Eric and Dhammarato talk about relationships, sexuality, and bonding in the context of biological and cultural influences. #relationships #bonding #overstimulation

Suttas mentioned in this discussion https://suttacentral.net/dn31

Dressing the Indian woman through history https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-30330693

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00:00:00 Culture as the most important source of desire 00:14:27 Looking at desire and triggering; receptiveness to bonding 00:29:00 Guarding the sense doors 00:34:42 Friendship and companionship  00:39:04 The Buddha’s advice to lay people (DN 31); forbidden fruit; resource scarcity 00:54:49 Thinking about the future; working on desire; waking up to lose-lose situations 01:13:47 Patriarchy and colonialism