listened to dozens, if not hundreds, of YouTube videos on singleness and dating, listened to plenty of wisdom from Matthew Hussey, and received too much unsolicited advice from everyone around you.
I’m a Love Coach for single Christian women and though I’ve heard much of the same advice as you have, I am certain I’ve never heard anyone talk about what I’m going to talk about on today’s episode.
I learned about this massive, overlooked issue that keeps people single because of my clients, the women in our Confident Single Woman Facebook group, and from single friends. I had to bring this to light on today’s episode and discuss how it may be impacting you in your single life.
This issue applies to so many people, men and women alike, and it’s something that people don’t even consider to be a hindrance. However, I see how this issue slows down people’s progress toward finding someone they want to be with forever.
Thank you for tuning in today and for sharing this episode to those you know it’ll help!
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As a woman, were you taught how to suppress your sexuality in the Christian culture?
Suppression looks different to different people, but if you’ve ever felt ashamed of your desire for sex, your sexuality, or simply about being a woman then please listen to this episode, “How to Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman.”
I interview Kat Harris of “The Refined Woman” and she goes into detail about what sexuality is, what it looks like if we’re ashamed of our sex drive, how to embrace your sexuality in a biblical way, and how to overcome shame.
You won’t want to miss this! Tune in and share!
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Girls and Sex by Peggy Orenstein
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Redeeming Sex by Deborah Hirsch
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Sex God by Rob Bell
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The Mingling of the Souls by Matt Chandler
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The Wait by DeVon Franklin and Meagan Good
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Theology of the body by Christopher West
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Every Good Endeavor by Timothy Keller
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As a woman, were you taught how to suppress your sexuality in the Christian culture?
Suppression looks different to different people, but if you’ve ever felt ashamed of your desire for sex, your sexuality, or simply about being a woman then please listen to this episode, “How to Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman.”
I interview Kat Harris of “The Refined Woman” and she goes into detail about what sexuality is, what it looks like if we’re ashamed of our sex drive, how to embrace your sexuality in a biblical way, and how to overcome shame.
You won’t want to miss this! Tune in and share!
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Find Kat Harris here:
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Recommended books by Kat Harris:
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Girls and Sex by Peggy Orenstein
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Redeeming Sex by Deborah Hirsch
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Sex God by Rob Bell
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The Mingling of the Souls by Matt Chandler
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The Wait by DeVon Franklin and Meagan Good
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Theology of the body by Christopher West
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Every Good Endeavor by Timothy Keller
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If you’ve ever struggled with self-condemnation or simply not liking yourself, you’ll want to listen to this episode! I talk about 3 specific consequences that happen in the dating life of a single person who struggles with actually liking herself.
This is also for the person who deal with low self-esteem or self-worth. Tune in to learn about how this affects your dating life!
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Have you ever caught yourself seeking validation from a man? Going on dates wondering, hoping that he chooses you. Maybe you’ve felt your best about yourself when you’re dating. Or you feel most valuable when you have a man’s attention.
If you’ve caught yourself needing to feel important and valued, but you can only get those feelings when a man chooses you, then you’re seeking validation from a man.
Tune in to today’s episode, 3 Signs You Need a Man’s Validation, to learn if this is you!
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If you’ve ever struggled with believing marriage is going to happen for you, then please listen to this episode.
Christian was in a place where she genuinely, and constantly, questioned if she’d EVER get married. In fact, she told me once that she simply didn’t believe she ever would. She wanted to believe it, hoped for it, but deep down she was deeply unsure.
Her story is a common one - not an avid dater, distracted with life and its responsibilities, and not putting any focus on her love life slowed down her progress toward love. However, in time, that plot line began to change.
Tune in to learn about the shift that happened for Christian and how she went from overcoming big mental and emotional hurdles, to being in a committed relationship with an incredible man!
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Melanie’s Story: From Single and Searching to Happily Married
Have you ever wondered what it’ll be like to go from single to married?
Of course you have! You’ve probably dreamed about that a thousand times!
In this episode, I talk with Melanie, a former client, about her journey from singleness to marriage. She was like many of the women I know - unwilling to get married just for the sake of getting married! She didn’t want to settle, wasn’t interested in just any man, had her standards in place, but wasn’t making any headway in the love department.
Tune in and listen and she takes us on her journey from online dating frustrations, long distance dating challenges, and overcoming personal obstacles in order to have a great relationship.
Now … she got married in a Pandemic and is loving life with her new husband!
Tune in and share!
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I want every single woman to be able to apply solid discernment and judgment to her unique dating life.
Too often, I see women applying popular, quotable pieces of dating advice that, at first glance, appear to be great advice for any situation. However, we can get in trouble if we’re constantly applying this generalized advice to our specific circumstances and unique self.
In this episode, I discuss how to have solid discernment for yourself, your man, and your circumstances, especially for those gray areas. It’s time to be more careful in applying good, but generalized advice to the specific details your unique dating life.
Here’s how … Tune into today’s episode: How To Use Discernment to Interpret the Gray Areas of Dating.
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Do you really want to get married? Are you interested in someone disrupting the life you’ve created for yourself? Are you willing, able, interested in making room for him?
Today I talk about how to allow a man to disrupt your manicured life. Many, many women deeply desire marriage, but when it’s time to commit, or date someone promising it’s too easy for them to nitpick the man to death … and then walk away from the possibility of a future with him.
Why? Maybe it’s because she likes her life as-is and doesn’t have room in her life for a flawed man.
If you’re wondering if that’s you, then tune in to today’s podcast!
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It is so important to have shared interests with a prospective boyfriend. When you have shared hobbies, passions, or interests at least you’ll have an easier time connecting.
Your commonalities helps take the pressure of the first few dates because it’ll be easier to get to know each other, which leads to greater chances of actually feeling chemistry with that person.
In this episode, I go over why shared hobbies are important and how they will help you in the dating world.
So, if you’d like to more easily connect and feel chemistry with prospective men tune in to learn about how shared interests, hobbies, and passions can help you do that!
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Too often I see women who give too much time to the wrong men, are attracted to the wrong men, say their “picker” is off, and are wondering where all the good men are (they’re already married, they say!).
No doubt is it hard to find the “right one” these days, and yes, it’s also hard to find quality guys. I understand that.
But if we can get on the right path, with the right standards, healing the right wounds, making the right mistakes, then we may find the “right one” sooner, rather than later.
In today’s episode, I talk about how fear causes us to crave security. Too often, many women end up searching for security in all the wrong places.
If you’re curious, tune in!
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2 Timothy 1:7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. (NKJV)
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How important are feelings in the beginning stages of a relationship? Are they a good indicator that you’re with the right person?
What about chemistry? What if you don’t have it right away? Should you continue getting to know someone?
In today’s episode, I tackle the subject of how important feelings and chemistry are. I offer some thoughts from married women who’s responses range from having immediate butterflies for their now-husband, to no butterflies at all in the beginning.
If you’re a “feeler”, not a feeler, or anywhere in between you’ll want to tune in today to get a clearer understanding of how important feelings are in a relationship.
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“Manifest Him: Powerful Prayers For Your Future Husband”
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What do you do when a guy has it all, except looks? He seems perfect, but you just can’t be attracted to him. He’s perfect and you wish you felt something for him, but you just don’t. If he was more attractive, maybe it’d work. Is it you? Do you need to change to make it work? Or is it simply the fact that you don’t find him attractive? In today’s episode I go over how to understand yourself and your feelings toward quality men who aren’t attractive enough for you. I’ll tackle whether you’re just being too superficial … or not, Whether you should move on because there’s no attraction there, How important personality and looks really are! Email: Starr@StarrBurroughs.com The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/starrburroughsbooks The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u
What happens when your relationships ends, but you’re still stuck seeing that person all the time? What do you do then? How do you get over him? How do you move on?
Today, I talk about how to get over your ex even when you still have to see him. Maybe you work with him, or co-parent, or maybe you see him at church at least once a week.
Or, what if you share mutual friends? Then what? Do you have to break up with your friends too?
No, no you don’t!
In this episode, I offer ways to get over your ex even if you’re still seeing him consistently. Tune in to learn more!
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Are you a perfectionist? I know I’ve definitely struggled with this. It’s too easy for me to be stuck to my schedule, my way, my system, and my path. When life derails me or I’m forced to deviate from my perfect plan, I can’t help but get upset and frustrated.
Maybe you can relate. If you bring that perfectionism into your dating life, you’ll want to let that go right away!
Being a perfectionist toward men and relationships causes you to be a controller, only accepting things on your terms; how you want them and when you want them. This is not good soil for a solid relationship to grow in!
Tune in as I dissect the differences between perfectionism and standards and offer 3 strategies to help you say goodbye to being a PERFECTIONIST DATER for good!
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It’s time to love and accept yourself. Today I discuss 3 different processes you can go through in order to begin this deep journey toward love and acceptance.
If you’ve ever struggled with confidence, grace and compassion toward yourself, or acceptance, then tune in today!
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Maybe you’re a changed woman.
Maybe you’ve decided to change the way you date.
You’ve implemented standards, began incorporating boundaries into your love life, prioritizing marriage, or maybe you’ve decided not to obsess over marriage …
Whatever you changed, the fact is YOU’VE CHANGED!
With that comes new behavior, new standards, and new motives behind your decision making.
With all of these changes, confusion can creep in. You may start to doubt yourself, question your judgment, wonder if you’re doing the right thing, and become unsure of yourself.
Where did your confidence go? When did you stop trusting yourself to make the right call?
If this is you, then you need this episode! Tune in to learn how to begin trusting yourself again!
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How To Date During A Quarantine:
If you’re wondering how to date during a quarantine or “Shelter In Place” order, then this episode is for you!
Believe it or not, it is possible to date during the quarantine. Though you may not go out to eat or even meet up in person, there are other strategies that you can implement to see growth in your dating life.
You will even see growth in your personal life, which will help you when you date online or when you can eventually meet in-person.
So tune in today!
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If you’ve felt judged by others for being single, join the club. I know this is one of the biggest ares of frustration for singles — being judged by the church, by family, by friends, by society, and even by co-workers.
So, what do you do? I mean, what can you do? Do you just avoid those who judge you? Do you walk away from friendships?
In this episode, “What To Do When Others Judge You”, I offer 6 suggestions that you can test out to help you deal with the judgment of others. So, if you’re feeling weighed down by others’ opinions of you, you’ll want to tune in.
As always, thank you for sharing!
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Have you ever felt unlovable? Or like you’re just never chosen and you wonder why?
Too many women feel overlooked and never the one who magically clicks with the man who’s ready to get married.
Recently, I watched “Love is Blind” and I was struck my LC’s confession about feeling like she’s unlovable. LC, from Netflix’s “Love Is Blind” series shared that she wonders why the pattern of not being chosen keeps repeating in her life.
I know many women can relate with that. So I wanted to offer my advice to the woman who feels unlovable. Even if she’s logical enough to know that’s not true, the fact remains that she feels like she’s not getting chosen over and over again.
If that’s you or someone you know, please tune in to learn what to do and not do so that this pattern can STOP repeating in your life!
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Have you caught yourself googling these questions?
How to heal from heartbreak,
How to move on from your Ex,
Is it God’s will for us to get back together?
Why can’t I get over my Ex?
If you have, you aren’t alone!
Men and women alike deal with heartbreak and wonder why it takes SO long to move on. Even if you never dated that person, you may still have deep feelings for him. Granted, this type of quick attachment is formed more often by women than men.
If you never dated him, but held on to the hope that he was “The One” for you;
Or you only dated for a few weeks and quickly fell in love;
Or spent years together and now that relationship has ended tragically;
You’ll want to know HOW, for the love of God, DO YOU MOVE ON?
I offer 5 tips to move on from your crush or your love. Either way, these tips will help you.
I also address how to know if it’s God’s will for you and your Ex to get back together.
If you’re curious about either of these topics, then please tune in and share!!
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Verse referenced in this episode:
Jeremiah 17:9 (NKJV)
“The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked; who can know it?
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How Do I Know If He’s The Right One?? Is HE the right one?
Whether you’re single or dating, how could you not wonder that?
Before I got married 9.5 years ago, I remember wondering that myself. Marriage is such a huge decision to make, so it’s only natural to want to know how to know if that person is the right person for you.
In this episode, I offer my tips on how to recognize the right fit for you, and I even share a few articles and their tips as well.
Tune in today and share!
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What should I do on a first date? What should I say? What should I not say?
Have you ever asked yourself these questions?
Most singles care about their first date impressions (if you don’t, you’ve probably already given up). So, if you do care about first impressions and hope to have a good first date, then check out this episode.
I discuss what you should do on a first date, but I don’t necessarily outline the perfect steps to take to have an amazing date … because there aren’t any fool-proof behaviors on dates.
Instead, I offer ideas on how to “be,” how to feel, how to be perceived, and overall, how to have a great first date (even if your date sucks) :-)
Tune in to learn my 5 tips on what to do on a first date, what not to do on a first date, what to say on a first date, and what not to say on a first date!!
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Is dating just a numbers game?
If you continue putting yourself out there, meeting men, and going on dates THEN eventually you’ll find The One, right?
In this episode, I talk about whether you simply need to meet more men or if the challenges go deeper than that.
Tune in today!
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We all have a right to have preferences when it comes to love and dating. We are entitled to what we prefer … what we’re more attracted to, what we desire, what we want, what our “taste” or “type” is.
That’s my right.
That’s your right.
That’s his right.
I want to ask the question though, Are your preferences keeping you from God’s promises?
Is what you prefer more important than what you know is right for you? Are you putting a higher priority on your preferences than you should?
If your preferences are leading your search, leading your attractions, leading your desires, then maybe you need to reconsider your preferences.
ESPECIALLY, if you still aren’t getting what you want.
If you want to learn more about having “preference” as as a single person and how to interpret if they’re leading you toward or away from what you want, then tune in to today’s episode!!
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Today's episode on The Confident Single Woman:
How To Pray For Your Future Husband / Prayer For Future Husband
Whether you love your single life or not, you’ve probably wondered if you should pray for your future husband. Maybe you’ve wondered HOW to pray for your future husband.
I wanted to tackle that topic today.
The biggest obstacle I came across while preparing for this episode is that women struggle to believe that marriage is for them.
They wonder, Am I called to Singleness? Am I called to marriage? Will I be single forever? Does God want me to get married? And the list of questions could go on and on.
Well then, HOW do you pray for something, or someone, you don’t really believe for? If you aren’t sure you’ll get married, how can you pray for your future husband?
I answer that question in today’s episode and give other practical advice on HOW to actually pray for your future husband.
Tune in and share!
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You’ll learn about:
The No Wasted Time Formula where I cover 3 Communication Strategies to keep you online longer, with more efficiency and focus, and with better (much better) results.
I’ll also cover how to create a great Online Dating profile!
Additionally, you’ll learn:
How to discover the important info up front … so you don’t have to go on bad dates!
How to avoid and discern the time-wasters, pen pals, and playboys!
How to keep a conversation going, then move to phone calls, then to dates SEAMLESSLY!
How to create a great online dating profile.
How to initiate a first messages.
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Today, I interview Jessica Hottle, author of two best-selling books, “Know Your Worth” and “A Worthy Wife.” Along with a third book, “Own Your Worth.” She’s also the coach at, “The Worthy Body Bootcamp” and host of, “What’s The Truth Podcast.”
So, Jessica knows her stuff when it comes to self-worth, value, and identity. She shares her personal story of struggle and victory and how her experiences have helped her change the lives of others.
If you want to hear from an expert on how to discover your self worth, how to know your identity, how to know your identity in Christ (and what that means), and how to increase your self worth, then please listen to today’s episode.
She has invaluable insight into what self love and self worth is, what self worth looks like, and how to increase your self worth. Not to mention, she even answers the question of how to wait well!!
Tune in today!
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As a single person who wants to get married, have you ever wondered how to not feel lonely. Or how to get your emotional needs met? Or how to feel fulfilled?
Today, I tackle the the topic of how to allow God to meet your emotional and physical needs. It’s kind of an odd idea to think that a spiritual being should be able to meet your very human needs. However, God is the source of our answers and uses people to meet our needs.
So if you’re trying to figure out HOW to be satisfied as a single Christian woman, then tune in today!
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My guest, Acamea Deadwiler author of the book "Single That: Dispelling the Top 10 Myths of the Single Woman," understands something that most people don’t.
She understands that:
Not EVERY single woman is desperate for marriage. Not EVERY single woman is willing to settle for the wrong man. Not EVERY single woman needs a man to feel valued and worthy. Not EVERY single woman is miserable.
In fact, so many women are not any of these things!
On today’s show, Acamea talks about the biggest myths that society believes about single women.
She will also discuss how these women can deal with the fact that many people believe wrong things about them … and just because they’re single.
Tune in to learn what these myths are and how you can overcome the judgements and assumptions of others.
Acamea Deadwiler:
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There’s this saying that I hear often. I’ve heard men and women say it alike. I totally get why people say it! It makes sense.
It feels very innocent.
However, I don’t believe it is. The saying, and even just the thought, has so many subconscious layers that people aren’t aware of.
What’s in our heart, goes to our thoughts, goes to our words, and finally, goes to our actions.
So it’s worth digging a littler deeper into what this saying, and thought process behind it, is doing to a generation of single people.
Tune in to find out what it is!
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Sometimes we just need to move beyond the small talk, but don’t always know how. We try, but they don’t bite. Or, maybe they try, but we don’t bite.
If the conversation doesn’t move beyond surface level information like favorite shows, career details, weekend plans, how could you ever actually have a connection with someone?
You can’t!
It’s pertinent to learn to be curious about the person you’re talking to, how to be yourself around him, and how to enjoy small talk that leads to more meaningful conversations.
If you’ve ever wondered:
Why don’t I connect with anyone?
Why do I hate small talk so much?
What kinds of questions should I ask on a date?
How can I be more vulnerable?
Then this episode is for you! Tune in to learn more about how to have meaningful conversations with people you just met, or those acquaintances you’d like to know more!
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“How To Deal With Lustful Thoughts”
Have you ever had a lustful thought? What about many lustful thoughts? Or … do you prefer living in fantasy land over reality?
Well, in today’s episode I’m provide 3 tips on how to deal with lustful thoughts. This is something that has been brought to my attention by clients, as well as listeners to the Podcast. So, I wanted to address the real need that women have when in comes to controlling their mind and dealing with lust.
Tune in today to learn exactly how to manage your mind and deal with lust!
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“I’m Doing Everything I Can, So Why Isn’t Anything Working?”
Let’s talk about this.
Have you ever been so frustrated about the your circumstances that you’re stuck in?
Have you ever felt defeated?
Have you ever wondered, Why aren’t I married yet? I have so much to give, so much to offer!
This may be the episode for you.
Tune in to learn about why things aren’t working, what you can do (if anything), how to change the way you think, what to do when your circumstances are unfavorable, and how to get unstuck!
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The last part to my 3-part series on compromise is about “How To Go From the Compromiser to the Pioneer.”
When you’re trying to change your life and are embarking on a new journey, it can be very challenging to make the changes necessary in order to see the growth you want to see. So, sometimes we have to blaze our own path.
If you’ve compromised in any areas of your life, then tune in to discover what it means to become a pioneer and create the life you want to live!
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Today, I’m talking about the unfair and undeserved grace of God. This is an incredible episode about the hope, restoration, and redemption you can believe for even AFTER you’ve made one to many (or 1,000 to many) compromises.
The Restoration After Compromise goes over biblical examples of God’s generosity and kindness to those who are undeserving. In fact, we’re all undeserving, but from a human standpoint, we see ourselves or others as more undeserving based on the wrongs committed and compromises made.
If you need encouragement and strength to get out from under condemnation and shame, tune it and share!
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Welcome to the three-part Compromise series! I promise, it’ll be more exciting than it sounds ;)
The first part, "The Consequences of Compromise," is all about what can happen if you continue to compromise in your love life.
If you’ve lived years compromising and living “under” what you believe you’re called to, or have only compromised for a weekend, or have chosen NOT to compromise, then this episode (and series) is for you!
Seriously…it’s encouragement to not go down the road of compromise AND to stop compromising!
You’ll have to tune in to Parts 2 and 3 in order to learn more about the restoration and redemptive process, but for today’s episode, I’m going over all the consequences!
Tune in and share!
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Why are you still single?
Why aren’t you married yet?
Do you even want to get married?
If you’re dreading these questions, or just the silent judgment during the holidays, then tune into to today’s episode: "How to Feel, How to Deal, and What to Say While Single During the Holidays.”
I will break down the type of feelings you can embrace and how to stay hopeful and positive, I will go over how to deal with your singleness during the holidays, and I will provide suggestions on what to say to family members or friends who have QUESTIONS for you!
If you need encouragement and empowerment during the holiday season, please tune in and share this episode!!
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Before marriage: Don’t have sex, don’t have sex, don’t have sex!
After marriage: Have sex! Have lots of it!!
Well, what if you’re a virgin? Or maybe you aren’t a virgin, but after years of not having sex, you feel the pressure to have amazing sex on your wedding night?
It’s not always as simple as “have sex and enjoy it!”
On today’s episode, I’m talking about how to prepare for sex after marriage, especially if you’re choosing celibacy before marriage.
How do you allow yourself to suddenly turn on your sexual chemistry when you’ve spent years keeping it turned off?
How do you mentally prepare for the transition from NO SEX, to YES SEX?
Is it even possible to prepare yourself to suddenly choose sex, when you’ve been telling your heart, soul, and body to stay away from sex for so long?
How can you avoid an awkward wedding night? Is that possible?
Join me on today’s episode as I tackle these topics. And, if you’ve ever thought these questions, then definitely tune in and share!
Enjoy!
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How To Be More Confident
Have you ever wondered how to gain more confidence?
And what about self-love? What does “self-love” really mean anyways?
In this episode, I’m going to cover ONE VERY IMPORTANT area to get good at in order to increase your confidence and self-love from the inside out.
You can watch 1,000 YouTube video and perfectly practice all the steps they teach you to become more confident, but that will only be exhausting. Besides, those steps may not even work. They might just teach you how to be good at faking confidence!
What I’m going to do instead, is show ONE thing that is required so that you can naturally exhibit confidence. Your self-love will flow naturally as well!
Interested? Tune in and share!
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How To Heal From A Situationship
Do you feel demotivated with dating? Unsure if you want to move on? Ready to throw in the towel and give up on dating and marriage?
If so, it’s likely because of many, many frustrations with our current dating culture. One of them being full-fledge ambiguity in the getting-to-know you stage. Unfortunately, that stage can last way too long and morph into a Situationship. This is when one person isn’t ready to commit, but the other person is hoping for a commitment, thinks there is commitment, or is completely confused by what the relationship actually is.
I recently published an episode on ambiguity and uncertainty in a relationship … and how it turns into a situationship.
And this episode is focused on how to heal from a Situationship so that one can move forward in dating and in life.
I focus on a few specific steps you can take to easily move forward and not repeat similar patterns.
Tune in to learn about how to heal after a Situationship!
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The other day I was watching a TV show and a woman said something along these lines: “When I develop more self-worth, I’ll have the courage to eliminate people out of my life.”
That profound sentence resonated with me. Many women struggle with having the type of self-worth that commands respect and love from other people, especially significant others.
Even if a woman is strong, successful, independent, and confident, it doesn’t always mean she automatically has self-worth.
In this episode, I’ll cover how to know if you’re struggling with self-worth and how to recognize its negative affects on your life, specifically in relationships.
I’ll also go over 4 steps to take in order to increase your self-worth.
Please tune in and share with a friend!
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Have you ever been called a “Strong Woman?” Typically, that cliche is given with a negative connotation. Why is it that a strong woman isn’t seen as a positive thing? Do we really live in a society where putting the words “strong” and “woman” next to each other is bad? If you’re yelling, “YES!,” then listen up! Being a strong woman is a good thing. Absolutely! You can be successful, educated, financially well-off, and strong while STILL being attractive to the right men!! However, there’s a possibility that the vibe you’re giving off (in addition to your amazing attributes) is perceived negatively: Domineering, uncaring, unfeminine, abrasive, etc. So tune in to learn more about what a strong woman can do, what she should NEVER change, and what things she can change. Take the SURVEY here: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Survey The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/starrburroughsbooks The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u Contact: starr@starrburroughs.com
Have you ever wondered how deep wounds affect your level of femininity?
Probably not.
Amanda Ferguson, create of “Feminine Woman Academy” and host of The Amanda Ferguson Show, knows all too well how our wounds are intricately connected to our femininity and masculinity.
She uses her story of sexual abuse, and the resulting wounds, to bring healing to others. You’ll have to tune in to understand the connection between these wounds and the desire she felt to hide herself, until she was able to get healing in these areas.
When that happened, God led her to open the Feminine Woman Academy and teach women all throughout the world what it means to be healed, set free, and feminine.
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I Need to Clear Some Things Up …
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I don’t think you should date someone you think is unattractive.
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I don’t think you should ask men out. (I’ll explain a few exceptions).
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I don’t think you should constantly drop hints that you’re interested and available.
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I don’t think you should initiate all the time.
If you’ve been doing these things and not getting what you want, then check out this episode. I’ll explain much more details my thoughts on these topics.
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To commemorate my 100 podcast … I WANT YOUR INPUT.To commemorate my 100 podcast … I WANT YOUR INPUT.
SHOULD I START A PODCAST FOR MEN?
I NEED YOUR HELP:
ASK single men if they’d listen to a podcast by a female on singleness, dating, and relationships.If yes, what topics would they want me to cover?
When you have those responses, email me at starr@starrburroughs.com with the answers.
Here are some topics I’d cover:
Talk about women’s biggest frustrations with men and dating.
The Good side of women…they aren’t all out for your money or free dates.
How to keep conversations going online and in person.
How to pursue in person.
Women’s biggest turn-offs and how to fix them.
Why you’re still single…when there are SO MANY women wanting to be in a godly relationship.
What women are afraid of.
Why you aren’t able to connect with women … why women aren’t able to connect with you!
What to do if you’re interested in someone.
How to pursue without being perceived as super serious about that girl.
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Are you in a Situationship? When the Ambiguity Becomes Too Much.
If you’re feeling confused, frustrated, or lonely in your relationship, then maybe you’re in a Situationship.
If you’re wondering if he likes you, why he won’t date you, why he’s never ready, or why you keep giving an undeserving guy your time, maybe you’re in a Situationship.
Listen ladies - Your decisions create your life … Your LIFE! Don’t continually give men your time and attention who are not interested in the same things as you. Or, if they are good, well-meaning men who DO want the same things as you, but their timeline is WAY different than yours, then don’t invest in them.
Tune in today to learn if you’ve unintentionally gotten yourself into a Situationship and what to do about it.
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How To Overcome Your Love Blockages with Dating App Creator Andrea Miller
Listen ladies, if you’re looking for the silver bullet to get a man and marriage, this episode is it.
Well, to be honest, it’ll actually take a lot of internal work to get to where you want to go, but still, this episode may have all the answers you need!
I interview Andrea Miller, Dating App creator of Go Getter, Author of “The Fairytale Epidemic: The Harsh Truth about Men & Sex (and YOU)!,” and certified Matchmaker at Cinqe Matchmaking (contact and links below) about deep love blockages. She offers her profound insight into her personal life and the epiphanies she received that allowed her to breakthrough into love.
She talks about:
Being a perfectionist,
Being a “Feeler” and how that affects your expectations,
How to have self-love and self-compassion,
Masculinity versus femininity,
How to stop creating negative stories, and …
How to stop self-sabotaging.
She ends with great advice on how you can receive similar breakthrough!
Tune in and share with those who need this episode!
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Does it ever feel like you’re pulling teeth to get a man to follow through? Or to talk to you? Or to initiate?
It shouldn’t be like that!
Today I’m talking about why you should stop getting distracted with distracted men. Women stay invested for way too long because they’re trying to figure out why that man is distracted.
Does he like me? Is he interested in me? What is he thinking?
Oddly enough, those questions don’t need to be answered in the beginning. You don’t need to understand a man and his thoughts - you simply need to pay attention to his behavior and then act accordingly.
Tune in to learn more about how to tell if a man is distracted AND what to do if he is.
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Why am I still single? Am I called to singleness? Why aren’t I married yet?
If you’ve ever wondered these questions, you’ll want to listen in to the main reason single women remain single.
Now, to be honest, I’m pretty sure this reason is true for men as well!
It’s no doubt that our generation is tougher than generations in the past when it comes to getting married. I do think there are many, many reasons why singles are remaining single. It definitely can’t be boiled down to ONE main reason.
However, based on my experience I do believe the main reason I share in the episode is actually one of the MAIN reasons people remain single!
You’ll have to tune in to find out what it is and see if it holds true for you!
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Tune in to listen to my conversation with Jay Mayo, host of the #1 Relationship Podcast on iTunes, The Right To Real Love Radio Podcast.
Jay is one of my favorite people to talk to because he has incredible biblical insight into the Christian individual’s pursuit of God and how that ties into relationships.
This is a 4-part series where I ask him some difficult questions that will be incredibly enlightening to Christian female listeners.
You’ll learn:
WHY men ghost …
Jay’s definition of ghosting (he schools me on this one!) …
If you’re doing something wrong if you’re constantly getting ghosted …
How to tell if a man is NOT interested and WHEN to back off …
If it’s your fault if you’re NEVER (or rarely) getting asked out …
If men are as superficial as everyone thinks …
What men are truly attracted to in women …
What they’re NOT attracted to in women …
And so much more!
If you aren’t convinced to tune in and subscribe (so you can be notified of every episode as it airs), then I don’t know what else to say.
Just tune in already and share with a friend ;)
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Tune in to listen to my conversation with Jay Mayo, host of the #1 Relationship Podcast on iTunes, The Right To Real Love Radio Podcast.
Jay is one of my favorite people to talk to because he has incredible biblical insight into the Christian individual’s pursuit of God and how that ties into relationships.
This is a 4-part series where I ask him some difficult questions that will be incredibly enlightening to Christian female listeners.
You’ll learn:
WHY men ghost …
Jay’s definition of ghosting (he schools me on this one!) …
If you’re doing something wrong if you’re constantly getting ghosted …
How to tell if a man is NOT interested and WHEN to back off …
If it’s your fault if you’re NEVER (or rarely) getting asked out …
If men are as superficial as everyone thinks …
What men are truly attracted to in women …
What they’re NOT attracted to in women …
And so much more!
If you aren’t convinced to tune in and subscribe (so you can be notified of every episode as it airs), then I don’t know what else to say.
Just tune in already and share with a friend ;)
Complimentary Love Breakthrough Strategy Session: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Apply
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Contact: starr@starrburroughs.com
Tune in to listen to my conversation with Jay Mayo, host of the #1 Relationship Podcast on iTunes, The Right To Real Love Radio Podcast.
Jay is one of my favorite people to talk to because he has incredible biblical insight into the Christian individual’s pursuit of God and how that ties into relationships.
This is a 4-part series where I ask him some difficult questions that will be incredibly enlightening to Christian female listeners.
You’ll learn:
WHY men ghost …
Jay’s definition of ghosting (he schools me on this one!) …
If you’re doing something wrong if you’re constantly getting ghosted …
How to tell if a man is NOT interested and WHEN to back off …
If it’s your fault if you’re NEVER (or rarely) getting asked out …
If men are as superficial as everyone thinks …
What men are truly attracted to in women …
What they’re NOT attracted to in women …
And so much more!
If you aren’t convinced to tune in and subscribe (so you can be notified of every episode as it airs), then I don’t know what else to say.
Just tune in already and share with a friend ;)
Complimentary Love Breakthrough Strategy Session: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Apply
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group
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Contact: starr@starrburroughs.com
Click here for your Complimentary Love Breakthrough Strategy Session: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Apply
Tune in to listen to my conversation with Jay Mayo, host of the #1 Relationship Podcast on iTunes, The Right To Real Love Radio Podcast.
Jay is one of my favorite people to talk to because he has incredible biblical insight into the Christian individual’s pursuit of God and how that ties into relationships.
This is a 4-part series where I ask him some difficult questions that will be incredibly enlightening to Christian female listeners.
You’ll learn:
WHY men ghost …
Jay’s definition of ghosting (he schools me on this one!) …
If you’re doing something wrong if you’re constantly getting ghosted …
How to tell if a man is NOT interested and WHEN to back off …
If it’s your fault if you’re NEVER (or rarely) getting asked out …
If men are as superficial as everyone thinks …
What men are truly attracted to in women …
What they’re NOT attracted to in women …
And so much more!
If you aren’t convinced to tune in and subscribe (so you can be notified of every episode as it airs), then I don’t know what else to say.
Just tune in already and share with a friend ;)
Complimentary Love Breakthrough Strategy Session: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Apply
The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift
7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards
Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group
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Contact: starr@starrburroughs.com
Click here for your Complimentary Love Breakthrough Strategy Session: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Apply
Tune in to listen to my conversation with Jay Mayo, host of the #1 Relationship Podcast on iTunes, The Right To Real Love Radio Podcast.
Jay is one of my favorite people to talk to because he has incredible biblical insight into the Christian individual’s pursuit of God and how that ties into relationships.
This is a 4-part series where I ask him some difficult questions that will be incredibly enlightening to Christian female listeners.
You’ll learn:
WHY men ghost …
Jay’s definition of ghosting (he schools me on this one!) …
If you’re doing something wrong if you’re constantly getting ghosted …
How to tell if a man is NOT interested and WHEN to back off …
If it’s your fault if you’re NEVER (or rarely) getting asked out …
If men are as superficial as everyone thinks …
What men are truly attracted to in women …
What they’re NOT attracted to in women …
And so much more!
If you aren’t convinced to tune in and subscribe (so you can be notified of every episode as it airs), then I don’t know what else to say.
Just tune in already and share with a friend ;)
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Are you a single Christian who’s dating feverishly, trying to find the love of your life? Or are the single Christian who is super wary, looking for red flags and terrified of everything that could go wrong?
Both of those types could benefit from knowing the 3 types of men to avoid in dating!
I’m sure you’ll agree that these 3 types of men are no good when it comes to dating and marriage. I’m all for men and want to give them the benefit of the doubt and assume the best, however, these 3 types must be avoided if you want to get married.
I’ll explain how to discover these types and what to do when you find out that they aren’t going to be a fit for you.
Tune in to learn the 3 types of men you need to avoid if you want to get married!
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If you’re a single Christian who wants to get married, join the club. Regardless of popular believe, there are actually a lot of men who want to get married too! So whether your male or female, I’m going to show you how to STOP OBSESSING OVER MARRIAGE!
Now, many of you know that I’m all for pursuing marriage, not letting the desire fall to the back burner of your life, and being available and present as a single person. At the same time, I do not think it’s healthy to become obsessive about marriage - thinking about it all the time, worshiping the idea of it, waiting for it (or him) to rescue you.
Marriage is not your Savior and it can’t rescue you from anything. However, if you’re not only longing for marriage, but obsessing over it, you’ll want to tune in to learn how to release that obsession!
Thanks for sharing!
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I bet you there have been or currently are lies that you’re believing. Yep! I’m guilty also!
The lies we believe about ourselves, our world, other people often stem from our experiences in life. Sometimes it can be hard to know if we’re believing a lie or a truth. Sounds ridiculous to say that those 2 things, lie and truth, can be hard to discern, but they are.
Here’s why:
Lies are result of twisted truths. The truth is you’ve experienced men dumping you once you decided to be celibate. So the lie you’ve come to believe is that all men want is sex.
Well, the truth is that all men DO want sex (at least I think they do!). But the twisted truth is that that’s ONLY what they want from YOU. That’s the LIE.
I believe the Devil twists the truth and too often we can be decided into believing that twisted truth, which is essentially a lie.
So go ahead, dig deep and uncover all the lies you’re believing that are STILL holding you back from what you really want in life.
Tune in to learn more and share!!
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Who here has felt like no one ever chooses them? It’s especially difficult if you feel like you’re doing all the right things, but there is absolutely no action in your love life.
If you’re a single Christian who wants to get married and feel like you’re in a dry spell, then you may want to check out this episode. I discuss different things to do when all the men you’re around are not choosing you (or maybe even anyone!).
I get that it can be discouraging and make you feel like there is something wrong with you, or that maybe you won’t ever get married. But sometimes it’s just a season, a long season. And in that season, we need to know what we can do to move us past the challenge and into the victory.
Tune in today!
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Who here has made the decision to never ask God for more patience? We all know He’d be happy to stretch you and help increase your patience.
I’m pretty sure I prayed that prayer once and decided never to pray it again!
Well, when it comes to us seeing a goal achieved or a dream fulfilled, we can easily lose our patience. The challenge is, how do we remain patient while keeping our hope alive?
What I see all too often is that when women try to be patient in their singleness, they numb their desire for marriage. After all, that’s very acceptable in today’s society. But if you number that desire, you simply are not being honest with yourself or God.
So in the season of singleness, there are ways you can keep the hope alive, but still be patient so as not to drive yourself crazy.
I discuss 4 different strategies you can implement so that you can become more patient in your season. These 4 tips will also allow you to keep the hope alive and not pretend you don’t want something that you do!
Tune in and share!
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Have you ever thought that part of waiting well or waiting patiently as a single Christian woman meant that you shouldn’t do anything?
Have you wondered, Am I idolizing marriage? Or, I don’t want to be so desperate. Or, I’m just going to trust God. And as a result, you do hardly anything about your desire for marriage.
Well, if you’re ready to Find The Balance of Praying Continually For Marriage, but Not Idolizing It, then please tune in today!
It’s vitally important to pray for what you want. We need to believe that prayer changes circumstances, people, and events. Just because we don’t see results when we want to, doesn’t mean we stop praying.
But your continual prayer also doesn’t mean that you’re somehow idolizing marriage. If your prayer brings you to the Creator, and not a “Genie in a Bottle” then you’re simply praying for something you desire.
In this episode, I will show you if you’ve begun idolizing marriage and how you got there. I’ll also explain how to change your ways so that you’re searching the GOD above Marriage.
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You may want to check this episode out if you’re in the market for a husband ;)
So many women are wondering, Why am I still single? Why aren’t I married yet? Why don’t men ask me out? Etc. Etc. Etc.
Too often, women take it SO personally that they aren’t in a solid relationship or married yet. However, often times it’s simple, beliefs, mindsets, attitudes, outlooks on life, and even lack of the right behavior or exhibiting wrong behavior that may be contributing to our singleness.
Today I’m going over the 4 things to do if you want to get married, but aren’t yet. These 4 areas are all encompassing and are probably the most important 4 things a single person should focus on if they want to meet an eligible man and get married.
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Have you every wondered if there are beliefs or attitudes you have that could be slowing your progress toward love?
Have you ever wondered, “Why am I single?” Or felt like you’re doing everything right, but nothing is working?
Well, I believe the reason things may not be working in your love life is because of specific mindsets and perspectives that are very easy to adopt.
Are you doing certain things that are keeping you from marriage? Tune in to find out if you relate with any of these points!
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There are many reasons a person could be single. Some choose to be, others feel like they’re forced to be due to experiences out of their control, still others believe it’s God who has kept them single.
In this episode, I discuss the idea that many Christians think they reason they’re single is because it’s not yet God’s timing for them. Personally, I do not believe that is the truth for MOST singles out there. Some? Sure. All? Definitely not!
I answer the question, “Why am I still single?” Along with the question, “How do I know if it’s not God’s timing for me to get married?”
My answer won’t be exactly what you think, so please listen in if you’re curious about this in your life!
I also share 3 things you can do TODAY to shift your mindsets and ultimately get married sooner!
Tune in and share!
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