Schoolin Life Podcast: Recent Episodes
Ashley
Welcome to Schoolin' Life Podcast, a weekly podcast about life lessons, love and (occasionally) libations. Join your host Ashley each week for her take on schoolin' life!
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This week we’re talking about self-preservation as a survival strategy. Ashley shares how she stays grounded in an increasingly chaotic world, the ways she works through big feelings without letting them take over, and the number one practice that keeps her sane.
TVT: Fall TV We’re Hype For
- High Potential
- Doc
- Matlock
- Reasonable Doubt
- All’s Fair
- 911: Nashville
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This week, we’re diving into the DINK lifestyle—Double Income, No Kids. Ashley opens up about embracing the “rich auntie” role, what she and her husband gain (and sometimes miss) by not expanding their family, and what it feels like to approach 40 without children to carry on a legacy. It’s an honest, reflective conversation about choice, freedom, and what family can look like beyond tradition.
TVT: 13th Step Podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify 13thsteppodcast.org/
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On this week’s episode, I share what it feels like to step into 40 without the blueprint my mom never got to leave me. I talk about the fear of outliving her, the sadness of milestones without her presence, and the unexpected reality of not being “where I thought I’d be” at this age. I also reflect on the delicate space between grace and accountability, and what it means to keep living fully even when you’re scared. Along the way, I share the questions I’m asking myself in this season and questions you can ask yourself, too, as we all navigate the realities of aging.
TVT: The Buccaneers (Apple TV) & My Life with the Walter Boys (Netflix)
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On this week’s episode Ashley talks about being called back to basics on everything from business, to work and life. Listen as she discusses how removing some of the frills can help clarify purpose and yield more results than the hustle and bustle of a full life.
TVT: Master of None
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On this week’s episode, we discuss why it’s so hard to ask for help, the benefits that come when you finally do, and some strategies to make it a little easier.
On this week’s episode, I’m joined by my husband, Andre, who shared some great insights on his long-standing resistance to asking for help and why he’s (slowly) changing his mind.
TVT: Inside Out 2
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On this week’s episode, we discuss how to release shame, guilt, or embarrassment about starting over and a four-step process to make it a little easier.
TVT: Your Honor on Netflix
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On this week's episode, Ashley shares her personal journey of hiring a nutritionist and navigating people's opinions about it.
TVT: Copanganda is Back!
On this week’s episode, Ashley interviews photographer, content creator, and Story Gang creator Marrica Evans-Calahan about her shift from nursing to photography, how learning about emotional intelligence changed how she sees people, plus she shares insight on how setting boundaries helped her build lasting relationships with her influencer clients who have now become friends.
If you’re looking for an intimate look at the joy of leaning into things you love & the value of being a lifelong learner, this episode is for you.
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Mentioned in this episode
- Libby
- Hoopla
- Lindsey Gibson's books on Emotional Intelligence
TVT Grey’s ReWatch Season 19, Season 20 March 2023
On this week's episode, Ashley gets vulnerable and talks about the challenges of 2023 in life and career and what got her through, plus three questions you can ask yourself to surmise the year for yourself. She also shares her prayers for 2024 and how what she learned this year prepared her for the year ahead.
TVT: Law & Order SVU Rewatch, My Life with the Walter Boys, & American Fiction
On this week’s episode, Ashley talks about the power and importance of a fresh start. She talks about strategies for forming new habits, how to recognize triggers, and why beginning again is sometimes needed to move from where you are to where you want to be.
TVT: Grey’s Rewatch
On this week’s episode, Ashley breaks down an odd phenomenon she’s seeing from high-achieving women and their careers about the long-term effects of COVID. She talks delayed departures, regrets from staying too long, and fear that’s keeping so many women stuck.
TVT: And Just Like That on Max
On this week’s episode, Ashley talks about how missed periods, under-eating and massive headaches can all be symptoms of a toxic work environment. Listen for the mental and physical signs of a toxic work environment and the test you should be doing to evaluate how your job is impacting your well-being.
TVT: Survival of the Thickest on Netflix
On this week's episode, Ashley talks about career fulfillment and the green flags that are present when you’re happy in your career. Listen for a mindset shift about fulfillment and settling and how to get to fulfillment if you’re unhappy in your present career.
TVT: New York Undercover
On this week’s episode, Ashley makes a MAJOR announcement! Mentor Me CEO, an executive coaching program for professional women in corporate, nonprofit, and educational leadership who want to leverage their industry expertise to launch and grow profitable businesses, is now accepting new mentees!
Listen to learn about how Ashley first launched the Mentor Me brand, how she’s helped 100’s of women advance their career through this profitable business, and how she’s now using this framework to help other women do the same.
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TVT: Gilmore Girls Spring Binge
On this week’s episode, Ashley gives you a real-time update on how she’s learning to trust herself and her own decision-making and the 4 “tools” she uses to ensure she’s building her “decision” muscle. If you struggle with self-doubt and constant second-guessing, this episode is for you.
TVT: Class of 09 & White Men Can’t Jump
On this week's episode, Ashley discusses negotiating salary offers and interview techniques. Ashley also interviews Ruth Agbolosoo, a speaker and author who helps high-achieving moms manage money better so they can build wealth and leave a legacy for their children.
You can follow Ruth on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, and Twitter.
On this week's episode, Ashley discusses how to prepare your life for career changes and interviews La-Tasha Walker, founder of La-Mon'e Aesthetics. La-Tasha started her career as a Cosmetologist focusing on hair and skincare with Elizabeth Arden Salons. After 9 years, she returned to school to pursue her Nursing degree. La-Tasha has been a Registered Nurse for over 10 years.
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On this week's episode, Ashley talks with licensed therapist and coach, Brittney Scott, about healing mother/daughter relationships. Brittney helps mothers and daughters create roadmaps to generational change and healing from painful relationship dynamics.
You can follow Brittney on Instagram @theBrittneyScott.
On this week's episode, Ashley interviews Kourtney Dubois. Kourtney is a woman of faith, a wife, a daughter, an entrepreneur, a speaker, and a relationship coach. She helps single and married couples rediscover love, communicate more effectively, feel heard, and set purpose-filled goals to continue a healthy and happy relationship.
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I often get asked “Ashley, how are you so confident?” or “Where does your confidence come from?” so on this week’s episode I answer that question. Listen for 3 insiders on where my confidence comes from, plus how you can incorporate some of my strategies in your own life
TVT: Watch Abbott Elementary Episode 11: Read a Thon
Read Colleen Hoover’s It Ends With Us.
Do you ever have the opportunity to share 360 feedback at work? Where not only is your supervisor evaluating you, sharing areas of improvement and opportunities, but where you’re able to do the same. Listen as Ashley shares her recent experience of sharing feedback and if it’s truly worth it.
TVT: Can Bad Moms Be Black?
On this week’s episode, Ashley talks themes, abuse, abandonment conformity, dreams, hope, jealousy, regrets, foreignness, love, family, and betrayal both in one of her favorite shows and how this piece of art is imitating life.
On this week’s episode, Ashley talks about jealousy. Listen as Ashley shares what makes her jealous and how she works to manage these feelings without letting them overwhelm her.
TVT: Listen to We Were Three Podcast; it will rock your world!
On this week’s episode, Ashley talks about emotional regulation & the role that we and others play in it. Plus she’s shared how cleaning out her IG & blocking people on Facebook brings her great peace.
TVT: No more playing the “friend”
On this week’s episode, Ashley talks marriage, home ownership, babies, and high achieving women's ability to “have it all”. Is it achievable? Is it desirable? And where does your career fit into all of this? Ashley answers these questions and more.
TVT: Domestic Abuse on TV
In this week’s episode, Ashley is joined by her husband André as they talk about 5 habits that ground their relationship. They discuss how they formed these habits, where the gaps are in habit forming and one habit that they are forever working to build.
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TVT: East New York-CBS, Jeffrey Dahmer Story-Netflix, Elvis-HBO Max, Blonde-Netflix
On this week’s episode, Ashley talks about how she recently stepped away from her life of ease to do a “hard thing”. Listen as she questions when you should choose hard, why doing the hard thing is required sometimes, and why she has no regrets.
TVT: Love when drama TV adds a little bit of “ripped from the headlines” realness
In this week’s episode, Ashley talks about the 3 financial principles she uses to store away money in case of emergency, plus how one of these principles can be used in your career.
TVT: The Rookie's “Universe is Expanding” with Nicey Nash Betts as an FBI agent.
On this week’s episode, Ashley talks about the power of discovery, failure, not knowing, and still growing in life and career
TVT: Fall TV is back, but why do good shows have to end
On this week’s episode, Ashley talks about a mindset shift she’s working through around surrendering.
TVT: Wedding Season, Indian Matchmaker
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On this week’s episode, Ashley shares 3 job search myths that are holding you back in your career and what you should be doing instead to advance your career.
TVT: Virgin River & Rap Sh!t: Oh the dichotomies
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On this week’s episode, Ashley shares what it takes to be successful in life besides “momentum” and the value of buoyancy in a successful career.
TVT: Dare Me
On this week’s episode, Ashley shares an update on her healthy eating and weight loss journey. Plus how taking care of her health has helped her prioritize other things in her life.
TVT: The final day’s of This is Us, plus Working Moms is Back
On this week’s episode, Ashley reflects on old school gospel music, church traditions, and what it was like going to church for the first time in 2 years.
TVT: A Bad TV Habit
On this week’s episode, we talk about people-pleasing and how you can stop jumping through hoops and start making moves in your life and career.
TVT: Home Edit
On this week’s episode, we talk about costly mistakes that keep us from advancing in life and work. This episode is a must-listen for the 5 things you may not know are holding you back.
TVT: Why I’m not watching Inventing Anna
On this week’s episode, we talk about Katanji Brown Jackson's confirmation hearings and seeing myself in the first-ever Black female Supreme Court nominee.
TVT: Selling Sunset Back for Season 4
On this week's episode, we are joined by therapist Tiffany talking about “red flags” & “green flags” that you should go to therapy. The work that’s required after your therapy session is over, plus why therapy is a lifelong journey.
Learn more from Tiffany, follow her on IG @Tee.Alexandria, and check out her website at https://journeytc.org/
TVT: Anthony Anderson is NOT giving on Law & Order
On this week’s episode, we’re joined by grief coach Tracey Massey, who teaches us about the difference between grief coaching and therapy, how to navigate grief beyond death and dying, and that it’s ok to box with God.
Learn more from Tracy, Follow on IG: https://www.instagram.com/livingmyempoweredlife/
TVT: Guilty Pleasure TV
On this week's episode, we’re joined by Gabbi, an emotional eating coach, as we talk about breaking the cycle of emotional eating, identifying and interrupting emotional eating triggers, and why hiring an emotional eating coach might be better than going to the gym. Learn more from Gabbi Follow on IG: https://www.instagram.com/gabbiathletics_/
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TVT: Sweet Magnolias
On this week's episode, we talk about the pain of over-extending yourself and why showing up for yourself first is always the priority. TVT: Abbot Elementary
On this week’s episode, we talk about return on investment. It can be so scary to invest and believe in yourself, but there is no reward without risk. Listen as Ashley talks about where she’s invested and how that has been returned and why you should invest in yourself and know it will be returned to you.
TVT: Janet Jackson on A&E
On this week’s episode, we talk about grown women money. Ashley shares what it was like to open an investment account, get pre-approved for a home loan, and the freedom and fear that more money can bring.
TVT: Black Telenovela
On this week’s episode, we talk ultimatums. If they work, when they should be used, and when they totally shouldn’t. Listen as Ashley talks about alternatives to ultimatums and when they can be useful in getting what you want.
TVT: Cinderella on Amazon Prime
On this week’s episode, we talk a year in review. Listen as Ashley shares reflections from her life and business in 2021, the highs and lows, the lessons learned, and 2 things from 2021 that she's taking with her into the new year.
TVT: A Bad TV Habit Revealed
On this week’s episode, we talk about overcompensating. Are you quick to crack jokes to cover the insecurities you feel about yourself? Are you quick to downplay the accomplishments of others because you secretly wish they achieved less and kept pace with you? Ashley talks about places where she overcompensates and why she’s committed to interrupting this habit in the new year.
TVT: Harlem on Amazon Prime
On this week's episode, Ashley talks about trust and how it’s built for her through a show and prove model. She’ll share how her definition of trust has changed over time, how to walk in the show and prove model in love and career, and what she does when someone breaks her trust
TVT: ...and just like that, Carrie should have picked up the phone
On this week's episode, we talk about the power of the rebound. Listen as Ashley shares a vulnerable moment about her life and business through reflections on November 2021 and what it taught her about perspective, leveraging data to make informed decisions, and not falling apart when things get hard.
The Character Self Sabotage
On this week’s episode, we discuss the power of decisiveness and why sitting in indecision is always a bad decision.
TVT: Classic Black Holiday Movies
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On this week’s episode, we discuss using fear as a tool to help you succeed and why fearlessness isn’t required for you to advance.
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On this week's episode, we talk about speaking up for yourself, instead of letting your work “speak for itself.”
TVT: Shoutout to Susan Kelechi Watson
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On this week’s episode, Ashley talks about her rejection of the idea of “safe space” and discusses how the idea of brave space resonates more with her and the lived experience of Black women.
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TVT: Queens is better than I anticipated
On this week’s episode, we talk about the things that feel out of reach, the things that feel beyond us, and how they may not be as far as we think in life and love.
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TVT: Lee Daniels Ruins Everything
On this week’s episode, we talk about the power of mentorship. Not just the warm and fuzzy feelings you get from having someone in your corner, but what the data shows about the impact of mentorship on earning and promotion potential for professional women.
TVT: Olivia Stands Up To Her Boss
On this week’s episode, we talk the power of voice and using yours to position yourself as a public speaker in your area of expertise. Listen as Ashley talks about her most impactful public speaking engagements, how she preps of practices for public talks, and why it’s important to use your voice.
TVT: New Amsterdam: Being tethered to your partner
On this week’s episode, we talk about thinking differently and the importance of changing your mind as new information becomes available. Plus, Ashley shares some of the ways her thoughts differ from most of society and why she encourages you to consider these thoughts too.
TVT: Our Kind of People, Blood & Water is BACK. RIP Jackson on the Rookie.
On this week’s episode, we talk about the importance of spending your money on the things you really care about and how your budget is representative of your values.
TVT: Virtual Church
Joel Olsteen
New Life In Christ Interdonominational
On this week’s episode, we talk about lifestyle and budget, what it means to live inside and outside of you means.
TVT:Getting Back w/ Your Ex
One this week’s episode, we’re reminded that while we can do hard things, life may be easier than we think if we focus on these two things.
Resources from this week’s episode:
Joel Osteen: Easier Than You Think
TVT: Queen Sugar & Blood & Water are Coming Back this September
On this week’s episode, we talk about being fake, being authentic, and the awkward space in between. Listen as Ashley discusses how societal pressures can force you to fake it at work and how you must guard your reputation to maintain your authenticity.
TVT: Titletown High
On this week's episode, we talk about abusive relationships. It’s pretty easy to call out physical harm (punching, hitting, slapping) as signs of abuse in relationships. But the more insidious emotional, financial, and sexual abuse can be harder to spot. Listen as Ashley talks about identifying abuse in her own relationships, and the signs to look for to identify in your own or someone you love.
If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse. Connect with the National Domestic Violence Hotline at https://www.thehotline.org/
TVT: Does TV Normalize Abuse?
One this week's episode, we celebrate the slash. The Writer/Accountant The Employee/CEO, the Mom/Wife. We celebrate all that we are and how there is more life in the “/” than without it.
On this week's episode, we talk about the power of presence. After a year of social and physical distancing the power of presence means more than ever. Who shows up for you, who doesn’t and how it all makes you feel matters. Listen as Ashley breaks down how societal norms have left her feeling on the outside about who shows up for her and what she’s doing about it.
Good Trouble: July Episodes
On this week’s episode, Ashley answers the age old questions of “how do you work full time and run a business full time”. If you’re looking for those Beyonce time management level skills… this episode is for you.
TVT: Why I’m not watching manifest
On this week's episode, we talk managing the emotional roller coaster, what keeps us stable and why it’s so important to ride the wave.
On this week’s episode, we talk about secrets. Why we tell them, why they are hurtful, and the joy of not holding on to the secret.
Mentor Moment: Behind the Scenes w/ Current Mentee Kim
TVT: Black Love
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On this week’s episode, we talk about outsourcing and getting out of your own way to get things done!
On this week’s episode, we talk about distractions and the things that get in the way of us going from good to great.
What do distractions look like?
What to do when you get distracted?
How to not let distractions derail you.
TVT:Million Dollar Real Estate //Top Chef
On this week’s episode we talk beacation. After a extended weekend in Miami with my boo, I’m talking all about what we did, what we ate, the ways to make a beacation fun but relaxing and why communication (even when your vacationing) is still critical for success.
On this week’s episode, we talk busy work, being busy for real, and why we’re over the whole booked and busy mantra.
TVT: All American
Vantage Point
On this week’s episode I talk about what you see, what you don’t and how to get help to broaden your perspective.
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TVT: SWAT on CBS
On this week’s episode, we talk relationship expectations and what is “reasonable” to expect from your partner. Should they check in before making plans? How do you communicate needs? What’s the line between compromise and lowering your expectations?
On this week's episode, we talk about healthy eating and the challenges of staying consistent. Are you one of those people who buys salad mix every grocery trip only to throw it away in 10 days later? Me too. With busy lives it’s challenging to be thoughtful about healthy eating. Listen as I talk about my own healthy eating journey, what’s working, what’s not and strategies for being consistent.
On this week's episode, I talked about the questions you need to ask yourself to get unstuck from any situation and what “doing the work” really means in life, love, & career.
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On this week’s episode, we talk awkward encounters, like that weird time in a friendship after a fight when you aren’t quite cool again, but you aren’t mad anymore either. When you get caught in a lie in a public space, and when you meet someone, but you’re unsure about where you stand.
On this week’s episode, we talk about the intersection between jealousy and grief. How they can often be confused for one another, what to do when you experience it, and how to ensure it doesn't consume you.
On this week's episode, we talk about life after a year in the pandemic, what it means to reintegrate into the world, and strategies for easing back in.
On this week’s episode, we talk about fake concern and other gaslighting tactics and manipulations that are used to distract us from advancing in life and career. Listen as Ashley discusses the most common gaslighting tactics. How they show up in life and work, and what to do to avoid letting gaslighting derail your life and career.
On this week’s episode we talk the success strategy of discipline. When you ask successful people how they achieve success in life and work, they often speak of the discipline in honing their craft. They speak to the early mornings, the late nights and the commitment to disciplined focus to make more money, have more impact or change the world. It seems that discipline is a secret success strategy. Listen as Ashley talks about discipline in her own life, where she has it, where she doesn’t, how she uses it to build success and how you can leverage it to build your own.
TVT:Queen Sugar
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On this week’s episode, we talk about pitfalls. In life and work, pitfalls can derail us, throw us off our square, and keep us from living a full life. Listen to this week's episodes as Ashley talks about some major life pitfalls and how you can avoid them derailing your entire life and career.
On this week’s episode, we talk about the push that’s required to step out on faith and do the things you need to do.
On this week’s episode we talk doing our research, asking the right questions, and getting the answers we so desperately need.
You’ve Put It Off Long Enough
On this week’s episode we talk about procrastination, stalling and the cost of dragging our feet.
You ever put off something for so long, it no longer becomes the thing you have to do, you’re putting it off because of the shame that you’ve waited for so long?
TVT: Ginny & Georgia
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On this week’s episode, we talk about growth. Listen as Ashley talks about the importance of letting things go as you grow and develop.
On this week’s episode, we talk about climate change. With nearly 70% of the country covered in snow, this seems like an appropriate time to talk about climate change. Texas is seeing unprecedented snow and ice causing more than 4 million people to be without power, many of them being Black and brown people. We’re seeing now more than ever that environmental justice is aligned with racial justice.
On this week’s episode, we discuss our innate human desire to be seen. We were designed to show out, to showcase how beautifully and wonderfully made we truly are. Too often, we don’t receive the recognition and visibility we desire. Listen to this week's episode as Marcy and I discuss the importance of being seen and recognized for who we are in all aspects of our lives.
On this week’s episode we talk about public and private pain. Have you ever heard a sob story that was so overwhelming it turned you off? Pain is a human emotion, but too much of it rolled out in public display. Listen as Marcy and I talk about what it means to pimp out your pai, why it can be harmful for you and the listener and when it might be necessary to get what you want.
On this week’s episode we talk about quirks, oddities and the little things that make everything special. Ever watch your parents move through the work and wonder why they do that little thing with their leg whenever they walk, or why your partner always bite their bottom lip when they are frustrated. Our quirks make us who we are. Listen as Marcy and I talk about our quirks and those of the people we love.
On this week’s episode we talk about our Soror Kamala Harris and our illustrious sorority making history. On Jan 20th, 2021 our Soror and Howard alum will serve as the first female, Black and Asian Vice President and we couldn’t be more proud. Listen as Marcy and I talk about our connections to this history and how we celebrate even in the face of hate and inserection.
All Black Everything: Check out Soul on Disney+, the first Pixar film to feature an African American male as the protagonist.
Selfish Tip of the Week: Be Self-sh and Woke. Don’t fall into Matyrdom Syndrome. Re-evalaute your efforts so that you can continue to show up as you want to.
TVT: Season 1 of LA’s Finest can be viewed on Netflix starring our fave, Gabrielle Union, as an LAPD detective baddie.
On this week’s episode, we talk about the power of Youtube for learning and building your personal brand. Listen as Ashley and Marcy talk about how they use Youtube, their favorite genre of videos, and the exciting new video content they’ll be putting out on Youtube this Year.
ABE & TV Tea: Antebellum: https://www.vulture.com/2020/09/antebellum-movie-review-i-am-tired-of-films-like-this.html
On this week’s episode, we play a little game, again! This week’s theme is medical shows, and of course we talked about McDreamy and whether we would Kiss, Marry, Mame..lol!! Have a little fun with us for the first episode of the year!!
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On this week’s episode we play a little game! Kiss, Marry, Mame, Escape Rooms, Blind Date OH MY. Join Us for the last episode of the year.
On this week’s episode we talk about the traditions we’ve left behind. Trimming the tree, leaving cookies out for Santa, waking up at the crack of dawn to open presents, house hopping all holiday season. Do people even do any of that any more? Listen as Marcy and I talk failed traditions and the things we’ve left behind.
All Black Everything: Check out a very special Black Wellness Guide created by Black Mat Yoga. https://blackmat.yoga/blog/black-wellness-holiday-guide-2020. Follow @black.mat.yoga to view IG Lives with the business owners and learn more about the discount opportunities.
TVT: What We’re Binge Watching
Army Wives
The Crown
All Rise
On this week’s episode we talk about Black women, supervision and the world of work. There is a public conversation going on about some of the challenges and opportunities that exist between Black women in working relationships. The patriarchy, the hierarchy, the posturing can be overwhelming and toxic in the workplace. Listen as Marcy and I get real about what’s going on with Black women at work, self advocacy (even with kinfolk), and what good leadership looks like when you’re no longer “the only one”.
All Black Everything: The Atlanta Haws are truly “putting their money where their mouth is” and investing in Black owned banks! Click HERE to read more.
TVT: Big Mouth Season 4 on Netflix: This season is addressing important topics of Mental Health and Racial Identity (if you can get past the highly inappropriate sexual content!)
On this week’s episode we follow Spotify and share our own wrap up, featuring what we spent the most money on, the most useless thing we bought this year and all the advice we didn’t take
All Black Everything: Shoutout to Black Owned Businesses
TVT: The Crown and Kim's Convenience
One this week's episode we talk about our changing bodies. Aches, pains and hair in strange places, as we get older our bodies change without our permission. Listen as Ashley & Marcy talk about the significant changes that their bodies have gone through, what we’re learning by listening to our bodies and what type of support our bodies need as things change.
All Black Everything: Pandora FINALLY put some respect on Princess Tiana’s name
TVT: Black Representation is back on TV
On this week's episode we talk about our least favorite cliche: trust the process. We talk when it's appropriate to trust the process, balancing trusting the process with taking risks and the one thing we wish everyone would trust the process on.
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All Black Everything: Gucci & Jezzy Versez was everything ATL deserves TVT: We are not OK after Grey's
We gain so much of our information about who we are and who we can be through the images that are portrayed in the media. On TV Shows, in movies,magazines, Books, we know that representation matters! However, Black folks are often portrayed in a negative light, particularly in their business or professional lives. Listen in as Ashely and I discuss images of Black professionals portrayed in the media and advice for navigating breaking down the stereotypes in the real world.
Black Kids Doing It For Themselves in Chess & Aerospace
TVT: When She Opened Her EYES!!!
On this week’s episode we talk about hope, change, release and our sweet sweet Soror being vice president elect.
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One of our favorite podcasters started a stir on IG last week when she asked her followers how long they’ve gone with sex. It started pretty mundane, until one follower responded and said that he was married and hadn’t had sex with their partner in 5 years. On this week’s episode we talk through gaps in intimacy, how they happen and what to do about it. All Black Everything: Remembering Dr. Chaniece Wallace TVT: Randell was tolerable this episode
We desperately need a vacation. Join us is this daydream All Black Everything: https://www.alvinailey.org TVT: Regina King is Our Girl Are you.... Drained by the upcoming Election? Anxious about what is going to happen over the next week?
Feeling chaotic, overwhelmed or "all over the place"?
Well this package is just for you! I have curated 4 very specific classes designed to help you ride the emotional roller coaster of the days leading up to the election, the day of the election, and the day after the election.
As Schoolin Life listeners, you get EARLY access to registration on the day this episode releases! 10/27/20. You also get $5 off the REST as RESisTance Yoga Package price by using the code SCHOOLINLIFE. The discount code expires on Tuesday October . 27th 11:59pm EST. Be sure to read all the instructions to register for the classes. Click this link to get registered. https://worthwisdomwellness.as.me/ Can't wait to hold space for you!
On this week’s episode we talk about lessons we’re learning from our body. Aches and pains are commonplace in our old age. Hello 30’s. We can hear our bodies, expressing it’s limitations and desires and we are ready to listen. Join Ashley and Marcy as we talk about the importance of listening to what our bodies tell us and embracing it’s messages.
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All Black Everything and TVT: Lovecraft Country
On this week’s episode we talk time management. Too often it feels like there isn’t enough time in the day. We all have multiple priorities and sometimes it just feels like there isn’t enough time in the day. Listen as Marcy and I talk our personal mantra on time management, the tools we use to manage our time and what time management advice we’d give to the person who feels like they’ve done it all.
All Black Everything: Black Girl Planners TVT: Tell us what you're watching!
On this week’s episode we finally admit it. It’s time to take a nap. Rest is a critical self advocacy tool, but too often we busy ourselves with doing the most and a million self care activities that we actually don’t have time to get the rest we need.
All Black Everything: Rest Resources: https://www.instagram.com/octaviaraheem/?hl=en @octaviaraheem https://www.instagram.com/tracee_stanley/?hl=en @tracee_stanley https://www.instagram.com/thenapministry/?hl=en @thenapministry TVT: Bad Hair https://www.hulu.com/movie/bad-hair-eb67f592-fd7a-4d0b-aa82-6fef5ee0dd6b
Hard to believe, but Thursday is October 1st and we are full on swing into the 4th Quarter. 2020 isn’t over and we know so many of you are looking for a win. Listen as Marcy & I talk about our plans for 4th quarter, where we’re switching, pivoting and quitting and why we’re prioritizing rest above all else.
All Black Everything: Justice was not served TVT: Transplant on NBC
On this week’s episodes we talk about holding a grudge. In front of 1.2 million listeners it appears Monica was holding on to a grudge from her past dealings with Brandy. We've all held a grudge or had one held against us and they can make us bitter and mad. Listen as Ashley and Marcy talk about grudges, what are the signs and how to beware of addictions as they rise.
Mentor Me Accelerator:Secure Your Spot in the Jan 2021 Cohort! If you're a new or senior level professional woman that needs career development mentoring to the next stage in your career? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today All Black Everything: HBCU Week TVT: Give us TV Recommendations!!
On this week’s episode we talk about bias, descriminiation and how racism shows up in its many forms. I often get into a debate with southerners about living in the south and how I could never because of it’s racist/ violent past. What they often remind me of is that there is racism up north too, covert racism which often proves far more dangerous and has long term effects. Listen as Marcy and I share our story and experiences of growing up in the midwest and how racism impacted our lived experience
All Black Everything: Fresh Prince Reboot
TVT: Is Nostalgia TV too Toxic
On this week’s episodes we talk about holding a grudge. In front of 1.2 million listeners it appears Monica was holding on to a grudge from her past dealings with Brandy. We've all held a grudge or had one held against us and they can make us bitter and mad. Listen as Ashley and Marcy talk about grudges, what are the signs and how to beware of addictions as they rise.
Mentor Me Accelerator:Last Accelerator of 2020! If you're a new or senior level professional woman that needs career development mentoring to the next stage in your career? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today All Black Everything: Long Live the King TVT: Rewatching Twilight & The Game
On this week’s episode we talk about hopelessness. At this point is there any hope at all? What are we to hold on to, look forward to . What does hope look like when it feels like there is little left? Listen as Ashley and Marcy talk about hope, hopelessness and what they are holding on to.
If you're a mid or senior level professional woman that needs executive level coaching get to the next stage in your career? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today
All Black Everything: Watch the trailer for Bookmarks https://youtu.be/GuLk5Kx5mVw
On this week’s episodes we talk about addition. On this week’s episode we talk about addiction. Addiction is defined as a brain disease that is manifested by compulsive substance use despite harmful consequences. Substance addiction (drugs, alcohol) is most commonly talked about, but there are concerns that we can be addicted to alot more including sex, exersise and even chocolate. Listen as Ashley and Marcy talk about additions, what are the signs and how to beware of addictions as they rise.
Mentor Me Mastermind! If you're a mid or senior level professional woman that needs executive level coaching get to the next stage in your career? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today Black at Work: Lunch & Learn Series on IG LIVE every Monday in August at Noon EST. Connect with Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyasshire/ All Black Everything: Sister Souljah Sequel: Life After Death TVT: The Game on Netflix is back!
well. Listen to this week's episode as Ashley and Marcy share what they've learned from their partners, how they remain teachable and why it's so important to learn in love.
Mentor Me Mastermind! If you're a mid or senior level professional woman that needs executive level coaching get to the next stage in your career? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today Black at Work: Lunch & Learn Series on IG LIVE every Monday in August at Noon EST. Connect with Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyasshire/ All Black Everything: Kamala Harris, our Soror and Vice President Forever TVT: Project Power gives us the cutest leading and supporting actress!
On this week's episode we talk about the decisions, mistakes and pitfalls our parents fell for and how we work to avoid the same?
Mentor Me Mastermind! If you're a mid or senior level professional woman that needs executive level coaching get to the next stage in your career? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today Black at Work: Lunch & Learn Series on IG LIVE every Monday in August at Noon EST. Connect with Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyasshire/ All Black Everything: WAP, WAP, WAP!! TVT: Join the Business Bestie Bookclub: https://members.businessbestiebookclub.com
On this week’s episode we talk choices. To send kids back to school in the midst of a global pandemic or opt into online learning. To vote for VP despite his alignment on important issues and sexual assault allegations or to opt out of an election of a lifetime.
Join Ashley and Marcy as they talk about hard choices, lesser evil and make it means to make the tough choice.
If you're a new or mid level professional woman that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today Register for "How I Secured a Raise and Promotion During a Pandemic" webinar August 10th at 7:00EST. Registration: https://www.mentor-me.org/webinars Black at Work: Lunch & Learn Series on IG LIVE every Monday in August at Noon EST. Connect with Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyasshire/ All Black Everything: We shout out fellow podcasters for Dissect for their work on Lemonade: https://dissectpodcast.com/ TVT: Ya'll already know what it it. Bey (or I mean) Black is King
On this week’s episode we continue Schoolin Life’s Summer School! Join us every Tuesday in July as a featured guest joins us to talk life & love over libations, tell us what they learned during the first half of the year, what they’re prepared to learn in summer school and what’s on the horizon for them for the remainder of 2020!
The/A/That Brittany and founder of The Brittany B a blog that is dedicated to disabling the idea of work life balance to birth work-life integration. Her blog is for the “Corporate Entrepreneurial Social Butterflies” who exist in a corporate environment but also intersect with other ventures outside of the office. Her current passions have led her to be an advocate for underrepresented people, esp Black Women, in the workplace and she aims to give resources and valuable tips for those who are looking to not only build their brand in the company but also build equity and success. Follow her @thebrittanyb_
Ashley & Bree relaunching the book club! Join at members.businessbestiebookclub.com/
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All Black Everything: Black Mental Health Resources
TVT: Indian Matchmaking was everything. We're ready for Season 2!!
On this week’s episode we continue our Schoolin Life’s Summer School! Join us every Tuesday in July as a featured guest joins us to talk life & love over libations, tell us what they learned during the first half of the year, what they’re prepared to learn in summer school and what’s on the horizon for them for the remainder of 2020!
Our Substitute: Amber is an oncology nurse in one of the largest hospitals in the Chicago area. She talks about practicing self care as a healthcare provider, the importance of tribe in trying to be well, and what to do if you feel beat up by 2020. Follow @journey_thirteen
Ashley & Bree relaunching the book club! Join at members.businessbestiebookclub.com/
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All Black Everything: Honoring a Hero John Lewis
TVT: Fatal Affair, we will watch Nia Long do LITERALLY anything
On this week’s episode we continue Schoolin Life’s Summer School! Join us every Tuesday in July as a featured guest joins us to talk life & love over libations, tell us what they learned during the first half of the year, what they’re prepared to learn in summer school and what’s on the horizon for them for the remainder of 2020!
Our Substitute: Boonie is a podcaster and host of the Boonie Breakdown Podcast, a comedian (even if she wouldn’t call herself that) and the person to be around in any social setting. Boonie is the captain of responsibility and ratchet and a reluctant Beyonce fan. Follow her on IG for more antics @thebooniebreakdown
Ashley & Bree relaunching the book club! Join at members.businessbestiebookclub.com/
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All Black Everything: 9 books by Black therapists: https://www.self.com/story/books-by-black-therapists
TVT: Blood & Water on Netflix So thrilled to see South Africans sharing their stories
On this week’s episode we kick off Schoolin Life’s Summer School! Join us every Tuesday in July as a featured guest joins us to talk life & love over libations, tell us what they learned during the first half of the year, what they’re prepared to learn in summer school and what’s on the horizon for them for the remainder of 2020!
Our Substitute: Bree Johnson is a digital strategist and speaker who is committed to helping women entrepreneurs transform their mindset, money, and mental health through books, blogs, and business strategies. She is the founder and CEO of TBJ Digital Consulting, a scale to 6 figure sales thru strategic digital marketing company, dog mom of Benji and co facilitator of the business bestie book club
Ashley & Bree relaunching the book club! Join at members.businessbestiebookclub.com/
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All Black Everything & TVT: James Madison was a Black man. That's our truth and we're sticking to it. We talk Hamilton and how Ashley is alone if her love for the Nexflix reimagine of The Babysitter's Club!
One this week’s episode we give ourselves a mid year review. 2020 is halfway over which means it’s time for our mid-year performance review. On this week’s episode, join Ashley & Marcy as we take time to reflect and discuss the 1st half of 2020 with where we are and where we want to be by the end of the year.
Ashley’s relaunching the book club! Join at members.businessbestiebookclub.com/
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All Black Everything: Books on Food & Racism
TVT: We STAN Kat Edison of the Bold Type
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On this week’s episode we talk about gen z’res and how we know that Whitney was right. News is swirling that gen’s Z’rs bested 45 this weekend when they bought out his Oklahoma rally and then didn’t show to ensure that it was empty for his fear mongering speeches. Plus, 6 teens ages 14-16 are hosting rallies, protest and boycotts in Nashville to protest the lack or action by law enforcement of behalf of Breeona Taylor. We know we give the kids a lot of grief, but we think they are alright and on this week's episode we salute them
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All Black Everything: Celebrating Danielle Geathers, president of the Undergraduate Association at MIT
TVT: Horror Noir
On this week’s episode we talk about meeting your partner's parents, the good, the bad and the oddly uncomfortable. Meeting the parents can be a big milestone in most relationships, and getting it or right is key to establishing good rapport for the future of the relationship. However learning about where your partners come from, the family stories and learning things you never knew can be… well awkward. Listen as Marcy & Ashley talk about meeting their partners parents, how to prepare, what happens when things go left and what we learn from meeting the parents.
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All Black Everything: Remembering Jas Waters
TVT: Mama We Made It & We’re so sick of this story line on Insecure
On this week’s episode we talk the harm we do to ourselves. Self sabotage is something we don’t often recognize but can be destructive to our lives and work. Joining Marcy and I as we talk how we can get out of our own way.
If you're a new or mid level professional woman that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today All Black Everything: Uncle Nearest 1884 & McBride Sisters TVT: We did talk about Insecure
On this week’s episode we share that Black women aren’t coming to save you. When things go wrong everyone turns to Black women to fix it. Sure we’re smart and capable, but we’re also tired of fighting racism, sexism, and white supremacy alone. On this week’s episode Marcy & Ashley share why Black women aren’t coming to save you and what we’ll be doing instead.
If you're a new or mid level professional woman that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today All Black Everything: The Fight Continues TVT: We didn't talk about Insecure
On this week’s episode we share the things we’re holding on to. Ok, so maybe I’m a low key hoarder, but I keep everything. Well obviously not everything but I’m crazy sentimental and love looking back on old cards, letters, mementos from special occasions. They take me right back to that moment good or bad and remind me of special times. Listen as Ashley & Marcy talk their sentimental parts, how the digital age impacts sentiment, and what they are holding on to.
Now with a new MORE FLEXIBLE Payment Plan! It's time to get unstuck in your career! If you're a new or mid level professional woman that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today and apply for the Mentor Me Accelerator! All Black Everything: Shoutout to GirlTrek https://www.girltrek.org/ Bringing Women Together TVT: The Lovebirds, better than we expected
On this week's episode we talk about good investments. “You should invest”, that’s the advice that everyone gives, but how, in what, how much and what’s the return on the investment are still the things that are totally lost on us. Listen as Marcy & Ashley sort through the best advice on investing in ourselves, in our businesses and in growing our net worth.
Now with a new MORE FLEXIBLE Payment Plan! It's time to get unstuck in your career! If you're a new or mid level professional woman that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today and apply for the Mentor Me Accelerator! All Black Everything: Say Here Name Brionna Taylor
TVT: The High Note
On this week's episode we play 21 Questions, with a twist! We’re going to answer 7 burning questions about life, 7 burning questions about love, and 7 burning questions about libations that will make you laugh, cry and will have your choosing sides. Listen as we share some of our favorite stories and invite you to share your own in a game of 21 questions.
It's time to get unstuck in your career! If you're a new or mid level professional woman that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today and apply for the Mentor Me Accelerator! All Black Everything: Amhaud Arbery
TVT: Little Fires Everywhere & Molly is DEAD wrong
On this week’s episode we talk about the battle between working women and entrepreneurs. “You should start your own business.” “The key to freedom is entrepreneurship”. ”Be Your Own Boss” Somebody lied. So often people are encouraging others to start their own business with little foresight and understanding of what it takes to be a profitable entrepreneur. Listen as Ashley & Marcy discuss their roles as both career women and entrepreneurs, what they value about these different roles and what this VERSE battle actually comes down to.
It's time to get unstuck in your career! If you're a new or mid level professional woman that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today and apply for the Mentor Me Accelerator! All Black Everything: Beyonce & Megan blessed us! TVT: Little Fires Everywhere Race, Class & Sex
On this week’s episode, we talk distractions. Looping TikTok videos, the fact that Chick-fil-A is so freaking close to my dang house, what milestones other people are reaching—there are so many distractions that take us away from our tasks at hand. Staying productive amidst a wandering eye is not only unproductive, it’s quite exhausting. Listen as Ashley and Marcy talk about fighting distractions as we continuously advance on our purpose.
I'm accepting new Mentees in May! ~If you're a new or mid level professional woman that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today! All Black Everything: We love Kerry Washinton, but hate her cry face! TVT: Little Fires Everywhere & Uncorked
On this week’s episode, we talk cooking at home. Truth is, my mom never really wanted me in the kitchen. It was small and with a house full of people running in and out, she probably just wanted me out the way. However, in retrospect, I wish we would have spent time together in that space. I would have loved to learn those recipes by heart, working at her side. If I could have developed her level of patience, it definitely would help me now with my sweet potato pies. This week, listen as Ashley and Marcy share their memories of being in the kitchen as children, how they’ve returned as adults, and whether or not the kitchen is where we belong.
I'm accepting new Mentees in May! ~If you're a new or mid level professional woman that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today! All Black Everything: Kenya Barris TVT: Insecure, time to ditch the Molly in your life.
On this week’s episode, we talk about the elements of trust. Everyone wants to be trusted and yet most people don’t think that other people are trustworthy. So where does the gap come from? We think it occurs in describing what trust means to each of us, and how it shows up or is operationalized as we engage with one another. Listen as Ashley and Marcy explain the elements of trust, how those elements show up in their lives, what happens when one of the elements is broken, and how they go about repairing it.
If you're a new or mid level professional woman that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today! Read Brene Brown: Dare to Lead to learn more about trust All Black Everything: Virtual Therapy Campaign: https://borislhensonfoundation.org/ TVT: Saints: The Clark Sister Lifetown Movie Sinners: Insecure
On this week’s episode, we talk about intimacy. Kissing, touching, squeezing, and hugging are all elements of intimacy. However, depending on your honey’s love language, mood, and disposition, intimacy may start and stop in different ways. Listen as Ashley and Marcy talk about intimacy—how they create it in their relationships and how it looks similar to (and different from) what they expected.
If you're a new or mid level professional women that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today! All Black Everything: Check out Black Girl Buying:http://blackgirlbuying.com/podcasts/schoolin-life-podcast-online/ TVT: A Million Little Things: Took us on a roller coaster this season
On this week’s episode we talk fussing, arguing, and fighting fair. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words never hurt me as much as a boldfaced lie. Words hurt, especially when they are used in a fight or argument. As adults we know that words mean things and we need to be sure we’re fighting fair. Listen as Ashley and Marcy talk about how they fight, what words are fighting words, and how they always ensure they are fighting fair. If you're a new or mid level professional women that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today! All Black Everything: Practice Yoga Online with @blackmatyoganyc: https://www.blackmatyoganyc.com TVT: Hot Wings & Celebs: https://m.youtube.com/user/FirstWeFeast
On this week's episode, we talk about endorsements, recommendations, and putting others on. “Lift as we climb,” is the motto and most Black people love putting others on. Recommending others can help the entire tide rise, but it’s important to do it right, because when you do, your name is on the line. Listen as Ashley and Marcy talk about who they are willing to put on, (who they aren’t), and how they do it while ensuring their own reputation stays intact. If you're a new or mid level professional women that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today! Register for March Mentor Me Webinar: How to Manage Your Manager: 3 Strategies to Get What You Want at Work Tuesday March 24th at 7pm EST All Black Everything: DJ DNICE gets the party going! TVT: Yes, we're still talking about it. Who is joining me in signing the petition to kick Randell of of "This Is Us"
On this week's episode, we talk social capital. People will do anything to gain clout because it’s important, valuable, and in some places, it’s the currency needed to get in with the movers and shakers. Knowing your social capital and how to use it is critical for advancing as a professional. Listen as Ashley and Marcy discuss the social capital they have, how they use it to help themselves and others, and why it’s an important tool for success.
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March Mentor Me Appointments Now Available! If you're a new or mid level professional women that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today! Register for March Mentor Me Webinar: How to Manage Your Manager: 3 Strategies to Get What You Want at Work Tuesday March 24th at 7pm EST All Black Everything: Yes, Black people can get the 'Rona too. Wash your nasty hands! TVT: Who is joining me in signing the petition to kick Randell of of "This Is Us"
On this week’s episode, we answer the question, “What was the most successful project you ever tackled, and what made you successful?” There is a framework for success, not an exact science but knowing how others got to where they are can help us get to where we want to go. Listen as Ashley and Marcy share their framework for success, outlining what they did, who they worked with, what tools they used, and how they replicate their outline in other areas of their life.
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March Mentor Me Appointments Now Available! If you're a new or mid level professional women that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today! Register for March Mentor Me Webinar: How to Manage Your Manager: 3 Strategies to Get What You Want at Work Tuesday March 24th at 7pm EST All Black Everything & TVT: Candyman (and we're only saying that ONCE)
On this week’s episode, we talk taking back what’s ours. Yes, we know Black History Month is over, but we’ve still got some bones to pick. In a recent NYT article, authors Kathy Gunst and Katherine Alford were called out for co-opting and profiting off of the work of a prominent Black performance artist and baker, Tangerine Jones.
Also, finally Jalaiah Harmon is getting credit for her Renegade dance after other TikTokers having been doing it (and making money from it) never giving her credit. Listen as Ashley and Marcy talk black creativity, owning our things, and giving credit where credit is due.
Homework:
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/02/21/dining/rage-baking-book-tangerine-jones.html
https://www.cnn.com/2020/02/16/us/renegade-dance-tiktok-k-camp-trnd/index.html
http://www.ragebaking.com/2020/02/14/the-privilege-of-rage/
Visit our website at schoolinlifepod.com March Mentor Me Appointments Now Available! If you're a new or mid level professional women that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today! Register for March Mentor Me Webinar: How to Manage Your Manager: 3 Strategies to Get What You Want at Work Tuesday March 24th at 7pm EST All Black Everything: Black Women are Icons (But you already knew that) TVT: We STAN Octavia Spencer! Check out Self Made on March 20th on Netflix
This episode starts with a personal note from Ashley and is a rewind from 2018, that is still very relevant today.
On this week's episode we talk grief, loss, and why things don·t always get better with time. Over the weekend, (while headed to a date, no less) Ashley was overcome by grief after having a fleeting thought of her mom who died 8 years ago. She tried to process it quickly and gain some composure, as not to mess up her flawless makeup. But the moment of sorrow seeped into the rest of her night as a somber reminder of how grief doesn·t care about hot dates. Listen as we talk the stages of grief, how to live after loss, and how we honor and remember those who are gone.
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All Black Everything: Lebron James I Promise School
TVT: Zoo on Netflix
On this week’s episode we talk closure. The relationship is over, a huge fight broke your friendship in two, you didn’t get the job after really feeling like you killed the interview and now you want, no scratch that NEED closure! But what is closure, why do we feel like we need it, and once we get it, does it even make a difference? On this week's episode Marcy and I answer these questions and more and give you some closure on the answers that matter the most.
Visit our website at schoolinlifepod.com February Mentor Me Appointments Now Available! If you're a new or mid level professional women that needs targeted strategy in developing, defining, and leveraging your career skills to get what you want out of work? Schedule your Mentor Moment session today! All Black Everything: Black Yogi's are LIT for Black History Month TVT: Ps. Too All the Boys I've Loved Before:I Still Love You
On this week’s episode we talk about compatibility. The goal is to find a partner where it just clicks, where yall go together like peanut butter and jelly, like lemon and water, like Beyonce and world renowned fame and success. Everyone wants compatibility, but maybe it doesn’t come naturally, maybe it’s something you have to work at. Listen as Ashley & Marcy discuss what compatibility looks like in a health relationship, debunk some of the myths of compatibility and share some of the compatibility markers in their own relationships.
Homework: Test the compatibility in your relationship
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On this week’s episode we check in on where we are a year after our Personal Finance February series. In Feb 2019, Marcy and Ashley hosted Personal Finance February and told their truth about their finances from their personal spending habits to their debt and their plans to pay it off. Listen as we share an update on where they are a year later, what they learned after the episodes aired and what they're doing to sustain success in their personal finances.
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