JW Forwardcast: Recent Episodes
Covert Fade
The Forwardcast gets it's first return guest: Martin Haugh! We talk about keeping fit, running, and the new non-profit organisation Martin is setting up; The Freedom Project.
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As the snow swirls in, and Santa attempts to break into Covert Fade's house and judge his life choices to pronounce him naughty or nice, Covert calls upon three friends from an alternate dimension to give tips for exJW's on how to adapt to this new and strange custom of celebrating Christmas...
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In this episode Covert Fade chats with podcaster and life coach Michael Shemwell.
We talk about his podcast shows Shunned and This JW Life, about how to cope with being shunned by loved ones, and also discuss the strategies he used to overcome serious debt that he and his wife had accumulated.
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Check out the Shunned Podcast on iTunes: Shunned
Check out This JW Life Podcast on iTunes: ThisJWlife
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In this episode Covert Fade chats with fellow Uncultured podcaster Jeremy Howell AKA Mentally Diseased on Youtube and Twitter.
We talk about his experiences in the gay dating scene after leaving the JW religion, and advice for gay and straight exJWs on how to start dating like a real person who no longer needs a Watchtower chaperone. We also discuss culture and books, and learn how Buffy The Vampire Slayer got Jeremy through a rough part of life.
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Check out the Uncultured Podcast on iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-uncultured-podcast/id1475075439
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In this episode Covert Fade chats with Alexander Rhodes, AKA Sean Holland about his play One Foot In The Rave.
We talk about he took the turbulent events that surrounded his leaving behind the JW life, and turn them into an award winning one-man show which is currently touring the UK. We also discuss art, mental health, meditation, how to get into performing art, and more!
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In this episode, Covert Fade and Alice Cheshire answer two different listener questions...
...which are the same question.
Confused? You will be. But hopefully the end result is interesting and useful.
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In this episode, Covert Fade interviews fellow JW Survey team member Chloe Leon about her experiences overcoming domestic violence, kick-starting her career after she left the JW's behind, how it's okay to ask for what you want...and joining the circus!
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In this episode, Alice Cheshire and Covert Fade discuss how JW indoctrination installs an unhealthy and toxic view towards interpersonal boundaries, and discuss 9 tips to help repair that damage.
Also Covert quotes passages from fantasy novels, and Alice updates the classic "Do unto others" mantra with a slightly more 21st century and colourful turn of phrase...
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In this episode of the show, Covert and Alice answer a question from a listener who is trying to get motivated to fade from the organisation. What are some ways to fire yourself up to attempt something significant or life-changing? Alice has some suggestions!
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In this episode, Covert Fade and Jon Leger discuss a vast range of topics including:
- Do JW's actually teach what's in the Bible?
- How to raise a child when the other parent is a strict JW
- How to get into activism
- How to overcome a fear of death once you realise the JW doctrine of living forever isn't true.
- The nature of the universe and human consciousness.
- Why cough syrup enhances a philosophical conversation.
- And more!
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Amazon links to the books discussed in this episode:
Pete Enns: The Bible Tells Me So https://amzn.to/2FasjWZ
Rob Bell: Love Wins https://amzn.to/2TJI0hY
Mike Mchargue: Finding God in the Waves https://amzn.to/2F7m3zj
Robert Lanza: Bio centrism https://amzn.to/2F7lVQl
Robert Lanza Beyond Bio Centrism https://amzn.to/2FhAUIE
Steve Pinker: The Better Angels of Our Nature https://amzn.to/2Y116yJ
Douglas Adams: The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy https://amzn.to/2Y3qpQB
Robert Wright: Why Buddhism is True https://amzn.to/2FgErav
Max Tegmark: Life 3.0 https://amzn.to/2FhimbB
William Von Hippel: The Social Leap https://amzn.to/2HncShT
Other Links
The Sam Harris / Max Tegmark Podcast Episode: https://itunes.apple.com/gb/podcast/94-the-future-of-intelligence/id733163012?i=1000391606538&mt=2
Crash Course Philosophy with Hank Green https://www.youtube.com/user/crashcourse
In this episode, Covert Fade and Alice Cheshire answer a question from a listener who is wondering how to talk to her daughters about relationships and sex, and worries that her JW upbringing has left her ill-equipped to do so.
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In this episode, which is the first of a series of shorter, quick fire shows, Covert Fade and Alice Cheshire answer a question from a faded listener who is about to attend a JW funeral, and wants to know how to deal with intrusive questions from Elders or other JW's about their faded status!
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Covert Fade interviews Obaid Omer and Deen, two of the hosts of Heretics Corner; a podcast dedicated to exploring the issues that impact apostates of all faiths around the world.
Obaid and Deen discuss their experience of Islam, and how they rebuilt their lives after doing so, as well as how the exMuslim experience compares and contrasts to the exJW one.
They also discuss advice for new apostates, the wider needs of the "interfaith" apostate community, the difficulties ex-Muslims can face and more!
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Covert Fade interviews Martin Haugh, whose family was impacted by child abuse inside the Jehovah's Witnesses.
They discuss how Martin and his family were able to rebuild and move forward after leaving the Witness religion, how they helped their daughter cope with her traumatic experiences, and how they have campaigned for changes in the law to make it easier for abusers to be brought to justice.
They also discuss overcoming ingrained JW habits and the importance of getting outside of your comfort zone in order grow as a person.
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Read the Philidelphia Enquirer article on Martin's family: http://media.philly.com/storage/special_projects/jehovahs-witnesses-sexual-abuse-children-beliefs-rules.html
Watch Martin and Jennifer Haugh interviewed on Watchtower in Focus: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C8AVhEev7AM&t=2754s
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In this brief but festive episode, Alice and Covert discuss a Christmas themed life coaching exercise: “The Ghosts of Christmas Past, Present and Future” and how to create goals using the S.M.A.R.T system.
We also discuss the Muppet Christmas Carol, invent new Christmas shopping words, and enthusiastically mangle the best Christmas song ever written with our terrible singing.
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Amazon Link to the book Alice recommends: Your Best Year Yet by Jinny Ditzler https://amzn.to/2BGfP7T
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
In this episode, Covert Fade and Alice Cheshire discuss the field of Positive Psychology, the concept of "subjective happiness," and uncover factors that contribute towards a sense of well-being.
They discuss how the Jehovah's Witness religion hijacks some of these factors to make JW's feel content, how leaving the religion might cause us to lose some of these things, and how we can take them back!
And nobody sings. We promise.
Show notes:
Follow Covert Fade on Twitter https://twitter.com/CovertFade
Follow Alice Cheshire on Twitter https://twitter.com/thealicechesh
Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/covertfade
Heretics Corner on Twitter: https://twitter.com/HereticsCorner
Heretics Corner Podcast: https://youtu.be/gH5fCP6jpSg
Covert Fade is the editor for JWsurvey.org
Sam Harris Podcast: The Lessons of Death https://itunes.apple.com/gb/podcast/waking-up-with-sam-harris/id733163012?mt=2&i=1000394821806
Alice Cheshire’s selected Values Exercise: https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newTED_85.htm
The Best Self Journal Covert Fade uses every day https://bestself.co/products/self-journal
Wikipedia on positive psychology https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Positive_psychology
Meetup Website https://www.meetup.com
Headspace meditation app https://www.headspace.com
Optimal salary study https://www.marketwatch.com/story/this-is-exactly-how-much-money-you-need-to-be-truly-happy-earning-more-wont-help-2018-02-14
Start With Why by Simon Sinek https://amzn.to/2zo4OYz
In this episode Covert Fade and Alice Cheshire answer some of the questions that have been coming into the Forwardcast via social media and email.
We talk about Imposter Syndrome, the return of Analysis Paralysis, understanding those exJW’s who make different religious choices to us, and whether it’s possible to be honest with PIMI family whilst still successfully fading.
Also Covert sings. You have been warned.
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In this episode Covert Fade interviews writer, journalist and ExJW Sarah Mills!
Sarah has been published in numerous places including Conatus, Areo Magazine, Huffington Post and Patheos. She is the blog director for Atheists America and has also written fiction of Litro Magazine.
We talk about her experience as a JW, getting started in a writing career, how to avoid getting stuck in an ideological echo chamber, how Watchtower's publications measure up to professional standards of writing and journalism and much more!
Follow Sarah on twitter @sarahwrites
Read Sarah's short story Hay Feaver on Litro.co.uk
Read Sarah's article on Conatus that explores Watchtower's harmful ideology: Cults and Terrorism: Can we Establish Parallels Between Noxious Belief Systems?
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In this second special episode, Covert Fade and Alice Cheshire continue their discussion of the new film Apostasy from writer/director and former Jehovah's Witness Daniel Kokotajlo! ALL MAJOR PLOT POINTS ARE DISCUSSED so BE WARNED if you've not yet seen the movie. HERE BE DRAGONS!
Links
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Stream Apostasy on Curzon Home
IMDB Page for Apostasy
In this special episode, Covert Fade and Alice Cheshire discuss the new film Apostasy from writer/director and former Jehovah's Witness Daniel Kokotajlo!
This episode contains NO SPOILERS from the movie, so you can safely listen if you've not yet seen the movie. The in-depth spoiler discussion will come in the next episode.
Links
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Follow Daniel Kokotajlo on twitter
Follow Apostasy on twitter
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Stream Apostasy on Curzon Home
IMDB Page for Apostasy
In this episode:
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Covert Fade and Alice Cheshire discuss how to overcome the fear of failure.
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Covert launches an Indie Rock Band.
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Alice corrects Covert’s dreadful French pronunciation with the use of Finding Nemo.
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We answer an excellent listener question from @le_great_escape on twitter about how to let go of living forever.
All this and more on Episode 3 of JW ForwardCast!
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Find Covert Fade’s articles on JWSurvey.org
Support us on Patreon/covertfade
Buy the book Feel The Fear and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers on Amazon
Forbes Article: 30 Powerful Quotes On Failure
Mel Robbins 5-4-3-2-1- Mindset
Logen Ninefingers Quotes (created by author Joe Abercrombie) including "It's better to do it than live with the fear of it."
The SEP field, as conceived by Douglas Adams
In this episode, Covert Fade interviews JW Activist, author and film maker Lloyd Evans!
They discuss a wide range of topics relvent to the life of an exJW, including
- Potential strategies to wake up a partner or family member.
- How to explain to a child the awkward situations that can come from leaving the JW religion.
- Tips and advice for getting started in activism and much more!
Link: JW Survey
Link: John Cedars Youtube Channel
Link:Follow Lloyd Evans on twitter @cedarsjwsurvey
Link: The Reluctant Apostate
Link: How to Escape From Jehovah's Witnesses
Link Follow Covert Fade on twitter @covertfade
Link: Support us on Patreon at Patreon/covertfade
Welcome to the very first episode of JW Forwardcast! The paint is still fresh on the walls, the chairs are freshly unwrapped and show is ready to go!
In this episode, Covert Fade and Alice Cheshire introduce themselves, and then discuss the problem of control; specifically how the Watchtower organisation systematically strips Jehovah’s Witnesses of the confidence to take control of their own lives.
They discuss some ways to get into the habit of asserting authority over your life, the usefulness of mindset journaling, and Covert manages to squeeze in a dreadfully geeky IT joke, and some philosophy from the legendary martial artist Bruce Lee.
All this and more on the first of many Forwardcasts!
Link: Alice Cheshire's JW Survey Article
Link: Follow Alice Cheshire on twitter @thealicechesh
Link: Follow Covert Fade on twitter @covertfade
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