In the first episode of our third season Mariah and I spoke to Taylor and Alan, who both identify as solo poly and nonhierarchical even though they have been together for about 5 years. Both of them started their nonmonogamous journey in high school and have since had multiple romantic and sexual partners while being immersed in the poly and sex-positive community. 

Today we talk about their experiences of seeing each other fall in love with other people and experiencing jealousy. They also share how polyamory has enriched their lives, allowing them to explore and learn from other people while maintaining their independence. We also get into a very interesting discussion about how tricky it can be to comment on your partner’s relationship with someone else. 

You can follow Taylor on IG @velvetsuccubus https://www.instagram.com/velvetsuccubus/

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