Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Today I chat with metamours JD and Lorena, as well as their common partner Aviva (a metamour is a partner’s partner.) Even though Aviva and Lorena were dating first, JD has become Aviva’s nesting partner. And today we chat about how even though that transition was a little difficult, Lorena was also very happy for Aviva and JD, someone she knew and really liked.

We also chat about maintaining one's freedom while setting expectations and boundaries and about getting comfortable with the ebb and flow of relationship structures. I was left feeling warm from this conversation as I could really tell there is so much love and respect between the three of them. I hope that regardless of whether you are close with your metamours or not you can take them as an inspiration in your journey.

Resources discussed in this episode:

  • Aviva's IG and website where you can find her music
  • ⁠Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

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