Lift Laugh Love with Dave Glaser: Recent Episodes
Dave Glaser
The Lift, Laugh, Love Podcast is for singles looking to understand dating in the modern era. Between texting, situationships, and dating apps, we are overwhelmed with choices at our fingertips and the mixed signals that we receive are hard to understand. The Lift, Laugh, Love is an extension of the Believe Be Real Be Bold podcast with Dave Glaser, CSCS, has interviews dating and relationship experts to help our community of authentic daters understand how to navigate the dating "scene". Subscribe today to be a part of a community looking to change the way we date today.
How do you spot red flags on a dating app? The top six answers are discussed on today's episode of the podcast.
More topics in this episode are Hinge prompts for the Enneagram type 3, The Achiever. Are you a 3 or dating an Achiever? These prompts will help you understand yourself and others when dating in the modern world.
We close out today's episode by talking about Cults; specifically the Cult of Donald Trump and the MAGA Republican party.
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?
Are you looking to build your relationship while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me.
Email me today for a free consultation riseup@fitlifechampions.com Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As.
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How to tell if someone is scamming you or are a bot on a dating app? The quick answer is to ask them to spell "potato".
The real answer is much more complex and I am here to share five signs of a scammer on a dating app! I have also discovered a few tips on what to do to prevent being scammed or victimized financially when dating online.
More topics in this episode are life updates you may not have seen on Tiktok and I end up talking some major smack about Bumble in a brand new segment on the podcast.
Finally, I close it out with Hinge prompts you can use and learn from for the Enneagram Type 2, The Helper.
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?
Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me. Email me today for a free consultation riseup@fitlifechampions.com
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The Reformer or Moral Protagonist, type 1, on the Enneagram is likely not the most creative or vulnerable person on your dating app.
What are the likely prompts you'd see on Hinge for the Type 1, Reformer? In today's mini episode, I share some of the prompts that an Enneagram type 1 would choose to show their authentic self on Hinge. Plus the answers they may come up with to have fun when dating online.
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?
Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me. Email me today for a free consultation riseup@fitlifechampions.com
Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As.
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What are the best responses to popular Hinge prompts for the Peacemaker? In today's mini episode, I share some of the prompts that an Enneagram type 9 would choose to show their authentic self. Plus the answers they may come up with to have fun when dating online.
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?
Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me. Email me today for a free consultation riseup@fitlifechampions.com
Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As.
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For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram @thechallengerpodcast
Having a hard time picking prompts to use on the dating app Hinge? In today's mini episode, I share some of the prompts that an Enneagram type 8 would choose to show their authentic self. Plus the answers they may come up with to have fun when dating online.
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?
Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me. Email me today for a free consultation riseup@fitlifechampions.com
Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As.
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In this episode, we delve into the intricate details of the Match.com class action lawsuit, exploring the implications and repercussions of the legal battle on modern dating. Join me as we uncover the impact on users and the broader implications for online dating platforms.
Tune in for a comprehensive analysis of this high-profile case that has sparked conversations about data privacy, user protection, and corporate responsibility in the digital age.
The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness. If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand.
A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to heal your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?
Check out the private group and join me today for a free week trial of the life changing program.
Connect with me on my Tiktok Page @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating.
Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram @coachdaveglaser
The top three reasons you may be getting FRIENDZONED are:
Agreeableness, availability, and accessibility can potentially decrease attraction in dating due to various reasons:
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Agreeableness: While being agreeable is generally seen as positive, excessive agreeableness can sometimes be perceived as lacking individuality or assertiveness, which may reduce attraction. Dr. David Buss, a prominent evolutionary psychologist, suggests that this perspective is rooted in evolutionary theory, which proposes that certain traits and behaviors have been favored by natural selection due to their reproductive advantages. In this context, assertiveness may be seen as a signal of confidence, social dominance, and the ability to protect and provide for a potential mate and offspring.
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Availability: When someone is too readily available and constantly accessible, it can create a sense of predictability and diminish the excitement or chase that often fuels attraction.
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Accessibility: If someone is always easily accessible and does not create a sense of mystery or occasional unavailability, it can lead to complacency and reduce the perceived value or desirability.
It's important to note that these factors may not universally apply to everyone, as individual preferences and circumstances can vary. Communication and finding a balance between these traits can help maintain attraction in dating.
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Welcome to The Club, a private community where we connect, support and learn from one another on your timeline. No gimmicks. No fluff.
Just real, authentic dating advice. Email me today for a free consultation riseup@fitlifechampions.com
Follow me on Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As.
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Can we be too attached to our money?
On this week's episode of the podcast, Jordan Pendleton joins me as guest host where she interviews me on how our attachment styles show up to influence our relationship with money.
I truly enjoyed this conversation with her on her podcast REAL Money Talk as she asked great questions about my journey from scarcity to abundance in life, money and relationships.
Please take a moment to leave us a review of the podcast on your favorite platform as it really helps us spread the message shared on the podcast about modern dating, texting, social media and dating apps.
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On this week's episode, I lay out ten things to look out for on a first date that can tell you that your date has an avoidant attachment style. In tune last week's episode, I'd like to encourage everyone to be mindful in how they approach making assumptions about their date and instead of writing them off as red flags, get curious about what you see and label the behavior.
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Welcome to The Club, a private community where we connect, support and learn from one another on your timeline. No gimmicks. No fluff.
Just real, authentic dating advice. Email me today for a free consultation riseup@fitlifechampions.com
Follow me on Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As.
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On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Samantha Graham, cohost of Where's Our Participation Trophy podcast, to talk about modern dating from the lens of attachment theory.
The title of this podcast comes from viral videos and memes on the internet which can feel confusing for daters in the modern world being told that the right person would be able to read your mind and just give you everything you need, without being asked. Sam and I dig into what is behind this overused phrase that perpetuates the toxic "throw away" culture of modern dating.
If her message resonated with you today, please connect with Sam on Instagram @_samanthagraham_ and check out her podcast here.
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On this week's episode, I walk you through 10 signs that your date or partner may have an anxious attachment style. Attachment theory research has been evolving since the last 60s and I discovered its impact in my life about five years ago.
After a couple of bad breakups in 2017, I decided to make a change and took ownership of my role in the ending of those relationships. I sought out a counselor and began to interview experts in relationship theory and practice on this podcast. Tune in today to learn how to spot an anxiously attached date while learning tools to grow through this lens of self-awareness.
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On this week's episode of the podcast, Talia Bombola joins me for a follow up conversation to share with you why you may be attracted to and attracting emotionally unavailable people. Previously on the podcast, Talia and I dug in to attachment styles, masculine and feminine energy dynamics and so much more. This time around, I asked three questions that are most common in our community of authentic daters.
Why do you attract emotionally unavailable people?
Why do I push people away when dating?
How do I date (earn security) as an anxious/avoidant attachment style?
If Talia's message resonates with you today, please check out her brand new group study program beginning May 9, 2023 to download all of her dating advice and expertise by following her on Instagram @taliabombola
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Welcome to The Club, a private community where we connect, support and learn from one another on your timeline. No gimmicks. No fluff.
Just real, authentic dating advice. Email me today for a free consultation riseup@fitlifechampions.com
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This week, we have a quick hitting, solo episode where I dig into this popular quesiton from one of our audience members from a recent Tiktok Live.
Should a woman ask out a man on a date? Listen in on this six minute episode and reach out with any questions you may have about flirting with the masculine in a playful to let him know you're interested.
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
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On this week's episode of the podcast, we continue on with our series on first dates with a real life dater Becky Bradley. I am so impressed with her bravery to come speak with me on the podcast about dating after divorce with an anxious attachment style.
We dig into Becky's life story beginning with a medical condition as a child that left her feeling alone in school and isolated from her friends. Fast forward to her life now with children and a challenging marriage, she describes her first few relationships afterward with openness and tremendous self-awareness.
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram or Tiktok at gatekeeper_prob
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How do you define the relationship? This week's episode is a live conversation originally recorded on Tiktok with our community contributing questions as we dig into the definition of a relationship agreement vs defining the relationship with terms such as boyfriend and girlfriend.
The conversation turned to attachment theory and the differnces of how defining the relationship impacts the nervous systems of the anxious and avoidant attachment styles.
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Welcome to The Club, a private community where we connect, support and learn from one another on your timeline. No gimmicks. No fluff.
Just real, authentic dating advice. Click here to Join The Club.
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On this week's episode, Traver joins me to educate us on how the Nice Guy shows up for men in relationships. Traver Boehm @traverboehm is a former MMA fighter, a Challenger on the Enneagram like me, and the author of Man Uncivilized. it is a ground breaking work of poetry, thoughts, and an honest portrayal of the challenges men face in the world today. I’ve seen the Nice Guy show up in my past and have experienced a lot of growth in the past few years when facing those tendencies and integrating that part back into my psyche. what does it mean to be a man? why do men numb out to deal with internal conflict? these questions and more will be answered by my guest Traver Boehm, author, speaker, and facilitator of the Uncivilized Nation. Traver and I focus on how we can solve what needs all of our attention in our modern world; that it’s ok to be a man. what I took away from our conversation is too much to list here, so tune in to the full conversation on your favorite podcast app and leave us a 5 star rating and a written review. To stay connected and get more information on enneagram coaching with Dave Glaser, CSCS, click here now and sign up for a free week! I am giving away one copy to a lucky listener on our instagram account this week so please connect with me @coachdaveglaser on social media to ask questions, provide feedback, and go deeper in the conversation with us.
Recored live on Tiktok, I am joined this week by real life dater, Britt Leilani from Boise, Idaho. Britt and I discuss a growing phenomenon in modern dating; Facebook groups connecting people over whether or not they are dating the same person.
Are you a member of one of these groups in your area? Britt is a member of two groups as she travels 6 months out of the year between D.C. and Boise where her three children live. We discuss mental health and dating with bipolar personality disorder and attachment styles. If her message resonates with you, please connect with her on Tiktok or Instagram @brittleilani
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Welcome to The Club, a private community where we connect, support and learn from one another on your timeline. No gimmicks. No fluff.
Just real, authentic dating advice. Click here to Join The Club.
Follow me on Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As.
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I'm celebrating 250 episodes with a replay of one of the most popular epidoses! On this week's episode of the podcast, we welcome back GS Youngblood to the program to talk all things embodiment and how men show up in relationship. GS is the author of The Masculine in Relationship and is set to dive deeper into embodiment practices with his new work. Before we recorded, I polled our listeners and asked them to submit questions they may have about how the masculine shows up in the modern world and the two questions we dig into do not disappoint! If his message resonates with you, please connect with GS on Instagram @gsyoungbloodmir or on his website at gsyoungblood.com I have two limited availability spots for one on one coaching and if you're looking to get clear on life, love and relationships, please connect with me on Instagram @coachdaveglaser or via my website daveglaser.com Please subscribe to the podcast or on YouTube and share this episode with just one person you feel would get value out of the conversation today!
What red flags do you see showing up within yourself and others? Do any of the red flags discussed in this live video resonate with you? Grab a pen and paper because in this live recording from Tiktok, I talk really fast and deep about Red Flags that show up in modern dating. If you're looking for more support in your dating journey right now, try out my group coaching program free for one week. Ask me anything and receive the support you're looking for with the rest of the group! Click The I Believe Group Coaching to apply now. The Dave Glaser Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness. If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to heal your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube
This week's episode on the podcast is the conversation I have been wanting to have for years and Talia Bombola joins me to talk all things attachment theory and masculine/feminine dynamics in modern dating. If you've ever wondered why it feels like men and women are adversaries, then this conversation aims to answer those questions for you today.
If her message resonated with you today, please connect with Talia on Instagram @taliabombola
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?
Check out The I Believe Group if you're looking for more support in your dating journey and join this changing program today.
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I'm back with a whole new outlook on modern dating! So grab a pen and paper because in this live recording from Tiktok, I talk really fast and deep about Red Flags that show up in modern dating.
What red flags do you see showing up within yourself and others? Do any of the red flags discussed in this live video resonate with you?
If you're looking for more support in your dating journey right now, try out my group coaching program free for one week. Ask me anything and receive the support you're looking for with the rest of the group! Click https://beacons.ai/dave.glaser to apply now.
The Dave Glaser Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness. If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand.
A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? A
re you looking to heal your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?
Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program.
Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating.
Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube
For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram @daveglaser_cscs
On this week's episode, I am joined by real life dater Natalie Bell, from Cleveland, Ohio, to discuss how to shoot your shot on social media in a way that works to get you a first date; even if the person does not live near you. Natalie believes that fear of being judged and not liked is what holds people back in dating and relationships and we dig into the limiting beliefs we carry with us from our past.
After a long term relationship that ended, Natalie set out to heal and learn more about herself as she put herself back out there, began to improve her life and put herself first. Since then, she has seen more excitement in her dating life and has learned more about herself as a result.
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @nataliebell9 on Tiktok @natalie_bell or on her website at chatswithnat.com
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?
Check out The Club group coaching program and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program.
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From dating app users building a roster to people ghosting you, modern dating can be confusing and frustrating. What do you do when you get frustrated? I share real world solutions to dating burn out and confusion on today's episode.
On today's solo episode of the podcast, I share 10 facts about online dating that you NEED to know right now to be more successful dating in the modern world. Technology, texting, social media and dating apps have us all chasing our tail when it comes to getting dates and connecting deeply with others. These 10 facts will both shock you and bring some explanation to why it is so damn hard to date in 2022.
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Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Challenge Group Community, and encourage others to find the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
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“The best way to get over somebody is to get under someone.”
On this week’s episode of the podcast, Kate Vosti joins me to talk about the difference between sensuality and sexuality. We dive deep into masculine and feminine energy, attachment styles and practices to help you get into your body whether you’re have sex or not!
If her message resonated with you today, please connect with Kate at rhythymrose.love or on Instagram @rhythm.rose
Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Challenge Group Community, and encourage others to find the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.
Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?
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On this week's episode of the podcast, Jordan Pendleton joins me as guest host where she interviews me on how our attachment styles show up to influence our relationship with money. I truly enjoyed this conversation with her on her podcast REAL Money Talk as she asked great questions about my journey from scarcity to abundance in life, money and relationships.
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On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Ross Rosenberg, the author of Human Magnet Syndrome, a transformational book redefining codependency. Ross renamed codependency as self-love deficit disorder and has made ground breaking strides forward in the field of psychology and relationships.
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Nicole Drew is the creator and founder of Rater Date, a brand new dating app that invites users to rate the profiles they interact with for authenticity. This gives you the chance to call out catfishes, ghosters, and inauthentic people that aren't really intentionally dating. On this week's episode, Nicole shares her own personal journey that inspired her to create the app and we dive into the deep end from there. If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @rater.date or through the app store on Google Play and Apple Store by searching Rater Date. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The Challenge Group and join this changing program today. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram
On this week's episode of the podcast, we welcome back Nicole Kay to discuss fasting, social media cleansing and downloading Hinge... again. Although this time, it doesn't seem to be a mistake. Tune in to hear all about how driving past someone's house twice a day for two years isn't stalking and how a new mindset to dating will help you win.
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This week's episode on the podcast is the conversation I have been wanting to have for years and Talia Bombola joins me to talk all things attachment theory and masculine/feminine dynamics in modern dating. If you've ever wondered why it feels like men and women are adversaries, then this conversation aims to answer those questions for you today.
If her message resonated with you today, please connect with Talia on Instagram @taliabombola
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On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Samantha Graham, cohost of Where's Our Participation Trophy podcast, to talk about modern dating from the lens of attachment theory.
The title of this podcast comes from viral videos and memes on the internet which can feel confusing for daters in the modern world being told that the right person would be able to read your mind and just give you everything you need, without being asked. Sam and I dig into what is behind this overused phrase that perpetuates the toxic "throw away" culture of modern dating.
If her message resonated with you today, please connect with Sam on Instagram @_samanthagraham_ and check out her podcast here.
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On this week's episode, I am joined by real life dater Natalie Bell, from Cleveland, Ohio, to discuss how to shoot your shot on social media in a way that works to get you a first date; even if the person does not live near you. Natalie believes that fear of being judged and not liked is what holds people back in dating and relationships and we dig into the limiting beliefs we carry with us from our past.
After a long term relationship that ended, Natalie set out to heal and learn more about herself as she put herself back out there, began to improve her life and put herself first. Since then, she has seen more excitement in her dating life and has learned more about herself as a result.
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @nataliebell9 on Tiktok @natalie_bell or on her website at chatswithnat.com
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On this week's episode of the podcast, we continue on with our series on first dates with a real life dater Becky Bradley. I am so impressed with her bravery to come speak with me on the podcast about dating after divorce with an anxious attachment style.
We dig into Becky's life story beginning with a medical condition as a child that left her feeling alone in school and isolated from her friends. Fast forward to her life now with children and a challenging marriage, she describes her first few relationships afterward with openness and tremendous self-awareness.
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram or Tiktok at gatekeeper_prob
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On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Dr. Morgan where we dig into repetition compulsion that is found in modern dating where it feels like you're dating the same person over and over again with a "different haircut".
Dr. Morgan is a clinical psychologist and coach serving women through her Empowered Secure Loved method and you can connect with her on Instagram @drmorgancoaching
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On this week's episode of the podcast, I wanted to answer some great questions submitted by our audience. Subscribe to the podcast and tune in next week as I begin a new series on First Dates with returning guests Dr. Morgan Anderson and Nicole Kay plus real life dater Becky.
The questions I address on today's episode are the following:
- When dating online over 35, what are some recommended sites and what are some key things to think about when building a profile?
- Can anyone really find a life partner on Tiktok?
- How does anyone learn to communicate on an emotional level with an avoidant? We both are familiar with our attachment styles, is there hope?
- What's your opinion on paid dating sites versus free sites and apps? Any preference one way or another? Any experiences you want to share?
Submit your questions to be answered on a future episode on Tiktok, Instagram or by email riseup@fitlifechampions.com
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On this week's episode, I walk you through 10 signs that your date may have a secure attachment style. Attachment theory research has been evolving since the last 60s and I discovered its impact in my life about five years ago and have been working towards earned security ever since. Hope this episode brings you valuable information and reflection about how you show up when you date.
After a couple of bad breakups in 2017, I decided to make a change and took ownership of my role in the ending of those relationships. I sought out new tools to understand myself through the Enneagram and Attachment theory. Subscribe to the podcast so that you never miss an episode that will give you the tools to show up authentically in modern dating.
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On this week's episode, I walk you through 10 signs that your date or partner may have an anxious attachment style. Attachment theory research has been evolving since the last 60s and I discovered its impact in my life about five years ago.
After a couple of bad breakups in 2017, I decided to make a change and took ownership of my role in the ending of those relationships. I sought out a counselor and began to interview experts in relationship theory and practice on this podcast. Tune in today to learn how to spot an anxiously attached date while learning tools to grow through this lens of self-awareness.
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On this week's episode, I lay out ten things to look out for on a first date that can tell you that your date has an avoidant attachment style. In tune last week's episode, I'd like to encourage everyone to be mindful in how they approach making assumptions about their date and instead of writing them off as red flags, get curious about what you see and label the behavior.
If you're looking for more support in your relationship right now, I have two spots available in our private group coaching program that meets every Monday at 7 pm mst. This is a safe space to ask me anything, connect with other women and learn more about self-awareness through attachment styles and The Enneagram. Click here to try it free for a week.
On this week's episode of the podcast, Dave is back with a solo share of a story from his dating life. Showing up authentically on a date isn't always easy and when two strangers meet, there is bound to be a collision of their pasts.
Listen in as Dave narrates how the Enneagram can be a helpful tool for couples to connect and how it can be a way to make some not so warranted assumptions about your date! If you're looking for more support in your dating life right now, head over to daveglaser.com to apply for coaching today.
The Dave Glaser Podcast is for partnered and single adults looking to understand relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory, self-awareness and personal growth. If you're like me, you're overwhelmed with all the choices available to you and the mixed signals that you receive are hard to navigate.
A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to guide you to understand how to navigate the dating "scene" where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.
On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Charlotte Warren to talk all things ghosting in the modern dating era. What is ghosting? We dig into the timeline of when ghosting is acceptable and when it's not at all justifiable.
If you're single in 2022, you've been ghosted. You may have even done some ghosting yourself. Hell, I have experienced both and today we get clear on what the definition of ghosting really is. Charlotte and I even expand on a few questions submitted by our audience members. Here they are:
- A definition. I see this term used so often and it seems to mean different things to all.
- Why (would someone ghost)?
- Where did this trend come from? Is it a lack of accountability in dating?
- What do we do to recover from the shock and heartache?
- When is ghosting a YOU problem?
If Charlotte's message resonated with you today, please connect with her on Tiktok @welcometothepeasantparty and to read her entire blog with the Ghosting chart mentioned in today's episode, click here now.
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On this week's episode, I welcome back Dr. Carrie Johansson to speak with me about psychological flexibility, modern marriage and what to look for on a first date. We both believe that fear and anxiety hold people back in relationships and I cannot thank Dr. Carrie enough for joining me to provide a reflection for me about my recent break up.
We dig into so many awesome topics on this podcast and here are a few of the biggest takeaways:
Psychological flexibility is the ability to notice the things around you while putting less weight to it.
Spinning in outrage keeps you in the stance of the victim.
A lot of modern daters want everything to move quickly and the point of a first date is to determine if you want a second.
If Dr. Carrie's message resonates with you today, please listen to her previous episode and reach out to her via her website at selfhelponthego.com and pick up a copy of her new book!
If you're looking for more support in your relationship right now, please reach out to me with any questions on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs or on Tiktok @dave.glaser
On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Tiffany Gingrich, NLP Practitioner and Yoga instructor, to discuss modern online dating. Modern dating includes how people communicate through text messaging, social media and dating apps as a means to connect and get to know other singles.
With a degree in psychology and an extensive knowledge of the subconscious and how it works, Tiffany brings her professional and personal views on online dating to the conversations today.
We dig in to how people show up online in the modern world, how we can better understand our attachment styles plus how our masculine and feminine energies play a part in dating online and in person.
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with Tiffany on her website tiffanpygingrich.com or on Tiktok @tiffanygringrich
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On this week's episode, we welcome back Stuart Motola for a follow up interview to catch up with him after years of international travel. Stuart Motola is a men's relationship coach who offers guys and couples concrete strategies for how to get unstuck in relationship. With over 15 years working with thousands of men on their relationships and personal growth, Stuart utilizes a unique system that breaks the patterns that keep men tied up in frustrating relationships.
Stuart and I dig deeper into the psyche of the Nice Guy and how he shows up in relationship as a martyr or victim and how he self-sabotages his relationships. Have you been in a relationship with a Nice Guy? Have you seen Nice Guy tendencies show up in yourself in a relationship?
Please connect with Stuart on his website, stuartmotola.com or on YouTube @stuartmotola to learn more about how he supports men and couples in their relationships.
If you're looking for more support in your relationship right now, please reach out on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs via my website daveglaser.com or on Tiktok for a more candid look at modern dating @dave.glaser
On this week's episode of the podcast, we welcome back GS Youngblood to the program to talk all things embodiment and how men show up in relationship. GS is the author of The Masculine in Relationship and is set to dive deeper into embodiment practices with his new work.
Before we recorded, I polled our listeners and asked them to submit questions they may have about how the masculine shows up in the modern world and the two questions we dig into do not disappoint! If his message resonates with you, please connect with GS on Instagram @gsyoungbloodmir or on his website at gsyoungblood.com
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On this week's solo episode, I offer up five reasons you would want to delete your dating apps... for good this time! Within each of these, there are reasons why dating apps can be used as a self-awareness and become a big part of your personal development if you're willing to dig in and ask the deep questions as these situations come up for you; as they most certainly will.
Join me for a free week trail of private group coaching each week as we dig into topics that help you navigate modern dating when texting, social media and dating apps rule the way we connect, meet and communicate in relationships. Send me a message on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs to learn more today!
I recently went live on Tiktok and the engagement and questions were too good not to bring to you here on the podcast! From dating red flags to setting boundaries with a stalker, the community and I dig into how to navigate modern dating where people tend to use texting, social media and dating apps to communicate and meet one another.
Don't hesitate to reach out with follow up questions and connect with me on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs for more details on private group coaching to understand what's coming up for you as you're out there dating in the modern world.
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Joining me on the podcast this week is Grace Patterson, an actress that is making it happen in Los Angeles. While growing up on a farm in Texas, Grace always knew that the life of an actress was her calling and she went against all of her family's advice and took the leap. Since moving to LA, she has gone through a break up and her first real period of single hood, which we dig into during our conversation!
If her message resonates with you, please connect with her on Instagram @gracevictoriapatterson now and follow along as she gets back out there dating and loving life while traveling the world.
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On this week's podcast episodes, I am joined by Dr. Kate Balestrieri, a licensed sex therapist and PACT trained counselor and we do not hold back in our conversation about sexual kinks, deep intimacy and how to communicate your desires with your partner. If there is one episode you will want to listen to from start to finish, this is it. The depth you will hear in this conversation may greatly change the way you approach your sexuality and perception of your partner's desires, wants and needs. If her message resonates with you today and you'd like to learn more, connect with Dr. Kate on Instagram @drkatebalestrieri or at modernintimacy .com In honor of May being Mental Health Awareness month, I am inviting each member of our community to connect with me one on one to work through whatever it is that may come up in your life; be it fitness, nutrition or life coaching. Reach out to me on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs to schedule a free call today.
I am back with a solo episode this week and I cover so much that you will want to make sure you aren't driving, so pull over really quick as I dig into how fitness can make you better in bed, taking a water break during sex and how I've been selfish to become selfless in my next relationship.
If you're looking for more support in your lifting, life and relationships, message me with your questions on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs and join me for a free week of group coaching now until the end of May before we begin another Get Over Your Ex challenge!
I am honored to have Nicole Kay join me on the podcast this week to share her experience as an independent woman dating in the modern world. Texting, social media and dating apps have us believing we need instant access to each other. What we discuss today will challenge the narrative that love needs to be a certain way.
Nicole and I orginally connected on TikTok through our common interest in the savagery that can be modern dating. We discuss two relationships that came about over Tiktok and what Nicole learned as a result. If her message resonated with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @nakdash or on TikTok @theogpicklequeen
If you're looking for more support in your relationships today, please message me on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs for a free week trial of our 21 Day Challenge to Get Over Your Ex group coaching program now! Or click here for all the details and sign up today.
On this week's episode, we are joined by Gina LoPinto from New York City. I recently put an invitation out on Instagram for guests to share their stories on the podcast that may help others recognize authenticity when dating in the ups and downs of a global pandemic. As you listen to today's episode, I want you to be open to what (in)compatibility in a relationship can look and feel like through Gina's personal story while dating a conspiracy theorist in 2021.
She and I also dig into what it looks like to date an ex after many years apart and why you would consider it a good idea... or not! We also discuss how to approach responding when someone is beginning to project their personal BS onto their date or partner. What comes up for you when you listen in on today's conversation with Gina?
Feel free to connect with her on Instagram or TikTok @ginaalo and let her know she's not alone in her journey of dating in NYC! If you're looking for more support in your own relationship or dating life, connect with me on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs and I'll sit down with you for an hour to sort through what's coming up for you that is holding you back from what you truly want in life and love!
If there is one episode of the podcast that I would recommend you listen to from beginning to end, this one is it. This is The One! On this week's episode of the podcast, we welcome back Dr. Liz Fedrick from Evolve Counseling to discuss relational programming and how it plays a role in how we choose partners. From childhood to adulthood, our family systems and relational programming lay the foundations in our subconscious for how we choose romantic partners.
Dr. Fedrick is an expert in the field of human psychology, behavior and attachment theory accepting clients at two locations in Arizona and if her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @evolvecounselingaz Check out more information about the Infinity Loop she mentioned in our interview here.
If you're looking for more support in your life and relationships right now, please join us for a free week trial of our private, small group coaching program that meets every Monday evening via zoom at 7 pm mst. Message me on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs to apply for an invitation today!
Let's take a look at what occurred at the Oscars from a different angle on today's solo podcast episode. Did you catch what happened between Will Smith and Chris Rock?
What came up for you when you saw what went down between the two involved? For me, compassion and curiosity were at the forefront of the interaction. Did I have initial judgement while watching the altercation through my own lens and experiences? Absolutely. And I chose to sit with the emotions that showed up for me and decided to go live on TikTok to provide support for our community with what showed up for them as well.
Tune in as I share what my thoughts and feelings were about the whole scenario including the memes, videos and assumptions that appeared on social media over the next day. Subscribe now and be the first to hear what our expert guest has to say about relational programming and cognitive dissonance on next week's episode with returning guest and psychologist, Dr. Liz Fedrick.
On this week's quick solo episode, I want to hit you with some hard truths about modern relationships with texting, social media and dating apps as main ways people connect. I've been given the opportunity to interview 100s of experts on the podcast and they all answer the same when asked, "What holds people back in modern relationships"? Their answer is always the same: FEAR.
Today, I dig into the fear of being found out or discovered that holds you back in your relationships. From vulnerability to intimacy, I cover everything you may not have realized about yourself until now. So let's dig in and if you have follow up questions, please message me on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs for more of this conversation!
On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Debbie Scheer, MC and comedian from Denver, Co. We met through a previous podcast guest, Meghann Conter, and this week we expand on sobriety, being sober curious and how we both show up when dating in Denver. Debbie shares her unique perspective on relationships, parenting and dating in the LBGTQ community while living a sober life. Debbie's powerful story resonates with me today and if you connect with her message in any way, please connect with her further at www.debbiescheerspeaks.com or on Instagram @debbiescheerspeaks If you are looking for more support in your own dating journey, please send me a direct message to me on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs and I will get you an invitation to join our private, small group zoom call for a free week trial!
On this week's episode, I am joined by Jade Bianca to talk all about dating after divorce. We spend our time today navigating how long a person should wait after a divorce to "get back out there" and we came up with something unexpected that you won't want to miss! From dating frogs to getting a second chance at love, Jade and I do not hold back!
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @dating_after_div about her matchmaking and coaching for divorcees.
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After five years of training in the "gentle art" of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, I was honored and humbled to receive my purple belt from the Easton Academy in Denver, Co. I wanted to include our community in the celebration of that promotion as it has so much to do with moments in my life where I was tested and needed to stay grounded.
Jiu-jitsu is a practice that helps me do that in the healthiest way possible. In January of '22, I was consumed with work and I felt my reactivity showing up more than I would have liked through the stressful busy season. Now it's March and I am back to training and facing the next chapter in my life with humility and a new mindset, which impacts my relationships in every area of my life.
Tune in now to hear the full story and celebrate with me today! If you are looking for more support in your life, send me a message on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs to learn about one on one or group coaching for nutrition, fitness, life and love with me today!
On this week's episode of the Lift Laugh Love podcast, I am joined by Amy Elizabeth Conway from the Beloved Blonde podcast where we discuss options when it comes to dating in the modern era. From fear of rejection and vulnerability all the way to our attachment styles, we dig deep into what it's like to date in the modern era with texting, dating apps, and social media.
If her message resonates with you today, reach out to Amy on Instagram @thebelovedblondepodcast and share this episode with one person you feel would benefit from our conversation today!
I am opening up our small group coaching program to five women who want to make a change in their dating journey today. Click here to get your first week for free and reach out to me on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs
On this week's episode of the Lift Laugh Love podcast, I am joined by Karen Larrea from My Mom, Your Dad, a hit HBO Max reality dating show. College aged children nominate their parents for a second chance at love on this heartwarming and satirical approach to modern dating.
Karen Larrea is a single mom from Miami, Fl who sits down with me to talk about how fear and our past patterns show up in modern dating. Karen and I discuss what happens when we are faced with ghosting and poor communication, how does our ego show up to protect us. If her message resonated with you today, please connect with Karen on Instagram @kmlm21
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On today's episode, I talk about the core limiting beliefs I saw in myself and my clients when I first began coaching as a personal trainer. As I grew, so did my awareness of how the core limiting belief of "I am not worthy" was showing up in every area of my life and relationships. By discussing how I failed my way to being a success, I want to illustrate that your self-worth is not tied to your decisions or mistakes.
If this episode resonates with you, subscribe now and share with a friend that you feel would get value out of the conversation. Don't hesitate to reach out and start a conversation with me about today's topic on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs on TikTok @dave.glaser or on Facebook.
New Series! We kick off the Lift Laugh Love series of the Believe Be Real Be Bold podcast with an episode you've been dying to hear! I will catch you up on how Covid Fatigue hit me hard last fall, causing me to evaluate what were my top priorities. I will update you on how I have been healing from my break up from last August and introduce you to how non-attachment comes into online dating for me now.
In each of the next few episodes, I will drop some fitness facts on you that you may not have heard before and would love to start the conversation on social media. Drop me a line on TikTok @dave.glaser or on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs to get more details on the Lift Laugh Love podcast with Dave Glaser, CSCS
Group coaching begins Feb '22 with two time slots to get involved and as always, send me a DM if you are interested in one on one fitness or relationship coaching.
On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Paul Bauer, host of the C'mon Man Podcast from Grand Junction, Co. We discuss Nice Guy Syndrome and how it showed up in our own lives before we decided to uncover what was coming up in our own lives that held us back in relationships.
Paul believes that we are taught limiting beliefs about relationships from our family systems, and I couldn't agree more. We touch on masculine and feminine energy dynamics with a discussion about Christian Grey and covert contracts. One major takeaway from today's episode are 5 traits of a Nice Guy that Paul and I break down for you to recognize in yourself plus recommendations to right the ship of your life!
If Paul's message resonates with you today, please don't hesitate to reach out to him via his podcast, on Instagram @comeonmanpodcast or on TikTok @comeonmanpod
On this week's episode, I walk you through my personal experiences while dating with generalized anxiety disorder and depression. It's already challenging enough to navigate modern dating with apps, text messages, and social media playing a huge part in how people meet and communicate.
I share how becoming aware of what brings on feelings of anxiety has improved my approach to my attachment style and navigating making better choices to lessen the feelings of anxiety taking over my life. I finish today's episode with you how my break up happened and what I've been going through since my relationship ended.
If you have questions about today's episode, please don't hesitate to reach out and send me a direct message on Instagram @davemglaser
On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Christine Hernandez, who's mission in this world is to help people live bold in their relationships, bodies, businesses, and in life. She has found this is only possible if we addressed the pain conflict and challenge head-on paired with extreme grace and love.
She has been called the queen of conflict and she loves to help others embrace conflict because the result can be life changing. Christina is the owner of Revenue tribe, a local Denver business, where she stops at nothing to help clients succeed.
Christine is on a mission to show people that anything is possible and that they can transform undesirable challenges into powerful opportunities. Throughout Christine's life, she has turned the seemingly impossible into the possible by shifting her mindset, including overcoming a terminal brain condition called chiari malformation.
It was during this time that she courageously decided to choose her life over her diagnosis and was able to fully heal from the condition.
If Christine's message resonates with you today, please don't hesitate to reach out to her via LinkedIn or on Instagram @boldleaderco
On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Jamie Elizabeth Thompson who's mission in life is to look at how sex and sexual desire is key to being your authentic self.
She believes that you came here to be all of who you are and sex and intimacy are the ultimate playground of discovery. Jamie Elizabeth has developed a holistic body of work to support women men and couples with letting go of limiting patterns around sex so they can have a fulfilling intimate life and taste their most exquisite erotic expression.
She contributes regularly to the field of sex education and pioneering original and Lasting solutions for challenges in Sex and intimacy. If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @holisticsexcoach or her website linked here now jamieelizabeththompson.com
On today's episode, we go far beyond just sex and intimacy and we view it from the lens of the Enneagram and the type 8, Challenger, personality type.
Like me, Jamie is an 8 and has a social subtype versus my sexual subtype, which gives us a clear distinction of who we are and how we show up in the world. I truly enjoyed today's conversation, as she was a wonderful mirror for me to take a look at my own "stuff" that comes up in relationships.
Samantha Joy joins me on the podcast this week as an Enneagram type 7, and author of the book The Less Effect: Design Your Life for Happiness and Purpose. Her mission is to educate people on how to step into their authentic self by letting go of items in your physical, social, and habitual environments.
On today's episode, we dig deep into how she was possibly mistyped as a type to the helper for years and years and years before she finally uncovered that she was an Enthusiast on the Enneagram personality testing system. We talked a lot about parenting and her career in upper level management in the financial industry before she set out on her own.
Samantha is running a program right now based on how she went from food stamps to six figures in nine months.
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If Sam's message resonates with you today, please connect with her @iamsamanthajoy or via email at hello@thelesseffect.com
Libby Cole, owner of Expand Coaching and Consulting and an Enneagram 8w7, joins me on the podcast to talk about her experience as The Challenger personality type. She has learned through her life and business experience that Challengers who are women are often times the most misunderstood Enneagram type.
Libby wants to set the record straight that female 8s can be soft, influential, and great leaders all at the same time! I couldn’t agree more that she shows up with empathy, sensitivity, and a lot of fire for her mission in life.
Libby’s background professionally was mostly higher education before taking the leap to become a business owner and empowering herself to lead others through Enneagram coaching.
Libby believes that misunderstanding and miscommunication is what holds people back in relationships. In her words, “When people begin to learn more about themselves, they can also be more understanding of others. This is a beautiful outcome of learning the Enneagram, the awareness that there are 8 other ways of approaching something. It can also give you permission to step into your true, authentic self without apology.”
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @enneagramtoexpand or via email at libby@expandcandc.com
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On this week's episode of The Challenger Podcast, we welcome Jordan Pendleton an "Observer", type 5, on the Enneagram.
When I feel a lot of stress, I resemble the tendencies of a five a lot! Especially when she said, "5s have a lot of thoughts about their feelings." We also discuss numbing out with all kinds of vices, having a scarcity mindset, and how we each deal with grief.
This was a timely conversation for us, as we had just seen each other at a memorial service for a friend, giving us the chance to process our grief and sadness. So many amazing nuggets of wisdom from Jordan in today's episode, digging into the amazing attributes of the type 5, also known as the Investigator or Observer.
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @jordanypendleton and tune into her rebranding of Revenue Tribe.
We are pleased to announce brand new workout programs at Fit Life Champions and on August 16th, 2021, we are taking applications for this next round of elite level coaching! Click here for all the details today.
On this week's episode, we welcome back Robert Wunderlich, professor and black belt at The Academy of Jiu-Jitsu in Arvada, Co. We reconnected after last years interview because he was kind enough to walk me through a plateau in my Jiu-Jitsu journey recently.
We dig deep into how plateaus in fitness, Jiu-Jitsu, and personal growth can be beneficial for us in the long run, encouraging us to process all that comes up for us and to allow the subconscious mind to "play catch-up". Robert and I connect on a deeper level through my competition experience and how the body holds onto trauma which can be released by new trauma; for example, a car accident.
If Robert's message resonates with you today, please connect with him on Instagram @wunderbjj99 or at arvadajiujitsu.com
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Today's episode is part one of a two part series with Robert Wunderlich, a BJJ Black Belt and the owner of The Academy of Jiu-Jitsu in Arvada, CO. We connected last year during the peak of Covid to discuss what people were experiencing from an anthropologist's point of view.
Besides creating the Wyoming Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu Federation, Robert has a Masters in anthropology from the University of Wyoming and has impacted many students as an instructor in BJJ.
Tune into this insightful episode to learn about Robert's white belt mentality, his experience in fatherhood, and why he is so passionate about studying human history. If Robert's message resonates with you today, please connect with him at The Academy of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu in Arvada or on Instagram @wunderbjj99
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On this week’s podcast episode, my guest is Perri Chase, a powerhouse, badass, and challenger on the enneagram, like me! We do not hold back and one of the things I appreciated most about our conversation is that she…
Challenged me. Yep, you read that right. I get pumped up for a good challenge and this interview does not disappoint! We talk about everything. And I do mean everything; from triggers and alchemizing them on down to “is my enneagram type me? or is it my ego showing up?”
We close out the episode talking about d!ck pics and that’s a first time topic on the podcast… don’t miss it! If you’d like to connect deeper with Perri, please check out her upcoming program Slay at perrichase.com/slay or find her on Instagram @perri.chase
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On today's episode, I discuss how the challenger personality type becomes solidified within us and often times, that is as a result of an instance of trauma or repeated trauma in our formative years. I alert you with a heads up at the time during the episode where you may want to fast forward. We will dive deep into the enneagram, attachment styles, and self-leadership to learn more about what our anger is trying to teach us throughout the episode and it will be confronting, I promise.
The challenger personality type on the Enneagram reacts first with anger, as do the 9 and the 1, as they are part of the body feeling triad. Over the past few years, it has been part of my journey to get in touch with that anger to understand more clearly what is lying beneath it. I also answer our audience members' questions of how to recognize and display a clean version of our anger so that we can form deeper and more intimate relationships without blowing our lids!
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On today's episode, I will share what I've learned through my own embodiment practices and how they relate to The Enneagram, attachment styles, and self-leadership. As a challenger on the Enneagram, I tend to lean towards more intense activities that teach me how to embody strength, confidence, humility, and direction in my life.
If you say someone embodies patience, you may see them pausing before they respond to you in ALL situations, no matter their emotional state. If you say that someone is present in the moment, you may see them joking or laughing with the group or supporting one person off to the side, speaking softly as they comfort them through a difficult time. If you say that someone is the embodiment of a quality, you may mean that that is their most noticeable characteristic or the basis of all they do.
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On today's episode, I will walk you through how I learned that I needed to show more empathy for others and the journey I've been on since. What is empathy? There are three types of empathy: cognitive, emotional, and when you combine the two... compassionate.
It took a series of tough life experiences to show me that I could communicate with empathy in a more compassionate way. In today's episode, I dig deeper into empathy with a Maya Angelou quote to exemplify this, "Do the best you can until you know better. Once you know better, do better."
What comes up for you as you listen to today's episode? Join us for a free week of group coaching to learn better how to use your intuition to communicate better with empathy in your relationships! Click here to sign up now and for a limited time, I will include a 60 minute coaching call with me.
how have you communicated your boundaries in the past? how would you like to communicate your boundaries today? what will it look like to set healthy boundaries in the future?
these questions and more will be answered on today's solo podcast episode. there are three kinds of boundaries we will discuss today: porous, healthy, and rigid. and I can remember using all three at different times in my life.
we will dig deep into how the challenger personality type shows up when setting boundaries, how each attachment style feels about boundaries, and what self-leadership can do to enhance your communication when setting important boundaries. like a 2 am text, for example. how would you handle a text message that late?
today, I will leave you with a few different ways to approach setting that boundary depending on your attachment style. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to reach out to me on Instagram @thechallengerpodcast
how do you go deeper than your Enneagram type or astrological sign? what can you gain from the self-awareness that these two tools can show you? Gail Evans @your.soul.revelead joins me on the podcast this week to answer these questions and so much more. she is a 2w3 and a 1:1 subtype which gave me a new mirror to see myself in as we recorded this fun live event a couple weeks ago. we take this opportunity to dig even deeper into my cancer sun, leo moon, and aquarius rising signs as they parallel my enneagram personality type 8w7 with a 1:1 subtype. would you like more of this conversation with Gail and I? we are hosting a limited live event soon to go over your enneagram and astrological chart with a fun virtual vibe absolutely free! Click here to get all the details now. are you looking for more support in your relationships? join us in our private virtual group coaching program free for a week where I will facilitate your growth through the enneagram and attachment style to encourage leadership in your relationship! click here to sign up free for a week!
who pays on the first date? what are ways in which you can show up in a relationship to lead? why is that so important?
these questions and more will be answered with my guest Jessica Smith; author, dating coach, and international yoga retreat leader. Jessica joins me this week on the podcast to educate us on how the masculine core energy can show up with leadership in a relationship.
Jessica Smith @jessicasmith.love and I have been friends for years and we have a familiarity with how we each have shown up in relationships in the past. she is a loyalist on the Enneagram and we discuss how her anxious attachment style showed up in a recent relationship for her. that story was shared on her podcast Game of Love and that inspired our in depth conversation today to answer questions for our masculine core essence listeners. we also hope that our feminine audience finds a lot of value in her advice today!
I’ve seen my lack of leadership show up in my past and have experienced a lot of growth in the past few years when facing those tendencies and learning more about how I can show up for myself and my partner. in our interview today, Jessica and I focus on how men can take the lead when they meet someone on a dating app, before the first date, and share our thoughts on who texts first after the date!
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on this week's episode, GS and I discuss the depths of an intimate relationship, what shame looks like for men, and how authentic relating can expand our experiences in life. we take the time to dig into what our mindset around fear looks like and that most fears arise and yet are left unexamined. GS and I discuss edgy topics in this thoughtful and heartfelt conversation about the masculine in relationship today.
We don’t stop there! We dig into sexual leadership and the impact masculine leadership can have on a relationship. If you follow his blueprint for success, you will find your partner trusting your leadership more and more the deeper you go within yourself.
That Masculine in Relationship blueprint can be summed up with these three foundational principles
- Respond vs React
- Create Safety
- Provide Structure
I have been anticipating the release of today’s episode with @gsyoungbloodmir for the past couple of weeks! His book can be found here- The Masculine in Relationship -has opened my heart to new depths of what leadership by the masculine energy means to me. Please connect with him on Instagram @gsyoungbloodmir to learn more about his work with men.
New private support groups are forming now to kick off June 15th, 2021! If you or someone you know are looking for a supportive community that will be your guide to self-awareness through the enneagram, attachment theory, and leadership, click thechallengerpodcast.com now and sign up for a free week to try it out!
Pedro Meyer is a Brazilian singer, musician, songwriter, and a teammate of mine at Easton Training Center who joins me on the podcast this week to discuss Muay Thai competitions, the challenger personality type, and masculinity in the modern world.
Pedro and I agree that vulnerability is a massive challenge for men in the world today. We dig into all things martial arts and relating as the challenger as we date in the modern world. He was born in Brazil and came to the United States at the age of 23 to pursue a better life for himself and his family. Pedro shares his vulnerability as he describes a divorce and a break up that teaches us gratitude through a simulated death.
Other topics we discussed today were toxic positivity, grieving a relationship, suppression of emotions, boundaries, and so much more! I hope you are inspired by Pedro's powerful message and if his story resonates with you today, please connect with him on Instagram @_thewarriorpoet or on his website www.musicbypedromeyer.com
New groups are forming now to kick off June 15th, 2021! If you or someone you know are looking for a supportive community that will be your guide to self-awareness through the enneagram, attachment theory, and leadership, click here now and sign up for a free week to try it out!
On today's episode, I am joined by Robert Joseph @rjcoachingnyc has a mission to serve with strength, love, and humility. he is constantly sharing his poetry, thoughts, and philosophy on the challenges men face in the world today. I’ve seen friends of mine isolate themselves when they are going through a transition or major change in their lives such as a break up or a job loss.
why do mean shut others out by isolating themselves? why do men need the support of other men? these questions and more will be answered with my guest this week Robert Joseph, author, speaker, and mens coach. Robert joins me to share his powerful story with us on how finding like minded men to speak to helps us grow.
that is the most common time men reach out for support and I can relate because a year ago, I lost a great job and income without having any idea where to turn. that's when I sought out my own community for support and I am grateful that I did. what I took away from our conversation is too lengthy to list here, so tune in to the full conversation on your favorite podcast app and leave us a 5 star rating and a written review.
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On this week's episode, Traver joins me to educate us on how the Nice Guy shows up for men in relationships. Traver Boehm @traverboehm is a former MMA fighter, a Challenger on the Enneagram like me, and the author of Man Uncivilized. it is a ground breaking work of poetry, thoughts, and an honest portrayal of the challenges men face in the world today. I’ve seen the Nice Guy show up in my past and have experienced a lot of growth in the past few years when facing those tendencies and integrating that part back into my psyche.
what does it mean to be a man? why do men numb out to deal with internal conflict? these questions and more will be answered by my guest Traver Boehm, author, speaker, and facilitator of the Uncivilized Nation.
Traver and I focus on how we can solve what needs all of our attention in our modern world; that it’s ok to be a man. what I took away from our conversation is too lengthy to list here, so tune in to the full conversation on your favorite podcast app and leave us a 5 star rating and a written review.
to stay connected and get more information on enneagram coaching with Dave Glaser, CSCS, click here now and sign up for a free week! I am giving away one copy to a lucky listener on our instagram account this week so please connect with us @thechallengerpodcast on social media to ask questions, provide feedback, and go deeper in the conversation with us.
From New York to Los Angeles, Ali (type 8) and Roark (type 3) have your dating questions covered! The vibrant cohosts of the fun and informative dating podcast join me on this week's podcast to dig into dating after a year of dealing with Covid and shelter in place. From long distance love bombs to what to say when an ex reaches out, you will not want to miss this episode or a single episode of Finding Mr. Height, available at findingmrheight.com/podcast and on Instagram or Tik Tok under the same handle.
Join us for a free live event and open house with Morgan Wade on April 13th at 7 pm mst to learn how to create a safe space within a relationship! Click here to sign up and reserve your spot now!
On this week's episode, we are joined by Ben Heldfond and Nikki DeBartolo, co-authors of Our Happy Divorce, a personal story of divorce and coming together as a team to raise their son. I too went through an unhappy divorce from my daughter's mother and can resonate a lot to Ben's account of taking ownership and a need to face his ego.
What does it take to set aside the need to win in divorce? We dig deep into this question with a new mindset from our guests today that have a mission to share their story in the hopes that it will help others navigate the waters of divorce and coparenting with their new partners. If their message resonated with you today, please connect with them at ourhappydivorce.com
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Picture this. It’s late 2021. You’re out there reconnecting with the world, the people in it, and all those possibilities. After way too much time socially distanced, you and a lot of other people are hungry for conversation and closeness.
One solution: dating multiple people (safely, obviously!) These days, dating more than one person at one time is not unusual. In fact, I am willing to bet the trend will grow even bigger.
But how does dating multiple people actually sit with you? What would that really look like?
That’s something harder to nail down. Especially if you’re unaware of your attachment style. In this episode, we’ll dig into what dating more than one person looks like, but we’ll do it through the lens of your attachment style. This will help focus your options, minimize discomfort, and optimize your dating strategy.
We’ll quickly break down all 4 attachment styles and some ways they manifest. Then, I’ll lay down specific advice for what to expect—and how to process—dating multiple people. Are you looking for more support right now in your dating life? Apply here for a free week trial of our small group coaching program that meets every Tuesday at 7 pm mst.
On this week’s episode of the podcast, Dr. Sheva Assar and I discussed how social media plays a big part in today's modern dating. We ask a question submitted by our audience, “What are some red flags to look out for when we are vetting our dates we met online?” This episode is for both educational and entertainment purposes as we laughed and laughed at a couple stories from my dating history; including the one time I got engaged on Facebook before proposing! "I'm sorry Dave, did you say engaged on Facebook?" It just might have been my first experience with an activated anxious attachment and a trauma bond for me. Dr. Sheva and I also discuss setting healthy boundaries around social media use and what we can do to reduce our use to improve our self-esteem and confidence! If her message resonates with you today, please connect with Dr. Sheva, clinical psychologist and coach on Instagram @drsheva or through her website drshevaassar.com/coaching
On this week’s episode of the podcast, Morgan Wade and I discussed how the body holds onto memories in “trauma knots”. Morgan, a Focalizing Practitioner, believes that healing is a return to wholeness for us all. We ask the question, “What is change?” and want to remind you that when we change, our relationship dynamics change as well. My biggest takeaway from our conversation is that “whatever is coming up within us, is coming up for us”. To me, that means that the only way out is through the emotions and experiences that caused the hurt.
Our conversation led us into a story from my parenting experience where my daughter Madison told me “Don’t ever shake a baby!” That's good advice. Morgan and I had the opportunity to discuss how attachments with our caregivers form in childhood to inform our adult relationships. We close out the episode with some scenarios where a parent can create a safe space for their child to form a secure attachment!
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with Morgan on Instagram @thelovingkind_ or through her podcast @deadhearts.club
Would you agree that social media comes into play every day whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or single? On today’s episode, we are joined by Karl Sona and we dive deep into how to live publicly on social media while dating amidst a pandemic.
Karl opens up about his relationship and how living publicly on social media can come with some unwanted negative energy from followers and trolls. My biggest takeaway from our conversation is that as your influence grows, so does your responsibility to be a leader in every area of your life.
Karl Sona’s mission in life is to educate and empower black leaders to make a lasting impact through their personal and professional missions! We take a break from the heavy hitting conversation to learn more about his passion project and podcast, Dear Black CEO. His platform comes from taking huge leaps in his professional life that brought him to Denver almost three years ago.
Just over a year ago, that’s when he met his partner Julia while playing basketball in Washington Park outside of downtown Denver. His vibe that day was authentic and his intention was to get a daily reset outside shooting hoops.
Their story is a true testament to what you can attract into your life without even trying too hard. If his message resonates with you today, please connect with Karl on Instagram @karl.sona or through his website karlsona.com
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On today’s podcast, Dallas Hartwig and I dig into what the world needs most from men right now. He is the co-author of two New York Times bestselling books, Whole 30 and It Starts with Food. In his latest book, The 4 Season Solution, Dallas lays out the groundbreaking plan for feeling better, living well, and powering down our always-on lives.
Our conversation begins with his journey from being passionate about fitness and nutrition to raising his son with intention in a time when boys need initiation into manhood more than ever. His mission in life is to share how to make healthy lifestyle choices in this crazy world and I couldn’t be more on board with his passion for sharing the importance of nutrition. As an Enneagram type 4, The Individualist, Dallas tends to be on a lifelong mission to find himself and we dive deep into his journey.
Digging into his Enneagram personality type, we begin to understand how fluidly we can experience life through the heart of an Individualist. He shares a deep story of how he can relate to my experience as a Challenger because of an overbearing mother. I also truly value Dallas’s perspective on attachment styles as it pertains to the immature masculine energy, of which I can deeply resonate to his share.
So sit back, grab a pen and paper, and take thoughtful notes on this intense conversation with Dallas Hartwig, father, speaker, and leader. If his message resonated with you today, please connect with him on Instagram @dallashartwig
Geoff Laughton, two time national best selling author, and Your Relationship Architect was one of my men's group leaders for a year and is always a good friend of the podcast. He returns for the third time to discuss when is the best time for a couple to reach out for help from a neutral party during conflict.
We also dig deep into how conflict in a safe container can be a good thing to bring growth, what to do when you or your partner is making work more important than your partnership, and how to turn around a bad movie date! Lastly, we get to the bottom of what women qualities they really want in their partnership and the 3 signs couples should look for in their relationship to know it's the right time to reach out for counseling or coaching. To connect with Geoff professionally, check out his websites yourrelationshiparchitect.com or theevolvingman.com for his men's group.
Join us for a live virtual event this Tuesday with Modern Matchmaker Abby Rosenblum where she will join us in our weekly group coaching call to share her tips to dating during a pandemic, online and off! Click here to sign up for free now!
What are conflict styles and how do they show up in an argument? On today's episode, I dive into the 5 conflict styles as researched by the Gottman Institute. They are conflict avoiders, volatile, validating, hostile, and hostile-detached and the research has found that one is more likely to cause big problems in a relationship than the others!
This series concludes with a wrap up of how attachment styles, the enneagram, and understanding conflict will help you build trust in a relationship. If you would like to read more, click here to see the full article from the Gottmans.
We are inviting 5 lucky people to a FREE live virtual event with Modern Matchmaker, Abby Rosenblum, on Feb. 9th, 2021! Click here for all the details and to reserve your seat today!
On this week's episode of the podcast, I share the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse in your relationship when you are having conflict with your partner. They are defensiveness, stonewalling, criticism, and contempt. If you've ever been in a long term relationship, you know you will come across some kind of conflict with your partner. Its normal to have the people close to you push your buttons! Conflict can also help you grow closer to your partner because it opens up an opportunity to repair any wrongdoing. I want to walk you through a couple of personal experiences of my own from the past couple years looking for a partner while dating in the modern world. While doing so, I hope to show you the warning signs of bad conflict behaviors and share the antidotes to them at the same time! If you're looking for support while in conflict in your relationship, please join us in our small group coaching program free for one week, where you will get the answers you need to create your ideal relationship now! Click here to apply for our next coaching call Tuesday at 7 pm mst.
Do you find conflict coming up in your relationship? Whether your in a romantic relationship with a Challenger or any other Enneagram type, conflict is bound to come up when your partner calls you forward.
On today's episode, I'll walk you through the experiences I've had as the Challenger, a Nice Guy, and the avoidant attachment style to show you how conflict can be a positive experience in your life. Your relationship will be your greatest teacher in life, constantly reflecting your shadow and short comings back to you so that you can grow to become your most authentic self!
To get a FREE month of coaching with Dave in the private men's group coaching program, join us tonight by applying here now! You'll get access to a private support group of men just like you that want deeper meaning in your life plus a weekly group coaching call to see that you're not alone in your journey to freedom in work, life, and love.
On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Erica Weiner who is an Integrative Health Practitioner and Certified Health Coach so we had plenty to talk about with our shared enthusiasm for fitness, nutrition, and mental health advocacy.
Her mission in this life is to help heart-centered high achievers sleep better, heal anxiety and find joy in each moment. We dive deep into her journey through inflammatory responses to certain foods, alcohol, and how quickly traveling 50% of the time for work caught up to her in every area of her health.
As a Helper on the Enneagram, Erica has grown immensely beyond a life of people pleasing and perfectionism. Tune in to her full story on Instagram @ericaallisonwellness, download her podcast episodes There's a Hack for That, or through her website ericaalisonwellness.com
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Joining me this week on the podcast are Leanna, type 7, and Jared, type 2, from the Hello and Goodbye Podcast. We share the passion for what the Enneagram, attachment theory, and consciousness can bring to relationships.
We dig deep into how our parents grow up once the kids leave the nest, what it takes to make a relationship work, and what it means to earn security in a relationship. Today’s episode is one of my favorites so far because I get the chance to speak with two REAL people sharing their lives on their podcast.
The Hello and Goodbye podcast began because Leanna’s physical therapist encouraged her to share her funny dating stories publicly. She later gave Jared a tryout as cohost on the podcast and the rest is history! If you liked their message today, please connect with Leanna and Jared on Instagram @helloandgoodbyepodcast or on all major podcast platforms!
Check out their episode where I was honored to be a guest discussing the Enneagram and attachment theory. To apply for one of our remains slots available in the group coaching program, click here now!
On today's bonus episode, we are joined by Dr. Kristen Hick from Center for Shared Insight to educate our members and answer their questions. The question we answered that night is what are attachment styles and why does an activated attachment style feel like chemistry? Listen and share this episode with one person you feel could benefit from the information and please leave us a 5 Star rating and a written review to let us know your biggest takeaways! If you'd like more support and answers to your attachment style, Enneagram, and relationship questions, click here to apply and receive a free week trial!
Do you believe in the myth of incompatibility? How do your conversations about sex go with your partner? On today's episode, we are joined by Celest Love, Erotic Blueprint coach, and a type 9 on the Enneagram. We get so vulnerable in our conversation that digs into my s3xual and energetic blueprint and how that awareness can open up great conversations in a relationship. We also hear about a transformational time in Celest's life where she was exploring her own sexuality. The Sexual and energetic blueprints are a bit of a conflict for me and you'll find out why on today's amazing episode! If Celest's message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Facebook in her private group here or via her website at lovewisecoaching.com. My holiday gift to you is a free 60 minute call to give you extra support right now in your relationships. Check out my calendar online here to schedule a quick get to know you call.
On this week's episode, I am joined by Taylor Fraser, host of The Forward Podcast, which recounts her experience in a high school shooting and her journey since. Together, we uncover patterns in her relationships since and how she found the trauma lying underneath caused relationship challenges. Once she began to sift through her history, Taylor was able to work through subconscious attraction to musicians, engineers, and trauma survivors to live an extraordinarily successful life.
Please tune in to Taylor's amazing podcast Jan. 1, 2021 for a reenactment of the events from that day acted out by real actors at theforwardpodcast.com
If you're looking for support right now, please join us for a free week trial of our men's and women's virtual group coaching program by applying here now!
Should you send your ex a Happy Holidays text this year? With all the turmoil that 2020 has thrown at you, do you feel like reaching out to an ex is a good idea?
On today's episode, I offer up some suggestions for when you may want to reach out with a check in, birthday, or happy holidays text... and when you definitely shouldn't! But what about if you don't have an ex that is constantly on your mind?
When should you send a good morning text to someone you met on a dating app? I tell all of my secrets today on this deep dive into the trends in modern dating. If you're looking for support right now, please try out our private, members only group coaching program free for one week by applying here now!
I'm not new to the singles scene. For three years, I have been digging deep and peeling back the layers of my relationship story while surrounding myself with as many positive and uplifting people I possibly could through the podcast. If I were to have someone tell me point blank, "How to become exclusive" with someone I liked, I would have laughed out loud.
It sounds so simple. You like someone, you tell them so and you're exclusive, right? Almost. Not quite. Consider that everyone has a breakup story the found transformational at one point in their life. That's me. Broken and at a turning point in my life three years ago so I set out on a personal mission to uncover how my past traumas and experiences impact my relationships today.
And on today's episode, I share with you three things to be mindful of when becoming exclusive with someone (casually, spoken for, exclusive, or any level or relationship) while dating in the modern world; ie. texting, online dating, and ghosting for starters.
Those three steps are:
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Be clear about what you want
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Be clear about what you don't want
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What does healthy communication look like to you?
If you're looking for more support in your dating life right now (even if you aren't dating) and you'd like to join a group of like-minded, strong, and independent singles, try out our private, members only group coaching program now! Just click here to try it for a week absolutely free.
On today's episode, I wanted to give you 8 Steps to master dating during the next lockdown (on top of the holidays)! The rules have changed and the only way to master dating right now is to be prepared with healthy tools to create deep connection and enjoy the journey!
If you would like to connect with me to ask your questions about modern dating and try out our private group free for one week, click https://bit.ly/believe-group-coaching now!
On this week's episode, I will walk you through how the avoidant and anxious attachment style can learn to let go of an ex! Building upon last week's episode in our new series, Love at First Fight, we dig deep into understanding our Enneagram and attachment style when we want to get over an ex and lean all-in with a new relationship. If you're looking for additional support right now to get through the holidays or a break up, try out our group calls where we will have your back during the ups and downs of modern dating. Just click here now to join for a free week trial!
On this week's podcast episode, we look at how each of the attachment styles hang onto an ex and what they need to understand in order to let go! We will walk you through how the anxious attachment clings to an ex while the avoidant may rush on to a new partner shockingly fast! To try our private members only group coaching program free for a week, click here now. Each week, you will get to attend a group coaching call to talk about your life through the lens of your Enneagram type, your attachment style, and receive feedback from like minded people who wish to grow personally! Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast so that we may share the message with more conscious and authentic daters!
On this week's episode of the podcast, we are joined by art therapist, Paula Santos! Our deep conversation touches on so many things that are important to me; including personal growth, anger vs. assertiveness, and how I must be reminded that "Connection is safety". Please subscribe to the podcast, give us a rating, and leave us a review to be the first to listen to this amazing, deep, and lighthearted conversation with Paula Santos, an Enthusiast on the Enneagram, and she showed up today with the energy you would expect from type 7s! To connect with Paula, please reach out to her on her website freshstartarttherapy.com or on Instagram @gdosart To apply for our private, members only, group coaching program, click here now to join tonight's call! If you're looking to join our remote personal training program to reach your goals quickly and safely, click here to apply now! Please vote today!
On today's episode, we are joined by Dr. Kristen Mark, PhD, and we discuss sex education, how to find the clitoris, and more importantly, how to share your trauma with a partner. Originally from Canada, Dr. Mark is a researcher and therapist with a passion for working with trauma survivors that have a healthy sex life after they experience trauma.
We are both Challengers or type 8 on the Enneagram and we discuss deeply how we tend to root for the little guy in our professional lives while pursuing our live's purposes without deviation. If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her at kristenmark.com or on Twitter @kristen_mark to learn more!
Dr. Mark mentioned this Tedx talk that begs us to switch the metaphor for sex from baseball to pizza! Click here to watch now.
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On this week's episode, we are joined by Dr. Morgan Anderson Psy.D. from my home state of Montana. That's not all we have in common because we are both certified personal trainers and Challengers on the Enneagram. Today's conversation is like looking in the mirror for me as we dig into attachment theory through the eyes of two type 8's; from one masculine and feminine perspective. If Dr. Anderson's message resonates with you today, please feel free to connect with her on Instagram @drmorgancoaching or in her private group community on Facebook here. Join us for an Open House event on Oct. 20th at 7 pm mst where we will be joined by Dr. Kristen Hick from Center for Shared Insight to answer all of your dating and love questions. To save your spot for Tuesday night's virtual even via zoom, click here now! In today's episode, I mentioned a funny video from satirist J.P. Sears which you can view here. Tag us on social media @believeberealbebold to let us know what made you laugh or cry about his take on the Spiritual Pick Up artist.
On this week’s episode of the podcast, we are joined by Chelsey Sterling, a local Denver dating and relationship coach, who brings a research based approach to answer all of your questions about love.
As an Enneagram type 5, or The Investigator, you can believe that Chelsey has done her research! When she is at her best, Chelsey is open to receiving the views of others, especially loved ones. We dive deep into her personal journey to build confidence through dating and meeting a lot of new people in Washington, D.C.
Chelsey and I lay out how dating can help you on a personal growth journey as you recognize yourself in others. Lastly, we wanted to remind our listeners that you can be both a masterpiece and a work in progress at the same time.
Chelsey’s mission is in helping women to show up as their authentic selves in the world and find love while they build confidence.
If her message resonated with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @chelseysterlingcoaching or on Facebook @Sterling Coaching as well as via her website www.chelseysterlingcoaching.com
We are sponsored by Center for Shared Insight and if you're looking for extra support from a counselor or therapist, please reach out to Dr. Kristen Hick as she is accepting new clients now! Get your free consultation at centerforsharedinsight.com
Join us for a free week trial of our private, members only, virtual group coaching program by applying here today! Each week, you will get to join a live group coaching call, receive two lessons in personal growth, and for a limited time, get a 60 minute coaching consultation with me included for only $37 per month!
From grandiose gestures to the friend zone, Brett McGinn is our guest this week and he has seen it all. Brett is the owner of an apparel company called Love Fucking Sucks and shares his story that began in college when he was giving girls advice while his buddies were getting drunk! We have a special merchandise giveaway for you this week as we invite him and his friend Emily Cox to share their thoughts on their Enneagram types and how oral sex was a deal breaker one night after a concert!
To win two special logo shirts and a hoodie from Brett, head on over to his Instagram account @lovefuckingsucks___ now to enter for your chance to win!
We are sponsored by Dr. Kristen Hick at the Center for Shared Insight, who is accepting new tele therapy and in person clients now beginning with a complimentary consultation! If you are looking for more support right now, click centerforsharedinsight.com to connect with her today!
Each week, we host a private, exclusive, members only group coaching call where you can learn how the Enneagram, your attachment style, and love languages can build the foundation for an ideal relationship. Click bit.ly/Believe-group-coaching to apply now!
On this week's podcast episode, Dave Glaser goes solo to share what the Fearful Avoidant looks like as it pairs with The Challenger personality type. When growing and learning about oneself, it won't all be sunshine and rainbows as you progress forward and today, we talk about the shadow, the ego, and how they show up when we are not at our best.
We are sponsored by The Center for Shared Insight and Dr. Kristen Hick has a new blog I'd recommend you check out now! Click Three Reasons why People Come Together to learn more about yourself and why you are attracted to others! To book a complimentary consultation with Dr. Hick, click here to contact them now!
To join us for a free week of our private, exclusive, members only group, click here to apply and join us for this week's topic: Why you may want to date more than one person at a time!
On this week's episode, we have Jason Kendrick and Kirk Samuels returning as The Mad Men of Masculinity to discuss how porn consumption impacts our relationships. We also discuss what holds men back from finding what they are looking for in relationships and we close out our conversation with Jason and Kirk each sharing the number one thing they wish men knew that would help them most right now!
If their message resonates with you today, please connect with them at jasonbkendrick.com or kirkmsamuels.com now!
We are sponsored by the Center for Shared Insight and Dr. Kristen Hick has written a new blog on why online dating is so complicated and how you can build an authentic connection today while enjoying your dating experience! Click centerforsharedinsight.com now to book a complimentary consultation!
Dr, Hick will be our special guest joining us on Oct. 20th in our private group coaching program to share all of her knowledge and expertise on modern dating, attachment theory, and relationship recovery! Click here now for your free trial and to save your seat for the live event on Oct. 20th at 7 pm MST!
On this week's episode, we are joined by Soma Miller from The Essential Man to talk about the importance of men doing their work! From his initiation into manhood to an improvised cold plunge, Soma leads men who are looking to begin their journey but need support along the way.
We discuss psychedelic ceremony to open up the mind and how our shadow will leak out and erupt in our lives if we don't learn how to face it through our fear and shame as men. If Soma's message resonates with you today, please connect with him for his new program at theessentialman.net/ignite or on Instagram @the.essential.man
We are sponsored by Dr. Kristen Hick at the Center for Shared Insight and their newest blog is a must read! Click centerforsharedinsight.com now to schedule a complimentary consultation for support in relationship, divorce recovery, anxiety, or depression.
If you would like to join our weekly support group to learn more about The Enneagram, your Attachment Style, and how love languages help you understand yourself better, fill out this quick form to apply now!
On this wee's episode, we welcome back Roz Ware, who exudes feminine energy and rarely holds back her thoughts on astrology, polarity between the sexes, and how women self-sabotage. As hard as that may be to hear, the feminine will never be the masculines top priority and in our conversation today, I asked Roz to explain her reasoning further!
According to Roz, a man's purpose is his true north star and when he is purpose driven, the feminine finds that VERY attractive. To prove her point, Roz shares a story of a man and a woman planning a wedding and what that may sound like from both perspectives. If her message resonates with you today, please reach out to her on Facebook @rozware now.
Join us this week for our private virtual group coaching call with our special guest Dr. Liz Fedrick who we welcome in to do an in depth Q and A on how attachment styles show up in your relationships. This week's group call is an open house and 100% free to join, so send us a direct message on Instagram @believeberealbebold with your email address to save your seat.
Dr. Kristen Hick and the Center for Shared Insight is our go-to resource for counseling and therapy in Colorado. They specialize in relationship and women's health, and provide excellent therapeutic care to clients of all walks of life. Contact them now at centerforsharedinsight.com and take the first step to healing, strengthening and transforming your relationship with yourself and with others.
In this special bonus episode, I wanted to discuss how to set boundaries for yourself around finances and new friendships. Specifically, what are boundaries, why you may want to set them with your finances, who you want to set them with, how you go about it, and for what purpose! Are you looking for more support with boundaries and finding your ideal partner? Join us for a free week of our private exclusive group coaching program by applying now at https://riseup781135.typeform.com/to/VztDGbDx
On this week's episode, we are joined by Katie Carlson, a core energy specialist and an Enthusiast on the Enneagram. You can hear her excitement for life and coaching others to tap into their feminine energy among her many other interests. Today, we talk about her experience with Coronavirus, skipping my birthday party, and how the masculine can hold space for the feminine.
If her energy and enthusiasm resonates with you today, please connect with her on Facebook or Instagram now!
If you are looking for additional support in an inclusive community, join us Tuesday evenings at 7 PM MST to help you create your ideal relationship with tools and advice such as the Enneagram, your love languages, and attachment styles. Just click here to apply for your free week trial now!
We are grateful for the support from our sponsor Dr. Kristin Hick and The Center for Shared Insight team who specialize in divorce recovery, relationship counseling, and how to enhance your sexual health and functioning. Please reach out to them now if you are seeking support and transformation through therapy and counseling at centerforsharedinsight.com
On this week's episode, Emily Brown joins us to talk about my very first tarot card reading, how they can be used as journaling prompts, and the spiritual awakening happening in the world today. One of Emily's favorite mantas is "It's not happening to you, it's happening for you" and we dig into what that means for each of us. As the Helper, type 2 on the Enneagram, Emily can speak to exactly why it is that we tend to gravitate to those we want to help.
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @the.perfectlyimperfect.me
If you're looking for additional relationship or marriage support, please reach out to our sponsor, Dr. Kristen Hick at centrerforsharedinsight.com to book a complimentary consultation now. She can expertly walk you through divorce recovery, relationship anxiety, and how to attract and create healthy relationships.
We are hosting an exclusive open house for our private group coaching Tuesday evenings at 7 pm MST. If you are looking to connect with a community for support, please join us for a free week by applying to the I Believe coaching program now by clicking here! When you apply today, you will receive an invitation to our private group call, community education forum on Facebook, and you'll get an extra bonus of two lessons per week to deepen your self-awareness and create your ideal relationship.
On this week's episode, we are joined by Dr. Liz Fedrick from Evolve Counseling in Arizona who's mission is to help her clients break through the obstacles that are holding them back in life. During this insightful conversation, we dove deep into the narcissist and codependent relationship and why they are drawn to each other.
The biggest takeaway for me was the realization that we all fall somewhere on the narcissist or codependent scale as Dr. Fedrick referenced from The Human Magnet Syndrome book. We also discussed "Love Bombing" and the devaluing cycle that leads to the blame/shame cycle that is common in these relationships.
If our message resonated with you today, please don't hesitate to reach out to Dr. Fedrick at www.evolvecounselingaz.com or on Instagram @evolvecounselingaz Also, please leave us a five star review on your favorite podcast platform and share this episode with just one person who could benefit from Dr. Fedrick's expertise.
Did you watch Dr. Kristen Hick's from the Center for Shared Insight blog on why instances of ghosting have gone through the roof? Check it out now by clickinghere!
If you are looking for extra support in your life, join our Open House for our virtual private group coaching event this Tuesday at 7 PM MST where you will connect, learn, and grow other women just like you who want to discover their ideal relationship and partner! Click here now, fill out the quick questionnaire, and I'll send you all the details.
On this week's episode, we are joined by Orit Krug, board certified dance and movement therapist, who has a passion for serving women who have tried talk therapy but would like to add more tools to aid personal growth. We discuss how women self-sabotage and push away great partners while knowing deep down that they want a deep connection.
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her via her website at www.oritkrug.com or on Instagram @orit.krug
To join our "I Believe" private virtual group coaching program this coming week with a free week trial, click here now!
On this week's episode, we are joined by Dr. Kristen Hick to discuss how you can grow through understanding your attachment style. From repairing childhood wounds to conflicts with your partner while diving deep into our attachment styles helps us be more compassionate for ourselves and others.
To connect with Dr. Hick to work with her in Colorado, please schedule a complimentary consultation at centerforsharedinsight.com now!
If our message resonates with you today, please subscribe to our channel and leave us a five star review on Youtube, iTunes, or Spotify for more expert guests and real life daters to help you be your most authentic self.
John Kim, @theangrytherapist joins me this week to discuss fatherhood, personal growth, and introspection to be in a better relationship with yourself as you seek a partner. John went through his own rebirth after a divorce and became a coach and therapist to help others grow and connect!
If his message resonates with you today, please connect with him on Instagram @theangrytherapist
Submit your relationship questions to us via email and we will answer them on an upcoming episode of the podcast; believeberealbebold@gmail.com
If you are looking for new ways to build a connection in the digital dating era, check out the new blog from the Center for Shared Insight here.
Traver Boehm is an author and podcast host with a powerful mission to impact one million men’s lives so that they can live “uncivilized”. His movement is to show men another way of being and to get them to embrace their innate duality. On today’s episode, we discuss how men can own their power and use it responsibly while they express their greatness without apology.
Traver and I dive deep into the leadership of the United States in our tumultuous times and we give men a roadmap so they can be the men the world so desperately needs right now.
If his message resonates with you today, please connect with him at www.manuncivilized.com or on Instagram @traverboehm Please leave us a five star review on iTunes, Spotify, and subscribe to our YouTube channel to help us share the message of the podcast with more people.
On today's episode, Lauren Dow joins us as an eating disorder advocate and educator from Denver, Co. We discuss how body dysmorphia impacts her relationships while she does not want a label but rather to be treated as normal. We finish up our conversation with a question around social media and how much transparency is too much when sharing our life's purpose publicly.
If her message resonates with you, please connect with her on Instagram @laurendowwrites or via her website at www.laurendow.com
If you are experiencing repeated patterns in your relationships, please connect with Dr. Kristin Hick at centerforsharedinsight.com for a complimentary consultation to get outside eyes on your life.
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On today's episode, we are joined by Lori Jean Glass, author and creator of the PIVOT process to understand self, repair and reparent self, and learn to attach securely REGARDLESS of their past experiences. We discuss how your message has value while the judge and jury spinning in your head and past wounds holds you back in relationships. We finish our conversation with how relational bottoms can feel like you're face down in pain but don't fear, there is hope! If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her at lovetopivot.com or on Instagram @lovetopivot If you would like to read the whole blog post by The Center for Shared Insight here in Denver, click Decoding Your Feelings now!
On today's episode, Brandan Rader joins us as an elite local matchmaker with a background in human behavior. We discuss everything from having a Love/Life List, and to understanding compatibility through his signature ABCs!
If his message resonates with you today, please connect with him on Facebook Instagram or via the eliteprivatesearch.com website.
On today's episode of the podcast, Michelle Herzog joins us from Chicago as a certified sex therapist and marriage and family therapist. The views that she shares with us today are how to connect our values while ethically dating using apps and other ways to meet singles! We take a deeper dive into dating multiple people or just one partner as a reflection of our ethics and values when dating in the modern world.
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @chicagosextherapy or her website liveandlovemindfully.com
On today's episode, we are joined by Christina Marie, eating disorder advocate and a real life dater from a recent event called "Denver is Blind". The event was similar to Netflix's Love is Blind that was popular at the beginning of quarantine. She and I dive deep into the experience during and after the show plus the lessons she learned that she can apply to dating in Denver from now on.
Too many big takeaways to list here but I especially enjoyed her perspective on dating more than one person, expectations vs. standards, and choosing a partner based on values and not physical appearance.
If her message resonated with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @christinamariesmantra or via her website mybodymantra.com
On today's episode, Dr. Courtney Pare joins us to share her unique exploration of homeopathic medicine and treating adults and children for anxiety. Walking away bravely from her marriage, Courtney decided enough was enough and once she began advocating for herself, her relationships improved dramatically!
If her message resonated with you today, please connect with her at drcourtneypare.com or on Instagram @drcourtneypare
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On today's episode, we welcome Kristina Martinez who shares with us her message of bravery. I view her as heroic for escaping an abusive relationship and for uncovering the repeated patterns in her life so that she could live extraordinary. Her story may be hard to hear but for me it hits home as we are both trauma survivors living as strong as we possibly can during a global pandemic.
We discuss how safety and security play a big role in our conscious and unconscious decision making process when dating before, during, and after shelter in place in Denver, Co.
If her message resonated with you today, please subscribe to the podcast and share it with just one person you feel would benefit from Kristina's message. If you would like to connect with her, please do so on Instagram @rise_with_kristina
On today's episode, Dr. Carrie McCrudden joins us to discuss controlling the outcome in life and love. Her best advice is laid out in today's conversation that includes determining your next best move and how a simple shake up of your morning routine can produce amazing results!
Her mission is to help people learn to live their best lives and we dig deep into what that means to both of us! Subscribe to the podcast and share with just one person if you liked today's episode!
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her at coloradotherapycare.com or on LinkedIn and Twitter to learn more about her therapy practice in the heart of Denver, Co.
On today’s episode, I am joined by Sierra Melcher all the way from Medellin, Columbia. She believes that when people are held back in their relationships, it is because they are not quite sure who they are because they spend so much time trying to be the “right” kind of self or desirable. During our conversation, Sierra and I compare travel and dating as a metaphor that I think you will enjoy! “It isn’t about the destination so much as it is about the journey together.” Sierra’s mission is to support women to discover and deepen the relationship with themselves so that she can know what she wants and have the courage to pursue it. She calls it attuning to the “inner author-ity” to really be the author of her own life. As we talked during our interview, Sierra described love as, “Deeply investing in your own and someone else’s spiritual growth” and I truly enjoyed that perspective. Sierra hosts weekly women’s circles as well as a weekly podcast called Integral Women Soundbites, so if her message resonates with you today, please connect with her via her website – integral-women.com on Instagram – integralwomenmentoring or on Facebook – IntegralWomenHeartSisters If you have a question for Dave regarding your own relationship, please connect with him via email at believeberealbebold@gmail.com and he will reach out as soon as possible! Don't miss the 8 ways you can socialize and date from home by The Center for Shared Insight!
On today's episode, we invite love education coach Renee Slansky back onto the podcast to share the differences between initiating and chasing with your crush in a relationship! We always take away the best information and this episode is no different with advice such as what to say to your crush when you want to know if you're exclusive! Today, you will learn what it takes to bring value to and receive from your relationship without abandoning yourself in the meantime. Subscribe to the podcast on YouTube, on iTunes, or Spotify to never miss out on an upcoming episode! Renee is an internationally published dating coach with Australia's #1 dating blog among many more articles. If you enjoyed Renee's message today, please connect with her on YouTube or Instagram @reneeslansky
On today's episode, we want to give the floor over to Kevin Coates to speak on the current events in Denver and the nation. I am blessed with the privilege to host this podcast and feel as if it is my duty to rise up and give a voice to those who aren’t being heard in a manner that brings change.
Kevin Coates is a certified self-awareness coach and he was one of the first guests we interviewed almost two years ago. If you recall from his interview then, Kevin grew up in a dangerous part of Baltimore living through what most only see in the movies. We are honored to have his insight into current events, fatherhood, and his passion for serving others to improve mental health.
If his message resonated with you today, please connect with him on Facebook here. To bring about change, we need to bring awareness to the issues at hand.
On today's episode, Jason Lange and I share our experiences with how effective and expansive men's work can be to grow and develop. I previously interviewed his wife, Violet, and we talk about their relationship today through the lens of the Enneagram as he is a 9 and she is a 3. Jason's knowledge of the Enneagram provided unique insight into how it can be used as a common language to help a partnership grow closer to each other and reach goals together!
If his message resonates with you today, please share this episode with just one man who could use leadership and guidance in his life or direct them to evolutionary.men to connect with Jason directly!
May is Lyme Disease Awareness month and to highlight that, today's podcast guest is Jess Willmorth. Jess lives in Seattle, Wa and has been dealing with this chronic disease for some time now. Before and during her diagnosis, Jess turned to social media as a resource and a support community to learn more about how to live with her disease while thriving in work and dating.
Today, we talk about how a true partner would complement her life and understand her needs with a chronic condition like Lyme disease. To support and connect with Jess, please reach out to her on Instagram @healingjess_ for fun prizes and fundraisers each May to celebrate her birthday and bring awareness to Lyme disease.
On today's episode, we catch up with everyone's favorite marriage and divorce coach, Kim West. Today, we discuss everything from moving cross country before the quarantine, to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and what divorcing parents are going through coparenting and cohabitating with their soon to be ex!
Kim is passionate about helping people lower stress and uncertainty as she guides them through the emotional rollercoaster that is modern marriage; whether they are entering or exiting their commitment! If her message resonates with you today, please don't hesitate to reach out to her at www.whenitsknotforever.com or on Instagram @nativating_the_knot
On today's episode, I lay out my personal struggles while in solitude during shelter in place. I've learned a lot in the past two months about myself, the role of self-awareness in my life, and what it would mean to have a partner join me on this journey. We finish up today's episode with a check in with Mark and Jane, our favorite new couple, and share a story of theirs as they have been dating about three months now! If you'd like to read more about Conscious Dating in today's blog post, click What is Conscious Dating? now!
In this week's episode, Jason Polk, a PACT Certified counselor is back for a live episode with me to discuss Nice Guy Syndrome, Sherlocking, and being a man during Covid_19. I can't thank him enough for authentically and vulnerably sharing his personal experiences during these challenging times and I feel as if we connected deeper during this episode.
If his message resonates with you today, please connect with him at coloradorelationshiprecovery.com
Amber Kierra is a speaker and a coach who has chosen to live her life boldly despite losing 90% of her vision as a young girl. Her mission in life is to share her story of losing her sight to inspire others to overcome fear. Our conversation today is one of my favorites so far on the podcast because we pull off the mask that is our personality through the lens of the Enneagram.
If her message resonates with you, please connect with her at amberkierra.com on Facebook @asherrard92 or on Instagram @amberkierra and if you would like to read the recent blog post referenced in today's podcast, click believeberealbebold.com
In part two of our five part series, we share a client's story of how she wants to be quarantine exclusive plus we dive into what pick up artists call The Attraction Method. We dissect what techniques a "player", the "too busy" guy, or someone that sends nothing but mixed signals does to make themselves inauthentically yet insanely attractive? Tune into what your gut is telling you and listen up as today's episode will give you the tools to beat "the game" when it's being played on you!
Read more on this week's blog post Hate the "Player" and "The Game"
Roz Ware is a sagittarius and chemistry coach with a fiery passion for helping women find excitement in their life. On today's episode, I pick her brain on how astrology plays into chemistry for a couple and how a woman receives love when she is in her feminine energy. It was so much fun to banter back and forth with her within the framework of masculine energy.
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with Roz on Facebook @RozWare Her message that she delivers on FB is originally what caught my attention and I knew that she would be a great guest all the way from London, England.
Geoff Laughton is a relationship coach and recently joined me to record a Facebook live episode of the podcast! We dive deep into the Nice Guy syndrome that we find is commonly holding men back from finding lasting and fulfilling relationships. We reference Dr. Robert Glover's book No More Mr. Nice Guy, Dating Essentials for Men, as well as Dr. Stan Tatkin's Wired for Dating.
Each of these books have helped me become a more authentic version of myself finally putting together the missing pieces in my personal life and repeated patterns that hold me back in relationships. If Geoff's message resonates with you today, please connect with him at yourrelationshiparchitect.com or theevolvingman.com
We have a special bonus episode for you today: The 8 guys you don't want to date if you're looking for a relationship! After we share with you those types of guys, we invite you to grow with us and learn more about how to make your partner feel heard.
We've been there before, where we just don't feel heard in our relationship or the person we are dating "just doesn't get it". We are bringing it up now so that we can become better communicators in our relationships! Share this episode with just one person you believe could benefit from its message!
If you'd like more support when you're out there dating, apply to join our private, virtual, members only group call each week by clicking here now. Your first week is free! For a limited time, your first month comes with a 60 minute call with me included in your membership!
The Mile High Mess Podcast girls are back! Katy and Shelby joined me for a live recording of the podcast on Facebook and we did not hold back. We discuss everything from running out of toilet paper, to what it's like to date as an Enneagram 8, to attachment theory, and whether or not we will be calling our exes. The cohosts of the popular podcast have been interviewed before so if you missed that episode, subscribe now, give us a written review, and listen to their previous episode here. Huge shout out to Jess for sharing her amazing story on living with a chronic illness, to get involved with her cause, please follow her on Instagram @healingjess_ to be entered in to win some amazing prizes in the month of May. Drs. Kristen Hick and Brittany Woolford from the Center for shared insight are pivoting in their business to accept new tele therapy patients now! Click centerforsharedinsight.com to schedule a complimentary consultation now. To try out the workout program from mentioned in this episode for free, click Fit Life Champions now!
Jen Gutfriend is a Helper on the Enneagram and former people pleaser who now lives a remarkable life teaching women to know their worth. From collapsing in an x-ray room to leaving her Nice Guy husband, Jen shares her powerful story with us on this week's episode. She is a hypnotherapist who believes that when women know they are enough, they can overcome people pleasing behavior.
As an Enneagram 2, Jen knows that helping others is at the core of her personality type but with personal growth and self-awareness, she can put that tendency to rest. Leaning into her past has empowered her to rise up and flourish after leaving her husband despite what she knew her family and in-laws would think!
If her message resonates with you today, please reach out to her at liveyourremarkablelife.com or on FB @liveyourrremarkablelife and Instagram @liveyourrremarkablelife
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Today's episode is taken from a live event that Thomas Suski and I cohosted in early 2020. At the event Unleash Your True Potential, we asked two members of the audience to share the best skills that they use to balance their daily lives. Through my life coaching philosophy centered around The Five Pillars of Optimal Health, we are able to take a higher level view of our lives day in and day out.
Join us on this week's episode of the podcast to learn how the five pillars work together to tie them together to live our best lives!
To get the worksheet to follow along with the live event, click here now! As well as to read the entire blog from Dr. Kristin Hick from the Center of Shared Insight, click here.
Stay tuned for part two of the live event with Thomas Suski themindguy.net to be published soon!
Shana Chow is a Canadian actress and model who turned a break up into a breakthrough as a dating and relationship coach. On today's episode, we talk about how seeking validation lowers confidence as well as the four (ok, five) stages of online dating can burn you out quickly. Shana works with women who feel frustrated, overwhelmed and discouraged in the dating scene.
Subscribe with a five star rating for the podcast so you'll never miss an episode! If Shana's message resonated with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @shana_chow or check out her Do You Boo dating program!
On today's episode, we welcome back Shawntres Parks from Couples Learn. We went live on Facebook recently to follow up on our previous episode, Your Needs or You're Needy, which aired a couple months ago! Since shelter in place orders occurred in LA first, we wanted to go deeper into attachment styles and their responses to the stress of the Coronavirus and quarantining with a partner!
When our worlds were turned upside down about a month ago and we were encouraged to shelter in place, new couples faced an immediate need to make a choice in their relationship: shelter in place together or take the isolation route. This could place new and existing couples without a strong foundation to their relationship under the microscope to show where the weak points live. Tune in to the full interview and if her message resonates with you, connect with Shawntres at coupleslearn.com or on Instagram @sparks_therapist
If you're looking for more support in your quarantine life, join our community group calls with Dave each Tuesday at 7 PM MST by clicking here now!
On today’s episode, Suzanne and I speak openly about what self love can do to help us be lovable at times when the world is closing in on us. Currently, we are both sheltering in place and single, but that certainly doesn’t prevent us from working on ourselves for the future when this ends for all of us. Suzanne Muller is a huge supporter of the podcast and we absolutely love having her at live events and as an expert guest. She is an author and speaker who pours into her amazing community of authentic daters in Denver. I’ve been a guest at one of her happy hours and I have to say how much fun I had! We both agree that doing the hard personal work is essential to finding lasting love and there is no better time than right now for us to take advantage of a slower paced life! If you are unsure of how to begin diving deep, connect with Suzanne at suzanne@loveablizeyou.com or join me for our weekly free zoom community group support calls here!
All the way from Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, Kerri-Ann Appleton joined us on a Facebook Live interview to share with us her dating experience since the shelter in place orders were set in place. She has joined us twice before on the podcast, so if you missed those interviews, please download them to listen later! On today’s episode, we focus on how to approach dating during a pandemic when everything feels like a long distance relationship. Even if you live across the street or across town, we are feeling the effects of sheltering in place at home. If you’re an extrovert like me or have the love languages of physical touch and quality time like Kerri-Ann and I, you are quite possibly feeling the effects of loneliness and grief. Our conversation takes many different paths, but our number one hope is that you gain some tools to cope with our current situation and understand that you are not alone in this world. So reach out to us if you’re needing extra support! We host a free group call every Tuesday night at 7 PM MST, just sign up at http://eepurl.com/gWMHIr now to get more information! If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe to the podcast and share it with just one other person who may also be struggling with feeling grief, sadness, and loneliness at this tumultuous time.
On today's bonus episode, I share experiences from my personal growth journey to help you sift through what is most helpful and what is just noise. From the Five Love Languages to The Enneagram to Meyers Brigg, I narrow down what tools have helped me become more resilient to the current crisis we are all experiencing.
I also believe that it is perfectly normal to find yourselves grieving during this time as it is understandable that a major crisis or trauma would lead you through the Five Stages of Grief, which I dive into today. Who knew this pandemic was coming? I certainly didn't anticipate this current experience to change my career, my relationships, and my mindset.
That's why we are bringing in experts each week to help provide coping strategies to help you navigate this unprecedented time. Join us each week on Tuesdays at 7 PM MST for a free community zoom call to support you during the shelter in place order. Click http://eepurl.com/gWMHIr now to join! This group brings together members of our community in a safe space to support one another through connection, resiliency, and a sense of future.
On today's bonus episode, we asked Dr. Brittany Woolford from The Center for Shared Insight to join us live on Facebook to share how the different attachment styles show up during this shelter in place order. Does my partner want to have more space than usual? Are they more needy than normal because of the trauma we are facing right now? We addressed these questions and so much more during our live interview including how to date during a quarantine! If you are looking for more support during this trying times, join our weekly zoom group calls every Tuesday night at 7 PM MST by clicking here now. Or please connect with the two groups offered by the team at centerforsharedinsight.com
On this week’s episode, we are joined by Dr. Steve Berkowitz, MD Professor of Psychiatry-Child-CHC, from the Anschutz medical center in Denver, Co. With the current pandemic, Dr. Berkowitz has been tasked with the set up of a help line for staff and personal at the medical center to provide them with mental health resources to help them through this difficult time. One of the key developments he and his team have created is a 7 Day Resiliency Plan for staff to implement at the office and at home to emphasize the five components of resiliency: connectedness, laughter, eating, sleeping, and a set schedule. We also discuss what the dating experience could be like if you choose to get out there a date during a pandemic. Normally, we offer up the contact information of our expert guests but considering Dr. Berkowitz’s level of responsibility, we request that you reach out to local resources through https://covid19.colorado.gov However, if you loved his message today, please forward this episode and blog post on social media with someone you believe that would benefit from the episode. During this trying time, Dave and our community is hosting free zoom calls every Tuesday evening at 7 pm MST for you to gain extra support in your life through authentic conversations about love, family, and work! Click here to join us for free!
On this week's episode, Abby Rosenblum and I discuss everything from love languages to working from home with a new fiancé to why masturbation is key to surviving self-quarantine! Abby is a matchmaker for millennials in Denver, Co and her mission is to help young professionals find real and authentic love.
If her message resonated with you today, please reach out to her on Instagram @modernyenta, on her website at thesocialmm.club, or give her a phone call 303-842-4762
During this trying time, we are hosting free zoom calls every Tuesday evening for you to gain extra support in your life through authentic conversations about love, family, and work! Click here to join us for free!
On this week's episode, Michael and I talk about everything from HIV positive living to how toilet paper is the new currency. He is one of the most unique guests we've ever invited onto the podcast because he is an Individualist on the Enneagram personality assessment. Michael asked for the chance to share his story with others so that it may help just one person! He believes that the fear of rejection is what holds people back in relationships.
If Michael's message resonated with you today, please don't hesitate to reach out to him on Facebook.
Or for professional help, please contact Dr. Mallory Blake at The Center for Shared Insight in Denver and the staff there is available for telehealth care as well!
Just like you, we are left wondering what’s next and have asked ourselves “What am I going to do to keep busy, entertained, and healthy during the recommended time of social distancing?” Within our Believe Be Real Be Bold community, we have amazing experts in the fields of psychology, therapy, and health and wellness. We’ve reached out to them, sometimes during a session ;), and asked them to share their best advice to keep up with our self-care routines! Here’s what they had to say…
Keep active Keep learning Keep Socializing Find new hobbies Keep Connecting with your Partner
We are here for you. Reach out if you need relationship, fitness, and nutrition advice of any kind. My calendar is wide open for the next month! Schedule a call with me here or read the full blog by clicking 5 Things You Can Do During Quarantine
On this special bonus episode, Jessica Smith and I dive into all kinds of topics; from dating virtually to impacts on our business to "what is this trying to teach me". Believe me when I say that this conversation will go a long way to calming your anxiety around the quarantine and help you move towards a spiritual connection during the Coronavirus pandemic.
Jessica Smith is an international dating coach, yoga retreat leader, and one of my best friends in Colorado. She and I met about two and a half years ago and have been genuinely connecting ever since over a shared interest in fitness, health, and now relationship coaching. If her message resonated with you today, please reach out to her on Instagram @jessicasmith.love Try out a free month of her online yoga class by using the code: STAYHOME by clicking Yogi Approved
If you're needing extra support through this unprecedented time, join us for a live Zoom call every Wednesday night at 7 pm MST! Just click here to sign up absolutely free!
On this week's episode, we discuss dating during the Coronavirus, masculine and feminine energy, and learning life's lessons the first time around instead of repeating them over and over again.
"(If) the masculine is the frame, then the feminine is the artwork within"- Violet Lange. Violet believes that dating during the Coronavirus is an opportunity for us to get real and give us the permission to ask deep, authentic conversations! Violet believes that there are three elements to a relationship: emotional, physical, and practical.
If you're needing extra support through this unprecedented time, join us for a live Zoom call every Wednesday night at 7 pm MST! Just click here to sign up absolutely free!
If Violet's message resonated with you today, please reach out to her at violetlange.com and on Instagram @violetlovelange or on Facebook now!
Should we be dating right now amidst the social distancing and self-quarantine? How do I go about it if I really want to feel connected to my loved ones right now? Should we run back to our ex? What do I do to combat loneliness? Isolation? Fear?
These questions and so many more are coming up in our community of authentic daters right now. I wanted to answer these questions and share with you what I shared with our those reaching out on Instagram @believeberealbebold
Read the full blog post on The Five Pillars of Optimal Health now!
If you're needing extra support through this unprecedented time, join us for a live Zoom call every Tuesday night at 7 pm MST! Just click here to sign up absolutely free!
Like me, Bryan Reeves grew up surrounded by women; mothers, sisters, and friends. So naturally you would assume we would be in tune with what they want and how to make a relationship work with them. That couldn't be further from the truth as we have both moved on from the typical Nice Guy behaviors we learned would please our mothers and eventually our romantic partners.
On this week's podcast, Bryan Reeve, life and love coach from Los Angeles, CA, joins me to talk about the three stages of a relationship and how we bounce back and forth between codependency and independence. The beauty within a committed and lasting relationship is putting aside all of our bulls$!t and getting curious about our partner's needs, wants, and uniqueness. Lastly, we discuss how having female friends holds us back from truly connecting deeply with our intimate or romantic partner.
We understand the "new normal" of our lives has many of our listeners away their their self-care routine; so we are offering workouts from Fit Life Champions and 50% off all our online programs! Click now for your free workout that will introduce you to the 30 Workouts in 30 days!
If his message resonates with you today, please check out his podcast, Men, this Way or on the blog at bryanreeves.com to read his viral articles that have helped as many as one million readers per day!
If you're needing extra support through this unprecedented time, join us for a live Zoom call every Wednesday night at 7 pm MST! Just click here to sign up absolutely free!
Are you being needy? Or just sharing your needs in a relationship? Last fall, I was asked a very big question and at that time, I didn’t know the answer to. The question was, “What do you need?”
At the time, that question was so much harder for me to answer than it is today after many hours of soul searching and diving into myself to find that answer. For myself and not anyone else. You can read all about it in the recent blog post The Missing Pieces!
That reflection that led to me taking complete ownership and inspired this week’s podcast episode with Shawntres Parks, from Couples Learn in Los Angeles, CA. She has her master’s in Clinical Psychology, is a candidate for her PhD in Transpersonal Psychology, owns a certificate in Sex Therapy, and is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. She was the perfect expert to ask some very serious questions about how we come across as needy OR share our needs in a healthy way to be heard by our partner. Shawntres believes that the negative influence of overt/covert messages from family of origin, trauma, and past relationships is what holds us back in our current relationships. Her mission is to help women heal and transform from past trauma that hinders them from fully showing up in their ideal relationship.
If her message resonated with you today, please reach out to her at www.coupleslearn.com; on Instagram @sparks_therapist or at @coupleslearn
If you would like to purchase the resource Shawntres discussed, Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson, click here now!
On this week’s episode of the podcast, we are surprised by moments of authentic vulnerability from Sheby and Katy, hosts of the Mile High Mess Podcast here in Denver. What I wasn’t aware of before we hit record was Shelby’s recent break up hit her hard but when asked why she chose not to reschedule, she makes a true observation, “Because life goes on”.
I am on board with Shelby’s determination to continue to live her life, feel the feels, and add in healthy self-care to heal from her heartbreak. Through their hilarious podcast, Katy and Shelby believe that a fear of judgement is what holds people back in relationships and I couldn’t agree more.
We often hold back our authentic selves out of fear that we will be rejected and judged by our love interests. On the other hand, when these two host their podcast to bring levity to modern dating, they aim to entertain, give comfort, and bring a feeling of unity to their listeners lives!
If you missed last week's Unleash Your True Potential live event, but still wanted to see all of the amazing content for yourself, click here now!
If Katy and Shelby's message resonates with you today, please connect with them through the following platforms and definitely check out their latest podcast episode! Maybe there will be another story about poop!
Instagram – @milehighmesspodcast Facebook – milehighmesspodcast ITunes – mile-high-mess-podcast
On this week's episode, Kayla Fuller and I discuss dating with breast cancer and ending an engagement. As a teenager, Kayla Fuller discovered that her family medical history gave her an 85% chance of getting breast cancer. Meeting with doctors over the next few years led her to make the hard decision to be proactive in her approach to preventing the likelihood she would end up with life threatening cancer later in life. She joins me on this week’s podcast episode to share her dating journey through her double mastectomy and an engagement that ended just before. When I heard her story and learned more about her mission in life to share without fear, I leapt at the chance to connect her with our audience through the podcast. She imagines that there are many other women out there scared of what the future holds when navigating the dating scene here in Denver, Co. If her message resonated with you today, please rate, review, and share the podcast with someone you believe would benefit from her experience! Also, please follow her on social media to get the conversation started @cultivatingkayla on Instagram. Join Thomas Suski and I for a one of a kind live event this Thursday, Feb. 27th, 2020 to Unleash your True Potential. In the last six months, I have broken through that barrier that was standing in my way to reach my goals faster than I ever could have imagined! At the WeWork location on Platte, Thomas and I will share each of our areas of expertise that will help you be your most authentic self! Click here for all the details!
Since we last spoke to Meredith Shirey, LMFT, on her episode Overwhelmed by Choices, we received so many questions from our audience that we decided to have a follow up conversation! On today’s episode, we answer the following questions from real life daters… why is it so hard for women to date out there what are great ways to get to know someone you’ve just met how do you date after a divorce? with kids? how social media comes into play in modern dating and so much more!
Meredith and I agree that self-awareness and personal discovery is key to finding lasting love when dating in these modern times. Meredith believes that we are all capable and deserving of love and connection, and that we are inextricably connected.
If Meredith’s message resonated with you today, please reach out to her at www.relationshipcounselingnyc.com or email at info@relationshipcounselingnyc.com Feel free to follow her on Instagram @meredithlmft
Renee Slansky believes that a man’s main love language is words of affirmation. In today’s episode, she explains the difference between affirmation and validation. We don’t end the conversation there, but we dive even deeper into how to affirm a man’s purpose to give him the confidence to dive all-in a relationship.
Renee was kind enough to share the roles within a relationship and the phases when one person is pursuing more than the other. “A healthy relationship is who has to do work in this moment to produce the healthy result. Sometimes it’s 50/50, sometimes it’s 90/10. Sometimes you have to carry the other person.”
She believes that when we bring the familiar phase into the courting phase, we shouldn’t be surprised when it blows up and fails!
Men and women are constantly testing each other to establish whether their partner is high value… or not. Renee believes that men test women so much more than women test men! Until I read a book by Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, I would have disagreed but with Renee’s advice and the knowledge gained, I have now changed my mindset on this opinion!
If Renee’s message resonated with you today, please reach out to her at http://thedatingdirectory.co/, facebook.com/TheDatingDirectory/ , instagram.com/reneeslansky/ and Twitter – twitter.com/reneeslansky
As promised, here is the video I recommend everyone watch to learn more about how to make a man fall for you!
10 Ways to Make Him Fall for You
Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Your first session is absolutely free, please book your 30 minute consultation with Dave atcalendly.com/believeberealbebold now!
Thank you for all of your support over the last 18 months! If you’d like to contribute to the podcast and receive additional coaching, click www.patreon.com/bbrpodcast to sponsor the podcast today! More behind the scenes and intimate details of Dave’s dating life to help you navigate your own experience await you there!
SHE'S THE ONE! Thomas Suski is back for another interview to discuss what's been happening in his love life since our last episode, Finding the One aired! We also go really deep into Dave's experience with Thomas as his NLP practitioner! Warning! We get deep, philosophical, and self-disclose more than we thought we would! Including a love triangle, doubting ourselves, and so much more!
On Feb. 6th at 7:30 pm, Thomas and Dave invite you to join them to learn how unlocking your true potential can help you find lasting love and enjoy the journey too! Only 20 spots available so sign up for free now! https://mailchi.mp/2ee6bbcd57ea/bbrwebinar
Kerri-Ann Appleton is a Certified Reiki Master, Yoga Teacher and Transformational Coach living in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. The first time we talked on the podcast, Kerri-Ann and I discussed having an open heart when finding lasting love. This episode has so much necessary information for us to build healthy relationships when dating in Denver today!
Kerri-Ann believes that patterns, beliefs and conditioning from their childhood, community, society, culture, etc… is what holds us back in relationships. However, she also believes that if we remember and act with The Four Agreements in mind, we can be empowered to treat ourselves and others with respect, an open heart, and love!
Her mission is to empower 1 million women around the world to thrive by finding their true authentic selves and to live from that place.
If her message resonated with you today, please connect with Kerri-Ann at www.kerri-ann.com, or on Facebook @ MyJourneytoRio
Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Your first session is absolutely free, please book your 30 minute consultation with Dave at calendly.com/believeberealbebold now!
Thank you for all of your support over the last 18 months! If you’d like to join us for the Take 90 program, please click believeberealbebold.com/take-back-your-life-in-90-days/ now!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Rachel Overvoll is the author of the best selling book Finding Feminism which dives deep into her religious upbringing. She is currently in school to become a sex and relationship therapist. Rachel believes that the fear of being their authentic selves is what holds us back in relationships. Additionally, sexual shame and sexual trauma are big factors that she believes prevents us from finding lasting love.
Rachel is a feminist author, writer, and speaker that believes in equality between men and women and on today’s episode, she shares from her personal experiences to illustrate moments of gratitude. Her goal is to empower women to live in their authenticity. If her message resonates with you today, please reach out to her at www.rachelovervoll.com or on Instagram @rachelovervoll
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Shelly Sulfrian is one of my best friends in Denver, a former client, and inspirational survivor of Ulcerative Colitis. She has a Doctorate in Pharmacy working in the corporate world as a Nuclear Pharmacist. Outside of her career, Shelly’s passion is to bring awareness and provide support for those suffering with invisible digestive illnesses, and to raise IBD and Ostomy awareness.
Shelly believes that a lack of self awareness, confidence, and vulnerability prevents people from being their authentic selves in relationships. Shelly is an Enneagram type 4, the Individualist, and had adverse reactions to that test result. After many moments of self-reflection, she now believes her empathy is a big strength to help others!
Authenticity to Shelly means, “I am the most creative version of myself. I am confident and I don’t let other people sway what I want to do.” As the biggest takeaway, Shelly wants us to know that we can “give each other grace” because we never know what is going on in their lives.
If her message resonates with you, please reach out to her on Instagram @shellsgotguts
Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Your first session is absolutely free, please book your 30 minute consultation with Dave at calendly.com/believeberealbebold now! Thank you for all of your support over the last 18 months! If you’d like to join us for the Take 90 program, please click believeberealbebold.com/take-back-your-life-in-90-days/ now!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
As season three comes to a close, we wanted to invite a unique soul onto the podcast to share her message. Before creating We Talk Real Talk, Alyse Opetowski, ran a company of top co-working locations around the world, as well as launched and won four environmental campaigns and one campaign for a local political (in San Francisco). She has consulted and grew 10 New Zealand tech companies that expanded their businesses to the US. Alyse’s true mission though is to create a space for people to feel comfortable sharing their true self, practice honesty and challenging conversations daily and inspire others to do the same Alyse and her group host We Talk Real Talk Events that focus on authentic conversation over dinner with friends. They have big plans for collaborations next year such as our yoga/breath work/conversation and connecting to body and mind. Featured collaborators include Lisa Trope, live storytelling/conversation with MyStory, mental health conversation that focus on the destigmatization and solutions. Additional partners include Rising Routes and other creative, fun events for people to deeply connect. Personally she hosts many dinner parties on Friday nights (for Shabbat) and other types of events finding interesting ways for people to have meaningful interactions. Alyse believes that fear is what holds us back in relationships- fear of judgement, unworthiness, response from others as well as the fear of rejection. She believes that is mostly because it is not the “norm” to ask and share what is really going on with you. In her opinion, many of us have lost the ability to really communicate because of screens, devices prevent us from doing so, or simply just the lack of practice. Finally, Alyse shares a deeper passion through We Talk Real Talk, which is spreading empathy and connection through conversation. This is an opportunity for you to have a space to interact with people in a meaningful way. They are creating tech-free gatherings that inspire authentic connection locally in the Denver area. If her message resonated with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to her at www.wetalkrealtalk.com, FB: wetalkrealtalk IG: @wetalkrealtalk_ Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Your first session is absolutely free, please book your 30 minute consultation with Dave at calendly.com/believeberealbebold now! Thank you for all of your support over the last 18 months! We are going to be taking a quick two week break from airing episodes so that we all can enjoy the holidays with family and friends. If you’d like to contribute to the podcast and receive additional coaching, click www.patreon.com/bbrpodcast to become a part of the podcast today! You will gain access to more “behind the scenes” and intimate details of Dave’s dating life to help you navigate your own experience await you there!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
On this week's episode, Tami Kiekhaefer, LCSW, joins Dave to discuss the fear of rejection and vulnerability that holds most people back in relationships! We discuss everything from fitness and nutrition for mental health to how to build confidence for your first date back in a while. If her message resonated with you today, please contact her at www.healthyhealing.net or through her private Facebook group Successful Dating for Adults, #SDFA. Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Your first call is absolutely free, so please book your 30 minute consultation with Dave at believeberealbebold.com now!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
On this week’s episode of the podcast, we are joined by Dr. Brittany Woolford, Ph.D. and counselor at the Center for Shared Insight. She has published a journal article that is totally worth reading called “Interest in Partners Orgasm: Sex differences and relationships with attachment strategies”
Dr. Woolford believes that the fear of rejection and trying to abide by how society says they should be in relationships is what holds us back from finding lasting love. Her mission is to help people create healthy relationships. With this, not only are we impacting our individual or couple client, we are also influencing who are clients are in relationship with.
Another value Dr. Woolford holds high is social justice and advocating for our clients to be authentic in relationships, even if this doesn’t fit with stereotypes of relationships. If her message resonates with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to her at www.centerforsharedinsight.com or on Instagram @centerforsharedinsightpc
Thank you for all of your support over the last 18 months! If you'd like to contribute to the podcast and receive additional coaching, click www.patreon.com/bbrpodcast to sponsor the podcast today! More behind the scenes and intimate details of Dave's dating life to help you navigate your own experience await you there!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
This week on the podcast, our special guest is Dr. Mallaree Blake who has her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, a Masters in Mental Health Counseling, as well as a Bachelors in sociology and psychology. I have felt for a long time that this conversation around safe sex and sexually transmitted infections was important for our community to be informed of because things change often in modern dating! A few of the questions we answer in today’s episode are “How do we disclose if we have an STI?”. Dr. Blake believes that shame, fear of rejection or abandonment, as well as societal expectations that challenge aspects of who they are is what holds them back in a relationship. One’s lack of understanding or knowing their sense of self and other mental health challenges that make them vulnerable also hold them back when seeking out a new partnership! Her mission in her business is full of supporting individuals, couples, and communities in healing, strengthening, and transforming their sense of self, relationships, and beyond!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
On this week's episode, we have Jaime Palmucci, personal trainer, bartender, friend, and real life dater. We have known each other since she lived in Denver before moving up to Michigan. We originally connected over a mutual love and respect for mixed martial arts and specifically jiu-jitsu. Her nickname “Sailor Jaime” won’t surprise you after you listen to today’s episode with this expressive Enneagram type 3, The Achiever! Jaime believes that people’s expectations of who they should be as opposed to who they are is what holds them back in relationships. We dive deep into this concept in this week’s podcast episode! Her personal mission is to help people be the best version of themselves, particularly when they’re at their most vulnerable such as in the gym she works at or when managing the fight league in Denver, Co If her message resonated with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @denimdebutante (that is if you can see past the T&A in order to catch her amazing sense of humor and sarcasm!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Our final Achiever, 3w2, Alexi Neal teaches embodied mindfulness as a Certified Yoga Therapist through Phoenix Rising. She believes that traumatic patterns keeping them from trusting themselves and feeling safe enough to be vulnerable and open with others. Alexi and her husband Chaz operate the Neal Center for counseling and yoga therapy in Wheat Ridge, Co. Their mission is to support trauma survivors in transforming their experiences from pain to power through the use of yoga and mindfulness-based therapies. If her message resonates with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to them on Facebook @thenealcenter, or join their Transforming trauma group beginning soon! You can find more details on their website at www.nealcounselingandyoga.com
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
As an Achiever, type 3, Wendy Newman is the author of a book called 121 First Dates. Her mission in life is to help people find love and stay in love. She believes that our instincts tell us to “be pleasing” and to “attract him”, yet being our true self is the LAST thing our instincts ever think to be. Please subscribe here on your favorite podcast app to be the first to see new videos from the BBR Podcast!
As the Enneagram type 3, The Achiever, Wendy Newman shares with us her unique perspective on having THE BEST relationship possible and to never settle! Early in the episode, Wendy shares with us how her first long term marriage wasn’t the right fit and when she was ready to “get back out there”, she ended up going on 121 first dates! Some were good, some were bad, before she met her now husband on his first date AFTER his long term marriage had ended!
Wendy says, that you never know how long it’s going to take to find love, so be tenacious and resilient!
If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her at wendyspeaks.com or on Facebook @WendyNewmanAuthor/
or on YouTube @wendynewman
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
On this week's episode, we welcome Devon Day Moretti, 3w2 on the Enneagram, who is an ISSA Personal Trainer and holds her ISSA nutrition cert to work with women to show up confidently—in their bodies, in their choices, and in their lives. She also host the popular podcast, Not Your Normal Womxn with Julia Parzyck, former guest on the podcast in episode Pure Joy.
Living in San Diego, Devon or “Devi” to her friends, believes that fear of judgement, rejection, and not realizing how dope their authentic self is what holds them back in relationships. Today, we dive deep into her “Monogamish” relationship, eating disorder recovery, and why self-pleasure is so important.
Today’s conversation is extra special for me because we step out of the norm and interview an Enneagram type 3, The Achiever, about relationships, casually dating, and monogamy. Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast if you loved the interview today!
If her message resonates with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to her at www.devondaymoretti.com or on Instagram at devondaymoretti
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
On today’s episode, we welcome back Neil Merritt, type 3 and The Achiever who is a local comedian and The King of Awkward shows us exactly why I have dubbed him “The Hindenburg”! I knew I had to have him back on the podcast as a guest to share what he experienced in a ten year relationship with a narcissist as well as an Enneagram 3! Neil has no filter or shame... that I am aware of at least. If you liked our interview today, please subscribe to his hilarious podcast on iTunes here.
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As an Enneagram Achiever type 3, Jason Polk has a masters in social work, as well as a Licensed Addictions Counselor, and a PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy)Level II therapist. His mission is to help couples get along better and to work with individuals to have authentic relationships. Jason strives to work to help people be real and authentic so they get what they want and to help partners have empathy for each other. Jason believes that insecurity, fear, and a belief that is if they come forward authentically, they will be rejected. He aims to help clients learn how to be vulnerable and keep each other in the window of tolerance. My biggest takeaways from our conversation were… Jason tells us to “Have your partner’s owners manual” Choose your “Door B” is saying how you really feel! Get back into the social engagement window to have a productive conversation. To Jason, success means having ample resources for his family. For example, taking his family on a week long skiing trip and not worry. To connect with Jason during his upcoming Have Each Other’s Backs Again workshop at coloradorelationshiprecovery.com on Instagram @denverrelationshipexpertFacebook @denverrelationshipexpert LinkedIn corelationshiprecovery.
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Camille Virginia is the author of The Offline Dating Method and has a bachelors degree in business, ten years in corporate America, but now has five years with her own business. As a social skills coach, she believes that we are scared that our real selves will be rejected – or we aren’t sure who they really are. Camille’s mission is to help people, of all gender identifications, sexual orientations, and relationship status tap into everyday opportunities to feel more connected with their fellows humans – and get a hot date in the process. My biggest takeaways from our conversation were… Dress for a conversation with a piece of clothing that could be a great conversation starter! If you are nervous or afraid to make the first move, begin with giving a person of the same sex a compliment or someone from your parents age group! A picture can’t see its own frame. Wow! I’ve never heard this before and it explains so well why having a coach in your life is so valuable! If you are looking for a detox from social media, read Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport. An easy step by step process to detox from apps! If Camille’s message resonated with you today, please connect with her at www.masterofflinedating.com/be
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Dr. Sarah Schewitz, Psy.D. is a doctor in psychology and the founder of Couples Learn, a successful online therapy practice based in Los Angeles, CA. She has been providing relationship therapy for couples and individuals since 2008 and in business for herself since 2014. Dr. Schewitz believes that fear of vulnerability, childhood wounds, and fear of rejection holds people back in their relationships.
Dr. Schewitz’s mission is to help people feel safe to love again, whether they are in a relationship or not. Our amazing conversation covers everything from attachment theory to a special type of therapy that helps couples feel safe during conflict resolution!
If her message resonated with you today, please connect with Dr. Sarah at www.coupleslearn.com, on Instagram : @coupleslearn , or on Facebook : Couples Learn Community
Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast on iTunes or Spotify as well as share with someone you know that will benefit from her powerful message! Tune in Monday for another episode with Dave Glaser, Enneagram coach and online personal trainer! Please connect with him at www.believeberealbebold.com over the phone via his online calendar for a free 30 minute consultation!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Our guest on today's podcast, Dr. Kristen Hick, PsyD, is the author of an ebook called "Dr. Hick's Guide to Fearless Living and Loving". At the Center for Shared Insight, she facilitates a weekly divorce recovery group for women at any stage of the process. Dr. Hick believes that people not intimately knowing themselves is what holds them back in relationships. She works with anxious attached individuals to SHOW UP in a relationship and her example in our episode is when making dinner plans. Dr. Hick recommends that an anxious attached person suggest two to three things they would like to eat without fear of rocking the boat or upsetting their partner.
Her mission at The Center for Shared Insight in Denver, Co is to heal unresolved relational traumas and experiences that prevent secure connection with loved ones. Their therapists support the desire to restore and strengthen healthy attachment through a warm and responsive therapeutic alliance and empower you to develop healthy attachment behaviors to help you transform your relationship with yourself and others. As a result, they strengthen relationships, families, communities, and generations through nurturing self-aware, empowered, secure and healthy adolescents and adults.
If her message resonated with you today, please connect with them at www.centerforsharedinsight.com, or on Facebook CenterforSharedInsight , even on LinkedIn centerforsharedinsight/ and finally on Instagram centerforsharedinsightpc/
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Dr. Jenni Skylar of the Intimacy Institute is back for another episode with Dave and she has a mission to give all people permission for pleasure by promoting sexual health and healing. We offer comprehensive counseling, experiential education, and culturally competent training services to help each client deepen their connections with themselves, their partners, and their communities. She believes that socio-cultural messages that perpetuate the performance of sex and relationships…and, attachments wounds from childhood that “run the show” in adult dating.
Dr. Skylar and I dig deep into modern relationships by discussing when and how to have the hard conversations about sex with our partners. Going further than that, we chat about “Cuffing Season” and managing boiling pots by dating multiple people at the same time. She is the expert that I turn to for advice and a new perspective on love, relationships, and sex.
Recently, Dr. Skylar gave me a suggestion that a date I went on my be more old fashioned than me and I would benefit greatly from calling her on the phone. You know what? It worked out great and I can’t thank her enough for giving me direction and advice that proved hugely valuable!
Please connect with her on Instagram @intimacy_institute
Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Your first session is absolutely free, please book your 30 minute consultation with Dave at calendly.com/believeberealbebold now!
Don’t forget to join our free 3 Day Social Media Detox at www.believeberealbebold.com with people around the country just like you wishing to show up more authentically and be more present with family and friends when it matters most!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Gretchen Vartek and her partner Brooke run Adelska.com, a premier service for couples and daters to plan date nights out when they are short on time, energy, and effort. At Adelska, they believe that people are held back in their relationships because they believe that they have little time, they focus on their children, without the ideas for making date time together fun! Their company started out as Gretchen’s hobby of planning date night experiences for couples. They love exploring this city, and consider themselves to be foodies, and love a good cocktail. Their mission is to curate unique and personalized experiences for couples in a convenient and fun way throughout Colorado but most often they focus on Denver metro area. On today’s episode, Gretchen and I dive into the keys to dating your partner no matter how long they have been together! Head over to the website to be the first to know when they are hosting pop-up events around town for their members! If their message resonated with you today, please contact them at www.Adleska.com Stay tuned to a future episode with Dave takes them up on their offer to try out a date night with Adelska personally!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Justine Shigley holds an active license as a LVN and has competed in 3 NPC bikini competitions. Her next adventure is transition over to the WBFF and will be making her debut on stage this year. 8 years ago, she lost her husband in a car accident and for the first time ever on the podcast, we have a new perspective on settling into a relationship that doesn’t serve you.
Justine believes that most people put their feelings second because they are fearful in hurting the other persons feelings and that’s what holds people back in a relationship. Her personal mantra is, “You are not confident because you are beautiful, you are beautiful because you are confident” and that is my big takeaway from our conversation on the podcast today. Her personal mission is for men and women to believe in who they are as an individual. When entering the “dating scene”,
Justine believes that you need to be confident in YOU and know what you bring to the table. Her best advice is to not settle, be real with yourself and not to let looks be a deciding factor when getting into a relationship. If her message resonates with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to her on Instagram: justinejune on her Website: j-spire.com, or on her Facebook page: J-Spire Virtual Fitness Coaching
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Julia Parzyck and I originally met because a listener of the podcast recommended that we connect over all things fitness, nutrition, and dating! I am so glad we did because now we are close friends and building a dream team of power partnerships in Denver, Co!
Julia is a vibrant and energetic eating disorder coach that focuses on bringing out the inner child within her clients! Through her own journey toward more confidence in herself, she has transformed the way that she thinks about her body image. Her mission in life is strong and clearly it is what drives her forward each and every day!
Our conversation covers so many topics but what I loved most about our conversation was her transparency and authentic approach to bringing confidence with her wherever she goes!
Please don’t hesitate to follow Julia at her website fitfatandallthat.com or on instagram @fitfatandallthat and subscribe to her podcast with co-host Devon Not Your Normal Womxn
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Meredith Shirey, LMFT, from New York City joins us on the podcast this week to discuss how overwhelming online dating can be! We touch on attachment theory as well which is one of our favorite topics to attribute to the challenges in modern dating. We both agree that self-awareness and personal discovery is key to finding lasting love when dating in these modern times.
Meredith Shirey believes that we are all capable and deserving of love and connection, and that we are inextricably connected. If her message resonated with you today, please reach out to her at www.relationshipcounselingnyc.com or email at info@relationshipcounselingnyc.com Feel free to follow her on Instagram @meredithlmft
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
On today’s episode of the podcast, we have special guest Alexis Meads, M.A. from Harvard University, who tells us a loving and genuine story about not giving up on a relationship with her husband because he was undecided about having children. After discovering more about each other and making the daily choice to develop a loving connection, they now have two children!
Her mission is to help women to date with more ease and joy, less fear and anxiety. From there she aims to create authentic, meaningful, committed relationships with her clients. She ultimately wants to break the belief that true love is the kind that you see in a Hollywood movie and it only comes from the perfect partner, but rather it comes from within, and finding a person who matches that, where both partners are committed to growing together.
Alexis believes that there is a lot of fear when it comes to dating and relationships. She thinks that fear is the biggest thing keeping daters from being their authentic selves when seeking lasting love.
Alexis Meads has her wellness coaching certification from the Kerala Ayurveda Academy, a life coaching certification from Coach U, and was selected out of 4% applicants to coach Tony Robbins clients. If her message resonated with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to her through the links below www.alexismeads.com on Instagram – @alexismeads on Facebook – @Meads.Alexis
or Twitter – @alexismeads
Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast on iTunes or Spotify as well as share with someone you know that will benefit from her powerful message! Tune in Friday to wrap up this series of mini episodes where Dave Glaser, Enneagram coach and online personal train discusses the battle between head, heart, and gut!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Dr. Jill McDevitt, PhD in Human Sexuality, believes that sex-negative messaging about what or how things “should” be sexually according to social norms and expectations. Her mission is to help adults grow more sexually knowledgeable, introspective, and self-compassionate so they can feel good- sexually and emotionally.
My big takeaways from our amazing conversation was with her closing remarks and a quote she offered us, “You’re a sexual person first and you share it second!”
Dr. McDevitt spends her days fighting the Crusade Against Sex: Being Sex-Positive in a Sex Negative World, and Sex Positions for Every Body. If her message resonates with you today or would like to attend one of her workshops, please connect with her at www.thesexologist.org, on Facebook @sexdocjill, or and Instagram @sexdocjill
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Part 3 of 5, What is the history and biology behind Cuffing Season? Why do we naturally want to get paired up in the fall and winter each year? On this week's mini episode, Dave guides you through why Cuffing Season exists and how to find out if your standards and expectations are being met while dating this fall and winter! Please read deeper into the history and biology of this season from Business Insider by clicking here. Let us know what your thoughts are on cuffing season by leaving us a review on your favorite podcast platform now! Love this episode? Share it with someone you know who would enjoy it too!
“Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.”― Maya Angelou On today's episode, I discuss how to tell if your date is interested in you or not! In today's swipe right culture, being overwhelmed with choices can distract you or take away the genuine connection you feel for someone new! Here's what to look for on a date to see if your date is genuinely into you.
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Sarah Ezrin is a EYRT-500 yoga instructor and freelance writer for the Yoga Journal and LA Yoga Magazine. She believes that self-doubt is what holds us back in relationships and on today's episode, we discuss her passion for helping people look at their limiting beliefs and old stories. Sarah loves guiding people toward the truth- and that is that they are worth it! Please subscribe, rate, and review this episode as well as share with someone you know that will benefit from her powerful message! Tune in Friday to wrap up this series of mini episodes on giving your date the benefit of the doubt, how to tell if they're into you or not, and finally, what it feels like to experience "Cuffing Season"! If her message resonated with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to Sarah on one of these platforms! Www.sarahezrinyoga.com, on Instagram: @sarahezrinyoga, or on Facebook: Sarah Ezrin Yoga
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Kirk Samuels is an author and speaker who believes that shame & guilt associated with porn consumption is the biggest thing that prevents people from being their authentic selves. His mission is to create a world of intimacy and unconditional connection by teaching and inspiring 1,000,000 men how to live free from internet pornography.
If Kirk’s message resonated with you today, please connect with him on www.freeindeed36.com, Facebook: freeindeed36, Twitter: freeindeed36
Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship.
Join our free 3 Day Social Media Detox at www.believeberealbebold.com with people around the country just like you wishing to show up more authentically and be more present with family and friends when it matters most!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
My favorite Helper, type 2 on the Enneagram, Lauren Barber lives in London, England and has been one of my best fiends over the past two years. We got to know each other well through our softball team and eventually she became a client at Fit Life Champions where we got to know each other even better!
On today's episode, we learn the differences between Denver guys and English guys. We also discuss why now was the best time in Lauren's life to take the leap, try something new, and move to London while she was unattached in Denver!
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To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
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Thomas Suski is a hypnotherapist and NLP practitioner who also happens to be a hopeless romantic. His journey to find his twin flame, aka "The One", began nine years ago and his story brings us to today where he is just inches away from being with her. Subscribe, rate, and review this episode to let us know your thoughts on finding The One!
Connect with Thomas at www.themindguy.net or by giving him a call at (720)-663-8085
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To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
Suzanne Muller-Heinz, coach, author, and speaker, joined me on the podcast this week to talk about the new season in her life after going through an amicable divorce. She has always been a big supporter of the podcast and we couldn't thank her enough for inviting us to the Classy Connections events hosted here in Denver.
If her message resonated with you today, please don't hesitate to reach out to her at www.loveablize.com or grab her book, Be Lovable now!
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To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
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Jessica Robinson is a real life dater and an Enneagram type 2 from Kansas City, Kansas. She joined us on the podcast today to share her thoughts on social media, when to take a break from dating, and how it feels to be The Helper personality type on the Enneagram. Ultimately, Jessica believes that the fear of rejection hold us back in relationships. She and I agree that mindless scrolling on the “IG” is detrimental to our mental and emotional health, as well as our self-image. She believes we compare ourselves to others and that brings out the dark side of social media!
Jessica joins me each weekend for the social media detox and we discuss the benefits she has seen from taking a break routinely to become more present with family and friends when it matters most. In today’s episode, Jess calls this the “struggle bubble”! Join the next detox this weekend by clicking here now!
She intentionally took a break from dating this summer, aka. #manbreak or #summerofjess and wouldn’t you know it, she met someone she thinks is pretty special! Jessica taught us today that when you aren’t looking for love, that’s when it finds you!
More importantly, she believes that working on yourself is the most important part of laying a foundation before the right timing can happen meeting someone new!
Starting Sept. 9th, our community of authentic daters are teaming up to Take Back Their Lives in 90 days! This exclusive group program will help you get over your break up, find yourself once again, and build self-confidence so that the partner of your dreams will approach you! Click here for more details and sign up for your no obligation 30 minute call with Dave!
If Jessica’s message resonated with you today, please connect with her on IG @jessilynn722
Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. To take your own Enneagram assessment, head over to 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screen shot your results, and send them to Dave via Instagram, FB Messenger, or email now!
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Our guest this week is Kayla Coleman, real life dater new to Denver and a Helper on the Enneagram! She joined me to talk honestly about dating in Denver and traveling the country photographing beautiful weddings. Kayla’s mission is to create timeless, romantic photos for the hopeful romantics of the world.
Kayla believes that social media plays a big part in holding people back in relationships. She discovered the Enneagram recently and found her identity in The Helper or type 2 personality! Like me, she understands that the unique personality test is a guide or a path to authenticity and not necessarily meant to put us in a “box”.
If her message resonated with you today, please connect with her via the links below. If you’re in need of a wonderful photographer for your wedding, please check out her Instagram account below!
www.kaylacolemanphotography.com @kaylacoleslaw + @50shoots50states
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Nancy Markow is a student of life with training in The Enneagram, intuition, meditation, Positive Living and has also created Empowered Living with the Enneagram Workbook Course. She believes that defeating immature ego patterns based in specific unconscious fears is what holds people back in relationships.
Her mission is empowerment!
If her message resonated with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to her on www.connectingyouwithyourself.com.
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Andy Knutson is back for another episode this week! This time to talk about our men's trip we took with our Flatirons Church small group in July '19. Andy Knutson is a John Maxwell trained leadership and professional coach in Denver, Co. His passion for helping people reach their true potential led him to the John Maxwell Team. His career prior to joining the John Maxwell Team has provided him the opportunity to work with an amazing variety of people and has spanned multiple industries where he has worked and traveled throughout the United States.
Andy’s career in the corporate environment has provided him experiences with both fortune 100 companies and startup companies, where he has been recognized as a top performer for the outstanding results he achieved. His entrepreneurial spirit could not be denied and he formed and ran a startup company that reached 1 Million in sales within 2 years.
Please reach out to him at Andy@peak2peakcoaching.com if his message resonates with you today.
Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Your first session is absolutely free, please book your 30 minute consultation with Dave at calendly.com/believeberealbebold now!
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BONUS EPISODE! In July 2019, my Flatirons Community Church men's group took a weekend away for fellowship and foster a closer connection with God. Andy Knutson organized this event and my family provided our cabin for accommodations in Fairplay, CO. From Friday to Sunday, we packed in as much spiritual growth as possible with our community and this recording is a round table discussion of what we aimed to accomplish individually and collectively as men. If you feel as if a small group is the right fit for you right now, please join the Leaving 99 group with Andy and I plus the other men featured in this episode!
Please leave us a review if our conversation resonated with you today!
To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
What do we do when your marriage ends?! Kim West is an attorney and divorce coach from whenit’sknotforever.com in Austin, Tx. She joins me on this week’s episode to talk all topics before and after marriage because her new adventures will introduce you to The Marriage Maven.
Her mission is to assist and empower men and women who are approaching, going through, or coming out of the divorce process by providing them with the clarity, guidance, and support they need to get through it in a way that aligns with their goals.
Kim believes that it’s the stress, overwhelm, uncertainty, and incredible emotional pain from going through a divorce is what holds people back in relationships.
If her message resonated with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to her on one of the following platforms now!
On the web at www.whenitsknotforever.com
On Instagram – whenitsknotforever, or Facebook – whenitsknotforever, and even on Linkedin – kimberlyawest/
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On today's episode, we have Felipe Yanez who hosts hosting charity events around the world from South Korea, Mexico, to Denver. He believes the biggest thing preventing people from being their authentic selves is their self-esteem or self-worth and also feeling scarcity around dating or love. Felipe is on a mission to help people boost their confidence and self-esteem in order to advance their social life, transform their dating experience, and improve their overall relationships. To learn more about Felipe, click this link www.social-buddha.com Join our 3 Day Social Media Detox! Click here now!
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Lisa Craig is a local Denver photographer who’s mission is to capture memories, eradicate bad dating profile pictures, and build personal brands.
She believes that people are held back from starting meaningful relationships because their online dating profile pictures are tragic. In some cases, they are using old, outdated pictures from a younger time. In other cases, they are simply snapping a selfie in the bathroom or gym mirror. Lisa shares with us her expertise that none of these helps to make a good first impression or helps to showcase their true self.
To learn more about Lisa or to have her give a complimentary evaluation of your online dating profile, click one of the following links www.lisacraigphotography.com
Facebook photographybylisacraig on Instagram : lcraig623, via Twitter : lcraig
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On today's episode, Neil Merritt, local comedian and The King of Awkward, shows us exactly why I have dubbed him "The Hindenburg"! He has no filter or shame and that's why I knew that I just had to have him join me on the podcast to talk boundaries, friends with benefits, and how his podcast I Wish I Was Dead is changing the world.
One awkward moment at a time.
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The Reformer (type 1) personality type on the Enneagram has an "inner critic" that is constantly reminding them to do good. Imagine how hard it would be to go through life with a very loud voice in your head that tells you how to stay on course and do right by others AT ALL TIMES!
Their key motivations are that they want to be right, to strive higher and improve everything, to be consistent with their ideals, to justify themselves, to be beyond criticism so as not to be condemned by anyone. Have you met someone that resembles this type?
Share with them this episode so that they can have grace for themselves as well as reach optimal mental health to say "I am reasonable and objective" as opposed to "I am right". To take your own Enneagram test, click 9types.com and complete the Rheti version, screen shot your results, and send them over to Dave now for more information!
Chasity Snowden, Crossfit competitor at the 2018 Games, joined me on the podcast to talk about how hard it is to find a man strong enough to keep up with her! We originally connected on Instagram with a shared passion for Olympic lifting, one of Chasity’s biggest passions! So much so that she named her fun pup Oly.
Chasity believes that fear is what holds people back in relationships- she says this is why her brand is Fearlessly Authentic. Her mission in life is to enable others to realize their dreams in body and nutrition.
Her best dating advice is….
Don’t date where you squat otherwise she wants to remind you not to mess with the sanctuary.
She may even encourage you to run past a cute guy on the beach to impress him and catch his attention!
If her message resonated with you today, don’t hesitate to reach out to her by the following links!
Instagram: chasitysnowden_fla, Facebook: Chas Snowden Nutrition Coach, www.chasitysnowden.juiceplus.com
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From New York City, Daniel Amis, the author of “Unbreakable Love”, joins me on the podcast this week. He believes that when we focus on getting others to like the real us is what holds us back in relationships. I can relate to that view point. As a recovering nice guy, every chance I got I was seeking the approval of women.
Have you ever felt that something similar was holding you back from finding lasting love?
Daniel’s mission is to help as many people as possible find and create the relationship of their dreams. After years of experience coaching, he has found a few things that are common amongst his clients that prevent them from creating the love of their dreams.
They are…
“People love conditionally. You need unconditional love, you need unbreakable love.”
The Nice Guy is your emotional tampon! He will say and do anything he can to get you to like him and often times find himself getting friend zoned!
What is the difference between pickiness and having standards?!
If Daniel’s message resonated with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to him on the following social media platforms www.facebook.com/danielamis1 and on Twitter @loveguru23
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Kim Fontaine and Jackie Coffin are the founders and leaders of an online community called Emotions and Me.
They met at and studied extensively at Empowerment NOW! Kim has an Intuitive and Non-Verbal Diploma while Jackie has a Bio-Energy Medicine and Art Therapy Diploma. Jackie is also studying Emotional Energetics.
They believe that being afraid of vulnerability and difficulty having emotional conversations are the biggest things that prevents clients from being their authentic selves.
They encourage and support the development of emotional awareness, especially that of men in America today. Their mission is to empower you with the tools and skills to enhance your EQ. Please search them out with the #emotionalconversations.
Please don’t hesitate to reach out to them on Instagram @emoandme, Facebook Emotions and Me, Site – emotionsandme.com
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Ali Kresta has her BA in psychology is a personal trainer, nutritional therapist, a performance coach, as well as a physical rehab specialist who writes for Romper, an online magazine. She also hosts her very own personal growth podcast called Soulfire Sessions.
Her mission is to inspire people to live authentically, intentionally and grow into the best version of themselves, for themselves and others.
Ali believes that people are afraid of honesty. Whether it’s being honest with themselves or others and it takes a certain degree of bravery to get real and honest and OWN it - whatever “it” is.
If her message resonated with you today, please don't hesitate to follow her on Insta: @alikfitness and @alikresta or on
Twitter @alikresta
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Today we talk about when is a good time to Define the Relationship, or DTR!!!
Have you ever heard this phrase before? "We need to talk" is rarely followed by anything good! You kind of feel like you've been blindsided by the person you've only been seeing a few weeks, right?!
Well, in this episode, Dave talks about why you would want to define the relationship and how it can be an extraordinary way to level up in modern dating!
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Season 3 of the podcast begins with Stuart Motola, author and speaker, that I met recently at The Radical Love Summit. Stuart believes that unconscious self-betrayal is what holds us back in modern relationships.
In his book Fixing You is Killing Me, Stuart helps others eliminate self-betrayal and learn to walk the path of a healthy self-relationship and ascend the greatest heights of loving partnership. In today’s episode, we discuss his experience trying to be the hero for his family and how that was to the detriment of his own needs.
If Stuart’s message resonates with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to him through one of the links below.
www.stuartmotola.comwww.facebook.com/StuartMotolaCoachingtwitter.com/stuartmotola
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Our One Year ANNIVERSARY episode is all about how I began drowning in online dating!!! I was overwhelmed and I was tired and it was distracting me from my true priorities. I can't believe it has been one whole year of hosting the podcast! Thank you so much for all of the support you're shown over the course of this past year. Whether you have been a guest or a loyal listener, I want to personally thank you for sticking with me through the ups and downs, the personal growth I've gone through, and for taking the time to listen in with our expert guests each week! As a special gift to you, I would like to gift each and every one of you a 30 minute complimentary discovery session with me! Please book at your convenience at believeberealbebold.com in the menu bar up top! If you love the BBR Podcast and would like to show your support, please click here to donate today!
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Laura Ellen Love believes that fear based on past rejection of being authentic, either subconscious or conscious with still needing to take different action is what holds us back in romantic relationships. A lack of guidance and confidence to step into an authentic place will help people move beyond their trauma to see the beauty in their life!
Her business, Energy Success Result has a mission to help as many driven, successful individuals as possible think less in order to achieve more, in all aspects of their lives. Laura helps her clients achieve this with guided personalized meditation you can do anywhere in the world!
When Laura said, “What’s the why behind the cry”, it resonated with me because until we get to the root of the real issue of repeated patterns, we will never fully move on from it.
If Laura’s message resonated with you today, please don’t hesitate to reach out to her through one of the following platforms on IG: LauraEllenLove, FB: Facebook.com/laura.gongwer
Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Join our free 3 Day Social Media Detox at www.believeberealbebold.com and receive a complimentary 30 minute consultation now!
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HOTTTT TOPIC!!! Can a long distance relationship work? What causes problems in a long distance relationship?
I reached out to a former guest on the podcast to get their opinion on the subject and they offered up this advice, “Be prepared for heartbreak”.
Is it that simple? “Heartbreak or nothing at all” when it comes to committing to someone long distance? All-in or all out?!
Today on the podcast, Dave Glaser dives into the reasons why long distance can work and why it absolutely won’t be easy for some! A resource he likes to refer to often is Gary Chapman’s book,The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate.
About ten years ago, Dave was in a long distance relationship that was doomed from the start but he wasn’t aware of why until recently! Tune in to today’s episode on the podcast, subscribe, rate, and review on iTunes or Spotify to be the first to know when a new episode drops!
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“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Proverbs 27:17 New International Version (NIV)
This bible verse resonates with me because in our tough times in modern America, men need a positive reminder that getting together in groups can and will build stronger identity and relationships. A local Denver men’s group, The Evolving Man, that I have mentioned that I am a member of a few times on the podcast was begun by Geoff Laughton who believes that men are held back in relationships for fear that they’ll be found out to be some kind of fraud.
Geoff is a two time national best selling author of Building a Conflict Proof Relationship and Built to Last both are available at yourrelationshiparchitect.com. Geoff was a previous guest on the podcast Your Relationship Architect and is back for a special, live interview in Denver, Co to discuss what men need most vs. what the most want out of life!
His mission is helping people be fully comfortable in their own skin & power using their relationship with self and other as the incubator. With Geoff’s men’s work, he is all about changing the paradigm of gender relations, empowering men to show up for themselves, their partners, and their lives of which I can attest to the power of gathering together as men because I have connected with strong, compassionate men that help me become sharper and my more authentic self.
Dave Glaser is the owner of Fit Life Champions and an Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to find lasting love in an authentic relationship. Join our free 3 Day Social Media Detox at www.believeberealbebold.com and receive a complimentary 30 minute consultation now!
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HOT TOPIC of the week! What do we do if we are caught up in a Friends with Benefits situation and you want more?!
Tune in each Friday as Dave Glaser sets you up for success when dating in this modern world with a new mini episode to compliment the expert guest interview released on Mondays. Here’s the link to take your own Enneagram at 9types.comSubscribe, rate, and review the podcast and leave your choice for next week’s topic for the mini episode with Dave!
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Sarah Rabenou has over 15 years as a creative arts therapist and life coach; in that time she has also founded a women’s center. Fear, pain, negative relationship experiences is what holds us back in relationships and her life experience has brought her to have a passion for helping single super moms create love that finally lasts. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to her below! www.sarahrabenou.com, @loveeverbloom, or in her private group Create Lasting Love Support Group
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When is it too early to share intimate details of your past? Have you ever been on a date and the other person laid out their whole life that first night?! Yep, me too. I've also been the person who has overshared! The lessons I've learned in the have helped me become more authentic when dating in Denver. Dave Glaser shares with you what he has learned about the floodlights of vulnerability and transparency. For the full back story and to support the podcast, click www.patreon.com/bbrpodcast now!
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Spencer Burnett, author of the Cool Guy's Guide, has a powerful mission to help men authentically become the type of guy every woman loves so he can be with the woman of his choice. He believes that we are held back from finding lasting love when we go looking to cure loneliness through a relationship. At the Omegaman.club, Spencer wants you to stop wasting your time on dating apps and "pick up" videos and learn how to meet women in unexpected places.
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Can exes be friends?! We need your feedback on this topic today everyone! Subscribe, rate, and review the podcast with your thoughts on this bonus episode! To hear the full story and support the podcast, click www.patreon.com/bbrpodcast Also, join us for our weekly Social Media Detox to decrease stress, boost energy, and be more present with family and friends at www.believeberealbebold.com
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Subscribe, rate, and review the podcast for new dating advice each week! Jenna Ponaman's mission is to support women all over the world to step boldly and proudly into their authenticity so they can create a truly thriving romantic relationship with someone that values their worth. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to her now via the following links! www.jennaponamancoaching.com
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Heather Reinhardt is the author of Go Love Yourself who believes that a lack of self-love is what holds us back in relationships. She feels that people are so lost because they don’t know who they are; they don’t know how to love themselves. Heather’s mission is to teach the world self-love; when you love yourself, you then have no room for judgement and discrimination for yourself and others.
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Sarah Henry, MA in Psychology and certified health and wellness coach, believes that as life continues to become busier and more demanding, we tend to lose ourselves in the never-ending frenzy. This initiates the cycle of negative self-talk; we feel angry and disappointed that we aren't perfect, and we take it out on ourselves. Sarah believes that we become our own worst enemies, and truly out of touch with who we are and what lights us up.Join our new 3 Day Social Media Detox at www.believeberealbebold.com
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Dr. Jenni Skylar of the Intimacy Institute invited me in to discuss modern relationships, from monogamy to polyamory! We don’t hold back during the authentic conversation to go deep beyond the surface level discussion to discover the intimacy behind the lifestyle choice common today. Grab your tickets for the upcoming live event in Denver, Co by clicking here http://bit.ly/BBR-live-event now! 50% off Monday only!
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Julia Munson is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Hendricks Institute Transformation Leader, who believes that fear, lack of education around healthy relationship skills are what cause us to be held back in their relationships. Her mission is to educate and empower people to have healthy, loving relationships. Connect with her further at juliamunson.com For tickets to the live event in Denver, Co click below now for your discounted tickets now! http://bit.ly/BBR-live-event
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Danny Mazur and I were connected through Kerri-Ann Appleton, a former guest on the podcast. He has a powerful mission to impact so many lives by teaching them to tell authentic stories! His mission is to support storytelling and dialogue to break social barriers and create real, human connection. Soul Stories has a monthly storytelling and dialogue group, co-create events with individuals and organizations that address pressing social issues, a podcast, and are developing a youth storytelling curriculum.
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Why do you do the things that you do? What motivates you to make the choices you make? Tune in as Dave Glaser, the host of the BBR Podcast, shares the key motivations of The Peacemaker personality type, otherwise known as type 9 on the Enneagram. In this five part mini series, Dave shares the foundations for this particular person's decision making and how to achieve optimal mental health!
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Amanda Mclernon, social media consultant and real life dater in Denver, believes that what holds us back in our relationships is that we aren’t ready to face what we fear most. Once we are honest with ourselves and face those fears, we can be our most authentic self. Her perspective on dating in Denver is that she never gives up even when facing adversity, ghosting, or difficulty in landing that date.Follow her on Instagram to see her completely honest and authentic stories and posts. @amandamclernon
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Purposeful Counseling, believes that we all need authenticity to be successful in relationships. Purposeful Counseling is her private practice that aims to empower and heal adult trauma survivors through therapeutic means and the Christian faith. Please don't hesitate to reach out to her at purposefulcounseling.org or via her email, mwebb@purposefulcounseling.org
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Natalia Samman, LCSW, joined me in the Fit Life Champions office to go deep into something we can both relate to a lot! Attachment styles are a passion for us both because of our personal experience with the avoidant style. Natalia believes that we are held back most by our lack of self-awareness in addition to unresolved attachment styles. Her mission is to provide therapy, skills, and insights to busy adults who are pre- or post-break up. Connect with her at bylightcounseling.com
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On today's bonus episode, I ask myself two questions about The Challenger personality type, or Type 8 on the Enneagram, to complete this new series on self-awareness and discovery. How could I not see this betrayal coming? How do I admit to myself that vulnerability is a strength and not a weakness? To discover your own type, click 9types.com now, complete the quick test, and screen shot your results and reach out to me through Instagram, Facebook, or email and I'll send you more information!
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Nick Mancini, LMFT, and owner of Lyft Colorado Counseling invited me in to his safe and welcoming practice to discuss masculinity, financial security, and permanence in relationships as it pertains to expectations. Nick is the sponsor of our podcast and we are very grateful for him to be a panelist at our upcoming live event in Denver on April 25th, 2019! Click over to event brite now to grab your pre-sale tickets at their lowest price available!
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My tendencies are like signal flares that show up to help guide me back to optimal mental health. The Enneagram and my Challenger personality type are like a path or a guide to direct me to become my most authentic self. For your own results, take the quick assessment at 9types.com and then screenshot your results and send them to Dave via Insta, FB, or email to get your journey to self-awareness and discovery started!
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On Episode 35 with leadership expert Andy Knutson, he and Dave Glaser explore masculinity, spiritual warfare, and modern relationships. Andy is a John Maxwell trained leadership and professional coach in Denver, Co. Please reach out to him at Andy@peak2peakcoaching.com if his message resonates with you today. Dave Glaser is a personal trainer and Enneagram Coach for singles that wish to become more resilient while seeking an authentic relationship. Set up a call with him at www.believeberealbebold.
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There have been few things more impactful to my personal growth than the Enneagram and discovering my key motivations. Listen in as I dissect The Challenger personality type and its motivations all the way through practicing optimal mental health! Take your own test at 9types.com and then reach out so that we can quickly chat about the next steps to your self-awareness and discovery! Subscribe, rate, and review or follow us on social media @believeberealbebold
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On Ep. 34 , Rebekah Freedom, published author of Break Up Rehab and has been in private practice for five years. She also has a Masters Degree from the Naropa University in Transpersonal Counseling. Rebekah's mission is to transform the failure we find in relationships into freedom. A combination of fear, neuroscience, and arriving too quickly in a transactional relationship is what holds us back from being our authentic selves. Reach out to connect at rebekahfreedom.com
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Welcome back to a mini episode with host, Dave Glaser! Through the lens of the Enneagram, Dave invites you to learn how to become aware and discover your truest potential! Take your own Enneagram assessment at 9types.com and reach out to Dave once you've learned your type for a fun and quick call! Check out The Road Back to You, The Sacred Enneagram, The Stoic Mask, and It Starts with You for additional resources! Join our next live event April 25th at believeberealbebold.com/shop for early pricing
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On Ep. 32, Varsha Mathur, speaker and coach, has a mission to help women find love by uprooting traditional norms and working from the inside out to build the confidence needed to find lasting love. In this week’s episode, we connect over topics such as online dating, tools to improves self-confidence, and ways to get outside your comfort zone! If Varsha’s message resonated with you today, please reach out to her at www.knowingluxe.com www.knowingluxe.com or @knowingluxe on all social media platform
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Self-awareness and discovery of our true selves is the sure fire way to find our dream relationship and partner! When you are your most authentic self, your ideal partner will be drawn to you like a moth to a flame! Here's the second of many solo conversations that come out every Friday on the podcast for authentic dating. For your own assessment test, click 9types.com and then book a call with Dave at www.believeberealbebold.com
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On Ep. 31, Kerri-Ann Appleton is a Reiki Master, Yoga Instructor, and Transformation Coach with a mission to empower one million women worldwide to thrive by finding their true authentic selves and to live from that place. She believes that our patterns, beliefs and conditioning from our childhood, community, society, and culture is what holds us back from being our most authentic selves. To connect with Kerri-Ann, follow her on Facebook by searching, "My Journey to Rio"! If you love the BBR Podcast and would like to show your support, please click here to donate today! To find out your Enneagram personality type, take the test at 9types.com and send your results to Dave at believeberealbebold@gmail.com for more information!
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Dave welcomes you to the very first solo episode by discussing how discovering his own lack of authenticity was a huge factor in attracting the wrong type of people. Self-discovery and awareness through jiu-jitsu and the Enneagram are major leaps forward Dave took to changing his future! Schedule a call with Dave to learn more about how to make a great change in your life at www.believeberealbebold.com now!
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On Ep. 30, Nate Ewert is a Reiki Master and Licensed Massage Therapist with almost two decades of experience healing others through manual therapy and sound technology. He and I dove deeper into my thoughts than with any guest before on the podcast. We discuss his experience with one year of sobriety and how that has improved his authenticity, vulnerability, and transparency with self and others! If his message resonates, please connect with him at www.intentionalpathwelllness.com
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Jason Eric Ross, licensed psychotherapist, actor, and author of You Can Say No and Your Child Will Still Love You, spent some time with me discussing parenting, dating, and self-discovery. Checking items off of his personal bucket list leads him to help people lead very fulfilled lives, be authentic and crush goals. He believes that being authentic is a measure of how healthy or comfortable you are and when you are healthy you tend you find a healthy partner.
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Karen Klassen, Author of Living in the Freedom Frequency and the I AM a Brilliant Woman book series. The biggest thing preventing her clients from being their authentic self is their ego mind, that fearful part of them that keeps them living small. The result is they search outside of themselves instead of taking the journey within. She believes it is also a lack of knowing one's own values as they have grown accustomed to taking on on the values of others.
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Laura Menze and Lori Davis host The Radical Love Summit each year to show the world that we need more love! Radical Love means connecting love and relationship coaches with singles and couples so that they can apply preventative maintenance on their lives. Head over to theradicallovesummit.com and be sure to say hi to us if you see us there too in April '19! Fit Life Champions believe fitness and nutrition play a big role in personal growth! Click for your free week of online training now!
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Armon Anderson, “Mr. Self-Love”, believes that self-love cures self-hate. Armon finds that people are held back by thinking they need to be somebody else to be loved by somebody else and that will fill their emptiness. The mission for his coaching business is to help people understand that self love is the beginning of your healing and the end of your self destruction. Connect with him on Instagram @mrselflove if his message resonates with you today! Check out exclusives at patreon.com/bbrpodcast
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Renee Slansky is the founder of one of Australia's #1 dating and relationship blogs, The Dating Directory. She has been educating men and women on love since 2013. After 12 years in the entertainment industry as a model and tv presenter, Renee's heart for seeing people live in fulfilling relationships, propelled her to be one an international writer and coach. If her message resonates with you, please connect on Instagram @reneeslansky Facebook @reneeslansky http://thedatingdirectory.co/abo
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Geoff Laughton, Certified Master NLP Practitioner, is a two time best selling author has a very powerful vision for serving others. His mission is to help people be fully comfortable in their own skin and power using their relationship with self and other as the incubator. Geoff believes that we have a fear that we will be found out to be some kind of fraud and that’s what holds us back from being our authentic selves. Contact Geoff by visiting him at the same web address yourrelationshiparchitect.com
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Joanna Shakti gets men and women to quickly open their bodies, hearts, and minds to a truer love, a deeper intimacy, a more heated passionthan they’ve ever imagined before. From corporate America to deep intimacy, Joanna has worked with many clients over the years with her business at www.ecstaticintimacy.com. She helps men and women to get out of the friend zone and to get over the nice guy syndrome to awaken the authentic man/woman inside you. Members only access www.patreon.com/bbrpodcast
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Suzanne Muller-Heinz, a published author of Lovable, a coach, and owner of Lovablize You. Her purpose is to support all singles who desire a healthy relationship to experience a fulfilling, healthy, and lasting relationship that they are proud of. Suzanne believes that the fear of hurting someone's feelings, fear of rejection, fear of owning who they truly are and fear of being left holds us back from being our authentic self.
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Nelly Johnson’s purpose is to provide relationship education to her clients in areas such as trauma and how that past trauma can impact current relationships and overall functioning. She believes a lack of self-awareness is the true culprit of poor relationships. Nelly believes that some individuals just don’t know how to be their authentic selves and they live the lives they believe others want them to live. She is most passionate about teaching clients to learn how to truly express themselves.
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Erika Holmes, LMFT, has a goal to empower you to make changes in your life that decrease suffering, increase awareness, and assist you in creating a “life worth living”. If Erika's message resonated with you today, please don't hesitate to reach out to her now at www.colordaocft.com on Facebook at @ColoradoCFT or Twitter @erikaholmesmft Bonus episodes, early access to new episodes and so much more! Stories will include how I got “Catfished”! Just click www.patreon.com/bbrpodcast now!
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Jason B. Kendrick is a Communications and Transformation Specialist, Author, Speaker, Reiki Master, Heart Core Communications Trainer and Heart Centered Living Practitioner. He offers himself to the world in Love and Service to cultivate Peace, Love and Joy within all he works with. If Jason's message resonates with you, reach out to him at www.jasonbkendrick.com and check out one of his live events soon! The blog post we mentioned, click https://believeberealbebold.com/2018/08/26/it-starts-with-yo
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Melissa Smith is a Holistic Health Coach specializing in gut health. Melissa focuses on working with individuals who face digestive issues like IBS, leaky gut and anxiety, providing support across the daily challenges of balancing life, career, and health. Melissa believes that self-love, forgiveness and freedom are the keys to finding your true joy. Healing your body from within by nourishing your body, mind and soul and truly feeling into the food that you eat and how it affects your body.
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"Who else can be You, better than You?" This is a question that Sharon Smith, Certified Dating Coach- Hart Coach Academy, asks of you to discover who you truly want to be! Sharon's book, Dating Doesn't Have to be Complicatedand an online dating service, Love Match, LLChelps assist singles 25 years and older reach their relationship goals. Often times they feel they are not good enough so they try and be someone who they are not. Her response to them is that never try and be someone who you are not
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Jess Ryan, co-host of the Singling Podcast, made time in her busy schedule to share her stories of dating in San Diego. Over the year and a half of hilarious episodes that make dating human and relatable, I hear so much growth prompting me to invite her on as a guest! Follow their Instagram account @singlingpodcast for some of the funniest relationship memes you'll see! Keeping things light and natural is the goal of hosting their internationally popular podcast!
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Meghann Conter is a marketing expert who specializes in helping companies led by female industry leaders make their services indispensable in the eyes of their ideal clients. In addition to leveraging her 15 years of expertise, Meghann also helps women-led organizations leap over revenue targets, as founder of The Dames, a national community that celebrates high-level leaders in nonprofits and corporations. Meghann believes that anything can be accomplished through fearless collaboration and laughter.
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Skylar Drake, the owner of Relate & Revel Coaching, is passionate about addressing her clients needs when it comes to a lack of confidence and worth in who that authentic self is for them. Skylar is also passionate about bringing real connection and intimacy to the digital age. Her private coaching is designed to help others tackle the mindset and personal roadblocks that would prevent them from enjoying the authentic, empowering, and intimate relationships that they deserve.
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We are flipping the tables today as Jessica Smith swings by to interview Dave Glaser. Her book, Men Are People Too, will be out soon and she was brave enough to come by and interview Dave a few weeks ago. Instead of getting frustrated with "the scene" in Denver, Dave decided to create an authentic community for himself. It's going quite well. Dave Glaser, owner of www.fitlifechampions.com, specializes in online personal training to improve mental health, decrease stress, and boost energy.
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Sheree Trask is a Conscious Content Consulting and Creator, Empowerment Speaker, seasoned Ghostwriter and the host of the unfiltered podcast, Soulfcked (coming back Fall 2018). As a woman with many interests, Sheree is also certified as a Yoga Instructor and Holistic Health Coach, and carries a fierce determination to create space for everyone to be truly seen and heard, as they are. She’s spent 14 years studying the mind-body connection and empowering women to feel safe in their body’s.
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Reese Lasley, author of The Abilitiesand speaker, and I met this year during a photo shoot for a local business and hit it off immediately! His passion for serving others shined through immediately as he spoke about his life, mission, and vision. Cancer survivor and inspirational speaker, Reese wins you over quickly with his enthusiasm for human connection and development. If his message resonated with you, please connect with him at reese@theabilities.com.
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We are switching gears this week to chat with local bartender Sara Perlman. As we met and got to know each other this year, we began to talk mostly about our dating stories. So we invited her in to pick her brain about what it's really like out there in Denver for a 20 something! Listen in to her antidotes on modern dating, traveling with a bf/gf, and when sharing becomes TOO much! If you loved her stories about coming home single from a trip to Hawaii, follow her on Instagram @seekingsar
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Garrett Wood, CSCS, LMT, CHT, works with men to make an impact in their personal, professional, and physical lives through weekly group classes. He also is passionate about bettering one's self, their business through one one one bodywork for athletes, weekend warriors, everyday athletes, and entrepreneurs in Long Beach, CA. Dave Glaser is your facilitator and host building a community of authentic daters in Denver by inviting expert guests to share their best tips, tools, and advice.
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Rachel Friend, MA in Human Communication, has a mission to help others step back and become aware of what really matters to them. Rachel believes that by creating awareness of what it means to be your authentic self and ways to achieve that would help to remedy this. She serves people with in-person coaching, small group, online group training, and as a speaker. Learn more about her at www.itsrachelfriend.com
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Kevin Coates is a certified professional coach serving clients to creat possibility from an impossible mindset. After a childhood of trauma in the rough neighborhoods of Maryland, he set his intention on overcoming adversity to lead others on their self-awareness journey. Host Dave Glaser, owner of www.fitlifechampions.com, specializes in online personal training for busy adults that want to improve mental health, decrease stress, and boost energy.
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It was a pleasure to connect with Nick Mancini, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Nick took the time to discuss relationships, intimacy, and core values to share his expertise with you. What resonated with me most from our podcast interview was how to foster curiosity within ourselves so that we can continue to grow and show up as authentically as possible when dating. His goal with clients is to simplify skills with a systematic approach from the very first phone consultation.
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Lisa Foster, owner of Parillume, helps survivors of sexual assault shine from their original design and thrive! She speaks nationally, hosts events in Denver, and works with individuals, couples, and groups to facilitate their growth. We wanted to pick her brain on how she uses tools like The Enneagram, Meyers-Briggs, and Strengths Finder to help her community grow to shine. Connect with her at www.parillume.com if her message resonated with you!
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Jason Kendrick is a published author, speaker, NLP Practitioner, and Reiki Master. For twenty years, Jason has been a personal growth junkie and he believes that to know something, is to teach it. Therefore, he has made it his mission to redefine the old masculine paradigm and recreate a new healthier father/son reinforce model. If his message resonated with you, connect with him at www.jasonbkendrick.com now!
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Inayah Vanessa's mission in her matchmaking business is to look for exceptional people to set up with my clients... Basically, we send out a couple of awesome people on a fully curated, fun first date in a public space. Usually a little quirky, always an adventure! Sounds exactly like what we are looking for when we are dating someone new! If her message resonated with you today, connect with her at tawkify.com now or on Instagram @inayahlater
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Jacqui Pugh dropped by to discuss "boyver" and how to recognize an authentic person right away when you meet them! Her flagship program, BURN, is perfect for those that are ready to get over their ex, get their POWER BACK, and design the future the have always DREAMT OF! Her clients come to her with this statement, "I’m sad, I’m lonely, or I’m in a relationship that’s good not great." Jacqui coaches them to turn that into a personal mantra of, "I’m single and it’s okkk, (all the way) to f*cki
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Jessica Smith is a Love and Dating coach and has worked with hundreds of clients around the world including professional athletes, CEO’s, and executives using her signature authentic dating strategy programs and acclaimed International transformational yoga retreats. Jessica is frequently found traveling the world. She's currently working on her new book, "Men Are People Too" and will be appearing in the international documentary “ LEAP, The Coaching Movie” set to debut Fall in 2018.
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