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Dear Ted & Amy,
13 years ago, a family member that I am very close to gave me a beautiful solid wood dining set because they were moving into a smaller home. This set moved with me several times, but at our last house it suffered some damage at the hands (or paws) of our new rescue pup. Once we realized the extent of it, we put the set into storage to prevent any further damage, with the intent of refinishing it someday. A few months ago, this person told me they would like to give the table to another family member- I told them it was pretty scratched up and would need to be refinished first, which they said they would take care of. When they came to see the table, they acted completely shocked and disgusted, and have stopped speaking to me altogether. I don't really know how to feel about this- it's not like the table was damaged on purpose, and had I known it was meant to be passed down through the family- I probably wouldn't have taken it in the first place. Am I in the wrong here?
Signed,
Marred in Minoa

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