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Holy Spirit: Power UpYou will receive power when the holy spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth. Acts 1:8

Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the spirit. Ephesians 5:18

1. The Holy Spirit is not weird

2. Jesus said we need the Holy Spirit.

And I will ask the Father and He will give you another advocate, who will never leave you. John 14:14

The Holy Spirit is our teammate

But the counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. John 14:26

The Holy Spirit is our teacher

When He comes, He will convict the world of guilt in regard to sin and righteousness and judgement. John 16:4The Holy Spirit is our transformer

3. The Holy Spirit is available, but not automatic.

And the disciples were continually filled with Joy and with the Holy Spirit. Acts 13:52

Being filled with the Holy Spirit doesn’t make me better than you, It makes me better than me

Discussion Questions:

If you had to describe your energy level as a battery percentage today, what would it be and why?

Why do you think Jesus considered the Holy Spirit essential?

How have your past experiences shaped your view of the Holy Spirit? In what area of life do you most need His help right now? And what is one area where God may be inviting you to grow?

What is one practical step you can take to stay connected to the Holy Spirit this week?

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Pastor Joseph closes out the summer in the forge with week 10!

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You shall not commit adultery. Exodus 20:14

Commit Adultery: “to corrupt, debase, or make impure.”

But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. Proverbs 6:32

1. Without God, it’s not Marriage.

This is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. Genesis 2:24

“Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Matthew 19:4-5

God’s definition of marriage: One man and One woman, united together for life.

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. Ephesians 5:25

1. Adultery starts in your heart.

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Matthew 5:28

• 64% of Christian men admit to watching porn once a month
• 15% of Christian women admit to watching porn once a month
• The average age someone is exposed to porn: 11 years old.
• Spouses that look at porn are 300% more likely to cheat and 200% more likely to get divorced.
• 75% of teenagers have viewed porn by the age of 17
• 41% of teenagers say they have seen images of nudity or sexual acts online during the school day (bypassing existing WiFi filtering.)
• 58% say they came across porn by accident while surfing the web or on social media.
• Porn sites get more visitors each month than Netflix, Amazon, and Twitter combined.
• You can’t manage lust, kill it.

Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. Colossians 3:5-6

Temptation often comes through a door that’s been deliberately left open.

Flee from sexual immorality. 1 Corinthians 6:18

1. Guard your eyes.

The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are healthy, your whole body will be full of light. But if your eyes are unhealthy, your whole body will be full of darkness. Matthew 6:22-23

I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman. Job 31:1

1. Get Help.

Resources for a Stronger Marriage & Recovery from Adultery

Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. James 5:16

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9

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Protection that brings blessing on our relationships/life

You shall not steal. Exodus 20:15
Simple / Done
Steal: gānab – take for nothing, thievery, deceit
Stealing the truth about someone / taking reputation
**Me 25 – Lose prevention - Church/donation boxes
Sat 5am – stake out, camcorder, confront – kid in box
pretend load, needy people //Go sin no more // Back next week

**asked my mom steal // Never did anything wrong
What mom doesn’t know… Everyday part of life.

Stealing is about gaining something at
someone else’s unwilling expense.

Stuff, possessions, passwords, company, returning wrong items,
Not reporting income / taxes – they don’t need it!
Adam and Eve in the garden – eat every tree – not one //
why we steal???

1. We Lack contentment.

We crave for more – better = $1 good / $2 better, vacay, wife
LIE - If I get more, I’ll be satisfied
God’s solution: Contentment – let the portion he gives satisfy
Single, 1 kid, income, business,
You can live frustrated or content
Contentment – trust God – he knows need & will provide.

But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. 1 Timothy 6:6-10

*Treadmill – walking/ keeping up with expectations.
Don’t start with greed/love of money – but reasonable
Want comfortable, kids better life, security
Comparing numbers: his house / > numbers! Clothes, money
Not evil, but sneaky = (Paul) want to get rich, fall into trap
Trap is in the wanting, not the having
Speeding up – at 5, need 6, etc.- Comfort, options, Amazon
sweating, striving, spending, = still be in the exact same place.
Take remote - At some point, not choosing speed anymore
Rat race isn’t you are lazy, but exhausted by things can’t satisfy
Contentment is stepping off
“Contentment is when my soul is no longer
controlled by what I do not have.”
Grateful for what God has given

We lack contentment because we don’t trust God as Provider.

God is trustworthy – won’t let you down = MY SOURCE
Won’t give everything you want, but will what you need
Not because you are good, but you’re his kids

And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19

Not my politics, the economy, my job, my situation
What is your source?? – job, him, US econ, wits, edu., self/steal

We lack contentment because we don’t trust God’s Timing.

Steal now, God is late
**Friends who are late? Late for church today…
I’m always on time… a Christian
God is not on our time – but always at the right time.

** parking lot – 2 yrs. - Set close June 30th – $248k. //
Bank/Lenders/Title Company??? Canceled 2x, meet lunch
God is doing something bigger than you understand.

1. We don’t love people enough.

“Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” Matthew 22:36-40

*Think of someone you love most – won’t steal from them
Won’t steal their joy, peace, supply, reputation, protect them!
person you least love – love them the same as self.

1. We don’t recognize that Trust is a Test.

**Never robbed a bank – but fill soda water cup
Kids are <11, food in store, x samples,
We think only the big stuff matters
If you will treat the little things like big things,
God will give you big stuff like it’s small stuff.

“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches? And if you have not been trustworthy with someone else’s property, who will give you property of your own? Luke 16:10

*Old man in our church – throw change in the yard…
It’s a test – one day caught the cable guy filling his pockets
Free cable for a while – so proud.
The enemy setting you up and the cost of your integrity???
$2 worth of soda, $5 pen work, clocking in early, sharing passwords, copying homework, chipotle movie,

Practical application / wrap it up

Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need. Ephesians 4:28

1. Quit Stealing.

2. Work Hard
   Hard work is worship to unto the Lord.
   *Represent God all day everyday

Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters. Colossians 3:23
Not – doesn’t affect them, they don’t care / God cares

1. Give Generously

Not about what you can get, but what you can give.
God has better life for us // not more stuff.

The opposite of stealing isn’t not taking things…
Honesty, contentment, hard work, generosity

Most famous thieves in Bible – crosses next to Jesus.
One doubled down / other repented = recognized
Jesus generously, graciously laid down his life.
Ask the Holy Spirit / convict me
Pray - Salvation

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This week the worship team brings a word

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4 young speakers speak about there experiences with coveting.

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Pastor Susan

God's image is life

• Genesis 1:27

• we have a unique capacity for moral and rational awareness

• Deut 30:19

Col 1:16

• as Gods image bearers we must presence, protect, and promote LIFE!
  • presence to maintain, keep current state, remain as is
  • protect: to keep, cover and shield them from harm, Guard from destruction
  • promote: actively progress something, to support and advance

• all murder is a matter of the heart

• Genesis 4: 2-12

• Gods purpose is life

• Matthew 5.22
  raca: a term of reproach vessach or insect, an inferior or stupid person.
• Ephesians 4:26

if you can claim it, you can clean it

God's actions prove life

Col 3:13

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Summer in the Forge Week 2

You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name. Exodus 20:7

Vain: empty, useless, meaningless.1. Respect His Name.Don’t let your
with God become
for God.

1. Reserve His Name.Common misuses for the Name of God:

Playing “ The God Card."I did not send these prophets, yet they have run with their message; I did not speak to them, yet they have prophesied. Jeremiah 23:21

Saying, “ I Swear to God”.

Again, you have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘Do not break your oath, but fulfill to the Lord the vows you have made.’ But I tell you, do not swear an oath at all: either by heaven, for it is God’s throne; or by the earth, for it is his footstool; or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King. And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black. All you need to say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one. Matthew 5:33-37

You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name. Exodus 20:7

Using God’s Name to further your own agenda

1. Represent His Name.The best way to honor God’s name is to represent it well.

Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say? Luke 6:46

We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God. 2 Corinthians 5:20

You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name. Exodus 20:7

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Discussion Questions:What is one name, title, or nickname people call you that means something special to you? Why?

Pastor Sean said, “Don’t let your comfort with God become contempt for God.” Where do you think the line is between being close to God and becoming too casual with holy things?

Have you ever seen someone use spiritual language to justify their own agenda? Explain.

How can we guard our own hearts from doing that?

The message said, “The best way to honor God’s name is to represent it well.”

What does that look like at work, at home, online, and at church? What would change this week if you lived more aware that you carry the name of Jesus

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Once AgainThe child grew, and one day he went out to his father, who was with the reapers. He said to his father, “My head! My head!” His father told a servant, “Carry him to his mother.” After the servant had lifted him up and carried him to his mother, the boy sat on her lap until noon, and then he died. 2 Kings 4:18-20

When she reached the man of God at the mountain, she took hold of his feet. Gehazi came over to push her away, but the man of God said, “Leave her alone! She is in bitter distress, but the Lord has hidden it from me and has not told me why.” “Did I ask you for a son, my lord?” she said. “Didn’t I tell you, ‘Don’t raise my hopes’?” Elisha said to Gehazi, “Tuck your cloak into your belt, take my staff in your hand and run. Don’t greet anyone you meet, and if anyone greets you, do not answer. Lay my staff on the boy’s face.” 2 Kings 4:28-29

Gehazi went on ahead and laid the staff on the boy’s face, but there was no sound or response. So Gehazi went back to meet Elisha and told him, “The boy has not awakened.” When Elisha reached the house, there was the boy lying dead on his couch. He went in, shut the door on the two of them and prayed to the Lord. 2 Kings 4:31-32

Then he got on the bed and lay on the boy, mouth to mouth, eyes to eyes, hands to hands. As he stretched himself out on him, the boy’s body grew warm. Elisha turned away and walked back and forth in the room and then got on the bed and stretched out on him once more. The boy sneezed seven times and opened his eyes. 2 Kings 4:34-35

1. God loves a Repeat Performance!

If He’ll do it then, He’ll do it now.

If He’ll use them, He’ll use me.

“Give me your son,” Elijah replied. He took him from her arms, carried him to the upper room where he was staying, and laid him on his bed. Then he cried out to the Lord, “Lord my God, have you brought tragedy even on this widow I am staying with, by causing her son to die?” 2 Then he stretched himself out on the boy three times and cried out to the Lord, “Lord my God, let this boy’s life return to him!” 1 Kings 17:19-20

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us. Ephesians 3:2

2. God often uses momentum instead of a moment!
Stop asking if, and start asking how.

Small miracles lead to big miracles.

Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful. Hebrews 10:23

Discussion Questions:What is something you said, “never again” to.

The woman still went to the man of God in her pain. What does that teach us about where to go when we’re hurting?

Elisha had to act more than once before the miracle happened. Why do you think God sometimes requires persistence?

What keeps people from trying again after disappointment? What practical step can you take this week to “try again”?

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Give Them CourageJoshua 1: 2b - 3 NKJV Now therefore, arise, go over this Jordan, you and all this people, to the land which I am giving to them—the children of Israel. 3 Every place that the sole of your foot will tread upon I have given you, as I said to Moses.

Joshua 1: 5 No man shall be able to stand before you all the days of your life; as I was with Moses, so I will be with you. I will not leave you nor forsake you.

Courage is not the absence of fear but obedience in the middle of it.
Joshua 1:6–9Be strong and of good courage, for to this people you shall divide as an inheritance the land which I swore to their fathers to give them. 7 Only be strong and very courageous, that you may observe to do according to all the law which Moses My servant commanded you; do not turn from it to the right hand or to the left, that you may prosper wherever you go.

8 This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you[ shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success. 9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”

Three Keys to Courage:1.Go : Before You Feel Ready

Joshua 1:2 “Now therefore arise…”

2. Lean : Into His Presence, Not Your Power

Joshua 1:5 “I will be with you… I will never leave you nor forsake you.”

3. Listen : Let the Word Get Louder Than Fear

Joshua 1:8 This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night…

Fear rehearses disaster. Faith rehearses truth.There is this moment where GO —> LEAN —> LISTEN —> all collide into one decision: Step!

Joshua 3:13 And it shall come to pass, as soon as the soles of the feet of the priests who bear the ark of the Lord, the Lord of all the earth, shall rest in the waters of the Jordan, that the waters of the Jordan shall be cut off, the waters that come down from upstream, and they shall stand as a heap.

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Sometimes People Suck – week 4 Two Faced People

Hypokrites: Stage actor—One who hides behind a mask.

Hypocrites: Do it and act like you don’t.

Outwardly you look like righteous people, but inwardly your hearts are filled with hypocrisy and lawlessness. Matt 23:28 NLT

1) They don’t know God yet.

Whoever says, “I know him,” but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in that person. I John 2:4

2) They don’t know Better yet.

…I could not address you as people who live by the Spirit but as people who are still worldly—mere infants in Christ. 1 Cor 3:1

3) They do know Both
.

For you are free, yet you are God’s slaves, so don’t use your freedom as an excuse to do evil. 1 Pet 2:16 NLv

1. Protect Them
.

Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. Gal 6:1

…if another believer is overcome by some sin, you who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path. Gal 6:1 NLT

2)Protect Myself

…If someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. Gal 6:1

Pride comes before a fall! So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall! 1 Cor 10:12

3)Check my Blindspot
-

Whenever you are most condemning is often a reflection of where you are most vulnerable.

David burned with anger against the man and said to Nathan, “As surely as the Lord lives, the man who did this must die! He must pay for that lamb four times over, because he did such a thing and had no pity.” Then Nathan said to David, “You are the man!" 2 Sam 12:5-7

If one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring that person back, remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins. James 5:19-20

Discussion Questions:

When you hear the word hypocrite, what comes to mind?

Why do you think hypocrisy is one of the biggest complaints people have about Christians?

The Greek word hypokrites refers to an actor wearing a mask. Where do you see people “wearing masks” today?

What makes loving “two-faced” or hypocritical people especially hard? Where might your strongest criticism of others actually reflect your own struggle?

Have you ever been the one who needed someone to bring you back?

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Critical People

Option 1:
Don't respond.

He did not retaliate when he was insulted, nor threaten revenge when he suffered. He left his case in the hands of God, who always judges fairly. 1 Peter 2:23

A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense. Proverbs 19:11

Option 2:
Respond carefully.

Now the Ephraimites asked Gideon, “Why have you treated us like this? Why didn’t you call us when you went to fight Midian?” And they challenged him vigorously. But he answered them… Judges 8:1-2

When the men of Ephraim heard Gideon’s answer, their anger subsided. Judges 8:3

When emotions are high , wisdom is low.

Option 3:
Listen and make a change.

If you listen to constructive criticism, you will be at home among the wise. If you reject discipline, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding. Proverbs 15:31-32

Always guard your heart

Some people make cutting remarks, but the words of the wise bring healing. Proverbs 12:18

So why do you condemn another believer? Why do you look down on another believer? Remember, we will all stand before the judgment seat of God. Romans 14:10

Yes, each of us will give a personal account to God. So let’s stop condemning each other. Romans 14:12-13

Discussion Questions:

• What is the most ridiculous criticism you’ve received?
• How long has it been since you were last criticized?
• Think of the most critical people you know. What do you think causes all their criticism?
• Pastor Sean said, don’t respond, respond carefully, listen and make a change, and guard your heart. What is your typical response?
• Which do you struggle with more? Being overly critical or overly sensitive to criticism? How can you do better this week?

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Sometimes People Suck – week 3 Needy People1. Give the best Answer.

When he saw Peter and John about to enter, he asked them for money. Peter looked straight at him, as did John. Then Peter said, “Look at us!” So the man gave them his attention, expecting to get something from them. Acts 3:3-5

Then Peter said, “Silver and gold I do not have but what I do have I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk.” Taking him by the right hand, he helped him up, and instantly the man’s feel and angles became strong. Acts 3:6-7

2. Stay Full

Before daybreak the next morning, Jesus got up and went out to an isolated place to pray. Later Simon and the others went out to find him. When they found him, they said, “Everyone is looking for you.” Mark 1:35

You can’t say “
” often if you don’t say “
” occasionally.

3. Don’t play God.

Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Galatians 6:7-8

4. Grow my capacity .

But as for me, I am poor and needy; come quickly to me, O God. You are my help and my deliverer; Lord, do not delay. Psalm 70:5

They aren’t projects in need, they’re people we love

My maturity level can limit my ability to help.

Discussion Questions:

When you hear “needy people,” what comes to mind immediately?

Have you ever been the “needy one” in a season? What did that look like?

Why do you think it’s so hard to love people who “take too much”?

What does “prayerful, strategic giving” look like in real life? What are signs that you are trying to pour from an empty cup? Where in your life do you need to say “no” so you can say a better “yes”?

Where might God be asking you to trust Him more with someone you love?

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Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Deuteronomy 31:6

Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him. “Never, Lord!” he said. “This shall never happen to you!” Matthew 16:22

Jesus turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.” Matthew 16:23

Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. Matthew 16:24

1. Your calling
makes things clear.

The loudest voice
in your life will often determine your direction
.

2. It’s Deeper
than you think.

Jesus turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.” Matthew 16:23

3. Know when to draw a Line
in the Sand.
.

The relationships you have are a combination of what you’ve created
and what you’ve allowed.
.

If you don’t like what you have, change what you expect
and what you accept

People don’t respond to what you say
, but what you enforce

Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. Matthew 16:24

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IT IS FINISHED, BUT IT’S NOT OVER

Early on the first day of the week, while it was still dark, Mary
Magdalene went to the tomb and saw that the stone had been
removed from the entrance. So she came running to Simon
Peter and the other disciple, the one Jesus loved, and said,
“They have taken the Lord out of the tomb, and we don’t know where they have put him!” John 20:1-2

John 20:5

Then the disciples went back to where they were staying. John 20:10

Now Mary stood outside the tomb crying. As she wept, she
bent over to look into the tomb and saw two angels in
white, seated where Jesus’ body had been, one at the head and
the other at the foot. They asked her, “Woman, why are you
crying?” “They have taken my Lord away,” she said, “and I don’t
know where they have put him.” At this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing there, John 20:11-14

Mary Magdalene went to the disciples with the news: “I have
seen the Lord!” And she told them that he had said these things to her. John 20:18

1. Remember the reason

Sin is the root cause of all pain.

To the woman he said, “I will make your pains in childbearing
very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children.
Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.”
To Adam he said, “Because you listened to your wife and ate
fruit from the tree about which I commanded you, ‘You must
not eat from it,’ Cursed is the ground because of you; through
painful toil you will eat food from it all the days of your life. Genesis 3:16-17

For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Romans 3:23

Until you see yourself as a sinner

you’ll never recognize your need for a savior

2. Remember the Cross

For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, and
through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether things
on earth or things in heaven, by making peace through His blood, shed on the cross. Colossians 1:19-20

Jesus didn’t just suffer; He suffered for us.

Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering, yet we
considered him punished by God, stricken by him, and afflicted.
But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for
our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on
him, and by his wounds we are healed. Isaiah 53:4-5

3. Remember the empty tomb

Now Mary stood outside the tomb crying. As she wept, she bent over to look into the tomb… John 20:11

Learn to lean -in and look for Jesus

God is with us and working all things for good

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Are you bold about your faith
in Jesus?

The members of the council were amazed when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, for they could see that they were ordinary men with no special training in the Scriptures. Acts 4:13 NLT

ἰδιῶται

idiotai - ordinary, untrained
,
, with no credentials, no religious status, and outside the traditional system.

… they were astonished and they took note that these men had been with Jesus. Acts 4:13

More Time With Jesus

Boldness increases

Spiritual impact intensifies

Spiritual hunger grows

Less Time With Jesus

Boldness decreases

Spiritual impact diminishes

Drift from Jesus

“And now, O Lord, hear their threats, and give us, your servants, great boldness in preaching your word.” Acts 4:29 NLT

“And now, O Lord, hear their threats, and give us, your servants, great boldness in preaching your word. Stretch out your hand with healing power; may miraculous signs and wonders be done through the name of your holy servant Jesus.” After this prayer, the meeting place shook, and they were all filled with the Holy Spirit. Then they preached the word of God with boldness. Acts 4:29-31 NLT

[The religious leaders] arrested the apostles and put them in the public jail. Acts 5:18

They arrested the apostles and put them in the public jail. But during the night an angel of the Lord opened the doors of the jail and brought them out. Acts 5:18-19

When you walk in obedience to God, you wont be suprised
by the miracles of God.

“Go, stand in the temple courts,” he said, “and tell the people all about this new life.” At daybreak they entered the temple courts, as they had been told, and began to teach the people. … Acts 5:20-21

Is your faith strong enough to believe
in Jesus, but too timid to be bold
for Him?

Discussion Questions:

What topics or things do you talk about boldly? Why are you bold about this thing?

Talk about a time when you had bold faith. How did your relationship with Jesus fuel your obedience to God?

On a scale of 1-10, how bold are you about your faith? How does your current relationship with Jesus impact your answer?

Share openly about your relationship with Jesus. Are there areas where you’re too timid to be bold for Him?

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As Jesus and his disciples approached Jerusalem, they came to the towns of Bethphage and Bethany on the Mount of Olives. Jesus sent two of them on ahead. “Go into that village over there,” he told them. “As soon as you enter it, you will see a young donkey tied there that no one has ever ridden. Untie it and bring it here. If anyone asks, ‘What are you doing?’ just say, ‘The Lord needs it and will return it soon.’” The two disciples left and found the colt standing in the street, tied outside the front door. As they were untying it, some bystanders demanded, “What are you doing, untying that colt?” They said what Jesus had told them to say, and they were permitted to take it. Then they brought the colt to Jesus and threw their garments over it, and he sat on it. Mark 11:4-7

Many in the crowd spread their garments on the road ahead of him, and others spread leafy branches they had cut in the fields. Jesus was in the center of the procession, and the people all around him were shouting, “Hosanna!” “Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord!” Mark 11:8-10

Rejoice greatly, Daughter Zion! Shout, Daughter Jerusalem!
See, your king comes to you, righteous and victorious,
lowly and riding on a donkey, on a colt, the foal of a donkey. Zechariah 9:9

God chooses the unlikely

to do the unbelievable

But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things—and the things that are not—to nullify the things that are,1 Corinthians 1:27

Lessons from the Donkey

1. Jesus knows
   Me.

Jesus sent two of them on ahead. “Go into that village over there,” he told them. “As soon as you enter it, you will see a young donkey tied there that no one has ever ridden. Mark 11:1-2

Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten by God. Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows. Luke 12:6-7

He doesn’t cancel
you, He has compassion
on you.

1. Jesus wants
   me.

The two disciples left and found the colt standing in the street, tied outside the front door. As they were untying it, some bystanders demanded, “What are you doing, untying that colt?” They said what Jesus had told them to say, and they were permitted to take it. Then they brought the colt to Jesus and threw their garments over it, and he sat on it. Mark 11:4-7

Jesus wants me free.

It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Galatians 5:1

Jesus wants me close.

1. Jesus wants me in community.

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This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased” Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord. Psalm 19:14

Tongue has the power of life and death. Proverbs 18:21

Like a maniac shooting flaming arrows of death is one who deceives their neighbor and says, “I was only joking!” Proverbs 26:18-19

We can make a large horse go wherever we want by means of a small bit in its mouth. And a small rudder makes a huge ship turn wherever the pilot chooses to go, even though the winds are strong. In the same way, the tongue is a small thing that makes grand speeches. People can tame all kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and fish, but no one can tame the tongue. It is restless and evil, full of deadly poison. James 3:3-5, 7-8

What is impossible
for humans is possible for God!

How to TAME your tongue.

T –Think
before you Speak.

Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry. James 1:19

And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Philippians 4:8

A – Ask God to purify
your heart.

You snakes—how can you say good things when you are evil? For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. Matthew 12:34

The condition
of your heart will be revealed by the content
of your speech

Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Psalm 51:10

M – Meditate on God’s Word.

Garbage in
, Garbage out

This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success. Joshua 1:8

Put God’s word in
now, so it will come out
when you need it.

E – Encounter God’s Presence.

In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord, high and exalted, seated on a throne; and the train of his robe filled the temple. Isaiah 6:1

Woe to me!” I cried. “I am ruined! For I am a man of unclean lips, and I live among a people of unclean lips, and my eyes have seen the King, the Lord Almighty.” Isaiah 6:5

Discussion Questions:

Think about a time when someone’s words deeply encouraged or discouraged you. What did they say, and why did it stick with you?

Psalm 19:14 asks that both our words and our thoughts be acceptable to God. Why do you think the writer includes both speech and meditation of the heart?

When do you most need a yellow light in your conversations?

What practical habits could help you fill your heart with God’s truth so that life-giving words come out naturally?

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Fruitful

“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing… This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples. John 15:5,8

You will know them by their fruits… Even so, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. Matt 7:16-17

Jesus didn’t ask us to wear a costume so we look right, but to crucify our flesh.

How pleased do you think Gods with the
quality of your fruit?

How pleased do you think God is with the
quantity of your fruit?

“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. John 15:5

Jesus is the vine
I am the branch.

𝜇𝜖𝜈𝜔meno: remain, abide, dwell, live in

"Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me." John 15:4

Don’t focus on production
; focus on connection.

BE THE BRANCH

Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. Galatians 5:25

Discussion Questions:

What stood out in Sunday’s message to you?

Why do you think Jesus used something as simple as fruit to describe spiritual life?

Why do you think Jesus repeats the word “remain” so many times in John chapter 15?

If someone at your work, school, or neighborhood described you, what kind of “fruit” do you think they would say they see?

Which practices help you stay connected to Christ the most? As a group, how can we help one another stay connected to the Vine this week?

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United in Love

“My prayer is … that all of them may be one … so that the world may believe that you have sent me. I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one … so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.” John 17:20-23

God approves of a Church that is United in Love.

There are six things the Lord hates, seven that are detestable to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil, a false witness who pours out lies and a person who stirs up conflict in the community. Prov 6:16-19

• One enemy

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, (I’m out) but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Eph 6:12

“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy …” John 10:10

• One mission

Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit … Matt 28:19

• One strategy

A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you (same politics)love one another. John 13:34-35

Discussion Questions:

What does being “United in Love “ mean from the sermon this week?

Why is it important at Relate? In your community? In your home?

What is one way you can walk out being United in Love this week?

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And a voice from heaven said, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased.” Matt 3:17

And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him. Hebrews 11:6 NIV

Faith is not: Busyness

So we make it our goal to please Him, 2 Corinthians 5:9a NIV

Enoch walked faithfully with God; then he was no more, because God took him away. Genesis 5:24

Faith is not a: Moment

For we live by faith, not by sight. 2 Corinthians 5:7

Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. Hebrews 11:1

Faith: Fades
when: Fear
grows louder

3 ways to have AMAZING faith!

1. Amazing faith comes from: Hearing
God

So faith comes from what is heard, and what is heard comes through the message about Christ. Romans 10:17

2. Amazing faith comes from: Remembering
God

“We will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord,

his power, and the wonders he has done…

so the next generation would know them…

and they in turn would tell their children.

Then they would put their trust in God.”

Psalm 78:4–7

3. Amazing faith uses what you: Already Have

(1)Then Moses answered, “What if they do not believe me or listen to my voice? For they may say, ‘The LORD has not appeared to you.’”

(2)And the LORD asked him, “What is that in your hand?”

“A staff,” he replied. Exodus 4:2

“He could not do any miracles there, except lay his hands on a few sick people and heal them. He was amazed at their lack of faith. Mark 6:5–6 (NIV)

“When Jesus heard this, he was amazed at him, and turning to the crowd following him, he said, ‘I tell you, I have not found such great faith even in Israel.’ Luke 7:9 (NIV)

Only two different kinds of people amazed Him:
Weak faith and
Strong faith

Which one are You?

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Approved – week 1 – The Fear of the Lord

And a voice from heaven said, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased.” Matt 3:17

A church that pleases God is made up of people who are pleasing God.

3 Qualities of a Church That Pleases God

• Fears the Lord
• Full of Faith (without faith impossible to please God)
• A Loving

A reverential awe that produces obedience, intimacy, and alignment with God’s heart.

The Lord delights in those who fear him, who put their hope in his unfailing love. Psalm 147:11

Fearing, awe-filled, reverently aware of God’s holiness and authority.

Low View of God

• Treat God’s Word casually.
• Ignore conviction and rationalize sin.
• Know what God says, but do what you want.

High View of God

• Take God’s Word seriously.
• Repent of your sins quickly.
• Obey God with reverence no matter the cost.

“I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. 45You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. 46You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet.” Luke 7:44-46

When we lose our awe of God, the God we serve gets smaller.

…Work hard to show the results of your salvation, obeying God with deep reverence and fear. For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him. Phil 2:12-13 NLT

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Join Relate on superbowl sunday, and chose which of the 5 ads best descibes where you are at this week!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iNxvsxU2rJE (Alexa)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4TMQVYiIKk (Nike)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yv8NRl-C3WA (KFC)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7KENDxBFaU (Uber)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oY9Mlz99z0A (Big Brother Big Sister)

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Relate's 8th Birthday Party and the How to be Bold Panel!

Join our Leadership team in a discussion about practical ways to Bold this Year!

• We have to be bold for God in a wise way.
• Obedience is our job, the outcome is God's job
• You've got to die to yourself and be obedient, because obedience begets blessing every single time.
• Even the timid boldness is the yes that God needs.
• You don't grow when you stay in the same pot you've been in.
• Obedience is God's invitation to you.
• Life is letting others in and letting the walls down.
• Obedience to God can mean saying no to yourself.
• God is instructing you, and he wants you to follow his direction.
• We can be accountable to God and still keep our secret things hidden.
• If we're not accountable to somebody then we're accountable to nobody

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Just Believe

I looked up and saw a man dressed in linen clothing, with a belt of pure gold around his waist. His body looked like a precious gem. His face flashed like lightning, and his eyes flamed like torches. His arms and feet shone like polished bronze, and his voice roared like a vast multitude of people. Only I, Daniel, saw this vision. The men with me saw nothing, but they were suddenly terrified and ran away to hide. So I was left there all alone to see this amazing vision. Daniel 10:5-8

My strength left me, my face grew deathly pale, and I felt very weak. Then I heard the man speak, and when I heard the sound of his voice, I fainted and lay there with my face to the ground. Daniel 10:8-9 1.

GOD CARES ABOUT YOU MORE THAN YOU DO.

Just then a hand touched me and lifted me, still trembling, to my hands and knees. And the man said to me, “Daniel, you are very precious to God, so listen carefully to what I have to say to you. Stand up, for I have been sent to you.” When he said this to me, I stood up, still trembling. Daniel 10:10-11

But you’ll welcome us with open arms when we run for cover to you. Let the party last all night! Stand guard over our celebration. You are famous, God, for welcoming God-seekers, for decking us out in delight. Psalm 5:11msg

1. GOD IS DOING MORE THAN YOU UNDERSTAND.

Then he said, “Don’t be afraid, Daniel. Since the first day you began to pray for understanding and to humble yourself before your God, your request has been heard in heaven. I have come in answer to your prayer. But for twenty-one days the spirit prince of the kingdom of Persia blocked my way. Then Michael, one of the archangels, came to help me, and I left him there with the spirit prince of the kingdom of Persia. Daniel 10:12-13

Just because you can’t see anything happening, doesn’t mean He isn’t working.

1. GOD’S STRENGTH IS MADE PERFECT IN YOUR WEAKNESS.

How can someone like me, your servant, talk to you, my lord? My strength is gone, and I can hardly breathe.” Then the one who looked like a man touched me again, and I felt my strength returning. “Don’t be afraid,” he said, “for you are very precious to God. Peace! Be encouraged! Be strong!” Daniel 10:17-19

Until you understand your weakness, you won’t appreciate God’s strength.

Discussion Questions:

Where in your life have you been praying for something that feels stuck right now?

If your spiritual life were a diet, would you say you are feasting, snacking, or starving right now?

How does that show up in your faith, peace, or confidence?

How does it change your perspective to think that God may be doing more than you can see in your situation?

What is one area where you feel weak right now and need God’s strength instead of trying to handle it on your own?

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Get Strong

The wicked run away when no one is chasing them,
but the godly are as bold as lions. Proverbs 18:1

It pleased Darius to appoint 120 satraps to rule throughout the kingdom, with three administrators over them, one of whom was Daniel. The satraps were made accountable to them so that the king might not suffer loss. Now Daniel so distinguished himself among the administrators and the satraps by his exceptional qualities that the king planned to set him over the whole kingdom. Daniel 6:1-3

1. EXPECT OPPOSITION

At this, the administrators and the satraps tried to find grounds for charges against Daniel in his conduct of government affairs, but they were unable to do so. They could find no corruption in him, because he was trustworthy and neither corrupt nor negligent. Finally these men said, “We will never find any basis for charges against this man Daniel unless it has something to do with the law of his God.” Daniel 6:4-5

2. KNEEL AND PRAY.

Now when Daniel learned that the decree had been published, he went home to his upstairs room where the windows opened toward Jerusalem. Three times a day he got down on his knees and prayed, giving thanks to his God, just as he had done before. Daniel 6:10

Prayer is our First Response not our Last Resort

3. TRUST GOD WITH THE RESULTS.

My God sent his angel, and he shut the mouths of the lions. They have not hurt me, because I was found innocent in his sight. Nor have I ever done any wrong before you, Your Majesty.” The king was overjoyed and gave orders to lift Daniel out of the den. And when Daniel was lifted from the den, no wound was found on him, because he had trusted in his God. Daniel 6:22-23

Discussion Questions

When you hear the word BOLD, what comes to mind first: personality, action, faith, or conflict?

Can you think of a time when doing the right thing brought resistance instead of applause?

What practical rhythms of prayer could help you stay spiritually strong throughout the day?

Where do you struggle most with the “what ifs” of faith?

Where is God asking you to be bold instead of blending in right now?

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Stand Out is a call to bold faith in a culture that rewards compromise. The godly are as bold as lions, not because they are loud, but because they are rooted.
Daniel and his friends were pressured to blend in, renamed, retrained, and offered comfort in exchange for conviction. They chose obedience over convenience and decided early who they belonged to.

Part-time Christianity doesn’t hold up under pressure. Standing firm requires intention, discipline, and spiritual armor. Fasting is giving up something important to gain something more important.

We all fall short of God’s standard, but grace empowers us to stand. Better to be remembered for standing out than forgotten for blending in.

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For to us a child is born to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Isaiah 9:6

Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Luke 2:10

no one came to my support, but everyone deserted me. May it notbe held against them. But the Lord stood at my side and gave me strength so that through me the message might be proclaimed. 2 Timothy 4:16-17

The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel”. Matthew 1:23

Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the reign of King Herod. About that time some wise men from eastern lands arrived in Jerusalem, asking, “Where is the newborn king of the Jews? We saw his star as it rose, and we have come to worship him.” Matthew 2:1-2

Stay Connected to the Body of Christ and your purpose

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. Romans 15:13

Discussion Questions:

What is one area of your life right now where hope feels delayed or “deferred,” like Proverbs 13:12 describes?

Why do you think we isolate ourselves when life hurts, even though we’re created for connection?

What would a “fresh start with God” look like for you this Christmas season?

Who in your world might be spiritually or emotionally “home alone” this season? How can you help them?

What is one way you can practice overflowing hope, not just receiving it, but giving it awa

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What you do and How you do it matters.

And I saw a great white throne and the one sitting on it. The earth and sky fled from his presence, but they found no place to hide. I saw the dead, both great and small, standing before God’s throne. And the books were opened, including the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to what they had done, as recorded in the books. Revelation 20:11-12

For we must all stand before Christ to be judged. We will each receive whatever we deserve for the good or evil we have done in this earthly body. 2 Corinthians 5:10

For we are co-workers in God’s service; you are God’s field,God’s building. By the grace God has given me, I laid a foundation as a wise builder, and someone else is building on it. But each one should build with care. For no one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ. If anyone builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay or straw, their work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each person’s work. If what has been built survives, the builder will receive a reward. If it is burned up, the builder will suffer loss but yet will be saved—even though only as one escaping through the flames. 1 Corinthians 3:9-15 NIV

For the Son of Manis going to come in his Father’s glory with his angels, and then he will reward each person according to what they have done. Matthew 16:37

Before Jesus, your whole life is about finding Jesus. Once you find Jesus, your whole life is about making an impact for eternity

Because Heaven and Hell are Real:

1. I will intentionally give what I have.

You will be made rich in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God. 2 Corinthians 9:11

1. I will intentionally serve others.

Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must become your slave. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Matthew 20:26-28

1. I will intentionally share Christ with others.

We are Christ’s ambassadors; God is making His appeal through us. 2 Corinthians 5:20

Discussion Questions:

When you hear Revelation 20 described as a real moment you’ll stand in, what rises up in you first? Curiosity, fear, hope, urgency?

People often don’t reject Jesus, they reject the version of Him they’ve seen in us. How does that challenge you without condemning you?

Sharing Christ can feel intimidating. What makes it hard for you?

What makes it exciting?

Scripture shows that individual gifts become exponential when offered together. How does it change your perspective to think of your generosity as part of something bigger than yourself?

If we truly believed heaven and hell are real, how might that shape the passion behind the offering we bring and the work it fuel.

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Better to have less of what doesn’t matter and more of what does

Better one handful with tranquility than two handfuls with toil and chasing after the wind. Ecclesiastes 4:6

…“Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions.” Luke 12:15

One Handful or Two?

1. THROW OUT.

When the young man heard this, he went away sad, because he had great wealth. Matthew 19:22

2 REASONS WE HOLD STUFF:

FEAR

SENTIMENT

2. BUY LESS.

Cause my heart to bow before your words of wisdom and not to the wealth of this world. Help me turn my eyes away from illusions so that I pursue only that which is true… Psalms 119:36-37 TPT

3. GIVE MORE.

Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. 1 Timothy 6:17

Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share. In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life. 1 Timothy 6:17-18

Discussion Questions:

If you had to pack one quirky, totally unnecessary item for a year-long trip (something that makes zero sense but you’d miss it), what would you bring and why?

What would “one handful living” practically look like for you?

Which cultural pressure to have more affects you the most?

What memories show you that experiences matter more than stuff?

Which is hardest for you: throwing out, buying less, or giving more?

If you entered 2026 “traveling light,” what would stay and what would go?

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Today’s message from Pastor Luigi is a soul-level reminder that we’re all a work in progress and God isn’t finished with us yet. Drawing from Ephesians 2:10 and Philippians 1:6, we look at why we shouldn’t put a period where God is still writing a command. This episode unpacks the vision of a church that reaches imperfect people, centers on the grace of the Gospel, and refuses to confuse Christianity with perfectionism.

You’ll hear about the silent second pandemic of apathy, the call to emotional maturity through Luke 2:52 and Hebrews 5, and the challenge to rise above tradition while embracing the messy beauty of growth. This message pushes us to love the Giver more than the gifts, move beyond milk-level spirituality, and let our faith actually show up.

A timely, needed word for anyone who feels stuck, weary, or unsure if they’re making progress. God began a good work in you — and He intends to complete it.

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Pastor Susan wraps up the Good In Tension series this week!

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Jesus came and told his disciples, “I have been given all authority in heaven and on earth. Therefore, go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Teach these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you. And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” Matthew 28:18

We exist to help people become fully engaged followers of Jesus.

A man with leprosy came to him and begged him on his knees, “If you are willing, you can make me clean.” Jesus was indignant. He reached out his hand and touched the man. “I am willing,” he said. “Be clean!” Immediately the leprosy left him and he was cleansed. Jesus sent him away at once with a strong warning: “See that you don’t tell this to anyone. But go, show yourself to the priest and offer the sacrifices that Moses commanded for your cleansing, as a testimony to them.” Instead he went out and began to talk freely, spreading the news. As a result, Jesus could no longer enter a town openly but stayed outside in lonely places. Yet the people still came to him from everywhere. Mark 1:40-45

Jesus was indignant. Mark 1:41

3 Lessons for Going out:

1. Recognition

2. Response

He reached out his hand and touched the man. Mark 1:41

1. Risk

Jesus could no longer enter a town openly but stayed outside in lonely places. Mark 1:45

For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many. Mark 10:45

But when Peter came to Antioch, I had to oppose him to his face, for what he did was very wrong. When he first arrived, he ate with the Gentile believers, who were not circumcised. But afterward, when some friends of James came, Peter wouldn’t eat with the Gentiles anymore. He was afraid of criticism from these people who insisted on the necessity of circumcision. As a result, other Jewish believers followed Peter’s hypocrisy, and even Barnabas was led astray by their hypocrisy. Galatians 2:11-13 NLT

1. Familiarity Breeds Comfort.

2. Fear keeps us captive.

3. Inertia is a powerful force.

4. Don’t have to wait till you’re perfect.

Discussion Questions:

What’s something you used to think was totally normal until you went

to someone else’s house and realized… nope, that’s just my family?

How can being an “insider” in church become a spiritual danger?

Have you ever caught yourself “blocking traffic” spiritually

comfortable but not moving?

When Jesus saw the leper, He didn’t just notice, He felt. What’s

something happening around you right now that stirs emotions?

How do you personally fight the pull toward comfort or routine faith?

Jesus risked His reputation and comfort for people on the outside.

What “risk” might obedience to God look like for you right now?

What step could you take this week to move

from spectator to servant?

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We might like facts, but we love stories—and God has been writing ours from the very beginning. In this week’s message, Pastor Shawn Cooper reminds us that the gospel isn’t just about us finding God; it’s about God finding us. Every messy chapter, every scar, and every moment of grace is part of His redemptive story.

Discover why your story is beautiful—not because of how it starts, but because Jesus is the main character. Learn how to embrace the tension, share your testimony, and live on mission wherever your feet are.

“Faith is personal, not private. Share your story before it’s too late.” — Pastor Shawn Cooper

🕊 Listen now and be reminded: God is rewriting your story by His grace, one page at a time.

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Welcome to the Relate Church Podcast — where faith meets real life. Each week, Pastors Sean and Angela Mooney bring messages that challenge comfort, build courage, and call believers to live on mission.

We believe the local church is God’s plan A for the world — a place to know God, find freedom, discover purpose, and make a difference.

From honest conversations to powerful sermons, this podcast helps you grow stronger in faith, steadier in hope, and more passionate about the mission.

👉 New episodes every Monday from our Sunday gatherings at Relate Community Church in Spring, TX.

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Good In Tension Week 1: Grace and Truth

Jesus’ way of Loving was:

Messy, Inconsistent, Unfair, Confusing

The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth. John 1:14 NIV

It’s not a problem to solve, it’s a tension to manage.

Now the tax collectors and sinners were all gathering around to hear Jesus. But the Pharisees and the teachers of the law muttered, “This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.”Then Jesus told them this parable: “Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Doesn’t he leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it? And when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders and goes home. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, ‘Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.’ I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety -nine righteous persons who do not need to repent. Luke 15:1-8

“When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! 18 I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’ 20 So he got up and went to his father. “But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him. “The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’“But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate. For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate. Luke 15:17-24

“The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. But he answered his father, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’ “‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’” Luke 15:28-32

God could not love you more. Nothing you do will cause Him to love you less.

Discussion Questions:

What’s a funny or everyday “tension” you deal with, something like coffee vs. sleep or eating healthy vs. eating happy?

When you hear the phrase “full of grace and truth,” which word do you personally lean toward, grace or truth.

How have you seen people misuse grace or truth — leaning too hard on one side and missing the heart of Jesus?

In that story, Jesus says, “I don’t condemn you. Go and leave your life of sin.” How does that sentence hold tension between grace and truth?

What does it mean for Relate Church (or your small group) to be “comfortable in the messy”?

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What if the verse you’ve always treated like a warm blanket is actually a wake-up call? We take a hard, hopeful look at James 4:8 and discover that “draw near to God” isn’t about vibes or goosebumps but about culture, movement, and surrender. We share a tangible generosity update—kitchens, dorms, and classrooms coming to life at a Kenyan orphanage, plus an adopted neighborhood school—and connect it to the deeper question underneath it all: what culture is shaping your heart?

We unpack James 3–4 to contrast two competing cultures—heaven-down and hell-up—and show how the fruit of your life reveals the soil beneath it. Envy, selfish ambition, and constant conflict don’t just happen; they grow from a culture we’ve chosen, often by drift more than decision. You’ll hear why nearness requires agency (you move first), why drift is inevitable without intention, and how simple, honest rhythms—a guarded first 15 minutes with God, gathered worship, service that costs, and obedience that sticks—can reorient your days.

Along the way, we demystify spiritual “signals” that aren’t biblical, revisit God’s own preferences for worship, and sit with a surprising truth: the Almighty yearns jealously for your nearness. Not a transactional meeting, but a life shared. We end with a clear pathway to reset—submit to God, resist the devil, cleanse your hands, purify your heart, humble yourself—and an invitation to choose a heaven-down culture in the places that matter most.

If this challenged you or sparked a needed reset, share it with a friend, subscribe for more, and leave a review to help others find the show. What one step will you take today to paddle back to nearness?

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Romans 8:28

And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God’s own will. And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son, so that his Son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And having chosen them, he called them to come to him. And having called them, he gave them right standing with himself. And having given them right standing, he gave them his glory. Romans 8:29-30

1. THE PROMISE.

I want to do what is good, but I don’t. I don’t want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway. Romans 7:19-20

For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son Romans 8:29-30

2. THE PROCESS.

God will permit what He hates to accomplish that which He loves. - Joni Erickson Tada

For I know that this will turn out for my deliverance through your prayer and the supply of the Spirit of Jesus Christ Philippians 1:19

knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. James 1:3

And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope. Romans 5:3

With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day. The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. 2 Peter 3:8-9

But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good, in order to bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive. Genesis 50:20

Synergy = the interaction or cooperation of two or more organizations, substances, or other agents to produce a combined effect greater than the sum of their separate effects.

For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. Romans 8:18

3. THE POWER.

1. HUMBLE YOURSELF.
2. FOLLOW JESUS.

Discussion Questions:

What’s something other people call “good” that you secretly think is not good at all? (Think pineapple on pizza, watching golf, or sand in your shoes at the beach.)

Romans 8:28 says God works “for the good.” How do you usually define “good” in your own life?

Coffee takes time to brew; growth takes time too. Where do you struggle most with waiting on God’s process?

How does remembering heaven as the ultimate “good” reframe the way you handle struggles here and now?

What are some practical ways you can rely on the Spirit this week instead of your own power?

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Get Free

Get rid of all bitterness, rage, and anger, brawling, and slander, along with every form of malice. Ephesians 4:31

…forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:31-32

Forgiveness is the key that unlocks you from the trap of an offense.

Then Peter came to him and asked, “Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?” No, not seven times,” Jesus replied, “but seventy times seven!” Matthew 18:21-22

Then the king called in the man he had forgiven and said, ‘You evil servant! I forgave you that tremendous debt because you pleaded with me. Shouldn’t you have mercy on your fellow servant, just as I had mercy on you?’ Then the angry king sent the man to prison to be tortured until he had paid his entire debt. “That’s what my heavenly Father will do to you if you refuse to forgive your brothers and sisters from your heart.” Matthew 18:32-35

1. Forgiveness is not saying it's OK.

Forgiveness is not saying it’s ok, it’s saying you don't owe me.

2. Forgiveness is not a feeling .

For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matthew 6:21

Forgiveness isn’t a feeling, it’s a Decision.

3. Forgiveness is not Forgetting.

Forgiveness is remembering what Jesus did for you and offering the same to others.

4. Forgiveness is not the same as Trust.

5. Forgiveness is not dependent on someone saying I'm sorry.

Forgiveness only requires one person, while reconciliation requires
two or more.

6. Forgiveness is not fair.

He [God] does not treat us as our sins deserve… Psalm 103:10

Forgiveness is: The Word Release or Let Go.

Challenge:

1. Accept God’s forgiveness and follow Jesus.

2. Offer forgiveness and be free.

Discussion Questions:

What’s a small thing that easily irritates you - social media comments, traffic, jokes that hit wrong? Why do those little offenses stick to us?

The outline says “bitterness comes from an offense.” Why do you think it’s so hard to notice bitterness taking root until it’s already producing fruit?

How does the parable of the unforgiving servant challenge the way we think about justice and fairness?

How does receiving God’s forgiveness first make it possible to extend forgiveness to others?

What would it look like for you this week to take one step toward releasing an offense—small or big?

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I’m Fine

King Ahab told his wife Jezebel everything that Elijah had done and how he had put all the prophets of Baal to death. She sent a message to Elijah: “May the gods strike me dead if by this time tomorrow I don't do the same thing to you that you did to the prophets.” // Elijah was afraid and fled for his life; he took his servant and went to Beersheba in Judah. Leaving the servant there, Elijah walked a whole day into the wilderness. He stopped and sat down in the shade of a tree and wished he would die. “It's too much, Lord,” he prayed. “Take away my life; I might as well be dead!” There he went into a cave to spend the night. Suddenly the Lord spoke to him, “Elijah, what are you doing here?” He answered, “Lord God Almighty, I have always served you—you alone. But the people of Israel have broken their covenant with you, torn down your altars, and killed all your prophets. I am the only one left—and they are trying to kill me!” 1 Kings 19:9-10

What happens when you allow Offense to take root?

1. You Take Responsibility For a Battle That isn't Yours.

2. Your Thinking Gets Out Of balance.

Better one handful with tranquility than two handfuls with toil and chasing after the wind. Ecclesiastes 4:6 NIV

3. You isolate Yourself In A Cave.

The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone.”

Genesis 2:18 NIV

4. You Let The Noise Around You overpower God’s Voice.

“Go out and stand before me on top of the mountain,” the Lord said to him. Then the Lord passed by and sent a furious wind that split the hills and shattered the rocks—but the Lord was not in the wind. The wind stopped blowing, and then there was an earthquake—but the Lord was not in the earthquake. After the earthquake there was a fire—but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire there was the soft whisper of a voice. When Elijah heard it, he covered his face with his cloak and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave. A voice said to him, “Elijah, what are you doing here?” He answered, “Lord God Almighty, I have always served you—you alone. But the people of Israel have broken their covenant with you, torn down your altars, and killed all your prophets. I am the only one left—and they are trying to kill me.” 1 Kings 19:11-14

5. You Start Believing The lies You Tell Yourself.

And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise… Then the God of peace will be with you.

Philippians 4:8-9 NLT

6. You forfeit The Role God Has Given You

The Lord said, “Return to the wilderness near Damascus, then enter the city and anoint Hazael as king of Syria; anoint Jehu son of Nimshi as king of Israel, and anoint Elisha son of Shaphat from Abel Meholah to succeed you as prophet. 1 Kings 19:15-16

Discussion Questions:

Growing up, how did your family handle payback? (Examples: siblings getting even, playful revenge, or getting even.)

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Vengeance is Mine

Offense is the Greek Word SKANDALON: the bait that triggers a trap to close when an animal touches it

Avoiding an offense is impossible but living offended is a choice.

When we feel wronged, it feels right to get revenge.

If Cain is avenged seven times, then Lamech seventy-seven times. Genesis. 4:24

It’s right to want justice , but it’s wrong to take revenge .

But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. Luke 6:27-28

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Romans 12:2

Do not repay anyone evil for evil… If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Romans 12:17-18

Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. Romans 12:19

1. It’s right to want justice, but it’s wrong to take revenge .

Revenge doesn’t remove the pain; it actually magnifies it.

2. It’s God's Job , and He is very good at it.

Responding to evil with evil doesn’t overcome
it. It only adds to it.

Come, therefore, let us now kill him and cast him into some pit… we shall see what will become of his dreams! Gen 37:20

You plotted evil against me, but God turned it into good, in order to preserve the lives of many people who are alive today because of what happened. Genesis 50:20

1. Leave Room = Give God the Opportunity to Avenge Us.

2. When You Take Revenge, You Remove God.

Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Romans 12:21

Discussion Questions:

Growing up, how did your family handle payback? (Examples: siblings getting even, playful revenge, or getting even.)

Romans 12:19 says, “It is mine to avenge; I will repay, says the Lord.” Why is it so hard to believe God will handle it?

Joseph told his brothers, “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good” (Gen. 50:20). How can that perspective change the way we look at people who have hurt us?

How can long-term unforgiveness or hidden bitterness quietly erode spiritual maturity, even in seasoned believers?

What would it look like for you to “step over the offense” and leave room for God?

This week, what’s one way you can redirect that energy into something good?

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The Bait

And then many will be offended, will betray one another, and will hate one another. Matthew 24:10

1. Offenses are going to happen.

2. The opportunities for new offenses are Limitless.

Then He said to the disciples, “It is impossible that no offenses should come… Luke 17:1

Offense is the Greek Word SKANDALON: the bait
that triggers a trap to close when an animal touches it

Holding on to an offense allows bitterness
to sink its fangs into your heart.

God’s plans for your future are too big for you to hold on to small offenses from your past.

Avoiding an offense is impossible
but living offended is a choice

.A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense. Proverbs 19:11

1. The Wisest People Overlook Offenses.

If your brother sins against you... seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns to you, saying, ‘I repent,’ you shall forgive him.” Luke 17:3-5

And the apostles said to the Lord, “Increase our faith.” Luke 17:3-5

2. Overlooking Offense = "Pass Over / Step Over” it.

3. Step Over an Offense = Close the Gap
with Love.

Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs. Proverbs 10:12

Two options with an offense:

Accuse – assume the worst
about someone

Love – Assume the Best
about someone’s intentions

A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense. Proverbs 19:11

Discussion Questions:

What’s a funny or random thing that has offended you before (like traffic, social media, or even Chick-fil-A drive-thru merging)?

On a scale of 1–10, how easily do you think you get offended? Why?

Have you ever been caught in the trap of offense? What happened, and how did it affect your relationships, joy, or walk with God?

How do small offenses (like online comments, driving, or coworkers) add up to create big bitterness over time?

Why do you think overlooking offense feels weak in the moment—but is actually a sign of wisdom and strength?

What’s one offense you’re holding onto right now? What would it look like to “step over it” instead of staying stuck in it?

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But the time is coming—indeed it’s here now—when true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and in truth. The Father is looking for those who will worship him that way. John 4:23

1. Worship Isn’t Limited to a segment of People

Romans 1:21–25 (NIV)

“For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like a mortal human being and birds and animals and reptiles. Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.”

2. Worship Isn’t Limited to a segment of Life

Matthew 6:33 (NIV) — “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

3. True Worship is a whole Life Response

John 4:19–24 (NIV)

“Woman,” Jesus replied, “believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.”

4. Why does Worship Matter?

- Because you become what you worship

Psalm 115:2

1 Not to us, Lord, not to us

but to your name be the glory,

because of your love and faithfulness.

2 Why do the nations say,

“Where is their God?”

3 Our God is in heaven;

he does whatever pleases him.

4 But their idols are silver and gold,

made by human hands.

5 They have mouths, but cannot speak,

eyes, but cannot see.

6 They have ears, but cannot hear,

noses, but cannot smell.

7 They have hands, but cannot feel,

feet, but cannot walk,

nor can they utter a sound with their throats.

8 Those who make them will be like them,

and so will all who trust in them

- Because You Only Get one shot

Isaiah 42:5

“This is what God the Lord says—

the Creator of the heavens, who stretches them out,

who spreads out the earth with all that springs from it,

who gives breath to His people,

and life to those who walk on it.

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Worship is a Weapon

But the time is coming—indeed it’s here now—when true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and in truth. The Father is looking for those who will worship him that way. John 4:23

Jesus isn’t interested in a casual relationship with you

One day as we were going down to the place of prayer, we met a slave girl who had a spirit that enabled her to tell the future. She earned a lot of money for her masters by telling fortunes. She followed Paul and the rest of us, shouting, “These men are servants of the Most-High God, and they have come to tell you how to be saved.” This went on day after day until Paul got so exasperated that he turned and said to the demon within her, “I command you in the name of Jesus Christ to come out of her.” And instantly it left her. Her masters’ hopes of wealth were now shattered, so they grabbed Paul and Silas and dragged them before the authorities at the marketplace. “The whole city is in an uproar because of these Jews!” they shouted to the city officials. “They are teaching customs that are illegal for us Romans to practice.” A mob quickly formed against Paul and Silas, and the city officials ordered them stripped and beaten with wooden rods. They were severely beaten, and then they were thrown into prison. The jailer was ordered to make sure they didn’t escape. So the jailer put them into the inner dungeon and clamped their feet in the stocks.

Acts 16:16-34

1. Life is Not Fair .

For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike. Matthew 5:45

Around midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening. Suddenly, there was a massive earthquake, and the prison was shaken to its foundations. All the doors immediately flew open, and the chains of every prisoner fell off. Acts 16:16-34

2. Look Up .

The jailer woke up to see the prison doors wide open. He assumed the prisoners had escaped, so he drew his sword to kill himself. But Paul shouted to him, “Stop! Don’t kill yourself! We are all here!” The jailer called for lights and ran to the dungeon and fell down trembling before Paul and Silas. Then he brought them out and asked, “Sirs, what must I do to be saved?” They replied, “Believe in the Lord Jesus and you will be saved, along with everyone in your household.” And they shared the word of the Lord with him and with all who lived in his household. Acts 16:16-34

3. There is an assignment in the Pit.

Even at that hour of the night, the jailer cared for them and washed their wounds. Then he and everyone in his household were immediately baptized. He brought them into his house and set a meal before them, and he and his entire household rejoiced because they all believed in God. Acts 16:16-3

4. Worship Moves the Immovable .

Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. James 4:8

When the praise Goes Up - Your God Shows Up .

Discussion Questions:

What’s one idea from the message that really stood out to you? Why did this idea grab your attention?

Can you think of a time in Scripture when worship shifted the atmosphere or changed the outcome of a battle?

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We live in a world full of filters, facades, and fake—it’s hard to know what’s real anymore. But in John 4:23, Jesus says the Father is looking for something specific: true worshipers. Not perfect ones. Not polished ones. Real ones.

This Sunday, we’re talking about what it means to worship in spirit and in truth—not just with a song, but with your everyday life. If you’ve ever wondered if your worship matters, or how to draw close to God when life is messy, this one’s for you. Come ready. Come honest. God’s looking for the real ones.

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Goodness transforms every environment it enters. Just as light immediately changes a dark room, true biblical goodness changes the culture, people, and atmosphere around it. In this final installment of our Fruitful Summer series, guest speaker Talon unpacks the profound meaning of "agathosune" – the Greek word for goodness found in Galatians 5:22.

The essence of biblical goodness can be distilled into a powerful formula: doing the right thing, the right way, for the right reason. This isn't about feelings or self-perception but active moral excellence that manifests through our actions. When we examine the obstacles to goodness, we discover two categories of sin that battle against it: sins of commission (actively doing wrong) and sins of omission (failing to do right when we should). These sins of omission often flourish in the comfortable, convenient spaces of our lives.

Talon shares a remarkable real-world example of goodness in action through his non-profit organization, Seventh Beacon, which combats child exploitation on the internet. Their work embodies the definition of biblical goodness – sacrificially doing what's right, with ethical methods, motivated purely by the desire to protect vulnerable children. The results are staggering: in just six months, they've helped remove over 52 terabytes of harmful material, impacting an estimated 15,600 children.

As we conclude this series on the fruits of the Spirit, we're called to examine where goodness is evident in our lives and relationships. Are we allowing God's work to produce this fruit not just within us but flowing through us to transform our homes, workplaces, and communities? Next week, we'll shift focus to prayer and worship as we enter a new season of stretching our faith to reach higher levels.

Does your life spread goodness that transforms? When was the last time your presence changed the atmosphere around you? Join us next Sunday as we begin our journey into deeper worship and prayer.

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What if the world has been selling us a counterfeit version of joy? In this enlightening exploration of the fruit of the Spirit, our speakers uncover the profound difference between happiness and joy—revealing why this distinction matters for every believer.

Joy isn't just a positive emotion; it's a spiritual superpower. While happiness depends on favorable circumstances, joy remains steadfast regardless of external conditions. As Megan reminds us, "Happiness is external, joy is internal. Happiness depends on our circumstances. Joy depends on Christ." This isn't semantic wordplay—it's a life-changing perspective that transforms how we navigate our most challenging seasons.

The teaching presents a three-dimensional framework for cultivating joy: looking back at God's faithfulness, looking around for purpose in pain, and looking forward with eternal hope. Gwen shares how remembering our salvation and God's past faithfulness creates a foundation for joy. Jackson's powerful testimony of finding Christ after losing his grandfather illustrates how serving others becomes our pathway through grief. Pastor Jason completes the picture by showing how our eternal perspective gives context to temporary struggles.

What makes this message particularly powerful is its practicality. Each speaker offers tangible ways to choose joy—from worship and scripture declaration to serving in community and maintaining eternal perspective. The authenticity of their personal stories demonstrates that joy isn't just theological theory but lived reality, even in life's darkest moments.

Ready to experience the difference between temporary happiness and lasting joy? This message illuminates the path forward. Join us in discovering why joy isn't just nice to have—it's essential for the journey ahead. Your circumstances may not change, but your perspective absolutely can.

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What fuels your daily decisions? Just as vehicles can run on different types of energy, our lives operate on either faith or sight. Pastor Sean challenges us to examine what's truly driving our lives and whether we're passing God's faithfulness tests.

The message unveils a sobering truth: while everyone claims to be faithful, true faithfulness is exceedingly rare. God isn't just casually hoping we'll develop faith—He's actively searching the earth for people whose hearts are fully committed to Him, people He can strengthen and bless. This isn't about God withholding favor but about preparing us to steward greater responsibilities.

Through a creative object lesson using different varieties of apples, Pastor Sean illustrates how we can test the fruit in our own lives. Are we passing the test of little things, where our private integrity shapes our public blessing? Are we acing the talent test by using our God-given abilities to serve others rather than ourselves? And perhaps most challenging, are we enduring the test of tough times with persistence rather than quitting when pressure mounts?

The most profound revelation comes through understanding fruit development. Just as the sweetest Honeycrisp apples require the most "chill hours" (time spent in cold temperatures) to produce their superior flavor, our faith often needs seasons of pressure and discomfort to mature. Many of us pray for God to remove difficulties, not realizing these very challenges are developing the faithfulness He seeks.

Stop running when circumstances get hard. Plant your feet where God has placed you and decide to be faithful—even when it's uncomfortable. Your spiritual fruit doesn't develop despite difficult seasons but often because of them. Let God find you ready and willing when He scans the earth for faithful hearts to strengthen.

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But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23

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But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23

You can’t Learn fruit.

Fruit is the Byproduct of who we are.

On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” “What is written in the Law?” he replied. “How do you read it?” He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” “You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.” But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?” In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side.In the same way a Levite also came there, went over and looked at the man, and then walked on by on the other side. “Then a despised Samaritan came along, and when he saw the man, he felt compassion for him. Luke 10:25-33

I can Keep My Distance

I can be Curious but Uncaring

I can Show Kindness

1. I must see The Needs of people around me.

“Then a despised Samaritan came along, and when he saw the man, he felt compassion for him. Luke 10:33

2. I must sympathize With their Pain.

Then a despised Samaritan came along, and when he saw the man, he felt compassion for him. Luke 10:33

Stop asking: What’s wrong with them?

Ask: What Happened to them?

3. I must seize the Moment to help.

Going over to him, the Samaritan soothed his wounds with olive oil and wine and bandaged them. Luke 10:34

I must be willing to Be Interrupted.

I have to be willing to Face my fears.

4. I must spend whatever it takes.

Then he put the man on his own donkey and took him to an inn, where he took care of him. The next day he handed the innkeeper two silver coins, telling him, ‘Take care of this man. If his bill runs higher than this, I’ll pay you the next time I’m here.’ “What do you think? Which of the three became a neighbor to the man attacked by robbers?” “The one who treated him kindly,” the religion scholar responded. Jesus said, “Go and do the same.” Luke 10:36-37

Being kind to the people in need is like lending to the Lord, and He will repay you for the kindness you have shown. Proverbs 19:17 NCV

Discussion Questions:

What’s one idea from the message that really stood out to you? Why did this idea grab your attention?

Can you think of some examples where we use other’s pain as entertainment?

What are some practical areas of your life where slowing down will help you be more kind?

How can we be more intentional about engaging our feelings to sympathize with other people’s struggles?

What are some common costs to showing kindness and how can we be more prepared to pay them this week?

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June 15, 2025

Fruitful Summer Week 3

The Fruit of Gentleness

1. Gentleness Defuses Conflict

A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1

2. Gentleness Disarms Critics

The Lord’s servant must not quarrel, but must be gentle to everyone, able to teach, and patient, instructing his opponents with gentleness. 2 Timothy 2:24

3. Gentleness is Pursuasive

Gentle speech breaks down rigid defenses. Proverbs 25:15 MSG

4. Gentleness is attractive

As a man of God… pursue what God approves of: godliness, faith, love, endurance, and gentleness. 1 Timothy 6:11 GW

You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God. 1 Peter 3:4 NLT

5. Gentleness earns respect

A woman of gentle grace will be respected. Proverbs 11:16

Moses was a very meek and gentle man. In fact, he was more gentle than anyone on the face of the earth! Numbers 12:3 AMP

6. Gentleness is a witness to unbelievers

Believers should never speak evil of anyone, nor be quarrelsome. Instead they should be gentle and show courtesy to everyone. Titus 3:2

7. Gentleness shows Love Like Jesus.

Husbands, love your wives and be gentle with them. Colossians 3:19

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger [do not exasperate them to the point of resentment with demands that are trivial or unreasonable or humiliating or abusive; nor by showing favoritism or indifference to any of them], but bring them up [tenderly, with lovingkindness] in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. Ephesians 6:4 AMP

Times when I can practice gentleness this week:

When someone serves me

When someone disagrees with me

When someone disappoints me

Discussion Questions:

What’s one idea from the message that really stood out to you? Why did this idea grab your attention?

How does your gentleness grow when you consider what you’re called to carry inside of you as a believer in Christ?

How have you seen gentleness in yourself, or in someone you know, change when your identity and security was found in Christ?

Where do you need to be very intentional in practicing gentleness this week? With whom?

How does the forgiveness and grace shown to us through the cross, help us show the same grace toward others?

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The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Galatians 5:22

The Fruit of Peace

Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the LORD delivereth him out of them all. Psalms 34:19

What we are holding onto determines the outcome.

Who we are holding onto reflects our behavior.

I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in me, and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing. John 15:5

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly. John 10:10

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. John 14:27

And he will be called:Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Isaiah 9:6b

And the peace of God, which passes all understanding, will keep your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7

Peace is not an emotion, it is a Person.

I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world. John 16:33

May the God of peace himself sanctify you wholly; and may your spirit and soul and body be kept sound and blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. I Thessalonians 5:3

What’s one idea from the message that really stood out to you? Why did this idea grab your attention?

Describe something that currently is challenging your peace.

Do you sometimes associate peace with a place? Where is your most peaceful/happy place?

Do you most often rely on the absence of difficult circumstances or the presence of God for your peace?

How does today’s message help you connect your thoughts to the peace you have or don’t have in your life?

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Pastor Angela kicks off our Fruitful Summer series with a powerful message on patience as a supernatural gift, not a natural tendency that must be developed through the Holy Spirit's work in our lives.

• Based on Galatians 5:22, patience is highlighted as one of the nine fruits of the Spirit
• Unlike our natural tendency toward impatience, patience is supernatural and must be cultivated
• Patience heals the bruised, as demonstrated in Joseph's 22-year journey from dream to fulfillment
• We cannot microwave spiritual maturity—it takes time and process
• Jesus modeled patience with his disciples, especially Peter, seeing potential when others saw problems
• God is the ultimate patient gardener who doesn't pluck out seeds when He can't immediately see growth
• Patience isn't passive—it's faith in slow motion
• The testimony of Relate Church's building purchase shows how patience with God's timeline leads to greater blessings
• Culture tells us to hurry, but Scripture repeatedly tells us to wait, be still, and abide

Join a small group this week to continue growing together, and don't miss First Wednesday service for a special time of communion and worship.

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This Sunday we celebrated all of the Middle school, High School, and College Graduates, while also giving them and their parents some Godly advice on how to approach the future.

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This week, we turn the spotlight on one of the most infamous figures in Scripture—Judas Iscariot. His story reminds us that sin rarely starts big. It begins in the shadows: with impropriety, jealousy, and indignation that go unchecked. In this episode, Pastor Angela unpacks the slow drift of Judas’s heart, showing how sin grows silently when ignored—and how even those closest to Jesus aren't immune to betrayal.

From a hidden hand in the money bag to a public kiss of betrayal, this message explores how inward compromise becomes outward collapse. Using key scriptures from Matthew 26–27, John 12–13, and Acts 1, we’re warned: "Sin never wants to stay small."

🔎 You’ll walk away challenged to check your heart, guard your integrity, and bring even the smallest compromises into the light before they take root.

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Baby Monsters: Big Trouble Starts Small We’re diving into the small attitudes, hidden sins, and quiet compromises that—if left alone—grow up into something destructive. This series is all about exposing those baby monsters before they grow teeth.

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Baby Monsters, Week 2: “The Secret That Cost Everything”
Main Text: Judges 16:16–21 | Key Themes: Compromise, Desensitization, Consequences, and Redemption

This week, we explored the tragic story of Samson—once chosen, strong, and anointed—but taken out by a series of small compromises and unchecked desires. His downfall didn’t happen all at once. It started subtly: honey from a lion’s carcass, hidden from his parents. Over time, Samson became desensitized to danger, flirting with sin and ignoring warning signs. His strength wasn’t lost in one moment with Delilah—it was worn down through a series of choices that made room for the flesh and silenced the voice of the Spirit.

Eventually, he didn’t even realize the Lord had left him. That’s the heartbreak of compromise: it blinds us before it binds us. But even in the pit, God wasn’t done. The message ends with hope: “But his hair began to grow again.” A fresh start is always possible when we turn back to God.

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Yep. Because huge, terrible deeds come from teeny-tiny seeds.
This new series is about dealing with small things before they grow up and destroy big things.
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Pastor Joseph gives a great message over another of Jesus' miracles. Our Texas Bible Institute students also graduated this week, so please celebrate with us this week!

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It’s Easter Sunday at Relate Church, and Pastor Sean Mooney brings a hope-filled message straight from Luke 24 and the road to Emmaus. Whether you’re celebrating on a mountaintop or walking through a tough season, this episode is a reminder that God is not finished with you yet. Join us as we explore how the resurrection meets us in our discouragement, why God’s promises are stronger than our pain, and how a simple act of inviting Jesus in can change everything. No matter how far you’ve wandered or how dark things may seem, there’s a miracle waiting just around the corner. Don’t miss this uplifting and practical Easter message!

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You may be one small act of obedience away from witnessing God's supernatural power transform your ordinary life into something extraordinary. When Jesus turned water into wine at a wedding in Cana—His very first recorded miracle—He demonstrated that nothing in our lives is too insignificant for His attention and intervention.

The wedding servants faced a seemingly pointless task: filling massive water pots when what they needed was wine. Their confusion likely mirrored what many of us feel when God's instructions don't immediately solve our problems. Yet their simple obedience to Mary's direction—"Whatever He says to you, do it"—positioned them to witness a miracle firsthand.

What speaks volumes is that Jesus chose this social predicament for His first miracle rather than something more dramatic like healing or resurrection. This reveals His deep care for what we might dismiss as "not important enough" to bring before Him. Your marriage struggles, parenting challenges, workplace frustrations, and personal doubts all matter to Him.

The pathway to experiencing God's miraculous intervention requires proximity—getting close enough to hear His voice amid life's noise. Many believers remain spiritually confused simply because they're not leaning in to listen. That still, small voice is speaking, directing you toward steps that may seem impractical but will ultimately reveal His power. Remember: you can't reach the impossible if you're not willing to do the impractical.

Are you holding that half-filled bucket, questioning why you should continue? Maybe you've been faithful in Bible reading, tithing, serving, or maintaining boundaries—yet seeing no results. Take heart and keep filling your water pots to the brim. Our responsibility is obedience; God's responsibility is the outcome. The miracle always looks foolish until it's finished.

Ready to see God work? Step closer, listen carefully, and do whatever He tells you—no matter how mundane it seems. Your miracle awaits.

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Have you ever allowed a problem to become your identity? In this powerful message, we dive into the often-overlooked story of the woman with the issue of blood from Mark 5. While everyone around her defined her by her suffering, Jesus saw beyond her condition to her true identity.

The contrast is striking – Jairus enters the story with both his name and title intact, while this woman is known only by her affliction. For twelve years, she wasn't just bleeding physically; she was hemorrhaging her sense of self, her place in community, her very identity. How many of us have done the same? We transform our wounds into personas, our traumas into labels, until we forget who we truly are beneath the pain.

Through this woman's encounter with Jesus, we discover a four-part framework for experiencing breakthrough and reclaiming our God-given identity. She heard about Jesus, controlling her intake and filling her mind with hope. She moved despite her limitations, pushing through the crowd when everything said she shouldn't. She thought with faith, choosing to believe "if I can just touch his robe, I will be healed" among the thousands of other possible negative thoughts. And finally, she told her story, vulnerably sharing her whole truth when Jesus called her out.

But the most beautiful moment came when Jesus named her "daughter" – the only time in scripture he addressed anyone this way. In that moment, he didn't just heal her body; he restored her identity. He transformed her from an unnamed woman defined by her issue to a daughter with a place in God's family.

Whether you're struggling with physical healing, emotional wounds, or a lost sense of self, this message will challenge you to stop letting your issues name you. You are more than your problems. You are a child of the Most High God.

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Our relationships need intentional commitments to thrive in a world where the divorce rate hovers at 50% both inside and outside the church.

• Five commitments to fail-proof your marriage: seek God, fight fair, have fun, stay pure, never give up
• Your spouse cannot fill your God-shaped hole - only God can satisfy that emptiness
• Healthy couples fight for resolution, not personal victory
• Establish ground rules for arguments: no name-calling, no raised voices, no historical references
• Schedule fun in your marriage through face-to-face time, side-by-side activities, and physical intimacy
• Create boundaries to protect your marriage: transparency with devices, accountability partners
• Difficult seasons don't mean your marriage is a mistake - refuel your love instead of giving up
• A happy marriage is a union of two good forgivers
• Love covers a multitude of sins - be the one who forgives and shows grace

If you're feeling distant from God or your spouse, return to the basics. Spend time together, share your life, and make the commitments that will strengthen your relationship for the long haul.

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Join Pastor Susan Mead for our third week of Next Level Love!

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The 7 Poisons Test: Identifying and Overcoming Relationship Pitfalls
Healthy relationships require self-awareness and intentionality. The 7 Poisons Test helps us examine harmful habits that can negatively impact our relationships and provides biblical wisdom for overcoming them.

1️⃣ How Selfish Am I?
Selfishness harms relationships, but serving others cultivates humility. (Philippians 2:3-5)

2️⃣ Do I Set Unrealistic Expectations?
Unmet expectations create conflict, but trusting God’s provision brings peace. (James 4:1-2)

3️⃣ Am I Keeping Secrets?
Secrecy breeds shame, but vulnerability leads to freedom. (Ephesians 5:11-12)

4️⃣ How Negative Is My Speech?
Our words should uplift and encourage rather than tear down. (Ephesians 4:29)

5️⃣ How Much Do I Compare My Relationship?
Comparison fuels discontentment, but gratitude fosters joy. (Galatians 6:4-5)

6️⃣ Do I Fight Dirty?
Attacking problems instead of people leads to healthier conflict resolution. (James 1:19)

7️⃣ Am I Putting Them First?
Prioritizing our personal relationship with Christ keeps relationships in proper order. (Psalm 127:1)

Reflection & Discussion
What stood out to you this week?
Which of these relationship poisons do you struggle with most?
In which area have you seen the most growth? How?
How can your Relate Small Group support you in becoming stronger?
What steps will you take to eliminate these poisons from your relationships?
By identifying and addressing these challenges, we can build Christ-centered, thriving relationships that reflect His love and grace.

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God is not finished with you yet. No matter where you find yourself in life—whether questioning your purpose, wrestling with failures, or feeling unseen—Philippians 1:6 reminds us that "He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion." In this episode, we dive into the truth that our story isn’t over, and we are not defined by our failures.

We'll explore key scriptures like Ephesians 2:10, Hebrews 10:24-25, and Romans 12:18, reflecting on God’s masterpiece in us, the power of community, and the wisdom of seeking help. Through honest conversation, we’ll ask: How do we stay connected to God and bear good fruit? How do we mend relationships with humility and grace?

Join us as we unpack these truths, challenge limiting beliefs, and encourage one another to move forward in faith—because God’s not done yet.

Discussion Questions:
📖 What stood out to you this week?
🌱 Read John 15:4-5, 8. What are some fruits of the Spirit you see in others? What about in your own life?
🍇 How pleased do you think God is with the quality and quantity of your fruit?
🛤 How could you focus on your connection with God this year and grow more fruit of the Spirit in the process?

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Bishop Dave Dolan from Sullivan, Illinois was here this week to continue celebrating Relate's 7th Birthday!

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Declarations for 2025

1. May every prolonged _________________ come to an end.

2. May every _________________- agenda against you backfire.
3. May every false ____________ and impersonator be __________exposed.

4. May you ______________ on every side.

5. May the _______________ of the wicked come to an _____________end now.

6. May you receive ________________ in your bloodline.

7. May God _________________ your children and your childrens’ children.

8. May the heavens be __________________ over you.

9. May ______________ open in front of you.

10. May the devil get _______________ you.

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Do not love this world nor the things it offers you, for when you love the world, you do not have the love of the Father in you. Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them. For everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever. 1 John 2:16-17

Lust of the flesh: internal cravings and addictions
Lust of the eyes: external desires, envy, and materialism

Pride of life: pursuit of status, position, and recognition

Simplicity – an inward contentment that leads to an outward way of life.

1. Accept Jesus’ Strong ____________.

What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul? Matthew 16:26

“No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.” Luke 16:13

2. _________ Down.

“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.” Matthew 11:28-30 MSG

Hurry sickness: A behavior pattern characterized by continual rushing and anxiousness.

3. Examine Your ______________.

Am I buying this for its usefulness or rather for its status?

Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Psalm 139:23

4. Reject the _______________ .

Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” Hebrews 13:5

______________ before you _______________ .

5. ____________ More Things Away.

Freely you have received; freely give. Matthew 10:8

6. Build _____________ over ______________ .

Then Jesus said to his disciples: “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. For life is more than food, and the body more than clothes. But seek his kingdom, and these things will be given to you as well. Luke 12:31

Discussion Questions:

What stood out to you this week?

Do you ever feel too busy or overwhelmed with the pace and pursuit of your life?

Which of the 6 Ways to Simplify your life resonated with you most? Why? Which one is the hardest for you?

Discuss some practical steps you can take this week to set a better pace for the rest of the year.

Resources:

https://www.relatecommunity.com/challenge

https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/16928-the-ruthless-elimination-of-hurry

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January 2, 2025 | Stretch Out | Week 1

Why do we fast?

Fasting is giving up something important (for a period of time) to gain something more important.

1. ____________ with God.

Turn to me now, while there is time. Give me your hearts. Come with fasting, weeping, and mourning. Joel 2:12

Prayer ___________ us to God

Fasting ___________ us from the world.

Together the __________ are unrivaled.

Come close to God, and God will come close to you. James 4:8

2. ____________ over your flesh.

Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize. Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever. Therefore I do not run like someone running aimlessly; I do not fight like a boxer beating the air. No, I strike a blow to my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize. 1 Corinthians 9:24-27

Fasting intentionally _____________ my flesh so that I can intentionally
________________ my spirit.

3. ______________ in hearing God’s voice.

Moses was there with the Lord forty days and forty nights without eating bread or drinking water. And he wrote on the tablets the words of the covenant—the Ten Commandments. Exodus 34:28

Prayer is a conversation that involves both ____________ and ____________________.

4. _______________- for greater things.

5. _______________ over the impossible.

And when He had come into the house, His disciples asked Him privately, “Why could we not cast it out?” So He said to them, “This kind can come out by nothing but prayer and fasting.” Mark. 9:28-29

Discussion Questions:

What stood out to you this week?

Do you have experience fasting? If so, how did it go for you?

Name some things that can potentially draw us away from Jesus or simply distract us from our calling?

What will your fast look like during the 21 Days of prayer and fasting this year?

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Starting a new year with purpose and faithfulness, we invite you to join us on a spiritual journey filled with gratitude, prayer, and worship. Embrace the transformative power of God's presence as we explore how worship can serve as a catalyst for personal growth and realignment with divine purpose. Our new series, "Stretch Out," encourages us to push beyond our limitations and trust in what God can achieve in our lives. Through shared prayers and heartfelt testimonies, discover the strength found in faith and the joy that comes from allowing the Holy Spirit to overflow in your heart.

With the New Year on the horizon, we tackle the perennial challenge of self-control and the significance of inviting God into our everyday struggles. Reflecting on personal stories and the teachings of Saint Paul, we'll guide you through practical steps for spiritual growth, such as setting boundaries and prioritizing time with God. It's not just about sheer willpower; it's about placing Jesus at the center of our lives and using scripture as a guide. Whether you're working on personal goals or seeking to improve your relationships, this episode offers insights on how to embrace your responsibilities with grace and perseverance.

As we celebrate the joy and strength found in faithfulness, we touch on the emotional journey that faith can bring, from moments of loneliness to profound joy. Hear how gratitude and worship can transform difficult times into moments of praise, providing resilience and unwavering support. We emphasize the importance of self-compassion, likening personal growth to a child's journey of learning to walk, and encourage you to seek accountability and celebrate progress with others. Together, let's embrace 2025 with a spirit of worship and a commitment to keeping God at the center of our daily lives for a peaceful and joyful year ahead.

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The content explores the prophecy of Jesus' birth, focusing on his role as the prince of peace. It addresses mental health challenges during the holiday season, defining peace as inner harmony. Jesus offers believers a spiritual gift of peace, essential for facing life's struggles. The narrative emphasizes scripture as a healing tool, the importance of repetition in overcoming anxiety, and encourages trust in God while inviting prayer for emotional health.

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Church isn’t just a place to attend.

It’s a space to worship.

It’s breakthrough.

It’s a people to belong.

#comesitwithme

9am + 11am // 26206 Aldine Westfield

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What if our deepest struggle isn't just with sin, but with a hidden "orphan spirit" that distorts our perception of God and ourselves? Join us as we explore this profound question, revealing how feelings of rejection can obscure our true identity as beloved children of God. Through the lens of scripture, particularly John 14:18 and Romans 8, we unravel the spiritual implications of orphanhood and how embracing sonship can lead to a life free from fear and slavery.

We peel back the layers of the human experience, especially from the perspective of faith leaders, who often grapple with their imperfections while guiding others. Sharing candid reflections, we emphasize the significance of authenticity and community support in overcoming shame and embracing redemption. By confronting the "orphan spirit," we move beyond self-criticism and the relentless pursuit of external validation, discovering our worth in the embrace of God's love.

As we share personal stories, including moments of revelation in Africa, we invite you to experience the transformative power of seeing God as a loving Father. From practical advice on finding father figures within the community to the healing journey of forgiveness, this episode is a call to introspection and spiritual renewal. Immerse yourself in worship and prayer, releasing any hindrances to fully accepting your identity as a child of God, and step into a victorious life free from the chains of orphanhood.

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YESTERDAY WAS

Pastor had us all

Worship had us all

and our church family had us

We love you Relate and we can’t wait to see you next Sunday!! Check out a small group this week

Do not be afraid the God of the universe has your best interest at heart and is working all things together for your good!!!

Sunday | 10am | 26206 Aldine Westfield in Spring

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If your faith isn’t Challenging you, it’s not changing you.

Therefore, with minds that are alert and fully sober, set your hope on the grace to be brought to you when Jesus Christ is revealed at his coming. As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance. But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: “Be holy, because I am holy.” Since you call on a Father who judges each person’s work impartially, live out your time as foreigners here in reverent fear. 1 Peter 1:13-17

Don’t trade Holiness for Happiness or Selfishness.

Putting ourselves first is one of the most natural things we do.

But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud … lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God— having a form of godliness but denying its power. 2 Timothy 3:1-5

Hágios—holy, set apart, different, pure.

So you must live as God’s obedient children. Don’t slip back into your old ways of living to satisfy your own desires. 1 Peter 1:14

“Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship." Romans 12:1 (NIV)

Jesus Didn’t Call Us To ...

Promote ourselves, but to Humble ourselves.

Pamper ourselves, but to Deny ourselves.

Serve ourselves, but to Serve others.

Put ourselves first, but to put ourselves Last.

Seek our pleasure, but to pursue God’s Purpose.

… Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it.” Matthew16:24

Discussion Questions:

Which part of the message was most impactful for you and why?

In which three areas do you struggle most trying to fit in?

When was a time you put your happiness above God’s call for holiness?

In what area of your life are you loving yourself more than loving God and loving others? What is God calling you to do about it?

What are the biggest ways that I’m different from the world?

What is the area that God wants me to be different?

"Your people will proclaim your praise to all generations, O God!" Psalm 79:13

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Glad You Asked | God's Solution for Stress (October 6, 2024)

Feeling overwhelmed by the demands of daily life? In this episode, we dive into God's answers for dealing with stress, exploring how the pressures of modern life—whether at work, in relationships, or just keeping up—affect our mental and spiritual health. Learn how scripture guides us to slow down, set boundaries, and depend on God's power instead of trying to do it all on our own. With insights from Ephesians 5 and Philippians 4, we unpack practical ways to live wisely, cultivate gratitude, and turn worry into worship. Join us as we embrace God's peace in the midst of life’s chaos and discover a new way to live stress-free.

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You asked the big questions like...

How do I deal with stress? Where do I fit into God’s plan? How do I understand and follow God? What does God say about Burn Out, My Relationships, and the Dumpster Fire that is the world right now? Well, I’m glad you asked! In this series, we will unpack God’s answers to your questions.

"Your people will proclaim your praise to all generations, O God!" Psalm 79:13

26206 Aldine Westfield @ 10am

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WHAT. A. SUNDAY.

We worshipped Jesus with all of our heart and felt the His presence from the beginning to the very end!!!

Speak Life!

We will see you next weekend

Sunday | 10am | 26206 Aldine Westfield

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Church is not an event. It's an encounter.

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Y E S T E R D A Y

The presence of the Lord was so STRONG and we are already hearing stories of miracles

Let’s do it again THIS SUNDAY!!

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It’s time to GROW TOGETHER!

As the leaves change and the air gets crisp (a church can dream right ), we’re inviting you to join one of our fall small groups!

Whether you're looking to deepen your faith, make new friends, or just enjoy some cozy community time, there's a group for you. Let's harvest connection and grow in love, faith, and purpose — together.

Sign-ups are now open! Don’t miss out on this chance to be part of something special.

Sign up here: https://relatecommunitychurch.churchcenter.com/.../small...

GrowTogether #FallSmallGroups #Community #FaithInAction #HarvestJoy

This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!

‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭5:17‬ ‭NLT‬‬

Let’s hang out this weekend

Sunday | 10:00 | 26206 Aldine Westfield

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Our team has been praying and preparing all week to make your Sunday special.

Need a Tribe? A place to belong? #youcanRELATE

SUNDAY | 10:00 | 26206 Aldine Westfield

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WHAT. A. DAY

The moment Pastor called the kids to be prayed for

Alllllll the worship songs

PASTOR SEAN AND HIS BELTS

And we get to do it AGAIN next Sunday!!

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21 Days of Prayer | Started sunday!!!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

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21 DAYS OF PRAYER IS FOR YOU⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

If you sense God has more for your life, 21 Days of Prayer is a great place to start believing Him for all that He has for you. As you practice seeking Him first, He will move on your behalf like never before. You will start to see the power of prayer impact your relationships, work, family, and every area of your life. We would love for you to be part of 21 Days of Prayer.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

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WEEKDAY PRAYER - Participate in prayer every morning at 6am here: 21days.churchofthehighlands.com

WEDNESDAY PRAYER – Participate in prayer Wednesdays, August 7, 14 & 21 @ 7-8:30pm at the RCC

PRAY INDIVIDUALLY – Commit to pray at a specific time each day during 21 Days of Prayer. You can use the 21 Days of Prayer Guide for a prayer focus each day.

WORSHIP – Commit to attend Relate Church every Sunday (in-person or online) and give God the first part of your week.

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TODAY IS THE DAY!!!

Pastor Sean Mooney said it best:

Today, we begin the next season of Relate.

After 15 months of trials, tribulation and just general gut wrenching frustration we will worship God in a place the enemy tried to destroy.

We were told in February of 2023 that God had a place hidden for us by our Pastor @Matt Keller

Indeed He did - and this morning the praises of His people will once again inhabit an ancient place of prayer.

Let’s Go Relate!!!

The best is yet to come

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Sunday was one for the BOOKS

Our last Sunday at the Theatre and man IT WAS SOOOO GOOD!!!

Join Relate in our NEW building this Sunday at 10a

26206 Aldine Westfield

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You have a calling

You have a purpose

GO!

Let’s run together

Sunday // 10am
Relate Community Center

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We don’t care what you look like
or who your married to
We don't what car you drive
We don’t care about your history
or your baggage
We love your children
We love all of your tattoos
We love YOU right where you are!
You fit here.... #letsRELATE

10 am | SUNDAY | Cinemark

1 Samuel starts today!!!
This is the historical recording of a nation moving from theocracy to monarchy. Message and Purpose:
Leadership
God’s sovereignty
Sin’s consequences
Covenant

Join along here: www.relatecommunity.com/soap

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PHENOMENAL DAY SUNDAY!!!

Our worship Pastors taught us that one of the ways to get strong is to WORSHIP!!

Four. More. Sunday. at the Theatre!!!

Sometimes we're so ashamed of ourselves that we automatically feel like Jesus is too.

But He's not. He knew you'd struggle, He knew you'd make some wrong decisions, He knew you'd go through some rough phases, but He still chose the cross.

Don't run from Him.

Run to Him.

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10am | Cinemark Spring-Klein and XD

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Pastor BJ is here for strong summer week 2!

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Pastor Susan had an Amazing word! If you haven’t done so yet, ask the Lord what you should do to strengthen your spiritual life for this summer. #StrongSummer

She reminded us all WE ARE CALLED, Everyone had a blast with the FRESCAS and so many fun shirts!!

We love our Relate family!!

Remember, summer service times start next week!

10:00AM !!!

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we are so excited to see you - ready for some powerful worship, an encouraging message, and community — a place of peace and hope

Cinemark Spring-Klein and XD

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The SUMMER SMALL GROUPS Directory is OPEN!!!
Tell us which one you JOINED

Check all TWENTY out:
https://relatecommunitychurch.churchcenter.com/groups/small-groups?enrollment=open_signup%2Crequest_to_join&filter=enrollment

Today, we honor the brave men and women who fought for our freedom and paid the ultimate price. Their courage, sacrifice, and unwavering dedication to our country will never be forgotten.

To all the heroes who have served and those who continue to serve, we owe you a debt of gratitude that words can never fully express.

On this Memorial Day, we remember you, we thank you, and we honor your legacy. Your sacrifice is the foundation of our freedom.

May we always strive to live in a way that honors your memory and upholds the values you fought to protect. Thank you for your service and sacrifice.

MemorialDay #NeverForget #HonorAndRemember

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People who get excited about God are my kinda people.

U too? I mean, he’s just done soo much.

godismybestfriend #lovepeople #hesworthytobepraised

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We were incredibly blessed to spend Mother's Day with all of our lovely ladies. We had the privilege to honor all mothers, grandmothers, and motherly figures who grace our lives with their nurturing care and unconditional love.

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PALM SUNDAY

Palm Sunday commemorates the Triumphal Entry: the day Jesus entered Jerusalem riding on a donkey. You can find this event in all four Gospels (Matthew 21:1-11, Mark 11:1-10, Luke 19:28-38, and John 12:12-18). Jesus came to Jerusalem from Bethany, where He had raised Lazarus from the dead. As Jesus rode into the city, people came out to meet Him with palm branches, shouting: “Hosanna! Blessed is he that comes in the Name of the Lord, the King of Israel!” At the peak of His popularity, Jesus was also at the peak of conflict with the religious leaders in Jerusalem, who saw Him as a threat to Jewish peace with Rome.

The word hosanna is an expression of adoration that means “Pray, save us!” This phrase is quoted by David in Psalm 118:25: “LORD, save us! LORD, grant us success!”

Jesus came into Jerusalem as a king—triumphal and messianic. But He also came in humility, riding on a donkey’s colt. He came celebrated by people whose loyalty was inconsistent at best. In just a few days they would reject Him, yet He still came... in the name and authority of the Lord. This juxtaposition of authority and humility was unique to Jesus’ personhood and ministry; He is strong enough to save and selfless enough to do it.

It is no coincidence that David’s second line after ‘hosanna’ was ‘blessed is the one who comes in the name of the Lord.’ ” (Psalm 118:26)

TODAY’S READING: LUKE 19:28-42, ZEC. 9:9

What emotions does the Triumphal Entry bring up?

How do you feel about this passage? “Hosanna” is both a cry of adoration and a cry for help.

What is your “hosanna” today? Jesus’ kingship is often forgotten in democratic society.

Why does it matter so much?

How would you explain the significance of Palm Sunday to someone else?

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Join us for a heartfelt sermon that uplifts and inspires, titled 'Don't Bring Me Down: Bible-Approved Fun.' In this episode, we explore the boundless joy of the Lord and how our happiness isn't dictated by our circumstances. Drawing wisdom from Psalm 104 and 1 Thessalonians 4:1, we delve into God's desire for our happiness, emphasizing that joy, rest, and community are divine gifts not to be ignored. Discover why fun isn't just an optional extra, but a vital part of our salvation experience. Let's shout for joy, as encouraged by Psalms 25, and learn to embrace the joyful normal God intends for us. Tune in to be reminded that our greatest joy comes from a source that never changes, no matter what life throws our way.

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If you're feeling lonely today, we've got good news!

God is always with you.

You've got a spiritual family that cares about you.

Come to church and your spirits will be lifted!

Read this and take a deep breath.

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We were never meant to have it all figured out.⁠

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That means you’re not supposed to know everything in advance or create the perfect plan.⁠

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God created us for dependency. And regardless of how capable we think we are at the time, we have to put our pride aside and slow down long enough to take our burdens (and our plans) to the cross in prayer.⁠

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Even if we think we know the answer.⁠

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Even if we think we’re smart enough.⁠

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Even if we think we can do it alone.⁠

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Because when we place too much faith in our own abilities to fix, we’re like a plant grown in shallow soil.⁠

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Our solutions may spring up fast but they’ll die just as quickly.⁠

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However, when we get our direction from the Lord, we’re like a tree planted by water. Even when the droughts come, we’ll still bloom.⁠

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Make going to God in prayer your first priority - not your last resort.

love #selflove #recovery #art #mentalhealthawareness

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On that great day,” GOD says, “I will round up all the hurt and homeless, everyone I have bruised or banished. I will #transform the battered into a company of the elite. I will make a strong nation out of the long lost, A showcase exhibit of GOD ’s rule in action, as I rule from Mount Zion, from here to eternity.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

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Sunday | 9&10:30 | Cinemark Spring-Klein

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OUCHHHHHHHH!

Pastor Sean was hurting feelings and preaching FIRE Sunday!!

He is passionate about this being the year we all get healthy IN EVERY AREA!

What stresses you out the most?
For many, there’s nothing more stressful than money problems. We’ve all been there, but it’s not where you have to stay. This week, Pastor Sean will focus on the Spiritual solutions to overcoming our financial struggles. When we address our spiritual needs and Seek God First, everything else will come naturally.
Sunday | 9 & 10:30
Cinemark Spring-Klein and XD

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SUNDAY was amazing!!

We are so grateful for all that God is doing in + through the lives of His people.

Here is a FUN Tuesday Bible Study!!

Getting out of Psalms is for those who want to learn more about their Bible but aren't sure how - Let's learn together!!

let’s grow together​​​​​​​​

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Small Group Sign Ups are HERE: https://tinyurl.com/bdd789me

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Happy 6th Birthday, Relate! #birthday #celebrate #party #happybirthday #happy #love #family #friends #explore #sunday #january #letsgo

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We have so much hope but with out action NOTHING changes.

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Pastor Sean is back with WEEK 3 of Small Steps
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Don’t let anyone think less of you because you are young. Be an example to all believers in what you say, in the way you live, in your love, your faith, and your purity. 1 Timothy 4:12

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SUNDAY WAS

Pastor Sean is challenging our spiritual development during this 21 days of Prayer and Fasting.

Small Habits lead to BIG CHANGES and we have such expectation of what God is going to do in the Relate Church Family this year!!!!

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If you're feeling lonely today, we've got good news!

God is always with you.

You've got a spiritual family that cares about you.

Come to church and your spirits will be lifted!

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9:00am + 10:30am

21440 Kuykendahl Rd

‭‭1 Timothy‬ ‭2:1-2‬

I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. Ask God to help them; intercede on their behalf, and give thanks for them. Pray this way for kings and all who are in authority so that we can live peaceful and quiet lives marked by godliness and dignity.

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Light & Glory Christmas Eve Service

This Christmas season, we invite you to embark on a journey of hope, joy, and revelation as we dive deep into the heart of the holiday's true meaning. Relate Community Church proudly presents our special sermon series: "Light and Glory."

Remember what this Precious Holiday is all about with Communion, and a Special Service focused on Jesus, the Light of the World!

During these service, we will explore the significance of Jesus Christ's birth, His divine mission, and the profound impact His arrival had on the world. It's a time to reflect, rejoice, and renew your faith.

Bring your family, friends, and neighbors to experience the warmth of community, the beauty of worship, and the message of hope that Christmas brings.

Let us celebrate the Light and Glory that entered our world over two thousand years ago.

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This week at Relate Church was absolutely incredible! We had Santa for pictures, toys for the kids, and a worship service where Jesus' presence was truly felt. Lives were transformed, and hearts were filled with joy. Thank you to everyone who joined us for this unforgettable day!

Our doubts don’t change the fact that God is good. Look for God’s goodness today!

Keep going, God sees your faithfulness!

Sundays at 9 & 10:30

21440 Kuykendahl Rd, Spring, TX 77379

Accepted Jesus into your life: shorturl.at/fNP15

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For a full Worship Experience including Worship and Kid's Church head on over to: www.relatecommunity.com/onlineservice

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The decisions you make today will determine the story you tell
tomorrow!
So let God help choose your next chapter!
Focus on 3 things: **Providence—Planning—Prayer

1. The providence of God.*Boaz went to the town gate and took a seat there. Just then the family redeemer he had mentioned came by, so Boaz called out to him, “Come over here and sit down, friend. I want to talk to you.” Ruth 4:1 NLT

In a dark chapter? Its not time to close the book, its just time to turn the page -

God still writing your story!

1. Strategic Plans. If you want the land, then buy it here in the presence of these witnesses. But if you don’t want it, let me know right away, because I am next in line to redeem it after you.” The man replied, “All right, I’ll redeem it.
   5 Then Boaz told him, “Of course, your purchase of the land from Naomi also requires that you marry Ruth, the Moabite widow. That way she can have children who will carry on her husband’s name and keep the land in the family.” 6 “Then I can’t redeem it,” the family redeemer replied, “because this might endanger my own estate. You redeem the land; I cannot do it.”Ruth 4:4b-6

Good planning and hard work lead to prosperity, but hasty shortcuts lead to poverty. Prov 21:5 NLT

10 And with the land I have acquired Ruth, the Moabite widow of Mahlon, to be my wife. This way she can have a son to carry on the family name of her dead husband and to inherit the family property here in his hometown. You are all witnesses today.” Ruth 4:10 NLT

1. Faith-filled prayers

11 Then the elders and all the people standing in the gate replied, “We are witnesses! May the Lord make this woman who is coming into your home like Rachel and Leah, from whom all the nation of Israel descended! May you prosper in Ephrathah and be famous in Bethlehem.” Ruth 4:11 NLT

God is still writing your story, quit trying to steal the pen, trust the author!

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Putting the Pieces Together

1. My People.
   naomi had a relative on her husband’s side, a man of standing from the clan of Elimelek, whose name was Boaz... So Ruth went out to gather grain behind the harvesters. And as it happened, she found herself working in a field that belonged to Boaz, the relative of her father-in-law, Elimelech. Ruth 2:1,3 NLT

2. God's Providence.
   Providence of God: when God uses natural circumstances to bring about His supernatural plans
   And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. Romans 8:28

If you Start working for God, His Providence starts working for you
One day Ruth’s mother-in-law Naomi said to her, “My daughter, I must find a home for you, where you will be well provided for. 2 Now Boaz ... is a relative of ours. Tonight he will be winnowing barley on the threshing floor. Ruth 3:1-2

1. Strategic Proximity.
   Wash, put on perfume, and get dressed in your best clothes. Then go down to the threshing floor, but don’t let him know you are there until he has finished eating and drinking. When he lies down, note the place where he is lying. Then go and uncover his feet and lie down. He will tell you what to do.” “I will do whatever you say,” Ruth answered. So she went down to the threshing floor and did everything her mother-in-law told her to do. Ruth 3:4-6
   When Boaz had finished eating and drinking and was in good spirits, he went over to lie down at the far end of the grain pile. Ruth approached quietly, uncovered his feet and lay down. In the middle of the night something startled the man; he turned—and there was a woman lying at his feet! “Who are you?” he asked. “I am your servant Ruth,” she said. “Spread the corner of your garment over me, since you are a guardian-redeemer of our family.” Ruth 3:7-9

Guar/Kins-Redeemer—A relative who had the responsibility and privilege to provide for a family member in time of need.

Even if you don’t get it right, God can still make it right.
Discussion questions:
Read Ruth 3:1-9. What stands out to you in this passage? What do you think empowered Ruth to take this kind of initiative
What qualities or habits do you see in Ruth and Boaz as they’re honoring God with their lives? Do you know someone with similar qualities?
As we navigate different seasons of life, we won’t always get it right. Share about a time when you didn’t make the best choice, but God still made it right. What did you learn about Him through that experience?
Sometimes God wants us to go after what we want. Is He calling you to take a step of faith and go after something? Talk about that with your Small Group.

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But the father said to his servants;

For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.

So they began to celebrate.

‭‭Luke‬ ‭15:22, 24‬ ‭NIV

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Such a PRECIOUS day in the House of The Lord

Pastor Sean gave us such a moving message, full of practical steps to share Jesus with our communities.

We aren’t sure there was a dry eye in the house during second service. The Lord Jesus was present and working!! We love you family and we are praying for you this week!!

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Pastor Susan told us on Sunday, our identity is in God. Just as Moses was called from the burning bush in Exodus 3, God has a unique purpose for each of us. Let Him settle your doubts and fears, and watch how He uses you for His glory.

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Comprehension - comprehensive knowledge of something (line by line / show your work)
Understanding - refers to grasping outcome

We don’t like to fully engage with things we don’t fully understand
We don’t understand how babies are made but we understand how babies are made 👀

We use the lack of understanding as an excuse to not engage.

It wouldn’t be faith if we understood it all 🤯

Somethings we aren’t meant to know until we get to heaven.

Do you trust God enough to go all in without understanding everything.

Unless you become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven - Jesus

Each gospel emphasis:
Matthew - what Jesus said
Mark - what Jesus did
Luke - what Jesus felt
John - who Jesus was

The feeding of the 5K is in all 5 gospels

This is how God does the impossible.
How he works when we don’t understand it.

1.God always starts with a problem.
God is in the business of meeting needs.
Our problems makes us available for God to move in our lives

2.God partners with people
Eph 2:8-10 we are God’s handiwork
I’ll never get the best of what God has to offer until I give God my best.

1. Galatians 4:19 fully developed

How do we fully engage
1.we go public with God
Matthew 10:32-33

2.We spend time with him every day
Psalm 5:3 in the morning
Stress free tip: spend time with God everyday
5 minutes God's Word
5 minutes Worship
5 minutes Prayer

3.We need to take steps in right relationship
Pro. 13:20 - companion of fools
1 Cor 15:33 - bad company corrupts

Correct relationship (quiz)
◦Relationship with local church
◦Relationship with a small group
◦Relationship with a serve team

4.Spiritual Contributors
We must make disciples!

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How do I Get My Mind Right?

I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate. Romans 7:15

For though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does. The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. 2 Corinthians 10:3-5

If you have to go to war, you may find yourselves facing an enemy army that is bigger than yours and that has horses and chariots. But don't be afraid! The Lord your God rescued you from Egypt… Deuteronomy 20:1,4

Goliath went out and shouted to the army of Israel: Why are you lining up for battle? I'm the best soldier in our army, and all of you are in Saul's army. Choose your best soldier to come out and fight me! 1 Samuel 17:8 ,11 CEV

Take your thoughts captive or Your thoughts will take you captive.

Cognitive Behavior Psychology: Psychological problems are based, in part, on faulty or unhelpful ways of thinking.

For as he thinks in his heart, so is he. Proverbs 23:7 NKJ

Worried 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Peaceful

Negative 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Positive

Worldly 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Eternal

1. Identify the biggest stronghold holding you back.

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Romans 12:2

2. Name the truth that demolishes that stronghold.

And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.

John 8:32

Discussion questions:

What lies of the enemy have you believed? As a group, discuss some of these lies, then find scripture in God’s Word to replace the lie with His truth.

Discuss open doors that may not seem like a trap from the enemy on the surface but may need to be brought to light. Encourage each other to close these doors.

Read Ephesians 6:1-17 out loud together as a group, then commit to putting the armor of God on every day to stand firm against the enemy!

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How do I Trust God More?

Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:12-14

5 Ways to Trust God More

1. Press Past My Comfort.

And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified. What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? Romans 8:28-31

2. Press Past The World.

They do not believe, because their minds have been kept in the dark by the evil god of this world. He keeps them from seeing the light shining on them, the light that comes from the Good News about the glory of Christ, who is the exact likeness of God. 2 Corinthians 4:4 (GNT)

3. Press Past My Pain.

Are any of you suffering hardships? You should pray. Are any of you happy? You should sing praises. Are any of you sick? You should call for the elders of the church to come and pray over you, anointing you with oil in the name of the Lord. Such a prayer offered in faith will heal the sick, and the Lord will make you well. And if you have committed any sins, you will be forgiven. Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results. James 5:13-16

Pain can either paralyze you or propel you.

4. Press Past Religion

He has saved us and called us to a holy life—not because of anything we have done but because of his own purpose and grace. This grace was given us in Christ Jesus before the beginning of time, 2 Timothy 1:9

5. Press Past People.

Discussion questions:

What’s the worst injury you’ve every had?

Which part of this message was most impactful for you and why?

What is an area in your life where you need to trust God more? And what would that look like?

Sometimes to trust God more, we need to press past comfort, the world, pain, , religion, or people. Which of these things do you need to press past?

Share about a time when God answered a prayer for you or someone you know. What was that experience like, and how did it grow your faith?

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How to live a Life of Peace

“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.” Matthew 11:28-30MSG

Moses’ father-in-law said to him, “What you are doing is not good. You and the people with you will certainly wear yourselves out, for the thing is too heavy for you. You are not able to do it alone… “If you do this, God will direct you, you will be able to endure, and all this people also will go to their place in peace.” Exodus 18:23 (ESV)

5 Ways to Increase our Capacity.

1. Allow our bodies and minds to recover.

There remains, then, a Sabbath-rest for the people of God; for anyone who enters God’s rest also rests from their works, just as God did from his. Let us, therefore, make every effort to enter that rest. Hebrews 4:9-11 (NIV)

2.Know who we are.

Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, for each one should carry their own load. Galatians 6:4-5 (NIV)

3. Know what we were created to do.

Therefore, my brothers and sisters, make every effort to confirm your calling and election. For if you do these things, you will never stumble, and you will receive a rich welcome into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. 2 Peter 1:10-11 (NIV)

4. Get support from others.

Elijah was afraid and ran for his life… “I have had enough, Lord,” he said. “Take my life; I am no better than my ancestors.” Then he lay down under the bush and fell asleep. 1 Kings 19:3-5

5. We need God helping us.

I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O LORD, make me dwell in safety. Psalm 4:8 (NIV)

The LORD gives strength to his people; the LORD blesses his people with peace. Psalm 29:11 (NIV)

Discussion questions:

In what areas do you feel the most stress?

Describe how ignoring God’s principles can cause most of our stress?

Which of the 5 areas resonates most with you as a way of increasing your capacity for Peace?

What are some things we need to eliminate in our lives that speak lies about who we are?

What are practical ways we can learn about who God says we are?

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And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying…. Ephesians 6:18 (NIV)

1. Continue to make prayer a Priority.

And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying…. Ephesians 6:18 (NIV)

The Goal of Prayer: To Move Heaven's Reality into our Earthly Reality.

2. Find a dedicated Place to pray.

Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed. Mark 1:35 (NIV)

3. Have a Plan for prayer.

Once Jesus was in a certain place praying. As he finished, one of his disciples came to him and said, “Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples.” Jesus said, “This is how you should pray...” Luke 11:1-2 (NLT)

4. Pray with Energy and Power.

The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.

What hurdle will I have to overcome to make prayer a powerful experience? James 5:16 (NKJV)

5. Relate to the Persons of prayer.

The amazing grace of the Master, Jesus Christ, the extravagant love of God, the intimate friendship of the Holy Spirit, be with all of you. 2 Corinthians 13:14 (MSG)

Focus on the Cross of Jesus.
Focus on submission to the Father.
Focus on communion with the Holy Spirit.

I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers, I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in his holy people. Ephesians 1:16-18 (NIV)

Discussion questions:

What would I have to rearrange to make prayer the priority?

What place would be most conducive for me to pray effectively?

What plan makes prayer easy, interesting, and effective?

What hurdle will I have to overcome to make prayer a powerful experience?

5. Do you relate to all three Persons of the Trinity in your prayers?

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1. Connect with God relationally 

1. Worship God for all He has done 

2. Ask Him for His will over your life 

3. Request what you need 

4. Ask Him to forgive you of sin 

5. Ask Him protection from the enemy 

6. Tell Him that you trust him and He is in control 

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Matthew 6:30-33 Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness and all these things will be given to you

Christian = we are disciples

👉Being a disciple is very different than being a Christian. (Christianity is hard to define / disciples it’s very clear) Acts 11:26

Disciples = learner / apprentice / follower / I want to be like Jesus / where you going that’s where I am going.

Want you life to straighten up?

You have to put God first.

God will not be second in our lives.

Ways to put God first:

1. Reprioritizing our time for God
2. Realign ourselves with God
3. Restructure our life to include God

Matthew 17:14-20

1. Unbelieving - far from God
2. Perverse - close to the world

This kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting.

When we get close to God we start thinking like God ❤️

The answer to any of your issues is simple.

Prayer and Fasting

1. Prayer brings us closer to God
2. Fasting distances us from the world

Time to push away from the world and push toward Jesus.

Matthew 6 shows us what it looks like to be a disciple. #whenyou

• When you give v.3 soul
• When you pray v.5 spirit
• When you fast v.16 body

If we gave our body everything it craved. We would be dead.

Our soul is mind will and emotions -

What if I just let my emotions run my life? I would be miserable and alone.

If I let my spirit be in charge - I will come closer to God

Emotions lie.

Faith works against our feelings most often.

What will this 21 days look like for you?

How are you going to prioritize your time with God daily?

5 min prayer

5 min worship

5 min journal

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1.Keep Jesus at the center. Psalm 10:4-6
1 chronicles 28:9

Together how do you seek God. 
1.Seek God first individually and then pray together and read together. 
2.Praying together 
3.Listening to sermons together 

Good fights. James 1:19

Fan the flame proverbs 5:18, revelation 2:5
1.Create the moment

Protecting purity. 1 Corinthians 6:18,19. Proverbs 5:8. Matthew 5:8

Always pursuing Matthew 19:3
Investment. 

What are your actions going to do to make our relationship stronger?

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We are to be mission focused.
We look so much inward that we can’t get anything done.

It is not about you.
Look Outward not inward

To go and make disciples

It’s not the me it’s the we.
Remove the I.
We think about what makes me comfortable.
Communal faith

When is the last time I intentionally looked outward?

Your own mission that God called you to.
We wait on the church to schedule something to serve. But we are called to it every single day.

We don’t wait for them to come to us. He gives us the opportunities every single day.

Jesus went low.

We want Jesus along but we don’t want him leading us.
Jesus didn’t care their status.
Take the blinders off

Excuses: your Momma raised you better than that.
No Time: priorities
Time block: how are we using our time to reach out?
You make time for what’s important to you.

We don’t know enough. Look at Peter and Paul: they were uneducated and untrained.
Put in the time to know Gods word.

I just can’t afford to do that right now.
People don’t just need stuff—they need an ear. They need our hearts.

Gift of giving
Gift of kindness.
Gentle response

Mission is possible

Matthew 28:18 Go and make disciples.
Do life with people.
Gift of encouragement.
Host a small group.
We are the same family.

Ask questions.

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Compassion Canyon

Proverbs 15:19

I am going to be a person of compassion

Compassion / Splagchnizmai: to be moved in ones bowels, hence to be moved with compassion. A visceral gut wrenching emotional response that is so strong that we are physically moved to action.

(The bowels were thought to be the seat of love and pity)

Matthew 20:34 Jesus moved with compassion

Mark 6:33-34 Jesus had compassion

Each time Jesus was moved - he acted.

If there is not action attached to your compassion then it’s not real #gas

if you don’t act….

You don’t care.

Love God AND love people

The Good Samaritan

You will always have an excuse to justify not getting involved.

Reasons we don’t help:

1. We're more obsessed with ourselves.
2. Overwhelming exposure to suffering desensitizes us.
3. Lack of personal interaction makes it easier not to care.

True compassion looks like:

1. Inconvenience

True compassion inconveniences you.

What would happen if all the Christian’s decided to be available for God to interrupt them?

Look for the Divine Interruption today!!

⭐️Living your life on call for God

Can God trust you to send you across someone’s path?

1. It’s gonna cost you something

The Samaritan gave two days wages - and took on the responsibility for anymore.

We will do anything short of sin to reach people who don’t know Christ.

1. Changes lives

Be generous for Jesus not others

God break my heart for what breaks yours.

Go and do likewise

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Getting out of the roundabout 

Proverbs 15:19

John 5:1-8

1.You’ve got to Slow down to spread up. Inspect what you expect. Where is my roundabout ?  Is there someone that is keeping you stuck in a roundabout?  You will walk through. 

2.You’ve got to Turn your signal on. Let go of the excuses. Stop blaming the enemy. What is that thing that is keeping you comfortable where you are at? What is soo stinky in your life you can’t even smell it?  

3.You’ve got to let Jesus take the wheel. Control freak 
stage 1 you just get tired
stage 2. Exhausted
stage 3 vulnerable
stage 4 Settle.

John 5:8-9
Your miracle is not being there it leaving there. 

Joshua 1:9

The attachment to your past cannot be stronger than your commitment to the future. 

Jeremiah 29:11-13

Matthew 6:33

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This Father's Day, Relate celebrated all the Rad Dads and Dudes in our lives with a few classic cars and a cool drink!

There are many incredible men in this family, and we are blessed by them all

We must remember to pray  first in all that we do. God gives you the strength you need to stand and press on. 

If it had not been the LORD who was on our side...

Psalm 124:2-5

If it had not been the Lord who was on our side

when people rose up against us, 

then they would have swallowed us up alive,

when their anger was kindled against us;

then the flood would have swept us away,

the torrent would have gone over us;

then over us would have gone

the raging waters.

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Have you ever had some really great news that wasn’t yours to share, but it was so hard to keep it in???

Well, what if we told you that the GREATEST news was yours for the sharing!!!

The Good News of the Gospel of Jesus Christ is the best news, and it should be shared!!

If you're feeling lonely today, we've got good news!

God is always with you.

You've got a spiritual family that cares about you.

Come to church and your spirits will be lifted!

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Challenge: This week  Tell someone how amazing Jesus has been to you 

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One of the most freeing things you can ever let yourself lean into, "I don't know all the answers, but I DO trust God."

So powerful

Speak these things over yourself this morning:

1. I am a warrior for Christ, and I fight against the powers of darkness with His strength.

2. I am a child of promise, and I trust in God's faithfulness to fulfill His promises to me. 

3. I am a recipient of God's abundant blessings, and I give thanks for His goodness. 

Let the symphony of your life reflect the Glory of the Lord.

Pause.

Reflect.

Selah.

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James 3:10-12 

Blessing and cursing come out of the same mouth. My brothers and sisters, these things should not be this way. Does a spring pour out sweet and bitter water from the same opening? Can a fig tree produce olives, my brothers and sisters, or a grapevine produce figs? Neither can a saltwater spring yield fresh water.

You can build       OR        You can destroy.

You. Cannot. Do. Both.

Speak these things over yourself this morning:

1. I am a child of God, created in His image and loved unconditionally. 

2. I am forgiven and redeemed by the blood of Jesus Christ.

3. I am a new creation in Christ, old things have passed away and all things have become new.

And don't forget Summer Small Groups start THIS WEEK!!!

It's not too late to hop into a group

Use this link to learn more and join 
https://relatecommunitychurch.churchcenter.com/groups/small-groups?enrollment=open_signup%2Crequest_to_join&filter=enrollment 

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This week, our first stop on the Relate Summer Roadtrip was 🥁🥁🥁 THE PARENTING PARKWAY!!
Whether you're a new parent, a veteran parent, an aspiring parent, or lead younger humans in any way... Pastors Sean & Angela brought an incredibly insightful word about leading INTENTIONALLY!

Remember Parenting Parkway Tip #1... "Start with a goal in mind"
But, what is that goal? 🤔🤔🤔
Let's get down to the nitty-gritty of what that looks like! 👉👉👉 The GOAL is to gradually transfer a child's dependence away from their parents until their dependence rests solely on God!

Parenting Parkway Tip #2 👇👇👇
Hurry and Love are incompatible!
Love takes TIME and INTENTION.
Ask yourself, "does my family feel like they have my time, attention, and intention?" If not, maybe it's time to slow down and make some changes!1 Peter 5:5 says, 👉 'God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.' 

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Level Up Sunday was... well... NEXT LEVEL!

Relate loves celebrating new seasons of life and CHAMPIONING YOUNG KINGDOM ADVANCERS!!!

Pray today for each and every one of these incredible humans, as they step up to the next level in their lives, and in their relationship with God  

Proverbs 8:17

Those who search will surely find 

Seek the Lord. Seek His wisdom.

The Lord demonstrates His unfailing love. Rest in that this week.

Decide today that you're going to lean into the Lord this week - It's always better when you invite Him in!

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Wow! Our Mother's Day service was off the charts!

Flowers, worship, and a power-packed message from Pastor Angela rocked our Sunday morning! The ladies were showered with blooms, and the atmosphere was buzzing with love and appreciation.

Pastor Angela dropped some serious wisdom bombs, reminding us of the incredible impact mothers have on our lives. It was like a turbo-boost for our hearts!

As you start a new week, take a moment to reflect on Psalm 40:3, which says, "He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear the Lord and put their trust in him."

No matter what challenges you face, God is always #WithYou, ready to give you a new song of hope and joy. So #StartFresh this Monday with a positive attitude and a heart full of gratitude for all the blessings in our lives.

Trust in God's plan for your life

Have faith that He will guide you through any difficulties we may encounter.

Remember, you are loved and valued by God. He has a #purpose for your life, and He will never leave you or forget you. So let's embrace this new week with hope and joy, knowing that God is with us every step of the way

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April 30, 2023 No Offense Week 3

Blind-Spot

To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everyone else, Jesus told this parable: “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people—robbers, evildoers, adulterers—or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.’ “But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’ “I tell you that this man, (tax) rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” Luke 18:9-14

Proud people don’t love well

Our Pride is always in our Blind-Spot

... Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end. John 13:1

Jesus didn’t make people feel wrong

He made them feel loved

“My children, I will be with you only a little longer. You will look for me, and just as I told the Jews, so I tell you now: Where I am going, you cannot come. “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:33-35

I’m Right

Feel Morally Superior

Become Judgmental

Easily Angered and Offended

I’m Forgiven

Feel Profound Gratitude

Become More Accepting

Overflowing With Love

Discussion questions:

Name some examples when Pride is presented as a good thing. (modern, social, culture - heroes, fighters, characters)

Why do you think our own pride is so hard to see in ourselves?

Can you think of a time when you acted out of pride?

What can you do this week to move toward Humility?

How can we stay in a posture of Gratitude?

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Difficult People

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Critical People

Controlling People

Very Needy People

Hypocritical People

Arrogant People

Mean People

How we deal with difficult people?

“In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. Ephesians 4:26-27

Being offended is inevitable

Living offended is a choice.

3 Weapons of Destruction

Divide

Distract

Discredit

Healing for your hurt is only hours away.

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen... Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:29, 31-32

Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me,

and lead me in the way everlasting. Psalm 139:23-24

Discussion questions:

Which kind of difficult people discussed this week are the biggest struggle for you?

Why do you find it difficult to let go of anger and forgive people quickly?

What are some ways that you can work to build people up according to Ephesians 4:29?

Have you ever been a difficult person? How can we work to stay forgiving and building people on a daily basis?

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There's something about worshiping God that frees us from the weight of our circumstances.

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April 2, 2023                                                                                                 
Follow Me  Week 6  | You Cant Follow Jesus Alone!

For you and me to thrive spiritually, you need a thriving spiritual community. Jesus didn't do life alone, and you shouldn't either.  He didn't just have disciples, he built a community. 
We confuse discipleship with being a student, but being a disciple of jesus is closer to being an apprentice. God is our father and we are his people. We must have community in order to make us how God wants us to be.

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Follow Me  Week 5  | You Cant Follow Jesus Alone!

For you and me to thrive spiritually, you need a thriving spiritual community. Jesus didn't do life alone, and you shouldn't either.  He didn't just have disciples, he built a community. 
We confuse discipleship with being a student, but being a disciple of jesus is closer to being an apprentice. God is our father and we are his people. We must have community in order to make us how God wants us to be.

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March 19, 2023
Follow Me Week 4 | Hot Now

“I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.” —Jesus

As Apprentices of Jesus, Our Goal is to live and love in the Way that Jesus lived and loved.

They did so, and the master of the banquet tasted the water that had been turned into wine. He did not realize where it had come from, though the servants who had drawn the water knew. Then he called the bridegroom aside 10 and said, “Everyone brings out the choice wine first and then the cheaper wine after the guests have had too much to drink; but you have saved the best till now.” John 2:8-10

Jesus saw what others didn’t have time to see.

Jesus entered Jericho and was passing through. A man was there by the name of Zacchaeus; he was a chief tax collector and was wealthy. Luke 19:1-2

Jesus pursued what others thought was pointless!

Complaining today about moments you’ll miss tomorrow.

Don’t miss what you HAVE NOW pursuing what you WANT LATER.

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Matt 6:34

Surrender the past you can’t change.

Trust God with a future you can’t control.

Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go into such and such a town and spend a year there and trade and make a profit”— 14 yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes. James 4:13-14 ESV (Mist)

This is the day the Lord has made. We will rejoice and be glad in it. Psalm 118:24 NLT (David)

Discussion questions:

Share about the best day of your life.

Which part of this message was most impactful for you and why?

Talk about some common ways you find yourself getting distracted. How could you start being more present instead?

Do you typically have a harder time surrendering the past you can’t change or trusting God with a future you can’t control? Why is that?

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March 5, 2023 Follow Me Week 2

“I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.” —Jesus

As Disciples or Apprentices of Jesus, Our Goal is to live and love in the Way that Jesus lived and loved.

Both sin and busyness have the same exact effect…

They cut your connection to God,

to other people, your own soul.

“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.” Matt 11:28-30 MSG

But the Lord said to her, “My dear Martha, you are worried and upset over all these details! There is only one thing worth being concerned about. Mary has discovered it, and it will not be taken away from her.” Luke 10:41-42

Hurry Sickness: A behavioral pattern characterized by continual rushing and anxiousness.

Symptoms of Hurry Sickness:

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Hurry kills the best version of you.

And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul? Is anything worth more than your soul? For the Son of Man will come with his angels in the glory of his Father and will judge all people according to their deeds. Matthew 16:26-27

Discussion questions:

Which activities help you feel truly rested?

Which part of this message was most impactful for you and why?

What three things matter most to you? Why did you choose these things, and how can you prioritize them?

What will you do to walk slowly enough to experience Jesus fully and love people deeply? How will you know when you’re doing this well?

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February 26, 2023 Faith Full Week 8

There is a Better Way!

“I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.” —Jesus

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord.

"The greatest enemy to the life you want may be the life you're living." Craig Groeschel

People of the Way:

Goal was to live and love the way

Jesus lived and loved.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres… When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew11:28-30

Dallas Willard –

“A disciple or apprentice, then, is simply someone who has decided to be with another person, under appropriate conditions, in order to become capable of doing what that person does or to become what that person is.”

Be with Jesus

Become like Jesus

Do what he would do if he were you

“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.” Matthew 11:28-30 msg

Discussion questions:

Describe your ideal Day off.

On a scale of 1–10, how fulfilled are you right now? What

makes you say that?

Consider how Jesus lived. What stands out to you the most about His way of living?

What area in your life looks most different from Jesus’ life?

What’s one way you can start living more like Jesus in that area?

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February 19, 2023 Faith FullWeek 7

The quality of your faithfulness is determined by your ability to act, think, and respond selflessly.

“Look at the proud! They trust in themselves, and their lives are crooked. But the righteous will live by their faithfulness to God. Habakkuk 2:4 NLT

How can I practically live a faithful life?

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1.I will Add Value to People

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29

2.I will Multiply Resources

“His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things...’ Matthew 25:21

Pistos→Persons who show themselves faithful in the transaction of business, the execution of commands, or the discharge of official duties

So I was afraid and went out and hid your gold in the ground. See, here is what belongs to you.’ “His master replied, ‘You wicked, lazy servant! Matthew 25:25-26

3.I will Obey God

“And now, compelled by the Spirit, I am going to Jerusalem, not knowing what will happen to me there.” Acts 20:22

Obedience is Our responsibility.

Outcome is God’s responsibility.

“Look, I am coming soon, bringing my reward with me to repay all people according to their deeds. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End.” Revelation 22:12

Discussion questions:

If you could choose a one-word goal to achieve in life.

What one word would you choose?

Why do you think faithfulness matters so much to God?

Read Matthew 25:21. What are some smaller things you’ve been faithful with? What did you learn about God by being faithful with those things?

Share a time when someone trusted you, added value to your life, or helped make you better. How could you help those around you by adding value to their lives?

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February 5, 2023 Faith FullWeek 6

Discipline grows our Faith

Ought to becomes want to

Discipline facilitates progress

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Pre-Decide

Game Changing Pre-decisions

1. Daily Devotions

But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen.” Matthew 6:6. NIV

Yet the news about him spread all the more, so that crowds of people came. To hear him and to be healed of their sickness. But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed. Luke 5:15-16

Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed. Simon and his companions went to look for him, 37 and when they found him, they exclaimed: “Everyone is looking for you!” Mark 1:35–37

2.Percentage Giving

“So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ Matthew 6:31–33

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness... and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:31–33

3.Corporate Worship

For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.

30-DAY CHALLENGE

First minutes of the day

First dollars of your income

First day of the week

Discussion questions:

Is there something you currently enjoy doing that began as a discipline? If so, what made the difference?

Growing up, were you encouraged to develop habits that could be described as private spiritual disciplines (prayer, meditation, devotions, giving, fasting)? Did these habits carry into adulthood?

Read Matthew 6:1–4 and Matthew 6:5–6. Jesus assumed his audience was in the habit of giving and praying. What about you? When it comes to giving and praying, do you trend reactive or proactive? Would you be willing to be proactive for the next 30 days?

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January 15, 2023 Faith FullWeek 3

THIS TIME, IT’S PERSONAL

“Trust is the currency of a relationship.”

“When what we know about God intersects with what we do for God our faith grows!”

Matthew 14 – Mark 6 – Luke 9 – John 6

3 BRIDGES OF FAITH WE MUST CROSS

1. Uncomfortable Situations

Immediately after this, Jesus insisted that his disciples get back into the boat and head across the lake to Bethsaida… Late that night, the disciples were in their boat in the middle of the lake, and Jesus was alone on land. He saw that they were in serious trouble, rowing hard and struggling against the wind and waves. About three o’clock in the morning Jesus came toward them, walking on the water. Mark 6:45, 47-48

1. Personal Ministry

As soon as Jesus heard the news, he left in a boat to a remote area to be alone. But the crowds heard where he was headed and followed on foot from many towns. Jesus saw the huge crowd as he stepped from the boat, and he had compassion on them and healed their sick. That evening the disciples came to him and said, “This is a remote place, and it’s already getting late. Send the crowds away so they can go to the villages and buy food for themselves.”

But Jesus said, “That isn’t necessary—you feed them.” “But we have only five loaves of bread and two fish!” they answered.

“Bring them here,” he said.

Then he told the people to sit down on the grass. Jesus took the five loaves and two fish, looked up toward heaven, and blessed them. Then, breaking the loaves into pieces, he gave the bread to the disciples, who distributed it to the people. They all ate as much as they wanted, and afterward, the disciples picked up twelve baskets of leftovers. Matthew 14:19-21

What breaks your heart?

Where do I need to put my trust in God and take a step?

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“I’ll do what I can do and trust

God to do what only He can do.”

1. Total Surrender

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Faith FullWeek 2

Believe

We confuse Believing and Knowing.

Trust is the currency of relationship

Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do. James 1:22, 25

We should be preparing for temptation

Temptation Preparation

1. Because the devil is coming for you.

I wrote to you… so that Satan will not outsmart us. For we are familiar with his evil schemes. 2 Corinthians 2:9a, 11 NLT

2.Because you aren’t as strong as you think.

So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall! 1 Corinthians 10:12

3 Ways we can prepare for temptation.

1. Move the Line

Preparing—putting distance between me and temptation.

The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance. Psalm 16:6

1. Do the Math

What if the worst-case scenario comes true?

…You will be sinning against the Lord; and you may be sure that your sin will find you out. Num 32:23

1. Plan your Escape

Joseph was a very handsome and well-built young man, and Potiphar’s wife soon began to look at him lustfully. “Come and sleep with me,” she demanded. Genesis 39:6-7

But he left his cloak in her hand and ran out of the house. Genesis 39:12b

And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.1 Cor 10:13 (keys beginning of verse)

Why would I resist a temptation in the future if I have the power to eliminate it today?

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November 6, 2022 ExponentialWeek 1

Leaving a Legacy

One day as Jesus was standing by the Lake of Gennesaret, the people were crowding around him and listening to the word of God. He saw at the water’s edge two boats, left there by the fishermen, who were washing their nets. He got into one of the boats, the one belonging to Simon, and asked him to put out a little from shore. Then he sat down and taught the people from the boat.

When he had finished speaking, he said to Simon, “Put out into deep water, and let down the nets for a catch.” Simon answered, “Master, we’ve worked hard all night and haven’t caught anything. But because you say so, I will let down the nets.”

When they had done so, they caught such a large number of fish that their nets began to break. So they signaled their partners in the other boat to come and help them, and they came and filled both boats so full that they began to sink.

When Simon Peter saw this, he fell at Jesus’ knees and said, “Go away from me, Lord; I am a sinful man!” For he and all his companions were astonished at the catch of fish they had taken, and so were James and John, the sons of Zebedee, Simon’s partners. Then Jesus said to Simon, “Don’t be afraid; from now on you will fish for people.” So they pulled their boats up on shore, left everything and followed him. Luke 5:1-11

1. It’s Impossible to know what is possible.

We can’t wait or a dramatic sign before we take action.

1. Our Action activates the Extraordinary.

God moments have infinite potential!

(Abraham) You see, his faith and his actions worked together. His actions made his faith complete. James 2:22

My Daily Decisions will determine my destiny.

1. We will leave a Legacy of Faith.

Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us… Ephesians 4:20

Discussion Questions:

Can you remember a small decision that made a major change in your life?

What are some of the Daily Decisions that can lead us closer to God and His plan for our lives?

Think of some ways you can put your actions with your Faith this week?

What kind of Legacy would you like to leave?

How can we leave a Legacy of Faith for the generations to come?

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October 23, 2022 What’s the PointWeek 3

Excuse Me

There was a Benjamite, a man of standing, whose name was Kish son of Abiel, the son of Zeror, the son of Bekorath, the son of Aphiah of Benjamin. Kish had a son named Saul, as handsome a young man as could be found anywhere in Israel, and he was a head taller than anyone else. Now the donkeys belonging to Saul’s father Kish were lost, and Kish said to his son Saul, “Take one of the servants with you and go and look for the donkeys.” 1 Samuel 9:1-3

“When they reached the district of Zuph, Saul said to the servant who was with him, “Come, let’s go back, or my father will stop thinking about the donkeys and start worrying about us.” But the servant replied, “Look, in this town there is a man of God; he is highly respected, and everything he says comes true. Let’s go there now. Perhaps he will tell us what way to take.” Saul said to his servant, “But if we go, what can we give the man? The food in our sacks is gone. We have no gift to take to the man of God. What do we have?”1 Samuel 9:5-7

3 Thoughts on our Excuses:

1. Excuses always begin with “But!”

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1. Excuses come from Pride and Fear.

“Come, let’s go back, or my father will stop thinking about the donkeys and start worrying about us.” 1 Samuel 9:5

Saul said to his servant, “But if we go, what can we give the man? The food in our sacks is gone. We have no gift to take to the man of God. What do we have?” 1 Samuel 9:7

The Only 5 Fears we all share.

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1. We overcome our Excuses with Faith.

The servant answered him again. “Look,” he said, “I have a quarter of a shekel of silver. I will give it to the man of God so that he will tell us what way to take.” 1 Samuel 9:8

Discussion Questions

What are some of the lamest excuses you have heard?

Why do you think it’s easy for us to fail the Pride test?

Who do you have in your life that can help you stay on track, even in you Donkey Mission?

Of the 5 Common Fears listed above, which do you struggle with?

How can you use your faith this week to challenge Fear and Pride?

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What’s the PointWeek 2

Dealing with our Past

There was a Benjamite, a man of standing, whose name was Kish son of Abiel, the son of Zeror, the son of Bekorath, the son of Aphiah of Benjamin. Kish had a son named Saul, as handsome a young man as could be found anywhere in Israel, and he was a head taller than anyone else. Now the donkeys belonging to Saul’s father Kish were lost, and Kish said to his son Saul, “Take one of the servants with you and go and look for the donkeys.” So he passed through the hill country of Ephraim and through the area around Shalisha, but they did not find them. They went on into the district of Shaalim, but the donkeys were not there. Then he passed through the territory of Benjamin, but they did not find them. 1 Samuel 9:1-4

4 Truths for Us:

1. No Detail of our Story is Insignificant.

There was a Benjamite, a man of standing, whose name was Kish son of Abiel, the son of Zeror, the son of Bekorath, the son of Aphiah of Benjamin. Kish had a son named Saul, 1 Samuel 9:1

We are products of our past,

but don’t have to be prisoners of it.

1. Our Past Matters to our Present more than we Realize.

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9

1. What we won’t deal with, compounds in our life.

Struggles in my life that may stem from issues in my past:

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1. God wants to heal us of those things in our Past that can hold us back in the Future.

What do we do?

1. Notice it when it appears.
2. Get some Help with it.
3. Get rid of it.

Discussion Questions

What are the biggest changes when you go back to your hometown?

Tell of a time when you unintentionally hurt someone.

Is it possible that some of the things you struggle with today are unresolved issues from your past?

What are some steps you can take to allow God to bring healing to your heart and settle your past?

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October 9, 2022 What’s the PointWeek 1

Donkey Mission

There was a Benjamite, a man of standing, whose name was Kish son of Abiel, the son of Zeror, the son of Bekorath, the son of Aphiah of Benjamin. Kish had a son named Saul, as handsome a young man as could be found anywhere in Israel, and he was a head taller than anyone else. Now the donkeys belonging to Saul’s father Kish were lost, and Kish said to his son Saul, “Take one of the servants with you and go and look for the donkeys.” So he passed through the hill country of Ephraim and through the area around Shalisha, but they did not find them. They went on into the district of Shaalim, but the donkeys were not there. Then he passed through the territory of Benjamin, but they did not find them. 1 Samuel 9:1-4

4 Truths about Donkey Missions:

1. Donkey Missions test our Patience.

When they reached the district of Zuph, Saul said to the servant who was with him, “Come, let’s go back, or my father will stop thinking about the donkeys and start worrying about us.” 1 Samuel 9:5

Our comfort and feelings are not God’s first priority.

1. Donkey Missions keep us Humble.

But the servant replied, “Look, in this town there is a man of God; he is highly respected, and everything he says comes true. Let’s go there now. Perhaps he will tell us what way to take.” Saul said to his servant, “If we go, what can we give the man? The food in our sacks is gone. We have no gift to take to the man of God. What do we have?” 1 Samuel 9:6-7

1. Donkey Missions test our Integrity.

“Good,” Saul said to his servant. “Come, let’s go.” So they set out for the town where the man of God was. As they were going up the hill to the town, they met some young women coming out to draw water, and they asked them, “Is the seer here?” “He is,” they answered. “He’s ahead of you. Hurry now; he has just come to our town today, for the people have a sacrifice at the high place. 1 Samuel 9:10-12

1. Donkey Missions are always about Something Greater than Donkeys.

Now the day before Saul came, the Lord had revealed this to Samuel: “About this time tomorrow I will send you a man from the land of Benjamin. Anoint him ruler over my people Israel; he will deliver them from the hand of the Philistines. I have looked on my people, for their cry has reached me.” When Samuel caught sight of Saul, the Lord said to him, “This is the man I spoke to you about; he will govern my people.” 1 Samuel 9:16-17

3 Challenges:

1. Just start being faithful to you Donkey Mission!
2. Don’t let anything be beneath you!
3. Stop seeing things as Pointless and start seeing them as Practice.

Discussion Questions

Talk about a time when you were on a Donkey Mission.

Can you remember a time when God was working, but it was difficult to see it in the moment?

How can we trust God more in those pointless moments?

What are some things in your life that draw you closer to God in dark times?

What things tend to pull you away from your identity as God’s son or daughter?

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September 25, 2022 Gospel CultureWeek 1

Be My Witnesses

After his suffering, he presented himself to them and gave many convincing proofs that he was alive. He appeared to them over a period of forty days and spoke about the kingdom of God. 4 On one occasion, while he was eating with them, he gave them this command: “Do not leave Jerusalem, but wait for the gift my Father promised, which you have heard me speak about. 5 For John baptized with[a] water, but in a few days you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit.”

6 Then they gathered around him and asked him, “Lord, are you at this time going to restore the kingdom to Israel?”

7 He said to them: “It is not for you to know the times or dates the Father has set by his own authority. 8 But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” Acts 1:3-8

“For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.” Luke 19:10

4 Groups of People we are to Be Witnesses to:

1. Our Jerusalem

People in my “Sphere of Influence”

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1. Judea

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1. And Samaria

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“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy. But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven.” Matthew 5:43-45

1. The Ends of the Earth

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Discussion Questions

Have you ever been able to share your faith in public?

Do people know you are a Christian before you tell them?

What is your biggest hurdle to inviting people to church?

Can the Body of Christ help people get closer to God?

Who do you know that is disconnected from the Church?

How can you get creative and invite them to Relate?

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August 21, 2022 Solid Ground Week 4

We the Jury…

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.” Matthew 7:24-27

Exhibit A: The Historic evidence.

1. Eyewitness accounts.
2. Recorded and copied with extreme care.
3. Archeological confirmation.

Exhibit B: The Scientific evidence.

Let every created thing give praise to the Lord, for he issued his command, and they came into being. He set them in place forever and ever. His decree will never be revoked. Psalm 148:5-6 NLT

The earth was flat.
God sits enthroned above the circle of the earth. Isaiah 40:22 (NIV)

The earth has to be held up.
He spreads out the northern skies over empty space; he suspends the earth over nothing. Job 26:7 (NIV)

The number of stars could be counted.
...the stars of the sky cannot be counted. Jeremiah 33:22 (NLT)

Things Science can’t prove

Metaphysical Truth

Aesthetic truth

Moral Truth

Experiential Truth

Logical Truth

Exhibit C: The Prophetic Evidence.

The angel said to me, “These words are trustworthy and true. The Lord, the God who inspires the prophets, set his angel to show his servants the things that must soon take place.” Revelation 22:6

Exhibit D: The Thematic Evidence.

The Holy Bible was written over a period of 1600 years in over a dozen countries on three continents by 40 people in three different languages.

Then Jesus took them through the writings of Moses and all the prophets, explaining from all the Scriptures the things concerning himself. Luke 24:27 NLT

Exhibit E: It is Trusted by Jesus.

“For truly I tell you, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished.” Matthew 5:18 (NIV)

Exhibit F: It has Survived all Attacks.

“...the grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of the Lord endures forever.” 1 Peter 1:24-25 (NIV)

Exhibit G: I Am the Evidence.

Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:31-32 (NIV)

• I’m Not Convinced
• I Accept the Bible as God’s flawless word and accept it as my final Authority. I will live God’s Word.

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August 14, 2022 Solid Ground Week 3

The Bible Tour

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.” Matthew 7:24-27

1. Get a translation I like.

Formal equivalency - KJV, NKJV, NASB, and ESV

Functional equivalency - NLT, Good News, TEV, and NIV

Paraphrase - Living Bible, and The Message

Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up. 1 Corinthians 13:4 (KJV)

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 1 Corinthians 13:4 (NIV)

Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have. Love doesn’t strut, doesn’t have a swelled head. 1 Corinthians 13:4 (MSG)

1. Get a Study Bible.
2. Get a Small Group.

Understanding the Bible

It was written over a period of 1600 years in over a dozen countries on three continents by 40 people in three different languages.

The Bible was written by poets, prophets, farmers, kings, soldiers, shepherds, princes, priests, historians, fisherman, tax collectors, scholars, businessmen and doctors.

The Bible was written in caves, ships, palaces, prisons, and deserts. How did they come up with the same story?

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (NIV)

Law Books (5) Genesis – Deuteronomy

History Books (12) Joshua – Esther

Poetry Books (5)
Job – Song of Solomon

Prophecy Books (17)
5 Major Prophets: Isaiah – Daniel
12 Minor Prophets: Hosea – Malachi

The Gospels (4)
Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John

The Book of Acts
The historical record of the first Church

The Epistles (21) Romans – Jude

The Revelation
Prophecy of the last days and eternity

The Plot - The Mirror Image

The Subject of the Bible is Jesus.

“You search the Scriptures because you think they give you eternal life. But the Scriptures point to me!” John 5:39 (NLT)

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16 (NIV)

The Verb of the Bible is Give.

This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. 1 John 3:16 (NIV)

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August 7, 2022 Solid Ground Week 2

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.” Matthew 7:24-27
So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God. Romans 10:17 (NKJV)
Oh, how I love your law! I meditate on it all day long. Your commands are always with me and make me wiser than my enemies. Psalm 119:97-98
1. Love the Word of God.

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (NIV)
The Bible is the only book where the author is in love with the reader.It’s how much it
We also thank God continually because, when you received the Word of God which you heard from us, you accepted it, not as the word of men, but actually as it is, the Word of God, which is at work in you who believe. 1 Thessalonians 2:13 (NIV)
1. Learn the Word of God.

Listen to God’s Word.
“You study the Scriptures diligently because you think that in them you have eternal life. These are the very Scriptures that testify about me...” John 5:39
Your foundation determines the stability
and sustainability of your life.
Read God’s Word.
Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” Matthew 4:4 (NIV)
Study God’s Word.
Study this Book of Instruction continually. Meditate on it day and night so you will be sure to obey everything written in it. Only then will you prosper and succeed in all you do. Joshua 1:8
1. Live the Word of God.

“God’s word is my Foundation and my Firepower.”
Be alert, be on watch! Your enemy, the Devil, roams around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. Be firm in your faith and resist him, because you know that other believers in all the world are going through the same kind of sufferings. 1 Peter 5:8-9

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July 31, 2022 Solid Ground Week 1

Your foundation determines the

stability and sustainability of your life.

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.” Matthew 7:24-27

The Bible is the only Solid Ground

worth building your life on.

S.O.A.P. Bible Study Method.

1. Start with Scripture.

Man shall not liv eon bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God. Matthew 4:4

Read the Bible regularly and systematically.

Make an appointment with God every day.

Study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman who needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. 2 Timothy 2:15

1. Make Observations.

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work. 2 Timothy 3:16-17

It’s not how much of the Word you go through,

It’s how much it goes through you.

1. Apply the Bible.

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. Matthew 7:24-27

Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. James 1:22

We do not change the Bible to match our lifestyle.

We change our lifestyle to match the Bible.

1. Pray the Bible.

But the advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have told you. John 14:26

Scripture – One or two verses that stood out to you

Observation – What is the passage saying?

Application – How can I apply it Today?

Prayer – My conversation with God about the passage.

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July 24, 2022 Best Summer EverWeek 8

Therefore since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Hebrews 12:1
Joseph: There are Seasons of Training that will happen to
prepare one to fulfill their God given destiny.
1. The season of Calling.

Now Israel loved Joseph more than all his children, because he was the son of his old age: and he made him a coat of many colors. And when his brethren saw that their father loved him more than all his brethren, they hated him, and could not speak peaceably unto him. Genesis 37:3-4
God uses the processes of life itself to develop us into who He has destined us to be.
There is a divine assignment coming but often it looks like a disability before it becomes the ability to fulfill God’s destiny for you
1. The season of Separation.

So when Joseph came to his brothers, they stripped him of his robe—the ornate robe he was wearing— 24 and they took him and threw him into the cistern. The cistern was empty; there was no water in it. Genesis 37:23-24
1. The season of Training.

Focus what happens In you not to you.
Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and that your fruit should remain: that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you. John 15:16
Glory belongs to God, whose power is at work in us. By this power he can do infinitely more than we can ask or imagine. Ephesians 3:20
1. The season of Fulfillment.

And Pharaoh said unto his servants, Can we find such a one as this is, a man in whom the Spirit of God is? And Pharaoh said unto Joseph, Forasmuch as God hath shewed thee all this, there is none so discreet and wise as thou art: Thou shalt be over my house, and according unto thy word shall all my people be ruled: only in the throne will I be greater than thou. And Pharaoh said unto Joseph, See, I have set thee over all the land of Egypt. Genesis 41:38-41
God causes the storm that He might teach us how to rule the storm.
Jacob lost his son at 17 years old .
And Jacob gained his son Joseph back for 17 years.
God will take care of your every detail during your assignment from Him.

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This week, we talk about Deborah, a prophet and judge who led Israel back to God after a period of rebellion. After Joshua died, the following generation of Israelites turned away from God, so God allowed their enemies to take control of them and oppress them. When Deborah became the leader of the Israelites, she encouraged Balak, the commander of the Israelite army, to fight against their oppressors, confident that God would bring them victory. Balak was intimidated, but because Deborah was willing to walk into battle with him, the Israelites defeated their enemies and were liberated. If Deborah were here today, she would tell us, “Encouragement makes all the difference.” God will use us if we are willing to be the biggest cheerleaders for the people around us. We must take our eyes off the negative and encourage others in every step they take in the right direction, building their confidence and belief that by God’s power, they can overcome. In addition to encouragement, Deborah would challenge us to “Be brave.” We live in a time that desperately needs brave men and women to step up and lead. We can be brave because we know who we are: fully loved children of the Most High King. We can also be brave because we know that Heaven is our home. We are citizens and ambassadors of Heaven, and we have the full support of Heaven’s armies ready fight on our behalf. And we can be brave because we know that God causes all things to work together for good. In the face of difficulty, let’s be people who are encouraging and brave. Our willingness to act might be the difference between oppression and victory.

“Haven’t I commanded you? Strength! Courage! Don’t be timid; don’t get discouraged. God, your God, is with you every step you take .’” – Joshua 1:9 MSG

Discussion Questions

• Talk about a time when God used someone’s encouragement to help you overcome an obstacle. What did they do to encourage you? Why was their encouragement effective?

• Discuss the concept of “everyday bravery.” It takes bravery to forgive. Turning the other cheek requires bravery. What daily deci- sions are you facing in which you need to be brave? What will empower you to take those brave steps?

• Talk about the fact that God works all things together for good. How do you go about releasing fear and trusting God in your life? How can you choose joy in the midst of the unknown?

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June 19, 2022 Best Summer Ever Week 3

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Hebrews 12:1

To finish your race, must have a Faith Perspective.

Perspective: A point of view from which something is evaluated

The Perspective of Self-Focus.

After this the word of the Lord came to Abram in a vision: “Do not be afraid, Abram. I am your shield, your very great reward.” But Abram replied, “O Sovereign Lord, what good are all your blessings when I don’t even have a son? Since you’ve given me no children, Eliezer of Damascus, a servant in my household, will inherit all my wealth. You have given me no descendants of my own, so one of my servants will be my heir.” Genesis 15:1-3

The “Self-focused” perspective takes power from God and gives it our problem.

“This man will not be your heir, but a son coming from your own body will be your heir.” He took him outside and said, “Look up at the heavens and count the stars--if indeed you can count them.” Then he said to him, “So shall your offspring be.” Genesis 15:3-6

The Perspective of Comparison.

“This man will not be your heir, but a son coming from your own body will be your heir.” He took him outside and said, “Look up at the heavens and count the stars--if indeed you can count them.” Then he said to him, “So shall your offspring be.” Genesis 15:3-6

When you are wishing for someone else’s life you are wasting yours.

The Perspective of Reason.

Then Abraham bowed down to the ground, but he laughed to himself in disbelief. “How could I become a father at the age of 100?” he thought. “And how can Sarah have a baby when she is ninety years old?” Genesis 17:17

No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead. Philippians 3:13

How do we shift our Perspective to Faith

Surround yourself with people of faith.

Engage in worship.

Keep looking to eternity.

Discussion Questions:

What kind of likes and dislikes do you share with your family members?

How about areas that you have different preferences?

Can you think of a time when no one shared your perspective?

How can we recognize when we are too focused on ourselves?

When are you most tempted to compare yourself to others?

Are there areas that you need to trust God in that don’t make sense yet?

What steps can you take to start having a perspective of Faith?

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Best Summer Ever

Week 2 / Esther “Such a time as This”

Hebrews 12:1 - Therefore, since we are surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.

When you can’t TRACE God you have to TRUST God!

Esther 1:1-18 Scripture Verses - The Message Version ___________________________________________________________

What would Esther say to Encourage Us through her story?

1. God Opportunities are often disguised as OBSTACLES.

What are your obstacles?

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Esther 2:8 -11 Scripture Verses - The Message Version

2. God Opportunities are delivered through PEOPLE.

The ALIGNMENT is always a part of the ASSIGNMENT!

3. God Opportunities require PATIENCE to prepare them.

It’s not our ability to wait, but ability to wait with the right ATTITUDE!

4. God Opportunities are always bigger than YOU.

1 Corinthians 2:9 (NIV VERSION)

No eye has seen, no ear has heard and no mind has imagined the things

that God has prepared for those who love him

1 Peter 4:10 (NIV VERSION)

We’re called to use our gifts to serve others as faithful stewards of God’s

grace.

1 Corinthians 12:4-6 (NIV VERSION)

There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but to the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work.

Esther Sermon Discussion Questions

1. When you walk through various trials or find yourself facing

obstacles, in what ways do you connect best with God?

What promises do you lean on?

James 1:2-3 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces

perseverance.

1. In this sermon we see God bring people into Esther’s story in an

unordinary way to do extraordinary things for the kingdom. When

have you experienced God placing someone in your life that you can

see a clear path to a God purpose through that relationship?

Ecclesiaestes 3:1 For everything there is a season, and a time for every

matter under heaven

1. In life we often find ourselves feeling like we are always waiting.

Yet, we know God’s timing is perfect in how he leads the direction

of our lives. When do you find yourself struggling with having

patience in your every day?

Ephesians 4:2 Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.

1. We learned in the message about Esther that God brings about

good opportunities to our lives. To learn to look for the God

Opportunity that lies within. When is a time you discovered you

made a huge impact to the kingdom through an opportunity that

you would not have expected?

Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

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June 5, 2022 Best Summer EverWeek 1

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Hebrews 12:1

You can be blind without losing your eyes

1. Blind to God’s purpose for your life.

“You will become pregnant and have a son whose head is never to be touched by a razor because the boy is to be a Nazirite, dedicated to God from the womb. He will take the lead in delivering Israel from the hands of the Philistines.” Judges 13:5

Where there is no revelation, people cast off restraint. Proverbs 29:18

When I can’t see God’s vision, I’ll settle for a counterfeit.

1. Blind to the power of relationships.

When he returned, he said to his father and mother, “I have seen a Philistine woman in Timnah; now get her for me as my wife.” His father and mother replied, “Isn’t there an acceptable woman among your relatives or among all our people? Must you go to the uncircumcised Philistines to get a wife?” But Samson said to his father, “Get her for me. She’s the right one for me.” Judges 14:2-3

Don’t trade your calling for your comfort.

Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.” 1 Corinthians 15:33

1. Blind to the nature of God.

After putting him to sleep on her lap, she called for someone to shave off the seven braids of his hair, and so began to subdue him. And his strength left him. Then she called, “Samson, the Philistines are upon you!” He awoke from his sleep and thought, “I’ll go out as before and shake myself free.” But he did not know that the LORD had left him. Then the Philistines seized him, gouged out his eyes and took him down to Gaza. Binding him with bronze shackles, they set him to grinding grain in the prison. Judges 16:19-21

Samson’s Words of Encouragement

1. “Protect the presence of God.”

And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Ephesians 4:30

1. “Choose your relationships carefully.”

And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near. Hebrews 10:25

1. “Failure is never final.”

Then Samson prayed to the LORD, “Sovereign LORD, remember me. Please, God, strengthen me just once more...” Judges 16:28

Discussion Questions:

1. Do you have any loved ones that have joined that great crowd of witnesses described in Hebrews 12:1?
2. Name something you prefer to be name brand over off brand.
3. Have you ever felt blind to God’s purpose for your life?
4. Can you remember a time when loved ones warned you of your actions?
5. What does the fear of the Lord mean to you? (humble respect)
6. Is there a part of your life that you would like God to revive?

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May 22, 2022 Achilles Week 5

Common areas where we can be overloaded:

ActivitiesWorkInformation

ChoicesChangesAccessibility

DebtWorriesPace of Life

How did Jesus deal with overload?

Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. So when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was two more days, John 11:5-6

On his arrival, Jesus found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb for four days. Now Bethany was less than two miles from Jerusalem, John 11:17-18

Jesus had the most important assignment on the planet, and yet he was never in a hurry.

Hurry sickness: A behavior pattern characterized by continual rushing and anxiousness.

If we follow an unrushed Jesus,

we should be living an unrushed life.

You Cannot love well and be in a hurry.

Be still, and know that I am God. Psalm 46:10

How do I stop the hurry? Create Margins

Margin is the space between my load and my limits

1. Add margins for problems.

“In this world you will have trouble!” John 16:33

Sensible people will see trouble coming and avoid it, but an unthinking person will walk right into it and regret it later. Proverbs 22:3

1. Add margins for people.

Then one of the synagogue leaders, named Jairus, came, and when he saw Jesus, he fell at his feet. He pleaded earnestly with him, “My little daughter is dying. Please come and put your hands on her so that she will be healed and live.” So Jesus went with him. A large crowd followed and pressed around him. And a woman was there who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years. Then the woman, knowing what had happened to her, came and fell at his feet and, trembling with fear, told him the whole truth. Mark 5:25

Jesus turned and saw her. “Take heart, daughter,” he said, “your faith has healed you.” And the woman was healed at that moment. Matthew 9:22

Is you focus on the things you need to do,

or the people you need to pour into?

You must slow down in order to see.

1. Add margins for play.

And as Jesus reclined at table in the house, behold, many tax collectors and sinners came and were reclining with Jesus and his disciples. Matthew 9:10. ESV

When you rush toward what is next,

you miss what is now.

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May 15, 2022 Achilles Week 4

Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom. Song of Solomon 2:15

But the godly will flourish like palm trees and grow strong like the cedars of Lebanon. For they are transplanted to the Lord’s own house. They flourish in the courts of our God. Even in old age they will still produce fruit;
they will remain vital and green. Psalm 92:12-13

JESUS’ COMMUNITY

Jesus went up on a mountainside and called to him those he wanted, and they came to him. He appointed twelve that they might be with him and that he might send them out to preach and to have authority to drive out demons. Mark 3:13

1. I need a community that ______________________.

Then Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan River. He was led by the Spirit in the wilderness, where he was tempted by the devil for forty days. Luke 4:1-2

My community that loves Jesus: _____________________

Don’t team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness? What harmony can there be between Christ and the devil? 2 Corinthians 6:14

1. I need a community that is ____________________.

Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near. Hebrews 10:24

What is my community that

is on mission: ________________________

Every Member is a ___________________.

Every _______________ is Important.

Everyone is a ________ at something.

1. I need a community that ______________________.

Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results. James 5:16

We go to Christ for our ________________________.

We go to the Church for our _______________________.

My Community that brings Freedom: _________________

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May 1, 2022 Achilles Week 2

Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom. Song of Solomon 2:15

Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. The promise is for you and your children and for all who are far off—for all whom the Lord our God will call.” Acts 2:38-39 (NIV)

I can receive the Holy Spirit.

The amazing grace of the Master, Jesus Christ, the extravagant love of God, the intimate friendship of the Holy Spirit, be with all of you. 2 Corinthians 13:14 (MSG)

While Apollos was at Corinth, Paul took the road through the interior and arrived at Ephesus. There he found some disciples and asked them, “Did you receive the Holy Spirit when you believed?” They answered, “No, we have not even heard that there is a Holy Spirit.” So Paul asked, “Then what baptism did you receive?” “John’s baptism,” they replied. Paul said, “John’s baptism was a baptism of repentance. He told the people to believe in the one coming after him, that is, in Jesus.” On hearing this, they were baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus. When Paul placed his hands on them, the Holy Spirit came on them, and they spoke in tongues and prophesied. Acts 19:1-6

Philip went down to a city in Samaria and proclaimed the Christ there... But when they believed Philip as he preached the good news of the kingdom of God and the name of Jesus Christ, they were baptized, both men and women. When the apostles in Jerusalem heard that Samaria had accepted the word of God, they sent Peter and John to them. When they arrived, they prayed for them that they might receive the Holy Spirit, because the Holy Spirit had not yet come upon any of them; Acts 8:5, 12 (NIV)

they had simply been baptized into the name of the Lord Jesus. Then Peter and John placed their hands on them, and they received the Holy Spirit. Acts 8:14-17 (NIV)

I can be led by the Holy Spirit.

Then Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan River. He was led by the Spirit in the wilderness, where he was tempted by the devil for forty days. Luke 4:1-2

Whatever fill you leads you.

Being led by the Spirit might not make sense,
but it will make a difference.

All that we have is not all that God has.

As the man went eastward with a measuring line in his hand, he measured off a thousand cubits and then led me through water that was ankle-deep. He measured off another thousand cubits and led me through water that was knee-deep. He measured off another thousand and led me through water that was up to the waist. He measured off another thousand, but now it was a river that I could not cross, because the water had risen and was deep enough to swim in—a river that no one could cross. Swarms of living creatures will live wherever the river flows. There will be large numbers of fish, because this water flows there and makes the salt water fresh; so where the river flows everything will live. Ezekiel 47:9 (NIV)

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April 24, 2022 Achilles Week 1

My Tongue

James 1:26 NLT If you claim to be religious but don’t control your tongue, you are fooling yourself, and your religion is worthless.

1. My words will determine my direction.

We can make a large horse go wherever we want by means of a small bit in its mouth. And a small rudder makes a huge ship turn wherever the pilot chooses to go, even though the winds are strong. James 3:3-4 NLT

If I change my words, my life will change.

1. My words can give life or take life.

In the same way, the tongue is a small thing that makes grand speeches. But a tiny spark can set a great forest on fire. And among all the parts of the body, the tongue is a flame of fire. James 3:5-6 NLT

We shape our words and then our words shape us.

1. My words always reveal my heart.

Sometimes it praises our Lord and Father, and sometimes it curses those who have been made in the image of God. And so blessing and cursing come pouring out of the same mouth. Surely, my brothers and sisters, this is not right! Does a spring of water bubble out with both fresh water and bitter water? James 3:9-11 NLT

The real problem isn’t my tongue, it’s my heart.

So what do we do?

1. Allow God to change my heart.

People can tame all kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and fish, but no one can tame the tongue. It is restless and evil, full of deadly poison. James 3:7-8

May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing to you, O LORD, my rock and my redeemer. Psalm 19:14

1. Put a filter on what I allow in my heart.

For out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks. Matthew 12:34-35

The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him. Matthew 12:34-35

Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Proverbs 4:23

1. Decide to speak words of life.

Words of affection.

Words of praise.

Words of encouragement.

Words of healing.

Words of faith.

Discussion Questions:

How have you been affected by life-giving and life-taking words? Which do you tend toward?

What life-giving words do you need to speak to yourself and others?

Name some things that you should not allow into your heart.

Which words do you need to work on the most?

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April 10, 2022 GLOW Week 4

ANYTHING SHORT OF SIN

On hearing this, Jesus said to them, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.” Mark 2:17

A few days later, when Jesus again entered Capernaum, the people heard that he had come home. They gathered in such large numbers that there was no room left, not even outside the door, and he preached the word to them. Some men came, bringing to him a paralyzed man, carried by four of them. Since they could not get him to Jesus because of the crowd, they made an opening in the roof above Jesus by digging through it and then lowered the mat the man was lying on. When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralyzed man, “Son, your sins are forgiven.” Mark 2:1-5

WE WILL DO ANYTHING SHORT OF SIN TO ____________ PEOPLE WHO DON’T KNOW CHRIST.

LOVE FOR PEOPLE WITHOUT CHRIST

Apathetic 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Passionate

1. BEAR SOME ____________________.

Some men came, bringing to [Jesus] a paralyzed man, carried by four of them. Mark 2:3

People don’t ____________ how much you _____________

until they _____________ how much you ______________.

Stop being __________________ and

start being __________________.

2. BREAK SOME ____________________.

Since they could not get him to Jesus because of the crowd, they made an opening in the roof above Jesus by digging through it and then lowered the mat the man was lying on. Mark 2:4

Discussion Questions:

Running with scissors? Swimming after eating? What rules do you find yourself breaking that seem totally worth it?

What do you like about our church that you could share with others? What about inviting them to this group?

Brainstorm creative ways to use your circle of influence to bring people closer to Christ. Don’t forget your online influence!

Jesus ate with sinners. What are some ways you can get more involved in the lives of people who are far from Christ?

Name three people you know who need Jesus in their lives. What will you do this week to reach out to them?

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April 3, 2022 GLOW

Week 3 // The Customer is always right!

Meanwhile his disciples urged him, “Rabbi, eat something.” But he said to them, “I have food to eat that you know nothing about.” Then his disciples said to each other, “Could someone have brought him food?” “My food,” said Jesus, “is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work. John 4:31-34

Helping someone else is what helps me the most.

Consumer 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Contributor

How to become a Contributor!!!

1. Move from Passive to Active.

The Church isn’t a building, it’s God’sPeople.

6 In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. So if God has given you the ability to prophesy, speak out with as much faith as God has given you. 7 If your gift is serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, teach well. 8 If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly. Romans 12:6-8 NLT

1. Move from Entitled to Grateful.

Yes, they knew God, but they wouldn’t worship him as God or even give him thanks. And they began to think up foolish ideas of what God was like. As a result, their minds became dark and confused. Romans 1:21-22

The right response to God’s generosity to us is Gratitude

1. Move from Me to We.

God doesn’t make me better than you,

He makes me better than me

“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:14-16

…And God’s grace was so powerfully at work in them all 34 that there were no needy persons among them. Acts 4:33-34

Discussion Questions:

Name some examples of consumerism in our culture?

What did Jesus mean by, “…food you know nothing about.”?

What does an Active Faith life look like?

How does gratitude help keep me from being entitled?

Why is the “we” so important in our mission as a church?

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March 27, 2022
GLOW Week 2

COMMUNITY MATTERS

Community is part of God’s plan for us to healthy.

Those who accepted his message were baptized, and about three thousand were added to their number that day. They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved. Acts 2:41-47

A commitment to get along.

A commitment to care for on another.

A commitment to worship together.

A commitment to hang out outside of church.

A commitment to celebrate together

A commitment to grow the community

The Local Church is the hope of the world.

1. Commitment is easier together.

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but

encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching. Hebrews 10:24-25

Connect to your community

1. Join a Small Group.
2. Join the Dream Team.

2. We are Tougher Together.

Once you had no identity as a people; now you are God’s people. 1 Peter 2:10

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3. We can do more together.

Just as our bodies have many parts and each part has a special function, so it is with Christ’s body. We are many parts of one body, and we all belong to each other. Romans 12:4-5

Every member is a minister.

Every task is important.

Everyone is a 10 at something.

Discussion Questions:

Why have some people avoided joining a local church?

What are some unhealthy devotions we have?

How can community help me stay committed and healthy?

How can we become more like the early church community?

What can you do to bring new people into our community?

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March 13, 2022 GLOW Week 1

Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Matthew 28:19

GO BIGGER

Human desires are like the world of the dead—there is always room for more. Proverbs 27:20

OUR VISION:

We exist to make life giving relationships that lead people to Know and Follow Jesus Christ.

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Find Freedom – Small Groups

Discover Purpose – Growth Track

Make a Difference – Dream Team

[Jesus] could not do any miracles there, except lay his hands on a few sick people and heal them. 6 He was amazed at their lack of faith. Mark 6:5-6

When Jesus heard this, he was amazed at him, and turning to the crowd following him, he said, “I tell you, I have not found such great faith even in Israel.” Luke 7:9

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3 Things you need to know about Faith

1. YOU CANNOT PLAY IT SAFE AND PLEASE GOD.

And without faith it is impossible to please God… Hebrews 11:6

**If you can accomplish your goals without God, your God is too small.

1. If YOU HAVE A GUARANTEE—YOU DON’T HAVE FAITH.**

Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see. Heb 11:1 NLT

By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going. Hebrews 11:8

You can have faith or you can have control you can’t have both.

*I am the way the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14:6

3. FAITH IS TAKING ACTION EVEN IF YOU DON’T FULLY UNDERSTAND.*

You see, his (Abraham) faith and his actions worked together. His actions made his faith complete. James 2:14

Our Actions Complete Our Faith

Discussion Questions:

Have you ever been scammed by someone or something?

What is something you are trusting God for right now?

How can we expand our Faith together as a church?

Where are you having trouble letting God have control?

How will you put your faith into action this week?

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March 13, 2022

Where there is no vision, the people perish. Proverbs 29:18

Big Vision Requires Small Beginnings.

**OUR VISION: We exists to make life giving relationships that lead people to Know and Follow Jesus Christ.

1. Make Life Giving Relationships.**

**You were created for community.

1. Lead People to Know Jesus.**

I want to know Christ and experience the mighty power that raised him from the dead. Philippians 3:10

Jesus is the focus.

*I am the way the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14:6

1. Take Steps to Follow Jesus.*

For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. Ephesians 2:10

I was created on purpose for a purpose.

*All the believers were one in heart and mind. No one claimed that any of their possessions was their own, but they shared everything they had. With great power the apostles continued to testify to the resurrection of the Lord Jesus. And God’s grace was so powerful at work in them all. Acts 4:33

2. Our Unity determines our strength*

Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.

John 13:35

**I’d rather have united novices than divided experts

1. Our generosity determines our impact.**

You will be made rich in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion and your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God. 2 Corinthians 9:11

We will go and grow as fast as you give and serve.”

1. Our participation determines our success.

Keep doing anything short of sin to reach people.

Discussion Questions:

What would you miss most if you lost your sight?

Why is community so important to you and in the church?

How can we know what our Next Step toward God is?

What are some examples of things that divide us?

How can God been generous to us?

What can you do to embrace Vision God has for your life?

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March 6, 2022 It’s Complicated // Week 4

“When they came to Marah, they could not drink the water of Marah because it was bitter; therefore it was named Marah. And the people grumbled against Moses, saying, “What shall we drink?” And he cried to the Lord, and the Lord showed him a tree, and he threw it into the water, and the water became sweet.” Exodus 15:23-25

Turning Bitterness into Sweetness

Critical People.

“To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, be nothing.” - Aristotle

How to bring sweetness: Give Grace

When they hurled their insults at him [Jesus], he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly. 1 Peter 2:23

Who I am matters more than what they think.

Often you do nothing.

Sometimes you respond carefully.

Occasionally you listen and make a change.

Hypocrites.

Outwardly you look like righteous people, but inwardly your hearts are filled with hypocrisy and lawlessness. Matt 23:28 NLT

If you think God needs you to fix everyone, Your God is too small!

How to bring sweetness: Give Honor

“Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the emperor.” 1 Peter 2:17

Controlling People.

Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him. “Never, Lord!” he said. “This shall never happen to you!” Jesus turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.” Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. Matthew 16:21

How to bring sweetness: Give Gentle Correction.

…I could not address you as people who live by the Spirit but as people who are still worldly—mere infants in Christ. 1 Cor 3:1

…if another believer is overcome by some sin, you who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path. Gal 6:1 NLT

Discussion Questions:

What are some toxic traits that have been normalized in society?

Can you remember a time when you were criticized?

How could you have given grace?

Do you find yourself trying to please people more than God?

How can you bring Honor into some toxic places in your life?

What can you do to be more gentle in correcting people?

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February 27, 2022
It’s Complicated week 3

I’m not wishing for a better Relationship, I’m working on it.

IT’S NOT YOU, IT’S ME

“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? Matthew 7:3Make it about the Groom first, then the Bride.

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• 5 min Prayer
• 5 min Worship
• 5 min Bible Reading

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Galatians 5:22-23Don’t mistake happiness for holiness.

to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. Ephesians 4:23-24

“In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. Ephesians 4:27

Those who cleanse themselves from the latter will be instruments for special purposes, made holy, useful to the Master and prepared to do any good work. 2 Timothy 2:21

Relate to people the way Jesus does.

TRUTH WITHOUT GRACE LEADS TO RULES AND REBELLION

GRACE WITHOUT TRUTH LEADS TO “DO WHATEVER” AND “BELIEVE WHATEVER”.

**Truth without Grace is mean. Grace without Truth is meaningless.

Focus on the 1440.**

But, my dear friends, we ask you to do even more. Try your best to live quietly, to mind your own business, and to work hard, just as we taught you to do. Then you will be respected by people who are not followers of the Lord, and you won’t have to depend on anyone. 1 Thessalonians 4:10-12. CEVShow up each day as a humble and grateful servant.

And that’s how it should be with you. When you’ve done all you should, then say, “We are merely servants, and we have simply done our duty.” Luke 17:10

Discussion Questions:

If you could custom make a friend/ spouse, what characteristics would be perfect?

Why is it easier to address other’s faults and ignore our own?

What can you do to develop on your time with God?

Have you experienced a relationship that leaned too far to Grace OR Truth? Why is Grace AND Truth so hard?

How can we be intentional about humility and gratitude?

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February 20, 2022

You don’t have to recover from Healthy Relationships.

Relationships work if you work on them.

1. Healthy people have Healthy Relationships.

When Jacob saw Rachel, daughter of his uncle Laban, and Laban’s sheep, he went over and rolled the stone away from the mouth of the well and watered his uncle’s sheep. Then Jacob kissed Rachel and began to weep aloud. Genesis 29:10-11

1. Learn to Love the Work.

Now Laban had two daughters; the name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. Leah had weak eyes, but Rachel had a lovely figure and was beautiful. Genesis 29:16-17

Jacob was in love with Rachel and said, “I’ll work for you seven years in return for your younger daughter Rachel.” … So Jacob served seven years to get Rachel, but they seemed like only a few days to him because of his love for her. Genesis 29. 18,20

Daily Communication

Weekly Date Nights

Go on Vacation without the kids

Regular Marriage Counseling

1. When it looks different than you thought, don’t run from it, work on it.

Then Jacob said to Laban, “Give me my wife. My time is completed, and I want to make love to her.” Genesis 29:21

When morning came, there was Leah! So Jacob said to Laban, “What is this you have done to me? I served you for Rachel, didn’t I? Why have you deceived me?” Laban replied, “It is not our custom here to give the younger daughter in marriage before the older one. Genesis 29:25

1. Relationship Destroyers

Criticism.

Antidote: Gentle Start-up

A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1Contempt.

Antidote: Build a Culture of Appreciation and Respect

There are seven things that the Lord hates and cannot tolerate: A proud look… Proverbs 6:16Defensiveness.

Antidote: Take Responsibility.

An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city. Proverbs 18:19Stonewalling.

Antidote: Physiological Self-Soothing.

If you become angry, do not let your anger lead you into sin, and do not stay angry all day. Ephesians 4:26

I’m not wishing for a better marriage; I’m working for it.

Discussion Questions:

Who is your life has shown you a Healthy Relationship/s?

What are some fun things you love to do together?

Name an area in yourself, that you know you need to work on.

How can you stay honorable and life-giving in a conflict?

Describe ways to build a culture of appreciation and respect in your relationships?

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February 13, 2022 It’s Complicated week 1

You don’t have to recover from Healthy Relationships.

Someone told Jesus, “Your mother and your brothers are standing outside, and they want to speak to you.” Jesus asked, “Who is my mother? Who are my brothers?”Then he pointed to his disciples and said, “Look, these are my mother and brothers. Matthew 12:46-49 NLT

**Jesus’ Family

Different Realities.**

Jesus soon saw a huge crowd of people coming to look for him. Turning to Philip, he asked, “Where can we buy bread to feed all these people?”He was testing Philip, for he already knew what he was going to do. Philip replied, “Even if we worked for months, we wouldn’t have enough money to feed them!”Jealous and Comparative.

They had rowed three or four miles when suddenly they saw Jesus walking on the water toward the boat. They were terrified,but he called out to them, “Don’t be afraid. I am here!” Then they were eager to let him in the boat, and immediately they arrived at their destination! John 6:19In it for the perks.

Jesus replied, “I tell you the truth, you want to be with me because I fed you, not because you understood… They answered, “Show us a miraculous sign if you want us to believe in you. What can you do? John 6:26,30Undependable Complainers.

Many of his disciples said, “This is very hard to understand. How can anyone accept it?”Jesus was aware that his disciples were complaining, so he said to them, “Does this offend you?... At this point many of his disciples turned away and deserted him. John 6:60-61, 66Frenemies.

Then Jesus said, “I chose the twelve of you, but one is a devil.”He was speaking of Judas, son of Simon Iscariot, one of the Twelve, who would later betray him. John 6:70

**Family made simple.

1.Build your family up.**

*Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near. Hebrews 10:24-252.

2. Start with God’s Word.*

“Anyone who listens to my teaching and follows it is wise, like a person who builds a house on solid rock. Though the rain comes in torrents and the floodwaters rise and the winds beat against that house, it won’t collapse because it is built on bedrock. But anyone who hears my teaching and doesn’t obey it is foolish, like a person who builds a house on sand. *When the rains and floods come and the winds beat against that house, it will collapse with a mighty crash.” Matthew 7:24-27

3. Stay on Mission.*

Life is a team Sport and you can’t win alone.

Discussion Questions:

Name some fictional families. Are they healthy or not?

Who should I be getting closer to? distancing myself from?

How can God’s Word make my family stronger?

What actions will I take to be more on mission?

Who can I pull in to the mission?

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6 Decisions

IT IS YOUR DECISIONS, AND NOT YOUR CONDITIONS, THAT DETERMINE YOUR DESTINY.

The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18 NIV

The crowd joined in the attack against Paul and Silas, and the magistrates ordered them to be stripped and beaten with rods.After they had been severely flogged, they were thrown into prison, and the jailer was commanded to guard them carefully. When he received these orders, he put them in the inner cell and fastened their feet in the stocks. Acts 16:22-24

FIND THE PURPOSE IN MY PAIN.

Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds,because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. James 1:2-4

You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good. He brought me to this position so I could save the lives of many people. Genesis 50:20 NLT

**MY PAIN IS A JAIL THAT IMPRISONS ME OR A SCHOOL THAT EMPOWERS ME.

STOP RUNNING FROM GOD AND RUN TO GOD.**

Seek the LORD while he may be found; call on him while he is near. Isaiah 55:6 NIV

WHEN SOMETHING IS HAPPENING TO ME, GOD WANT TO REVEAL HIMSELF IN ME.

You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. Jeremiah 29:13 NIVTAKE THE STEPS TO GROW.

Like newborn babies, you must crave pure spiritual milk so that you will grow into a full experience of salvation. Cry out for this nourishment, now that you have had a taste of the Lord’s kindness. 1 Peter 2:2-3 NLTALLOW GOD TO USE WHAT I’VE BEEN THROUGH TO HELP OTHERS.

All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 NLT

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January 16, 2022 6 Decisions - Let God define me!week 5

IT IS YOUR DECISIONS, AND NOT YOUR DESIRES, THAT DETERMINE YOUR DESTINY.

That night Jacob got up and took his two wives, his two female servants and his eleven sons and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. After he had sent them across the stream, he sent over all his possessions. So Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him till daybreak. When the man saw that he could not overpower him, he touched the socket of Jacob’s hip so that his hip was wrenched as he wrestled with the man. Then the man said, “Let me go, for it is daybreak.” But Jacob replied, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.” The man asked him, “What is your name?” “Jacob,” he answered. Then the man said, “Your name will no longer be Jacob, but Israel, because you have struggled with God and with humans and have overcome.” Jacob said, “Please tell me your name.” But he replied, “Why do you ask my name?” Then he blessed him there. So Jacob called the place Peniel, saying, “It is because I saw God face to face, and yet my life was spared.”

Genesis 32:22-30 NIV

ALLOW GOD TO CHANGE MY IDENTITY

Many of us are wrestling between who we’ve become and who we’re supposed to be.

1. WE HOLD ON TO OUR PAST.

But if from there you seek the LORD your God, you will find him if you seek him with all your heart and with all your soul. Deuteronomy 4:29 NIV

“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? Isaiah 43:18-19 NIV

I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.” Isaiah 43:18-19 NIV

1. WE HOLD ON TO OUR SECRETS.

He who conceals his sins does not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy. Proverbs 28:13

When I refused to confess my sin, my body wasted away, and I groaned all day long. Day and night your hand of discipline was heavy on me. My strength evaporated like water in the summer heat. Finally, I confessed all my sins to you and stopped trying to hide my guilt. Psalm 32:3-5 NLT

I said to myself, “I will confess my rebellion to the LORD.” And you forgave me! All my guilt is gone. Psalm 32:3-5

1. WE HOLD ON TO OUR CONTROL.

That is why the Holy Spirit says, “Today when you hear his voice, don’t harden your hearts as Israel did when they rebelled, when they tested me in the wilderness. There your ancestors tested and tried my patience, even though they saw my miracles for forty years. So I was angry with them, and I said, ‘Their hearts always turn away from me. They refuse to do what I tell them.’ So in my anger I took an oath: ‘They will never enter my place of rest.’” Hebrews 3:7-11 NLT

BROKENNESS PRECEDES BREAKTHROUGH.

The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise. Psalm 51:17 NIV

“God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. 1 Peter 5:5-6 NIV

GIVE MY WHOLE LIFE TO GOD.

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January 9, 2022                                                                     
6 Decisions | Week 2

LIVE WITHOUT OFFENSE…
 It is impossible that no offense comes… 
Luke 17:1
And then many will be offended, will betray one another, and will hate one another. Matthew 24:10
Offense (skandalizo): Scandal or trap 

Offense is an event, but offended is a decision

An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city.  Arguments separate friends like a gate locked with bars.  Proverbs 18:19

GUARD YOUR HEART. Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.  Proverbs 4:23

FORGIVE. Be gentle and ready to forgive; never hold grudges.  Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.  Colossians 3:13

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What they did was too big
They didn’t say they were sorry
They will do it again
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FOLLOWERS OF JESUS LOSE THEIR RIGHT TO BE RIGHT

WE HAVE A CHOICE TO LIVE BITTER BECAUSE OF WHAT OTHERS HAVE DONE OR BETTER BECAUSE OF WHAT JESUS HAS DONE 

THE POTENTIAL AHEAD OF ME IS GREATER THAN THE PAIN BEHIND ME

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January 2, 2022

6 Decisions | Week 1

IT IS YOUR DECISIONS, AND NOT YOUR CONDITIONS, THAT DETERMINE YOUR DESTINY.

On the third day there was a wedding in Cana of Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there. Now both Jesus and His disciples were invited to the wedding. And when they ran out of wine, the mother of Jesus said to Him, “They have no wine.” Jesus said to her, “Woman, what does your concern have to do with Me? My hour has not come yet.” His mother said to the servants, “Whatever He says to you, do it.”

YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY PERSON IMPACTED BY YOUR DECISIONS

Now there were set there six waterpots of stone, according to the manner of purification of the Jews, containing twenty or thirty gallons apiece. Jesus said to them, “Fill the waterpots with water.” And they filled them up to the brim. And He said to them, “Draw some out now, and take it the master of the feast.” And they took it. When the master of the feast had tasted the water that was made wine, and did not know where it came from (but the servants who had drawn the water knew), the master. Of the feast called. The bridegroom. And he said to him, “Every man at the beginning sets out the good wine, and when the guests have well drunk, then the inferior. You have kept the good wine until now! The beginning of signs Jesus did in Cana of Galilee, and manifested his glory; and His disciples believed in Him. John 2:3-11

DO WHATEVER GOD SAYS!

GET CLOSE TO GOD.

Come near to God and He will come near to you. James 4:8

WHEN I INTENTIONALLY GET CLOSE TO GOD, HE DRASTICALLY GETS CLOSE TO ME.

EXPECT TO HEAR DIRECTION FROM GOD.

Your own ears will hear him. Right behind you a voice will say, “this is the way you should go, “whether to the right or to the left. Isaiah 30: 21

WHEN I CAN’T HEAR HIS VOICE, I READ HIS VOICE!

COMPLETE MY PART

Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. James 1:22

THE MIRACLE IS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF OUR MOVE.

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FastingThe goal of fasting is to draw nearer to God. Biblical fasting always has to do with eliminating distractions for a spiritual purpose; it hits the reset button of our soul and renews us from the inside out. It also enables us to celebrate the goodness and mercy of God and prepares our hearts for all the good things God desires to bring into our lives. Remember, your personal fast should present a level of challenge, but it is very important to know your body, your options, and, most importantly, to seek God in prayer and follow what the Holy Spirit leads you to do.

Types of Fasts

Complete Fast

In this type of fast, you drink only liquids, typically water with light juices as an option.

Selective Fast

This type of fast involves removing certain elements from your diet. One example of a selective fast is the Daniel Fast, during which you remove meat, sweets, and bread from your diet and consume water and juice for fluids and fruits and vegetables for food.

Partial Fast

This fast is sometimes called the “Jewish Fast” and involves abstaining from eating any type of food in the morning and afternoon. This can either correlate to specific times of the day, such as 6:00 am to 3:00 pm, or from sunup to sundown.

Soul Fast

This fast is a great option if you do not have much experience fasting food, have health issues that prevent you from fasting food, or if you wish to refocus certain areas of your life that are out of balance. For example, you might choose to stop using social media or watching television for the duration of the fast and then carefully bring that element back into your life in healthy doses at the conclusion of the fast.

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November 28, 2021 Blessed Attitudesweek 4

“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.” Matthew 5:1-12 (NIV)

BLESSED ARE THE _____________________,
FOR __________________________________.

You say, ‘I am rich; I have acquired wealth and do not need a thing.’ But you do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked. Revelation 3:17 (NIV)

**WHEN I REALIZE THAT I AM __________________,
HE CAN BE _________________________.

BLESSED ARE THOSE WHO _____________,
FOR THEY WILL BE _____________________.**

The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18

Good people pass away; the godly often die before their time. But no one seems to care or wonder why. No one seems to understand that God is protecting them from the evil to come. Isaiah 57:1 (NLT)BLESSED ARE THE ________________, FOR
THEY WILL INHERIT THE ________________.

“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30 (KJV)

Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. Philippians 4:5-7BLESSED ARE THOSE WHO ____________
_____________________________, FOR THEY WILL BE _________________.

I denied myself nothing my eyes desired; I refused my heart no pleasure. My heart took delight in all my labor, and this was the reward for all my toil. Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun. Ecclesiastes 2:10-11 (NIV)

The last and final word is this: Fear God. Do what he tells you. And that’s it. Eventually God will bring everything that we do out into the open and judge it according to its hidden intent, whether it's good or evil. Ecclesiastes 12:13-14 (MSG)

I’M NEVER __________________ THAN WHEN I’M

___________________________ TO GOD.

“Thou hast formed us for Thyself, and our hearts are restless till they find rest in Thee.” ~St. Augustine

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November 14, 2021 | Blessed Attitudesweek 2

WHAT TEST?

“For I am the Lord, I do not change; therefore, you are not consumed, O sons of Jacob. Yet from the days of your fathers you have gone away from My ordinances and have not kept them. Return to Me, and I will return to you,” Says the Lord of hosts. “But you said, ‘In what way shall we return?’ Will a man rob God? Yet you have robbed Me! But you say, ‘In what way have we robbed You?’ In tithes and offerings. You are cursed with a curse, for you have robbed Me, even this whole nation. Bring all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be food in My house, and try Me now in this,” Says the Lord of hosts, “If I will not open for you the windows of heaven and pour out for you such blessing that there will not be room enough to receive it. And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes, so that he will not destroy the fruit of your ground, nor shall the vine fail to bear fruit for you in the field,” Says the Lord of hosts; “And all nations will call you blessed, for you will be a delightful land,” Says the Lord of hosts. Malachi 3:5-12

Then Melchizedek king of Salem brought out bread and wine; he was the priest of God Most High. And he blessed him and said: “Blessed be Abram of God Most High, possessor of heaven and earth; and blessed be God Most High, Who has delivered your enemies into your hand.” And he gave him a tithe of all. Genesis 14:20

“And this stone which I have set as a pillar shall be God’s house, and of all that You give me I will surely give a tenth to You.” Genesis 28:22

“And all the tithe of the land, whether of the seed of the land or of the fruit of the tree, is the Lord’s. It is holy to the Lord.” Leveticus 27:30

“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you pay tithe of mint and anise and cummin, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faith. These you ought to have done, without leaving the others undone.” Matthew 23:23

Here mortal men receive tithes, but there he receives them, of whom it is witnessed that he lives. Hebrews 7:8

Moreover he commanded the people who dwelt in Jerusalem to contribute support for the priests and the Levites, that they might devote themselves to the Law of the Lord. As soon as the commandment was circulated, the children of Israel brought in abundance the firstfruits of grain and wine, oil and honey, and of all the produce of the field; and they brought in abundantly the tithe of everything. And the children of Israel and Judah, who dwelt in the cities of Judah, brought the tithe of oxen and sheep; also the tithe of holy things which were consecrated to the Lord their God they laid in heaps. In the third month they began laying them in heaps, and they finished in the seventh month. And when Hezekiah and the leaders came and saw the heaps, they blessed the Lord and His people Israel. Then Hezekiah questioned the priests and the Levites concerning the heaps. And Azariah the chief priest, from the house of Zadok, answered him and said, “Since the people began to bring the offerings into the house of the Lord, we have had enough to eat and have plenty left, for the Lord has blessed His people; and what is left is this great abundance.” 2 Chronicles 31:10

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November 7, 2021
Blessed Attitudes| week 1

Heart Check

“Don’t store up treasures here on earth, where moths eat them and rust destroys them, and where thieves break in and steal.Store your treasures in heaven, where moths and rust cannot destroy, and thieves do not break in and steal. Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be. Matthew 6:19-21

“Judge not, that you be not judged. 2 For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Matthew 7:1ESV

“Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.” Luke 6:37-3

Developing a right heart.

“If there is among you a poor man of your brethren, within any of the gates in your land which the Lord your God is giving you, you shall not harden your heart nor shut your hand from your poor brother,but you shall open your hand wide to him and willingly lend him sufficient for his need, whatever he needs. Deuteronomy 15:7-8

1. DEAL WITH A SELFISH HEART.

Beware lest there be a wicked thought in your heart, saying, ‘The seventh year, the year of release, is at hand,’ and your eye be evil against your poor brother and you give him nothing, and he cry out to the Lord against you, and it become sin among you. Deuteronomy 15:9

1. DEAL WITH A GRIEVING HEART.

You shall surely give to him, and your heart should not be grieved when you give to him, because for this thing the Lord your God will bless you in all your works and in all to which you put your hand. Deuteronomy 15:10

1. DEVELOP A GENEROUS HEART.

you shall supply him liberally from your flock, from your threshing floor, and from your winepress. From what the Lord your God has blessed you with, you shall give to him. Deuteronomy 15:14

1. DEVELOP A GRATEFUL HEART.

You shall remember that you were a slave in the land of Egypt, and the Lord your God redeemed you; therefore I command you this thing today. Deuteronomy 15:15

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October 31, 2021
Not Today Satan V

The Spirit Matters

A final word: Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil.For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:10-12

When you enter the land the Lord your God is giving you, be very careful not to imitate the detestable customs of the nations living there. For example, never sacrifice your son or daughter as a burnt offering. And do not let your people practice fortune-telling, or use sorcery, or interpret omens, or engage in witchcraft,or cast spells, or function as mediums or psychics, or call forth the spirits of the dead. Anyone who does these things is detestable to the Lord. Deuteronomy 18:9-12

How can we resist temptation?

So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want. Gal 5:16-17

One of the best ways to resist temptation is to

eliminate it.

WHAT YOU feed GROWS.

WHAT YOU starve DIES.

OVERCOMING THE WRONG APPETITES

Surrender to God! Resist the devil, and he will run from you. James 4:7 CEV

1. FEED YOUR SPIRIT WITH PRAYER.

“Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.” Matt 26:41

1. FEED YOUR SPIRIT WITH GOD’S WORD.

How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according to your word. I seek you with all my heart; do not let me stray from your commands. I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you. Psalm 119:9-11

1. FEED YOUR SPIRIT WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE.

Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.” Come back to your senses as you ought, and stop sinning… 1 Cor 15:33-34

Being with the wrong people never helps you do the right thing.

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The constant conflict in our world today is only a symptom of the true danger we face as believers.  There’s an invisible war raging around you.  Our cunning enemy, the devil wishes to destroy everything that matters to you.  It is time to stand up and say – NOT TODAY SATAN!  This 5-part sermon series will prepare and equip you to confidently fight back and put the devil in his place!

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October 3, 2021
Not Today Satan
Week 1

The Devil

Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Ephesians 6:10

There is a spiritual war against you.

Our enemy is destructive

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. John 10:10

Our enemy is deceptive

And no wonder, for Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light. 2 Corinthians 11:14

Our enemy is determined

He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies. John 8:44

1. Wake up.

Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8

2. Size up.

But he said to me, “my grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in your weakness.”: therefore, I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christs power may rest on me. 2 Corinthians 12:9

My greatest strength is found at the point of my greatest surrender.

3. Suit up.

Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand safe against all strategies and tricks of Satan. For we are not fighting against people made of flesh and blood, but against persons without bodies—the evil rulers of the unseen world, those mighty satanic beings and great evil princes of darkness who rule this world; and against huge numbers of wicked spirits in the spirit world. So use every piece of God’s armor to resist the enemy whenever he attacks, and when it is all over, you will still be standing up. Ephesians 6:11-13

4. Team up.

A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12

The first problem in the bible wasn’t sin it was solitude.

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This fall, church is going to look a little different than what you're used to - like a movie theatre.. wait IT IS A MOVIE THEATRE…

AT THE MOVIES is a Relate Church teaching series like you've never seen before, based on Hollywood's biggest movies you've probably seen at least once.

Each week will feature a different movie with real life lessons that will inspire and encourage you in your walk with God.

Get here early to grab some tasty treats and to find a good seat before the lights dim down and the AT THE MOVIES event starts.

Sundays at 9 and 10:30am

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Feeling heavy? Feeling depressed? Feeling hopeless?
🎈The Bible is filled with people who struggled with depression. If that is you today, then be encouraged you are in good company. Pastor Sean shares how important prayer is to choosing joy even when you don't feel like doing it...

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Feeling heavy? Feeling depressed? Feeling hopeless?
🎈The Bible is filled with people who struggled with depression. If that is you today, then be encouraged you are in good company. Pastor Sean shares how important prayer is to choosing joy even when you don't feel like doing it...

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Your life has a soundtrack. Every peak, every low note, and every rhythm make up a part of who you are. Each week of this series will highlight a different song. Pastor Sean will pull a biblical truth from each song. Don’t just shuffle through your days—create a Playlist worth listening to!

Sunday // 9 &10:30 // In Person & Online 

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Your life has a soundtrack. Every peak, every low note, and every rhythm make up a part of who you are. Each week of this series will highlight a different song. Pastor Sean will pull a biblical truth from each song. Don’t just shuffle through your days—create a Playlist worth listening to!

Sunday // 9 &10:30 // In Person & Online 

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Your life has a soundtrack. Every peak, every low note, and every rhythm make up a part of who you are. Each week of this series will highlight a different song. Pastor Sean will pull a biblical truth from each song. Don’t just shuffle through your days—create a Playlist worth listening to!

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Jesus shared a lot of wisdom in the Bible. And lately, He also seems to share a ton on Instagram, on screen-printed mugs, and in those images your aunt posts on Facebook, too. But how much of it is true? Where’s the line between what He actually told us, and the Things Jesus Never Said? 

Let’s get to the bottom of it in a new series starting March 21!  #thingsJesusneversaid

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Jesus shared a lot of wisdom in the Bible. And lately, He also seems to share a ton on Instagram, on screen-printed mugs, and in those images your aunt posts on Facebook, too. But how much of it is true? Where’s the line between what He actually told us, and the Things Jesus Never Said? 

Let’s get to the bottom of it in a new series starting March 21!  #thingsJesusneversaid

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Do you feel overwhelmed, dissatisfied, and stuck in a rut?

Wishing your day-day life could improve?

God’s Word is your guide to brighter days.

When life hands you choices, choose BETTER.

This Brand New Sermon Series starts this SUNDAY at 9 and 10:30am! Relate meets "In Person" at the Cinemark Klein Theatre and Online HERE

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This SUNDAY we kick off a new sermon series called FRESH START where we will explore how to embrace new beginnings when the cloud of the past (can we say 2020.. hello!) still looms over us!

Sunday:
9 &10:30 in person at Cinemark Klein
10:45 online on Facebook
On Demand at relatecommunity.com

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This SUNDAY we kick off a new sermon series called FRESH START where we will explore how to embrace new beginnings when the cloud of the past (can we say 2020.. hello!) still looms over us!

Sunday:
9 &10:30 in person at Cinemark Klein
10:45 online on Facebook
On Demand at relatecommunity.com

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This SUNDAY we kick off a new sermon series called FRESH START where we will explore how to embrace new beginnings when the cloud of the past (can we say 2020.. hello!) still looms over us!

Sunday:
9 &10:30 in person at Cinemark Klein
10:45 online here on FB
On Demand at relatecommunity.com

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This SUNDAY we kick off a new sermon series called FRESH START where we will explore how to embrace new beginnings when the cloud of the past (can we say 2020.. hello!) still looms over us!

Sunday:
9 &10:30 in person at Cinemark Klein
10:45 online here on FB
On Demand at relatecommunity.com

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THIS  SUNDAY

Pastor Sean will use the story of Harriet Tubman for his AT THE MOVIES SERIES!!
Sunday // 10am // Cinemark Spring-Klein and XD

This November, church is going to look a little different than what you're used to - like a movie theatre.. wait.... IT IS A MOVIE THEATRE!!

AT THE MOVIES is a Relate Church teaching series like you've never seen before, based on Hollywood's biggest movies you've probably seen at least once.  Each week will feature a different movie with real life lessons that will inspire and encourage you in your walk with God.  These video messages produced by Relate Church will only be shown during the AT THE MOVIES services (won't be available online) so you're not going to want to miss a week!  Get here early to grab some tasty treats and to find a good seat before the lights dim down and the AT THE MOVIES event starts.

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The Politics of Jesus | Indivisible 

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The politics of Jesus are meant to satisfy God rather than man. God's politics are other worldly... not of this world. political change is always accomplished first in human hearts. Pastor Sean explores God's vision for His followers regarding kingdom politics and how to find peace in the midst of the world's politics.

Sundays at 10am 
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How Jesus handled His anger. 

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How did Jesus handle his anxiety? 

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Praying is one of the most important things a human being can do. Praying changes us, others and even God. What better way to start our day, and our year, than with prayer. Join us as we learn to Pray First.

More Resources for the 21 days of prayer here: https://www.relatecommunity.com/21days

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Praying is one of the most important things a human being can do. Praying changes us, others and even God. What better way to start our day, and our year, than with prayer. Join us as we learn to Pray First.

More Resources for the 21 days of prayer here: https://www.relatecommunity.com/21days

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Sorry for the audio on this podcast - we are adjusting to a metal and glass building!

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While our county is under the stay at home advisory, We have decided to continue to have In Person Worship on Sundays at 10am (one service). We believe that our corporate worship is essential and are so thankful for Athletes (19711 Stuebner Airline Rd Spring, Texas 77379), who have so graciously allowed Relate to use their facility. We are doing our very best to create a clean and safe environment for you. 

We will continue to have Relate Online at 10am on Facebook, Youtube and www.relatecommunity.com.

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Start talking. Find a conversation starter for your group.

• What’s something about the culture you grew up in that might be surprising to others?

Start thinking. Ask a question to get your group thinking.

• Cultural humility is the understanding that our experiences and perspectives aren’t the same as everyone else’s. Do you think humility comes naturally to you? Why or why not?
• How often do you listen to perspectives different from your own? How might doing so more regularly challenge or change your ways of thinking?
• How can you make a point to regularly pray for justice, compassion, restoration, unity, and many other needs we have that only God can help us meet?

Start sharing. Choose a question to create openness.

• What are some ways you can push back against racism by loving boldly and bravely this week?
• What perspectives might be missing from our conversation today? Who would you like to hear from?

Start praying. Be bold and pray with power.

Father, thank You for creating each of us in Your image. Help us to see the dignity and worth You’ve bestowed on all of us and work to defend that worth when it is threatened by other people. Let us love all Your children bravely and unconditionally. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Start doing. Commit to a step and live it out this week.

• Have a conversation with someone whose story and background is different than your own, even if what they have to say might make you uncomfortable.
• Are you interested in serving your community? Sign up for Serve Day.

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Courageous | one

Fear is contagious 

But so it Faith 

Faith says:

I know gods got a plan 

Eph 6:10 

God is strong and He wants you strong. 

No matter what’s taken away from you... we still have each other. 

Social Distancing was a problem before Corona... it’s time to build intentional build community. 

Pray Hard 

Be a person of prayer. 

👇this weeks prayer 👇

Personalized Psalm 91 

Phone Screen? 

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Our response to the COVID-19 crisis. 

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RELATIONSHIP GOALS—4 COVENANT KEEPING

Some Pharisees came to him [Jesus] to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?” 4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Matthew 19:3-6 NIV

THREE APPROACHES TO MARRIAGE

• •___________________ approach— Marriage is just a piece of paper.
• •___________________ approach— Marriage is a contract.
• •___________________ approach— Marriage is a holy covenant established by God.

A contract is based on mutual distrust.

A covenant is based on mutual commitment.

Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure … Hebrews 13:4 NIV

If we are faithless, he remains faithful, for he cannot disown himself.

2 Timothy 2:13 NIV

TALK IT OVER

What are ways that you and your spouse drive each other crazy? If you’re single, what’s a personal trait that can drive other people crazy?

There are three different approaches to marriage: casual, contractual, and covenantal. What kind of approach to marriage did you experience while growing up?

What’s your biggest takeaway from the entire Relationship Goals series?

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Psalm 127:3 Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward.

1. Talk it out and create rules together.

1 Thessalonians 5:11 ESV / Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.

1. Accept your differences and present a united front.

Colossians 3:13 “bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.”

1. Don’t compete to be the best parent or overcompensate for the other parent.

Philippians 2:3-4 ESV / Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.

2 Timothy 2:5 ESV / An athlete is not crowned unless he competes according to the rules.

1. Don’t collude with your children.

Proverbs 10:10Whoever winks the eye causes

trouble and a babbling fool will come to ruin.

1. Set time aside to talk about how your strategies are working

Proverbs 21:5 The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.

According to Dr Robert Louis Men’s Fraternity says:

75% of all great parenting is a good marriage. (Build your

marriage!!)

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What if one of your relationship goals was to have a goal? This weekend, let’s see why the strongest relationships are the ones that are always on a mission. 

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RELATIONSHIP GOALS—1

CHRIST CENTERED

Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.” … 21 So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep. While the man slept, the Lord God took out one of the man’s ribs and closed up the opening. 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib, and he brought her to the man. 23 “At last!” the man exclaimed. “This one is bone from my bone, and flesh from my flesh! She will be called ‘woman,’because she was taken from ‘man.’” 24 This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.Genesis 2:18, 21-24 NLT

RELATIONSHIP GOALS

• Christ Centered

• Mission Driven

• Devil Kicking

• Covenant Keeping

CHRIST CENTERED

• In a Christ-centered marriage, Jesus is your one and your spouse is your two.

“Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” 37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’” Matthew 22:36-37 NIV

HOW TO PRAY WITH YOUR SPOUSE

1) Keep it short.

2) Keep it consistent.

3) If you miss a day, don’t miss two.

HOW TO PRAY

Dear God,

Give us wisdom and clear direction in all we do today.

Help us to show Your love to each other and to shine Your light into the world.

Keep us close to You, away from temptation, and always in Your will.

In Jesus’ name, amen.

TALK IT OVER

• What’s the funniest thing you have fought about with a loved one?

• Based on the circles we saw in the message, what would you say your life has been centered around in the last seven days?

• On a scale of 1-10, where would you rank your prayer life this past week?

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(Matthew 3:2 NKJV) “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand!” God Time (Romans 13:11-14 MSG) But make sure that you don't get so absorbed and exhausted in taking care of all your day-by-day obligations that you lose track of the time and doze off, oblivious to God. The night is about over, dawn is about to break. Be up and awake to what God is doing! God is putting the finishing touches on the salvation work he began when we first believed. We can't afford to waste a minute, must not squander these precious daylight hours in frivolity and indulgence, in sleeping around and dissipation, in bickering and grabbing everything in sight. Get out of bed and get dressed! Don't loiter and linger, waiting until the very last minute. Dress yourselves in Christ, and be up and about! . It’s time to take control of my schedule. (Ecclesiastes 4:6) Better one handful with tranquility than two handfuls with toil and chasing after the wind. (Jeremiah 6:16) This is what the LORD says: “Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls.” . It’s time to rethink what I allow to enter my mind and body. (1 Corinthians 10:23) “I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but not everything is constructive. (Psalm 141:4 NLT) Don’t let me drift toward evil or take part in acts of wickedness. Don’t let me share in the delicacies of those who do wrong. . It’s time to organize my finances around Give, Save, Live. (Matthew 6:21) For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. (Proverbs 3:9 MSG) Honor GOD with everything you own; give him the first and the best. . It’s time to live my life intentionally. (Proverbs 20:4) Sluggards do not plow in season; so at harvest time they look but find nothing. (Psalm 90:12 LB) Teach us to number our days and recognize how few they are; help us to spend them as we should. The Key to it All 1. I must know my purpose. (Psalm 139:16) All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. (Jeremiah 29:11) For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” 2. I must have a plan. (Proverbs 17:24 GN) An intelligent person aims at wise action, but a fool starts off in many directions. 3. I must have accountability. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 NLT) Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble.

Faith is taking a step even when you don’t see the whole staircase. ~Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

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(Matthew 3:2 NKJV) “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand!”
Joy comes…

(Nehemiah 8:10) “Do not grieve, for the joy of the LORD is your strength.” .

Knowing God has a plan for my life.
(Psalm 16:5-11) LORD, you alone are my portion and my cup; you make my lot secure. The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance. I will praise the LORD, who counsels me; even at night my heart instructs me. I keep my eyes always on the LORD. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken. Therefore my heart is glad and my tongue rejoices; my body also will rest secure, because you will not abandon me to the realm of the dead, nor will you let your faithful one see decay. You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand. .

Certain that God will work it out.
(1 Peter 1:8) Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, .

When I choose joy.
(Philippians 4:4) Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!

It’s Time to Choose Joy
(Deuteronomy 30:11-19 (MSG) This commandment that I'm commanding you today isn't too much for you, it's not out of your reach. It's not on a high mountain—you don't have to get mountaineers to climb the peak and bring it down to your level and explain it before you can live it. And it's not across the ocean—you don't have to send sailors out to get it, bring it back, and then explain it before you can live it. No. The word is right here and now—as near as the tongue in your mouth, as near as the heart in your chest. Just do it! Look at what I've done for you today: I've placed in front of you Life and Good, Death and Evil. And I command you today: Love GOD, your God. Walk in his ways. Keep his commandments, regulations, and rules so that you will live, really live, live exuberantly, blessed by GOD, your God, in the land you are about to enter and possess. But I warn you: If you have a change of heart, refuse to listen obediently, and willfully go off to serve and worship other gods, you will most certainly die. You won't last long in the land that you are crossing the Jordan to enter and possess. I call Heaven and Earth to witness against you today: I place before you Life and Death, Blessing and Curse. Choose life so that you and your children will live.

1. Choose to look beyond what happened.
   (Philippians 1:12) Now I want you to know, brothers and sisters, that what has happened to me has actually served to advance the gospel.

2. Choose to find the new opportunities.
   (Philippians 1:13-14) As a result, it has become clear throughout the whole palace guard and to everyone else that I am in chains for Christ. And because of my chains, most of the brothers and sisters have become confident in the Lord and dare all the more to proclaim the gospel without fear.

3. Choose to focus on what really matters.
   (Philippians 1:15-18) It is true that some preach Christ out of envy and rivalry, but others out of goodwill. The latter do so out of love, knowing that I am put here for the defense of the gospel. The former preach Christ out of selfish ambition, not sincerely, supposing that they can stir up trouble for me while I am in chains. But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached. And because of this I rejoice. Yes, and I will continue to rejoice.

Today I choose joy.

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It's Time | One

(Luke 9:57-62 MSG) On the road someone asked if he could go along. “I’ll go with you, wherever,” he said. Jesus was curt: “Are you ready to rough it? We’re not staying in the best inns, you know.” Jesus said to another, “Follow me.” He said, “Certainly, but first excuse me for a couple of days, please. I have to make arrangements for my father’s funeral.” Jesus refused. “First things first. Your business is life, not death. And life is urgent: Announce God’s kingdom!” Then another said, “I’m ready to follow you, Master, but first excuse me while I get things straightened out at home.” Jesus said, “No procrastination. No backward looks. You can’t put God’s kingdom off till tomorrow. Seize the day.”

• Move on from old history.

(Isaiah 43:18-19) “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”

• Move on from old habits.

(Isaiah 58:6) “Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen: to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke?”

Move on from old hurts.

(2 Corinthians 5:17-18) Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ…

**I can’t start the next chapter of my life if I keep re-reading the last one.

Time to Make a Change**

(Matthew 4:17) From that time on Jesus began to preach, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven has come near.”

1. It’s time to get closer to God.

(James 4:8 NLT) Come close to God, and God will come close to you. Wash your hands, you sinners; purify your hearts, for your loyalty is divided between God and the world.

1. It’s time to get honest with a friend.

(James 5:16 NLT) Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.

1. It’s time to get in tune with my purpose and passions.

(Galatians 6:3-4) If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else.

1. It’s time to get on doing something greater than myself.

(Ephesians 2:10 MSG) (God) creates each of us by Christ Jesus to join him in the work he does, the good work he has gotten ready for us to do, work we had better be doing.

I can’t go back and change the beginning but I can start where I am and change the ending.

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21 Days of Prayer & Fasting

(Matthew 9:14-15) Then John’s disciples came and asked him, “How is it that we and the Pharisees fast, but your disciples do not fast?” Jesus answered, “How can the guests of the bridegroom mourn while he is with them? The time will come when the bridegroom will be taken from them; then they will fast.”

(Acts 13:2-3) While they were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, “Set apart for me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them.” So after they had fasted and prayed, they placed their hands on them and sent them off.

(2 Corinthians 11:27 NKJV) …in weariness and toil, in sleeplessness often, in hunger and thirst, in fastings often.

January 5-26 // 21 Days of Prayer & Fasting
Prayer services – Wednesday 7:00 p.m. & Saturday 9:00 a.m.

6111 Rivermill Ct, Spring, Texas 77379

Types of Fasts

(Joel 1:14) Declare a holy fast; call a sacred assembly. Summon the elders and all who live in the land to the house of the LORD your God, and cry out to the LORD. . Complete fast. . Partial fast. . Daniel fast. Always consult your doctor before you begin your fast. The

Declaration of Dependence

(Joel 1:14) Declare a holy fast; call a sacred assembly. Summon the elders and all who live in the land to the house of the LORD your God, and cry out to the LORD.

1. Declaring revival for our nation.

(1 Samuel 7:3-6) So Samuel said to all the Israelites, “If you are returning to the LORD with all your hearts, then rid yourselves of the foreign gods and the Ashtoreths and commit yourselves to the LORD and serve him only, and he will deliver you out of the hand of the Philistines.” …On that day they fasted and there they confessed, “We have sinned against the LORD.”

2. Declaring freedom from bondage.

(Matthew 17:19-21) Then the disciples came to Jesus in private and asked, “Why couldn't we drive it out?” He replied, “But this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting.”

(1 Kings 19:8-9) So he got up and ate and drank. Strengthened by that food, he traveled forty days and forty nights until he reached Horeb, the mountain of God. There he went into a cave and spent the night. And the word of the LORD came to him…

3. Declaring blessing over trouble.

(Ezra 8:21) I proclaimed a fast, so that we might humble ourselves before our God and ask him for a safe journey for us and our children, with all our possessions.

4. Declaring wisdom for my future.

(Acts 9:3-6, 9) As he neared Damascus on his journey, suddenly a light from heaven flashed around him. He fell to the ground and heard a voice say to him, “Saul, Saul, why do you persecute me?” “Who are you, Lord?” Saul asked. “I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting,” he replied. “Now get up and go into the city, and you will be told what you must do.” For three days he was blind, and did not eat or drink anything.

5. Declaring victory over my enemy.

(Daniel 10:1-3) In the third year of Cyrus king of Persia, a revelation was given to Daniel (who was called Belteshazzar). Its message was true and it concerned a great war. The understanding of the message came to him in a vision. At that time I, Daniel, mourned for three weeks. I ate no choice food; no meat or wine touched my lips; and I used no lotions at all until the three weeks were over.

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We’re bringing your favorite Christmas movies to life this Christmas!

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I'm In | I'm Invaluable

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I'm In | I'm Invested

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Dr. Lonnie Rex and Pastor Sean have an Interview about the amazing things God has done with a Organ Player who said yes to Jesus. 

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I’M INFLUENTIAL

• You have no idea how one __________________, one word of ____________ , or one __________________ might change someone’s life.

• An influencer is “an individual who has the power to affect purchase decisions of others because of their authority, knowledge, or relationship with their audience.”

“You are the salt of the earth … 14You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. 15Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” Matthew 5:13-16 NIV

• True and lasting __________________ always starts with people before platform.

The woman was surprised, for Jews refuse to have anything to do with Samaritans. She said to Jesus, “You are a Jew, and I am a Samaritan woman. Why are you asking me for a drink?” 10Jesus replied, “If you only knew the gift God has for you and who you are speaking to, you would ask me, and I would give you living water.” John 4:9-10 NLT

Jesus replied, “Anyone who drinks this water will soon become thirsty again. 14But those who drink the water I give will never be thirsty again …” John 4:13-14 NLT

“Go and get your husband,” Jesus told her. 17 “I don’t have a husband,” the woman replied. Jesus said, “You’re right! You don’t have a husband—18for you have had five husbands, and you aren’t even married to the man you’re living with now. You certainly spoke the truth!” 19“Sir,” the woman said, “you must be a prophet.” John 4:16-19 NLT

The woman left her water jar beside the well and ran back to the village, telling everyone, 29“Come and see a man who told me everything I ever did! Could he possibly be the Messiah?” 30So the people came streaming from the village to see him. John 4:28-30 NLT

• You don’t have to have your life all __________________ to influence someone for Christ!

Many Samaritans from the village believed in Jesus because the woman had said, “He told me everything I ever did!” 40When they came out to see him, they begged him to stay in their village. So he stayed for two days, 41long enough for many more to hear his message and believe. John 4:39-41 NLT

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I’M IN—1

I’M INVITED

• I’m invited.
• I’m invaluable.
• I’m influential
• I’m invested.

Jesus invites the people others reject.

A woman in that town who lived a sinful life learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee’s house, so she came there with an alabaster jar of perfume. Luke 7:37 NIV

As she stood behind him at his feet weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears. Then she wiped them with her hair, kissed them and poured perfume on them. Luke 7:38 NIV

When the Pharisee who had invited him [Jesus] saw this, he said to himself, “If this man were a prophet, he would know who is touching him and what kind of woman she is—that she is a sinner.” Luke 7:39 NIV

Then he [Jesus] turned toward the woman and said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. 45You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. 46You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. 47Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.” 48Then Jesus said to her, “Your sins are forgiven.” Luke 7:44-48 NIV

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” Matthew 11:28-29 NIV

TALK IT OVER

Everyone has a story. Describe your faith journey. How was it that you were invited? How did you come to know Christ?

When you came to faith in Christ, what did you experience or feel? Pick one word to describe what you experienced after you found faith in Christ.

Talk about one person you’re praying for to come to Christ. Pray for those you know and love who don’t know Christ.

Want to find out more about your God-given purpose? Check out the I’m In Bible Plan at: www.go2.lc/in

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You asked for it | How do I overcome fear?

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(John 16:33) I have told you these things, so that in me you may have

peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have

overcome the world. (Psalm 34:19 NKJV) Many are the afflictions of the righteous but the

LORD delivers him out of them all. Two Main Culprits (Psalm 62:5-10) Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes

from him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will

not be shaken. My salvation and my honor depend on God; he is my

mighty rock, my refuge. Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out

your hearts to him, for God is our refuge. Selah. Lowborn men are but a

breath, the highborn are but a lie; if weighed on a balance, they are

nothing; together they are only a breath. Do not trust in extortion or

take pride in stolen goods; though your riches increase, do not set your

heart on them. Time. (Daniel 5:25-28) “This is the inscription that was written: MENE,

MENE, TEKEL, PARSIN. Here is what these words mean: Mene: God

has numbered the days of your reign and brought it to an end.

Tekel: You have been weighed on the scales and found wanting.

Peres: Your kingdom is divided and given to the Medes and

Persians.”

Money (1 Timothy 6:6-10) But godliness with contentment is great gain.

For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing

out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with

that. Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and

into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin

and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil.

Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and

pierced themselves with many griefs. ________________________

________________________

________________________ Find Rest (Jeremiah 6:16) This is what the LORD says: “Stand at the crossroads

and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk

in it, and you will find rest for your souls. But you said, ‘We will not walk

in it.’” 1. Live with a sense of purpose and urgency. (Psalm 39:4-5 NLT) LORD, remind me how brief my time on earth

will be. Remind me that my days are numbered, and that my life is

fleeing away. My life is no longer than the width of my hand. An

entire lifetime is just a moment to you; human existence is but a

breath. (Matthew 13:44) “The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in

a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy

went and sold all he had and bought that field.” 2. Put first things first. (Psalm 90:12 TLB) Teach us to number our days and recognize

how few they are; help us to spend them as we should. (Matthew 6:33) But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness,

and all these things will be given to you as well. 3. Keep my heart set on heaven. (2 Corinthians 4:16-18) Therefore we do not lose heart. Though

outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being

renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are

achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we

fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is

seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. (John 14:1-2) “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God;

trust also in me. In my Father’s house are many rooms; if it were not

so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for

you.” Jesus offers more than a better now.

He offers a better place.

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How Do I Forgive? (Matthew 6:14-15) For if you forgive other people when they sin against

you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive

others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. (Luke 23:32-33) Two other men, both criminals, were also led out with

[Jesus] to be executed. When they came to the place called the Skull,

they crucified him there, along with the criminals—one on his right, the

other on his left. (Luke 23:34) Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know

what they are doing.” How Do You Forgive Like Jesus? 1. Pray for those who hurt you. (Luke 6:28 NLT) Bless those who curse you. Pray for those who

hurt you. (Matthew 5:43-44) “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your

neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies

and pray for those who persecute you.” 2. Forgive as you have been forgiven. (Colossians 3:13) …Forgive one another if any of you has a

grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. “Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies.” ~Anne Lamont

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All scripture is from the New International Version unless otherwise noted.

(John 10:3-5) “The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. When he has brought out all his own, he goes on ahead of them, and his sheep follow him because they know his voice. But they will never follow a stranger; in fact, they will run away from him because they do not recognize a stranger’s voice.”

Weapons of Mass Distraction

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(Luke 10:39-40 AMP) And she had a sister named Mary, whoseated herself at the Lord's feet and was listening to His teaching.But Martha [overly occupied and too busy] was distracted withmuch serving.

(Psalm 46:10) “Be still and know that I am God.”

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(Luke 14:18-20) “But they all alike began to make excuses. The firstsaid, ‘I have just bought a field, and I must go and see it. Pleaseexcuse me.’ Another said, ‘I have just bought five yoke of oxen, andI’m on my way to try them out. Please excuse me.’ Still anothersaid, ‘I just got married, so I can’t come.’”

(Hebrews 12:1-2 GW) Since we are surrounded by so many examples {of faith}, we must get rid of everything that slows us down, especially sin that distracts us. We must run the race that lies ahead of us and never give up. We must focus on Jesus…

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(Matthew 13:19 MSG) When anyone hears news of the kingdom anddoesn't take it in, it just remains on the surface, and so the Evil Onecomes along and plucks it right out of that person's heart.

(2 Corinthians 7:1 MSG) Let's make a clean break with everything that defiles or distracts us, both within and without. Let's make our entire lives fit and holy temples for the worship of God.

God Speaks

(1 Samuel 3:3-11) The lamp of God had not yet gone out, and Samuel was lying down in the house of the LORD, where the ark of God was. Then the LORD called Samuel. Samuel answered, “Here I am.” And he ran to Eli and said, “Here I am; you called me.” But Eli said, “I did not call; go back and lie down.” So he went and lay down. Again the LORD called, “Samuel!” And Samuel got up and went to Eli and said, “Here I am; you called me.” “My son,” Eli said, “I did not call; go back and lie down.” Now Samuel did not yet know the LORD: The word of the LORD had not yet been revealed to him. A third time the LORD called, “Samuel!” And Samuel got up and went to Eli and said, “Here I am; you called me.” Then Eli realized that the LORD was calling the boy. So Eli told Samuel, “Go and lie down, and if he calls you, say, ‘Speak, LORD, for your servant is listening.’ ” So Samuel went and lay down in his place. The LORD came and stood there, calling as at the other times, “Samuel! Samuel!” Then Samuel said, “Speak, for your servant is listening.” And the LORD said to Samuel: “See, I am about to do something in Israel that will make the ears of everyone who hears about it tingle.

1.As we ____________________.

(Psalm 119:105) Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.

(Psalm 119:147) I rise before dawn and cry for help; I have put my hope in your word.

2.As we ____________________________.

(Genesis 3:8 NKJV) They heard the sound of the LORD Godwalking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and hiswife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God amongthe trees of the garden.

3.As we ____________________________.

(Psalm 92:11-13) My eyes have seen the defeat of my adversaries;my ears have heard the rout of my wicked foes. The righteous willflourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon;planted in the house of the LORD, they will flourish in the courts ofour God.

If you want the _______________, you’ve

got to get in the ____________________.

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This September, church is going to look a little different than what you're used to - like a movie theatre.. wait.... IT IS A MOVIE THEATRE!!

AT THE MOVIES is a Relate Church teaching series like you've never seen before, based on Hollywood's biggest movies you've probably seen at least once. Each week will feature a different movie with real life lessons that will inspire and encourage you in your walk with God. These video messages produced by Relate Church will only be shown during the AT THE MOVIES services (won't be available online) so you're not going to want to miss a week! Get here early to grab some tasty treats and to find a good seat before the lights dim down and the AT THE MOVIES event starts.

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This September, church is going to look a little different than what you're used to - like a movie theatre.. wait.... IT IS A MOVIE THEATRE!!

AT THE MOVIES is a Relate Church teaching series like you've never seen before, based on Hollywood's biggest movies you've probably seen at least once. Each week will feature a different movie with real life lessons that will inspire and encourage you in your walk with God. These video messages produced by Relate Church will only be shown during the AT THE MOVIES services (won't be available online) so you're not going to want to miss a week! Get here early to grab some tasty treats and to find a good seat before the lights dim down and the AT THE MOVIES event starts.

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This September, church is going to look a little different than what you're used to - like a movie theatre.. wait.... IT IS A MOVIE THEATRE!!

AT THE MOVIES is a Relate Church teaching series like you've never seen before, based on Hollywood's biggest movies you've probably seen at least once. Each week will feature a different movie with real life lessons that will inspire and encourage you in your walk with God. These video messages produced by Relate Church will only be shown during the AT THE MOVIES services (won't be available online) so you're not going to want to miss a week! Get here early to grab some tasty treats and to find a good seat before the lights dim down and the AT THE MOVIES event starts.

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This September, church is going to look a little different than what you're used to - like a movie theatre.. wait IT IS A MOVIE THEATRE…

AT THE MOVIES is a Relate Church teaching series like you've never seen before, based on Hollywood's biggest movies you've probably seen at least once.

Each week will feature a different movie with real life lessons that will inspire and encourage you in your walk with God. These video messages produced by Relate Church will only be shown during the AT THE MOVIES services (won't be available online) so you're not going to want to miss a week!

Get here early to grab some tasty treats and to find a good seat before the lights dim down and the AT THE MOVIES event starts.

Sundays at 9 and 10:30am

Popcorn and Soda will be served

***sorry no livestream this month ‍♀️ you’ll just have to come #sitwithme

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The Holy Spirit | Four

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The Holy Spirit | Three

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The Holy Spirit | Two

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The Holy Spirit | One

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The Good Work | Four

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Opposition

When the work goes down  - Oppositions show up 

Advancement invited opposition! 

the devil doesn’t bother those who are not a threat.  

Not going to let the praise go to my head 

Criticism go to my heart 

Good prayer Neh 4:4-6 

Lift up your eyes 

Where does your help come from 

You are right 

The world is bad

But that’s why we need to be the church! 

The harshest voice of opposition is the one who comes from inside of you!

The greater the opposition 

Neh 4:14 

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The Good Work | Two

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Playlist | Don't You Forget About Me

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Playlist | Old Town Road

Therefore, with minds that are alert and fully sober, set your hope on the grace to be brought to you when Jesus Christ is revealed at his coming. 14 As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance. 15 But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; 16 for it is written: “Be holy, because I am holy.” 17 Since you call on a Father who judges each person’s work impartially, live out your time as foreigners here in reverent fear.

1 Peter 1:13-17

1. On the road to Worldly Culture ___________ looks normal.

This is what the LORD says: “Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls.” Jeremiah 6:16

1. God wants to make us ____________ so we stand out.

“God’s highest calling for you is not happiness but your holiness.”

14 So you must live as God’s obedient children. Don’t slip back into your old ways of living to satisfy your own desires. 1 Peter 1:14 NLT

• What are three areas I struggle most trying to fit in?
• When was a time I put my happiness above God’s call for holiness?
• What are the biggest ways that I’m different from the world?
• What is the area that God wants me to be different?

Don't become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You'll be changed from the inside out.

Romans 12:2 Message

For the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. For it is written: “I will destroy the wisdom of the wise; the intelligence of the intelligent I will frustrate.” Where is the wise man? Where is the scholar? Where is the philosopher of this age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world? 1 Corinthians 1:18-20

• Living holy isn’t the path to knowing ______________.

• Knowing Christ is the path to living ____________.

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PLAYLIST—1

A MILLION REASONS

• YOUR ENEMY WILL GIVE YOU A MILLION REASONS TO QUIT ON WHATEVER MATTERS MOST.

• YOU ONLY NEED ONE GOOD REASON TO STAY THE COURSE.

You're giving me a million reasons to let you go

You're giving me a million reasons to quit the show

You're givin' me a million reasons

If I had a highway, I would run for the hills

If you could find a dry way, I'd forever be still

But you're giving me a million reasons

PRESSING ON WHEN YOU WANT TO GIVE UP

Jesus Replied, “Now the time has come for the Son of Man to enter into his glory” 27 “Now my soul is deeply troubled. Should I pray, ‘Father, save me from this hour’? John 12:23, 27 NLT

…But this is the very reason I came! John 12:27 NLT

For the joy set before [Jesus] endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. 3 Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. Hebrews 12:2-3

I bow down to pray

I try to make the worst seem better

Lord, show me the way

To cut through all his worn out leather

I've got a hundred million reasons to walk away

But baby, I just need one good one to stay

For the joy set before him [Jesus] endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. 3 Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. Hebrews 12:2-3

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Running With Giants | Sarah

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Running With Giants | Elisha

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Running With Giants | Mary

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Running With Giants | Rahab | Pastor Angela Mooney

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Running With Giants | Rahab | Pastor Susan Mead

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Running With Giants | Jacob

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Running With Giants | Isaiah

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What Time Is It

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What Time Is It | One

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When Pigs Fly | Three

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When Pigs Fly | One

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Blessed Life | Three

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Blessed Life | Two

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Blessed Life

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A Love That Lasts | Two

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A Love That Lasts | One

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We are what we repeatedly do. And, in this series, we dig into some things we can do that make every other part of our life better. 

Sundays in January | 9 & 10:30am

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Bishop Gregory Holley | Relate Church

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Reply All | Stress

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Reply All | Week Three | Difficult People

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Reply All | Week Two

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Reply ALL

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When the Devil Knocks | four

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When the Devil Knocks

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Relate Team Day

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At the Movies | Star Wars

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Moana Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. Hebrews 11:1 Comfort and progress do not mix. Anything that is significant is also going to look scary. And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him. Hebrews 11:6 You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit- fruit that will last- sand so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. John 15:16 2 Corinthians 5:7 "for we walk by faith, not by sight." I refuse to be stuck, I'm going to take a step Failure is an event, not a person This is what the Lord says: When people fall down, do they not get up? When someone turns away, do they not return. Jeremiah 8:4 How move past defeat: 1. Who you listen to determines who you become faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word about Christ. Romans 10:17 2. Sometimes you have to think back in order to move forward. But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases. Lamentations 3:21–22 I will remember the deeds of the Lord; yes, I will remember your miracles of long ago. Psalm 77:11 3. Your singing can change your situation! About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God... At once all the prison doors flew open, and everyone's chains came loose. Acts 16:25, 26..