The Big Fat Gay Podcast: Recent Episodes
The Big Fat Gay Podcast
Talking about issues that fat people and their admirers face in relationships, media, and society. Dan and Trevor (chaser/chub) bring expert opinions on the subjects while Don and Michael (chub/chaser) bring anecdotal experience and lots of questions. Two chubs, two chasers; two Millennials, two Gen-Xers; two experts, two laymen. A well-rounded bunch!
The boys discuss Teen Vogue’s op-ed about TikTok’s ban of #SkinnyTok as well as Don’s experience protesting as a fat person. Then we answer a listener’s email about fitting into the chub/chaser world after weight-loss.
We’re back from hiatus and discussing Cosmo’s take on Meghan Trainor’s change to “All About That Bass,” Vogue’s clap-back that fat people can do Pilates, and then a deep dive into gay & chub/chaser mentorship in our community.
We highlight Divine, Ricki Lake and Mink Stole—all made famous by John Waters films—and an update on the NAAFA campaign for size-freedom: could Delaware be next? Then we talk about the 2007 film Hairspray staring John Travolta and Nikki Blonsky.
The boys chat about the preview for the new Indonesian animated movie, Jumbo, and a reminder from Tigress Osborn about politics and internalized fat-phobia. Then we let our imaginations run wild on fat mythological creatures.
This week the boys talk about an article in the Guardian featuring fat trainers and athletes and TiKToker Jay Salazar dismantling medical fatphobia. Then we unzip to share stories about clothing.
This week the boys talk about a new movie with cowboys & sumos and the “chubby filter” banned from TikTok. Then we discuss our view on birthdays and cake!
This week the boys talk about a new fat, gay rom-com, Things Like This, and Sebastian Conelli’s eloquent Instagram rant against fat-joke politics. Then we discuss the fear and desire of chubs and chasers on the dance floor.
This week, the boys talk about Sumo, a new off-Broadway play, and Brendan Carpenter's inspiring post on Instagram about gaining weight. Then we dive into how we’ve dealt with being triggered by innocent remarks.
Join us for the 6th Annual Chubby Awards, presenting the best of last year’s fat representation in business, community, and entertainment.
This week the boys talk about a male athlete being trolled for supposedly wearing a sports bra and the BBC’s interview with a plus-size male model during London Fashion Week. Then we discuss one-night stands.
We’re out of the studio this week but wanted to share some programing updates. We’ll be back with a new episode on March 5th!
The boys talk about a German expert accusing Peppa Pig of fat shaming, a Breakfast Club interview with the fat rapper suing Lyft for size discrimination, and the new show “Same Dress Different Bodies.” Then we discuss people fat-shaming their pets.
Happy Valentine's Day! This week the boys discuss a Wicked plus-sized dancer, Debra DiGiovanni's late nite debut, and 3 tips for navigating medical weight stigma. Then we cozy in the swamp for Shrek 2.
This week we continue discussing our personal Roman Empires, and engage in some Roman trivia.
This week we talk about Chris Burney’s retirement from Bowling for Soup, Britain’s new teenage world dart champ, and a student essay about boys dealing with eating disorders. Then we each talk about our personal “Roman Empires.”
This week we talk about Body Positivity on Broadway, Phoria’s recommendations for fat-friendly clothing, and Lizzo’s meditation on Insta. Then we talk about our favorite comfort foods.
This week we’re checking in with an update on the LA Fires and share some resources on how to help those who have been affected.
This week, we talk about Britain’s new food advertising bans, San Francisco hiring a weight stigma consultant, and RV Mendoza’s IG campaign, “Just Do It Fat!.” Then we dig into our own version of in and out for 2025.
This week the boys talk about the discovery of Santa’s tomb, a UK report raising alarms about Santa’s health, and doctors getting trained in empathy when treating fat kids. Then we discuss the Jack Black movie, Dear Santa.
This week the boys discuss Big Boys scoring big nominations, Adrianne & The Castle, and Caleb Heron in Teen Vogue. Then we discuss threesomes and dating couples seeking a third.
This week we talk about the next wave of Hot Santas,Ghosts star Danielle Pinnock on adversity and diversity, and improvements for fat students in higher ed. Then we interview Great British Bake Off star Janusz Domagala about his cookbook and improving your recipes.
Happy Thanksgiving! This week the boys discuss Gov. Pritzker standing up for the residents of Illinois, Jennifer Owens & Amber Riley Defying Gravity, and William Hornsby's tips for disarming diet talk at the table. Then we share what we're thankful for this year.
This week we feature listeners’ letters about the progress they’ve made, a listener who brought our fat eagle to life, and discuss our self-care tips for dark days and holiday blues.
For our 200th episode, we feature voicemails and letters from listeners on how things have changed for them since we started doing the podcast almost 5 years ago.
This week we discuss the disgraced former CEO of A&F, Britain’s new plan for fat people receiving assistance, and Guy Branam’s take on being “gifted.” Then we interview Superstore’s Chris Grace about his new show on Dropout, Chris Grace: As Scarlett Johansson.
This week we talk about Fat Bear Week's Final Girl, Azealia Banks’s fatphobic Twitter tirade, and the Skinnylicious Menu at Cheesecake Factory. Then we dig into the consumer horror movie, “The Stuff.”
We’re scattered around the world this week but wanted to share some reminders about our upcoming episodes..
We talk about how Raven-Symone got CGI’d thinner, Sam Morrison’s one-man show, Sugar Daddy, and Sebastian Connelli’s take on fat Halloween costumes. Then we discuss navigating Halloween and other holiday parties as a fat person.
This week we talk about the wave of clothing donations in the wake of Ozempic, using Apple Watch to detect sleep apnea, and a dietician’s praise of ultra-processed foods. Then we discuss making friends in (and out of) the chub/chaser community.
We talk about Latrice Royale starring in Little Shop of Horrors, Colin Farrell’s Penguin fat suit, and Tigress Osborne’s“unfriendly reminder.” Then we share what we want to go differently this holiday season.
This week we share more conversations with attendees of BiggerBash about their experiences of the event, their personal journeys the chub/chaser world, and their Big Fat Gay lives. (Part 2 of 2)
This week we share some conversations with attendees of BiggerBash about their experiences of the event, their personal journeys the chub/chaser world, and their Big Fat Gay lives. (Part 1 of 2)
This week the boys talk about Target shafting plus-sized clothing, the new fat-positive movie Empire Waist, and a bald eagle too “fat” to fly. Then we talk about intergenerational dating.
We talk about a bygone Olympic sport favoring fat people, Keely Brosnan’s response to body shaming, and a Sojourners article about Christian anti-fatness. Then we talk about our internalized concerns about masculinity and fatness.
We discuss a Chinese weightlifter helping reshape her country’s beauty standards, a child star refusing to tell a fat joke, and a Cosmo article examining changing body standards. Then we talk about our love and hate of exercise.
This week we talk about an upcoming comedy about a lineman turned plus-size model, the Caped Crusader’s fat female Penguin, and PopSugar’s take on how medical equipment excludes fat people. Then we share stories of family fatphobia.
This week we talk about fat queer rapper Chris Conde, a new Lego ad featuring a chub-chaser couple, and planned changes at Southwest Airlines. Then we look back at Richard Simmons and discuss a video comparing bodybuilding with ob*sity.
We look at a Vox article on filming strangers in public, preview a stop-motion film claiming to be body-positive, discuss a play at Edinburgh Fringe that really is! Then we talk about when friends don’t get fat-attraction.
The boys talk about the plus-sized suitor on the Bachelorette, a junk-science study on how chili peppers make you fat, and Jannarie’s new song, “Never Been Small.” Then we talk to filmmaker Corey Sherman about his new feature, “Big Boys.”
This week, the boys discuss a new study paying men to lose weight, Kelly Osborne speaking out on being told she’s too fat for TV, and an op-ed about anti-fat micro aggressions. Then we talk about a special episode of Drop Dead Diva.
The boys discuss how GLP-1 drugs offer business opportunities for the weight-loss industry and how medical anti-fat bias hurts thin people too. Then we discuss the responsibility of airports to accommodate disabled fat fliers.
The boys discuss how GLP-1 drugs offer business opportunities for the weight-loss industry and how medical anti-fat bias hurts thin people too. Then we discuss the responsibility of airports to accommodate disabled fat fliers.
This week the boys discuss Bridgerton’s new season of fat/thin romance, Allure’s take on Oprah’s new stance on diet culture, and Guy Branum’s touching tale of plus-size merch. Then we talk about fat innovations we wish for.
This week the boys discuss Delta Burke talking weight-loss amphetamines in Hollywood, TikTok's crack down on diet content, and a Sumo Club in Florida. Then we discuss the state of euphemisms and discomfort around the word fat.
The boys talk about Harry Potter’s Aunt Marge floating over London, Aussie football banning skin-fold testing, and NAAFA’s Tigress Osborn making Time’s top 100. Then we talk about moms, eating, and body image for Mother’s Day.
This week the boys talk about the Chris Farley bio pic, fat avatars for Pokemon Go, and Cosmo’s piece on fat people in reality shows. Then…Nipples! Tastes, feels, and techniques.
This week we highlight mega food companies pushing anti-diet advice, the oat-zempic craze, and the latest fatphobia in South Korea. Then the boys tell some fat anecdotes.
We feature Jezebel’s essay on Travis Kelce’s so-called dad bod, a GOP candidate’s stand to raise fat people’s insurance premiums, and anti-fat bias in the workplace. Then we talk about living in a body you’re not attracted to.
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We talk about a new obsity study, Lizzo’s swimwear collection, and bigger seats to entice people back to the theatre**. Then we dive into an old Golden Girls*** episode: Picture it: Blanche gets a visit from her fat daughter.
This week the boys discuss Eli Lily’s new ob*sity ad campaign, Pinterest’s roll-out of body-type searches, and NPR’s feature on body-positive hikers. Then we talk about the difference between meeting online vs IRL.
We discuss plus-size representation on morning shows, fat-shaming in British parliament, and a cozy internet grandma sharing about eating disorder recovery. Then we talk about kisses, woofs, and other emoticons used to flirt online.
As they do every year, the boys bestow the coveted Chubby Awards, their picks for the best in fat-positive events, media, and business.
We talk about Oprah’s departure from Weight Watchers,, Jaquel Spivey’s new Damian in Mean Girls, and a San Diego Magazine essay about photography and body image outside the binary. Then we discuss chasers’ struggle with body image and weight-gain.
The boys talk about drug companies’ attempts to woo body-positive influencers, a great new workout studio called Power-Plus Wellness, and a UK advice columnist combating a mother’s fat-shaming. Then we read and answer some listener mail.
This week we tackle FinnAir’s voluntary passenger weigh-ins, a new study that links body appreciation with better sex, and a Men’s Health article on men and body acceptance. Then we discuss how to spot scams aimed at fat people.
Happy Valentine's Day! In this conclusion of our Valentine’s two-part episode, the boys answer questions about chub/chaser sex, dating, and relationships. (Part 2 of 2)
Happy Fat Tuesday! As always, in a two-part Valentine’s episode, the boys answer questions about chub/chaser sex, dating, and relationships. (Part 1 of 2)
This week we talk about racist AI art in Fortnite, a proposed "Obesity Bill of Rights" for healthcare, and plus-size model Zack Miko’s awesome PSA on breathing. Then we tell stories of cruising and other fat adventures.
This week we talk about a BBC exposé about unscrupulous weight-loss surgery, a WaPo op-ed comparing Ozempic to orthodontia, and a report on FatCon in Seattle. Then we dig into people’s strange reactions to weight loss.
The boys discuss a NYT article on weight-loss ads targeting brides, the new children’s book based on the song “If I Were a Fish,” and an article about body-shaming infants. Then we look at aging in the chub/chaser community.
This week we talk about WW’s so-called apology for body-shaming, an ex-exec’s comments praising excluding certain customers, and a CNN op-ed saying let fat people be. Then we dig into the sad fat guy stereotype.
We discuss the dust-up over a plus-size influencer’s seat belt extender, how NYC’s new anti-discrimination law may affect fat dancers, and NPR's recap of Philly FatCon. Then we look at what we’d like to see more and less of in 2024.
We talk about the war on fat Santa, gut microbes’ effect on the rest of our body, and the saga of Randolph the Rotund Reindeer. Then we discuss Melissa McCarthy’s new holiday movie, Genie.
The boys highlight Harvey Guillén’s latest interview and photospread, Love Actually director’s regret over the movie’s fat jokes, and a listener mail on a university discussions on Gluttony in Dante's Inferno.
The boys discuss an anti-fat subway sign in S. Korea, Fashionista’s report on how fashion schools address size-inclusivity, and a new plus-size fashion designer, Nikhil Kapoor. Then we tackle food policing during the holidays.
We discuss a shop owner lowering prices on plus-size clothes, a delivery service looking to pay people to eat, and a guide for eating with fat-phobes. Then we talk about what we’re grateful for this year.
This week the boys tackle a WSJ article on the gray market in ob*sity meds, a study about #bodypositivity on TikTok, and our award from Full-Figured Industry! Then we review your recommendations for making homes more fat-friendly.
The boys discuss fitness trolls, how Dove & Nike are encouraging fat kids in sports, and thoughts on the current state of Big Fat Gay dating.
The boys discuss ABC’s article on beauty filters and self-esteem, the exclusion of fat people from drug trials, and WaPo’s article on plus-size travel, which we amplify in asking “where do you wish you could go?”
We talk about Emily Blunt’s fat-shaming faux pas, the strange contents of Miriam Margolyes’s handbag, and NPR’s report on whether weight-loss drugs are hurting the fat-rights movement. Then we look at self-care tips for the fall.
This week we discuss the winner of Fat Bear Week, fat dancer/choreographer Diego Basilio, and a mom heading off anti-fat bias with her kid’s pediatrician. Then we respond to an email about getting fat-shamed by a stranger while on a date.
This week we talk about a study about malfunctioning fat, letters to the NYT on limited fashion choices, and Pinterest’s new algorithm to show more body types. Then we talk about our relationship to being photographed.
This week we discuss food companies that pay online nutrition influencers, the legacy of the late Fernando Botero, and a plus-size look at NY Fashion Week. Then we talk about people who saw us for more than we thought we were.
We talk about the Scottish Food Crime Unit’s latest arrest, Jessica Simpson’s calorie unconscious kids, and a fat black woman who runs marathons and mentors kids. Then we share stories of overcoming low expectations—ours and other’s.
The boys talk about a study of the weight of serving dishes, the airlines’ requirement to weigh passengers, and the Guardian’s weigh-in on kids and diet culture. Then we discuss weight stigma in politics.
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The boys discuss the Guardian’s interview with the fat body double from Shallow Hall, size diversity in Janelle Monäe’s new video, and the Baltimore community group rejecting diet culture. Then we tackle disaster prep when you’re fat.
The boys talk about the allegations against Lizzo, the NYT take on plus-size fashion, and a different kind of fat camp for kids in CO. Then we talk about what we’d like to see in a Big Fat Gay Convention.
We talk about the problem with Diablo 4’s body diversity, fat fashion that isn’t clothing, and Seattle’s attempt at weight-neutral healthcare. Then we look at some costume ideas for a fat, fabulous Halloween.
The boys discuss companies catering to fat travelers, FatCon, a plus-sized industry convention, and some tips for combating anti-fat bias in the workplace. Then we do a deep dive into making a first move and how to gauge interest.
Happy Fat Liberation Month! The boys talk about the lack of body diversity in Troye Sivan’s new video, fat Finnish artist Iiu Susiraja’s self-portraiture, and Ghosts star Danielle Pinnock’s take on Lizzo haters. Then we delve into a listener letter about money and dating.
We talk this week about Harvey Guillen’s fashion on the red carpet, a NYT article on open relationships, and Vice’sinterview with fat activist Demon Derriere. Then we dive into the difference that time and perspective make.
This week we talk about the upcoming doc about Aubrey Gordon (aka Your Fat Friend), the eating-disorder chatbot that went rogue, and the ADA’s new (problematic) BMI guidance. Then we share our surprise when fat-acceptance goes well!
The boys highlight fat travel adventurer Jeff Jenkins’s new TV show, Derry Girl’s Siobhán McSweeney slaying at the BAFTAs, and the push to make air travel more fat-inclusive. Then we share our stories of teachers who influenced our body image.
The boys talk about a monster-in-law's letter to Dear Abby, Lizzo getting real, and a Fat Watch: Rewind about youth stepping up in Fat Activism. Then they share some listener mail about drugs in the bedroom.
This week the boys discuss Andrew Christian's THICK flop, the demise of Jenny Craig, and a major win for Size Freedom in NYC. Then they dive into a listener mail about navigating chub/chaser dating while neurodivergent.
We talk about an anti-fat teen’s comeuppance on social media and the companies offering plus-size clothing and social events. Then we share some chub chaser stories: “has this ever happened to you?"
The boys talk about Alex Newell's favorite Whitney Houston song, a fat ensemble takes on musical theater, and the Cinderella Project helping fat kids dress for prom. Then we talk about fat representation in “Shrek."
The boys tackle Naked (fat?) Boys Singing, Asian plus-size store names on TikTok, and a study on avoiding weight stigma. Then we look at fat as an identity or characteristic in dating.
We talk about Lizzo’s take on Victoria Secret, Gwyneth Paltrow’s wellness smack-down, and resources to support trans folks. Then we respond to listener trying to be an ally to their fat sister.
We discuss Jennifer Coolidge’s Power Ranger photo shoot, Esquire’s take on plus-size men in fashion, and a 1998 commentary from a female fat admirer. Then we explore staying resilient (or just getting started) in fat allyship.
It’s the fourth annual Chubby Awards! The boys discuss outstanding examples of fat positive tv, film, and more from 2022.
This week we talk about revising Roald Dahl, giving Barney a make-over, and a successful plus-size clothing swap. Then we tackle setting and respecting boundaries in chub/chaser dating.
This week we discuss an influencer in the crossfire of body positivity, seating on Universal’s Mario Kart (not universal), and look back at NY Girth & Mirth’s website from 2001. Then we weigh in on trending Twink Death.
Happy Valentines Day! We talk about what ever happened to plus-size male models, Lizzo’s fashion at the Grammy’s, and burlesque taking back body positivity. Then we tackle the pressure that comes with Valentine’s Day.
We highlight a fat black tenor playing Carnegie Hall after years of body shaming, a new musical in Calgary about the F(at) word, and the 1973 “Fat Lib Manifesto.” Then we tackle fat phobia coming from inside the house!
We circle back on Robert Pattinsonand Hollywood diet culture, M&M’s dive into the culture wars, and UK Glamour’s take on a plus-size yoga instructor in a Gatorade commercial. Then an update on our trips and moves.
The boys talk about Rutherford Falls’s Jena Schmeiding’s take on diet culture and Hollywood, an article about the lack of plus-sized fashion for fat kids, and Ask Amy’s response to a fat-phobic mom. Then we dive into how we accommodate fat bodies at home and travel.
In this minisode, we share a listener mail about Brazil’s protections for fat people and discuss what diet or wellness trends we’d most like to see disappear in 2023.
As we begin our fourth year of the podcast, we feature Eureka’s new video, a Brazilian win for fat accommodation. Then we talk about what we’re hoping 2023 brings to each of us.
This week the boys discuss a “spicy” new plus-size romance novel, the shortage of Santas, and an AI-generated poem that celebrates fatness. Then we do a deep dive into the Queen Latifah movie, Last Holiday.
This week the boys discuss Mashable’s beef with the lack of plus-size theater seating, SNL’s Big Boys video, and Guy Brannum’s travels with The Whale. Then we talk about mentorship in the gay and chub/chaser community.
We discuss Lizzo’s new documentary, Rebel Wilson’s controversial new clothing line, and Everyday Health’s suggestions for dealing with insulting body comments. Then it’s Our Favorite Things—gifts for the chub or chaser in your life.
The boys talk about Lizzo’s LA concert, David Harbor’s new movie, and a plus-size boutique in Portland. Then we tackle terms like straight-size, skinny, twink and where all the men are at in fat lib.
Gobble Gobble! This week the boys discuss the different reasons we’re thankful, stuffing preferences, and share a turkey-related bit.
This week we talk about what scientists are learning from fat bears, belly tourism in Vienna, and naked fat yoga on OnlyFans. Then we discuss our changing tastes in food and pie ideas for the holidays.
This week we highlight articles about celebrities Dexter Mayfield, Harvey Guillén, and the organization Fat Torah, working for fat-lib the Jewish community. We also discuss how people’s perceptions of us often fail to change even though we do.
We talk about Lizzo’s concert in Nashville, Pixar’s new short about body dysmorphia, and a different kind of “fat camp.” Then we dive into how our bodies seem to change depending on the context.
We discuss an American Airline’s dispute with an anti-fat passenger, the furor over Taylor Swift’s new music video, and Cass Elliot finally getting a star on Hollywood’s Walk Of Fame. For Halloween, we do a deep dive into the Spanish thriller, Piggy.
We talk about spray-on clothing at Paris Fashion Week, a NY Times article on factors (not health-care) affecting diabetes, and a documentary about a queer, BIPOC, plus-size burlesque show. Then it’s everything you wanted to know about fat and feet!
We follow up on Lizzo’s infamous flute performance, plus-sized merch at Disney, and a Peloton instructor fighting against fat hate. Then it’s our takes on fatness and queer coding in Disney’s animated Little Mermaid.
This week we talk about Lizzo’s new flute, Guy Brannum on all things Bros, and Self Magazine’s piece on diet culture. Then we dive into chaser on chaser rivalry.
We talk about Lizzo’s Emmy Award acceptance, the fat gay Afro-punk comic book, Black Vans, and 300 lb runner Martinus Evans featured in Men’s Health. We also discuss moving forward when we encounter others moving backwards in anti-fat bias.
We talk about fat influencers taking over a fitness meme, the state of fat men on stage, and a new crowd-sourced app for fat folks. Then veering away from a recent new film, we talk about some of our fat heroes in media we actually like!
The boys talk about a recent spate of anti-fat comments on plus-size fashion, Lizzo’s VMA acceptance speech, and our own experiences of socializing in and out of the chub/chaser community.
This week we highlight Harvey Guillén’s coming out story in Esquire, WaPo’s take on the teenage activist body-shamed by the GOP, and how Trevor turned a fat-phobic encounter into activism. We also share our stories of food, family, and fatphobia.
This week we discuss two tales of fat triumph: Dexter Mayfield and the winner of Hunted Australia. We also talk about the Hallmark Channel’s new plus-sized romance, and how people are using fatphobia to combat fatphobia in the comments.
The boys talk about the backlash against the Y2K fashion comeback, finding peace with your body through swimming, and a deep-dive into the wonderfully diverse new show, Dead End: Paranormal Park (spoilers!)
The boys talk about a Spanish body-positivity campaign gone wrong, a medical journal that calls out fatphobia as malpractice, and some tips and stories to celebrate Fat Liberation Month.
This week the boys talk about Lizzo hitting #1, a dog shelter’s anti-fat bias, and an approach to company wellness that shows promise. We also talk about whether it’s good idea to have more fat people on reality dating shows.
We talk about Dexter Mayfield on the cover of Out Magazine, fatphobia on Stranger Things, and helping kids have a peaceful relationship with food. Also, a new AI that shows us our anti-fat bias.
We talk about The Chubby Diaries, NatGeo’s new plus-sized travel show, Aidy Bryant’s interview in Vogue about finding her style, and BoarLord’s interview on being a fat sex worker. We also wrap-up our time at BiggerVegas.
Live from BiggerVegas! The boys discuss Will Poulter’s getting in shape for a Marvel movie, the escapades of a plus-sized travel blogger, and respond to audience questions and comments about chubs & chasers.
We talk about the Pulitzer-winning play Fat Ham, the increased demand for erotic cakes, and Bon Appetit’s article questioning “junk food," followed by a frank talk about chubs/chasers fitting in and feeling left out.
This week we talk about WSJ’s article on plus-size sports gear, the big surprise on the cover of Sports Illustrated, a 14-year-old fat diver winning competitions, and answer a letter about chub/chaser mingling at events and in the wild.
This week we talk about an article in support of fat kink, Gabourey Sidibe’s upcoming wedding, and answer a listener’s question about opening up a relationship for a chub/chaser/bear event.
It’s our 100th episode! We talk about A Strange Loop, the Pulitzer-winning musical from black, fat, queer playwright Michael R. Jackson. Also featured, a new Canadian clothing brand for plus-size men, and our reflections on how we’ve changed doing 100 episodes of this podcast.
This week we talk about two recent interviews with Joy Nash and Andy Neal doing things fat people are not expected to do. We also talk about a recent academic study on the British bear scene and share our own stories of being perceived as “masculine."
This week we talk about the new Thor movie (lean or fat?), a BBC article on weight discrimination in the workplace, and CNN’s piece on complimenting weight-loss. We also do a deep dive into the chub/chaser dynamics of The Ritz, Terrance McNally’s Broadway play and movie from the mid 70s.
The boys talk about our new Patreon going live, a new study showing how anti-fat discrimination shortens life-expectancy, the lag in plus-size men’s fashion, and tips and tricks we use to counter negativity and poor body image.
This week the boys highlight Desiree Burch's new YouTube series, Profiles in Fatness, answer a listener question about where to find bodybuilder chasers, and talk about current trends in negative male body image.
This week we talk about a Shrek burlesque show from Australia, Lizzo’s new line of shape-shifting “bodywear,” and a new line of plus-sized NFTS that makes us ponder whether people would choose to be fat in the metaverse?
This week we mark the passing of a giant in the chub/chaser community and the debut of Lizzo’s new reality show. We also discuss the HuffPo article on going back to the office after gaining 70 lbs, and talk about the first time we heard chub, chaser, and gay.
It’s the third-annual Chubby Awards! Every year we single out noteworthy representation of fat people or their admirers in media- and more. Find out who we gave a Chubby- could it be… you?
This week we talk about “World Obesity Day,” answer a listener’s letter about fitting in to the chub/chaser scene as a trans person, and discuss the ups and downs of long-distance relationships.
The boys talk about celebrity bear Hank the Tank, Lizzo’s new reality TV show, and a letter from a listener asking us to invent our ideal chub/chaser event.
This week the boys talk about new robotic surgery for a patient with high BMI, how we feel about and perceive numbers on the scale, and the wacky predictions about fat people from pseudo-statistics. It’s the numbers episode!
In part 2 of our annual Valentine’s Day episode, we continue answering listener questions about about taking sexy pictures, navigating the apps, and share a chocolate themed bit.
In part 1 of our annual Valentine’s Day episode, we answer listener questions about about Valentine’s activities in and out of the bedroom, postcoital movies, and more.(Part 2 drops on Wednesday!)
We continue our discussion about what we’ve learned as chubs & chasers and play a trivia game about corporate candy mascots. (Part 2 of 2)
The boys talk about the new M&M redesign, triumphs of a plus-sized adventurer, and a case of misdiagnosis because the patient was fat. We also share personal stories about what we’ve learned as chubs & chasers. (Part 1 of 2)
We talk about comedian Bridget Everett, the Sun’s remarkably pleasant feature on fat admirers, and a Twitter post that TV/movie writers stop making fat jokes. We also talk about the uneasy alliance of sexuality and political activism in the fatosphere.
This week we talk about two fat girls opening a demonic portal on SciFi, Self Magazine’s new series on the future of fitness, and what rebranding would look like for the plus-sized men’s fashion.
This week features a 300lb man on the cover of Runners World, Ragen Chastain’s medical study round-up of why diets don’t work, and a letter from a listener wondering how to respond to chasersless interested in him because he’s lost weight.
Back from the holidays, we talk about fashion models wearing fat suits and a listener’s letter about fighting fat-phobia working with people with intellectual disabilities. We also discuss dealing with other people’s New Year’s resolutions.
For the holidays, the guys give their Christmas wishes for the new year and read an especially moving letter we received.
We discuss Nicole Byer’s new stand-up special, a journalist’s deep dive into flawed obesity statistics, and a pharmaceutical company’s suspect efforts to destigmatize fatness. We also look jocks who’ve gained a few pounds rebranding themselves as “chubs.”
Back from hiatus, the boys talk about a diverse, size-inclusive production of Beauty and the Beast, singer/dancer Kyle McIntire's new cover of 30/90, and stories of our Thanksgiving travel.
In part 2, Dan and Michael continue their discussion about communication and other issues the come up between chubs and chasers.
Dan and Michael talk about communication, why size sometimes matters, and other issues that come up between chubs and chasers.
Don and Trevor continue their discussion on chasers, communication styles, and a proposal for a new holiday.
The boys talk about a NYT article on the limited value of exercise and a website promoting fat mutual aid. We also discuss our surprising reactions to Steven King’s Thinner. Happy Halloween!
The boys discuss Kumail Nanjiani's interview about getting buff for Eternals and yet another fat suit for Renée Zellweger’s latest movie. Also, we talk to Sam King of Cruising at Large about chub/chaser cruises.
We discuss Patrick Starrr’s foray into plus-size fashion, one company’s “radical” use of mannequins that look like their customers, and chub/chaser bars and monthly events—what we miss and what we don’t.
This week the boys talk about Trevor’s run-in with reality TV, fat fight scenes, fat hikers of Mt. Kilimanjaro, and the backlash against fat liberation in social media.
The boys continue their stories of chub/chaser life and give a tip for a fat-friendly children’s book. We also play 2 truths and a lie (part 2 of 2).
This week we discuss anti-fat bias in clearing people for knee-replacement surgery, blaming fat kids for Covid deaths, and plus-sized fashion at the MET Gala. Also, we get personal, and tell a few stories from our chub/chaser lives (part 1 of 2).
This week the guys talk about crop tops on Alaska Airlines, Sarah Paulson’s response to her critics about wearing a fat suit, and the impact of toxic masculinity on growing up fat in Hollywood.
This week the guys talk about recent interviews by Harvey Guillén and Alana Thompson (aka Honey Boo Boo) and how we can help people suffering in Lousiana and TX. We also offer some self-care techniques for grim times.
We talk about Old Navy making their stores more inclusive, Melissa McCarthy's new movie, and ways to support Afghan refugees. Plus we unpack OnlyFans near banning of adult content and what it means for the growing movement to sanitize the internet. Link to listen in bio!
This week the boys discuss the ongoing battle fat people face to receive adequate healthcare, Nicole Byer's new stand-up special, and tattoos for fat bodies. We also recast fat suits with fat actors.
The boys talk about Lizzo needing her 6’ of space, Jonah Hill’s new body-positive tattoo, and a club in Miami that is expressly prohibits fat women.
We discuss a BBW motorcycle crew, a new big fat gay musical, and Healthy-ish’s interviews w/ Jana Schmieding & Jessamyn Stanley. We also discuss deciding on whether to go to chub/chaser events in this new surge of COVID.
We discuss David Harbour’s weight loss for Black Widow and his wife’s "mixed feelings,” a study that concludes fat men with metastatic prostate cancer outlive their lean cohorts, and the delicate dance of introvert/extrovert dating.
The boys talk about a straight chub/chaser couple taking flack in Britain, the bullying of a CDC researcher who followed data over dogma, and the plethora of euphemisms for the F word—fat.
We discuss stolen fat people pics, Pinterest’s new ban on weight-loss ads, and body-positivity’s able-ism. We also talk about navigating outings with friends and family in a post-vax world.
The boys talk about the horrors of being fat in New Zealand, a doctor’s article on the prejudices of obesity research, and some tips for traveling fat this summer. We also answer a chaser’s email about not finding a chub as attractive since he’s lost weight.
This week the boys discuss a fat-shamed dress mannequin in England, Samantha Bee taking on the weight-loss industry, and getting fat-shamed in life when you least expect it.
This week the boys talk about Paul Walter Hauser’s work in Disney’s Cruella, how to rent a fat person in Japan, and a recent NPR article extolling bariatric surgery for adolescents.
We're back recording all in the same room! This week we talk about a fat-friendly British musical and the ins and outs of hooking up at chub/chaser events like Big Bayou.
Dan and Don continue their conversation about some of the concerns that come up for people when attending a chub/chaser event.
Dan and Don sit down to address some of the concerns that come up for people when attending a chub/chaser event.
Trevor and Michael continue their conversation about chub/chaser friendships, with or without benefits, and other aspects of emotional and physical intimacy.
Trevor and Michael sit down to chat about chub/chaser friendships, with or without benefits, and other aspects of emotional and physical intimacy.
The boys highlight a study about men dealing with poor body image and an article about finding body liberation through roller-skating. We also talk with Tigress Osborn of NAAFA about fat liberation and the programs the organization has going on in May.
This week the boys discuss Europe's first plus-size Playboy cover model, Lizzo’s partnership with Dove to “transform social media,” and pitch their ideas for reboots of shows staring fat actors.
It’s the second annual Chubby Awards! The boys give discuss year’s outstanding efforts in movies and TV that promote body diversity and fat positivity.
We talk about fat characters on the new animated Star Trek: Prodigy, a push from British MPs to stop using BMI, and an in-depth interview with Brad & Jim, who star in their own overwhelmingly popular online chub/chaser porn as BigBearNChaser.
We continue our discussion of race in the chub/chaser community with more voices from people of color and share a tip on how you can start and fund a fat-positive community project.
We talk about Sports Illustrated’s first plus-size Asian swimsuit model, an essay about dating on the apps as a fat person, and a discussion of race in the chub/chaser community highlighting the voices of people of color (part 1 of 2).
We talk about the Twitter storm over Krispy Kreme’s “sweet” vaccine promotion, an advice column tackling a husband’s fatphobia, and what we consider deal-breakers in a relationship (or ones we used to).
This week we talk about fatphobia in the news in Britain and Japan plus a promising new sitcom with a fat female indigenous protagonist. We also look the question of whether life for fat folks is getting better, and how can you tell?
The boys talk about sweater patterns for fat folks and the kidnapping of fat children by the British government. Also, we look at adjusting to life after Covid, what we’re ready for and what we’re not.
This week the boys talk about plus-size designer fashion, Melissa McCarthy’s new movie with Octavia Spencer, and what comes up for people in older/young dating, especially in the chub/chaser world.
This week we talk about a news anchor's controversial tweets about vaccine access and how you can support #StopAsianHate. In our main segment talk with special guest Bree of HealedAF.org about sex toys for chubs and chasers covering the basics to more experienced uses.
This week we talk about Paul Walter Hauser in Cruella and the different coverage a new anti-obesity drug is receiving. Also, we discuss how celebrities have been treated before and after weight loss.
We talk about Sumos forced to play during Covid, Glamour’s new article on fat sex and attraction, and institutional fatphobia, when social media companies erase fat bodies to promote brand or community standards.
Happy Valentine’s Day! In part 2 of our Valentine’s Day episode, we continue answering listener questions about everything from candies to buy, to sex moves to make, to tips for 3-ways.
In part 1 of our Valentine’s Day episode, we answer listener questions about everything from candies to buy, to sex moves to make, to tips for 3-ways. (Part 2 drops on Valentine’s Day!)
We interview artist and children’s book illustrator Bats Langley about his fat character, Gus, fat representation in commercial and art and gallery spaces, and how people sexualize or criticize depictions of fat people.
This week the boys talk about the new chubby boyband out of China, Produce Pandas, along with a Buzzfeed article about different-sized couples, and then move on to discuss the pleasures and pitfalls of goal-setting as we start the new year.
This week we talk about The Whale, Darren Aronofsky’s film adaptation of the award-winning play staring Brendan Frasier, beautiful fat male photography on Instagram, and the pros and cons of labels in the chub/chaser scene.
The boys discuss a COVID marriage proposal gone viral and French fat activists taking aim at a fatphobic TV show. The mailbag becomes the main topic as the boys share the story ofa chaser who gets shamed for his desires by the chub he’s attracted to.
This week we talk about our reactions to Disney's Godmotheredand James Corden in Brian Murphy’s film version of The Prom and his recent WW (fmrly Weight Watchers) endorsement promoting weight loss. We also react to Mary Weismann confronting online bullies about her character’s size on Star Trek Discovery.
In our last episode of the year, we read chaser mail and talk about chub4chubattraction, then look at the increased attention around eating disorders among gay men, and wrap up the year with things we learned in 2020 that we want to keep doing in 2021.
If you or a loved one are struggling with an eating disorder you can call or text the National Eating Disorder Helpline at 1-800-931-2237 for support, resources, and treatment options. Or go to https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org for more information.
The boys continue with mail from chasers about their coming out experiences, as well as a look at the controversy surrounding Lizzo’s detox & diet culture. We also do a deep dive on Santa and what he represents for chubs and chasers. Oh! And our favorite holiday recipes!
This episode, the boys talk about fat artistry, a new article about the origins of the fat acceptance movement, and respond to listener mail about growing up a chubby chaser and how chasers relate to each other (or why they don't).
In this week’s action-packed episode, we talk about Disney’s Godmothered, the hostile reaction to James Cordon’s performance in The Prom, as well as fat activism in Judaism and the continuing media fight over so-called childhood obesity.
After discussing some big wins in fat representation in media, we talk about gifts to give that special chub or chaser during the holidays—these are a few of our favorite things.
Happy Thanksgiving! This is a re-release of our second episode, which we thought would be perfect for anyone visiting their family for the holidays. We tackle TLC’s latest fat reality show featuring fat women in relationships with conventionally attractive men, how to handle comments from family and others about being fat, dating someone fat, and being fat while at the gym. See you in December!
We’re continuing our hiatus with a re-release of part 2 of our Valentine’s Day Special. We continuing answering your questions on sexual positions, body insecurities (even chasers have them), and finding chasers in the wild. Also…Chocolate!
We’re revisiting our first season during our hiatus! This is a re-release of part 1 of our Valentine’s Day Special, we answer your dating questions like being in your head on a date, being adored vs. being objectified, and sexual positions to accommodate size differences.
In light of the current American election madness, this week’s episode features a light and uplifting interview with Christopher Rosa, a self-described “fat fem gay” from the South who’s making it big in the model-beautiful world of fashion and entertainment in NYC, having written for VH1, MTV, and most recently Glamour magazine.
For our Halloween episode, we talk about fatness as horror as depicted in different tropes and genres of movies and in real life! We also play a game casting ourselves in the various iconic roles of horror movies.
The boys talk about Spiderman’s best friend losing weight and Lizzo taking Twerkology 101. We also pitch our ideas for a fat-positive sit-com along with some possible episode ideas, and then play a game where we cast our fellow podcast co-hosts in our favorite sit-com.
We congratulate the winner of Alaska’s fattest bear contest and Julie Murphy on her new plus-size take on Cinderella, “If the Shoe Fits.” Also on tap is a discussion about advocating fat acceptance while having issues with your body.
This week we talk about Henry the sexbot, Savage X Fenty fat fashion, and what non-monogamy means in a relationship. Plus: limericks!
The boys talk about Fat Bear Week, a new fat teen character figuring out his sexuality on Hulu’s PEN15, and what happens to a chub/chaser relationship if the chub loses weight.
The boys talk about new TV shows with Guy Branum and Harvey Guillen, getting out the vote with Lizzo & Kamala Harris, and listener mail about clothing alterations and kaftans. We also explore the new world of dating with quarantine fatigue.
The boys talk about starting conversations in online dating, Paul Hauser’s role in Netflix’s Cobra Kai, and some resources, wishes, and critiques of fat men’s fashion.
We talk about creating fat-positive characters in animation, Netta’s take on a famous Disney song, and weight-stigma in Japan and China.
The guys talk about the latest TikTok star, DivaPorky, and delve into the world of fat representation in science fiction and fantasy, with some recommendations for fat-positive books.
This week we talk about new fat fashion, picking a fat-friendly therapist, and a comic improv with the boys posing as therapists trying to solve a fantASStical problem.
The guys talk about Nicole Byer as Fat Storm and remembering actor/producer Ash Christian from Bear City 3. We also pitch our ideas for a fat Disney princess, and give a tip for keeping folds fresh.
This week, the guys talk about eye candy on HBO's Perry Mason & Canada’s Drag Race, new vegan adventures with Lizzo, and the skinny on fat in the time of COVID.
This week, the guys talk about what’s new (for us) in the international world of fat travel and entertainment featuring EuroVision winner Netta, pop star Naomi Watanabe, fast food in the UK, and fat acceptance in Venetian gondolas.
In our final interlude, Trevor reads his New York Times essay discussing being fat at the gym and reflects on the piece one year later in a post-COVID world. Season 2 premieres next week- watch out!
In this two-part episode, Michael and Don continue their talk about their romantic and sexual journeys, how they experience the ten-year gap in development compared to non-chub/chasers, and their first times with a chub or a chaser.
In this two-part episode, Michael and Don talk about their romantic and sexual journeys, how they experience the ten-year gap in development compared to non-chub/chasers, and their first times with a chub or a chaser.
In this mini episode, author and public speaker Dan Oliverio talks about how he came to be so vocal in his advocacy and coming to terms with being a chubby chaser.
With beaches, restaurants, and public spaces opening, the boys talk about being confident with our bodies and how to achieve it in public, in the bedroom, and in how we dress.
In honor of Father's Day, the guys talk about fat dads on TV, dad bods, and being called “daddy.” We also talk about Gabriel Iglesias's TV show starting its second season and the Antonyo awards, honoring black theater artists.
The boys take on avoiding activism burnout, how to care for yourself, and how to keep the momentum alive. We also talk about the controversy surrounding J.K. Rowling’s TERF tweets and how K-Pop fans strike another blow for equality.
The guys take stock of our role as allies and how to use one’s privilege in the fight for civil rights. We talk about how to take care of yourself as a fat protester and other support roles and ways to help no matter where or who you are. #blacklivesmatter
We talk a bit about a weight-loss horror story featured on Creepshow before diving into our main topic of chub/chaser dating while observing (or not observing) quarantine. We also tell some good stories prompted by a question game.
We talk about Robert Pattinson’s maverick stance on food and working out for the Batman movie, as well as dealing with touch and trust especially during physical distancing. And Big Fat Queer Dude yoga!
The boys talk about how children’s literature presents fat characters with examples from J.K. Rowling to Roald Dahl. Also, we play a game based on fat characters in fairy tales.
Today is International No-Diet Day, so the boys talk about the event and people’s heightened obsession with food and getting fat during COVID self-isolation, along with other diet-related silliness.
We talk about anti-fat bias in video games and then play a game revealing some of our hidden tastes and desires. Also, Trevor gives some info that casts doubt on the supposed link between BMI and COVID infection.
The boys talk about the PBS documentary “The Truth About Fat” and the issues and controversies it raises about health and fat oppression. Also Don plays quizmaster, and Trevor gives a tip on masks that are functional, fashionable, and fabulous.
We say goodbye to ABC’s Modern Family and discuss the contribution it and other shows have made to representation of gay and mixed-size couples on TV. We also give a shout-out to Desiree Burch’s Fat Chat on Comedy Central UK.
We talk about what’s different about chasers and how they see fatness as sexy, and how one plus-sized fashion designer is making masks to protect against COVID-19.
The boys discuss their first crushes (on real people and fictional characters) and figuring out that you’re gay (or a chaser). Michael offers some pro-tips for staying sane while in long-term isolation at home.
The boys catch up via Skype during self-quarantine. We talk about what we’re watching, how we’re feeling, and Dan shares a delicious breakfast tip.
The boys talk about coming out as fat, Trevor’s not-quite 600lb life, and how Lizzo can help you avoid the COVID-19 virus!
We look at the do’s and don’ts of chub/chaser dating, highlight Thomas “Snacks” Lee’s unexpected win for Jackson State U., and make fun of a “sexy” ‘70s diet. Plus, Trevor shares a tip about fat-friendly beds.
This week, we discuss the movie Fat: A Documentary and fear-mongering in the diet industry. We also tackle fat bullying and online harassment,. Then we play a limerick game and tell you about a judgement-free dance party.
This week we talk about the new movie “Sumo,” the role of men in fat activism, and toxic masculinity you can take as a pill!
The boys talk about traveling while fat—cruise ships, plane toilets, theme parks, and Air New Zealand’s Skycouches! Also, we’ll give you a handy travel tip for feeling clean while on vacation or even at home.
In part 2 of our Valentine’s Day Special, we continuing answering your questions on sexual positions, body insecurities (even chasers have them), and finding chasers in the wild. Also…Chocolate!
In part 1 of our Valentine’s Day Special, we answer your dating questions like being in your head on a date, being adored vs. being objectified, and sexual positions to accommodate size differences.
In our first awards show, we celebrate the best in fat-positive media with...the Chubby Awards! You’ll hear our top picks and find out who’s going home with a Chubby!
Dan talks to Dexter Mayfield, the actor/singer/dancer who blew up LA Fashion week in 2015 when he debuted as a plus-size male model walking the runway for world-famous designer Marco Marco. We talk about following your dreams, the road to visibility, and dating in a fat body while living in a fashion capital. Listen to how this big boy from Dallas came to Hollywood to dance in music videos by Jennifer Lopez, Sarah Bareilles, and MTV VMA’s Best Video of 2019, Taylor Swift’s “You Need to Calm Down.”
In this episode, we talk about the controversy surrounding fitness trainer Jillian Michaels and her recent criticism of the singer Lizzo as part of the bigger issue of body positivity as distinct from fat liberation. We also make fun of some truly terrible weight loss products, while in our tip of the week, we highlight Fat Kids Yoga Club, where you can stretch out and destress at any size even at home.
We discuss Hollywood using actors in fat suits instead of fat actors and how that corresponds to fat people getting marginalized in real life. We also give tips for finding a fat-friendly doctor, and a crazy weight-loss scheme from an Uber driver.
This week we tackle TLC’s latest fat reality show featuring fat women in relationships with conventionally attractive men, how to handle comments from family and others about being fat, dating someone fat, and being fat while at the gym.
We talk about David Harbor from Stranger Things and being fat in the Marvel universe, as well as the controversy surrounding the recent ruling in Washington State making “obesity” a protected class. We wrap up with advice on how fat passengers can get a free extra seat on a flight if they need it.