Grace Church, Men at Grace Podcast: Recent Episodes

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In this episode, Chris Rivers speaks with Kelly Hunt about the changing roles of parenthood and how to effectively engage teenagers and young adults. Using the analogy of a coach, Kelly encourages listeners to guide their adult children from the “sidelines” while allowing them to feel the weight of responsibility and build confidence.

APPLICATION:

1. Read Luke 15:11-24. Looking at this passage from the perspective of the father, what is one thing you notice or can apply to your role as a parent?
2. Are you currently operating as an authoritative parent or functioning more as a coach? Based on the stage of life your child is currently in, what shifts might you need to make?
3. Think about a coach who has been influential in your life. What parallels can you make between their role and the role you have as a parent?
4. How are you serving as an anchor in your children’s lives? What is one action step you can take to move towards your children and be available to them?

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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In this episode, Chris Rivers speaks with Matt Rogers, Lead Pastor of Christ Fellowship Cherrydale (https://www.cfcherrydale.com/staff), about the importance of reading the Bible and applying it to our daily lives. Utilizing a resource Matt developed called the Seven Arrows, listeners will learn how to observe, interpret, and apply what they are reading in the Scriptures through the use of seven strategic questions. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION:

1. Do you have a consistent pattern of reading God’s Word? What disciplines do you have in place to maintain a daily rhythm?
2. Do you feel equipped to study the Scriptures and apply them to your life? What challenges do you face when trying to study/understand the Bible?
3. How could you incorporate the Seven Arrows into your current reading/study plan? In what ways do you feel it would benefit or stretch you?
4. Of the seven questions, which question do you think would be most challenging to answer and why?

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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In this episode, Chris Rivers and Brad Walbridge, along with Scofield Foster, explore sexual brokenness and how it can impact our ability to care for the people God has placed in our lives and push us towards independence from God. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION:

1. How would you articulate your sexual story? When did sexual sin start for you? What has your pattern of sexual sin looked like?
2. Where have you seen evidence of sexual brokenness leading to spiritual powerlessness? Where has it impacted your ability to be a source of love and strength to others?
3. What would it look like to develop momentum towards freedom from sexual sin? How can you proactively fight for freedom in this area of your life?
4. Scofield shared the question he was asked by his pastor: Do you want to be a good, remorseful guy who continues to live under this pattern or do you want to be a part of the things God has for you? Looking at your own life, how would you answer this question?

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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In this episode, Chris Rivers and Brad Walbridge, along with Player Chappell, explore five pieces of advice every man needs. Adapted from a student ministry teaching Player shared with graduating seniors, these insights are applicable to men in all stages of life and offer practical takeaways for pursuing Christ and growing as believers. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION:

1. In what areas of your life are you relying on your own thinking rather than allowing the Lord to guide you?
2. Do you have people in your life who hold you accountable? Is it difficult for you to adopt a posture of humility and learn from others? Why or why not?
3. What influences in your life are grabbing your heart and your attention? What disciplines do you need to put in place to ensure these influences line up with God’s Word?
4. Are you serving in the local church? What have you learned through your experiences of serving and sacrifice? Where do you need to take a step of obedience in the area of serving?

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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In this episode, Chris Rivers and Brad Walbridge, along with Matt Gaymon, take a deeper look at the question, “how should men think about participation in the local church?” Highlighting content from Episode 19 of the Men at Grace podcast (Spotify, iTunes,Google Podcasts), they explore how allowing Scripture to define and direct us, looking for opportunities to move into what God is doing, and surrounding ourselves with godly men are just a few of the ways the local church can help us grow in our relationship with Christ. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION:

1. Take some time to listen to Episode #19 of the Men at Grace podcast. What are some insights that stood out to you?
2. In what ways do you allow Scripture to define and direct your life? How often do you spend time reading the Scriptures and routinely coming under the teaching of God’s Word?
3. Can you think of a time when you saw a need in the church, possibly out of your comfort zone or area of giftedness, and moved into it? How did God direct you after you chose to take that first step?
4. Do you have godly men who routinely pour into you and cast vision for your life? How are you looking for opportunities to be that voice in someone else’s life?

SCRIPTURE REFERENCESOne of the things I always pray for is the opportunity, God willing, to come at last to see you. For I long to visit you so I can bring you some spiritual gift that will help you grow strong in the Lord. When we get together, I want to encourage you in your faith, but I also want to be encouraged by yours. Romans 1:10-12

RESOURCES:

Books: Church Membership: How the World Knows Who Represents Jesus by Jonathan Leeaman - LINK

Teaching: Why is Local Church Important? With Matt Williams LINK

Story: Bending to the Authority of the Local Church VIDEO

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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In this episode, Chris Rivers and Brad Walbridge, along with Scott Puckett, discuss why and how men should be prayerfully dependent. They explore the posture that makes prayer possible, the purpose of this most intimate spiritual discipline, and the daily practice that can help us stay connected to Christ and empowered to do the Father’s will. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION:

1. Christ modeled prayerful dependence and encouraged us to approach God as “Father.” How does this view of God differ or align with your own, and why?
2. What motivations often underlie your prayers and what posture do you take?
3. What is your current practice of prayer and what barriers may be keeping you from becoming prayerfully dependent?
4. What steps do you need to take to develop prayerful dependence? How will you move and to whom will you be accountable?

RESOURCES:

Books:

• A Praying Life: Paul Miller
• Prayer: Experiencing Awe and Intimacy with God
• The Valley of Vision: A Collection of Puritan

Teaching: Grace Church Core Value Prayerfully Dependent

Story: Dave & Sue Hooker, Fasting and Prayer Brings Needed Renewal

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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In this episode, Chris Rivers and Brad Walbridge, along with Blake Payne, tackle the question, “how should men think about participation in the local church?” They explore the role of the local church in building community, grounding us biblically, teaching us to come under authority, and maturing us as believers. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION

1. Do you believe the church is God’s primary design for spiritual growth? Why or why not? In what ways has the local church impacted you personally?
2. Are you aware of your need for God and the church or have you become self-reliant and distracted? In what ways are you regularly pouring yourself out and creating a void?
3. Do you spend consistent time in Scripture? How have you seen this practice serve as a means for “transforming your mind?”
4. What does it look like to come under authority in the local church and in your relationship with God? Are you resistant to this type of authority in your life?

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES

Though he was God, he did not think of equality with God as something to cling to. Instead, he gave up his divine privileges; he took the humble position as a slave and was born as a human being. When he appeared in human form, he humbled himself in obedience to God and died a criminal’s death on a cross. Phillipians 2:6-8

But you must remain faithful to the things you have been taught. You know they are true, for you know you can trust those who taught you. You have been taught the holy Scriptures from childhood, and they have given you wisdom to receive the salvation that comes by trusting in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work. 2 Timothy 3:14-17

RESOURCES

Church Membership: How the World Knows Who Represents Jesus by Jonathan Leeaman

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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In this episode, Chris Rivers and Brad Walbridge, along with Matt Kelley and Davis Craig, tackle the question, “how should men think about leading the next generation?” They explore how pouring into the lives of the next generation by giving of our time, resources, and the wisdom learned through life experiences can play a vital role in helping us mature as disciples and lead our families well. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION

1. Am I currently serving? If so, who are some people in proximity to me that God could be leading me towards? If not, how can I take a step to move towards serving?
2. What are my biggest reservations about getting involved in someone’s life ? Am I too busy? Do I fear giving up my comforts?
3. Who is an example of someone who has poured into my life and come alongside me? What have been the benefits of this relationship? How has this helped me move towards Christ and the church?
4. What is one practical thing I can do this week to move towards someone God has placed in my circle of influence?

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES

“And now the prize awaits me- the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give me on the day of his return. And the prize is not just for me but for all who eagerly look forward to his appearing.” 2 Timothy 4:1-8

RESOURCES

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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Life is filled with difficulties. If you’ve been living on this earth long enough and you’re a man then you know that challenges are everywhere. As men we experience difficulty in our jobs, our relationships, our finances, and the list goes on and on. But God who is rich in love and mercy has given us a framework for dealing with the challenges that life brings.

We believe that men are responsible for the people and the situations that God brings into our lives. And that by moving towards people and situations and depending on God… we win in all areas

The men at grace podcast is a resource for you who desire to pursue Authentic Manhood. In each episode

you'll hear from men who have faced challenges in their work, struggles in their marriage, trouble navigating midlife, questions about authority, and other relatable life issues.

Listeners will hear how God’s Word and the church shaped the decision-making of each of these men and allowed them to live victoriously as Christ intended.

I invite you to listen, subscribe, and share these episodes and episode resources with other men so that you can dialogue around what it looks like to be an authentic man.

You can learn more by visiting (https://gracechurchsc.org/MRT). See you on the next episode!

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In this episode, Chris Rivers, Brad Walbridge, Daniel Black, Robert Andrews, and Shawn Piedrahita tackle the question, “how should men think when it comes to managing rest?” They unpack the role of personality when it comes to managing rest and share practical ways to incorporate rest into our daily lives. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION

1. Do you identify more with the tendency to overwork with limited rest or underwork with too much rest? Explain.
2. What activities and interests allow you to feel most at rest? What stirs the creative side of your mind?
3. Do you currently have a consistent rest plan? What does this look like?
4. What are some changes you need to make to your schedule/routine to incorporate additional periods of rest in your life?

RESOURCES

Authentic Manhood Study: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/teaching/mens-roundtable/authentic-manhood

A Man and His Work Study:

https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/teaching/mens-roundtable/a-man-and-his-work

Celebration of Discipline by: Richard Foster

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07CRKXMB7/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0

Fight Hustle, End Hurry Podcast: John Mark Comer & Jefferson Bethke

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fight-hustle-end-hurry/id1480300467

Practical ideas pertaining to rest:

• One practical way Daniel combats the tendency to overwork is by establishing a 24-hour Sabbath. This involves shutting down his phone on Friday afternoons, giving it to his wife, and having an extended time to rest/decompress. This small act allows him to be more present with his wife and family, prepares his soul for worship on Sunday, and serves as a reminder that he is not that important.
• Robert incorporates rest into his daily routine through activities such as reading, sketching, writing, or anything that allows him to “step down” and move into the category of low energy impact.
• Shawn incorporates short periods of rest throughout the day to intentionally stop and take a break from work. This might involve leaving his office, going outside, playing guitar, playing an active game, etc. He also takes time to read alongside his wife at night, choosing a book that allows him to dive into another world and activate the creative side of his mind.

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

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In this episode, Chris Rivers, Brad Walbridge, and Doug Peterson tackle the question, “how should men think when it comes to leading their families?” Using a boating analogy, they look at three points to consider when trying to bring purpose and intentionality to a man’s role of leader in the home. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men. Check out this episode's Study Questions by visiting:https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

Doug shared the concept of a boat as a representation of a family. Just like learning to operate a boat on the sea, families must learn how to work together, figure out problems they encounter, and teach their children how to “navigate” life. While all of the boats are different, they are all on a similar journey. Doug shares three points and expounds on how each of these can help men think intentionally when leading their families.

RESOURCES

Authentic Manhood Study: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/teaching/mens-roundtable/authentic-manhood

Leadership Values

https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/teaching/mens-roundtable/leadership-values

God’s Design for Sex: https://bit.ly/3BzVnUQ

Grace Church Core Values: https://corevalues.gracechurchsc.org

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

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In the 15th episode of the Men at Grace podcast, Chris Rivers, Micah Williams, and Brandon Dejong, members of Grace Church’s Pelham campus, tackle the question, “what kind of man do I want to be?” or, more specifically, “what kind of man does God want me to be?” They discuss the core identity of an authentic man and explore practical strategies for building intentionality and natural rhythms around this idea. Share, listen and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men.

Episode Study Questions: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

KEY POINTS

• In considering the question, “what type of man do I want to be?” Micah and Brandon shared their initial thoughts. Micah, a self-described “floater,” noted the absence of intentionality in certain areas of his life. He realized how his tendency to take life as it comes, without a clear strategy, was not setting him up to become the man he wanted to be. Brandon began thinking about what it might look like to be different and set apart to the people around him. He asked himself how this might play out in his connections with his friends, his interactions at work, and his relationship with his wife.
• The question “what type of man do I want to be?” leads us to reflect on two ideas: identity and strategy. Chris unpacked the concept of identity as it relates to authentic manhood. As men, we were created and have a Creator. We have a God-given calling to be“responsible for.” This means we move towards the people and situations God places in our lives and depend onGod our Creator. In doing so, we are spurred on to good works and begin focusing on ways to accept responsibility and steward our identity in Christ.
• When we understand our identity, we logically move to the concept of strategy. This answers the question, “how do I move?” In most cases, lack of strategy is the primary reason for our ineffectiveness as authentic men. Chris presented a practical framework using “lanes'' to address different areas of our lives. He encouraged listeners to take some time to evaluate these categories, develop strategies, and evaluate progress. Micah and Brandon explored these concepts in further detail during the episode.
• Brad summarized three important takeaways: 1.) My desires and motivations need to align with God through process and action steps. 2.) Being on mission requires me to bring others along so they can see God moving. 3.) Community involves intentionally and repetition.

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES

Ephesians 2:10, Matthew 22:36-40, Matthew 28:16-20

RESOURCES

Authentic Manhood Study: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/teaching/mens-roundtable/authentic-manhood

A Man and His Work Study: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/teaching/mens-roundtable/a-man-and-his-work

Sample Exercise using the Four Lanes: LINK

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In this episode, Chris Rivers, Taylor Hall, and Scott Beardsley discuss the desire to hide and manage sin to avoid being fully known and the freedom that comes when we expose our brokenness. Share, listen and then discuss the application, key ideas, and scripture references in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

Episode Study Questions: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

KEY POINTS

• Taylor took a job at Grace as a worship and video director after finishing college. Admittedly, he was not in a good place and was experiencing a season of misplaced identity. His church experiences leading up to that point, and the rigid rules-based paradigm he was exposed to, had left him jaded and confused. He grew up trying to hide his sin and the questions he had for fear of being judged or shamed. Taylor was becoming weary of trying to “manage” his sin and maintain a facade of control.
• The church context at Grace was different from Taylor’s previous experiences. He was immediately met with love, acceptance, and a genuine desire from others to know him. He was surprised by the level of vulnerability and honesty among the people he met. Taylor was initially turned off by this display. He had become so used to hiding and manipulating his circumstances to create the image he wanted others to see, letting people in was difficult.
• As God began working in Taylor’s life, he was able to recognize the walls he had built and how they were impeding his personal and spiritual growth. He slowly began to release control and open himself up to the people around him. With this new level of vulnerability, Taylor was able to accept corrective criticism from others. He was able to expose his weaknesses and find freedom from hiding. He joined a re:gen group where he came face to face with his sin and learned the value of trusting God over having control.
• Taylor’s transformation gave him a desire to help others. He wanted to have intentional conversations. He recognized how honesty, community, and sharing with others was becoming more natural for him. He began to pray for opportunities to connect with and pour into the lives of those around him. God opened the door for Taylor to serve as a student re:gen leader. This experience allowed him to share some of his previous struggles and model honesty and vulnerability for the young men in his group. He learned the art of asking good questions and helping students identify the core issues that may be hindering growth in their lives.

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES

“Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than people.” Colossians 3:23

RESOURCES

Learn more about the re:gen ministry at Grace Church by visiting: https://gracechurchsc.org/regen

Join a men’s roundtable study by finding a campus near you and register for Authentic Manhood by visiting:gracechurchsc.org/mrt

If you know a man that would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

Thanks to Scott Beardsley and Lauren Bryant for their help in producing this episode.

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In the 13th episode of the Men at Grace podcast, Chris Rivers, Scott Mozingo, and Paul Gaeto, a member of Grace Church’s Downtown campus, discuss the stewardship of masculine energy in retirement and explore ways to incorporate serving and discipleship opportunities in this unique season of life.

Episode # 13 Study Questions: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

KEY POINTS

• Paul and his wife entered retirement in their fifties and moved to the Greenville area. They quickly became involved at Grace and began thinking about how they wanted to spend their retirement years. Paul noticed how the lives of many of his Christian role models seemed to take a downward turn when they entered retirement. They often became self-indulgent, angry, bitter, and anxious. Paul knew he wanted to take a different approach. He began to ask himself the question, “How do I structure my retirement to disciple people?”

• With this question in mind, Paul created a personal mission statement: Please God, serve others. Taken from the principles outlined in Matthew 22:37-39, this life motto helped Paul steward his energy towards pleasing God and serving others. The concept of stewardship--active and responsible management of God’s creation for God’s purposes-- served as a guide in Paul’s life. He identified three different ways in which men steward this energy:

• Deploying it positively- seeking to honor God, actively using the gifts He has given

• Squandering - a form of passivity, seeking comfort, no real plan or direction

• Deploying it negatively - defaulting to anger, anxiety, bitterness, self-soothing, sexual sin, or anything that distracts from pleasing God and serving others

• Paul’s desire to steward his time and energy wisely, and his involvement in a discipleship focused church, opened the door for him to serve in a number of ministries. From acting as a guardian ad litem and mentor to foster children to serving in the Jump Start prison ministry, as well as his involvement in the Bridges for a Brighter Tomorrow college mentoring program, Paul stepped outside his comfort zone and interacted with people in the margins who need to see the love of Christ.

• While it is important to find opportunities to serve and steward energy wisely, activity by itself is not the goal. Activity should always lead to greater devotion. Paul saw this principle firsthand through his experiences. The more he humbled himself and stepped outside of his comfort zone, the closer he felt to God and more he was able to see God at work in his life.

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES

Jesus replied, “You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ Matthew 22:37-39

RESOURCES

Money Matters is a class that helps participants renew their mindset concerning personal finance, become good and faithful stewards of the resources God has given them, and bring God glory through their money as well as their lives. https://gracechurchsc.org/moneymatters

If you know a man that would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

Thanks to Scott Beardsley and Lauren Bryant for their help in producing this episode.

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In the 12th episode of the Men at Grace podcast, Chris Rivers, Ben Temple, and Alex Borges, a member of Grace Church’s Downtown campus, discuss how pride and a desire to control our circumstances often prevent us from moving and experiencing the fullness God has for our lives. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men.

Episode # 12 Study Questions: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION

1. Has God ever led you to serve in a role where the details were ambiguous or unclear? Was this difficult for you? Why or why not?
2. What did this experience teach you about yourself? Teach you about God? What idols did it reveal in your life? What unexpected blessings did you receive from this experience?
3. If you have not served in a role that stretched you in some way or made you aware of your need for God, what is preventing you from taking that next step?
4. Alex mentioned two challenging questions: What am I spending my time on? Who actually depends on me? How would you answer these questions? Are you passive towards those in need around you? In what ways are you pouring yourself out for others?

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES

Anyone who wants to serve me must follow me, because my servants must be where I am. And the Father will honor anyone who serves me. John 12:26

For you have been called to live in freedom, my brothers and sisters. But don’t use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love. Genesis 5:13

RESOURCES

Men’s Roundtable: This teaching can be found at: gracechurchsc.org/mrt

Grace Church Serving Interest Form: https://my.gracechurchsc.org/InterestForm

Join a Men’s Roundtable study by finding a campus near you and register for Authentic Manhood at: gracechurchsc.org/mrt

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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In this episode, Chris Rivers, Scott Aman, and Chad Clint discuss “Just Serve Day,” an outreach ministry event at Grace Church. Scott shares his involvement in this event and how it has impacted his life in a personal way. Scott and Chad also explore the benefits of serving, in any capacity, and talk about how it can build credibility with others and open the door for gospel conversations. Share, listen and then discuss the application, key ideas, and scripture references in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

Episode # 11 Study Questions: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION

1. Have you participated in “Just Serve Day” at Grace Church or another service-focused event? In what ways did your participation shape you or challenge you in some way?
2. How has God opened doors for you to have gospel conversations while you were serving others?
3. Where do you think you would fall on the “Me and Others” continuum Scott described? What obstacles prevent you from pouring yourself out for others?
4. What benefits have you gained from serving others? What do you think are some of the challenges to serving?

KEY POINTS

• “Just Serve Day” is an outreach ministry event at Grace Church. It is an opportunity for the church to band together to serve the community and strengthen local partners. Teams from each campus take part in service projects ranging from picking up trash to lawn maintenance/beautification to other facility maintenance projects. This event is not a “one and done” serving day. The goal is to create a culture of service, develop credibility in the community, and ultimately lead to gospel conversations with the people served.
• Scott participated in “Just Serve Day” by volunteering at The Renewal Center, an addiction treatment center for women. He admits to being hesitant, at first, but recognized this as an opportunity to use his gifts and take action. Scott watched God work through this experience and was able to see how serving opened the door to build relationships and tell people about Jesus.
• Scott shared a visual image of what he called “The Me and Others Continuum.” On one end of the continuum is our own self-centered thinking and desire to please self. On the other end is meeting the needs of others and striving to live like Jesus. Through his experiences, Scott began to see himself moving towards the “others” end of the continuum and starting to grasp the meaning of being “poured out.”
• Scott’s participation in “Just Serve Day” was beneficial in many ways. First, it helped to build camaraderie and fellowship. As men and women worked together to accomplish a goal, they grew closer through this shared experience. Next, it allowed participants to show their love and concern for others while being compelling to the community they served. Finally, it pushed Scott and those who served alongside him to avoid passivity and move to action.

RELATED SCRIPTURES:

• Romans 12:1, 2 Timothy 4:6-7

• Join a men’s roundtable study by finding a campus near you and register. This teaching can be found by visiting: gracechurchsc.org/mrt

• Just Serve: gracechurchsc.org/connect/culturallyengaged

Many thanks to Lauren Bryant and Scott Beardsley for helping to produce this episode.

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In this episode, Chris Rivers, Jim Taylor, and Vernon Rutland discuss the process of recovery through the re:gen ministry at Grace Church and explore how this played a role in Vernon’s story. Share, listen and then discuss the application, key ideas, and scripture references in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

Episode # 10 Study Questions: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

KEY POINTSVernon went through a period where he was struggling in many different areas of his life. There was conflict in his marriage, tension at work, and an overall feeling of isolation. During this time, Vernon engaged in an extramarital affair. He tried, in his own efforts, to keep it all together. However, as guilt for his actions and the pressure he was feeling continued to mount, he decided to come clean with his wife. Vernon’s wife asked him to move out and he quickly felt his world come crashing down around him.

Vernon and his family had been members at Grace for 3 years when this situation took place. He was a member of a community group and had begun working through some of the Men’s Roundtable studies. While Vernon admits he was participating on a surface level and not really plugged in, he was surprised by the outpouring of love and support by his community group leader and other godly men in his life. They did not condone his sin, but rallied around him and spoke hard truths he needed to hear.

Vernon made the decision to attend a re:gen recovery group at Grace Church. These groups are based on the 12-step recovery process and incorporate the Biblical concepts and language behind these ideas. Vernon originally did not want to go and entered the room on the first night with skepticism. As he continued in the process, he became aware of his brokenness. He began to see sins of pride and self-reliance in his life and realized his need for true dependence on God.

SCRIPTURE REFERENCESBut when the teachers of religious law who were Pharisees saw him eating with tax collectors and other sinners, they asked his disciples, “Why does he eat with such scum?” When Jesus heard this, he told them, “ Healthy people don’t need a doctor-sick people do. I have come to call not those who think they are righteous, but those who know they are sinners.” Mark 2:16-17

For the word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires. Hebrews 4:12

RESOURCES MENTIONED:Men’s Roundtable: This teaching can be found by visiting:gracechurchsc.org/mrt

Learn more about the re:gen ministry at Grace Church by visiting: https://gracechurchsc.org/regen

100 Common Struggles mention: resources.gracechurchsc.org/articles/over-100-common-struggles-personal-assessment

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In this episode, Chris Rives, Jeremy Meyer and Geoff Van De Merwe discuss Geoff’s participation in the re|engage program at Grace church and the life change that took place in his marriage, family, and walk with the Lord. Share, listen and then discuss the Episode 9 Study Questions (https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace) in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

APPLICATION

1. What are some ways you have seen God work in your life through participation in re|engage, Re:Gen, a Men’s Roundtable study, or another ministry area of the church? What is one thing you learned about yourself through this process? What did you learn about God?
2. When did you first realize your need for God? What changes took place in your life after you made this decision?
3. What evidence do you see in your life of how God is changing you and stretching you?
4. How can you be “deliberate in your steps?” What would this look like on a practical level?

SCRIPTURE

• For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Matthew 12:34 (ESV)
• We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. 2 Corinthians 10:5 (NIV)

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• Learn more about the re|engage ministry at Grace Church by visiting: gracechurchsc.org/connect/pastoral-care/re-engage
• Unoffendable Book: LINK

Have questions? Email us at: menofgrace@gracechurchsc.org

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In this episode, Chris Rives and James Farnham discuss the role of tension in moving towards responsibility. Share, listen and then discuss the application, key ideas, and scripture references in a one on one conversation or with a group of men. If you know a man that would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Share, listen and then discuss the Episode 8 Study Questions (https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace) in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

APPLICATION

• Where have you seen God use tension to get your attention? How have these situations drawn you closer to God and the person He created you to be?
• Where have you seen examples of humility and dependence demonstrated in the last two weeks?
• Are you someone who takes on more than they should? If so, how can you differentiate between areas of concern and areas of responsibility in your life?
• How do you handle tension with others? How do you handle tension when leading others? What is the role of tension in Biblical community?

KEY POINTS

• There is a purpose for tension in our lives. The moments, seasons, circumstances and people God places in our lives have the potential to draw us closer to who God is and who God created us to be. God uses tension to get our attention.
• James’ experience in Men’s Roundtable and specifically, Authentic Manhood, gave him a language to think about and process the situations in his life. He began to ask the question, “As an authentic man, how am I supposed to respond?” James took hold of the definition of an authentic man - being responsible for the people and situations God brings into your life. For him, this meant a calling to lean in and move in a position of humility and dependence.
• While we are called to take responsibility as men, we cannot insert ourselves in every situation. We have to pray, be humble, and ask God to show us the situations in which He wants us to respond.
• As a community group leader, there are multiple sources of tension. One area of tension occurs with starting a group, handling administrative duties, and planning logistics. Another source of tension involves the role of leading other people. Although this can be uncomfortable, it is the responsibility of the leaders to apply tension, when necessary, with the goal of helping members take responsibility and move towards what God would have them do. We must remember we are not alone as leaders. There are people available to give us guidance and help us determine when and how to respond.

RESOURCES

• Men’s Roundtable: This teaching can be found by visiting:gracechurchsc.org/mrt
• Community Groups: Information can be found by visiting: gracechurchsc.org/ourministries
• Nehemiah Series: resources.gracechurchsc.org/sermons/nehemiah
• Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menofgrace@gracechurchsc.org

Thanks to Scott Beardsley and Lauren Bryant for helping produce this episode.

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In this episode, Chris Rivers, Ryan Gillespie and Scofield Foster discuss how serving as a small group leader in student ministry creates room for life change. Ryan shares a period of time in his life when he was not serving in the local church. He admits he was more of a consumer and was struggling to get plugged in. Ryan had the benefit of a friend calling him out on this and challenging him to get involved. This was a pivotal point in Ryan’s walk with the Lord. He decided to serve in student ministry and was placed with a group of 8th grade boys. He has been with this group for the past 5 years. Ryan shares how his decision to serve and take on the responsibility for someone else’s growth was critical for his own spiritual growth.

Share, listen and then discuss the Episode 7 Study Questions (https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace) in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES

“And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.” Romans 12:1-2 NLT

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Men’s Roundtable: This teaching can be found by visiting:gracechurchsc.org/mrt

Student Ministry: Information regarding Grace Church’s Student Ministry can be found by visiting:https://gracechurchsc.org/connect/next-generation/students

Find serving opportunities at Grace Church: https://rock.gracechurchsc.org/InterestForm

Join a men’s roundtable study by finding a campus near you and register for Authentic Manhood by visiting:gracechurchsc.org/mrt

If you know a man that would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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In this episode, Chris Rivers and Jacob Cook discuss Jacob’s journey in discovering what it means to be an Authentic Man. They talk about how Jacob's understanding of responsibility and the force of community on his life broke his relentless pursuit of “power” and “importance.”

Share, listen and then discuss the Episode 6 Study Questions (https://bit.ly/3ynPAj4) in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

APPLICATION

1. Is there anything you are doing that is causing you to rely on your own strength instead of God’s strength? If so, what next steps could you take to move towards God in that area?

2. In what ways do you personally struggle with passivity and self-reliance?

3. Where have you seen God’s power manifested in your life or the life of another authentic man? What stands out to you about the change that you have experienced or have observed in someone else?

4. What does Biblical community look like for you? Read Galatians 6:1-3, Acts 2:42-43 and share some key ideas that stand out to you in those two passages. Where do you need to move in this area?

KEY POINTS

• We can be doing all the right things, but still feel empty. Jacob realized his heart was not where it needed to be and he was relying on his own strength. All of his attempts at gaining power were to bring glory to himself, not God.
• Most men tend towards passivity or self-reliance. Self-reliance creeps in when we try to be responsible for everything in our own power and try to manage things we are not really responsible for.
• The only way to truly be powerful is allowing God to be powerful through us. When we allow Him control, it leads to true life change and maturity in our walk with Christ.
• When we spread ourselves too thin and try to be responsible for all of the people and situations around us, we miss the opportunity to be truly known by others. This aspect of community is crucial in our growth as men and as believers.

SCRIPTURE MENTIONED“Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires.” Psalms 37:4 NLT

RESOURCES MENTIONED:Men’s Roundtable: This teaching can be found by visiting: gracechurchsc.org/mrt

Marriage Matters: This teaching can be found by visiting: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/teaching/marriage-matters

Bridge: The ministry can be found by visiting: https://gracechurchsc.org/connect/discipleship/bridge

Kairos: The Summer Internship can be found by visiting: http://gracechurchinternships.org/summer-internships

Join a men’s roundtable study by finding a campus near you and register for Authentic Manhood by visiting: gracechurchsc.org/mrt

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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In the 5th episode of the Men of Grace Podcast, Mike Adams, a member of Grace Church’s Spartanburg campus, discusses conflict in marriage, personalities and how they manifest passivity, and the role of community in navigating marital conflict. Share, listen, and discuss the application, key ideas, and scripture references in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

Share, listen and then discuss the Episode 5 Study Questions (https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace) in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

RESOURCESHere are also some other key concepts Jacob communicates during this episode:

1. Mike shared how his Type A personality caused him to be passive in his relationships and lacking in empathy. What aspects of your personality cause you to lean more towards passivity? How does passivity manifest itself in your life?

2. How do the personality differences between you and your spouse lead to conflict in your marriage?

3. Have you ever sought out Biblical community to address problems in your marriage? What could be the possible benefits of this type of vulnerability?

4. Read 2 Timothy 1:7 and Galatians 6:2. How do these scriptures speak to the importance of biblical community and vulnerability? What are some ways you can choose to reject passivity and move towards responsibility in your marriage?

**SCRIPTURE REFERENCES

"**For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline." - 2 Timothy 1:7

"Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ." - Galatians 6:2

ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:A Man and His Wife Study mention: This teaching can be found by visiting: gracechurchsc.org/mrt

Biblical Femininity Study mention: This teaching can be found by visiting: gracechurchsc.org/ezer

Join a men’s roundtable study by finding a campus near you and register for Authentic Manhood by visiting: gracechurchsc.org/mrt

If you know a man that would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ and the Church.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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In a world that offers only toxic or shallow definitions of manhood, we must examine the Scriptures to discover what it truly means to be a man. As men who are pursuing Christ, we recognize our culture sends conflicting messages about manhood and masculinity. This has led to a lot of confusion among men.

In this episode, Chris Rivers and John Thomas discuss core principles from the teaching, Building Relational Capital. This teaching can be found in the Men’s Roundtable Study entitled “LeadershipValues.” Find this study by visiting: gracechurchsc.org/mrt

Share, listen and then discuss the Episode 4 Study Questions (https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace) in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

RESOURCESAlso discussed on the podcast is a new study launching at Grace Church in April 2021 called Authentic Manhood. Find a campus near you and register for Authentic Manhood by visiting: gracechurchsc.org/mrt

If you know a man that would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ and the Church.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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In a world that offers only toxic or shallow definitions of manhood, we must examine the Scriptures to discover what it truly means to be a man. As men who are pursuing Christ, we recognize our culture sends conflicting messages about manhood and masculinity. This has led to a lot of confusion among men.

In this episode, Chris Rivers and Scofield Foster discuss a new study launching at Grace Church in April 2021 called Authentic Manhood. They explore some of the topics and share what men can expect to learn from this study. 

Share, listen and then discuss the Episode 3 Study Questions (https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace) in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

RESOURCESFind a campus near you and register for Authentic Manhood by visiting: gracechurchsc.org/connect/discipleship/men

If you know a man that would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to start a discipleship conversation and move towards Christ and the Church.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

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As men, we were created to work. It is one of the primary ways we honor God and display His image. If someone were to ask you the purpose of work and how to deal with work in a fallen world, how would you respond?

In episode two, Chris Rivers and Jeremy Straley, a member of Grace Church’s Powdersville campus, discuss the vital role of work in the life of a man. They explore how work can be used to reflect the image of God and the challenge of staying the course when work becomes difficult. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men.

Share, listen and then discuss the Episode 2 Study Questions (https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace) in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

RESOURCESLearn more about Men's Roundtable by visitinggracechurchsc.org/connect/discipleship/men. Listen to all of our men’s roundtable teachings by searching "Grace Church Men’s Roundtable Studies" on your favorite podcasting platform or download our Grace Church App in the App store.

Have questions, want us to discuss a topic, or want to join a men’s roundtable study? Email menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org and someone on our team will get you connected.

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In episode one, Chris Rivers and Zack Callaham, a member of Grace Church’s Powdersville Campus, discuss a key leadership value of being action oriented. They explore the underlying motivations that often impede movement and challenge men to move towards action.

Share, listen and then discuss the Episode 2 Study Questions (https://bit.ly/35nWurj) in a one on one conversation or with a group of men.

RESOURCESLearn more about Men's Roundtable by visiting gracechurchsc.org/connect/discipleship/men. Listen to all of our men’s roundtable teachings by searching "Grace Church Men’s Roundtable Studies" on your favorite podcasting platform or download our Grace Church App in the App store. 

Have questions, want us to discuss a topic, or want to join a men’s roundtable study? Email menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org and someone on our team will get you connected.

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